PCJH Quarterly Newsletter, Summer 2023 VOL 20

PINNACLE

Presbyterian Church of Jackson Hole ~ Quarterly Newsletter I VolUME no 20 s u m m e r 202 3

to be a c o m m u n i t y,

Rooted in Christ, reaching out in love

Table of Contents Volume NO 20 I summer 2023

ˇ

ˇ

ˇ

Called to Care

ˇ

PINNACLE

Sometimes the vocabulary we use can trip us up. This is true in so many areas of life, even in the church. Our summer Pinnacle edition was born out of our current group of Deacons wanting to pull back the curtain on Deacon ministry. Deacons are everyday people living out their faith through service. As Pastor Tammy highlights in her article, ‘deacon’ can even be used as a verb. We hope these articles might inspire you to come ‘deacon’ with us!

“Carry each other's burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ." u Galatians 6:2

04

deacons: called to care

05

Organized For Mission

~ Re v. Ben Pascal ~ Re v Tammy Mitchell

09

just being present

~ Tom Segerstrom

13 come to the table

~ Sandra Guido

10

06 Q & A

kenlyn long with pontEIr Sackrey

11

The Simple Joy of Saying Good Morning

called to be a deacon?

14

15

birthdays & Anniversaries

get to know us

~ Lori Dodd

2 called to care ~ Summer 2023

~ Brad Herman

08

Confession of a Former Deacon

~ Deb Keenan

12

just like the sun

~ Sierra Fulton PCJH DEACONS would like to hear from you... Reach out at deacons@pcjh.org

~ calendar @pcjh.org/events

JULY

JUNE 7~ 11 ~ ~

AUGUST

th Last Wednesday

Community Dinner & will resume in the fall!

th

14 ~ TH

Milestone Sunday

Church Potluck Picnic > AFTER 10:15 Worship <

1 ~ ST

PCJH will be accepting Rummage Sale items the 14th thru 18th email office@pcjh.org

~ 31

ST

THRU .

SUMMER STEWARDSHIP

18 ~ 19 ~ th

CAMPAIGN

Father's Day!

~ 23

RD

th

THRU .

Vacation Bible Adventure

21 ~

4~

th Happy Fourth!

~ 17 ~ th

School BBQ & Kickball 4-5:30pm (Location TBD)

21

19th

Come Join us at the Parade PCJH Office Closed Middle School Service Week

THR THRU JULY.

ST Youth Alliance Middle

PCJH Rummage Sale

ST

23 ~ RD

Youth Alliance MS & HS Outdoor Movie (DYNIA Architecture, 8pm)

th JULY 12

Youth Alliance MS & HS Water day 28th (Wed) & 30th (Fri)

11-2pm

Imani Milele Children’s Choir Concert 6-7:30PM

28 ~ 4

th Middle School

THRU JULY.

th

WyldLife Camp

@ RPARK pcjh.org

~

Pinnacle

3

DEACONS

Called to Care

G

~ Re v. Ben Pascal

row i n g u p i n t h e Ep i s c opa l C h u r c h there was a deacon we affectionately called “Deacon Dad”.

He was like a father to many. He cared for the congregation, helped administer communion, he would read the Gospel lesson each week during worship, proclaimed the benediction, and trained and supervised acolytes.

What I remember most about Deacon Dad is he attended our youth group every Sunday night while I was a teenager. He was an older man and didn’t look or dress cool, but teenagers loved him. We knew he was there for us. He had a quiet compassionate spirit. He was someone we could talk to, gain wisdom and advice. He loved us and we loved him. After my grandfather died, he anointed me with oil and prayed over me. I will always give thanks to God for Deacon Dad. He made a difference in people’s lives, including mine.

The deacon ministry in the Episcopal Church is structured differently from the Presbyterian Church but at its heart they are the same. Deacon ministry today was inspired by the early church and how they organized themselves as recorded in the New Testament book of Acts 6:1-7: In those days when the number of disciples was increasing, the Grecian Jews among them complained against the Hebraic Jews because their widows were being overlooked in the daily distribution of food. So the Twelve gathered all the disciples together and said: “It would not be right for us to neglect the ministry of the word of God in order to wait on tables. Brothers, choose seven men from among you who are known to be full of the Spirit and wisdom. We will turn this responsibility over to them and will give our attention to prayer and the ministry of the word.”

PCJH has twelve deacons called by God and elected by the congregation to empower our church to care for others in the name of Jesus. It is an ordained office with a three-year term that can be renewed once for a total of six consecutive years. After a year break that person can be reelected as a deacon to serve again. The three ordained offices within the Presbyterian Church (U.S.A.) are: 1) Teaching elders (pastors) are ministers of the Word and Sacrament—committed to teaching the faith in word and deed, and equipping the congregation for the work of ministry.

2) Ruling elders are persons with particular gifts to share in discernment of God’s Spirit and governance of God’s people.

They are chosen by the congregation to discern and measure its fidelity to the Word of God, and to strengthen and nurture

4 called to care ~ Summer 2023

its faith and life. Ruling elders, together with teaching elders, make up the Session which exercises leadership, government, spiritual discernment, and discipline.

