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Ask Meg . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 7 Top Gifts for Teachers . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 16 Christmas Advent . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 17 'Tis the Season . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 34
high pointe!s Calendar of Events. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 5 A Hidden Gem Revealed. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 9
CONTENTS
B Polite - Being Thankful . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 6
FALL/HOLIDAY 2012
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Fall/Holiday 2012 Trend Notes . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 28
pointe! yummy Thanksgiving Sides. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 10 Deep Fried Turkey . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 11
design pointe!rs DIY Festive Fall Wreath . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 13 Wreaths ... Not Just for Front Doors . . . . . . . . . . 18 Porches . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 19 O’ Christmas Tree . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 22 Ornaments Anywhere . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 23 Gift Wrapping 101 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 25 Collectibles . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 27
pointe! well taken Putting the "Sweet" in Home Sweet Home. . . . . 14
home sweet home! Home…there’s just no place quite like it. It’s where you feel safe, loved and valuable. Perhaps you have fond memories of childhood trips to Grandma’s house during the holidays. There’s something special about the family matriarch. She knows how to pull the family together and create that warm, inviting “homey” atmosphere. Ladies are uniquely gifted to be the heart of the home. There’s something remarkable about the way you’re designed by God that enables you to bring life and create something beautiful out of seeming impossibilities. Throughout the history of our country, women have worked hard to preserve the values that form a strong foundation for homes and families. Many challenged the status quo at great personal risk to obtain new rights and change their culture. Women like Susan B. Anthony fighting for women’s right to vote, which was finally granted in 1920. And Rosa Parks, refusing to give up her seat on the bus, who became known as the “mother of the freedom movement.” Just two of countless bold, American women.
Grandma’s House. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 24 What I Know About Quilts. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 26 The Home Keeper . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 31
turning pointe!s Americana All the Way . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 20 The Joy of Giving . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 30
As we move into this election season, I ask you to remember that you have the power to make a difference. Like so many women before you, I urge you to stand up and boldly fight to preserve the values that safeguard families and the foundational principles that made, and will keep America, our home sweet home, one nation under God.
It’s a Wonderful Life . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 35
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Calendar
NOVEMBER 3 “Poochapalooza” K-9 5K Lake Carolina Towne Center, 9am Run through the scenic Lake Carolina Community with or without man’s best friend. Event benefits PAALS & Heartworm Project.
NOVEMBER 2-4 Craftsmen's Christmas Classic Art & Craft Festival, SC State Fairgrounds Tickets $7 (Adult), $1 (Child 6-12); Admission good all 3 days with Free Return Pass. Features original designs & work from hundreds of talented artists & craftsmen from across the Carolinas and the nation. NOVEMBER 17 - DECEMBER 30 Lights Before Christmas Riverbanks Zoo and Garden, 6pm-9pm Experience Columbia’s longest running holiday tradition with nearly one million twinkling lights. Take your photo with Santa, roast marshmallows, and sip cocoa around the bonfire. Plus, it’s the only place in town where it snows every night!
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NOVEMBER 29 - DECEMBER 2 Holiday Market SC State Fairgrounds, opens 9:30am, except Sunday opens at 12pm. $8 for 4 days, 12 & under free. Parking: $2 A premiere shopping event, including 90+ vendors from all over the United States. There are several additional events (advance reservations may be required) including Ladies Night Out, storytelling, games, activities, even PJs with Santa.
NOVEMBER 30 - DECEMBER 2 The Nutcracker by the Columbia Classical Ballet 2418 Devine Street, Columbia, Times vary. Columbia City Ballet’s Nutcracker is “as close to perfect as you can get,” says The State. This holiday family tradition dazzles South Carolina audiences each season. Don’t miss this extraordinary performance. DECEMBER 1 Carolina Carillon Holiday Parade At Gervais and Bull Streets, 9:45am Parade features dozens of floats, marching bands, drill teams and live performances.
Events
DECEMBER 8 & 9 Annual Holiday Open House Capital City/Lake Murray County Visitors Ctr. Saturday: 10am-3pm, Sunday: 12-3pm, Free. The circa 1840 home is decorated for its Annual Holiday Open House by area Garden Clubs. Period decorations, featuring live and dried plant materials, will deck the halls of this regal home. Cookies and hot apple cider will be served. DECEMBER 10 - 21 Salvation Army of the Midlands Christmas Warehouse SC State Fairgrounds (Ruff & Hampton Bldgs.) Volunteer to help people in need this Christmas season. Visit our website: www.DoingtheMostGood.org/RingtheBell or call (803) 667-4943 DECEMBER 15 - JANUARY 1 Winter Fest, The State Museum A 2-week celebration of winter. Highlights include holiday movies, seasonal Star Labs, a scavenger hunt, nature crafts, board games, and, of course, several visits from the jolly old elf himself. Visit www.scmuseum.org.
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B Polite
BEING THANKFUL
Help B Find His Friends
In this season of Thanksgiving, let’s focus on teaching our children four very important words, “I am thankful for…” This is a wonderful time of the year, with all the fall colors, flavors, scents, traditions, etc. However, we often move too fast, letting this season pass quickly without giving it much thought.
Start Here
"B" went for a walk and was separated from his friends. Help him travel through the maze to find them again!
We all have so much to be thankful for...family, friends, home, health, possessions, and more. Now is a great time to take it all in and let it be an opportunity to teach the attitude of being thankful. Suppose the words “thank you” were taught from the perspective of appreciating what we already have, instead of solely for something we have just received? Teaching the attitude of gratitude can begin in the words that follow, “I am thankful for…”
Cynthia Grosso is a national etiquette expert and the author of the Proper Penguin – The Story of B. Polite, a National Civility Program, and other books and programs. Ms. Grosso helps parents instill confidence in their children through learning respect for themselves, which enables respect for others. LIKE US ON FACEBOOK: Facebook.com/TheProperPenguin
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The End
I am newly married. My husband and I will be celebrating our first Christmas together. Christmas is really important to me and I want to start some family traditions. Do you have any suggestions? ~New at this What an exciting time of your life! I couldn’t agree more that some Christmas traditions are a must. I think the best way to start a family Christmas tradition is to figure out what about your Christmas season could use a little zing! A perfect example of this would be if Christmas Day has always been fun and exciting but Christmas Eve seems lacking, then start there. This Christmas Eve, get your friends together to catch a Christmas Eve service and then head to your house for a Christmas Eve party. This will make for a memorable event that you and your friends and family will begin to look forward to year after year. Christmas is a joyous time of the year. It only gets better as we create new traditions to blend with the old ones.
