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NOVEMBER 5, 2021
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DIFFICULT CONVERSATIONS What to Expect When You Share the News of Your Diagnosis by Carolyn Byrd RN-BSN
Sharing the news of a cancer diagnosis with your family, friends, and coworkers is hard. But you have total control over how and when these conversations take place. Here’s a guide on what to expect:
39 WINKS
There are two weeks every year that cause insomnia and generally play havoc with people’s sleep schedules, and one of them happens next week. The occasion is the semi-annual changing of the clocks to begin and end Daylight Saving Time (DST). Humans are creatures of habit, and when we go to bed at roughly the same time every night, and nearly always get up at exactly the same time every day for work or school, any change, even if only an hour, messes with the circadian rhythms we have established since we sprang forward or fell back. This year’s fall back date (Nov. 7) was established by Congress in 2005, extending the end of DST from the last Sunday in October to the first Sunday in November, reportedly at least partly as the result of pressure from candy lobbyists who wanted longer daylight for trick-or-treaters.
The myth is that we gain back the extra hour of sleep we lost last spring when at, say, 11:00 pm on Nov. 6, we reset the clock for 10:00 pm before we crawl into the sack. But then the aformentioned circadian rhthyms kick in. Right after changing their clock some people will think, “Hey, it’s only 10 o’clock now. No sense going to bed this early.” Their body doesn’t know anything about the time change, of course; it’s dark in there. But eventually they do go to bed — late — and quickly fall asleep. Phase II of the problem happens the next morning: even though their alarm might be set for 7, that’s just the time the clock says. Internally, in the person’s body clock, 7 o’clock will happen at 6 o’clock. By such means, 40 winks become 39. Or even less. What is the solution? Please see 39 WINKS page 6
You just found out that you have cancer. You’re trying to wrap your brain around the devastating news you have just received. Your entire life seemingly flashes before your eyes. Thoughts of your family and friends’ reactions to the news begin to crowd your brain. Your emotions are all over the place, and you haven’t had time to process the news. This is a normal response. Allow yourself time and space before sharing the news. Only you know when it’s time to share. It is important to know the facts before you share with extended family and friends. You may get a lot of questions that you are unable to answer, causing still more emotional turmoil. If you are unable to deliver the news, you can appoint someone to speak on your behalf. After sharing your diagnosis, you should expect many different emotions from others. People cope with bad news in different ways. If your spouse or significant other wasn’t present when you received your diagnosis, you may need to inform them right away. More than likely they will be your greatest support throughout your cancer journey. They can assist you in making decisions about your care. If at all possible, keep them in the loop of what is going on because they are concerned about your health and well-being. Remember that this diagnosis will affect your personal relationship with your spouse or significant other, so don’t shut them out. Normally they are there to assist you in making decisions about your care. Telling younger children may be a little challenging. It is important to take the child’s age into consideration when having this conversation. As parents, it is natural for us to protect our children. Children are very smart and can sense when something is wrong. Be truthful with them and assure them that you will be getting the care that you need. Hopefully this will alleviate some of their fears. Allow them time to process this inPlease see DIFFICULT page 10
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