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PINEHURST ® magazine

NOVEMBER/DECEMBER 2010 Sandhills Media Group, Inc. publisher/partner Gina Stephens Advertising Sales Sarah Dolan Myra Gammon creative director Travis Aptt art director Heath Murray graphic design Jennifer Casey contributing writers Illyse Lane • Dolores Muller Christa Gala • Kay Grismer David Droschak • Derek Pszenny photography McKenzie Photography April Maness Photography

Pinehurst Magazine is published six times annually by Sandhills Media Group, Inc. Any reproduction in part or in whole of any part of this publication is prohibited without the express written consent of the publisher. Mailing address is P.O. Box 1635, Pinehurst, NC 28374.

Phone (910) 295-8899, Fax (919) 782-4763, Email: gstephens@pinehurstmagazine.com.

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Material will be returned if accompanied by a self-addressed stamped envelope.

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publisher’s note

Happy Holidays!

It is truly my favorite time of year! And that probably doesn’t come as a surprise to those of you that know me. For I love to shop. This is not a new habit; my mom would say that it started around the age of five.

The good news is that I would rather give than receive, taking it as my personal challenge to find the perfect gift for everyone on my list. This mission becomes a bit easier when you consider that because of my magazines, I am lucky enough to know the best places to shop and eat from the Sandhills to the Triangle. If you can think of it, I can tell you where to find it.

I’ve always used the excuse that the main reason for my unwavering dedication to shopping was to support my local advertisers (although I’m not sure the IRS would agree) so the “Shop Local” campaign just flat out made sense to me. But I didn’t have any idea just how much “cents” it actually made. Every dollar we spend locally has a dramatic effect on our community. So this holiday season, shop local. It really can make a difference.

If you need inspiration for shopping locally, turn to page 51 for our annual holiday gift guide. This 8-page, pull-out shopping guide is filled with gifts ranging from $5 to $5000, with something for everyone on your list. And if you visit any of the businesses that advertise with us, or better yet, shop local and buy a gift from them, please let them know you saw them in Pinehurst Magazine. This helps us continue to grow.

This issue is packed with everything you need to make this holiday season memorable, including great ideas for adding a little sparkle to your holiday decorating, fabulous holiday dresses and secrets for staying healthy and looking beautiful during the holiday season… plus lots more.

As always we want to hear from you, please continue to share your thoughts and story ideas with us.

Gina Pearce Stephens Publisher/Partner PO Box 1635 Pinehurst, NC 28374 919.612.7902 gstephens@pinehurstmagazine.com

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POSITIVE ATTITUDES

Seriously, how can you find more laughter in your life?

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HOLIDAY DECORATING We asked local designers to share their secrets for creating elegant, festive and fun looks for the holidays.

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REAL ESTATE: GO AHEAD, LOSE THE SALE Renting just might be the perfect solution in a tough real estate market.

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Make your guests feel at home with a glorious guest bathroom.

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GLORIOUS GUEST BATHS GOLF ECONOMICS 101

Economics have shaped golf in the Sandhills as much- or more - than birdies and bunker shots.

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MAN OVERHAUL Men: give yourself a once-over to kick off the New Year.

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HOLIDAY FASHION We look at some of the latest party dresses for the holidays.

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GIVE YOURSELF A GIFT Take some time to treat yourself this holiday season.

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chef’s corner calendar firsthealth spotlight sandhills sightings financial advice

gift guide Great gift ideas for everyone on your list.

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wine list reading list

Cover Photograph: Aldena Frye Floral Design and McKenzie Photography.

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Laugh

Learn to

Seriously, how can you find more laughter and peace in your life?

When was the last time you really laughed? You know, where your face hurt and your legs felt wobbly.

The average American child laughs 200 times a day, but adults are stingy, laughing an average of just 15 times per day. With Thanksgiving and Christmas coming up, it’s likely you might even be laughing less – spending money you don’t have, stressing out about family. You know the drill.

It’s time to lighten up, laugh and have some peace in your life. It’s not only good for you, but laughter makes you happier and helps keep things in perspective.

By Christa Gala

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All laughter is created equal

Believe it or not, there’s a class right here in Pinehurst to give folks the laugh “practice” they need. For two years now, Kathy Shader has taught “Laughter in the Sandhills,” a class at Sandhills Community College offered through its Continuing Education Division for Creative Retirement Program. Shader became a certified laugh instructor in 2006 through a course in Savannah, Georgia. She taught for two years in Myrtle Beach before coming to Pinehurst.

Does your body get the same benefits from “learned” laughter as it does from spontaneous laughter? Yes, it does. Your body doesn’t know or care how the giggle originates, the effect on the body is the same.

When you laugh, a few things happen. First, you get more oxygen into your cells, the driving force behind energy and vitality. Laughter changes your brain chemistry, too. When you laugh, your brain produces endorphins, which fight pain and also give you that feel-good feeling you get after exercising.

When you’re laughing, your body’s not producing adrenaline or cortisol, the stress hormones that contribute to a whole host of illnesses – from cancer to rheumatoid arthritis. Laughing gives your endocrine system a much-needed rest.

Scientifically, laughter has been shown to boost blood flow, decrease the levels of stress hormones and even reduce blood sugar. Laughter also increases your body’s output of antibodies that fight infection.

“Laughter keeps you healthy in your mind, body and spirit and is a natural stress-buster,” Shader says.

Shader’s eight-week class syllabus includes laughter workouts (ALO-HA-HA-HA), finding your inner child and embracing kindness, forgiveness, gratitude and flexibility. There’s no shortage of students enrolling to get their laugh on.

“My students tell me they come because they need laughter in their lives and feel this helped them,” Shader says. “We have a party on the last day of class and wear funny hats, eat candy and do laughter exercises. It’s a great grand finale.”

George and Karen Griffin of Pinehurst are always laughing. “I learned, as a public school administrator and my wife as a teacher, that you’d better not take life too seriously,” says George. “The job yes, life no. It will win every time.”

Learn to Laugh:

Sandhills Community College continues to offer its “Laughter in the Sandhills” class through the Continuing Education Division for Creative Retirement Program. Visit www.sandhills.edu and click on “Continuing Education” and then “Center for Creative Retirement.”

“You grow up the day you have your first real laugh – at yourself.”

Ethel Barrymore

Laughing at yourself

“If I don’t laugh, I’ll cry.” You’ve heard that saying. Laughing at yourself and your predicaments has all kinds of benefits. Give it a try.

First, accept the fact that humiliation happens to everyone. And it’s okay. Let’s say you have everyone over for dinner on Christmas Eve. You love to show off your home and as you’re giving the tour, you all discover that your beloved Labrador left a rather smelly package in the guest room. Horrified? Why not say, “I forgot to put that one under the tree” or “Sis, there’s your gift! I’ve been looking all over for it.”

The great thing about laughing at yourself – and laughing in general – is that it helps people feel comfortable again. It returns a sense of normalcy to almost any situation.

Plus, being able to laugh at yourself shows you’re comfortable in your own skin, that you have the confidence to say, “So what?” When you laugh at yourself, people feel they can relate to you on a different level. Scoffing at yourself shows you’re vulnerable and human.

Of course there are some things – like death and illness – that are devastating. You can barely get up in the morning, how are you supposed to joke about that? Often a skilled counselor or therapist can help you handle your grief.

If you feel up for making a joke, give it a shot. Psychologists say humor actually helps us regroup sooner and start to feel hope and happiness again.

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Do it with friends!

If you can figure out a way to laugh with friends, as Shader’s class manages, that’s a major score. I have three close friends I’ve known since high school, and we’ve been meeting once a week for 11 years to catch up and, generally, clutch our sides and gasp for air. We’ve seen each other through marriages, kids, job changes, divorce and illness. We’re all busy, but we make time for each other once a week.

Dr. Leslie Murphy, a Pinehurst physician specializing in internal medicine, says that weekly laugh fest could help me live longer. “We know that having a good social network of friends is very important in terms of dealing with stress,” she says. “In fact, the survival advantage enjoyed by women in terms of longevity is now felt to be due to this aspect of the female nature - the ability to build and maintain strong supportive social networks.”

Faith and fun

George and Karen Griffin say staying busy and having fun are two ways to keep the laughter coming. “I have a Harley and that’s a great stress-buster; just try being unhappy riding through the mountains on a clear, cool day,” says George. “We ride together some and sometimes not. One of the things that has worked for us is that we do many things together and many things apart. We well recognize that time apart is equally important in making a happy marriage.”

Believing in something is also important. Their faith in God, says George, plays the most important role in how they keep the serious things in life in perspective. “We are active in many parts of our church, including mission work,” he says. “We’re just back from Honduras where we helped build an 18-by-24-foot, one-room house for a family of three. There’s no way you can think you have problems when you see the joy on the face of a family moving into a house smaller than a Pinehurst garage.”

“To laugh with others is one of life’s great pleasures.”

Frank Tyger

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“It’s okay to laugh in the bedroom so long as you don’t point.”

Will Durst Need more reasons to laugh?

Have I convinced you yet to let loose and chuckle, guffaw and gasp?

How’s this: When you laugh (or smile), you’re instantly more attractive. And, although I wouldn’t suggest ditching your exercise routine, did you know one minute of laughing equals 10 minutes on a rowing machine? That’s because laughing gets your heart rate up quickly, infuses your body with oxygen and works muscles in your core.

Laughter burns calories too. A Vanderbilt University study actually calculated that 10 – 15 minutes of laughter burns 50 calories. Sounds like fun, doesn’t it?

Laughter could one day be as routine as taking your vitamins. Studies released in 2005 at the American College of Cardiology said laughter could one day be prescribed - three times a day for 15 minutes. Laughing just 15 minutes a day lowers your risk of heart disease by 10 percent. One in five National Cancer Institute treatment centers in the U.S. offer “humor therapy” as a complementary treatment to conventional regimens.

And don’t forget that Patch Adams (remember the movie of the same name?

Robin Williams played Patch) still practices at The Gesundheit Institute in Germany, responsible for making 15,000 patients laugh, without payment, since 1972.

And that’s no joke.

Decide to laugh

Make the decision to laugh more and live as peacefully as possible. Fake it until you make it if you need to. Have fun. Believe in something. Make fun of yourself and gently rib your friends if they can take a joke. Here’s another challenge: Try sticking to light-hearted reading and television-watching for a while and see what happens.

“We laugh a lot at our house,” says George Griffin. “It’s great for the immune system.” It may even be a fountain of youth, says Shader, noting one of her favorite quotes: “You don’t lose your laughter because you get old, you get old because you lose your laughter.”

“You can’t stay mad at somebody who makes you laugh.”

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The excitement over the Christmas holiday reaches fever pitch as the final slice of turkey is eaten.

Now it’s time to decorate! We asked local designers to share their secrets for creating elegant, festive and fun looks for everything from the front door to the mantle and the dinner table.

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Aldena Frye Floral Design

Start by picking your color scheme – sliver and bronze, soft blues and browns or traditional red and green.

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Go shopping in your home, include items that you love or have sentimental value.

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Use gift wrapped packages all over your home – not just under the tree. Consider an unusual ribbon, your packages will make a statement.

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Go in your backyard for greenery. You can use fern, magnolia, pine, ivy or boxwood (boxwood will last the longest). If you have a permanent garland, mix in the live greenery.

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What is the one new decorating item to invest in for this holiday season?

A nice permanent garland or a large oriental footbath.

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Entertaining is more casual today but don’t be afraid to mix your sterling silver pieces with new metals like Mariposa.

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Look for unusual ways to use your favorite stemware, this keeps the casual feel but adds a little glamour.

Turn off your overhead lights and use a beautiful lamp and candles on your buffet. Everyone looks good in softer lighting!

Feel free to mix cloth napkins and fun, colorful paper cocktail napkins.

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What is the one new decorating item to invest in for this holiday season?

A holiday accent pillow or outdoor metal holiday decorations.

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Interior design and tabletop has moved away from matchymatchy. Don’t be afraid to mix patterns in coordinating colors whether it is round and square chargers or mixing a table runner and coordinating placemats.

Don’t feel as if you need a complete set of Vietri or holiday dishes, you can mix a few pieces of holiday dishes with your everyday dinnerware to create a festive look and this is a great way to start your collection.

Consider using holiday ornaments as table decoration, we use ornaments as napkin rings.

Consider adding a holiday touch to your buffet, like hanging stockings, it’s a great festive touch.

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What is the one new decorating item to invest in for this holiday season?

A beautiful holiday pillow or a Vietri serving piece.

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Before you choose a theme for your entrance take into consideration the porch size, size of the front door and house color.

Make sure that your wreath is the proper size for the front door. One trick is to layer a greenery wreath over a grapevine wreath.

This is a pretty look but also adds a small amount of width and depth to the wreath.

Once you choose a theme, make sure it is continued in all of your decorating elements: the wreath, the garland and any decorative items. This entrance features a woodsy theme, the birds in the wreath, owl in the garland and deer to the right of the door.

Creating your front door entrance should complement your entire home and include both curb appeal, as well as inviting, interesting details for your guests to enjoy as they approach and enter your home.

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What is the one new decorating item to invest in for this holiday season?

An artiďŹ cial tree. Today’s trees are beautiful and more natural looking and, of course, pre-lit.

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Shopping

DOWNTOWN ABERDEEN talk of aberdeen Historic Aberdeen

Join Us! 1st Annual

Holiday Open House!

