Q ATLus Magazine | March 18, 2021

March 18, 2021

Treasure

HUNT

Go Digging for Resale Gold in Atlanta

Re-imagining Your Post-Pandemic Life 10 Huge Benefits of Being Single Again Saying Goodbye to Joe’s & Einstein’s

Like NEW WHILE YOU LOOK AHEAD to a new world this season,

don’t forget to bring the best parts with you. This issue of Q ATLus glances back to move forward.

Q Cover re-imagines thrift and vintage finds into looks you can bring alive today without killing your wallet. Q Voices

also looks at post-pandemic life with some lessons learned from the long year that preceded it.

New beginnings with experience in tow is also part of LGBTQ Atlanta coverage this week. The Joystick and Georgia Beer

Garden guys open a third bar in Midtown, and people who are “single again” find 10 upsides to going it alone.

You are you, and Q is Q, so we also bring you reliable weekly

features: the best Q Events, some sage Q Advice and a helpful Q Map. Get in there and root around, and hit us up every day for fresh content on the socials and at theQatl.com.

RICHARD CHERSKOV PUBLISHER & SALES RICHARD@THEQATL.COM 404-917-9678 JOHN NAIL ART DIRECTOR JOHN@THEQATL.COM

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INSIDE THIS ISSUE VOLUME 4 ISSUE 17

MARCH 18, 2021

LONE STAR

10 Upsides to Being Single

COVER

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New to You

Thrift & Vintage Finds

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COMMUNITY

NIGHLIFE

Joe’s & Einstein’s to Close

Concepts from Edgewood to Midtown

So Long

10 Q Things...............10 Q Community............13 Q Nightlife.................14 Q Events....................23 Q Map........................24 Q Advice....................29 6 theQatl.com

Fresh Start

Q ADVICE

Clicktivism

Foolhardy Keyboard Warriors

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VOICES

Post-Pandemic LIFE SPRINGTIME. A TIME OF NEW BEGINNINGS. A time of rebirth. And by the height of summer 2021, a majority of Americans may be vaccinated from COVID 19.

Follow the science. Follow the experts. But eventually, life will transition. The cold ground will thaw.

What will you do with your “new normal” once the vaccine gives you a fresh start? Will we pick up old habits without looking back? How long will our appreciation for newfound freedom last?

Here are some hopes for a brave new world once we put it back together.

EYE CONTACT

and no longer afraid of each other!

Don’t watch the TV show where the couple meets at the coffee shop. Be the TV show where the couple meets at the coffee shop.

SUBVERTING CLIQUES

Cliques are a social disease, a manifestation of a collective neurosis. But people still do them out of stale tradition and bad habit, like racism or hegemony.

No more.

Walk up to a stranger, acquaintance, old flame or one-night stand and say something. Tell yourself you’re drunk and newly empowered by your liquid courage. Pay no mind to their friends staring open-mouthed at your audacity. Don’t even look at them. Don’t you dare give them your eyeball nerve endings. See what happens.

I’m biased because my eyes are SCOTT blue and people think that I’m KING therefore profoundly beautiful on the inside, but you really do GO TO ‘CHURCH’ learn a lot about a person by looking them deeply Y’all need Jesus. Just kidding. I mean, you do, in the eyes. It’s not safe yet, but because of our you heathens, but in the broader sense. Have a short attention spans and those devices in our communal experience. Engage in activity that pockets, eye contact really hasn’t been en vogue connects you with humanity, with something for quite a while anyway. beyond humanity. Experience something that PEREGRINATION transcends this mortal coil.

Remember being a teenager and driving around My church is music. What does it for you? Is it for no reason? Wanderlust. A thirst for experience. mom jeans and yoga? Is it Catholicism because Let’s bring that back. Rekindle our love affair you get off on the ritual and repression? Is it a with the night mysterious. Stand back in awe of dance floor? Is it volunteering? Is it a skate park? the cinemascope that is life. Don’t take a selfie and You know what it is. Now go get after it and bring tag yourself. Just roam. me a higher love.

LOITERING

Stay put. Sip a beverage. Read a newspaper or magazine. Read a room.

Whether your mind is in the past present or future, keep your body in one place. Watch the molecules move around the room and rearrange themselves. It may manifest as silly or groovy or cute or ugly, but you’re all in one place together 8 theQatl.com

WRITE IT DOWN

As you venture into the new world in all its forms, take note and take notes. Think about the things you forgot and even took for granted before COVID. Notice what you notice. Do it for yourself and your own posterity.

Scott King is a writer and thinker living in Atlanta.

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10 THINGS

LIKE A BIRD

You are free to travel, take a new job, chase your dreams or drop everything without regard to anyone but you.

