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or absence of group support can influence the presence or absence of individual capacity. In other words, family members can derive part of their capacity from being part of the family group. Conversely, the family group can derive its capacity from the input of individual family members. Belonging to this family makes you strong. This family is strong because she can rely on you. You gain strength from the capacity of the family. The family acquires strength from your capacity. This way you can say that family members have a greater capacity than if they were not members of the family with capacity. You can also say that family members have a lower level of ability when they are part of a family with a greatly reduced or lost capacity than if they were not a family member. It is similar to what concerns the burden. In addition to the individual load, the group can also ensure a certain load. But just as the individual can ensure reduced or absent payload, the group can also try to reduce the burden of work or reduce it. The presence or absence of the individual load can also influence the presence or absence of the joint load. Conversely, the presence or absence of the group burden can affect the presence or absence of the individual load. In other words, family members can be partially confronted with the burden that comes from the family group. Conversely, the family group can partly see its burden as a result of the individual burden.

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