November / December 2024 My Community Spirit Magazine
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My COMMUNITY Spirit Magazine (MCS), is published every 3 months by Encompass Ministries, Inc., a 501c3 faith-based nonprofit, organized in 1998. Now in our 26th year, we continue to expand services and reach. As always, we are committed to providing timely resources, whether it be food assistance, training for family stability, as well as a myriad of Life Skills. Our goal is always to enhance personal and family development for all walks of life. Food assistance touches six Metro Atlanta counties.
This publication is simply an extension of the work we do in-house and throughout the community. Within these pages you will find articles that will inspire you and stories of strength and courage. You will catch the spirit of encouragement within the articles written by thoughtful writers.
Advertising in MCS is available. After the publication costs, the proceeds go directly into the non-profit's mission, to feed the hungry and help families get jobs and ultimately, get on their feet and off government assistance.
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Please consider Encompass Ministries in your monthly giving. We depend on local financial support to continue to offer stability training and groceries to those in our community. Donations are tax-deductible.
The mission of Encompass Ministries is to help individuals and families (re)establish stability and self-reliance by offering a variety of programs including immediate food assistance, employment strategies, and life skills through hands-on support and ongoing training in order to have a community where everyone has the tools to achieve stability and no one goes to bed hungry.
Letter From the Editor
Hello Friends,
Lynne Saunders Lynne@EncompassMinistriesInc.org
Founder and CEO of Encompass Ministries, Papa’s Pantry, The Master’s Training Center, Editor of My Community Spirit Magazine,
Ordained Christian Minister, CEO of 102.9 FM Grace Radio, Author, “21st Century Keys to EMPLOYMENT” Wife, Mother of 3, Grandmommy to 6, Dog-Mom to Alex, and an American Patriot.
One day not too long ago, I was going through emails, lots that needed to be cleaned out. You know, all the spam that we all get? What can we delete so we are not distracted?
There was one subject title that grabbed my attention from someone I didn’t know. “$35,000 Bequest Commitment for Encompass Ministries.” I didn’t look right away, but I didn’t delete it either. I was skeptical.
A couple days later, I opened the email expecting spam. There was a link to “chat” for 15 minutes. OK, I could commit to 15 minutes, fully expecting to give a quick ‘No Thank You’ to a pitch that wold explain how much money I needed to invest for random information.
Let me tell you, I was greatly surprised. The lady on the other end of the phone congratulated me… ‘sure’ I thought. When will the proverbial shoe fall? Jessica continued, “Someone thinks very highly of Encompass Ministries. So much so that she has made arrangements to donate $35,000 to Encompass Ministries through the execution of her will at her passing.”
Again, prepared to not be fooled, I asked for the person’s name. To my surprise, it was a long-term volunteer who had moved out of state a few years ago! A real person who I know, and that she intentionally decided to donate to the ministry using the FreeWill organization. This is called Legacy Giving.
Honestly, I had never thought about this kind of giving. And I hadn’t really thought about personally giving to organizations through my will. Now that we are in the season of “end of year” giving, I'm personally deciding which organizations I will donate to. And now, I’m giving the bigger picture much more thought.
Legacy giving is a way for donors to create financial gifts
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for non-profits, churches, and schools as part of their estate planning. The funding will be disbursed after the donor passes away and their estate plans are carried out.
Per FreeWill’s website, bequests are the most common type of legacy gift citing they are easy to create and implement. A donor simply makes an addition to their will naming the nonprofit as the recipient. It may be a fixed amount, a percentage of, or the remainder of their estate.
The average value of a bequest made through FreeWill is $46,594, but bequests are accessible and popular among donors at all giving levels.
Benefits to the donor and their families is a meaningful Living Legacy. The person who makes this kind of donation becomes a significant part of the organization’s vision, future, and outreach. These gifts can be game-changers for any organization. The funding can greatly impact ministry.
I am sharing this with you should you too be interested in giving in this way.
Here is the link to explore how to start this kind of giving program: https://www.nonprofits.freewill.com/resources/ blog/planned-giving-program
I would love for you to donate to Encompass Ministries/ Papa’s Pantry... Will you consider implementing a Legacy Gift? Also, will you make a special end-of-year donation? The needs are great. So many don't know how to do life.
The mission has always been to help families get on their feet, equipped with the tools to financially become stable and stay there! We have been improving the course of families’ lives for 26 years, impacting future generations and our community. Thank you for your support!
God Bless, Lynne
Reading through the Gospel of Luke is a time-honored December tradition for many Christians. It contains 24 chapters which lends itself to reading the entire book before Christmas Day – one chapter a day December 1 – 24th. This positions us to celebrate Jesus’ first coming just as we are reading of Jesus’ resurrection, ascension, pointing us to the hope of his second coming.
Luke was most likely a Gentile, writing to a Gentile. Maybe that’s why this gospel resonates so deeply with us. Because most of us are Gentiles, and in Luke’s writing we more clearly see how we fit into God’s story of redemption.
If you engage in the December tradition of reading Luke, you’ll encounter the story of Anna on day 2; so early in our reading that we’ll forget the significance of this encounter by the time Christmas arrives. It’s short – a mere 2 verses. But it’s packed with a beautiful message for us to claim, share, and celebrate this Christmas.
We need to step back to get some context. When God delivered the Israelites from Egypt, the final plague was the death of the first born – but all of the Israelite homes marked with the blood of the lamb were passed over. In remembrance of this, God claimed as his own the first-born of all livestock and the first-born male child. The livestock would be sacrificed as an offering to God. The firstborn male child would be redeemed through a redemption offering made by the parents.
Following childbirth, a woman was subject to certain purification laws as well – a prescribed time-period she must remain apart from the community. Once that time-period was over, she would bring her purification offering to the priest at the temple. The priest would offer the sacrifice for her atonement and she would be deemed ceremonially clean.
This is all in play at the beginning of Luke chapter 2. According to the Law, Jesus was circumcised on the 8th day. According to
the Law, Mary waited the prescribed time, another 33 days, and then she, Joseph, and Jesus made their way from Bethlehem to Jerusalem so that Jesus could be “redeemed” (that sounds crazy doesn’t it? The Redeemer being redeemed?) and Mary could complete her purification offering and sacrifice.
So, it’s around the 40th day after Jesus was born that we encounter Anna.
Anna, a prophet, was also there in the Temple. She was the daughter of Phanuel from the tribe of Asher, and she was very old. Her husband died when they had been married only seven years. Then she lived as a widow to the age of eightyfour. She never left the Temple but stayed there day and night, worshiping God with fasting and prayer. She came along just as Simeon was talking with Mary and Joseph, and she began praising God. She talked about the child to everyone who had been waiting expectantly for God to rescue Jerusalem (Luke 2:36-38).
There is much scholarly debate over how old Anna was at the time of this encounter. Depending on your translation, sometimes it reads that she was 84 when this happened. Others lend to an interpretation that she had been living at the Temple as a widow for 84 years – which would make her more like 105 when this happened. I personally lean toward the first interpretation.
