HIGH HOLIDAYS 5786
FORGIVING When It Feels Impossible
ROSH HASHANAH Recipes For a Sweet Year
RAISING CONFIDENT TEENS in a Status-Obsessed World
A Sephardi and an Ashkenazi Unite
To Feed Hundreds of Thousands of Israel’s Poor
AryehLurie-YadEzraV’Shulamit
JosephGitler-LeketIsrael
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Devin Frey
By Stuart H. Ditchek, MD
INSPIRATIONAL
12 Rosh Hashanah and the Robots By Rabbi Lord Jonathan Sacks zt"l 16 Who Goes First? Forgiving When It Feels Impossible By Rabbi Meyer Laniado
150 How to Get Through the Holidays Without Letting Food Steal the Joy Laura Shammah MS, RDN
88 From Alexandria Viviane Salem nee Marcos By Sarina Roffé
162 Thinking of Leaving New York? Here’s Why South Florida
Roberta Gordon Esquenazi
ROSH HASHANAH
102 Letter from Chief Rabbi Shaul J. Kassin
103 Letter from Congresswoman Nicole Malliotakis
104 Letter from Congressman Jerry Nadler
105 Letter from State Comptroller Thomas DiNapoli
106 Letter from State Senator Sam Sutton
107 Letter from Assemblyman Simcha Eichenstein
108 Letter from Assemblyman Kalman Yeger
109 Letter from Mayor of NYC Eric Adams
110 Letter from Brooklyn Borough President Antonio Reynoso
111 Letter from NYC Councilman Simcha Felder
112 Letter from NYC Councilwoman Inna Vernikov
113 Letter from Congressman Frank Pallone Jr
114 Letter from Monmouth County Commissioner Erik Anderson
115 Letter from Mayor Of Deal Sam Cohen
116 Letter from Mayor of Long Branch John Pallone
VOTER AWARENESS
24 Voter Registration In The Sephardic Community By Sentator Sam Sutton
WRITERS’ THOUGHTS
92 Five Questions to Ask Yourself Before Rosh Hashanah By Debbie Gutfreund
118 Five Things Strong Jewish Mothers Do By Debbie Gutfreund
132 The Real Heroes of the IDF By Sarah Patcher
September brings us into Elul, the month of reflection and preparation, as we ready ourselves for Rosh Hashanah and the start of a new year. It is a time to pause, look inward, and set our sights on growth, forgiveness, and renewal.
This issue is our annual High Holidays edition, filled with thoughtful articles and messages to help guide us through this meaningful season. Inside, you’ll find reflections from our rabbis and community leaders, as well as practical pieces, including how to approach holiday meals without letting food overshadow the joy, along with sweet recipes to bring to your table.
Our cover story highlights the incredible work of Yad Ezra, where Sephardic and Ashkenazi volunteers come together with one purpose: to feed Israel’s hungry. Their story is a powerful reminder of what unity and compassion can achieve.
Our rabbis came together to pen a proclamation, stressing how vital it is for every eligible member of our community to register and vote. You’ll also find a message from New York State Senator Sam Sutton, reminding our community to take part in this November’s election, which will have a significant impact on New York City and the Jewish community.
This summer was filled with events that showed the strength and heart of our community. DSN once again partnered with IDF Widows and Orphans, creating unforgettable moments of love and connection. The Morris I. Franco Cancer Center’s Table…Set…Go! fundraiser celebrated creativity and resilience while honoring those fighting illness. CARE launched its first-ever CARE Club Camp for children with special needs, blending therapy and fun with remarkable results. And Chai Lifeline’s Camp Simcha came to Deal, filling a summer day with joy, laughter, and hope for children facing serious illness.
Our photo album captures the smiles of children enjoying their summer, whether at camp, concerts, or community gatherings. Each page reflects the joy, love, and strength that define us as a community.
As we enter the High Holidays, we wish you and your families a year of health, happiness, peace, and blessing. May this season of reflection bring renewal for us all, along with an end to the war in Israel, the safe return of the hostages, and peace around the world.
VOLUME 35 ISSUE 4
SEPTEMBER 2025
ELUL 5785 - TISHRI 5786
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RABBI LORD JONATHAN SACKS ZT”L
ROSH HASHANAH, THE JEWISH NEW YEAR, BEGINS WITH THE SOUNDING OF THE SHOFAR, THE RAM’S HORN. IT CULMINATES 10 DAYS LATER AT THE END OF YOM KIPPUR, THE DAY OF ATONEMENT. THESE ARE THE DAYS OF AWE, A PERIOD OF INTENSE PRAYER AND INTROSPECTION. WE REFLECT ON OUR LIVES, SEEK FORGIVENESS FOR THE WRONG WE HAVE DONE AND ASK TO BE WRITTEN IN THE BOOK OF LIFE.
Rosh Hashanah usually interests Jews. But recently I’ve begun to think its message is far broader. The day is celebrated as the anniversary of creation.
Some rabbis from the Talmudic age said it is the anniversary of the day when G-d spoke the most influential sentence in history: “Let us make humans in our image according to our likeness.”
Americans understand this better than most, thanks in part to the Declaration of Independence: “We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights.”
Yet these truths are anything but self-evident. They would have sounded absurd to Plato, who believed that everyone in the Republic should be taught that humans come in three kinds: gold, silver and bronze. They also would have been incomprehensible to Aristotle, because he held that some are born free and others are born to be slaves. Totalitarianism, and Soviet Communism especially, threatened the human dignity and freedom that in the U.S. always had a religious basis.
Now a new danger to humanity has appeared on the horizon: artificial intelligence. In 2013, documentary filmmaker James Barrat warned of the rise of artificial general intelligence—that is, robots that are all-around smarter than humans—in his book “Our Final Invention.” In the struggle for survival that has marked life since its inception, Mr. Barrat argues, humans will for the first time face a competitor that can outthink them at every stage. He predicts that Earth may be nearing the end of the human era.
The futurist Martin Ford wrote in “The Rise of the Robots” that humanity has hardly begun to realize how far humans will be displaced from the world of work. Robots have so far only taken over relatively mindless tasks, such as some of those in manufacturing. Soon more professions will be hit. Driverless cars and trucks will put millions out of work, while innovations like medicine without doctors will kill opportunities for even the most highly skilled workers. Fewer and fewer humans will be needed to run the world, and they will have enormous power over the rest.
Most somber is the Israeli historian Yuval Harari’s book, “Homo Deus.” He believes that while the ancients
worshiped G-d and moderns were devoted to the feelings of the heart, big data will rule the future. Google, Amazon and Facebook already know us better than we know ourselves. People will eventually turn to them for advice not only on what to buy but on what to be. Humans will have become strings of genomes, little more than superalgorithms.
These writers believe that humanity faces a unique challenge. In one sense they are right: The powers being unleashed have no precedent. But the problems they diagnose are also as old as civilization. Every new technology creates new centers of power that initially benefit the few at the cost of the many. Think of the mass enslavements that went with the building of pyramids or the conquests of empires.
The Hebrew Bible was revolutionary in its understanding not only of G-d but also of humanity. Finding G-d, singular and alone, the first monotheists discovered the infinite value of the human person. It is this insight—that every human is in G-d’s image regardless of color, culture
or class—that must take precedence in human economies, societies and states.
Messrs. Barrat, Ford and Harari are paraphrasing for the 21st century what the book of Psalms had to say, millennia ago, about people who worship the work of their hands: “Their idols are silver and gold, the work of human’s hands.” When technology becomes idolatry it ceases to be life-enhancing and becomes soul-destroying. The moment humans value things, however intelligent, over people, they embark on the road to ruin.
The two dangers of the 21st century could not be less alike: super-intelligent computers and highly barbaric radical Islamists. They will be defeated only by an insistence on the dignity of the human person and the sanctity of human life. That is the message of Rosh Hashanah—not only to Jews but to the world.
RABBI MEYER LANIADO
Iofficiated a small, graveside funeral for a family that was, like many families we know, complicated and in conflict. The brother and sister had not spoken in decades, and their children—first cousins—had never even met.
As is all too common in many families, this family had complications around divorce, finances, illness, and all the issues that make life complex and challenging, and create tensions and disputes. The weight of these tribulations drove this family apart.
The tensions were not just between siblings. There were also deep, unresolved feelings towards their mother, whom we were burying that day. Standing beside the freshly dug grave, their chances for reparations with their mother gone, I hoped for them to have a second chance. For them to be able to speak to one another, despite the pain. To address their issues with their mother, as well as their predicament as siblings.
That is why I turned to the family as they stood in a semicircle, facing me with the grave to my left, and said: “I know life is complicated, and emotions are raw. This may not be the right time for you, but I want to offer you the chance to ask for forgiveness and to offer forgiveness. Not just for the other, but for yourself—to let go of the pain that you have been holding onto. You may not be ready yet, and that is okay, but I want to give you the space in case you are. And so, I am going to step back, and if you are ready, take a step forward and offer forgiveness.”
I stepped back. A full minute passed—thick, tense
silence hung between us. Then, slowly, the sister-in-law stepped forward. She looked at the grave and said: “Mom, I forgive you,” and she stepped back.
As I was about to close the service, the brother stepped forward. He forgave his mother at the grave, and then, after a brief pause, he turned to his sister. Looking her in the eyes, he said: “Even with all that we have been through, I want you to know–I am here for you.” And then, he stepped back.
At the time, the sister had no reaction at all–zero–and I had no idea whether she forgave him, how she understood him, or whether there would be reconciliation. All I knew at the time was that it was not the right moment to ask.
Months later, I checked in with the brother to see how he was doing, and in that conversation, I asked, “So, how is your sister doing?” He said: “Rabbi, you wouldn’t believe this; my sister was just by us for Rosh Hashanah, and our kids are taking each other out for dinner.”
I keep coming back to this story, reflecting on it again and again. For one, the brother’s bold move. I mean, I did the easy task of putting it on the table, but this individual’s capability of stepping forward, and not only letting go of all the pain of three decades, but saying, “I am here for you,” despite everything that has happened—that to me is remarkable.
To me, that is ‘radical unilateral forgiveness’—the capacity to show up for one another despite everything. Not because we forget, not because it didn’t hurt, not because we were wrong, but because, in the end, it isn’t important
to be right. What’s more important is that we have the relationship.
The ability to forgive is at the heart of Yom Kippur. It’s not only about seeking G-d’s forgiveness, it is also about realizing the profound value of forgiveness in our human relationships. You can’t truly ask for forgiveness unless you believe that forgiveness is something worthy, something transformative.
I share this story because it is not only about forgiveness in general. It is about forgiving our family. The people closest to us are often the ones we find it most difficult to forgive—and yet, they’re the ones we need to forgive the most.
That is Yeshayahu’s message in the Yom Kippur Haftarah (Yeshayahu 57:14-21, 58:1-14). After reminding us that G-d demands more than fasting alone—that He wants us moved to action, to feed the hungry, shelter the homeless, clothe the naked—Yeshayahu closes poignantly: ‘uMibesarekha lo tita’lam’, ‘And your own flesh, do not ignore (Isaiah 58:7)
Does Yeshayahu actually have to remind us not to turn away from our own family?! To take care of them, too? Yes! Because sometimes, it’s easier to show compassion to strangers than to those closest to us.
Why? Because the irony is that the closer we are to a person, the more we know their story—every mistake, every flaw, every time they hurt us. We carry grudges and the weight of years of disappointment and hurt. We hold on to pain that has built up over the years—sometimes justified, sometimes not. We tell ourselves, ‘They should have done better, made different choices, taken responsibility.’ And we may be right, but being right is not the point.
And that is why Yeshayahu emphasizes: “Do not turn
away from your own flesh!” We must care for those closest to us, even though it is so much harder! And it is not just about physical help. It’s being there emotionally, too, as the brother was.
Unfortunately, our tendency is often to turn away in anger or hurt, to justify not helping because we know the other’s faults so well. But Yeshayahu reminds us: this is where our responsibility lies—to step forward, to forgive, and to work on healing those deep fractures within our families.
As we enter the High Holidays, we are not asked only to seek forgiveness from G-d. We are asked to look hard at our broken relationships—the ones that feel too painful or too complicated to face.
It takes real courage to take that first step, as the brother did, to reach out without knowing what will come next. We may tell ourselves they hurt us, that they should come to us first. But holding back is not protecting us—it’s keeping us stuck. It’s stopping us from rebuilding the relationships that could still be saved. It’s waiting until a headstone stares us in the face, a silent reminder that time waits for no one.
Maybe this High Holiday season is not about resolving everything. Maybe it’s about finding the courage to open that door—to extend your hand, to step forward, even if you don’t know what will come next. And maybe next year, you’ll smile and tell me: ‘Rabbi, you wouldn’t believe it—they came over for Rosh Hashanah dinner.”
Rabbi Meyer Laniado is an associate rabbi at Congregation Kehilath Jeshurun and leads its Sephardic community on New York City’s Upper East Side. He teaches at Ramaz and is a growing voice in the broader conversation on Sephardic history, ideas, and culture, having shared perspectives at UJA, the Maimonides Fund, and the Bronfman Fellowship.
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Yad Ezra V’Shulamit distributes over 62,000 food baskets for Rosh Hashanah
THEY COULDN’T BE MORE DIFFERENT. JOSEPH GITLER, A LAWYER AND YU GRADUATE FROM NEW YORK, IS A MODERN ORTHODOX JEWISH MAN. ARYEH LURIE, A SEPHARDIC DESCENDANT OF THE BEN ISH CHAI, GREW UP IN POVERTY ON THE STREETS OF JERUSALEM, OFTEN SENT TO SCHOOL WITH NO FOOD. THEY BOTH HEARD THE CRY OF JEWISH PEOPLE WHO DIDN’T HAVE ENOUGH TO EAT. EACH TOOK MATTERS INTO THEIR OWN HANDS. THIRTY YEARS LATER, THEY’VE BOTH BUILT HESSED EMPIRES IN ISRAEL, AND THEY’VE TEAMED UP TO SPREAD THEIR IMPACT EVEN FURTHER.
When Gitler’s Leket Israel rescues fresh vegetables from farms across the country, they go straight to Lurie’s Yad Ezra V’Shulamit warehouses, where chicken, fish, bread, rice, noodles, canned goods, oil, dairy, and other staples are added—turning each basket into a lifeline for more than 72,000 needy people in Israel every week. Together, these two hessed giants are making sure Israel’s poor get full, fresh, nutritious food with dignity.
JOSEPH GITLER
Founder and Chairman, Leket Israel
In 2000, Joseph Gitler moved from New York to Israel. What he saw shocked him: an abundance of food going to waste while so many went hungry. Determined to bridge that gap, he founded Leket Israel, starting with gathering surplus meals from caterers to feed the poor.
From that small beginning, Leket grew into Israel’s largest food rescue organization, collecting tens of thousands of tons of fresh fruits and vegetables every year from farms, hotels, caterers, and IDF army bases. Today, Leket partners with over 300 nonprofits to make sure good food reaches the people who need it most.
“Yad Ezra V’Shulamit is our biggest partner, distributing more food than any other of the 300 organizations we work with.” Said Joseph Gitler
Food items in a Yad Ezra V’Shulamit weekly food basket include chicken, challas and dry goods
ARYEH LURIE
Founder, Yad Ezra V’Shulamit
Aryeh Lurie was born and raised in Jerusalem in poverty. Many days, he went to school with nothing but a paper bag instead of a backpack and often without a sandwich for lunch. But his parents taught him that no matter how little you have, you can always help someone with less.
As a boy, Aryeh promised himself: When I grow up, I will feed the poor.
In 1988, he founded Yad Ezra V’Shulamit, named for his parents, to bring food to struggling families
in Jerusalem. Today, his organization feeds hundreds of thousands of people all across Israel, with weekly grocery distributions and extra support before every holiday.
With four warehouses, twelve trucks, and 93 distribution points nationwide, Yad Ezra V’Shulamit has become the largest distributor of food baskets in Israel, and Leket’s main partner in distributing rescued produce.
It begins in the fields, where volunteers from around the world harvest fresh vegetables for Leket. From there, produce is sent to Yad Ezra V’Shulamit’s warehouses, where other essentials are added—chicken, fish, dairy, dried goods, canned food, and pantry staples like rice, beans, oil, noodles, challah, and grape juice for the holidays.
Each week, Yad Ezra V’Shulamit delivers the food baskets to its 93 distribution points, where local volunteers set up and welcome people in need, making sure they leave with the food that will sustain them for the week ahead.
“We may be on the front lines getting food to the needy, but it is only because of Leket that we can provide so much produce. To buy the amount of fruits and vegetables Leket gives us would cost a fortune,” says Aryeh Lurie, founder of Yad Ezra V’Shulamit.
“We need our partners to get food directly to the poor in local Israeli communities. Yad Ezra V’Shulamit is our biggest partner, distributing more food than any other of the 300 organizations we work with,” says Leket founder Joseph Gitler. “Our end goal is shared: to feed the poor, to avoid waste, and to make sure everyone has their basic food needs met.”
Together, Joseph Gitler and Aryeh Lurie have fed hundreds of thousands of Israel’s poorest—and they’re not stopping. What’s better than one tzaddik in our generation? Two tzaddikim working together. Join them in feeding Israel’s poor. Join them in feeding Israel’s poor.
Over the past few months, I have had the privilege of helping coordinate one of the most important initiatives our community has ever undertaken: ensuring that every eligible member of the Sephardic Community is registered to vote.
This is not just a civic project, but a mission rooted in our values, our responsibility to the future, and our unity as a community.
One of the most important moments of this initiative came when we gathered at Magen David of West Deal. Spearheaded by the Sephardic Community Federation (SCF), along with Rabbis and Community leaders, we discussed a groundbreaking idea— a Rabbinical Proclamation, declaring a religious obligation to register and to vote. The commitment from our leaders was overwhelming. That meeting set the tone for what has now become a historic community-wide effort.
I am proud to share that with the help of TEACH NYS, we have launched an initiative, paving the way for our yeshivas to play a direct role in this mission. By identifying parents who are not yet registered and guiding them through the process, we are weaving voter registration into the very fabric of our educational institutions. This ensures that families who benefit from our schools also lend their voices to securing our future.
This effort has required hundreds of hours, countless phone calls, and presence at nearly every community event this summer. I want to give special recognition to Linda Ebani and her extraordinary team, who leave no stone unturned. They are on the ground day after day, registering thousands of new voters, demonstrating true dedication.
A special thank you goes to Magen David Yeshiva, which took the lead early on. Led by Gladys Haddad and Morris Missry, they were the first to step up and set an example for others. They proved once again why they are a cornerstone of our Community.
Our most recent major meeting, hosted by Haim Dabah and Marshall Aronow brought together over 40 Community leaders and Rabbis to discuss next steps of this initiative, beginning after Labor Day. With so many voices aligned, I am more confident than ever that our Community is on the right path.
We have the capacity to make a tremendous difference if we register and we vote. Considering the collective challenges that are before us, this initiative is proof that when our Community comes together with clarity and purpose, we are unstoppable.
State Senator Sam Sutton represents New York’s 22nd Senate District in South Brooklyn. A lifelong community leader, he served as president of Sephardic Bikur Holim, co-founded the Sephardic Community Federation and Teach NYS, and has been deeply involved in education, healthcare, and social services. He also served on the CUNY Board of Trustees, helped launch the New York Cancer Center, and is a founding board member of the SAFE Foundation.
I fully support the important initiative launched by our community’s leadership, requiring every member of our community to register and vote.