I enjoy being able to get a lot of toys for my children at Christmas. How do I make sure that they don't end up being selfish adults? ~No Grinches in training Raising children is such a balancing act. It takes intentionality to teach them to be grateful receivers and joyful givers. Luke and I have chosen to pass down to our children something my parents did with my sister and me during the Christmas season. Each year, even through high school, Mom and Dad encouraged us to choose something we really loved to give away to someone less fortunate. With our girls, we deliberately point out all of the blessings we have and then imagine what life would be like without them. Some can be funny, like the other day when my four-year-old and I imagined what it would be like without a toothbrush and if all our teeth were to rot out the first day of kindergarten.
AS A WIFE AND WORKING MOM WITH 3 GIRLS, MEGAN UNDERSTANDS THE CHALLENGES OF BALANCING HOME, FAMILY AND FRIENDSHIPS. ENERGETIC AND PASSIONATE, SHE LIVES LIFE WITH CONTAGIOUS JOY AND FREEDOM.
Just before the start of the school year, we were getting ready to go give away school supplies to a group of kids whose fathers were away in prison. My four-year-old started, on her own, to think about what life would be like without her daddy. We were loaded up in the car and I noticed that she had her brand new lunch box with her. She brought it to give away! It was the last one in the store and her favorite item of all her school supplies. Yes, I cried!!! Along with melting my heart, it assured me that what I say does impact my children for life. So this holiday season, make some memories with your kids focused on helping others. They’re never too old and they’ll never forget. I still love to share our stories from when I was younger. And who knows, one day they might even do it with their kids!
People always seem to be so happy around Thanksgiving and Christmas and I am just not. Is there something wrong with me? ~Seeking holiday cheer So many people think that JOY is something that just pertains to Christmas time. Let me assure you that God intends for us to find JOY all year long. I use the word “joy” because I believe it has a much deeper and lasting meaning than happiness. I think the reason so many people find themselves joyful during the holidays is because they spend so much time giving to other people. The rest of the year we tend to be more focused on ourselves and so busy we don’t often notice others' needs much less give to them. Now I realize this sounds odd but the reality is we were created to serve and to help others. When we do, we find ourselves feeling fulfilled at a deeper level…more JOYFUL! So I encourage you this season to do all that you can to help those around you and see if you find yourself feeling a bit happier!
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Pumpkin Crisp
Sweet Potato Pie
1
(15 ounce) can pumpkin
6
medium sweet potatoes, cooked and mashed
1
cup evaporated milk
3
cups sugar
1
cup sugar
1
stick butter
1
teaspoon vanilla extract
3
eggs
½ teaspoon ground cinnamon
2
teaspoons orange flavoring
1
(18.25 oz.) package flavored yellow cake mix
1
small can evaporated milk
1
cup pecans, chopped
2
deep-dish pie crusts, unbaked
1
cup butter, melted
DIRECTIONS
Whipping cream (optional)
1.
Ground nutmeg (optional) 2.
DIRECTIONS 1.
2. 3. 4.
Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Stir together first 5 ingredients in mixing bowl. Pour into a lightly greased 13 x 9 inch baking dish. Sprinkle cake mix evenly over pumpkin mixture; sprinkle evenly with pecans. Bake 1 hour 5 minutes or until golden brown. Remove from oven and let stand 10 minutes. Serve warm, with whipped cream and a sprinkle of nutmeg, if desired.
Holiday ham biscuits 4
packages small dinner rolls
Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Combine potatoes, sugar, butter, eggs, flavoring and milk in bowl; mix well. Pour mixture into piecrusts. Bake 1 hour or until set.
Green bean & corn casserole 2
cans french style green beans, drained
2
cans kernel corn, drained
1
can cream of mushroom or celery soup
1
(8 ounce) sour cream
1
can green chilies, optional
2
cups (or more) shredded cheese
2
sleeves butter crackers
2
sticks butter
½ pound whipped margarine
DIRECTIONS
3
tablespoons mustard
1.
3
tablespoons poppy seeds
1
medium onion, chopped very fine
1
teaspoon Worcestershire sauce
½ pound deli ham, sliced very thin ½ pound Swiss cheese, sliced very thin
DIRECTIONS 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6.
Spiced Pumpkin Dip ½ cup canned pumpkin
Preheat oven to 400 degrees. Split the rolls. Mix margarine, mustard, poppy seed, onion, and Worcestershire sauce. Spread mixture inside rolls. Cover with ham and cheese. Put roll tops on. Cut each roll in half and separate. Bake 10 minutes.
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Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Mix all ingredients except crackers and butter. In separate bowl, combine crushed crackers and butter; spread over casserole. Bake until bubbly and top is crunchy, about 45 minutes.
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1
(8 ounce) package cream cheese, softened
2
cups of powdered sugar
2½ teaspoons of pumpkin spice
DIRECTIONS 1. 2.
Mix all ingredients together. Great served with ginger snap cookies.
