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editor Beth Andrews art direction Brooks Graphic Design The Tuscaloosa Bridal Directory is a unique Directory full of useful information about planning your wedding. It includes checklists of what to do when, lists of who pays for what, and facts about invitations, announcements and much more.

Your Wedding Day is very special and we encourage you to use professionals like those you will find in the Directory. When contacting those professionals listed in the Directory, let them know how you found them.

Finally, please let us hear from you—your comments will help us provide a better service to you and others in the future.

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The Tuscaloosa Bridal Directory, Issue 46 Fall/Winter 2011–2012, P.O. Box 530892, Birmingham, AL 35253, 205-871-6322 or info@tuscaloosabridaldirectory.com.

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Etiquette Grooming the Groom Musical Menu How To Cut a Wedding Cake Wedding Expenses The Perfect Wedding Toast Feature Wedding/ Tuscaloosa Bride Groom’s Checklist Marriage License Wedding Planner Setting Your Budget Coming Home Checklist Directory of Services Newspaper Requirements Entertainment Trends How to Address Invitations Friday & Sunday Weddings Reception Checklist Stationery Wardrobe Divorced Parents The Grand Hotel

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Addressing Formal Invitations Today

by Andrea Watson, The Fine Hand: Calligraphy, Etc.

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very issue of the Tuscaloosa Bridal Directory contains an excellent guide on “How to address invitations.” It is, however, necessarily brief, and inevitably questions arise as individual cases present themselves. Though formal wedding invitations maintain a sense of tradition, life in twenty-first century America has given rise to many changes in family life and nomenclature. Your guest list will have many variants from the usual Mr. and Mrs. As a calligrapher I have made a study over the years of correct traditional forms and contemporary practices. Following are a few special cases that should help you avoid common errors.

When a married woman retains her maiden name, the invitation should have her name first, followed by the word and and the name of her spouse. The and indicates that this is a married couple: Ms. Mary Elizabeth Jones and Mr. Steven Smith Married couples using professional honorifics who share the same last name: Both are doctors: Drs. Kathryn Anne and William Edward Coates or The Doctors Coates If she is a doctor and he is not: Dr. Kathryn Anne Coates and Mr. William Edward Coates If she retains her maiden name: Dr. Kathryn Anne Turner and Mr. William Edward Coates Unmarried persons whose invitation will be sent to one address should have their names on separate lines: Dr. Kathryn Anne Turner Mr. Steven James Smith

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Using Mrs. with a woman’s given name is poor form. Whether married, widowed, or divorced, a woman should be Ms. Mary Smith or Mrs. John Smith. The Mrs. comes with the man’s name. If a divorced woman retains her ex-husband’s surname and wishes to continue to use the honorific Mrs. it should be followed by her maiden surname and her former husband’s surname. If Mary and John Smith divorce, she may correctly be Ms. Mary Smith or Mrs. Jones Smith, but never Mrs. Mary Smith.

When using first names, it’s ladies first: Mary and John Smith. This isn’t merely etiquette, it logically keeps the man’s name together.

When children are invited you will need to know their ages and sexes to list them properly. Age is a factor in deciding whether they should be sent separate invitations. The contemporary custom of giving surnames to girls as well as boys creates confusion. Note that double envelope sets make this somewhat easier, as children’s names can be listed on the inner envelope. Single envelopes can’t support more than two lines for names, so unless the children are of the same sex, separate invitations become a necessity.

There are bound to be other special cases that are real stumpers. An experienced calligrapher can help you sort these out while maintaining good form.

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Grooming the Groom

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hatever the style and degree of formality you choose for your wedding, there are a few key points to keep in mind regarding fit when ordering formalwear for groom and groomsmen. Shirts, whether pleated front panels or traditional smooth-fronted ones, should fit snugly around the neck. The bottom hem of the pants should touch the top of the shoes.

Jackets should fit snugly, but comfortably with some room at the waist. Sleeves should end at the wrist bone with the same number of shirt buttons showing. Vents on the sides of the jacket should lay smoothly and follow bodylines. The collar should hug the neck and the lapels shouldn’t buckle.

With all the attention given to the men’s clothes, an important detail that is sometimes

overlooked is the groomsmen’s hair. Men are generally more casual about haircuts than women, but they should be sure to get a trim two weeks before the wedding to add the finishing touch to their wedding finery.

A Groom’s Glossary Tails: The ultimate formal attire, which should only be worn after 6 p.m., this ensemble features a winged-collar tuxedo shirt, ascot or bow tie, vest, tuxedo trousers and tailcoat. The full-dress ensemble comes in black, midnight blue, or grey, with a white shirt and matching or all white accessories.

Tuxedo: Either single or double-breasted, this formal suit has satin shawl or notched lapels. Matching pants sport a satin stripe down the pant-legs. Tailored in silk, mohair, wool or blend, in black, grey, ivory or white, tuxedos come in a range of styles sure to suit any taste.

Vest: This is often referred to as a waistcoat and comes in single- or double-breasted styles easily worn with nearly any tuxedo ensemble. With the open back vest, a band goes around the neck and another is fastened across the back. Tails, strollers, white-tie and director’s suits require a different style of vest.

White tie: Worn only to the most formal evening weddings, this ensemble consists of a black tailcoat and black tuxedo trousers with a white bow tie, winged-collar shirt and white vest.

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Musical Menu

A Musical Menu for Marching Down the Aisle

For the Procession Down the Aisle • “Air on the G String,” Bach: contemplative, passionate.

• “Allegro” from The Water Music, Handel: jaunty, uplifting ditty.

• “Andante” from String Quartet in A Minor, Op. 29, Schubert: tender theme from the opera Rosamunde.

• “Andante” from Piano Concerto No.21 K.467, Mozart: used in the movie Elvira Madigan.

• “Arioso” from Cantata 156, Bach: nice, lessused substitute for “Air on the G String.”

• “Bridal Chorus” from Act III of Lohengrin, Wagner: “Here Comes the Bride.”

• “Canon in D,” Pachelbel: melodious round that keeps growing and growing.

• “The Four Seasons,” Vivaldi: various movements that provide uplifting, classic touch.

• “Jesu, Joy of Man’s Desiring,” Bach: simple, swirling and sentimental.

• “Largo” from the opera Xerxes, Handel: slow, moving melody that builds to majestic climax.

• “Nocturne” from String Quartet No. 2, Borodin: passionate tune in the show Kismet.

• “Romanza” from Eine Kleine Nachtmusik, Mozart: nothing more beautiful than this stately melody.

