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top picks 1. Making your house a home, featuring HeyDay Every couple looks forward to the day that they get to register for gifts, dreaming about how they will be merging their home with that of their new spouse in a few months. The key is to make it a happy home for everyone— stay away from the pink knife set. HeyDay offers some great gifts (and a registry) that will keep bride and groom happy! OENOPHILIA Sport Wine Canteen - $28 Teroforma Whiskey Stone - $22 Homestead Small Batch Candles in natural scents - $24 - $34 Fifty Places to Hike Before You Die; Stewart Tabori Chang Publishing - $25 Ultimate Book of Card Games; Chronicle Books - $20
2. Montana-Made for your Bridal Party, featuring Head West Thanking your bridal party for being there for you during the process of planning your wedding, and then standing up with you at the alter is a significant part of getting married. Think unique. Give them gifts that represent you as a couple, but also the culture where you go married. If that’s in Bozeman, check out Head West’s Montana-made products for every cowboy or cowgirl. Ranch Organics skin care - $24 - $45 Cool Water of Montana authentic coin jewelry - $20 - $40 Red Sky Designs Red Sky Koozies - $18.50 - $42
3. Her something new (or blue?), featuring Jewelry Studio This one’s for the grooms opening this magazine. Now’s your chance to wow your new bride. The bridal gift you give your new wife becomes an heirloom, something to give your children or grandchildren—something to remind her of you. Traditional gifts for the new bride from her groom are jewelry, so head over to the Jewelry Studio, where they have her something new and blue. See store for pricing
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Features 4 THE PROPOSAL A Memorable Proposal Wedding Bands for Men Hiring a Wedding Planner Gift Registry Working Together
18 THE FASHION Fashion Trends Tuxes Fit & Flatter Vintage is the new Black Hair & Makeup Trends
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A Real Wedding The Photographer Wedding Flowers Flower Footprint Making it Legal Invitations Vacation Rental Homes
35 NEWLYWEDS Finding the Fairytale
36 THE VENUE Picking Your Ideal Venue The Baxter Big Sky Wed-cations
44 THE BRIDAL PARTY Let's Hear it for the Girls The Bachelor Party Groomsmen & their Duties Supporting Roles
48 THE CEREMONY Time to Practice
50 THE RECEPTION Two Designs: Two Styles Catering Cupcakes & Desserts Rehearsal Dinner Drink Up
56 THE HONEYMOON Romantic Resorts & Local Luxury
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HOW TO PLAN A
Memorable Proposal By Patsy Saatjian
Photographs by Lockie Photography
One of the most memorable moments in someone’s life is a proposal of marriage. It’s a moment that you both will remember (and repeat the story of) for the rest of your lives. So you’ve finally found the perfect girl. Now it’s time to find the perfect ring and a perfect way to propose. For twenty years, Jewelry Studio in Bozeman, Montana, has been helping their clients create treasured proposals. With years of practice, Jewelry Studio has found some special advice for making marriage proposals unforgettable. From an intimate picnic in the country at sunset to rose petals, candlelight and champagne with a personal serenade… Jewelry Studio has their guys covered with numerous proposal ideas that are both memorable and enjoyable. Here are some of Jewelry Studio’s suggestions for making a marriage proposal a cherished and delightful experience. 1. First of all… Fall in love! Make sure that you have found the right person that you can’t imagine living without. 2. Before you propose, be sure to talk about the possibility of getting married. It is important to know whether she is open to the idea and feels ready for an upcoming marriage. Don’t propose too early in a relationship before you really know each other and are ready for a “rest-of-your-life” commitment. 3. Know enough about your future spouse so that you can create a meaningful proposal experience. 4. Most women want their proposal to include an engagement ring. Since wearing an engagement ring can also be a huge commitment, make sure that the ring is the right style for her. You might find an opportunity to window shop or stop by a jewelry store to look at different ring designs. You can also ask her mother, sister or a best friend, someone who knows her really well, to you help choose the ring. However, some women are very
particular about their jewelry and will appreciate being part of the ring selection or custom design process. Be sure to allow enough time to select the perfect ring and diamond. If a ring is custom designed or special ordered from a jewelry designer, it may take 4 to 6 weeks for the ring to be created. If you have a proposal date in mind, then don’t procrastinate on the selection of a ring because you don’t want to feel anxious about having the ring on time. 5. This may sound old fashioned, yet, there is something very sweet and respectful about asking for her parents’ blessing. 6. Pay attention to timing. Don’t plan on proposing marriage when your future spouse may be stressed or overwhelmed and not feeling her best. 7. Keep your proposal plans uncomplicated and fun. Even though you have discussed getting married, the proposal itself should still be a surprise. Find a moment that she won’t be suspecting. 8. Set a romantic tone for your proposal. Choose a special spot to pop the question. Incorporate her personality, favorite things, foods and music into the proposal. Make it unique rather than a cookie cutter proposal. Flowers, chocolates and champagne for a celebratory toast are nice touches. Planning a proposal shouldn't be stressful. The focus should be on happiness. Sometimes just a change of scenery is all that is needed to create a romantic experience. 9. Although you may need some help in staging your proposal, try to keep your plans as private as possible. A proposal is an intimate moment between two people in love. You’d don’t want to have anyone spoil the surprise and you can both announce your engagement after the proposal.
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Don't Forget the Details: There is something so charming and romantic about a man on one knee asking the love of his life to marry him! Even if you’re not a traditional guy, it will add to the seriousness and tenderness of the proposal. Use her full name when asking her to marry you… it shows you’re really serious. Don’t forget to tell her why you want to marry her. Tell her why she’s the one for you, what marriage means to you, and what your hopes are for your future together. Be sure to say the most important words, “I love you!” Saying, “Will you marry me?” is a huge deal, and can cause many guys to become tongue-tied. So practice saying the words out loud a few times. It may help build confidence to even write down what you want to say.
Have someone catch your proposal discreetly on camera. These photographs will be priceless! Make sure that she looks her best for the photographs. She’ll appreciate having photographs that show her with her hair and nails done… and wearing a nice outfit. You may need the help of a close and confidential friend to stage these preparations. Finally, while it’s good to be creative with your proposal, it is essential to keep the focus on what is most important: the proposal itself… and above all having a story that ends with ~“And they lived happily every after”! ~ We hope you enjoy these precious photographs of a surprise proposal that Jewelry Studio helped plan with one of their clients. What a beautiful way for this couple to start their new journey together! For this proposal, Jewelry Studio had a lot of help from other wedding professionals in Bozeman. A big “Thank You!” to; Remy at Labellum, Josh and Kathy at Lockie Photography, Liz at Just a Taste Catering and Amy at The Baxter Hotel. Since 1994, Jewelry Studio in downtown Bozeman has specialized in exclusive designer and custom engagement rings and wedding bands.
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JEWELS FOR
Gents by Babs Noelle
collection of black ceramic rings cobalt chrome with pure gold nugget inlay
Babs Noelle is a European-trained master jeweler and the self-proclaimed “Knucklehead in Charge” at Alara Jewelry. Her jewelry design work has garnered her international, national, and regional awards over her nearly three-decade career, and Alara Jewelry has won multiple national awards as a retail jewelry store. She is also a compensated speaker at jewelry trade shows and conferences. A man wearing a ring to signify their marital status is today considered quite traditional. But truth be told, that tradition is really a fairly new innovation. While Egyptian women wore gold wedding rings dating back to at least 3200 B.C., Egyptian and Roman male royals only wore rings to serve as a portable form of wealth or personal decoration, but never as a symbol of matrimony. Without going into an analysis of the psychosocial changes in the Western world’s perception and practice of marital relations, suffice it to say that the entree of the gentleman’s wedding band dovetails with the greater emotional ties emphasized in marriages of the 20th century. Prior to that, most marriages were marked by features that were primarily practical or religious in nature. From war sprang love… Enter World War I. A certain segment of the soldiers headed for an unknown destiny donned gold wedding bands; each wanting a physical, permanent reminder of the brides to which they were committed. This was the first notable known “wave” of men wearing wedding rings, albeit that wave was but a ripple. Men’s wedding rings were far from entrenched in our nuptial traditions. Building on that one-time ripple, the Second World War brought another, far bigger wave of men’s wedding rings to the fore. This time, the brides were encouraging their grooms to sport a wedding ring. The balance in relationships had changed in the intervening years. Love was an oft-celebrated aspect of marriage, and what bride didn’t want to see their groom honoring and commemorating that love with a gold band that matched hers? World War II is therefore considered to have heralded a seismic 8
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shift, and the mid-20th century is when men’s wedding rings became mainstream—when men started to be expected to wear one. Today, when a man announces his intention to go “ringless,” more than a few people (most likely his intended bride, her friends and her family!) question his intentions. For many decades, the obligation of wearing a wedding ring left men with relatively few choices. It is unfortunate that jewelry, with its rich history and vast variety, failed to celebrate this new, precious, emotionally-charged jewelry form by providing some testosterone-friendly options. And now, for something completely different… The first nod to variety in gent’s wedding jewelry was actually mimicry of ladies’ bands. As women’s precious metal rings morphed over time from being plain to less so, and the tradition of wearing matching bands continued, men were soon sporting rings that featured braiding, plaiting, engraving, and tiny gemstones or diamonds. Couples shopped together, searching for a mutually-agreeable style. Once again, social changes were gradually echoed in wedding jewelry. As modern marriages began to recognize that “we’re together, but we’re not the same,” so it was reflected in the rings for the respective genders. More often than not today, couples do not purchase rings that truly match one another. Today, the breadth and depth of variety in men’s bridal jewelry is astonishing, thanks to an exponential increase that commenced in the 80s. At that time, individuality in men’s wedding rings was expressed through the increasingly heavier use of diamonds. Today, such ostentatious displays in men’s jewelry are only echoed in rapper jewelry…but very rarely in bridal rings. But, since that flashiness is so memorable (albeit for all the wrong reasons), today’s men often have the misconception that anything other than a plain gold band is necessarily blingy or fit for Liberace, and therefore undesirable. That couldn’t be further from the truth. Men today, in fact, have so many options in terms of material and look in bridal jewelry, that I have found that it is necessary to actually narrow the scope of what they consider by asking a series of questions first.
Holy matrimony, Batman! What’s up with all the questions? In addition to the tried-but-true precious metals, there are many alternative materials used for gent’s wedding rings today. Once you factor in the multiple colors in which alloyed gold is available (yellow, white, rose, peach, and green), the combinations of those colors that are possible, as well as the combinations of completely different metals – usually expressed as an alternative metal ring inlaid with one or more precious metals, there are over 50 different metallic combinations to consider, and we haven’t even discussed style or the incorporation of non-metallic elements such as inlaid petrified wood, Montana agate, neoprene, carbon fiber or exotic hardwood, or the inclusion of gemstones and diamonds! No wonder men avoid ring shopping for themselves. It is counter to how they shop for most things. Typically, men know exactly what they want, and they accordingly go to the store that carries that specific item. Final selection, payment, and departure. Done. But, as you can see, jewelry shopping requires guidance, which is not a comfortable shopping experience for most men. No worries, though. Most professional jewelers have a way to narrow down the options to a few that most closely “fit the bill” rather quickly. We are proud at Alara that we carry not just a lot of men’s bridal jewelry for a Montana store… but really for any store in the U.S. As a consequence, we have assisting men with their ring selections down to an “artistic science.” Lifestyle? Material? Look? Feel? There’s definitely an interplay between ring materials and style, since manufacturing methods all have limitations that affect the shape, look, finish and feel of the final piece. To prevent a groom from getting his heart set on something that simply won’t work with his lifestyle, I find it best to cover the topic of material first. There is no one material that is perfect for every man’s needs. Things to factor in are color, weight, finish, expense, and lifestyle. In Montana, lifestyle informs this decision much more than in other places. A good number of Montana men work in trades that could pose a potential hazard to their rings and the fingers on which those rings reside; and an even greater number engage in outdoor activities that could do likewise. Here is the list of questions I tend to ask when introducing men to their material choices as they interplay with lifestyle: • Do you engage in a work or play activity known for exposing your hands--and therefore a ring-- to heavy pushing, pulling, grasping or dropping? (Construction, rock climbing, masonry, mountain biking) • How about exposure to electric current or chemicals? (Auto repair, electrical work, hot spring soaking) • Do you work or play in an aqueous environment? • How are you at developing and maintaining habits? In other words, if you were informed of which activities were destructive to your ring’s material or encourage your ring’s loss, would you be
good about removing the ring during those times? In most cases, a Montana guy hits at least something on one of those lists. So, now it’s a matter of choosing the best material possible. Often, in an attempt to “cut to the chase,” shoppers want to know “What’s the most durable?” But durability has many components, and no one material possesses them all in spades. Hence, the need to assess lifestyle, prioritize elements of durability, and make an informed choice. Precious Metals Platinum, gold, palladium, and silver are the precious metals used in solid state jewelry; listed in order of decreasing longevity. The difference in those materials’ respective life spans is a direct result of density and therefore the rate at which the metal wears away. None of these precious metals corrode in water; and none but silver tarnish. 18K yellow gold with All known gem-setting techniques uncut diamond cubes can securely hold gems or diamonds in any of them, with the long-term security of the gems directly tied to the wear rate of the metal. Precious metals can be die-struck, milled, cast, or handcrafted. That variety of crafting methods means that the sky is the limit in terms of textures, curves, finishes, and color combinations. In other words, precious metals offer unlimited creativity. Alternative Metals There are some jewelers who are to this day not offering alternatives to precious metals. As a result, many consumers are unaware that some of these alternatives have been available for quite some time. In fact, steel was a widely popular jewelry metal, and dates back to the 1790s.
titanium with hardwood inlay and engraving
Titanium is actually a noble metal, meaning that it is highly resistant to corrosion—just like the precious metals. It has the highest strength-to-weight ratio of any metal, and is inert in the presence of any chemical to which you could safely expose your skin, including chlorinated water. As an extension of that, titanium used in its pure form can be tolerated on the skin by everyone, even those with extreme skin sensitivities. If graced with a brushed finish, titanium can be readily refinished at home by the consumer. And contrary to urban myth (mostly disseminated by uneducated jewelers), a titanium ring can be cut off in the case of an emergency. Titanium rings are made through a cutting/milling process, and they can certainly be destroyed likewise, if need be. Another fact to bear in mind is that the great majority of injuries that command a ring be removed are the result of a ring bending, thereby compressing a finger and causing blood to be trapped. Frankly, if your hand withstood a blow strong enough to bend a titanium ring, you would have far bigger problems than a crushed ring!