This is a clear and urgent call to action for us to stand up for our values and secure the future of our community. Our community’s strength depends on our participation, and that starts at the ballot box.
This effort reflects our community’s deep care for our collective future, the future of our schools and of our institutions. I am proud to join them in urging every family to register and to vote with pride and purpose.
Senator Sam Sutton
New York State Senate, 22nd District
ARI BAUM, CFP®
THERE’S A QUIET KIND OF INFLATION CREEPING INTO OUR LIVES. IT’S NOT THE TYPE THAT MAKES CNBC HEADLINES OR THE WALL STREET JOURNAL. I CALL IT COMMUNITY INFLATION, THE SUBTLE, SELF-IMPOSED COST OF KEEPING UP WITH ONE ANOTHER IN A PLACE WE LOVE. IT ISN’T TRACKED BY THE BUREAU OF LABOR STATISTICS, BUT IT’S QUIETLY STRAINING WALLETS, RELATIONSHIPS, AND LONG-TERM WELL-BEING.
Baruch Hashem we’re blessed to live in one of the most vibrant, connected, and supportive communities in the world. We pray together, celebrate together, and show up when someone is in need. Yet along the way, that closeness has also created pressure: the push to have the newest, wear the trendiest, host the flashiest, and live in the most updated homes.
This isn’t about blame. It’s about awareness. The good news is we can refocus on what’s always made our community strong: kindness, connection, and lifting each other up.
As a financial advisor, I often see how community inflation affects families. It shows up when home prices outpace fundamentals or when rising rents push young couples and single parents out of neighborhoods they’ve lived in for decades. It’s the $300 Shabbat outfit for a toddler, the recurring Uber Eats, or the semachot (celebrations) that feel like they need to outdo the last.
At its core, community inflation isn’t about luxury. It’s
about perception, the drive to look successful, secure, and “on par.” But too much focus on appearances can leave even strong families behind.
Behind polished Instagram posts and luxury vacations are families quietly feeling stressed. Some are living paycheck to paycheck. Others take on debt to fund upgrades or celebrations. Many struggle to save for their future, let alone their children’s futures. This cycle isn’t sustainable, and it doesn’t reflect who we are.
We say we value family, tradition, kindness, and giving back. Yet to live those values fully, we need choices rooted in security and connection instead of comparison. Helping someone feel included, secure, and unburdened is by far a greater mitzvah than projecting wealth.
This isn’t about cutting joy. It’s about shifting the focus from competition to community.
• Normalize money conversations. It’s okay to say, “That’s not in our budget,” or “We’re saving for other priorities.” Honesty lowers pressure and frees others to do the same.
• Choose thoughtful over expensive. From semachot to school supplies, meaning outlasts flash. Simple, heartfelt gestures create lasting memories.
• Be mindful of pricing. Business owners can balance quality with fairness to keep our community accessible.
• Share resources. Gemachs (lending organizations), bulk buying clubs, and collaboration cut costs while building bonds.
• Model smart spending. Teach kids that budgeting is strength, not sacrifice. Show them how discipline and values, not extravagance, define success.
• Invest in what lasts. Education, health, charity, and long-term security create stability and wealth across generations.
Community inflation grows in silence and comparison. We can choose a better story, one built on transparency instead of image, support instead of competition, and stability instead of stress.
The community we love doesn’t need to carry a premium price tag. Real success isn’t measured by what we wear or drive. It’s measured by how well we care for each other. That’s the kind of wealth worth building. Together.
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THE SUMMER AT DSN BEACH CLUB WAS NON-STOP ACTIVITY. FROM MEANINGFUL CULTURAL EVENTS TO LIVELY MUSIC NIGHTS, FROM COMEDY TO CHARITABLE CAUSES AND EDUCATIONAL PROGRAMS- DSN DID IT ALL.
The most noteworthy highlight of the season was once again partnering with the IDF Widows and Orphans Organization (IDFWO) to host a Bar Mitzvah celebration for the children of Israel’s fallen heroes. For the second year in a row, DSN welcomed these young guests for a full weekend of love, joy, and connection.
IDFWO Executive Director David Metzler described the experience as “extraordinary,” stating, “The welcome and heartfelt embrace your incredible community extended to the children was profoundly moving. It was more than hospitality; it was love in action. Every detail was unforgettable… above all, the overwhelming turnout of people from every generation of your amazing community. It was a powerful expression of your deep connection to Israel and your commitment to passing that love from one generation to the next.”
One of the most touching moments came when children from both communities joined in a spontaneous dance, singing Hebrew songs together with pure joy, no barriers, no separations, just unity.
DSN served as a hub for non-profits and community initiatives. This summer saw collaborations with Stoop Talks, High Heat, and Ball for Israel. DSN’s Coordinator of NonProfit Events Jen Sasson reflected, “It is wonderful to see so many crucial organizations come together and have DSN host them with the shared mission of uplifting and doing good for our community.”
DSN’s Ladies Nights became a much-anticipated weekly tradition on every Monday night, featuring mahjong, canasta, an evening with Instagram influencer Challah Mom, and bingo with the Crusty Sisters. Community member Lisa Betesh said, “We all really love the Ladies Nights. Canasta was so fun!”
Culturally and educationally, DSN hosted the Sisters of Fortune book event, Sephardic Heritage Film screenings, and rabbinic classes led by Rabbi Eli Mansour, Rabbi Raymond Beyda, and Rabbi Ariel Mizrahi. In addition, art classes brought creative expression to the forefront.
Music lovers enjoyed an eclectic lineup including Rock the Shore, a nostalgic Doo-Wop evening, cowboy-
hat-wearing jazz pianist Louis Middleton, and the spirited Hebrew melodies of the Irv Safdieh Band. Meanwhile, Teva’s Saturday night DJ events gave singles in the community a fun space to connect.
A core part of the DSN Beach Club’s mission is to create meaningful opportunities for singles to meet and connect
within our community. The Club hosted a variety of engaging singles events that became highlights of the season. From Friday Mazza gatherings that offered a warm space for older singles to mingle, to Stoop Talks that blended learning and connection, every program was crafted with purpose. Rabbi Ariel Mizrahi’s inspiring Zera Shimshon young ladies class
and special Tu B’Av class for young adults brought depth and tradition to the experience, while Teva’s Saturday night DJ events gave singles a vibrant and exciting space to enjoy world-class music and each other’s company with an amazing all-star DJ lineup that included DJ Kassin, David Faks, DJ Redd, and DJ EL. A special singles Shabbat lunch at Teva, in collaboration with The Center, continued DSN’s commitment to building bonds and community.
And let’s not forget the posh popups that transformed the DSN lobby into a boutique-style shopping destination throughout the season.
From sunrise swims to sunset socials, there hasn’t been
an idle day at DSN Beach Club. The ocean may draw people to the shore, but it’s DSN that draws the community together, making Deal a place where connection, culture, and celebration truly thrive.
DSN Executive Board Member and Beach Club Chairperson Victoria E. Sutton summarizes, “Grateful for the blessing of the Beach Club community center in our lives. B’H, as the sun sets on a beautiful summer at the DSN Beach Club, we look ahead to the Fall & Holiday season. We wish our community, our loved ones, and all of Am Israel a New Year filled with health, happiness, and blessings.”
BUILDING TRUST, CLIENTS, AND CONFIDENCE IN MY FIRST YEAR AS A FINANCIAL PROFESSIONAL
THE DAY AFTER SELLING MY FAMILY COFFEE ROASTING BUSINESS, I MADE A PHONE CALL THAT WOULD CHANGE MY LIFE. FIVE YEARS EARLIER, MY CHILDHOOD FRIEND AND FOUNDER OF POWER FORWARD GROUP, RUVIN, HAD TOLD ME, “WHEN YOU SELL THE BUSINESS, THERE’S A JOB HERE FOR YOU.” I WASN’T SURE IF HE WAS JOKING AT THE TIME, BUT AS SOON AS THE INK DRIED ON THE SALE, I PICKED UP THE PHONE AND ASKED IF HE’D MEANT IT. HIS ANSWER? A RESOUNDING YES.
Within minutes, I had a list of the exams I’d need to pass before joining the team: the Life Insurance exam, SIE, Series 7, and Series 63.
He knew, because we’d grown up together at Yeshivah of Flatbush, that standardized tests were never my favorite thing. But this was different. I dove in headfirst, determined to make the most of this new chapter. A few intense months later, I’d passed them all, setting the stage for my transition from coffee roaster to financial professional.
FROM COFFEE BEANS TO CLIENTS
It’s not every day you go from managing roasting schedules and sourcing beans to advising high-net-worth individuals on estate preservation. But in my first year at Power Forward Group, I’ve placed over $60,000,000 in permanent insurance, helping clients secure future estate plans, preserve wealth, and protect their families’ legacies. This wasn’t just luck. It was the result of a firm structure designed for success. At Power Forward Group, every client has two advisors. This approach allows us to combine com-
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plementary strengths, ensuring clients benefit from diverse perspectives and expertise. For me, it also meant learning from seasoned professionals right from the start, absorbing not only technical knowledge but also the nuances of building lasting client relationships.
One of the greatest advantages of joining Power Forward Group was the culture that Ruvin built from the ground up. He didn’t start the firm by leaning solely on friends, family, or our community. Instead, he began by working with AM100 lawyers nationwide, some of the most sophisticated clients in the financial space.
This early focus forced the firm to develop advanced strategies, sharpen our competitive edge, and operate at the highest level of professionalism. The success we achieved through this organic growth has become the foundation of our reputation. When you’ve earned trust in such a competitive arena, you bring that same level of excellence to every client, no matter their background.
Looking back, I realize my personal success has been shaped as much by my past as by my new role. In the coffee business, relationships were everything. If your customers didn’t trust your word, your product, or your reliability, you were done. That same principle applies in wealth management. Only here, the stakes are even higher.
I’ve always believed that you can never fully recover professionally from a damaged reputation. Over decades of working in business, I’ve focused on being someone people trust and appreciate, someone whose name carries respect. When clients know they can count on your integrity, they’re far more open to having the conversations that matter most.
In our community, there’s still plenty of room for Power Forward Group to grow. Many people don’t yet realize how differently we operate compared to traditional firms. Our approach to estate and business tax mitigation, for example, goes beyond the standard playbook. We use a wide range of creative strategies and sophisticated tools to help clients not only reduce tax burdens but also enhance liquidity.
We also design unique life insurance structures that can be tailored to individual circumstances, whether that’s providing business continuity, funding a buy-sell agreement, or ensuring heirs have the resources they need without having to sell off assets at the wrong time.
One of my goals moving forward is to help people in our community start thinking about wealth transfer and retirement earlier. It’s not always an easy topic. Talking about what happens to your assets after you’re gone can feel uncomfortable, especially for people in their 30s, 40s, and 50s, who may still be focused on raising families and building careers.
But the reality is that the earlier you start, the more options you have. Early planning allows you to take advantage of long-term strategies, reduce stress later in life, and ensure you can actually enjoy your golden years instead of worrying about what will happen to your wealth.
I want to normalize these conversations, not as a morbid necessity, but as a proactive step toward financial security and family harmony. By addressing these topics sooner rather than later, we can help ensure that wealth transitions smoothly, taxes are minimized, and the next generation is positioned for success.
My first year at Power Forward Group has been a whirlwind, filled with learning, relationship-building, and the satisfaction of seeing real impact in clients’ lives. Transitioning from running a family business to joining one of the most dynamic financial advisory firms in the space hasn’t just been a career move. It’s been a personal evolution.
I’ve learned that success as a “rookie” isn’t about knowing everything from day one. It’s about having the humility to learn, the work ethic to deliver, and the integrity to build trust. When you combine those traits with a firm that values collaboration and innovation, the results can be extraordinary.
As I look ahead to my second year and beyond, my mission is clear:
• Continue expanding our firm’s presence in the community.
• Help more families preserve generational wealth.
• Ensure that conversations about legacy and planning happen early enough to make a difference.
The rookie year may be behind me, but the rookie advantage: the drive, the curiosity, and the hunger to prove myself, is something I intend to keep for years to come.
David Chabbott is a community member and financial advisor at Power Forward Group. He graduated from Brooklyn College in 2001 and, before joining Power Forward Group, spent more than 20 years running his family’s small business. David and his wife, Aimee, enjoy being involved in their children’s Yeshivah, watching their four sons play basketball, and playing Barbie with their daughter.
THIS SUMMER AT CARE WAS NOTHING SHORT OF MAGICAL. FOR THE VERY FIRST TIME, WE OPENED THE DOORS TO CARE CLUB, OUR VERY OWN SUMMER CAMP FOR CHILDREN WITH SPECIAL NEEDS. IT WAS A HUGE ASSET TO OUR COMMUNITY, AND THE IMPACT WAS PROFOUND. SIXTEEN CHILDREN WITH SPECIAL NEEDS JOINED US FOR A SUMMER FILLED WITH JOY, GROWTH, AND INFINITE LOVE. MORE THAN JUST CAMP ACTIVITIES, EVERY PART OF CARE CLUB WAS DESIGNED TO ENSURE OUR CAMPERS CONTINUED GROWING AND THRIVING, WITHOUT LOSING THE PROGRESS THEY HAD WORKED SO HARD TO ACHIEVE THROUGHOUT THE YEAR.
At the heart of the program was a therapy-based approach carefully created by our founder, Victoria Safdieh, together with our full-time BCBA, Adele Massry, and our camp director, Miriam Kaplowitz. The three of them didn’t just design the program. They were present every single day, working closely with the counselors to make sure each child’s therapeutic needs were met.
Our BCBA, Adele, was on-site every day, supporting campers with any behavioral challenges and guiding counselors on the best ways to meet each child’s unique needs. Every activity blended camp-like fun with an academic approach, turning each moment into a chance to learn through play. From sensory bins and fine-motor crafts to carefully chosen toys and games, every detail had a
purpose and was designed to ensure our campers had the most fun possible while progressing.
One of the most unique parts of CARE CLUB was our on-site therapy clinic, where campers received daily oneon-one sessions in OT, PT, speech, and even aqua therapy. These sessions weren’t just scheduled. They were carefully tailored to each child, ensuring every activity supported their unique goals and growth. Our therapists made every session feel like play while still giving campers the tools they needed to grow. Children who usually found therapy “hard” were suddenly running toward it with smiles.
Even before camp started, our directors reached out to each camper’s school to get a full picture of where they were in their learning and development so we could align
therapeutic activities with that progress. Our therapists also connected with the children’s year-round therapists, making sure that everything we did at camp built on their ongoing growth. This careful coordination meant that every session was personalized, and it helped campers continue growing without missing a beat.
The impact was incredible. Parents were amazed by the progress their children made. One mom shared, “My child learned more in the first week of camp than he did in 6 months at school.” Many others told us their kids didn’t just maintain their skills, they flourished, exceeding expectations in ways that families could never have imagined.
Taking every precaution, we had a lifeguard, medic, security guard, and EMT on staff at all times. Every counselor came to camp CPR and ABA-trained, completing multiple training sessions to be fully prepared for any situation that could arise when working with children with special needs. Beyond safety, counselors were actively involved in every therapy session with their campers, learning and applying the strategies therapists used throughout the day. This hands-on approach meant that children continued to grow, learn, and build skills even while having the time of their lives.
And of course, no summer is complete without adventures, and our campers had plenty. From the Wild Safari to Hurricane Harbor and Six Flags Great Adventure, each
CARE CLUB, CARE’s newest initiative, is the first-ever one-on-one, therapy-based camp that’s changing lives! This revolutionary summer program brings OT, PT, speech, and aquatic therapy to camp, along with loads of fun and recreation. CARE tracks and celebrates every child's progress and success in a revolutionary new summer program for our community. This summer was an incredible success and we’re already counting down to next year!
If you’d like to explore the option of enrolling your child with special needs, or if you’re planning to return for Summer 2026, email: miriam@careforspecial.org
trip was planned with extra thought and care. Every child received personalized shirts for safety, two-to-one counselor support, and access to whatever they needed.
Many people think that children with special needs can’t handle large outings like amusement parks or water parks, and some families had never imagined it would be possible for their own children. Yet, with the right support, our campers not only participated, they thrived. From the moment the buses rolled out, our campers were beaming. They had the time of their lives on every trip, lighting up with excitement and smiles that lasted from start to finish.
Another unforgettable moment this summer was the community’s outpouring of support at the Deal Sidewalk Sale. Our campers ran an iced tea and lemonade stand, and it was moving to see them take pride in serving drinks, greeting visitors, and soaking in the encouragement of the community. Parents stopped by to share how much their children were growing at camp, and many couldn’t hold back their gratitude. One mom came up to us at the Sidewalk Sale, tears in her eyes, and said, “I’ve never seen my son so happy to go anywhere in the morning as he is for CARE CLUB.” Comments like that remind us why this camp was created, and why it’s so needed. The love and pride in the air were truly palpable. Best of all, every dollar raised went directly into CARE’s programs, making the day even more meaningful. We were also thrilled to have CloudBrew
at the sale, serving their delicious coffee and generously donating all proceeds to CARE. We are so grateful for the incredible generosity of our community.
Looking back, this summer was a dream come true, not only for our campers but for everyone who had the privilege of being part of it. With the community’s love and support, CARE CLUB will continue to be a place where children with special needs shine their brightest.
DAVID ALFAKS
This summer, I have been working in Senator Sam Sutton’s office, and it has been a truly enriching experience. At first, I was nervous about meeting the Senator, but he was friendly and funny, and I am trying to learn as much as I can from him. When I am in the office, I do work that makes a difference, whether that is fielding phone calls and problem-solving within the district, or trying to come up with ideas of legislation to propose to the Senator.
Each day that I am in the office, my fellow interns and I answer calls from constituents in the district, and these calls range from figuring out how to attain a half-fare MetroCard to mediating on behalf of community members and companies like Con Edison. This part of the job is definitely exhilarating but also makes me nervous because with each call, the problems vary, so I never know what to expect and might be asked about a term I’ve never heard of before, but luckily, my supervisor is always in the office helping us if we need it. Answering calls might not seem like a big job, but in fact, answering calls will prove to be beneficial to my future self since I am practicing my communication, quick thinking, and problem-solving skills.
One of my favorite parts of the job is networking. The Senator’s team has been taking us to meetings and introducing us to people in the field of politics and law. I have met so many interesting people, like Jason Koppel and Judge Gina Abadi. Throughout these meetings, they both have told me their journey to achieving the role they have today. For example, before Jason Koppel was the
Northeastern Political Director of AIPAC, he had worked in the State Senator’s office for quite some time (like me), but then he decided that even though he enjoyed his job at the Senator’s office, it was time to move on. Judge Abadi spoke to my fellow interns and me about her job and let us observe in her courtroom. It was fascinating seeing her remember every court case and be privy to her thought process on every decision she has made in her cases. The most notable part of my visit to the judge was hearing about her journey of perseverance and resilience. She spoke to us about her reluctance to become a judge, thinking she didn’t know enough, but her mentor encouraged her to try and she listened. Now she is an awesome judge, inspiring countless others in this community. The people I have met are giving me such valuable advice and information for my future, and I am soaking up every word.
My time in the Senator’s office is one I will never forget, and I will continue to use the lessons I have learned in the future. It has proved to be a great experience, and if you are a student interested in politics or law, I highly recommend it. I am grateful for this opportunity and for Magen David Yeshivah High School for setting me up for success.