Luke wasn’t an eye witness to anything he wrote about in his gospel. But he was an excellent researcher. A historian. He interviewed people. I believe he interviewed Anna. If she had been 105 at the time of this encounter with Jesus, she would have been at least 135 by the time Luke could have possibly met with her. As it is, if Luke did personally interview her to hear her story of this remarkable moment – goodness – she would have been in first decade of her second century. But he shares details that only someone close to Anna would have
known, if not Anna herself.
I love the thought of Luke hearing about Anna from Mary and making his way to the Temple to see if she was still alive. I love the idea that they sat together as she shared her story of how she came to be at the Temple that day. Because I love how Luke’s details of Anna’s story help it intersect with the story of every lost person in need of their savior.
Anna was from the tribe of Asher. Asher was the 8th son born to Jacob and one of the patriarchs of Israel. When the Israelites entered the promised land, the tribe of Asher was allotted land in the very northwestern section of the promised land territory. When the united Israelite Kingdom split after the death of Solomon, the northern ten tribes, including Asher, aligned with Jeroboam and became known as the Northern Kingdom.
In 722 B.C., the Northern Kingdom was conquered by the Assyrians. Some Israelites had already migrated south in hopes of escaping the impending invasion, others were exiled and scattered throughout Assyria. Those left behind saw their towns resettled by the Assyrians. These tribes, including Asher, were never really heard from again as a cohesive group of people. Some say they became one of the Lost Tribes.
But. We know that Anna was from this lost tribe. Centuries before, Anna’s ancestors were faithful to God and somehow, by God’s grace, her family line remained intact. Maybe they migrated, maybe they were exiled and returned as part of the remnant. We don’t know. But we can know they knew loss. Loss of family. Loss of identity. Loss of security. Anna herself knew the loss of her husband. Any one of these things can certainly make a person feel adrift, lost, forgotten by God.
Luke tells us that Anna spent her life – all of her days and nights at the Temple worshiping God. More than one scholar suggests it's possible that Anna spent her days at the Temple worshiping by sharing, teaching God’s Word to other women. Anna would have shared the promise spoken by the prophet Jeremiah.
“And when your land is once more filled with people,” says the Lord, “you will no longer wish for ‘the good old days’ when you possessed the Ark of the Lord’s Covenant. You will not miss those days or even remember them, and there will be no need to rebuild the Ark. In that day Jerusalem will be known as ‘The Throne of the Lord.’ All nations will come there to honor the Lord. They will no longer stubbornly follow their own evil desires. In those days the people of Judah and Israel will return together from exile in the north. They will return to the land I gave your ancestors as an inheritance forever.” (Jeremiah 3:16-18)
How fitting it is that Anna would be there the day Mary and Joseph bring Jesus, the one who is the ultimate fulfillment of this prophecy, to the Temple. How fitting that she’d witness the exchange between Simeon and this new family. Her ears must have perked up as she heard the words:
“I have seen your salvation, which you have prepared for all people. He is a light to reveal God to the nations, and he is the glory of your people Israel!” (Luke 2:29-32)
At long last, all Anna yearned for was coming to pass. The lost would be found.
In a sense, Anna stands in for all of us who have ever felt lost and cut off. She stands in for all of us who have ever experienced loss, all of us who yearn for something. As one of the first witnesses to Jesus Christ, she embodies what God wants us to know this Christmas. No matter how long ago our own exile happened, no one is ever lost to God. Jesus has come to bring you home.
Denise Roberts loves good food shared with friends, slobbery dog kisses, doing life with her husband, being a mom to grown-up kids, and encouraging others to connect the life-giving and life-sustaining Word of God with the messy places of our lives. deniseroberts.org
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Finishing Isaiah (Chronological Life of Jesus - 2025) Led by Lynne Saunders
Wednesdays, 1:30-3:30 P.M. 1st & 2nd Samuel
Led by Beckie Makorow
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“Blessed is she who has believed that the Lord would fulfill his promises to her!” Luke 1:45
As the holidays are approaching, I find myself thinking of holidays from the past. For Thanksgiving, my family has always had dressing (no, not stuffing!).
A few years ago, my sweet mother mentioned that she didn’t think she was going to make it that year. Well, my low maintenance sister just replied, “Ok” to the family group text, but not me, I was losing it! How dare she change what we were accustomed to having, expecting to have? Our family had suffered significant losses that year and I just couldn’t take another one.
Yes, the loss of my Mother’s dressing would be tragic for me. Fortunately, my mother understands me and accepted my need for stability, even in the Thanksgiving meal. I love traditions. I love gathering with family and friends to celebrate Thanksgiving and Christmas. They are my both my favorite holidays. I love apple picking and hay rides in the fall and Christmas lights and music the day after Thanksgiving ends.
One of my daily practices is to keep a gratitude journal. I find that it makes me focus on thankfulness every day because I have to document in it. It reminds me of one of my favorite scriptures,
“...remember my affliction and my wandering, the bitterness and the gall. I well remember them, and my soul is downcast within me. Yet this I call to mind and therefore I have hope: because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is
your faithfulness” (Lamentations 3:19-23).
We can remember the bad stuff, the affliction and the wandering, bitterness, and gall, but what does this verse remind us to do? It says, “this I call to mind.” Remind yourself to “Call to mind” that the Lord loves us; we won’t be consumed. His compassions will never fail; His faithfulness is great. Being grateful during the Thanksgiving season prepares our hearts to celebrate our greatest gift, the birth of Jesus Christ, our Savior, at Christmas.
I was right by the side of my best friend when she went through 3 miscarriages after the birth of her daughter. Her hopes would be dashed each time, yet she was so confident that the Lord had given her a promise of another child. During the Christmas season that year, our Pastor taught about Mary, the mother of Jesus, and the following scripture jumped out at me, “Blessed is she who has believed that the Lord would fulfill his promises to her!” (Luke 1:45)
I knew that the Lord had confirmed in my heart what He had revealed to her and that she would have another child. I had a wooden sign made with the scripture that she sat in her office window, reminding her daily of that promise. Her son was born a year and a half later and is nothing but joy to all who come in contact with him.
Truth be told though, we forget those blessings, those miracles, we forget to believe. Mary believed that the Lord would fulfill His promise to her just like my best friend believed.
Sometimes, I feel like the man in Mark 9:24, “Immediately the boy’s father exclaimed, I do believe; help me overcome
my unbelief!” It’s why I wear a bracelet every day that says, “Believe.”
I want, I need, to be reminded to believe that He is in control and that I can trust Him. The word of God says all His promises are yes and amen. God's promises are guaranteed and confirmed in His word. He wants us to know His word. There is a promise from God for every problem we face. He wants us to have confidence in His promises no matter what is happening in our lives, the changes we face, or the uncertainty of the world, “He is the same yesterday, today and forever." (Hebrews 13:8)
What do you believe? Do you want to spend your time explaining to your children how Santa comes down the chimney and little elves makes their gifts, or do you want to be like Mary and believe in the promises of God? Join me this season and spend your time thanking Him and believing Him. What God promises, He will do. Faith and trusting God is believing that what He says will be fulfilled.
Songs can get in your heart and you can declare them in worship, so I want to leave you with lyrics to this one, “I Believe" by Charity Gayle. You can look it up and listen on any streaming platform.
