Lady Knight Theresa Onyeduoliseke Gbemudu LifeBook

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Lady Theresa Onyeduoliseke Gbemudu

(25/12/38 – 03/11/22)

ady Theresa Gbemudu was a “Christmas Baby” born in Illah, Delta state, Nigeria on the 25th of December 1938, to Chief (ogbuenyi) Christian Okoaraba Ugbode and Mrs. Umejei Ugbode. She was the 4th born in a large but loving and tranquil polygamous family, comprising her father, mother and her two stepmothers Mrs. Anigbo Ugbode and Mrs. Uwanne Ugbode. In all, she grew up with nineteen siblings who she loved dearly and was very proud of. She often regaled her children with many stories of a happy and exciting childhood from stories of how and

Lher siblings bewildered their paternal grandfather with a radio, a new invention at the time, to stories of her older sister “sister Nkosenyem” who often taught bullies a boxing lesson in their youth. She was especially the accomplishment of her oldest sister “sister Joy Nsolo” as the first female Architect in West Africa. She had a close affinity to them and continued to show much love to them all. Lady Theresa taught her children and everyone around her the value of showing genuine and selfless love even if unrequited.

Lady Theresa a commited Christian, was a loving and devoted wife to Chief “Ogbuenyi” Felix Okolie Akazue Gbemudu, of the Royal Gbemudu lineage of Illah, who she married in 1961. Together they had 7 loving children, four boys and three

girls namely Ngozi, Unoma, Ndozi, Awele, Agbonma, Ifeoma and Ugochukwu (Andy). They shared 38 years of marital bliss till Ogbuenyi Felix Gbemudu transited to eternal glory in 1999. Though devastated by his passing, Lady Theresa took solace in the fact that her husband a strong Christian Catholic and a Knight of the order of Saint Mulumba had gone to heaven. She also derived great comfort during this trying period from the boisterous antics of her first grandchild Ariel Gbemudu who as a oneyear-old at the time, was completely oblivious to the sadness around her. At the interment of her husband, Lady Theresa stated that “If we are to meet again, I would marry you again”. Such was her love and

devotion. She turned this love and devotion to her children and remained a strong Matriarch of the family till her departure to heaven, where she is no doubt reunited to her dear husband “Nna Ngozi” as she fondly used to call him.

Lady Theresa was an educationist and followed the Illustrious teaching career of her father whose teaching and Head Master engagements spanned the old Bendel state including warri, kwale, irrua Auchi, Agbor, Asaba and culminating in the establishment of a private school Joy private school in 1945 named after his first daughter. Similarly Lady Theresa started teaching early, at the age of 15 at the Iyioka Primary school Illah in 1953. Like her father she traversed Nigeria teaching in Ibadan, Lagos, Kano, Benin culminating in the establishment of a private Nursery/primary named after her father, Ugbode Memorial school. She was especially impassioned with educating the under privileged and as Proprietor navigated “Ugbode

Memorial” as it is called, to become a foremost elementary school, consistently producing best results in Delta state and indeed in Nigeria. she was arguably the pioneer in the establishment of modern private primary schools in the environs. Her oft quoted mantra is that a sound primary school education is fundamental and foundational to one’s educational trajectory. After the passing of her beloved husband, she moved first to Lagos to be with her children and then to Abuja with them and later to the United States where five of her children are resident. Lady Theresa lived happily in California often travelling to spend time with her first Daughter Unoma and family in Alpharetta Georgia, to Nigeria and of course to her favorite city Dubai in the UAE. Lady Theresa was a warm family woman and enjoyed spending time with her nine grandchildren. She also shared a close and loving relationship with her daughters in-law Modesta Gbemudu and Funmi Gbemudu who she referred to as “daughters in love” and her sons in-law Dr. Anekwe Onwuanyi and Kainebi Collins Metuiwe

Forever in our hearts

THERESA ONYEDUOLISEKE GBEMUDU

who she equally referred to as “sons in love”. Mama as Lady Theresa was fondly called, positively impacted all those she encountered in California and Georgia, including extended family, inlaws, friends and acquaintances of her children. She was Mama to all.

Lady Theresa, a proud Lady Knight of the order of St. Mulumba was a greatly accomplished woman. Post primary, she attended the Sacred

Teachers Degree (Bachelor of Science degree B.Sc. Honors in Mathematics and Home Economics). She completed her National Youth Service Corps (NYSC) in Kano afterwards. In 1985-1986 she undertook a course at the University of Lagos in Early Child Education, preparatory to setting up Ugbode Memorial school.

