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May 2015 PRESENTATION HIGH SCHOOL PARENT NEWSLETTER
LANTERN From the Principal Dear Parents and Friends of Presentation, It is impossible to believe this is my last letter to you this school year; I have said repeatedly to you that high school years fly, but this one has gone by at record speed. You may have noticed that many of my letters have contained suggested reading–on parenting, student wellness, and the runaway insanity of college decisions. I have little feedback if you read them or not, but I do hope you pick up this final recommendation.
Thanks to all of you for your support, your generosity and your faith in Presentation. Above all, thank you for sharing your daughters with us. Not a day goes by that I am not reminded of the sacred partnership we have. As I see your daughters become the young women they were meant to be, I am humbled by the opportunity to be a part of their development and very excited about the future. Pres Girls are amazing!
As I sat at a funeral of a young man last month listening to the beautiful tributes–his compassion for people, his acceptance of difference, his quirky humor, his love of family–I could not help but reflect on the book I was reading by David Brooks, The Road to Character. In it he defines two sets of virtues: the resume virtues and the eulogy virtues. The resume virtues are the ones we bring to the marketplace–the laundry list of what we have done with our time. This is the list of external “accomplishments” that make us most competitive and deserving of recognition. The eulogy virtues are the ones talked about at your funeral–the things said about Mike– his kindness, his loyalty, his faithful devotion to things and people he loved.
God Bless you! Have a great summer practicing those eulogy virtues! Stay well and do good.
Since that day, I have been mildly obsessed with the question: what would be said of me at my funeral? She was a high school principal with a masters degree? She gave nice speeches? She worked really hard? I tell you, this has been quite a gut check generated by this book; I invite you to read it and ponder the same question. Share it with your daughters as they need a similar perspective. Brooks writes: “Our culture and our educational systems spend more time teaching skills and strategies you need for career success that the qualities you need to radiate inner light. Many of us are clearer on how to build an external career than on how to build inner character.” The entire college process that often robs seniors of their final year in high school seems to substantiate this claim. Perhaps all of us–high school administrators, teachers, parents, students–need to ask less what do I want from life and more of what is life asking of me? These are the things I will ponder this summer–perhaps on a beach somewhere!
Mary Miller ’72 Principal
Inside this issue LETTERS Parent Board letter . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 2 Board of Trustees letter . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 2 DEPARTMENT UPDATES Counseling . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Summer Reading List . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Summer at Presentation . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Girls Who Code . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Department Spotlight: Modern Language . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Community Involvement . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Campus Ministry. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Music . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Dance Team. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Performing Arts . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Athletics . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
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