Nov. 12 & 13, 2010

Aberdeen Bead Company Aldena Frye Floral Designs Artists League of the Sandhills Inn at the Bryant House Kees Appliance Center Lisa Anne Photography One Eleven Main Plan B Discount Furniture Railside Antiques Rail House Brewery Set in Stone The Bakehouse & Café The Jan Derby 60/40 Store The Rooster’s Wife The Window Box U-Pro For more information www.shopaberdeennc.com

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losesale Go ahead, the

Can’t sell your home? Rent it. It just might be the perfect solution in a tough real estate market.

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about once a month, Debbie Putz watches a home seller transition to landlord. oddly enough, in the real estate industry the home market and the rental market are on opposite ends of the spectrum. “the rental market is quite strong,” says Putz, manager for Pinehurst rentals & golf, inc. “the challenge is to maintain a consistent inventory of quality homes. about thirty days ago, for the first time in over five years, we had no homes to rent.” that’s called demand. People want rental homes. they need them. that’s good news if you’ve got a home on the market that’s going nowhere fast.

How can this be? how can renting be pulling ahead of home ownership, you ask? it’s money, honey.

Banks have tightened the loan process – severely. People just can’t borrow like they used to. Many often must have a 20 percent cash down payment before a bank will even talk to them. and unemployment is in the double digits, so a lot of people who might have been in the market to buy a home are staying put. realtor Bob Klug isn’t worried. in real estate since the seventies, he’s seen how the market can change.

“We’re going to come out of this funk; it’s just taking longer,” says Klug, general manager of Pinehurst area realty. “People’s lifestyles have changed, and maybe it’s an adjustment that we needed. Maybe we were going too fast and getting ahead of ourselves. it’s hurt a lot of people without question. the foreclosure stories and people sitting with homes on the market for six months, eight months, twelve months, two years…it’s digging into people’s net worth. “that’s why people are trying to look at ways to create income in renting their properties,” Klug continues. “a $1,000-a-month home now rents for $1,200 to $1,300 per month.”

Pinehurst Rentals & Golf

rental

413 Stornaway Drive Southern Pines, NC Lovely Neighborhood

3 bedroom, 2 1/2 Bath with two-car garage $1,350/mo

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Pinehurst Area Realty

recently rented National, 3 bedroom, 2.5 bath, 2,364sf

$1700/mo

Carthage, 3 bedroom, 2 bath, 1,368sf

$750/mo

Longleaf, 3 bedroom, 2 bath, 1,983sf

$1400/mo

What about tenants? the sandhills is lucky in a lot of respects; there is no shortage of potential tenants for home rentals.

“Both individuals and families are coming to this area due to relocation,” says Putz. “the jobs are varying – physicians, nurses and medical techs – due to the area hospital expansion. the continual adding of personnel at Ft. Bragg is a constant source of potential renters; and there is a large wave of military expected at the base by september 2011. should deployments continue, the soldier leaving is very comfortable with leaving his family in Moore county while deployed.” in addition, people are now renting homes in lieu of buying one quickly, often to take time to navigate a market that’s changed so drastically from what they’ve known. “in some cases, our current tenants have been homeowners for the last five to ten years, not renters, so the fact that they can find a suitable home in this challenging time is a welcome relief,” says Putz.

What is the average tenant looking for in a home? connie harrison is co-owner and managing partner of Pinehurst rentals & golf, inc.

When she started in property management 28 years ago, her main rental clients were canadians wanting to rent property during the winter, along with a few long-term rentals. after that, harrison rented to the influx of golfers coming to Pinehurst for a weekend of play. “in the past couple of years our success has been more in long-term rentals,” says harrison. “With the downward spiral of the economy, people have been reluctant to continue the weekend golf outings. also, when the real estate market slowed down we realized more and more people still wanted to relocate to this area but wanted to rent first to see what was going to happen with our real estate market.” today, the average renter is looking for a three- or four- bedroom home with an office or extra room that can be used as a play room. Pet-friendly homes with fenced yards are also popular. “they want the home to be clean and updated, with floors and carpets in good shape,” says harrison. “the costs for a renter are at their highest ever so they want to feel they are getting the most value for their money.”

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Losing the sale What does a home seller need to do, actually, to transition from a seller to a landlord? “i think the first challenge is to understand that the best situation for both the seller and the renter is to pull the home off the market while it is rented long-term,” says harrison. “this is hard for a seller to decide to do because obviously their first priority is to sell the home.” once you make that decision, it’s then time to look at whether you’ll rent the property yourself or hire a property management company to handle it for you.

Most area realty companies provide this service. “We collect the rents; we pay the rents to you; we do your 1099 at the end of the year so you get a full accounting,” says Klug of Pinehurst area realty. “it’s a one-stop shop.”

Fees are dependent upon the type of rental you’re offering (shortterm is less than six months; anything longer is considered long-term) but typically fees range from 12.5 to 15 percent.

Klug recently turned three for-sale properties into rentals. a three-bedroom, two-bath home in Longleaf took just eight days to rent at $1,400 a month. and a 2,300-square-foot home in national rented in 30 days for $1,700 a month. in carthage, a tenant snapped up a 1,300-square-foot home in just four days for $750 monthly. it’s the same story at Pinehurst rentals & golf. “our rental department is constantly seeking homes for its inventory,” says harrison. “Lately the homes have booked within days of Debbie signing them on.” so, sellers, what are you waiting for?

16 Invershin Drive Pinehurst, NC Pinewild CC – Gated Community 5 bedroom, 4 Bath, 3 half baths $2,000/mo

rental Pinehurst Rentals & Golf

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Stirring Spirit the

of the

HOLIDAYS In the 21’st century the holidays have become more trick than treat.

Early seasonal displays and music begin in October and become background noise as we race from one “joyful” commitment to the next.

Baking anything is dreaded and meals are eaten on the go. From freezer to microwave appetizers; store bought pie crusts and canned pie fillings; and melt and pour “candy” replacing sweet confections of divinity and fudge, it is no wonder that the holidays often lead to weight gain and winter blues.

But it doesn’t have to be that way. We can soothe our longing for tradition. It is possible to slow down, break out the crock pot and stew up some Cajun red beans and rice. What could be more fun than camping out “inside” next to a cheerful fire with a mug of buttered cocoa and a toasted marshmallow on a stick? An icy winter is perfect timing for a chicken pot pie supper.

Christmas Breakfast: Sweet Potato Pancake with Maple Whipped Cream and Candied Pecans. This recipe is perfect for leftover sweet potatoes. / pound mashed sweet potatoes 1 ½ cups all-purpose flour 3 ½ teaspoons baking powder ¼ teaspoon of fresh ground cinnamon ¼ teaspoon fresh ground nutmeg ½ teaspoon salt 1 tablespoon of sugar 2 eggs, beaten 1 ½ cups milk ¼ cup butter, melted 34

Native North Carolinian Chris Florance wrote in her biography, My Pee Dee River Hills, of all the energy that went into making Christmas special in the late 19th century. From collecting pennies to purchase coconut to shelling pecans for pies, the holidays were a time to enjoy and appreciate each other with sweet and delectable acts of kindness. Their large lazy Susan dinner table was the center for activities, visiting and family meals.

It’s past time to stop and take a deep breath, a large step backwards and go native. Break out the nutmeg and the grinder, the rolling pin and the pastry mat, the candy kettle and the marble slab. Stir up a pot of chili, bake a pan of cornbread and toast the season with hot spiced cider. Bring the spirit of the holidays back into your home and stir up some tradition in the kitchen.

Method: Cook sweet potatoes and mash. Let come to room temperature.

In a medium bowl, sift together dry ingredients. Mix mashed sweet potatoes, eggs, milk and butter in a separate medium-sized bowl.

Blend sweet potato mixture into flour mixture to form a batter.

Preheat a lightly greased griddle over medium-high heat. Drop batter mixture onto the prepared griddle by heaping tablespoonfuls, and cook until golden brown, turning once with a spatula when the surface begins to bubble.

Top with whipped cream sweetened with butter.

Maple Candied Pecans In skillet on medium high heat, carefully toast pecans, being sure not to burn. When golden and toasted pour in 3 tablespoons of maple syrup and increase heat. Cook until it bubbles and reduces. Again, being sure not to burn. Remove from heat. Pour onto wax paper and wash skillet immediately. Let cool and sprinkle over pancakes.

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Other Holiday Events:

Kitchen Essence “We have you covered for the holidays.”

Daily demonstrations of tasty side dishes the week leading up to Thanksgiving.

Bring in your pie plate and take home your favorite pie the next.

Let us fulfill your cookie exchange commitment with made-to-order cookies by the dozen.

Place your order for a pint of fresh spiced applesauce to top your golden latkes.

The twelve days of Christmas - whose counting? We are? Leading up to Christmas Technique will present a different demonstration daily from candy to appetizers.

A gift of time to Mom! Drop off your little engineer for gingerbread house construction!

Teacher’s Open House! Come in for a cup of hot cider, a piece of pie and special educator discounts.

Unique and practical gifts for the season from Chantal, bake, seal and carry casseroles to private cooking lessons; we have all of your culinary bases covered.

Kitchen Essence is happy to present the Twelve Days of Christmas.

Vegetarian’s Delight: Tuscan Fare Tuesday, November 11 • 5:30PM • $25 Italian food is one of the most satisfying for vegetarians with robust cheeses, fragrant spices and hearty pasta. It’s a perfect balance of light and decadent. No meat necessary.

Menu: Four Cheese Stuffed Shells served with Sundried Tomato Pesto, Crisp Baby Greens with Balsamic Vinaigrette, Praline Cupcake with Mascarpone Frosting.

Untapped • Massive Beers Friday, November 12 It is about that time to drink the beers that make you feel warm and these are those beers. Imperial Stouts, Barelywines, Baltic Porter and the such.

Syrah and Shiraz Saturday, November 20 Same grape, just different styles from different regions. Come by and taste two of my newest.

Free Demonstration Kitchen Essence welcomes Maggie Gartman Saturday, November 20 • Noon & 2PM Eating local, Eating seasonal! Join guest chef-in-training Maggie Gartman for quick & healthy strategies in how to reap the rewards of our local autumn harvest.

Basic Knife Skills Workshop Tuesday, November 23, 11AM • 1PM • 2:30PM Registration required; $10 Zwilling J.A. Henckels’ representative Amy Schroeder will demonstrate basic knife skills in a hands-on workshop.

Attendees will receive a paring knife and a kitchen towel set.

Free Demonstration, Healthy Holiday Fare Saturday, December 4 • Noon & 2PM Are the holidays becoming too much of a good thing? Then lighten up with refreshing ideas for lite suppers.

Free Demonstration, Stuffed!

Saturday, December 11 • Noon & 2PM From shells to celery, everyone loves something stuffed.

Free Demonstration, Winter Salads Saturday, December 18 • Noon & 2:00 A refreshing twist to the holiday season! From wild rice and chicken salad to warm spinach and roasted tomatoes drizzled with hot bacon vinaigrette, salads can be hearty and seasonal.

Retreat to Kitchen Essence for a relaxing hot cup of cider and slice of gingerbread and daily demonstrations @ 11:00. Reenergize at the Sandhills’ only Holiday Spa for the tired cook. December 13 – Christmas Eve.

chef’s corner COPY & RECIPES BY MARK ELLIOTT ELLIOTTS ON LINDEN

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Lighting of Festival of Trees with Jason Hurd (Advance tickets of $100 per guest) Girls Night Out with McKenzie Brothers Band Rockin’ around the Christmas Tree with House Call Band Jingle Bell Jazz with King Fisher Society Jazz Group Family Day

Visit with Santa Claus November 10-14 11:00am-1:00pm and 3:00pm-5:00pm Breakfast with Santa Claus $35 per person of any age November 11 & 13, 9:00am

The 14th Annual Festival of Trees will be held at the Carolina Hotel November 9th14th. Sandhills Children’s Center presents the Festival of Trees, a forest of beautiful Christmas trees, wreaths, tree skirts, gingerbread houses, vignettes and gift baskets galore that will be auctioned off to the highest bidder.

Last year, over 8,000 people enjoyed the sights and sounds of this holiday event with proceeds raised of $250,000. “We are so very grateful for the designers and sponsors who have been with us from the very first Festival back in 1997. With their continued support Festival has grown

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from 40 large trees to over 275 items and has raised over $2,000,000 for the children with disabilities served at the Center,” says Kathy Desmond, Director of Development.

This event is the primary fundraiser for Sandhills Children’s Center, a developmental day pre-school program that serves children with and without disabilities in southeastern North Carolina.

“Don’t miss this opportunity to usher in the holiday season with friends and family and make a difference in a child’s life,” says Gayle. For additional information visit www.sandhillschildrenscenter.org or call 910-692-3323.

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Celebrate the Holiday Season Wednesday, November 17th 5-7pm Le Faux Chateau Gemma Gallery Faded Rose Lyne’s Furniture Gallery Green Gate Olive Oils Village Wine Shop For more information call 910-295-8300

Puttin’ on the Ritz

Top Hat & Tails December 6th 5:30-9:00 The Pinehurst Fair Barn A sophisticated pet adoption event featuring black and white dogs and cats in search of permanent homes.

