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Life Guide
ISSUE 1 - JANUARY/FEBRUARY 2017
Health, wealth & family life All-age getaways, GORGEOUS
GRANDPARENTS AND GOOD TIMES!
Generation Ageless MAKING THE MOST OF MID-LIFE:
people to inspire you
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Welcome
ISSUE 1 • JANUARY/FEBRUARY 2017
06 All-age getaways Cool places to stay
08 Family walks Take snacks, take photos, take time
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10 Who’s grey?
Grandparents keeping it cool
12 Generation Ageless Meet the ‘d0-it’ folks!
15 Eat well
Healthy food hacks
A go-to mini manual for generation ageless Happy New Year - and welcome to our very first Life Guide. This magazine is dedicated to all you active mid-lifers out there - the life-savvy, sometimes silver-haired people of the world, who are ready and willing to embark on a new and exciting phase of life. We’re about health, wealth and family life - the three things that create a worthy and wonderful world. Inside, you’ll find interviews with some of the region’s most interesting and active mid-lifers - people who have made brave life/career changes for a more fulfilling and chilled-out way of life. We’ve also thrown in tons of expert tips on making the most of your downtime and finances, as well as a bunch of fun hacks to help you feel fighting fit and as relaxed as ever.
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Time-out from a busy world
22 Health hacks Ten ways to wellbeing
32 Downsize your life Go small, live big
Entering mid-life is all about living on your own terms - here’s how. Happy reading!
Jessica Laing, editor Contributors Kathryn Armstrong, Laura Beckingham, Adrian Bell, British Heart Foundation
Photography Kevin Gibson and Nicky Rogerson, www.kgphotography.co.uk
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Generation ageless Jonathan Blackie, 63, retired in 2011 as Director of Government Office North East, after almost a decade in the role - and 35 after leaving university. He’s now a Visiting Professor at Northumbria University and works part time for the North East Culture Partnership. In 2010 he was awarded a CBE for services to the North East in the Queen’s Birthday Honours.
I USED TO DO THIS… I represented the Government in the North East - and never did I have a dull moment. I started during the Foot and Mouth epidemic, was responsible for multi-million budgets, and managed an office of about 350 staff.
Now life is about…
Helping my amazing wife Julie. She is co-owner of a successful online fashion business, Pink Boutique, with my daughter Alice. I was the first significant investor in PB and now it employs over 60 staff. Julie recently opened the Coach House hotel in Otterburn, has had success as a crime writer (she was a number one best-seller on Amazon last year) and has written for television.
WHY/HOW I MADE A CHANGE… After the closure of the Government regional office in 2011, Northumbria University gave me the chance to return to my academic roots by producing ‘Borderlands’, an investigation of the impact of Greater Scottish Autonomy on the North of England, in the run up to the Independence Referendum in 2014. I also helped co-produce a ‘Case for Culture’ in 2015 with Beamish museum, on behalf of the Culture Partnership. LIFE GUIDE JANUARY/FEBRUARY 17
I’m lucky I can…
Play tennis and golf to keep fit. I stopped drinking alcohol about 10 years ago.
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A day in the life of me… Working from home in the morning, meetings in Durham, Gateshead, Newcastle and Alnwick, followed by tennis or golf. Back home to prepare supper.
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I thrive on…
Having a purpose. I really enjoyed devising a culture manifesto for the twelve local authorities and how to create a framework for collaboration across the border with Scotland.
Family is all about… Love and support. They followed me for thirty years - now it’s my time to help them. THINGS ARE DIFFERENT BECAUSE… I’m more in control of events. I can spend more time planning and preparing. I am currently preparing a lecture ‘Northern Powerhouse: Culture and Communities’, for the annual Fulbright Scholars conference at Northumbria in January.
I’ve got time for… Julie, as I don’t disappear to London any more. The College in Durham is important to me. I spent time this year appointing a great new Principal after the sudden death of Joe Cassidy. I also spend time with Mark and the team at Alnwick Garden, which is a great cultural asset for Northumberland and the North of England.
THE PEOPLE WHO ARE IMPORTANT… Julie and family. Alice is expecting in May next year - I’m looking forward to being a grandparent.
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WORK/LIFE BALANCE… I’ve mastered the 30C wash and manage to get tea on the table most days. Keeping the central heating boiler fit and healthy is the next big domestic task.