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the proposal Due to the fact that titanium is primarily machined to make jewelry, you will find that titanium jewelry is mostly crafted in styles that have a distinctly “light industrial,” straight-lined look. Rigorous curves, delicate components (like prongs), and the charming irregularity possible in handcrafting are not possible. But inlays of precious metal, exotic hardwood, rubber, niobium, and carbon fiber are completely feasible, and well-suited to titanium. Zirconium is titanium’s neighbor on the periodic table, and possesses many of the same qualities. It’s slightly heavier than the “feels like plastic” titanium, and is more difficult to scratch or mar. It can be used with many of the same inlay materials as titanium. Its most unique property is that is can be heated to produce a thick, black oxide layer. This color is not through-and-through, so it can be penetrated, exposing the native gray color underneath. (And don’t believe there’s such a thing as “black titanium.” That material is actually mostly zirconium, with a little bit of titanium thrown in so it can be marketed as a titanium product.) Tungsten Carbide is best known for its ability to retain its original finish. Although made by an entirely different process than zirconium and titanium, its design limitations are similar, since it must be finished using tools not unlike those used to cut diamonds, which means they work best along straight planes. As a consequence, the molds and dies into which powdered tungsten and carbon are placed before being heated to about 6000 degrees Fahrenheit are made with mostly straight lines and flat planes. Tungsten carbide rings are “breakaway,” meaning that while they cannot be cut off, they will shatter when pressure is applied simultaneously at opposite sides (easily done with a pair of vice grips). It is therefore far from ideal for a wearer who might unintentionally do just that while working or playing. The additional “weak spot” of tungsten carbide is that it is susceptible to chemical attack, even by things as simple as natural hot spring water, common solvents, and chlorine. Once attacked in such a manner, their finish goes permanently fuzzy and dull, with no available fix. Ceramic rings are remarkably similar to tungsten carbide ones, in terms of manufacture, styling, and limitations. Chemically, they are actually titanium carbide, and can be colored black through-and-through. Cobalt chrome is actually a mixture of cobalt and chromium, plus a smattering of molybdenum. Like titanium and zirconium, it was originally “borrowed” from the medical field. A light gray color, it has tremendous tensile strength like titanium. It has the unique ability to be colored with a flat, black surface that lends itself to edgier designs. Since cobalt chrome can be cast, it is open to far more design possibilities. It possesses an excellent combination of style freedom and strength, combined with a non-tarnishing white color.
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Nickel-free stainless steel, unlike other grades of steel, has the hypoallergenic qualities of titanium and zirconium, but is produced at less expense. It is generally machined to thicker gauges, and so tends to be more clunky than titanium pieces. And then there are the crafting techniques unique stainless steel with to certain metals. Mokume nickel-free green and rose gold inlays gane, the Japanese art of folding and working different types and alloys of precious metal, plus shakudo and shibuichi for black contrast, looks like wood grain. Similarly, but of different origin, is Damascus steel, which similarly combines different grades of steel to produce organiclooking textures and patterns. My most sincere advice to men looking for a wedding ring is: embrace the options rather than be thrown off by them. Dedicated jewelry professionals can properly guide you. Look for jewelers who actually stock a variety of materials, and can speak intelligently on each of them. Beware of “sour grapes,” but be willing to hear that the type of ring you thought 18K gold you really wanted might not be a possibility Mokume gane in the metal of your choice, or might not be ideal for your lifestyle. Have a memorable wedding and a blessed life together!
Father-of-the-Bride
….does anyone remember him? Of course Daddy is happy to pitch in or completely fund his little girl’s special day. But it seems he gets the short end of the stick in the recognition department, huh? Gifts for the bridesmaids and maid of honor, for the groomsmen and the best man. Mom often gets a special part in the ceremony or other special recognition. Dad gets the bill.
blackened cobaltchrome with bride and groom fingerprints
How about giving something that he will carry with him every day to remind him of that beautiful wedding? At Alara, we are proud to present the incredible artistry and lifetime design of William Henry Studios. Award-winning knives, plus pens, money clips and cufflinks. All featuring rare, unusual, and precious materials. Thanks Daddy.
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The Wedding Planner
YOUR BY-YOUR-SIDE PROFESSIONAL FOR YOUR BIG DAY by Abby Turner photo by Lockie Photography
As a bride, you’re constantly subjected to questions of, “Did you decide on your cake?” or “What are your colors?” or “What’s the backdrop for your ceremony,” or even, “Who is walking mom down the aisle?” All planning questions that seem to come too early in the planning process. You haven’t even thought about it. You’ve booked your most important vendors, and now you’re swamped with the details that come with planning your wedding. Or, if you’re like the other half, you’ve already booked your wedding planner and you can respond to questions like that with confidence or with, “My planner and I are discussing that in a couple of months.” And you know for sure that all of the small details are in the hands of your planner and all is well in the world. You have another person in this planning process that is one small part assistant, one large part professional conscience that helps you spend your money wisely and point you in the right direction when you most need it. “Wedding Planners are no longer just for couples with unlimited budgets; they have become indispensable today to many brides and grooms, who find their services well worth the expense. You might consider hiring a planner soon after you get engaged if you have a demanding job that leaves little time for much else, if you’re getting married in a city other than the one you live in, or if you simple feel overwhelmed by the details involved,” says MarthaStewartWeddings.com The first step to hiring your wedding planner is to decide what you need and what you want. And mostly, what fits into your budget. It’s really about finding the person that will work beside you and help you create the most amazing day possible, while giving you the professional advice you need. Hopefully this information will help you sort through the vocabulary and get to the meat of what a wedding planner can offer you in terms of stress release, design capabilities and sorting it all out. There are 3 primary types of wedding planners, and here they are! Coordinator - A wedding coordinator is an individual that is in charge of organizing your event. Taking your vendors, designs, plans and putting them into action. A coordinator will help you with your timeline and make sure all of the vendors are adhering to it. He or she will also schedule meetings for you during the planning process and set you up with specific vendors. Typically
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a coordinator’s services start much closer to the day of your wedding, and they act as your “Day-of Coordinator” instead of being available throughout your planning process. Coordinators can be described as a project manager of your wedding. Planner – Your wedding planner should be the first or next to first vendor that you hire for your wedding. A planner is someone you can go to for any and every decision to weigh your pros and cons before you hire specific vendors. They are also there to make sure the decisions you make fit your overall design and budget for your wedding before the wrong decision is made. Your wedding planner is your voice, but speaking in terms that other wedding vendors can understand. They act as your representative whether you are there or not. A planner can handle everything – start to finish – including your wedding design and coordination. Designer – Though a designer and planner are very closely related, there is the small difference that event design or wedding design is the artistic side of the whole process. Designers are artists of weddings. They know how to put colors together, style beautiful tablescapes, and bring your vision of your wedding to fruition. This service is usually included in a wedding planner’s packages, but not in a coordinator’s package. Look for portfolios of work and where they have been published to get a feel for their style. The good news is that there are people, wedding planners/designers/coordinators that specialize in keeping your day stress-free, your family members happy, and everything perfect. A wedding planner is the one person during your wedding that you can be truly honest with. In fact, the more honest you are about your wants and needs with your wedding planner, the better the outcome will be. The biggest thing in your entire wedding planning process is that you connect on a personal level with your vendors. Hiring your wedding planner based on character and compatibility is as important as hiring them based on your budget and their pricing. Take advantage of their “free consultation,” and consider it an interview for both you and the planner. This is how you know you’re hiring someone you can trust to make decisions based on your needs. Icing on the Cake Events started in 2008 out of a lifetime love of planning events. After 6 years, they have expanded into the Rocky Mountain Region, still focusing primarily on Montana weddings. Lead Wedding Designer, Abby Turner loves bright colors, metallic and vintage pieces. It is her goal to create a unique experience for each and every one on of her lovely couples whether from out of state or residents of Montana. Happy Planning!
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Bridal Registry by Lisa Rickenbaugh
Creating a bridal registry should be one of the most enjoyable parts of planning your wedding! It’s all about giving your friends and family the opportunity to celebrate you and your new home. Here are some guidelines for great bridal registry: 1. Do your research. Go online and visit all of the familiar chain stores to get an idea of selection and price. Then consider a favorite local boutique that might offer a more personal experience for your guests… and you!
6. Choose a variety of coordinating items with different price points. Whatever the budget may be, your guests will be able to put together a thoughtful gift. Think about colors and styles that will live happily together in your home. 7. Look at the return policy. Many stores have terrific registry programs. Read all about each program so that you can take advantage of the benefits. Look for an easy return policy, complementary giftwrap, simple ways to update your registry and a discounted completion program. 8. Get the word out to your guests. Many stores offer informational cards to tuck into one of your mailings to you guests. A wedding website is a great way to list your registries. 9. Update often. Make sure that your guests have lots to choose from. 10. Don’t forget to say thank you! This is great opportunity to tell your guests how much you appreciate their love and support in addition to the gift!
2. Take stock of what you already have. Before you register anywhere, look at what the two of you already have. Then, you will know where the holes are and can plan accordingly. 3. Register at a several different of stores. Some of your guests will appreciate the ease of choosing a gift for you online while others will enjoy shopping locally. 4. Register together. You and your fiancé are now a team. Start working together by discussing your favorite styles. 5. Choose things you love. These presents will be with you for a long time and will bring back memories of this magical time. 14
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Working Together
CONTINUING YOUR RELATIONSHIP EDUCATION by Jamie L. Herzog photo by Lockie Photography
Most brides spend hundreds of hours preparing for their wedding day—but what about preparing for your marriage? The preparation for marriage and your longterm relationship can often be overlooked in the busyness and excitement for the big day. In my many years of working with women and engaged couples, I like to challenge them to some “continuing education” for the relationship. Being fully prepared with the right relational tools can really change the trajectory and satisfaction of a marriage. Here at Journey Church, we like to give both engaged and married couples opportunities to set their relationship up for success or take their relationship to the next level of health. We offer classes and workshops for serious daters, engaged couples, or newlyweds to obtain the tools to thrive in their current relationship. We offer classes for married couples to take their marriage from good to great. We also offer many opportunities for people to enhance their spiritual life as an individual. We see tremendous growth in couples where each partner is growing individually with their own personal walk with God. So no matter where you are at in your relationship— whether dating, engaged, or married—we invite you to come check out the many opportunities we have to enhance your relationship. We are passionate about empowering couples with the greatest possible level of health and fulfillment. Visit our website to see what is currently happening around relationship enrichment. http://journeyweb.net/connect/ adults/ or contact Jamie Herzog at (406) 922-0190 or jamie@journeyweb.net. We would be happy to assist you in finding the right continuing education for you!
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Trends by Sari Feenstra
Each year, the biggest bridal designers evolve their collections to breathe new life into the current trends and start new ones as well. Current wedding gown trends include delicate details, intricate cuts, luxurious fabrics, and surprising elements. Here are the most beautiful trends featured in current bridal collections and the dresses that will make you unforgettable on your wedding day.