I BELIEVE –
From the beginning
You've been unchanging
Age to age You stay
Constant You remain
Every mystery
The questions I've carried Are safe within Your will So I trust You even still
I believe You are who You say You are You do what You say You'll do You'll come through, You are always able I believe You've already made a way So I'm running through parted waves Straight to You, You are always faithful
Jesus, You're for me
Holding me steady (every word)
Every word You speak Is a promise that You keep This firm foundation (cannot be shaken)
Cannot be shaken (oh, oh, oh)
My God, You never fail
Never once, You never will
I believe You are who You say You are You do what You say You'll do (You'll come through)
You'll come through, You are always able I believe (yes) You've already made a way (so I'm running) (Yeah) so I'm running through parted waves (straight to You)
Straight to You, You are always faithful I believe (yes, in the Mighty name of Jesus), I believe (oh, oh)
That on that cross Your blood was spilled And by Your stripes I have been healed And every promise You've fulfilled
I believe, I believe
That You rose again in victory And that same power lives in me I'm born again, I've been made free (yes) I believe (I believe), I believe (oh, oh) That the gates of hell will not prevail Your church is still alive and well This gospel truth I live to tell I believe (yes), I believe (that one day) That one day soon You'll split the sky You're coming for a spotless bride Until my faith has been made sight I believe, I believe
I believe (You are) You are who You say You are (You do what You say) You do what You say You'll do (You'll come through) You'll come through, You are always able I believe (You've already) You've already made a way (So I'm running) so I'm running through parted waves Straight to You, You are always faithful
I believe (in the gospel of Jesus Christ), I believe And on that day, I've run my race I'll finally see You face to face And nothing then will separate I believe, I believe I'll join with every tribe and tongue And bow before the Lamb of God
Singing Holy, Holy, Holy One I believe, I believe
Julianna Sproul is a self-proclaimed church-nerd; her adult life serving at Mount Paran Church of God, and for almost a decade working on staff for Lead Pastors David & Barbie Cooper. She received Pastoral credentials in 2023. Julianna desires to be a vehicle through which others can see that Jesus can redeem and restore anyone, no matter their past. She gives God all the glory and honor for His unconditional love.
To prepare yourself and your home for Thanksgiving and Christmas, you should probably begin in October. Now, if you are reading this after October has passed, don’t worry. All is not lost, but you will need to activate order right away.
I’m a big advocate of lists… making them, and finding great pleasure when crossing off each task. And yes, I have been known to add tasks to my lists that I have already accomplished just for the satisfaction of the check mark.
The first step is always Preparation. Don't even think about going on auto-pilot. Pour yourself a cup of tea and take enough time to sit with pen, paper, and calendar. Consider what you want to accomplish, and by when.
• Will you send out Christmas cards? Many people are now sending a favorite family photo with Holiday messages. This can be done online with a variety of companies, but don't wait until the last minute.
• Who will you be shopping for? How will you shop, and when? Set a budget and timeline. Mark your calendar with these expectations.
• And now, the big one… will you be entertaining in your home during these seasons? If so, your to-do list just got bigger! Don’t get overwhelmed; you have a list and a calendar. Keep in mind, some things may need to get deleted for your life-balance and sanity. The goal is not to be perfect, but to enjoy sharing time with friends and family. Your home does not need to look and feel like a museum, but one that is cozy and comfortable.
• Totally open to all things Thanksgiving and Christmas? Go online. There are many, many sites that will inspire you.
Let’s Get Cracking
The first and most important word is “prioritize.” If your list has 20 or more tasks on it, you might be exhausted and frazzled by the time the holidays arrive. Prioritize the “Top 10” to-do’s that must be accomplished. Don't start with perfection in mind... embrace the Reason for the Seasons. It will all fall into place.
If you will be hosting any kind of celebration, decide the details early. Will it be an Open House, Brunch, Evening Party, and/ or Christmas Day? Get Save-the-Dates or invitations out early! This is the time of year when people do their best to balance all the events.
While the Weather is Warm
Take advantage of days when the temperatures are mild enough for you to go outside. Take mental inventory of flower beds that will need to be cleaned out and possibly refreshed with cold-tolerant plants and flowers. (Take note that deer love to eat pansies, so these might be planted in hanging flowerpots.) Or, after the leaves have fallen and raked, simply give a nice covering of fresh pine straw or mulch to put your beds to bed. Clean the front door area, getting rid of dirt and lingering spider webs. A fresh Holiday Welcome Mat may be in order if your current mat has seen better days. Holiday appropriate wreaths on the front door makes for a welcoming entrance.
After removing summer yard debris, it’s time to pull out the outdoor decorations. Your style may be simple or elaborate. Will you want to (need to) add more lights and make any upgrades to last year’s decor? Whatever your style, get to it before the weather turns uncomfortably cold and your options are limited.
Will your guests be spending time on your deck or porches?
Clean and stage those areas now. You can add string lights to enhance the festive mood. Do you have a fire table or will you need to find outside heaters?
When it turns cold, you’ll be glad you took this time now. It will alleviate stress knowing that outdoor entertaining areas are already handled. The closer to the big days, more effort seems to be directed to food and gifts.
De-clutter
After Spring Cleaning and a busy summer, you might find a variety of items out of place and piling up for a time when you can “get to it.” Remove unnecessary items from every room to make your space feel open and organized. This may include magazines, mail, and random paperwork that has become a pile of things to look at, whenever you have time. Kids may have dumped old and broken toys in corners or toy boxes. This is a great opportunity to throw away, donate, or sell what is not necessary.
Deep Clean
While some people see Deep-Cleaning and De-Cluttering as one step, others may truly see them as separate efforts. Deep cleaning is washing every surface such as baseboards, floors, furniture, ceiling fans, windows, and sills, etc.
Whichever your preference, be sure to estimate enough time on your list and calendar to be sure your entertaining areas are company ready.
Will you be entertaining a meal or a party, what areas of the house, inside and out, will your company have access to? You’ve just prioritized what you'll need to take care of first.
Guests?
Will you have family or friends coming to stay with you during the holidays? You’ll need to be sure that you have clean, fresh sheets and bedding in guest room areas. Have extra pillows and blankets on hand should your guests need them. Festive pillows and light decorations will reinforce their holiday ambiance. Guest bathroom areas will need to be scrubbed, sanitized, and freshened. Have plenty of fresh (smelling) towels. And of course, have plenty of toilet paper in their reach so they won’t be embarrassed to ask you for more. Special touches might include pampering toiletries and of course, fresh unused soaps.
Remember, for most people (teens included), morning coffee time is imperative. Be prepared with coffees, teas, favorite seasonal creamers, hot chocolate, and festive mugs. Show your guests where things are and how to use your coffee pot so they can make their own if they get up before you do. Some of the best one-on-one fellowship times are shared in these mornings together… in jammies before showers and perfect hair.
Depending on the length of time your guests might be staying, it might be advantageous to have an extra house-key made, or an additional “guest” garage door opener.
And while we think about accommodating our guests, take into consideration where they may be traveling from. If they are from warm weather areas like FL, southern TX or CA, they may not own warm clothes to comfortably endure our colder temperatures. GA weather is not always predictable. I can remember snow on a Christmas and wearing shorts on another!