For tickets call 910-944-5098

Taste of Pinehurst & Windshield

History Tour

Enjoy sipping and nibbling at Kraz Elegant Cakes, Green Gate Olive Oils, Village Wine Shop, Poppy’s and Lady Bedfords Tea Parlour while learning about Pinehurst’s history.

For more information call 910-295-2257

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MID PINES HICKORY OPEN CHAMPIONSHIP | November 4-6 | Mid Pines Hickory Open is a throwback to traditional golf. Mid Pines Inn & Golf Club. | Call 910-692-9362

MOORE COUNTY CONCERT BAND | November 14 | 2PM | Complimentary concert. Grand Ballroom, The Carolina Hotel, Pinehurst Resort.

One Carolina Vista, Pinehurst. | 910-295-9023 or visit www.moorecountyband.com

MOORE COUNTY HOUNDS | November 25 | APPROX. 9:30AM | Hunting with the pack is by invitation only, but spectators may watch on opening day. Hobby Field off Youngs Road, Southern Pines.

50th ANNUAL ANTIQUES SALE & SHOW | November 5-7 | Fri & Sat 10AM-5PM, Sun 11AM4PM | Thousands of items for sale from dealers across the East Coast. Crystal repair, doll repair, concessions. Portions of proceeds benefit Moore County Historical Assoc. Admission Fee The Fair Barn, Pinehurst Harness Track, Pinehurst. | www.moorehistory.com.

WEYMOUTH CHAMBER MUSIC SERIES | November 14 | 3PM | Doug James and Rucco Pasquale - Duo Classical Guitar. Tickets $15 for non-members. Weymouth Center, 555 E. Connecticut Ave., Southern Pines. | 910-692-6261

MOORE ON STAGE - “THE NUTCRACKER” | November 26-28 | Friday 7:30PM, Saturday 2PM & 7:30PM, Sunday 2PM | Most celebrated ballet of all times and is most indicative of the Christmas Season. Pinecrest High School, Southern Pines. | www.mooreonstage.com

GOLF CAPITAL CHORUS ANNUAL SHOW | November 6 | 7PM | Pinecrest High School Auditorium, Hwy 15-501, Southern Pines. | www.thegolfcapitalchorus.org or 910-295-8860

TURKEY TROT | November 20 | 30th Annual race begins and ends at the FirstHealth Fitness Center. Races range from 1 mile fun run to 1/2 marathon and race times are staggered. | www. sandhillsraceseries.com or contact Jodi Heimrich at 910-715-1843

SOUTHERN PINES HOLIDAY OPEN HOUSE | November 27 | 10PM-5PM | Shops will be open and kicking off the holiday season. Entertainment on the streets of downtown Southern Pines and free pictures with Santa, 4pm at the train station, bring your camera and wish list. Historic District, downtown Southern Pines. | 910-315-6508

CLASSICAL CONCERT SERIES | November 8 | 8PM | Featuring Concertante. Sunrise Theater, Southern Pines. | 910-692-4356 or visit www. mooreart.org

SANDHILLS CENTRAL RAILROAD MODEL TRAIN SHOW | November 20-21 | NOON-4PM | The show will feature HO-scale freight and passenger trains. Held in south end of the Aberdeen Train Station on the corner of Main St. and Sycamore St. | 910-692-7439

CHRISTMAS TREE LIGHTING IN SOUTHERN PINES | November 27 | 5:30PM | Southern Pines Christmas Tree Lighting ceremony will begin with local choirs and entertainers. At the Train Depot on Broad Street. | 910-315-6508

29th ANNUAL SEAGROVE POTTERY FESTIVAL | November 20-21 | 9AM-5PM | Come and see the work of the largest pottery community in the U.S. Seagrove School gym and grounds, Seagrove, NC. | 336-873-7887 or visit www.SeagrovePotteryHeritage.com

THANKSGIVING CLASSIC | November 28 | 10AM-3PM | Hunter/Jumper. General Admission $5 donation to the Foundation of First Health’s Cancer Care Fund. Carolina Horse Park, just off Hwy 211, between Aberdeen and Raeford. | Andrew Ellis at 919-637-2958

CAMERON CHRISTMAS OPEN HOUSE | November 20-21 | Sat. 10AM-5PM, Sun. 1-5PM | Enjoy Historic Cameron.Traditional decorations, hot cider, and homemade cookies. | 910-2453055 or www.antiquesofcameron.com

CAROLS AT WEYMOUTH | December 2 | 5:30 & 7:30PM | Free, but space is limited. The evening will be filled with music, poetry and song. Weymouth Center, 555 E. Connecticut Ave., Southern Pines. | 910-692-6261

JAZZY FRIDAYS | November 12, 26 | 7-10PM | Event held rain or shine. Live jazz music, hors d’oeuvres. $8/person. Cypress Bend Vineyards & Winery, Riverton Road in Wagram. | 910-369-0411

NC SYMPHONY HOLIDAY POPS CONCERT | November 24 | 8PM | Featuring your favorite carols and the sing-along. Grand Ballroom, The Carolina Hotel, Pinehurst Resort. | 800-487-4653

ARTISTS LEAGUE OF THE SANDHILLS 16th ANNUAL EXHIBIT AND SALE - OPENING WEEKEND | November 12-14 | Wine & Cheese Reception Friday 6-8pm. Open Saturday & Sunday 10am-4pm. Exhibit through December 18th.

Aberdeen. | 910-944-3979

PINE NEEDLES-MID PINES TURKEY TRADITION | November 24-28 | Enjoy this special Thanksgiving weekend filled with food, fun and fellowship. Pine Needles and Mid Pines, Midland Road, Southern Pines. | 800-747-7272 or 800-323-2114.

CHRISTMAS AT WEYMOUTH | December 2-4 | 10AM-4PM | The Women of Weymouths’ annual fund raiser. Twenty-five rooms in the Southern Historic Home of James and Katherine Boyd will be decorated for the holidays. Weymouth Center, Southern Pines. | 910-692-6261

FESTIVAL OF TREES | November 10-14 | Daily 10AM | Holiday festival featuring lavishly decorated, one-of-a-kind trees, wreaths, and tabletop decorations in family-centered winter wonderland. To benefit Sandhills Children’s Center.

Admission by Donation. Carolina Hotel, Pinehurst Resort, Village of Pinehurst. | 910-692-3323 PINEHURST RESORT’S HISTORIC WALKING TOUR AND TEA | November 12 | 10AM-NOON | Stories of Pinehurst’s history and enjoy the traditions of classic high tea at one of America’s Historic Landmarks. $25/person. | Space is limited, please call for reservations. 910-235-8415

CANDLELIGHT TOUR OF WEYMOUTH | December 3 | 7-9PM | Evening Tour is followed by Wine and cheese. $25/person, reservations requested.

Weymouth Center, Southern Pines. | 910-692-6261

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PINEHURST RESORT’S TOUR AND TEA | December 3, 10, 17 | 10AM | Discover the stories of Pinehurst’s history and enjoy the traditions of classic high tea at one of America’s Historic Landmarks. Historic Walking Tour and Traditional High Tea every Friday in December. $25/person. | Call for reservations. 910-235-8415

33rd ANNUAL EPISCOPAL DAY SCHOOL CANDLELIGHT TOUR OF HOMES | December 5 | 1-6PM | This year’s tour features a variety of homes from across the Southern Pines and Pinehurst area, each uniquely decorated for the holidays. Talented local musicians, singers, and chefs will also be highlighted in several of the residences. | 692-3492

VILLAGE OF PINEHURST FESTIVITIES & TREE LIGHTING | December 3 | 5:30-7PM | The village fills with Christmas spirit! Entertainment begins at 5:30pm, with Christmas Carols, the tree lighting and a vist from Santa. Village Square, Pinehurst | 910-295-7462

CARTHAGE CHRISTMAS PARADE | December 7 | 6PM | Tree lighting ceremony at the old courthouse, followed by the Christmas parade.

Monroe Street to the Courthouse, downtown Carthage. | 910-947-2331

4TH ANNUAL REINDEER FUN RUN | December 4 | 9AM | 4th Annual Southern Pines Reindeer Fun Run 5k Run/Walk is a FUN community event ranging from serious runners to recreational walkers, families, pets and local businesses.

Raising money for the Boys and Girls Club of the Sandhills, Inc. | www.reindeerfunrun.com

CAROLINA PHILHARMONIC “HANDEL’S MESSIAH”. ORCHESTRA AND CHORUS | 7PM | Thursday Dec 9th at Owens Auditorium, Sandhills Community College. Friday Dec 10th at Main Sanctuary, Sacred Heart Roman Catholic Church, Pinehurst. | 910-687-4746 or www.CarolinaPhil.org

CHILDREN’S TOUR OF WEYMOUTH & VISIT WITH SANTA | December 4 | 8:30-10AM | $3.00, under age 3 free. Reservations required. Weymouth Center, 555 E. Connecticut Ave., Southern Pines. | 910-692-6261

AN EARLY AMERICAN CHRISTMAS AT MALCOLM BLUE FARM | December 11 | 11AM-4PM | Admission Fee. 1825 Farmhouse is decorated with greenery. Experience Christmas through an 18th century child’s eyes. Malcolm Blue Farm, Hwy. 5 South (Bethesda Rd.), Aberdeen. | 910-944-7558

SOUTHERN PINES CHRISTMAS PARADE | December 4 | 11AM | Holiday fun for all. Historic district along Broad Street in Southern Pines. | Rynet Oxendine 910-692-7376 CYPRESS BEND VINEYARDS CHRISTMAS OPEN HOUSE | December 4, 10 | 12-6PM | Live music, Christmas treats and wine! Free. Cypress Bend Vineyards, 21904 Riverton Rd, Wagram. | 910-369-0411 BRYANT HOUSE CHRISTMAS OPEN HOUSE | December 4-5 | 1-4PM | Free. Two historic houses decorated in traditional manner. Tours of the houses, crafters, musicians, and refreshments.

Bryant House and McLendon Cabin, 3361 Mount Carmel Road, Carthage. | 910-692-2051 MOORE COUNTY CHORAL SOCIETY HOLIDAY CONCERT | December 4-5 | Sat. 8PM, Sun. 4PM | Owens Auditorium, Sandhills Community College, Pinehurst. | For tickets 910-949-3619 or 910-295-9085

CHRISTMAS HORSE CARRIAGE PARADE | December 11 | 1PM | The Moore County Driving Club decorates their horses and carriages for Christmas and drives them through the historic district in downtown Southern Pines. Broad Street, Southern Pines. | 910-692-0943 HOUSE IN THE HORSESHOE CHRISTMAS OPEN HOUSE | December 11 | 10AM-4PM | Free The House in the Horseshoe will be decorated to celebrate the Christmas season. The House in the Horseshoe (north of Carthage), 324 Alston House Rd., Sanford. | 910-947-2051 MOORE COUNTY CONCERT BAND CHRISTMAS CONCERT | December 12 | 2PM | Free.

Featuring the Sandhills Community College Choir and Jazz Band, plus the Guitar and String Ensembles. Owens Auditorium, Sandhills Community College, Pinehurst.

SENIOR FOUR-BALL ONE-DAY TOURNAMENT OF CHAMPIONS | December 14-15 | Sponsored through the Carolinas Golf Association. Pinehurst No.1 and No5. | 910-673-1000 MOORE PHILHARMONIC ORCHESTRA ANNUAL HOLIDAY CONCERT | December 19 | 3PM | Moore Philharmonic Orchestra presents Holiday Concert and Silent Auction. Silent Auction starts at 2:00 pm. Grand Ballroom, Pinehurst Hotel. Free. | www.mporchestra.com CAROLINA PHILHARMONIC “CHRISTMAS IN NEW YORK”. JAZZ PIANO WITH JOSHUA WOLFF | December 23 | 2:30PM & 7PM | General Admission $25, Senior/Military $20. Founders Hall, Sacred Heart Roman Catholic Church, 300 Dundee Road, Pinehurst. | 910-687-4746 or www.CarolinaPhil.org CAROLINA PHILHARMONIC CHAMBER MUSIC “NEW YEAR’S EVE IN THE AFTERNOON” | December 31 | 4PM | General Admission $25, Senior/Military $20. Founders Hall, Sacred Heart Roman Catholic Church, 300 Dundee Road, Pinehurst. | 910-687-4746 or www.CarolinaPhil. org FIRST EVE | December 31 | The downtown area along Broad Street will be blocked off from 68:30 pm and a variety of activities and entertainment will be offered for the entire family. “Pinecone drop” will be at 8:30pm. Free. Historic downtown Southern Pines. | 910-693-2508 PINEHURST RESORT NEW YEAR’S EVE CELEBRATION | December 31 | Celebrate the year that was and the year that will be with gourmet dining, live music by The Band of Oz and a champagne toast at midnight. Then kick off the new year with an overflowing breakfast buffet.

Pinehurst Resort, Carolina Vista, Pinehurst. | For reservations 800-487-4653

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Grab you running shoes! There are only two races left in the Sandhills’ Race Series!

Turkey Trot

Reindeer Fun Run

5k, 10k, Half-Marathon, 1 Mile Fun Run

5k or 10k

November 20th

December 4th

For more information or to register for races visit www.sandhillsracesseries.com or call 910-528-2302.

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The holidays are coming. And so are your guests. Is your guest bathroom ready?

Our Pinehurst experts share their suggestions on how to get your guest bathroom looking glorious this holiday season.

