July 2025

JEWISH

RHODE ISLAND

EDITOR Fran Ostendorf

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VOLUME XXXII, ISSUE VII

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What you read in the paper

IT HAS BEEN A DIZZYING MONTH. So many end-of-year and end of school events. So much going on in the world around us.

In this month’s paper, you will see coverage of many of the local events that made June seem like a whirlwind. And you’ll find some interviews with local people and essays from local people that we think make interesting reading.

We’ve got graduation photos from the Jewish Community Day School of Rhode Island. We have coverage of the Alliance annual meeting. We’ve got announcements of scholarships from Touro Fraternal Association. And we have photos from the start of summer camp. Patricia Raskin interviews Sally Lapides on her career in real estate. Mike Fink looks back with fondness on his years at Yale. And we’ve got an essay from a returning Birthright participant with Newport ties who was evacuated with 3,000 others on the ship to Cyprus during the recent Israel-Iran War. Readers regularly ask why we don’t have more coverage of national and international news like the Cyprus evacuation.

First and foremost, we are a newspaper covering the Jewish community in Rhode Island and nearby Massachusetts. We have a small staff. And we are better poised to report on what is happening locally.

That doesn’t mean we ignore the rest of the country and world. We welcome opinion pieces on national and world events. We subscribe to a news service called JTA (Jewish Telegraphic Agency) that covers events worldwide, including Israel. And we run their articles when they are new and relevant to our readers.

We are a monthly newspaper. By the time you receive your printed Jewish Rhode Island, you have already read about most of what has happened in the week we go to press. In our last reader survey, you told us that you did not look to us as your source of national and international news. And you are seeing major global news events in other newspapers and over the air or online. We try to bring the news home to you when we can with locally written articles from our staff and your friends and neighbors.

You can always turn to our website, JewishRhody.org, to see the latest headlines from several Israeli news outlets. Those are linked to the original articles and are updated several times each day. It’s one way we stay in touch with Israel. We also publish updates online from JTA when major news events are happening in the global Jewish community.

We plan to continue to do what we do best: bring you the news of your local Jewish community. And we hope you will continue to partici-

pate by offering suggestions, submitting news and ideas and writing for us if you have something to say. That is the beauty of a community newspaper.

If you’d like to participate in providing content or if you have ideas or suggestions, reach out to me by email – editor@jewishallianceri.org – or send your community news to Editor, Jewish Rhode Island, 401 Elmgrove Ave., Providence, RI 02906.

I look forward to hearing from you.

Have a nice summer!

Fran Ostendorf, Editor

UP FRONT

Uncovering Montreal’s Jewish history: the power of tragedy and joy.

BY ROBERT ISENBERG

One frigid March day in Montreal, I bundled up and trudged over to the Musée de l’Holocauste (Holocaust Museum). I braced myself. This was going to be a rough experience. Emotions would run high. There was no way out but through.

I was visiting Montreal to research a guidebook for a major publisher, and the museum was one of my many stops. Few tourists visit this trendy Canadian city to learn about one of the 20th century’s bleakest chapters; for the most part my itinerary included markets and parks, posh bistros and art galleries. But I refused to skip over such an important institution. Montreal is home to 90,000 Jewish residents, the second-largest community in Canada, after Toronto.

The Musée de l’Holocauste is tucked into a brutalist

office building in the western suburbs; to enter, you must stop at a checkpoint, pass through a metal detector and turn out your pockets. Even in Canada, a Jewish organization can’t be too careful. The museum is excellent. Built into two different floors, the corridors contain a staggering collection of period images and artifacts. The curators tell their story patiently: first we learn about Jewish communities across Central Europe, about their daily lives as second-class citizens. Then we see the exponential rise of fascism, with the ground-

swell of hatred in media and public demonstration. Later come the seizures and arrests, and finally, the camps.

Then, near the end of my visit, I saw a block of text on the wall, which delivered the harshest sucker-punch of all. “Canada’s restrictive immigration policy, like that of the United States, favoured certain groups over others,” it read. “Between 1933 and 1938, refuge was given to 4,422 Jews, only 5.2% of all immigrants to Canada.”

The statement is simple and direct, but it speaks volumes. The Canadian government of the 1930s did almost nothing to prevent these atrocities. Canada closed its doors, just like most mid-century nations around the world. Canada may be known for politeness and civic consciousness, but antisemitism was as common here as anywhere else. One placard describes signs that were posted around

hotels and beaches, proclaiming, “No Dogs or Jews Allowed.” Canadian hate groups actively campaigned against admitting Jewish refugees from Nazi-occupied Europe.

This history is ugly and little-known, especially in the U.S., and it’s the reason the Musée de l’Holocauste remains so vital. Canada has a handful of other Holocaust education centers as well, but they’re few and far between. When a local school takes its one field trip here, students will find exhibits that are thorough and clear. The text and images are arranged for maximum impact. If the words “never again” mean anything, the Musée de l’Holocauste drives that point home, aware that there may not be a second chance to help visitors understand.

In the final chamber, an eternal flame burns inside an empty, gray cube. Etched into the walls are

the names of towns that the Holocaust fully depopulated. Homes, shops, families, congregations, all erased by militarized racism. The hollow space is powerful and haunting, just as it’s supposed to be. And clearly, the world still needs reminders like this. As antisemitic attacks and Holocaust denial run rampant across North America, museums like this one are as urgently needed as they ever were. In addition, the lessons of the Holocaust can extend beyond the Jewish Diaspora, to the many other ethnic groups that endure similar persecution. If we acknowledge George Santayana’s observation that, “those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it” then the education this museum offers may yet have an impact. There are patterns and cycles in history, but human actions and decisions are not predetermined - and

Antique books on display at the Jewish Public Library, Montreal, Canada.

PHOTO | ROBERT ISENBERG

Balak: Curses, foiled again.

Balak had a problem. He was the King of Moab, and he saw that more than half a million able-bodied Israelites were about to enter his territory. He was terrified that they would wipe away his resources and pose a military threat to his rule. Naturally, he hired a prophet, Balaam, to come and put a curse on them. (Isn’t that what you would do?):

“NOW, PLEASE GO and curse these people for me, for they are too strong for me. Then, perhaps, I will prevail, strike them down, and drive them from the land. For I know that whomever you bless is blessed, and whomever you curse is cursed.”

