Irmo Chapin Life Magazine - May/June 2024

Happy Mother’s Day! None of us would be on this planet if we weren’t birthed by a mom. That is true of every single person in the world. After we are born, we all have different maternal relationships. Some of these relationships are traditional and some are untraditional. There are moms who adopt or foster children for example.

Sometimes moms can be adopted into a family. Our family adopted Miss Gail Cone. She worked in the Saxe Gotha Presbyterian daycare and my wife Donna, and I took an instant liking to her. She was from Boston and would call me TAWD. Her quick wit, wonderful sense of humor, and warm smile always made me laugh. I always was in a better mood after spending time with her. She and her husband Larry helped us raise our family. She would pick them up from school and spend afternoons with them playing cards, telling stories, and just being Miss Gail. She was a strong woman who had suffered and persevered through the death of her 18-year-old daughter being shot by an exboyfriend, only years later to meet him in jail and forgive him. She was an unofficial grandma to the kids and a wise trusted soul who offered sage advice to a young couple trying to manage three kids, two jobs, a business, and a household without any immediate family nearby.

Miss Gail passed away, unexpectedly, in Boston last week at the age of 77. After the initial shock, I told the kids the news, one by one. It was awful.

I’m so thankful God brought her and Larry into our lives. We shared so many moments together and I’m thankful for all the wisdom and love she poured into our family. She was truly a blessing from God.

Happy Mother’s Day and thanks for reading. Todd Shevchik

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CALENDAR OFevents

MAY•JUNE

Thursday, May 9 – Saturday, May 11

South Carolina Poultry Festival

101 Main St. | Leesville | various times

This free 3-day family event has something for everyone. Enjoy a parade, live music and entertainment, cooking contests, tractor and car shows as you browse food and craft vendors. For the schedule of events visit scpoultryfestival.com.

Friday, May 10

Fun Friday

Crooked Creek Park | 1098 Old Lexington Hwy.

Chapin | 7 pm – 9 pm

Enjoy indoor activities like basketball, 9 square in the air, just dance, freeze tag, and more. Ages 9-14. For more information visit ircr.net.

Friday, May 10 – Saturday, May 11

Midlands Coin, Currency, and Collectibles Show

Embassy Suites | 200 Stoneridge Dr. | Columbia

Buying and selling all types of coins, currency, tokens, metals, gold, and silver with hourly door prizes and membership specials. Parking and admission are free. For more information visit midlandscoinclub.com.

Friday, May 17

2024 Red, White and Brews

Irmo Town Park | 1249 Lexington Ave. 5 pm – 8 pm

The Town of Irmo presents an evening of hand-selected wines, craft beer, food from local restaurants, and live music from Rhythm 54. For tickets visit townofirmo.com.

Saturday, May 25

KMB Spotless Service Saturday

Rawls Creek Park | 1113 Friarsgate Blvd.

Irmo | 9 am - 12 pm

Keep the Midlands Beautiful (KMB) will host a litter cleanup with snacks and supplies provided. For more information visit kmbsc.org.

Saturday, June 1

Drift Jam on Lake Murray

Spence Island | 11 am - 5 pm

Join the world’s largest floating music festival. Thousands of boats and tens of thousands of guests attend this annual Lake Murray festival. For more information visit driftjam.com.

Sunday, June 9

Lake Murray Symphony Orchestra

Harbison Theatre | 7300 College St. | Irmo

3:30 pm

LMSO will perform “Concertos & Cupcakes” and will feature the winners of the 2024 Young Artist Competition. This free event will include a cupcake reception after the concert. For more information visit harbisontheatre.org.

Friday, June 21

Sunset on the Shoals

Saluda Shoals Park | 5605 Bush River Rd. Columbia | 6 pm – 8 pm

Enjoy an interpretive paddle tour on the Saluda River and learn about the unique history of the area followed by a wine tasting. Ages 21 and up, $47 per person. Visit ircr.net to register.

Saturday, June 29

Library Antiques Roadshow

Irmo Branch Library | 6251 St. Andrews Rd. Columbia | 2 pm – 3 pm

Holli McGee from McGee Auction & Appraisal Services will present a short program

about being an auctioneer in South Carolina. Visit lexcolibrary.com for more information.

Saturday, June 29

Fourth of July Celebration

Lake Murray | 9:30 pm

South Carolina’s largest fireworks show will launch at dark from two lake locations: Spence Island and Dreher Island. Fireworks do not launch from the park sites at the dam. Listen to B106 for synchronized music. For more information visit lakemurrayfireworks.com.

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THE PATH OF LIFE

KEITH KNEESHAW

Lead Pastor at Grace Point Church

Have you ever wondered if true satisfaction in life is achievable? We often jump from one pursuit to another, seeking a possession or an experience that will finally bring us peace. We are on a quest for happiness, fulfillment, and contentment, searching for anything that will truly satisfy us. Yet, the things that this world offers to us never seem to be enough.

The human heart naturally seeks satisfaction in everything except God. We search for life in the things of this world without acknowledging the God who created it all. Essentially, anything that becomes the central focus of our lives has become a substitute for God. Psalm 16:4 reflects the devastating effects of this course of action, “the sorrows of those who run after another god shall multiply.” To chase after life through anything in this world will only increase our sadness and heartache.

King David offers an alternative in Psalm 16:2, “You are my Lord; I have no good apart from you.” He further declares that God makes known to us “the path of life” (Psalm 16:11), challenging our natural tendency to pursue life without God and affirming that life can only be found in Him, not even in the good things He provides.

The good news is that life is not found in possessions or experiences. Life is found in a relationship with the God who made us. But how is this relationship possible? The Apostle Peter tells us in Acts 2:31 as he quotes Psalm 16, pointing to the resurrection of Jesus. Peter’s instruction to the people that day is the same for us today, “Repent and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins, and you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit. For the promise is for you and for your children and for all who are far off, everyone whom the Lord our God calls to himself” (Acts 2:38-39).

This is an invitation to turn away from pursuing life through the things of this world and turn to Jesus, the One who can give you life. Even better, since this promise is for those who turn to Jesus and their descendants, finding real life in Christ will redirect your family for generations to come. n

Grace Point Church

11241 Broad River Road, Irmo, SC 803-753-1499 • gracepointsc.com

Service time: Sunday at 9:30 am

by Tenell Felder

Meredith Dial

Chapin native Meredith Dial, who is the mar keting manager for Dial, Grimm and Rupert, was recently elected to Make-A-Wish South Carolina’s board of directors.

“The families that I’ve met and the people I’ve connected with have changed my life every single day since joining the Make-A-Wish board. It’s heartwarming to meet families who are like ours – who have gone through an illness – and being able to cel ebrate alongside them or help them navigate this process,” said Dial.

Meredith and her husband Chad, who met at the University of South Carolina, settled in Chapin before starting their family.

Their son, Myatt who is now six years old and a kindergartner, was born prematurely.

“When he was seven days old, they diagnosed him with respiratory failure. So, at 21 days old, Myatt had surgery to place a tracheostomy. It was an eight-hour long surgery, which was a lot for a four-pound baby.”

Myatt’s doctors suggested to the Dial’s that they apply for Make-A-Wish.

“At the time, we thought that Make-A-Wish was only for terminally ill children –that’s one common misconception about Make-A-Wish. But it’s for critically ill children, too. So, we applied when Myatt was two and a half, that was the minimum age. Sure enough, we were notified that he had been accepted for a wish,” said Dial.

Myatt’s wish was to go to Disney World to meet Mickey Mouse.