In her last year she began to encounter health challenges. Through it all she remained strong and

unshakable. There was an outpouring of love and support from family and friends as she fought the good fight until her maker called her home. She passed away to heaven peacefully on the 3rd of November, surrounded by the loving warmth of her children. Lady Theresa Onyeduoliseke Gbemudu lived a fruitful and fulfilled life for all of eighty-three years. She was greatly loved but her maker ultimately loved her more.

Mama, I thank you for never ever leaving nor forsaking me when the whole world deserted me including family.

Thank you for being the light of Love in the darkness of my life’s Journey.

Thank you for teaching me how to live a life of Faith in only God in-spite of what I see with my physical senses.

I would for ever miss you, but I am comforted that we would be together again never ever to path.

Anslem Gbemudu

Mama, words can’t express how much I miss you! My mom, confidant, best friend, protector, support and all the many other hats you wore. Brave, beautiful, kind, generous, loyal, loving and funny. Let’s don’t forget your passionate love for God!!

Words cannot express how much you are already missed!!!

We were not ready to let you go but God wanted his angel back. Knowing you are at rest and at peace having lived a full and God fearing life, May your gentle soul continue to rest in peace. We now have our own very guardian angel in heaven. My mom, my everything! Until we meet again to part no more. Goodbye my beautiful mother!!

Your daughter

Winnie Unoma Onwuanyi

THERESA ONYEDUOLISEKE GBEMUDU

y dearest and best mom ever, beautiful on the outside and even more beautiful on the inside....It is indeed hard to say goodbye but goodbye I must say. We loved you but God Almighty loves you more and has called you to his eternal glory. I will forever cherish the good times we were indeed blessed to spend with you....your singing to and for us, your teaching me to stop forgetting my school back at home in elementary school, your teaching me to study at my desk in high school and not on my bed lying down....you taught me determination, fearlessness and generosity to all and sundry......in the last times we spent together we again sang together and I know even right now in heaven you continue to sing......Good night mama until we meet again to part no more.......I love you eternally.

Vincent Gbemudu

My precious, precious, Mummy, it still hurts really baddddd!!!!and it’s still difficult to take in; the pain is excruciating. We all miss you sorely but thank God for the Holy Spirit, our comforter. It has been a daily walk of continuous help from Him. My only solace, is that you are in a much better place, with our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Adieu my Ezinne, till we meet to part no more. I love, and will cherish your memories forever.

Awele Metuiwe

y Dearest Mum, it’s still incredibly painful to know that you are no more with us. Words cannot express how much I miss you. It still feels like a bad dream & it hurts so, so deeply. My only consolation is that you are in heaven with our Lord & Savior Jesus Christ. You will be forever missed & I will continue to love & cherish you always. Adieu my sweet & precious mother.

Agbonma Gbemudu

No words can really capture the love you showed to everyone of your children. The virtues I learnt from you. You were truly an excellent mother and my dearest friend too. I will miss your smile, laughter, dancing and your generosity. Its still difficult and I still ask God to give me strength to bear your absence. I am consoled to know you are resting peacefully in the bosom of the Lord. One day I will be with you in heaven till then continue to rest my dearest best mother ever. Ezigbo nne I will forever love and miss you!

Felix Gbemudu

Mama, it is still not okay to believe you are no longer physically with us. I keep expecting your call which no longer comes.

I try very hard to only remember the best times we had with you, like your birthday in Dubai and so many others. You have only left us in this world to be with God almighty in heaven but you will forever remain in our hearts.

Mama, we love and miss you so much and I just pray God helps me come to terms with this new reality. Mama you are simply the very best Mother.

Andrew Gbemudu

THERESA ONYEDUOLISEKE GBEMUDU

Mama I can never forget you.

Iam still in shock as to how things happened so fast. The last 22 years of us being in each other’s lives was a blessing to me. You treated me not as a daughter-in-law but as your biological daughter and for that I remain eternally grateful. Nothing I write here today can convey my feelings on how much you are loved or how much we are going to miss you. I am happy you lived a purposeful life where you guarded your family so fiercely.

On November 3rd 2022 at about 6:46pm you gained your wings and became an Angel. I am rest assured that your motherly role will continue because you were a mother hen on earth. I thank God for the 83 years he gave you. Sleep well mama.

Your daughter, Modesta

Lady Mo.

Gbemudu

Mama,

Thank you for the life-long example of care and love you’ve left us. The wisdom you provided to my family has been and will continue to be a source of strength for us.

I have no doubt that you are in heaven with our Lord because in all the years I was fortunate to know you, God has been the center of your life. So even though there is sadness for the physical separation it is comforting to know that you are in peace with the Lord. Your memory will endure. May your soul Rest In Peace.