SARINA ROFFÉ
FOR MANY OF OUR COMMUNITY SENIORS, LIFE AT HOME IS LONELY AND DEPRESSING. MANY OF OUR SENIORS ARE NO LONGER ABLE TO JOIN COMMUNITY ACTIVITIES, LEAVING THEM HOMEBOUND AND SPENDING MUCH OF THEIR DAYS ALONE AND SOCIALLY ISOLATED. EVEN WITH AN OCCASIONAL AND QUICK VISIT FROM A LOVED ONE, THE DAYS ARE LONG AND VERY LONELY.
That’s where Randi’s Care steps in and is in such high demand. Randi and her team bring light, energy, and joy into the lives of homebound seniors through love, attention, music, dancing, art, games, and small touches that spark both memory and happiness. With her warmth and creativity, Randi transforms what might otherwise be monotonous days into moments of laughter, connection, and dignity.
In August, Randi’s Care began activities specifically to help homebound seniors in our community so that their final years are filled with joy, with respect and dignity. Randi is certified in CPR, First Aid, and as a Personal Care Aide.
On the morning of Friday, August 8th, Randi’s Care held its inaugural breakfast at the home of Sarah and Elliot Tamir with Harry Adjmi as the emcee. Elliot Tamir, the Founder of Randi’s Care, spoke to a house packed with supporters, all of whom saw the tremendous need to fulfill
the dreams of the elderly in our community. He thanked Norma Cohen, who managed the event, and Rebecca Harary, Founding Board Member/Treasurer, for her role in launching the organization, and Jack Mann for his fundraising efforts.
“An issue plaguing our community seniors is a silent killer that is very real, but is seldom discussed,” said Elliot Tamir, Founder of Randi’s Care. “We don’t like to think about our seniors being alone. We assume our seniors are okay because they have an aide or family. But I’m telling you, they are not OK. So many of our seniors are sitting in silence, alone, depressed and forgotten. Many are physically wasting away, dying before their time from social isolation.”
Elliot likened Randi to Patch Adams, a character played by Robin Williams, who walks into a children’s hospital ward and makes the sad children smile and come alive
with joy and laughter through his magical ways. Randi is her own version of Patch Adams. Guests were each given a red clown nose to wear along with Randi’s Care hats.
Here are some eye-opening statistics:
• Over 1,000 seniors in our community are living completely alone.
• About 70% of them are no longer independent. They
can’t just get up and take a walk, go to the doctor, or even use the bathroom without help.
• Around 50% of them have no aides or caretakers.
• Social isolation among the elderly is directly linked to a 30% increased risk of heart attack and a 40% increased risk of stroke.
No one is really watching them. Family visits are not as
frequent as they need to be. These are our parents, grandparents, and our great-grandparents.
“This is why Randi’s Care exists. This isn’t just an organization. It’s a lifeline. It’s a mission. It’s a fight for the lives and dignity of our seniors,” said Elliot.
“Randi steps into the lives of our seniors with warmth, joy, love, and a personal touch that transforms their days. Like Patch Adams, Randi brings life back into the room. She dances with them, brings musicians to their homes to play their favorite songs, plays puzzles and brain games with them to keep their minds sharp, and keeps them laughing, engaged, and constantly entertained. Randi brings them delicious meals and their favorite food. And when they’re able to, she actually takes them out on the town, for lunch, for a spa day, and even to a Broadway show. These aren’t just outings, they’re moments of joy and dignity and solid proof that life isn’t over just because they are old.”
More than just providing basic care, Randi’s mission is to make dreams come true. She goes beyond traditional caregiving, understanding each individual’s unique needs and infusing their days with joy, purpose, and excitement. A superhero, Randi challenges them to dream again, taking them on outings to Broadway shows, shopping malls, and movie theaters. She doesn’t just care for seniors, she revives them, bringing light and laughter back into their lives. Her impact extends beyond the seniors, she revitalizes entire households, inspiring caregivers and aides to bring renewed enthusiasm to their roles.
Randi’s Care fills a tremendous need in the community. The organization hopes to train staff in the image of Randi, to spread her joy to many needy seniors in our community.
Randi cared for Claudie Aizer for several years. Sarina Roffé, Executive Director of Randi’s Care, read their comments:
“There are no words big enough to hold the gratitude we feel. The love you gave our mother deserves to be spoken aloud, felt deeply, and remembered forever. In the final chapter of her life, when her world had grown small and her days grew quickly quieter, you arrived not just as a
At Randi’s Care, our mission has always been simple: to give every family peace of mind knowing their loved ones are cared for with dignity and compassion Thanks to the incredible support of our community, we’re now able to reach more families than ever
No matter your background or circumstance, we’re here to make trusted care accessible, supportive, and personal Because every senior deserves to feel at home in their own life and every family deserves a helping hand
helper, but as a bright, beautiful spark that relit her spirit. You didn’t just care for her, you saw past the frailty, the slow steps, and the medical charts. You saw her as we always did—radiant, witty, full of stories and sass, still hungry for connection, eager to laugh, to love, and to live. And you treated her that way every single day.
“You danced with her in the living room to her favorite oldies, her face lighting up with every beat. You cooked her favorite dishes, not just meals, but memories. You solved puzzles with her, painted by her side, and challenged her mind so gently, so kindly, that she didn’t even realize it was therapy. Mother used to say, ‘Randi brings so much sunshine into my life.’ To her it was friendship, fun, love. You didn’t just create activities, you created a sacred space where generations connected and where our mother felt central, loved, and alive. Randi, you were one of the greatest blessings in our mother’s life and in ours.”
Randi’s essence is carnival fun; she brings a carnival to someone’s house. It’s all wrapped up in a whirlwind of excitement: painting projects, card games, hysterical fun, and multiple activities tailored for each person. She sets up games and fun stations: golf, spike ball, basketball, oversized LEGOs, bowling matches, and more. Even those who struggle to move find themselves standing with support, laughing and playing. She creates whimsical playhouses, brings the joy of outdoor fun, and organizes lively bingo matches.
Randi’s Care is a movement, a call to ensure that our seniors are never forgotten. They are the pillars of our families and communities, and they deserve to be cherished.
“For so many, Randi is a lifeline, an advocate, and a trusted friend. Her mission is simple yet profound: to bring love, life, compassion, and dignity to every senior she
touches. What we are doing at Randi’s Care is transformational work. It literally extends lives. And this kind of magic does not exist anywhere else.”
Thanks to this fundraiser, Randi’s Care can obtain a “Randi’s Care Van,” rent a storage space for all of Randi’s toys and equipment, and improve the quality of life for our seniors.
To support Randi’s Care, please go to randiscare.org. If you or someone you love is in need of Randi’s Care services, please call 718-880-7035.
LIGHT, BUZZ, CREATIVITY, LOVE, IMPACT, AND POWERFUL INSPIRATION, ALL PACKED INTO ONE BEAUTIFUL DAY. SOME MAY CALL IT THE “EVENT OF THE YEAR”! EACH YEAR, IT COMES AND GOES IN THE BLINK OF AN EYE, EACH ONE SOMEHOW TOPPING THE LAST. IT’S TABLE…SET…GO!
For those unfamiliar, Table…Set…Go! is The Morris I. Franco Cancer Center’s annual fundraiser. But it’s not your typical Chinese auction; it’s a stunning celebration of creativity, featuring unique tablescapes tailored to a yearly theme, a heartfelt panel where cancer warriors share their journeys, and much more.
This year’s Table…Set…Go! took place at the magnificent home of Kim and Jon Kushner, who graciously opened their doors and welcomed everyone with warmth. The weather was absolutely perfect, and with such a beautiful crowd, the day was more successful than ever.
This summer’s tablescape theme was Travel Destinations. The many beautiful tables included Celia & Gabby Azizian’s Tuscany tablescape, Rachel Hedaya’s Paris-themed table, Barbara Chehebar & Lori Sutton’s Washington, D.C., tablescape, Vera Derzi’s Moroccan table, Robin Moyal, Simmy Moyal & Alyce Adjmi’s African safari table, Orly Seton’s Peruvian table, and Colette & Esther Chehova’s Costa Rican–themed table. The range of destinations made the Kushner residence feel like an even more deluxe version of Disney’s Epcot!
Celia Azizian, one of the talented annual tablesetters, shared why she keeps coming back:
“For me, Table…Set…Go! is more than a beautiful event. It’s a chance to celebrate artistry, honor tradition, and strengthen the bonds of a community that never stops caring. And as long as my creativity can serve that purpose,
I’ll be here, year after year, setting the table with love.”
The most impactful part of the day is always the panel. No brochure or program can match the power of hearing directly from our clients about what the Cancer Center has meant to them. Emceed by the one and only Morris Kassab, the panel blends humor with deeply moving stories of resilience, often leaving the audience in tears.
“When they told me I had sarcoma, I was very confused because I had never heard of it before,” shared Natalie Zadok, a Cancer Center client. “I learned that only 1% of the population has sarcoma. It’s extremely aggressive with very limited treatment, which is why I’m here today with a prosthesis. My doctors had to amputate my leg on March 10.” Four months later, with the help of the Cancer Center and its incredible volunteers, she continued, “I don’t think I would be sitting here without them. At first, I didn’t want to fight. I told myself I’d let Hashem take me; I didn’t want to live without a leg. But with everyone’s support, I’m here, learning to walk again.”
Natalie reminded us that strength isn’t what you hold onto. It’s what you build when you lose everything you thought you had. That is at the heart of the Cancer Center’s mission: turning anxiety into hope, and pain into comfort, with compassion at every step.
“It’s a support system I didn’t even know I needed,” shared Nomi Simhon, who battled breast cancer. Roxanne Maleh added, “To me, part of healing is the balance
between the medical journey and personal connection, and the Cancer Center fulfilled that emotional piece for me.”
The panel shed light on all the Cancer Center offers: care packages, therapy for loved ones, art therapy, transportation, meals, reiki, acupuncture, weekly activities, trips, and direct access to doctors. But the most poignant theme echoed by every panelist was the family they found there.
The Cancer Center thrives on empathy rooted in connection, whether to Hashem, to oneself, to volunteers, or to others who truly understand the journey.
Each volunteer is a pillar of the Cancer Center. Beyond bringing Table…Set…Go! to life each summer, they work daily to touch lives in ways both big and small. Volunteers become like sisters, and that’s what makes the Cancer
Center so genuine: relationships built on authentic love. “The people at the Cancer Center have really become my family, and I feel so blessed to have them,” says Alaina Dweck. Esteemed volunteer Candy Gabbay encourages others to get involved: “It changed my life for the better, and I’m sure it will do the same for you.”
If there’s one thing Table…Set…Go! 2025 reminded us, it’s that beauty is not only in the tablescapes, the décor, or even the perfect weather. It’s in the hearts of the people who gather for this cause. Every story shared, every table set, every hug exchanged creates ripples of hope far beyond the event itself. And just like the tables we so carefully set, our community continues to set the stage for kindness, resilience, and love, year after year.
OVER THE PAST FEW DECADES, B”H, OUR COMMUNITY HAS BEEN VERY FORTUNATE. OUR INSTITUTIONS GREW, OUR STORES HAVE EXPANDED, OUR SCHOOLS AND SYNAGOGUES HAVE BEEN RENOVATED. WE GO ON PESACH TRIPS, THROW EXTRAVAGANT WEDDINGS, ENGAGEMENT PARTIES, HOLD LARGE-SCALE SEBETS FOR OUR FAMILIES, LIFE, GENERALLY SPEAKING, HAS IMPROVED. THAT IS NOT THE CASE ACROSS THE BOARD, HOWEVER. THERE ARE FAMILIES IN OUR COMMUNITY WHO STRUGGLE TO PUT FOOD ON THE TABLE. THERE ARE THOSE WHO, JUST BARELY GETTING BY, CANNOT AFFORD A SHABBAT MEAL OR SOMETHING EXTRA FOR OUR MANY JEWISH HOLIDAYS, AND MUST, HEART-WRENCHINGLY, FIND WAYS TO EXPLAIN TO THEIR CHILDREN WHY THEY CANNOT DO SO.
In a world such as ours, this seems impossible. In our community, which has been the beneficiary of prosperity, how are people struggling to fulfill their most basic needs? Thankfully, organizations exist to help support those who need it. For this issue specifically, that of supporting the dignity of families, helping them put Shabbat meals on the table and setting up for our holidays, Tomchei Shabbat has been a crucial organization in helping families maintain their dignity for the past 25 years, doing so behind the scenes, silently helping many families in our community. Now, Tomchei Shabbat needs the community’s help to continue doing the good that it does.
Based out of Lakewood, Tomchei Shabbos is a $14 million organization, supporting over 2,400 families at different tiers, depending on each family’s specific financial needs. The level with the most assistance is the “weekly section,” meaning that the family comes in once a week for help with Shabbat. One level above that is the “monthly section,” where families who need less help making ends meet receive assistance. Finally, there is the “holiday-only section,” where those who need support to bring the holidays together get the help that they need.
They have a warehouse for the weekly/monthly sections. Lines extend out into the highway for food from them, including people from our community who need the support as well.
Tomchei Shabbat, like we just mentioned, is a quiet organization. They care about the dignity of those who use their services, so they do not advertise too much. That being said, the work that they do is highly meaningful, bringing comfort and hope to many families across the Jewish world.
What sets Tomchei Shabbat apart from other organizations is that they directly provide food. While other organizations may give spending power to families in need, Tomchei Shabbat leverages both their infrastructure and location to provide the most food that they can at minimal cost to them.
Being based out of Lakewood, and having access to cheaper food, Tomchei Shabbat provides more food for those who need it and to more people. They work efficiently and keep everything quiet, preserving the dignity of their families.
Our community has gone to Tomchei Shabbat for 25 years, with the assistance of Rabbi Ben Sion Kaye. Rabbi Kaye did these deliveries himself for 25 years. Behind the scenes, he helped sustain members of our community through holidays, Shabbatot, and other occasions, ensuring that nobody is embarrassed and everyone is well-fed.
As time went on, unfortunately, more and more people from our community needed Tomchei Shabbat’s help and support. Rabbi Bension Kaye started out by delivering Pesach meals to 35 families, and sadly, the number ended up tripling as time went on. And for 25 years, Tomchei Shabbat out of Lakewood handled it all themselves. Around Pesach time of this year, however, Tomchei Shabbat spoke with Rabbi Kaye and explained that in order to continue providing food to members of our community, they needed our help and support.
Rabbi Kaye quickly convened a meeting with all of the Rabbis of the Jersey Shore to discuss this new development. They quickly reached a decision to move forward and open up a new Sephardic Division of Tomchei Shabbat. It would be led by Abie Tawil as the director of development, who resides with his wife Susan in Deal. This would become Tomchei Shabbat of the Jersey Shore.
Immediately, they hit the ground running. They were in the community’s synagogues with drives every single week. They held many conversations with donors and raised sig-
nificant amounts of money to go to families in need.
“When we help others welcome the Shabbat, we’re welcoming blessing and peace into our homes,” Hymie Dana, who is heavily involved with Tomchei Shabbat, said. “Supporting Tomchei Shabbat is definitely a source of beracha (blessing) for our homes.”
“Helping to feed those in need is one of the biggest mitzvot,” Ricky Esses, who is also involved, added, “but giving a sense of joy and hope to these families on Shabbat and holidays is the greatest mitzvah. We must continue taking care of our community, and we must first start with those most in need. Tomchei Shabbat of the Jersey Shore does that.”
Many Rabbis quickly got involved as well, speaking positively about the organization’s work and what it does.
“Tomchei Shabbat gives a tremendous amount of relief to these families who cannot imagine what they are going to do for Shabbat,” Rabbi Shaul Kassin said.
“It is unimaginable in our eyes,” Rabbi David Ozeri said, “but it really exists. We know for a fact that there are people in our community who cannot put food on the table for Shabbat.”
“There are families in our community that live down the block from you and me who can’t look forward to Friday night,” Rabbi Joey Haber said. “Tomchei Shabbat will ensure that every family in Deal is able to have the gift that all of us have.”
“We have an organization in our community called Tomchei Shabbat of the Jersey Shore that actually gives food to families throughout the year,” Rabbi Shlomo Diamond said.
“I personally know many people that once they receive the boxes from Tomchei Shabbat, how relieved they are, like
a huge stress is taken off their head,” Rabbi Douek said.
“It is very integral for us to support Tomchei Shabbat because they support our community,” Rabbi Eli Mansour said.
“This amazing organization gives people basic necessities,” Rabbi Joey Mizrahi added. “Not luxuries, but basic needs that they need for weekdays, Shabbat, and just to live life with dignity.”
“Tomchei Shabbat embodies the highest form of tzedakah, giving with such discretion and dignity that families can rebuild their lives without shame, knowing their community stands behind them in their time of need,” Rabbi Avi Harari said.
“Tomchei Shabbat is an organization that provides vital assistance to the families in need in our Jersey Shore community. Especially helpful are their food distributions during holiday times when expenses are high,” Rabbi Reuven Semah said. “Please donate generously.”
“It is an honor to recommend Tomchei Shabbat, an organization which beautifully exemplifies the Torah values of caring for those in need,” Rabbi Aviad Bar Hen said. “With dignity and compassion, they ensure that every family has access to Shabbat meals, fulfilling the sacred mitzvah of ma’achil re’evim (feeding the hungry).”
“When food comes straight to the table it gets eaten. This is the most powerful and direct mitzvah you can do!” Rabbi Arking
“It’s a tremendous organization- the community needs to rally behind it. This organization needs money from our community to keep it going.” Ralph Shalom
“Tomchei Shabbat is a lifeline for families in our Jersey Shore community, ensuring that no home goes without the joy and dignity of Shabbat and holiday meals.” Rabbi David Tawil
“A great rabbi in the Gemara provided for the poor, as did his wife. They were saved from danger through his
wife’s merit. He asked why her zechut saved them, and she answered: “You give money, but I give food that is immediately beneficial.” That is Tomchei Shabbat—they provide food to those in need, the greatest mitzvah possible!” Rabbi Choueka
“By donating food, we emulate the kindness of Hakadosh Baruch Hu. May we all merit to participate in Tomchei Shabbat of the Jersey Shore to assist our fellow community members.” Rabbi Isaac Farhi
“Let us open our hands and hearts to support both the physical and emotional needs of our community, giving Tomchei Shabbat the resources to continue this holy work.”
Rabbi Joey Sultan
Many other Rabbis voiced their strong support for the organization, including Rabbi Shmuel Choueka, Rabbi David Tawil, Rabbi David Sutton, Rabbi David Nakash, Rabbi David Ashear, Rabbi Raymond Beyda, Rabbi David Serouyah, and Rabbi Meyer Yedid.
Last month, to help cap off the momentum, they held their inaugural event at the home of Franny and Morris Beyda. This was a beautiful event with many inspirational speakers from all areas of the community, coming together unified for a common cause.
At this fundraising event, Rabbi Moshe Malka opened by discussing how important it is to avoid the things which avoid blessing from Hashem (G-D), such as excessive anxiety, worrying, and ingratitude. If you receive a blessing from Hashem, you must share it.
The work that Tomchei Shabbat does, by easing the worries and neediness of families and sharing the berachot (blessings) of our community with those who could use our help, is an organization which, B”H, will be highly successful.
Abie Tawil spoke next. “Through these few weeks,” he explained, “I realized that we had to create this as a community. There are over 100 families who need our help. We have the sources, the distribution, and the mechanics to continue it. So we have to, and we have to save the ones who call the Rabbis saying ‘we can’t afford to live without it.’ It’s so special that we have our community to step up and help our people.”