“He doesn’t remember being sick, but he remembers going to Disney World. He can look at the scar and go ‘oh, that’s where my trach was or that’s where I used to get fed.’ But he doesn’t remember the trauma of the actual illness and what he went through.”

Through a miraculous turn of events, Myatt’s doctors later informed Meredith that Myatt had been healed from his illness.

Meredith says that things came full circle for her last year when one of her college friend’s daughter was diagnosed with a terminal, aggressive form of cancer.

“They applied for Make-A-Wish and also got to go to Disney World before her daughter got really sick,” said Dial.

“When people say you’re passionate about Make-A-Wish because of your son – I always correct them and say I’m grateful for Make-A-Wish because of my son. I’m passionate about Make-A-Wish because of children like my friend’s daughter and hearing her story. That lit a fire in me in that I wanted to see every qualified child get their wish granted, because I knew from my experience and I knew from talking to this friend, that the wish experience is life-changing not only for the children who are getting the wish, but for the families who get to see that renewed joy and hope that comes from finding out a wish is going to be granted.”

The one thing that Meredith wants people to know about Make-A-Wish is that it is life changing.

“Make-A-Wish changes lives. Whether you are a supporter of it, you have been a part of it, or you are a volunteer for it, it will change you. It will change the way you view illnesses, it will change the way that you want to reach out into your community in the best way possible.” n

Remembering Cale Yarborough

by Tom Poland

The breaking news alert held just 29 words.

“Cale Yarborough, a NASCAR great, dies at 84. Known for his fierce toughness and grit, Mr. Yarborough won the Daytona 500 four times and the Southern 500 five times.”

His death brought back memories from two of this writing cat’s nine lives. In the 1960s, before NASCAR races were routine TV broadcasts, you listened on the radio. Many a Sunday afternoon, Dad and I sat by the radio pulling for King Richard. Among Petty’s competitors was one William Caleb Yarborough. I would meet Cale many years later.

Back when I had dark hair, I worked at the South Carolina Department of Natural Resources as a scriptwriter and cinematographer. Cale Yarborough, a friend of the boss-man, agreed to do a TV spot—a public service announcement—on the importance of responsible outdoor recreation: not littering, not shooting holes in road signs, observing game limits, those kinds of things.

And so, one blistering hot summer day, my partner and I packed up our gear and drove off to a backroad near Timmonsville, South Carolina, a place in the country not that far from Darlington Raceway, “the lady in black, the track too tough to tame.” We filmed Cale leaning on a cedar-post fence near his driveway. No cue cards needed. He memorized his lines.

After many takes, we wrapped things up. Yarborough invited us inside to his trophy room, a long rectangular space of glass cases filled with glittering trophies. Three Winston Cup Championships and 83 career victories had made him a legend, but he was just a friendly man of the South that day. His wife served us iced tea.

Back in Columbia, we placed the film magazine in a changing bag—a portable darkroom—to unload it. There was no film.

We’d been shooting on an empty magazine. All those takes wasted. A week later we called Cale and scheduled another shoot, telling him the lab had gotten air bubbles on the film, a problem that sometimes ruins prints. (We had to save face somehow.)

Back we went. Again, it was brutally hot. Again, we put Cale through all the takes. Again, he and his gracious wife served us iced tea, and again we headed back to Columbia confident we had what we needed.

A week later, the film returned from the film lab with the aforementioned air bubbles, which show up as “craters” on processed film. The print was useless. Again we called Cale and rescheduled a third shoot. As soon as we set foot on his property, he walked up.

“You fellows sure you know what you are doing?”

The public service spot with Cale Yarborough was a simple assignment, though we and bad luck botched the shoots. The third time, however, was the charm. We dubbed in the sounds of wild birds, and soon TV stations across South Carolina and along the Georgia border were televising the NASCAR legend touting responsible outdoor recreation, complete with birdcalls.

It’s been 44 years since I met Cale. As of December 31, 2023, he went to that racetrack in the sky. I no longer make films. Dad left us in 2003, and I no longer follow NASCAR.

I’m sure NASCAR drivers still make public service spots, but I don’t see any. Maybe Cale told them TV spots were a lot of trouble. Maybe he told them they fake the birdcalls. I’ll never know, but I remember a legend from the days when Dad and I glued our ears to the radio most Sundays.

They named a highway after Cale. Whenever I drive it, I remember three afternoons with a legend, a man who helped put NASCAR on the map. n

Silver Lining Club at Leeza’s Care Connection Volunteers at the Heart of Our Mission

by Mary Ann Hutcheson

Anyone who has loved someone diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease understands the challenges involved in full-time care. Leeza Gibbons has lived a successful television and media career. She has also experienced the challenges of Alzheimer’s care, which led her to create a foundation to help others who need support. As an offshoot of Leeza’s Care Connection, Silver Lining Club was created to address that specific need. Loving, dedicated, and compassionate volunteers make up the fabric of the respite care family and were asked to describe what led them to Silver Lining Club.

Leeza Describes it Best.

“At Leeza’s Care Connection, our philosophy about caring is that ‘you can hang on to yourself even while letting go of someone you love’. Our Silver Lining Club is a beautiful reflection of that because it provides caregivers some time for themselves while their diagnosed loved

ones are welcomed into our community of love and support.

We know that providing more care and support for caregivers translates into better outcomes for the care receivers. That’s why Silver Lining Club is such a success and is in such high demand.

Our volunteers get tremendous gratification from the hours spent singing, creating, eating, and celebrating life. It’s the perfect antidote for the hopeless and helpless feelings that someone emerges from caring for someone with a chronic illness or disease. We focus on what’s left instead of what’s lost.”

Why We Volunteer

Peggy Jones

My mom was one of the first to be enrolled in the Silver Lining Program. She loved socializing, and I needed the break. After my mom passed, I knew that the Silver Lining Club (SLC) would always be a part of my volunteering because of how my mom benefited from it.

When I walk through the doors at SLC, I set aside all my concerns and prepare myself for a time filled with joy and fun. My whole demeanor is uplifted. I know I make a huge difference for their loved ones, and they feel it for a long time. They smile, laugh, feel love, participate in activities, socialize, and feel accepted.

My life is fuller as I let each loved one know they are special. When I leave SLC, my heart overflows with joy.

Peggy Jones

I feel that I make others’ lives a little happier and that I am needed. — Lil Eaves

Betsy Smith

I witnessed both my father-in-law and a dear friend struggle with dementia. I also saw what life became for their spouses, as primary caregivers. My father-in-law attended a program similar to Silver Lining Club, and I saw firsthand what a blessing the day out was for both my father-in-law and mother-in-law. Seeing my father-inlaw get ready for his day out brought such a smile to my heart. He spent a full battery charge of his razor, shaving for “the ladies.” He told me about the group dancing and exercising, and we did it together.

As a recent retiree, I thought the Silver Lining Club was something I would like to do. Little did I know how much I would enjoy my time spent with our guests and the other volunteers. We have made connections and friendships with each other as we enjoy playing games, singing, laughing, talking, and crafting.

After a day at Silver Lining Club, our guests take some joy from the day home with them, just like I know my father-inlaw did.

Lil Eaves

My time at the Silver Lining Club has been very rewarding and fun. I look forward to coming every Wednesday.

My sorority group started volunteering and doing service projects with Leeza’s Care Connection a long time ago. For the last ten years, since I retired as a kindergarten teacher, I have volunteered at the school where I taught, at my church, and with my sorority. l love working with people of all ages.

When a call was sent out two and a half years ago looking for volunteers, I asked myself why not go to the Silver Lining Club? From the moment I started until today, I always anticipate being greeted with smiles, hellos, “Let’s dance,” “What’s next?” and “Thank you!” I feel that I make others’ lives a little happier and that I am needed. I leave happy and exhausted at the end of each Wednesday.

