Spring | 2014 by Momazine

spring issue | 2014

MOMAZINE beauty inspired motherhood

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from the editors A year ago this Spring our first online issue published. As editors and creative women we have grown exponentially. With each season Lauryn and I strive to provide our readers with inspirational content worthy of their time. Our goal with each issue is to make it even more inspiring than the last. We want you to savor each issue with a cup of coffee and quiet time for yourself. As editors, it is simply a must that we make it worth it to you. Being that both of us are moms, we know how rare that quiet time is for most of our readers. Therefore, we want to fill your time with positive and uplifting content. Our hope is that you enjoy every single page. In this Spring Issue you will find all things relative to the season with new mainstay additions too. Check out our “If You Have Time” section which has expanded with more visual emphasis. A new addition we hope to keep with each issue is our “Inspirational Book” choice for moms and finally the “Behind the Lens” Photographer Q&A in which a few photographers from each issue answer questions about how they juggle a creative career with being a mom. True to each season creatively, you will find elements of Spring woven throughout the entire issue. Easter and Mother’s Day fall within this issue and we have a fun bright way to celebrate the arrival of the Easter Bunny as well as dressing up your basket with a super cute hand painted tag designed by yours truly! Make your mom the most adorable eye mask–so easy for your kids to make! Find out how others cherish their moms each and every day. We hope you will find beauty inspired by motherhood in every page you turn.

jaime & lauryn

Merry Christmas!

inside this edition

channeling vintage hollywood

the lone ranger | amanda star photography behind the lens with amanda capps oceans 11 | kimberly long photography behind the lens with kimberly long national velvet | savvy photography behind the lens with kristina kendall

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elements of spring may day | pure joy photography gratefulness journal | sweet serendipity photography modeling gratefulness article | kristin cook if you have time | madmile photography cupcake toppers/garland | ekaterina trukhan neon easter | kim adams photography do you believe in fairies? | jaime compton strawberry jam recipe traditions of the heart | pure joy photography inspiring gratitude article | brad nelson entirely sweet photography an inspired read | shepherding a childâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s heart spring | simply shelby photography farm to table article | healthier by the minute modern baby | modern bride photography

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A film age recognized as classic and iconic, Old Hollywood evokes a style still desirable today. Often referred to in the industry as the “golden age of Hollywood” this nostalgic era of yesterday created many memorable classics and bigger than life stars. With that timelessness at the forefront of our plans, we asked

three photographers to take three different films and make them their own, creatively. In these spreads you will discover each photographer’s individual style while learning just how they juggle motherhood and professional photography in our “Behind the Lense” photography Q&A.

behind the lens Amanda Capps Amanda Star Photography

Kimberly Long Kimberly Long Photography

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NOW PLAYING THE LONE RANGER AND TONTO

CREDITS

Photography | Amanda Capps of Amanda Star Photography amandastarphotography.com Models | Rylee F., Olivia G. , Sophie G. (7), Brooke N. (7), Trever D. (7), Lindsey K. (6), Patrick K. (8), Serenity S. (7) Assistants | Helen D. & Amanda F. 6 SPRING 2014 Dresses | CreoleSha

FUN FACTS

The Lone Ranger began as a radio show that ran from 1933 to 1956. The Lone Ranger is never seen without his mask or disguise. The Lone Ranger only uses silver bullets to remind himself that life is precious and not to be wasted...in fact he never shoots to kill, only to disarm. The Lone Ranger acquires his horse Silver by saving the horse from an enraged buffalo.

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behind the lens

Amanda Capps Amanda Star Photography How do you schedule everything?

others like a cleaning person, n an ny, husband, etc.?

You better bet your sweet bippies that I outsource! I used to do it all myself and I was stark raving mad, of course, I am still stark raving mad, but with less to do! I found an amazing artist that does my editing, I worked with her and trained her to edit my way, I send her a session and she pops it out and gets it back to me, all done! I still go over the final product to make sure it is done the way I want, but that still cuts hours off my editing time. I have 5 children, I do not have time to be in front of the computer for hours editing away my life. My hubby is my biggest supporter and keeps me focused, he can also cook an amazing meal or two. My 5 kids serve as cleaners, assistants, secretaries and my own personal cheering squad.

