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Editor’s Letter

Iknow it really doesn’t mean much in the long run, but I’m glad February is a short calendar month. It follows January, which can feel dreadfully long and cold with its 31 days here in Mid-Michigan. Now that our kids are grown and we’re no longer following our travel hockey-playing sons to winter tournaments across the Midwest and Canada, my husband and I have taken the opportunity to travel south during the coldest weeks of the year when we can. I mentioned in my January column that we started the year with a Caribbean cruise alongside some of our closest friends. We even squeezed in a few nights in our favorite beach town, New Smyrna Beach, Florida. It was the perfect getaway, and we all returned home with more cherished memories.

We’re all back to reality now, but that doesn’t mean planning future fun has stopped.

In this issue of My City Magazine, we are celebrating brides and grooms with our Bridal section. After all, February is the month of love—and Valentine’s Day. If you’re planning your big day or expect to attend a loved one’s wedding this year, be sure to check out our Bridal pages beginning on page 16. You’ll also want to read My City writer Keegan Deloney’s helpful stories on finding the perfect rings and attire.

History and sports enthusiasts will not want to miss My City freelance writer Gary Fisher’s story highlighting the many great NFL football players who got their start right here in the Flint area. I recognized many of the names but didn’t realize just how many football greats had local roots.

This month’s My City also features Bobby Kirby, executive director of the Genesee Landlords Association (GLA), in our popular 7 Questions series. Owning and renting property can be challenging, and this local association is here to help. Read more about Bobby’s work with GLA and her thoughtful responses to our seven questions.

A friend of mine, Steve Adams, recently mentioned that the company he works for, NorthGate, has been helping employees through its Be Ready initiative. He shared that he and his colleagues believe GM honored NorthGate with its Overdrive Award in part because of this investment in workforce and community development. Naturally, My City wanted to learn more about the program. Several employees even shared how this optional initiative has positively impacted their lives.

You won’t want to miss “Listening to the Rhythm,” featuring Shanzell Q. Page’s Mindful Movement with Shanzell. A tap dancer and educator, Shanzell invites students to listen deeply, move intentionally, and find their place within a centuries-old tradition. Local photographer Rayford Gray beautifully captured Shanzell and her students during a recent workshop in Flint.

As February unfolds, we hope this issue inspires you to reflect, plan ahead, and find joy in the people, stories, and moments that make our community—and life—so meaningful.

Where to Find the Magazine

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Publisher Laura Constable

Editor in Chief

Sharon Stone

Freelance Writers

Keegan Deloney

Mark Spezia

Contributing Writers

Brice P. Carter

Dr. Christopher Douglas

Gary Fisher

Dr. Shan Jackson

Alexandria Nolan-Miller

Mark Rummel

Leslie Toldo

Shannon White

Contributing Artist

Daria Akulova

Rayford Gray

Accounting/Circulation

Carolyn Golota

Account Executive

Terese Allen

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54 Fuel Your Fight: The Power of a Cancer Prevention Diet By Dr. Shan Jackson – Healthy Just Feels Right

Finances

56 The Power of One: Why Combining Finances is theFoundation of a Strong Marriage By Brice Carter Thoughts

57 Viewers were excited when WJRT TV-12 signed on in 1958 By Mark Rummel Devotional

58 A Covenant That Tells a Greater Story By Lisa Deering

59 The 2026 Economy By Dr. Christopher Douglas

Musings 60 The Wedding Party Blues

Leslie Toldo

62 Marking Life’s Moments, One Journey at a Time By Alexandria Nolan-Miller

AQuestions with …

BOBBY KIRBY

colleague introduced Bobby Kirby to real estate, and she has been a landlord since the early 1990s while working as a financial manager at General Motors.

After earning her master’s degree from Central Michigan University, she took contractor classes to deepen her involvement in real estate. She currently manages all aspects of her property business, including accounting and legal matters, and has invested in properties across Genesee and Shiawassee counties.

A member of the Genesee Landlords Association for more than 20 years, Bobby now serves

on its Board of Directors as Executive Director.

“I enjoy renovating and flipping houses, and my tenants typically stay long-term due to strong landlord-tenant relationships,” Bobby said. “Outside of real estate, I co-lead my church’s Outreach Ministry, volunteer with the Flint & Genesee Group as a Certified Tourism Ambassador, and maintain collaborative relationships with elected officials to support GLA initiatives.”

My City Magazine caught up with a very busy Bobby to ask her some fun and meaningful questions for the magazine’s February issue.

I ENJOY RENOVATING AND FLIPPING HOUSES, AND MY TENANTS TYPICALLY STAY LONG-TERM DUE TO STRONG LANDLORD-TENANT RELATIONSHIPS.
— BOBBY KIRBY

WHAT’S A SKILL YOU’VE ALWAYS WANTED TO MASTER?

Computers. Just when I master an application, updates set me back. Thankfully, there’s the Geek Squad. TELL US ABOUT YOUR VERY FIRST JOB.

My first job was as a College Graduate in Training in General Motors’ finance department. I worked in all accounting areas and later became a manager.

I AM KNOWN FOR HAVING A STRONG “TYPE A” PERSONALITY, WHICH MEANS I AM PERSISTENT AND DEEPLY COMMITTED TO MY BELIEFS. 4 6 7 5

WHAT ARE YOU MOST PASSIONATE ABOUT?

Helping elderly people and those in need.

DO YOU THINK YOUR FRIENDS WOULD DESCRIBE YOU?

I am known for having a strong “Type A” personality, which means I am persistent and deeply committed to my beliefs. This determination has been a driving force throughout both my professional and personal life. Despite my tenacity, I strive to balance my approach with kindness, love, and generosity. These qualities shape how I interact with others, whether as a landlord, volunteer, or community leader. My ability to remain steadfast while also being empathetic has helped me build lasting relationships and make a positive impact in my community.

WHAT ARE YOUR BIGGEST GOALS FOR THE FUTURE?

I look forward to retirement and traveling globally. IF YOU COULD HAVE A SUPERPOWER, WHAT WOULD IT BE?

I would end hunger and homelessness. WHAT’S SOMETHING PEOPLE WOULD NEVER GUESS ABOUT YOU?

I wanted to be an FBI agent and interviewed during my senior year of college but didn’t meet the height requirement. I come from a family with backgrounds in law enforcement and the military. My favorite shows are Criminal Minds and SWAT

BONUS QUESTION

IF YOU HAD A “WARNING” LABEL, WHAT WOULD IT SAY?

“Don’t mess with me—I am a child of God.” This reflects my strong sense of identity and unwavering faith, which guides my actions and interactions with others.

GM honors NorthGate with Overdrive Award for workforce and community investment

Last April, General Motors recognized NorthGate as a Supplier of the Year Overdrive Award winner—an extraordinary honor. Out of more than 29,000 global suppliers, NorthGate was one of just eight to receive an Overdrive Award, which recognizes suppliers that consistently go above and beyond expectations.

Leaders at NorthGate believe this recognition is largely due to their Be Ready initiative and the positive impact it has on both employees and the Flint community.

In short, NorthGate is a secondchance employer in Flint with a simple but powerful mission: Bless People. The company offers extensive and unique services designed

to support employees in becoming more stable, successful citizens and contributors in the workplace. The following are just some of the services offered through the Be Ready initiative:

Life Coaching

→ Planning for personal and career goals

→ Guidance on opening a checking account

→ Budget creation and financial literacy

→ Communication and interpersonal skills training

NORTHGATE, GM SUPPLIER OF THE YEAR INCLUDES (L-R) GEORGE WILKINSON, CEO; ANDY GOGGINS, OWNER; JIM DISTELRATH, PRESIDENT, AND STEVE ADAMS, EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR SALES & MARKETING.

Additional Support Services

→ MTA transportation to NorthGate plants

→ On-site services from:

◆ Secretary of State

◆ Friend of the Court

◆ Legal Services of Eastern Michigan

→ Car repair programs

→ Loan assistance programs

→ In-house clothing “store”

→ Housing assistance

This list represents only a portion of the initiatives available, but it clearly illustrates NorthGate’s deep commitment to its employees and the surrounding community.

Joyce Sanders, Manager of Be Ready Enrichment Services at NorthGate, shared additional insight into the program.

Joyce explained that Be Ready launched in 2018 following a conversation between owner Andy Goggins and CEO George Wilkinson about how NorthGate could more intentionally support its workforce.

The discussion built on the legacy of the company’s founder, Jack Goggins, who believed deeply in caring for employees as people—not just workers. That philosophy remains a core part of NorthGate’s DNA today.

The conversation was prompted by what leadership was seeing both within the workforce and across the Flint community. Employee effort and commitment were not the issue—access was.

As a proud second-chance employer by choice, NorthGate recognizes that many employees bring strong work ethic and resilience while also facing barriers tied to past circumstances and long-standing instability.

“Be Ready formalized what has always been part of NorthGate’s culture by addressing opportunity and resource gaps rather than treating challenges as performance issues,” Joyce said. “It is a direct expression of our mission to Bless People—investing in you, for you, with you, for sustainable success.”

Participation in Be Ready is completely voluntary. Employees are never required to engage, and there is no penalty or stigma for choosing not to participate. The program is confidential, supportive, and employee-driven. Importantly, services are offered during work hours so employees do not have to choose between receiving support and earning a paycheck.

Since its launch, more than 100 NorthGate employees have accessed Be Ready services in some capacity. Joyce noted that at any given time, dozens of employees may be actively engaged through coaching, cohort

programs, or resource support, depending on their individual needs and life circumstances.

Regarding the Supplier of the Year Overdrive Award, Joyce explained that during the 2024 award cycle, approximately 90 companies from 12 countries were named General Motors Suppliers of the Year. Of those, only eight received the Overdrive Award—the highest level of recognition within the program. NorthGate was honored as one of those eight in the Diversity and Inclusion category for its Be Ready Enrichment Services initiative. The award reflects

NorthGate’s intentional investment in workforce stability, access, and long-term success.

While many companies offer traditional employee assistance programs, Be Ready stands apart in both philosophy and execution. Joyce emphasized that it is not a hotline or a referral list. Instead, Be Ready is an embedded enrichment model that provides direct access to coaching, education, resource navigation, and strong community partnerships—all integrated into the workday. It reflects NorthGate’s belief that investing in people is essential to long-term business success.

MIA TURNER (EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR OF HUMAN RESOURCES) AND JOYCE SANDERS (MANAGER OF BE READY ENRICHMENT SERVICES) ACCEPTED THE AWARD FOR BUSINESS IMPACT FROM THE FLINT GENESEE GROUP.
GEORGE WILKINSON RECEIVED THE CHARLES STEWART MOTT AWARD AT THE FLINT GENESEE GROUP AWARDS NIGHT.

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Employee Testimonials

Earl Dixon II: Through their guidance, I have learned how to grow not only professionally, but personally as well. They taught me not to lower myself to other people’s level, but instead to rise above and help bring others up with me. I have learned the importance of pausing before reacting, thinking critically, and identifying underlying issues rather than responding only to what is on the surface. These lessons have changed the way I approach challenges and relationships, both at work and in my everyday life.

I am also a proud graduate of the Shift and Launch classes. These courses helped place me in a corporate mindset and taught me how to view situations from a management perspective. Additionally, Be Ready Enrichment Services supported me in obtaining my license and is currently helping me take steps toward returning to school so I can pursue my dreams. The program is fully aligned with NorthGate’s mission statement: “Investing in you, for you, and with you.”

Brandon Stewart:

This program has provided me with valuable tools that I apply both in the workplace and in my personal life. Adopting the Be Ready mindset of serving and uplifting others has given me a renewed sense of pride in myself and in being an employee of NorthGate.

Trent Terry, Superintendent of Packaging:

Opportunity means preparing and developing a workforce that is capable and driven toward success.

Be Ready promotes solution-driven thinking and removes barriers that would normally deflate or reduce successful thinking. The program provides resources that guide individuals on a path to better position themselves to achieve greatness. The key to opportunity is to Be Ready—and to be prepared to make the uncomfortable comfortable.