SINGLE AGAIN?

Good! Here are 10 of the best things about flying solo

By Mike Fleming

SO YOU BROKE UP. It’s not all dinner for one and lonely longing, not by a long shot. In fact, you’re free in these specific ways to do what you want, when you want, and who you want.

FRIEND ZONE

Chill with friends without the nagging voice that says you have to do something that won’t be nearly as fun.

FLIRTING

NO-GUILT IMPROMPTU SEX

You may not always hook up with strangers, but when you do, you are free of any obligations to the contrary.

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Flying solo means that if the urge strikes, you are your only monitor. Come to think of it, this is also a drawback, but oh well.

NO PETTY FIGHTS

Rest easy. There will be no fights over something stupid — or worse, over nothing — to ruin your day.

FREE TIME

Take a class, read a book, learn a skill, or watch only the shows you want to watch on TV or Netflix.

ANTICIPATION

Butterflies in your stomach over meeting someone or going out with them for the first time are all yours.

BED & CLOSET SPACE

Every square inch is yours. You deserve to give your stuff more space, and the only cover hog is your dog.

FARTING

Do it. Any time, anywhere.

NO ONE ELSE’S FRIENDS OR FAMILY

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End of an

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So long, farewell to Joe’s and Einstein’s in June

By Matt Hennie TWO DINING AND DRINKING STAPLES IN LGBTQ Atlanta will close in June and make way for bulldozers, construction cranes and residential towers on Juniper Street in Midtown.

The Metrotainment-owned property that houses Joe’s on Juniper and Einstein’s is under contract.

Developer Middle Street Partners unveiled plans for a mixed-use project at the site on March 9 during a Midtown Development Review Committee meeting.

“Metrotainment Cafes Restaurant Group has signed a contract for the sale of the Einstein’s and Joe’s on Juniper real estate in Midtown. At present, the intent is to continue serving our guests until early June,” Tori Allen, a Metrotainment spokesperson, said in an email statement.

Metrotainment, which also owns six Hudson Grille locations in metro Atlanta, did not provide additional details about possible futures for Joe’s and Einstein’s. What Now Atlanta first reported the Middle Street Partners project on March 4.

The firm proposes a 40-story tower with 320 units for phase one, with a 32-story building with 150 units in a later phase. The second phase also includes a six-story parking deck with 694 spaces.

Both buildings will include ground-floor retail, according to a project description provided to the review committee.

Closing Joe’s and Einstein’s is the latest change for Metrotainment. The restaurant operator sold the LGBTQ-popular Cowtippers to make way for a bank in 2018 before the coronavirus pandemic wreaked havoc on its business. In March 2020, employees complained that Metrotainment owed them money.

Einstein’s has been serving casual Southern fare since 1991. theQatl.com 13

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NIGHTLIFE

TIME & PLACE

By Mike Fleming WHEN IT COMES TO REINVENTION, IT’S hard to beat the owners of Joystick Gamebar and Georgia Beer Garden. Now Johnny Martinez and Brandon Ley channel that energy toward a third bar plus fresh changes at their existing spots.

When By Weight & Measure, their third venture, opens this summer, it will be a new co-owner.

Ian Carlson is the general manager at the pair’s Edgewood spots, and he steps up for the new craft cocktail concept.

“We want to highlight a lot of the really cool techniques that have been pioneered in recent years by bartenders in the ‘cocktail chemistry’ movement that are being used around the city, but not being put front and center for the guest,” Carlson told Project Q.

In addition to a new partner, the team also ventures out of Edgewood and into Midtown for By Weight & Measure. They think the ground floor of the Coda complex in Tech Square is the perfect spot.

“I personally love the idea of all the innovation and collaboration happening on Georgia Tech’s campus spilling over into the food hall at the Collective,” Carlson said.

The still-roiling coronavirus pandemic remains a top-of-mind concern for all involved, but the new venue arrives at a time of widespread optimism for a post-pandemic Atlanta.

Reset

BUTTON

“The Covid-19 pandemic has been an extremely large concern in my life, although I am cautiously optimistic about the vaccine rollout,” Carlson said.

Joystick & GBG guys take on new venue, Martinez agreed. new partner, “We’re slowly coming new ‘hood out of our COVID hiber-

“Think chemistry lab meets cocktail bar, but with a warm heart.”

So what does that mean for the menu? At least one of the most popular Carlson creations at Joystick reappears at By Weight & Measure: The Knuckin’ and Buckin’ coffee-bourbon slushie.