WHAT MID-LIFE MEANS TO ME… Using my skills and experience to help my family and both Durham and Northumberland universities, having more of an appreciation about what I have, and cherishing the people I love. LIFE GUIDE JANUARY/FEBRUARY 17
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Take a trip with the extended family and let the generations mingle. Naturally, Wi-Fi is on the must-have list - for the surfing silvers with their iPads. Here’s our pick of pads with pzazz!
All ages getaways LIVE LIKE THE WALTONS Glamping and grandparents might not be natural bedfellows but at North Star Club in East Yorkshire they do it differently. Think luxe fur throws, log-burners and firepits for the ultimate woodland glamour. Forget all thoughts of shivering in draughty huts. Think of convivial evenings watching the flicker of firelight cast against a copper bath. The wilderness on your doorstep with those outdoorsy, romantic veranda moments redolent of the Little House on the Prairie and The Waltons. Woodland suites are named after famous and fascinating Yorkshire people, from painter Atkinson Grimshaw to heroic pilot Amy Johnson. The suites all have a cosy sitting room, large bedroom with a wood burner and comfy kingsize bed and spacious bathroom. So you can hunker down in your own space but also make the expedition to The Woodshed, a communal relaxation space where you can snuggle up with a book by the fire and help yourself to tea, coffee and homemade cake – outside there’s a canopied campfire, perfect for chilling and stargazing in all weathers.
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Away from it all THE NO-TEARS FAMILY GETAWAY GUIDE WEEKEND GETAWAY: DO Stay close to home. One-two hours’ journey is as much as you need on a Friday night. DON’T Head off on a ‘flyer’ – everyone else is doing the same. Little ones can be put into their PJs if you set off later. Big kids won’t care as long as there’s a drive-thru en route.
CITY BREAK:
DO PLAN WISELY. A giant house or a cluster of cottages? Give granny her own place where the kids can gravitate for secret sweet stashes. Older people rarely sleep late (or very much) – nor do they want to dance to Wham at midnight with their their tipsy offspring.
DO Maintain expectations. New York/Paris/ Berlin. They’re big places and the need to see everything can make the trip overwhelming with kids in tow.
DON’T Expect instant harmony. Don’t force teens to be sociable if they’re not. Have a tech tolerance for their phones etc. They’ll veer towards the social hub of the house at some point for a game of cards or a bag of crisps.
DON’T OVERPLAN. One activity is quite enough.
DO Divide the chores. If you’re self-catering, designate meal duties. Every family’s got an ‘organiser’ who will probably relish telling everyone else what to do – make the most of it and bring what you’re told. The key is to make sure there’s loads of breakfast items. After that think pub, takeaway or caterer.
Relish sleeping in and lazy breakfasts. One wellchosen fresh-air outing will do the job, be it a country show, a beach walk or stately home visit. The rest of the time relax and enjoy each other’s company without deadlines.
DON’T Forget to create a cocktail hour. Ask everyone to bring a substantial appetiser/canapé for the group. And drinks. And let the kids have full-fat Coke for once.
DO Pack light. It’s two sleeps and two days. Adjust accordingly. Jeans, comfy faves and walking kit. A posh top/shirt if Saturday night ‘glam’ is required.
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DON’T OVERSCHEDULE. And don’t expect the kids to jump for joy at the third museum or monument of the day. Let them shop and spend their holiday cash. Let them eat from street stalls and hang out in markets. Have a coffee and read your guidebook whilst they do. DO Make eating an experience. If parents are keen foodies then often the lunch option at a food hotspot is a good idea. The atmosphere is more relaxed, the bill lighter and the experience a good way to ease the aching legs if you’re on a sightseeing mission. DON’T Forget to share. If there’s an all-age group, make sure everyone gets a say in the sights and sounds they really want to experience. It might well be a football stadium or a theme park. Let it happen, it’s about making memories.
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Andrew Steel is a Wills and Probate lawyer specialising in Inheritance Tax, Estate Planning, Power of Attorney, Trusts & Wills. Band from each member of a couple. What clients did was to leave their Nil Rate Band into what was called a Nil Rate Band Discretionary Trust thus preserving the Nil Rate Band of the first to die. Although such Wills have not been necessary for Inheritance Tax Planning for some time it was our view that clients with such Wills in place did not need to make changes to them as there were still various positive effects of the Discretionary Trust and also they are relatively easy to dismantle if they proved to be unnecessary or cumbersome. As mentioned above however this new Family Home element of the new law is only available if you gift the house to direct descendants. A Discretionary Trust is not therefore a gift to descendants and thus does not qualify for the new relief. Therefore we are advising anybody who has an Inheritance Tax problem to visit us for some advice even – and perhaps especially – if you have made Wills previously.