Bonnie Hyde:

Be Ready has helped me so much. If it had not been for their referral, I would have been lost—I would have been homeless. They helped me get my furnace replaced, and that saved my home. Thank you for your patience and persistence. They are amazing.

Charmia Stocker:

Be Ready has helped me improve in many ways, both inside and outside of work. My confidence has grown, and I am now much more comfortable with public speaking.

For more information about the Be Ready initiative, visit bereadyflint.com.

To learn more about NorthGate, visit go2northgate.com.

SHIFT PARTICIPANTS DISPLAY THEIR CERTIFICATES SHOWING THEY MET THE REQUIREMENTS TO MOVE INTO LAUNCH.
SHOWN HERE IS THE LATEST GRADUATING CLASS OF NORTHGATE’S LAUNCH PROGRAM.

Super History

2026 marks the 60th anniversary of the great American game: The Super Bowl

Flint area’s rich Super Bowl history was born on the playgrounds and parks of Flint and Genesee County. From Kearsley Park to Forest Park, from Atwood Stadium to Houston Stadium, and all fields in between, kids have been playing football in the Flint area for well over 125 years. And for those kids running with the pigskin, most have envisioned themselves crossing the goal line with

the winning touchdown, making the game-winning catch, kick, or tackle. Since 1967, they’ve likely imagined doing it on the biggest stage of all—the Super Bowl.

The year 2026 marks the 60th anniversary of the great American game: the Super Bowl.

Using the Roman numerals the NFL employs to mark this grand spectacle of Americana, this year’s contest is Super Bowl LX. This milestone provides the

The Super Bowl is the championship game of the National Football League (NFL) and one of the mostwatched sporting events in the world.

perfect opportunity to explore how many great Flint-area football players have participated in the biggest game in the land. But first, a bit of background is in order.

The Super Bowl is the championship game of the National Football League (NFL) and one of the most-watched sporting events in the world. Its history is tied directly to the evolution of professional football in

America and the merger of two major leagues. Prior to the Super Bowl, the National Football League (NFL) and the American Football League (AFL) operated as separate entities, competing for talent, fans, and television contracts.

In 1966, the NFL and AFL agreed to merge in an effort to consolidate professional football in the United States.

As part of that agreement, the leagues planned a championship game between their respective champions, which would eventually become the Super Bowl. The merger officially took effect in 1970, establishing the NFL as the dominant professional football league. The first AFL–NFL World Championship Game—later renamed the Super Bowl—was played on January 15, 1967, at the Los Angeles Memorial Coliseum. The Green Bay Packers (NFL champions) defeated the Kansas City Chiefs (AFL champions) in that inaugural game.

Initially, the Super Bowl was not widely anticipated as a major event, but it marked the beginning of a new era for American football. The term “Super Bowl” was coined by Lamar Hunt, founder of the AFL and owner of the Kansas City Chiefs. He was inspired by the Super Ball, a bouncy toy his children played with. The name stuck, and the game has been known as the Super Bowl ever since.

Over the decades, the Super Bowl has grown into a multibillion-dollar event that transcends sports. It is now considered the biggest annual sporting and entertainment event in the United States, watched by tens of millions of viewers worldwide. The halftime show alone has featured a lineup resembling a Rock and

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Roll Hall of Fame roster, with performers such as Michael Jackson, Prince, U2, Aerosmith, Kid Rock, Diana Ross, Paul McCartney, The Rolling Stones, Madonna, Beyoncé, Eminem, Snoop Dogg, and The Who, along with some of the most iconic commercials ever aired.

Before the Super Bowl era, several Flint-area football players achieved great success in the NFL and AFL, including winning league championships. Clarence Peaks of Flint Central earned that distinction in 1960 with the NFL champion Philadelphia Eagles.

Many other local football stars competed at a high professional level, including Lynn Chandnois—named NFL Player of the Year in 1952—as well as Herb Orvis, Bob Suci, Hank Minarik, George Hoey, Leroy Bolden, Len Sweet, and Peaks, to name just a few.

Others, such as Robaire Smith, Bob Rowe, Eugene Marve, Brent Williams, and Booker Moore, played during the Super Bowl era but never had the opportunity to appear in the big game.

As the Super Bowl grew into an American institution, Flint-area

players began making their mark on the sport’s grandest stage. Chief among them is the man widely regarded as the greatest Flint-area athlete of all time: Bendle’s Paul Krause. Krause appeared in an incredible four Super Bowls—the most by any Flint-area player—though his Minnesota Vikings went 0–4 in those contests. He played in Super Bowls IV, VIII, IX, and XI. Krause recorded a fumble recovery in Super Bowl IX and an interception in Super Bowl IV. Remarkably, he remains the NFL’s all-time leader in career

interceptions and is the only Flint-area football player enshrined in the Pro Football Hall of Fame.

Craig Morton is a unique Super Bowl participant with Flint roots. Some argue he doesn’t fully qualify as a Flint-area player because his family moved away when he was young, and he did not play high school football locally. This may explain why many are unaware that this two-time Super Bowl–starting quarterback was born in Flint. His birth certificate confirms his Flint heritage. Morton started in Super Bowl V

Morton is notable for being the first starting quarterback to play in Super Bowls for two different franchises. He led the Broncos to their first-ever Super Bowl appearance in 1977, only to fall to his former team, the Cowboys.
JOE MONTANA HANDING OFF TO RICKEY PATTON
CRAIG MORTON REGGIE WILLIAMS

for the Dallas Cowboys and Super Bowl XII for the Denver Broncos, losing both games.

Morton is notable for being the first starting quarterback to play in Super Bowls for two different franchises. He led the Broncos to their first-ever Super Bowl appearance in 1977, only to fall to his former team, the Cowboys.

Super Bowl XVI, played in 1981 at the Pontiac Silverdome, marked the first time two players from the same high school faced each other in the game. Linebacker Reggie Williams of the Cincinnati Bengals and running back Rickey Patton of the Joe Montana–led San Francisco 49ers both hailed from Flint Southwestern. Patton’s 49ers prevailed, and he finished as the team’s leading rusher. Renowned painter Leroy Neiman later captured the moment, depicting Patton lined up behind Montana while Williams stared him down across the line of scrimmage. Williams still has the painting in his home today.

Flint Northwestern graduate Andre Rison showcased his

Todd Lyght of Flint Powers starred in Super Bowl XXIV, blocking a field goal attempt as his Los Angeles Rams defeated the Tennessee Titans in one of the most hotly contested Super Bowls of all time.

talent in Super Bowl XXXI with a 54-yard touchdown reception from Brett Favre on the second play of the game, helping lead the Green Bay Packers to victory over the New England Patriots on January 27, 1997.

Todd Lyght of Flint Powers starred in Super Bowl XXIV, blocking a field goal attempt as his Los Angeles Rams defeated the Tennessee Titans in one of the most hotly contested Super Bowls of all time.

Flint Northwestern’s Mark Ingram Sr. teamed up with Beecher’s Carl Banks to help lead the New York Giants to victory in Super Bowl XXV in 1991. Banks was part of a legendary linebacker corps that included Harry Carson and Lawrence Taylor. Ingram

starred as a receiver, catching passes for 77 yards from quarterback Phil Simms. Banks had previously won a Super Bowl with the Giants in 1987.

Flint Powers standout Jim Morrissey was a key contributor to one of the greatest defenses in

ANDRE RISON TODD LYGHT
MARK INGRAM SR.
CARL BANKS

Super Bowl history—the 1985 Chicago Bears. That colorful team featured personalities like William “The Fridge” Perry, quarterback Jim McMahon, and superstar Walter Payton. The Bears, known as the “Shufflin’ Crew,” famously recorded a rap video that year, which also featured

Morrissey. Chicago dominated the New England Patriots 46–10, finishing the season 15–1.

Jon Runyan Sr. of CarmanAinsworth played in two Super Bowls—Super Bowl XXXIV with the Tennessee Titans and Super Bowl XXXIX with the Philadelphia Eagles—losing both. Notably, his son, Jon Runyan Jr., also played in a Super Bowl with the Green Bay Packers and suffered a loss as well.

Heisman Trophy winner Mark Ingram Jr., a running back from Grand Blanc and Flint Southwestern, earned a Super Bowl ring as a member of the New Orleans Saints’ roster during their Super Bowl XLIV victory. However, he was on the practice squad and did not play in the game.

Flint Central’s Andre Weathers played defensive back for the New York Giants in Super Bowl XXXV,

Flint Southwestern defensive back Brian Carpenter starred in Super Bowl XVII, a 27–17 victory over the Miami Dolphins.

a loss to the Baltimore Ravens.

Beecher’s Lonnie Young enjoyed a long NFL career as a defensive back and played in Super Bowl XXIX on January 29, 1995, with the San Diego Chargers, who fell to the San Francisco 49ers.

Flint Southwestern defensive back Brian Carpenter starred in Super Bowl XVII, a 27–17 victory over the Miami Dolphins.

Carolina Panthers defensive end Kemp Rasmussen, a Lapeer West graduate, appeared in Super Bowl XXXVIII in a loss to the New England Patriots.

Flint Northern running back

Thomas Rawls was enjoying a breakout season with the Seattle Seahawks in 2015 before suffering a broken ankle in December, costing him the chance to play in the Super Bowl that season—a game he helped the team reach.

The rich pool of talent from the Flint area has been an outsized contributor to athletics at every level. It’s fair to argue that few regions of similar size can match the area’s remarkable history and enviable athletic legacy. While the Super Bowl is not the only measure of that distinction, it is certainly the most SUPER.

Gary L. “Fish” Fisher is President of the Genesee County Historical Society. Born and raised in Flint, he has lived in the area most of his life and his family has been a part of the Flint area for over 115 years. His fascination with the history of the city has existed as long as he can remember. In addition to writing, he is the President of G.L. Fisher Capital Management, LLC an investment and financial planning firm he founded in 1992. He asserts that Flint has produced the best cars, athletes and coney islands the world has ever known – and the toughest people! Fisher can be reached at ply2win2006@aol.com.

BRIAN CARPENTER
JIM MORRISEY
LONNIE YOUNG
JON RUNYAN
ANDRE WEATHERS

Bridal

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When Choose Forever

The Enduring Power of Love and Marriage

ove is a sacred and transformative force. In 2026, despite rapid cultural shifts and evolving lifestyles, one truth remains timeless: men and women of every age are drawn to love, companionship, and the deep fulfillment that comes from committing to one another. Choosing to show your love openly and to marry is a declaration of hope, a celebration of shared purpose, and a vow before God, family, and community that transcends time. Marriage anchors hearts in a world that can often feel transient and uncertain. Marriage matters because it reflects our deepest yearnings for connection, partnership, and mutual support. It is not merely a social custom or a beautiful event; marriage is an intentional choice to love even through life’s complexities, and to grow together through joy and challenge. Scientific and psychological research shows that committed couples often experience greater emotional well-being, stronger bonds, and increased resilience in the face of stress. Studies report that people who commit deeply to intimate partnerships fre-

quently enjoy improved mental health, higher life satisfaction, and a sense of security that comes from knowing someone stands beside them through life’s seasons.

More than that, marriage carries spiritual and cultural meaning for many couples. For those of faith, it represents a covenant before God—a vow of love that extends beyond mere romance into devotion, selflessness, and purpose. Seen through this lens, marriage is more than a document; it is a sacred promise to care for one another, to cherish one another, and to build a life that reflects your highest values.

Planning a Meaningful Wedding in 2026

Whether you dream of a small lakeside ceremony in the Flint and Fenton area, a barn wedding in the country, a traditional church service or a grand celebration at the Flint Institute of Arts, planning with intention brings your love story to life.

Start with your vision and values. Before choosing a date or venue, talk deeply with your partner about what matters

most—intimacy and family connection, artistic expression, or unforgettable celebration. This ensures your wedding reflects you as a couple rather than simply following tradition.

Choose your venue wisely. For a calm and meaningful gathering, a small ceremony on a lake can allow you to connect with nature and loved ones intimately. Rustic barns create warmth and charm, perfect for heartfelt vows and celebration. Large venues like the Flint Institute of Arts can transform your day into a spectacular experience of artful design and shared memories.