1 - Vintage Flare
Vintage wedding dresses will continue to be popular among brides, and 2014 inspirations are going to be more “1920s chic.” This era was all about sparkle and shimmer, and designers are taking these elements to make glamorous gowns. These styles are sophisticated yet flirty, and gorgeous with all-over beading. Slinky and sexy silhouettes adorned with sequins, beads, and all things shiny will be reminiscent of styles from the romantic “Roaring ‘20s.”
2 - Jaw-Dropping Back Detail
A bride is seen from all angles on her wedding day—especially walking down the aisle. Designers have been adding surprising elements with beautiful back details, from backs entirely covered in lace, to intricate beading, daringly deep v-backs, sexy keyholes, or elegant buttons running the length of the train. These details that place the focus on your back creates a sophistication that will make every exit as fashionable as your entrance. 1.
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Many designers have stepped out of the traditional “white” box and now offer their gowns in stunning colors. The trick is to find a color that's flattering to your skin tone—not everyone looks great in white. Champagnes and blush pinks are top choices. Gold will find its way into wedding dresses in the form of not only rich colored fabrics, but also beading and embroidery. Gowns in color are gaining more popularity, since many brides find that their skin tone works better in colored dresses
than in white, which can wash out fair-skinned brides.
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Classic meets modern with current lace designs. Gone are the days of your grandmother’s lace tablecloths, being replaced with intricate lace designs that feel fresh. Traditional lace will get a new spin in the upcoming seasons. We are seeing the classic Alencon and Chantilly lace used in cuttingedge ways, but designers are also experimenting with stunning textured laces such as crocheted or graphic floral, as well as shimmery metallic designs. Lace gowns have a dramatic and sophisticated feel that is elegant enough for a black-tie wedding, or can be rustic and laid-back for a backyard country wedding.
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Sleeves are back and there’s nothing frumpy or boring about this new trend! Every designer is incorporating a variety of straps and sleeves into their collections. From short-capped ones to elbow-length and even wristlength, brides will have a variety to choose from. Sleeves add glamor, whimsy, and old-fashioned Hollywood style to wedding gowns. Besides the fashion, there’s also a practical side to putting sleeves on gowns. Sophisticated cap sleeves will keep you from feeling overexposed, while three-quarter sleeves or full-length will have you covered. It also allows for more creativity and diversity in dress selections. In this day and age, it seems the options are endless. Selecting the perfect wedding gown is distinctly individual to each bride. Think about how you want to feel and the look that you want to capture. Finding your dress is one of the most special moments that any bride gets to experience. The key is to never settle for less than what you want and to keep searching until you find the perfect one! In the end, follow your heart.
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Finding his Tuxedo by Sari Feenstra
You may think that all tuxedos are the same—your fiancé can walk into the closest formalwear shop and pick up your wedding-day duds. Sorry to say, but it’ll take a little more effort than that. The groom needs to show off his sense of style for the wedding also, and there’s no better way to do so than with the perfect tux. Here’s how to find the right tuxedo for your groom.
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At the most basic level, his attire should be appropriate for your venue and fit with the overall vibe of the wedding. If your wedding is during the daytime or outdoors, it can be a bit more casual—think lighter-colored suits made of fabrics like seersucker or khaki. If it’s an evening affair in a ballroom or swanky hotel, choose either a dark, well-tailored suit or a tux. Remember, your wedding is your first opportunity to show off your style as a couple, so make it a joint effort. While you may not actually want to try on the gown in front of him and compare styles before the wedding, you’ll want to be sure your styles work together. If your dress is a bedazzled ball gown, you won’t want him wearing a lightweight linen suit—you’ll want him in a classic black tux. Other combos that work: a rustic lace gown paired with a tailored tan suit, or a streamlined city-chic gown with a slim-cut gray suit. To look his best, your groom needs a style that fits his body type. If he’s tall and thin, most tuxedos and suits will look good on his frame. To add bulk, a double-breasted suit will make him look broader. To slim down, try a fitted suit with a little bit of a nip in the waist, and also avoid lighter-colored suits since darker hues are slimming. Shorter grooms should look for a twoor threebutton jacket with a low button stance to elongate the body and steer clear from a longer-cut coat.
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Now that everyone is matching and coordinated, it’s time to pick your groom’s extras so he can stand out. To achieve a totally unique look, it’s all in the details. Spice things up and have your guy wear a special boutonniere or a bow tie, vest, tie, cummerbund, or cuff links in a different color or style. If your wedding palette has two colors, he can wear one of the shades while the rest of the guys wear the other. For a deluxe affair, have the groomsmen each wear a tux with a black bow tie and black vest, while your groom dons the fancy version with a white tie and white vest. Also, encourage your groom to inject his personality into his outfit and show off that special something you fell in love with. If he’s musical, add a treble clef to his boutonniere; if he’s a sci-fi nerd, gift him with Star Wars cuff links. Some current trends in the tuxedo industry include grey or charcoal-colored suits, lighter khaki or tan suits, and more casual looks without a coat, but with suspenders and skinny ties. Individuals are often confused by the difference between a tuxedo and a suit. The main difference is the material of the lapel or collar of the coat. The lapel of a tuxedo coat is
typically made of a shiny satin material. The lapel of a suit jacket is usually the same material as the rest of the coat. Details to look for when trying to distinguish between coat styles include the type of lapel, including the notch, peak, or shawl collar detail. Other details when choosing a coat style are the number of buttons on the coat, pocket styles, and coat length. Wedding party roles are usually differentiated by the vest color and tie styles. For example, the groomsmen typically wear vests and ties that match what the bridesmaids are wearing or colors that fit the theme of the wedding. It doesn’t have to be an exact perfect match—but at least in the same color scheme so it doesn’t look off in your wedding pictures. Ushers or fathers can be put in an accent color that also matches the wedding, but they always look sharp in silver or black. Their respective tuxedos don’t need to perfectly match the groomsmen, but they should certainly fit the formality of the event. Also, think about other wedding VIPs that may need tuxedos: ring bearers, grandparents, and possibly the officiant. The first step in your men’s formalwear decision process is finding a good tuxedo shop. You want a store that is reliable and one that has a good reputation. Call ahead to ask about the range of suits and tuxedos they offer, and assess the overall vibe when you visit the store. Is it busy? Do the salespeople seem to have a good knowledge of their inventory? While shopping, take advantage of the store associates. It’s their job to know the ins and outs of their merchandise. They can not only advise you on which suit to rent, but can also help with measurements and fittings. Ideally, you need to place your tuxedo order at least three months before the wedding. If certain guys in your wedding can’t make it into the shop, have them provide you with their exact measurements: coat size, outseam, sleeve length, etc. (They’ll need to go to a local tuxedo shop or professional tailor for the specifics.) Make sure to find out all the specifics about deposits, alteration fees, and return deadlines. Getting this info ahead of time and telling the entire bridal party will make it easier for the men to keep track of their responsibilities. Because most rentals must be returned to the store the day after the event, make a plan with your best man or other responsible wedding party member to take it back for you.
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Fit & Flatter FIND THE PERFECT DRESS FOR YOUR BODY TYPE by Sari Feenstra photography by Erin Kaye Photography
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3. Hourglass-shaped Hour glasses are exactly that:, women who have a bigger bust and larger thighs, bottom, and hips. They usually have a slim waist. You want to shop for a dress that will hug your waist to show off your curves. Try a dress that is formfitting, like a mermaid or trumpet gown that shows off your curves but also emphasizes your small waist. 4. Square/Straight/Boyish If you have more of a boyish figure, try to find a dress that will create the illusion of curves where you don’t have them. Try a sheath dress in a wispy fabric that’s cut on the bias; the curving side seam will give you sexy silhouette. Another option is a ball gown that cinches in at your natural waist and has a full, flowing skirt. Since you want to create the illusion of having curves, it’s wise to avoid form-fitting or hip hugging dresses such as mermaid or trumpet styles. 5. Busty Many women believe if you have a larger bust, you’re unable to wear a strapless style. Not true! It’s all about choosing the right type of strapless neckline for your bust as well as having the dress fitted to you. Look for a style with a scoop neckline or a slight
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dip along the neckline. This will showcase your cleavage, but in a classy, appropriate way. Avoid a straight-across neckline or any type of shiny fabric, such as organza or charmeuse, which will actually make your bust appear even larger. 6. Small-chested If you're small-chested, look for a dress with a ruched bodice. Extra fabric up top will help fill out your upper body and create the illusion of a bigger bust. The right bra will always provide a nice boost, but as many wedding dresses are strapless or backless, your undergarment options may be fairly limited. Instead, try sewing bra cups into your gown to fill out the boning in the bodice and give you more shape in the bust. 7. Petite If you’re petite, you want to find a style with a waistline above your natural waist, to make the lower half of the dress appear longer, hence making you look taller. A sweetheart or V- neckline will draw your eyes down vertically and give you a longer look. Keep the detailing at a minimum and limited to the bodice, to draw the eye upward. Also avoid dresses with a dropped waist or tea-length, as both styles will make your legs look much shorter.
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8. Tall If you're a bride that stands 5’10” or taller, look for a gown with a simple silhouette that will emphasize your natural shape. A good way of doing this is finding a dress with a lower or dropped waistline. Make sure the dress is available to order with extra length if you need it. Now you’re ready to start trying on some dresses! While certain styles work best on certain body types, it helps to try on many different kinds of dresses, and then decide what shape and style you look and feel best in. Try to keep an open mind to trying on different styles, especially dresses that the bridal consultant suggests for you. Don’t give up until you find a dress that looks good on you. Always trust your instincts and ask yourself if you can really see yourself walking down the aisle in this gown. If it isn’t how you pictured yourself looking in your wedding gown, then take it off and move on. When you have found the perfect dress, smile at yourself in the mirror, and take a sigh of relief in knowing that your search is over!
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The Gatsby Girl
ERA OF EXTRAVAGANCE & FRIVOLITY By Leigh O’Donnell Photography by Lockie Photography
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The 1920s was a decade of dramatic social and political change. The war had ended and the market was booming. Jazz music blossomed, the media focused on cinema and movie stars, and fashion entered into the modern era. After years of restrictive garments, those confining corsets were discarded and women began wearing more relaxed clothing. Women became more playful and daring with their short bobs and shorter skirts. Their days were spent strolling around their manors and gardens in dropped-waist dresses and their evenings were spent dancing in sequins that sparkled. The modern fashion cycle established in the 1920s still dominates the industry today. This year, the old becomes new again as fashion still remains the calling card of beauty, sophistication, and affluence. We re-emerge with this unfussy attitude while maintaining a polished image. Our brides are embodying a carefree attitude and are looking to have a little fun. Rich luxurious textiles like satin, georgette, or chiffon combined with long and languid silhouettes are parallel to that of the ‘20s—a sensual expression that highlights the finer points of the figure. It's not an ostentatious sexiness that will resonate—it must all come out effortlessly!
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HAIR & MAKEUP
Trends By Sara Kantorowicz
Planning a wedding can be quite the task. However, with a few pointers it can be a little bit easier and way more fun. First things first - consider whether or not you will be having your hair done professionally. If so, it's never too early to start looking for your ideal style or updo. There are endless websites and online galleries with more photos than you can shake a stick at! When deciding how Lauren Brown Photography to wear your hair, it's important to factor in what kind of wedding you're having and where you'll be having it. For instance, if you're having a formal, indoor wedding, an elegant updo is perfect. If a classic Montana country wedding is your dream, consider a loose, romantic, halfup style. With so many fantastic possibilities to choose from, don't hesitate to talk to your stylist about your big day and what is best for you. Not all stylists do wedding styles. If yours doesn't, chances are he or she can recommend someone who does. Don't be afraid to ask for a referral. Most wedding stylists have a portfolio and a large percentage have theirs available online. When you do decide who will be making you gorgeous for your big day, the next step is to schedule a consultation and trial run. Be sure to bring photos or ideas of what you like as well as anything you'll be wearing in your hair, such as your veil or any hair jewelry. It’s also a good idea to bring a camera to take photos of the finished product in order to help you make your final choice.
to accentuate your natural beauty and define your strengths while hiding your imperfections. And they want to make you feel incredible while doing it! So if you prefer the bare minimum as far as makeup goes, more and more salons are offering beauty enhancements such as eyelash extensions to help a little go a long way. Hopefully these tips help make planning your wedding a breeze. Here's to looking and feeling your best on your big day!