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North Yorkshire: Kilburn White Horse: Big sky views, blowing away the cobwebs and refreshments at the Sutton Bank Visitor centre.
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Favourite family walks
A hearty family stroll CREATES A RELAXED
ATMOSPHERE WHERE ALL GENERATIONS CAN MINGLE AND ENGAGE WITH ONE ANOTHER IN AN EASY, UNHURRIED, STRESS-FREE WAY.
Take snacks, take photos and take time just to be together.
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Souter Lighthouse: Marsden, South Shields. Grown-ups can do the science bit explaining how this huge lighthouse works then the family can take to the cliffs or beach for some bracing feel-good seaside scenery, stone-skimming, pebble-collecting – and often fabulous bird-watching. And scones, of course.
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we love Gibside: the National Trust property close to the A1 near Gateshead. A great place for the family to gather thanks to a cracking playground for littlies, mobility scooters to hire for the less-able, lovely grounds and woodland for leaf-kicking or bluebell-spotting – and then wood-fired pizza and craft beer to enjoy al fresco at the estate’s pub.
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Who’s grey? NOT GRANDPARENTS
Today’s grandparents are cooler, more adventurous and more life-savvy than ever. Here’s a few reasons why these wise and witty humans rock… we love
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They rock their style
They steer clear of that bit of M&S where the elasticated slacks are. They aren’t scared of black and they know how to tie a scarf and rock a rosy lipstick. They are comfortable enough in their own skin to wear what feels good and this comfort makes them look good, too. They take the grandchildren out for afternoon tea and don’t mind sticky, jammy hands.
Emotional highs
Expressions of love and joy for their children and grandchildren are heartily given. They are just happy to see their kids and grandkids and don’t lay the guilt on them for not visiting more. They realise too much time is spent suppressing emotions. So they hug – and hug hard!
They still learn new things
Cool grandparents are up for a challenge, be it sport, a new hobby or travel. They see the next life stage as an opportunity to tick off the to-do list that got put aside when they were busy parenting.
They aren’t waiting to die – cool grandparents are too busy living
Most people think that the 70s, 80s and 90s are the years to be wrapping stuff up. Instead, the really cool grandparents are seeking
opportunities for new beginnings. Older people possess something younger people lack: namely experience, expertise, judgment and performance.
They hold the family together Even when you aren’t together, they are the roots. After all, if it weren’t for them, you wouldn’t be here.
They are wise. Listen to their stories
They are generous with their time and money
They have a sweetie jar, purse or pocket
They know how to text
Reminiscing about how they overcame hardships, how they persevered, or how they remained optimistic in tough times helps to keep them positive and they share this positivity with their loved ones.
Grandparents recognise that a little bit of sugar or gluten isn’t the end of the world. Moderation is a virtue, but they enjoy being the source of their grandchild’s special treats.
They don’t look back
They live in the now. Events and experiences shape them, but they’re savvy about current events - they discuss and want to hear your dreams, and help you achieve them!
They listen
Good conversation is a delicate balance of speaking and listening. They have mastered listening and know that a great communicator listens more than he or she speaks.
They remember what it was like parenting and they offer to hang out with their grandchildren so their own children can recharge. They know that £20 in a card and an extra £5 slipped into a pocket really raises a smile.
This doesn’t mean they spend a lot of time on devices, but they can respond to you and use technology to keep connected.
They’re on Facebook
They’re a tecchy bunch – they buy as many smartphones as the kids do (and smash them less). Having a news feed filled with the people and projects they’re passionate about gives them a sense of belonging.
They spend time outside
Some like to potter in the garden, others hike or go Nordic walking. Cool grandparents recognise that fresh air really does do you good!
