The Power of Passion: Love, Creativity, and Growth

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Editor-in-Chief

Mokgadi Banda

ManagingEditor

Bohlale Kekana

ContentDirector

Kgothatso Mophosho

ArtDirection

Mokgadi Shereen Banda

Photographer

Kgothatso Mophosho

ContributingWriters

Geoginah Mabore

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love is a beautiful thing to have and cherish. It has the power to enrich our lives, bring joy to our hearts, and create lasting memories. Love comes in many forms, whether it's the love we share with our family, friends, romantic partners, or even our pets. It's a source of strength during challenging times and a celebration of life's most precious moments. When we open our hearts to love and allow ourselves to give and receive it freely, we experience a profound sense of connection and fulfillment. So let's cherish love in all its forms and embrace the beauty it brings into our lives.

Mr and Mrs Butta

Relationship Journey:

● What drew you to each other initially?

He had a smile that lit up the entire room When I laid my eyes on him, it’s as if everyone else disappeared. I could also see from the very beginning how passionate he was in life and with what he does, and I absolutely loved that. Not to mention how tall dark and handsome he is.

Her aura stood out to me. She has always had such a positive aura, since the day I met her. It was also her big beautiful blue eyes that drew me in She had and still has a friendly smile which made the vibe feel so warm and welcoming when in her Presence.

● How has your relationship evolved since you first met? Coming from 2 completely different backgrounds, countries, religions, and cultures, we have evolved so much in a sense that we have grown to blend so well into each other’s worlds, that it’s as if we were part of those worlds all our lives. We embrace each other’s backgrounds, families, and differences so much that it is one of the main reasons why we are as close as we are today. We have also grown so much since we first met. We went through our 20s together Started from the very bottom of life and worked our way up, hand in hand, to live the beautiful life we live together today. And we owe it to the close bond, connection and love that we have for each other.

● What are some of the challenges you've faced together, and how have you overcome them?

Coming from such different paths of life, being different races, religions and cultures, it comes with many challenges Worries of families accepting the other, having to adjust to each other’s ways of life and differences. But we dealt with these challenges with a lot of patience, understanding, and an open mind. We tackled the hurdles one step at a time. And we are happy to have very wonderful and supportive families who accepted the other into their family with open arms. There is a lot of mutual respect and support in our families. We have also had many people who, along the line, have said we would never make it for long as a couple, but after 10 years together, we are stronger as each day passes. We know what is in our hearts, and that is all that matters.

Other challenges would be career wise. Being in aviation means having a husband that is away a lot and travelling a lot. It requires a lot of sacrifice from both parties, and a lot of understanding and support. But the driving force has always been passion. Every time I see how passionate Rakesh is with what he does, the love he has for his career, it makes the hard times worth it for me. His happiness makes it worth it.

As for her as a singer and musician, it has had its challenges. She is a very talented woman and if you mix that creative environment with having a wife who is very soft and pure hearted, you get some people who try to take advantage of that and cause challenges. And we have had our fair share of manipulative and downright horrible people trying to ruin things for her for their own selfish gains. We have grown and learnt as we go along, together, to be very careful who to trust in this industry. I will always have her back and guide her where I can.

SupportandPartnership:

●Howdoyousupporteachother'spersonaland professionalgoals?

Wealwaystrytobeasunderstandingand consideringaspossibletowardseachother’s goals.Evenifsacrificesneedtobemade,we alwaystakeintoaccountthatwhateverpersonal andprofessionalgoalswehaveforourselveswill alwaysbenefitusasindividualsaswellasusasa coupleinthelongrun.Wewillalwayssupportone another’sgoalsandhaveeachother’sbacks.

●Whatroledoesteamworkplayinyour relationship,andhowdoyoudivide responsibilities?

Teamworkplaysanimportantroletousasa couple,becauseyoufeelevenclosertoyour lovedonewhenyouknowyouareonthesame page.Wetrytomakeitapointtobethereforone anothersothatonepersondoesn’tfeelasthough theyarebearingtheresponsibilityofhavingto handlesomethingalone.Wedivide responsibilitiesindifferentwaysbasedonwhat wearegoodatorwhatweenjoydoing.For example,heenjoyscookingandsheenjoyshis food,hedislikesdoingdishes,soifhemakeshera tastymeal,shedoesthedishes.Orifweplana triptogether,heisveryhandsonwithorganizing anydocumentssuchasVisa’sandairlinetickets, whereassheenjoysplanningandbookingthe accommodationandactivitiesetc.Itisimportant tonotseetheresponsibilitiesasaburden Itcan beanenjoyableexperienceforbothpartiesas longasyouareworkingasateam. .