Shmuel Kairey spoke after Abie, telling a story about a man looking for Eliyahu Hanavi (the Prophet Elijah). The man asked the Baal Shem Tov (founder of the Chassidic movement), “I’d like to meet Eliyahu Hanavi. Where can I find him?” The Baal Shem Tov replied that if he bought food on Thursday, went to a certain town with the food on Friday, and asked around for somebody to host him for Shabbat, then he would find Eliyahu Hanavi.
So, the man went to the town with food, and like the Baal Shem Tov said, he asked around for a place to stay for Shabbat, and ended up in a house with an orphan and a widow. It was a beautiful Shabbat. However, by the end of Shabbat, the man could not find Eliyahu Hanavi. He went back to the Baal Shem Tov, and the Baal Shem Tov told him to do the same thing that he did last week. The man bought food again, and went back to the town. This time, already knowing the orphan and widow, he stayed by them once again for an amazing Shabbat. However, once again, he did not meet Eliyahu Hanavi! The Baal Shem Tov told him to go back once more, and so he made his way back to the town with more food.
This time, the window to the orphan’s house was open. Listening in, he could hear the orphan, lying weakly in bed, say to the widow, “I’m very sick, I don’t know what to do.”
The widow replied: “Hashem will send Eliyahu Hanavi again this Shabbat. He sent him the past two weeks, Hashem will send him again!”
This time, the man did not look for Eliyahu Hanavi, as he understood what the Baal Shem Tov was trying to teach him. If you want to meet Eliyahu Hanavi, you should be like him. Take care of the orphan, take care of the widow, help those who cannot help themselves. With the work of Tomchei Shabbat, “we are emulating Eliyahu Hanavi,” and with the help of Hashem they will continue to help others.
Harry Adjmi, afterwards, led the fundraising rounds,
speaking on his relationship with Rabbi Kaye, saying, “I don’t believe there is a single Jew in the world who Rabbi Kaye does not have empathy for.”
“You couldn’t have heard more,” he emphasized. “Every Rabbi in the community, whether they were on Joe Mansour’s video, or they came this morning, they showed up to support Tomchei Shabbat.”
Rabbi Yedid also spoke at the event, emphasizing the important role that Jews have in the world:
What makes Jews different from every other nation? Is it because they can do big things? “I did not choose you for your ability for big things. Everywhere you go you do big things. In Torah, in chochma (wisdom), financially, but that’s not why Hashem chose us. Hashem chose us because even when we are so big, when we get bigger, we ask more of ourselves.” Jews say “I have a lot, I have so much, I’m not doing enough!” According to Rabbi Yedid, one of the most special qualities of a Jew is their ability to continue doing more.
Tomchei Shabbat continues to do more, for now and the future. The demand for it has not gone away, but has increased instead. “Since I started raising we’ve gotten dozens of calls from people you’d never think of. The father’s trying to work and trying to make it work, even the mother is working, or a lot of them are almanot (widows) or divorcees.” People come to Tomchei Shabbat at their lowest, and it’s up to Tomchei Shabbat to help give these families the support that they need to get back on their feet.
Whatever it is, whether a parent passes away or the father loses his job, Tomchei Shabbat is there to pick people up and help them rise once again, granting them much-needed dignity and discretion while doing so. It is a beautiful organization, and B”H, Tomchei Shabbat of the Jersey Shore will have the means to aid anybody who calls on them for help.
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ON SUNDAY, MAY 25, CHAI LIFELINE MARKED A SIGNIFICANT MILESTONE WITH THE FORMAL LAUNCH OF ITS SEPHARDIC DIVISION, CELEBRATED AT THE BEAUTIFUL HOME OF ABE AND VIVIAN DUSHEY IN DEAL, NJ. THE EVENT BROUGHT TOGETHER OVER 350 COMMUNITY MEMBERS, LEADERS, AND SUPPORTERS TO RECOGNIZE THE IMPACT CHAI LIFELINE HAS MADE AND CONTINUES TO MAKE, WITHIN THE SEPHARDIC COMMUNITY.
The morning featured heartfelt addresses from community leaders, including Joey Dushey chair and cofounder of the Sephardic Division, as well as fellow co-founder Jack Braha, and Rabbi Simcha Scholar, CEO of Chai Lifeline. Special honors were presented to Albert and Renee Laboz, recipients of the Community Pillar Award, in recognition of their unwavering dedication to Chai Lifeline’s mission and the families it serves.
“We’ve always been here for Sephardic families, but
now we’re doing it with a team and structure that truly reflect the community’s values, culture, and voice,” said Jack Tabbush, Director of the Sephardic Division. “This division was created by the community, for the community, and will continue to grow through its strength, passion, and achdut.”
The event also featured powerful words of chizuk from Rabbi Shlomo Farhi, Rabbi of the Edmond J. Safra Synagogue, and longtime community leader Harry Adjmi,
who spoke about the importance of rallying around families facing medical crises.
“Chai Lifeline has always believed that the most effective care is rooted in the community itself,” said Rabbi Simcha Scholar, CEO of Chai Lifeline. “By empowering local leaders, professionals, and volunteers, we’re able to deliver support that is not only compassionate but deeply personal and culturally attuned. The Sephardic Division is a shining example of how we build programs with the community, for the community, ensuring that every family feels seen, supported, and never alone.”
The Sephardic Division, under the leadership of Jack Tabbush, provides a full range of Chai Lifeline services, including case management, hospital and home support, crisis intervention, family programming, and Camp Simcha experiences custom-tailored to the specific needs of the Sephardic community. The division’s lay leadership includes Joey Dushey, Jack Braha, Aviran Nachum, and David Tawil.
To learn more about Chai Lifeline’s Sephardic Division, or to get involved, visit www.chailifeline.org/sephardic or call 718-475-0002.
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WHEN SUMMER ARRIVES, WE LOOK FORWARD TO THE SUNSHINE, THE SOUNDS OF THE WAVES, AND THE EXCITEMENT OF THE SEASON. YET EVEN AFTER THE SCHOOL YEAR CONCLUDED, MANY MAGEN DAVID STUDENTS WERE EAGER TO CONTINUE THEIR LEARNING EXPERIENCES.
Throughout the summer months, students came together for a series of meaningful educational programs that strengthened both minds and hearts, proving that Torah learning and academic excellence thrive in every season.
Perhaps most inspiring of all was our 9 Days of Hesed initiative, where students from every grade level participated in meaningful acts of kindness while deepening their understanding of the fundamental Jewish value of Hesed. Each day brought new opportunities for the students to showcase their unique ways of giving back to our community.
From filling the SBH Food Pantry and writing letters to IDF soldiers, to sharing in a shiur from our distinguished Rabbis, students felt the power of giving back and the significance of Torah learning, especially during The Nine Days. They experienced the importance of Hesed, the satisfaction of Tzedaka, and discovered that the most profound learning often happens when we extend ourselves for others through everyday community service projects.
Thank you to our PTA Hesed Committee for their time and effort coordinating all the events, Rabbi David Shelby and Rabbi Butchie Cohen for their shiurim (Torah classes), Rosow Elite for their tournaments, and our gracious parent hosts for opening their homes.
The 9 Days culminated on Tisha B’Ab, when Ohel Yaacob Congregation transformed into a vibrant Bet Midrash as our distinguished rabbis and teachers led meaningful classes throughout the day. Students engaged in learning sessions that deepened their understanding of Jewish history, mourning practices, and the enduring hope that defines the Jewish people. These classes provided both spiritual enrichment and mindful growth, demonstrating how traditional observance and academic learning beautifully intertwine. Students had the opportunity to ask their own questions, fueling their love of Torah learning and connection to our tradition.
In the early days of August, the magic of storytelling filled the yard during our special Early Childhood Literacy Night, where our amazing teachers became storytellers
for our youngest learners. Our early childhood students gathered with wide eyes and eager minds as their teachers brought favorite stories to life through animated readings and interactive presentations. The evening reinforced the fundamental joy of reading and music with a live show from The Little Rockers. The children were so excited to read with their teachers, making everyone eager for back to school.
Thank you to our gracious hosts, Lillian and Albert Manopla, and to our wonderful PTA committee for organizing an event that highlighted the special bonds the students create with their teachers, bonds that make our school community so special.
On August 11th, the girls of the high school got together for Girls’ Night Out, where they made cool jewelry with Bead Hut and ate delicious pizza from Dough Krazy. We look forward to every GNO event, as it gives us
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the opportunity to connect and bond with girls from every grade. Thank you to our generous student host, Camille Sakkal, and a big thanks to the GNO committee for an awesome night!
Adventure also awaited one of our first-grade classes, who spent the year researching countries “Around the World.” Each student selected a country, conducted research, and created a published book. Over the summer, they gathered for a special Authors’ Tea, where students received their published books and writing awards. Surrounded by friends, delicious treats, and proud smiles, they celebrated their hard work and the joy of learning something new.
These summer programs exemplify Magen David Yeshivah’s commitment to education that nurtures both intellectual curiosity and character development, while also showing deep appreciation for community and connection
to Torah and mitzvoth. By maintaining our focus on learning throughout the summer months, we reinforce Magen David values while creating meaningful memories that students will treasure.
As we prepare for the new academic year, we carry forward the enthusiasm, connections, and insights gained during these special initiatives. They remind us that at Magen David Yeshivah, every moment is an opportunity for growth, discovery, and meaningful connection to our history and community.
The success of these experiences reflects the dedication of our exceptional faculty, the enthusiasm of our wonderful students, and the support of our committed families. Together, we continue building a learning community where Torah values and academic excellence illuminate every endeavor, creating bright futures for all our students.
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THE STORY OF THE BIBAS FAMILY PLAYROOM BEGAN IN LATE FEBRUARY. TOYS FOR HOSPITALIZED CHILDREN BOARD MEMBER MICHELLE DOMB VISITED SCHNEIDER CHILDREN’S MEDICAL CENTER TO BRING HAPPINESS AND HEALING TO CHILDREN HOSPITALIZED THERE. DURING HER VISIT, MICHELLE SAW THE ROOM DESIGNATED FOR A FUTURE PLAYROOM. AFTERWARD, SHE AND RABBI JJ HECHT II WENT TO PRAY AT KEVER RACHEL. AS THEY LEFT, THEY PASSED A SEA OF ORANGE BALLOONS, A TRIBUTE MARKING THE FUNERAL OF SHIRI, KFIR, AND ARIEL BIBAS—THE REDHEADED CHILDREN WHOM ALL OF ISRAEL HAD BEEN PRAYING FOR.
Moved beyond words, Michelle turned to Rabbi Hecht and said, “JJ, I want to sponsor the playroom at Schneider, and I want to name it ‘The Bibas Family Playroom’ in memory of these children.”
Rabbi Hecht responded, “Michelle, if you want to do that, let’s do it.”
He immediately reached out to Sruli Anatian, who generously agreed to partner with Michelle, pledging to cover
50% of the project. Together, their partnership ignited a vision, and they got to work to bring this idea to life.
On August 6, The Bibas Family Playroom opened with an emotional ribbon-cutting ceremony attended by members of the Bibas and Silberman families, hospital leaders, the playroom donors, and many friends of Toys for
Hospitalized Children. The ribbon was cut by Yarden Bibas and Dana Silberman, sister of Shiri Bibas.
This playroom is far more than just a room filled with toys; it is a therapeutic sanctuary where children can heal through play.
“This playroom aims to bring light during life’s darkest times,” said Board Member Michelle Domb, who dedicated the space in honor of her children and grandchildren. “It will be a place where sick children can play, smile, and heal. It serves as a reminder that joy is a crucial part of recovery. Happy kids heal faster. Together, we can make a difference.”
Partnering in this project was Sruli Anatian, who contributed in honor of his beloved mother. “My Ima taught me that kindness knows no bounds,” he shared. “Supporting this room was my way of spreading her values in the world—bringing joy where it’s needed most.”
Mindy Schneider, whose family has long been a major benefactor of the hospital, spoke warmly at the event: “Shiri, Ariel, and Kfir will live on through this playroom forever.”
The playroom was thoughtfully designed to reflect the warmth and spirit of the Bibas family’s kibbutz. Butterflies flutter across bright orange flowers, and cherished symbols like Tonto, the family dog, and the purple elephant—the last toy the children played with—are lovingly incorporated throughout the space.
Built in memory of Shiri, Ariel, and Kfir Bibas A”H, this state-of-the-art room is transforming grief into purpose and tragedy into hope.
Maurice Shnaider, uncle to Shiri Bibas, reflected on the playroom’s comforting presence following the heartbreaking events of October 7:
“When Rabbi JJ Hecht told me about the playroom to honor Ariel and Kfir, I was overwhelmed with gratitude. After all our family endured, this space brings comfort and healing. Seeing it bring joy to sick children is the greatest tribute we could imagine.”
The Bibas Family Playroom is just the first of four engaging, therapeutic spaces being built by Toys for Hospitalized Children and Toys for Simcha at Schneider Children’s Medical Center. Each playroom will have a unique theme. These will include:
• The Toys for Simcha Playroom: With its ocean theme.
• The Michael M. Kameo Playroom: With its jungle theme.
• The Ruth Peres Music Playroom: With the theme of the sky and a twist of music.
The creative inspiration for these spaces was provided by Ovadia Design Group, led by Jack Ovadia, who donated their expertise. The tech and design were created by Breeze Creative, an Israeli award-winning company that brought its touchless interactive technology into the space. They created beautiful, safe environments that encourage children to explore and play.
“Our chairman of the board, Mr. Eli Cohen from Eli Cohen Insurance Agency, has been a tireless leader in
our mission,” noted Rabbi Hecht. “His dedication ensures that every project is undertaken with the utmost care and impact.”
Toys for Hospitalized Children is transforming pediatric care through immersive playrooms. “This isn’t just a room with toys,” said Rabbi Hecht. “It’s a place where joy becomes part of the cure. We believe that when a child plays, they heal a little faster.”
Dr. Efrat Bron-Harlev, CEO of Schneider Children’s Medical Center of Israel, expressed her support:
“At Schneider Children’s, we believe that recovery is not only physical. Children are whole beings—filled with thoughts, emotions, creativity, and spirit. Healing happens through medicine, but also through music, play, beauty, and love. This room brings that belief to life.”
The Bibas Family Playroom stands as a living reminder that even amid unimaginable tragedy, love, generosity, and the spirit of giving can create spaces where children not only recover, but thrive.
If you would like to be part of this mission to bring happiness and healing to hospitalized children, please follow us on Instagram @toysforhospitalizedchildren, together, we can make a difference!
THIS SUMMER, THE SEPHARDIC COMMUNITY CAME TOGETHER IN DEAL, NJ, IN A BIG WAY TO SUPPORT THE NEXT STEP, A NONPROFIT DEDICATED TO MAKING SURE NO ISRAELI AMPUTEE EVER WALKS ALONE. SINCE 2012, THE NEXT STEP HAS BEEN A LIFELINE FOR MORE THAN 4,600 AMPUTEES IN ISRAEL, PROVIDING ACCESS TO ADVANCED PROSTHETICS, AS WELL AS EMOTIONAL AND FINANCIAL SUPPORT, AND ADVOCATING FOR BETTER CARE. THROUGH THIS WORK, THE ORGANIZATION HAS BECOME THE VOICE OF ISRAEL’S AMPUTEE AND LIMB-LOSS COMMUNITY.
And this summer, our community showed just how much we care, through two powerful and inspiring events that celebrated unity, resilience, and compassion.
The Second Annual Deal Ride was nothing short of inspiring. Riders of all levels filled the streets with energy and determination, joining together to raise awareness and stand in solidarity. The presence of community leaders and families, like Jack & Victoria Aini, Stephen & Vered Shamosh, Lee & Freida Abramson, Ari & Sima Baum, Abe & Rebecca Cohen, Yoel Dweck, David & Adele Khaski, Steven & Randi Matsas, Zaki & Freida Salame, Elliot & Grace Simhon, and Elliot & Olga Schweky, underscored the unity behind the cause.
Cyclists chose between 30 and 50 mile routes, showcasing Deal’s scenic oceanfront, bridges, and winding roads. For many, the ride was about so much more than distance. “Every mile reminded us of the resilience of those we were riding for,” one participant shared.
At the finish line, there was a shared sense of accomplishment and purpose. As another rider put it: “We rode together, and in doing so, we reminded each other that no one should ever walk—or ride—alone.”
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Another highlight of the summer was a moving morning of connection, prayer, and
inspiration at the Mother Daughter Challah Bake. The event featured Racheli and Tzofia, an inspiring duo from Israel whose lives were forever changed by limb difference. Their story of strength, healing, and hope made possible through The Next Step set the tone for the day.
Led by community hosts, the morning included the mitzvah of hafrashat challah (separating a portion of dough as an offering), heartfelt tefillot (prayers), and an uplifting class by speaker Bianca Benisti Kaffash. Women of all ages came together to bake, learn, and strengthen their connection to the mission of The Next Step.
The day didn’t end there. With generosity in full force, the host committee also organized a diamond earring raffle, which was a tremendous success and a beautiful example of the Deal community’s giving spirit.
This summer reminded us of the power of coming together, not just to support a cause, but to uplift lives. Both events celebrated resilience and community while reinforcing the mission of The Next Step, to
ensure that no amputee or individual with limb difference walks alone.
And the journey continues. This November, The Next Step will host The Next Ride’s 10th trip, a seven-day luxury cycling experience in Cannes, France. The trip combines world-class cycling along the French Riviera with curated cultural excursions and meaningful community experiences.
Want to be part of it? Learn more at www.thenextride.org.
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EVERY SUMMER, THE COMMUNITY EXTENDS THE SAME HEARTFELT INVITATION TO CHAI LIFELINE CHILDREN: FORGET EVERYTHING ELSE AND JUST BE A KID FOR A DAY. WHEN OVER 100 CHILDREN AND HUNDREDS OF VOLUNTEERS AND COMMUNITY MEMBERS TOOK THEM UP ON THAT OFFER, THE RESULT WAS EVERYTHING DEAL DAY WAS MEANT TO BE.
Camp Simcha Without Borders brings the magic of Chai Lifeline’s renowned summer camp experience directly to communities across the country through special day programs. For children facing serious illness, it means accessing Camp Simcha’s joy and support without leaving home. For the community, it means continuing their longtime partnership with Chai Lifeline in the most meaningful way possible.
Deal Day represents the very best of community spirit. The community has been a steadfast supporter of Chai Lifeline for years, and with the recent formal launch of Chai Lifeline’s Sephardic Division, this year’s Deal Day marked a significant milestone for the organization.
“Chai Lifeline has carried our families through their hardest moments, and our community has always stood right there with them, ” shared Jack Tabbush, Director of Chai Lifeline’s Sephardic Division. “Supporting those in need is the heart of who we are, and this is a partnership we’re proud to keep building together.”
This year’s festivities blended adventure, creativity, and connection on the Massry Farm. Campers enjoyed a handson petting zoo, tried axe throwing and archery, navigated
the corn maze, explored spray-paint art, and relaxed by the pool. The day culminated in an unforgettable surprise concert by Zusha, leaving everyone dancing and singing all the way home. Each activity became a backdrop for moments when illness and crisis took a backseat to pure fun.
Adding to the day’s energy were the TourDeSimcha riders, participants in Chai Lifeline’s annual women’s cycling event that raises funds and awareness for the organization’s vital work. These dedicated participants spend months training and fundraising, and their arrival in Deal represents the culmination of their efforts. The pure joy of campers greeting the riders made their efforts even more meaningful.