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Knock, knock. It’s your company calling.

The Importance of Quality

It’s the time of year when family and friends come to stay. And while comfy linens, a dresser for clothes, a few magazines and even fresh flowers let your company know you care about where they’ll rest their heads, an updated guest bathroom is the unexpected touch that shows your company you really do want them to feel welcome. “A pleasant, attractive guest bath gives your guests the feeling that your home is special,” says Alex Bowness of Bowness Custom Homes.

Before you take out your wallet, take note. Whether you are making a few small changes or investing in a more complex upgrade, make sure you invest in quality products that you purchase through quality retailers. And, as you consider your budget, keep in mind that it’s important to balance price with service. It’s essential to work with companies that guarantee their workmanship, offer strong customer service and make you feel comfortable.

It is only then that you should proceed.

Define Your Project

The Range of Change

Bowness is quick to add that getting that pleasant, attractive space doesn’t have to be an expensive endeavor. It is absolutely possible to change the entire look of your guest bathroom simply by making a handful of cosmetic changes. However, if your floors are old or rotted, if your toilet is stained and if your paint and cabinets evokes memories of decades long gone, it may be time to consider a bigger upgrade.

If you’re just not sure if a total renovation is worth the investment, Bowness reminds us that when selling our homes, prospective buyers can be intimidated by potential remodeling projects. “An outdated guest bathroom could become a deal breaker,” he says.

The best way to proceed? Consider the amount of time you have until your guests arrive, the size of your budget and how long you expect to be in your home. The good news is whichever path you choose, the guest bathroom is typically a small space, making the “less is more” strategy the way to go. This means while the many of the project elements you may have to consider – plumbing, fixtures, floors, cabinetry, and towels – may be the same elements you’d consider for a master bathroom project, it makes sense to look for items with design features that encourage a clean, fresh look to maximize the entire space.

So you’ve made your list, checked it twice and you are ready get going on your bathroom upgrade. Your local experts offered these suggestions to take your look from ho-hum to glorious.

Tap Into Your Local Resources So how do you get started? Whether you’d like suggestions on how to coordinate paint, linens and accessories or you need guidance in choosing new countertops and cabinets, it may make sense to enlist the help of a professional. “I encourage my customers to visit their local supply houses,” says Adam Ingram of On Time Plumbing (now Benjamin Franklin). “Your local shops will carry a vast selection and will be very attentive to your needs.”

Additionally, your local shops recognize how shopping today has changed significantly over the years, with ideas and products available at the tip of your fingertips. It’s likely that you’re already researching the kinds of products you may end up buying. And your local retailers are ready to handle your product-specific questions.

“We’re finding that consumers have become far more educated. They sometimes know as much about the product as we do and they want us to steer them in the right direction,” says Ted Rhodes of Flooring America. “People are making decisions on quality and value instead of bottom line dollar and are conscious of their return on investment.”

If you have decided to change the layout of your bathroom, working with a designer may be the way to go. “With a wealth of experience, a designer can add significant value to your bathroom project by evaluating your space to make sure that what you choose will work for you,” says Joy Foster of Heritage Cabinet Company.

In addition to helping you keep up with the latest trends, a good designer can come up with a layout that best fits your needs, avoiding potential problems down the road. “This is especially important if you will be doing a complete redesign,” says Amber Jensen of Artistic Cabinetry.

If you to decide to work alone, Foster suggests beginning a bathroom remodeling planner to keep notes, ideas, and important aspects of your bathroom remodeling plans. “Draw your bathroom floor plan and wall dimensions to scale. For help on how to do this, you can research the topic online,” she says.

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#1 Paint: One of the easiest and most effective ways to transform the entire look of your guest bathroom is with a fresh coat of paint. Because of the size of the room, Foster recommends using light and airy colors to open up the space.

#2 Towels: A simple way to elevate your guest bathroom from flat to fabulous? Make sure your guests have

fluffy, absorbent towels. Tanda Jarest of Opulence of Southern Pines reminds us that not all towels are created equal. “There is nothing worse that picking up a fluffy towel that doesn’t absorb one drop of water,” says Jarest. “Start with egyptian cotton, at least 500 grams and be sure the entire towel is egyptian cotton.” If you’re hesitant to purchase an entire set, Jarest suggests buying just a washcloth to try it out.

Towels by Abyss & Habidecor, available at Opulence

If you’re interested in a green product, a bamboo towel is the way to go. “But remember, the towel will always feel cool. They also take much longer to dry than a cotton towel and are not as color fast as cotton,” says Jarest. Again, buy one to see if you like the feel of bamboo – it is quite different from cotton.

For a finishing touch, decorative towels – think holiday festive this time of year – are a nice touch to a guest bath, especially when combined with French milled soaps, pampering lotions and room sprays. Choose hand sized towels to complement your solid colored bath towels and washcloths.

#3 Cabinetry Hardware: If new cabinetry isn’t in the cards, changing out the cabinet hardware can make a big impact. “I think of the hardware as jewelry for cabinetry. It can really give the room some personality,” says Jensen. Repainting can also spruce up the old cabinetry, but keep in mind that do-it-yourself home painted surfaces will not hold up as well as a factory finish.

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#4 Window Treatments: For an unbelievable change in your guest bathroom, Diane Robinson of Colonial Shades and Custom Closets recommends investing in new window treatments. “For a softer look, the sheer shading of the Silhouette® or the honeycomb look of the Duette® Architella® cannot be beat,” says Robinson. “Both Hunter Douglas products come with a lifetime guarantee and Duette® Architella® has received the highest energy efficiency rating.” For a more classic look, shutters never lose their appeal.

And now that shutters are available in a wood composite, they are a more friendly choice for a moisture-rich room such as a guest bathroom.

#5 Toilets and Faucets: “Switching out an old toilet for a water saving, low flow toilet is extremely efficient, reducing the number of gallons used from 1.6 to 1.28,” says Adam Ingram of On-Time. It’s also possible to change out sink faucets to get a more modern look. And if you’ve never been able to run the sink while someone else is in the shower without having the water pressure change, invest in a new, pressure balanced faucet.

And remember: Changing a mirror or a light fixture can immediately transform a room. If you have a bathtub, trading in your old shower curtain for a new one can also add pop. And finally, don’t forget to keep a stash of essentials, ranging from toiletries to robes, just in case your company has forgotten something.

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#1 Cabinets: If you’re go-

ing to be starting from scratch, working with a designer will ensure that the cabinets you choose fit into the allotted space and coordinate with the rest of the house. It will also allow you to customize your cabinets to meet the needs of your guests.

Since your brand new cabinets are an investment, it’s important to look at the construction of the cabinet, the durability of the finish and the manufacturer’s guarantee before you make your purchase.

What’s in style for cabinets?

“People are leaning toward clean, simple lines. Many of my clients like the warmth and character of old wood, so we’re seeing a lot of distressing and hand wiping, which is an actual hand wiping of the stain,” says Foster. For a contemporary look, Jensen is seeing more “floating” vanities, where vanities are actually suspended from the wall and have a slab style door.

#2 Plumbing: If you’re in an older home and are going to be changing the layout of your guest bathroom, the time could be right to take a look at your piping. Ingram explains that plumbing is a mechanical system, and age can take a toll. And when it comes to water, even a little leak can cause a lot of damage. “85% of insurance claims are water damage claims,” says Ingram. Additionally, because the pipes are covered by tiling and flooring, it’s difficult to know what you’re dealing with before you get in there. Ingram’s strategy for dealing with that unknown factor? “It’s important that anyone you work with be upfront about the potential problems that may arise,” he says.

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#3 Countertops: Want a cost effective way to get a brand new countertop? Jensen suggests finding a remnant piece of granite or quartz.

Other p opular choices for bath rooms include marble and tile. “A bathroom countertop is not going to have the wear and tear a kitchen countertop does, so you’ll have more flexibility,” she says.

#4 Floors: If your dated ceramic tile is holding you back, there’s a quick fix for you. “You can use a floor floating compound to level the floor and then put in an IVC fiberglass product,” says Rhodes.

What makes this product unique is its cushioning effect, making it much softer to walk on than a regular sheet of vinyl, a feature that is especially attractive to customers who find traditional flooring too hard.

And if you’re worried that it’s going to look like the vinyl of years past, put your fears to rest. This product reproduces the look of ceramic tiles, stone and even hardwood, giving you the look without the cost.

For an upgrade, luxury vinyl tile is also available and has been growing in popularity. A cut above the fiberglass product, this 100% vinyl product comes in strips if it’s replicating the look of wood and squares if it’s replicating the

look of tile, adding style to your entire guest bathroom. And of course, for a more classic, permanent look that adds value to your home, ceramic tiles are hard to beat. “It may not be the most inexpensive way to go, but if put in correctly, ceramic tiles can last for the life of the house and add more value,” says Rhodes.

#5 Closets: There’s no easier way to maximize your space than taking advantage of custom closets. Whether it’s a linen closet or a closet for your clothes that happens to be located in your bathroom, custom closets can meet all of your storage needs and can be the ultimate upgrade, adding value to perspective buyers in the event you sell your home. “Having a place for your belongings that is designed just for you allows you to look and see what you have,” says Robinson. While shelves can be both wood and wire, keep in mind the wood shelves are moveable, giving you flexibility.

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While your houseguests will expect you to prepare dinner and have a bed for them, they won’t expect the finishing touches that come with an upgraded bathroom. So give them the ultimate, unexpected gift this holiday season by making them feel warm and welcome with a glorious guest bathroom.

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Golf ECONOMIC$ 101 The Game within the game in the Sandhills

Economics have shaped golf in the Sandhills as much or more than birdies and bunker shots, from the days of the Great Depression to the private-club boom of the 1980s. And now this – a nasty recession that has gripped the game and been harder to shake than a case of the shanks.

General managers and golf pros across Moore County have injected words like “value” and “flexibility” into their vernacular as empty tee sheets piled up and corporate business took an extended hiatus.

Add in one of the worst winters on record and a summer heat wave that lasted more than two months and golf executives are wondering just how much more they can take.

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Want an eye-opening example of just how competitive the battle for golfers has become in one of America’s true golfing Meccas? Look no further than historic Pine Needles and Mid Pines resorts, who for the first time since the 1920s and 30s are offering memberships to local, state, national and international golfers.

Why did the famed resort, which has hosted three U.S. Women’s Opens in the last 12 years, and offers two Donald Ross gems to its resort and daily-fee clientele, feel the need to change its ball flight, so to speak? “We were looking to supplement our revenue, to be honest,” said Graham Gilmore, the resort’s new general manager.

Gilmore and others in the golf industry in and around the Sandhills have watched with folded arms and spent nervous nights wondering when, or if, golfers were going to return to the greens in substantial numbers.

Some, like Pine Needles and Mid Pines officials, have discussed accentuating their brands further for a few years and felt the need to move now as the economy has remained stagnant. So, this past spring, they began offering what is called The Pine Needles Club membership. So far, like countless other value-driven offers and incentives from car dealerships to high-end restaurants, consumers have responded.

Graham said memberships are approaching 200. In fact, a temporary freeze was placed on the deal in October until the GM could evaluate further how resort and public play would mix with his new membership base.

“It was totally an unknown,” Gilmore said of the new program. “We knew there was a need for it and we’ve had a lot of past guests inquire about memberships. We knew we would get some good response, but we really didn’t know we would get the response we did.”

Pine Needles floated a watered-down version of its current membership package last summer, called the Ross Club, and it produced interest and golfers, so club president Kelly Miller, armed with 12-18 months of information from consultants and various industry leaders, gave the green light in May to offer a slight change in the historic resort’s philosophy.

“We were thinking that we’ve got a great product, so how do we get more people to utilize it?” Gilmore said. “That was the whole idea. Our rounds were way down, just like everywhere else across the country.

People just aren’t playing as much golf and we’re trying to find that round, too.”

Initiation fees range from $6,000 to $12,500, depending on when a golfer joins and at what membership level, and golf dues are about $3,000 a year, according to Gilmore.

Creative golf marketing skull sessions have also been the norm at Pinehurst Resort the past 24 months as the area’s “Granddaddy of Corporate Golf” has tried to weather these turbulent economic times.

“For every step forward in 2009 there were two steps backwards, for every booking that we were able to muster and grind out and win we had a cancellation or two that would take the steam away from you,” said Tom Pashley, executive vice president of marketing at Pinehurst Resort.. “That was just the environment. Companies that had planned well in advance for these meetings, suddenly conditions were unfavorable and they had to get them off the books.

That was a time that we referred to as the AIG affect. There was so much scrutiny. Even rewarding your top performers for a job well done, you would just as soon give the employee a check instead of spending the same amount of money on a trip “With both of our courses being to Pinehurst. We were still Donald Ross layouts they are so booking business, but we were walker friendly. That’s a great selling getting cancellations left and point for memberships,” said Graright and that was the hard part, ham Gilmore, general manager of stemming that tide.”

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Pashley said 2010 has been a much better year for business, especially in the second half of the golfing season, and remains optimistic for the upcoming year. He noted that Pinehurst Resort changed some of its advertising and marketing campaigns over the last 12 months to change with the turbulent economic landscape.

“We did some rebranding work to make sure people knew we were more than just a golf resort,” he said. “If a company was having a meeting that didn’t involve golf we wanted to be considered for that business. With some of our advertising, especially in the state, we wanted to show some of our meeting facilities.