● What are some of the most memorable moments you've shared as a couple?

Our 2 beautiful weddings are definitely at the top of the list. As well as our travels and having lived in Thailand for 6 years. Traveling to different parts of the world and having seen some of the most beautiful destinations, met the most wonderful people, experienced a whole different kind of lifestyle, those are memories that we cherish each and every day. Also, every milestone that we have reached together, personally, in our careers, and as a couple, is very special.

Communication and Connection:

● How do you prioritize communication in your relationship? We communicate a lot. We sometimes over communicate, which is quite funny. But we always make it a point to speak to one another and confide in one another If something is bothering one of us, we have the comfort in each other to speak up and voice what the problem is, and we always try to find a way to resolve it together, in a way that makes both of us happy at the end. When it comes to being apart due to work etc., we make it a point to speak on the phone at least 1 hour every day, as if we were next to each other having a conversation. We genuinely enjoy each other’s company a lot.

● How do you navigate disagreements or conflicts in your relationship?

With any disagreement or argument, communication is the most important key. While it is difficult with us both being very stubborn individuals, we always try to see where the other person is coming from, always try our best to understand what it is that is causing the disagreement and work together to resolve it in a peaceful way.

How do you maintain balance between How do you maintain balance between your individual lives and your life as a your individual lives and your life as a couple? couple?

We are both very content people, which helps a lot We are both very content people, which helps a lot when balancing life together verses individually. when balancing life together verses individually While we love doing almost everything together While we love doing almost everything together and value our time with each other over anything and value our time with each other over anything else, we also have personal and individual goals, else, we also have personal and individual goals, hobbies and interests And we support each other hobbies and interests And we support each other in whatever it is that the other person enjoys doing in whatever it is that the other person enjoys doing individually. We make it a priority to spend time individually We make it a priority to spend time together doing things that we both love and enjoy together doing things that we both love and enjoy as a couple, but we are also content to do our own as a couple, but we are also content to do our own things that interest us as individuals We usually things that interest us as individuals We usually land up telling each other every part of our land up telling each other every part of our individual interests because we love knowing individual interests because we love knowing everything about each other. And we are also the everything about each other. And we are also the type of couple that can sit together but do our type of couple that can sit together but do our own thing and not take offence that the other own thing and not take offence that the other person is doing their own thing person is doing their own thing

What are some strategies you use to maintain a strong emotional connection?

What are some strategies you use to maintain a strong emotional connection?

We know where we came from. From the very beginning of our relationship, we have had We know where we came from. From the very beginning of our relationship, we have had quite a lot of challenges, with people, with situations, and just dealing with life in general. quite a lot of challenges, with people, with situations, and just dealing with life in general And when we look back and see how far we have come together, as a couple, it keeps our And when we look back and see how far we have come together, as a couple, it keeps our connection strong. While our love story came effortlessly, we have had to work very hard connection strong While our love story came effortlessly, we have had to work very hard and fight hard for our relationship in the past, and that is what makes it all the more special and fight hard for our relationship in the past, and that is what makes it all the more special for us today. We also stick to good communication; we prioritize time with each other and for us today. We also stick to good communication; we prioritize time with each other and make it a point to maintain our trust in one another. make it a point to maintain our trust in one another

Growth and Development:

● How do you encourage each other's personal growth and development?

We always want the other person to be the best possible version of themselves that they can be. It makes us happy as individuals, to see our partner grow and thrive and be happy in what they are doing in life. When you put your partners happiness above your own, and it makes you happy to simply see them happy, that makes you so much stronger as a couple.

● What are some of the ways in which you challenge and inspire each other to be better versions of yourselves?

Being on the same page in life is such a special thing. Having the same goals and dreams for our future as a couple keeps us going in a positive direction. We are not afraid to challenge each other and our relationship for the benefit of each other as a couple and as individuals. We have made and continue to make sacrifices in life for the betterment of our lives and our future together because we know what we want as individuals, and we know what we want together as a couple and in our relationship, and we support each other through all the good and the difficult days.

● How do you envision your future together, and what are your goals as a couple?