Budget with purpose. A meaningful wedding is not defined by its cost but by its significance. Prioritize what will matter most to you—personal vows, food that guests remember, meaningful décor, or a photographer who captures true emotions.

Book key vendors early. In 2026, many sought-after venues and vendors book a year or more in advance. Start early with florists, photographers, officiants, and catering to secure your dream team for your big day.

2026 Trends for Gowns, Suits, Decor, Food & Drink

Fashion in 2026 celebrates self-expression and individuality. Brides are choosing wedding gowns with dramatic silhouettes, voluminous textures, and sculptural details—think bold shapes, 3D floral appliqués, and noticeable fabric artistry. Brides are even opting for dresses in unexpected hues like soft pastels or light blues, moving beyond traditional ivory. Grooms are also embracing bold fashion. Traditional tuxedos are being reimagined with jewel-tone suits, unique textures like velvet or jacquard, and custom details that reflect personal style.

In décor, 2026 trends focus on narrative and experience rather than just aesthetics. Florals become sculptural art installations, lighting creates immersive atmospheres, and color palettes such as Transformative Teal or vibrant Island Citrus bring life to table settings and stationery.

Food and drink are more than sustenance—they’re interactive and memorable moments. Couples are choosing live cooking stations, oyster bars, tasting menus, and personalized cocktails that delight guests and inspire conversation.

Marriage anchors hearts in a world that can often feel transient and uncertain.

A BRILLIANT DECISION:

UNDERSTANDING NATURAL AND LAB-GROWN DIAMONDS

The process of purchasing an engagement ring should be an exciting and unforgettable experience. However, spending hard earned money on something you know so little about can also be intimidating and stressful.

The introduction of lab grown diamonds has made making that perfect decision even trickier. Never has the jewelry industry seen so much spin and misinformation. Let me try to clear things up a bit.

First, a lab grown diamond is actual diamond material. It sparkles like natural

diamond, wears like natural diamond, and won’t dull over time like other natural diamond substitutes. Having said that, lab grown is not the same as natural diamond.

A natural diamond is a true miracle of nature, created under such extreme heat and pressure hundreds of miles below the earth’s surface that the earth has cooled too much to create them anymore. A natural diamond will always be rare and will always be valuable for this reason. Lab grown diamonds on the other hand will cost less by the time you are done reading this article than when you started.

For instance, while the average selling price of a 1ct round natural diamond in our store is between $4,000 and $5,000, a lab created near perfect stone sells for approximately $250 and it seems that price will continue to fall, perhaps eventually costing a little more than a cubic zirconia.

Some voices proclaim lab grown is a “greener” alternative, but the creation process takes a surprising amount of energy. And while the natural diamond mining industry has had issues with some unscrupulous mines taking advantage of workers, that is a minority and the industry as a whole provides employment and income to an area of the world hungry for it.

So if the main difference is cost, the next question of course is, “Is natural worth it?” This is a decision each consumer needs to make. As a human race, we have been decorating ourselves since we have been able to carve bone and hang it from our ears. What drives this desire is how we feel when we adorn ourselves with something beautiful, cool, fashionable, and…. valuable. The jury is still out to what degree lab grown material fulfills that desire, or if it feels like a cheap imitation. One person may want to hang a genuine Monet on their wall and can appreciate all that went into creating that masterpiece. For others, a print of the same piece from Target works just fine. No judgement here, but I think the analogy works. I’m not an art expert so if I walked into their house, I probably wouldn’t know the difference, just like the average person looking at a lab grown diamond won’t know the difference…but the person wearing it will.

In our decades of selling engagement rings at Gaines, our philosophy has always been not to tell someone what they want or need, but to offer informative advice and let them decide what is best for them. So whichever way someone entering our store wants to go, we will gladly help them make their perfect decision.

GAINES JEWELRY OWNER
DAVID GAINES

When the word “couple” comes up in a romantic context, people often think of two people united in love. After all, “couple” is one word, not two. And it’s true: couples are a unified force that will weather life’s joys and challenges together. The traditional wedding format emphasizes this idea, from its matching wedding bands to white dresses and black tuxedos. The wedding uniform, if you will. However, as they plan their weddings, more and more engaged people are paying attention to the other part of the definition: two people. Those two people are united by love and will walk through life together, yes, but both partners also have their individuality— something they bring to the relationship that enriches it, something that brings them closer. So, these are some of the ways that new couples are celebrating both their unity and each other during the biggest day of their lives.

The Modern Heirloom

Why Today’s Couples Are Choosing Meaning Over Matching Sets

Rings, Bands, and Bonds

Engagement rings and wedding bands are one of the most notable aspects of the traditional wedding. They are also one of the most notable aspects to feel the shift from uniform to unique

Beginning with engagement rings, natural diamonds were once a staple of the standard proposal process. They still are, to a degree. However, more people are seeking alternatives. Some simply don’t feel that diamonds represent their partner, themselves, or

their relationship as well as other gems do. Others want options that align better with their values, from environmental consciousness to a particular memory they share with their partner. Still others find more meaning in repurposing old jewelry or resetting family gemstones, officially inviting their partner to join their family and their history. Birthstones, lab-grown diamonds, sapphires of any color, generational diamonds and other gemstones— the list goes on. Whatever gem is chosen, the general idea—the reason for that choice—is the same: rather than follow others who chose a single symbol to represent each of their relationships, couples now seek rings that represent their own unique, intertwined stories.

Engagement rings aren’t the only pieces to see this shift, either. Wedding bands have, as well. Some changes are as small as choosing less traditional materials (or combinations of materials), from rose gold and platinum to wood, or even

Your Day, Your Way!

Over the past five years, weddings have become more personalized and far less cookie-cutter. This trend is here to stay—and we have to say, we’re not mad about it! These celebrations naturally lend themselves to smaller, customizable venues that truly reflect each couple’s unique vision.

Flexible spaces, like The Laundry Room in downtown Fenton, are designed to be molded into exactly what couples have been dreaming of for so long. Whether they envision a formal sit-down affair featuring a delicious buffet of roasted tenderloin and signature aglio e olio, or a relaxed grazing table filled with handhelds and appetizers that encourage guests to mingle, the possibilities are endless.

Each space can be decorated with as much whimsy or traditional elegance as the couple can imagine, making it feel as though the building was created just for them.

Beverage selections are another important consideration. Craft cocktails and mocktails currently reign supreme, but a more low-key option—such as beer and wine—can keep things budget-friendly while still offering guests a delicious variety.

Every special day is unique, and it’s important for couples to feel that their venue is a space they can truly call their own. With the help of The Laundry Room’s Venue Coordinator, couples can strike the perfect balance of food and beverage, transforming the space into a masterpiece that’s unmistakably theirs.

Dave & Marla Biggie’s LOVE STORY

How and when did you first meet?

We first met on a family vacation at Wheels Inn in Chatham, Ontario, Canada, in 1990. We were both 16 years old. Wheels Inn was a resort-style hotel that included racquetball courts, swimming pools, miniature golf, bowling, and plenty of space to gather with family and friends. Both of our families were from Michigan and vacationed there each year with neighborhood friends during mid-winter break from school. In 1990, our breaks aligned— and it was love at first sight. I saw Dave in his high school varsity jacket and instantly knew I needed to meet him. Dave was sitting with a friend at the café inside the hotel, Aunt Lil’s Porch, and he was taken by my adorable smile. I walked by repeatedly with my friend, and Dave eventually noticed, waved us over, and introduced himself. We spent every moment together that weekend— bowling, playing racquetball, and getting to know each other. The weekend flew by, and before we could exchange contact information, Dave left early with his

parents. I was devastated when I realized he had vanished. I only knew his first name and the high school he attended. Despite living miles apart, it didn’t take long to find Dave with a little help from the Yellow Pages and a few friends.

Tell us about the proposal. I was home from college for the weekend, waiting at his house for him to come home from work. He was running later than usual, and the anticipation was killing me. When he finally arrived, I ran to the door, pulled him close by the pockets of his jacket—and felt it: a small box holding the ring.

He told me I had to wait because he wanted to call my dad first. I stood beside him during the call, and when it ended, he got down on one knee and asked me to marry him.

Tell us about the wedding. Our wedding took place on a beautiful September day, exactly five years to the day Dave asked me to be his girlfriend. Church bells rang as we said our “I do’s,” followed by a celebration at a reception hall in my hometown with

more than 200 of our closest friends and family. We’ve now been married for 30 years.

What do you cherish most about each other?

We cherish the everyday moments. Life is short, and we’re fortunate to spend each day together. We see our time as a gift and do our best to always put each other first.

Got any sweet, funny, or just plain awesome details to share?

This is our secret! If you’re reading this, we’re letting you in on something special. Dave and I only share this with couples who invite us to their wedding: seventeen kisses a day. It’s a tradition we adopted many years ago. People always ask, “Why seventeen?” We just tell them to do it—and thank us later.

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ETERNAL BONDS

In an era where life’s most cherished moments are defined by experiences rather than mere possessions, selecting the perfect engagement ring or wedding bands becomes a journey of the heart. At Sawyer Jewelers, nestled in the heart of downtown Fenton, we’ve been curating these pivotal experiences for 79 years. As a family-owned, independent jeweler since 1947, our store isn’t just a place to shop—it’s a sanctuary where love stories unfold amid sparkling displays and timeless expertise. Imagine stepping into our cozy space,

Here, couples aren’t rushed through generic selections. Our seasoned jeweler and dedicated staff bring decades of passion and expertise to guide you personally. Feel the weight of a vintage-inspired solitaire, the subtle gleam of custom bands, or the sparkle of ethically sourced gems—all while sharing laughs, dreams, and perhaps a few happy tears with your partner. We emphasize craftsmanship and sustainability to create true heirlooms.

Whether resizing a family heirloom, designing a piece from scratch, or exploring

Rather than follow others who chose a single symbol to represent each of their relationships, couples now seek rings that represent their own unique, intertwined stories.

animal bone. Other changes focus on practicality. For instance, one partner’s work might involve heavy manual labor, making an overly intricate or fragile band less feasible for daily wear; meanwhile, the other’s work might require flexible hand movements, making a bulky or heavy-duty band inconvenient for them. Not only do distinct bands allow both partners to work freely, but they also operate as a testament to their own personalities and lifestyles—the special things they see and love in each other. Of course, the possibilities of wedding bands don’t end there: stackable rings couples can add to as their

relationship progresses, customizations like fingerprints or engravings from precious moments or places in their lives, or even technology capable of storing medical information or recording wedding vows to be played later. The possibilities are endless, so why not find something that suits the best of you and your relationship?

The Custom Ensemble

Of course, rings are only one part of the wedding experience. What about the traditional white wedding gowns and the distinguished black tuxedos? They’re also changing. Both brides and grooms have found

more ways to “wear themselves on their sleeves.” As with their rings, demonstrating one’s values through what they wear has become the trend. Many people scan social media for aesthetics that suit them— their own, custom assortment of inspiration instead of pre-made wedding plan packages. Sustainability, comfort, identity, event theming, and even re-wearability are factors they consider, as well. Some thrift their wedding wardrobe and find vintage accessories, and some upcycle or repurpose their own garments. Some, instead of sticking with one or two ensembles for the ceremony and reception, prefer having multiple outfit changes to last a weekend of celebrating with everyone.

The bride’s ensemble is perhaps one of the more visible examples of these shifts. As mentioned before, vintage or thrifted dresses

have become more common. This is also true for selecting off-white colors such as ivory or cream for the ceremony. However, those options are just the tip of the iceberg. With styles like two-piece gowns or a focus on accessories like corsets or neck scarves, colors as gentle as pastel pink or as bold as black or red, and minimalist or maximist approaches to design, there’s no limit to what your dress can be except the “you” you want to show the world.

The same goes for the groom. They’ve seen a similar move from standard, clean-cut black and white to a variety of colors, materials, and embellishments. After all, the groom is just as important as the bride in marriage, so why not show that with a fit just as personalized to him as hers is to her? It doesn’t matter whether it’s closer to the traditional black tuxedo or whether it’s a blue silk suit with layered chains. What matters is whether you see yourself in whatever you decide.