Katherine Keckeisen

My mom had dementia for many years, starting at the age of 75. My mom was the sweetest, kindest person I have ever known, and she transferred to me the importance of being kind. When my brothers and I eventually had to place her in a memory facility, I visited her every day and looked forward to seeing her and all the patients. After my mom passed, I had an empty space in my heart. I learned about Leeza’s Silver Lining Club at my church and instantly knew this was a place where I could help others like my mom.

The first day I volunteered at SLC I came home and just cried. I realized that this program may have helped me more than I helped them. I fell in love with everyone there.

I cherish the time I get to spend with these special friends each week. We laugh, sing, dance, talk, and just enjoy being ourselves. Silver Lining Club day is the best day of my week.

Debbie Smoak

My mom had dementia for about ten years. When I retired, I began to attend Wednesday Lunch ‘N Learns at Leeza’s Care to learn as much as I could. I was

Betsy Smith

Lil Eaves

Katherine Keckeisen

a long-distance caregiver for the last four years, traveling to Ohio to help every couple of months. I finally retired early to care for them.

When my dad passed away in 2019, my mom came to live with us. She was the second person to sign up for the Silver Lining Club when it began. It was a blessing for us both. She attended for several months until the pandemic in 2020 had to suspend the program. When it reopened, Mom was in a memory care facility. After she passed in 2022, I became a volunteer because I knew the value for the caregiver and the participants. I have always said it is the most important day of my week. I am always telling people about Leeza’s, and I think what they offer is invaluable.

Ali Koehler

I have always been involved with the elderly. I volunteered at Oakleaf Village in middle school and completed an Alzheimer’s project in high school. I questioned how I wanted to live my life and how I wanted to treat people. I like feeling what others are feeling, even if they can’t express it. Like most volunteers, I think I’m a natural caregiver and empathic, some-

thing inherent in our core, caring and feeling deeply for others.

As part of my Capstone real-world experience for a degree in public health, I started at Silver Lining Club in February 2023 and knew immediately that it was a great opportunity. It was a joyful environment; it felt good, and I loved everybody from day one.

Afterward, I was accepted as a volunteer at SLC. I knew that this was something I was meant to do. Towards the end of their lives, people have so much knowledge. There is deep value in what they have to say if you stop and listen, something I might not have learned otherwise.

Mary Ann Hutcheson

Several years ago, while searching for help and information for a dear friend, I was directed to Leeza’s Care Connection in Irmo, and ultimately to Silver Lining Club. Becoming a volunteer has been an unexpected high point in my life. The people we greet each Wednesday bring with them cheerfulness, appreciation, and love-vital emotions in a complicated world.

We delight in who our guests once were when they share stories about their past.

We expect nothing from our guests except that they enjoy themselves. And that, they do.

—Mary Ann Hutcheson

Ali Koehler

Mary Ann Hutcheson

Debbie Smoak

But living in the moment is the most important lesson of all. We engage with patience and acceptance, and we celebrate reciprocal love. Among the volunteers are retired teachers and nurses, as well as family member caretakers. We expect nothing from our guests except that they enjoy themselves. And that, they do.

Taking our guests into our hearts has lessened the fear of the disease that I thought would keep me from volunteering.

Instead, it has made me stronger, humbler, and appreciative of every moment.

Susan Hawfield

I first became involved with Leeza’s Care Connection several years ago teaching art to caregivers, which I enjoyed. I was offered the opportunity to take over the Silver Lining Club as the Activity Director to plan each week’s theme, and project and oversee the flow of the day for the quests that come for a respite day, giving caregivers a little breather.

This position was very different for me, and I immediately saw the need for it in the community when I fell in love with our guests, their caregivers, and the wonderful volunteers.

Working with the volunteers as a real team makes such a special day. Everyone experiences smiles, laughter, singing, dancing, and active, engaging activities. I have stepped down from this position to become a volunteer now. Knowing that I have been a little part of this service to the community has brought me much joy and fulfillment.

To find out more about, to volunteer, or donate visit leezascareconnection.org. n

“Throughout our years of service, we have learned from our guests, that those who care often disappear from their own lives; becoming stressed and depressed as a result of the extraordinary demands of caring.

With Silver Lining Club, we can address the needs of both ends of the caregiving spectrum; providing respite and community.”

Leeza Gibbons

Susan Hawfield

Spirit of Lake Murray

“Is that a cruise ship on the lake?”

Sort of.

For nearly a decade, the Spirit of Lake Murray, an eighty-foot dinner and event yacht, was a staple on the horizon of Lake Murray, and she has once again set sail, with an all-new look and service.

The 1994 Skipperliner, which would become the Spirit, was originally named The Jacksonville Princess, and served in the Jacksonville, FL area for many years before she was purchased by the Colten Family, who brought her to Lake Murray in 2009. She sailed from the Sunshine State to Charleston, then was disassembled and trucked to Shealy’s Landing, reassembled, and floated in Miss Murray. After some upfit and work, she set sail on the Lake in

2010, offering dinner cruises and private events for several years, until 2019, when she was docked in Leesville in need of service required by the United States Coast Guard.

While she wasn’t “in service” as a touring vessel, she was used, for a short time, as a venue for bands and acted as a “beer garden” in Leesville, off of Highway 378, however, Covid, like so many venues, closed her doors…or gangplank, as it were, leaving her fate in question.

The Spirit sat in the waters at the Hollow Creek Marina for a few years, until two longtime lake residents, Norman Agnew (Yes, of Agnew Lake Service) and Rick Crout, saw the vision of what she could be. Together, they created Lake Murray

by Tyler Ryan

Tour Partners, LLC, acquired the eightyfoot Skipperliner, and set about to change history and her future.

“I felt like there was a need and an opportunity,” says Crout, whose background includes operating a successful aviation business for many years, buying, and selling jet airplanes, along with working in Charleston Harbor as a boat captain. “I remember being on a boat for events, and always loved the experience.” Agnew also had a connection to the Spirit, as she was docked just across the cove from his family dock building business in Ballentine…oh, and then there was the boat he operated with his father, The Southern Patriot

In November of 2022, the Partners came to terms with the Coltons, acquired

the Spirit, and sailed her from Leesville to what would become her new home, in the very cove where she started her career on Lake Murray, and then the real work began - breathing new life into the boat that had made so many memories for guests over the years.

The plans included replacing some of the hull, which, over the years, and partly because the first half of her life was in salt water, was in bad shape. They also planned to create a true bar down the starboard (the right for you landlubbers) side of the interior.

“There was such a missed opportunity,” Agnew says, “The bar was in the bow (the front) of the boat, which meant that guests were missing some of the best views of the lake, out of the front window.

Other plans included creating a full working galley (kitchen), that could actually prepare food, as in the past, everything was catered into the prep kitchen that was on board. The fully operational galley would also allow for the boat to have a full

liquor license, enhancing the onboard experience for guests who wished to partake in an adult beverage.

Other additions included reconfiguring the heads (bathrooms), ensuring that at least one could accommodate wheelchairs. On the top deck, the team wanted to redo the Admiral’s Room, an intimate private area, as well as remove a metal roof near the stern (the back) which obscured the night sky.

“We knew she needed some work, but it turned out she needed a lot of work,” notes Crout, pointing out that as they peeled each layer off, they learned of more repairs she needed. As they began the renovation process, they learned that many of the key support beams were unsafe, and replacing a few panels of the hull became a complete rebuild. “Cutting corners wasn’t an option,” Agnew says, pointing out that they took the extra time and expense to not simply make it “good enough,” but “right.”