“TourDeSimcha is the best day of the summer, and we wouldn’t miss it for the world,” shared longtime riders Sharon Dayan and Raquel Cohen. “Being part of this ride and seeing the impact at the finish line is incredible. It’s a true reminder that it’s the smiles, not the miles, that make all the difference. Each year, the kids inspire us just as much as we hope to inspire them, and we can’t wait to do it again!”
Deal Day works because the community understands
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something fundamental: children facing serious illness don’t need pity. They need joy, normalcy, and the chance to just be kids.
The day was graciously hosted by Iris and Mark Massry. For Iris, her connection with Chai Lifeline began years ago when she was a counselor in Camp Simcha at age 19, and
ever since the organization has had a special place in her heart.
“When Jack asked if I knew of a house for Deal Day, the first thought in my head was our home. I asked Mark, and right away he said ‘Of course, let them use ours and the farm!’ From there, the planning began with the greatest team of people, and in just 10 days we pulled it all together. Seeing each child thank us at the end of the day, so full of appreciation, was incredible. Mark and I could not have been happier to open our home and give these children a reason to smile.”
On behalf of the children and families supported, Chai Lifeline extends heartfelt gratitude to hosts Mark and Iris Massry, TourDeSimcha riders, and the entire Community whose dedication makes Deal Day possible year after year. Learn more about Chai Lifeline’s Sephardic Division at chailifeline.org/sephardic.
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Ohel Tora is a new and exciting yeshiva with over 300 current students and 200 more beginning in September. This kollel came under the wing of Midrash Sephardi (Shehebar Sephardic Center) five years ago in the Old City. Headed by Rabbi Shimon Moalem, a gaon known for his theoretical and innovative lessons, he raises the spiritual level of each student. So many students came that the school was moved to a much larger building in Ramat Shlomo.
Ohel Tora was founded in 5700 by Gaon Rabbi Chaim Kanievsky and Rabbi Moshe Tzedaka, Shlit’a. Five years ago, Rabbi Moalem came to Rabbi Shlomo Kassin, Dean of Shehebar Sephardic Center, and they agreed to work on opening this yeshiva and expanding it.
The yeshiva boasts a large hall and spacious building where hundreds of students flock for in-depth scholarly
study. The yeshiva has a strong academic atmosphere and is perfect for young men who want to study Torah at a high level. Once they pass the entrance exam, students are treated with respect and embrace the challenging curriculum. The school has a warm ambiance and offers quality conditions conducive to learning. The school provides a low-stress environment for learning.
In September, Ohel Tora will add 20 staff members to accommodate the growing student body. Classes will be divided into four parts so there will be room for everybody. This is a resounding success, and even more so since the yeshiva has been under SSC leadership for only five years.
No Sephardic yeshiva has been able to accomplish such incredible growth and learning. Ohel Tora is special in its style and among the best in the world. The reputation of its scholars is amazing.
MY UNCLE JOE SALEM WAS AN ELIGIBLE BACHELOR UNTIL HE MET VIVIANE MARCOS. SHE TOOK HIS BREATH AWAY. THE YOUNGEST OF SIX CHILDREN OF JOSEPH AND SARINE MARCOS, VIVIANE WAS BORN IN ALEXANDRIA, EGYPT. BEAUTIFUL, EXOTIC, WITH HER OLIVE-COLORED SKIN, AND VERY SMART, SHE WAS SHY, RELIGIOUS, AND TRADITIONAL. EDUCATED AND WITH THE PATIENCE OF JOB, SHE WAS A PERFECT MATCH FOR MY UNCLE. THEY MET IN BRADLEY BEACH, WHERE SHE WENT ON WEEKENDS AND STAYED WITH HER COUSIN FRIEDA TESSONE.
The only one of her siblings to be born in a hospital, Viviane grew up in Alexandria, Egypt, attending a Catholic preschool and then La Communité Israelite d’Alexandrie for elementary school. There she learned French, Arabic, and Hebrew.
Abdul Nasser became president of Egypt in 1956. He immediately nationalized the Suez Canal. The nationalization led to a military intervention by Britain, France, and Israel, who feared losing control over the canal and its strategic importance to the region. Viviane remembers they had to keep their windows closed and lights off so they wouldn’t be bombed. There were two types of sirens—one warning of the bombs and another announcing all clear.
Nasser created the United Arab Republic with Syria from 1958–1961, effectively ruling Syria as well. The UAR continued after Syria withdrew. Viviane’s father Joseph Marcos was born in Aleppo and came to Egypt when he was four years old. Sarine her mother was born in Palestine (now Israel). They met and married in Egypt.
Following the 1956 Suez Canal Crisis and Nasser’s rise to power, a campaign of Arabization and increased hostility led to the expulsion and forced emigration of most Jews from Egypt. This resulted in a dramatic population decline from around 80,000 to a handful today. Viviane and her family were Egyptian, so they were not asked to leave, but the decline in the community left a strong signal.
“They did not like us. But they never forced us to leave,” said Viviane. “When we did leave, they stamped our passports ‘Leaving Never to Return.’ My older sister Fortune, married to Egyptian Chief Rabbi Jacob Nefoussi, stayed with her family until 1968.”
Seeing the handwriting on the wall, her father Joseph transferred Viviane to the Scottish School for Girls in 1957 when she was 11, which she attended for four years and where she learned English. She described the school as very cosmopolitan, with students from many different backgrounds and religions.
The family attended a small synagogue for Aleppan
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Jews in Alexandria. There was also a synagogue for Moroccans. The main synagogue was Eliahu Hanavi, which was used for life cycle events such as weddings and bar mitzvahs. Viviane said it was too far from their apartment to walk there each week.
Joseph Marcos supported his family as an accountant, and the family lived comfortably. They had a large apartment with five bedrooms. Servants helped with the laundry, cleaning, and serving.
“We had no phone or washing machine or refrigerator,” said Viviane. “My father went shopping every morning on his way home from shul. He’d stop at the market, buy fruit and vegetables, and anything we needed for that day. Meat was bought twice a week—Monday and Thursday. We were happy and managed.
“We went to the beach every Sunday. Early in the morning, I had to go to the beach club and reserve a cabana. That was my job, and the family came later. My mother brought food to eat. We also took school trips. One time they took us to Cairo to see the pyramids.”
Viviane was just 15 when the family lost her mother to leukemia. Sarine died in May 1961, and in October they left for Paris en route to the United States. France was one of the few countries that would allow Egyptian Jews to come.
They left Egypt by ship, but there was a strike in France, so the ship took them to Genoa, Italy. From there they took a train to Paris, where HIAS (Hebrew Immigration Aid Society) placed them in a hotel—one room for all of them.
“It was me, my father, and my brother Isaac in one room. My sister Denise and her family left at the same time. Denise’s husband had Spanish citizenship. In the hotel, there was a bathroom down the hall. We had to go to Le Richer, a place where they served us lunch each day. We
weren’t allowed to take any money with us when we left. I had a silver coin, and they took the coin from me,” she said.
“My brother Elie left in 1957 and had been sent to Denver, Colorado. He stayed there a few years and was able to get back to New York by the time we came. Elie sponsored us, filling out all the papers so we could come to America. We were in Paris for six months in Hotel Richer.
“Because I went to the Scottish school, I was one of the few girls my age from Egypt who spoke English. I was lucky to go to that school.”
When the paperwork was finally approved, the family was flown to New York and met by NYANA, who helped them until Joseph Marcos found work. The family stayed a few months in Elie’s apartment on Dahill Road. Then they moved to 503 Kings Highway, above a grocery store. Joseph enrolled Viviane in Lincoln High School, where she graduated ahead of her class.
“I remember the school principal was Italian, and she was impressed that my father spoke to her in Italian,” said Viviane.
Viviane went to work for Manufacturers Hanover Bank in an office on Wall Street until she married Joseph Salem. Joseph’s parents were Selim and Esther Salem, of Salem
inherent in the Syrian and Egyptian communities. She is a terrific cook and decorates magnificent cakes. We often share cooking tips.
Her son Abraham is a hazan in Kol Yaacov (Lawrence Avenue Shul) and reads the Torah weekly. Her son Steven reads in Magen David Synagogue and Sephardic Synagogue. She is very proud of all her children and is always there to support them and our family in whatever way we need.
Catering, the first caterer in the community. Viviane loved Joe’s convertible, but he sold it when they married in March 1966. They have been happily married for 59 years. Their three daughters and two sons are pillars of the community.
I was 11 years old when Aunt Viviane came to our family. I saw her serenity and patience for my Uncle Joe. Her cup is always half full, with nice things to say about everyone. She brought up her family with tremendous love and kindness and was an example of the traditions and values
Viviane loves Arabic music, knitting, and the theater. Although Uncle Joe has taken Aunt Viviane many places, she has never been back to Egypt, and would love to visit her childhood home again someday. I would love to take her.
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Rosh Hashanah gives you the gift of a sacred pause in your life. It’s a time when you can step back and examine not only the past year but also the year to come. It is a time for reflecting on your values and beliefs.
The quality of the questions you ask yourself impacts the quality of your life. Asking yourself these five questions before Rosh Hashanah will help you use the gift of this sacred time.
1. WHAT HAVE I LEARNED IN THE PAST YEAR?
What can you learn from your successes? And perhaps more importantly, what can you learn from your mistakes? So much happens over the course of the year; it can seem like a blur. Make a list of some of the highlights and transitions that you experienced and some crucial lessons will emerge. You can see patterns that helped you succeed and habits that led to mistakes.
2. WHAT ARE MY GOALS FOR THE COMING YEAR?
What would you like to do more of? What would you like to decrease? This pause that the Jewish new year gives you can help you extricate yourself from just living in “survival mode” and step back to reflect on which goals you’d like to accomplish in the coming year. Which areas would you like to grow in? What are your priorities? What would you like to take out of your schedule? What would you like to add that would enhance your life and align with your values?
3. WHERE IS G-D IN MY LIFE?
In the Hebrew month of Elul that precedes Rosh Hashanah, G-d is closer, even if you aren’t sure how to pray or connect with Him. There is a sacred closeness available now that you can access. Ask yourself if there is space for G-d in your life. Are you appreciating the awe-filled world around you and the myriad ways in which G-d orchestrates
As we welcome the new year, 5786, we’re called to look within — to find the strength to repair not just ourselves, but our world. We’re called to act.
At UJA, with your support, we’re working every day to rebuild Israel’s devastated communities and restore a people in trauma.
Here at home, we’re confronting the rise of antisemitism — on campus, online, and in our streets — while strengthening the safety and security of our institutions.
And across our community, we’re responding to the extraordinary outpouring of Jewish pride and engagement, making Jewish life more accessible for all who seek it.
Shanah Tovah. May the year ahead bless each of us with the strength and the courage to act.
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miracles in your own life? You can start with the short “Modeh Ani” prayer recited when you first open your eyes in the morning to thank G-d for the gift of a new day (after all, it’s Gal Gadot’s favorite prayer). Or you can try saying the Shema, Judaism’s central declaration that G-d is One, before you go to sleep to express not only gratitude for what happened that day but to express a desire for a connection with G-d and an acknowledgement of His importance in your life.
Gratitude can change how you see the world. When you focus on the blessings you have, you see abundance in your life. Try keeping a simple gratitude journal each day, listing both the small and big things for which you are grateful. Don’t forget the ever-present ones that are easy to forget: your health, your family, food, shelter, education. Sometimes you forget how much you have because you have so much.
Is there someone that you need to apologize to? Is there someone that you need to forgive? Maybe there is a friendship that you have let go that you would like to begin again? Perhaps there is a child, a parent or a spouse who needs your attention or your time.
These days leading up to Rosh Hashanah are opportunities to reconnect, to your deeper, authentic self, to the people you love, and to G-d. Recognize the gift of the sacred pause of these days. Put aside some time to ask yourself these questions to reflect and grow.
ROSH HASHANAH, THE JEWISH NEW YEAR, IS A TIME OF REFLECTION, PRAYER, AND FAMILY MEALS FILLED WITH MEANING. ONE OF THE MOST CHERISHED TRADITIONS IS THE FOCUS ON SWEETNESS, BOTH IN SPIRIT AND ON THE TABLE. FROM APPLES DIPPED IN HONEY TO FRAGRANT STEWS AND ROASTED MEATS, SWEET FOODS ARE SERVED TO EXPRESS OUR HOPES FOR A JOYFUL, SWEET YEAR AHEAD.
Across the Sephardic and Mizrahi world, this custom comes alive through dishes rich with fruit, honey, warm spices, and symbolic ingredients like dates, pomegranates, and black-eyed peas. Each
MOROCCAN-SPICED SWEET BLACK-EYED PEAS WITH CARROTS
Serves 6–8 as a side
Black-eyed peas, known as lubia, are a traditional siman on many North African Rosh Hashanah tables. In this Moroccan-inspired dish, they’re simmered with sweet carrots, honey, and warm spices for a comforting and symbolic start to the year.
Ingredients:
• 1½ cups dried black-eyed peas (or 2 cans, drained and rinsed)
• 2 tbsp olive oil
• 1 onion, diced
• 2 carrots, peeled and diced
• 1 tsp ground cinnamon
• ½ tsp paprika
• ¼ tsp ground cumin
• Salt to taste
• 2 tbsp honey
• 2 cups water or vegetable broth
Instructions:
If using dried peas, soak them overnight, then boil in fresh water until just tender, about 45–60 minutes.
community brings its own flavor to the holiday table. Here are a few time-honored sweet recipes from around the world to help you celebrate with tradition, meaning, and deliciousness.
Drain and set aside. In a large skillet, heat olive oil and sauté the onion and carrots until soft. Stir in cinnamon, paprika, cumin, and a pinch of salt. Add the black-eyed peas, honey, and broth. Simmer uncovered for 15–20 minutes, until the liquid reduces slightly and the flavors deepen. Serve warm or at room temperature as a symbolic and satisfying side dish.
Serves 6–8
This sweet and savory roast draws on the flavors of Iraqi Jewish cooking, where silan (date syrup) brings deep, natural sweetness to holiday meat dishes. Apples add a soft texture and echo the Rosh Hashanah theme of sweetness for the new year.
Ingredients:
• 3–4 pounds beef roast (brisket, chuck, or shoulder)
• 2 tbsp olive oil
• 2 onions, sliced
• 4 apples, peeled and sliced
• ½ cup silan (date syrup)
• 1½ tsps ground cinnamon
Serves 6–8
In Persian Jewish homes, pomegranate is more than a fruit—it’s a symbol of abundance and blessing. This warm, fragrant chicken dish uses sweet pomegranate juice, honey, and cinnamon to create a rich holiday centerpiece without any sour notes.
Ingredients:
• 1 whole chicken, cut into 8 serving pieces
• 1 large onion, chopped
• 2 tbsp olive oil
• 1 tsp ground cinnamon
• ½ tsp ground ginger
• ¼ tsp turmeric
• 1½ tsps salt
• 1½ cups 100% pomegranate juice (unsweetened)
• ¼ cup honey
• ½ cup fresh pomegranate seeds (for garnish)
Instructions:
In a wide pot or deep skillet, heat olive oil and sauté the onion until golden. Add the chicken pieces and lightly brown on all sides. Sprinkle in cinnamon, ginger, turmeric, and salt. In a bowl, combine pomegranate juice with honey and pour it over the chicken. Bring to a simmer, cover, and cook on low heat for 50–60 minutes, turning the chicken occasionally. The sauce should reduce slightly and develop a glossy texture. Garnish with fresh pomegranate seeds before serving. This dish pairs beautifully with couscous or a bed of rice.
• 1 tsp salt
• ½ tsp black pepper
• 2 cups water or apple juice
Instructions:
Preheat oven to 325°F. In a heavy pot or Dutch oven, heat oil and sear the roast on all sides. Remove the meat and set aside. In the same pot, sauté onions until soft, then add apples and cook another 5 minutes. Stir in silan, cinnamon, salt, and pepper. Return the roast to the pot and pour in the water or apple juice. Cover tightly and bake for 3 hours, turning once halfway through. For a thicker sauce, uncover for the last 30 minutes. Let rest before slicing and serve with apples and pan juices spooned over the top.
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During the midnight hours, the gates of heaven are open to receive the prayers of those who arise to devote these auspicious hours to limud torah. thirteen years ago, Rabbi Yehoshua Meir Deutsch established Kollel Chatzos with just a handful of avreichim. today, over 70 tzaddikim arise each night at midnight to recite tikkun Chatzos, learn until dawn, and conclude by davening together with the netz. once a week, in the predawn darkness, the entire Kollel travels to Kever Rachel and the Kotel to pray for our donors’ welfare, reciting each name from the Kollel’s Kvittel with tremendous devotion. on erev Rosh Chodesh, the entire Kollel travels to Meiron to daven at the kever of Rabi shimon Bar Yochai.
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Serves 6–8
This dish combines the richness of lamb with the sweetness of dried fruit—a classic Persian approach to holiday cooking.
Ingredients:
• 2 pounds lamb shoulder or stew meat, cut into chunks
• 2 tbsp vegetable oil
• 1 large onion, chopped
• 1 tsp turmeric
• ½ tsp cinnamon
• Salt and pepper to taste
• 1½ cups dried apricots
• ¼ cup blanched almonds
• 2 tbsp honey
• 1½ cups water or chicken broth
Instructions:
Heat oil in a heavy pot and brown the lamb on all sides. Remove and set aside. In the same pot, sauté onion until golden. Add turmeric, cinnamon, salt, and pepper. Return the lamb to the pot and stir well. Add the apricots, almonds, honey, and broth. Bring to a boil, then reduce heat and simmer, covered, for 1½ hours or until the meat is tender and the sauce is thickened. If needed, uncover and simmer for an extra 15 minutes. Serve with Persian-style rice or roasted vegetables.
These dishes bring more than just flavor to the Rosh Hashanah table. They carry memory, tradition, and the hopes of a sweet year ahead. Whether you’re continuing your family’s customs or starting new ones, these recipes will fill your home with the aroma of celebration and the taste of heritage.
Shaul J. Kassin, Chief Rabbi
Dear community member, Rosh Hashana 5786
The Rambam writes in Hilchot Teshuba (Perek 1, Halacha 3):
In this time, when the Holy Temple no longer stands and we have n o altar of atonement, there is nothing but teshuba. Teshuba atones for all transgressions. Even if a person was wicked his entire life and repents at the end, nothing from his wickedness is ever mentioned to him again.
The Rambam’s words are comforting. He assures us that no matter where we have been or how far we may have strayed, the gates of teshuba are always open. In a world without the Bet HaMikdash, teshuba is our most direct, personal, and powerful path to atonement.
Yet the Rambam also teaches elsewhere (Hilchot Teshuba 2:1) that a person should always see themselves as if they are on the verge of leaving this world; because no one knows the day of their death. While Hashem accepts teshuba even in one’s final moments, none of us can predict when t hose moments will come. The wisest and most secure choice is to begin the process now, while we still have the clarity, strength, and opportunity to change.
Teshuba is not always easy. Admitting we’re wrong requires humility. Amending our ways takes discipline. And assuring we don’t repeat our mistakes needs proper planning and strategy. But it is also the greatest gift Hashem has given us; We get to start anew with a clean slate.