(Numbers 22:6)

As you probably know, this plan backfired badly for Balak. From the beginning, Balaam told him that he could only say the words that God put in his mouth. The prophecy that Balaam spoke upon Israel was not a curse, but a blessing.

of Israel’s enemies is not to seek their own benefit, but to harm Israel. Their anger at Israel does not flow from love of their own people, but hatred of Israel.”  (Itturei Torah, Vol. 5, p. 141).

So, here’s a question: If you had a prophet in your employ whom you believed had the power to bless and curse effectively, would you ask that prophet to curse your enemies, or would you ask the prophet to bless you?

A commentary on this week’s Torah portion (Balak) asks just this question. “Would it not have made more sense for Balak to ask Balaam to bless Moab with victory in battle?” asks the commentary of Beit Ramah. “We learn from this that the essential intention

I will leave it to you, dear reader, to evaluate how well that observation reflects the history of antisemitism and the current situation facing Israel and the Jewish people. You may believe that Beit Ramah has a keen insight about Israel’s antagonists in the past and in the present. However, I want to consider instead what this commentary says about each of us. Who would you rather be – a person who puts energy into building up his or her own self, or a person who puts energy into tearing down others? Are you a person whose primary motivation comes from the desire to create love and connection in your own life, or a person who is primarily interested in striking your opponents? We all have a place within

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therein lies hope.

Finding Jewish joy in Montreal

Yet there’s more to see in Montreal than gloom and mourning. Directly across the lobby from the Musée de l’Holocauste, I found the Bibliotéque Publique Juive (Jewish Public Library). In contrast to the museum’s windowless catacombs, the library gleams with natural light. The stacks are packed with books, and the tables and aisles buzzed with patrons. I later learned that the “Yiddish Folk Library” dated back to 1914, and it evolved gradually into its

us that would rather draw on the energy created by our animosities than the energy of our better natures. We all have an impulse to spend our time in conflict with the people and things that trouble us, instead of investing that time in building connections to people we care about and developing our strengths. Each of us, sometimes, lets the cursing impulse rule over us.

At such times, though, we usually fail to notice that the choice to pursue conflict almost always backfires. Think about the last time you put your energy into fighting someone or something you defined as your “enemy.” Was the outcome what you had hoped for? Did the problem go away, or did it just reappear in another form? Did the experience create joy in your life, or did it just make you feel angrier?

In contrast, when we put our focus on blessing instead of cursing, we become more connected, compassionate and happier. When we face conflicts by looking inward for the ability to deal with difficult situations, we may

‘...we usually fail to notice that the choice to pursue conflict almost always backfires.’

find that resolution comes more easily than when we begin by assuming the worst about others. It also makes us feel better about ourselves and helps us to find unexpected solutions. I don’t think there is any guarantee that this will happen every time, but it usually works.

current form. I browsed the spines, delighted by their variety, and I spent long minutes studying Hebrew manuscripts under glass, as well as old treatises in Greek and Arabic. It’s a beautiful space, and my spirits lifted. There’s more. About four miles northwest of this complex is the Musée du Montréal Juif (Museum of Jewish Montreal), which recalls the waves of immigrants who came to the so-called “Paris of North America.” Montreal was once a town of throbbing factories and ethnic neighborhoods, shopkeepers and tinkerers, and Jewish residents have played a major

Personally, I find this to be true when I face difficult classroom management situations as a teacher. Instead of assuming that misbehaving students are malicious brats, I try to focus instead on myself. I ask questions about my behavior as a teacher: am I giving students material that is appropriate for them? Are they misbehaving because I am not meeting their needs? Because I am not recognizing their abilities and limitations? Am I boring them? By seeking the blessing of being a better teacher – instead of cursing the bad behavior of the students – I find greater fulfillment and greater success in the classroom. It is easy for adult teachers to see children in a classroom as innocents, unworthy of our anger. Harder situations come when we feel like we are being treated badly or that we are being taken advantage of in a business setting, in our jobs, or in the realm of politics. There are times when we really can believe that we conflict with people who do not respect us and who do not wish us well. I will argue, though, that even in those situations, we are better off when we focus on blessings and not on curses.

This is not because there aren’t real causes for conflict in life and it is not because there are no real enemies. However, when we fight against enemies, real or imagined, our fuel is our fear and

role since the 19th century. Montreal helped cultivate celebrity figures like songwriter Leonard Cohen, journalist Adam Gopnik, novelist Saul Bellow, cultural critic Naomi Klein and actor William Shatner. The museum has its own art gallery, where up-and-coming Jewish-Canadian artists display their work.

Even the museum’s location is significant: The Boulevard St. Laurent was once the epicenter of Jewish culture and commerce, and Yiddish conversation and signage were everywhere. In Montreal delis, Jewish bakers perfected the “Montreal

our anger. When we draw energy from those feelings, they begin to define us. An unremitting focus on conflict and enmity tends to turn us into the very thing we find fearful and enraging in others. Our anger makes us contentious, belligerent, unfriendly, unkind, unyielding and unhappy.

As Balak learned, God does not always respond well when we seek to curse our enemies. However, when we take the time and energy to look inward, to redefine the problem in a way that includes our own behavior, and to confront our own anger and fears, we find blessings where once we only saw a curse.

RABBI JEFFREY GOLDWASSER is the spiritual leader of Temple Sinai in Cranston. This d’var Torah originally appeared on his blog, RebJeff. com.

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Bagel,” which is now famous around the world. A dozen synagogues still encircle Mount Royal, holding well-attended services in this deeply Catholic city.

I didn’t have a chance to visit the Musée du Montréal Juif. Another guidebook writer was covering the St. Laurent corridor, and anyway, the museum had temporarily relocated to make way for renovations. Still, this museum gives me yet another reason to return to one of my favorite cities. Montreal is wise – and fortunate – to have its own Musée de l’Holocauste. Visitors benefit from such a serious, well-funded,

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thoughtfully constructed monument. But tragedy isn’t everything. The two museums are best experienced in tandem. First to mourn the losses and condemn the perpetrators, then to celebrate the generations that have survived and thrived. There is as much power in simcha (Jewish joy) as in tragedy. The best days, we can only hope, are still to come.