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Life Guide LIFEGUIDE IS ABOUT TALKING TO PEOPLE WHO HAVE MADE INTERESTING LIFE/WORK CHANGES AND HAVE A POSITIVE ATTITUDE TO THE ‘THIRD’ AGE, DOING THINGS DIFFERENTLY, CHANGING THEIR PACE OF LIFE, THEIR PRIORITIES, REFLECTING ON WHAT’S GONE BEFORE AND THE NEW OPPORTUNITIES AND CHALLENGES TO COME…
Generation ageless Steve Ashman celebrates his 50th birthday this month. He owns speciality coffee business, Mint Hobo, on Yarm High Street
I used to do this…
I was the ‘corporate man’. I ran supermarkets for a leading UK chain, looking after hundreds of staff and thousands of customers. I had the big salary, the car and the long hours. For a couple of years we spent time living and working between London and the North. While travelling to work in opposite directions on the M25 we would have the same conversation time and time again – how service and people were becoming less at the heart of what a business was about and how much we wanted to build a place where amazing people would be able to enjoy a unique and amazing experience.
Now life is about…
Coffee! As a shopkeeper, I looked after my staff well so that they would look after customers well, too. But values became compromised, customers were taken for granted and it didn’t feel right. Now those values are the same, but it’s my business, my customers - my coffee! There came a point when I thought if things didn’t work out (they didn’t), then I would bring speciality coffee to Yarm. I could have stayed and retired at 55, but instead I see this as a new chapter in life. LIFE GUIDE JANUARY/FEBRUARY 17
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I’m lucky I can… There endeth the sentence!
Things are different because…
We can do good things. A penny from every coffee goes to a local addiction support charity. We can just decide to do that because it feels right and because we want to. It sounds simple, but it feels good.
Family is all about…
It’s everything as you get older. My wife Claire and I started the business and my daughter Bethan works here. I also feel closer to my parents now than I ever have.
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How I made a change…
I am a keen sky-diver. Opening up Mint Hobo on day one was like sitting on the side of a plane for the first time and preparing to jump. Signing the lease was like the first jump, but opening up was a case of jumping, panicking for a minute, then coasting, looking down and thinking ‘yes!’. You’re doing everything that your body and mind say don’t do but you do it anyway - and it feels amazing.
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I thrive on…
A bit of chaos, I think. I like learning new stuff – like coffee (Steve is very proud of his state-of-the-art coffee machine). I like the challenge of people. I like pleasing - and surprising - difficult customers!
Work/life balance…
I don’t get to skydive as much as I did, or ride my motorbike, but I’m ok with that. I don’t feel like I’m being denied because work is in the way. I love what I do now.
Day in the life of me…
It starts at 6.30am (my wife Claire still has a ‘proper’ job!) and the shop opens at 6am (not always by me). Every day I’m getting our fresh coffee pouring blend ready. I’m always in for about 8am until whenever! Then we’re baking, serving, listening and making people happy – that’s my official job description! The cafe is called Mint (fresh) and Hobo (home). When people come in we hope we can make them feel better than they did when they walked in.
What mid life means to me…
Wearing shorts for work. That is a simple, but unreal thing. When we opened, someone on Trip Advisor said something about the place being run by a ‘middle-aged man’. I’m fine with that. If this is half way, that sees me to 100. You get here with confidence, with experience and with an honesty about yourself. You wear your shorts to work because you can!
The people who are important…
My family, customers and suppliers – we use produce from local people. People like Rounton Coffee, Parlour Made Cheese and Dropswell Farm. My customers really make this place and always it feels relaxed and lovely. LIFE GUIDE JANUARY/FEBRUARY 17
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Like they say, you are what you eat. And because feeling good starts with what you put in your mouth, we reveal some of the best grub to gobble to keep your bodies feeling right and tight…
Eat right SuperfoodsGRUB TO GRAB
COOK WITH COCONUT OIL. Yes, it’s a bit trendy. Food bloggers and celebrities rave about it. Even chefs love it. And there’s a reason. 100 per cent organic coconut oil - the ‘virgin’, unrefined stuff - is rich in lauric acid, shown to improve levels of ‘good’ HDL cholesterol and known to help fight off infections and viruses. Buy a jar of it and dig out a few sweet scoops when baking, or frying fish and veggies. Just be sure to use a teeny tiny amount to stop everything tasting tropical. EAT YOUR FIBROUS FOODS. Fibre is key for good digestion, which slows down as we age, causing toilet issues and unpleasant gripes and pains. Boost your intake by stocking up on things like lentils, beans, apples, pears, wholegrain breads and cereals, and flaxseeds. LOAD UP ON POTATOES - just make sure they’re of the sweet and orange kind. Swap white, starchy potatoes for sweet potatoes and start reaping the rewards. Not only are
Ditch the booze-
they packed with rich, creamy flavour, when eaten with their skins on, they’re one of the most nutritious veggies you can eat thanks to their high levels of potassium and vitamin A. Load them up with healthy toppings, like black beans and tomatoes, quinoa and mushroom or spinach and feta.