Borrow warm clothing, coats, gloves, beanies, and scarves from friends for the season, if you don't have them on hand from your household. I remember as a child that my Aunt Ruth made sure that this Florida girl had the right warm clothes to play outside with the other kids in upstate NY year after year! I felt special, and that she really loved me because she made sure I wasn’t the fish out of water that I was.
To that point, your guests may bring children with them. In the same train of thought for the winter clothes, if you don’t have the same age-range kids, be sure to ask friends to borrow games, toys, and video games. Perhaps give them a pre-holiday gift or two so they don’t get bored and annoying to the grownups. (Did I write that for real?)
Also, give lots of grace for the guests in your house. They may not know your rules and how your household operates. Have spot cleaners on hand for unexpected spills.
The Kitchen
You may be able to knock out several areas in one day, however, the kitchen will probably take at least a day to de-clutter and deep clean, if not two. Spend time on your appliances, big and small. Take everything out of your refrigerator and freezer and clean all the nooks and crannies that get “gunched-up" during the year. Throw away any items that are out of date… yes, look at expiration dates. This will free up much needed space for the holidays when you will have special treats and meat on hand. (Do the same for your food cabinets.) You’ll be amazed at the freed-up space.
Take time to scour the stove and oven. You might need an old toothbrush and heavy cleaner. You’ll appreciate meal and party time when these areas have been recently de-grimed. Don’t forget knobs and back-splashes.
Will you be doing special baking during the holiday? Bread? Cookies? Fudge? Edible gifts? Include these efforts on your list and calendar. Are your baking pans in order? Replenish outdated yeasts, chocolate morsels, etc, that may be leftover from last year.
Dining
At the holidays, will you be sitting in the dining room formally at mealtime? Will you need extra tables and chairs? How about dishes, glassware, platters? For me, having enough full sets of tableware is always a challenge. How casual or fancy will your meal be? Some people resort to paper and plastic products for
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large groups.
Early prep may not include tablecloths, but this might be the time to be sure yours are not stained from last year. Also determine if you will have name tagged place settings.
Closets OR?
Generally, by the time Thanksgiving rolls around, people are wearing jackets and coats wherever they go. Where to put these items when they come inside can be problematic if you as a host or hostess have not thought this through. If you have an entryway closet, is it possible to “empty” it (yes, yikes, empty it!) so that there are only hangers in place so that your guests will have a free and open place to hang their coats, and maybe for the ladies, their purses. If not, pre-determine an out-of-the way location for your guests to place their items. It may be in a formal living room area that will not be utilized or a bedroom on the main floor. Bottom line, have a plan. You will need it when it’s cold.
As we discuss closets, can you make room for your guests’ hang-up clothing items in the rooms they will be sleeping? Not everyone lives out of a suitcase well.
Decorating
If you are a “getter-done" type of person with focus, decorating may take one or two days, including clean up. If you go all out, you already have an idea of what it takes. Some people prefer just taking their time, making each room cozy and festive to your satisfaction. This generally includes some shopping trips or online purchases. Do your rooms make you smile when you are finished? If yes, your guests will melt into the ambiance you’ve created.
The Christmas tree may take it's own day... especially if you wind up messing with lights. Decide where you would like the tree this year. It doesn't always need to be in the same place, unless you've already established that perfect location that fits your needs. Generally, the tree should be placed in an area where there will be room for presents to be placed and displayed underneath, and room for surrounding seating for unwrapping those gifts. Some people love for the tree to be placed in the front of the house by a window to share their holiday joy with passersby. Let the family help think out of the box this year.
Other decorations may include festive pillows, cozy blankets (throws), garlands, candles, and tabletop scenes. Have a woodburning fireplace? Be sure to have enough seasoned wood on hand.
A Couple Things That Can Get Overlooked
Fire preparedness and prevention should always be in the back of your mind. Oftentimes, holiday lights are overloaded on extension cords, causing great risks of fire in the household. Also, having a live tree requires water daily. If they become
dried out, the risk of fire increases. Be sure that all fire alarms are in working order and have fresh batteries. YOU and your LOVED ones depend on this basic precaution
Pest Control
You might want to make an appointment with your trusted pest control company to treat your home, inside and out. You (or your guests) do not want to encounter any pests or critters unexpectedly. They too desire a warm and comfortable existence.
The Reason for the Season
We cannot forget, nor should we ever take for granted, that Christmas is all about Jesus. It's not always easy to be a Christian these days, one who proudly stands up for our faith.
At Christmas we give gifts because our God gave us his most precious gift - his son Jesus who had an incredible life and ministry 2,000 years ago. Jesus gave us his most precious gift, and that was his life for our salvation. Salvation simply means to be saved. Saved from what? Saved from the penalties of living outside God's order and will for our lives. Saved from sin.
Take time to prepare yourself to receive his love, acceptance, and His Heart. That is the reason for the season... Enjoy the beautiful season of Christmas! <>< <>< <><
Preparing Your Yard for Winter in North Georgia
By Mike Smith, Cherokee Master Gardener
Preparing your yard for winter in North Georgia involves several steps to protect your plants, lawn, and landscape from cold weather, while ensuring they come back healthy in the spring. North Georgia winters can be relatively mild, but there are still a few key tasks to consider:
1. Clean Up Leaves and Debris
• Rake up fallen leaves to prevent mold and rot on your lawn. Leaving leaves can also smother grass and invite pests.
• Remove dead plant material from flower beds and gardens to reduce the chance of disease over winter.
2. Prune Trees and Shrubs
• Prune dead or damaged branches from trees and shrubs to prevent them from breaking under the weight of snow or ice.
• Wait to prune spring-blooming shrubs like azaleas and dogwoods until after they bloom in spring to avoid cutting off flower buds.
• Prune evergreens and ornamental trees lightly to maintain shape but avoid heavy pruning in late fall.
3. Mulch Garden Beds
• Apply a layer of mulch (about 2-3 inches) around the base of trees, shrubs, and perennials to help insulate roots and retain moisture. Mulching is particularly important to protect plants during the cold snaps North Georgia can experience.
• Avoid piling mulch directly against plant stems and tree trunks to prevent rot.
4. Watering Before Winter
• Water your garden and lawn thoroughly before the first frost, especially if the fall has been dry. This ensures your plants have moisture going into winter.
• Hydrate evergreens since they can lose moisture in cold winds, which may lead to browning.
5. Lawn Care
• Fertilize your lawn in the fall with a winterizer fertilizer to strengthen grass roots for the cold months.
Choose one high in potassium to promote root growth and disease resistance.
• Overseed cool-season grasses like fescue in early fall to ensure thick, healthy growth.
• Cut your grass to about 2-3 inches before the first frost. Leaving it too long can lead to disease, while cutting it too short exposes roots to cold damage.
6. Protect Tender Plants
• Cover delicate plants (such as young trees or tropicals like hibiscus) with frost cloth or burlap during freezing temperatures.
• Bring potted plants indoors or into a protected space like a garage or basement if they’re sensitive to the cold.
7. Prepare Garden Beds
• Plant bulbs for spring like tulips and daffodils in the fall. In North Georgia, late October through November is ideal for bulb planting.