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Many brides hope to grow their hair longer for their wedding day. If supplements and scalp massages aren't for you, consider hair extensions. From clip-ins to tape-ins, temporary to permanent, your stylist can recommend the best fit for you and your budget. Don't forget to talk to your stylist about your bridesmaids, flower girls, mother of the bride, future mother in law, and anyone else who will be immortalized in your wedding photos. More often than not, your stylist will know another stylist who can assist on the day of to ensure you stay on schedule and your bridal party and family members look their absolute best. One final wedding day necessity to consider is your makeup. There are many talented makeup artists out there. The key is to find one who will work their magic on you while staying within your budget. A makeup artist's job is
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A Real Wedding Photographer: Erin Kaye Photography Dress: Eskay Bridal Food: Just a Taste Catering Flowers: Budget Bouquet Cake: Sweet Pea Bakery Location: Rocking TJ Ranch Music: Joes Mobile DJ
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FINDING THE RIGHT PHOTOGRAPHER FOR YOUR WEDDING By Kathy Lockie Photography by Lockie Photography
First of all, let us put your mind at ease. There are plenty of great photographers available, so start by taking a deep breath—we’re going to give you steps that will help you find the perfect professional for your special day. First and foremost, take time and don’t rush the process. Moving too quickly through a big decision like this is often just the thing to create more stress. So even though you’re ready to start checking things off your list, remember that your wedding pictures will capture this day in a way no other aspect of your wedding can, so you’ll want to take time to make the best decision. STEP 1: LOOK AT PHOTOS The first thing that you want to compare when you’re considering photographers is the style of their pictures. Start by picking up a few local wedding magazines, and look through them for pictures that stand out. Then move to the internet and visit the websites of photographers that you were drawn to in the magazines. Conduct a few web searches as well, as there are great local photographers who only advertise online. Limit the number of photo galleries you look at in one sitting to keep from getting overloaded, and ask yourself, “Is this a photo I can see the two of us in? Does it depict who we are as a couple?" The goal in this step is to narrow down your options to a manageable starting number of ten or less. When comparing photographs, think through the following artistic styles.
Buy Coverage First: If you have a fabulous photographer in mind but are working within budget constraints, you may be able to purchase a package that only includes wedding day coverage, with the option of adding digital files or an album later. The fact is that your wedding will only happen once. If you hire a mediocre photographer in order to fit into your budget and get the digital files immediately, you will still only have mediocre photographs, so think of this as a long term strategy game, not a short one. The good news is that you will likely receive monetary gifts for your wedding that you can then put towards your album or digital files. TIP: Make sure to ask the photographer how long they store your photos and if they have any time limits on ordering.
TIP: Unless you have a referral from someone you know, limiting your searches to local photographers will help keep you from getting overwhelmed with the number of options!
Payment Schedules: Ask if there is a way to break your total payment down into smaller amounts, or build an alternative payment plan. Many times, the biggest hurdle is needing to pay a large deposit at one time. See if your photographer will allow you to make two separate deposits so that this step is more manageable.
TRENDY: As with any artistic field, there are always trends that come and go within the photography industry. For example, a current trend is the “washed-out" 1960s-style photographs. Pictures in this style are, quite simply, stunningly beautiful. What you need to think through when it comes to trends, however, is how much you will like them in 20 years. Make sure that you truly like the trend before committing to a wedding photographer who uses it exclusively.
Who will actually be photographing on your wedding day? Photography studios vary greatly when it comes to this question. Some offer one lead photographer, others offer packages that include a second shooter. Some studios offer multiple lead photographers, and with others you will be choosing between several associate photographers. Here are some definitions that will help you navigate through your options.
TIMELESS: This style may not be as initially eye catching, but these photos tend to hold up better through time. The grounding factors of timeless photographs are these: the colors look true to life, the photos are well framed and artistic, and you aren’t distracted from the true focus of the photo, whether it be the emotion on the groom’s face as he sees his bride for the first time, or the “something blue” tucked amongst the flowers of your bouquet.
Lead Photographer: This will be the primary photographer at your wedding. They will direct the flow of the photos, and will work with you and your guests very closely throughout your day.
CUTTING EDGE & ARTSY: If you like to push the envelope and be one step ahead of everyone else, then this is likely the style for you. Photographers who fall into this category are incredibly creative and always generating new and completely different ideas. If you choose this style, your photos will be unique to everyone else’s, and definitely conversation starters! STEP 2: NARROW DOWN YOUR RESULTS After the first step, you should have between seven and ten possible photographers. From there, you’ll want to take time and pare your list down to three or four using the parameters below.
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Your Budget: Budget is always quite a balancing act. The difficult truth is that most photographers who are worth their weight in gold are, well… worth their weight in gold. Here are a few creative ideas to help out if you’re running into budgetary constraints.
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Photography Assistant: Assistants generally do not photograph, but are there to help the lead photographer. They are in charge of gear setup and moving, as well as watching for details (such as your wedding dress laying correctly). Second Shooter: Second shooters complement the lead photographer by taking photographs in a second location, or focusing on a different angle. In general, a lead photographer will have several second shooters available for any given wedding. Ask who your second shooter will be and what their experience and credentials are. Two Lead Photographers: This means that you are getting two knowledgeable and equally skilled photographers at your wedding. Teams like this typically have a system down and photograph together exclusively.
Associate Photographers: Larger studios sometimes offer comparable or lower priced packages for weddings that are photographed by associates rather then the principal photographer. If they are under a respected photographer, it should mean that they are very competent and will do a great job. TIP: Ask to see work from the associate photographer that you may be hiring, as the studio website probably features photographs that are taken by the main photographer.
Reviews & Testimonials: Look for online reviews from past clients. If people are consistently raving about the photographer, that tells you something! When it comes down to it, you and your fiancée want to be on the same page about which photographer you choose. Make sure you’re equally comfortable with your choice and that you both feel they take memorable photos. Once you’ve made your final choice, breathe a sigh of relief, move on to the next stage of your planning, and make a (BIG) check mark next to “Wedding Photographer" on your to-do list.
STEP 3: THE FINAL CHOICE Arrange in-person meetings with each of your top three to five choices. As you meet with each photographer, think through these things: Personality: Do you both feel comfortable around the photographer? Are they fun to hang out with? Your photographer will be with you more than anyone else on your wedding day, so if you don’t jive with their personality, it will affect how you remember your wedding. Approach: Are they hands-on and directive, or will they turn you loose and hang out in the background, capturing whatever happens? Do they tend to set up formal poses, or have you interact with each other? Think through what works best for you as a couple, and ask each photographer how they tend to photograph. Technical Adaptability: Ask to see several samples of entire weddings from each photographer. Every photographer can put up a few killer photos that will impress potential clients, but what you want to know is that they have the skills and equipment to photograph the entire wedding day as well as they captured those few specifically chosen frames. If they have consistently great photos from start to finish, you are good to go. By doing this, you will be able to weed out photographers who have problem areas (such as receptions, when the light tends to be dim). Flexibility: Unexpected changes almost always happen at weddings, requiring everyone to adjust and keep moving forward. Ask each photographer about a time when something went wrong and how they were able to continue shooting.
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Wedding Flowers!
MAKING YOUR STATEMENT IN 2014 By Rhonda Alexander
First and foremost, go with what you love when it comes to your wedding flowers. Knowing the flowers that “speak” to you is the beginning of the wedding flowers of your dreams. Also, keep in mind what you don’t love too. Go online to investigate the textures, styles, and colors you love and find a florist that will work with you on your vision for your special day.
2014 TRENDS Flapper/Vintage
We are seeing more and more flapper-look styles in wedding attire and the flowers should complement that look. If you are choosing your gown with that timeless, classy, and vintage feel, than you might want to look at flowers that will reflect that feel and ambiance. Your flowers should be feminine, delicate, and soft with that picture perfect look. A huge statement in flowers for 2014 is brides wearing halo flowers to match their bouquet instead of a veil. Colors: sand, ivory, blush, nude, sage, soft gold, all dusty and muted hues. Flowers and Foliage: peonies, garden roses, hydrangeas, tulips, lisianthus, ranunculus, Queen Anne’s lace, astilbee, dusty miller, lambs ear, all varieties of eucalyptus. Ideas: chandeliers, rhinestones, pearls, trunks, ostrich feathers, imported French ribbon, antique buffets and great- grandmother’s lace and crocheted dollies and linens.
Organic/Rustic
This wedding theme is usually centered on locally grown flowers that are gaining more and more popularity. The garden bride is conscience of the environment and is looking for ways to up-cycle old items the family may already own. This bride loves a carefree look of mixed garden/ wildflowers and grasses in assorted photo by Lockie Photography vessels such as antique watering cans, antique bottles, or mason jars. She favors the look of burlap with tons of candles in different jam jars placed whimsically on the tables. Her bouquets are gathered with a ribbon or twine, playful buttons with the flowers and foliage having movement. The venues she prefers
range from the mountain ski area of Big Sky to the fields of her family’s ranch, to a historic pavilion or barn. Her wedding will have a very earthy, natural and laid-back atmosphere with close friends and family. Colors: Lichen green, koi gold, purple, spicy red, taupe, ivory, hues of blue. Flowers and Foliage: Anything that grows locally: zinnias, dahlias, kale, lilies, sunflowers, phlox, lilacs, baby’s breath, sweet pea, solidago, wax flower, huckleberry, rosemary, willow, and grasses. Ideas: Natural wood elements, barrels, buckets, copper, homemade pies, leather, lodge pole arches, all western elements and local whiskey and beer.
European Garden/French
Pastel bouquets rise above wedding trends and continue to be the most popular. Multiple shades of white are used to create a look that is romantic and textured, yet soft and antique. For brides seeking color, go with many shades of a single hue. Mixing pale pink peonies, peachy pink spray roses, and med pink ranunculus can reflect the rich pink tones for a breath-taking look. Personalized wraps are growing in popularity as well. This “across the pond” bride will like to include items such as a heirloom handkerchief (perhaps from a favorite grandmother or aunt) a locket bearing a photo of a lost loved one, or an embroidered ribbon with your monogram can be used to make the bouquet truly yours. Keepsake jeweled brooches add an elegant touch to today’s European bouquets. This bride is also into using flowers with meaning to incorporate personal feelings for her big day. Colors: grey, soft yellow, mauve pink, sage, denim blue, all colors semi-muted. Flowers: spray roses, garden roses, stock, freesia, lavender, mini carnations, alstromeria lilies, veronica, heather, larkspur, cottage yarrow, tuberose, lily of the valley, ming fern, lycopodium, pittosporum, succulents. Ideas: vintage tea cups and pitchers, lace, pewter, mirrors, filigree, silver, white wicker, candelabras, birdcages, bowls of fruit, chair floral cones, collection of vintage table clothes and lines, wrought iron.
Modern Princess
This bride has a royal wedding look going on… sleek and classy. She has a shimmering, beaded gown with a long train, a pretty hair accent with crystals and rhinestones and she is wearing minimal jewelry. We are noticing glass beading on flowers, cakes, shoes, dresses, just about everywhere. The modern princess prefers bold color with few floral species for big impact. She loves submersed flowers in tall and trendy vases with up lighting. In demand are floral pomanders on the chairs and pews for the ceremony. Flowers that interest her are large and bold. Colors: plum and white, royal blue and orange, lavender and lime, pool blue and coral, any colors that contrast. Flowers: standard and mini calla lilies, oriental lilies, specialty premium roses, stephanotis, gardenia, anthurium, orchids. Ideas: branches with crystals bring the outdoor in with real potted trees and decorate with either centerpieces or statement pieces around the dance floor. For this bride, hand-ties bouquets are out, and hand-pieced cascades bouquets are IN! She is special and she knows it.
Have fun choosing your theme and flowers for your big day in 2014!
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Flower Footprint By Remy Greco-Brault Photography by Erin Kaye Photography
Every day, more people are becoming aware of how they personally impact the environment. As a result, many couples are making environmentally conscious decisions about their wedding day, trying to reduce their carbon footprint. There are numerous ways you can go green and still have the flowers of your dreams. As a new couple, show your guests how you plan to start your lives together and just how fun and amazing sustainable living can be. Most flowers are imported from all around the world, although many these days are also grown in California. As with most large farms, they tend to use toxic pesticides and fertilizers to gain maximum production. Locally grown flowers and succulents in vintage milk glass and terra cotta Choosing your wedding flowers should be a fun and happy experience. Unless you truly have specific varieties of flowers you just have to have, think seasonal and try to keep an open mind to possible alternatives your florist may offer. During the summer season, our shop buys directly from local farmers and gardeners who grow chemical-free. Their flowers are diverse and some types are heirloom varieties that add a lot of charm. Ask your florist for organically grown flowers that are in season, even grown locally. Buying local eliminates transportation over long distances, and the burning of fossil fuels, whether by, plane, train or truck. If you can’t find flowers that are grown locally, request flowers grown as close as possible, like from California, the Pacific Northwest, or even Canada. Botanicals are an excellent choice for an eco-wedding. Assorted plants, like succulents, Pink ranunculus in a re-purposed glass jar different mosses, and ferns also make beautiful centerpieces. They add a living, growing, modern feel to any table. Potted herb planters are beautiful to look at and add a fresh aromatic ambience. You can use any of these plants to decorate your home after the wedding or give them away as living “thank you” gifts. Your containers and vases are just as important as your flowers. There are many
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options for flower vessels to fit any wedding style. Your florist can use vases made from recycled glass and there are new styles of biodegradable vases arriving every day, some may work perfectly with your décor. Our shop hand-makes our own hypertufa pots. Perhaps an eclectic ensemble of vintage vases found at local antique shops, garage sales and secondLocal grown dahlias and moss in a handmade hypertufa hand stores will complete your vintage-themed wedding. Popular choices are vintage milk glass, varied glass bottles, and mercury glass. You can even start saving glass jars from all of your favorite preserves and tasty treats, then use them for your vases. Any of these ideas and so many more will help minimize your “flower footprint.” You can care for the environment, while still having romantic, elegant flowers on your wedding day. Even the smallest of efforts can make a difference. The brides and grooms of today, imagine a better tomorrow.