3) Deacons focus on the ministry of compassion and service and ultimately report to Session. Here is how the PC(USA)’s Book of Order (our constitution) defines a deacon:​ G-2.0201 Deacon Defined The ministry of deacon as set forth in Scripture is one of compassion, witness, and service, sharing in the redeeming love of Jesus Christ for the poor, the hungry, the sick, the lost, the friendless, the oppressed, those burdened by unjust policies or structures, or anyone in distress. Persons of spiritual character, honest repute, exemplary lives, brothers and sisterly love, sincere compassion, and sound judgment should be chosen for this ministry.

G-2.0202 Under Authority of the Session Deacons may be individually commissioned or organized as a board of deacons. In either case, their ministry is under the supervision and authority of the session. Deacons may also be given special assignments in the congregation, such as caring for members in need, handling educational tasks, cultivating liberality in giving, collecting and disbursing monies to specific persons or causes, or overseeing the buildings and property of the congregation. Deacons shall assume other duties as may be delegated to them by the session, including assisting with the Lord’s Supper.

Our 2023 deacon board consists of the following members: Lori Dodd (moderator), Brian Bultema, Sierra Fulton, Sandra Fernandez, Brad Herman, Dorothy Neckels, Karlene Owens, Cameron Page, Ponteir Sackrey, Michael Schrotz, Tom Segerstrom, and Joy Steiner.

Please cover them in prayer as they serve on the front lines of ministry. Also consider partnering with them in caring for others.

While ordained deacons provide the spiritual leadership for PCJH’s caring ministries, anyone can serve alongside them in caring for others. We encourage all church members and friends to partner with the deacons in their various caring ministries.

After the early church established the caring ministry that inspired today’s deacon ministry, Acts 6:7 says, “So the word of God spread. The number of disciples in Jerusalem increased rapidly...”

May it be so. May more people encounter our Savior and Lord, Jesus, through our deacon ministry. To God be the glory! ✝

called

to Organized For Mission care

~ Re v. Tammy Mitchell

F

r om i ts i n c e pt i o n, t h e C h r i st i a n church recognized the needful use of organization for the ministry of God’s people. Throughout Acts the early church organizes itself into leadership groups, primarily as elders and deacons. The story of love, joy and hope which was released by Jesus’ life, death and resurrection sent shock waves within a few years to all quarters of the world’s compass. Literally thousands of people were coming to faith as the gospel spread worldwide at a rapid pace. Organization was a necessity and a gift. Particularly in light of the ongoing persecutions they regularly faced, churches sought out connection with other Christian congregations in nearby communities for support, encouragement, and shared ministry. These churches took on various shapes and forms, depending on the culture, people, and places. Over time, most Reformed (Presbyterian) churches maintain a threefold pattern: minister of Word and Sacrament, elder and deacon. John Calvin insisted these “offices” were not to be understood as divinely appointed. No one is “above” or superior to another in the household of God. All are priests. All are saved by grace. All are equally loved and gifted by the Holy Spirit.

several years. For years, deacons had “flocks” overwhich they provided care and support. The membership of PCJH was divided into groups and then those groups were “assigned” a deacon who would regularly call and check in with them. While that model was useful in several ways, it limited the breadth and depth of how the deacons cared for members. In 2017, after prayerful conversation and careful evaluation, a new model was launched allowing for deacons to broaden their use of their gifts and give room for expansion.

Now, PCJH’s twelve deacons oversee and provide leadership for five teams, each one focusing on key aspects of serving the congregation.

Deacons Today The word “deacon” comes from the Greek word, “diaconia” which means “giving service to others in Christian love, care, and compassion.” They are people who are naturally bent toward helping others in times of trial, difficulty, transition, and stress. These incredible, selfless folks are people who will not necessarily be in the public limelight.

They are quietly and steadily offering themselves to guide, care and walk alongside. In their own powerful way, they are our church’s spiritual leaders who motivate others toward following Jesus even in the shadows or dark times.

They desire the church to be the best version of the Body of Christ; connecting to each other, serving the least of these, and loving each other as Christ loves us.

Hospitality Team — This group seeks to provide ways to demonstrate warm hospitality; such as finding greeters and visitor information.

“Deaconing” Together The deacon’s roles at PCJH have morphed over the last

Sunshine Team — This group is responsible for sending cards, gifts, flowers to those who may be sick, struggling, or in a new transition (baby, home, etc.).

They plan meal trains and hospital visitations.

Bereavement/Memorials Team — This group oversees all memorial services at PCJH and any grief related ministries.

Communion Team — This group organizes the various communion services, including special services such as Ash Wednesday and Good Friday.

Connections Team — This group supports the prayer ministry and reaches out to our congregation on a regular basis through phone calls and check ins.

All are invited to participate in any of these groups.

We can make a meal for someone in need, greet on a Sunday morning, help prepare snacks for a memorial service, or reach out to someone we haven’t seen recently. The deacons cannot (nor should) do the caring for us. Their desire is to help all of us serve our Lord through these powerful ministries. Want to learn more about how to participate?