Together as Two Weddings, like marriages, are about two people making decisions together. These decisions include wedding planning. Whether you choose to follow tradition or to express your love in a way unique to you, those choices should be made as a couple. Communicating and embracing each other, along with each other’s thoughts and wishes, will only bring you closer. And isn’t that what being a couple truly means?

Beyond

THE DRESS

The details that quietly define a wedding day

One of the most—if not the most—iconic aspects of the modern wedding ceremony is the bridal dress. However, weddings aren’t just about one person, but rather, the new couple and even those they’ve invited to celebrate with them. Similarly, the wedding aesthetic isn’t just about the dress: it’s how everything from shoes and hairstyles to jewelry and accessories all work together to create one beautiful, cohesive ensemble. The same goes for the ceremony and reception—how decor, food, and the people present create one unforgettable experience. So, here are some of the things brides should keep in mind when assembling their perfect day, along with expected wedding trends for the new year.

Personal Pieces

First, of course, comes the bridal look. While the bride’s ensemble remains an important and meaningful part of the wedding, it can be

helpful to piece together your plans for yourself first, before delving too deeply into your plans for the overall event. You have the most control over yourself, after all, so why not start there?

Veils and other headwear are part of this. Traditional veils offer a sense of stability and security, especially in regards to tradition. However, a different type of veil is

making a comeback this year: the Juliet cap. This veil named after the popular Shakespeare character features more of a dainty cap style that rests on top of the head, and may be accented with anything from lace to light metals to florals. It’s a perfect option for brides seeking a more vintage or whimsical aesthetic. Another popular choice is the hooded veil. As the name implies, this style

drapes like a hood, often attached at the neckline and/or the crown of the head. Some variants even drape past the shoulders and down one’s sides, making it appear like a cape or a hooded cloak. For brides seeking a more gothic or mysterious look, it’s a style worth looking at. But what lies beneath the veil? Makeup is another important aspect to consider, and this year’s

trends don’t disappoint. Whether you want to show off your natural beauty and refreshed, hydrated skin or focus on warmer tones, whether you want to re-embrace the ‘90s and early 2000s with winged eyeliner: natural, bold, classy—there’s a style for everyone. Whatever you choose, it should fit you and the rest of your ensemble.

Speaking of walking down aisles, the bridal bouquet is yet another

staple of the traditional wedding. And, like this year’s makeup trends, floral trends also vary from native and in-season flowers to more tropical, bold-colored blooms. However, it’s not just the flowers that are the subject of discussion: the structure of the bouquet itself is seeing changes, as well. Case in point, the bouquet bag. Also known as a floral bag, this type of bouquet involves tying and modeling live flowers into the shape of a purse. In that sense, they make a great double as both a formal bouquet with a twist and a vibrant accessory.

As for other accessories, their trends are once again similar to the overall direction of the bridal look: large and bold pieces like rings and earrings, excellent for those who wish to stand out; vintage or heirloom jewelry for that antique touch,

or to keep family close at heart; or custom or limited edition pieces that are just as special as your day. Statement or sentimental pieces thrive in today’s wedding culture. Now, with everything from hair to shoes in play at once, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. Where do you even start when trying to put everything together? How will you know if everything you chose will look (and feel) good together? One place to start is with what you know. Opting for too many things you’re unfamiliar with can add stress, and it can distract you from taking in the moment. It’s okay to take risks, but too many at once is a recipe for disaster. If you don’t normally wear high heels and heavy earrings, for example, wearing them together once or twice won’t help them feel like you. As always, be yourself,

and be comfortable with yourself. Secondly, try to bring the shoes, undergarments, and anything else you’re able to bring that you plan to wear on your wedding day to your dress fitting. You won’t know how everything fits together until you see and feel it for yourself. A change in heel size or undergarment material between fitting and ceremony will be noticeable to you, and the final result may contradict with what you’d envisioned at the fitting. Bring as much as you can together as soon as possible and see how it feels. Make sure that everything you plan to wear together works together, toward the vision of yourself you want to present.

Bringing It All Together

Seeing how everything comes together to create your perfect bridal aesthetic, it’s easier to understand how everything in a wedding combines to make the perfect day. In fact, the trends don’t change much

between bridal styles and nuptial arrangements. More and more people are choosing personalization and experiences over uniformity and tradition. Unconventional venues like breweries or theaters that hold meaning, bold color themes that bring vibrancy and life, hybrid DJs to blend classic orchestras with contemporary beats, interactive aspects such as gelato carts or crafting stations to encourage guests to

make their own memories, photography and videography focused on the day’s narrative instead of simply capturing highlights, private vow readings between bride and groom to share one final, intimate moment before becoming the center of attention. All of these things boil

down to a balance between old and new, between personal and shared moments, between the small things and the narrative you choose to weave together.

The day is yours, and it takes more than just a dress to adequately define it.

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For the team behind Scratch BBQ & Catering, great barbecue didn’t start with a business plan—it started with a love of the grill and a happy accident.

Mike Lintz and his wife Amy, both 47, of Flushing, share details about Scratch BBQ & Catering and why it’s so special to them and the community.

Mike said growing up, food fresh off the grill was always a special treat, and that early appreciation for barbecue stayed close to home. Years later, while helping a local church prepare pulled pork for a luncheon, someone casually suggested turning the passion into a profession. What began as an offhand comment quickly sparked an idea that refused to fade. Within a year, a wood-burning smoker was purchased, and Scratch BBQ & Catering was officially born.

FROM BACKYARD GRILL TO DESTINATION BBQ

THE STORY BEHIND SCRATCH BBQ & CATERING

The business first made its mark at the Flint Farmers Market, where it catered for a decade before the Lintzes began to seriously consider opening a brick-and-mortar restaurant. That leap, while daunting, felt inevitable.

Though barbecue became the centerpiece, Mike’s restaurant experience had long been part of the journey. From washing dishes to bussing tables, expediting food, and waiting tables, working in a local restaurant and bar provided firsthand knowledge of how a successful operation runs—knowledge that would later prove invaluable.

LEARNING FROM THE BEST

When it came to mastering barbecue techniques, inspiration came from Texas. Mike and Amy credit much of their education to Aaron Franklin of Franklin BBQ in Austin, whose approachable teaching

style and wealth of online tutorials made an impression. Unlike some celebrity pitmasters, Franklin’s humility and openness stood out.

A visit to Franklin BBQ before opening the restaurant became a defining moment. After waiting in line early on a cold February morning, Mike and Amy were welcomed warmly by staff. Mike said the staff found out they had

come all the way from Michigan and they invited the couple in for a behind-the-scenes tour after they ate. Similar encouragement came during a visit to Lewis BBQ in Charleston, South Carolina, owned by John Lewis, a former Franklin protégé. Those experiences cemented the belief that opening their own restaurant wasn’t just a dream—it was achievable.

MIKE AND AMY LINTZ OF FLUSHING POSE FOR A FAMILY PHOTO WITH THEIR CHILDREN. MIKE AND AMY OWN AND RUN SCRATCH BBQ & CATERING AT 2373 AUSTINS PARKWAY, FLINT.

BUILT FROM SCRATCH— LITERALLY

True to its name, Scratch BBQ & Catering is rooted in hands-on craftsmanship. Every recipe reflects years of trial and error, from housemade rubs for pulled pork and ribs to the carefully developed mac and cheese inspired by rich blends of parmesan and gouda.

Mike said the restaurant’s location was chosen strategically near the I-75 and I-69 interchange, offering easy access for locals and travelers alike. The building, formerly a Fuddruckers, was in rough condition when purchased and required a complete transformation. The interior was fully gutted, a new roof installed, front windows replaced, and extensive landscaping completed. Inside, a bar with 20 beer taps and a walk-in cooler was built from the ground up. Outside, a custom lean-to shelters two massive 1,000-gallon smokers, fueled with wild cherry wood that gives the meat its signature flavor. Even the parking lot

FROM SMOKED BRISKET, WINGS, HOMEMADE RECIPES, RUBS AND SAUCES, TO 20 BEERS ON TAP, COCKTAILS, LIVE MUSIC AND MORE, THERE IS SOMETHING FOR EVERYBODY AT SCRATCH BBQ & CATERING IN FLINT.

received much-needed repairs—no detail was overlooked.

A FAMILY DRIVEN OPERATION WITH LOCAL FLAVOR

Scratch BBQ & Catering is truly a family affair. Mike and Amy manage the restaurant together, with Joe Edwards playing a key role in day-to-day operations. The sense of teamwork extends to the staff they’ve built—one of the most rewarding outcomes of the entire journey.

Adding to the atmosphere is live, local music, featured every Friday and Saturday evening. Acoustic performances from area artists create a laid-back, welcoming vibe that pairs perfectly with smoked meats and cold drinks.

CATERING WITH TRANSPARENCY AND CARE

Catering has become a major part of the business, with the team handling events of all sizes—often multiple in a single day. For

couples planning weddings, Scratch BBQ & Catering offers free tastings, customizable menus, and the guidance of a dedicated catering coordinator to ensure every detail is covered.

Their upfront pricing approach allows brides and grooms to plan confidently, making the process both transparent and stress-free— an appreciated touch in an often overwhelming season.

CHALLENGES, REWARDS, AND WHAT’S NEXT

Bringing Scratch BBQ & Catering to life was no small feat.

“From purchasing and rehabbing a building to assembling the right team, the process was challenging at every turn,” MIke said. “But seeing it all come together—and watching guests enjoy the food and atmosphere—has made every step worthwhile.”

At its core, Scratch BBQ & Catering is about passion, perseverance, and community—proof that sometimes the best businesses really do start with a simple love for the grill.

For more information about Scratch BBQ & Catering, visit scratchbbqandcatering.com or order online at order.toasttab.com/ online/scratch-bbq-and-catering.

Through

Mindful Movement with Shanzell, the dancer and educator invites students to listen deeply, move intentionally, and find their place within a centuries-old tradition

Listening

to the Rhyt hm

Rooted in Flint and shaped by rhythm, lineage, and community, Shanzell Q. Page’s work as a tap dancer and educator reflects a lifelong commitment to movement as both cultural practice and shared language.

Shanzell, 39, is originally from Flint and now based in Detroit. She is a tap dancer, educator, and the founder of Mindful Movement with Shanzell, an initiative grounded in cultural history, musicality, and access.

This past fall, local photographer Rayford Gray documented one of Shanzell’s workshops at the University of Michigan–Flint. The workshop was part of her role as an Artist in Residence with the University Musical Society and the University of Michigan–Flint for the 2025–2026 academic year. The residency is supported by the Theatre and Dance faculty and is connected to the university’s CASE program.

The session introduced students to tap fundamentals as a rhythmic and cultural practice shaped by history, music, and lineage. Shanzell said she approached the class in the same way the form was shared with her—through mentorship, context, and a strong emphasis on listening and musicality in relationship to the elders who practiced before her. This approach mirrors the continued growth of Mindful Movement with Shanzell, which developed out of nearly two decades of teaching in schools, community programs, and arts education spaces across Michigan.

She officially launched the initiative in 2024 to create learning environments that center cultural depth, adaptability, and access while still holding high artistic standards. Teaching within a university setting through this residency has allowed her to bring those values into an academic space, connecting technique with

historical context and investigating the work more deeply throughout the residency year.

Shanzell began dance training at the age of 5 in Flint at Creative Expressions, a communitybased studio located at Berston Fieldhouse. It was one of her first points of access to dance and placed her directly within Flint’s arts community at a young age. Through that foundation, she studied with Flint tap artists as well as nationally recognized masters, including Dianne Walker, Jawole Willa Jo Zollar, and Jason Samuels Smith. Being in proximity to these artists shaped how she understands rhythm, lineage, and dance as a cultural practice—an influence that continues to guide her work today.