Scheduling!!! The dirty word for a free spirited right brain, creative like myself! I have found that posting my schedule and staying consistent is the key, for me it is a must. The minute I go off, I de rail like a runaway train. I love love love my timer. I also have an app for my phone, I can set things up ahead of time and it goes on its own daily! 30 min for laundry, 30 for marketing, 2 hours for school, 30 for dishes. It keeps me mov- When you have time with ing forward. The app is called your kids, what do you like to do most? 30/30. Do you outsource anything? We love to explore, cooking, bugs,2014 art. You name it, we Do you88 get aVintage lot of Hollywood help SPRING 2014from| Spring

have most likely tried it. My kids are amazing cooks and knock my socks off with their creations. I love to just be at home with our menagerie of animals and enjoying quiet moments together. Tell us a little bit about yourself and include your photography style. I am an artist, from my head to my toes. I donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t like to match my socks and prefer fun bright colors. I love the oddness of abstracts and always color outside the lines. I am drawn to vintage, classic styles that are so far out of style it is not even funny. I donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t like to fix my hair because I do not have time, but if I had time, it would be vintage classic all the time. I love the comfort of denim skirts and expensive boots but I own so many pairs of sparkling heels that I could open my own shoe store! I LOVE them! If I am missing in action, I am possibly in my closet cuddling with my shoes! My kids are my world, they make me smile and laugh till it hurts. The Lord has been crazy gracious to me and my family. I am not formally trained in photography and every aspect, every new technique that I learn, from the way I photograph light to how I gain a childâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s trust in

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seconds is all to His glory! My photography is whimsical, it is inspired by a childâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s imagination and laughter drives me. I see light and I want to capture it. I see their dreams and I want to make them real. I work with families to create a moment, a true moment that reflects who they are and what they love. I tend to shoot from the hip and let a session take me where it may. I find that is the best way to really see people as they are! I donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t like posed and prefer love and laughter! No family is perfect

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but each family is pretty stinking amazing. What lead you to become a photographer? It was the first thing that I remember being good at doing. I learned on an old school Minolta. It was all manual and it taught me to focus and and get things right in camera. I am so thankful that I can read light and translate it to film and make it mine. Creating images that capture children and families the way they are and giving them the gift of seeing themselves through their childrenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s eyes, that is why I do what I do. One of the things that I have discovered about myself is that I truly love teaching. I started MOM-a-razzi because I want to teach moms to

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is always more money to be made but you can never get back the time you have spent, so spend it wisely.” My hubby and my kids are my top priority! Sometimes I do feel like I Most people would say pho- should have a cape, a cape and tographers who are mothers fabulous heels! Super awetoo look like Super Mom. some and worthy of a cape! How do you do it all? Do you What are some of your favorfeel like Super Mom? ite products, photography or My kids joke that I am Won- non-photography related? der Woman, but honestly I really don’t think that I would My all time favorite products look that good in spandex! I are the amazingly fabulous am your average, pony tail gallery wraps! They are heirwearing mom. I do best when looms to be treasured forever. I stick a schedule and pri- I can just imagine generations oritize the opportunities that to come, enjoying these pieccome my way. Leah Remilett, es. For fun, I love my awesome an amazing photographer and 3D reels that come come with motivator said something to a reel of images from your me that has just stuck, “There shoot! I mean, who has that? photograph the world the way they see it. To capture their children playing sports, playing in the grass, and dancing in moon beams.

It is an super fun product and just more fun than a barrel of monkeys! My favorite camera, the D800 with a 50mm fixed lens! *SWOON Tell us your dream shoot. My dream journal is full of future shoots. It is full of bigger than life ideas that someday I will shoot. I mean, hello, I photographed a buffalo with an amazing indian child. How cool is that! I talk to each and every client and work to create their dream shoot. Something they have seen or dreamed up and I work to make it happen. If I could shoot any where in the world, I would shoot at the hot air balloon festival in New Mexico!!!!

“I went to the woods because I wished to live deliberately, to front only the essential facts of life, and see if I could not learn what it had to teach, and not, when I came to die, discover that I had not lived.”

–Henry David Thoreau Lone Ranger | Amanda SPRINGCapps 2014

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CREDITS Photography | Kim Long of Kimberly Long Photography kimlongphoto.com Location | Downtown Ocala, Florida The Corkscrew & Marion Theatre Models | Tyrik Anderson (age 13), Jaden Dyer (age 10), Yancey Guest (age 13), 14 SPRING(age 201413) & Cristian Soto (age 13) Max McCammon

OCEAN’S 11

FUN FACTS

Ocean’s 11 first aired in 1960. The leading roles were filled by members of the “Rat Pack”, including Frank Sinatra, Dean Martin, Sammy Davis Jr. & Joey Bishop The film was recreated in 2001 with another all star cast including names like George Clooney, Brad Pitt, Matt Damon, Julia Roberts & Andy Garcia. Ocean’s 11 | Kimberly SPRING 2014 Long

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behind the lens

Do you outsource anything? Do you get a lot of help from others like a cleaning person, nanny, husband, etc.? No, I am a one woman show.. But when I shoot on location my husband helps when he is in town (he is in the military) and if he’s gone my sister and my parents help out. When you have time, what do you love to do with your kids?