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In Montana, obtaining a marriage license is fairly simple. To obtain one, both the bride and groom must appear at the Clerk of District Court’s office in the county they intend to marry in. They must both show a valid driver’s license, passport, or birth certificate. The fee for a Montana marriage license is $53—cash only. This license can be used immediately and will be valid for 180 days. A licensed clergyman, judge, or justice of the peace must solemnize a marriage license. Many people choose to have friends or family act as the officiant in their wedding. In this case, the chosen officiant must apply to be ordained by a religious organization. There are many online organizations that will ordain anyone, as long as they provide true and legal information—if you’re interested, try the appropriately named Universal Life Church online. Many organizations are even free and only charge for the physical credentials. Make sure you check with the county to see if they require registration of credentials of the officiant ($32 fee). This makes it easy and affordable to have someone special marry you on your big day.
After your wedding, the officiant is responsible for filling in the marriage certificate and returning it back to the county office within ten days of your ceremony. Shortly after, your certified marriage license is returned to you. It is recommended that you pay the $5 per copy fee for certified copies in order to do all the necessary legal steps with your insurance.
It’s all in the Invite! By Insty Prints
A photograph may be worth a thousand words, but wedding invitations can be created in more ways than one or possibly in one thousand and one! Designing your big day is the best way to surprise your guests, but the wedding invitation is the sneak peak at the best that is yet to come. Invitations should be kept simple, but original and unique to give the representation of your desired theme. They should include the full names of the couple getting married and those of the hosts (if they’re different) and the place and time. It could not get any simpler than that, but make sure to spell everything out and remain prominently clear throughout the entire invite. The “DO NOTs” of wedding invitations include abbreviations, text message lingo, registry information, pre-printed labels and messages (where is the sincerity?), including a guest that is deceased, sending an invite to someone who can’t attend (gives off a gift-grabbing vibe), splitting up couples to attend (either invite them both or not at all), don’t give a false ceremony start time (start precisely on time as indicated and don’t make guests wait), and lastly, don’t make the font so small that guests are not able to read it and avoid too much clutter remember simplicity is key. If you can stray away from those mistakes, your invitation will truly be one of a kind and memorable to all your guests. The more time in advance you send out your wedding invitation, the better especially if your wedding is a destination one. Your invitation sets the tone for your wedding, be creative, be sincere, and keep it simple.
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Vacation Rental Homes By the gals at Mountain Home
Vacation rental homes have been around for quite some time, but for many people, the idea of renting a home while traveling is still new. Several benefits set vacation rentals apart from hotels, making them a perfect fit for wedding guests. A home allows you to relax, spread out, and unwind. Guests enjoy incredible privacy, a yard, and sometimes even a hot tub. Diverse home options throughout southwest Montana give guests the choice to be in town, on a river, or up in the mountains— whatever they prefer.
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For guests on a budget, vacation rentals can be especially appealing. Travelers often find that a three-bedroom home costs less than three standard hotel rooms. Guests see even more savings the longer they stay, as the nightly rates at vacation homes typically decrease as the number of nights increases. Additionally, fully equipped kitchens provide the opportunity for enjoying meals as a larger group at home, at a fraction of the cost of restaurant dining. Most vacation rentals do require a multi-night stay, with a typical minimum stay of three nights. But because Montana is such a special place, out-of-town guests are likely to consider turning their trip into a vacation, resulting in a truly memorable experience with your wedding as the centerpiece. And finally, consider renting from a management company, where guests enjoy additional benefits and services such as a 24-hour customer service contact, concierge services, housekeeping, and partnerships with local vendors—so that you can focus on being the bride!
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Give your guests a gathering place with the privacy and comfort of a home for less than the cost of staying in a hotel. Simply send them to mountain-home.com and we will plan their stay so you can focus on your big day.
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Finding the Fairytale By Kathy Lockie Photograph by Lockie Photography
Think of your favorite romantic movie. Whether it’s a Disney fairytale, an Audrey Hepburn classic, or a modern chick flick, there is always at least one climactic moment when the main characters finally get together. It’s always the perfect moment, it’s always beautifully staged, it always happens at the LAST POSSIBLE MOMENT, and there is always an amazing soundtrack playing in the background to really get us into the feel of things. When it came to relationships, I grew up thinking that the goal was to find that exact feeling in real life. After a few years of marriage, what I've found is that real life romantic moments often take a little more awareness to find. There is no soundtrack, they rarely happen at the “right” moment, and there isn't long drawn-out angst and anticipation. Sometimes they are as simple as Josh taking out the trash or leaving me a note, and sometimes they are elaborate candle-lit dinners. The fact remains, however, that romantic moments in real life sometimes get encumbered by an argument, or overshadowed because they didn't trigger that exact “feeling” we expected, even if we are surprised and delighted. So here’s my challenge: let's change things up a bit and learn to recognize (and create) true romantic moments, appreciate our spouse's efforts, and encourage those around us do the same.
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SETTING THE STAGE
By Picking Your Ideal Venue By Katie Hansell, Certified Wedding & Special Events Coordinator
Newly engaged couples can get carried away with the beauty of a venue before they stop to read the fine print. Picking a venue takes research which should lead you to ask questions before you sign a contract. You may have dreamed of a castle where you and prince charming are getting married on a balcony above all your guests; however this fairytale could easily be crushed by the venue’s strict regulations. What if that castle prepared peasant food, or made the princess and her royal family set up and take down all the equipment? Be wary of venues that are vague on details. This is your chance to be an investigator so it is time to take out your magnifying glass and uncover the hidden secrets. Who takes care of the setup and clean up? This could easily be a detail you overlook but make sure you are clear on who sets up the tables and chairs and if there is an extra fee to do so. Setting up tables in the most functional pattern is a job that should be left to the professionals who know how the flow of their space works. Make sure you won’t be responsible for taking down tables and chairs after the reception as most people will have left and you and your newlywed husband could be stuck doing this job alone. Not a great start to your romantic evening. What kinds of fees are associated with the venue? Most venues have a service charge on beverages, however some charge it on all beverages whether it is cash bar or hosted bar. Make sure you are only paying a service charge on beverages you host, and not those that your guests have paid for and left their own tip. Do you need a separate insurance policy to serve alcohol beverages? Does the venue have an adequate catering kitchen and are there any fees for using it? Be clear on what the additional charges are beyond the rental fee. The venue may have hidden fees and this could easily break the bank when the final bill comes knocking at your door. Does the venue offer an event coordinator? Is there someone you can reach out to with your questions and that helps with layout, food/ beverage ordering, linens and table 36
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arrangements, etc. A wedding planner is a professional in the industry that can give you advice on what vendors to pick, how to layout the ceremony and reception, decorations, wedding timeline, and many more necessary details. They are the professional that you will be desperate for when you are waist deep in wedding magazines, advertisements, pinterest, and trying to organize thousands of details you hadn’t considered before accepting your proposal. They will be your best friend during these stressful months and are most certainly valuable. What is the food and beverage policy? Can you bring in your own caterer and/or desserts? You’ve been dreaming of this day for most of your life and you want an unforgettable meal for you and your guests. Most importantly, the wedding diet is officially over so it is time to splurge! If the venue requires you use them to cater, ask for a tasting. This could make or break your venue choice. If the food is terrible, consider going somewhere with freedom to bring in your own caterer. You don’t want to be limited to something that doesn’t impress you. Does the venue have rules about decorations? Although you may think you have the freedom to take over a venue and transform it into Cinderella’s castle or a rustic outdoor experience, you may be limited to what you can do. Many venues don’t allow hanging lights or decorations on their ceilings or walls. Find out what their candle policies are. Ask direct and detailed questions. Is this venue handicap accessible? Some of your guests may have a hard time with stairs and/or may be in wheelchairs. You must think about accommodating those people when picking a venue or they might not be able to attend. Make sure there is a working elevator and handicap accessible restrooms. You may find the venue with the backdrop of your dreams but you slowly come to realize they nickel and dime
you for every little thing possible. A beautiful wedding can be ruined if there is no microphone for speeches, the food is inedible, tables collapse because of poor setup, and you spill garbage on your wedding dress taking it out at the end of the night. Keep your options open, tour at least 3 places, and find a venue that is not only beautiful but also accommodating to your wants and needs. If you ask questions and do your research your wedding day is sure to be your dream come true.
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Baxter By Amy Horton
You deserve the best on your special day. From a breathtaking creek side ceremony on an historic ranch to an elegant classic reception in The Baxter’s Grand Ballroom, weddings with The Baxter always make a statement and leave lifetime memories. Whether your wedding vision is elegant, simple, traditional, or rustic, The Baxter has a venue that can be tailored to your style. Your wedding day is one of life’s most important celebrations and we are dedicated to ensuring that your memories are filled with the joy of expectations exceeded.
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The hotel’s rich architecture provides a unique and perfect backdrop for creating lasting memories. Guests are astonished upon entering the award-winning original 1929 Art Deco twostory lobby with charming chandeliers and terrazzo flooring. The sweeping staircase leading to the Mezzanine provides for a glamorous entrance to the couple’s ideal wedding.
There is something enchanting about exchanging vows under the shaded trees alongside the majestically flowing creek. Enjoy a reception on top of the open hayfield where your guests enjoy panoramic views of the picturesque surroundings and the breathtaking sunset. This dramatic vantage point sets the stage for a night full of love and laughter as you dance the night away under the stars.
There is something ageless and chic about weddings at Bozeman’s landmark property. From the central location to the dramatic interiors, The Baxter has been the center for weddings and special lifetime events for over 80 years. Located at the heart of Bozeman, the locally owned and operated building provides an unrivalled destination for life’s most important events.
The Baxter’s Grand Ballroom provides unmatched setting for a sophisticated and intimate wedding celebration. Complete with a flexible floor plan and one-of-a-kind vintage charm, our National Historic Landmark is affordable with everything you need on-site in one convenient location. The décor is elegant enough to stand on its own, yet neutral enough to customize to suit the style of your day.
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Located 15 minutes south of Bozeman, Cottonwood Creek Ranch is a 270-acre working ranch with an active wildlife migration corridor, and tepee rounds still visible from many years ago. When your guests arrive, they will walk along a path through the trees and over a bridge to a gorgeous meadow revealing the wedding arch perfectly situated along Cottonwood Creek.
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THE LAST BEST PLACE TO GET HITCHED By Sheila Chapman
The former Governor of Montana Brian Schweitzer coined Montana as the “Last Best Place.” Known as Big Sky Country, the blue, vast sky goes on forever through the prairies and over the mountain peaks. Montana is majestic and special with one of the premier resorts for destination weddings: Big Sky Resort. Located only 18 miles from the boarder of Yellowstone National Park and just south of the busiest airport in Montana, servicing 13 non-stop flights from major cities, Big Sky Resort is sought out by many brides and grooms for their “Best Place” to say “I Do.” Hailey and Joey live in Colorado, but they decided to return to Montana (both Montana State University Alumni) to get married in a setting where their guests could share in their love for the outdoors, surrounded by world-class hiking, mountain biking, rafting and fishing. Big Sky was the spot. Destination weddings today have become more of a wed-cation for the wedding party, family, and friends. The scenic backdrop and outdoor activities may be at the top of everyone’s mind, but quality accommodations, a professional staff, catering and food services are just as important in bringing the couple’s dream to life. Hailey and Joey worked with Big Sky to find just that, alongside a beautiful outdoor wedding and indoor reception. The bride started her wedding day by loading the wedding party on the chair lift for mountaintop photographs. A summer storm swirled around Lone Peak offering a dramatic setting and some fabulous images. 40
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Another saying in Montana is, “wait five minutes and the weather will change.” Although a summer storm was lurking in distance, the couple’s plan to exchange vows outside in the Big Sky Mountain Village Plaza went off with the hitch of Hailey and Joey and the iconic backdrop of Lone Peak at an elevation of 11,166 feet as a witness. Ultimately, the weather did refuse to yield and as a drizzle grew into a shower. The Big Sky Resort staff made the snap decision to move the al fresco cocktail hour indoors. The quick change never interrupted the flow of the evening, and the professional Big Sky Staff never missed a beat. Planning and finalizing the wedding day can be very stressful. Add in planning an outdoor destination wedding, and it can be downright daunting. Big Sky Resort has a specific Wedding Sales Manager & Conference Coordinator-Wedding Specialist, Margo Humphries, to help each bride and groom through every step. Big Sky Resort can handle everything from multiple venues to catering to decorations to lodging arrangements. Throw in a full service spa, complete with a hair salon, and added events like rehearsal dinners and farewell brunches, and Big Sky is truly a one-stop destination resort. “I want to give each of my brides the peace of mind that everything can be done in one place. It’s their wed-cation too and I want them enjoying Big Sky Resort with their guests,” says Humphries.