A drink called Simple Peanut Farmer is an ode to Jimmy Carter with house-made peanut butter bourbon and Coke. The Bristol County is a carbonated love affair between gin, cranberries and rosemary. Forty Years Together is a boozy sipper featuring milk-washed chai infused rum, bourbon and herbal liqueurs.

The drink menu also includes a carefully curated selection of wines and beers.

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nation and will be completely reopen soon.”

WHAT’S NEW ON EDGEWOOD?

Reopening beyond takeout for the existing Ley-Martinez venues comes with changes, too.

They set sites on April 5 to fling open Joystick’s doors on renovations and expansions done during Lockdown 2020.

“We’re expanding our Opus-09 room to allow for more events with better seating,” Martinez said.

“We’re also putting in a half-bar in our parlor to make service on busy nights easier for everyone.”

Across the street at Georgia Beer Garden, the changes are even bigger.

“Georgia Beer Garden is getting an update to the

Johnny Martinez and Brandon Ley

PHOTO BY RUSS BOWEN-YOUNGBLOOD

interior as well as the menu,” Martinez promised.

The upstairs space is completely transformed for a grand opening targeted a few weeks after Joystick’s return.

“We’re very excited to open our Mambo Zombi Room + After Life Lounge upstairs at GBG,” Martinez said. “This will be a fusion of Latin American and Afro-Caribbean flavors and music. Think Day of the Dead. Think Voodoo. Think banana daquiris.”

The expertise of sommelier and craft bartender

Kysha Cyrus is part of the new vibe. Martinez calls her “Atlanta’s greatest living palate.”

That should come as no surprise. Switching things up, new partnerships and revitalized spaces are just extensions of work these business owners already love.

“It feels good to give some love to these spaces and enhance what works so well,” Martinez said.

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Past Present

PERFECT

Queering New Looks from Thrifty Vintage Finds SHOPPING THE THRIFT SCENE, exploring your Dad’s or daddy’s closet, or pillaging your own archives invites the past to inspire a fashionable future. Turn the page for looks that rock vintage vibes without breaking the bank. 

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The Best LGBTQ Things to Do in Atlanta This Week THURSDAY, MARCH 18

Sidewalk Sale

Books as low at $2 each as Atlanta’s lesbian- and

trans-led feminist bookstore makes way for a new era @ Charis, 12 noon – 4 p.m. charisbooksandmore.com

SUNDAY, MARCH 21 Karlitos

The local fave keeps the Xion booties

bouncing into the wee PHOTO BY TOBY

X After Dark

hours @ Wish Lounge, 3 a.m. – 7 a.m.

Tristan Panucci Dupree, Aspen York and Raquel

Drag Brunch

Rae Heart (photo) want you to stay out late on a

The Sisters of Sequins

school night. Drag into Friday after a show @ X

perform with Bubba

Midtown, 12 midnight. facebook.com/xmidtownx

D. Licious at the wheel

while you eat @ Lips,

FRIDAY, MARCH 19

12:30 p.m. lipsatl.com

Fired Up

The Fuego party crew and DJ GSP are on fire, and

TUESDAY, MARCH 23

you are too, queen. You.

hereticatlanta.com

Are. Too @ Heretic, 10 p.m.

F**k It Friday

Drop in on a full day and night of specials.

Andrew opens, then JayR and Eric bring it home with a different guest VJ every week. Anything goes @ Hideaway, 2 p.m. – 3 a.m. facebook.com/ atlantahideaway

SATURDAY, MARCH 20 Queer Threads

A pop-up thrift shop pops with clothing, including a

Trivia Tuesday

$5 grab-bag sale. Multiple

Drop in on a full afternoon and evening of specials,

and entry will be spaced out

prize @ Hideaway, 9 p.m. Happy Hour specials

southernfriedqueerpride.com

tahideaway

bags welcome. SFQP hosts,

and don’t forget Trivia Tuesdays with a $50 bar tab

for safety @ Georgia Beer Garden, 1 p.m. – 6 p.m.

every weekday, 2 p.m. – 6 p.m. facebook.com/atlan-

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Future (opening soon) 50 Lower Alabama St SW, Suite 180

8. Henry’s Midtown Tavern 132 10th St NE

Mary’s 1287 Glenwood Ave SE

9. Joe’s onRalph Juniper McGill Blvd. NE 1049 Juniper St NE

Sister Louisa’s 466 Edgewood Ave SE

10. Zocalo Mexican Kitchen & Cantina 187 10th St NE Highland Ave. NE 11. Barking Leather After Dark 306 Ponce De Leon Ave NE (inside Eagle) 12. Urban Body Fitness 500 Amsterdam Ave NE

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6. Las Margaritas 1842 Cheshire Bridge Road NE

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7. Roxx Tavern 1824 Cheshire Bridge Road NE

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Q Atlus Map Directory The businesses on the preceding pages are integral parts of Atlanta’s LGBTQ landscape. Those listed in boxes are consistent Q partners and community allies.