Kimberly Long Kimberly Long Photography How do you schedule everything? My Mom duties come first so I typically write all of the family stuff down in my calendar as soon and as far out as I know them, then fill in the blanks with photography related things such as shoots, editing & education ..

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My kids love going to the park, to the Y, the beach & other outdoorsy type places.. Tell us a little bit about yourself and include your photography style. Well, I’m married to my middle school sweetheart, we have 3 boys who keep me on my toes at all times. I would say I have a few different “styles” depending on the setting, my most favorite is studio shoots and I think I have a more modern/simplistic approach with a tad

bit of vintage thrown in there. What led you to become a photographer? I was always the annoying girl with the camera in the group & after leaving my career in law enforcement I had a lot of extra time to study and really learn my camera, and after a ton of encouragement from friends I gave it a shot! Most people would say photographers who are mothers too look like Super Mom. How do you do it all? Do you feel like Super Mom? Umm NO! Far from it! I stay up all hours of the night trying to finish everything! I do know some photogs that are Super Moms & they inspire me every day. What are some of your favorite products, photography or non-photography related? Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s no secret I love Matilda Jane clothing, Aveda hair care products & Lululemon yoga pants! {I live in my yoga pants!} My favorite photography product has to be my 35mm lens :) Tell us your dream shoot. I have a lot of dream shoots but being a dancer growing up I always wanted to be a Rockette so anything dance related would be great but I really want to photograph ballerinas in pretty tutus en pointe in an urban big city setting. SPRING 2014

MOVIE QUOTES Beatrice Ocean “There’s only one thing you love, Danny: that’s danger. Cliffhanging. You could never love a woman like you love danger..”

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In honor of Mother’s Day we asked many of our models what it is they love about their mom. We love that these guys obviously have a soft spot for the amazing women in their lives.

what do you love about your

mom?

Tyrik Anderson (13) “She is nice and caring.” Jaden Dyer (10) “She cares for me.” Yancey Guest (13) “She is loving and caring.” Max Mccammon (13) “She is nice and wants me to do well in life.” Cristian Soto (13) She is funny, fun, and she SPRING 2014 cares about me.” 19

NOW PLAYING NATIONAL VELVET

CREDITS

Photography | Kristina Kendall of Savvy Photography savvyphoto.net Model | Lyndsey Keen (7) Horse | Buckaroo 20| Foxflower SPRING 2014 Location Farm

FUN FACTS

National Velvet first aired in 1944. The leading role of Velvet was played by Elizabeth Taylor who was just 12 years old. The film won 2 academy awards and was nominated for 3 more. National Oceanâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Velvet 11 || Kristina Kimberly SPRING Kendall Long 2014

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behind the lens

Kristina Kendall Savvy Photography How do you schedule everything? Scheduling is a constant struggle! I do a lot of my booking and scheduling through facebook and texting. I guess its the wave of the future! I am very grateful for clients that are also like me, moms! and they respect that I am a mom FIRST! I dont book months and months in advance because with kids you just can’t have that luxury. They get sick, babies are born when they want to be born, and life happens. Do you outsource anything? No, I do all of my own editing, etc. I am not a control freak but maybe a little when it comes to that! One of these days I wouldn’t mind hiring someone to maybe help with organizing images but that is probably a 24 SPRING 2014 while in the

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Do you get a lot of help from others like a cleaning person, nanny, husband, etc.? Not until recently have I started hiring someone for the house work. I attempted to do it all myself but I was failing miserable. I realized I had to give in when I just did not have 2-3 hours to give to my house. My husband is wonderful also! We have three children ages 8 and under. He is 100% with all things kids, he helps with homework, bathtime, he is always playing with them. I am very blessed to have him as a father to our children! When you have time, what do you love to do with your kids? We do our best to get outside! As they are getting older they are wanting to play videogames and watch TV but I am trying my hardest to get them outdoors. We purchased season passes to Busch Gardens and we love to go there as a family. I also love the library too. As a kid I was a bookworm so I am

trying my best to get them to develop a love for reading. Tell us a little bit about yourself and include your photography style. I am fun! I do not take things too seriously. And I hope that reflects in my “style.” I really don’t mind if a 6 month old has a trail of drool on their face, to me that is them and I love it. My goal is to capture emotions, real life, not just a posed cute picture which don’t get me wrong I love aslo. However, sometimes my favorites are when I am chasing a three year old in a park and they look back at me with the “honest to goodness” best toothy grin you have ever seen...to me there it is...thats my style. I dont need a formal park for a session. I love natural light and follow the sun and that is all I need for a great shoot. What lead you to become a photographer? It wasn’t really the path I had chosen. I was in nursing school, but things changed when I had my son and a nursing school admin said to me ….you are going to be in nursing school, this is your life above all else..your husband, your son, EVERYTHING. Sorry, not for me. I wanted to be home with my son. I was actually at my best friend’s wedding and observed their photographers, they were hav-