• “See, The Conquering Hero Comes” from the oratorio Judas Maccabeus. Handel: bold tune. Perfect for the unabashed bride who idolizes her groom.

• “Sheep May Safely Graze,” Bach: a heart tugger.

• “Traumerie” from Kinderscene, Schumann: dreamy.

• “Trumpet Tune,” Purcell, “Trumpet Voluntary in D,” Jeremiah Clarke: regal Baroque fanfares.

• “Vocaluse,” Rachmaninoff: gorgeous love song with a hint of tragedy.

For the Recessional • “Hornpipe” from The Water Music, Handel: noble Baroque tune.

• “Ode to Joy,” Beethoven: solemnity meets hope.

• “Rondeau,” Jean Joseph Mouret: theme from PBS’s Masterpiece Theatre.

• “Wedding March” from Midsummernight’s Dream, Mendelssohn: a joyous conclusion to start the rest of your lives together.

• “Hallelujah Chorus,” by Handel: if you really want to make a statement!

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How to Cut a Wedding Cake

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he most important info is to (1) remove the top tier which is usually saved and (2) obviously remove the topper and any other non-edible decorations, then (3) start from the top and work your way down the cake.

The first step is to use the right knife. Always use a sharp, thin knife. The cuts should be made by first inserting the knife straight down into the cake, and then by pulling the knife at an angle toward the outer edge. Before the next cut, wipe the knife clean with a damp cloth.

1. Start from the top by removing the 6" tier, which is usually the bride and groom’s cake to be saved.

2. Work from any side to cut a horizontal line about two inches from the outer edge of the tier.

3. Slice from right to left to make vertical cuts about one inch apart, until the entire row has been sliced.

4. Cut another horizontal line two inches from the new edge, and slice this row.

5. Repeat until the entire tier has been cut.

6. You should produce five rows in the 10" tier.

7. Move to the 14" and repeat the process for seven rows.

Three-Tiered Round Cake

Heart and Oval Cakes

Finally, if there are more than 3 tiers, remove the tiers before cutting to avoid having the tiers slip off while cutting.

General Guidelines

1. Start from the top by removing the 6" tier, which is usually the bride and groom’s cake to be saved.

2. Cut a circle about two inches from the outer edge of the 10" tier.

3. Work from this circle and make vertical cuts about one inch apart, until the ring is completely sliced.

4. Use the same starting procedure and cut another two-inch ring, again slicing into one-inch pieces.

5. Repeat the procedure until the tier is completed; then repeat entire process on 14" tier until all the cake has been served.

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Heart and oval shaped cakes are cut in a similar fashion as square and rectangular cakes.

Hexagonal and Petal Cakes Hexagonal shaped and petal shaped cakes are cut up in the same way as for round cakes.

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Wedding Expenses—Who Pays?

The bride’s family is entirely responsible for the wedding ceremony. The groom’s family may offer to share in the cost of the reception, and the bride’s family may accept, if they wish. By tradition, wedding costs are divided as follows:

The Bride (or family) pays for: m Invitations and Announcements m The Bridal Outfit and Trousseau m Bridal Photographs/Video m All Costs of the Reception m Flowers for the Church, Attendants and Reception m Music at the Church and Reception m Sexton, Organist and Choir Fees m Bridesmaids’ Luncheon

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The Groom (or family) pays for: m Bride’s Engagement and Wedding Rings m Marriage License m Clergyman’s Fee ($10–$100, inquire) m Bride’s Flowers m Boutonnieres, Gloves, Ties for Men of Wedding Party

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Wedding Gift for the Bride Complete Wedding Trip or Honeymoon Expenses m Gifts for Best Man and Ushers m Lodging (if necessary) for Out-of-town Ushers m

Optional Expenses: m Bride’s Bouquet, usually gift of the groom, may be purchased by the bride’s family m Corsages for mothers and grandmothers are usually provided by the groom, may be purchased by the bride for her mother and grandmother m Bachelor Dinner is usually given by groom or family, but may be given by the bride’s family or friends m Rehearsal Dinner is usually given by the groom or family, but may be given by the bride’s family or friends m Attendants’ Dresses are usually bought by each girl, but the bride may provide them, if she wishes

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The Perfect Wedding Toast

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erious, humorous, or poignant, toasts are an integral part of almost every wedding celebration. Every toast is different, and on such a special occasion, many will be eager to share their sentiments. You’re not alone if you fear public speaking, but at your best friend’s wedding, you’re bound to want to say a few words in her (or his) honor. If you’re truly prepared to speak in front of people, you’ll find it’s much easier to let the words flow.

Here are some tips to help you get ready: The best toasts are those that are heartfelt.

So start by pouring your heart out. List everything you want people to know about your friends. (Remember to talk about both the bride and the groom in your toast.)

Start with the best qualities. Include memories of good times together—especially the first time they spoke of their beloved. Scribble some thoughts about what makes them a great couple and your wish for their future.

You have two audiences. One is the bride and groom, and you can make them happy by not saying anything that would cause them embarrassment. Your other audience is the assembly of friends and family. Stories of drunken revels and bad relationships may be appropriate at the bachelor(ette) party, but not at the wedding reception!

A toast is a speech. It should have a beginning, a middle, and an end, and make sense throughout. When you stand up to speak, it’s best to have a single card with a few notes written down to help you remember the key points. Rehearse before the big day.

Many wedding toasters aim for lyricism in song or rhyming poetry. That’s a great idea, if it’s you. But a direct, from-the-heart talk works well also. Be sincere and be yourself.

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is to open with a joke. One of the classic rules of wedding toasting is to end by tugging on the heartstrings. If you can’t be sentimental at a wedding, where can you be? On the other hand, while a couple of well-placed jokes can win the crowd, you’re not there to do a stand-up routine.

A toast should last no longer than three minutes, which translates to no more than five double-spaced pages. Rehearse your toasts with a stopwatch. If it’s five minutes or under, don’t worry, since under the glare of the spotlight, you may speak faster.

At the Rehearsal Dinner, the first toast is made by the dinner’s host, usually the groom’s father, during the main course. The toast is often met by a “return toast” from the bride’s father. Then it’s open season—the mothers of the bride and groom, the best man and maid/matron of honor, other wedding attendants, family, and close friends.

The Groom’s Toast: Keep it short. Be sincere. Thank everyone for coming, including your parents and hers. Share a brief personal (not too personal) story of experiences shared with your bride, but don’t tell embarrassing stories or go on and on. Turn to your bride and look her in the eye, tell her how proud you are to be her husband, how happy you are today, and how much you love her!