Ask a deacon! Come, let us “Deacon” together and see how the Lord continues to transform us all in Christ! ✝

pcjh.org

~

Pinnacle

5

Q & A w i t h K e n ly n Lo n g a n d P o n t e i r Sa c k r e y

s r e h t o h c a e Bearing urdens b Ponteir: Kenlyn, even though I joined PCJH in 2001

Ponteir: Ha! Ha! Thank you. I was so proud of myself

and our paths would cross in church, I didn’t really know you that well. We’d nod “hello” and that was about it. During that time I got divorced and became a single parent raising two kids and maintaining a career and a house. It was all fairly scary. A few years later, in 2016, I learned about a scholarship opportunity offered through Babe Force, now called Women in the Tetons, to participate in the Women’s Ski Camp at Jackson Hole Mountain Resort. Applicants were asked why the event would help them not only with their skiing ability but the overall challenges of life. Even though I had skied for years, I was always a little afraid of “the” mountain and figured that the camp experience would serve as a fitting metaphor for facing my own personal challenges

for taking on this challenge and on the first day of the camp I arrived early, excited and ready to learn. After our first few hours working on “embracing the fall line” and “carving the inside ski” we headed down the slopes for lunch. We were on an easy trail and I got a little sloppy. One of my skis caught an edge and I tumbled onto the ground and slid about 15 feet. When I tried to stand up I wobbled and knew something was amiss. My camp instructor called for help and as the ski patrol packed me up in the kitty to take me down the hill I reflected that if the ski camp was about facing my fears, this was not exactly what I had in mind.

Kenlyn: (Sympathetic chuckle).

Ponteir: After getting checked out by the mountain

Kenlyn: That took a lot of courage!

medical team, I was referred to Teton Orthopedics, which

6 called to care ~ Summer 2023

is where you worked, and as I rolled into the front door, you entered the lobby. You said, “Hi, I’m Kenlyn and I’m your PCJH deacon. I can see that you are going to need some help.”

Kenlyn: I remember you hobbling into the clinic on crutches. Despite your cheerful smile, it was obvious you had an acute knee injury and were experiencing significant pain. When I learned that it was a tibial eminence fracture (broken bone in front of the knee requiring surgery), I knew that you were going to be immobile for months; no walking, no driving, no grocery shopping, no shuttling kids. I couldn’t imagine how a single mother would manage, so we exchanged phone numbers and I promised to get you support.

Ponteir: I really didn’t want to be needy.

I mean, does anyone? But you helped me see that accepting help can be a strength. Along the way we’re all going to need a helping hand, and you were so great about that. You showed me what it was like to be a deacon and the valuable role that they play in our lives.

Kenlyn: PCJH views the deacons as the caring arm of the church. They love, encourage and serve one another. Galatians 6:2 calls us to bear one another’s burdens. In the beginning I wasn't sure if I was equipped for the role. But then you injured yourself and I just happened to be there. God tapped me on the shoulder and said “I gave you a special gift. Now put it into action!”

Ponteir: It was definitely a God thing. As soon as I saw you at the clinic, the wheels of care started clicking.

You not only helped me with rides and grocery shopping and more, you connected me with other church friends who did the same. Every single need that my family

had was met by cheerful and loving people. One kind volunteer even took my youngest daughter to her middle school dance! I think that God puts something in our way to show us how we are needed. Apparently I was that for you.

Kenlyn: It was amazing to see our church family and friends come to your rescue. That was a big snow year and your steep driveway was quite a challenge to navigate. The volunteers didn’t seem to mind it and were delighted to help. Oh how God loves a cheerful giver!

Ponteir: Yes ma’am! I live to serve! Ha! Kenlyn: Deaconship is as much about receiving as it is giving. Not only do you cultivate lifelong friendships, you also gain a sense of purpose by serving others, at the same time you glorify God.

Ponteir: Hallelujah! Do you have any advice for someone who might want to serve in that capacity?

Kenlyn: Being a Deacon is a wonderful ministry of service. If you have a heart for the congregation and community, it is a way for you to bless others with your compassion. God will empower you to do more than you could ever imagine. In my case, He unleashed the gift that lay dormant for decades.

Ponteir: Thank you Kenlyn, for your service and your friendship.

Kenlyn: I am very grateful for your friendship and that you were agreeable to let us assist. It’s ironic that today as we share this conversation in your living room, I am suffering from a fractured kneecap. It’s given me a whole new perspective on the need for a Deacon!

To everyone reading this, if you are incapacitated, please ask your PCJH family for help. Or, if you’ve ever been incapacitated, please consider becoming a Deacon.

It’s particularly comforting for someone to say, “I know what it’s like, so please let me ……” ✝

"In the same way, let your light shine before people, so they can see the good things you do and praise your Father who is in heaven." u Mathew 5:6 p cpjchj .ho. o rg rg

~~

Pinnacle

7

Confessions of a Former Deacon

H

ello. My name is Deb, and I am a former PCJH Deacon. Let me get the confession outta the way, right away: I had no idea what a deacon did when I was first asked to serve as one.

Here’s the scoop: I was in my late 20’s, and my faith was growing like a well-fertilized lawn thanks to the grace of God and digging roots into my church community. It was a Sunday after church, and I was milling around the lobby gobbling up snacks, drinking a third cup of coffee, and visiting with our church family members. Our pastor at the time, Paul Hayden, came up to me and asked, “Would you consider serving as a deacon?” I stared at him with crumbs on my face and wide eyes. The following thoughts began to race around my head: On what planet was I qualified to serve in a capacity so official sounding as a “Deacon?” What was a Deacon, anyway? Why ME?! (This title sounded so official.) Isn’t a deacon someone way more spiritually mature than this gal?

