Men’s Health Corner
The importance of second opinions and resilience - A conversation with Steven Fulton
Seeking a second opinion is crucial for both women and men when facing medical decisions. Beyond ensuring comprehensive care, it serves as a safeguard against misdiagnosis or overlooked treatment options. Steven Fulton, a vibrant native of Columbia, South Carolina, narrowly avoided becoming a victim of misdiagnosis.
Always driven by his passion for media, Steven began his career at a local radio station, balancing his time between work and studies. After earning his degree from Benedict College in 2017, Steven secured a full-time position at the radio station, quickly transitioning to television. His talent and dedication were soon recognized, leading him to a producer position on a lifestyle television show at the largest station in Columbia.
Steven's life was coming together seamlessly until a shocking diagnosis threatened to derail everything. He was diagnosed with heart failure and initially told he would need a heart transplant. Devastated by the news, he sought a second opinion. This critical decision changed his fate. The new medical team determined that, given his overall good health, a defibrillator would suffice, sparing him from the need for a new heart and the aftermath that comes with a heart transplant. This second opinion not only saved his life but also allowed him to continue his flourishing career in media.
Shavonne Delbridge, contributing writer for Motivated Woman magazine, recently sat down with Steven to learn more about his journey and his advice for others who may be in a similar situation.
SD: Can you describe your initial reaction upon learning that you were in heart failure?
SF: Shocked and nervous for sure. My mind started racing.
SD: How has this diagnosis impacted your daily life and routines?
SF: I have to be more disciplined with my daily routines, making sure I’m eating at descent times and taking my meds around the same time every day.
SD: What were some of the early symptoms that prompted you to seek medical attention?
SF: I was having trouble sleeping. I coughed throughout the night and wouldn’t find any relief until I coughed up fluid.
SD: Can you share any challenges you've faced in managing your condition so far? SF: Honestly, no challenges currently.
SD: What was your experience like undergoing surgery for the defibrillator implantation?
SF: It was tough at first because I didn't really understand what was happening and didn't feel like it was actually fixing my condition. However, the surgery was straightforward, my surgeon took his time, and based on my recovery, I think I’m in great shape now.
SD: How did you feel when you were informed that you were too healthy for a heart transplant?
SF: Blessed and Highly Favored. I was glad to not have to go through that whole process. It was going to be a hardship for my family.
SD: Have you had to make any significant lifestyle changes following your diagnosis?
SF: Focusing on myself and listening to my body more.
SD: How do you stay positive and motivated while dealing with such a serious health issue?
SF: I always consider that it could be worse and remember that someone else is going through something more difficult, so I’m blessed and thankful.
SD: Can you describe the role of your support system in helping you through this journey?
SF: My village is full of rockstars, starting with my mom. Despite her own health conditions, she pushes through for me no matter what. The rest of my family, friends
and even coworkers are there for me whether I'm in good spirits or not. They know exactly what to do and say to make the darkness go away.
SD: What advice would you give to others who may be facing similar health challenges?
SF: Listen to doctors, pray and do what’s best for you.
SD: How do you prioritize self-care and manage stress in your dayto-day life?
SF: Always listen to your body. I used to be the type to keep pushing until my body forced me to sit down. Now, I can sense when I'm doing too much or if a situation is too overwhelming, and I'm able to take a break or move on.
SD: Have you found any particular coping mechanisms or strategies that have been helpful for you?
SF: Talking with God more, walking by the river and embracing peaceful moments have been instrumental in my journey.
SD: How has your perspective on life changed since receiving your diagnosis?
SF: My motto for life after losing a good friend of mine and going through this experience has become “JUST KEEP LIVING.” No matter what life throws at you… just keep living.
SD: Can you share any goals or aspirations you have for the future, despite your health condition?
SF: My goals are simple. I want to continue making my village proud pouring into our youth. They need us.
SD: How do you maintain a sense of normalcy and balance amidst your health concerns?
SF: I don't often draw attention to my condition, but I always ensure I'm around someone who is aware of my situation, just in case.
SD: What role does exercise play in your life now, considering your heart condition?
SF: Exercise plays a major role, not only for my physical health but also for my mental well-being. It allows me to work through things I couldn't express verbally and release any tension building up.
SD: Are there any misconceptions about heart failure that you would like to dispel? SF: Heart failure isn’t a death sentence; it’s a second chance to get your life together.
SD: Finally, what message would you like to convey to others who may be living with heart failure or facing health challenges of their own?
SF: Keep pushing and find you a good village. As Steve Harvey says daily on his radio show, “Talk to God; He’ll love to hear from you.”
Pull quotes:
“Always listen to your body. I used to be the type to keep pushing until my body forced me to sit down. Now, I can sense when I'm doing too much or if a situation is too overwhelming, and I'm able to take a break or move on.”
“My motto for life after losing a good friend of mine and going through this experience has become ‘JUST KEEP LIVING.’ No matter what life throws at you…just keep living.”
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Steven Fulton: Steven Fulton participated in the Midlands Heart Walk after being diagnosed with congestive heart failure.
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