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Counselor's Notebook, April 2025

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MASCA

Counselor’s Notebook

MASSACHUSETTS SCHOOL COUNSELORS ASSOCIATION

Vol. 61, No. 8

APRIL 2025

Community Engagement: Host an SEL Night! By Jessica Descartes, MASCA 2024 -2025 Board Chair and Director of Student Services, Tech Boston Academy April showers bring May Flowers! I hope that you have continued to grow in this season. One of my goals this year was to strengthen family engagement in our school community. When I attended the ASCA Conference in Kansas City last summer, one of the session presenters shared how they incorporated an SEL night for their students and families. This was a fabulous idea and I knew that I wanted to bring this back to my school. I partnered with our family liaison and our restorative justice coordinator and we developed a plan for the evening. First, after a welcome opener and some refreshments, we explained the purpose of the event, which was to help promote and foster healthy relationships, emotional well-being, and effective communication within our school and family communities. Our facilita-

Inside this Issue: Directory...................................2 Director's Message........................3 Identity as Resource ....................4 MASCA & Me..................................6 Practicum Prep..............................7

B. Take some time to be alone C. Do something active (like exercising or playing a game) D. Listen to music to help calm down

Jessica Descartes tor explained what SEL is and how we incorporate it in our school community and learning. Those in attendance then had the opportunity to ask any clarifying questions and when they were ready, we jumped into our activity for the evening. We originally had a list of activities and stations; however, we needed to make adjustments due to the number of participants present. So our activity was “Four Corners”. For those not familiar, Four Corners consists of presenting a statement or question and in the four corners of the room, an opinion or response is posted. Participants then share their opinion or response by standing in front of one of four statements, and then talking to others about why they have chosen their corner.

Multi Lingual Learners.................12

For this session, our facilitator prepared statements around emotions and self-awareness, gratitude, conflict resolution, empathy, and coping with stress. For example, our question for emotion & self-awareness was:

Trusting Yourself..........................13

When I’m feeling upset, I usually:

New Members...............................9 The Most Important Thing...........10 Professional Development...........11

MA Model...................................14

A. Talk to someone I trust

After some discussion within each corner, we asked participants to share why they chose their responses. This led to meaningful discussion, where everyone participating, students, families and educators, were able to share with one another. All were able to reflect on what was shared and how it affected them personally. Following some robust conversation, we discussed ways to continue practicing SEL at school, at home and with our friends and community. We also provided a goodie bag that included some gifts, fidget toys and an “SEL at Home” resource guide with tips and activities students & families can use regularly. SEL has become such an important aspect of education, as it helps students develop essential skills such self-awareness, self-management, social awareness, relationship skills, and responsible decision-making. If you are able to host an SEL Night, it is a wonderful way to engage students, families, and your fellow educators. It creates a space for conversation and positive interactions, and it builds strong connections between students, their families, and the school community. By making SEL a part of the school culture, schools can help students develop the emotional skills necessary to thrive both personally and academically.


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