(P)referential parenting and guidance from A to Z

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The more protection can be offered or found, the more solidity, reserve and the larger the buffer. The less risk can be taken or encountered, the less weakness, danger and the smaller the gap. You do not have much control. It's just like that. You do have a lot of control. It is how you think and how you want something. It is how you arrange and organize something. It is how you do something and deal with something. The basic rule can be used here : whatever escapes you, you can try to take care of what you do have, so that the balance remains positive. That the risks that are there remain relatively smaller than the protection you are looking for and can find. In this way, sufficient strength, reserve can remain or can be found and a buffer can be provided. Especially in times and in situations where there are fewer problems, work can be done to provide more security. There is more time and space for this and people usually are more interested. What is possibly missing, however, is to grasp the importance and meaning of this. There is yet no immediate need for it.

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