Before that, an ad might show golf, a little bit of dining and might touch on the meeting space.

Now we wanted to highlight Pinehurst Resort as a great place to have a meeting.”

Pinehurst Resort has also offered Fort Bragg soldiers returning from war an opportunity to enjoy some quality time with their families in a “Strong Bond Retreat” program.

It’s business that the resort may not have booked five years ago, but every revenue source counts these days.

“We’ve been able to fit it in where we’ve had some pockets of opportunity,” Pashley said. “It’s not the most high-rated business because there are government rates we have to charge within a framework, but it’s booked short-term and there is incremental money spent. While they are not out on the golf course playing golf every day, they are still dining in our restaurants, they are buying a shirt or a hat or they are going to the spa.”

Private clubs in Moore County have not been immune to the economic crunch. Far from it.

While membership levels at National Golf Club in Pinehurst have remained fairly steady over the last 24 months, director of golf Tom Parsons has had to fire one of his top assistants in a budget cutting measure, and raised dues just three p ercent in 2010 instead of the normal five percent.

“Listen, in 2009 and 2010 all of us in the golf business got a wake-up call in how we conduct our business,” Parsons said. “We had to think outside the box on a lot of things with memberships and package play.

It has affected us in terms of the amount of play that we’ve had, so we’ve had to be very careful with our expenditures.”

And a 15 percent reduction in membership and guest play spills over into merchandise sales and less dining.

“Back in the good old days someone would come in and buy two or three shirts and not blink,” Parsons said. “They are very savvy now in checking out sale racks and things like that.

That’s what we’re looking at. We’ve got to be very aggressive when people come to our facility, make sure they feel welcome and that they have a great experience here and want to come back.”

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“All the little details are what we’ve really improved and stressed in these tough times,” said National Golf Club director of golf Tom Parsons.

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“Everybody realizes we’ve got to step up and make things happen with fewer people, with fewer dollars,” Parsons added.

There is one other rub that has kept golf officials in the area on edge. With most of the golf here high end, holding a price point has been difficult, but for resorts such as Pinehurst and Pine Needles, it’s almost a necessity since neither are in the “discount golf” market.

Such an economic balancing act can be difficult, if not next to impossible.

“You have to show a lot of flexibility in a time like this,” Pashley said. “Things that worked three to four years ago when you were very busy certainly aren’t working now, and you’ve got to decide if you want to do some short-term special offers, some 24-hour or 48-hour sales. We tried some of those things, but we decided our best strategy was to try to maintain our rate integrity. People expect a certain level of service from Pinehurst and they expect course conditions at a certain level, and that costs money. So, we have to charge our guests a certain amount in order to provide those levels of services. Our best strategy has been to try to maintain our prices, try to add value and distinguish ourselves with our product.”

“When times do get tough the first thought is to cut your price,” added Gilmore. “We feel like what we can do is add value, which in a golf package might be an extra round of golf – an add-on. It’s what can you get for the price more than what the price is. People want more bang for their buck.”

Pinehurst Resort has 4,200 members, 1,600 of which are golf members on its eight courses.

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Man

Overhaul We know you’re busy! But give yourself a once-over to kick off the New Year; your body will thank you for it.

By Christa Gala

It’s tough to get a guy in for a check-up when he’s feeling good but Pinehurst Magazine discovered that keeping an eye on things – even when you feel great – could be a literal lifesaver.

FIRST THINGS FIRST Let’s talk about the prostate. It only weighs an ounce and it’s probably never given you much trouble. But one in six men will be diagnosed with prostate cancer, according to the Prostate Cancer Foundation. In fact, like most other cancers, your risk increases as you age.

Get a PSA test when you turn 50 (if you’re African American or have a family history, start at age 40). “Early diagnosis is key,” says urologist Dr. Greg Griewe. “If it’s caught late, treatment options are very limited and really not necessarily that effective. If caught early, it can be cured.”

PSA stands for Prostate Specific Antigen test. It’s a simple blood test; if your levels are elevated you’ll need further testing or may require more frequent testing. This is something you want to keep a close eye on. It could save your life.

Treatment: Dr. Griewe, a urologist with Pinehurst Surgical, says most men opt for radiation or surgery when diagnosed with prostate cancer, although there are other treatments, including hormone manipulation and cryotherapy (freezing the prostate).

These days surgery is done laparoscopically, through a tiny incision, so recovery time is much less than it used to be. “Patients are back to all activities in two weeks and they have an overnight stay in the hospital rather than three or four days,” says Dr. Griewe.

DON’T BE AFRAID TO TALK ABOUT… Erectile Dysfunction. There. We said it. Actually, Dr. Griewe says men are not as hesitant to talk about ED these days. “They know there’s effective treatment for it so they seem to bring it up pretty freely,” he says.

ED is very common. If your small blood vessels aren’t working properly, you’re likely to experience some erectile dysfunction. “It’s usually a combination of age, medical conditions and sometimes medications,”

says Dr. Griewe. Chronic hypertension, diabetes, and heart disease can all predispose a person because all of those things have the capability to damage small blood vessels.

What to do: There are currently three oral medications on the market for ED: Viagra®, Cialis® and Levitra®. Side effects are minimal but can include headache, flushing and changes in vision. Dr. Griewe says most of his patients tolerate the medication well.

The last word: Don’t ignore ED because it often foreshadows things to come. “Since it’s a disease of small blood vessels, a lot of times people who have erectile dysfunction, it precedes their development of coronary artery disease or cardiovascular disease, so it’s kind of a warning sign,” says Dr. Griewe.

THE HEART OF THE MATTER Yikes! Heart disease is the leading cause of death for men over age 35 in the United States, according to Centers for Disease Control. And half of the men who died suddenly of coronary disease in 2006 had no symptoms. But we’re not trying to scare you. Okay, maybe we are a little bit, because being proactive can not only save your life; it can add years to it.

What to do: The U.S. is actually a lot better at preventing and treating heart disease than it used to be. The key is in monitoring cholesterol levels and blood pressure as well as making adjustments in diet and exercise and not smoking. There are excellent medications on the market to control blood pressure and cholesterol levels, two of the biggest risk factors.

The numbers: Your total cholesterol has a lot to do with whether or not you’ll get heart disease. Less than 200 is ideal. Anything over 240 is high. High cholesterol has no symptoms and can often be hereditary, so even if you’re in good shape, you should have it checked every year. On the flip side, you want your HDL cholesterol to be high. The higher the better. Think of HDL cholesterol as the scrub brush that is constantly cleaning out your arteries, helping blood flow smoothly and easily.

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CAN YOU HEAR US NOW? Being stressed out can affect how well you hear. “The ear is a very vascular system that relies on blood flow to provide the oxygen and nutrients it needs to stay healthy,” says Dr. Leslie Whitlock at Pinehurst Surgical. “Stress causes restriction in blood flow which can ultimately have negative effects on your hearing. Vascular compromise to the ears is often seen with diabetic patients and patients with cardiovascular disease, which is why these health issues are often correlated with hearing loss.”

“It is not uncommon to start losing some of our high pitch hearing as we age,” she continues. “We often hear from patients who say, ‘I hear good enough for my age,’ and I think it’s important to understand that there is no age appropriate hearing loss. Any hearing loss at any age is abnormal hearing.”

Biggest mistake men make: Not protecting their ears from loud sounds. “There are two things to think about when you are deciding about wearing hearing protection: how loud is the noise and how long will I be in that environment?” says Dr. Whitlock.

No-brainers: If you’re using power tools, firearms or are going to be at a loud concert, definitely wear ear plugs.

WHAT CAUSES RINGING IN THE EARS? “There are many causes, including abnormal pressure in the ears, damage to the inner ear structures, or, in less common cases, a more serious condition involving a slow growing tumor on the auditory nerve,” says Dr. Whitlock. Hearing aids are often a good option for tinnitus management, particularly if the patient has hearing loss as well.

Best news: Hearing aids are better and much less noticeable these days. You don’t get the feedback with the new digital technology that used to occur with analog hearing aids. “Your hearing loss is much more noticeable than your hearing aids,” says Whitlock.

“This is especially true with today’s technology.”

A CUT ABOVE The average man will shave more than 20,000 times in his lifetime, says Cindy Hudson, licensed medical esthetician at The Laser Institute of Pinehurst. Unfortunately, this daily ritual doesn’t always go off without a hitch.

“Shaving doesn’t have to be a chore and doesn’t have to take a long time when performed properly and with the right tools,” says Hudson. “Somewhere along the way men have gotten off track.”

Occasionally Hudson will see men with Folliculitis Barbae – that’s a long name for swollen, infected bumps caused by ingrown hairs. “Over-the-counter shaving products often contain alcohol and numbing agents such as benzocaine or menthol, which can dry and irritate the skin, close pores and stiffen the beard,” says Hudson.

Hudson often recommends a facial to clear things up. “During the treatment we’ll discuss the causes, treat the infection, and perform a thorough exfoliation and cleansing of the skin. A soothing mask will be used and the skin will be balanced and bacteria-free.”

The Laser Institute offers a special line of shaving products and razors to combat common problems. “The Art of Shaving products are alcohol-free and contain high quality botanical ingredients, 100 percent pure essential oils, shea butter and vitamin C,” says Hudson. “These ingredients are therapeutic to the skin and are naturally antibacterial and antimicrobial to prevent unwanted irritation and ingrown hairs.”

Shave with the best results.

Below, a few gentle reminders:

• Always use hot water • Shave twice—once in the diretion of hair growth; the second time shave against the grain.

• Don’t exert too much pressure on the razor handle.

• Rinse razor often.

• Use a sharp razor; don’t use the same blade more than five times.

• Don’t dry shave.

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SPEAKING OF SKIN… Your skin is just one more area you need to get checked, even if everything seems fine. No one likes to think much about skin cancer, but it’s still a major problem in the U.S. More than a million people will be diagnosed with skin cancer this year.

“It’s incredibly common,” says Dr. David Klumpar, a dermatologist at Carolina Skin Care in Pinehurst. In fact, Dr. Klumpar sees at least 20 skin cancer patients a day in his practice, with his Physicians Assistants seeing another 10 patients per day.

The issue of skin cancer poses a good news/bad news scenario.

“We’re getting much better at preventing it,” says Dr. Klumpar, but “it’s getting more common because of sun exposure primarily.” Blame it on the thinning ozone layer and the fact that we spend more time out in the sun than we used to.

What to do: Wear your sunscreen! Apply it generously and often and make sure your sunscreen protects against UVA and UVB rays.

Many just protect against UVB rays. Good ones to try: Zinc oxide and Neutrogena’s Helioplex formula.

Get checked once a year by a dermatologist. See a doctor immediately if you notice a mole, freckle or lesion that is changing in any way or if it’s causing discomfort. Warning signs: your lesion is asymmetrical, has an irregular border, is dark in color, large in diameter, and if it’s bleeding or not healing.

THE AGING EYE Our eyes are another part of our general health we don’t typically consider. Not a good idea, says Dr. Keith Shuler of Carolina Eye Associates in Pinehurst.

“Anyone experiencing decreased vision should have a complete eye exam by their local eye doctor,” says Dr. Shuler, a diabetic eye, retina and vitreous specialist. “As we age, routine checkups become increasingly important because conditions such as open angle glau-

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Maui Jim Sunglasses

coma may not have any signs or symptoms until significant, irreversible vision loss has occurred.

“In general, like the rest of the body, different parts of the eye can degenerate or develop pathologic conditions that affect vision,” Dr. Shuler continues. “Typically men’s and women’s eyes age in a very similar manner.

However, some conditions can have a gender preference. For example, macular holes are more common in women for unknown reasons.”

The big four: The four leading causes of vision loss as we age are: cataracts, glaucoma, diabetes and macular degeneration. Regular checkups would catch any of these in the early stages when easiest to treat.

Warning signs of a serious problem: “Retinal detachments usually present with flashing lights, significantly increased floaters and/or a visual field defect similar to a curtain coming across one’s vision,” says Dr. Shuler.

“Angle closure glaucoma presents as sudden onset of significant ocular pain, redness of the eye and multi-colored halos around lights. Patients also often have significant headaches on the side of the affected eye and may feel nauseated or vomit. Decreased central vision, new blind spots or straight lines becoming curved are all possible signs of wet and dry macular degeneration.”

Your shades: Like sunscreen, you should always wear sunglasses when outside. “There are so many golfers in the area that are out on the courses 15-plus hours per week without eye protection, and that isn’t good for the eye or the skin surrounding the eye,” says Ward. “This doesn’t have to be a $300 pair of sunglasses. Try a $45 pair of Sundogs or a $75 pair of Oakleys to block the damaging light from the sun.”

Best pick: Ward likes the $189 Maui Jims, saying they’re soothing to the eye and extra comfortable for long periods of wear.

No excuses: “Men often say ‘I don’t want a good sunglass; I’ll just lose it,’” says Ward. “That’s like saying ‘I don’t want a safe car; I’ll just wreck it.’”

FINALLY….

Kick off the New Year right. You may need a tune-up, but you’ve still got loads of mileage. Happy New Year!

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Purple dress

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We all want to look fabulous at holiday parties, office events, or family gatherings. Now is the time to shop for that holiday dress that will make you stand out and be remembered.

When it comes to colors for the holiday dress, the range of possibilities is endless. Red, Green, or just about any dark hue will work, as well as the shiny silver and gold dresses.