While tap has always been central to her practice, her training extends across multiple forms. She studied modern and contemporary dance with an emphasis on Black vernacular movement, including Dunham, Horton, Graham, and Limón techniques, along with vernacular jazz, Cecchetti ballet, and traditional West African dance. Much of this training took place during her studies at Barry University and the University at Buffalo, where working across forms helped her think more clearly about structure, musicality, and how different movement traditions speak to one another.

Practicing movement traditions connected to the African diaspora has deeply shaped how she hears music and how rhythm lives in

her body. Training across these forms taught her that rhythm is something you carry—and something that gets passed on. This understanding now guides her work, especially in how she thinks about dance, community, and responsibility to the form.

No one else in Shanzell’s immediate family danced, but her movement practice is closely connected to her family’s musical lineage, particularly through the church. Her mother has mild cerebral palsy, and advocating for her access to performance spaces influenced Shanzell’s early awareness of inclusion and equity in the arts. That sense of responsibility continues to inform how she teaches and how she designs programs.

Shanzell comes from a long line of musicians. Her grandfather was the lead singer and creative force behind The Shepherds, a gospel group that traveled nationally, recorded under several labels, and later developed their own imprint, Strawberry Vinyl Records. Her uncles were self-taught guitarists, vocalists, and songwriters, and the matriarchs in her family worked as music educators.

So while no one danced, music has always been part of Shanzell’s DNA. Growing up in the church is a significant part of her musical inheritance and continues to influence how she hears rhythm, builds phrasing, and approaches tap as both a percussive and melodic form.

The way Shanzell teaches tap reflects how the form has always traveled—person to person, teacher to student, often in borrowed spaces with little more than rhythm, time, and imagination. This exchange sits at the center of Mindful Movement with Shanzell. In class, tap becomes a conversation.

“We listen closely, respond, refine our tone and sound, and learn how to sit inside the pocket together,”

she said. “It’s a garden, really, and everyone tends the crop.

“Musicality matters. Timing is important. Presence is shared. People come in with a variety of experience levels, but everyone is asked to engage fully and trust what they hear and feel in their bodies.

“There is something deeply affirming about tap dance itself,” she added. “It was birthed by our ancestors, who learned how to create joy, language, and agency out of scarcity. Doing a lot with very little is as much a part of our history as it is ingenuity—and

many of us find renewed appreciation for those values, especially in times like these.”

Tap, she said, is a living practice that continues to resonate in real time, particularly within the traditions of the African diaspora. Students often realize how capable

THIS PAST FALL, LOCAL PHOTOGRAPHER RAYFORD GRAY DOCUMENTED ONE OF SHANZELL Q. PAGE’S MINDFUL MOVEMENT WITH SHANZELL WORKSHOPS AT THE UNIVERSITY OF MICHIGAN–FLINT. THE WORKSHOP WAS PART OF HER ROLE AS AN ARTIST IN RESIDENCE WITH THE UNIVERSITY MUSICAL SOCIETY AND THE UNIVERSITY OF MICHIGAN–FLINT FOR THE 2025–2026 ACADEMIC YEAR.

they are once they stop chasing perfection and start listening.

“What inspires me to teach is the exchange,” Shanzell said. “I feel very lucky to have this gift. Teaching keeps me in relationship with this ever-evolving tradition and with people in a way that performing alone never could. Every room is different. Every group brings its own sound, questions, and energy, and that constantly asks me to stay present and responsive.”

There’s something powerful, she said, about watching people recognize what they’re capable of once rhythm clicks and confidence follows. That moment never gets old and continues to remind her why this work matters and why it’s worth passing on.

Growing up, Shanzell watched films featuring The Nicholas Brothers, along with legends like Gregory Hines and Jimmy Slyde—history that shaped her understanding of tap dance and its connection to classic musical films and style.

“If I had to name one dancer who speaks to me most in the modern era, it would be Jason Samuels Smith,” she said. “His dancing is emotionally clear in a way that’s rare. You can hear exactly what he’s saying through his feet. His tone, phrasing, and musical choices are always intentional, and the way he listens and responds to musicians feels deeply honest.”

As a longtime student of Smith, she has witnessed his artistry not only as a performer, but also as a teacher, choreographer, and philosopher. He demands truth in movement and refuses anything less than one’s full potential—a standard rooted in lived experience and evident in everything he does.

“I also really admire tap artists like Ayodele Casel and Josette Wiggan, who pioneer their own clarity, flavor, and point of view,” she said. “That’s one of the things I love most about tap. Every dancer brings something

personal, honest, and distinctly their own.”

Shanzell describes tap as a living continuum—carrying hundreds of years of expression, style, history, and community. She considers it an honor to be part of that lineage.

“Flint’s arts community has always been shaped by visionaries and sustained by generations of artists and educators who poured care into the culture,” she said. “I’m deeply grateful to those who came before me. Their work opened pathways that allowed me to grow. My focus now is on expanding that legacy in ways that invite more people into the tradition—especially those who haven’t always seen themselves reflected in these spaces.”

The door, she emphasizes, is open. Curiosity is enough. Whether someone is new to movement or reconnecting with it, tap dance at Mindful Movement with Shanzell is meant to be a place where people can listen, move, and build their own relationship to rhythm within a supportive, community-centered environment.

To learn more, visit mindfulmovementwithshanzell.org or email Shanzell at shanzellp@ gmail.com.

February

Reading List

Books about love are especially meaningful to read in February, a month centered on connection, reflection, and warmth during winter’s quiet days. As Valentine’s Day highlights relationships in all forms, love stories invite readers to explore compassion, commitment, and emotional growth. Whether romantic, familial, or self-focused, books about love offer comfort and inspiration, reminding us of the importance of human connection while providing a cozy escape from the season’s cold..

The Wedding Veil by Kristy Woodson Harvey
Wedding Night - A Novel by Sophie Kinsella
The Wedding People by Alison Espach
Wuthering Heights by Emily Brontë
The Forget-Me-Not Library by Heather Webber

Meet Leo Second Chances Hope Awaits at the Humane Society

Leo is a 2-year-old sweetheart who’s ready to find his forever family. He is neutered, up to date on shots, and comes with an adoption fee of $50.

As you can see, Leo has already claimed his favorite comfort item — his taco stuffed animal. Whether he’s cuddling up with it or guarding it like the most important taco in the world, it’s clearly his prized possession.

Leo is currently hanging out at the Humane Society of Genesee County and would love for you to come meet him. Who knows? You might just be the purr-fect filling to his taco life.

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Adrian De La O Goodrich

High School

Grade 12

Adrian De La O is a senior Martian at Goodrich High School and a strong leader within Goodrich’s football community— from the Little Martians program through varsity. He demonstrates year-round commitment to the community, from helping care for the fields to assisting with and running events.

As a wide receiver and defensive back, Adrian overcame an injury to make a major comeback, helping lead his team to its first state championship in 2024. He remains committed to excellence both on the field and in the classroom. Adrian has taken several AP courses and is currently dual enrolled through Mott Community College. He plans to pursue a degree in Business Management and Marketing in college and is still weighing his options regarding which university he will attend. Wherever Adrian’s future may take him, it’s clear he is ready to show up, show out, and leave no crumbs.

What are your favorite classes at Goodrich High School?

Film Appreciation with Mr. Green is my favorite class so far this year. Not only does he make the class a fun experience, but it has also helped me understand different ways of storytelling and the technological growth of cinema.

Besides academics and football, are there other activities you’re involved in?

I have invested 10 years in football so far, but I’ve also spent 13 years playing baseball—both for the school and the Goodrich Thunder travel

team—and two years with Goodrich Track and Field. In my youth, I also wrestled for three years and ran with the Goodrich Run Clubs. This year, I helped coach our varsity Powder Puff team, which was a lot of fun. Every summer, we also work with our Little Martians, which is always exciting. We do a lot of community engagement as well, including running events at Good Times in Goodrich and working with our elementary students on food drives and Toys for Tots.

What motivated you to take up football?

I’ve loved football for as long as I can remember. Playing recess football with my friends really kicked off my passion for the game and for playing alongside people I considered family, and that bond never left. When I was in elementary school, I remember watching the MSU vs. U of M game and seeing Kyler Elsworth—who’s also from Goodrich—seal MSU’s victory. I was so proud of knowing where he came from and how far he went. A few years later, I went to support Davison football at Ford Field, and it was such a cool experience. I knew that with years of practice together, our Goodrich football team could experience that same excitement—and we did, with a victory in 2024. It’s not just the love of the sport or the bonds you build, but also appreciating the discipline it teaches and the opportunities it opens up down the line.

Do you have a favorite college or pro football team?

The Detroit Lions and the Denver Broncos.

I’ve spent most of my life in Michigan, so I’m loyal to the Lions, but I also lived in Colorado for a few years and really came to appreciate the Broncos’ talent as well.

How do you balance sports and academics?

It’s not easy, especially being an all-season athlete. It requires a lot of discipline. On nights when I was tired, I made sure to do my homework before eating dinner because once you hit that “food coma,” it can be hard to focus on schoolwork. It’s really about recognizing how to push yourself and acting on it accordingly.

What advice would you give to incoming freshmen?

Learn from the people ahead of you. Never quit. Your opportunity will come, and when it does, make the most of it. These are the best years of our lives!

SCAN HERE!

Do you know a standout student in athletics, academics or the arts? Nominate them to be featured in an upcoming issue!

SurfS up for Big BrotherS Big SiSterS of flint & geneSee County

Community invited to the 47th Annual Gary Haggart Bowl For Kids’ Sake, Presented by the Arby’s Foundation

Big Brothers Big Sisters (BBBS) of Flint and Genesee County invites the community to “roll into the Aloha spirit” for the 47th annual Gary Haggart Bowl For Kids’ Sake, happening February 19–22, 2026 at Galaxy Lanes in Grand Blanc. This year’s island-themed celebration, once again presented by the Arby’s Foundation, brings surf, sunshine, and community spirit to support the life-changing impact of one-to-one youth mentoring.

Bowl For Kids’ Sake is BBBS’s largest annual fundraising event, rallying families, businesses, and community teams to help Defend Potential for local youth. Every dollar raised stays local and directly supports one-to-one mentoring relationships that empower young people to achieve their biggest dreams, helping build confidence, resilience, and brighter futures. Participants collect pledges and bowl as a team with family, friends, coworkers, and/or com-

munity groups, all while enjoying the island vibes and supporting a powerful cause. No bowling experience is necessary—bowlers just need to bring enthusiasm, team spirit, and if they’re feeling festive, a grass skirt or Hawaiian shirt. For more information about the 47th Annual Gary Haggart Bowl For Kids’ Sake, to register teams or donate to the event, visit https:// secure.qgiv.com/event/47thgary haggartbowlforkidssake2026/ or contact the BBBS office at (810) 235-0617. For more information or to become an event sponsor, reach out to BBBS Director of Development George Stephens at (810) 235-7274 or gstephens@ bbbsflint.org.

Bowling timeS

Thursday, February 19: 4PM, 5PM, 6PM

Friday, February 20: 4PM, 5PM, 6PM, 7PM, 8PM

Saturday, February 21: 11AM, 12PM, 1PM, 2PM, 3PM, 4PM, 5PM, 6PM, 7PM

Sunday, February 22: 1PM, 2PM

ABout Big BrotherS Big SiSterS of flint And geneSee County (BBBS)

Big Brothers Big Sisters of Flint and Genesee County has served youth and community since 1944. With a goal to serve 500 youth annually in its oneto-one mentoring program, the organization defends the potential of youth building the biggest possible futures. Its one-to-many initiatives broaden the scope of

service and includes SchoolBased Mentoring programs in Flint Community Schools and the Genesee Intermediate School District; its Bigs in Blue program strengthening relations with law enforcement and community; and its collaborative efforts in building resiliency and mindfulness

through trauma-informed care. Big Brothers Big Sisters of Flint and Genesee County is a proud member of the United Way. For more information, contact Lisa Humphrey, President/CEO (email – lhumphrey@bbbsflint.org, phone – 810-235-0617 or visit www. bbbsflint.org.

EMBRACE THE LAYERS: The Art of Staying Warm—and Stylish!