Over the next twelve months, the Spir-

it was basically built from the ground up, working step by step with the Coast Guard, which issues a “certificate of inspection” to allow for more than six paying passengers, per federal law. She was gutted inside, and a team of welders spent countless days cutting out the old steel and putting in new steel. The motors were overhauled, and a new generator was installed, and construction on the 25-foot bar was completed.

All the while when the welders were well, welding, plans for the experience side were being developed. Steve Price joined the team as the General Manager, bringing many years of restaurant and hospitality experience. “At the end of the day, it is a restaurant, and the guest’s experience is the number one concern,” he says, with Crout following up with, “Right after safety.”

The final float tests and inspections were completed in December, along with the issuance of an A card from DHEC, and the new and improved Spirit of Lake Murray was ready to set sail.

And sail she has, already…The “new” Spirit of Lake Murray has already created a splash in the lake, offering an amazing array of public dinner cruises, with tasty creations originating in the onboard galley, along with amazing cocktails with some of the best service around.

The Spirit of Lake Murray offers public dinner cruises, can be booked for private events, and when she isn’t sailing, she is open to the public as the coolest happy hour spot around, sitting on the dock, but open for business, offering food, drinks, and a gentle breeze in the air.

Get ready to set sail and make your reservations at SpiritofLakeMurray.com. n

Nurturing Generations at Southeastern Esthetics Institute’s Child Care Center

In today’s fast-paced world, working mothers face the challenge of juggling professional goals with the demands of parenthood.

Southeastern Esthetics Institute (SEEI) understands this problem and attempts to help solve it.

The Child Care Center at SEEI stands as a testament to their commitment—supporting not only the families within the institute but the entire community.

Established with the foresight of nurturing both career and family, Southeastern Esthetics Institute’s initiative is an assurance to every parent pursuing their ambitions. Whether building a career or expanding knowledge through adult education, the Child Care Center at SEEI provides a haven where children are supported in an environment rich with care and possibilities. With both hourly and weekly rate rates, there are options to fit any schedule.

The Child Care Center at SEEI surpasses the traditional concept of support. It fosters a burgeoning community fabric woven with bonds of empathy, collaboration, and mutual progress. Recognizing the challenges scholarly parents face, this center serves as a pillar, allowing them to

pursue their educational goals with peace of mind, knowing their children are just a stone’s throw away, engaged and delighted in a stimulating, compassionate setting.

Chief Administrative Officer and Licensed Esthetics Instructor, Courtney Sykes, shared, “Our commitment to childcare is a vow to collective advancement. Through empathy, understanding, and direct support, we create a place where children laugh, learn, and thrive while their parents realize their full potential without reservation.”

Sykes continued, “In the spirit of community growth and individual achievement, we invite everyone to acknowledge the crucial role such services play—in the lives of our families, within our workplaces, and throughout the fabric of our society.”

Southeastern Esthetics Institute is the premier beauty and wellness educational institute in the Midlands. Their programs include an Esthetics Licensure Course, an Advanced Esthetics Academy, a Cosmetology Program, a Nail Technology Program, and a Massage Therapy Program. They also provide CEU Courses for professionals in Esthetics, Cosmetology, and Nails –as well as a wide array of professional development opportunities and Certification Courses.

By integrating childcare within its organizational architecture, the Child Care Center at SEEI establishes a vision where career growth and parental responsibility work together. It is an environment that breathes vibrancy into the saying that ‘it takes a village to raise a child.’ The Child Care Center at SEEI not only uplifts the morale of working and learning parents but also resonates through the productivity and contentment it brings to the entire community.

The facility is engineered to be a place of diversity and learning, where future leaders are shaped. The Child Care Center at SEEI echoes the belief that supporting children is part of crafting a beacon of hope—the light that guides us toward a

collective and prosperous future.

Launching the Child Care Center at SEEI symbolizes a stronger, more connected tomorrow. It is a place where occupational pursuits and academic achievements of parents unite with child-rearing responsibilities. It’s not just about aiding; it’s about nurturing relationships that grow and prosper, opening unprecedented doors for mothers forging paths in both work and study.

By initiating a conversation around support systems like those at the Child Care Center at SEEI, the team hopes to inspire others to follow suit—a movement to strengthen communities through the empowerment of working parents and the well-being of their children. n

Three-time brain cancer survivor shares message of hope

by Erin Bluvas

Juliana Smith’s parents couldn’t believe it when their four-year-old showed signs of puberty and wore a size seven shoe as a kindergartener. The experts at Vanderbilt University Medical Center could not detect any abnormalities and diagnosed her with precocious puberty.

A couple of years went by, and Smith began experiencing severe headaches. She also had a virus nearly every other week – feeling like she was constantly sick. The pediatrician agreed to do a CAT scan even though he didn’t expect they would find anything.

“The radiologist had tears going down her face when she was looking at the scan,” Smith remembers. “But she wasn’t allowed to tell us anything in person. We had to drive home and listen to a message on our answering machine saying that I had a huge mass behind my eyes and nose.”

It was January of 1998, and Smith was only seven years old. The Madisonville, Kentucky-based family made the two-hour drive to Vanderbilt the next week. Smith needed surgery to remove the cancerous tumor (Juvenile Pilocytic Astrocytoma), but the doctors first inserted a shunt to relieve the intense pressure that had built up over the years.

The doctors believed the first grader had been born with the tumor and couldn’t believe she had made it this far. They removed 88 percent of the golf ball-sized mass – afraid to go any deeper – and prescribed 18 months of chemotherapy.

Fortunately, the chemo didn’t make her terribly sick, and Smith was able to attend school every day except Thursdays when she received her treatments. Unfortunately, the remaining tumor didn’t shrink, and when the chemo stopped, it began to grow again.

Smith underwent her second brain surgery in 2000 when she was in fourth grade. The neurosurgeon hoped he had gotten it all and that there was only scar tissue left. A year of more difficult chemotherapy followed, including numerous platelet transfusions and large doses of Benadryl to allow her body to accept the treatments.

“I spent so much time in that infusion room, but I have good memories of the place,” Smith says. “My little brother was a toddler at the time, and I can still see my neuro-oncologist picking him up and carrying him around with his coat swinging. He grew up with a lot of acceptance – playing with kids who had lost their hair or had an eye swollen shut due to their cancer treatments.”

The mass (which turned out to not be scar tissue) stayed the same size for five years until it began growing again when Smith was 15. This time, her surgeon, who had moved to the Cleveland Clinic, thought he could get all of the tumor and was optimistic about a new type of radiation that was less likely to cause other types of cancer.

The good news was that the surgery and radiation worked. The bad news is that the latter put Smith into early menopause before she could even drive.

It has been 25 years since her first diagnosis at age seven and nearly two decades since Smith was declared cancer-free. Her only long-term symptom is short-term memory loss. The biggest outcome of this experience is her positive attitude.

“I might not be able to tell you what I ate for dinner last night, but I have an aptitude for math and an optimistic outlook,” the long-time tutor says.

“When you get down, take a day to be sad and then do what you need to do to start again tomorrow”

Smith counts her blessings every day –starting with a trip of a lifetime (which she has since repeated twice) to Germany as a Make-A-Wish recipient in 1999. Her grandmother migrated from a Bavarian town to the United States, and the Smiths were thrilled to meet their extended family.

The experience has kept the immediate family close as well. Thirteen years ago, they moved to Indiana, where Smith used her associate degree as a chemistry and high school teaching assistant for more than a decade. After visiting her brother in South Carolina, they moved here two years ago to reunite the family once again.