Although summer is the most popular season for weddings at Big Sky Resort, it is a world-renowned ski resort and the largest in the United States—so it isn’t unusual to host winter weddings either. Cold temperatures and mountain snow aren’t usually in the picture when brides dream up their perfect wedding day. But for Tracy Corwin of Dallas, TX, Lone Peak in December was the ultimate backdrop for her white wedding to husband-to-be Mike Martin. For her big day, Mother Nature offered up an unequaled mix of sunshine and snow to make the ideal backdrop for her dream outdoor nuptials. Just ask Laura Parker, who brought a team of ten aspiring photographers with her to capture every moment of the Martin family’s celebration of love and commitment. “This was one of the most beautiful winter weddings we have ever seen,” Parker said. The couple exchanged vows in an intimate outdoor ceremony in Big Sky’s base area—the bride braved brisk mountain air in an elegant strapless dress. A few members of the photography team even hung suspended in mid-air to get the perfect shot, thanks to the help of the resort’s Twin Zipline. Following the ceremony, Tracy, Mike and their guests dined on Mexican meatballs and lemon-thyme roasted chicken, and danced into the wee hours of the morning. The locals’ favorite Sweet Pea Bakery crafted a beautiful three-tier wedding cake decorated with intricate candied snowflakes to complete the couple’s winter wonderland theme.
Who wouldn’t want an element of adventure to begin a lifetime together? With new husband Mike’s arms wrapped firmly around her, Tracy couldn’t help but join the fun in Big Sky Resort’s Tube Park, wedding dress and all. Adds Big Sky Resort’s Director of Conference Services, Kura Liedberg, “Our entire team enjoyed every minute of this wedding. Tracy and Mike were the perfect couple!” Whether skiing Lone Peak Tram or celebrating with wedding guests in one of our elegant ballrooms, Big Sky Resort offers a variety of lodging options, numerous gathering rooms, full-service catering, salon and spa services and diverse on-site activities to entertain wedding guests, leaving you free to focus on your big day. With seating for up to 180 guests, the Lone Peak Pavilion is the new wedding and events tent located in the Base Area of Big Sky Resort and offers scenic views of Lone Mountain and the surrounding Spanish Peaks. The Lone Peak Pavilion adds 3,600 square feet to the already existing 55,000 square feet of meeting and function space in the Yellowstone Conference Center. With its own catering tent, updated landscaping, custom lighting, and outdoor heaters, the Pavilion is the perfect venue for memorable mountain weddings, receptions, and events. A multitude of reception options are available from the Talus Room, seating up to 160 guests, to the Peaks Restaurant, seating up to 80 guests, to the spacious Missouri Ballroom with seating for as many as 750 guests. 2014 • 2015
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Obviously, bridesmaids and friends find themselves in your store while planning a bachelorette party. Billy: Bachelorette parties are about one thing. They are for the bride’s women friends to celebrate and give the bride permission to have enhanced intimacy with her new spouse and partner.
Billy: We have all kinds of games such as Dice Games and PinThe-Macho-On-The-Man. Dice are also a good couple’s gift, coupon books, massage oils, lingerie, and all kinds of things that couples can use together. Because that’s the point – celebrating their new path in life.
What are the key elements to planning a successful and amazing bachelorette party? Billy: First is structure. You need to have an agenda for your party. Plan games, checklists, scavenger hunts, coupon books. Something to get the party rolling and stay rolling to avoid down time. Always talk to the bride and consider her comfort level. Don’t be afraid to push the boundaries a bit, but you don’t want to scare people away. The second element is having gifts for the bride. These don’t have to be expensive or elaborate, but something that will enhance the intimacy of the new couple’s relationship. The emphasis is on healthy FUN while honoring your girlfriend.
Why are the guests at the bachelorette party so important? What do they bring to the party? Billy: The guests at a bachelorette party are different than the ones invited to the bridal shower. These women generally are the bride’s social group. They are the ones that are part of the relationship conversations, intimacy conversations and discussions that women need to talk about during their life time. The ones that are saying, “It’s ok to be a female, it’s even better to be open about your intimacy.”
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Anything else you’d like to stress about your shop that invites people past the frosted door? Billy: Our store specializes in healthy relationships and good communication between partners. We have the newest, funnest and sexiest products for bachelorette parties.
OUT WITH THE GENTLEMEN’S CLUB, IN WITH A
Cabin in the Woods By Abby Turner Photographs by Lockie Photography
This one is for you, grooms. The days of large groups of men hit the bars and then drive to the gentlemen’s club are out. Bachelor parties are putting their own spin on the world of weddings. Thinking about your upcoming nuptials is the last thing on the minds of grooms and their best buds when they head out for the bachelor weekend. Here’s a list of ideas to keep you out of trouble while still having the last best time of your single life. • The Fishing-Camping Trip: Head into the woods! Book a forest service cabin, take some tents, or plan a hiking trip. Don’t forget to see what’s hatching on the river and bring your fly rods. Especially in this area, rest and relaxation are on the schedule, but you’ll be ready for a manly man’s weekend. • The Last Trip to Vegas: Okay, I know this sounds counterintuitive to the title, but trips to Vegas are still very much on. But what about a couple’s trip? Take the ladies, stay in different suites, but have planned activities where the whole group is together. See a show, go out to dinner, and see a fight while the ladies are sitting poolside. • Hittin’ the Greens: With direct flights to so many golf-centered cities, take your boys and hit the links. You can also do this locally. Montana boasts some amazing courses designed by pro golfers, so make a weekend of it. We recommend the Three Forks golf course followed by nine holes at Fairmont Hot Springs, and then Old Works Golf Course in Anaconda the next day. • Party Like Rock Stars: Find where your favorite band is playing next, or at least track down a decent show and head out! With venues like The Gorge and Salt Lake City so close, see a concert! 2014 • 2015
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Groomsmen & Their Duties By Nick Turner Photograph by Lockie Photography
A wedding is a sacred time to bring together two lovely people—but it also can be a time of uncertainty and major preparations. The groom needs help to plan for his big day and who would be of great assistance? That’s right: the groomsmen. Believe it or not, the groomsmen actually have responsibilities to prepare for the wedding themselves besides only being the support group. These responsibilities include but not limited to… • Pay for your proper wedding attire • Attending pre-wedding festivities (the rehearsal, rehearsal dinner, etc.) • Help make the groom’s last night as a single man a good one by planning the bachelor party • Make sure to arrive on the wedding day on time to usher the guests to their seats • Come up with a little more money with the other groomsmen and purchase an ultimate wedding gift for the bride and groom • Show your love for the bride and groom by preparing a celebratory toast and memorable slideshow to family and friends during the reception
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• Familiarize yourself with the bridesmaids, since you will be escorting them down the aisle on the big day • Last but not least, make sure that the groom behaves appropriately on his wedding day—that way he doesn’t try to pull any funny business to potentially ruin the wedding After a long list of expected duties, it makes the job of a groomsman seem rather difficult, right? In fact, it’s a rather easy job compared to what the bride and groom have to deal with along with their wedding planner. From experience, groomsmen usually complete all these tasks and more before the actual day of the wedding. Then they can officially relax and enjoy in all the excitement with the other guests. Weddings are put together as part of a combined effort to make the bride and groom’s big day one that they can remember, and it shows how much family and friends truly care about their commitment to one another.
Supporting Roles By Mickenzie Reese Photographs by Lockie Photography
BEING THE MAID OF HONOR
Being chosen as the maid of honor is just that: an honor. This role is of the upmost importance to the bride, and it means you are a trusted friend, a good listener, and a smart advisor. If you’re chosen as the maid of honor, there are certain duties that you’ll be expected to fulfill throughout the wedding process—but most importantly, your role is to be the best help possible to the bride and help make her wedding dreams come true. The maid of honor’s role prior to the wedding consists of: • Being a leader over the bridesmaids, making sure all dresses, shoes, and jewelry are ordered and paid for by each bridesmaid. • Host or cohost a bridal shower for the bride. • Plan a bachelorette party with the other bridesmaids for the bride. • Help the bride with pre-wedding tasks like sending invitations, and even giving advice or opinions on wedding colors and ceremony/reception décor if asked. • Lend a listening and helpful ear to the bride whenever needed. • Support the bride in the decisions that she makes regarding her ceremony/reception. The maid of honor’s role during the ceremony/reception: • Being a leader for the other bridesmaids, making sure all hair, makeup, and bouquets are in order prior to ceremony. • Holding the groom’s ring during the ceremony. • Holding the bride’s bouquet while the couple exchange wedding vows. • Sign the marriage license as a witness. • Toast the newly married couple during reception (optional). • Help play hostess along with the other bridesmaids during reception by showing them where to put gifts and where to sign the guest book, along with other various hostess roles. Having the maid of honor duties truly means that you are there for the bride, supporting her throughout the entire wedding process—whether that be having tissues ready for a needed cry or hugs during a great laugh. Every bride needs that one person they can go to during their big day. All in all, make sure you’re prepared, lipstick and all!
MOTHER OF THE BRIDE DUTIES
A wedding is one of the most exciting days of your daughter’s life, and she will need the love, help, and support from everyone involved in her big day. As the mother of the bride, you have a very important duty to uphold to your daughter. Your duties will be primarily fun— like helping her shop for a dress and finding the perfect venue—but you will also be one of her main support systems throughout the entire wedding planning process and during the actual wedding day. You also might escort her down the aisle if her father isn’t planning on it, be the reception hostess, dance with the father of the bride, and most importantly, not forget to tell her how beautiful and happy she looks on her special day.
MOTHER OF THE GROOM DUTIES
As the mother of the groom, your duties are significant in helping plan the wedding, unlike the traditional days. First of all, once your son informs you of his engagement, it’s proper etiquette to invite the bride’s parents over for cocktails to express your joy about the engagement. About six months before the wedding is a good time to start planning the rehearsal dinner that you and the groom’s father will host and pay for as well. Your next duty is to attend the bridal shower and provide a gift. It’s also a very good idea to contact the mother of the bride about what you two will be wearing on the big day, to ensure that your elegance is in sync. Other important duties would be to draw up the guest list for the groom’s family after asking how many you are allowed to invite, spread the word about where the couple is registered, stand in the receiving line after the bride and groom, and of course, dance with the groom during the mother/son dance. 2014 • 2015
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It’s Time to Practice By Nick Turner
The saying usually goes “practice makes perfect!” or “you won’t get it right unless you give it a try.” These sayings hold true in a wedding environment setting and that practice is what we like to call “the rehearsal.” This event takes place the evening before the actual wedding ceremony, and is usually followed by a rehearsal dinner. Just like any theatrical performance, the characters’ goal is to impress the audience and act in unison with all the other performers to create a wonderful show. The rehearsal is supposed to prepare the bride, groom, officiate, wedding party, and immediate family members on their assigned roles for the big day. Before the rehearsal begins, it’s best to introduce the wedding party, family, and friends in order to get acquainted with one another—they’ll be spending a lot of time together. Remember, a lot of people have never experienced the process of getting married, so rehearsals are the perfect time for a wedding planner to direct family and friends on how to enter, stand, and act for the ceremony. First, it’s important to line up the bridal party and then continue with the processional. Second, line up the wedding party where they will be standing for the wedding ceremony. Last, it’s time to practice the recessional after the announcement of husband and wife. Usually, includes the couple, the flowergirl/ringbearer, and the wedding party meet in the middle and walk out as couples; bride’s parents, groom’s parents, bride’s grandparents, groom’s grandparents and finally other guests can exit last. For the best results and to make sure that family and friends understand the process, it takes about an hour to complete two successful run-throughs. Before the conclusion of the rehearsal practice, the wedding planner asks if anyone has any additional questions and goes over the timeline of events for the day of the wedding. If everyone is comfortable with the rehearsal practice, then it’s time for everyone to depart for the rehearsal dinner.