ROBERT ISENBERG is a freelance writer and multimedia producer based in Providence. His latest book is “Mile Markers: Essays on Cycling.”

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CALENDAR HIGHLIGHTS

Ongoing

Kosher Senior Café and Programming. 11 a.m.-1 p.m. Monday – Thursday at the Bonnie & Donald Dwares JCC, 401 Elmgrove Ave., Providence; Fridays at Temple Sinai, 30 Hagen Ave., Cranston. In-person (and on Zoom most Tuesdays, Wednesdays and Thursdays) programming from 11 a.m.-noon followed by lunch and discussion noon-1 p.m. On Wednesdays, programming is chair yoga. Friday, 7/25: picnic at Goddard Park (RSVP required); transportation (to arrive at park by 11 a.m.) provided from both Dwares JCC and Temple Sinai. For seniors 60 and older as well as younger adults with a disability; all faiths and backgrounds are welcome. Suggested donation: $3 per lunch. The Kosher Senior Café is a program of Jewish Collaborative Services, supported by the Jewish Alliance of Greater RI and Blackstone Health. Information and RSVP, Neal at neal@jfsri. org or 401-421-4111, ext. 114.

Summer Hebrew Conversation Classes. 6-7 p.m. Tuesdays thru 7/29. Temple Emanu-El. 99 Taft Ave., Providence, RI. Three levels of in-person Hebrew conversation classes: Beginner, Intermediate and Advanced. Cost: $100 per person plus cost of book. Scholarships available. Information, Toby Liebowitz at tobyaane@gmail.com.

Cape Cod Synagogue Family Shabbat Services and Dinner.

Second Friday of the month 5:30 p.m. 145 Winter St., Hyannis, Mass. In-person and livestreamed services on website, Facebook, Cape Media, YouTube and Community Television Comcast channel 99. Followed by Community Shabbat Dinner. Information, 508-775-2988 or capecodsynagogue.org.

Cape Cod Synagogue Shabbat Services. Fridays 7 p.m. 145 Winter St., Hyannis, Mass. With Rabbi David Freelund. In-person and livestreamed on website, Facebook, Cape Media, YouTube and Community Television Comcast channel 99. Information, 508-7752988 or capecodsynagogue.org.

Temple Torat Yisrael Saturday Morning Shabbat Services. 9:30-10:30 a.m. 1251 Middle Road, East Greenwich. Join in person or via Zoom. Information, Temple@ toratyisrael.org.

Temple Sinai Breakfast and Torah Study. Saturdays 9:30-11 a.m. 30 Hagen Ave., Cranston. Delicious breakfast followed by weekly Torah study at 10 a.m. Information, Templesinairi.org, dottie@templesinairi.org or 401942-8350.

Temple Habonim Torah Study. Saturdays 10-11 a.m. thru 7/19; will resume on 8/16. 165 New Meadow Road, Barrington. Rabbi Howard Voss-Altman leads Torah study on current portion. Via Zoom. Information, Adina Davies at office@ templehabonim.org or 401-2456536.

Cape Cod Synagogue Shabbat Services. Saturdays 10:30 a.m. 145 Winter St., Hyannis, Mass. With Rabbi David Freelund. In-person and livestreamed on website, Facebook and YouTube. Information, Cape Cod Synagogue at 508-7752988 or capecodsynagogue.org.

Friday | July 11

Story Time under the Gazebo with PJ Library and Temple Sinai. 11 a.m. -noon. Garden City Gazebo, 100 Midway Road, Cranston. Join Lyndsey from PJ Library and Rabbi Goldwasser and Cantor Deborah from Temple Sinai to celebrate Shabbat with PJ Library books, songs and a craft. RSVP (to ensure enough supplies) and information, Lyndsey Ursillo at lursillo@jewishallianceri.org.

Temple Beth-El Shabbat Service. 5:45-7 p.m. 70 Orchard Ave., Providence. Service outside in the Julie Claire Gutterman Biblical Garden. Information, Jude Weinstein at jweinstein@temple-beth-el.org or 401-331-6070.

Temple Torat Yisrael Virtual Kabbalat Shabbat and Torah Services. 5:45-6:15 p.m. Via Zoom only. Information, temple@toratyisrael.org.

Temple Sinai Shabbat Service. 6-7 p.m. 30 Hagen Ave., Cranston. Service in the chapel. Information, Templesinairi.org, dottie@templesinairi.org or 401-942-8350.

Temple Habonim Shabbat by the Sea. 6:15 p.m. Barrington Beach, 87 Bay Road, Barrington. Bring chair or blanket, and welcome Shabbat on the beach with Temple Habonim. In case of inclement weather, services will be moved inside to Temple Habonim. Information, office@templehabonim.org.

Saturday | July 12

Temple Beth-El Shabbat Service. 9 a.m. 70 Orchard Ave., Providence. Information, Jude Weinstein at jweinstein@temple-beth-el.org or 401-331-6070.

Temple Beth-El East End Theatre and Performing Arts. 10 a.m.-3 p.m. 70 Orchard Ave., Providence. In the Meeting Hall. Information, Jude Weinstein at jweinstein@temple-beth-el.org or 401-331-6070.

Temple Sinai Morning Service. 11 a.m.-noon. 30 Hagen Ave., Cranston. Information, Templesinairi. org, dottie@templesinairi.org or 401-942-8350.

Thursday | July 17

PJ Library Story Time Stretches with Create Power Yoga. 10-10:45 a.m. Crescent Park, 753-779 Bullocks Point Ave., Riverside. Join other PJ Library families with children from 18 months old to 5 years old to explore movement together. We will incorporate age-appropriate stories into our movements. RSVP (by 7/14) and information, Lyndsey Ursillo at lursillo@jewishallianceri.org.

Young Professionals Happy Hour. 5-7:30 p.m. Hot Club, 25 Bridge St., Providence. Happy hour after work; meet friends and toast the season. Cost: $12 (includes 1 drink). Information, Samantha Kaufman at skaufman@jewishallianceri.org.

Friday | July 18

Temple Beth-El Tot Shabbat in the Park. 4-5:30 p.m. Paterson Park, 15 Paterson St., Providence. Join us for a Kabbalat Shabbat playdate in the park with a little singing, a little nosh, PJ Library stories and lots of fun. For those with children ages 0-5. Rain location is Temple Beth-El (70 Orchard Ave.). Information, Jude Weinstein at jweinstein@temple-beth-el.org or 401-331-6070.