Deep Fried turkey
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Kindergartener's Guide to cooking a turkey — Mrs. Brace’s K5 Class
INGREDIENTS 1
14-16 pound frozen young turkey
3
gallons peanut oil
FOR THE BRINE 1
cup kosher salt
½ cup light brown sugar 1
gallon vegetable stock
1
tablespoon black peppercorns
1½ teaspoons allspice 1½ teaspoons ginger 1
TYLER • “Get a turkey from that store over there. • My mom said you’ve got to always pat it down a little bit. • Put salt and pepper on thee turkey. • Then put it in the oven forr 8 seconds. seco se cond nds. s. • Then you’ve got to let it wa warm rm down. dow d own. n. • Then you eat it!”
gallon heavily iced water
DIRECTIONS 2 to 3 days before roasting: 1. Begin thawing the turkey in the refrigerator or in a cooler kept at 38 degrees. 2. Combine the vegetable stock, salt, brown sugar, peppercorns, allspice, and ginger in a large stockpot over medium-high heat. Stir occasionally to dissolve solids and bring to a boil. Then remove the brine from the heat, cool to room temperature, and refrigerate. Early on the day or the night before you'd like to eat: 1. Combine the brine, water and ice in a 5-gallon bucket. 2. Place the thawed turkey (with innards removed) breast side down in brine. If necessary, weigh down the bird to ensure it is fully immersed; cover, and refrigerate or set in cool area for 8 to 16 hours, turning the bird once half way through brining. When ready to fry, remove from brine and pat dry. 3. Using a turkey fryer, outside, bring to temperature (350 degrees) 3 gallons of peanut oil. 4. Carefully place your turkey in the oil. Fry 3 minutes per pound until golden brown!
AMBER • “I don’t know. My mom didn’t tell me how. • Maybe buy the turkey at Walmart or Publix for maybe $30. • I say we should fatten it up and then put it in the oven for maybe 20 minutes. • Then invite my cousins over for a Thanksgiving party.”
DILLON • “Get the turkey from a bee farm. • You ask the farmer if you can have it. • If it tries to run away, ask the farmer to help, maybe it will listen to him. • Put it in a bag if it’s too heavy. • First you roast it. Then you cook it.”
NILES • “Well, I don’t know. Get the turkey at maybe Publix or any shopping store. • You have to look at the money tag - it might cost $50 or $40. • Get some sprayin’ stuff to put on the pan. • I never heard how long you cook it. You’ll have to ask the man - the man that puts the groceries in the cart. • When you get it out, put a warm fuzzy hand glove on so it won’t burn your hand inside. • Put it on a nice big circle plate. Time to eat it!”
MEGAN • • • • •
“Get a turkey from Publix for probably a dollar. Roast it. Put it in the oven in a pan, probably like 50 hours. You just wait for it to cool off. Then you eat it with a fork or a spoon. When you’re done, put the plate in the kitchen.”
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Do-It-Yourself Festive — Jennifer Malone
Fall Wreath
Make a great first impression on your guests with front door décor that says, “Welcome!” You could buy a pretty one, but why not make your own? If you’re not confident in your creativity, invite a friend to help. Look for images on Pinterest, visit a craft store, or pull pages out of favorite magazines for inspiration. Then design one that reflects your personality. My favorite part about making a wreath is that there is no wrong way! Welcome the fall season with a pretty mesh wreath. Make yours big and full following these easy steps.
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SUPPLIES: Grapevine wreath, roll of mesh, spray paint, wire or pipe cleaners, fall adornments, and hot glue gun (see pic #1)
SPRAY PAINT THE MESH Painting orange mesh with brown paint gives a lovely copper look. Two coats on each side covers well. (#2 & #3)
ATTACH MESH TO GRAPEVINE WREATH using either wire or pipe cleaners. • Secure one end of the mesh to the grapevine wreath. (#4)
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• Begin working around the wreath. Twist the mesh as you bunch it and secure to the wreath. Alternate securing the mesh more on the inside of the wreath, then the outside of the wreath, and so on. (#5) • Continue around the wreath, overlapping a second time around, if desired. This wreath has two full layers of mesh.
ADD FALL ADORNMENTS using hot glue gun. (#6) Continue adding until you are satisfied with your work.
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FLUFF AND WORK THE MESH to your liking, hang and enjoy your new wreath!
6 JENN SAYS: I often add a letter (painted or wrapped in ribbon or twine) to my wreaths for a quick and easy way to make it personalized. You can also use real foliage or adornments in your wreath, but keep in mind that some may not last to use again the next year. Just remember, with a little time and effort, you can make a grand piece to welcome your guests year after year!
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PUTTING THE "SWEET" IN
Home Sweet Home — Alyce Reeves
Ever have a day when you’ve been going all day with work, errands, carpooling kids, appointments, and maybe even a ball game, and all you can think of is, “I can’t wait till I get home!”? There’s something so special about home. It’s your place. It’s the place where you live and work with people you care about. It’s your Home Sweet Home. When my husband and I built our house, we were excited and busy with construction details and a million choices, from bathroom fixtures to paint colors. It was easy to be consumed by the decisions and decorating. We wanted everything to be just perfect for our new home. However, we also understood that a house is still just a building, a shelter. We could decorate it by Southern Living standards or we could leave it a mess. But in the end, it would be just a house. We wanted our house to be a special home for our family and others.
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So what is it that changes a house into something more? What makes a home sweet? It’s simple but true – attitude. It’s the atmosphere that says you are wanted, accepted, and loved in this place. It’s feeling you are safe and comfortable to be yourself. It just feels good to be here. We all want to live in a place like this and we want others to feel the same while they’re with us.
Here are some questions to think about. You can make choices that will bless your spouse, your children and all those who enter your humble abode.
“WHEN DOES SWEETNESS BEGIN?” When your honey comes home, choose to greet him with a warm welcome. Even if the kids are on your last nerve, “Hi, Honey” goes a lot further than “Why are you so late?” Sweetness begins the minute someone comes in the door and sets the tone for your time together.
“WHAT’S BURNING?” Many times people associate events with smells. That’s why it is good to have a pleasant smell in your house. You can use candles, potpourri, simmering cider on the stove, or baking brownies…yum chocolate. Just like you don’t want the smell of a dirty dog or burned food, you don’t want your home to smell like criticalness or smoldering, angry feelings. That definitely does not make for Home Sweet Home but more like a stinkin’ thinkin’ house. What can you do to put yourself in a more positive frame of mind? Do you need to deal with those angry feelings and move on? Are there some resentments you need to let go? Sometimes we just need to talk to ourselves and get our perspective straight about people and situations. Life is short. Love the people you have now.