You can also get away with some bright colors as well. The style of dress is also wide open. Here’s a look our favorites from local boutiques.

Silver metallic dress Call for price Available at Eve Avery

tis the season to

sparkle!

Custom made silk reversible wrap.

Available at Le Faux Chateau

Navy on black cap sleeve sequin dress

by Milly $370 Available at Monkee’s

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Black dress by pure & simple $95 Available at CoolSweats

Heather grey flannel dress with rosettes by Muse $175 Available at Morgan Miller

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Grey sweater dress by Matti Mamane $179 Black belt with silver flower by Alisha.d $119 Available at Faded Rose

belts that make a

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Sapphire blue dress by Jolibel $128 Available at Lookin’ for Linda

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The most wonderful time of the year is upon us. But with all the glory of the season comes a massive to-do list. We’re planning holiday parties, shopping for perfect gifts, volunteering our time and baking Christmas cookies. We’re staying up a little too late and eating and drinking a little too much. Instead of feeling joy, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed.

Never fear. We have the solution. Feeling refreshed, relaxed and ready-to-go can be as easy as visiting one of the many fabulous spas located right here in Pinehurst. To determine your perfect indulgence, we’ve enlisted the help of experts – our local doctors and licensed estheticians. So in the spirit of the 12 days of Christmas, here are their suggestions for 12 gifts to give yourself this holiday season.

By Illyse Lane

#1 The Gift: A Professional Make-Up Application What woman doesn’t have a stash of foundations, bronzers, blush, eye shadow and lipsticks sitting in her make-up drawer, yet still finds herself searching for the perfect shade? Instead of pondering how to take your look up a notch, let the professionals be your guide. This holiday season, treat yourself to having your make-up applied by a professional. In addition to feeling beautiful, you’ll learn what works best for your skin tone.

Your biggest decision will be whether to glam it up or go classic.

To achieve that glam factor, Mia Piazza of Carolina Skin Care recommends adding a bit of sparkle to your hair, face, body or nails. The key is to pick only one area of focus. For the eyes, Piazza likes Bare Minerals shadows, finding their loose consistency easy to work with. When used wet, they become almost metallic in color, adding the sparkle factor as either a shadow or eyeliner. And the perfect way to highlight those eyes? Have a few false eyelashes added. They’ll take your look from ordinary to extraordinary.

If a classic look is more your style, Kim Parker of The Spa at Pinehurst suggests a sultry, neutral palette for eyes, combined with a light dusting of mineral make-up such as bronzer to enhance cheek bones and brighten the skin. Around the eye, Parker recommends brow powder to create lift with an essential two coats of mascara. Her tried and true foundation tip? Skip the liquid foundation because it settles on wrinkles.

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#2 The Gift: Permanent Make-Up Are you tired of applying your make up every day? If you’d rather wake up ready to face the day, it’s time to consider permanent makeup.

It’s a holiday gift that will last for years to come.

By applying natural pigments into the dermal layer of skin, permanent makeup can work for eyebrows, eyeliner, lip liner and color. Gail Myres of Permanent Make-Up By Gail uses an organic, hypoallergenic product applied with permanent eyeliner by Gail Myers a state-of-the-art digital machine, sure to give you the look you long for, every day.

In addition to making your morning routine easy, permanent make up is also used to cover up stretch marks, birthmarks, freckles, age spots and uneven skin discoloration. If you’ve been on the fence, now’s the time to hop off and treat yourself.

#3 The Gift: Facials There’s nothing quite as relaxing as a facial. But don’t be fooled into thinking that because you’re relaxing, there’s no work being done under all those deliciously smelling serums, creams and lotions. Today’s facials are result oriented and will have you looking exceptional for all of your parties. Here’s a sampling of what’s available: Paraffin Facial: Cindy Hudson of The Laser Institute of Pinehurst calls this decadent treatment a “48-hour facelift” that will add hydration back to your skin.

How does it work? Paraffin wax promotes skin repair and increases hydration to give your face a natural glow. The wax also helps to increase circulation and stimulate the production of new, healthy skin, revealing stunning results.

Oxygenating Trio: If you want luminescent skin without the peeling and flaking factor, Dr. Amie Collins of Jeunesse Aesthetics recommends this three-step treatment. Designed to correct the free radical damage that contributes to the aging process – think pollutants, sun damage and allergens – the Oxygenating Trio will increase blood flow, improve circulation and draw in oxygen while removing toxins. Gentle enough to have the day of an event and guaranteed to give you glowing, healthy skin.

Collagen Hyaluronic Intensive Facial: There’s a reason Kim Parker at The Spa at Pinehurst refers to this treatment by its nickname, the “forever young” rejuvenation facial. This customized facial is loaded with medical grade anti-aging ingredients, such as peptides, antioxidants, firming collagen and hyaluronic filling agents. Consisting of a mineral microdermabrasion, wrinkle-filling serums and a collagen lifting mask designed to plump and repair skin, this facial will have you walking away with more radiant, more youthful looking skin. Ideal for the day of a party.

#4 The Gift: Microdermabrasion If you are willing to be patient, microdermabrasion will pay you back, delivering beautiful skin over time. Hannah Cox of Pinehurst Surgical explains how microdermabrasion uses crystals to suction and polish the skin, stimulating collagen production and new cell growth. This deep yet gentle exfoliating procedure is highly effective in reducing the appearance of fine lines, wrinkles, acne scars and hyper pigmentation. For ideal results – think brighter, tighter, smoother skin - Cox suggests beginning with a series of six treatments, spaced apart every two weeks and then moving into monthly treatments. It’s one of the gold standards in skin exfoliation.

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#7 The Gift: Injectable Fillers If those pesky fine lines staring back at you are putting a damper on your mood, Dr. Jeffrey White of Carolina Eye Associates has a solution. The simple, quick fix of either Botox® or dermal fillers such as Juvederm® and Restylane® can make you feel a whole lot better. The difference between the two?

Botox® is an anti-wrinkle treatment that can temporarily smooth frown lines, creases and crows feet, while dermal fillers are used to fill in lines, wrinkles and scars. They both work by add volume to the skin for a more natural, youthful appearance. Your doctor will make a recommendation depending on your area of concern. One ten-minute treatment will take the years off.

#8 The Gift: A Good, Daily Skin Care Regime Yes, it’s possible to maintain healthy skin with good elasticity, tone and texture even after you leave the spa. To ensure that you continue to look radiant year round, Hannah Cox of Pinehurst Surgical recommends committing to a good skin care regime, explaining that an at-home skin care routine will work in tandem with any treatments, helping to keep your skin looking healthy all year. This becomes especially important if you are thinking about investing in a series of peels, microdermabrasion or facials.

With so many products available, how do you choose? Dr. Amie Collins of Jeunesse Aesthetics recommends investing in a medical grade skin care line that contains antioxidants, vitamins, and natural ingredients. Together, these ingredients will work to brighten the skin, improve elasticity, treat acne and diminish the signs of aging.

#5 The Gift: Chemical Peels Considered the other gold standard in skin exfoliation, a chemical peel will brighten your skin and bring out more even tone and texture. Using a combination of glycolic and lactic acid in various strengths, chemical peels remove the damaged outer layers of the skin, ultimately improving its texture.

According to Dr. Jeffrey White of Carolina Eye Associates, peels can be highly effective for those individuals with blemishes, wrinkles and uneven skin pigmentation. After evaluating your concerns and skin type, your doctor or licensed esthetician will be able to determine the peel most suited for your skin. While even one peel can give you fantastic results, Dr. White recommends investing in a series, which will prolong the effects.

If you don’t have time to take full advantage of a series, Cindy Hudson of The Laser Institute of Pinehurst suggests having your skin therapist design a chemical peel that will deliver maximum benefits in the shortest amount of time. One way to go? A micro peel, which consists of a dermaplaning treatment in conjunction with a superficial peel to brighten and exfoliate the epidermis. What exactly is dermaplaning? A procedure that removes the outer layers of dead skin cells and unwanted peach fuzz, which immediately leaves the skin smooth, supple and vibrant.

#6 The Gift: Laser Skin Rejuvenation If you’ve got some time before your holiday festivities or you’re looking to get a jump-start on a new look for the New Year, Dr. Amie Collins of Jeunesse Aesthetics suggests a series of IPL Photo Rejuvenation and Skin Tightening treatments. Both laser treatments use Intense Pulse Light, or IPL, to deliver results. IPL Photo Rejuvenation specifically targets sun damage, hyper pigmentation, vascular spots and uneven skin tones, while Skin Tightening improves skin elasticity, sagginess, superficial scarring, and stimulates new collagen production. The results? Firmer, more youthful looking skin. For a true treat, try these two procedures together.

#9 The Gift: Hair Removal Unwanted hair is just that…unwanted. With both laser hair removal and now, the availability of electrolysis in Pinehurst, you’ll have lots of options when it comes to being hair free this holiday season.

Alicia Deese of The Laser Institute of Pinehurst encourages us to put our worry, stress and razor bumps to bed this holiday season and consider laser hair removal. Investing in a series of treatments now will assure you’ll be razor free by the time the warm weather arrives. Especially ideal for larger areas, such as the arms and legs. It’s an investment worth making.

If you’re looking for a hair removal option guaranteed to leave your face smooth, Dr. Candace King of Pinehurst Skin Surgery Center recommends electrolysis. A tried and true method of hair removal for over 100years, electrolysis is perfect for light hair such in small areas, such as the eyebrows, sideburn area, lips, chin and neck. An ideal way to complement laser hair removal, as it works to remove any stubborn hairs resistant to laser treatments. During your consultation, Dr. King can determine the number of treatments necessary to ensure complete hair removal.

#10 The Gift: Body Massage Sometimes, it’s not just our face that needs to feel refreshed.

Mia Piazza of Carolina Skin Care encourages us to give our body a break. Her favorite indulgence? Salt Glow Exfoliation, where a salt solution is used to gently exfoliate and rejuvenate the skin, followed by the application of moisturizing lotion and if desired, aromatherapy. Add a Vichy shower or steam to experience the ultimate in relaxation. Perfect for a spa day spent with girlfriends.

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#11 The Gift: Shape and Wax Your Brows Not all facial hair is unwanted. Your brows direct attention to your eyes. And while well-groomed ones frame the face, untrimmed and unshaped brows can take away from your look. Dr. Anna Fakadej of Carolina Eye Associates reminds us that taking the time to shape and wax your eyebrows can make a significant difference.

Clean brows open up the entire eye area and right now, the trend is natural, thicker looking brows. But before you pick up the tweezers, consider seeing a professional, whose expertise is essential for achieving your sought-after shape.

#12 The Gift: Your Fingers and Your Toes Kim Parker of The Spa at Pinehurst doesn’t want us to forget about our fingers and toes, and how a good manicure and pedicure will enhance our makeup, holiday dress and shoes, which are likely to be open-toe. Color choices are plenty, with gemstone shades, heavy metals, neutrals, and lots of purple all acceptable.

And remember, no matter what indulgence you decide to partake of this holiday season, the easiest way to get your confident feelings flowing is to take care of yourself. Think eating healthy, getting exercise, drinking lots of water and of course, most importantly, taking a moment to breathe.

Happ y Holidays!

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Heart SURVIVORS FUND

This is a story of passion – a young woman’s passion for life, our health care community’s passion to care for people, and an anonymous couple’s passion to make a difference.

I have learned of the beauty of community – of uniting one’s neighbors to share life, love and concern of others. I’ve learned that one’s life is most effective when selflessly given to help and encourage others.

by Kay Grismer

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Christmas 2005 had passed and New Year’s Day 2006 was just days away when a Pinehurst couple read about a 20-year-old Appalachian State coed who died while helping her mother prepare Christmas Eve dinner.

“She was still at the age when she was looking at life through rose-colored glasses,” her mother said. “She wanted people in the world to love each other and care about each other.”

An undiagnosed aortic aneurysm caused her sudden death. “It doesn’t make sense,” her mother continued. “Her heart was the strongest part of who she was.”

An undiagnosed aortic aneurysm, the man and his wife thought. Eight years earlier, it could have been him.

Like most abdominal aortic aneurysms, his was found by accident – during an examination for a non-related back problem in 1997. The aneurysm was small, two centimeters. But every six months thereafter, he had an ultrasound to check its size, the key factor in determining when medical intervention is required.

For three years, the aneurysm barely changed; but suddenly it started growing.

When it reached five centimeters, he knew he was playing Russian roulette with his life unless he had surgery. The aneurysm was successfully repaired in 2003.

“I was very, very fortunate to make it through,” he says. “I lost several friends who had abdominal aortic aneurysms. When you know you’ve got it and have it fixed, you feel like you’re one of the luckiest people in the world.”

The needless death of a vital, passionate young woman inspired the couple to say to each other, “Let’s do something.” As long-time supporters of the Foundation of FirstHealth, they turned to Foundation president Kathy Westover for help.

The Heart Survivors Fund

To enable others to look beyond themselves and their immediate concerns, and to give without expectation of fanfare represents the most vital contribution of the quiet hero.

“The first working day of 2006, the couple called to say they had something they wanted to share,” Kathy recalls. “They showed me the article about the coed, along with a flier for vascular screenings. Since his own diagnosis, the donor had become very knowledgeable about abdominal aortic aneurysms. He knew that a simple, painless ultrasound screening could save lives. ‘If there is any chance at all you might have an aneurysm,’ he told me, ‘why not get a screening?’”