• Clean out vegetable gardens by removing any leftover crops and tilling the soil to prevent overwintering pests.
8. Prevent Pests
• Inspect and treat for pests that may seek shelter in your yard or home during winter, such as insects that burrow into tree bark or dig holes in your lawn.
• Seal off gaps and cracks in your home’s foundation and around outdoor structures to prevent pests from entering.
9. Winterize Outdoor Equipment
• Drain and store garden hoses to prevent freezing and cracking.
• Turn off irrigation systems or use a back- vv bc0-flow preventer to protect pipes from freezing temperatures. By following these steps, you'll help ensure your yard is well-prepared for the winter months in North Georgia, reducing the risk of damage and promoting healthy growth come spring. <>< <>< <><
“Encompass IS….”
"Encompass IS..." Is an ongoing series that tells some of our clients' stories. Many times, there are challenges and struggles that test the strongest of grit and character. Real people with real stories.
...Something I Had to Face
Encompass Ministries Inc. (Papa's Pantry) has been such a God-send! Being a single mom, I'm always trying to prove that I have things under control and that I don’t need help from anybody. So, you can just imagine how I felt finally reaching out to a pantry after falling on hard times this past summer. I’m a hairdresser and I have my own business. It’s been great being able to work my own schedule so I can be present and available for my daughter. That being said, it gets expensive between business expenses like studio rent, supplies, and taxes. It's also difficult paying our personal bills and rent at home.
I met Faith this summer at the pantry, and from the get-go she was very welcoming and warm. She explained to me how I could join a mentoring program, where we would meet once a week via zoom and go through my finances and learn different skill sets to help me going forward, and in return I would get help with weekly groceries. I’ve always been good at figuring things out on my own and paying my bills on time, so to accept help like this was very humbling to say the least. Throughout this whole experience with the mentorship, I’ve had to be open and honest about my finances and day-to-day spending habits which could be very invasive at times, but it was something I
Faith has taught me skills such as creating spreadsheets to help me stay organized with my finances between my personal and my business account, and with this shift I’ve been able to add to my savings. These are things I should have learned a long time ago and I honestly don’t know how I’ve gotten this far with my business without this skill set. Faith has been so patient and encouraging and has pushed me to become very confident in my abilities going forward. I’ve even become busier and
made more money during this whole process. Thanks to Faith's mentorship and the staff at Papa’s Pantry, I’m looking forward to a bright future for my daughter and I, not to mention the look on my CPA’s face once he sees how organized I’ve been with my spreadsheets!
Thank you, Faith and all the staff at Papa’s Pantry! You were absolutely right when you left me a note in my bags saying “set backs are temporary, but love is eternal.” Thanks for always believing in me.
-PK
The holidays are upon us. Now more than ever it is important for you to take the time to make a weekly meal plan. If you are already in the habit of meal planning, great job! If you have never made a weekly meal plan for your family, don't wait for the new year, start today! By having a plan during the holidays, you will be less stressed, eat healthier and save money. Here are some simple strategies to adopt during the holidays:
SAVE MONEY
Set aside some time during the week to look at recipes and make a grocery list. Be sure to get your family involved with the process. As you make your list, see what you have on hand in your pantry and refrigerator. This will help you purchase only the items you need, not what you already have on hand but have forgotten. This will also reduce food waste. There's nothing worse than throwing out food because you never ate it and it's now spoiled. Following a grocery list will reduce the temptation to buy food items impulsively that you don't need - therefore you will save serious money.
Buy fruits and vegetables that are in season and build your meals around them. Strawberries and blueberries can be very pricey in the wintertime; instead try apples or mandarin oranges.
GET HEALTHY
When you meal plan, you have an opportunity to purposefully add a variety of fruits and vegetables to your weekly meals and snacks. The Dietary Guidelines for Americans recommend adults consume 2-3 cups of vegetables and 1-2 cups of fruit per day.
According to the CDC, 10% of adults meet the recommended intake of vegetables and only 12.3% of adults meet fruit intake recommendations. Having healthier options on hand will help you eat better and will reduce your risk of chronic diseases like high blood pressure, heart disease, Type II Diabetes, and obesity. When menu planning, build in healthy snack options like hummus, vegetables, fruit, and popcorn.
SAVE TIME
There are many ways to save time when preparing meals. Try a variety of cooking methods when meal planning. Skillet meals are great when you are stressed for time. They usually take 30 minutes or less and have minimal clean up. Sheet pan dinners also clean up quickly, and most items can be prepped on the weekends. The tried-and-true crock pot meal should be part of your weekly menu planning too! Soups in the crock pot can be very nutritious loaded with vegetables and whole grains.
My other favorite time-saving idea is “cook once and eat twice.” Who doesn’t like a good leftover lasagna?
If you have never tried menu planning before, start out slowly and plan for only one or two meals. Do this until it becomes habit. As you get better at it, work up to 5 meals a week. Make sure to build in a “left-over” night and a “date” night during the week.
Plan meals that can be prepped early in the week. Make rice and chop vegetables on the weekends when you might have a little extra time. The holidays can be busy and stressful, do not allow mealtimes to be.
Plan for success and you will be happier and healthier going into the new year. With all this extra time on your hands you can spend more time with your family or take time for yourself. By menu planning you will prioritize the family meal, save money, and feel better! Everybody wins.
God Bless you all and Be Well!
Ginny Spain Thomas is a Registered Dietitian Nutritionist who lives in Gainesville with her husband and two cats. She enjoys biking, long walks in the woods and gardening, she is a Master Gardener and volunteers with the UGA Extension Hall County Master Gardeners.
Holidays are a wonderful time of year to celebrate families and to count our blessings, but they can take a toll on our health. There is mental stress in organizing family events and meals and which gifts to choose. For some, any event with family involves both joy and tension.
There are also physical drawbacks as we tend to indulge in the extremes of too much to eat and drink. As we navigate family gatherings and manage other responsibilities, we often neglect our fitness routine. We need to work hard to stay healthy during the hustle of the holidays. Here are ten ways to stay healthy.
1. Plan ahead. Being organized will reduce some of the stress. Make lists of what needs to be done, and check things off as you go.
2. Don’t over-complicate the holiday. You don’t have to do everything. Ask for help. Consider potluck meals where everyone brings something. Be flexible and ready to pivot if plans change. Enjoy the special moments instead of worrying about everything being perfect.
3. Maintain normal routines. Do your best to continue to follow your normal routine. Not following your routine can contribute to stress and you will feel scattered.
4. Practice self-care. Taking care of yourself can be your personal gift during the holidays. Find ways to sneak away for some quiet and prioritize sleep.
5. Exercise to reduce stress. You may have less time to exercise during the holidays, but anything is better than nothing. Go for walks, choose stairs over elevators, and move any way you can.
6. Try new activities. Extra food and drinks can cause sluggishness, draining energy and motivation. Boost your desire to exercise by doing something new and fun.
7. Create family competitions. If I want to see total chaos and hysterical laughter, I’ll convince my family to engage in competition. I think it will work for you too.