Now a Chapin resident, Smith loves her job at Auten’s Loft Boutique. Her tutoring services have never been in higher demand.

“Somebody above knows what they’re doing when they put something in your path,” she says of her job, which is the perfect fit.

Every summer, Smith devotes a couple of weeks to a place that is near and dear to her heart. Camp Horizons is a children’s

oncology camp located outside of Nashville, Tennessee. A newly diagnosed Smith attended during the summer between first and second grades and then every year after that until she aged out at 18 and became a volunteer.

“I confess to being the cheesiest kid when it comes to camp songs – even at age 33,” says Smith, who helps with arts and crafts and notes that campers can even get chemotherapy treatments during their stay.

Giving back is important to her because brain tumors continue to be a major health challenge for many Americans and their families. The National Brain Tumor Society estimates that more than one million Americans (13K+ of them children) are living with a brain tumor, with nearly 100,000 individuals diagnosed each year.

Fortunately, more than two-thirds of tumors are benign; however, even nonmalignant tumors are more likely than any other

cancer to have lasting and life-altering impacts on physical, cognitive, and psychological aspects of a patient’s life.

Each year, an estimated 18,000+ patients lose their lives to malignant brain tumors. Those who persist face a discouraging 35.7 percent survival rate.

These last facts are the ones that make Smith’s story so inspirational. She manages any lingering symptoms with medications and a positive attitude. Her recent 25th anniversary is a special one for Smith, who tries to share hope, light, love, and joy wherever possible.

“When you get down, take a day to be sad and then do what you need to do to start again tomorrow,” she says. “Even if you take 10 medications a day and have to visit the doctor twice a week, do what you have to do. It just becomes your new lifestyle as you count your blessings and make the most of the life you are given.” n

KAMINER AND DAIKIN TOGETHER ARE A WINNING COMBINATION.

Summer Adventure at the Lexington County Library

by Tenell Felder

This summer, those looking for adventure may not have to go much further than their local library’s summer reading program.

“Traditionally, our summer reading program was just for kids, but we have expanded it for all ages. Anyone in Lexington County can sign up – adults, teens, children, and even babies who aren’t reading yet, you can sign up your infants. Anyone in Lexington County can sign up whether or not they have a library card,” said Lexington County Public Library Youth Services Coordinator, Jennifer Smith.

June 1 is the kick-off date for the Lexington County Library System’s summer reading program. Each of the Lexington County Library branches will host a kick-off party that patrons can attend the first week of June.

– those can be adventures,” said Smith.

Summer reading program participants can use a paper log or the online tracking system, Beanstack, to keep track of their reading or summer adventures.

For the reading portion, participants will receive a free book to get them started.

“Because we are asking people to read, what better way to get started than by giving them a book? We have board books for babies and chapter books for younger readers, teens, and adults to choose from,” Smith shared.

This year’s theme, Adventure Begins at Your Library, will help kids and adults alike find new experiences to try this summer.

“This year’s theme focuses on adventures. Visiting a park, going for a walk, and writing about it, trying a new recipe

If participants choose the reading track, they will log 20-minute increments daily.

“The daily 20-minute increments of reading equals 12 hours of reading over the summer. Research has shown that 20 minutes of daily reading can prevent summer slide. Children who don’t read over the summer are behind their peers who have kept up with 20 minutes,” said Smith.

Smith added that listening to books through audiobooks also counts towards the daily goal.

“I’m a big audiobook fan. We have the Libby and Hoopla audiobook apps. You can listen for 20 minutes, and when it’s done, you’ve finished your 20 minutes of reading. I like to do this when I’m housecleaning or in the garden.”

If summer reading program participants choose to take the activities track, they can log 36 quests.

“Our different activities are called

quests, and they are really fun. They can be listening to new music, trying a new recipe, coming to a library program, or getting a library card. We also have adventure passes that we check out for our state parks. So, you can check out a state park adventure pass and go to any state park for free with an adventure pack,” explained Smith. She continued, “We also have passes to local museums. You can get into the Lex-

ington County Museum or the Columbia Museum of Art for free if you check out an adventure pass from us.”

August 10 will be the last day of the summer reading program. Prizes will be awarded for different categories to those who complete and log their summer reading. For more information on Lexington County Library System’s summer reading program, visit lexcolibrary.com. n

spotlight LAKEVIEW Retirement Community

Picture coming home to a worry-free way of life. Imagine a luxurious, safe, and comfortable community with a great location for fun local outings. With three chef-prepared meals offered daily, and weekly housekeeping and maintenance included, you’ll have more time for family, friends, and the other important things in life. This vision comes to life at Lakeview Retirement Community, an independent retirement community in Columbia.

Designed for comfort, the apartment homes come in a variety of floor plans. Each living space features window coverings, a climate-controlled thermostat, and ample closet space. Apartment kitchens are also equipped with full-sized appliances. Residents are free to design their units around their unique tastes. Pets are also warmly welcome for no additional fee.

The best feature is the live-in community manager team. The managers are your neighbors and live on-site to ensure residents are happily enjoying their best retirement life. With the 24/7 Emergency Alert System, help is always nearby.

The gorgeous Lakeview Retirement Community is full of amenities and services, allowing residents to enjoy all the conveniences of all-inclusive living without the hassle of upkeep. The list of amenities offers residents choice and flexibility in how they spend their time. For one monthly price, residents can enjoy:

n No Buy-In Fee/Month-to-Month Rent

n Signature Freedom Dining Program

n 24/7 Emergency Alert System

n Weekly Housekeeping

n 24-HR Concierge Services & Valet Parking

n Robust Social Calendar

n Paid Utilities

n Studio, 1, 2, and 3 Bedrooms

n Full-Size Kitchens

n 150-Seat Theater

n Pets Warmly Welcomed

Relax in the theater while watching a movie or get active in a yoga class; spend teatime with the gals or watch a game with the guys; cuddle up with a good book or join a happy hour for fun times with the neighbors. However you wish to spend your time, the Lakeview Retirement Community will support the retirement of your dreams.

Purple Martin

phenomenon

by Kim Becknell Williams

“Everyone likes birds. What wild creature is more accessible to our eyes and ears, as close to us and everyone in the world, as universal as a bird?” ~David Attenborough

Zach Steinhauser is a naturalist, who turned a passion for what he loves into work that educates others on wildlife and the outdoors. He shares his knowledge through numerous eco-tours, works at a local gardening center, and a recently completed documentary on Purple Martins.

“I grew up admiring Steve Irwin (the late TV star of The Crocodile Hunter) and always looked for every opportunity to get

outside and get my hands on any wildlife I could find,” Steinhauser said. “I’ve carried that passion into my career traveling around the world to encounter the animals I grew up reading about and watching on television,” he continued.

A lot of his work focuses on Purple Martins, North America’s largest swallow species. The birds arrive in South Carolina in the spring, usually between February and March. He explained that then they go to nesting colonies, nest in manmade birdhouses, gourds, or condos, lay eggs around April, and incubate for six to eight

weeks until around Memorial Day or June. Once the babies are gone and have literally flown the coop, the birds flock to Bomb Island for a pre-migratory roost. While there, they sleep on the island overnight, go off during the day, and flock back together at night. Around Labor Day the birds leave before winter to go to the Amazon Rainforest. So, there is a window of time to get to see them locally.

