February 10 2017

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Volume 57 Number 6

Friday, February 10, 2017

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Blue Bombers urge students to speak out about violence and bullying BY IAN GRAHAM EDITOR@THOMPSONCITIZEN.NET

Winnipeg Blue Bombers centre Matthias Goossen and linebacker Ian Wild were in Wabowden and Thompson Feb. 6-7 to meet with students competing in Frontier School Division’s Frontier Games at Mel Johnson School in Wabowden and to deliver presentations on violence against women and bullying to high school and elementary students in the two communities. Speaking at R.D. Parker Collegiate in Thompson Feb. 7, Goossen presented sobering statistics on the problem of violence against women, including that half of Canadian women have experienced physical or sexual violence since the age of 16 and that one in five Canadian men living with women admit to having used violence against them. He also noted that only about five per cent of sexual assaults are reported to police and that many of those do not lead to criminal charges or convictions because of the phenomenon of victim-blaming. “Females constantly get taught that they have to avoid men who might hurt them but we rarely actually talk to the men and say, ‘Hey, you guys shouldn’t do this,’” he said. “Victim blaming is such a toxic kind of thing because it doesn’t offer support to the person who actually is assaulted and we need

Nickel Belt News photo by Ian Graham Winnipeg Blue Bombers centre Matthias Goossen, left, and linebacker Ian Wild speak to Westwood Elementary School students about bullying Feb. 7. to. If Ian got hit by a drunk driver, we wouldn’t blame Ian for being in that person’s way. We would blame the person who is driving. When somebody does get sexually assaulted we should never blame them, we should be supportive of them and come alongside them because so often, I don’t know why it’s like this, we blame the person, we blame them for what they were wearing, what they were drinking, so it’s important to realize that we need to come alongside them and stop this kind of victim blaming mindset that is so common in this topic.” Wild said men and boys especially needed to take

ownership of the problem of violence against women. “A lot of the times women have been at the forefront of this and they’ve been leading the way on, ‘All right, we need to help each other,’ and stuff like that but really it’s a men’s issue,” he said. “We’re the ones committing this violence against our spouses and things like that so we need to work together with the women in order to create the change.” The presentation to RDPC students touched on topics including consent and the definitions of terms such as criminal harassment and sexual harassment as well as some of

the ways that people who witness someone being assaulted or harassed can intervene without putting their own safety at risk. Students were also urged to realize that some behaviours that are perceived as normal should not be. “This happens in your school whether you think it does or not,” said Wild. “It can be as simple as a guy slapping a girl’s butt as she’s walking by. That’s the kind of thing you think is normal to happen. A girl in the school should not go around and expect that to happen or think that it’s going to happen. As guys we need to put a stop to it.” Similar themes were explored during an anti-

bullying presentation at Westwood Ele mentary School later on Feb. 7, including the different types of bullying like physical, emotional and cyber-bullying as well as the effectiveness of a witness to a bullying incident stepping in. “Over half the time when somebody intervenes, bullying stops within 10 seconds or less,” Goossen said. “Ten seconds seems like a very short time and, like I said before, everybody in here has the power to help somebody, maybe tell somebody to stop bullying, or at the very least, tell a teacher and tell a trusted adult because they can get involved then. You’re not tattle-taling if you talk about bullying because bullying is a real thing and it’s important that we help the person who is being bullied.” They also laid out four rules that people should observe before posting anything about someone online: would they like it if somebody posted something similar about them, would they post it if they knew their parents or teacher would see it, would they like to see what they said on the front page of the newspaper, and would they say it if they had to say it right to person’s face? “Unfortunately, people say meaner things because they can hide behind the computer,” said Goossen. “It’s important to realize

that whatever we put online is the exact same as us telling it in person.” Goossen is in his second year of travelling around and doing these types of presentations though this was the first time he teamed up with Wild. “If you can help at least one kid in a situation and help one kid out and change their life in any way I think it’s worth it,” Wild said. “If I have the power to do that by being a football player then I’m going to do it because a lot of times if you get just anyone to come up and speak about it they’re not going to be listening. If we can get them to listen then that’s meaningful.” It was the first such trip up north for Goossen, originally from Vancouver, and Wild, who grew up in Pittsburgh. “It’s really neat because it’s different,” Wild said. “I grew up in the city so it’s totally different with all the nature and trees and everything like that.” When they weren’t presenting to students, the two Blue Bombers got a chance to participate in some other northern experiences, like checking out the northern lights. Afterwards, Wild said, he needed a hot shower to warm up. “I’ve seen some cold but this is pretty cold,” he admitted. “This is the worst.” “It was really cold but overall it was really good,” Goossen said.

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