The couple decided to establish an anonymous endowment with the Foundation to support the prevention, diagnostics and education in the treatment of heart disease. The fund would also provide scholarships for those at high risk for vascular diseases who need financial assistance to pay for the lifesaving screenings.

“As we talked, I was so taken by the donor’s passion to encourage awareness and promote early diagnosis and treatment of abdominal aortic aneurysms,” Kathy says. “‘If we can save one life by offering scholarships to the underserved,’ he said, ‘we’ll know we’ve made a difference.’”

Over the next year, the donors’ energy inspired everyone at FirstHealth who was involved in developing the new screening program for vascular disease.

In November 2006, the Moore Regional Hospital Foundation’s Grant Review Committee approved funding for ultrasound equipment and revisions to the FirstHealth Community Service Mobile Health Van where the screenings would be made available.

“Once we had approval, it all happened within a 90-day period,” says Roxanne Leopper, policy director for FirstHealth Community Health Services. “It moved so quickly – quicker than I have ever seen any other program – because the donors felt passionately about saving lives. They are phenomenal, good-hearted people. There are no words to describe their generosity.”

In March 2007, FirstHealth Mobile Health Services began offering screenings for the three most commonly identified vascular diseases – abdominal aortic aneurysm, carotid artery disease (the number one cause of stroke in the U.S.), and peripheral vascular disease (known as hardening of the arteries that may lead to the loss of limbs).

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“These conditions can be asymptomatic, but can put people in life-or-death situations and they don’t even realize it,” says Leopper.

“Ultrasound screenings are quick, accurate, and have no known side effects,” says Samuel Wahl, M.D., an interventional radiologist with Pinehurst Radiology Associates.

The FirstHealth service area, with its high incidence of diabetes, hypertension and obesity, has historically had a high risk for vascular and cardiovascular disease. “There’s got to be more focus on prevention and easier access that allows people to take a more preventive look at their own health care,” says Amy Hamilton, outreach manager for FirstHealth Community Health Services.

“These new screenings show FirstHealth’s commitment to look forward to prevention.”

In the first three months the screenings were offered, more than 20 percent of the people who were screened had abnormal findings and needed follow-up with a primary care physician.

In 2006, FirstHealth Moore Regional Hospital was rated in the top five percent in the state for heart and vascular care. In April 2006, Jonathan Hasson, M.D., a vascular surgeon in Rockingham, performed the first “non-surgical” endovascular aortic aneurysm repair at FirstHealth Richmond Memorial Hospital. “Offering endovascular surgery here at Richmond means that patients with life-threatening aneurysms no longer have to travel far from home to receive the highly specialized treatment they need,” says John Jackson, president of Richmond Memorial Hospital.

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“By screening members of the community and finding aneurysms before they become a larger problem, we have a better chance of providing treatment options for the patient,” says John E. Streitman, M.D., a cardiothoracic and vascular surgeon with FirstHealth of the Carolinas. “Like the generous benefactors of the screening program, each of us has the power to make a difference. When we all work together, we increase our potential beyond measure.”

Who gives me a little gift, he wishes that I live.

“This program is very dear to our hearts,” the donors say. “We’re thankful that the Foundation of FirstHealth’s Heart Survivors Fund is available now and will always be here in the future to help people learn about vascular disease and what they can do to take charge of their health.”

FirstHealth Mobile Health ultrasound screenings for abdominal aortic aneurysm, carotid artery and stroke, and peripheral vascular disease take about 40 minutes for all three and cost $30 each or $85 for all three. Financial assistance is available for those people who qualify. Screenings are available three times a month at various locations throughout Moore, Hoke, Richmond and Montgomery counties.

If your church, organization or business is interested in hosting an ultrasound screening event, call (888) 5333 toll-free.

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On August 21st the Hot Art and Cool Blues show and auction was held at Loch Hurst Farm in Vass. Hosting the fundraising event was the Companion Animal Clinic of the Sandhills Foundation, which is dedicated to promoting humane and responsible care of companion animals.

1. County commissioner Jimmy Melton & his wife Dot with Loch Hurst farm owner Paula Johnson & Companion Animal Clinic president Deborah Wilson. 2. Sculptor David McCune & his horse sculpture. 3. Artists Betty DiBartolomeo, Harry Neely & Courtney Herndon. 4. Tom & Kay Buckley, Sandy Carr, Lydia Boesch, Tracey McCarthy & Dawn Crawley.

1. Sandhills Children’s Center event organizer, Teresa Black. 2. Charlie Mc Innes, Ann Cameron & Maxie Gleaton. 3. Jim & Kay Kearns with Kay & Billy Crouch. 4. Jill McCaughlin, Shannon Kitchen, Seema Verma & Pam Dixon.

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choral society wine gala On October 12th the Moore County Choral Society sponsored a wine gala at The Fresh Market in Southern Pines. Proceeds from the event benefit the Choral Society.

1. Choral director Anne Dorsey, Fresh Market assistant manager Alana Young, event chairman Karen Howell, Susan Trudell & choral society president Jason Harris. 2. Choral members Susan Hubert, Sondra Nelson, Ann Covington & Gladys Wade. 3. Rebecca Muney, Lee Corbet, Sandy Mock, Mim Peirce, Lucy Patterson & Joan Hilsman. 4. Walt Hess & Kathy Wilford.

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1. Auto body repair instructors Darwin Maness & Frank Evans. 2. Donnie Hines with his entry. 3. Elizabeth Schilling, Victoria Hamilton & Ethan Curtis. 4. Trip Johnson.

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On September 9th the Eve Avery shop in Southern Pines presented the jewelry of Lesley-Anne Slisko. It was an opportunity to meet the artist and view her collection inspired by Ave Gardner, Josephine Baker and Edith Piaf.

1. Trevie Smart & Kelly Altman with shop owner Eve Avery. 2. Jewelry designer Lesley-Anne Slisko. 3. Connie Ryan & Michele Gowan. 4. Mary Perkio & Ginger Tyler.

fall fusion On September 10th the Artists League of the Sandhills held an opening reception for the Fall Fusion exhibit. Sarah Clatworthy, Barbara Sickenberger and Nancy Yanchus were the featured artists.

1. Artists Sarah Clatworthy, Nancy Yanchus & Barbara Sickenberger. 2.

Susan & Donald Cox with Katherine Stevenson. 3. Alice & Jim Schlund.

4. Marilyn Neely, Audrey Morarity & Fran White. 5.Linda & Roger Erwin and Dorothy & Maurice Martin. 6. Neil MacDonald, Ron Sickenberger, Al Daniels, Monroe Diefendorf & Bill Settles.

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1. Owners of Acorn cottage Al & Sandy Logan with Judith Sams. 2. Ross & Barbara Dahlen. 3. Carolyne & Isla Riggsbee, Kate & Connor Chiang and Carol & Palmer Stewart.

1. Event chairman Fran Stewart & her husband David. 2. Co-chairman Mary Pappas & hubby Gary. 3. Julie & Carmine Lemma. 4. Brenda Mullins, head pro Todd Camplin & Diane Staley.

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1. Store manager Mark Horney with assistant manager Alanna Young. 2.

Izzy Sotelo & Monzav Thet-oo. 3. Kirsten, Jody, Lauren, Keegan & Kayden Foyles. 4. Aimee Rotting & Jyrel Blue.

charity memory ride The 3rd Annual Charity Memory Ride hosted by St. Joseph of the Pines was held on September 18th. Breakfast, a 100-mile ride, lunch at Belle Meade, door prizes and music were part of the event to raise money for the Western N.C. Chapter’s Alzheimer’s Association.

1. Belle Meade director Tony Paz, director of volunteer services at St. Joe’s Jeralie Andrews, Henry Schamberger, “mystery rider” director of Pine Knoll Nathan Summers & Jermaine White. 2. Angie & Rob Teske and Scooter. 3. Pine Knoll resident Ray Taylor with Liz & Marty Garner & Darrell McLeod. 4. Gary Caulk & Rick Rhyne.

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1. President of the Arts Council Gary Southard & board member Ginger Monroe. 2. Fred & Chris Engelfried, Fresh Market assistant manager Jonathan Hall, event chairman Connie Petrillo & Nancy Nielson. 3. Johanna & Jim Westmen. 4. Marie Travisano, Billie Ertter of Hair Biz, Alan Repp, MaryAnn & Richard McClary and Kim Sobat.

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fall harvest dinner On September 30th the Sandhills Horticultural Society hosted the Fall Harvest Progressive Dinner in the Gardens of Sandhills Community College. Students from the Art, Culinary, Landscape Gardening and Music departments presented an evening of dinner, art and music in a beautiful garden setting. Proceeds from the event benefit the four departments.

1. Skip & Martha Ragland with Landscape Gardening department instructors Lee Ivy, Johanna & Jim Westmen & Dee Johnson. 2. Culinary student Patty Carr with Ruth Ann & Philip Isenberg. 3. Choir director Frances Wilson & the choir.

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On October 8th Friends of the Arts Council hosted the fundraiser called “Come to the Cabaret” at Weymouth Center in Southern Pines.

On October 9th, oil painters nation wide were painting. Oil Painters of America is a national organization dedicated to the preservation of representative art. Painters in our area were painting at the Harness Track in Pinehurst.

1. Event committee members Peggy Thompson, Shirley Frei & Cos Barnes.

2. Cabaret gals Barbara McKinzie-Hess, Denise Baker, Andie Rose, Meridith Martens, Darlene Stark & Howard Schubert with Bill Frei and Patty & Peter Pottle. 3. John & Elaine Hoffmann and Mary & Bill Tarr.

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financial advice Provided by and Courtesy of Derek S. Pszenny, AIF® Senior Wealth Manager, Carolina Wealth Management

Health of your Wealth

Derek S. Pszenny, AIF® derek@mycarolinawealth.com

Rolling Over YOUR 401K f your money is still sitting in your previous employer’s 401k account, it’s time to move it into an account where you can control the fees and investment choices instead of letting your old employer make those decisions.

WHY ROLL OVER? Rolling over your previous employer’s 401k account into a single IRA is the only way to make sure that your portfolio <http://www.mint.com/401k/> account will follow proven investing strategies such as asset allocation, diversification, control over investment fees, and have the ability to invest in the best performing investments for your personal situation.

And with an IRA rollover, you preserve all of the existing tax advantages of your 401k. Here are some of the advantages to rolling over:

1. More and Better Investment Options In an IRA, you can select your own investments. You won’t be limited to the funds and managers selected by your employer.

Consider that the average 401k employer plan contains just 13 investment choices making it difficult, if not impossible, to achieve a diversified portfolio whereas an IRA can give you access to thousands of investments, including stocks, bonds, and mutual funds.

2. Lower Fees Some 401k plans are loaded with hidden fees, including administrative, insurance and management costs. These fees represent money that is being wasted and worse, this money isn’t being used to fund your investments. Most IRA rollover accounts do not have any administrative or insurances fees associated with them and this represents an immediate savings to your portfolio.

3. Easier Account Management With your retirement money earned from prior jobs in a single place, you’ll be able to see whether you are on track for retirement, without having to check multiple accounts. You can obtain daily account valuations and you will be able to track the performance of your account.

4. Greater Control and Flexibility Combining your 401k account(s) into an IRA will allow you to have control over your retirement plan. You can choose to manage the account on your own or hire an advisor for help. As long as you do not purchase an annuity based product or hire a broker that charges back end fees, you will have flexibility to move your account at anytime if you become unhappy with the portfolio.

Rolling over your 401k to an IRA Rollover account can have a positive impact on your retirement plan. However, make sure you seek advice from a trusted resource before making a decision.

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For it is in giving that we receive

- St. Francis of Assisi

There is always much talk around the holidays of commercialism and over-giving. But what about thoughtful giving? Choosing the perfect gift for someone and giving it freely in celebration and with joy is what the tradition intended.

Price holds no place in thoughtful giving. Whether you spend a little or a lot, it doesn’t matter. A carefully chosen gift shows simply that you thought about that person sincerely. You know his favorite color or style. Or remembered the one item that made her laugh in delight.

Of course, the key to thoughtful giving, and often the frustration, is in the search. Scouting is not easy, and it takes time. Pinehurst Magazine has ideas. For jewelry lovers, charms and charm bracelets are a great way to give thoughtfully. Monogrammed and engraved pieces are also meaningful. Consider having a family heirloom piece remade.

For school-age kids, it’s all about the latest technology. The National Retail Federation predicts video gaming systems such as the Wii or Playstation will be favorites again in 2010. Systems cost a few hundred dollars, but games can be had for $50 or less. Consider purchasing an experience, too – gift cards to bounce houses, roller rinks, movie theaters or paint-your-own pottery places. Or plan a day together with an outing followed by pizza and ice cream. Kids want our time more than anything.

For younger kids, Elmo Live! ($60) is predicted to be one of the top gifts this year as is the Fisher Price™ Kid-Tough Waterproof camera ($100). For a teachable gift, consider the ATM Machine Bank from YOUniverse ($24.99). It’s a mini-ATM machine bank that counts a child’s money as he or she makes a “deposit” or a “withdrawal.” It’s a great way to teach kids to save.