Michigan winters demand layers, but that doesn’t mean sacrificing style. When February brings crisp air and snowy landscapes, it’s the perfect opportunity to show off your fashion sense while staying cozy. Forget bulky and boring— this year, we’re all about chic,

functional, and fun outfits that will have you looking and feeling fantastic, even when the thermometer dips.

Think of layers as an opportunity to play with textures, colors, and silhouettes.

In February, when the Great Lakes wind continues to howl,

a thoughtful mix of heavy-duty denim and feminine textures is essential. To update our “New Year, New You” Michigan Style Guide from January’s edition, let’s dive into curated fashion featuring contemporary wardrobe pieces

perfect for a brisk day in Traverse City or a snowy evening in Detroit. These winter looks strike the perfect balance between “weekend cozy” and “brunch-ready,” while also offering a sneak peek at early spring fashion trends and weddingworthy apparel for 2026 nuptials.

The “Winter Wonderland” Ensemble

This look is all about texture and sparkle. We recommend pairing unique denim with soft, romantic layers and stunning, show-stopping accents.

The Foundation: Risen Jeans

Opt for high-waisted or mid-rise, wide-leg distressed denim. These jeans have enough weight to keep you warm, with just the right amount of stretch to layer over thermal leggings when Michigan temperatures dip into the single digits.

The Layer: Sugarlips

A classic Sugarlips seamless bodysuit is the ultimate base layer. It keeps drafts out, creates a smooth silhouette under heavier knits, and carries on the cozy appeal of sweater weather.

The Statement Piece

Layer on a bouclé tweed cardigan or a plush sweater. Choose pieces that make you feel beautiful—whether it’s the color, texture, or that warm, cozy feeling against winter’s snowy backdrop. Try a pale pink eyelash texture for Valentine’s Day: soft, romantic, and eye-catching. Your statement piece can also be an accessory, such as a plush faux fur backpack for everyday essentials or a colorful mohair scarf that doubles as a wrap for chilly restaurants on date night or girls’ night out.

Outerwear That Wows: Patty Kim

Slip into a luxurious faux fur coat or vest for an added layer of

walking from the car to the café.

The Sparkle: Sahira Jewelry

Since you’ll be bundled up, let your jewelry do the talking. A stunning pair of Sahira waterproof hoops or a necklace with a beautiful locket will shine against a sweater—and won’t tarnish if kissed by falling snow.

If a vacation to a warmer destination is on your horizon, early spring trends—first seen on fall runways—are already emerging. Look for textured florals, Parisian

lace accents, dramatic hemlines, pearl-dotted trims, and playful accessories.

If a 2026 wedding is in your future and you’re the bride, shop locally at Fenton’s Ivory Loft for the very best in fashion-forward bridal couture. If you’re attending as a guest, choose a look that truly reflects you, showcasing a bold expression of your personal style. Bridal trends for 2026 highlight tech integration and immersive experiences, from QR codes for shared photo albums to chef-led

interactive food stations, dessert rooms, and cocktail-style receptions that encourage mingling over traditional plated dinners. Make sure your fashion choice allows you to feel radiant, comfortable, and ready to enjoy every unforgettable moment.

Early spring trends also include bold florals, dramatic necklines, and flowy hemlines—perfect for dancing the night away.

Shannon White is an architect, designer and fashionista – a small but mighty cheerleader of all things Flint! Holding both Bachelor of Science and Master of Architecture degrees from the University of Michigan, she is the founder of the FUNchitecture design firm and co-founder of the new she-powered Downtown Fenton retail business, SHIFT.

FEBRUARY 2026

9–23

Watercolor Painting

Presented by the Clio Center for the Arts at the Clio Center for the Arts.

Watercolor Painting: From Basics to Mastery teaches essential techniques of this beautiful and versatile medium. This class will guide participants step by step as they create a stunning painting to take home the same afternoon. Phone: (810) 547-7087

Email: office@clioart.net

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The Sleeping Beauty: International Ballet Stars

Presented by FIM at the FIM Whiting Auditorium in Flint, 7–9 PM. General admission: $35. Ballet in two acts with one intermission. Family-friendly; suitable for ages 3 and up. Tickets: https://go.evvnt. com/3370050-1?pid=91

13

Black

Violin –Full Circle Tour

Presented by FIM at the Capitol Theatre, 8 PM. Black Violin merges string arrangements with modern beats and vocals. Members Kev Marcus and Wil Baptiste were classically trained on violin and viola. Post-college, they reconvened to produce beats for South Florida rappers and began building an audience in local clubs.

Tickets start at $46 / $33 for Genesee County residents.

13–15

11th Annual Chrome & Ice™ Winter Indoor Car Show

At the Dort Financial Center, 3501 Lapeer Rd., Flint. Hosted by Back to the Bricks®, this three-day automotive spectacular never fails to impress. The 2026 edition promises another unforgettable experience featuring jaw-dropping vehicles and exciting new elements.

Also on February 14 at 1 PM: Miss Chrome & Ice™ 2026 Pageant, Flint.

15

Bridal & Wedding Show Expo

At The Palazzo Grande, 54660 Van Dyke Ave., Washington, 11 AM–3 PM. The expo features top bridal vendors, fashion walk-throughs, beauty demos, tastings, giveaways, and exclusive show-day deals.

Website: https://grilloeventmanagement.com/etn/ bridal-show/

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A Night of Worship with Jon Reddick

7 PM, at 242 Community Church, 7526 Grand River Ave., Brighton. Join us for a powerful night of worship featuring favorites such as “God, Turn It Around,” “I Believe It (The Life of Jesus),” “You Keep Hope Alive,” and his most recent #1 hit, “No Fear!”

21

American Frontiers –Flint Symphony Orchestra

At the FIM Whiting Auditorium, 1241 E. Kearsley St., Flint, 6:30 PM. Phone: (810) 238-1350

In celebration of the American Semiquincentennial, experience music reflecting the American spirit and perseverance—from the Old West to the Harlem Renaissance. Featured composers include William Grant Still, the first African American to have a symphonic work performed by a major orchestra, and Aaron Copland, a defining voice of 20th-century music.

22

Flint Motorcycle Swap Meet

9 AM–3 PM, at the Dort Financial Center, Flint. The 6th annual indoor motorcycle parts swap riders count on in Michigan. Admission: $10 per adult; ages 12 and under free. Info line: (260) 223-1409 (event organizer) Run by bikers, for bikers.

28

Indiana Jones and the Raiders of the Lost Ark –Live in Concert

Presented by FIM at The Whiting in Flint, 7:30–10 PM. Phone: (810) 237-7333

Email: info@thefim.org Website: https://tickets. thefim.org/indianajones

Upcoming

March 6

Genesis ReTouched

Presented by FIM at the Capitol Theatre, 8 PM. Genesis ReTouched recre -

ates the look and feel of a late-1980s to mid-2000s Genesis concert, when the band was at the height of its popularity. The show features hits from Genesis’s best-selling albums— Duke, Abacab, Mama, Invisible Touch, and We Can’t Dance along with select classic material. Tickets start at $40 / $30 for Genesee County residents.

HUMANE SOCIETY OF GENESEE COUNTY CELEBRATING 100

YEARS OF CARING

FOR

THE ANIMALS OF GENESEE COUNTY

Burton | 1.8.2026

BY

PROFESSIONAL PET PHOTOGRAPHER, RUFF LIFE PHOTOGRAPHY, LLC

The Humane Society of Genesee County has always had the community’s support, which is why it was no surprise to see a large turnout for the shelter’s 100year anniversary celebration on January 8. The shelter has survived 10 decades thanks to the generosity of the people and businesses of Genesee County. Because of this support, the shelter board thought a little party to thank the community, complete with a ribbon-cutting, was in order.

Attendees toured the shelter and learned about its history.

On January 8, 1926, the Humane Society of Genesee County was incorporated. There was a small business office set up inside a firehouse, but the real work happened in the people’s homes. A small group of friends, led by J. Edington Burroughs, took in animals in need in Genesee County. By 1946, the operation grew to the point that operations moved out of private homes and into a brick and mortar shelter on Dort Hwy, then to a larger structure in Burton in 1968. In 1993, shelter operations moved once more - to the site where it is currently housed on Dort Hwy., in Burton.

Fuel Your Fight: The Power of a Cancer Prevention Diet

February is National Cancer Prevention Month, a time to focus not just on surviving cancer, but on preventing it in the first place. While there’s no magic bullet that guarantees you’ll never get cancer, the foods you choose to eat—along with how well you hydrate, sleep, and manage stress—can make a real difference in lowering your risk. Let’s explore how simple lifestyle choices can help fuel your body’s natural defenses.

A Colorful Plate = A Powerful Defense

A diet rich in whole, plant-based foods is one of the strongest tools in cancer prevention. Think vibrant colors and natural goodness on your plate—that’s where antioxidants,

fiber, and phytonutrients live. These powerful compounds help protect your cells from damage that can eventually turn into cancer.

Here’s what to include:

▸ Cruciferous vegetables like broccoli, cauliflower, kale, and cabbage, which are rich in compounds shown to help slow cancer cell growth and reduce inflammation.

▸ Berries and citrus fruits, packed with antioxidants that help protect your DNA from damage.

▸ Legumes and whole grains such as lentils, beans, oats, and brown rice, which are excellent sources of fiber that support gut health and keep digestion running smoothly.

▸ Nuts and seeds, including walnuts and flaxseed, which provide healthy fats that may help lower cancer risk.

▸ Fatty fish like salmon, rich in omega-3 fats that help fight inflammation.

These foods don’t just taste good—they help your body neutralize harmful substances, lower inflammation, and keep your immune system strong.

What to Eat Less Of

Prevention isn’t just about adding nourishing foods; it’s also about cutting back on harmful ones. Try to limit:

▸ Processed and fried foods

▸ Sugary drinks and sweets

▸ High amounts of red and processed meats

These foods are linked to a higher cancer risk and can promote weight gain, another known risk factor.

Staying Hydrated: One of the Easiest Ways to Support Your Health

Water isn’t just life—it’s protection. Staying well-hydrated helps your body flush out toxins and supports every organ system, including your kidneys and digestive tract. Good hydration may even lower the risk of bladder and kidney cancers. Aim for about 8–10 glasses of water a day, or more if you’re active or live in a hot climate. A hydrated body is a healthier body—and that’s one less place for disease to take hold.

Sleep: Your Cellular Reset Button

Never underestimate the power of a good night’s sleep. Sleep is when your body repairs DNA damage, regulates hormones, and strengthens the immune system. Poor sleep has been

linked to inflammation and an increased risk of chronic diseases, including cancer. Strive for 7–8 hours of quality sleep each night and maintain a consistent bedtime routine.

Stress Less, Live More

Chronic stress triggers inflammation and hormonal imbalances that can weaken your body’s defenses. While stress can’t be completely eliminated, managing it matters. Try simple habits such as:

▸ Meditation or deep breathing

▸ Gentle movement like walking or yoga

▸ Spending time with loved ones

▸ Turning off screens at least an hour before bedtime

Reducing stress helps your body stay in balance and gives your immune system a better chance to protect you.

Your Choices Matter— Every Day

Here’s the good news: you have control over many aspects of your health. The foods you eat, how you care for your body, and the habits you build all add up. Eating a nutrientrich diet, staying hydrated, prioritizing sleep, and managing stress aren’t just “healthy choices”—they’re daily investments in your future. This National Cancer Prevention Month, let’s rethink what fuels us. Choose foods that feed your fight, habits that support your health, and routines that help you live your best life—starting today.

Dr. Shan Jackson, Owner and CEO of Healthy Just Feels Right is a certified holistic mental health and wellness specialist, book author and motivational speaker. She has a passion for nutrition and loves to cook, develop recipes and write about health and wellness. Dr. Jackson aims to help individuals and families transition to a healthier lifestyle by incorporating more fresh foods into their diets. She believes that food can play an important role in managing chronic health issues, symptoms of depression and other mood disorders without using medications that can have harmful side effects. To discover more creative and fun ways to inspire a healthier lifestyle, visit healthyjustfeelsright.com.