Your Son-in-law,

My Ever Smiling, Gentle Mama,

It truly was 25+ years of peace and love with you - that is what you exuded so effortlessly. Words fail me to express the extent of the void you have left in the family but I know the Holy Spirit is at work constantly filling up that void with loving memories that we will forever cherish. We thank God you are resting painlessly in His Glory. Till we meet again mama.

Rest well in the Lords everlasting arms.

FunmiG

(Arc.Mrs E. Olufunmilayo Gbemudu)

Dearest Mama,

Iam writing you in Heaven because l believe that is where you belong resting finally in perfect peace in our Lord’s Kingdom.

The inevitable pain losing you still lingers, but as l look behind, and see the trail blazes of life you shared when we were together, treated me like your own Son, taught me the tolerance and acceptance, happiness, sweetness and Joy of life at every moment you lived.

Goodbye Mama, I WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU till we meet again to part no more.

Collins Kanebi Metuiwe

THERESA ONYEDUOLISEKE GBEMUDU

Grandma was full of love. Thank you for everything you did for us. We are sad we no longer see you everyday like before. May your beautiful soul rest in perfect peace.

Valerie and Valentine Gbemudu

Grandma, I

love and miss you so much. Thank you for being a shining example of everything I want to be in life. I’ll always remember the love and Grace you gave to everyone around you and I will spend the rest of my days making you proud!

Diadi Onwuanyi

Grandma, there’s no words that can express how much I miss you and how much I love you. I will always remember the way you loved me and carry it with me for the rest of my life. Everything I am doing and will do will be for you! I love you forever and always.

Didi Onwuanyi

Dear My Amazing Grandma, T

hank you for being the person who I idolize the most. You lived your life in such a loving and caring way. You were selfless. You lived for God, and you lived for others. I cannot even put into words how much I miss you. You were truly a bright and vibrant star. You were so kind to everyone. You would never yell at me, and you would never get mad at me no matter what. The only time I would see you mad was when you would yell at characters in the Nigerian Movies. I do not know anyone who has lived their life as graciously as you did Grandma. I love you so much from the bottom of my heart.

Your Grandson, Bube

Onwuanyi

Dear Grandma,

I’m sure you are resting very peacefully in God’s beautiful light as you were a light for me and all my siblings with endless joy and smiles all around.

Love you forever

Ariel Gbemudu

on behalf of Brian, Jesse & Ariana Gbemudu

One of The Beautiful Ones

- Onyedu-Olisè-Kéé Nnwa

Theresa Ugbode-Okolie

Gbemudu has left this sinful world! We all her siblings had this very big plan of a Family Reunion in the UK in June of 2022. But in May, I took a trip to Cali from Philly to spend time with her before then! At the same time, I was looking forward to our UK Family Reunion! But I never in the whole world, thought that the spirit was at work! I spent time with my beautiful sister and our spirits were highly lifted! But eventually, she couldn’t make the Family Reunion because of the ill health that snatched her from us!

Yes, we all fought to stop the wicked hands of death from snatching our beautiful one - the beautiful one that

Mama

Life will not be the same without you and so will Christmas. You were sorely missed last Christmas and even now, my consolation is in the believe that you are in the best place, where we all aspire to be one day, resting, rejoicing and interceding for us at the bossom of our Mother Mary and our Lord Jesus Christ in Heaven.

Mama, I owe my Catholic faith to your bold and fearless defiance of my father to introduce me to Christ and be baptised. So I know that one day I will see you again in heaven to sing with you “Maria idi ngozi”.

You are a mother like no other! Loving, caring and nurturing all of us privileged to be under your care. Teaching us your

I was lucky to be her junior brother! I do confess here that I got a bit of her “spoiling” but with some element of strict correction, like when I took liberties! We miss you Sister! You big Sisters - Sister Rose and Sister Victoria miss you a lot! Your junior Sister Nkedigwam misses you immensely! Your junior Brother Charlie misses you dearly! But we cannot question the Almighty God!

Adieu Sister OnyeduOlise-Kéé-Nnwa! Adieu Mma Nwa Nnem! Continue to rest in the Bosom of the Lord!

Bruce Ugbode

principles,values and faith. You taught me to smile in any circumstances because it will pass and I watched you do the same.

I am grateful for your love, care and correction that has helped to form who Iam now.

Mama, indeed you are blessed and highly favoured of the most high God.

Your legacy of love lives on in my heart

Zainab Gontor

Tribute to Ma Nne Ngozi

Mama, the news of your passing on came to me as a shock, no farewell words were spoken, no time to say goodbye, you were gone before we knew it. You were a diamond that vanished before our eyes before we could exclaim “Ah! What a beauty” and only God knows why.

Mama, you are too much, more than a mother, a woman of love and peace. You were always there for us all NNE Ka NNE, you treated all of us fairly and we are privileged to have shared in your life.