“WHO’S KNOCKING AT THE DOOR?” Whether it’s for dinner, groups, parties or just to hang out, we love to have others in our homes. It’s fun to spend time with family and friends and a good way to share the blessings God has given us. Go ahead and invite others into your home and focus on making them feel loved and cared for. Most people aren’t looking for a perfectly kept house but for a peaceful, encouraging place. You may be surprised at what God will do through you to bless others. Your Home Sweet Home might be just the place for a couple struggling in their marriage, who need inspiration to keep trying, or for your child’s friend who’s feeling unloved and alone. Your home becomes sweeter as you allow the Lord to minister there to the hurting, sad, questioning, and joyful people around you.
“WHERE DOES ALL THIS SWEETNESS COME FROM?” When we built our house, we wanted to make a statement about our home that would be our focus. We decided on a Bible verse, Joshua 24:15, “As for me and my house we will serve the Lord.” We had the words sandblasted into a board and mounted on the front of the kitchen island. It continues to be a reminder of the One who is the source of all love as He influences the way we respond to others. Allow God into every room in your home. Pray, read your Bible, and worship Him there. Let God’s way be the way you choose to live and love. When you bring God into your home, He brings the sweetness.
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Gifts
for teachers
— Sarah Stephanoff, 4th Grade Teacher
As teachers, we love our students so we will love whatever gifts we receive, much in the same way parents love any gifts from their children. However, if you want to give a gift to your child’s teacher that he or she might LOVE, consider this list. 2. FAVORITE SODA I have known parents who have submitted a questionnaire to their child’s teacher asking for all his/her favorites: favorite soda, favorite restaurant, favorite candy and more. Anything off a list like that would be a wonderful and much appreciated gift. If a child brought me in a 12-pack of Diet Dr. Pepper, I would be overjoyed!
3. BREAKFAST/LUNCH Teachers have to be at school very early in the morning and do not get to leave for lunch. I know many teachers would be thrilled with a Chick-fil-A breakfast or lunch. You can glean this information from a questionnaire or by having your child do a little reconnaissance and innocently ask their teacher about favorite places for breakfast and lunch.
4. SCHOOL SUPPLIES I know you’re thinking that teachers want to receive something for themselves as a gift, but since we spend so much of our own money on school supplies then receiving them free would be a gift indeed! I once cried upon receiving a box of 300 pencils for Christmas. School supplies that are most needed: pencils, electric pencil sharpeners, dry-erase markers.
5. NOTE OF APPRECIATION 1. GIFT CARDS!...YES, GIFT CARDS!!! I could just end the article right here. I know that people often view gift cards as impersonal but I absolutely promise you that it is THE favorite gift of teachers!!! If you wish to make it more personal, have your child make a card or write a note to accompany it. Some favorite gift cards for teachers are Target, Barnes and Noble, and Starbucks.
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This no-cost gift might actually trump a gift card and can be given at anytime. I have saved notes that parents wrote me from my past five years of teaching. I occasionally pull them back out to re-read when I need an extra pick-me-up. As teachers, we pour out our lives for your children and your words validate our effort and sacrifice. If you’re reading this article, thank you. Thank you for wanting to be a blessing to teachers. Thank you for encouraging teachers to keep going and thereby impacting children for years to come.
Christmas Advent — Stephanie Gammons
Advent calendars are one of my childrens’ favorite traditions during the Christmas season. I usually have at least three because I have three children. They run downstairs and can’t wait to see the surprise each day! There are so many different varieties and styles, you’re sure to find the perfect fit for your family. Here are just a few: • PAPER RING CALENDAR - Make 25 paper links to
form a chain and everyday you tear or cut a link off. • SANTA CALENDAR - Find a picture of Santa with a
large beard. Write the numbers 1 - 25 in the beard. Glue on a cotton ball on each day. • ENVELOPE CALENDAR - Hang 25 envelopes with
clothespins onto ribbon or string. Each day you open an envelope. ( www.yarn-ing.blogspot.com ) • SOCK CALENDAR - Hang 25 colorful Christmas
socks with clothespins on to ribbon or string. ( www.Brandycrafts.blogspot.com ) • CHOCOLATE CALENDAR - Place candy inside a long
piece of saran wrap. Roll the candy up, and tie a ribbon between each piece. Everyday your child will untie one bow and get the candy. ( www.ourfamilyforhisglory.blogspot.com ) • FELT TREE - Have a large felt Christmas Tree and
everyday add a new felt ornament. ( homemadebyjill.blogspot.com ) • MAGNETIC JAR CALENDAR - Use 25 magnetic jars and decorate the top with scrap paper. Hang on fridge or cookie sheet.
(www.tipjunkie.com ) • JAR CALENDAR – Decorate 25 recycled glass jars with paint, tissue paper, glitter, etc. Write a number (1- 25) on each jar.
IDEAS FOR STUFFING YOUR ADVENT CALENDAR • Candy, Stickers and Stamps • If it’s a large gift, write a note giving a clue of where the item is hidden. My boys’ favorite prize last year was a whoopee cushion. • A note that says the special activity for that day, ie: ice skating, sleepover, hot cocoa with breakfast, baking cookies, Grandma is coming to town, etc. • The Dollar Store is the perfect place to help give you ideas. • Plan in advance. It may seem like a lot of work, but you are making memories that will last forever.
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elcome your guests with a festive Christmas wreath AND hear this good news: wreaths are NOT JUST for the front door and, yes, they can be ANY shape. Go ahead, and be square if you want! Let your artistic expression shine beginning at your front door and continuing throughout your home. Look for opportunities to add a wreath from room to room. Consider interior doors and cabinets or treat your wreath like artwork by hanging it within a large frame, on a mirror, or adding to an existing wall display. Using wire you can easily personalize your wreath and infuse a punch of color by attaching favorite ribbon, natural elements, or glitzy ornaments.
MORE WREATH IDEAS Boxwood, magnolia, red berry, floral, white flock, burlap, grapevine, acorns, pinecones…oh my, the possibilities are endless. Dream. Create. Enjoy.