Saying “I do” is more than a romantic promise; it is the creation of a new legal, emotional, and financial partnership. While the trend of “yours, mine, and ours” accounts has gained popularity, there is a profound psychological and practical advantage to fully combining finances. I’ve worked with more than a hundred couples on their personal finances, and they are almost always better off by transitioning from “me” to “we.” This shift fosters transparency, simplifies goal-setting, and ensures that both partners are equally invested in their shared future.

BUILDING A UNIFIED FRONT

When a couple merges their bank accounts, they eliminate the “roommate” dynamic that can plague modern marriages. Rather than squabbling over who pays the electricity bill or buys the groceries, every dollar earned becomes a tool for the household. This level of transparency also acts as a safe-

THE POWER OF ONE

Why Combining Finances is the Foundation of a

Strong Marriage

guard against financial infidelity— the act of hiding debt or spending. By viewing all income as a single pool of resources, couples can leverage their collective strength to tackle challenges that might feel insurmountable on their own.

PRIORITIZING GROWTH AND SECURITY

Once finances are unified, the next step is aligning on a clear hierarchy of goals. Without a plan, money often disappears into the “black hole” of everyday convenience spending.

→ Aggressive Debt Repayment: High-interest debt, such as credit cards or student loans, places unnecessary strain on a marriage. Combining resources allows couples to apply debt-reduction strategies, like the “Debt Snowball,” more effectively.

months of living expenses provides peace of mind and significantly reduces household stress.

→ Long-Term Vision: Whether the goal is a down payment on a home or early retirement, having a shared “why” makes the “how”— budgeting and discipline—much easier to embrace.

THE POWER OF THE MONTHLY MONEY DATE

Combining finances is about more than just math;
trust,

it’s about

teamwork, and unity.

→ The Emergency Fund: Building a safety net of three to six

Communication is the bridge between a plan and its execution. One of the most effective habits a married couple can adopt is a Monthly Money Date. This is a dedicated, non-confrontational time—perhaps over coffee or dinner—to review the previous month’s spending and set the budget for the next.

These meetings shouldn’t feel like an audit. Instead, they are an opportunity to celebrate wins,

such as a shrinking loan balance, and to prepare for upcoming expenses like birthdays or vacations. Most importantly, they ensure that both partners—regardless of income level or comfort with numbers—have an equal seat at the table.

CONCLUSION

Combining finances is about more than just math; it’s about trust, teamwork, and unity. When couples merge their assets, prioritize shared goals, and maintain open lines of communication through regular check-ins, they transform money from a source of conflict into a powerful source of connection.

Brice Carter, CFP, ChFC, CIMA, CAP, CDAA, MSFS, has served as a Financial Advisor and the Chief Investment Officer (CIO) at Financial Strategies Group (FSG) since 2011. He joined the family run, SEC-registered firm and today plays a central leadership role in shaping investment strategy, portfolio management, and long-term planning for a growing client base. FSG has offices in Okemos and Fenton.

Viewers were excited WHEN WJRT TV-12 SIGNED ON IN 1958

From its beginnings 67 years ago, Flint’s WJRT-TV Channel 12 stood apart from the other local television stations that signed on to serve mid-Michigan in the 1950s.

Recognizing the value of owning a VHF (Very High Frequency) station in the coveted Channels 2–13 range—rather than a weaker UHF (Ultra High Frequency) signal in Channels 14–83—several major media companies competed fiercely for what would be the last opportunity to operate a VHF station serving Flint and the surrounding central Michigan region. Flint was the largest city in the United States without its own television station in 1958. As a result, there was tremendous anticipation—and massive viewership—when “Channel 12” signed on and brought the ABC Television Network to the area from studios at 2302 Lapeer Road in Flint. Coincidentally, that building had been constructed in 1954 for Flint’s first television station, WTAC-TV Channel 16, which operated for less than a year.

Detroit’s WJR-AM radio station owners, Goodwill Stations, applied for the Channel 12 license in 1952. Over the next six years, the company battled Flint’s WFDF-AM owners, Trebit Corporation, and

W.S. Butterfield Theatres for the coveted allocation. The Federal Communications Commission (FCC) ultimately carved Flint out of the Detroit television market.

Instead, Channel 12 would serve a northern and central Michigan region that included Saginaw, Bay City, Midland, Owosso, Mount Pleasant, the Thumb Area, and—initially—Michigan’s capital, Lansing. Lansing later became its own television market.

WJRT-TV Channel 12 went on the air at 5 p.m. on Oct. 12, 1958, but the FCC imposed strict operating guidelines on Goodwill Stations. For its first 10 years, Channel 12 was legally required to produce 55 hours of local programming each week—an obligation unmatched by any other local station. The station also regularly aired special news programs and locally produced features.

From 1958 through 1968, WJRT-TV produced a wide array of local shows, including Almanac, Bozo’s Big Top, Colonel Gyro from Outer Space, Folkswingers, The Late Thrill Show, Mr. Magic, Theatre of Thrills, Rae Deane and Friends, Romper Room with Miss Margie, and TV Bingo.

Station employees and local performers contributed to this lively and often inventive lineup, which greeted large audiences daily—from early mornings to late nights.

One example was Mr. Magic, hosted by Channel 12 announcer Earl Frank Cady. Cady took magic lessons specifically for the role, hosting the daily program from 1960 to 1967. Scouting, school, and church groups of children appeared on the show each after-

noon, where Mr. Magic presented cartoons, games, prizes, and magic tricks.

In 1967, Mr. Magic was replaced by Bozo’s Big Top, with Cady now donning the costume of the officially licensed Bozo the Clown. The hugely popular program—beloved by children and teens alike—aired five days a week until 1979, according to the Channel 12 Wikipedia page.

Rae Deane and Friends was another daily favorite, patterned after the nationally known Kukla, Fran & Ollie. Once again, Frank Cady operated the puppets— Montgomery Lion and Dilly Mahatmashmu—while local teacher Rae Deane served as hostess from 1961 to 1968.

Perhaps the most memorable Channel 12 program was Theatre of Thrills. Airing late Friday nights from 1963 to 1967, the show featured classic black-and-white horror, monster, and sciencefiction films produced on modest budgets from the 1930s through the 1950s. The program was hosted by the menacing “guard-

ian of the ghouls,” Christopher Coffin—a character portrayed by WJRT announcer Reed Farrell. It left a lasting impression on local viewers.

After fulfilling its 10-year programming requirement, WJRT was no longer obligated to produce extensive local entertainment shows. While this shift was a relief for some, it proved disheartening for many loyal viewers. By 1972, nearly all locally produced features had disappeared. As of 2024, WJRT-TV broadcasts approximately 37 hours of locally produced newscasts each week, according to Wikipedia. In addition to ABC network programming, the station now carries six subchannels, including MeTV, Catchy Comedy, Start TV, Heroes & Icons, Bounce TV, and MeTV Toons. Where television stations once signed off around midnight, Channel 12 now broadcasts 24 hours a day, seven days a week.

Over the years, WJRT has had several high-profile owners, including The Walt Disney Company and the ABC Television Network.

Today, WJRT-TV Channel 12 is owned by the Allen Media Group, which purchased the station for a reported $70 million in 2021.

In June 2025, Allen Media Group announced it would explore “strategic options,” including a possible sale of its television stations—WJRT among them—amid financial challenges and rising debt, according to Wiki.

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is a lifelong news guy who has worked in communications since 1972. Along the way, the Fenton, Michigan, resident and his wife Sally even worked for the Walt Disney Company. They opened and operated the Mancino’s of Fenton restaurant in 1998 and now enjoy traveling and spoiling their grandkids. Mark always appreciates your comments at MarkWRummel@gmail.com

Mark
Rummel

A Covenant That Tells a

Greater Story

My husband is a pastor and has the privilege of officiating many weddings, and I have the joy of attending many of them alongside him. It is one of my favorite parts of being a pastor’s wife.

There is something deeply moving about witnessing two people stand before God and their friends and family, entering into the sacred covenant of marriage—promising to love, honor, and cherish one another, forsaking all others, until death do they part.

Scripture reminds us of the significance of this moment:

“A man leaves his father and mother and is joined to his wife, and the two are united into one. This is a great mystery, but it is an illustration of the way Christ and the church are one.”

—Ephesians 5:31–32

The book of Ephesians reveals that marriage was God’s idea from the beginning and that it represents a profound and sacred truth. Marriage is designed to reflect the love of God revealed through His Son, Jesus Christ. A husband and wife are called to love one another sacrificially—laying down self,

extending grace, and choosing faithfulness no matter what. God’s love toward us is not something we earn or deserve. His grace and forgiveness are freely given. In the same way, we cannot expect our spouse to meet every expectation or earn our unconditional love. Instead, we are called to love freely, even when it feels undeserved. When we do, our marriages become a living representation of God’s sacrificial love—a love with the power to heal, restore, and transform lives.

As Romans 5:8 declares, “While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.”

There is something deeply moving about witnessing two people stand before God and their friends and family, entering into the sacred covenant of marriage— promising to love, honor, and cherish one another, forsaking all others, until death do they part.

We love because God first loved us. We forgive because Christ first forgave us. Imagine a world where marriages consistently reflected that kind of love— marked by grace, humility, and forgiveness—the way God always intended.

“May you experience the love of Christ, though it is too great to understand fully. Then you will be made complete with all the fullness of life and power that comes from God.”

—Ephesians 3:19

Lisa Deering is The Rock Church of Fenton Marriages Co-Director. My heart is to see people experience the transforming power of the gospel, surrender their lives to Jesus Christ, and fall in love with Scripture. My husband is a pastor at The Rock Church of Fenton, and we are incredibly blessed to be parents of three beautiful daughters, a mother-in-law to a wonderful son-in-law, and a proud grandma to one sweet grandchild (so far!).

THE 2026 ECONOMY

The 2025 economy was a mixed bag. Economic growth was strong, but job creation weakened sharply after May. Inflation fell from post-pandemic highs but remained above its pre-pandemic trend. I expect 2026 to bring more of the same. Economic growth appears likely to remain robust, with the Atlanta Federal Reserve Bank currently forecasting growth of 3%. Three percent growth exceeds the 21st-century average. However, I believe job growth will remain weak, largely due to tariffs. Most goods imported into the United States are raw materials and other inputs used by American manufacturers. Tariffs therefore raise the cost of domestic manufacturing, translating into lower profits and reduced hiring.

Manufacturing employment has declined every month since May, with the sector losing a total of 67,000 jobs over that period.

The stock market performed well in 2025, with the Dow rising 12.5% for the year despite the tariffs. I believe the market has priced in expectations that the Supreme Court will rule these tariffs unconstitutional in 2026, helping to fuel the 2025 rally. Notably, the Dow fell from over 42,000 points on April 1 to under 38,000 points on April 2, when the so-called “Liberation Day” tariffs were announced. These tariffs were quickly reduced, and a lawsuit was filed that ultimately made its way to the Supreme Court. If the Court instead rules the tariffs constitutional and investors come to expect permanently higher tariffs, the result

The Federal Reserve has backed away from its inflation fight and begun cutting interest rates again, likely in an effort to spur job creation. However, this increases the risk that inflation will rise rather than fall.

could be a stock market correction—or even a bear market.

Inflation is likely to continue running above the Federal Reserve’s 2% target in 2026. The Federal Reserve has backed away from its inflation fight and begun cutting interest rates again, likely in an effort to spur job creation. However, this increases the risk that inflation will rise rather than fall.

The $2 trillion annual budget deficit and $38 trillion national debt may also pressure the Federal Reserve to cut rates and keep them low in order to make interest payments more manageable, resulting in additional inflationary pressure.

Geopolitical events remain a significant wildcard with the potential for economic repercussions. A military conflict involving Iran or civil unrest in Venezuela following the arrest of its president could disrupt global oil production and drive prices higher. Every recession since the 1970s has been preceded by a sharp rise in oil prices. An escalation of the war in Ukraine could also cause food prices to spike, further straining the budgets of Americans already grappling with inflation. Other geopolitical flashpoints may emerge as well, with broader economic consequences.