NWA Ezigbonmadu

NWA Ubgode Ndifuzonagboo

Wunye nnam okolie gbemudu ndi oma Nwanne

Nne Ngozi Odogwu Kalifornia

Ndi eqowa bun ma nwanne

Ijeoma Mama Ezinne Kachi foo

Rest in the Lord till we meet to part no more

Viktor Gbemudu and family

Death, where is your strength!! Oh Mama Nne Kanne as I fondly call you Ma, it pains me to write a tribute to you this time. I thought you would have stayed longer for us, but it pleased your maker to call you home now, because he loved you more than we do.

Mama, my heart bleeds and it has been very tough to accept you have parted with us. Who will sing to me, telling me the time to book mass for our children? Mama, you were a mother of all, you shared everything you had with the needy and family. You constantly fed battalions without blinking an eye, you singlehandedly awarded people’s children what more than a class scholarship, Mama you were a protective and possessive Mother, my role model. I guarantee the good name and legacy you left behind will continue to reign and be emulated for decades to come.

Mama Nnnemaranma, Nnekanne, Nnedimu, Nwunye Okolie gbemudu Obioma

Jenkeoma Nnekanne, a woman with a pure soul, sleep on. Until we meet to part no more. Mama, Kachifo

by Flora Awele Gbemudu

Digitalmedia Advocate

Missing You, Mama!

Mama as I fondly called you. The news of your death came like a thunderbolt. Sincerely, you occupied a large space in my family.

How would I describe what you mean to me. In my teens, I lived with your family, you were my late uncle’s wife, but one of a kind. You were a mother like no other, I grew up seeing you as my role model. I had wished and prayed to be like you when I was a teenager.

You were very caring, kind hearted, humane, and loving. You made salient contributions in our family.

Who would play the motherly role to us again. I remember with nostalgic feelings your great sense of humour, so jovial and accommodating to all who visited your house in Benin. A great philanthropist, woman of substance, dynamic, and amiable soul.

I recall back in the days when returning back to school how you ensured that I had everything that I needed. Mama, you also extended this true love to my younger brother and his wife. You were a loving mother to all of us.

How can we pay you back when you have joined with the angels leaving us behind this sinful world. We will missing your dearly.

Mama! Your footprints will always remind us about you. We hope to meet again in the next world, and in heaven.

Rest well Mama! We missed you!

Adieu

Mrs Ozoemena Chuma-Odili

(Nee Gbemudu)

My dear mama, we will always remember your ever smiling face, always humming a tune and all your lovely facial expressions when you thought or wanted to communicate a message. We remember your love for papa and for all your children. May you continue to rest in the peace of our Lord Jesus, whom you loved the most.

From: Alero on behalf of Adaobi Amuka (nee Gbemudu) and family.

Adieu Godmother.

Isay “Good Night” to a beautiful, gentle soul. No wonder you were endeared to me at my tender age of 10. When I requested you to be my confirmation Godmother. At that tender age, I sensed the inner beauty, strength and motherly virtues. Little did I know that much much later I too will marry into the Gbemudu family.

Always smiling, spoke little and full of wise counsel. Who would have thought that death will have such a hold on a woman so energetic, healthy and full of life.

We take solace with Jesus words in John 5:24 “ I assure you that whoever hears my word and believes in the One who sent Me, has Eternal life and won’t come under judgement but has passed from death into life.”

Sleep well Godmother until we meet to part no more.

Tonia Gbemudu

Tribute to Mrs Theresa' Gbemudu

It was with great shock I received the news of mama demise we had prayed for her recovery however we thank the Almighty God that it is not how long one lived that mattered but how well

Mama lived a good life and was everything and different things to different people depending on the angle one chose to see her

She will be remembered for her forthrightness her kindness caring and charitable nature and above all her dedication to the service of God

As we assembled this day to pay our last respect to a great mother foremost educationist and a dear friend and to console with the bereaved family we reiterate with tears in our eyes as

stated by Thomas Campbell that to live in the hearts we live behind is not to die.As we deeply mourn her departure we give glory to God that she fought a good fight she finished her race and kept the faith till the end (2 Tim 4:7)

We are sadly happy because all the trumpets are sounding for her on the other side

May her good work's and faith accompany her to God's throne of everasting peace and joy

May the soul of mama and the souls of all the faithful departed through the mercy of God rest in peace Amen

Good night mama

Nnamdi Gbemudu

THERESA ONYEDUOLISEKE GBEMUDU

To my Beautiful and always smiling Aunty Duoseke. My earliest and most enjoyable childhood memories of coming to Benin city was to visit your house which was ALWAYS filled with a lot of Love.

So, I am very glad to have been family with you, and even though you will be so dearly missed by all of us, I know that you’re smiling down on us from above with Uncle.