As I thought these things, my mouth formed the words, “Really, Pastor Paul?!”

“Really,” he replied with his signature blend of winsomeness and authenticity.

Confession: I thought serving as a Deacon was reserved for a category of very holy, seasoned Christians who had many qualifications I lacked. Didn’t they have more wisdom than me? Didn’t they know lots of “Christian stuff” I didn’t? Weren’t deacons a form of super hero that I certainly am not (I have no cape, no mysterious powers?)

Well, guess what? I was wrong. Very wrong.

Pastor Paul described to me that a deacon’s role dates back to the New Testament times. You are called to serve the congregation with love and compassion. You are to help those who needed rides from the hospital after surgery. You were called to check in on church members who were going through a rough patch. You’d help make meals for a new mama or someone who got out of surgery.

So, no: there is no secret sub-set of believers who are “on the list” as deacon candidates. They don’t have capes.

All of us can step up and step out in faith and trust The

Lord to use us as vessels that pour out His amazing grace.

That said, I was in!, I said, “Yes!” and all-in-all, I served for nearly seven years over my last two decades at PCJH as a Deacon. The main ingredients to “Deacon-Ing,” I discovered, were humility and willingness. There were no super heroes among us. Deacons were everyday folks like you and me, seeking the Lord one day at a time. We simply linked arms and served. It was beautiful.

As our church family evolved, deacons were organized in various ways. But, regardless of the structure, the call was the same: to love and serve. And guess what? Along the way, you learn more about the Lord’s heart. You also grow personally in your walk with Christ. And, you develop relationships and friendships with your fellow deacons.

Your roots grow down and out. You are nourished as you nourish others. You plug into the heart of the church in new ways. Your perspective widens.

It's true: church is not a building. It’s a group of people.

It’s you and me.

Stepping out in service as a deacon is a powerful way to experience this truth. And as I reflect on my time as “Deacon Deb,” I am very mindful that serving in this role allowed me to fulfill something very cool in the Christian life. The Apostle Paul wrote these words to believers in Galatia, and it’s underlined and highlighted in my Bible: “Therefore, as we have the opportunity, let us do good to all people, especially to those who belong to the family of believers.” ~ Galatians 6:10. Serving as a deacon was a conduit for me to live this out.

I’ll end by saying “Thank you!” to our current and past Deacons who’ve said “yes!” to this call. Bravo! And remember, My Brothers and Sisters in Christ, that Jesus IS our Super Hero! We need no capes. The brawn of The Hulk is not required nor do you need the bravery of the Wolverine.

Jesus, our Super Hero who defeated all darkness and rose off that cross. Since we have a super hero, we don’t have to be one for ourselves or others. Jesus does the saving. He invites us into his Super Awesome Plan of serving others, loving them, and being His Hands and Feet. “Deacon-ing” is a fun way to do this (no light saber or cape required). ✝

The Sun

8 called to care ~ Summer 2023

~ Deb Kennan

Just being

present

~ Tom Segerstrom

I

serve as a Deacon on the Memorials and Bereavement Team assisting the church and our community members at times of loss. That may not sound fun, but I have learned some important lessons over time that make this service so very meaningful.

As a twelve- or thirteen-year-old, an elderly neighbor passed away and our family was preparing to attend his funeral. I did not want to go. My father pulled me aside and said, “You will go to this funeral, and you will pay attention, because people will be saying the things that they should say each-and-every day and they will be thinking more clearly than other times in their lives and doing the most important thing in their lives. Pay attention if you want to see something important.” Sure enough.

When I was 34, my parents passed away. Of course, I travelled home and was swept along in a daze to funeral services. Obviously, my family had some very direct and basic needs. We were in no state-of-mind to deal with small things like beverages, where to wait, where to get a drink of water, placing flowers, or having tissues. We had the biggest things on our minds—like somehow expressing our loss and our love. Following the service, I noticed for the first time that the people at the church who were attending to our needs and working in the kitchen at the reception were the very same people serving at funerals I attended there as a kid!

Suddenly those people were each individually very dear to me! I wanted to let them know how wonderful they all were, how much they were helping my family, and give them my full appreciation. They were hammering out

tasks that we could not possibly have dealt with and elevated our time with all who attended to meaningful heights. As I spoke to them, they professed that it was important work to them. No thanks were needed.

As I have served with my deacon teammates at PCJH hosting memorial services, I have noticed that it is often peripheral family members that seek out assistance on behalf of bereaved members of the core family. There is always an expression of relief, sometimes spoken, other times not, that someone familiar with the church facility, or the kitchen, or how to relay a simple message to the pastor, or deal with a misplaced family photograph or flower arrangement, will assist them immediately so that they can rejoin the core family.

It is so simple, just to be present. Just to be available with a little eye contact, or to be standing where they can find you to make a timely difference that it is a real joy.

All these things are lessons learned. I thank God for PCJH, our deacon ministry, and that I can take the time to serve on the Memorial and Bereavement Team.