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You do not need a lot of square footage to create volumes of charm and curb appeal. Long porches and their smaller counterparts oer wonderful options for creating outdoor livable space. If you have covered space for seating, regardless of size, then use it! Enjoy the clean, crisp air and beauty of the season from the comfort of a rocker, swing, or bench. You may ďŹ nd yourself having to drag your family and guests inside because they want to linger on your front porch!
PORCHES
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— Debra Malone
AMERICANA
William Henry Cox, Jr. loved to fly. He got the nickname “Wild Bill” after he went into the Air Force. My mom and dad married on the day my father got his wings, June 1, 1955. I came along 11 months later. Like most military families, we moved many times. California. Godmanchester, England. My mom immersed herself in taking care of my brother and me and all aspects of being an officer’s wife. When Daddy was home, they were always entertaining squadron friends, traveling, attending commander receptions, bridge clubs… doing life. It was our life: the Air Force, the military.
It’s almost the 50th anniversary of his death. My mother never remarried. She keeps Daddy’s picture on her dresser. Her face still lights up when she talks about their life together. They had so much fun, so much love, so much life. She’s told me so many stories about Daddy as a husband, a father, a friend, a patriot. He loved his country…he died serving his country.
We would have great send-offs and color pictures for him while he was gone. Of course, Mom had to endure the endless barrage: “When is Daddy coming home?” Then we’d have the same celebration in reverse…“Daddy’s home!” We’d squeal when he came in the door: “Daddy, get out of your flight suit!” And he would, then put us both inside, zip it up and drag us around the house by its sleeves!
So much lost. I have pictures, but none of me with my dad. I have the letter President John Kennedy sent to my mother after his death, his high school year book, awards and certificates. So many special moments we missed together…my high school graduation, my brother’s graduation, and our weddings. I walked down the aisle on my wedding day alone, not out of sorrow but more out of honor. I wish we could have shared the joy of the births of his grandchildren and great-grandchildren.
Another part of his homecoming ritual was our searching all the compartments of his B-4 bag to discover our little surcee (surprise). No matter where my father’s flight missions took him, he’d manage to pick up something for my brother and me. A pack of gum, some Life Savers, or a special toy. Even though Daddy was gone so much we never imagined the possibility of him not coming home after a mission. The knock on our door came early on the morning after February 4, 1963. Just as a captain of a ship waits until everyone is safely off before he abandons, Daddy had waited until everyone else had ejected after one of the plane’s engines had blown. They say he must have had his finger on the eject button when the plane crashed in Oklahoma on a routine mission to the United States. This was my slow motion day. The one people tell you about. At age 6½, the details of that day are deeply etched in my mind. I remember it like it was yesterday.
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My family and I paid a high price for freedom. The price countless others have paid with their time, their service...and for many brave souls like my Daddy, their lives. For me, how I’m wired and my passion stems from my Dad. Patriotism is engrained in me. I love my country! I get teased about being a “flag-waving, card-carrying, patriotic American.” And I am! I even chose to decorate my entire house with a red, white, and blue Americana theme, especially at Christmas. I anticipate July 4, Memorial Day, Christmas, and every day with great celebration. I want the hoopla, the fireworks, and the flags! Why? Because America and our freedom are so precious to me.
I will celebrate. I love to celebrate . . . . . . because freedom is worth celebrating!
All the Way Take a moment to think about what you love, something personal, and then consider how you could incorporate that enthusiasm into a decorating element in your home. Maybe start with a thematic Christmas tree or a small collection. Whatever you choose, may it reect you and your family’s personality and bring heart-warming smiles and celebration moments to your home.
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O' CHRISTMAS TREE TREES THAT WOW: Homes everywhere are taking a unique spin on their Christmas trees, making them fun and colorful focal points. Trees dressed in new color schemes and fanciful ornaments can transform a room. The old adage “less is more” does not apply to Christmas trees! PACK on the ornaments and wrap your tree in ribbon to make a grand statement. Remember to use what you have around your home to make your own ornaments. Personal touches and mementos are great conversation starters and make your tree special. Think outside of
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traditional flourishes by remembering that an ornament can be any accessory, article, or detail used to beautify your tree.
HELPFUL HINT: For a tree that seems to shine from the center, concentrate several strands of lights near the trunk. Then run plenty of strands toward the branch tips back and forth in a zigzag motion. To fill openings or “holes” in a tree, insert long pieces of wide ribbon or mesh between branches. Arrange shiny, big and bold trimmings to close any gaps. Step back, eyes wide, and exclaim, “Wow!”
ORNAMENTS
anywhere.. Ornaments not only dazzle your tree, but can also add Christmas cheer to other places throughout your home.
A GRAND ENTRY Stairways are a prominent feature in any home and are worthy of decorating detail. Take your stairway to a new level with an elegant arrangement at the banister. Use short lengths of wire to attach ornaments to the boughs, creating a cascade effect.
LOOK UP! Light fixtures add to the festivity when embellished for the season. • Cover the arms of the chandelier with greenery. Then add hanging glass ornaments and icicles. • Swag greenery around the chandelier rod and garnish with ribbon, mesh, and ornaments.
CHRISTMAS ART A grouping of ornaments and a bow are all it takes to transform an empty frame into Christmas wall art. Thread your ornaments onto narrow and varied lengths of ribbon. Tie the ribbons around the top of the picture frame so the ornaments hang in the middle. Secure a pretty bow to the frame and voilà!
OUTDOOR ORNAMENTS Fill your outdoor container or urn with seasonal evergreens, add flourishes, and top with oversized ornaments. What an unexpected surprise! Of course, affix a pretty bow with streaming tails.
MORE IDEAS Light a Candle: Arrange chunky pillar candles in varying heights on a tray and surround with Christmas baubles. Vases: Fill a clear glass vase, any dimension and shape, with shiny ornaments of assorted sizes and finishes. Whatever your color palette, this is easy and affordable. A monochromatic color scheme may be preferred for a dramatic, timeless style while hues of bright colors create a fun and trendy look. Place Card: Write guests' names on cardstock, embellish, and punch a hole in the top of the name card. Thread a coordinating ribbon through the ornament hook to the place card. Napkin Holder: Tie an ornament with ribbon around a linen napkin.