Rest in perfect peace Aunty.

Chike Ugbode

Dear Aunty,

You are sorely missed, but I take comfort in knowing you are in heaven with no more pain and your beautiful ever present smile shining down on us. When I think of you, I have the fondest memories of spending my holidays with you in Benin and Illah and how I was spoilt immensely.

Pray for comfort and God's grace for the entire family as we celebrate your beautiful life.

Love

Nanya Ugbode

Lady Knight Theresa Onyeduoliseke Gbemudu led a very impactful life...

She was a darling wife, a loving mother, a doting grandmother and an overall sterling and virtuous woman. She gave selflessly of herself to the thousands of people whose paths crossed with hers during her lifetime. She raised awesome children who became giants and very successful, impacting society in different callings and in different parts of the world.

She was a true Christian soldier and philanthropist who gave of her substance to the needy and less privileged.

in society- a solid example can be seen in the hundreds of school children who she trained through school in her native village of Ilah, Delta State Nigeria for over 20 years

Mama, we will sorely miss you, but we know that you are resting warmly in God's bosom, and we will meet you when the trumpet sounds on the last day- where we will be with you in the heavenlies for eternity.

Fare thee well Mama,

Chike Nweke

-For Life & Times Media Group

Mama, you will be highly missed. The first day I met you, you were beautiful, graceful, elegant and charming. I had to ask my friend Winnie (Unoma) if she was joking when she told me that you were her mom.

You always sounded great whenever I talked to you. No one will believe what you were going through just listening to you because you were a strong and positive woman. You sounded positive even when you were in a lot of pain. My parents and family always prayed for God’s healing but God know it all. You finally made it clear by playing 2 Timothy 4: 7 - 8 to all of us. You have fought the good fight, you

have finished the race, you have kept the faith. Now there is in store for you, the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will award to you on that day—and not only to you, but also to all who have longed for his appearing. You will be highly missed, Mama. Je ije gi nkeoma.

May the lord almighty console my friend, Winnie, her siblings, and family. She loved you so much and will really miss you. Rest in perfect peace, Mama, till we meet to part no more.

Chy Okoli

ear Aunt Theresa! I am assured you rest in God’s hands like angels do for to me(and I think many other relatives)-You were angelic in your generosity and protection of the interest of those you love. I will recall two instances you made a difference in my life massively;the first when my mom,Your eldest sister begged you to take me under your roof as an educationist and strict mother- i was under your watchful care till the jamb examinations which I passed in flying colours. The second when you noticed I was in need of direction and you would come all the way to Victoria Garden and in that gentle but firm sonorous voice of yours say: “Franklin, you are going with me to Evening mass today”! And after mass,insist I go with you to the Marian grotto and pray asking for that which I seek/need from God-those acts made me focus on the fact that there is a Supreme Being who is God and directs our affairs that we can reach out to in prayer whatever our language or origin. You changed me to fear and love God as I

had gone haywire after my Mom’s demise. Thanks for bringing me back online,mama! l love you much,Dear Aunt but I know in my Heart that God almighty loves you more and will keep you safe. I pray I will be favoured to meet you and other departed loved ones at God’s feet when my turn eventually comes. You remain a shining jewel of being forthright,determined and always submitting to God’s will. May the Almighty God grant your sweet soul eternal rest “mama anyincha”....I dedicate my success to you as one of.those who contributed to my life immeasurably,Mama.

Oduah ooo!

Oduah ocha ooo!!

mwan ugbode ooo!!! mwan umejei ooo!!!

Naba nandokwe ooo!

Ekene dili chukwu.

Franklin Akinwale Nwabueze Aje aka (“Super”)

Growing up as a child, I never had a mother to look up to or understand what it meant to have one. Until I met and bonded with you mama and you really made me know and feel what a mother’s love felt like! Daalu o! Chukwu ga na Gozi o! Eze gbon nne! Nne Nma du cha!

May Jehovah and all the angels bless and continue to keep you in eternal rest till the gathering of all the Saints of our Lord Jesus. Amen!.

Rosemary AppahOkwuone

Grandma, we cannot question God, but thank His Majesty for the life you lived while on earth. We are thankful to God for the time you spent with us and the memories which will forever be in our hearts. Grandma we miss you each passing day especially your smile. Our inestimable mother and grandmother, continue to rest in peace in the bosom of the Lord in Jesus name Amen.

Vivian Emankhu

In memory and celebration of a life well lived.

Fare-the-well Mama! May God grant your beautiful, warm, gentle and generous soul eternal rest. Your children & grandchildren, family & friends, and all of us that knew & loved you will continue to cherish your memory. Rest in Peace.