To simply take care of some details for people who are face-to-face with their lives in summation and very often their relationship with God, Christ, the Holy Spirit, and the people with them in this world, is an honor.

I also float onto other deacon teams as needs arise, which provides serendipitous joy.

If you pray that God will lean on you in some small but meaningful way, because he has made you strong enough, I encourage you to learn more about serving as a deacon. ✝

"Don't withhold good from someone who deserves it, when it is in your power to do so." u Proverbs 3:27

p cpjchj .ho. o rg rg

~~

Pinnacle

9

The Simple Joy of Saying Good Morning

~ Lori Dodd

H

ospitality was one of the first things that drew me to PCJH. Being relatively new to not only Jackson, but Wyoming as well, I was feeling a little out of my comfort zone here. My first Sunday at PCJH, Pastor Ben came by and introduced himself as I was watching the praise band practice. The next Sunday, I came back, and the greeter said, “it is nice to see you again.” Pretty basic words, right? Did they even recognize me? Or were they just that person’s standard greeting for an unfamiliar face? I will never know, but six years later I am still here, and try to be as hospitable and welcoming as I can be, each and every Sunday.

Hospitality, a noun, meaning the friendly and generous reception and entertainment of guests, visitors, or strangers. Similar words could be friendliness, welcome, helpfulness, warmth, kindness, generosity and/or liberality. Great words to describe a greeter at the Presbyterian Church of Jackson Hole.

When I became a deacon here, I immediately volunteered to handle Hospitality. I had such a warm reception here, I wanted to spread the love (so to speak) and be a beacon to welcome to all who walked in our front door. As the Deacon in charge of Hospitality during the pandemic, we were forced to put a screeching halt to everything we knew. Boy, did everything change. What used to be a simple request from my list of volunteers became something akin to walking a tight rope to fill the spots. People were worried and unsure of what was going on; they did not want to upset anyone when we were taking temps in the vestibule.

I got that. Once we were able to worship again in person, after we had done the streaming version for a while, a lot of people just seemed more comfortable watching church at home, I mean who wasn’t? But I assumed that everyone else was just like me, ready to reconnect with folks… but unfortunately that has not always been the case.

What makes PCJH a hospitable church? Hospitality is both action and affection, receiving and loving a stranger. In Hebrews 13:2 we are advised “Do not forget to show

10 c a l l e d t o c a r e ~ S u m m e r 2 0 2 3

hospitality to strangers, for by so doing some people have shown hospitality to angels without knowing it.”

So, how and who do we look to greet on Sundays? If you can smile and say good morning, you’re on the right track. Some of my favorite volunteers are families with younger children. You just see all the smiles on the faces as people come into the church after being greeted by a youngster, it is almost like we have angels at the front door. Middle and high school age members are a huge hit as well.

Are you a new member to PCJH? What an awesome way to start putting names and faces together!

Husband and wives can greet together (or separately if you prefer), best friends, new friends or if you want to make a friend greet alone and meet someone new. If you do it one Sunday, are you expected to do it every Sunday? Heck no.

You can greet as often as you would like or seldom as you like. One Sunday a quarter, every other month or once a month – the great thing is the choice is YOURS, you pick the Sunday or Sundays that works best for you.

Does anyone really notice that you are greeting, waiting to welcome them into the church? I have sometimes wondered that. Last Thanksgiving, I went out of town to visit my daughter in Texas. Before I left, I had covered the greeters for the two Sundays I would be gone. When I returned, I was back at the front door on Sunday. A lady that attends regularly stopped as she was walking in. She said, “were you sick the last couple of weeks?” I replied that I was fine and not ill. And she said, “I missed seeing you at the door on Sunday, so I was worried.” I explained that I went to visit my daughter and her family. But that made me smile and I realized that we really do make a difference at the door.

If you would like more information on how you or your family can become part of the PCJH Hospitality Ministry, contact me at lori01684@gmail.com. It is never too little or too small, come help someone feel welcome and at home at PCJH. ✝

called to be a deacon? ~ Brad Herman

P

ay Rate: Joy, Happiness, and a Deep Feeling of God’s Love Do you find joy in helping others? Do you care about others? Do you want to make an impact in someone’s life?

Do you like helping family or friends? Are you concerned about people around you? You may be called to be a deacon.

Before I became a deacon at PCJH, I believed I was a deacon-in-training with my family. Although my daughter has moved out of the house, she still calls me and asks for advice (or just vents). This is what we do, we help each other.

A deacon in the church is someone ready to help when needed. Not long ago, after a worship service, I was asked to join a group of others, to pray for the healing of somebody in the church. The following Monday, I received the nicest email from the person we prayed for.

I felt so appreciated because I made a positive difference in someone’s life. It’s not that we have all the answers, it’s about helping others. As deacons, we follow the two greatest commandments: love God and love thy neighbor.

When I was first asked to be a deacon, I said no.

I thought it would be an emotional job, for a sensitive person, who would be involved in a lot of situations with heavy duty drama everywhere you turned. To set the record straight, I’m not that person! The next time I was asked to be a deacon I said no because I thought I did not have the time. The third time I was asked, I asked what does a deacon do? After several conversations, I finally said yes, because I was totally wrong about what deacons do and the environment in which they do it.