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GROOM’S CHECKLIST

THR EE TO T W ELV E M O NTHS B EFO R E W E D D IN G

 Set budget and division of financial obligations  Buy engagement ring  Choose best man and ushers (one usher per 50 guests)  Set appointment with clergyman  Furnish family guest list to fiancée  Plan honeymoon with fiancée (check passports and visas, if necessary)  Order bride’s flowers  Order mother’s flowers  Plan correct formal attire with fiancée and groomsmen  Make reservations for rehearsal dinner  Take dance lessons

T WO M O NTHS B EFO R E W E D D IN G

 Select your wardrobe for honeymoon  Select wedding rings with fiancée  Choose gifts for ushers and best man  Select bride’s gift  Reserve limousine and/or special transportation

O NE M O NTH B EFO R E W E D D IN G  Arrange all needed insurance and review legal/medical/religious documents  Arrange lodging and transportation for out-of-town guests  Have medical examination and blood test

T WO W EEK S TO O NE DAY B EFO R E W E D D IN G DAY

 Get marriage license  Provide final guest count for rehearsal dinner to caterer or restaurant  Arrange for clergyman’s fee  Plan bachelor dinner or party with best man  Pick up wedding bands  Pack for honeymoon

BEST MAN’S CHECKLIST  Take charge of ushers  Be responsible for wedding rings  Be responsible for clergyman’s fee

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 Be responsible for license  Check on all travel arrangements for honeymoon  Prepare to toast bride and groom

MARRIAGE LICENSE

T USC A LO OSA CO U NT Y M A R R I AGE L I CENSE R EQ U IR EM ENT S 1. You must be at least 18 years old.

2. If you are under the age of 18, both parents must come in and sign the application, as well as a Marriage Bond. We MUST see the parent’s driver’s license and the minor’s certified birth certificate issued from the Health Department in the last 30 days.

3. YOU MUST HAVE: a. Driver’s License; State issued Non-driver’s license or a passport for identification. b. Social Security cards are required if you have a social security number. c. If you do not have a social security number, a notarized affidavit attesting to the fact that you were never issued and/or have never had a social security number must be submitted at the time you purchase your marriage license. d. Divorce decrees if either party has been divorced or death certificate if spouse is deceased. e. $44.00 CASH for the license. (Checks, debit cards or credit cards NOT ACCEPTED.) f. $15.00 more if you are getting married here by the Judge of Probate.

TOTAL $59.00 CASH 4. If you are interested in being married here, you must call that morning to make sure someone will be here to marry you. We DO NOT make appointments!

5. Blood tests are NOT required!

6. Marriage licenses are valid for 30 days in the State of Alabama. That means once the license is issued to you, you must get married within 30 days. The license is void after 30 days and valid ONLY in Alabama. You may purchase your license in any county in Alabama. It is not required that you buy it in the county where you are to be married.

TUSCALOOSA COUNTY COURTHOUSE Monday – Friday 8:30 a.m. – 5:00 p.m.

(4:15 if applying for license) Marriage Clerk: 349-3870, Extension #204 Wedding Checklists

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THR EE TO T W ELV E M O NTHS B EFO R E W E D D IN G

 Determine budget with parents / number of guests  Create a website for your wedding  Type of wedding (very formal, formal, semi-formal)  Date, time and place for ceremony  Visit officiating clergy for consultation  Choose bridal consultant if desired  Type of reception  Reserve facility for reception  Wedding dress  Bridal attendants  Attendants’ dresses and mothers’ gowns  Guest list  Wedding invitations and announcements / calligrapher if desired  Thank you and personal stationery  Choose photographer and videographer  Registry for gifts: china, silver, crystal patterns  Buy a wedding album, gift and guest record file  Find a new home and plan furnishings  Start your make-up lessons, skin care, hairstyling program  Start workout program with personal trainer  Ceremony and reception music  Take dance lessons  Order flowers  Make appointment for pre-marital examination  Consult caterer  Discuss honeymoon with groom

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 Check state requirements for marriage license  Order wedding and groom cake  Address and mail invitations  Arrange for display of gifts  Wedding gown fittings  Attendants’ gown fittings  Shop for trousseau  Coordinate men’s formalwear attire  Select attendants’ and groom’s gifts

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O NE M O NTH B EFO R E W E D D IN G

 Mail invitations  Have programs printed  Set appointment to have make-up and hairstyling for portrait  Check groom on wedding ring(s)  Final fitting of wedding dress and all gowns  Have wedding portrait taken  Send portrait to newspapers  Complete arrangements for reception  Arrange transportation and accommodations for out-of-town guests  Arrange for moving (if necessary)  Arrange for party rental equipment  Arrange transportation to ceremony and reception  Arrange for your joint or new checking accounts  Have all charge accounts changed / change of address to post office  Acknowledge each gift as it arrives  Arrange for insurance on wedding gifts  Arrange for yoga class to help with stress from the above  Arrange for preservation of bridal bouquet

T WO W EEK S TO O NE DAY B EFO R E W E D D IN G DAY

 Arrange final seating for the reception  Write toasts for rehearsal dinner  Check all gowns and accessories / break in wedding shoes at home  Complete trousseau and going away clothes  Write checks to vendors, put in envelope and give to Best Man to pass out  Give caterer final estimate of attendance at reception  Discuss specific shots with photographer  Make arrangements with Best Man to return tuxedo rentals  Present gifts at and attend bridesmaid’s luncheon  Arrange any last minute transportation  Put all wedding clothes in one place  Arrange wedding day time schedule  Get lots of beauty rest

W E D D IN G DAY

 Relax – Have a leisurely breakfast  Take time to bathe and dress leisurely  Make-up by an artist, manicure, hair styled  Leave all details to those responsible  This is your day – Enjoy!

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SETTING YOUR BUDGET

There are many details to investigate before signing any contractual agreements for your wedding services. Once you’ve checked off the items listed below and made your decisions, get in writing everything you expect.