8. Boost immunity.
• Wash your hands
• Take vitamin C
• Drink green tea
• Prioritize sleep
• Stay hydrated
• Take apple cider vinegar
9. Balance your plate. You probably cannot avoid a few foods that are unhealthy, but balance those with greens, proteins, and carbohydrates.
10. Give yourself grace. You might gain some weight and forget to exercise regularly. AND your turkey may not turn out perfect. No matter what happens, give yourself grace, laugh, and carry on.
Once the holidays are over take a deep breath. Make notes about what went right or wrong to begin preparing for an even better next year.
Jen Bonn is the author of “101 Tips to Lighten your Burden" and “What I Hope for You" which are both available on Amazon. “ The Healing Power Of Running" will be released in November. Her blog is Healthy Habits for The Holidays
“Wreaths Across America” has become a well-known and greatly beloved tradition for people and families in communities all across America. Every annual commemoration is to honor the men and women who served our country in the armed forces.
As residents, we are so blessed to have the Georgia National Cemetery (GNC) right here in Cherokee County. The land was donated to honor veterans and their families to the Veteran’s Administration (VA) by Scott Hudgens, a World War II veteran and local developer. The cemetery was founded in 2001.
The beautiful grounds feature 775 acres with a view of the North Georgia Mountains and Lake Allatoona. As far as the eye can see, there is land enough to include 33,000 casket gravesites, 3,000 in-ground sites for cremation remains, and 3,000 columbaria niches for cremation remains. Currently there are approximately 22,500 people buried in the cemetery including Former Senator and Secretary of State, Max Cleland, who often referred to GNC as the “Arlington of the South.” Senator Cleland died in 2021.
This year’s “National Wreaths Across America Day” is Saturday December 14th. You are invited to be a part. If you participate, you will see individuals with tears in their eyes as they personally salute each gravestone they adorn. You will also see families… moms and dads explaining the significance of this annual effort of love to their children. You will also see clusters of friends, work colleagues, and members of civic groups. All come together, to do one thing. Honor those who dedicated their lives to serve and protect our country and our allied nations. There are many who died doing so.
You will also find that there are no politics, racial, or religious differences in these solemn moments. Just humankind being kind... to each other and for the sense of deep purpose. What you will experience is a deep sense of awe, respect, and immense quiet. The grounds are certainly sacred.
There are several ways you and your families can participate in Wreaths Across America:
1.) Immediate family members with loved ones interred at GNC, may place a single wreath on that gravesite from 3:30 pm to sunset on Friday on December 13, 2024, the afternoon before the community-wide effort.
2.) The GENERAL PUBLIC is encouraged to lay wreaths on the remaining graves from 9:00 am – 10:00 am Saturday December 14, 2024. Please park at Suttalee Baptist Church on Hwy 20 westbound (5 miles from the cemetery) and use the shuttles to ride to and from the GNC. The shuttle service will start at 7 am. You are encouraged to arrive early so that you can help unpack and fluff-up the wreaths as necessary.
Afterward, there will be a ceremony at the Assembly Area, lasting for approximately one hour, 10:00 am – 11:00 am. The shuttles will continuously run back and forth from the church to the cemetery from 7:00 am until everyone is taken to their vehicles.
3.) It would be wonderful if all volunteers returned to the GNC to help the GNCAC members pick up the wreaths on SATURDAY JANUARY 11 (Clean Up Day) at 9:00 am until finish.
Wreaths can be sponsored throughout the year. They are $17.00 each or 6 for $70.00. As of the writing of this article, $73,500 more is needed to be raised to provide wreaths for every GNC (22,500) gravesite. Have someone on your holiday list who is hard to buy for? You can purchase wreaths in their name now and throughout the year.
To buy a wreath specifically for the Georgia National Cemetery, please follow the QR code in the ad or send a check to GA National Cemetery, Advisory Council, PO Box 5476, Canton, GA 30114. It is hoped that most of the wreath purchases will come in before December 1st to purchase wreaths in time, but all will benefit the Wreaths Across America effort.
The Georgia National Cemetery Advisory Committee (entirely made up of volunteers) coordinates this event along with others throughout the year. The GNCAC, not the Veterans Administration, has for 18 years raised money and purchased the wreaths for their cemetery. They also receive NO MONEY from Federal or State governments, only from Patriots like you.
The wreaths are purchased through “Wreaths Across America," a non-profit organization, headquartered in Maine. Fresh, beautiful wreaths are brought in by volunteer truck drivers each year.
The cemetery is open to the public year round. Visitors are welcome to visit the cemetery from sunrise to sunset each day of the week. You may traverse this hallowed ground while listening to chimes and patriotic music that plays from the Veterans Tribute Carillon Tower each day. Chimes play weekdays at 8:30 am, 12:05 pm, and at 4:30 pm, playing a patriotic concert for about 18 minutes. On the weekends, chimes play at 9:00 am, 11:00 am, 1:00 pm, 3:00 pm, and at 5:00 pm, playing patriotic music and service songs for about 20 minutes. Taps is played each day at 7:00pm.
On the grounds, you will also find an information center, administration and maintenance buildings, public restrooms, flag plaza, and shelters for committal services.
Burial benefits are offered to eligible Veterans, their spouses, and dependent children by the Federal Government through the Department of Veterans Affairs’ (VA) National Cemetery Administration (NCA) and are earned by military service to our Nation.
The national cemetery burial includes:
• The gravesite
• Opening and closing of the grave
• A headstone or marker
• Perpetual care
For more information, call 770-479-9300 or visit https://www. cem.va.gov/cems/nchp/georgia.asp
The GA National Cemetery is located at 101 Scott Hudgens Dr., Canton, GA 30114. Thank you for supporting Georgia National Cemetery. <>< <>< <>< <>< <><
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There are those who believe that prayer works, and there are those who think things just happen. Reflecting on history there were many critical turning points when men of faith turned to prayer and realized God’s positive response. Military men have often turned to prayer in times of need.
Those gathered in 1776 prayed daily for the Congress and for a successful separation of the American colonies from Great Britain during the Revolutionary war. Many of the clergy prayed from the pulpit for the same success. In 1787 at the writing of the Constitution many felt the hand of providence had guided their efforts. Some said the Federal Convention that produced our Constitution was a miracle. The hand of divine providence provided George Washington with his success in numerous trying times?
Throughout our history many warriors have prayed for safety and success and millions of “Fox Hole prayers” were prayed by American GIs. One situation may stand out among many others.
In Europe during WW II it was the winter of 1945 and just before Christmas the allied army was to be tested almost to the breaking point. Somehow Adolf Hitler had hidden over 400,000 men, 1400 tanks and armored vehicles as well as 2600 artillery pieces along a lightly defended allied line in the Ardennes forest. Additionally, he had approximately 1000 aircraft to provide overhead support.
During what many classified as the worst winter in decades, on 16 December, Hitler initiated operation “Watch on the Rhine,” a surprise attack along a lightly defended allied line that would go down in history as the “Battle of the Bulge.” Many in the allied army were celebrating what they believed was the inevitable end of the war. With overconfidence they were caught completely unprepared. The attack was a typical German “Blitzkrieg” or lightning attack. The attack was a total surprise, to all allied generals with the exception of General George Patton.