Much of what deacons do is surprisingly relational. When I helped shoveling my friend’s roof this winter, I was deaconing. When I gave a friend a ride to the airport, I was deaconing. When I listened to someone whose mother had just come through chemo and needed someone to talk to, I was deaconing. Being a church deacon is partnering with other deacons to care for our congregation. I remember when the power went out in

East Jackson this past winter, the deacons were asked to come to the church to help set up a space in the church as a rescue shelter. We came at a moment’s notice and worked alongside the firefighters, police, Red Cross, and other emergency response people. It was a powerful demonstration of how we can care for others. Church deacons do all kinds of things: provide rides to doctors’ appointments, listen to people, and coordinate assistance for those who need help. Church deacons do not judge, they just help. Let’s face it, we all need help at some time in our lives, and we also love to give. Maybe we can’t give money, but we can share our time or talents such as our skills or expertise or hobbies.

Just recently I returned from Turkey where I experienced “deaconing” as a recipient. Right before the trip, I slipped on ice and hurt my shoulder. It was very painful, and I was contemplating not going. I had x-rays showing no broken bones. Then the doctor went on vacation, so I sought advice of several deacons. They listened (not an easy thing, if you know me), and when all was said and done, I decided to go. Three days into the trip I reinjured it. Everyone looked for ways to help me, including purchasing two arm slings, offering medication, and coming to my bedside to check up on me. Many of the helpers were deacons or former deacons. I felt loved and cared for, which was the best medicine. Although I was in excruciating pain, the compassion, love, and heartfelt concern was amazing. There were several times that I thought about going home; but because of the “deaconing” I received, I knew I was in the right place.

Since returning home from Turkey, the care for me continues to grow stronger. I feel God’s love come through many people as they “deacon” to me. We all need help from time to time; and when you do, church deacons are here for you.

If you feel called to be a church deacon, contact either Pastor Ben or Tammy. Then get ready for one of the best experiences you will ever have. ✝

pcjh.org

~

Pinnacle

11

Just like The Sun

T

he Sunshine Team—Just like the sun is warm, bright, cheerful and there to help us grow and get back on our feet. Here at PCJH we have a group of dedicated deacons who go above and beyond to serve the needs of our congregation. Their primary focus is on providing meals, flowers, and cards to those who are in need of a little extra love and support.

As deacons, being there for the congregation is our number one priority. The Sunshine team’s goal within that larger goal is to be there to help our congregation feel that caring support. We enjoy sending out cards and letting the recipient know that we are there for them through all the ups and downs that life throws our way.

We have provided meal trains and delivery of food to those who have come home from hospital stays, who are going through times of grief and also in happier times when new little ones first come home. To bring a member of our congregation a meal, or a bouquet of flowers provides them support and love.

As a team, we will receive a call from the ‘deacon first responder’ (currently my role) about someone in need and the sunshine team will decide, develop and delegate a first plan of action to help the family. Sometimes simply a phone call to check in will make an immense positive impact on the family.

A great moment of this in action happened recently.

A member of our congregation had lost a family member and we put together a plan that would best help the family. We found that delivering flowers with some baked goods on a snowy day was the first step. Once we arrived, we were invited in to chat and reminisce about the wonderful memories they had with that loved one.

While there we realized that, because it was a tough winter, there were some household duties that needed to be taken care of. We were on the phone the next day hiring professionals to ease this burden off the family.

12 c a l l e d t o c a r e ~ S u m m e r 2 0 2 3

~ Sierra Fulton Making a visit to sit and chat with someone who has lost a loved one will give those family members a chance to speak about the loss in a way that can provide them some closure. We as deacons want to be the loving face of our church and by being there and listening, we are helping the family with that healing process.

One of the unique things about the Sunshine team is that they also provide transportation to and from church, as well as doctor appointments and other important appointments. This is especially helpful for those who may not have their own means of transportation, or who are unable to drive due to health or other issues. We want our congregation to have a way to come to church and experience the “in person” experience and provide that sense of church community.

In addition to their regular activities, the Sunshine team also hosts occasional events for the congregation.

These may include holiday dinners, picnics, or other special occasions. These events are always well attended and are a great opportunity for members of the congregation to come together and socialize.

The members of the Sunshine team are truly dedicated to their work, and are always looking to improve the services they provide. We are constantly brainstorming new ideas and ways to make the lives of those in our congregation a little brighter. As deacons we have promised to be the hands and feet of Jesus and be there for our congregation and the families at our church.

Overall, the Sunshine team made up of amazing deacons, past and present, is an incredibly valuable asset to our church atmosphere. This teams hard work and dedication to serving others has made a real difference in the lives of many, and their positive impact is felt by all who know them. We are so grateful for everything they do, and we look forward to seeing them continue to spread joy and kindness in the years to come. ✝

COME to the table

~ Sandra Guido

W

hen I was a child growing up in Peru, my parents always served through their local Lions Club. They always involved us kids and encouraged us to come with them to service projects and community outreach events.