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The Ceremony
WHAT TO DISCUSS WITH YOUR PHOTOGRAPHER By Josh & Kathy Lockie Photographs by Lockie Photography
Here are some things to talk about with your photographer regarding photography during your ceremony: • Outdoor weddings – Since the light changes drastically, the time of your outdoor wedding will make a huge difference in the look of your pictures. For example, your best bet for great photos in mid-afternoon is to face your guests with their backs directly to the sun. This will allow your photographer to get beautiful photos that include a vibrant sky and colors. For the best photos, set up your ceremony completely in sun or shade, not half and half. • Church weddings – There can be stringent parameters on where your photographer can go and what equipment they can use when photographing in a church. Do your best to facilitate between the photographer and your contact person from the church to maximize the photographer’s ability to get good pictures during your ceremony. Tip: Think through the parts of the ceremony that are most important to you. If you can’t gain permission for your photographers to move around the church for all of the photos, respectfully ask for special permission for them to be in position for one or two very important
moments, and then return to the place they are supposed to be. Tip: If the bride and groom are getting ready at the church, give the brightest, biggest room to the bride for her preparations. Leave the basement for the guys to get ready in.
• Family photos – In general, the best time for family photos is directly following the ceremony. Think through whether you would like them to be at the altar or outdoors and plan your exit accordingly.
the reception
Two Designs
TWO STYLES
Simple and Elegant By RONDEVU Events Photographs by Tori Pintar Florals by Country Flowers Rentals by Montana Party Rentals Paper products by Kris Burmeister
With pastel flowers, log stands, mason jars, mini lanterns, antlers, and burlap. Then mixed them with pressed white linens, soft pastel floral centerpieces, candlelight, silverware, and glass stemware to create an elegant wedding table design. The natural wood and antlers provide a very organic presence on the table, but when combined with the natural pink and green tones of the flowers and the soft light from the candles you get a very soft rustic feel. Then adding a hint of formal by using porcelain dinnerware and glass stemware it creates a perfectly balanced elegant wedding table design. Combining the elements you would expect to find in a Montana Wedding with a few touches of elegance it creates a well balance, visually appealing table design. A design that can only be described as, Montana Elegant.
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Farm House Vintage
By Icing on the Cake Events Photographs by Lockie Photography Florals by Labellum Rentals by Montana Party Rentals Paper products by Priscilla Foster Handmade
Elements from rustic vintage and chic elegant vintage are combined for a different take on vintage. The glamour is gone and replaced with a gorgeous, streamlined feel, bordering on contemporary. The hard edges of rustic vintage are gone, and replaced with metals and well loved home items such as wooden spools and chicken wire. Colors mimic the outside with blues, greens, and ivory, but are used in a way that they represent what you’d have at home. Florals are wild, fresh, and natural. As they flow in all directions, imagine going to the garden that has grown all spring and grabbing what’s out there. Colors of flowers match the table and are not wildflowers, but are gardenpicked. Take the details from home, instead of outside, but create elements that connect you with nature. This design fits a variety of color palettes.
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Catering
by Liz Bauer Photographs by Lockie Photography
When interviewing future brides and grooms, I often hear, “Well, my aunt/sister/ friend worked at a restaurant. We’re thinking of having them do the cooking but wanted to talk to a caterer first.” Then, on the day of the wedding, the newlyweds and their families always say, “Thank you so much! We would never have been able to cook such fantastic food for all these people and still enjoy the wedding.” This scenario encapsulates the reasons why hiring a caterer is so important. A wedding can be 50 guests or it can be 500. Caterers have the experience and know-how to serve the right amount of
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Rehearsal dinners and wedding receptions take days of planning, shopping, preparation, and cooking before the big day! Then there’s set-up, serving, tear down, and cleaning to do. Why ask a relative or friend to work on your wedding day? It’s time to celebrate! Caterers have the experience, equipment, and staff to have food ready when you want it—and then disappear with all the dirty dishes while you and your guests enjoy the reception. When considering food for your wedding, at least meet with a caterer. Brides have many more important things to worry about. Leave the cooking and cleanup to the professionals and enjoy!
Cupcakes & Desserts By Christine Ketterer
You’ve announced your engagement to family and friends, and now your heads are filled with all the details for making your wedding everything you have ever dreamed of. One of the most fun parts of planning, of course, is trying out all the tasty food and desserts for your reception! The cake tasting is an event that everyone gets excited about. And even more exciting is being able to choose multiple flavors of delicious cake for everyone to enjoy throughout the night— I’m talking about cupcakes! In the recent years, cupcakes have taken weddings by storm. They’re a much more cost-effective way of catering a wedding or any special occasion. It’s a great way to get exactly what you want along with saving some money that can be put toward another aspect of the wedding— or even the honeymoon! They are also very easy to transport. Cupcakes can be personalized to fit almost any theme through colored paper liners, colors, monograms, and more! They are the perfect self-serve dessert that tastes amazing and looks beautiful as well. Cupcakes are a new trend that is here to stay! For years every wedding has had the same looking table featuring the White Wedding Cake. What better way to make your wedding your own by displaying non-traditional, modern delicacies. Make new traditions and new memories by decorating your wedding with cupcakes that you and your guests will never forget.
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“Weddings are always emotional; even the cupcakes are in tiers.”
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The Rehearsal Dinner By Leah Bohnemann
The rehearsal dinner has become a popular tradition for guests to get acquainted and celebrate the joining of the two families. Although typically occurring the evening before the wedding, it doesn’t have to be a dinner—we sometimes see luncheons taking place after an early rehearsal. Rehearsal dinners can be formal events or casual affairs. They range from more traditional intimate gatherings (for immediate family, wedding party, officiant, and spouse) to larger events including the entire guest list. Many couples invite out-of-towners to provide an additional night of entertainment for those who have traveled far. However, it’s your prerogative to throw a smaller party, whether for budgetary reasons or as a matter of opinion. Customarily, the groom’s family hosts the rehearsal dinner. However, it’s perfectly acceptable for both families to host together. Increasingly, wedding couples themselves are footing the bill for weddings and rehearsal dinners, factoring them into their overall wedding budget. An important consideration is obviously location. Many caterers and restaurants present off-site services that include coordination of rentals and vendors to alleviate legwork for you. Alternately, hosting it at a restaurant might be best. Restaurants either offer their entire space, or the option of rooms reserved for private parties. Think about the atmosphere and vibe you want for your party, visit a few locations, ask some questions about what the restaurant can do to fulfill your vision, and you’ll soon have picked a location for the kick-off to your wedding celebration!
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COCKTAIL LOUNGE By Arron Cline Photograph by Lockie Photography
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Many companies can offer you bar service along with catering food, but we believe the bar is integral and deserves the special attention that only we can provide. We offer both cash and hosted bar service, or any combination of the two. We sit down with you before your event to discuss your budget and determine what works best for you. Our situation is unique compared to other vendors—when clients book with us, we don’t just provide bar service. Because of our liquor license and insurance, we are also assuming liability for your guests in a way that other vendors don’t. We take care of the entire bar setup, from assistance with wine pairing and signature cocktails to ice, mixers, condiments, and straws, as well as lighting, tables, and linens for our bar. We bring a large selection of liquor and cater to any special requests or favorite brands—we want you and your guests to be happy and satisfied with our service. Hiring our licensed, insured, and professional staff means that you’ll get expertly crafted cocktails and the knowledge that you and your guests will be able to enjoy your event safely.
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To maximize romance (and your vacation dollars) the overall value of an all-inclusive resort is hard to beat. Pioneered over 40 years ago for singles, all-inclusive resorts have dramatically evolved to incorporate many beautiful, expansive properties that cater to all types of vacationers—including couples. If relaxing on a beautiful beach while enjoying impeccable service is of the highest order, an all-inclusive resort is an ideal and affordable vacation. One of the best reasons for staying at an all-inclusive resort is being able to budget for everything prior to embarking on your vacation. All of your meals, alcohol, tips, taxes and non-motorized water sports are included in most all-inclusive resorts. Because many vacationers prefer to “stop and flop” on a beach while on vacation, staying at an all-inclusive provides a very relaxed environment in comparison to the traditional, non-allinclusive resorts which tend to have higher priced dining options, pressing many budget-minded couples to leave the resort in search of less-expensive dining. Setting the Scene Choosing the right destination for your rendezvous is just as important as picking the resort that best suits you. Some of the most romantic islands in the Caribbean to consider are St. Lucia (the “Hawaii of the Caribbean”) and Antigua (known for its powder-white sands, casinos, and sightseeing). The Turks and Caicos Islands, Aruba, Jamaica and the Dominican Republic are other great island options that also have a fantastic array of recommended all-inclusive resorts. And, you can’t beat the turquoise water and white powdery sand of the Riviera Maya of Mexico. Keep in mind that romance is a top priority, so you’ll want to start honing in on a resort that suits your wants and needs. Included among many of the best, all-inclusive resorts are adults-only properties that will offer an incomparable atmosphere of romance. Secrets Resorts are not just adults-only, they are also “couples only” resorts in Mexico, Jamaica and the Dominican Republic. Sandals has resorts on many beautiful islands including St. Lucia, Antigua, and Exuma. Other resorts that are adults-only include Excellence Resorts in Mexico and the Dominican Republic and Couples Resorts with four resorts in Jamaica. If you want to truly go all out and splurge on an indulgent high-end, all-inclusive experience (but remain tastefully within a slightly larger budget), there are many all-inclusive resorts that have concierge and club levels that will satisfy your every whim and make you feel like you’re the only person on the 56
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island. For example, Sandals takes this kind of luxury to the next level by offering several categories of suites that come with a butler. At Sandals Royal Plantation in Jamaica, every category of accommodations comes with a butler, and because of this, their guest to employee ratio far exceeds the highest of luxury hotels that makes service here simply outstanding. Plan Ahead (and we mean it!) Just as a wedding planner takes much of the stress out of decisionmaking for your big day, a travel agent is a huge asset in selecting the perfect honeymoon. Working with an agency such as Travel Montana means everything for couples wanting to have an unforgettable trip. Our years of experience and personal approach enable you get the best value for your travel dollars while still getting you to your dream destination. And the fact that Travel Montana handles every aspect of your trip will leave you plenty of time to concern yourself with flower arrangements and reception venues. When planning, remember that it’s best to begin at least eight months in advance of your selected honeymoon dates. This timeframe will yield plenty of options and our expertise can help narrow down your options to find the perfect match for your ideal vacation. If an exotic locale is to your liking, Travel Montana can help you weed through the wide variety of all-inclusive resorts. However, if staying closer to home is more your style, Montana is a perfect honeymoon destination! All seasons have activities to offer in the beautiful State of Montana… skiing, rafting, hiking, horseback riding or just nestle in by a roaring fire, just to name a few. And, there are world-class accommodations to consider that rival any luxury resort. Consider these:
THE RESORT AT PAWS UP
The Resort at Paws Up offers an escape into the magnificence of Montana's pastoral countryside. This authentic Montana resort is discretely nestled among some of the most breathtaking country in the world. Spend a day on horseback, cast a fly in sparkling waters to eager cutthroats, explore the Montana land Lewis and Clark explored, or indulge in unique spa treatments. Choose from 28 luxury ranch vacation homes or 18 impeccably appointed luxury camping tents (glamping)—all featuring an interior landscape rich in rustic elegance different than any other Montana hotel or resort. Its first-class adventure in a wilderness sanctuary you'll never forget. There's only one thing better than being "one with nature"—being two with nature. And, there’s no better place for two people to celebrate their love than at The Resort at Paws Up—offering the finest Montana romantic vacations and honeymoons. They've
taken Montana romance to new heights. Their starlight wagon rides, sumptuous spa treatments and gourmet dining will ignite passions and transform flames of love into a raging bonfire. Stay in one of their luxurious, uber-private homes, or choose something a bit more adventurous and go luxury camping. Glamping is the latest rage for couples on their honeymoons.
TRIPLE CREEK RANCH
The retreat of a lifetime and the romance of the West await the discriminating world traveler at this unparalleled, all-inclusive resort. Triple Creek Ranch is nestled among the majestic Ponderosa Pines in the Bitterroot Mountain Range of the Northern Rockies and sparkles like a Montana gem in all seasons. This Relais & Chateaux property offers its guests pristine scenery, elegant accommodations, fine dining and unlimited outdoor adventures along with all-inclusive specially scheduled activity weekends. Unsurpassed service, private log cabins with hot tubs, blue ribbon trout streams, remote Alpine lakes and virgin powder are but a few luxuries that abound. This is an ideal destination for discerning adult travelers seeking a small intimate resort hideaway; children ages 16 and older are welcome. Triple Creek Ranch has 23 beautifully appointed cabins each containing a wood burning fireplace, private or nearby hot tub, air conditioning, direct dial phones with voicemail, wireless internet, Keurig coffee makers with an assortment of hot beverages to choose, satellite TV and Blu-ray player, fully stocked wet bar, refrigerator, in-room safe, in-cabin service, daily housekeeping and nightly turndown service—plus much more! All the cabins offer refined regional décor and original Western genre artwork. Golf carts are available during non-snow months with all luxury cabin accommodations. This is an exceptional destination for small intimate weddings with spectacular scenery and unique ceremonies. Activities coordinators can assist with details in planning the wedding / honeymoon of your dreams. If there is a total buyout, children of all ages are welcome. Honeymooners may enjoy the onsite outdoor heated pool, fitness center, tennis courts and putting greens. Activities include on-ranch horseback rides, casting clinics, fly fishing in one of
the onsite ponds, bank fishing, birding and nature tours, photo safaris, hiking to remote lakes, alpine and Nordic skiing, and snowshoeing, just to name a few of the activities and events available.