Immediately following the German attack, General Eisenhower called his senior commanders together for counsel. He opened by stating “The present situation is to be regarded as one of opportunity for us and not of disaster." As they discussed conditions and the possibility of defense or a counterattack there was much concern.
When Eisenhower asked for possible recommendations, General Patton stated that his Third Army could respond within 48 hours and attack the German army shortly thereafter. Most discounted his comments as bluster. Even Eisenhower had doubts. However, Patton’s men were trained and prepared for just such an opportunity as this. His only concern was the severe winter weather that he and his troops would have to deal with and the restrictions on movement and the impact on air support. He already started development of the plans that would begin the
movement of 3rd Army
Interesting, General Eisenhower entered into his Diary on 21 December... “How I pray that it may, by some miracle, mark the beginning of improved weather!”
However, the Allied Air Corp had been grounded for days due to the sub-zero temperatures, blowing snow, ground fog and overcast skies. On 22 December General Vandenberg at Ninth Air Force’s HQ received his daily weather briefing which forecast no break until the 26th of December.
Contrary to most opinions, Patton was a man of strong faith, he prayed every day. He writes in his diary, messages to God. He cites God. He thanks God. He attends services when he can. In his time of need he turned to that faith for help. Patton wrote a prayer himself, on December 23rd which reflects a man who is accustomed to praying to his God. His personal diary records the following prayer:
“Sir, I have never been an unreasonable man, I am not going to ask you for the impossible… all I request is four days of clear weather… so that my fighter-bombers can bomb and strafe, so that my reconnaissance may pick out targets for my magnificent artillery. Give me four days of sunshine to dry this blasted mud… I need these four days to send von Rundstedt and his godless army to their Valhalla. I am sick of this unnecessary butchery of American youth, and in exchange for four days of fighting weather, I will deliver You enough Krauts to keep Your bookkeepers months behind in their work. Amen.”
Patton also understood the power of group prayer and thus he called in the Chief Chaplain of the Third Army James H. O’Neill. Patton said he needed a prayer for fair weather.
The Chaplain expressed some reluctance in writing such a prayer he stated ‘It isn’t a customary thing among men of my profession to pray for clear weather to kill (their) fellow men." I am sure that Patton was quick to remind him that many Godly men in history had prayed for safety and success in battle. However, in a short time Chaplain O’Neill produced the following prayer:
“Almighty and most merciful Father, we humbly beseech Thee, of Thy great goodness, to restrain these immoderate rains with which we have had to contend. Grant us fair weather for Battle. Graciously harken to us as soldiers who call upon Thee that, armed with Thy power, we may advance from victory to victory, and crush the oppression
and wickedness of our enemies, and establish Thy justice among men and nations. Amen.”
Patton was so impressed, he directed that 250,000 personal Christmas messages be printed and distributed to Third Army with the “weather” prayer printed on the back side to encourage full Army support.
History shows that on the morning of 23 December the fog and mist broke with a clear blue sky. This was three days ahead of the weatherman’s forecast. One GI in the trenches declared it was “the war’s most beautiful sunrise.” General Patton was delighted and stated “what a glorious day for killing Germans.”
With what appeared to be answered prayers, the allies released the power of Third Army and Ninth Air Force against the German juggernaut. They stopped the German advance thus bringing to a close Hitler’s last consequential effort in WW II. The clear weather resulted in over 100,000 Germans killed, missing or captured, the relief of Bastogne, as well as turning the tide of the war back in the favor of the allied forces.
Of note, a survey conducted following WWII found that when soldiers were on the front lines, as few as 50 percent believed that prayer was important. However, when they were in combat the number rose to 75 percent who believed praying was worthwhile. Some may have been just praying for survival, but it does show how much faith matters to people who believed that their lives were threatened and that God had a hand in their survival.
Author and historian Claire Barrett stated that with regard to the Battle of the Bulge “Whether divine intervention or just weather patterns, harsh weather stopped. The fact is Eisenhower’s prayer, Patton’s prayer and Chaplain O’Neil’s third Army prayers were answered. Patton even pinned the Bronze Star on Chaplain O’Neill’s chest, making him the only man awarded a medal in WWII for writing a prayer.” And the allied armies received an early Christmas present.
Quentin M. Thomas is a Retired USAF Colonel, author, teacher and popular speaker. His interest in American history and our Constitution has resulted in a decade of teaching a variety of classes on those subjects. He and his wife Suzie make their home in Woodstock and he can be contacted at tthomasgroup@aol.com.
Just two short years ago, Encompass Ministries/Papa’s Pantry founder, Lynne Saunders acquired WPCG, 102.9 FM, Cherokee County’s Christian Radio Station. She immediately tagged the station as “My Grace Radio.” Why Grace? The scriptures tell us that we are saved by faith through Grace. We all need His Grace.
WPCG actually launched in 2004 as 107.9 FM near in North
Cherokee near Waleska. The station’s management soon transferred to John Bromall and his wife Henri. They operated the station together for many years until Henri went on to be with the Lord. John gifted the station to Lynne in 2022.
It has always been Lynne’s goal to introduce local Christian content… featuring local Christian churches, businesses, and leaders who call Cherokee County home. This September, Lynne launched her own program, “Cherokee Conversations,” and has been interviewing those making amazing local news.
A second local program has been added to the weekend schedule. “Believe and Behave" recorded by Sean Kaufman, In his show, Sean points to scripture to develop themes in the many areas we need to trust God.
Weekday programming features nationally known syndicated Christian leaders and teachers, such as David Jeremiah, James Dobson, Collin Smith, and Ed Y0ung just to name a few. Grace Radio FM weekday programs are delivered by Moody Radio out of Chicago. Be sure to check out the Programming pages on mygraceradio.com for the line-up of powerful messages.
WPCG, 102.9 FM Grace Radio is an IRS 501(c) 3 non-profit organization and is supported by listeners and local support. Donations, program underwriting, and sponsorships are tax deductible and greatly appreciated. Checks can be sent to WPCG, Grace Radio, 6551 Commerce Parkway, Woodstock, GA, 30189.
Funerals have always been difficult for me, for many reasons. If I didn’t celebrate someone’s life while they were alive, why should I celebrate their death? I'm often conflicted because I believe that many of the people I know will ultimately be judged and welcomed into eternal bliss with their heavenly Father. This bittersweet thought makes it hard for me to feel sorrow. I understand that attending funerals is often said to be for the survivors, a sign of respect, but I'm not entirely convinced. Still, I would certainly attend if my absence would be seen as disrespectful to a loved one.
I lost an acquaintance named Jim. I hesitate to call him a friend because I never felt I fully deserved the kindness he extended to everyone around him. Whenever we crossed paths, he would stop, shake my hand, and genuinely ask how I was doing. While I may have regarded him as an acquaintance, he treated me like a friend. I never felt like I earned the title of being called Jim’s friend.
Tragically, Jim passed away far too soon, but he had several opportunities to say goodbye to those he loved. Remarkably, he faced his circumstances with an acceptance and grace that left a lasting impression.