ing so much fun...and I said Yep thats me! That’s what I want to do! Mind you, I knew nothing about taking pictures. But the hubby saw my spark so he bought me a camera and enrolled me in a photography course...I was hooked and I have never looked back over seven years later!. Most people would say photographers who are mothers too look like Super Mom. How do you do it all? Do you feel like Super Mom? I would have to agree with this in some aspect! Many moms work and its a struggle and a huge balancing act...I sometimes feel like I am a juggler...

there is always something that needs to be done. And sometimes I struggle with feeling like I am spreading myself so thin and failing at giving 100% to each duty that a mom and business owner is expected to do….so if its the laundry that gets 50% eh so be it...better that than my kids, hubby, or job. Its ok to not be perfect , you just have to realize what deserves your attention the most :) What are some of your favorite products, photography or non-photography related? I am a Nikon d700 girl and my baby lens is the 85 1.4, it rarely leaves my camera when I’m on

an outdoor session. I also love the switch to USBs and have done away with discs, very happy about that. Tell us your dream shoot. Ohhh where do I begin. There would be several...would love to shoot in snow! I grew up in Indiana and miss the seasons badly so that would be fun. I think the cherry blossom trees in Georgia are gorgeous so that would be awesome too! I love whimsical sessions, my fave recently have been my tea party minis...I think a beautiful bed on the beach with fluffy pillows and feathers would be gorgeous for family fun photos. I can dream :)

–Model Lyndsey shows Presley around the stables.

MOVIE QUOTES

Velvet Brown “I want it all quickly ‘cause I don’t want God to stop and think and wonder if I’m getting more than my share.” National Velvet | Kristina SPRING Kendall 2014

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ay ay PHOTOGRAPHY | Kristie Griggs of Pure Joy Photography purejoyphotography.net MODELS | Hannah Cox (8), Lilli Hart (7), Mikayla Register (9) & Layla Salman (6) WARDROBE | Brad Schultz of Brad Schultz Designs

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May 1st is traditionally known as May Day.

START A TRADITION Throughout the centuries, May Day, has been filled with festivities galore, including •Begin an old tradition anew in your home crowning a May Queen in small towns and by making paper crowns or flower ones. villages across Europe to celebrate spring •Drop little May Baskets full of treats to a be and the fruitfulness ushered in with the sea- loved friend or neighbor. •Plant flowers! son.

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What do you love about your mom? Hannah “She’s crafty. She makes me feel special.” Layla “Her hair. She cleans up after me and my stuff.” Lilli “She is sweet and gets all my needs and wants.” Mikayla “She always cares for me and gets me nice things.” *Megan Griggs - photoshoot assistant “We stay up late and read by the fire.”

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pink oranges

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tugboat & the bird

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make a journal together

• cut several sheets of computer paper into squares • cut pretty scrapbook paper to fit as the cover • use a hole punch to put 1 or 2 holes in the top • use pretty string or ribbon to tie sheets together

gratefulness journal

For many kids it is easy to forget just how good they have things. A gratefulness journal is an excellent approach to reminding them just how blessed they truly are. Encourage your child to write a few things daily for which they are grateful. When they find themselves feeling ungrateful, pull out their journal to help them call to mind all the reasons they feel thankful.

PHOTOGRAPHY | Jaime Swanson of Sweet Serendipity Photography blog.sweetserendipityphotography.com MODEL | Madalyn (7)

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modeling gratefulness Kristin Cook | Child Psychologist Mother to Caroline (7) & Weston (11)

ecognizing that someone has gone out of their way for you and feeling grateful is not a natural behavior for children – it’s learned. It’s also one of the trickiest concepts to teach to young children since they are – by nature developmentally – very self-centered beings at this stage. Despite the efforts that may be encountered, the benefits of teaching and instilling gratitude in your children far outweigh the hassle. Kids become sensitive to the feelings of others and develop the core value of empathy by learning gratitude. Grateful kids can see beyond their egocentric universe and begin to understand that other people do things for them, whether it’s taking care of basic needs such as preparing dinner and kissing boo-boos, or providing them with more tangible items and activities such as birthday gifts or trips to Disney World. In contrast, children who are never taught to be grateful wind up feeling entitled and are consistently disappointed when demands and whims are not met. Parents can help instill the

concept of gratitude by providing numerous opportunities for teachable moments: •Make saying what good things happened today part of dinnertime conversation (and/or bedtime prayers part of your nightly routine) •Have kids help with household chores, cooking, feeding the dog – the more you do for them, the less they appreciate your efforts •Encourage generosity by donating toys or clothes to less fortunate kids •Make thank-you notes standard protocol for gifts received •Downplay the presents and focus on the celebra tion •Involve your children in shopping for others Remember that children model their parents in almost every way so be sure to use “please” and “thank you” when you talk to them-- gratitude and good manners usually entwine!