5 TIPS TO HELP YOU CUT DOWN
BUY A DRINKS MEASURE so you know exactly how much you’re drinking. Making up your own measures means you’re more likely to over-drink, without even realising it. Know your units, too. One unit equals 10ml of pure alcohol and experts say men and women shouldn’t drink more than 14 units per week - that should be your max. A small glass of wine is one unit.
SNACK ON BERRIES. Sounds like an obvious one, but you’d be surprised at how many people are put off by all that (natural) sweetness. But the likes of strawberries, blueberries, cranberries, blackberries shouldn’t be ignored. These little beauties are great sources of antioxidants and a cocktail of vitamins, helping mop up nasty free radicals (which can lead to cancer), infection, colds and viruses and bad bacteria.
SET A BUDGET - because buying alcohol soon adds up. If you’re heading out, decide on a fixed amount of money to spend on booze and stick to it. Not only will you savour the drinks you do have, you’ll save money too. Leave any credit/debit cards at home if you think you’d be tempted to spend more.
DON’T BE AFRAID OF PLENTY OF PROTEIN and ‘good fats’. Oily fish, like wild salmon, mackerel and sardines, will bless you with brain-loving omega 3 fats, while green veg such as kale, spinach and avocado will give your body all the minerals and vitamins it needs to keep your skin, eyesight and hair and nails healthy.
DOWNSIZE YOUR CHOICES. You can still enjoy a drink, but just try and make them smaller. Try bottled beer instead of pints. Order a small glass of wine instead of a large one - or a bottle.
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NEVER DRINK ON AN EMPTY STOMACH leave all that to the students. They have a lot to learn. Eating while you drink means alcohol is absorbed into your system more slowly. If you’re eating in, have one glass of wine on the table. Put the bottle away and out of sight.
WINTER IS THE TIME OF YEAR FOR cosy nights in on the sofa with our favourite snacks and beverages - but this isn’t an excuse to pop the bubbly every night. Have several drink-free days and nights per week, swapping glasses of red for glasses of fruity, herbal teas, a glass or two of lime and soda if you like your fizzy drinks, or a smoothie if you’re craving something sweet. LIFE GUIDE JANUARY/FEBRUARY 17
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Get inspired... QUICK AND NUTRITIOUS MEAL IDEAS FOR WINTER
CARROT AND APPLE MUFFINS
by Joe Wicks, fitness coach and author Makes 10. Ready in 40 minutes
Ingredients 2 medium carrots, grated (130g) 2 medium eating apples, peeled and grated (170g) 100g ground almonds 60g raisins 1½ tsp mixed spice 1 tsp ground cinnamon 1 tsp baking powder 75g ricotta 3 eggs 2 tsp vanilla extract 125g cream cheese 2 tsp honey
we love STEWED BREAKFAST APPLES WITH CINNAMON AND GINGER
BAKED SWEET POTATO WITH BLACK BEAN CHILLI
by Deliciously Ella, food blogger and author
by Madeleine Shaw, nutritional health coach, blogger and author
Serves 1. Ready in 30 minutes
Serves 4. Ready in 60 minutes
Ingredients
Ingredients
2 red apples A handful of blueberries 1/2 an inch of fresh ginger A heaped teaspoon of date syrup (or maple syrup/raw honey) A heaped teaspoon cinnamon 1/2 a can of coconut milk Refined sugar-free granola (you can find this in most supermarkets, or you can make your own)
1 carrot 2 yellow peppers 2 celery sticks 2 tbsp of coconut oil 1 large white onion 2 crushed garlic cloves 2 tsp of ground cumin 1 red chilli 1 tsp of smoked paprika 1 tsp of dried oregano 2 cans of chopped tomatoes 800g cooked kidney beans 250ml of vegetable stock (freshly made – no sugar no preservatives) 1 tbsp of raw cacao powder Salt and pepper 4 sweet potatoes 2 avocados
Method
Preheat your oven to 180°C and line a 12-hole muffin tin with small muffin cases. Place all the ingredients (apart from 1 teaspoon of the vanilla extract, the cream cheese and the honey) in a large bowl and beat with a wooden spoon until fully combined. Divide the mixture equally among the muffin cases and slide into the oven. Bake the muffins for 25 minutes, by which time they will be cooked through and a little golden on the top. Leave to cool. While the muffins are cooling, whip together the remaining vanilla extract, cream cheese and honey, adding a splash of water to slacken if needed. When the muffins are totally cool, spread the cream cheese icing on top.