Temple Beth-El Shabbat Service. 5:45-7:30 p.m. 70 Orchard Ave., Providence. Service outside in the Julie Claire Gutterman Biblical Garden. Information, Jude Weinstein at jweinstein@temple-beth-el. org or 401-331-6070.

Temple Sinai Shabbat on the Beach. 6-7:30 p.m. Goddard Park, 1095 Ives Road, Warwick. Potluck evening Shabbat service and picnic dinner. Meet at the picnic shelter that’s near the beach close to the carousel. Bring a dairy or a fish dish to share. Information, Templesinairi.org, dottie@templesinairi. org or 401-942-8350.

Saturday | July 19

Temple Beth-El Torah Study. 9 a.m. 70 Orchard Ave., Providence. Join clergy and delve into the weekly portion. In person only. Information, Jude Weinstein at jweinstein@temple-beth-el.org or 401-331-6070.

Temple Sinai Morning Service. 11 a.m.-noon. 30 Hagen Ave., Cranston. Service will use meditation. Information, Templesinairi.org, dottie@templesinairi.org or 401942-8350.

Wednesday | July 23

Screen on the Green: “Top Gun.” 7:30 p.m. Bonnie & Donald Dwares JCC, 401 Elmgrove Ave., Providence. Join us behind our building for a fun outdoor movie and enjoy some snacks. The movie will begin at dusk. Free. RSVP and information, Samantha Kaufman at skaufman@jewishallianceri.org or 401-421-4111, ext. 111.

Friday | July 25

Hattie Ide Chaffee Home presents Fishel Bresler. 2-3 p.m. 200 Wampanoag Trail, East Providence. Special performance by the talented Fishel Bresler. Be a part of this community gathering filled with music, joy and connection. Information and RSVP, Susie Adler at Susie.Adler@hattieidechaffee. org or 401-486-3890.

Temple Torat Yisrael Virtual Kabbalat Shabbat and Torah Services. 5:45-6:15 p.m. Via Zoom only. Information, temple@toratyisrael.org.

Temple Beth-El Shabbat Service. 5:45-7:30 p.m. 70 Orchard Ave., Providence. Service outside in the Julie Claire Gutterman Biblical Garden. Information, Jude Weinstein at jweinstein@temple-beth-el. org or 401-331-6070.

Temple Sinai Shabbat Service. 6-7 p.m. 30 Hagen Ave., Cranston. Service in the chapel. Information, Templesinairi.org, dottie@templesinairi.org or 401-942-8350.

Saturday | July 26

Temple Beth-El Torah Study. 9 a.m. 70 Orchard Ave., Providence. Join Temple Beth-El clergy and delve into the weekly portion. In person only. Information, Jude Weinstein at jweinstein@temple-beth-el.org or 401-331-6070.

Sunday | July 27

Temple Sinai People of the Book. 2-3:30 p.m. 30 Hagen Ave., Cranston. Discuss “The Holy Land at War: A Journey Through Israel, the West Bank and Gaza” by Providence Journal columnist Mark Patinkin. The book is not a political analysis; it’s Patinkin’s attempt to understand the long conflict. Information, Templesinairi.org, dottie@ templesinairi.org or 401-942-8350.

Wednesday | July 30

Sandra Bornstein Holocaust Education Center Game Day. 11:30 a.m.-3 p.m. Ledgemont Country Club, 131 Brown Ave., Seekonk. Lunch and games. Sponsorships available. Game Day Cost: $60. Information, info@hercri.org or 401-453-7860.

Thursday | July 31

Happy Hour (45+). 5-7:30 p.m. The Guild, 200 Dyer St., Providence. Join us for an evening of laughter, great conversation and perfectly poured drinks. This event is for those 45+. Cost: $12 (includes 1 drink). Information, Samantha Kaufman at skaufman@jewishallianceri.org.

An Evening with Din Tesler, Nova Festival Survivor. 7-8:15 p.m. Temple Sinai, 30 Hagen Ave., Cranston. Join Rhode Island Coalition for Israel (RICI) and Temple Sinai as Din Tesler presents his experience surviving the Nova Festival attack on 10/7/23 by Hamas terrorists. Best friend of hostage Bar Kupershtein, Tesler advocates for truth and resilience. Free but suggested donation: $18. Information, maria@ricoalitionforisrael.org.

Friday | August 1

Temple Beth-El Shabbat Service. 5:45p.m. 70 Orchard Ave., Providence. Information, Jude Weinstein at jweinstein@temple-beth-el.org or 401-331-6070.

Temple Sinai Shabbat Service. 6-7 p.m. 30 Hagen Ave., Cranston. Service in the chapel. Information, Templesinairi.org, dottie@templesinairi.org or 401-942-8350.

Saturday | August 2

Temple Beth-El Torah Study. 9 a.m. 70 Orchard Ave., Providence. Join Temple Beth-El clergy and delve into the weekly portion. In person only. Information, Jude Weinstein at jweinstein@temple-beth-el.org or 401-331-6070.

Wednesday | August 6

Hadassah Southern New England presents Books on the Beach. Location near Newport. 11 a.m.-3 p.m. Gandel Rehabilitation Center of Hadassah Hospital at Mount Scopus, Jerusalem, fundraiser and author luncheon with Kathy Hershfield of Hadassah and authors Tova Mirvis and Marilyn Simon Rothstein. 11 a.m. Sponsor Reception, 11:30 a.m. Registration, noon-3 p.m. Luncheon and Program. Information, chapri@hadassah.org or 857-404-0599.

Jewish Alliance at Rhode Island FC. 7-10 p.m. Centreville Bank Stadium, 11 Tidewater St., Pawtucket. Rhode Island FC takes on Detroit City FC. The Alliance will be recognized as the nonprofit organization of the game; there will be various surprises throughout the game. Tickets (all on the 200 Sideline): $18. Information, Brad Swartz at bswartz@jewishallianceri.org.

70 years since Yale graduation: looking back on old friends and a long career

This is the 70th anniversary of my Yale graduation, and I am collecting snapshots of my roommates upon that ceremony and considering the ironies our class has experienced, both politically....and internationally. So, here goes!