Steinhauser is an owner of Carolina Safari Co., which offers boat tours to see the birds during their brief stay on the island. A licensed captain with the Coast Guard, Captain Zach leads the boat excursions. This allows the other tour participants to get a closer view of the birds during their visit to Bomb Island, which is located in the middle of Lake Murray. “We leave Jakes Landing Marina and cruise out to Bomb Island where I discuss with my guests the happenings of Purple Martins on Lake Murray and why they are flocking on this particular island,” he said. “After sunset, as the birds are settling down for the night, we head back to the marina.” Relaxing lake water, and magnificent views of the flock of birds, topped off with a stunning sunset are sure to impress. “Most of the guests I take out are viewing this for the first time, they are usually awe-struck that so many birds can gather in one place.” Guests include families, couples, outdoor nature enthusiasts, and local Lake Murray residents.

Many gardeners and bird lovers build and/or erect houses to draw Purple Martins to their yards. Jill Monger is one of

those who lives near the S.C. coast. She has created a habitat for birds, including Purple Martins right in her backyard where the birds return each year. “I adore waking each morning to their song,” Monger said. “Scouts show up in February; families move in April or May.” She goes out each February to clean out the houses in preparation for the Purple Martins’ annual visit. “Predators have been an issue,” she said. “So, I changed houses and the fledge in July.” She uses a wave pattern opening with her gourds after discovering that a grackle had carried away the hatchlings a few years ago. A hobby that began more than twenty years ago continues to draw many feathered friends to her backyard oasis.

Those interested in birding and outdoor nature lovers can venture throughout the state to see how wildlife thrives. One way to do this is through other guided outdoor excursions with Carolina Safari Co. delving into different natural areas across the state. It’s a great way to observe, take photos in a natural setting, and learn a little. Some of these excursions for private groups, team building, and other interested participants include:

• birdwatching in various areas of the state, like Kiawah, West Columbia, and Allendale

• kayaking to see spider lilies in bloom at Landsford Canal State Park

• stranding dolphin tours

• bison ranch tours

• fossil hunts (popular near the coast)

• workshops

• nature walks

For more information and to see photos visit carolinasafarico.com.

Steinhauser’s newest adventure includes making his conservation film documenting the Purple Martin world. He has always

had an interest in wildlife filmmaking and now that interest has come to fruition. He started making the documentary about five years ago and it premiered in Lexington in April 2022. “Purple Haze is a film that is meant to inspire everyday folks to look at the wildlife they have in their community and look into what they can do to help and conserve our local wildlife,” he said. “It just so happened that the Purple Martins on Lake Murray sent me halfway around the world and back.” Screenings are ongoing with one slated for June in Columbia. For more info, to view the trailer, and for screening updates, check the website purplehazeacfmovie.com.

Aside from his ecotourism work and making the Purple Haze documentary, Steinhauser works at Wingard’s Market in Lexington as a naturalist in their Backyard Nature Center. He assists customers with creating backyard ponds, showing others how to make a sustainable habitat for wildlife, and, of course, offering birding expertise to help those who want to draw birds to their yards. n

Five fun facts about Purple Martins from Steinhauser:

1. Purple Martins are not always purple. Depending on how the light hits them they can look blue or purple, it’s a matter of perspective.

2. They dine on insects in the air. They are what is called an “aerial insectivore” meaning they feed primarily on insects, and they catch them while in flight. They are not like mockingbirds who run around people’s yards plucking bugs out of the grass.

3. The birds prefer hanging out in spacious places. Wetlands like Lake

Murray are great because they have ample open airspace, but meadows and farms are also great places to find them.

4. The longest-living Purple Martin made it to 13 years old.

5. When the birds gather at Bomb Island, they are so numerous that the flock shows up on the NEXRAD Radar.

The Downing Group

Cut the Cord

Stop Paying a Fortune for Cable

by Sean Wise

Does your monthly cable bill seem to be too high? Many people are paying a lot of money for content they don’t even watch. Is there anything that you can do about it? The answer is yes!

You can easily cancel your cable service and continue to watch the content you enjoy for less money, or sometimes even no money at all. Sixty percent of Americans have already canceled their cable, wouldn’t you like to save money and join them?

But how?

First steps

The first thing to do is figure out what programming you are watching. This may seem like common sense, but it will be helpful to list the programs and channels you are watching. When you drop your cable, you will need to access some of your programming from different sources, having this watch list will be very helpful.

Next, you’ll need to know how many TVs and/or devices you are going to watch your programming on. This will help to determine the appropriate amount of internet speed you will need. Watching simultaneously on more devices equals more internet speed needed. A good rule of thumb is to have at least 20-25 mbps of speed for each device you are using. If you have cable, you may already have internet service with it, so make sure it is fast enough for when you make the switch.

Next, you’ll need to buy a digital antenna which is very affordable. An indoor antenna will be ideal for bringing in at least 30-50 channels without any interference. You can watch all of your regular local programming “over the air” with your antenna for free. Start crossing things off of your watch list already.

Streaming free content

There is a limitless amount of programming you can watch over the internet. Watching programs delivered to you through the internet is known as streaming. To watch this content on a phone, tablet, or computer will simply require you to log on to a website or download an app. Some services like Pluto, Tubi, and Roku offer a lot of free content, a good place to start is by Googling these services and reviewing their programming. Check

your watch list again.

To access these services, you will either need a Smart TV or a device that connects your TV to the internet. Most Blu-Ray players will do this, or PlayStation, Xboxes, and the like can be used. If you don’t have these a streaming box like the ones made by Roku, Amazon, or Apple will work. All of these will allow you to stream a lot of free content straight to the TV. Cross more shows off of your list.

Subscription services

By now, you’ve probably crossed a lot of programming off of your list and you aren’t paying a dime yet. Most likely there are a couple of things left and for this programming, you will need to think about subscription services.

If you watch movies, I’d bet most of you have heard of Netflix, but there are many others. If you are an Amazon Prime member and you are already subscribed to their video service, it is included in your membership. Others like Disney, Hulu, Peacock, and Starz are also available. They are all pretty affordable too, around $8-10

COMPORIUM

is a local internet service provider (ISP) that provides fiber-to-thehome-based internet to neighborhoods throughout Lexington County. Comporium is also partnering with the State of South Carolina to bring FTTP service to rural areas.

“In addition to making sure they have enough bandwidth to watch multiple streams simultaneously, we recommend that our customers make sure that they have a strong Wi-Fi signal at the location of each set.

We offer a managed Wi-Fi product that ensures a strong signal wall-to-wall and also includes parental controls and other home network management tools.”

Matthew Dosch, Comporium

Executive Vice President and Chief Operating Officer

a month. Most offer free trial periods so you can try them out first. Again, Google is your friend, so do some shopping.

Most sports programming will require you to subscribe to a service to watch it. The good news: all of these services are also just a fraction of what the cable bill was. ESPN is available as a standalone service, and services like Fubo, Amazon Prime, and YouTube TV offer a wide variety of programming in addition to sports programming. This is where your watch list and Googling will be invaluable again, do some shopping to get the best value.

Now Cut That Cord!

You’ve done it! You’ve got the antenna, you are streaming, and you have crossed everything off of your watch list. Time to call the cable company and cancel your service. Even with the subscription services you will be using, you will have to cut your monthly cable bill in half or more. You will still be enjoying your favorite programs, and you will now have access to more content than you would have ever imagined. n

by Heather Wilson

Gifts for Mom on Mother’s Day

figures) in our lives. It is an ideal time to thank them for all they do. If you have a special mother in your life, you should not only spend time with her but offer her a small gift to show your appreciation for all she does for you throughout the year. Here is a list of some gift ideas to celebrate the mother in your life.

Spa Day Gift Certificate

Nobody needs a spa day more than a mother with a busy routine. Whether she’s been talking about needing a massage or pedicure, tailor the spa treatment to her needs and give her the day off she deserves.