Start by peeling your apples. Cut them into bite sized pieces, discarding the core. Place the pieces in a saucepan with the blueberries, cinnamon and date syrup and cover the bottom few centimetres of the saucepan in coconut milk. Allow the pan to start simmering on a low heat. As it cooks just watch that there’s always enough liquid and the apples aren’t sticking and burning to the bottom of the pan. If this is happening just add a little more coconut milk or some water. Peel your ginger and then grate it onto a plate, then add this to the pan. Allow the apple mix to cook for about twenty minutes, at which point all the coconut milk should be evaporated or absorbed. Place the apples in a bowl and use the pan to heat up the remaining coconut milk for a minute or two, then pour this over the apples and add your granola. You can make this recipe in big batches, allow to cool and then store in an air-tight container in the fridge if you want a speedy breakfast. The apples should last about five days if stored this way.
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Method Preheat your oven to 200°C. To make the chilli, chop up the carrot, pepper and celery into cubes. Heat the coconut oil in a large pot, add the onion and a pinch of salt, sauté for 7 minutes until golden and add the garlic and cook for a few minutes more - but don’t let the garlic brown. Add the cumin, chilli, smoked paprika, oregano and the chopped veg. Pour in the tomatoes, beans, stock and a large pinch of salt, cook for an hour then add in the cacao and more seasoning if needed. While this is cooking, prick the sweet potatoes and place on a baking tray, bake for 45-50 minutes (dependent on the size of your potatoes), until cooked through. Cut the sweet potatoes in half and top with the chilli, slices of avocado and serve.
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FINDING YOUR PILATES POWER
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Practise as much as possible! Pick three or four exercises from a class which you want to improve on and do them at home inbetween classes. Some good ones to try are the hundred, roll up, swan dive, spine twist and side leg kick
The power of Pilates Pilates, much like yoga, is the art of balance, posture, strength and flexibility, designed to tone up that core and strengthen that mind-body connection. For some, it’s a real life-saver, giving them a chance to quiet the mind, stretch out sore spots and ease away physical - and emotional - tension. 50-year-old Adrian Bell is owner and founder of Blagdon-based pilates studio, Precision Fitness, where keen stretchers can go for one-to-one tuition and small, relaxed classes. It’s also the only studio outside of London to offer ‘Bodhi’, a type of pilates that involves suspension ropes to improve posture, core strength and muscle tone. Here, he reveals the benefits of pilates for the over 50s and shares some top tips on surviving your first class…
TAKE TO THE MAT As we age, the body tends to lose muscle mass - called sarcopenia so it’s important to undertake some form of strengthening exercise(s) to maintain muscle size and usage. Aging also impacts our flexibility, as muscles and connective tissue become less elastic, and as a consequence joints may stiffen. Arthritis and general wear and tear in joints can also be common problems, resulting in achy knees, backs, elbows - the lot! The good news is that exercise can help all of the above especially pilates, which focuses on better movement to help you feel limber and stronger all round.
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Listen to your body and make sure movements are always performed with control and are well thought through. Ask your instructor if you’re unsure
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Always make movements functional. Include standing exercises to improve balance and proprioception
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Practise breathing. It may sound odd, but we don't always use the depth of our breath and the expansion of our rib cage. Be aware of it - it’ll keep you calm and help ease you into positions
www.precisionfitness.org.uk MOVE WISELY I work with a lot of people in their 50s, 60s and over and we try and focus first and foremost on their movement - we want them to move better, without pain and more efficiently. We start by working on posture and stabilising the core muscles, before moving on from that stable base to balance and flexibility. It’s a process and everyone receives personal attention - even in a class sitting. BE SELF-AWARE Time is spent improving people’s self-awareness, so that they work with their own body and are not tempted to compete with others around. Pilates is really about a person’s own development and that requires self-awareness. We also work at helping people connect to their bodies as a whole. Movements tend to work through the whole body with continuous flow.