Overall, I am cautiously optimistic about the 2026 economy. My hope is that policymakers address the deficit, scale back tariffs, and pursue diplomatic solutions to ongoing global conflicts. These steps would go a long way toward fostering a more stable and prosperous economy in 2026 and beyond.

Dr. Christopher Douglas came to the University of Michigan-Flint in 2006. He earned a B.S. in Electrical Engineering and a B.S. in Economics from Michigan Technological University in 2001, and his Ph.D. in Economics from Michigan State University in 2007. As Professor of Economics, he teaches Principles of Microeconomics, Principles of

The Wedding

Party Blues

Iremember a flurry of women around me, frantically applying makeup and hurriedly pulling on red dresses. My Aunt Candy was in the middle of it all, wearing a long white gown and a veil. My sister walked into the room carrying a basket of flowers, also wearing a long white gown—a tiny replica of Aunt Candy’s dress. I was 4 years old and brimming with joy—until suddenly, they were all gone. As I sat with my babysitter, it hit me: I was not going to be part of this “wedding” thing everyone had been talking about for months. It was years before I could look through Aunt Candy’s wedding photo album without a flood of resentment washing over me. I could have been a flower girl, you know. Plenty of people have more than one. I had been left out of many things in my early years, but this one hit a little harder than the rest. I was left out of a wedding. That’s like not getting asked to prom. For me, it was a gut punch that seemed

like it would never stop stinging.

Then something happened that rocked me so hard, I nearly forgot about Aunt Candy’s wedding.

My friend—my best friend, by the way—got married right after high school graduation, and she had the nerve to ask someone else to be her one and only bridesmaid. I wanted to be the girl standing by her side in an expensive dress so hideous I could never possibly wear it again. I wanted to catch the bouquet, forcing my boyfriend to pop the question. So many dreams shattered.

I spent much of my life making weddings about me, when that’s really never the case. It’s about the love—and not just the love between the bride and groom.

became a bride. I was in my glory. I got to wear a veil and a white gown and disappoint a younger relative who got stuck at home with a babysitter. For so much of my life, I was caught up in being a bride that I lost sight of the true outcome of that big day of glory—a marriage. It may not come as a huge surprise, but that marriage did not last.

My bridesmaid was my lifelong best friend—my grandmother. I thought it was only fitting, since she had been married in the same spot decades earlier. She was in her 70s on my wedding day, so I assumed the maid of honor role probably wasn’t the big deal to her that I had made it out to be for most of my life. But then, after the ceremony, she turned to me and said, “Thank you, Les. I was so afraid I would never be back here again.”

My day finally came. My sister asked me to be a bridesmaid— probably because she felt guilty about the whole flower girl thing years earlier. Eventually, I even

This March, I will celebrate 18 years since my second turn as a bride. There was no gown, just a short slip dress. I didn’t wear a veil because the ceremony took place on a windy beach in Key West, Florida. There was no crowd to stand and salute me as I walked down the sandy aisle; it was just me, my groom, a bridesmaid, a best man, and my mom.

I spent much of my life making weddings about me, when that’s really never the case. It’s about the love—and not just the love between the bride and groom.

An Emmy-nominated anchor/meteorologist/reporter at FOX66 and NBC25, Leslie Toldo recently retired from TV news after a career of over 30 years, nearly 20 in Flint. She is a blogger, writer, wedding and funeral officiant. Born and raised in Baton Rouge, LA, she graduated from the University of Wyoming. An avid kayaker, boater and runner, Leslie lives in Linden with her husband, Ellie the cat and three dogs: Henry, Gus and Lucy.

ONE JOURNEY AT A TIME MARKING MOMENTS, LIFE’S

Often, a significant life event is marked with a trip of some kind. Not always to a far-flung or exotic location, and not always in a way that looks impressive from the outside. Sometimes these moments are celebrated more simply, closer to home. Still, again and again, transitions and accomplishments seem to call for movement—a journey, a leaving of one place and an arrival in another.

We celebrated the last day of third grade with a quick trip to the ice cream store, ordering a banana split with extra whipped cream because that day mattered. We take a trip “up north” to celebrate the summer between

lives to celebrate, to acknowledge movement from one chapter into the next. It’s almost as if travel itself becomes a bridge, connecting who we were to who we are becoming.

Travel, then, is not just a reward for hard work or a welldeserved break. It is a gateway. A portal. A way of stepping out of the familiar so we can better understand what has changed inside us.

My husband and I spent our honeymoon on the French Riviera. We left our home in Houston and lived for a few weeks in a small furnished apartment overlooking the sea. That honeymoon existed in a kind of in-between space. We were married, but we hadn’t yet lived as a married couple. The sun-soaked days by the water and winding cobblestone streets felt like a long exhale before real life began again. We weren’t just celebrating what we had done; we were quietly becoming something new.

taurant that feels just a little too special for an ordinary night. To linger longer than usual. Even in small ways, we crave separation from the everyday to mark the moments that matter. We want to pause time, if only briefly, and say, “This was important.”

Still, there are milestones that feel too large to be contained by normal life—moments that demand a journey equal to their weight. We didn’t need to travel to the Amalfi Coast to celebrate our anniversary last year, but doing so marked the moment intentionally. Not just the joining of our lives, but the choice to keep choosing one another. To celebrate that the event still holds meaning years later.

eighth grade and high school, knowing—even then—that something is changing. Childhood is quietly slipping into something more complicated, more serious. Even if we can’t name it yet, we feel the shift.

As adults, the trips just look a little different. We go out to a fancy dinner to celebrate a raise or a new position at work. A wedding is followed by a honeymoon, and more recently, an expected baby is honored with a babymoon. Retirement is often paired with a European river cruise or a few slow days on a warm beach in Florida, Jamaica, or the Bahamas—somewhere restful after a lifetime of responsibility. Again and again, we leave our normal

Before my son was born, we took a babymoon to Hawaii. It was, of course, a celebration of the baby on his way, but it was also something else entirely. It was a last hurrah for the two of us as we were. We knew—without fully understanding it yet—that we were leaving behind being a family of two and stepping into the unknown territory of three. That trip wasn’t about beaches or sunsets. It was about transition, about pausing long enough to recognize that everything was about to change.

Not all life events require plane tickets or passports. Sometimes, the need is simply to go out—to step away from routine. To order the good bottle of wine at a res-

This year, I will turn 40. To me, this is significant. Not because 40 means I am old, or because of anything vain or dramatic, but because I am deeply aware that not everyone gets to reach this age. I have friends who never will. I have lived 40 years across two countries, eight cities, and probably thirty different houses. I have traveled more than many people and far less than others. Most importantly, I have lived long enough to understand that time is not guaranteed.

As I step into the next 40 years of my life, I want to acknowledge that. I want to honor it. And so this summer, you will find me in Mackinac—the same place my family went when I was a child to celebrate our most important moments. The destination matters, yes, but not as much as the meaning attached to it. The journey is rarely about where you go. It is about who you are before you leave, and who you become by the time you return.

Alexandria Nolan-Miller is a misplaced Michigander navigating the vibrant chaos of Houston’s urban jungle. She travels with her husband and young son, contributing her insights and experiences to various print and digital publications. As the author of historical books rooted in Michigan, Alexandria brings the past to life through her writing. When not on the road, she can be found immersed in books, teaching, sharing stories, and chasing new adventures to inspire her next piece.

Gateways presents more than 80 artworks in a wide range of media from the collection of arts administrator, curator, and collector Eric Key. This exhibition features works by artists such as Jacob Lawrence, Schroeder Cherry, Reginald Gammon, Renée Stout, and Delita Martin, among many others. Together, the artworks explore themes of identity, resilience, spirituality, history, and the power of representation, offering a layered look at the Black experience in America.

Delita Martin, Let Me Breathe (detail), 2020, Relief Print, 36 x 24 inches. Eric Key Collection, © Delita Martin.
GATEWAYS: African American Art from the Key Collection is organized and toured by International Arts & Artists.

THE SEASON WHERE DREAMS TURN INTO PLANS

Who doesn’t like making plans for something fun? Whether it’s a night out with your closest friends or significant other to celebrate Valentine’s Day, a child’s birthday party, a Caribbean cruise, a weekend getaway with family, or even a wedding, planning joyful moments gives us something to look forward to. The cold days of February give us the perfect excuse to cozy up by the living room fireplace, scroll through ideas on our phones or tablets, and begin dreaming about what the rest of the year could hold. Often overlooked, February is actually the perfect month to plan the most meaningful events of the year.

February invites reflection. Life slows just enough to allow room for intention, creativity, and thoughtful decision-making. With fewer outdoor distractions and social obligations, people are more focused, more present, and more willing to dream. It’s a month that naturally encourages connection—with ourselves and with those we love—making it an ideal time to envision celebrations that bring people together.

Valentine’s Day, celebrated in February, sets the tone beautifully. At its core, Valentine’s Day is about love in all its forms: romantic love, friendship, family, and even self-love. It reminds us that relationships deserve time, effort, and celebration. Many couples become engaged around Valentine’s Day, inspired by its message of commitment and affection. Even for those not planning a wedding, the holiday encourages meaningful conversations, intentional time together, and small gestures that often spark ideas for future gatherings worth planning.

February planning naturally leads into thoughts of upcoming celebrations, such as St. Patrick’s Day in March. While often associated with parades and green attire, St. Patrick’s Day holds deeper meaning rooted in heritage, faith, resilience, and community.

It serves as a reminder of the importance of honoring traditions and gathering with others to celebrate shared history. Events with true meaning—whether cultural, spiritual, or personal—often begin with reflection, something February offers in abundance.

For couples planning a wedding, February is an especially powerful time to begin. Vendors are often more available, calendars are still open, and there’s time to make thoughtful decisions without pressure. Couples can use this month to discuss their vision, values, and priorities. Is the wedding about intimacy or grandeur? Faith or tradition? Family or adventure? Answering these questions early helps create a celebration that truly reflects who they are.

Practical planning tips include setting a realistic budget, choosing a season that fits your lifestyle, and booking key vendors early. February is also ideal for organizing guest lists, exploring venues, and gathering inspiration for décor, attire, and menus. Planning during a quieter season allows for clarity rather than urgency.

For guests, February is a reminder to be thoughtful and prepared. Responding to invitations promptly, planning travel early, and showing up with presence and joy are meaningful ways to support loved ones during their milestones.

In the greater Flint area, February still offers opportunities to gather—from winter festivals and theater productions to community fundraisers and cozy local dining experiences. These moments often inspire larger celebrations later in the year, all thoughtfully planned during winter’s calm.

Ultimately, February is not just a waiting period for spring—it’s a season of intention. It’s when ideas take shape, dreams become plans, and love is placed at the center of what’s to come.

Choosing where to have your baby is a major decision. At Hurley, we’re trusted with over 3,000 births a year, offering everything you need for peace of mind. We’re proud to be named as a Level 3 maternal care verified facility from The Joint Commission, with the capability to care for very complex maternal conditions. HurleyMC.com

Choosing where to have your baby is a major decision. At Hurley, we’re trusted with over 3,000 births a year, offering everything you need for peace of mind. We’re proud to be named as a Level 3 maternal care verified facility from The Joint Commission, with the capability to care for very complex maternal conditions. HurleyMC.com

February 28 at 7:30pm

Whiting Auditorium

Coming Up

Feb 13 Flint School of Performing Arts FSPA Faculty Concert

Brittany DeYoung, harp

Feb 13-15 Flint Repertory Theatre

New Works Festival

Feb 13 Black Violin - Full Circle Tour

Feb 18 Flint Under the Stars

Local Flint Legends

Kinetic Stereokids & Billy O’Neill of Oh My God

Feb 21 Flint Symphony Orchestra American Frontiers

Feb 28 Indiana Jones and the Raider of the Lost Art™ Live in Concert with the Flint Symphony Orchestra

Mar 4 Flint Repertory Theatre Ghost Light Cabaret

Women Who Rock

Mar 6 Genesis ReTouched

Mar 7 Curious George: The Golden Meatball

Score by John Williams

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