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TIME

PHOTOGRAPHY | Danielle Griffin of Madmile Photography madmilephotography.com MODELS | The Kail Family Andrew, Christie, Charlotte & Lincoln (age 3.5) 34 SPRING LOCATION | Eden 2014 Farm of Ocala

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No matter how much time you have...or how little, weâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve got some fun ways for you to spend it with your family. If you have just a moment If you have an hour If you have a whole afternoon

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Love is patient; love is kind. Love is not jealous; is not proud; is not conceited; does not act foolishly; is not selfish; is not easily provoked to anger; keeps no record of wrongs; takes no pleasure in unrighteousness, but rejoices in the truth; love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, and endures all things. 窶的 Corinthians 13:4-7

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IF YOU HAVE A MOMENT •Tell your mom you love her. •Write down 3 positive things about your husband to share as a surprise. •Read a Bible verse. Corinthians 13:47 is a particularly beautiful piece for moms and the love they feel for their children. •Before you put your feet on the ground in the morning, count five things you are grateful for. -joy of mom.com •Hop on one leg with your kids. IF YOU HAVE AN HOUR •Make homemade gigantic bubbles together and go outside to make them. (bubble recipe at

www.momazine.com/gigantic-bubbles/)

IF YOU HAVE AN AFTERNOON •Go on a May Day picnic. •Bring a picnic basket with craft paper wrapped sandwiches, snacks, cold drinks and a quilt to sit on. •Bring outdoor activities like bubbles, a ribbon to let your children’s imagination run wild or a big bouncy ball to run after. •Pack sunscreen & bugspray to keep the pests at bay. •Don’t forget your camera to capture those precious moments! SPRING 2014

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NEON EASTER

PHOTOGRAPHY | Kim Adams of Kim Adams Photography kimadamsphotography.com MODELS | Kate Mims (3) Lucas Vooys (3) LOCATION | Home of Tracey Okus Spring is such a lovely time of year. A time for renewal. All things seem to begin anew, fresh. Easter gatherings and parties should reflect those sentiments. This year we opted for a neon color palette for our Easter party. Our models had a great time looking through their little vintage strawberry inspired baskets filled with neon delights. Just to name a few: wind up insects, neon bubble wands, baby chicks, star glasses, and personalized eggs. No party is complete these days without a photo backdrop! Our bright and colorful one was very easy to make. We mixed store bought hanging fans with construction paper ring chains and then gave a little twist to crepe paper streamers. 40 Elements 40 Spring SPRING 2014| Spring 2014

HOW TO | STREAMERS We cut streamers into 9ft long lengths and gathered them in fours. Then we sewed a line down the center. Next, we took scissors and cut repeatedly down each side into the folded strip stopping at the sewn center. Use your fingers to separate the layers to create a fringe streamer. HOW TO | NEON CANVAS We finished off this fun filled party with a craft. We filled empty eggs with Neon colors and let our models throw eggs at a canvas. Here is an idea: Tape off a cross in the middle and then when all the paint dries peel it away to reveal a cross design on the canvas. Note: You can use plastic eggs. We used real eggs and soaked them in hot water and soap before using.

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do you believe in fairies?

INVITE A FAIRY TO YOUR GARDEN PARTY

-build a beautiful fairy garden (pg 42) -give her a name -sprinkle glitter -spend dreamy afternoons in the garden searching for signs of your fairy and dancing with delight

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PHOTOGRAPHY | Jaime Compton MODELS | Leighton Baker (4) & Adalay Luetgert (5) HEADBANDS | Anzanaâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Treasures www.etsy.com/shop/AnzanasTreasures SPRING 2014 Fairy Garden | Jaime Compton

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fairy fairy, how does your garden grow? When it comes to fairy gardens your imagination is key. So easy to create, you can just about make them anyway you desire. Some fairy enthusiasts like to create them at the base of a tree while others prefer to group them with pots. To attract these mythical little creatures to come stay in your garden you will need to provide things on a miniature scale. A trip to your local craft store is a great way to begin your project. Some fun items to include are tiny watering pots, white picket fences, topiary trees, toadstools, and the list goes on. When choosing plants think small. Fairies like to rest and hide in small trees and tiny little shrubs. Even herbs make a nice addition to the garden. We even hear that fairies really love succulents due to their low maintenance and upkeep. Make sure to provide a small stone path to lead your fairy through her garden. Something fun we did with our kids when we introduced our fairy garden was to have them name her. Once named we told them she would show up to tend her garden. After choosing one, our fairy Bella showed up by sprinkling blue glitter in the fairy garden bird bath. They were over the moon excited!