DID YOU KNOW? Cardiovascular and resistance exercise can also improve blood sugar and hormone levels, while stability exercise can improve balance and proprioception.
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AGE IS JUST A NUMBER We often have clients with medical complications, but we’re able to use both large and small equipment to make movements available to them. We always find a way to help clients - age and physical health are never a barrier. CHILL OUT Exercise definitely boosts wellbeing - clients always feel better at the end of a session. Movement simply helps people feel better! Pilates is a mind and body exercise, in that it requires concentration and precise movement, and there’s definitely a sense of mindfulness when you focus on the movement. MAKE SOME CHUMS Exercise is a great way for older people to meet new people and form new friendships. We know all of our clients well and there is definitely a sense of community at the studio – we want clients to feel at home. LIFE GUIDE JANUARY/FEBRUARY 17
Life Guide
Stay sharp Brain-boosting hacks for a healthier, happier mind… LIKE THE REST OF OUR BODIES, our brain changes with each passing year. As children, our brains are like little sponges - soaking up every experience and grain of information life throws at us.
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AS THE YEARS PASS, we become smarter and sharper, adapting to the world around us, up until our late twenties when the brain’s ageing process begins and we start losing neurons - the cells that make up the brain and nervous system.
SIMPLE BRAINTEASERS TO TRY: PUZZLES LIKE SUDOKU AND CROSSWORDS - don’t underestimate their powers. Feeling bored? Pick up that magazine on your coffee table and get scribbling. They stimulate your memory and trigger the problem-solving part of your brain.
As we reach our late 50s, our brains have literally begun to shrink. Normal, yes, but scary? A little. It’s a fact that mid-lifers’ reasoning skills start to slow. And parts of the memory start to fade, ever so slightly. You might start to feel a bit forgetful.
DIG OUT THE JIGSAWS - they force you to use both sides of the brain; the left side, which thinks logically and follows sequences, and the right side, which is more creative and intuitive.
FINDING THE DOOR KEYS MIGHT GO MISSING. You may find yourself walking into a room without knowing why. You might forget to pick up the dry-cleaning, or post that important letter. You may feel indecisive; like you don’t know which path to choose, or where you want your life to take you next.
But there is good news. Studies show that other measures of
TRY OUT SPELLING EXERCISES. Spelling out words forces you to mentally ‘see’ the word, prior to saying it out loud or writing it down. Test yourself to wake up the brain’s language-related areas.
cognition - things like moral decision-making, regulating emotions and reading social situations - have been shown to actually improve as we reach middle-age, meaning that today’s mid-lifers have never been more of a wiser, level-headed bunch (with or without door keys).
LEARN A NEW WORD EVERY DAY. Who cares if it’s in another language. Repeat it, try to spell it out. Write it down. Doing so will press on the brain’s prefrontal lobes where judgement and executive function live.
LOOKING AFTER BRAIN HEALTH is something we should all factor into our lives, but there’s never been a better time to get proactive than when you reach your golden years. Read on for top tips on keeping that spongey thing in your head as healthy as can be, from boosting your memory to strengthening your attention span and relaxing the mind…
WORK WITH YOUR HANDS. Try knitting, try making a model ship, build something with nothing but your fingers. It’ll fine-tune your finger control (a great skill that we are all born with, but rarely make good use of, unless you play an instrument or perform surgery for a living) and help boost concentration.
GET YOUR ‘OM’ ON
But it’s not a fad
Much like yoga and pilates, meditation has become a bit trendy in recent years. with practice, it actually works, sending your brain, senses and body as a whole into a relaxed, peaceful state. It stops the mind from wandering. Meditation is all about ‘clearing’ the mind of negative or unnecessary thoughts - that noise in your brain that many of us just can’t switch off. By slowing down your thoughts, you’re encouraging your brain to enter a more relaxed state, regulating heart rate, blood flow and the nervous system. Although relaxing, meditation requires a strong focus (on an object, idea or activity, like breathing), so it’s not so surprising to know that it also helps improve the parts of your brain responsible for concentration, self-awareness and attention. It balances out your emotions. A lot of people start meditating in a bid to reduce stress - and are happy to discover that it does just that. Give it a few weeks and you’ll be surprised at how much calmer and in control of your emotions you feel. Meditation forces you to confront negative thoughts, ride them out, and release them mentally through guided breathing. LIFE GUIDE JANUARY/FEBRUARY 17
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Life Guide
Pay attention to life’s ‘tiny happinesses’ and the rewards will be worth it, says lifecoach Laura Beckingham...