Bath Gift Basket

You can personalize your gift by making a gift basket of relaxing bath favorites. Bath bombs, bubble baths, fancy soaps, or face masks can all make excellent additions to a bath gift basket. You can pair this basket with a bathtub tray for added convenience.

Annual Pass to Local Spot

One of the best gifts you can get your mother is an annual pass to a local spot that she loves. It could be an art gallery, museum, zoo, or garden. This gift is something that will keep giving all year long and allow her to remember you every time she goes.

Flower Seeds

Flowers are a great gift for moms (no kidding!). Instead of gifting a bouquet of flowers, you may want to give your mom

some seeds. If your mom loves gardening, this is an ideal gift. You can spend time planting them together and enjoying all that the outdoors has to offer. Your mother will surely think of you when the flowers start to bloom.

Portable Charger

For the mom who forgets to charge her phone, this is a great gift idea. She will love how easy it is to charge her phone while she is on the go.

Car Detailing

While most people will think about their dad when it comes to cars, mothers love a clean car just as much as fathers do. You can choose to detail the car yourself if you are looking for a budget-friendly gift, or get it done professionally. Either way, your mother will be excited to get into a clean and fresh-smelling car.

Kitchen Gear

If your mother loves to cook, get her a new set of kitchen utensils along with new potholders and an apron. Not only will your

spending time with you if you choose to cook together.

Pajamas

Pamper your mom with a nice pair of pajamas. You can get her a comfortable and soft pair of pajamas bundled with a new pair of slippers.

Digital Photo Frame

Make sharing memories easy for everyone. You can send photos and videos directly to her and they will show up on her digital frame. She can even import all of her photos from Google, Facebook, and Instagram and have a running slideshow. This is an ideal gift for moms who simply love photos.

Perfume

Perfume is a great gift for mothers on their special day. Get her favorite brand of perfume or surprise her with something new.

Travel Accessories

Everyone needs their go-to bags for traveling. Think beyond just suitcases for clothes but for bags for makeup, jewelry, and shoes. Throw in travel water bottles, coolers, and totes for the mom on the go.

Every mother wants a gift that means something to her and reminds her of her family. These gifts will not only remind her of you every time she sees them but will also bring added joy on Mother’s Day. n

effective Ways to Manage Seasonal Allergies

by Lisa Morris

Are you one of the millions of people suffering from seasonal allergies? If so, you know how miserable allergy season can be. Sneezing, itchy eyes, and a runny nose are just a few symptoms that can make you feel downright miserable. But the good news is that there are things you can do to prepare for allergy season and reduce your exposure to allergens.

Monitor the pollen count.

One of the easiest ways to prepare for allergy season is to monitor the pollen count. It’s not hard to do, either. Many weather apps and websites provide daily pollen counts for your area. Check the pollen count regularly and plan your activities accordingly. If the pollen count is high, try to stay indoors as much as possible, especially in the morning and early evening when pollen levels tend to be highest.

If you love to exercise outdoors, consider moving your workout to a different time of day or taking it inside. And if you do have to go outside, minimize your exposure to pollen by wearing a hat and sunglasses to keep pollen away from your face and eyes.

Keep your home clean.

Another way to reduce your exposure to allergens is to keep your home clean. Dust and vacuum regularly and use a HEPA filter in your vacuum to trap allergens. HEPA filters are designed to capture even the tiniest particles, like pollen and pet dander, so they

don’t get kicked up into the air when you vacuum.

Did you know that washing your bedding, curtains, and other fabrics regularly can be a game-changer for improving your indoor air quality? Not only does it help eliminate dust mites, but it also removes pollen and other allergens that can trigger allergies and asthma symptoms.

So, what’s the secret to effective fabric cleaning? It’s simple - hot water! Washing your fabrics in hot water is the most effective way to kill dust mites and remove pollen. Ideally, the water temperature should be at least 130°F (54°C) to ensure you eliminate mites and allergens. Wash your fabrics regularly, at least once a week, to maintain a healthy and clean environment.

Also, use a dehumidifier to keep the humidity in your home below 50 percent to discourage mold growth. Mold thrives in moist environments, so reducing the amount of moisture in the air is key to preventing its growth. A dehumidifier removes excess moisture from the air and collects it in a reservoir or drains it out of your home. By keeping the humidity levels in your home low, you can create an environment less hospitable to mold.

Remove the clothes and shoes you wear outdoors when you come in.

Did you know that removing your outdoor clothes and shoes before entering your home

can make a big difference in reducing the amount of allergens in your living space?

When you spend time outside, you can easily pick up allergens like pollen, dust, and dirt on your clothes and shoes. These allergens can then make their way into your home and cause allergic reactions or exacerbate existing allergies.

By taking off your outdoor clothes and shoes before coming inside, you can minimize the number of allergens that enter your living space. It’s a simple and easy habit that can make a big difference in your indoor air quality and health. So, next time you come inside from a walk or errands, take a moment to take off your shoes before coming inside and change clothes so you don’t spread allergens throughout the house.

Keep windows and doors closed.

During allergy season, it’s best to keep your windows and doors closed to keep pollen and other allergens out. Use an air conditioner to keep your home cool, and ensure the filter is clean and functioning properly. If you need to open a window, do it in the early morning or late evening when pollen counts are lowest.

Use a Neti Pot to flush out allergens.

Have you ever heard of a Neti Pot? It might sound strange at first, but this ancient Ayurvedic technique can do wonders for your nasal passages. Essentially, it involves using a sterile saline solution (make sure it’s sterile) to gently wash out your nose, helping prevent allergens from entering and causing inflammation.

So why might you want to try using a Neti Pot? Well, for starters, it can be a great way to relieve congestion and sinus pressure. If you’ve ever had a stuffy nose, you know how frustrating it can be to feel like you can’t breathe properly. Neti Pots can help clear out

excess mucus and other irritants, making it easier to breathe freely.

Manage stress.

Many people find that stress worsens the symptoms of seasonal allergies. Are you stressed about work? School? Family issues? Your relationship with friends or significant others? Take some time to think about what’s causing you anxiety, then find ways to deal with those issues healthily.

If you’re having trouble sleeping because of worries about money or schoolwork, talk to someone who can help, it might be helpful just getting things off your chest. And if nothing else seems like it will work, consider seeking professional help from a psychologist or therapist.

Talk to your doctor about other treatment options for seasonal allergies. When it comes to treating allergies, there are many options available to you. From overthe-counter antihistamines to steroid-based nasal sprays, it can be overwhelming to decide which treatment is right for you. That’s why it’s important to have an open and honest conversation with your doctor about your symptoms and lifestyle. Your doctor can help guide you toward the best treatment options for your situation.

Seasonal allergies can be a nuisance, but with the right approach, you can manage them. From identifying your triggers to creating a clean indoor environment, there are ways to keep your allergies under control. By incorporating these tips into your daily routine, you can minimize symptoms and enjoy the changing seasons without discomfort. Remember to consult your doctor if you are experiencing severe allergies, as they can provide additional guidance and treatment options. n

Mother’s Day Brunch spice OF LIFE

2 cups whole milk

4 tbsp butter, divided ¾ cup stone-ground grits

1 cup sharp cheddar cheese, shredded

4 bacon strips

1 lb. jumbo shrimp, peeled and deveined salt and pepper green onions

Bring 2 cups of the chicken broth, milk, 3 tbsp butter, and a pinch of salt to a gentle boil. Add the grits and whisk together. Simmer for 10-15 minutes, or until the grits are soft and creamy, whisking every few minutes and set aside off heat. Cook the bacon strips until crispy and set aside. Once cool, chop into small pieces and drain all but 2 tbsp of the bacon grease from the skillet. Rinse the shrimp with cold water, pat dry, and season with salt and pepper. Cook in the bacon grease until only just cookedabout 2 minutes per side. Add the remaining tbsp of butter and ½ cup of chicken broth to the shrimp and stir until melted and broth is heated. Stir the cheese into the grits until melted. Serve the shrimp mixture over the grits, add some of the liquid from the skillet over the grits, and sprinkle with the bacon pieces and sliced green onions.