SOVIET RUSSIA , a vitally important ally in World War II became a foe, as the Cold War unfolded and we competed for pre-eminence in nuclear weapons, the space race and the divergent ideologies of communism and capitalism. In the movies, our wartime purpose internationally had been to rescue China and liberate the Concentration Camps from Germany - until the moment we realized we

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needed the counsel of their scientists to defeat Russia!

On a personal level there was, above my assigned suite of rooms in Wright Hall on the Old Campus, two single attic chambers, one for a Holocaust survivor, and the other for a student "of color." The black freshman liked to come downstairs, and our friendship turned into a lifelong attachment.

The other attic cell was

occupied by a brilliant boy who broke a multitude of barriers and customs. He was "tapped" at commencement, hired to teach in the Law School, and won the admiration of one and all. Of all the ironies of yore, Henry this likely lad of us half dozen chamber mates, inherited two opportunities, the chocolate manufacturing business of his mother, and the construction career of his father. But Henry, who won all-A success in his single room, aimed modestly to claim the reward of being a columnist in a small newspaper.

Joel, on the other hand, who rang the bell in Harkness Tower, hit the jackpot in every way. He had the magic touch in all his endeavors. Then there was Tom, who helped me to write the papers for my biology

college buddies.

course, but there is a strange twist to this tale. I used to rescue every subject of the anatomy class. We had to sacrifice the subject of the experiment – but not me! I saved each specimen and soon had a menagerie in our shared common rooms until one day I found some dead birds and suspected that my mate had betrayed my trust.

I eventually chose to escape from this social set and set sail for Paris, joining the Sweet Briar Junior Year in Tours and Paris program.

the critical essays of Oscar Wilde.

But when I returned for my/ our senior year, we resumed our group of guys, with Joel driving us in his crimson convertible to a series of women's college campus weekend dances, where he found his wife at a Harvard "mixer." Since he lived in Connecticut he served as host for reunions over seven decades.

My personal college was RISD, the Rhode Island School of Design, in my hometown, thus rescuing me from many a dilemma. What skills did I have upon which to base a career? I pursued two further studies, a Harvard HGE degree in education and a Brown degree in English with a thesis on

Sixty years of teaching classes followed, ranging from film history – especially documentaries – to Jewish culture and renaissance – I invited Isaac Bashevis Singer as well as Art Spiegelman to mix word and image...and published a work book titled "Drawing with Words" (My wife thinks that my distinguished Yale 1955 classmate stole the title but changed it to "Painting with Words" but got the idea from me!)

To close this memoir on a significant note: in 1948 I was elected Nathan Bishop Junior High School president, the same year Israel was declared a new nation, and its bar mitzvah birthday in 1961 was my first visit to Jerusalem. I published an account of that mix of working on a kibbutz and teaching English in Tel Aviv in the RISD alumni magazine, a final finish to the ironies of fate that life has thrown in my path. The then president of RISD summoned me to his office to discuss Israel and, to my surprise, he loved my article, and I believe that it truly shaped my career.

MIKE FINK (mfink33@aol. com) is a professor emeritus at the Rhode Island School of Design.

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Brotherhood is essential to my life

On June 7, I was thrilled to receive Temple Beth-El’s Lindenbaum Award, which has been presented annually since 2002 by Brotherhood. I was also delighted to give the following speech:

DEAR BROTHERS and Sisters, welcome home to our beloved Beth-El. What a privilege for me to see, hear, and feel your presence. Yet, when notified in April, I never imagined that I would be honored here tonight.

Yes, I did chat with Bess Lindenbaum by phone a decade ago, when she was 105 years old, but brotherhood has always been essential to my life.

My parents, Eugene and Madeline, made extraordinary plans, for they gave me an older twin, Theo, whom I met nine minutes after his birth. Though often confused for one another, we’re fraternal – not identical –twins.

When growing up in Los Angeles, we did just about everything together: pub lic, religious, and Hebrew schools; art, music, and dance classes; collecting stamps and coins; swimming pool and beach trips; and summer camps near and far. As epitomized by our bar mitzvah in 1961, our parents often dressed us the same – usually as miniature lawyers.

the first brother to grow a beard, but he was the first to go shiny on top.

Theo and I always loved our parents deeply, and we continue to treasure our younger sister, Betty. In fact, 50 years ago this month, she and I graduated together from Stanford.

Beyond numerous friends, Theo and I were blessed with many wonderful men in our lives. We adored our grandfathers, George and Isadore, and we enjoyed our three uncles, George, Marvin, and Warren. Indeed, we were so close to two great-uncles, Edgar and Julius, that we considered them to be extra grandfathers. We bonded with many cousins, and later I gained a father-in-law, Norman; a brother-in-law, Bill; and Betty’s husband, Keith. Eventually, I was also to welcome four nephews.

and would celebrate many life-cycle events.

Yet, while living on the East Side, I have experienced two more synagogues. Having sent our kids to the Alperin Schechter Day School, we became acquainted with Temple Emanu-El. And for 25 years, when frequently summoned by a pounding on our door, I helped form the minyan at Chabad House.

As for other minyanim, I proudly served as president of Hebrew Free Loan Association and chaired Pack 88 of Cub Scouts, which met at Central Congregational Church. I’ve served on the boards of Heritage Harbor Museum and the Rhode Island Historical Society and I am still active at the East Side Y.

Nevertheless, Beth-El has been just right for Betsey and me in so many ways. For example, it has continually enriched my understanding of modern architecture and art. As the Temple’s archivist for a few years during Bruce Sundlun’s presidency, I also began to study the congregation’s history in numerous ways.

both kids’ Confirmation and post-Confirmation ceremonies. Perhaps the most gorgeous, however, was Molly and Adam’s wedding. Our first grandchild, Chloe, was named at Beth-El, and our second, Benjamin, was named through a Zoom ceremony.

But we have also mourned many loved ones. I felt extremely privileged to help lead the daily minyan with Richard Zacks during the decade before COVID.

Among many deep friendships with Temple members, I’d like to mention three of my deceased buddies: Mel Blake, Bob Kotlen, and Mel Zurier. Fortunately, Pat Blake is here tonight, and she has brought two of our dear friends, Linda and Norma.