“PEOPLE MAY CALL WHAT HAPPENS AT MIDLIFE AS ‘A CRISIS’, BUT IT’S NOT. IT’S AN UNRAVELLING, A TIME WHEN YOU FEEL A DESPERATE PULL TO LIVE THE LIFE YOU WANT TO LIVE NOT THE ONE YOU’RE ‘SUPPOSED’ TO LIVE.” - BRENE BROWN
Work right, live more The time is now, that’s why you’re reading this. And yet you may still be waiting to live that life. Waiting for tomorrow, next week, next year; for your older children to leave home, for your next annual bonus, for the courage to leave your job entirely, for the mortgage to be paid off. Thoughts of ‘it’s too late’ may be creeping in. You might feel like the time has passed. You’re too old. There’s too much to lose. You should've done it way back. But none of it is true - the time is now.
So, what is the life you want to live? Perhaps you know that you want to make big changes; leave the job, start the business, retrain, move to the place you’ve always wanted to live, take the big trip. Maybe there are subtler adjustments too; more time for your hobby, holidays, reading, time with friends. And then there are the teeny tiny things - the ‘tiny happinesses’ that truly make the difference to the day-to-day fabric of your life; the cups of tea, the walks in nature, more laughter, fresh flowers, afternoon baths.
Undoubtedly, you know you want to feel calmer, lighter, less busy, more fulfilled and with more time to enjoy the above. And I’m certain you want to experience more joy, have greater clarity and drop even deeper in to life’s experiences. I say, it’s time to claim this life that you want to live - and there’s never been a better time for it than now. Read on for my five top tips on living better…
Find your tribe
You’ve heard it before, but having the right people around you is so critically important. The right tribe will meet your unique needs, and will nourish the many versions of you. Among my tribe are a group of fellow coaches: they champion my every move and listen unwaveringly to my fears; old friends who will laugh with me, feed me wine and call me out when I drop into ego and men who simultaneously nurture me and embrace my fiery masculine energy. Cherish who you already have and go find the rest; they’re waiting for you.
Be greedy with your teachers
Whoever they may be. I have many teachers, literal and virtual: spiritual gurus, my coaches, the children in my life, family, dear friends and I’m greedy with them all. I love to know ‘how do they experience the world?’ ‘What matters to them?’ ‘What wisdom do they have to share?’ Never stop asking or seeking - you’re never too old to learn from somebody else.
Read broadly
I mean broadly in the literal sense genre, historical period, style, and so on. More specifically, I mean read books written by people not like you. By reading more broadly, you’ll become closer to your passions, connecting with what really matters to you and forming a sense of the legacy you want to leave. If reading isn’t your thing, watch different news channels, mix up your social media feed, go to new places, talk to new people, ask lots of questions.
Get alone time
Children, family, friends, jobs, responsibilities... they all rob us of the gift of being alone. We are wired to fill any space we have and as a
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consequence we are often overloaded, or at least full-up. So at least experiment with taking some time to yourself. This might mean an afternoon once or twice a month for you, it could be an hour a week to walk the dog, or as simple as taking a long bath instead of a quick shower. This is such a critical practice and many of us, particularly women, feel immense guilt at the mere thought of it. We’ve lost sight of the fact that time and space are the most important gifts we can give ourselves.
Say no
Deep in my soul I’m a yes person – that used to mean I’d say yes to pretty much anything – to invitations, to requests for help, to work I didn’t want to do. I’m still a yes person – but now I say yes to me and yes to life, and that now means I say no a lot too. I say no to people I don't want to spend time with, no if the timing isn’t right, no to anything that depletes my energy, and absolutely no to anything that doesn't make me feel whole. Your time for living from obligation is long gone – instead it's time to meet your own needs. LIFE GUIDE JANUARY/FEBRUARY 17