Okwuoma Onwuanyi

Iknow you are resting in peace. You will be missed as you were a representative of those of us who looked up to you as our mother. I always looked forward to meeting you and took solace knowing you were there. Rest in peace

Chrsitopher Chigbolu

My dear aunty may your gentle soul RIP, I didn’t interact with you as much as I would have loved to, but the few times I interacted with you, yo u were always full of life, always pleasant, with kind words, happy and full of motherly comfort,it was a surprise and a shock to me to hear you gone so soon, just a few weeks after I visited, you ascended into heaven to meet my mother,your sister,I will miss your joyful presence,the Lord will comfort you and your sister, my mother may you both RIP,we will all miss you dearly.

Isioma Chigbolu

Ihave fond memories of you at our Thanksgiving gatherings over the years. You were always warm and cheerful and made us feel at home. I am grateful to have had that pleasure. We will miss you. Rest In Peace.

Obinna Igbokwe Aunty Duoseke,

What a wonderful Aunty you were………… You were beautiful and always wore a smile on your face. You were also very caring, and loved family.

I remember you as a Good – Good woman who touched and enriched our lives by your selfless and countless acts of kindness. You were a wonderful wife to my dear Uncle Felix of blessed memory, a loving mom to my dear cousins, doting grandma to your grandchildren, and a much cherished wife to the Gbemudu clan.

Thank you for the beautiful legacy you left us in your outstanding children, our dear cousins.

To my dear cousins Ngozi, Unoma, Ndozi, Awele, Agbonma, Ifeoma, and Ugochukwu may the good Lord grant you the fortitude to bear this great loss, and may the beautiful memories you all shared bring you comfort during this difficult time.

Rest in Perfect Peace Aunty.

We will miss you

Your Niece,

Vivien Ezenwa

ama, when I think of you, it’s always with this warm glow of love. There was a very heavy fragrance of love around you. Your laughter so genuine and refreshing. Your home was open to all of us and so was your pot especially your second to none ogbono soup. When I penned the following words to you sometime last year, I didn’t know I was writing a tribute of sorts. I thank God I had that privilege to let you know exactly what I thought of you cos those words came from my heart. I had written: “Mama of life! Mama of the most high God! Nneoma! Ezigbo nne! Oyoyo nne! Omalicha nne! Ezinne! “ You called me right after reading and I still fondly remember your rich laughter and you saying “Betty Betty, all these compliments for me? I can’t stop laughing“ It is so comforting for me to know that you are now indeed singing and laughing with the angels and of course, smiling down at us. Rest In Peace Beautiful Mama!

Betty Onaghise Mama

How can one say goodnight to you, knowing it’s actually goodbye?

How can one forget the graceful smile with which you appeared with your small duffel bag each morning?

How can one forget your glowing skin, your neatness, the grace and elegance you exude daily.

Mama, you lived the life, had fun and much laughter. It was time to go and you left also gracefully.

I will miss you!

Lilian Obaze

Mama Ross,

Just as I fondly called you.

Hardly anyone is ever prepared to accept the concept of death, not to even talk of accepting the death of a loved one. But as the good book says, ‘To everything, there is a season and a time to every purpose under the Heaven - a time to be born and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up that which has been planted … Ecclesiastes 3: 1-2.

Dating back to when we first met, I recall being quite nervous and unsure of what to expect however, after we got passed exchanging pleasantries, I immediately felt relieved. From there on, spending time with you came very easily - we’d take long trips to ‘Ross’ to shop, complete crossword puzzles together, and many more. Thank you for these memories - they’re what I’d hold on to. Thank you so much, for embracing me with open arms, for the profitable counsel you never failed to give, and for all of the times we spent together.

May your soul continue to rest in perfect peace, amen.

Until we meet again,

Eromosele Abhulimen

Mama has fougt the good fight. She has run her race gracefully. She has earned her own crown of glory as she ascends in a blaze of glory! Praise God . It is nothing but a great celebration of life for Mama. Amen.

Matilda Orhewere

Mama Gbemudu, your death left a deep void in our hearts. But the memory of your tenderness and loving ways still get us going.

The first time I visited you in your house at Ebutte Metta Lagos many years ago, you welcomed me like a princess and that act alone made me to revisit you in Abuja. Oh my precious Mama Gbemudu, I will surely miss your dancing steps. Mama was brilliant, dazzling, passionate and lovingly funny. I am missing you already ma. Continue to rest till resurrection morning mama with a heart of gold.

Angela George Enabosi

The memory of the righteous is blessed. You may be gone but your memory is always with us. You left a good and great imprint in our hearts with your kindness, love, and sacrifice. My children call you 2nd grandma because of the show of love from you to them each time we visit the US, you where such a rare gem. MAMA GBEMUDU, Thank you for a life well spent. The MUKOROS from port harcourt Nigeria.