I cannot fail to mention another Temple bond,

which originated with and exemplifies Brotherhood. Betsey and I have so much enjoyed serving as High Holy Day ushers. While formally dressed and wearing flowers on our lapels, we love greeting friends and strangers and wishing them L’ shanah tovah. Yes, nearly everything associated with our beloved Beth-El has been a privilege, a treat and a blessing.

Thank you, dear Brothers and Sisters of bygone generations, those assembled here tonight, and others yet to come. Betsey and I are truly grateful for your love, mitzvot, and friendship. Shalom and Amen.

GEORGE M. GOODWIN , of Providence, is the editor of Rhode Island Jewish Historical Notes.

Theo, once known as “Teddy” and then “Ted,” influenced me in at least four profound ways. He helped me make my first skateboard, and he taught me to swear. As a college freshman, having joined a fraternity, he encouraged me to do so, which I happily did.

After launching his legal career, Theo became a volunteer in Los Angeles’s Jewish Federation, where he met his future wife, Susan. So, I too became involved, and this is where I met Betsey, my anchor and fellow adventurer for 41 years!

But I also influenced Theo in at least one important way. After I studied in Italy, he did so in France. I was

Now I’d like to share a few thoughts about what brotherhood has meant to me since 1987, when, within a week of moving to Providence, Betsey and I joined our extraordinary Temple. Yes, this was half my lifetime ago. Molly was only a few months old, and Michael would be born the following year.

Beth-El was in some sense my fifth Reform congregation, but the one I have known best. I had spent my youth at Wilshire Boulevard Temple, and I earned my fourth graduate degree at Hebrew Union College, also in L.A. Betsey and I belonged to Mt. Zion Temple when we lived for a few years in St. Paul, Minnesota. Soon after moving to Providence, I also grew closer to Betsey’s family temple, Emanuel, in Andover, Massachusetts, where we had been married

By meeting several Temple members, especially Charlotte Penn, I became active in the Rhode Island Jewish Historical Association. I have become the most frequent contributor to its annual journal and its longest-serving editor. I soon began contributing to many national Jewish journals and, thanks to Fran Ostendorf, I also became a columnist for Jewish Rhode Island. My love of Jewish books also flourished through my involvement with our Temple’s magnificent Braude Library.

I feel blessed to have known, admired, and enjoyed no fewer than eight Beth-El rabbis, one cantorial soloist, two cantors, four executive directors, and numerous other caring and devoted staff. Several of these gifted and inspiring leaders have received Lindenbaum Awards. Unfortunately, Rabbi Les and some other dear friends were unable to join us tonight.

Betsey and I have celebrated many extraordinary milestones here including Molly’s bat mitzvah, Michael’s bar mitzvah, and

GEORGE M. GOODWIN

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Pioneering Rhode Island real estate with vision and creativity

I INTERVIEWED SALLY LAPIDES for this month’s theme of real estate. Sally is president and Chief Executive Officer of Residential Properties Ltd., Rhode Island’s premier residential real estate firm co-founded in 1981. Sally is so knowledgeable, caring, philanthropic, community-oriented, as well as successful. She has made tremendous contributions in Rhode Island in the secular, Jewish and business community.

How did you find real estate?

support the marchers in Selma.

The values of Judaism are so ingrained in me that I run my business and life through those values. They are equity and kindness, caring about people and not being so self-centric. You get from giving.

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I got into the real estate business inadvertently. My intention was to get a graduate degree in art history but took a gap year to work at an art gallery to make sure I loved the field. Several months into my tenure, the owner of the gallery decided to move to D.C. My mother had been a successful real estate agent for eight years and said “Why don’t you get your license and rent apartments to people graduating from college? I did just that. I rented lots of apartments, but I also sold 20 houses that first year. My mother just looked at me and said, “You found your calling. Are you sure you want to go to graduate school?” That’s how I found real estate.

How has your love of the arts and equity tied into your work in real estate?

I have always been attracted to organizations that were either art, business or equity related. I have served as chairman of the board of Year Up Rhode Island, the board of the Global Alliance to Immunize Against Aids, the Gordon School, was on the board of Providence Country Day and was one of two women on the Roger Williams University board. I was also on the RISD Museum board.

I was honored last year when I was asked to join the Federal Reserve Bank of Boston’s Business Advisory Council and the Rhode Island Foundation board. I always thought if there was one board that I would want to be on it would be the Rhode Island Foundation because it affects the lives of everyone in our state. How has Judaism and being Jewish in Rhode Island impacted your life? We were the third Jewish family to move to Barrington. I was the diversity in Barrington.

I grew up in a family who were big humanitarians without having tons of money. I remember sitting in front of the supermarket with my sister, Wendy and our mother. She used to bake cakes and sell them in order to

My mom died a year ago tomorrow, at the age of 93. She used to ask me all the time if I would say kaddish for her. I promised her that I would do it for 30 days, but because I was only reading the transliteration, I felt sad that I had never learned to read Hebrew. After she died, I thought about it a lot. I called Temple Beth-El, and I asked if there was an adult Hebrew class. Much to my surprise they said, yes, that there was one person in that class who had signed up, and that they were starting after the holidays. I said, “I want to do it.” Within weeks 14 adults, many of whom are prominent leaders in the Rhode Island community, decided to attend the class. Since the fall of 2024, we have met every Tuesday.

We will be B’nai Mitzvaed on March 14 which combines the Bar and Bat Mitzvahs and we're all doing it together. We are loving this experience of doing this as adults. There are, I believe 3 or 4 of the 14 who did not grow up Jewish and converted and are Jews by choice.

What was your vision then, Sally, that you still have today?

I have always thought outside the box. In those days there were no computers. So, you depended on a three-line ad in the newspaper, and every house description sounded the same. I wanted real estate marketing to look different to a future buyer or seller. That is still the same vision that guides us today. And technology has made all the difference.  40 years ago, if you called me and said, I’m looking for a house in this price range, we would tour 40 houses. Now buyers can view houses online and eliminate homes that they don’t want to see. Agents today often take buyers to see five houses and the client can make a decision. Technology is a wonderful tool.

What is your key to success?

There are no secret sauces and no secrets to success. It’s the result of incredibly hard work, being fully prepared and knowledgeable in the field, and learning from experience. This is a people business. It’s a relationship business.