Growing up as a military brat, my family was my anchor. If you had asked me before Jim's passing whether I was close to my family, I would have confidently said yes. I spoke to my children once or twice a week, my brother monthly, and my parents about every two weeks. We shared love and connection, especially during significant moments.
My wife and I dressed up and attended Jim’s celebration of life at the church. We listened to the pastor, and a few readings, and heard the kind words of one of Jim’s closest friends, who beautifully captured Jim’s essence—his kindness, love, and attentiveness.
As I squeezed my wife’s hand, I felt a deep sense of loss, knowing
I would miss seeing Jim at the tennis courts. Then, something lifechanging happened.
Jim’s children took the stage, and their eloquence struck me. They spoke softly yet powerfully, embodying their father’s spirit. They shared how much they would miss his daily phone calls, whether brief I love you’s or hour-long conversations filled with meaningful discussion. They had cherished those moments that when he hadn’t reached out for his daily call – they would reach out to him hoping nothing was wrong. It perfectly encapsulated Jim; he always made time for everyone.
That day changed me. I transformed as a father, son, and brother. Since leaving that church, I’ve made it a point to call my children, parents, and brother every single day. The impact on our relationships has been profound. Now, when I get busy and a little late in the day, my phone rings, and it’s my kids, parents, or brother asking, “Where are you?” I can’t imagine stopping this practice, and I’m incredibly grateful for the lesson I learned.
In reflecting on my thoughts about funerals, I realize something important. Jim was present at his own funeral, teaching us through the love and memories shared by those who mattered most to him. He continues to live on through the connections he nurtured. That day, Jim gave me more than he ever did in life; he gifted me the daily opportunity to connect with those I love.
I need to go now—I have some calls to make. How about you reach out to someone you love today.
Sean Kaufman is a proud believer, husband, father, patriot, small business owner who lives in Towne Lake. He loves playing tennis, is an intrinsic life coach, author, part-time instructor at Kennesaw State University, and an infectious disease behavioral scientist.
SWEET! Edible Gifts
Instructions:
Turkey-Tail Cupcakes
Equipment
Ingredients
• One 15.25-ounce box chocolate cake mix, and the required baking ingredients
• Candy corn, 120 orange bottoms and yellow middles, and 144 red bottoms with white middles.
• 24 milk chocolate drop candies, such as “Hershey's Kisses"
• 24 miniature twist pretzels
• Oven
• Paper muffin cups
• 2 Muffin Pans
• Whisk
• Mixing bowl
• Sharp Knife
• Cutting board
Bake 24 cupcakes using paper muffin cups, according to the package directions. Let cool completely. Spread approx 1/2 inch of frosting per cupcake on each cupcake.
To Decorate: Break each pretzel so you get 2 T-shaped pieces to be the turkeys' feet. Push the bottom of the "T" into the icing at the edge of the cupcake. Then press a milk chocolate candy, point-side up on each cupcake, on top of the pretzel "T" part stuck in the icing as the turkey's head. Next, add the candy corn pieces as feathers. Push 4 tips of the red-bottomed candy corn into the opposite side of the cupcake to form the back edge of the feathers. Next, do the same with 2 yell0w-bottomed candy corn to form a second layer of feathers directly in front of the red tips. Next cut the orange tips off 3 candy corns to expose yellow as the bottom. Push them into the cupcake to form the next layer of feathers. Lastly, cut the red bottoms off the candy corn to reveal white as the base. Push 2 of these into the cupcake to form the first layer of feathers behind the head. Do this on the 23 remaining cupcakes. Great for school Thanksgiving parties... a great gift or dessert for children!
Instructions:
Fig and Ginger Truffles
Equipment
Ingredients
• 2 cups dried black mission figs, or other dried figs (about 8 ounces)
• 1/4 cup crystallized ginger (about 2 ounces)
• 1/2 teaspoon ground cinnamon
• 1 tablespoon honey
• 2 1/2 ounces dark chocolate (60 to 70 percent cocoa solids), chopped
• Food Processor
• Baking Sheet
• Parchment Paper
• Double Boiler or sauce pans to create the same effect
• Bowl
• Spatula
Remove the stems from the figs and discard. Put the figs, ginger, cinnamon, and honey in a food processor and process for about 45 seconds, until the ingredients are finely chopped and begin to stick together. Roll this mixture with your hands into heaping teaspoon-sized balls. Set them on a baking sheet lined with parchment paper. Set aside. Use a double boiler or create a similar tool using a sauce pan and heat resistant bowl. Place 2" of water in the bottom of the saucepan and bring to a simmer over a low heat. Place the bowl with half the chocolate in pan of water. Stir until the chocolate is melted. Remove from heat and add the remaining chocolate. Stir until all the chocolate is melted. Remove the bowl containing the chocolate from the pan. Roll each fig ball into the melted chocolate 1 or 2 at a time, until they are all covered. Place them back on the parchment paper and refrigerate until set, about 15 minutes. Serve at room temperature.
...for the Holidays SALTY!
Rosemary & Olive Oil Crackers
Equipment
Ingredients
• 1 1/2 cups all-purpose flour (Not Self Rising)
• 1 tablespoon fresh rosemary, chopped
• 1 tablespoon fresh chives, chopped
• 1 tablespoon sesame seeds
• 1 teaspoon baking powder
• 1 teaspoon salt
• 1 teaspoon pepper
• 1/4 cup extra-virgin olive oil
Instructions:
• Oven
• Cutting Board
• Sharpe Knife or Pizza Cutter
• Whisk
• Mixing bowl
• Cookie Sheet
• Parchment Paper
• Measuring Cup and Spoons
Mix flour, rosemary, chives, sesame seeds, baking powder, salt, and pepper together. Stir in 1/2 cup water and olive oil. Mix to form a dough. Knead dough on a floured surface until smooth. Cut the dough in half or fourths for easy handling. Roll out until very thin (approx 1/16 inch) on Parchment Paper. Cut into rectangles, squares, or diamonds. Transfer parchment paper and crackers onto a baking sheet. Bake at 400 degrees F until golden, 12 to 15 minutes. Don't let them burn. Let cool. (They will get crispier as they cool.) Package in festive seal-able gift bags or mason jars with pretty ribbon.
In a large saucepan, combine salmon with enough cold water to cover by 1 inch. Add juice from 1 lemon, 1/2 of leek or onion, celery, and bay leaf. Over medium heat, bring poaching liquid to a small, gentle simmer, about 6 minutes. Drain, discarding aromatics. Transfer salmon to mixing bowl. Allow to cool. Break into smaller pieces. Set aside. Meanwhile, in a small pan melt butter over medium heat. Chop the other half of shallot into small pieces, finely. Add and cook until shallot is softened, approx 3 minutes. Add shallots and butter into bowl with salmon. Add mayonnaise, chives, juice of 2nd lemon, coriander seeds, and cayenne. Season with salt and pepper. Stir well until ingredients are thoroughly mixed and salmon is more finely shredded. If making this as a gift, transfer to small mason jar or ramekin. Press in against the bottom and sides to eliminate air bubbles. Refrigerate for approximately 2 hours until totally chilled. This mixture will be good for 5 days, so be sure to make and give right away so your friend will have time to enjoy. Add some delicious homemade crackers, packaged separately to complete their gift.
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