We did not live in a nice area of Lima and were constantly surrounded by people in need. There were always service activities, especially at Christmas. I remember one Christmas when my parents took us to a school not far from our home to organize a ‘chocolatada’. A ‘chocolatada’ is a common Christmas tradition that involves taking toys to families in need and serving children hot chocolate with Peruvian paneton fruitcakes (mind you this is all in the heat of the South American summer).

The look on the kids’ faces when they received their toys and enjoyed their treats was unforgettable! I became aware of the needs all around me in Lima and how hard life can be. It also had the effect of making me thankful for what our family had instead of focusing on what we did not have. Being a kid is hard, especially at that age when you’re old enough to start noticing economic differences and wonder why we don’t have what others do. But thanks to my parents for exposing us to serving from a young age, they helped me understand that one need not be rich (or technically skilled) to serve their neighbors.

As I’ve gotten older, this feeling of service being an essential part of life – in even the smallest of ways – has stayed with me.

When I was asked by Pastor Tammy to serve as deacon at the end of 2021, I did not feel that I was qualified, ready, or mature enough. But I accepted the role because, first, who says no when their pastor comes asking and, second, I believe God was calling me to step out and that somehow he would equip me along the way.

I serve now as a deacon for the Hospitality/Communion team where I organize our Communion servers once a month and provide the bread and juice to set up the table for Communion before services. At times, I think of my role as just being the logistics person behind the Lord’s Supper. Of course, I have to remind myself that this is woefully incomplete.

The physical elements themselves are only symbols of the deepest truths about our faith. Setting out the bread and the wine (or I suppose juice in our case) and preparing them is preparing the context for truly special things to happen in each person’s heart that chooses to accept Christ’s invitation to the table. While preparing the physical elements themselves can sometimes feel routine, the symbolism of us moving forward together as a congregation to accept the invitation of Christ’s forgiveness is anything but that.

Each time we partake in the Lord’s Supper, we are reminded of the very real and tangible nature of his grace.

Walking forward and accepting this sacrament of our faith is both beautifully personal and uniquely communal. When I’m feeling reflective or observant some Communion Sundays, I am moved by simply watching our congregation come forward in response to Christ’s urging and how God is working in each individual’s heart.

Of course, the newness of Communion each month depends a lot on how I am listening and responding to God that month. Have I been distracted? Have I been calloused?

Have I been depending on my own strength? Oftentimes the answer is yes to some (if not all) of these.

I oftentimes wonder why I am so quick to forget Christ’s invitation. Why is it that when I am at work, I am so focused and dedicated, but when it comes to my faith, I often drift and neglect to remember Christ’s promises? Is work my god? I often wrestle with these thoughts, and it makes me sad and angry. So, I pray and ask God to forgive me for neglecting him and try to remember that Christ invites us back to the table with his assurance of grace and not out of a spirit of fear or guilt.

Being a deacon is all about caring for our congregation with needs that are both physical and spiritual. I have finally welcomed this great opportunity given to me. I get to be a part of a deacon team that deeply cares about serving our PCJH family and that inspires me constantly.

Is God calling you to serve? Is it out of your comfort zone? Maybe that is exactly what you need to do! If I can be a deacon, you can too! Come to the table—Christ’s riches await. ✝

pcjh.org

~

Pinnacle

13

~ PCJ h B i r t h d ay s / a n n i v e r s a r i e s JUNE

JULY

august

01 Larry Huhn Alex Maher June Nystrom Danny Weber

01 Blake & Donna Clark (35)

01 Alex & Macye Maher (22)

03

Duane and Nancy Schneider (47) 05 Pam Mettler 06 Daniel Primich 07 Paul Boillot Linda Walker 08 Steve Poole Julie Tomich 09 Sarah Romorini

Jeff and Sarah Hanson (39) Dean & Carol Lewis (45) 10 Bob and Jenny Pascal (54) 12

Jeff Crabtree

Scott & Diane McGee (19)

Lance & Christine Windey (28) 03 Melissa Snider

Bill & Eileen Blackwell (58) 06 Mary Walton 08

04

09 Stan & Becky Zaist (40)

05 Bob Lewis Dan Matzke

11 Jan Benz Steve Iobst 12 Amy Boillot

John & Joanie Shipman (37) 14 Cathy Wikoff 15 Mills Halpin Jay Kemmerer 17 Steve Weber 18 Stan Steiner

16

20 Annie Mueller

David &Eunice Conine (57 ) 19 Ted Kimmel 20 Cheri Hauser Mary Ann Tapp

26 Judy Swann

Jim & Sally Byrne (63) 27 Jenny Pascal

Bob & Bonnie Lewis (43) Tom & Jan Segerstrom (31) Jeff & Lana Crabtree (43) Ray & Meg Womack (48) 29

Matt & Julie Faupel (21)

06

21 Irene Lund Suzanne VanHatten Steve Fralin Julie Whitlock

Jeff & Cindy Dahlin (33) 23 Ed Scott

Ted & Becky Kimmel (35)

Ron Miller

Jeff Huot Cynthia Nigro

Ken & Cathy Blount (29) Alan & Nancy Brumsted (46) Brian & Maddy Remlinger (18) 07 08

Mel Orchard

Paul & Jean Bruun (14)