How has the real estate business changed since you co-founded your company in 1981?

Technology is what changed our business. I think that one of the big changes in real estate is that national corporations have purchased independent agencies all over the country. We are homegrown and have remained a private family company for 43 years. We have about 300 people working at the company with eight offices in Rhode Island, one office in Westport, Massachusetts, and a relocation division. My team and I are always doing research on national trends and what we need to do to stay competitive. I am proud of what we do every day.

What is the biggest challenge you see in the current real estate market? With the new administration’s cuts, threats of tariffs and chaos, the market has slowed in the high end, interest rates remain high, and people are nervous. It certainly hasn’t paralyzed the spring market, but it started much later than normal.

During the first quarter, sellers looked at the volatility in the stock market and decided to wait to put their houses on the market.

There is more inventory on the market now than there has been in a long time. One of the problems that we faced was that between 2019 and 2024 50% of the buyers over a million dollars in the State of Rhode Island were from out of town. It was hard for Rhode Islanders to compete with that. There is very little inventory in the price range of 300K to 800k but that market is still strong. It is extremely hard for first-time homebuyers to get into the market today with interest rates just under 7%, and low inventory. The dream of homeownership is still strong. The average age of a first-time homebuyer today is 38.

There have been some hard periods in real estate. How did you get through those, Sally?

They were hard. I tried very hard to keep everything stable in the company knowing that it would not last forever.

We just tightened our belts, spent less money in every category, and I talked all the time about how to stay in touch with your circle of influence to the agents in the company. I spent a lot of time visiting company presidents and decision makers at each corporation, and said, “I don’t care

if you only hire one person this year but let me tell you what we can do for you to help new hires coming into your company.

What’s your real estate advice?

“Marry the house, and date the rate.” Because the interest rates will never stay the same and if, for example, you’re getting a 6 3/4% interest rate and the interest rates a year from now drops to 5%, just refinance it and get a lower interest rate. My advice is don’t give up on your dream. If you are going to be in your future house for 3-5 years, you will never regret your investment.

To sum up, what are the core values that you use in your personal life and at your business Residential Properties?

• Diversity is a fact, and inclusion is a choice.

• Alone we can do little, but together we can do so much more.

• Culture is the way that you think, act and interact.

• The greatness of a community is measured by the compassionate actions of its members.

• And there are no secrets to success. It’s a result of preparation, hard work, and learning from experience.

PATRICIA RASKIN , owner of Raskin Resources Productions, is an awardwinning radio producer, business owner and leader. She has served on the board of directors of Temple Emanu-El, in Providence. Her “Positive Living with Patricia Raskin” podcast can be heard on voiceamerica. com.

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Your home and your health

BY LEAH HALUNEN

ONE OF THE BIGGEST decisions we make in life is also one of the most stressful – buying or selling a home. From the financial pressures to the emotional ups and downs, real estate transactions often take a toll on mental and physical health. And beyond the stress of this process, your home itself also plays a major role in your overall well-being.

improve your immune system, and even support emotional healing.

Whether you’re buying or selling a home, real estate can be very overwhelming. In addition to being a major financial transaction, it’s also an emotional journey. The constant need to make decision after decision, meet deadlines, make appointments, and the uncertainty can lead to high stress levels. They can affect sleep, digestion, mood, and even heart health. For real estate agents especially, this stress is constant and often leads to burnout if wellness isn’t prioritized.

Managing this stress is essential. Incorporating simple habits like daily movement, healthy meals, deep breathing, and getting enough rest can make a big difference. Even a short walk or mindful pause when dealing with these difficult tasks can help regulate your nervous system and bring clarity to the chaos.

Once the process is complete and you’re moved into your new home, it becomes the environment where your mind and your body can reset. A safe, clean, and comfortable living space is more than a luxury, it’s a foundation of good health.

Natural light, clean air, non-toxic materials, and a good space to sleep and rest all support your physical and mental wellness after dealing with all the big challenges. Clutter, noise, or poor lighting can increase anxiety, disrupt sleep, and reduce productivity at a time when there is a lot to organize. Creating a peaceful home can lower stress hormones,

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There is even a new trend known as “wellness real estate.” As more people become aware of how their environment affects their health, the demand for the connection between wellness and real estate is growing. Homebuyers are looking for features like air filtration, natural materials, gardens, walking trails nearby, and a calming design. Proximity to outdoor recreation areas,

‘There is even a new trend known as wellness real estate.’

fitness studios, and healthy food options is becoming just as important as commute time and good school districts.

This shift presents an opportunity for both buyers and sellers. Sellers who take these things into consideration and invest in health-focused upgrades can appeal to a larger market. And buyers who prioritize health in their home search are more likely to feel good in their space long term.

At the end of the day, real estate is about more than property, it’s about people. Where we live shapes how we feel, think, and move through our daily lives. When we manage the stress involved in these processes with intention and create a home that supports rest, peace, and joy, we set ourselves up for lasting wellness.

Whether you’re in the real estate market now or planning for the future remember that your home is not just where you live but also where you heal. So, choose wisely, and take care of yourself every step of the way.

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LEAH HALUNEN is a personal trainer at the Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island.

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Sh’ma Koleinu: Solidarity with Butler workers is a moral call for us all

BY RABBI HEATHER SHORE

BY NOW, YOU HAVE likely seen, read, or heard that on May 15, 2025, the nearly 800 union employees at Butler Hospital went on strike. A collective of both medical and support staff working in partnership with the dedicated leaders of 1199SEIU New England (NE), those striking are demanding a livable wage and a demonstrated commitment from management to keeping workers safe through increased protections against workplace violence and ensuring appropriate staffing numbers on all shifts. In the nearly two months since the strike began, Butler management stripped striking workers of their health insurance benefits and posted their jobs for permanent replacement.

Though the RI Department of Labor and Training has granted unemployment payments for those striking workers whose jobs were posted for replacement as of June 1, the failure of Butler’s management to reach a fair agreement that honors the humanity of its care and support staff is a failure for our whole community. That unionized nurses at Rhode Island Hospital and Hasbro Children’s Hospital have since voted to also authorize potential strikes in their respective workplaces points to the dire state of labor and care across our state, the consequences of which extends far past the walls of our local hospitals.