Spinach Quiche Muffins

1 tbsp coconut oil

2 cups baby spinach

7 eggs

8-oz package mushrooms, sliced ¼ cup red bell pepper, finely diced

¼ cup onion, finely diced

¼ cup shredded cheese pepper to taste

Preheat the oven to 350°F. Heat coconut oil in a skillet and sauté the mushrooms, onions, and peppers for about 5-6 minutes. Add the spinach and cook for about 4 more minutes or until tender and drain the excess liquid. In a large mixing bowl, whisk the eggs

until combined. Add the cooked mushrooms, spinach, onion, red pepper, and cheese and mix well. Divide the mixture evenly between the muffin tin. Bake for 20-25 minutes, until set and a knife inserted in the center comes out clean.

Prosciutto Asparagus Puff Pastry Bundles

1 bunch asparagus, ends trimmed

1 tbsp extra virgin olive oil

2 sheets frozen puff pastry, thawed

8-oz Gruyere, shredded

12 slices prosciutto

1 egg, beaten

salt and pepper

Preheat the oven to 425°F. On a lightly floured surface, roll the puff pastry out to a large rectangle about double the original size. Square off edges and cut into 6 squares. Toss asparagus in olive oil and season with salt and pepper. To make the bundles, place a slice of prosciutto on top of the square. Follow with 3-4 stalks of asparagus and 1-2 tbsp of cheese. Lift two opposite corners of the puff pastry squares, wrap them around the asparagus, and press to seal. Brush puff pastry with egg wash. Sprinkle with more salt and pepper and bake until puff pastry is golden and puffed, about 12-15 minutes.

Bruschetta with Balsamic Glaze

3-4 tomatoes, diced small

½ tsp salt

2 cloves garlic, minced

⅓ cup fresh basil leaves, chopped

¼ tsp black pepper

1 tbsp red wine vinegar

2 tbsp olive oil

1 baguette sliced on a diagonal in ½ inch slices

extra virgin olive oil

½ cup balsamic vinegar

3 tbsp brown sugar parmesan cheese

Preheat the oven to 400°F. Combine tomatoes and salt in a bowl and let sit for 20-30 minutes. Drain tomato juice, add garlic, basil, and pepper; stir gently to combine. Drizzle with vinegar and olive oil, stir gently to coat, and let sit for 20-30 minutes at room temperature. Brush both sides of the bread with olive oil, bake for 5 minutes, and then flip the toast and bake for 2-3 minutes or until golden brown. Combine balsamic vinegar and brown sugar in a saucepan over medium heat. Bring to a low boil and simmer for 10 minutes, stirring occasionally. Remove from the heat and let cool for a few minutes. Assemble by spooning the tomato topping onto the toasted baguette slices, lightly drizzle with the balsamic glaze, and sprinkle with parmesan cheese.

Fruit Pizza

1½ cups graham cracker crumbs

6 tsp butter, melted

4-oz cream cheese, softened

3 tbsp granulated sugar

4-oz frozen whipped topping, thawed

cream cheese, sugar, and whipped topping. Scoop mixture into graham cracker crust and spread evenly. Refrigerate for about 2-3 hours. Once set, top with your choice of fruit.

Lemon Blueberry Swirl Bundt Cake

Blueberry Swirl:

⅓ cup blueberries

¼ cup granulated sugar

Cake:

1½ cups butter

8-oz cream cheese

2½ cups granulated sugar

1 box (3.4-oz) lemon instant pudding mix

6 eggs

3 cups all-purpose flour

Glaze:

3 tbsp milk

1 cup confectioners’ sugar

Preheat the oven to 325 °F. Combine blueberries and ¼ cup granulated sugar and mash the berries until sugar is dissolved, creating a syrup-like consistency with berry chunks, and set aside. Mix cream cheese and butter until smooth and then slowly add in instant pudding powder and sugar and mix light and fluffy. Reduce mixer speed and add in the eggs, one at a time, and mix until just incorporated. On low speed, add flour, one cup at a time, until just incorporated. Transfer half the batter to a prepared bundt pan. Spoon in the prepared berry mixture and top with the remaining cake batter. Bake for about 1 hour and 20 minutes or until a toothpick inserted in the center comes out clean. Cool in the pan for 1520 minutes then transfer to a wire rack to continue cooling. Prepare the glaze by combining ingredients and whisking until smooth and drizzle over the cake before serving.

Peach Bellini

1 bottle sparkling wine, chilled 1 can peach nectar, chilled simple syrup as desired for extra sweetness

Pour ¼ cup of chilled peach nectar into a champagne flute. Pour in ¼ cup chilled sparkling wine and add in a splash (about ½ tsp) of simple syrup. Gently stir with a spoon to combine. Add another splash of wine to top off the drink and garnish with a peach slice. n

The Old Uncle’s Home

Long ago folks got together and built a big house. The old house still stands. The casual observer sees a big, dilapidated structure with broken windows and large pieces of missing roof. Big gaping sections of missing exterior walls show once stout but now questionable structural members.

A crowd in the weedy yard cries out: “This old house ain’t what it used to be. It never was much good anyway. Heck, let’s burn it down.”

The mob gets a fire going. People begin to chant and holler. “Burn it! Burn it!”

The crowd hears a loud, piercing whistle and looks up. An old man stands at an upstairs window. The crowd gets silent. The old man hollers out: “Whoa now! What are you folks doing down there? I’ll be right out.”

The old man made his way out and slowly approached the crowd. “What’s going on here?”

The mob’s apparent leader spoke up: “We think this old, ragged building serves no useful purpose. We intend to burn it down.”

The old man’s eyes got a little misty. “Well, several families live here. Been liv-

ing there for generations. Were you planning to burn it down on top of us?”

The mob leader screamed: “If you can’t keep it up any better than this, you need to burn along with it. And you can’t stop us!”

The old man leaned and put his hand out. “Well, how about we introduce ourselves first? I’m Sam.”

The mob leader scoffed. “I ain’t shaking hands with some old Uncle like you.”

“Well, how about I tell you a little bit about this house then.”

The crowd eased closer to hear the old man.

“An interesting group of our ancestors fought an eight-year battle to wrangle this piece of ground loose from the British. A good number of them died. Once the fight was over, they spent six years designing and building this big house to hold several large families. They designed it so it would withstand any storm. It was stoutly made, though you may not think so today.”

“Successive generations of men and women moved in, added on, made improvements, fixed doors and windows and time-worn places. My own father worked

on the roof with other men of his time. The plans are in the upstairs library where we can study them.”

“I’m ashamed to admit that in the last few decades, a lot of residents haven’t taken care of the place like they should have. I assure you the foundation and structure are still good, but you can see we’ve let some things go.”

“Now I’m the oldest. Those are my nieces and nephews in there. I’ve been trying to find help fixing it up, but we can’t let you burn this house down. We just can’t allow it.”

“You can help fix it or leave us alone. But you’ll pay dearly for burning it. It’s our home, and there’s a few remaining men and women who’ll defend it.” n

David Clark writes and works in Cochran, GA. Connect with him at