09 Eric VanGenderen Lance Windey

Ed & Jane Lavino (37) 10

Ed Cheramy

Will & Laura Soltau (10)

Tom & Becky Jordan (55)

25 Buffy Allen

Trent & Traci Doyle (29)

Jeff & Julie Huot (49)

Mike & Carol Marshall (56)

19 Becky Zaist

18 Janie Massie

03 Bobbi Thomasma

Jane Lavino

13 Ponteir Sackrey

Bob & Deb Kopp (45) Ken & Bobbie Thomasma (67)

Clara McGee 02 Vickie Jones William Schoen

11 Ben Pascal 12

Joanie Shipman

Dan & Julie Matzke (51) Dylan & Catherine Wade (17) 17 Dave Dunlap Claudia Gillette Phil Stevenson

24 Lana Crabtree

Jack & Jan Larimer (57) 31

Jennifer Wolf Smith

Jason & Melissa Snider (14)

tmitchell@pcjh.org x 104

Office Staff Brian Bultema Church Administrator

bbultema@pcjh.org

x109

Cindy Dahlin cdahlin@pcjh.org Church Administrator Assitant x107 Ally Kiefer Communications Coordinator

akiefer@pcjh.org x102

Program Staff Laura Huckin Worship & Music Coordinator Amanda Lack Little Lambs Director

huckin@silverstar.net x123

alack@pcjh.org x111

Preston Gordon pgordon@pcjh.org Interim Children’s Ministry Coordinator x103 Megan Walker mwalker@pcjh.org Youth & Young Adult Ministry Coordinator x124 Ruling Elders

Clerk of Session: Ken Blount 2025

Sue Unruh

Caryn Haman Adult Ministry

Wes Lucas* Stewardship

Sarah Romorini Mission

Josh Ziolkowski Young Adult Ministry

Steve Iobst* Buildings, Grounds & Vehicles

Trent Doyle Children’s Ministry

20 Randy Reed Josh Ziolkowski 23 Karen Terra 24

Rev. Tammy Mitchell Associate Pastor

2024

Mel & Brandie Orchard (28)

29 Alan Lund Gaylyn Frantz Melissa Elliott 30 Kay Brockermeyer

bpascal@pcjh.org x 101

Class of 2023

19

Paul & Terri Hayden (20)

Rev. Ben Pascal Senior Pastor

Bill & Karen Fox (38)

26 Bonnie Lewis 27 Julie Faupel

Pastoral Staff

Bill Blackwell

Bill & Kenlyn Long (42) 25

Marcia Taylor Nina Pascal

Mack & Katie Mendenhall (16) Bill & Jami Voge (39) 26 Joy Steiner

Alan Lund Personnel Patty McDonald Assimilation & Nomination

Marian Meyers Youth Ministry Becky Kimmel Worship

Tiffany Tate Congregational Life John Scott* Finance

Teaching Elders: Rev. Ben Pascal & Rev. Tamara Mitchell

27 Michael Schrotz 29

Larry Jorgenson

Deacons

30

Kenlyn Long

Class of 2023 Michael Schrotz* Ponteir Sackery Brian Bultima Sandra Guido Fernandez

31 Ken & Caroline Taylor (55)

14 c a l l e d t o c a r e ~ S u m m e r 2 0 2 3

Class of 2024 Lori Dodd* Brad Herman* Joy Steiner* Tom Segerstrom

Class of 2025 Cameron Page Dorothy Neckels* Karlene Owens Sierra Fulton*

~ g e t t o k n o w PCJ h 2 0 2 3 c o n f i r m at i o n c l a s s

SAM WERNER / 8th grade “My favorite week of confirmation was on how to read the Bible. I like it because the videos were helpful. We read from another Bible translation called ‘Da Jesus Book’ which was interesting and funny.”

RIDGE STRADLEY / 7th grade "My favorite thing I learned in my confirmation class is getting to know how the Bible works."

OTTO REMLINGER / 7th grade “I liked learning more about Jesus. He shares love with us no matter what happens. He will always forgive us.”

NINA PASCAL / 7th grade “My favorite topic was ‘Who is Jesus and What did He do?’ because I have known who He is my whole life and got to feel even more connected learning about Him. Another reason is because I knew some of the stories about Jesus and was able to ask and even answer questions about the topic.”

PENELOPE MCGAUGH / 8th grade “A favorite thing I learned about was the trinity. I learned about how the Holy Spirit, Jesus and God are all connected.”

EMMA BOILLOT / 7th grade "I have learned so much during confirmation, but my favorite topic was the week on the Trinity. I learned so much and I thought it was the most intriguing.

I learned of another way to say the trinity that I thought was really interesting.

The beloved, the lover, and love itself. I've loved learning about God in this amazing community and I have learned so much."

pcjh.org

~

Pinnacle

15

Address Service Requested Non Profit Org. U.S. Postage Paid Permit # 189 Jackson, WY 83002

1251 South Park Loop Road, P.O. Box 7530, Jackson, WY 83002 I pcjh.org I 307 - 734 - 0388

S P iRiT sightings

"For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do." u Epesians 2:10 PHOTO: PCJH VISION AND MISSION ILLUMINATES THE DEACON MINDSET. STILL LIFE PAINTING BY DIANE NICHOLS