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We quite often ask ourselves, why would I bother? Let him/ her approach first. This egoistic attitude may actually break your long-lasting relationship. At last I would conclude by saying that we should always be flexible in our approach to have a successful, strong and long lasting relationship.
It has been found in a study that many people have the wrong assumption that to become a friend or to stabilize their ongoing relation, contributing partners must have the same Ideology. Is it really true or a misconception created by some people? Let’s find out. Frankly speaking, when I see people in real life having altogether different ideologies & thinking, are actually very good COMMUNICATIVEFRIENDS. These people share a very good chemistry and understanding. A mutual exchange of valuable knowledge and information among them make this relation bit interesting too. On the other side, I have met people same ideologies fighting and quarreling over a particular issue very frequently. Understandably, it may vary from person to person. But fact is that our above assumption has not proven true. Let me quickly list out some of the unanswered questions with reasonable answers that quite often arises in a relationship. Should partners have a better understanding & trust for a sustained-relationship? No, I guess, it’s not necessary at all, we do have many
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such examples in front of us where contributing partners keeps on blaming & accusing each other every day for being dishonest and disloyal in their relationship, we can assume that there is ‘NO’ understanding and trust in such relationships. In fact, this ‘NO’ is very significant here, as such, relationships are going on and on for many years , of course instead of a BIG ‘NO’ there is minute & silent ‘YES’ always. That ultimately makes a HUGE difference in a relationship. This question keeps on repeating itself that after all these ‘No’s’, what’s that hidden force that actually saves an almost broken-relationship What makes a relation ‘stable’ after all obstacles? I know readers would be
very anxious to know about that influencing & powerful force behind such relationships which holds them tight together after facing various obstacles? Let’s end your curiosity; that’s nothing but the LOVE….yes it is Love…. It has certainly got the tremendous capacity that can singlehandedly overshadow the other influencing FACTORS. One cannot imagine the POWER of LOVE which can save a relationship even if it is on the verge of breaking. It is an opinion of many people that if there is one decisive force that can actually defeat or resist the LOVE is the EGO of a person itself. EGO kills LOVE, eventually a relationship. We quite often ask ourselves, why would I bother? Let him/her approach first. This egoistic attitude may actually break your long-lasting relationship. At last I would conclude by saying that we should always be flexible in our approach to have a successful, strong and long lasting relationship.