BUDGET

EST.COST

Stationery $________ ________ Invitations ________ Announcements ________ Thank you Notes ________ Reply Cards ________ At-home Card ________ Monogrammed Napkins ________ Matches ________ Photography $________ ________ Formal Portraits ________ Engagement ________ Wedding ________ Wedding Album ________ Parent’s Album ________ Extra Prints ________ Videography $________ ________ Reception $________ ________ Food ________ Beverage ________ Wedding Cake ________ Groom’s Cake ________ Gratuities and Taxes ________ Valet Parking ________ Officer ________ Music $________ ________ Wedding ________ Reception ________ Soloist ________ Bridal Attire $________ ________ Dress ________ Headpiece and Veil ________ Undergarments ________ Jewelry ________ Shoes ________ Trousseau ________ Garter ________ Preservation-Gown ________ Hair Stylist ________ Nails ________ Wedding Consultant $________ ________

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BUDGET

EST.COST

Transportation $________ ________ Limousines ________ Carriage, etc. ________ Parking ________ Wedding Parties $________ ________ Bridal Luncheon ________ Rehearsal Dinner ________ Out-of-town Guests ________ Fees $________ ________ Church/Synagogue ________ Officiant ________ Assistants (cantors, altar boys) ________ Gifts $________ ________ Maid of Honor ________ Best Man ________ Bridesmaids ________ Groomsmen ________ Other ________ Flowers $________ ________ At Ceremony ________ Bridal Bouquet ________ Attendants’ ________ (male, female) ________ Mothers’ Corsages ________ Reception ________ Miscellaneous $________ ________ Bird Seed Bags ________ Hotel Accommodations ________ (for out-of-town guests) ________ Honeymoon $________ ________ Transportation ________ Accommodations ________ Daily Allowance ________ Total Budget

$ _________________

Total Est. Cost

$ _________________

Typical Breakdown of Wedding Expenses Reception Costs Clothes and Gifts Ceremony Costs Photography Invitations & Stationery Miscellaneous

30% 30% 11% 11% 6% 12%

COMING HOME

 Notify parents and family you are home, Don’t forget to thank them for their cooperation.  Finish sending thank-you notes.  Check your wedding gifts. If you have duplicates or ones that don’t fit your taste, return them immediately.  Select your wedding photographs.  Change all previous addresses such as driver’s licenses, charge cards, insurance policies, etc.

 Notify business associates.  Discuss with each other and lawyer the need for insurance such as homeowner, jewelry and maternity benefits on your medical insurance.  Work up a budget on a weekly and monthly basis.  Invite parents to dinner.  Have a party inviting groomsmen and bride’s attendants. Show them the wedding and honeymoon photographs.

CHANGING YOUR NAME Following is a list of whom to inform and what to modify when your name changes.  Driver’s License

 Lending Institutions

 Auto Registration & Title

 Medical/School records

 Auto Insurance

 Wills

 Social Security Card

 Accountant

 Credit Cards

 Securities Broker

 Checking/Savings Accounts

 Leases with Landlord

 Health Insurance Policies

 Library Card

 Life Insurance Policies

 Voter Registration Card

 Telephone Number & Listing

 Organization Memberships

 Post Office

 Passport

 Charge Accounts

 Safe Deposit Box

 Income Tax Deduction Status with Employer

 Magazine/Newspaper Subscriptions

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Directory of Services

bakers A CUTTING EDGE CATERERS www.acuttingedgecatering.com . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 633-1032 GIGI’S CUPCAKES 1800 McFarland Blvd. E., Suite 434. . . . . . . . . . . 343-0311 TuscaloosaAL@gigiscupcakesusa.com IT TAKES THE CAKE BAKERY & CATERING 2210 B 9th Avenue, Northport. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 758-5008 MARY’S CAKES & PASTRIES, LLC 412-B 22nd Avenue, N’port. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 345-8610 www.maryscakesandpastries.com ONE STOP WEDDINGS & PARTIES 3076 McFarland Blvd. W.. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 349-2062 Kathie Simpson . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 799-3695 beauty/health BRITTANY BENTON MASSEY Freelance Hair & Makeup Artist . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 835-6415 BrittanyKbenton@gmail.com THE LASER SKIN CENTER 2810 Lurleen B. Wallace Blvd.. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 333-7670 www.thelaserskinctr.com bridal/formal apparel/ formalwear BEAUTY MARK, INC. 1621 Skyland Blvd, East. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 556-2005 www.shopbeautymark.com BURCH & HATFIELD FORMAL SHOPS, INC. 1810 University Blvd. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 759-1466 2623 McFarland Blvd. East . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 366-0077 CLASSY THREADS 900 Skyland Blvd. E., McFarland Mall, Ste. 4. . . 562-8776 www.classythreadsbridalandformal.com LA SHEA 1004 7th Avenue . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 435-2262 LADY IN LACE 410 Downtown Plaza. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 349-5223 SASH – A BRIDESMAID’S BOUTIQUE 1653 McFarland Blvd. N., Suite F-2 . . . . . . . . . . . 344-4033 (located within Part Two) www.shop-sash.com bridal luncheon / shower / rehearsal dinner venues CHUCK’S FISH 508 Greensboro Avenue. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 248-9370 www.chucksfish.com . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 799-1720 THE CYPRESS INN RESTAURANT 501 Rice Mine Road North . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 345-6963 www.cypressinnrestaurant.com MARY’S CAKES & PASTRIES, LLC 412-B 22nd Avenue, N’port. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 345-8610 www.maryscakesandpastries.com 44

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SOUTHERN HOUSE & GARDEN 15308 Shepard Park Road www.SouthernHouseAndGarden.com. . . . . . . . 345-5765 bridal registry ANNA KATE & CO. 80 McFarland Boulevard, Suite 7. . . . . . . . . . . . . . 349-2206 HUDSON-POOLE JEWELERS 1111 Greensboro Avenue . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 752-5535 MATT CLINTON DESIGNS 705 Paul Bryant Drive . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 464-0488 www.mattclintondesigns.com RHUBARB’S 422 Main Avenue. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 343-1933 calligrapher THE FINE HAND CALLIGRAPHY, ETC. Andrea Watson. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 553-2715 findhand13@bellsouth.net caterers A CUTTING EDGE CATERERS www.acuttingedgecatering.com . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 633-1032 THE CYPRESS INN RESTAURANT 501 Rice Mine Road North . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 345-6963 www.cypressinnrestaurant.com IT TAKES THE CAKE BAKERY & CATERING 2210 B 9th Avenue, Northport. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 758-5008 ONE STOP WEDDINGS & PARTIES 3076 McFarland Blvd. W.. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 349-2062 Kathie Simpson . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 799-3695 SOUTHERN HOUSE & GARDEN 15308 Shepard Park Road www.SouthernHouseAndGarden.com. . . . . . . . 345-5765 entertainment & music CRESCENT MOON TALENT, INC. www.cmoonent.com. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 800-666-0098 TOTAL ENTERTAINMENT www.TotalEntertainmentEvents.com. . . . . . . . . . 750-0539 event lighting TOTAL ENTERTAINMENT TotalEntertainmentEvents.com . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 750-0539 event planning DREAMS CREATED BY K. CRAWFORD K. Crawford . . . . . . . . . . dreamsbyk@aol.com / 393-0134 JESTER’S FLOWERS 2515 University Blvd. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 752-9661 www.jestersflowers.com MATT CLINTON DESIGNS 705 Paul Bryant Drive . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 464-0488 www.mattclintondesigns.com SCOT WEDGEWORTH www.scotwedgeworth.com . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 834-7670