As the High Holidays draw near, let’s not wait for “someday” or “later.” Le t’s start today. Let us return to Hashem with sincerity, repair our relationships, and open our hearts to growth. If we take even the smallest first step, Hashem will meet us more than halfway
“Open for Me an opening like the eye of a needle, and I will open for you an opening like the entrance to a great hall” (Shir HaShirim Rabbah 5:2).
May we be written and sealed in the Book of Life for a year of peac e, health, and great beracha.
Tizku Leshanim Rabot Ne’imot Vetobot!
September 2025
Dear Friends:
It is with great pleasure that I extend greetings and best wishes to the readers of Image Magazine and the entire Sephardic community for a sweet, happy and healthy Jewish New Year.
As we reflect upon this year, we must remember how important it is for Jews around the world to stand united in solidarity with the people and State of Israel. We must continue to search for peace in the coming year, while also ensuring the safety and security of all Jews. Our support of Israel must be strong and unwavering.
Again, I send you my warmest regards as we gather to celebrate the wonderful richness of life, in the new year of 5786.
Shana tova u’metukah.
Sincerely,
JERROLD NADLER Member of Congress
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ALBANY, NY 12236
Rachelle and Ben-Gurion Matsas Chief Editor and Publisher Jewish IMAGE Magazine
1985 West 6th Street
Brooklyn, NY 11223
Dear Friends:
September 2025
Greetings and a Happy New Year to the readers and staff of Jewish IMAGE Magazine. Founded in 1990, Jewish IMAGE connects and celebrates Sephardic Jewish residents in New York State and beyond by promoting local events, helping area businesses reach new customers, and highlighting the community’s rich heritage and customs.
Based in Brooklyn and exploring every facet of Jewish daily life, Jewish IMAGE Magazine serves the Sephardic Jewish community in New York, New Jersey, Florida and the rest of the nation. Its print magazine and website reach over 260,000 readers, featuring local, national and international news reports about the Sephardic Jewish community, special interest stories and inspirational profiles. Written with a family focus, IMAGE celebrates Sephardic Jewish achievements and promotes the core values of respect, tolerance and unity. The magazine staff works in tandem with rabbis, elected officials, yeshivahs and neighborhood leaders to share important information throughout the community. The dedicated officers, board and members of Jewish IMAGE Magazine are honoring cherished traditions and enhancing the quality of life for New Yorkers
Best wishes for a joyful New Year and continued success. Shanah tovah!
Sincerely,
Thomas P. DiNapoli State Comptroller
Dear Neighbors,
As we prepare to welcome the New Year, I want to take a moment to extend my warmest wishes to you and your families for a
- a sweet, healthy, and meaningful New Year.
This season is a time for reflection, growth, and renewal It is also a time to express gratitude for our families, our community, and the opportunity to live our values openly and proudly. I am honored to serve as your representative in the New York State Senate, and to be the first Sephardic Jew elected to this office in our state’s history. That distinction is not just personal, it is deeply communal. It speaks to the strength, vibrancy, and continued growth of our Sephardic and broader Jewish communities
As we enter this new year during a time of uncertainty, it is more important than ever that we stand united, support one another, and continue to live our lives with purpose, strength, and pride.
Part of that strength comes from making our voices heard I urge every eligible voter to participate in our democratic process Voting is not only a right, it is a responsibility It is how we shape the future for our children and our community, and it is one of the most powerful ways we can stand up to hate, push back against rising antisemitism, and ensure that our values are represented at every level of government.
As your State Senator, I will continue to advocate for your needs and defend our values, whether it’s fighting for safety and resources, defending our yeshivas, or ensuring that the government works for everyone.
May this next year bring peace, safety, and blessings to you and your loved ones.
Shana Tova U’metuka!
Senator Sam Sutton
SIMCHA EICHENSTEIN
Assembly Member •
48th
District
ASSISTANT MAJORITY WHIP
Dear Friends:
As we approach this meaningful time of year, we reflect upon the past while looking ahead with hope to the future.
Rosh Hashana reminds us to pause from our daily routines and consider both our challenges and our accomplishments. Like many of you, I’ve experienced my share of struggles, but as the New Year draws near, I choose to focus on the achievements.
eichensteins@nyassembly.gov
This past year, my staff and I worked hard to serve our community. Whether we were advancing important legislation in Albany or assisting neighbors with social services in Brooklyn, we remained dedicated to serving you. I am proud of the success that we’ve achieved in many areas, and I assure you that I will remain committed to continue advocating for you.
Rosh Hashana is a time of renewal, growth, and self-improvement. I look forward to a year filled with opportunity, meaningful moments, and, with G-d’s help, abundant blessings. Representing the 48th District is a tremendous honor, and I am continually insp ired by our vibrant community, its extraordinary individuals, and its flourishing organizations. Together, we will build an even brighter future.
Wishing you and your loved ones a happy, healthy, and sweet New Year filled with good health and many blessings. May this Yom Tov bring peace, joy, and serenity to us all.
Sincerely,
Simcha Eichenstein Member of Assembly District 48
KALMAN YEGER Member of Assembly 41st District • Kings County
District Office
Nostrand Avenue
New York 11229 718-648-4700 The Capitol Legislative Office Building Albany, New York 12248 518-455-5462
My Dear Neighbors,
Serving as your representative is the honor of my life.
Our community is ךורב ׳ה strong and vibrant. As your representative in the State Assembly and before that at City Hall, I’ve worked hard to keep it that way.
Through good and challenging times, we are a resilient people – no matter what we face, we rise together and stand together. That’s always been the beauty of our community.
This time of year is one of reflection. We look back, we look forward, and we know there is no challenge too great for us to meet. We continue to pray for peace and safety here and for our family in ץרא לארשי who need
I am grateful for the opportunity to serve my neighbors – to be your voice and champion, and to fight for our community with every ounce of energy I have.
I could not do this without your unwavering friendship, support and קוזח. I have been given a sacred trust to serve as our community’s representative in Albany, and I am most honored by the faith and confidence you continue to place in me.
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KALMAN YEGER Member of Assembly
September 22, 2025
Dear Friends:
It is my sincere honor to extend my blessings and best wishes to the Jewish community ahead of Rosh Hashanah, the onset of the Jewish New Year. Ahead of the new year of 5786, I pray for peace, joy, and a sweet, prosperous new year for the Sephardi community and all the readers of Image Magazine.
From my earliest days defending our streets to my time as your mayor, I have always stood with our city’s vibrant, diverse, beautiful Jewish community against the rising sea of hatred. This Rosh Hashanah, I not only pray for a shanah tova, but our Administration takes historic action each and every day to root out antisemitism and invest in Jewish businesses and communities. We must all stand together to confront this vile form of antisemitic hatred and eliminate it from our schools, workplaces, and streets.
Thanks to outlets like Image Magazine, we keep our communities apprised of local, national, and global news, and unite New Yorkers together to build a better city for all. As we celebrate this new year, my entire Administration sends our prayers for joy, health, and prosperity for all.
Shana tova u’metukah.
Sincerely,
Eric Adams Mayor
Dear Friends,
Shana Tova to all our Jewish friends, family, and neighbors!
Rosh Hashanah is a sacred time for the Jewish community. It’s a time for prayer, reflection, and renewal. It’s a moment to honor cherished traditions with loved ones and look forward to the new year ahead
Brooklyn is home to the largest population of Jews in the United States, and as Brooklyn Borough President, it brings me great joy to see our neighbors all over the borough gather at homes and shuls to celebrate the new year with friends and family.
May this be a sweet and healthy new year for you and your families and may all of your celebrations be joyous.
Shana Tova, Chag Sameach, and a very happy Rosh Hashanah to all!
Sincerely,
Antonio Reynoso Brooklyn Borough President
COUNCIL MEMBER, 48TH DISTRICT, BROOKLYN
MINORITY WHIP
IVernikov@council.nyc.gov
Dear Constituents,
As we prepare to welcome Rosh Hashanah 5786, I extend my heartfelt bracho t for a Shana Tova U’Metuka, a year filled with sweetness, health, and spiritual growth. The days of the Yomin Nora’im calls upon us to reflect on our emunah, our devotion to Torah, and our sacred bond as a community.
Two years after the painful events of October 7, 2023, we continue to pray for the release of hostages, the refuah sheleima of those injured, and the safe return of families displaced by conflict in the North and South of Eretz Yisrael. The alarming rise i n antisemitism this past year, here in New York City and across the world, weighs heavily on us all. I am deeply grateful for the privilege you’ve given me to serve another term as your representative, allowing me to stand with our community to confront th is hatred and protect our way of life with unwavering resolve.
Let us come together in tefillah and ma'asim tovim, strengthening our commitment to Torah and mitzvot, and may we merit to see the fulfillment of prophecy of Yeshayahu haNavi: “They shall beat their swords into plowshares, and their spears into pruning hoo ks. Nation shall not take up sword against nation; they shall never again know war.”
May this new year bring you and your mishpachot bracha, hatzlacha, and parnasah b’revach.
Sincerely,
Inna Vernikov Council Member, 48th District
RANKING COMMITTEE ENERGY brighter days ahead.
Rosh Hashanah is a time to reflect on
behind us and look forward with optimism. It’s a chance to pause, reconnect, and set intentions for the future.
May the coming year be filled with good health, joy, and many blessings.
Shana Tova!
RANKING
FRANK PALLONE, JR
Sincerely,
6TH DISTRICT, NEW JERSEY
FRANK PALLONE, JR. Member of Congress
504 BROADWAY LONG BRANCH, NJ 07740 (732) 571-1140
September, 2025
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I wish you and your loved ones a joyous and meaningful Rosh Hashanah. As we welcome the High Holidays and the Jewish New Year, may this season bring peace, renewal, and hope for
67/69 CHURCH STREET KILMER SQUARE NEW BRUNSWICK, NJ 08901 (732) 249-8892
Rosh Hashanah is a time to reflect on the year behind us and look forward with optimism. It’s a chance to pause, reconnect, and set intentions for the future. May the coming year be filled with good health, joy, and many blessings.
Dear Neighbors,
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I wish you and your loved ones a joyous and meaningful Rosh Hashanah. As we welcome the High Holidays and the Jewish New Year, may this season bring peace, renewal, and hope for brighter days ahead.
Sincerely,
Rosh Hashanah is a time to reflect on the year behind us and look forward with optimism. It’s a chance to pause, reconnect, and set intentions for the future.
FRANK PALLONE,
Member of Congress
JR.
May the coming year be filled with good health, joy, and many blessings.
Shana Tova!
Sincerely,
FRANK PALLONE, JR. Member of Congress
ERIK ANDERSON COMMISSIONER
September 2025
Rosh Hashanah 5786
Dear Neighbor,
I would like to take this opportunity to wish you and your family a very happy, healthy, safe, and sweet New Year.
The High Holidays are a time of reflection, but also a time to come together with a shared purpose for the year ahead.
We are fortunate to have a strong and vibrant Jewish Community at the Jersey Shore that has been an integral part of the fabric of Monmouth County.
I look forward to continuing to work with my fellow Commissioners to ensure Monmouth County remains a great place to live, work, and raise a family.
It is an honor and privilege to serve you on the Monmouth County Board of County Commissioners.
Shana Tova U’Metukah.
Very truly yours,
Erik Anderson Monmouth County Commissioner
190 Norwood Avenue, P.O. Box 56 Deal, New Jersey 07723
(732) 531-1454
Mayor SAMUEL M. COHEN
Commissioner DAVID SIMHON
Department of Public Affairs and Public Safety
Commissioner JACK A. KASSIN
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Department of Revenue and Finance
JO ANNA MYUNG, Municipal Clerk/Interim Borough Administrator www.dealborough.com
Dear Community Members, Family, and Friends,
As we welcome the season of our New Year, Rosh Hashanah, we want to extend our warmest wishes to you and your families. This special time of year offers a unique opportunity for reflection, renewal, and togetherness.
Rosh Hashanah, signifies a fresh start a time to gather with loved ones, share delicious meals, and engage in meaningful conversations. More than ever, it is a moment for us to come together as a community, appreciate our shared values, and nurture the spirit of kindness, compassion, and support that lies at the heart of our Jewish heritage.
Together, let us embrace the changes ahead with optimism and hope. As we hear the sound of the shofar, may it inspire us to make positive wishes for ourselves, our community, and the world around us. Let it serve as a reminder of the power we hold to shape a brighter future, one filled with peace, safety, and harmony.
Wishing everyone a sweet and meaningful Rosh Hashanah, filled with joy and prosperity. May this New Year bring health, happiness, and countless blessings to you and your families.
Warmest regards,
Mayor Sam Cohen
Commissioner David Simhon
Commissioner Jack A Kassin
BY DEBBIE GUTFREUND
The strength and resilience of Jewish mothers has kept the faith and hope of the Jewish people alive throughout Jewish history. Since October 7th we’ve seen the incredible courage and faith of so many Jewish mothers who have prayed for their children to be freed, sent their sons to battle for so many sleepless nights and spoke up against the countless lies that were being spread across the world.
Like Rachel Goldberg-Polin, Hersh’s mother, speaking in front of huge crowds, fighting for his son’s release and blessing him from the border of Gaza right before he was murdered. And Iris Haim, the mother of Yotam, who sent a message of love and forgiveness to the IDF soldiers who accidentally shot her son as he was trying to escape from his Hamas captors.
How do these mothers remain so strong in the face of such unfathomable tragedy? What is the source of their resilience and faith? We have an opportunity to honor all of the incredible Jewish mothers who continue to give life and hope to their families and our nation. Here are five things that strong Jewish mothers do.
Strong mothers nurture their children from the deep roots and foundations of their ancestors. They connect to their own mothers, their grandmothers and the mothers of our nation. They find what was inspiring and precious in each generation and they pass down that legacy to their own children.
These mothers know that their children need both the depth and the support of the generations that came before them in order to grow.
Jewish mothers have been praying for their children for thousands of years. In their own words, they pray for their children’s health, for their happiness and for their growth. Some mothers bless their children on Friday night that G-d should protect them and be with them. Some mothers bless their children every day. But no matter when or how often Jewish mothers pray, they always see the souls and inner lives of their children. They look beyond the surface of life and focus on the divine light within every person.
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Israel. today’s Israeli soldiers are part of nothing less than the resurrection of king David’s army. they are part of a prophecy coming to fruition. For the first time in nearly two thousand years, the Jewish people are home. and we have a powerful army sworn to protect and defend that home.
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3. THEY KNOW HOW TO FORGIVE.
Strong mothers do not hold onto grudges or resentments. They know how to forgive and how to let go of past hurt in order to move forward. In the words of Iris Haim to the soldiers who mistakenly shot her son: “I love you very much, and I hug you from afar. I know that everything that happened is absolutely not your fault…At the first opportunity, you are invited to come to us, whoever wants to.”
She not only let go of any blame but embraced the ones who thought they would never be forgiven. Strong Jewish mothers forgive with all of their hearts, believing that everything happens exactly as it is meant to happen. They let go of their expectations of the past and lift their eyes towards tomorrow.
4. THEY KNOW THEIR GOALS.
Jewish mothers know what their goals are when they are raising their children. They are clear about what their values are and what qualities they are striving to inculcate in their homes. These mothers teach the Jewish values of kindness, justice and faith. They encourage their children to learn and they guide them to reach their full potential as the leaders of the next generation. They teach them both respect and responsibility. And because they know their goals, these mothers have both direction and clarity in the way they build their homes.
5. THEY NEVER GIVE UP.
Strong mothers never give up hope in their children. They believe in possibility even in an impossible situation. They continue to hold onto their faith even when those around them are filled with doubt. They believe in change even when it seems like they are stuck. They never give up hope in their children even when they are struggling or heading in the wrong direction. They believe in light even when the darkness is so thick you can hardly see at all.
We honor the mothers of the Jewish people who have carried us through the most challenging of times and have never wavered in their love for their children and for their families.
May the strength, the resilience and the faith of Jewish mothers everywhere continue to light the way for all of us as we continue to pray that all our hostages be freed and that all of our soldiers return home.
Gutfreund is an OCD and trauma therapist. She holds a BA in English from the University of Pennsylvania and an MA in Family Therapy from the University of North Texas. In her free time, she is a competitive runner and skier. She lives in Parkland, Florida with her husband and children.
ELIYAHU FREEDMAN
IN 1896, IN A FORGOTTEN STOREROOM ABOVE THE ANCIENT BEN EZRA SYNAGOGUE IN CAIRO, JEWISH HISTORY CHANGED FOREVER. THE ROOM WAS DARK, DRY, AND FILLED WITH DUST—AND ALSO WITH NEARLY 400,000 FRAGMENTS MADE OF PAPER AND PARCHMENT THAT HAD REMAINED UNTOUCHED FOR CENTURIES, PRESERVED BY EGYPT’S ARID CLIMATE.
When scholars, notably Solomon Schechter of Cambridge University, first began sorting through this treasure, they unearthed something profound—a time capsule preserving nearly a thousand years of continuous Jewish life and rare texts previously thought to be extinct.
WHAT IS A GENIZA AND WHY IS THIS ONE SO SPECIAL?
A geniza comes from the Hebrew word meaning “to store away” or “to hide.” In Jewish tradition, texts containing G-d’s name cannot be casually discarded. Instead, such holy items are temporarily stored in a dedicated space—a geniza—until they can receive a proper burial in a cemetery, similar to how a human body is treated with the utmost respect.
What makes the Cairo Geniza uniquely valuable for historians is that the community not only allowed centuries of traditional geniza materials to accumulate without burial—prayer books, worn-out Torah scrolls, and religious texts—but also included more mundane materials that Jewish law doesn’t require to be ceremonially discarded: grocery shopping lists, personal letters, bills of sale, tax documents, and even children’s practice sheets learning to write the Hebrew alphabet.
The end result is one of history’s most comprehensive archives of the medieval world, providing a window into a sophisticated Mediterranean society where Jewish merchants negotiated trade contracts across vast distances from Andalusia to Yemen, scholars debated the finer points of philosophy in Arabic and Hebrew, women engaged in business and legal matters, and much more.
The Cairo Geniza paints a vibrant portrait of what scholar S.D. Goitein aptly named “A Mediterranean Society” in his monumental six-volume work. Far from depicting Jews as an isolated, persecuted minority, the Geniza documents reveal them as integral participants in a sophisticated medieval world.
Through business correspondence and legal documents, we see Jewish merchants establishing trade networks spanning from Spain to India, dealing in everything from spices and textiles to books and precious metals. These papers show Jews, Muslims, and Christians regularly forming business partnerships, sharing knowledge, and participating in a complex economic ecosystem that transcended religious boundaries.
The Geniza reveals a medieval Mediterranean world characterized by mobility and cultural exchange. Jewish traders spoke multiple languages, adapted to local customs in different ports, and maintained connections across vast distances through sophisticated networks of communication and credit.
Solomon Schechter at work in Cambridge University Library, studying the fragments of the Cairo Genizah, c. 1898
These documents challenge our modern assumptions about medieval society, showing instead a cosmopolitan civilization where diverse communities lived and worked together, creating a multicultural tapestry that rivals the richness and complexity of our globalized world today.
Some of the most invaluable treasures from the Geniza are the dozens of personal letters of medieval Jews who describe their joys, sorrows, and daily concerns in their own handwriting.
One such poignant fragment is a heartbreaking letter written by the towering figure of Medieval Judaism, Maimonides, who mourned his brother David who drowned while on a trading voyage to India. “The greatest misfortune that befell me during my entire life,” Maimonides wrote, describing how he remained “bedridden with fever and despair” for a year following the tragedy.