Mukoro Benardette

It is always hard to lose a loved one and your loss has left a big vacuum in the lives of everyone, especially your loved ones. You will always be remembered because of your love, kindness, and gentleness. I still recall your big smile and graciousness when I met you. You may be gone from sight but you will forever be remembered for who you are.

Rest in Peace in the bosom of the Lord.

Yemi Adeeko

Dear Mama,

You taught us in primary school and gave us the head start that has impacted our lives. You were an incredible teacher that all who passed through you will never forget. As a grown man that I am today, I adopted some of the values that gained from you as a kid to teach my own kids. You were a wonderful person and a cheerleader. We will always remember your great works. Oh death where is thy sting? oh death where is thy victory? RIP Mama ,Till we meet again Adieu.

Paul Abulu

Ireceived the news of your demise with great shock, because no one had expected that you will depart so soon, but who am I to contest with God Almighty, mama, you were an Angel amongst beings, you were a strong Mulumba Lady, kind, gentle, helpful and sympathetic towards the plight of others, you took ill and you fought very hard to overcome your ill health, but God needed you more.

Theodora Abhulimen

My incredible auntie! Raised incredible children and was loved and respected by ALL the family.

We will all miss her, but I’m happy she’s in no pain and in heaven with my uncle. May she rest in perfect peace!

Onuora Amobi

ADIEU MY WORTHY SISTER, ADIEU MAMA GBEMUDU, ADIEU, REST IN PERFECT PEACE.

Amazing and beautiful Mama

Theresa Gbemudu, if anyone had told me in September when I saw you last that I would be writing a tribute for you in November, I would have called that person a liar from the pit of hell. You were ill and I hoped daily that you would get better but alas, the worse happened sooner than anyone expected.

Mama, you were kind, gentle and one of the most resilient women I ever met. You were always warm and welcoming, you were never known to discriminate or complain about anyone. You were a super mother-inlaw to my younger sister, Modesta, you took my siblings and I as your biological children and always longed for our visits. You and my mum were dependable companions to each other and lived together for years without any quarrel. To know you was to know pure unconditional love. Saying a final goodbye at this juncture is extremely heartbreaking. It will be hard to get over the pain of your demise but I take solace in the fact that I know you are in a better place, resting in perfect peace and watching over us. Sleep well with your creator till we meet to part no more. I love you forever Mama.

Paulyn Aire Evien.

Mama, I truly miss u. To say u were one of a kind is an understatement. Very cheerful, genuine & a wonderful woman. Ur passing on to greater heights hit me like a torn of bricks & I doubt if I could recover from d shock. U lived a fulfilled life & I thank d Lord for letting me know u as d best mother-in law ever. I will forever cherish d memories. RIP., mama Anslem

Emmanuel Sawyerr

Dear Aunty Duoseke,

You have moved on to a higher calling. I could write a lot but words are not enough to capture the experience of being with you and in your household. Whenever ‘we’ landed there was love, food, refreshments and noise/laughter. We your nieces and nephews mainly responsible consuming the former and delivering the latter!

You are dearly missed but we know you are now in a better place. I am happy and grateful to God for your full life.

Rest in the bosom of our Lord aunty.

Your niece, Sari

Oyegun

Death is inevitable and will come to us all someday, because it is a necessary end. Even though we knew it was looming, we had hoped that mama would be here a bit longer. Mama fought a good fight, finished the race and kept the faith. Now the crown of righteousness awaits her. May her beautiful soul find rest with God Almighty and may the souls of all the faithful departed through the mercy of God rest in peace.

Isabel Akhabue

Mama with the gentle smile on your face, we’ll all miss you.

Deepest condolences to your family. Rest in Perfect Peace.

Joyce Aire

You were our Math teacher in elementary school. You were an outstanding teacher who was caring and went about your duties as a no nonsense kind of teacher. You left an indelible impression on our young minds that remains with me till today. You were also your children’s biggest cheerleader. You will be truly missed.

May you find peace in the bossom of the lord. Adieu Mama.

Paul Umukoro

Momma Gbemudu,as I addressed her,was a beauty inside out. A loving woman and of good character. Mama played her part well on earth as a mother to us , grandma to all her grandkids. I know for sure she is in a better place where there is no pains or worries of any ailment. May God comfort Anslem, Modesta and rest of siblings and family

Nike Okoegwale

Tributes

May Almighty God comforts you as you rest in the bossom of the Lord. RIP Mama Gbemudu.