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STRAWBERRY JAM thank you to Amanda Reed for sharing this recipe and a batch of your strawberry jam!

INGREDIENTS

1 lb fresh strawberries - chopped 2 - 4 TBS lemon juice 1 - 1 1/2 cups sugar

DIRECTIONS

-Place the strawberries into a deep saucepan. Using a pestle, mash the strawberries until they are a fully squished. Add sugar and lemon juice and stir lightly. -Place saucepan on the stove top and heat over low heat until sugar is dissolved, about 5 minutes. Raise temperature to high and boil mixture until it reaches 220 degrees F. Remove from heat and let cool about 5 minutes. -Pour jam into a jar and chill for at least 1 hour. Spread on your favorite bread or pastry and enjoy! *find this recipe and more at chefmom.sheknows.com

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traditions of the heart

PHOTOGRAPHY | Kristie Griggs of Pure Joy Photography MODELS | Cecilia Truesdale, Beth, Walton (4) & Carter Eiland (2)

ow did we become the mother our family sees before them each day?

strengthened by a common thread, motherhood. Married in 2004 in the Cathedral Basilica of St. Augustine, Beth and her husband Parker Eiland were actually the third couple in Beth’s family to marry in this glorious church. The tradition was shared previously by both her mom and grandmother.

For those not blessed with a wonderful mother, the journey is navigated by maternal instinct and love. For others, it is a long time coming by way of example set by their own lovely mother. Those truly fortunate found their journey filled with time Tradition plays a large part in Beth’s life honored traditions learned and cherished and how she raises her own family thanks to the many she was able to enjoy growing along the course. up. She remembers Valentine’s Day fondly. Beth SPRING Eiland and 48 2014 her mother Cecilia Each year Beth would wake up the mornTruesdale share such an incredible bond ing of the holiday to find a balloon tied to

church together, when the congregation holds hands during the Our Father, they never miss the opportunity to squeeze “I love you.” Prayer time in the Eiland home comes by way of tradition as well. Beth says the exact same prayer her mom said with her each night growing up. She now says this same prayer with Walton every night and they name all of their One of the fondest memories for family members. Beth is a special tradition she started with her mom When Beth was Memories can be so beautiful. We a young girl her and her mother at- tuck them inside our hearts to keep tended a tea together. During the them forever. Beth recalls one spetea they learned a secret way to say cial to her. Cecilia comes from a I love you. One person squeezes very large family and maintained the other person’s hand three times a very close relationship with her for “I love you” and the other per- own mother. Beth always respectson squeezes four times for “I love ed that closeness between her own you too.” Whoever thinks of it first mother and grandmother. Beth can start. Beth and her mom have calls to mind many memories of carried it on now to adulthood. them sitting in her grandmother’s They don’t find themselves holding kitchen, typically one of them in hands very often but if they go to her rocking chair chatting or sayher bed. The balloon was no where to be found before that morning and she never woke up when it was brought in. It was like magic! While in college at Auburn University, which was a considerable distance from home, she received a package one Valentine’s Day from her mom Cecilia and out popped a balloon!

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I carry your heart with me I carry it in my heart I am never without it anywhere I go you go, my dear; and whatever is done by only me is your doing, my darling –E.E. Cummings

ing the rosary. Although at a young age, Beth wasn’t always invested in the conversation yet she always enjoyed being in there with them. Like so many moms, Beth finds sacrifice in all things, every day, in everything she does for her children and family. Whether we are creating memories or preserving traditions, mothers are always giving of themselves. Motherhood and servanthood are one in the same. Mothers are called to give selflessly of oneself each and everyday in all of the ways they care and provide for their families. Most mothers would agree their calling is a privilege held in high esteem even though most days are filled with humble tasks such as dirty diaper changes and carpools. Though our families may not see our daily sacrifices we mothers know them well. We carry them in our hearts. –Jaime Compton