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Grandma's HOUSE
— Amy Brace
My brother Eric opened the trunk of his rental car and asked me point blank, “What do you think that is?” Without hesitating, I answered emphatically, “That is the carpet from the back staircase at Gram and Gramp’s old house in Pittsfield!” Sure enough, the old, multicolored striped carpet had indeed come from our grandparents’ old house. Amazed, yet not surprised that thirty years later I knew where it had come from, Eric went on to tell the story of his visit to the old neighborhood. He had been driving down Main Street in Pittsfield, Maine when he paused in front of the old house where my grandparents, Robert and Ruth Parker, had lived from 1947 to the early 80’s. The current owners happened to be out in the front yard, so my brother introduced himself. To his great surprise, they invited him to come in and take a look around. Touring the old house, his mind flooded with memories. Rounding the corner to the back staircase (a very magical passageway to a child), he noticed that the new owners had started ripping up the old carpet. Though now deeply faded, the distinctive stripes in various widths and multiple colors had always reminded the three of us grandkids of a brightly striped corduroy jacket that my grandfather used to wear. We had many happy memories of carrying out secret missions as we traveled on that carpet up the stairs that brought us to a landing outside my grandparents’ bedroom. Imagine that - a “secret” staircase!
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My brother asked the kind lady what she planned to do with the carpet. She had no intentions of keeping it, and offered it to him gladly. Standing there over the open trunk, smiling at an old, dirty, rolled up carpet, Eric and I were moved to tears. How could something so seemingly insignificant carry so much meaning? Life through the eyes of a child is altogether different. The striped carpet and many other seemingly random objects stir up fond memories that I have from both sets of grandparents’ homes. Items like “helicopter seeds” from a tree out front, the smell of the cellar, treasures found in the attic, Ivory soap, Colgate toothpaste, the smell of Shalimar perfume, and even an old rubber door handle cover. And so, I have come to realize that it’s not these physical objects that are so special, rather it’s the memories associated with them. Memories of being loved and cared for, of meals around the table, laughter, new adventures, and the special unconditional love that only a grandparent can give. I wonder what items in my own house will become treasured memories someday to children that I haven’t met yet? In anticipation of those days, I will do well to remember that what will give my home significance in their hearts won’t be the amount of money that I have spent or the sophistication of the decor, but the amount of love and time that I give to the people within its walls.
GIFT WRAPPING 101
LESSON ONE: Wrapped presents aren’t just for under the tree! You can creatively capture the Christmas spirit in whimsical ways and tucked away places. Call it the element of surprise! A grouping of showstopping, elegant, and fun gift packages will have your friends and family chirping with excitement.
LESSON TWO: Gift wrapping does not have to be a dreaded task. You can discover simple delight out of making pretty gifts. If wrapping and tying bows intimidates you, check out online tutorials to get you started. With a few easy techniques, some ribbon and hot glue in hand, you’ll be wrapping like a pro in no time. Be sure to consider nontraditional containers, such as tubes and bags, along with unique medallions for your gift wrapping ensemble. Coordinating papers and trimmings (as seen here) create extra impact.
LESSON THREE: Gift packages can be empty “props” stored away and used each year.
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WHAT I KNOW ABOUT
Quilts & God — Katrina Spigner
When Grandma was ready to make a quilt, she gathered old scraps of material that had been the remnants of something else – old dresses, old sheets, old bed spreads, old aprons…you get the picture. She took the time to lay those scraps out to see what she was working with. She strategically placed the scraps of material together in specific patterns to create her vision of what the quilt was going to look like. And then she began the process of putting it all together. The end result…a beautiful tapestry of uniqueness and original design. And while none of Grandma’s quilts looked exactly alike, each one of them had her signature look, her distinct stamp all over them.
THIS IS WHAT I HAVE LEARNED ABOUT GOD: He takes what we and others consider to be the old scraps of our lives – those areas that appear to be nothing more than the remnants of what used to be, what was to be, what could have been, or what should have been. Then He takes the time to orchestrate our abstract and fragmented pieces in such a way that He strategically positions our scraps according to the vision, purpose and plan He has for our lives. And, through the power of His spirit, He puts the pieces together, creating a tapestry of beauty and exquisite design out of our lives. When this process is complete, none of His finished products look alike...but yet, WE have HIS signature look stamped all over us.
My great-grandma’s homemade quilts were her specialty. She took extreme pride and offered great love in making quilts for family, friends and anyone else she believed a warm quilt would bring a glimmer of happiness.
THIS IS WHAT I KNOW ABOUT QUILTS AND GOD!
One of my many highlights when visiting Grandma’s home was sitting with her at her old 1879 pedal foot Singer sewing machine when she was ready to make a quilt. I loved it because she allowed me to sit on the floor beside her feet and control the foot pedal of the sewing machine with my hands.
Like making quilts with Grandma, while there are many components that I cannot see as God works up top, I am truly grateful that I have the opportunity to have a part in the process.
She would instruct me when to start the back and forth movement of the pedal, how fast or how slow to move the pedal, and when to stop. Although, I could not see what Grandma was doing up top on the sewing machine, I never concerned myself with that. I was just happy that she allowed me to participate in the process.
THIS IS WHAT I LEARNED ABOUT GRANDMA’S QUILTS: Long before Grandma ever brought her quilting work to the sewing machine, other preparation steps had already been taken place.
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As I reflect on the fact that God has taken the scraps and fragments of my life, put them together with other scraps and fragments and is creating a beautiful tapestry uniquely designed for His glory, I am filled with humble gratitude.
WHAT IS MY PART? I’M GLAD YOU ASKED! MY PART IS: 1. To sit at His feet, treasuring the time spent in His presence – Intimacy 2. To control only what He places in my hands, not concerning myself with the things that do not concern me – Surrender 3. To navigate life at His pace, when to move, how fast or slow to go and when to stop – Trust Today, I encourage you to thank God for the scraps. In Him, nothing is wasted. As He works on top and as you do your part, just know that He in the process of making something beautiful out of your life.