THE LODGE AT WHITEFISH LAKE
Inspired by the grand lodges of the past, with all the conveniences of the present, the Lodge has returned a sense of leisure and grace to the Montana travel experience. Surrounded by mountains with the pristine waters of Whitefish Lake at their back door, and all the amenities of a full-service resort, the Lodge provides the perfect location for your Montana honeymoon. With outstanding service and deluxe accommodations you will be able to enjoy all that Whitefish and the Flathead Valley have to offer. The Lodge is only minutes from downtown Whitefish, ten minutes from the ski slopes of the Whitefish Mountain Resort and less than a 30-minute drive to the scenic wonders of Glacier National Park. No matter the reason, no matter the season, there’s always something to do in Whitefish. But don’t feel guilty if you decide to take a less active approach. Relax by the fireplace in your suite. Enjoy coffee and conversation while overlooking the lake. Tempt your taste buds with dinner in the Boat Club. Melt the stress away with a massage in the Spa. The choice is yours. So relax and enjoy this once-in-a-lifetime experience! Billie J. Ruff, CTC, CTE, ACC; President/CEO, Montana Travel, Bozeman President/CEO, Travel Café – Billings, Missoula, Great Falls 2014 • 2015
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Head West 24 W. Main Bozeman, MT 59715 406-587-2153 www.headwestbozeman.com We have boots to outfit the bride, groom and the entire wedding party! Guys, check out our selection of snap shirts, cowboy hats, bolos, buckles and cufflinks. Gals, find unique turquoise & silver jewelry, fun dresses, cowgirl boots and accessories.
Food For Thought 191 village Center Lane Bozeman MT 59718 406-587-4454 www.fftdeli.com Scratch made food using the freshest local and organic products available. Full service catering for showers, rehearsal dinners, weddings, brunches and anniversaries. Owned and Operated by a Registered Dietitian.
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Just A Taste Catering 406-599-6705 www.bozemancatering.com chefliz@yahoo.com We'll work with you to plan your ideal menu. Our food is delectable, fresh and beautiful. From wedding to special occasions, we can do it all.
Zebra Cocktail Lounge 321 E. Main Bozeman, MT 59715 406-579-9750 www.zebracocktaillounge.com/services Hosted and no-host bars, custom martini's, signature cocktails, wine pairing and more - we offer individualized service tailored to your unique event. Scissorbills 39 Blackeagle Rd, Big Sky (406) 995-4933 www.scissorbillssaloon.com A fun, comfortable atmosphere with fantastic stylists & nail artists who want to make you look & feel your best.
Beauty & Spa Sister’s Salon 517 W Aspen Bozeman, MT 59715 406-522-3768 www.sisterssalonbozeman.com A fun, comfortable atmosphere with fantastic stylists & nail artists who want to make you look & feel your best.
Cakes & Desserts Cupcake Mountain Cupcakery 218 N. 7th Ave Bozeman, MT 59715 406-577-2787 www.bozemancupcakery.com We specialize in all events and offer the finest gourmet cupcakes to tingle your taste buds. Come visit us today! 58
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Over the Tapas 19 S. Willson Ave. Bozeman, MT 59715 406-556-828 www.bozemantapas.com A charming, popular restaurant in historic, downtown Bozeman, Montana offering space for rehearsal dinners or full service off-site catering to please any food or drink palate.
Flooring Pierce Flooring & Design 1921 W Main Bozeman, MT 59718 406-587-5428 Fax 406-586-1653 www.pierceflooring.com Pierce Flooring & Design is a Montana, family owned company that has been a leader in the flooring industry for over eighty years.
Florists Budget Bouquet 2631 W. Main St., Ste. 3 Bozeman, MT 59718 406-585-9492 www.budgetbouquetandmore.com When it comes to your wedding flowers, we can be as extravagant as you want
or as budget conscious as you need. Contemporary, traditional, modern or that earthy Montana feel... we’ve got you covered! Courtney McKenna 406-560-1480 mckenna.courtney@rocketmail.com Memories you can keep forever, flowers that will never wilt. Hand crafted paper flowers customized for your special day! Labellum 280 W. Kagy Blvd. Suite C Bozeman, MT 59718 406-552-2251 www.labellumflowers.com Labellum specializes in custom floral and event design for everyday, weddings and events. Our designs are innovative while preservering the natural elegance of every flower.
Gifts Head West 24 W. Main Bozeman, MT 59715 406-587-2153 www.headwestbozeman.com We have great groomsmen & bridesmaids gifts! Montana made buckles, jewelry, cufflinks, cowhide koozies and flasks will be a great show of gratitude for friends and a lasting reminder of the memories made at your Montana wedding. HeyDay Bozeman 7 West Main Bozeman, MT 59715 406-586-5589 www.heydaybozeman.com Here at Heyday, we offer gift registry, wedding party gifts and welcome baskets for out of town guests. Find the perfect way to commemorate your big day!
Invitations Insty-Prints of Bozeman 39 S. Tracy Bozeman, MT 59715 406-586-7007 www.instybozeman.com Insty-Prints of Bozeman, offering custom and traditional wedding invitation packages. Located in the heart of downtown Bozeman.
Jewelry Alara Jewelry 42 W. Main Bozeman, MT 59715 406-522-8844 www.alarajewelry.com Named the #2 Coolest Jewelry Store in North America by InStore magazine, Alara Jewelry carries the work of over 50 designers, from around the corner to around the globe. In-house award-winning designer for commissioned work of exceptional originality. Jewelry Studio 129 W. Main Bozeman, MT 59715 406-586-7191 www.bozemanjewelry.com As Bozeman’s Bridal Specialist, Jewelry Studio offers an amazing selection of exquisite bridal & fashion collections. We specialize in offering sophisticated and distinctive custom-made jewelry and designer jewelry collections. Gem Gallery 402 E. Main Bozeman, MT 59715 406-587-9339 www.gemgallery.com The Gem Gallery's skilled artisans can create a custom designed piece that is uniquely yours in gold, platinum or Montana mined palladium.
Lodging 320 Guest Ranch HWY 191(Mile Marker 36) Big Sky, MT 59730 1-800-243-0320 or 406-995-4283 www.320ranch.com info@320ranch.com The historic 320 Guest Ranch features cozy western log cabins surrounded by scenic views, close to Yellowstone National Park and Big Sky Resort.
Big Sky Resort 1 Lone Mountain Trail Big Sky, Montana 59716 1-800- 548-4486 www.bigskyresort.com Offering spectacular views and venues for your special day with the convenience of lodging, catering, function space and more all with one call. Mountain Home – Montana Vacation Rentals 224 E. Main Bozeman, Montana 59715 1- 800-550-4589 or 406-586-4589 www.mountain-home.com Mountain Home offers more than 80 vacation homes throughout southwest Montana. We're a great resource for your out-of-town family and friends!
Photographers Amy Hallenius Photography 406-219-7620 www.amyhallenius.com "Amy's imagery combines classic beauty with modern elegance. Enjoy your day knowing your photography is in good hands and your needs are always top priority." Erin Kaye Photography 314 N. 5th Street Manhattan, MT 59741 406-360-3979 www.erinkayephotography.com Erin Kaye Photography, photography for the creative soul. Capturing the special moments in your life. Weddings, seniors, children and little ones! Lockie Photography Josh & Kathy Lockie 406-600-4000 www.lockiephotography.com Josh and Kathy Lockie specialize in dynamic, striking images and outstanding customer service. Their priority is to make the wedding day run as seamlessly as possible, be enjoyable to work with, and to give each couple photos that they will enjoy for generations.
Premarital Workshops Journey Church 1794 Baxter Lane East Bozeman, MT 59718 406-922-0190 www.journeyweb.net/connect/adults/ Attend a ONE-day premarital workshop equipping you with tools for a Godly marriage. Topics include: communication, intimacy + forgiveness. Visit journeyweb. net/marriage to register or for more information.
Registry Altitude Gallery 134 E. Main St, Bozeman, MT 59715 406-582-4472 www.altitudegallerybozeman.com www.facebook.com/ altitudegallerybozeman Contact us to find out about our "Art Fund" bridal registry. Start your own collection of original art that you will enjoy for a lifetime together. HeyDay Bozeman 7 West Main Bozeman, MT 59715 406-586-5589 www.heydaybozeman.com Here at Heyday, we offer gift registry, wedding party gifts and welcome baskets for out of town guests. Find the perfect way to commemorate your big day!
Travel Montana Travel 1102 West Babcock Bozeman, MT 59715 406-587-1188 Travel www.mttravel.com Montana Travel is a full-service leisure, corporate, incentive and groups travel agency based in Bozeman for more than 50 years.
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directory Venues 320 Guest Ranch HWY 191(Mile Marker 36) Big Sky, MT 59730 1-800-243-0320 or 406-995-4283 www.320ranch.com angela@320ranch.com The 320 Guest Ranch features spectacular scenery and romantic settings for weddings, receptions or rehearsal dinners with lodging in cozy cabins. The Baxter 105 W. Main Bozeman, MT 59715 406-582-1000 www.thebaxterhotel.com From the breathtaking ceremony by the creek to cocktail hour on the mezzanine balcony, weddings at The Baxter always make a statement. Engagement parties, rehearsal dinners, and weddings. Big Sky Resort 1 Lone Mountain Trail Big Sky, Montana 59716 1-800- 548-4486 www.bigskyresort.com Offering spectacular views and venues for your special day with the convenience of lodging, catering, function space and more. The Commons at Baxter Lane 1794 Baxter Lane East Bozeman, MT 59718 406-451-0067 www.thecommonsbozeman.com The Commons at Baxter & Love, centrally located between Bozeman & Belgrade, is the perfect place for your wedding! For more information & reservations, please visit thecommonsbozeman.com or call 406-451-0067.
Wedding Attire Eskay Bridal 1439 W. Babcock Bozeman, MT 59715 406-577-2259 www.eskaybridal.com Eskay Bridal provides customers with a welcoming shopping experience in true Montana fashion. Eskay offers bridal, bridesmaid, formal and special occasion dresses, as well as tuxedo rentals. 60
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Plume Bridal 40 W. Main Bozeman, MT 59715 406-577-2070 www.plumebridal.com Indulge in gowns from top designers, including Watters, Martina Liana, Essense of Australia, Casablanca, and Enzoani. Enjoy exceptional service and our unique, relaxed atmosphere while searching for 'the one.' "We Believe In Love!"
Wedding Planner Icing on the Cake Events 406-924-9884 www.icingonthecakeevents.com icingonthecakeevents@gmail.com Full event design & styling, day-of coordination and DIY brides! Over 5 years of experience designing and executing beautiful weddings for Montana Brides. RONDEVU Events 406-579-8619 www.rondevuevents.com www.facebook.com/rondevuevents A full service wedding and event planning company located in Bozeman, Montana. Offering full service event design, day of coordinating, mini packages, and officiant services.
DBA Bridal Walk Downtown Bozeman, MT April 2014 www.downtownbozeman.org Stroll Main Street and discover over 40 participating businesses that can help you with all of your wedding needs. Find everything from dresses, rings, invitations, flowers, gift registries and more. See live music, partake in wine, cake, and hors d’oeuvre tastings along the way, and have the chance to win many in-store giveaways and raffles. The Bridal Affaire Bozeman, MT www.markuseventsmt.com Bridal Affaire is the biggest premier bridal show in Bozeman! Brides, Grooms and everyone in the wedding party expect to tour over 80 wedding related businesses. Featuring formal wear shops, cake decorators & caterers, photographers, spa & beauty, wedding bands & disc jockeys, wedding planners & consultants, florists, jewelers, venues, honeymoon travel & more!
Local Wedding Events Bozeman Bridal Tour Bozeman, MT October 2014 www.bozemanbridaltour.com The Bozeman Bridal Tour is a unique wedding planning experience. Join us on a tour of wedding venues in the Gallatin Valley to visit with vendors, taste delicious foods and drinks. Get great tips for planning your wedding while having fun! The Tour is a full day of wedding planning, wedding professionals, designs and tons of inspiration for your day. We provide the transportation!
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Additional Resources Visit our website for more helpful information and links to download a wedding checklist, budget planner, flower checklist, guest tracker & more!
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