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inspiring gratitude BRAD NELSON

few months ago, my wife prepared an amazing meal. Not to imply that her meals aren’t always amazing, but this one had been prepared with something extra; maybe it was extra effort, or maybe extra grace or inspiration. In any case, it felt different, set apart. The four of us sat down at the table, and I prayed what seemed a surprisingly meaningful prayer. The moment was so sweet, and when I said, “Amen,” even our chatty children sat quietly in hallowed silence. Then the four year old spoke. “Mama, I don’t like this. It looks gross. Can I have a hot dog?” So much for holiness. What makes the moment so funny is how absurd it is. She has no clue how good she’s got it. One of the saddest parts of living an ungrateful life is just how often we leave the goodness of what’s right in front of us to chase after something that’s so second rate and unfulfilling. Part of the problem is that we have so many choices. Seriously, how many times have you caught yourself standing in front of a fully stocked refrigerator craving something but not being able to find anything you want? My wife makes fun of me because I’ll return to fridge three or four times and just stand there with the door open looking, apparently hoping that something new has

magically appeared in the last five minutes. I’m convinced that the experience of super abundance often forms us into the kind of people who, though we have it all, don’t seem to want it. So we go on accumulating hoping the next thing will be the thing we want only to find it’s just like everything else. Little wonder our kids turn up their noses and chase hot dogs. They see their parents doing the same thing, just in more sophisticated ways. Nothing will expose you like trying to raise kids. I’m also convinced that when you don’t have it all, you tend to be really grateful for what you get. In Judaism, there is a song often sung at Passover seder meals. The song is called Dayenu, and it means, “It’s enough for us.” Rabbi Irwin Kula writes, “The song is a remarkable and deceptively simple teaching about embracing the present, while having a keen awareness of the past and a yearning for the future. It’s about feeling longing and gratitude. The song acknowledges fifteen major Biblical events, asking us to sing dayenu after each one. If God had brought us out of Egypt but not divided the sea for us, dayenu; it would have been enough for us.” One of the hallmarks of Jewish spirituality is memory. The Torah repeats again and again, “Remember that you were slaves in Egypt.” Remember, when you didn’t have squat. Remember when you were at the bottom. Remember, when you were making bricks for Pha-

raoh’s storehouses because someday you’re going to build storehouses of your own, and you’ll be tempted to forget. So make it a priority to regularly stop and say, “God, thank you. It’s enough for us.” Or as Meister Eckhart put it, “If the only prayer you ever say in your entire life is thank you, it will be enough.” Both Christianity and Judaism recognize that all of life is a gift from God, even the skills we’ve been given to provide for ourselves are a gift from God. At its best, a life of faith is a life that is always saying, “Thank you. It’s enough for us.” So how do you pass that on to your kids beyond constantly reminding them to say thank you, be grateful? How do you cultivate a heart of gratitude beyond just saying grace before meals? I don’t know all the answers to such important question, but we’re learning a few tricks. Years ago I got it in my head that I was going to be a cook, and something strange happened. After a few minutes in the kitchen, my oldest daughter would pull up a chair and help. An hour later, my wife and other daughter had migrated to the kitchen to help, to taste, and to talk. Suddenly, we were all anticipating the meal because we’d all helped to create it. By the time dinner was over, we’d spent at least an hour together. My oldest has never forgotten, and she’s constantly reminding me, SPRING asking if we 2014 can get in 51 the kitchen

and make something together? Growing a garden was helpful too. We planted with the kids. Weeded with the kids. Picked green beans endlessly. I grew hideous tomatoes, the kind I’d never have given a second glance at Publix. But because we’d spent time growing them, it was hard to just pitch them in favor of something else. We wanted these tomatoes. They were enough. However you choose to shape a grateful heart in your children, Biblical faith reminds us that it’s all a gift. So we will be the kind of people who regularly remember and say, “Thank you, God. It’s enough for us.”

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You say grace before meals. All right. But I say grace before the play and the opera, And grace before the concert and the pantomime, And grace before I open a book, And grace before sketching, painting, Swimming, fencing, boxing, walking, playing, dancing; And grace before I dip the pen in the ink.

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– G. K. Chesterton

Brad is the lead Pastor of Brick City Church in Ocala, Florida. He previously served as a pastor at Church of Hope (2012-2014) and Mars Hill Bible Church, Grand Rapids, MI (2003-2012). A speaker, writer, and graduate of Western Theological Seminary, he and his wife Trisha are the proud parents of two beautiful daughters, Braylen and Clara. Contact: nelson.bradleyj@me.com

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an inspired read

Shepherding a Child’s Heart written by: Tedd Tripp

rust, honor, love, and respect are just some of the inspiring topics covered by author Tedd Tripp in Shepherding a Child’s Heart. Learn how to discipline your child from a Biblical perspective that touches their heart and not just their minds. Most importantly, learn how to establish trust between you and your child in order to win their hearts for Christ. An excerpt from Shepherding a Child’s Heart:

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“One of the most important callings God has given parents is to display the greatness, goodness, and glory of the God for whom they are made.” (p. xii) “Parenting is your primary calling. Parenting will mean that you can’t do all the things that you could otherwise do. It will affect your golf handicap. It may mean your home does not look like a picture from Better Homes and Gardens. It will impact your career and ascent on the corporate ladder... It will modify the amount of time you have for bowling, hunting, television, or how many books you read. It will mean that you can’t develop every interest that comes along. The costs are high.” (97) –Jaime Compton

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And Spring arose on the garden fair, Like the Spirit of Love felt everywhere; And each flower and herb on Earthâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s dark breast rose from the dreams of its wintry rest. ABOUT YOUR MOM Q & A with Shelby from Simply Shelby

What is your fondest memory of your mom?