COLLECTIBLES
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his Christmas, prepare to show off your holiday collections! Follow these guidelines for maximum visual impact.
CLUSTER THEM A tried-and-true rule for displaying collectibles is to group them together, rather than spreading them out around the house or room.
RAISE THEM TO NEW HEIGHTS Find ways to display your collection at varying heights, giving them more drama and a better view of their diversity. Arrange your collectibles on different size boxes, overturned containers, or any means to create a tiered presentation.
ACCESSORIZE Look around the house for items that will really show off your collectibles. Find a tray on which to set them, or tuck in some sprigs of evergreen or artificial red berries. These simple touches will make the difference between simply showing a collection and showcasing it.
DON’T HAVE A COLLECTION YET? That’s okay, maybe consider starting yours this year, then every year you can add to it and eventually pass your treasures onto the next generation! Collectibles can range from Nutcrackers to Santas to Carolers or a Snow Village (as seen above left). Other ideas include snowmen, angels, vintage pieces, nativity scenes, trains, or anything you enjoy that reflects you and your family’s personality.
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Fall / Holiday 2012 TREND NOTES
Belts
— Brooks Hearn
Belts can transform the silhouette of an outfit or take a look from boring to playful. I am a huge fan of belts because they are so diverse. A few of my personal favorites came directly from my grandmama’s closet - the best kind of vintage store.
Denim It’s hard to miss the plethora of denim available in stores right now. This trend will continue into the fall and winter, with a variety of cuts ranging from the “jegging” to wideleg and appearing in plentiful colors. When the weather cools down, add a pop of colored denim underneath a mid-thigh jacket or tucked into brown or black boots.
Patterns Reptile-inspired pieces turned up on many designers’ runways for fall. Even a small hint of print can add a festive detail to fall and holiday party attire.
Military-Inspired Look for jackets and sweaters with details like epaulets and brass buttons to add a classic, yet trendy look to your style this season.
Colors Popular colors for fall 2012 range from the more predictable shades of burgundy and winter white to the unexpected combination of black and blue. What was once considered a fashion faux pas is now a striking duo seen on dresses and separates.
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Joy of Giving
— Kiki Cooper, Salvation Army Charleston, Development & PR Director
As the holidays approach, most people have fond memories of their home, family traditions or decorations that were unique to their upbringing. Some are looking forward to creating new ones.
This is one of the things that makes this time of year so special – a vibrant orange, red and yellow fall harvest display out in the yard with haystacks and pumpkins, a delicate ornament that was made by a four-year-old or the wreath with the plaid ribbon that comes out every year to be put up in that special spot. Traditions and memories can be from things or from experiences; either way they make our home a special place. Like your home and traditions, this time of year also brings out things that are traditions for the Salvation Army. From that iconic bell ringer in a storefront raising funds to help those in our community or the brass band playing music as part of a Christmas pageant or the Angel Tree program – these are the first things that come to mind when people think about the Salvation Army. Last year, the tri-county Salvation Army (serving Berkeley, Charleston and Dorchester counties) assisted over 8,000 people just during the holidays. Salvation Army of the Midlands helped make Christmas morning special for 5,980 children from 2,651 families. But what most people don’t realize is the Salvation Army is here 365 days of the year, not just at Christmas. Our traditions and assistance are able to continue because of the support of individuals, businesses and churches in our local community.
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This year, what if you decided to make it a tradition to give beyond what you normally do? What if you decided that for you and your house it would be about sacrificing instead of “what can I get this year?” What if you purposed to go without something that may not even be noticeable because of the many blessings you already have? Could you look for creative ways to do this? I think of the homeless man who had all his worldly possessions on a bike. A woman driving down the street stopped and gave him a wad of bills. He thanked her, then walked across the street and put some money into the Salvation Army Kettle. The volunteer who was ringing the bell that day was so touched, realizing that each one of us has something to give. There are many ways to volunteer or give of your time and countless opportunities to donate new or gently used items, money or your skills and talent. Whether it is through the Salvation Army, a church or local organizations, there are many ways to become involved. Can you be a person that makes a difference in our community? Simply by each person giving a little something, we can make a change in someone’s life. I have no doubt that no matter who we are, if we live in the United States, we most certainly have some resource to give.
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Home keeper
The woman who makes a house into a home & keeps it that way. — Dr. Linda Karges-Bone resources to host luncheons or meetings, be sure to keep these the essential elements of HOME in mind:
H – KEEP A SENSE OF HOSTING HONORED GUESTS. I remember, as a young bride, hearing a friend speaking on the phone with such sincere interest, such kindness. “Was that the preacher?” I asked her when she hung up. “No,” she replied. “It was my husband just checking in from work.” Her voice said it all.
If you were a person of means living in medieval Europe, you would know that “the keep,” the building in the center of your castle, was the heartbeat of the castle’s family life. In more modern times, comfortable suburban houses featured an upscale gathering room, sometimes called a “keeping room,” a term from Colonial times. Located closest to the ever-stoked wood stove, this room provided the warmest sleeping quarters where the family would nest on winter nights. The quintessential “Home Keeper” described in the Bible harnesses her physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual strengths to make her home run smoothly. “She keeps an eye on everyone in her household, and keeps them all busy and productive” (Proverbs 31:27). And that’s just one item on this virtuous and capable woman’s list! I love these stories, as they inspire my own ideas of “keeping a home.” So, what makes keeping a home different from the more mundane keeping of a house? “Keeping” suggests a state of being engaged in life. In this case, keeping a home means being engaged in the design, development, and discipline of creating a place of gentle respite, where family and friends feel safe, comfortable, and welcome. Whether you are a bride, gathering together thrift store and hand-me-down furniture to create a first keeping room, or a single graduate student, pushing chairs together and using paper plates to serve lasagna for a study group, or a more settled wife using her
But there is more. Display positive images in art work, in media, and literature. Frame your wedding picture and keep it displayed to send the message: we cherish and value one another.