We always joke that we live the most predictable yet unpredictable lives ever. Our future goals and visions are a mixture of stability, as a couple, stability financially and as a family. But at the same time, living life to the fullest, taking those last-minute travels, seeing the world, making amazing memories together, and going wherever life takes us. Because with our careers, we never know where we could land up next. But we are always up for new adventures while maintaining our stability in life. We both believe in living life to the fullest and never being afraid of what comes our way, but rather to embrace it.

Advice for Other Couples:

● Based on your experiences, what advice would you give to other young couples navigating relationships in today's world?

It can be really difficult to navigate and maintain a solid relationship in the times we live in today. But from many years of being in a genuinely healthy and happy relationship and marriage, what we can honestly say is, to never lose sight of what matters. It can be easy to lose sight of what is important. But never forget how far you have come together, and what makes your relationship special and unique and beautiful to the both of you. It is easier in today’s world to give up on each other when things don’t go as planned or when things get tough, rather than stick together and be there for each other and get through this thing called life as a team. Being each other’s support system, biggest critique in the best way possible, each other’s best friend, to be able to rely on each other and have pure and genuine love and trust and respect for one another. And also, to never stop pushing each other to be the best version of yourselves, not only as a couple, but as individuals as well.

● What do you believe are the keys to a successful and fulfilling relationship?

It is important to be realists and recognize that no relationship is perfect and that every relationship has its ups and downs. But to make it work together and be fulfilled, it comes down to trusting each other, loving each other’s good and bad sides, and having respect for one another. It is also important to support each other, take the time to listen to each other and stay up to date with each other as time evolves. It is also important to realize that no person is perfect, and that a successful relationship needs to have its flaws, disagreements and bad days. That is what builds the fulfilment and the beautiful parts of the relationship. Standing by each other no matter what life throws your way, because you love each other enough to do so

● And Monique as a musician, How do you sustain that?

While it can be challenging to maintain a music career with a lifestyle that is quite all over the place, thanks to living in a digital age, it helps a lot being able to still make music and get content out into the world no matter where I am at any time. Even with my love for travel and creating content, I feel as though my all-over-the-place lifestyle benefits that in a way. The online and digital platforms are truly our new-age best friend. If the passion and love is there for what you do, nothing will stop you.

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In Closing:

● Is there anything else you'd like to share about your relationship journey or your perspective on love and relationships?

Don’t get caught up in the fairytale perception of what love or a solid relationship is supposed to look like. We live in a time where everything you see online is not always what it is made out to be. Long term love, commitment and happiness with each other is not a fairytale that we walk into, it is something we create for ourselves A healthy and happy relationship is not by any means easy, but it is very worth it when you have a bond and connection that is based on understanding each other to the core, respecting each other’s values, beliefs, life goals, and simply wanting the best for each other no matter what. You will know when you have found that connection with someone who is meant for you. It will feel natural, authentic, genuine and true. That is what love feels like for us.

A Tribute to Fathers: A Tribute to Fathers: Celebrating Love, Celebrating Love, Strength, and Strength, and Dedication Dedication

On this special day, we On this special day, we salute you and express our salute you and express our heartfelt gratitude for heartfelt gratitude for everything you do. Here’s to everything you do. Here’s to all the fathers who continue all the fathers who continue to inspire, uplift, and guide to inspire, uplift, and guide us with their steadfast us with their steadfast presence and boundless presence and boundless llove. ove.

SMILE

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A smile is a universal language of kindness, radiating warmth and positivity to brighten both our own and others' days.

#THELEGACYWAY

The Power of Fashion Statement

The Classics

Green Healthy

Live your life with a nice smoothie and healthy food

7 Eatingmindfully,savoringeachbite,andpayingattentiontohungerandfullness cuescanfosterahealthierrelationshipwithfood.

8 Planning and preparing meals ahead of time can make healthy eating more convenientandaccessible,evenduringbusydays.

9. Experimentingwithdifferentflavors,cuisines,andcookingtechniquescanmake healthyeatingenjoyableandexciting

10. Ultimately, healthy eating is about finding a balance that works for you, nourishing your body with wholesome foods while still allowing for occasional indulgencesandtreats.

Embracing the Beauty of Skincare: Embracing the Beauty of Skincare:

Why Your Daily Routine Matters Why Your Daily Routine Matters

In our fast-paced world, filled with countless demands and distractions, it's easy to overlook the simple yet essential act of caring for our skin. However, establishing a regular skincare routine is not just about achieving a flawless complexion—it's about nourishing your skin, boosting your confidence, and investing in your overall wellbeing.