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self calling her (one of many calls each day) for advice or just needing a kind and listening ear. Somehow a quick call can change my whole day!

How have you discovered your mom in your

I will always have fond memories of our family vacaown parenting? tions growing up. My mother always taught me that quality time with our family is so very important. My family jokes that I am very much like my mom These are memories that her and my dad created for in my mannerisms and parenting style. To me, this is all three of us kids that can never be taken away... the greatest compliment anyone could ever give. She certainly set the bar high when it comes to being a What do you admire about your mom? loving mom and teaching me important values. Best of all, she is not only my mom but my best friend and I admire my mom most for her positive spirit and amazing Grandmother to my two (soon to be three) ability to handle any task with ease. I often find mychildren. She has made me the mom I am today. SPRING 2014 Spring | Shelby Finkelstein

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FARM to TABLE

Claudia Pache from Healthierbytheminute.com, exhe phrase “Farm to table” can carry several mean- plains below some of the Science behind eating with ings; but the overall premise is the same, eat fresh and the seasons and what is in your local area. local from your farmer. How can we do that? We are blessed where we live with an abundance of farmlands. With that we are now seeing more options in terms of markets and produce stands. The purpose is not to talk you into only shopping markets, the intent is to educate and show the ease in which you can do so. Let’s discuss produce and how it gets to our stores. Basically it is picked, often times before it is ready, then put on a truck to the facility for processing, then shipped to our stores. It is possible for our produce to be 1-2 weeks old already when it reaches our stores. When it is picked too soon, the benefits that veggies and fruits provide can be decreased. There are times when we all have to buy from the store, that’s just life. Take time though to really check out the markets and see what the farmers have to offer. Often times they are up at 3 AM harvesting and getting ready that day so what you buy can’t get any fresher than that! The market is much easier to shop and navigate with kids over the grocery store environment! Take them and use it as a learning tool and let them pick out some goodies they might want to try. You may pick up a fruit or veggie you have never had before and decide to give it a try!

In many places in the world, people eat seasonally simply because they don’t have the choice. However, that is the way it was meant to be in nature. There is a reason why certain vegetables grow at certain times of the year. Mother Nature planned it that way. Although it is nice to have a pineapple in the dead of winter, is it really what your body needs? Eating in harmony with nature is the healthiest simply because what is in season is what tastes better, is fresher and is most SPRING 2014 59 nutrient dense.

For instance, in spring, the leafy vegetables are in season representing new growth, such as Swiss chard, spinach, romaine and basil. In summer, it is the light cooling produce that our bodies crave, such as berries, corn, summer squash and peppermint. In fall, produce turns back to warming harvest food such as carrots, sweet potatoes and ginger. In winter we have full warming foods such as root vegetables, onions, and garlic. Buying locally compliments this notion of seasonal eating that provides the most nutrients and tastes best. When you buy from a local farmer, the produce has been picked within the last couple of days, traveling minimally. This translates into fruits and vegetables that are tastier and retain maximum nutritional value.

willing to work with you on growing new fruits and vegetables that you may be interested in. This is a very important element of your childâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s education, to teach them where their produce that nourishes their bodies comes from. In many cases you can take them to farms for visits or to pick their own produce. This in turn creates that desire for a child to cook or eat a particular food that they have invested time in picking.

Not only does your local produce have the best flavor and nutrients, but also you are promoting energy conservation. Locally grown produce reduces the use of fuels as well as the need for packaging. Moreover, it is a factor in promoting the preservation of open spaces. Ecological reasons aside, it also helps to build the notion of community and knowing who grows your food. Usually local farmers grow without the use of pesticides yet simply cannot afford the Organic certification. In fact, they usually do not have access to the GMOs that larger companies do. Get rid of the middleman and get to know your farmer. Help keep your local farmers in business. In many cases, if you develop a rapport with your local farmers, they are

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There are several ways to obtain locally grown produce. You can visit farmers markets, or buy a share of the farmâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s projected harvest through Community Supported Agriculture, CSAs. Visit our website for a list of Farmerâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Markets and Farm Growers Associations.