O - KEEP ORDER IN THE HOME. Clutter creates distractions and anxiety. Order brings a sense of tranquility that is both comforting and reliable. One of the best ways to keep order is to recycle and rotate. Put out current magazines and donate old ones. Change around pictures for seasonal motifs. Use baskets and containers for order and design.
M - KEEP THE MEMBERS OF YOUR FAMILY INVOLVED AND ENGAGED. MEALS ARE CRITICAL. The research on family mealtime significantly supports the belief that family meals at least four nights per week results in higher grades, fewer discipline problems, and more positive outcomes. Try making one night per week “Meatless and Remoteless” - that means vegetarian and no media. Engage in cooking a simple, healthy meal and then …talk! Set up a healthy breakfast the night before. Cut fruit. Put out peanut butter for toast. Make smoothies together.
E - KEEP A SENSE OF ENERGY AND AN AUTHENTIC TONE OF ENTHUSIASM FOR FAMILY LIFE. Design rooms that encourage gathering. Use colors and light to provide a natural glow. Fruit, pillows, candles, groupings of chairs, and plump comforters on beds…all say, come in, rest, relax, and recharge. You don’t have to be a designer or even hire one, just keep the space open, welcoming, and attractive. Remember, it is your home, your family’s respite, your responsibility and joy, to keep God’s love and His plan for your family in mind.
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‘Tis the Season
— Megan Sanders
Growing up, one of my most favorite times was Christmas. I have so many memorable traditions like making cookies, decorating the house, and wrapping gifts, but one of the best was, and still is, watching Christmas movies. Through the month of December, we’ve always made it a habit to watch each person’s favorite movie together as a family. Here are some of my top choices:
Home Alone and Home Alone 2 For as long as I can remember, we’ve always watched these two movies. In both, the youngest son of a family is unknowingly left behind during a family Christmas trip. While his parents rush back to get him, he faces and overcomes challenges of everyday (and not so ordinary) life. While obviously not realistic, his adventures are funny and entertaining, and the movies give good messages about the importance of family.
The Santa Clause My family loves this good light-hearted movie. A normal man unexpectedly ends up becoming the new Santa Claus after the original falls off his roof. The movie follows Scott Calvin as he struggles to accept his new position and perform all his Santa duties. I also love how it encourages the basic meaning of faith, of believing without having to see.
Miracle on 34th Street Probably one of the more serious movies on my list, but definitely the most heart stirring. Watching the fight to free a department store Santa Claus from false accusations of insanity (he claims to be the real Santa Claus) and the journey of a cynical mother and daughter really embodies the spirit of Christmas, of believing the impossible, and having faith. It’s a true Christmas classic, whether it’s the original or the newer version (I prefer the newer).
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Elf This is definitely one of my Christmas staples, usually watched multiple times! This movie tells the story about Buddy the Elf, who discovers he really isn’t an elf, but a human. He then goes in search of his father and his place in the world. Besides constant laughs and great quotes, the movie illustrates the importance of being yourself and demonstrates that everyone has a purpose. It really puts me in the Christmas spirit!
How the Grinch Stole Christmas The 30-minute cartoon shown on television is still one of my favorites, but the movie version of this Dr. Seuss classic definitely comes in a close second. The plot is hilarious: you follow the journey of the green creature whose mission is to destroy Christmas for Whoville. But his plans get rerouted because of a special little Who who understands the meaning of Christmas. I love the message that Christmas isn’t about the gifts, but the giving spirit.
Last Holiday This technically isn’t a Christmas movie, but it takes place during the Christmas season. The main character has found out she has a fatal illness and decides to spend the remainder of her life fulfilling her wish list. Full of humor and heart-warming moments, I love the message of making the most of your time on Earth and going after your dreams despite what others might say.
It’s a Wonderful Life This true Christmas classic tells the story of family man George Bailey and his discovery of the meaning of life and true happiness. (See “It’s A Wonderful Life” on the next page and discover how the message of this movie might change your perspective and renew your sense of purpose this holiday season.)
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Wonderful life — E. Otto Tilley
A responsible son, husband, father, businessman, and dreamer – that’s George Bailey, the main character in It’s a Wonderful Life, the iconic movie of the Christmas season. His story captures the essence of a question we all struggle with and frequently ask, “Does my life matter?” George has always believed that his life was supposed to be so much bigger than it has become. Every time he sees a launching point for his dream, someone or something seems to come along and derail his plan. Ever feel that way? If things would just go like you planned, you could really be something, become all you were meant to be and make a difference in the world. Ultimately reaching a point of desperation, George considers ending it all. Have you been there? A place in life where the pressure is almost too great to withstand. Have you ever been so overwhelmed that you considered running away, or even worse, thought maybe the world would be a better place without you? Just before George can take a fatal, final step, God intervenes through an angel-in-training named Clarence who gives him a wonderful gift: the chance to see what the world would be like without him. In his absence, the friendly, hope-filled small town he knew as Bedford Falls has become Pottersville, a place of greed, selfishness, and hopelessness. Little life and little hope remain. Those he knows and loves have radically changed; his mother, a bitter old
woman; his friends, hard and condescending; the woman he knew as his wife and mother of his children, a reclusive old maid. Seeing what his friends and family have become without him is too much to bear. George sees the true meaning of his life and realizes the difference he made in his own little world. He decides he’d rather be alive and face his dire circumstances than have an entire town transformed because of his absence. And so he cries out with the classic line, “Please, God, I want to live again.” How about you? What are you facing this season; bills, unemployment, strained family relationships? Whatever the pressures, your life is worth living. You do make a difference; your life matters in your sphere of influence even if you cannot see the impact. People all around you need you. Christmas is about the wonderful gift of God to all of us, the gift of life. Take time to see beyond your circumstances. You might be surprised what happens when you decide to fully engage in life again. Like George Bailey, when you look beyond your circumstances, you just may realize what you have and what you give. Your life? It’s a Wonderful Life!
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