But you don’t have to go far – or order online – to give thoughtfully. On these pages, we’ve featured unique gifts from local businesses that are bound to catch your eye and perhaps even win the hearts of the special people in your life. At the very least, they’ll give you ideas and lead you in the right direction.

Choose thoughtfully.

We know you can do it.

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7 1. Make your mark with the Noteworthy Snap Stamp. For $38.99-$47.99, this stamp base allows you to customize stationery with multiple interchangeable face designs. Available at InvitationBox.com 2. Magnetic Bird Board $25; Tickle Monster book & tickle gloves $34.95; Mini*mergency Survival Kit $12, contains 16 must haves from hairspray to dental floss and deodorant.

Available at One Eleven Main

5. Seasonal Whispers Bangles make the perfect holiday gift. They come in a range of stylings and complement any outfit. This is the must have fall/ winter accessory. $98 Available at Morgan Miller 6. A guided trail ride! You do not have to be an experienced horse rider. A McLendon Hills trail ride is a nice way to spend time outdoors enjoying the scenic beauty near Pinehurst. $80 per one rider; or $60 per person if more than one rider. Available at McLendon Hills

3. Sunglass gift packages starting at $49. Includes SunDog golf glasses, eye glass strap, case, cleaner and cleaning cloth for men and women. Available at Eye Max

7. Ceramic Cookie Jars filled with individually wrapped cookies. $8.95. Available at Potpourri

4. Lilly Pulitzer patch day watch set $22.75; iPhone case $22.75 & 10oz water bottle $16.75; personalized plate from Preppy Plates $30. Available at Belli Bambini

8. Philip Steen womenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s watch with interchangable red leather band $110; Philip Steen stainless steel menâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s watch $600. Available at Fiskin & Fiskin Jewelers

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This holiday basket incudes a complete Obagi NuDerm system, Jane Iredale mineral makeup and a Clarisonic Prosonic skin cleanser. Value $600, Price $550. Available at Jeunesse Aesthetics 10. From Italy...a timeless & elegant classic in rich red quilted leather.

Perfect for every season & wonderfully affordable at $395.

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Available at Le Faux Chateau 11. BB Becker inspirational jewelry. $70. Available at Honeycutt Jewelers

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13. Jewelry from Michelle Laster, OtazuRing, Streets Ahead & Nix Leather.

Available at Eve Avery 14. Large animal print personalized tote. $39 with monogram. Available at Pretty N’ Bliss

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Perfect for the Pines! $130 (available in multiple colors). Available at Monkee’s of the Pines 16. Chantal pairs the beauty of oven-totable bakeware with the convenience of ceramic, stay-put spill-proof lids. $42.

Available at Kitchen Essence 17. Beautiful gemstone globes! Various sizes starting at $175. Available at Gemma Gallery

18. Scottish cashmere scarves in a variety of colors. $28. Available at Lookin’ for Linda 19. A European Facial cleanses, conditions, moisturizes, rejuvenates and relaxes the tension of the face. $60. Available at Carolina Eye Associates

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holiday hostess gifts Hitting the holiday party circuit this year and out of ideas for hostess gifts? Here are the top picks we have under $25, that are sure to keep you on the “A” List, year after year!

Recycled Wine Bottle Tumblers

Marietta Port, California, 375ml Bottle

These tumblers were bottles made from recycled glass in their first life. The tops of the bottles have been whacked off and smoothed. In deep and subtle greens and cobalt blue, they are the perfect size for your favorite cold beverage and fit snugly inside a small woman’s hand. Cool, hip and environmentally correct, this is a no-brainer. Set of four, @ $16.

A limited production blend of Touriga, Souzao, and Zinfandel. Aged in new and seasoned French Oak, it is not as sweet as traditional Portuguese styles, although it unquestionably has an emphasis on ripe, rich fruit complemented by a hint of vanilla and oak. Delicious holiday wine with a hunk of Ashe Carolina bleu cheese and walnuts. About $14.

Celebrity Dairy Cranberry/Cinnamon Goat Cheese Vignon Wine Aerator Bring out the best in your wine. Built-in aeration technology with a stylish pourer. It features a frosted plastic pourer with Stainless steel collar, and it’s base is supple rubber to lock into the top of your wine bottle, gargling your wine as you pour. $24.

A Bottle Of Local Wine Two of my favorites are Black Rock Winery out of Carthage and Silkhope Winery from Pittsboro. The Cabernet Sauvignon from Black Rock is smooth and full-bodied @ $11.99 and I’m a huge fan of the brightly acidic, fruit filled dry rose’, White Chambourcin from SilkHope.

Poly Carbonate Unbreakable Stemless “O”’s and stems: These glasses are neither plastic or acrylic and appear to be glass, reflecting light beautifully. The highest quality of unbreakable glassware, they are perfect for the many Sandhills hostesses who have swimming pools, hot tubs and pontoon boats. Sold individually for about $5 each.

This cheese is to die for. To complete an incredible hostess gift, pair it with Valley Seed Cranberry Almond Crisp Crackers at about $8 a pack. A hostess gift matchmade in heaven! $8.99.

Afterglow Pine Cone Bottle Wick As we reside in “The Pines”, so we love to give our “piney gifts”. This is a precious inexpensive pewter pinecone that slips into a wine bottle to create a great wine luminaire! $8.

Bitch Bubbly Sparkling Wine, Australia The Aussie’s love the catchy names. and this one is more than a funny face!

The winemaker is Chris Ringland, considered one of the best winemakers in the world. This sparkling wine is a blend of Grenache and Shiraz and delivers great dry, strawberry, cherry flavors that are crisp and clean! For the Great Friend Hostess with a sense of humor! $11

Perfect Hostess Gift for the most Budget Conscious Partygoer The Passport Pocket Tasting Journal is the ultimate under $5 hostess gift.

Who can’t afford that? A great tiny little journal that slides into a man’s pants pocket or the small side pockets of a woman’s purse.

By Robyn James, Proprietor • The Wine Cellar & Tasting Room Southern Pines, North Carolina • www.thewinecellarandtastingroom.com

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Reading List from The Country Bookshop

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THE EMPEROR’S TOMB by Steve Berry $26 • fiction/hardcover In order to ransom his kidnapped friend Cassiopeia Vitt, ex-Federal agent Cotton Malone travels from Denmark to Pakistan and then to China in search of a priceless ancient Chinese lamp that contains the secret to overcoming China’s dependence on foreign oil.

AS ALWAYS, JULIA: The Letters of Julia Child and Avis Devoto by Joan Reardon, ed $26 non-fiction/hardcover 200 never-before-published letters between Julia Child and Avis DeVoto, her friend and unofficial literary agent, written during the time when Child’s developing obsession with French food resulted in her classic, Mastering the Art of French Cooking.

AN OBJECT OF BEAUTY by Steve Martin $26.99 • fiction/hardcover The rise of a young, ambitious art dealer to the highest tiers of NYC’s galleries parallels the soaring heights and dark lows of the art world and the country from the late 1990s through today.

MY READING LIFE by Pat Conroy $25 • non-fiction/hardcover The beloved American storyteller shares anecdotes from his school days, moving accounts of how reading pulled him through dark times, and lists of books that particularly influenced him at various stages of his life.

HOUSE RULES by Jodi Picoult $16 • fiction/paperback A brilliant teen with Asperger’s syndrome and a special interest in forensic analysis becomes the object of a police investigation when a terrible murder rocks his hometown.

THE GOURMET COOKIE BOOK compiled by Gourmet Magazine $18 • non-fiction/paperback Editors of Gourmet selected the most delicious cookie recipes for each year of the magazine’s 68-year existence, beginning in 1941, along with a fascinating bite-by-bite cultural history of how our appetites evolved.

WISHIN’ AND HOPIN’ by Wally Lamb $13.99 • fiction/paperback Through the adventures of a feisty parochial school fifth grader, Lamb transports us back to 1964, when LBJ and Lady Bird were in the White House, Beatles records were on every turntable, and Christmas meant mistletoe, mangers and midnight mass.

author events: NOVEMBER • Monday, November 1, 2 pm at Penick Village Auditorium: MICHAEL FRANZAK, USMC Lt. Col. (Ret), A Nightmare’s Prayer: A Marine Harrier Pilot’s War in Afghanistan • Monday, November 8, 2 pm at Weymouth Center: Fiction authors MARY KAY ANDREWS (The Fixer Upper), DIANE CHAMBERLAIN (The Shadow Wife), MARGARET MARON (Christmas Mourning), ALEXANDRA SOKOLOFF (The Shifters), with Brynn Bonner. Katy Munger, and Sarah Shaber.

THE IMPERIAL CRUISE: A True Story of Empire and War by James Bradley $16.99 • non-fiction/paperback The author reveals the secret agreements made in 1905 that President Teddy Roosevelt thought would secure America’s westward push into the Pacific, instead set the stage for WWII, the Chinese Communist Revolution and the Korean War. • Tuesday, November 9, 2 pm at Penick Village: JILL MCCORKLE with her new collection of short stories, Going Away Shoes • Thursday, November 18, 4 pm: GEORGANN EUBANKS, Literary Trails of the North Carolina Piedmont: A Guidebook • Monday, November 22, 4 pm: KAREN WHITE with novels On Folly Beach and Falling Home.

DECEMBER • Thursday, December 2, 4 pm: JOHN DERR with his memoir, My Place at the Table

Events are at The Country Bookshop unless otherwise noted.

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20. MM Design necklace: let this local Pinehurst designer become part of your jewelry collection. Fabulous designs starting at $120.

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26. The world’s most comfortable shirt! BraeVal’s wool and cotton sporting shirt. Cotton zip pullover in assorted colors and designes. $125. Available at Gentlemen’s Corner

21. Mary Lake Thompson bundle of six napkins $35, soap and towel set $23.75, lemon cake mix (flour sack towel included) $23.75.

Available Aldena Frye Floral Designs

27. Porcelain gurgle pot available in assorted colors. Recently featured in Coastal Living! $39.99. Available at Cameron & Co.

28 22. Clocky® Rolling Alarm Clock. An alarm clock that runs away when you don’t wake up. Avalilable in lots of colors. $49. Available at RSVP

23. Diamond in a Pearl necklace. When an oyster swallows a grain of sand it feels discomfort, to ease the pain it applies a coat of nacre. During this healing process a pearl is created. This is like life. It is easy to love in good times, but it takes courage to love through discomfort of our lives.

Diamond in a Pearl is a symbol of love. $345. Available at Gemma Gallery 24. This lightly felted scarf is smARTWORKS signature piece.

Merino wool, cotton, approx. $149. Available at Faded Rose 25. Green Gate Gourmet Chocolates by Carole. Made with our oils and vinegars. Various assortments available from $5 to $25. Available at Green Gate Olive Oil

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28. PJ Harlow Dreamwear – Whether for daywear or nightwear, you will love these silks and cottons! Soft and elegant. Prices starting at $40. Available at Opulence of Southern Pines 29. Running Fox with .89 ct diamonds $3032, 14K Signet ring, engraving available. Available at Hawkins & Harkness 30. Our cozy 100% cotton 1/2 zip funnel is made exclusively for CoolSweats and is available a variety of colors. $75.

Available at Coolsweats 31. Onyx and silver cuff links and shirt studs. $225. Available at Honeycutt Jewelers

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32. The “Lauren” by Hobo is at the top of everyone’s wish list. It’s a versatile wallet for day but can easily cross over to the perfect clutch for evening. $99. Available at Denker’s

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A gift certificate from The Laser Institute of Pinehurst shows exactly how much you care! Gift certificates can be used toward services or products. Services vary from manicures and pedicures, facials, lasers, Botox and more! On Friday, December 10th, from noon until 3pm all gift certificates will be discounted by 10%. Available at The Laser Institute

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Temple Theatre gift certificates make the perfect holiday gift!

Available in any amount at Temple Theater The gift of healthy skin: Give a holiday peppermint facial for only $65 or 10% off any package of skin care treatments. Offer includes: microdermabrasion, peels & laser hair removal. Offer valid thru 12/31/2010.

Available at Pinehurst Surgical

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33. Elizabeth Locke Jewels and Estate Tiffany Diamond Bee from our extensive Estate Collection.

Available at Elaine Miller 34. The Apex Grill by Holland Grill. Stainless steel cooking grid and heavy duty cast iron burner are guaranteed for life. Available at Kees Appliance 35. Thomas the Train wooden train sets $59.95; Harold’s Helipad Individual Train Cars $12.99; Dressable Madeline doll $29.99; Madeline books $17.99. Available at The Little Toy Shop 36. Sterling silver blue topaz ear pendants and sterling silver blue topaz and iolite ring. Retail from $255 to $2,940. Available at J.M. Edwards 37. A gift for your favorite gardener, an Encore azalea.This triple blooming azalea will be enjoyed spring, summer and fall. $24.95. Available at Gulley’s Garden Center

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In home holiday decorating by our staff. Services include decorating your entire home, tree set-up, front porch, mantel – you name it! We can use your decorations and you can add to your collection from Santa’s Closet merchandise. Starting at $100.

Available at Santa’s Closet at Pinehurst Patio Something for the person who has everything! An Elliott’s Gift Certificate.Available at Elliott’s on Linden Offering 10% off all spa services from December 1st - December 31st, excluding products and gift certificate purchases. Available at Carolina Skin Care A gift card from The Sly Fox is the ideal present for the beer aficionado on your Christmas list!

Available at The Sly Fox

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