Other documents written in Maimonides’ own hand include the first editions of his works complete with personal edits, revisions, and margin notes, providing unprecedented insights into how the brilliant thinker developed his ideas. Some of these precious documents can be viewed today at the National Library of Israel in Jerusalem.
The Geniza also illuminates the lives of women, preserving evidence of their active roles in medieval society. Letters show women conducting independent business transactions, managing property, and advocating for their rights in religious courts. One fascinating document records a woman authorizing her representative to arrange her divorce and negotiate the financial settlement—evidence that women exercised significant legal agency in matters affecting their lives.
What makes the Cairo Geniza genuinely unparalleled is how it preserved texts once thought lost forever. Among its most significant discoveries is the Damascus Document, an ancient Jewish sectarian manuscript previously known only through medieval copies but later found among the Dead Sea Scrolls. The Geniza’s fragment predates the Dead Sea Scroll version by centuries.
Similarly, it contained the original Hebrew text of Ben Sira (Ecclesiasticus), a wisdom book composed around 180 BCE that had vanished from Jewish tradition for nearly a millennium.
The Geniza also revealed unexpected cultural connections that challenge our assumptions about medieval religious boundaries. Researchers uncovered fragments of Arabic translations of Jewish texts owned by Muslims, and Jewish-owned copies of Islamic philosophical works. Perhaps most surprisingly, some documents show Jews studying and engaging with the Qur’an for academic purposes.
Other fragments include Jewish adaptations of popular Arabic poetry and literature, showing how Jews participated in broader cultural currents while maintaining their distinct identity. One fragment even contains a Jewish merchant’s notes on Buddhist customs he encountered while traveling to India, demonstrating how the medieval Mediterranean world was connected to civilizations far beyond its shores.
Over a century after its discovery, the Cairo Geniza continues to transform our understanding of Jewish history. Digital projects at Princeton and Cambridge are making high-resolution images of these fragments accessible worldwide, allowing both scholars and casual history enthusiasts to examine documents that were once accessible only to specialized academics. Thanks to these initiatives and online databases where anyone can browse thousands of digitized fragments, the Geniza is becoming less the domain of ivory tower scholars and increasingly a resource for anyone with a passion for Jewish history.
Perhaps most importantly, as these ancient fragments become more accessible in our digital age, the Geniza reminds us that everyday matters—shopping lists and love letters can reveal as much about humanity as grand historical narratives. It offers a profound lesson: every word has weight, and even the smallest scrap of Jewish life, preserved with care, can illuminate entire worlds.
The Jews of medieval Cairo never imagined their dusty attic would one day inspire generations, but in preserving even mundane aspects of Jewish life, they performed a sacred act of memory that continues to enlighten us today.
Eliyahu Freedman is an Iraqi-Jewish educator living in Jaffa, Israel. Passionate in the fields of Jewish history, spirituality and ethics, Eliyahu most recently completed a Master’s degree in Talmud from Tel Aviv University and was working on a PhD dissertation on medieval JudeoArabic history in the 10th century from Hebrew University.
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As reserve commander of the Operational Support Battalion of the 460th Armor School Brigade, Itai Naamat is responsible for transporting crucial supplies to the combat forces fighting inside Gaza. “It’s our responsibility to supply them with much-needed weapons, gas, water, and food,” Itai said in an interview with Aish. “Not only is this necessary for their survival but it also boosts their morale.”
Itai retired from active duty more than 20 years ago and serves as a reservist. After October 7, he felt he had to fight again. “On October 7, no one understood what was happening. I had to bring 350 soldiers to the base in the South. All my soldiers were looking to me for answers and I didn’t have any.” On Friday, Oct. 27, 2023, Itai led his 350 soldiers into battle. They sang Hatikvah, made Kiddush, and entered Gaza.
Even though Itai is not required to serve at his age, he feels a responsibility to his country. “This is my country. If I won’t do it, no one will do it. Consider this: If I had told my great-grandfather from Afghanistan 80 years ago that I would be an officer in the Israeli Army, he would have said, ‘You are out of your mind!’ It is incredible that today the Jewish people have an army and can protect themselves. I
am one in the chain of the Jewish people. If I don’t do it, then in 20 or 30 years, the Jews will be forced to go back to where they came from – Afghanistan, Morocco, Lebanon… They won’t take us, and we won’t have a place to live. The Jewish people do not have any country. We have no choice but to fight.”
While Itai puts on a brave face, it hasn’t always been easy. “My scariest moment was when I lost three soldiers during a Hamas ambush. They put explosives near the road we were traveling on and they were shooting at us. I lost one officer and two soldiers, Uri Moshe Bornstein, Netanel Hershowitz, and Zvi Matitiyahu Maranz. It was devastating.”
After that tragedy, Itai needed to go back to the same area to bring supplies to the troops that were inside. “You know you need to be the first Hummer on the road. You have about 20 soldiers behind you, and a lot of trucks with food and fuel and supplies. As I was in the car approaching, I had a sinking feeling in the pit of my stomach when I thought about what happened just earlier that day in the same spot. This was my most frightening moment.”
Itai describes the gamut of emotions he experiences when fighting. “We have high hopes, devastation, and fear. I know that if I don’t arrive, my brigade won’t complete their mission. You can literally feel the eyes of your soldiers on your back. All of us are afraid, some more and some less. We all have to get over it and perform our mission. As a Commander, I have a lot of people trusting that I will do the job in the best way possible.”
Itai maintains that the real hero of his story is his wife, Shimrit. “I’m a reservist, it’s my job. But my wife is the brave one. She works crazy hours as an attorney in a large Israeli law firm. She also takes care of our young kids. In the recent 17 months, she does it all alone. She is the bravest woman ever.”
On Wednesday, October 4, a few days before the massacre, Shimrit was diagnosed with thyroid cancer. “On October 7, the day of the horrible attack, I was called to fight,” Itai explained. “It was such a huge surprise and shock that I almost forgot about my wife’s cancer. I knew she would eventually need to have surgery, but we didn’t know when it would be.”
Itai had to handle the imminent danger in front of him first. “I have a lot of soldiers. I have to take care of them, and keep them safe.” Two weeks after the war began, when Itai went back to his jeep, the driver told him to call his wife. When Itai spoke to her, he heard that something was not right in her voice.
Shimrit told him, “I wanted to let you know that ten hours ago I had my surgery.” Itai couldn’t believe it. He had no idea that she had undergone the operation, all by herself. He gained permission to go to the hospital and see her. “I arrived at midnight to give her a hug and comfort her.”
Shimrit insisted that Itai immediately go back to his soldiers, despite his concern for her health. “This is my wife. She is the brave one between the two of us.”
Shimrit explained that after Itai left on October 7, she didn’t inform him of anything regarding her illness. She wanted him to be focused on the battle and the safety of his soldiers.
Shimrit’s friend, Anat, was a top surgeon at the same hospital where she was receiving her cancer treatments. Anat arranged an appointment for Shimrit to meet with a cancer surgeon. The doctor was supposed to fly to Poland the week after October 7 but because of the war, his flight was canceled, leaving him a last-minute slot for Shimrit’s surgery. He asked her if she wanted to take it.
Shimrit hesitated because she knew her husband would probably be in Gaza at that time. She thought it over and realized, I have to do it, and I have to do it now. Otherwise, the surgeon won’t be available later, and my health could decline.
“I wanted Itai to focus on the war and the soldiers. After all, he is not the one undergoing the surgery. He won’t be a big help to the Jewish People if he’s sitting next to me.”
Shimrit wasn’t afraid about going into surgery. “I didn’t have the time to be afraid. Plus, the doctor told me it was a relatively mild type of cancer.” She also made the difficult choice to hold off telling her children about the cancer. She didn’t want to worry them since they already had a father fighting in Gaza.
On October 17, Shimrit went into the hospital with her sister and had the surgery. “I was saying my usual morning prayers and hoping for the best. My sister and I were joking to keep our morale high.” The surgery was successful, and she called her husband’s driver afterward to inform him. “I told him, ‘Tell Itai I’m looking for him, but it’s not that urgent.’ That same night when Itai came to visit me at the hospital, he was crying. Don’t tell anyone—commanders don’t usually cry.”
Shimrit’s journey to recovery did not end with the surgery. “The real fear came when I had to do the CT scan afterward. The surgery wasn’t scary to me, it was the aftermath.” She and Itai recently found out that she has been completely healed.
Before learning she was in remission, Shimrit didn’t have time to dwell on her health status. She and her girls were busy volunteering, preparing and packing food for soldiers as well as packages for the families of the battalion. Shimrit organized a special day for the families of Itai’s
soldiers. There was food and activities for both the mothers and their children.
Itai proudly shared, “It was a great day for my soldiers and their families. There was a Moon bounce, air hockey table, video games, cotton candy, and popcorn. While the kids were entertained, the women were able to enjoy a concert. All the children and mothers were given prizes and gifts. Shimrit arranged everything.”
The wives graciously told Itai, “This event gives us the assurance that you are taking care of our husbands, because if you remember the kids and us, and remember there is a family behind each soldier, we know our husbands are in good hands.”
There are many Israeli women who are carrying a huge burden at home while their husbands are fighting. Itai believes they are the real heroines of Israel and the beacons of light for the Jewish people at this challenging time. “We have to remind ourselves why we are here, and how the State of Israel is a miracle.”
Shimrit and Itai are among the quiet heroes that are holding up the Israeli Army and the Jewish People today.
Sarah Pachter is a dynamic, motivational speaker who has lectured throughout the US and Israel. For the past thirteen years Sarah has passionately taught women of all ages and levels of Jewish observance. In addition to lecturing for many organizations, schools, and synagogues, she is a kallah teacher, dating coach, and mentor. Sarah runs growth groups in private homes and meets with individuals for one-on-one private sessions
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AH, THE TEENS AND YOUNG ADULTS OF TODAY, THEY GET SUCH A BAD RAP. ADULTS OFTEN VIEW THEM NEGATIVELY, CITING MENTAL HEALTH STRUGGLES, SOCIAL MEDIA ADDICTION, AND LOW MOTIVATION. HOW OFTEN HAVE YOU HEARD: GOOD LUCK TO THIS GENERATION? HOW MANY TEENS FEEL THAT THEIR PARENTS JUST DON’T GET THEM? AFTER WORKING CLOSELY WITH TEENS AND YOUNG ADULTS FOR MANY YEARS, WHAT I HAVE FOUND IS THIS: OUR YOUTH AREN’T JUST MISUNDERSTOOD, THEY’RE BEING SHAPED BY FORCES THEY DON’T EVEN SEE. YET DESPITE THE CHALLENGES, THERE ARE MANY WAYS FOR PARENTS TO CONNECT WITH, HELP, AND GUIDE OUR NEW DIGITALLY IMMERSED GENERATION.
Teens and young adults today live under intense, often invisible pressure, as if driven by a motor they can’t turn off. Many experience shame and doubt, not feeling quite sure of themselves and lacking confidence. There wasn’t always this much pressure. The CDC reports more than 1 in 3 high school students experienced poor mental health during the last three years and almost half of students felt “persistently sad or hopeless.” That’s a 40% increase since 2009. Before TikTok and Instagram, kids could feel successful in their own circles. There was more room for imperfection and less fixation on how others perceived them. Cameras weren’t everywhere. Success wasn’t always on display. Today, teens scroll through endless images of people who appear more attractive, more talented, more admired, and it leaves them feeling like they’re always behind. One study found that 46% of American teens say social media makes them feel worse about themselves. Only 14% said it made them feel better.
Comparison isn’t new, but social media intensifies it in ways we’ve never seen. As soon as your child starts scrolling, the measuring begins. Recent neuroscience research confirms what many parents suspect: social media “likes” can act like digital dopamine hits. Studies using brain scans have shown that when teens receive
likes on Instagram, it activates the same reward centers in the brain, specifically the nucleus accumbens and ventral tegmental area, that respond to pleasurable stimuli like food or cocaine. That dopamine surge creates a feedback loop: the more likes, the more they crave them. This makes teens want to check their phones constantly. And because likes arrive unpredictably, it mimics the psychology of slot machines, keeping kids hooked. Imagine sending your child to a casino every day but instead of playing with cash they’re playing with likes.
As this cycle deepens, teens begin to attach their value to external approval. An addiction to other people’s opinions starts to form. They may start thinking, I have to succeed, I must be skinny, I need to be invited. If they don’t meet those expectations: I’m not enough, I’m a loser. Our reputations can either increase or decrease within milliseconds. We can suddenly appear more competent than we are, and it feels good, for a moment. But as time goes on, with every post and with every social rung successfully climbed, teens may reject and lose a part of their real selves. These devices are powerful, and when misused, can erode our character and trap our teens. This isn’t just online. It leaks into real life. Teens may start to care more about being seen than being real. They might fear being judged more than being lost. And ultimately, they may start tying their worth to an ever-shifting metric of social approval. But it doesn’t have to be this way.
In nearly every session I’ve had with teens or young adults who’ve felt outcasted, betrayed, or pressured to fit in, I ask them one question: “What would it mean for you if you didn’t achieve what you’re trying to achieve?” Most answer with some form of: “Then I’d be a failure.” That’s where the work begins, rebuilding a sense of self that isn’t dependent on achievement or applause. Because here’s the truth: our children need confidence. Not ego. Not bravado. Real, rock-bottom confidence, the kind that says: I’m worthy enough to the point where I know I don’t need to prove myself. Your child won’t have to compensate, they’ll naturally be respected and admired for their strength. That’s powerful. Teens and young adults need to know who they are, regardless of how others see them. And to do that, they need to anchor their worth in something deeper than likes or approval. They need to be aligned with their truth. Few lessons illustrate this better than the contrast between King Saul and King David.
Saul looked the part: tall, strong, and chosen. But his concern for public opinion is what ultimately led to his downfall. In Shmuel Aleph Chapter 13, Saul sees his soldiers scattering and panics. Instead of waiting for the prophet Shmuel, as instructed by G-D, he unlawfully offers the sacrifice himself and states: “When I saw that the people were scattering from me… I forced myself and offered the burnt offering.” (Shmuel Aleph 13:11–12). In Chapter 15, after disobeying G-D’s command to destroy Amalek completely, he states: “I feared the people and obeyed their voice.” (Shmuel Aleph 15:24). David also faced intense public pressure but handled it in a different way. In Shmuel Bet Chapter 6, David dances before the Ark. His wife Michal mocks him for looking foolish, unbecoming of a king. But David says: “I will become even more undignified than this… I will be humbled in my own eyes.” (Shmuel Bet 6:22). That reaction right there is what made him a true king. He was tested and tempted by the public, yet held onto his character.
External pressure isn’t the only force that pulls teens away from their truth. Consuming endless amounts of content when scrolling, binge-watching, or gaming can act like a medicant, dulling uncomfortable emotions instead of addressing them. It feels harmless, even comforting, but when extreme can quietly erode a teen’s sense of self. Just like alcohol can numb pain without healing it, constant consumption can mute the very voice they most need to hear: their own.
What happened to Simba in The Lion King is a great example. When Simba ran away from his past, he filled his days with Hakuna Matata and eating bugs, the animal kingdom’s version of low-class dopamine. The bugs were easy to get, instantly satisfying, and required no courage or growth to obtain. As parents you must ask yourself: what are my kids consuming? Are they settling, eating bugs, not knowing who they are? Do they know that they’re capable of so much more? Simba was a prince, a lion, yet he was acting like a mouse. When his father’s voice called to him, “Remember who you are,” he stopped running. He stopped
eating bugs. He remembered his mission and purpose, and returned to face his fears, living in alignment with his true identity. This is the message our youth need to hear. They don’t need to settle for the bugs constantly being offered in life as a way of avoiding purpose. That’s what happened to Jonah. When we avoid our destiny, the call of G-D, we end up at the bottom of the ocean. They are meant for more than numbing out. They are meant to live fully with courage, aim, and purpose.
So how do we help our teens and young adults? By teaching them to stand up straight with their shoulders back. For them to take on the world with all of its opinions, tension, and ferocity. For them to know that they’re more capable than they think, that they have inner strength that can withstand any form of social pressure or distraction as long as they align with their truth. Albert Einstein was originally rejected as a teacher. The Beatles were once told they had “no place in show business.” Michael Jordan was cut from his own basketball team in high school. Public opinion is often wrong, and if these individuals took what others had said to heart we would never have known their names. Instead of listening to public opinion or drowning in distraction they listened and acted on their truths. Psychoanalysts such as Freud, Adler, Jung, Frankl, and Rogers have all stated in one form or another that finding, expressing, and aligning with our authentic truth is curative, and that the more we live in a lie the more mental health issues will arise. Our teens must learn to take authentic action, even
when it’s hard. You can help them do this by being curious, not corrective. Ask questions before you advise. Show them you’re not just trying to enforce, you’re trying to understand. And after all that, you can remind them of their potential.
Helping your teen become aware of these dynamics is half the battle. The other half is helping them act from their values, not from fear or approval-seeking. Sometimes though, deeper emotional work is needed. If your child continues to struggle with self-worth or confidence, I highly recommend looking into Internal Family Systems (IFS), a therapy model that helps people reconnect with disowned parts of themselves and build self-worth from the inside out. It’s a modality I specialize in, and I’ve seen it change lives. But regardless of whether therapy is needed or not, here’s the bottom line: Teach your children to act like King David, to value truth over image. To stand tall, even when mocked. To stop eating the bugs that are offered by the world. To answer the call of destiny like Abraham and Jonah did. Show them how to resist the trap of trading authenticity for validation. Public approval is fleeting, but integrity? That lasts. Your children will become more attractive and respected. And when your children anchor themselves in that, they become unstoppable.
Henry Barnathan, LMHC is a psychotherapist specializing in treating teens, young adults, & parents. He has helped hundreds of individuals reclaim their lives and relationships by using individualized and effective treatment modalities to help reduce anxiety and depression.
LAURA SHAMMAH MS, RDN
THE JEWISH HOLIDAYS ARE RICH WITH MEANING, TRADITION, AND YES, LOTS OF FOOD. FROM SWEET CHALLAHS, MAZZA, AND A SPREAD OF MANY DIFFERENT TRADITIONALLY FLAVORED DISHES, EVERY GATHERING SEEMS CENTERED AROUND THE FOOD. FOR MANY, THIS IS A SOURCE OF JOY AND CONNECTION. BUT FOR OTHERS, ESPECIALLY WOMEN WHO ALREADY FEEL PULLED BETWEEN EXPECTATIONS AND PERFECTIONISM, THE HOLIDAYS CAN BRING ANXIETY: “WILL I OVEREAT?” “WILL I LOSE CONTROL?” “HOW WILL I BOUNCE BACK AFTER THIS?”
If that sounds familiar, you’re not alone. But here’s the truth: you are allowed to enjoy the holidays without obsessing, without restricting, and without guilt. Let’s shift the focus from managing calories to creating memories.
1. PREPARE MENTALLY, NOT JUST PHYSICALLY
We clean, cook, shop, and set beautiful tables, but we rarely pause to prepare our mindset. Before the holiday begins, remind yourself:
“I am allowed to enjoy food without punishing myself for it.”
“This is a time for connection, not control.”
A calm mindset will serve you far more than a rigid food plan.
2. DON’T SKIP MEALS “TO SAVE UP”
Going into a big meal starving is the fastest way to feel out of control around food. Eat regular, balanced meals throughout the day. When your body feels nourished, you can approach the table with intention, not desperation.