SOUTHERN HOUSE & GARDEN 15308 Shepard Park Road www.SouthernHouseAndGarden.com. . . . . . . . 345-5765 SPECIAL EVENTS – A GAME DAY TENTS CO. 1419 22nd Avenue. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 469-0105 www.SpecialEventsAL.com fitness/group training ABSOLUTE FITNESS 1351 McFarland Blvd. NE. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 759-1444 absolutefitnesstuscaloosa.com . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 242-1349 floral preservation MEMORIES – FLOWER PRESERVATION Lynn Morgan . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 242-7428 www.memories-flowerpreservation.com florist AMY’S FLORIST 4521 Longview Drive . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 345-2242 www.amystheflorist.com BAMA BLOSSOMS 1006 7th Avenue . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 345-7155 www.BamaBlossoms.com BEAUTY MARK, INC. 1621 Skyland Blvd, East. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 556-2005 JESTER’S FLOWERS 2515 University Blvd. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 752-9661 www.jestersflowers.com MATT CLINTON DESIGNS 705 Paul Bryant Drive . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 464-0488 www.mattclintondesigns.com SCOT WEDGEWORTH www.scotwedgeworth.com . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 834-7670 SOUTHERN HOUSE & GARDEN 15308 Shepard Park Road www.SouthernHouseAndGarden.com. . . . . . . . 345-5765 SUE’S FLOWERS – Tyric Humphryes 405 Main Avenue, N’port. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 758-2100 guest accommodations CAPSTONE HOTEL 320 Paul Bryant Drive . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 752-3200 www.capstonehotel.com COURTYARD & FAIRFIELD INN by MARRIOTT 4115 Courtney Drive. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 750-8384 www.marriott.com HILTON GARDEN INN 800 Hollywood Blvd.. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 722-0360 www.tuscaloosa.hgi.com horse & carriage service MALLISHAM’S GLASS SLIPPER CARRIAGE TOURS . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 752-3771 Ben & Eddie Mallisham. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 345-8496

invitations ANNA KATE & CO. 80 McFarland Boulevard, Suite 7. . . . . . . . . . . . . . 349-2206 BEAUTY MARK, INC. 1621 Skyland Blvd, East. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 556-2005 KYLE OFFICE SUPPLY 908 Queen City Avenue.. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 722-2291 www.KyleFineStationery.com jewelry BEAUTY MARK, INC. 1621 Skyland Blvd, East. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 556-2005 DUET ART AND JEWELRY 2113 B University Blvd. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 758-5388 www.duet-artandjewelry.com HUDSON-POOLE JEWELERS 1111 Greensboro Avenue . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 752-5535 www.HudsonPoole.com lighting design TOTAL ENTERTAINMENT www.TotalEntertainmentEvents.com. . . . . . . . . . 750-0539 limousine service CROWN LIMOUSINE 521 30th Avenue, N’port. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 758-3875 www.crown-limo.com. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .1-888-353-5466 PRESTIGE LIMOUSINE SERVICE www.prestigelimotuscaloosa.net.. . . . . . . . . . . . . . 331-0477 pfields4@bellsouth.net. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 333-9879 music SOUTHEASTERN MUSIC GALLERY 5500 Old Montgomery Hwy. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 345-1414 musicians BRIGHTER DAY - COUNTRY BLUEGRASS BAND www.facebook.com/brighterdaybluegrass . . . . . 339-9046 CHASE EVAN MUSIC. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 792-1301 www.chaseevan.com. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 454-8427 CRAIN SISTERS – HARPIST AND VIOLINIST crainsnest8@bellsouth.net . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 393-6407 www.crainsnestband.com. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 799-1416 HARPIST—WEDDING AND RECEPTIONS Mary Beth Cavert . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 345-6777 THE LAMB FAMILY VIOLIN ENSEMBLE www.lambfamilymusic.com . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 758-5262 WEDDING FLUTIST/VOCALIST & GUITARIST Stephanie Whatley Farmer & Jeff Farmer . . . . . . 310-1059 fluteforia@aol.com www.StephanieWhatleyPhotography.com Tuscaloosa Bridal Directory 45

photography APRIL RAIN PHOTOGRAPHY www.aprilrainphotography.com. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 349-9853 april@aprilrainphotography.com BORROWED IMAGES PHOTOGRAPHY R. G. Glover . . . . . . . . . biphoto@comcast.net / 527-4647 www.BorrowedImages.shutterfly.com ECHOES PHOTOGRAPHY James Hudson . . . . . . .www.echoesphoto.com / 394-3379 GARY FRANKLIN PHOTOGRAPHY www.garyfranklinphotography.com . . . . . . . . . . . 752-9719 HAVERKAMPF PHOTOGRAPHY & VIDEO www.BamaPhoto.com . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 750-0222 HOLLOWAY PHOTOGRAPHY Larry Holloway. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 553-8656 www.hollowayproductions.com. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 799-2438 MEGAN FOREHAND PHOTOGRAPHY www.meganforehandphoto.com. . . . . . . . . . . . . . 886-6020 SABRINA HARLESS PHOTOGRAPHY sabharless@comcast.net. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 752-2963 www.sabrinaharless.com SCOTTIE JONES PHOTOGRAPHY. . . . . . 372-3777 scottiejonesphotography.com. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . or 657-0104 SKIP BAUMHOWER PHOTOGRAPHY 2428 6th Street, www.baumhower.com. . . . . . . . 310-8088 STEPHANIE WHATLEY PHOTOGRAPHY www.stephaniewhatleyphotography.com.. . . . . . 553-3998 TERRI LANE PHOTOGRAPHY www.TerriLanePhotography.com . . . . . . . . . . . . . 799-4969 TITANIA RADIANT PHOTOGRAPHS www.phototitania.com. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 242-9471 barbara@phototitania.com photo booths TOTAL ENTERTAINMENT TotalEntertainmentEvents.com . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 750-0539 portrait painting DUET ART AND JEWELRY 2113 B University Blvd. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 758-5388 www.duet-artandjewelry.com rentals BEAUTY MARK, INC. 1621 Skyland Blvd, East. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 556-2005 www.shopbeautymark.com DREAMS—LUXURY LINENS K. Crawford . . . . . . . mrsdreamsbyk@aol.com / 393-0134 SPECIAL EVENTS – A GAME DAY TENTS CO. 1419 22nd Avenue. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 469-0105 www.SpecialEventsAL.com