BARS, CLUBS & RESTAURANTS Atlanta Eagle 306 Ponce De Leon Ave NE BJ Roosters 2043 Cheshire Bridge Road NE Blakes on the Park 227 10th St. NE Bulldogs Bar 893 Peachtree St NE Felix’s on the Square 1510 Piedmont Ave NE Friends on Ponce 736 Ponce De Leon Ave NE Future 50 Lower Alabama St SW, Suite 180 Henry’s Midtown Tavern 132 10th St NE The Heretic 2069 Cheshire Bridge Road NE The Hideaway 1544 Piedmont Ave NE Joe’s on Juniper 1049 Juniper St NE Las Margaritas 1842 Cheshire Bridge Road NE Lips Drag Show Palace 3011 Buford Highway NE Mama’s Cocina 1958 Piedmont Road NE Mary’s 1287 Glenwood Ave SE Midtown Moon 1510 Piedmont Ave NE My Sister’s Room 84 12th St Oscar’s 1510 Piedmont Ave NE Roxx Tavern 1824 Cheshire Bridge Road NE

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Sequel Bar 1086 Alco St. NE

Sister Louisa’s 466 Edgewood Ave SE Swinging Richards 1400 Northside Dr NW The T 465 Boulevard SE Tripp’s Bar 1931 Piedmont Circle NE Woof’s Sports Bar 494 Plasters Ave NE X Midtown 990 Piedmont Ave. NE Zocalo Mexican Kitchen & Cantina 187 10th St NE

RETAIL & SERVICES 2Qute Hair Salon 1927 Cheshire Bridge Road NE Barking Leather 1510 Piedmont Ave NE Barking Leather After Dark 306 Ponce De Leon Ave NE (inside Atlanta Eagle) Boy Next Door 1447 Piedmont Ave NE Brushstrokes 1510 Piedmont Ave NE Equilibrium Fitness 1529 Piedmont Ave NE Lost ’n Found Youth Thrift Store 2585 Chantilly Dr NE Urban Body Fitness 500 Amsterdam Ave NE

ADULT Flex 76 4th St NW Southern Nights 2205 Cheshire Bridge Road NE Starship Galaxy/Starship Novelties 2273 Cheshire Bridge Road NE Tokyo Valentino 1739 Cheshire Bridge Road NE

Q Advice

Social DIVISION Platforms bank on you overvaluing your own opinion

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A friend is in an online relationship with a person in Europe. This friend has been lonely for years and was taken advantage of in the past. Now they plan to sell everything , move and get married.

My friend tunes out detractors, so I took to Facebook, covertly peppering his feed with posts, memes and articles about online hoaxes and foreign strangers. Hopefully, he’ll get the subliminal messages, because nothing else is working.

What else we can do to stop this train wreck?

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The straight owner of a pizza place recently tweeted a video calling his gay male friend “girl” and making a “limp-wristed” gesture. We put the owner on social media blast, tagging him in comments and posting on his business page.

For days, it was nerve-racking to jump on and see the latest comments. The guy finally posted an apology, saying that he didn’t know and regrets it, but it rings hollow. He even wrangled his gay friend to appear in a new video, and they actually defended him!

The posts are dwindling now, and it seems like the Twitterverse is moving on. I think it’s disgusting to let slights like this just vanish.

Dear Over-Important & Clicktivist: There was a time when people’s decisions were made before a limited audience. Opinions were personal as well, and it was considered rude to offer our own without being asked. If shared at all, it was only with those closest to us.

Welcome to social media. Have a look around and make yourself comfortable.

We’re accutely aware of people’s personal decisions, and our approval or disapproval is expected. But it’s The Big Facebook Lie that our opinions and approval of other people matters this much.

Is a friend making a mistake in love? Worse than the potential heartache could be not giving it a chance and never knowing. You don’t know. Speak to them respectfully instead of passive-aggressively posting, then butt out.

Too many of us are so convinced that their random thoughts are important, we are more likely to dig in our heels than open our hearts.

We’d rather defend our opinion than listen to information that might change our minds. Vengeance is quick and forgiveness is slow.

Basing decisions on what other people think is the road to ruin, and forcing your opinions on others is ugly and potentially dangerous.

Callout Culture and pile-on shaming leaves no room for evolution on difficult topics. Clicktivism makes us feel like we helped, but we didn’t actually do anything except mash our thumbs on the lightbox in our pocket.

The Q is for entertainment, not counseling. Send burning Qs to mike@theQatl.com.

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