3. MAKE A PLATE, THEN BE PRESENT
Instead of grazing endlessly or picking nervously, give yourself permission to sit down and enjoy a full plate. Choose the foods you love most, not everything just because it’s there. Savor. Slow down. Listen to your body. When you feel satisfied, you’ll be able to move on, not because you should, but because you’re truly full.
4. YOU DON’T HAVE TO “EARN” OR “BURN OFF” HOLIDAY FOOD
You are not a machine. You’re a person. The idea that food must be earned with deprivation or undone with exer-
cise only fuels cycles of guilt and shame. Let’s call it what it is: food is part of the celebration, not a mistake to be fixed.
5. FOCUS ON WHAT REALLY MATTERS
When you look back, you won’t remember how many bites of roast or cake you had. You’ll remember the laughter around the table, the smell of your mother’s soup, your child singing “Dip the Apple in the Honey.” Let yourself be there, not stuck in your head doing food math.
6. ONE MEAL DOESN’T DEFINE YOU
Overate one night? So what. You’re human. It’s okay. The holidays carry deep emotions, cherished memories, and an overflow of blessings. You didn’t fail. You don’t need to “start over.” Just wake up the next day and care for yourself, body and soul.
Jewish holidays aren’t about perfection. They’re about connection to our history, our families, and ourselves. You are not meant to spend these sacred days micromanaging your food or feeling guilty for enjoying it.
This year, give yourself a deeper kind of nourishment: kindness. Presence. Permission to live fully. The holidays will pass, but the memories you create will stay with you. Choose joy. Choose self-respect. Choose to show up with love, not rules.
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THE ISSUE OF CHILDHOOD VACCINATIONS IS CRITICAL FOR PARENTS TO UNDERSTAND FULLY AND NOT BE INFLUENCED BY PARTIES THAT FRANKLY WILL TAKE NO RESPONSIBILITY SHOULD A CHILD BE HARMED BY A SERIOUS AND PREVENTABLE INFECTION.
During my early career and training, I witnessed the horror parents faced in the pre-vaccine era. I trained in the 1980s at Kings County Hospital, which was an epicenter of care for many poor families and many new immigrant families. Many came from countries that had very poor conditions, poor nutrition, and limited vaccination availability as public health systems in Third World countries were very scarce.
We treated many cases of bacterial meningitis (typically Haemophilus influenzae type b, or Hib), whooping cough (pertussis), and measles. Babies with whooping cough have sporadic but severe episodes of coughing spells to the point of turning blue (cyanosis). The drooling and secretions would not allow the child to even take a complete breath. All we could do was provide oxygen by mask and hold the child until the coughing fit and choking resolved. Many suffered seizures as a result, causing significant damage to their young brain.
In the case of bacterial meningitis, which we saw frequently, there was not yet any vaccine (Hib vaccine). Babies
were brought to the hospital with fever and often poorly responsive, as these infections act quickly and invade the spinal fluid surrounding the brain. Spinal taps were a daily event in order to determine the extent and specific type of the infection. Virtually none of these babies left the hospital intact. Many died over days. Those that survived were often left with deafness, blindness, or were severely mentally retarded and impaired.
Pediatricians of that era understand very well the value of the Hib vaccine. Since the vaccine’s introduction in the early 1990s, the number of cases of invasive Hib infection in the United States has gone from 20,000 cases a year to less than 50 currently. This accounts for more than a 99% reduction. I have not seen a case of Hib meningitis or invasive disease since 1991.
Measles victims were often admitted with classical rashes followed by high fevers, coughs, and in many cases invasion of the lungs and involvement of the developing brain (encephalitis). Many affected babies who were admitted died or were left with lifelong neurological impairment,
as measles can destroy young brain tissue, often liquefying the damaged brain cells.
Let’s take one more example that hit our community in the most catastrophic manner. The names have been changed for anonymity purposes.
Years ago, Sara, A’H, was a young mother of a fouryear-old child. Sara was a patient in my practice in her later teen years when I was newly in practice. At the age of 26 years old, she developed rapid-onset meningococcal disease (bacterial blood and brain infection). Despite dramatic efforts to save her, she succumbed to the infection within 36 hours. This was not uncommon in the pre-meningococcal vaccine era. The meningococcal vaccine was approved several years later, too late to save Sara.
Several years later, when her mother Rebecca A’H was suffering from end-stage cancer, I had the privilege of spending many hours with her. I asked if I could encourage parents to vaccinate by using her name and discussing the tragedy. Shari looked at me and said, “Of course! Why should any parent ever suffer the loss of a beautiful child as we did when it is preventable? Please tell them what I said.” I have not seen a single meningococcal infection since the vaccine has been implemented in my practice.
The anti-vaccine movement has exploded in recent years for a variety of reasons, all false and misinformation. They would have you believe that doctors are being paid and influenced by “big pharma” or make false claims that vaccines cause autism. This issue has been studied repetitively over the last forty years with absolutely no evidence of that claim. They will also tell you that vaccines are not monitored for safety, also false.
Vaccines go through years (on average, 11 years) of
study before approval and implementation. I have participated in both successful and unsuccessful FDA-monitored vaccine trials, and I can attest that the oversight is absolutely intense and multi-layered. Parents should not confuse the emergency implementation of the COVID vaccine with childhood vaccinations. That vaccine was critically needed during the peak of the pandemic when we were seeing many thousands of deaths a week during the spring and fall of 2020. At the time, the vaccine saved millions of lives worldwide.
The mandates that followed were certainly politically influenced on both sides of the aisle. The mandates had nothing to do with childhood vaccinations for the diseases discussed. At this point, there is very little need for COVID vaccination except in the highest-risk groups. Our practice has not immunized a single person since late 2021, when the crisis was under control and the virus became a much less dangerous infection to most people.
Just to give one final example of how serious an issue vaccine safety is to physicians: In 1998, the initial rotavirus vaccine was being implemented nationally. As is the case with all childhood vaccinations, many agencies and organizations monitor for variations in safety signals and reporting. In 1999, a variety of reporting and monitoring agencies noticed a possible safety signal in infants receiving the vaccination. The question was raised whether a very small number of babies who received the vaccine had developed a complication of the intestine called intussusception.
The CDC, FDA, and American Academy of Pediatrics acted very quickly. Within 24 hours, ALL pediatricians in the United States received a series of faxes instructing doctors to immediately cease vaccination with rotavirus vaccine and
to return all existing doses to the manufacturer. The vaccine was put on hold, reformulated, tested, studied, and reintroduced in 2006 with none of the complications seen initially. That is how vaccine surveillance worked in the 1990s, and it has improved dramatically since then with better computer modeling. Pediatricians take vaccine safety very seriously, as we should do with all therapies and interventions.
Currently, parents are being inundated with false information from anti-vaccine activists on WhatsApp and other messaging on social media. These are individuals who frankly feel that if they can create fear in young parents who will then refuse or delay vaccination, it will somehow validate their own dangerous actions.
The measles crisis in Texas (January 2025) was very serious, with three deaths and many hospitalizations, including ICU admissions. Almost all cases were proven to be unimmunized. Israel is currently experiencing a serious outbreak with over 500 cases in the past three months reported and growing. There have been many hospitalizations, and currently there are several toddlers on ECMO (extracorporeal membrane oxygenation) who are critically ill, both with lung involvement. Unfortunately, a two-yearold passed away in Jerusalem in mid-August.
ECMO is used when the heart or lungs are no longer capable of providing oxygen when severely damaged. The child is sedated and invasive access lines are placed in the child as a life-saving last effort. The ECMO machine then functions essentially as an artificial heart and lung by removing blood from the body and oxygenating the blood externally. The blood is then returned to the body.
This is a very high-risk situation that can result in strokes, blood clots, bleeding, and infection complications—all avoidable if the children would have been immunized. These are preventable tragedies. Currently, the Israel Health Ministry, in cooperation with the Badatz of Eida Hachareidim, is desperately trying to immunize all who are eligible and currently not protected. They have correctly described the need to vaccinate as pikuach nefesh.
If the crisis hits our community, which is likely to occur, it could lead to many cases of measles in children and pregnant women, who have impaired immunity during pregnancy. Unfortunately, there are now many in the community who are avoiding vaccination, some by very nefarious means apparently. For those who have falsified vaccination records, they will be at very high risk when we are faced with new infections, as the unimmunized account for more than 98% of new infections.
What is especially dangerous to the public is that many with falsified records who come down with measles will claim that they became infected despite immunization. This false claim will further erode trust in vaccinations, which serves the anti-vaccine movement well.
Proper vaccination at 12 months and four years of age provides 98% immunity to children. During the 2019 outbreak in New York, babies as young as six months had
to get an additional dose of measles vaccine. This strategy was carried out successfully in certain zip code areas in New York in 2019, as well as for those traveling to Israel that year with babies. Therefore, during an outbreak, babies will have to get an additional dose of measles vaccine due to those who didn’t vaccinate and opened up our communities to new outbreaks.
Those most at risk are babies less than one year old. Measles is a highly contagious infection that can remain in air particles in closed spaces such as rooms or elevators for several hours. The 2019 outbreak in the New York area had several terrible outcomes, including children with encephalitis.
Once the health department changed policy on religious and falsified medical exemptions, the crisis ended, as schools were no longer allowed to accept unimmunized children unless there were specific indications such as those who are recovering from cancer treatments with very impaired immune systems.
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One final note, as I am often asked why babies need to be immunized under a year of age. Some parents are attempting to tailor their own vaccine schedule starting late. This is a dangerous approach for a variety of reasons, most importantly the susceptibility of the young brain to infection.
Babies need to be protected at very young ages because they have limited ability to fight infections naturally. In addition, their immature blood-brain barrier allows infection to invade from the blood to the young brain and damage the developing neurological system. Delaying vaccination until children are older makes absolutely no sense, as it leaves the most susceptible—babies under a year of age—open to terrible outcomes should they get infected with one of these vaccine-preventable infections.
In my practice, I have never and will never allow modifications in the recommended vaccine schedules. The timing of vaccination was not created in a vacuum. It required many years of testing and research to know which vaccines need to be given and at what timing. Vaccines in 2025 are the safest vaccines and continue to be monitored as always.
Seeing reemergence of these vaccine-preventable diseases is devastating, knowing historically how life was before many vaccines were available.
My prayer is that our communities will take these warnings seriously. Having a child is a gift and a privilege. It is not an experiment when being educated by those who, quite frankly, will take no responsibility when a child is stricken.
This article reflects the shared concerns and professional opinions of many community physicians. While Image Magazine supports providing a platform for these views, the responsibility for the medical content rests with the author. Readers should always consult a qualified healthcare provider before making any health or medical decisions.
Stuart H. Ditchek, MD, is a board-certified pediatrician and faculty member at NYU School of Medicine. He earned his medical degree from St. George’s University in 1985 and has been certified by the American Board of Pediatrics since 1990. Dr. Ditchek has dedicated his career to providing exceptional pediatric care and advancing child health through medical education and community outreach.
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150 W. 46th St., New York City (212) 869-0900
MIKE’S BISTRO
127 East 54th St., New York City (212) 799-3911
MOCHA RED
127 4th Avenue, New York City (212) 419-8889
NOI DUE CARNE
141 W 69th St., New York City (212) 712-2222
PESCADA
1776 Ocean Avenue Brooklyn (718) 766-2759
UN PLAZA GRILL
845 United Nations Plaza, New York City (212) 223-1801
URBANA
1305 53rd St., Brooklyn (718) 438-4448
WOLF & LAMB
16 East 48th St., New York City (212) 317-1950
656 OCEAN & STINGERS BAR & GRILL
656 Ocean Ave, Long Branch (732) 728-9656
BALAGAN
66 Monmouth Rd, Oakhurst, NJ 07755 (732)716-4200
BUTCHER’S STEAKHOUSE
401 Main St, Allenhurst (732) 686-1498
CRUST CO PIZZA
379 Monmouth Road, Long Branch (732) 229-2145
DIET GOURMET
167 Lincoln Avenue, Long Branch (732) 870-3287
DOUGIE’S BAR & GRILL
256 Norwood Avenue, Deal (732) 517-0300
DOWN TO EARTH
312 Main Street, Allenhurst NJ (732) 686-1597
GRANDMA’S CHEESE CAFE
101 Brighton Ave, Long Branch (732) 895-3621
JELI’S RESTAURANT
125 Ocean Avenue N., Deal (732) 686-9595
JERSEY SHORE SUSHI
250 Norwood Ave, Deal (732) 660-5393
OUTPOST RESTAURANT
125 Ocean Avenue N., Deal (732) 686-9595
PKS BY THE SHORE
244 Norwood Avenue, Oakhurst (732) 813-5757
PRIMAVERA RESTAURANT & BAR
118 Norwood Avenue, Deal (732) 430-2073
RETRO GRILL
214 Roosevelt Avenue, Oakhurst (732) 695-3119
SALT STEAKHOUSE
15 Morris Avenue, Long Branch (732) 813-7258
SHENG MAO CHINESE
214 Roosevelt Ave, Oakhurst (732) 531-7086
TAPAS
116 Norwood Ave, Deal (732) 660-1700
TEVA RESTAURANT
125 Ocean Avenue N., Deal (732) 686-9595
Katy and David Shamah – Boy
Sabrina and Ezra Doueck – Boy
Eileen and Teddy Braha – Girl
Jacquelyn and Zudy Shehebar – Girl
Jen and Bobby Safdieh – Boy
Ray and Jordan Levy – Girl
Rachel and Marc Sitt – Girl
Renee and Morris Shammah – Boy
Nicole and Dennis Dweck – Boy
Adele and Gabriel Rubin – Boy
Lauren and Isaac Dana – Girl
Luna and Joseph Hamra – Girl
Sari and Solly Cohen – Girl
Leslie and Mosie Cabasso – Boy
Sherry and Ricky Mann – Girl
Laura and Jackie Erani – Girl
Sarah and Shlomo Ickovitz – Boy
Rivka and Solly Faks – Boy
Fortune and Morris Chera – Girl
Debbie and David Khezrie – Boy
Rachel and Shlomo Safdye – Boy
Tania and Freddy Hamadani – Girl
Raquel and Ralph Massry – Girl
Linda and Albert Cohen – Girl
Jacqueline and Abe Gindi – Boy
Marcy and Joe Gammal – Girl
Naomi and Nathan Betesh – Girl
Reina and Eddie Levy – Girl
Lauren and Bobby Saban – Girl
Sarah and Isaac Safdie – Boy
Alison and Alan Shamah – Boy
Lizzy and Bert Chabot - Boy
Rebecca Esses to Sammy Cohen
Michelle Tebele to Ben Shuster
Lenor Akiva to Avi Saadia
Lean Levy to Elie Alfaks
Sophia Hamadani to Moussy Attar
Rosie Saad to Eddie Keda
Sara Mudick to Jack Zeitouny
Sivon Green to Ariel Hayim
Juliette Soffer to Ronnie Benun
Elaine Grossman to Ikie Seruya.
Lillian Lati to Teddy Kassab
Deborah Sutton to Henry Tawil
Moselle Zeitouni to Victor Salem
Julie Saadia to Jimmy Ennakab
Lauren Benmashiach to Jimmy Movazeb
Terry Gindi to Elliot Setton
Eden Miara to Uri Alfaks
Audrey Cohen to Shlomo Banbahji
Rachel Anava to Isaac Srugo
Rochella Frimerman to Albert Mizrahi
Ruthie Khaski to Morris Zarif
Linda Gammal to Michael Sadacka
Rachel Fallas to Larry Natkin
Sarit Bakarat to Elliot Chahino
Naomi Dayan to Michael Gammal
Sarah Siri to Joey Dayon
Jamie Shamah to Meyer Sakkal
Mayor Eric Adams and NYPD Commissioner Jessica Tisch have officially expanded the Quality of Life Teams, known as Q-Teams, to every precinct across Brooklyn. Launched as a pilot in April, the program has already shown strong results, cutting non-emergency response times by an average of 47 minutes, towing more than 600 abandoned vehicles, and seizing nearly 300 illegal e-bikes and scooters.
These dedicated teams focus on issues that affect everyday life, including noise complaints, abandoned vehicles, illegal mopeds, encampments, and outdoor drug use. By addressing these quality-of-life concerns, the city aims to create cleaner, calmer, and safer streets for all residents.
Community members are encouraged to report qualityof-life issues directly by dialing 311 or using the NYC 311 mobile app. You can also contact your local NYPD precinct to connect with your neighborhood’s Q-Team. For more information and updates, visit the Mayor’s Office website at www.nyc.gov or check the NYPD’s community affairs page.
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Did you escape Syria? Or leave between 1948 to 1994? It’s time to tell your story!
• What was life like for you in Syria? • How did you escape? or leave the country?
• Who helped you? • What was the path to escape? Over which border?
• How did you adjust to your new life?
Tell all the details of your story to prominent Syrian Jewish historian and genealogist Sarina Roffe for her upcoming book - Syrian Jewish Paths to Freedom. Interviews can be done on zoom, phone or in person. Photos welcome. Work is completed under the auspices of Sephardic Heritage Project - sephardicheritageproject.org
ABA THERAPY
Dr. Randi Matsas 155 ACCOUNTANT
Mitch Holsborg ................................155 ACCOUNTING
Lazar Accounting Solutions 39 ALARMS, CAMERAS & WIRING
EJS Technology Systems 174 APPLIANCE SERVICE
Astre Appliance Service 172 ATTORNEY
Expert Legal Solutions 125
Goldstein & Goldstein 123
Jack Erdos 121
Mizrahi & Louzon 9
Robert Akerman 131 AUTO REPAIR
Whitley’s Auto Specialist ..................172 BEAUTY CARE
Lauras Skin Care 151 BROADWAY SHOWS
Gazillion Bubble Show 4 BUTCHER
I&D Meat & Poultry 97 CAREER OPPORTUNITY
New York Life 67 CHOL HAMOED EVENT
Jewish NY Boat Tour 174 CLOTHING/MENS & BOYS 2020 Mens 29
The Garage Clothing 176 CONSTRUCTION
DRB Builders 173
HMS Construction 173
Joseph and Sons Builders 173 COUNSELING
Henry Barnathan,LMHC 145 DEBT MANAGEMENT
Angels of Debt .....................................6
DENTIST
Dr Jacques Doueck 149,151,153
Tawil Dental 147
DR.-PRIMARY CARE
Rambam Family Health 53
DUCT CLEANING
Remex .............................................131
EXTERMINATOR
A&V Prime Exterminating LLC 133 FACTORS
Middlegate Factors 5 FINANCIAL ADVISORS & ESTATE SOLUTIONS
Power Forward Group ........................41
FINANCIAL CONSULTANT
Endurance Wealth Partners 33
FISHING BOAT/FLORIDA
Therapy IV Capt Stan 157 FLOOD
Remex 131 FLOORS
Modern Wood Flooring 49
FURNITURE OUTDOOR
David Cohen Outdoor Furniture 172
HANDYMAN
Eddy Gindi 173 HELP WANTED
Nissin Houllou 174 INSURANCE
Allstate David Cohen 35
Dynasty Advisors/Jayne Levy ..............125
Eli Cohen Agency 30-31
Eric Derzie & Associates 43 INSURANCE ADJUSTER
Equitable Adjusters IFC,18-19 INVITATIONS
Invitations By Esta 172 JEWELRY/WATCHES
Bangles by Kelly Shrem 127
David Rudy IBC LASER
Silky Laser 2 LAWYERS/TAXES
Goldburd McCone 127 LINENS
Elegant Linen 133 LIQUOR
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