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spa SPA BELLE LA VIE 1847 Commons North Drive. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 349-0046. www.bellelaviespa.com THE LASER SKIN CENTER 2810 Lurleen B Wallace Blvd, Northport. . . . . . 333-7670. www.thelaserskinctr.com videographers ACTION VIDEO www.4actionvideo.com . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 394-0141 HAVERKAMPF PHOTOGRAPHY & VIDEO www.BamaPhoto.com . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 750-0222 HOLLOWAY PRODUCTIONS Lance Holloway. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 553-8656 www.hollowayproductions.com. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 242-9263 wedding & reception sites ALABAMA STATE PARKS www.AlaPark.com BATTLE-FRIEDMAN HOUSE 1010 Greensboro Avenue . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 758-6138 BRYANT CONFERENCE CENTER www.bama.ua.edu/~bcc/. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 348-3001 CHUCK’S FISH 508 Greensboro Avenue. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 248-9370 www.chucksfish.com . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 799-1720 HOTEL CAPSTONE 320 Paul Bryant Drive . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 752-3200 www.capstonehotel.com MAXWELL-PETERS HOME . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 343-1691 302 Main Avenue, Northport. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 886-8638 SOUTHERN HOUSE & GARDEN 15308 Shepard Park Road www.SouthernHouseAndGarden.com. . . . . . . . 345-5767 THE CYPRESS INN RESTAURANT 501 Rice Mine Road North . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 345-6963 www.cypressinnrestaurant.com THE JEMISON MANSION 1305 Greensboro Avenue . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 758-2906 THE L&N STATION 301 Greensboro Ave. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 248-8386 THE OAKS 430 Walnut St., Centreville, AL. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 225-0044 www.theoaksatcentreville.com TUSCALOOSA COUNTY PARK & RECREATION AUTHORITY www.tcpara.org . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 562-3220 wedding dance choreography LET’S DANCE 939 McFarland Blvd. (next to Cici’s Pizza). . . . . 330-1311 wedding gown preservation ROYAL FINE CLEANERS 3617 Watermelon Rd., Northport . . . . . . . . . . . . 391-0034 www.royalfinecleaners.com

www.JeffWhitePhotographer.com

sue’s flowers

Tyric Humphryes Designer

205-758-2100 800-223-2620 405 Main Avenue, Northport www.suesflowersnorthport.com

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Newspaper Guidelines The Tuscaloosa News

Engagement Announcements

Package A is $195, which includes a twocolumn announcement up to 5 inches tall, including a one-column photo printed in color or black & white, and online posting.

Package B is $350, which includes twocolumn and up to 10 inches tall, including a two-column photo printed in color or black & white, and online posting.

Wedding Announcements

Package choices for weddings include: • Free basic announcement with no photo.

No additional information can be added to the announcement form.

• Free basic announcement with photo for $125.

• Free basic announcement with photo and online for $138.50.

• Package A is $195 and includes a two-column wide announcement up to 5 inches tall, including a one-column photo printed in color or black & white, and online posting.

• Package B is $350 and includes a two-column wide announcement up to 10 inches tall, including a one-column (more copy– 450 words) or two-column photo (less copy –225 words) printed in color or black & white, and online posting.

• Package C is $495 and includes a two-column wide announcement (500 words) up to 15 inches tall, including a two-column photo printed in color or black & white, and online posting.

Deadlines

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date for engagements and within 6 weeks after wedding date for weddings. Payment is required in advance.

You have to have an email address or will have to ok the copy in person after it is printed out. No corrections or permission to print of copy taken by phone.

Call Peggy Skelton at 205-722-0199 or email peggy.skelton@tuscaloosanews.com for forms and information.

Northport Gazette Deadlines for announcements/articles: • All photographs and text must be turned in the Monday prior to when it should run, no later than 5:00 pm.

• The Gazette is published every Wednesday afternoon.

• Photos and text can be emailed to: northportgazette@northportgazette.com or brought into our office at 401 20th Ave., Suite 5, Northport (phone 749-3091).

Photos should be in the best and clearest form possible. Text may also be faxed to 759-5449.

430 Walnut Street Centreville, AL 35042 (205) 225-0044 email: theoaksatcentrevilleal @yahoo.com

www.theoaksatcentreville.com

Conservatory Photo by Brooke Dezines

Visit us on Facebook.com/TheOAKS01

Photos by Daphney Walker

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Entertainment Trends

by Carlos Otalora, Total Entertainment

Y

ou have invited your closest friends and family to share in your special day. How do you plan to keep your guests entertained throughout the next few hours? There are a variety of ways to incorporate fun entertainment options to keep your guests having a great time at your reception.

One important aspect you should take into account when starting to plan your entertainment is the bride and groom’s personalities. Your personality should be reflected in the entertainment you choose.

The following are some current wedding entertainment trends:

Disc Jockeys Having a disc jockey perform at your reception is one of the most popular and affordable options for wedding reception entertainment. Disc jockeys can provide you and your guests with a wide variety of music that will appeal to the young and the young at heart. Disc jockeys will also handle all of your announcements such as bridal party introductions, cake cutting, first dance, etc.

Wedding disc jockeys are trained to handle all the details behind every great wedding reception. Make sure when hiring a DJ that

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they have thorough experience with handling a wedding.

Event Lighting Lighting at weddings has become a hot trend with brides the last few years. Many brides are utilizing lighting as a way of raising the bar on the overall look of their reception. Today’s brides are adding dramatic uplighting, downlighting their wedding cakes to make the guests go “wow”and using gobos to project their monograms or names onto the walls of the reception venue or dance floor.

Photo Booths Photo Booths are one of the hottest trends for receptions. Having a photo booth at your reception can be lots of fun and a great alternative to trying to figure out what favors to get for your guests. The bride and groom can customize the photos with their names and wedding date to appear on each photo strip.

This is a unique photo souvenir of your special day.

When planning your entertainment weigh your options and make your big day celebration as fun, interesting and personal as possible.

Tight Images —Tightimages.instaproofs.com

HaverkampfPhotography.com

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M A L L I S H A M’ S G l a s s S l i ppe r C a r r i ag e Tou r s

Ben & Eddie Mallisham • Tuscaloosa, AL • mallishame@bellsouth.net

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Transportation Tips

by Tammie Chism, Crown Limousine • You should book your limousine once you know what transportation services will be needed. Some brides book as far as one year in advance.

know what your needs are. Confirm the maximum number of passengers allowed in the limousine. You do not want anyone left behind!