Don Bruno

May the good Lord be with you as you rest in perfect peace. Your legacy will live on far and wide. God bless you Okechukwu

Iwas very privileged to have known Aunt Theresa from childhood being the loving wife of my Uncle and one of my late Dad’s best friends/ cousins - Uncle Felix. She had always carried herself with such graceful poise and elegance. It was no wonder that she was like that because she was of the distinguished pedigree of Pa Ugbode family - the patriarch- a very handsome and well educated gentleman. I was elated to have seen her last year summer when I spent very fond moments with her and her beloved children - my cousins in Carlifornia. Indeed during one of our numerous outings she proudly declared to me that she had not only been healed but had been issued a certificate by the hospital!! Barely a year later, the story changed and ultimately the Lord called her home. Adieu dearest and beautiful... heaven has really gained an angel. Sleep well.

Your neice

Ngozi Ajumogobia

Iknow you are resting in peace. You will be missed as you were a representative of those of us who looked up to you as our mother. I always looked forward to meeting you and took solace knowing you were there. Rest in peace

Chrsitopher Chigbolu

Mama you are a notable Christian leader with a proven track record of walking with God. You were a leader to many who deeply love and appreciate you. You will greatly be missed. Rest in perfect peace

Gloria Oboh

om - You will be greatly missed because of the love and kindness you showed to many. Your gentle smile and kind eyes will stay with me. You lived a wonderful life and are now in heaven with your love. Rest in Peace.

Love,

Guada Joseph

Psalm 116 VS 115

Precious in the sight of the LORD is the death of his saints.

Mama,

What a privilege and honor to have known you. To describe you as ‘fine’ is an understatement. You were beautiful inside and out, endearing and always exuding humility, kindness, grace, and love. You treated me like your own. You were always excited to talk to me whether by phone or in person. You fondly and perfectly called my name and, as I write this tribute, not only do I hear you calling my name, but I can also see your beautiful smile. I am eternally grateful that in Gods perfect plan, I came to know you. You have left an

Mama, I

t’s sad to see you go… Heaven’s gain and our loss. You were always full of life. You laughed heartily and stayed present during conversations. You lived well and have left a great example for all of us to emulate. You will be dearly missed. May your soul rest in peace.

Ndali Nwuke

indelible mark on my heart and life.

Mama, although you are no longer here with us, absent from the body, you are present with the LORD, in whom you had believed and trusted. You are now and forever resting in GOD’s bosom because this is the promise of GOD to those who have put their faith and trust in HIM through our LORD and savior Jesus Christ. Like Job, though tested, mama, you were courageous, you held on to GOD’s truths, you trusted and believed in HIS promises. Mama, you run your race well. you are no longer under the snare of death and NEVER to die again. You now have joined many of the redeemed who have gone before us who sing HALLELUJA

HOSSANA, HALLELUJA

HOSSANA, HALLELUJAH

HOSSANA, before the throne of GOD. You no longer have a high priest pleading on your behalf because NOW you see HIM face to face and in all of HIS marvelous glory and NO tongue can bid you to depart, GLORY!!!!!

Mama, though we mourn and grieve there is no goodbye for me because it is, but a moment and we shall meet again in heaven, this is GOD’s promise. I will always be grateful for your life. A beautiful flagrant flower you were! You will be sorely but fondly missed.

Your one and only Zambian daughter,

Faith

My wonderful and loving Aunty Duoseke,

So many of my cherished childhood memories include you, uncle Okolie and my big cousins. Your smile, your laughter, the laughter that always seemed to abound in your home, your delicious cooking…I could go on and on, for those were phenomenal times

Thank you for opening your arms, heart and home to us. You and your siblings modeled for me what it means to be a family and be there for each other. I love you Aunty and I am so glad I got to see and spend time with you one last time. You are so missed it is indescribable but I am especially glad that you are

no longer in pain. Continue to rest in peace my beloved aunty Duoseke.

Love, Nneamaka

Forever in our hearts LADY KNIGHT

Forever in our hearts LADY KNIGHT

THERESA ONYEDUOLISEKE GBEMUDU

Forever in our hearts LADY KNIGHT

THERESA ONYEDUOLISEKE GBEMUDU

Forever in our hearts LADY KNIGHT

Appreciation

The Gbemudu family of Ilah, Delta State Nigeria wants to thank all our friends and family who reached out to us through visits, phone calls. text messages, various social media etc on the sad passing of our matriarch- Lady Knight Theresa Onyeduoliseke Gbemudu who went to be with the Lord on November 3rd 2023.

Mama lived well and led a very impactful life that transformed thousands of people. We are therefore consoled and appreciate the great outpouring of grief from all of you.

Special thanks to Chief/Sir Anslem Gbemudu's committee of friends worldwide for your exceptional moral and financial support.

May the good Lord repay each of you for this labor of love and meet each one of you at your points of needChief/Sir Anslem Ngozi Gbemudu

For the family