1. Healthy Skin, Healthy You:

Your skin is the largest organ of your body and serves as a protective barrier against environmental pollutants, harmful UV rays, and bacteria. A consistent skincare routine helps maintain the health and integrity of your skin, reducing the risk of infections, inflammation, and premature aging.

2. Confidence Booster:

Clear, radiant skin can significantly impact your confidence and self-esteem. By taking the time to care for your skin each day, you'll not only improve its appearance but also feel more comfortable and confident in your own skin. Whether it's a glowing complexion or a blemish-free canvas, your skincare routine can empower you to face the world with confidence and poise.

3. Preventative Care:

Establishing a skincare routine early on can help prevent common skin concerns such as acne, wrinkles, and hyperpigmentation. By consistently cleansing, exfoliating, and moisturizing your skin, you can minimize the likelihood of developing these issues and maintain a youthful, radiant complexion for years to come.

4. Ritual of Self-Care:

Your skincare routine is more than just a series of steps— it's a ritual of self-care and mindfulness. Taking the time to cleanse, tone, and moisturize your skin allows you to slow down, unwind, and connect with yourself on a deeper level. It's an opportunity to pamper yourself, indulge in moments of relaxation, and prioritize your well-being amidst life's chaos.

5. Long-Term Benefits:

Consistency is key when it comes to skincare. By sticking to a daily routine and using products tailored to your skin type and concerns, you'll reap the benefits of healthier, more radiant skin over time. Investing in your skincare today will pay off in the long run, resulting in a complexion that looks and feels its best for years to come.

your skincare routine is more than just a beauty regimen—it's a form of self-care, selfexpression, and self-love. By prioritizing your skin's health and well-being, you're not only enhancing your physical appearance but also nurturing your mind, body, and soul. So, embrace the beauty of skincare and let your radiant glow shine from within

RIDDLE RIDDLE

"I’m not alive, but I can grow. I don’t have lungs, "I’m not alive, but I can grow. I don’t have lungs, but I need air. I don’t have a mouth, but water but I need air. I don’t have a mouth, but water kills me. What am I?" kills me. What am I?"

Do you know the answer? Do you know the answer?

Cancer

The Nurturer of the Zodia

Cancer, the fourth sign of f water. Symbolized by the c , , p , d protective instincts. Those born between June 21st and July 22nd fall under this nurturing and empathetic sign.

Key Traits:

Emotional Sensitivity: Cancer is highly attuned to the emotions of others and possesses a deep well of empathy and compassion. They often rely on their intuition to navigate relationships and understand the needs of those around them.

Family-Oriented: Family and home are paramount to Cancer individuals, who cherish their close bonds and derive a sense of security from their domestic surroundings. They are fiercely protective of their loved ones and will go to great lengths to ensure their well-being.

Loyalty and Devotion: Cancer is known for its unwavering loyalty and devotion to those they care about. Once they form a connection, whether it's with family, friends, or romantic partners, they are committed for life and will stand by their loved ones through thick and thin.

Creativity and Imagination: Cancer individuals possess a rich inner world fueled by creativity and imagination. They are drawn to artistic pursuits and often excel in fields such as music, writing, and the visual arts, where they can channel their emotions into expressive forms of self-expression.

Moodiness and Sensitivity: Due to their heightened emotional sensitivity, Cancer individuals may experience mood swings and fluctuations in their feelings. They can be prone to bouts of nostalgia, sentimentality, and introspection, especially when they feel overwhelmed or stressed.

Career and Lifestyle:

Cancers thrive in nurturing and supportive environments where they can utilize their caring nature and intuitive insights. They excel in professions that allow them to help others, such as healthcare, counseling, teaching, and social work. Additionally, they are drawn to creative endeavors and may pursue careers in the arts, design, or culinary arts.

In their personal lives, Cancer individuals prioritize family gatherings, intimate dinners with loved ones, and cozy evenings at home. They find solace in familiar routines and cherish the comfort of their domestic space, where they can retreat and recharge their emotional batteries.

Relationships:

In relationships, Cancer individuals are devoted partners who seek emotional connection and security. They are nurturing and supportive, offering a listening ear and a shoulder to lean on during times of need. However, they may also be prone to possessiveness and clinginess, as they value loyalty and commitment above all else. Overall, Cancer is a deeply empathetic and nurturing sign that enriches the lives of those around them with their compassion, creativity, and unwavering loyalty.

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