• A deposit is customary to hold the reservation, so be prepared to deposit as little as $100 up to $400 towards the reservation.

• There are minimum rental periods, so think of ways to utilize the limousine to your advantage.

• View the limousine in person if possible.

You want to know what you are getting. If you cannot view the limousine in person, ask the company if they have a website. Most reputable companies have a website so you can view the particular vehicle.

• Ask the company about “red carpet services” and if ice and soft drinks are provided at no charge. Also inquire about the chauffeurs’ dress code – tuxedos.

• Prices will vary, depending on the size and age of the vehicle.

• Know the total number of passengers that will be riding; companies have different sizes and will be able to assist you if they

• Be sure to understand overtime and cancellation policies AND request a copy of your contract.

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How To Address Invitations d Use your file cards and carefully address the envelopes, marking each with a check as you complete it. d Address both the inner and outer envelopes in the same handwriting. d Always write and. Symbols are not permissible. d John not J. No initials are permissible. If you do not know what the initials stand for, omit them. d Never write and Family. d Write out Forty-first. Use no figures except on house numbers and zip codes. d Write out East, West, North, and South. d Write out Street, Boulevard, Road, and so on. d Spell out the state — Alabama. Again, no abbreviations. d Children under sixteen may be included by writing their names in a line below their parents’ names on the inner envelope.

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d Older children in the family should receive a separate invitation. d All invitations must be handwritten, preferably in permanent ink. Never typewrite an address on a formal invitation. d Place invitations in the inner ungummed envelope. Folded invitations are inserted with the folded edge down. d The inner envelope is inserted in the outer envelope upper side up so that the writing faces the back of the outer envelope. d Always send invitations and announcements scaled, first class mail. d Wedding announcements are usually sent to people who are not invited to the ceremony and reception. d Wedding announcements are addressed in the same way as invitations, but are mailed immediately after the wedding.

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Advantages of Friday and Sunday Weddings

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f you decide to have your wedding on a Friday or a Sunday, you’ll reap several rewards: both financial and otherwise.

You’ll save time, you’ll probably save a significant amount of money, and you’ll find that your guests may appreciate having a Saturday free to spend time with you and the other guests they know.

Maximize Your Dollar For Friday or Sunday weddings, the majority of banquet facilities, photographers, video producers, musicians/entertainers and limousine services are much more willing to negotiate in order to reach a price that suits your budget. Vendors tend to see Friday and Sunday as bonus days, a time when they can earn income. Savings on these services can really add up, making this option a great way to save money without having to sacrifice the quality of your wedding.

Save the Date Planning for a Friday or a Sunday wedding makes it much more likely that you will be able to reserve the church, hall, music and other services on the date of your choice.

Choosing a Friday or Sunday date allows you to avoid making several calls to numerous vendors, only to hear, “Sorry, we’re booked on that date.”

Rehearsal Is Easy

Restaurants are usually thrilled to have rehearsal dinners booked on Thursdays or other evenings during the week, since those are typically their slower business days. You will find a more relaxed atmosphere and the staff will be more attentive to your party’s needs.

In selecting a Friday or Sunday date for your event, you’ll help both your budget and your odds of getting exactly the wedding you want, while also allowing for more time dedicated to finalizing last minute details. You Save Time can use the extra day to catch your breath, On a Friday, you’ll probably have your wed- and use the extra money to purchase someding in the evening, which means that the thing special. ceremony is followed immediately by dinner.

This means that you will avoid the extra cost and hassle of a one-to-two hour interim reception or cocktail party. Having the ceremony and reception back to back may ensure more people at the church ceremony.

Additionally, a Friday/Sunday wedding frees up at least one day of the weekend, generally making your family, friends and guests more appreciative of the extra time, especially if they are traveling.

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Affordable Elegance

Imagine your wedding or reception among the architectural remnants of Alabama’s one-time capitol or on a terrace overlooking Lake Tuscaloosa...

PARA is ready to help you find the perfect venue for your wedding or reception.

Whether you are planning a unique design for an indoor space or want to let nature be the backdrop, you can set the scene for a memorable occasion. With 36 parks and five activity centers to choose from, PARA fits your budget and your guest list.

614 Greensboro Ave. Tuscaloosa, AL 35401 | 205-562-3220 | www.tcpara.org

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Reception Checklist

When planning your wedding, set a budget and stick with it.

The following checklist will help you keep track of your expenses.

The Location ❍ Proximity to the ceremony site ❍ Date availability and discount days to consider ❍ Rental fee and what it includes ❍ Time allowed to decorate the space for the day of the wedding ❍ Using the location for a ceremony as well, if desired ❍ Whether there will be other receptions that day ❍ Number of guests the space will accommodate comfortably ❍ Terms of liability insurance ❍ Ratio of staff to guests ❍ Overtime charges ❍ Postponement/cancellation refund policy ❍ Gratuities and taxes ❍ Availability of valet parking ❍ Clean restroom facilities ❍ Room for changing ❍ Means of handicapped access ❍ The availability of a nursery or babysitter Food and Drink ❍ Meal options, from a seated dinner to a dessert-only reception ❍ Special meals to accommodate restricted diets ❍ Price per guest ❍ Method of payment ❍ A date for tasting menu and tour of the site with a wedding in progress ❍ Dessert table policy ❍ Availability of non-alcoholic beer, wine, and beverages ❍ Top-shelf wine and alcohol vs. house brands ❍ Cost of open bar vs. one/two hour cocktail service or host’s per-drink tab arrangement

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❍ Possibility of bringing in your alcohol

and amount of corking fee ❍ Supplier of the wedding cake and cutting

fee ❍ On-site wedding coordinator Miscellaneous ❍ Musicians ❍ Florist ❍ Photographer ❍ Videographer ❍ Cake knife/server ❍ Food for band, etc. ❍ Wedding guest book ❍ Seating plans ❍ Place cards ❍ Decorations ❍ Favors ❍ List of photos Basic Rentals for Off-site locations ❍ Tent ❍ Chairs ❍ Tables ❍ China ❍ Cutlery ❍ Glassware ❍ Tableskirts ❍ Dance floor ❍ Serving trays and dishes ❍ Linens ❍ Lighting ❍ Heaters and/or air conditioners ❍ Restroom facilities ❍ Electrical outlets ❍ Bar equipment

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brittany benton massey freelance hair & makeup artist

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Prestige Limo Service Barry Fields, Owner 6226 Hibiscus Lane Northport, AL 35473

“Let Us Treat You Like Royalty�

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WEDDING EVENTS Our venue offers four different room options to accommodate parties of up to 300 guests.

To book your rehearsal dinner or wedding reception contact our Special Events Coordinator at:

(205) 799-1720

or

chucksspecialevents@gmail.com

508 greensboro ave tuscaloosa 35401

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Stationery Wardrobe

by Shelley Kyle, Stationer, Kyle Fine Stationery

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hoosing distinctive stationery is the first way to set your wedding apart from all the others. Traditional, modern, formal, casual, elegant or amusing, your stationery wardrobe reveals the style of the event. When you put together your ensemble, it is important to keep in mind the impression you hope to make.

As society evolves, so does our etiquette, leaving the rules surrounding wedding stationery no longer etched in stone. Today’s couples have more room to bend and stretch the rules to suit their particular circumstances.

This being said, etiquette in essence is the specially designed code that smoothes social interaction, with wording and style honed over the years to not be offensive and should not be ignored, only adapted.

Today there are so many options and you will need to decide what components are necessary or important for your event: Save the Dates, Wedding Invitations, Rehearsal Dinner Invitations, printed maps, travel and hotel information, itinerary, ceremony programs, table numbers, seating cards, place cards, favor cards, menu cards, thank you notes, calling cards, guest books, napkins and more.

The components most often chosen are:

Save the Dates: These will make the first impression guests will have of the wedding. You will want them to reflect the style of the event.

They are usually sent 3 -6 months in advance.

It is OK to send only to out of town guests.

Wedding invitations: This is the main introduction to your event, it sets the stage for your wedding and guides guests on how formal of an event to expect. A wedding invitation, well chosen, reflects the character of the individuals being joined and the nature of the Tuscaloosa Bridal Directory

ceremony planned. It could possibly include outside and inside envelopes, reception card and response set. More contemporary invitations usually have only a single envelope.

Ceremony programs: Though not a requirement, the program helps guests follow the order of events, participants, and any special notes regarding other wedding related information. The design should complement, not necessarily match the invitation.

Thank you notes: Your stationery should reflect your personality and the type of correspondence you are sending. Thank you notes don’t apply merely to gifts. You’ll also be writing notes to people hosting parties, your attendants and possibly special vendors. Traditionally, you would want these personalized, some with your maiden name to be used before the wedding and married name for after. While a folded note is more traditional, many brides like to have choices in their wardrobe depending on the formality of the correspondence. Don’t forget the groom—he will want his own correspondence card.

Calling cards: Used more often as formal gift enclosures, but may also be used in social settings to give as one would a business card.

Seating cards, table numbers, place cards and menu cards are often used for the rehearsal dinner if not the wedding reception and can complement the ensemble. It’s the little things that make an event special.

Design with all of the elements in mind to create a unified look and be thoughtful and consistent in your selections. A carefully selected and planned stationery wardrobe will honor the event as well as those you have chosen to be a part of it. Have fun!

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Divorced Parents: Dealing with the Situation

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f your divorced parents are on good terms, count your blessings. If they are not, or if their relationship is marginal, correct handling of these delicate matters can help avoid any unwanted tensions. There are several alternatives you should consider in planning your church wedding and reception arrangements to accommodate your divorced parents.

According to protocol, the parent with whom you have lived with the longest issues the invitations. The other parent is usually not mentioned unless both parties agree to each of their names being presented. Protocol, however, does not always create good feelings. Try to include both parent’s names on the invitation.

When you’re introducing your parents to your future in-laws, it is usually proper to introduce the parent with whom you have lived the longest, then introduce your other parent shortly afterward. The bride’s father should always walk his daughter down the aisle,

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except under extenuating circumstances. If that is not possible, a substitute can stand in for the the father. A brother, uncle or close family friend will be fine.

Special church seating arrangements can help smooth rough spots. The bride’s mother and her family (parents, husband and children) are seated in the first row. The second row is left empty to afford a better view for the bride’s father, who, after giving her away, is seated with his immediate family in the third row. The same seating arrangement pertains to the groom’s family if they are divorced.

Of course, what’s most important isn’t where everyone stands or sits but how they feel about it. In order to head off misunderstandings, it’s best to talk with all parties early on about what your expectations are. This small amount of time and attention devoted to handling these matters will reward you with a day that is as free of tension as it can possibly be.

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A Grand Honeymoon

by Linda Holloway

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Photography by www.hollowayproductions.com

ucked along the Eastern Shore of Alabama, is an award-winning oasis known as The Grand. Here, honeymoon couples can be pampered with genuine Southern hospitality and dine in an intimate “secret” place. You can meander through tunneled live oaks dripping with moss or step up the pace with resort activities.

There is no where else in the world like The Grand.

In January 2011 The Grand Hotel Marriott Resort, Golf Club & Spa was chosen as one of the best in the World in Travel + Leisure magazine where it scored better than many of the highest rated hotels and resorts in the U.S. The resort, located along Mobile Bay in Point Clear, began in 1847 as the Point Clear Hotel and was known as a magnet for antebellum society where guests arrived by steamboat. Today, it is owned by the Retirement

Live Oaks at The Grand

Systems of Alabama and has received over $50 million in renovations.

My husband and I checked into a Junior Suite overlooking the Grand Marina in the Spa Building. Luxury abounds with fine bed linens, a comfy sofa and two televisions. The bath, with separate shower and tub, is nearly as large as most hotel rooms. We flung open the French doors and relaxed on the balcony to the tune of the gentle spanking of the sailboat hulls by the unceasing movement of the bay.

Relax at the resort’s beach and adult pool and enjoy heart-pounding beach volleyball, bicycling, jet skis, kayaking, sailing and tennis. At 4:00 p.m. each day watch the memorial cannon firing and enjoy cookies and tea served in the main lobby. The Grand Spa was voted the number one Marriott spa for guest

The Secret Garden

satisfaction in the world for the second year in a row! To banish pre-wedding stress, succumb to a Couples Massage that begins with complimentary champagne enjoyed together overlooking the marina.

The must-do honeymoon splurge is an evening in the Secret Garden known as the most exclusive dining experience in the Southeast.

Overlooking the chef’s herb garden and bay, the table for two is romance central. Experts will help plan the perfect menu and experience for an evening that begins in the resort’s

Saltwater Grill. Next, walk to your private swing where champagne is delivered. Later, your dedicated server will deliver you to the Secret Garden where you can enjoy as many as nine courses. A journal will be brought to record your experience and photos will be taken. The grand finale—watching the sun sink into the bay. For moonlit memories, stroll along the grounds where the bay breeze gently whispers through the ancient oaks.

The Grand: 251-928-9201 www.marriottgrand.com

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