During the candlelit vigil that took place on June 8, striking workers and community members alike gathered in solidarity to uplift the lifesaving work that Butler has provided in Rhode Island and beyond since its founding in 1844. With teary eyes and fierce pride, individuals of all ages shared their personal experiences at the hospital, honoring the intergenerational impact of Butler’s caregivers and underscoring the urgency of resolving unsafe working conditions for the sake of being able to go back to doing the critically necessary work of caring for patients at the hospital as soon as possible.

As the speakers continued, one fact emerged clearly: no one understands how acutely this strike affects those most in need of care as do the people gathered in this picket line. No one is more heartbroken, no one is more aware, no one is more desperate to resolve these negotiations for the sake of their patients than these striking workers. And, no one is more aware of what is at stake if the people who are expected to care for individuals in some of the most vulnerable moments of their lives cannot meet their own basic needs for safety, survival, shelter and healthcare.

The Talmud teaches, “Anyone who has the ability to protest against the wrongdoing of the members of their household but fails to protest, that person is held accountable for the sins of the members of their household. Anyone who has the ability to protest the wrongdoing of the people of their town, but fails to do so, is held accountable for the wrongdoing of the people of their town. And anyone who has the ability to protest the wrongdoing of the whole world, but fails to do so, is held accountable for the wrongdoing of the whole world” (Talmud Bavli tractate Shabbat 54b: 20, translation by R. Sharon Brous)

As our 24/7 news cycle becomes more crushing by the day, it is easy to feel paralyzed by the scope of suffering and wrongdoing calling out for our attention now. Add to that a multi-millennia-old tradition that teaches us that we’re personally responsible for each and every failure of justice in the world, and how could we not feel overwhelmed? Far from being a sign of weakness or fatigue, to be moved, hurt, exhausted and scared

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To educate, not to indoctrinate

WHEN I SAT DOWN to breakfast this past May 12 and began to read “West Point Is Supposed to Educate, Not Indoctrinate,” Graham Parsons’ op-ed piece for The New York Times, I realized back then that I would be writing about Parsons’ provocative column for our July issue of Jewish Rhode Island. At that time, Parsons was a philosophy professor at the United States Military Academy at West Point, where he was teaching military ethics.

them for the unpredictable and complex situations our military leadership needs to face.

Given the fact that Parsons held tenure, I was shocked to read this third paragraph: “I will be resigning after this semester from my tenured position at West Point after 13 years on the faculty. I cannot tolerate these changes, which prevent me from doing my job responsibly. I’m ashamed to be associated with the academy in its current form.”

What, specifically, are some of “these changes” that have provoked Parsons to state publicly that he is “ashamed to be associated with the academy” at West Point? This past Jan. 27, President Donald J. Trump issued an executive order prohibiting “certain un-American” notions that “our founding documents are racist or sexist.” Two days later, Secretary of Defense, Pete Hegseth, issued a memo ordering all our nation’s military academies to “teach that America and its founding documents remain the most powerful force for good in human history.” Huh???

Hegseth’s memo is demanding that indoctrination supplant an education that explores our nation’s weaknesses as well as our many strengths. Such orders from the White House aim to close the minds of our future military officers, crippling their decision-making capacities rather than preparing

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According to Parsons, such demands from “On High” have made it impossible for him to continue teaching at West Point. To preserve his unwavering loyalty to the principle of academic freedom, he has been willing to risk the insecurity of losing his hard-earned tenure. Parsons can no longer serve at an institution that bans the books of such world-class authors as Alice Walker, James Baldwin and Toni Morrison. Why are these honored writers suddenly seen as a threat to the minds and the moral integrity of West Point’s young cadets?

Two days after the Times published Parsons’ op-ed piece, the newspaper devoted an entire page of its national news to an examination of the goings-on at West Point: “Culture War at West Point Claims Books and Professors.” In addition to referring to Parsons, the article also pointed out that another tenured professor (who has chosen to remain anonymous) has also resigned after the school refused to let her continue to teach an essay by Alice Walker.

West Point’s willingness to bow to the White House’s threats is well illustrated by the school’s banning the books of two authors who have previously been invited to speak on campus: As the Times reported: “Two Black authors – Ms. (Toni) Morrison and Mr. (Tah-Nehisi) Coates – whose works were no longer permitted to be taught at West Point, had been welcomed as speakers on campus. In 2003, Ms. Morrison read from “Home,” her novel…More than 1,500 cadets attended.

“Four years later, Mr. Coates urged 800 first-year cadets to examine the myth that the United States, and even West Point, had constructed after the Civil War.” We Jews come from a tradition that ought to inoculate us – at least to some degree –from this disease of uniform and uncritical thinking. To this very day we are a people who appear to thrive on argument, disagreement and controversy. You know the quip: two Jews, three opinions.

When we take even a cursory look at our post-Biblical tradition, we find that for our rabbis, controversy is the breath of life. Again and again, after staking out a position in Jewish lore, Aggadah, or Jewish law, Halachah, the rabbis qualify their viewpoint with the words “davar acher, another explanation.”

To my way of thinking, these are the two most important words in the entire rabbinic lexicon. Davar acher, another explanation, and then often, another explanation, and yet another. These two simple words affirm that for our rabbis of old, truth is an ongoing process of discovery rather than a destination that we can eventually reach. Yes, we aspire to attain the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth; nevertheless, a decent respect for our human limitations coupled with some degree of intellectual humility should remind us that “The Truth” is always beyond our grasp. That is to say there is always a davar acher, another explanation. Davar Acher : two words which can liberate our minds and our hearts from the tyranny of partisan indoctrination.

JAMES B. ROSENBERG is a rabbi emeritus at Temple Habonim in Barrington. Contact him at rabbiemeritus@ templehabonim.org.

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From the Alliance President Looking back, moving forward

The following remarks were delivered June 18 at the Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island’s 14th annual meeting. They have been edited for publication.

BY ADAM GREENMAN

IT FEELS LIKE every year things for our Rhode Island Jewish community become more joyous and more fraught. As I look back on the year that was, I can point to so much joy, and so much community building, and so much progress we made. Together we celebrated the Alliance’s 13th year with a B’nai Mitzvah Gala worthy of such a milestone. We brought 11 community leaders to Israel so they could better understand the complexities of the region, delve deeper into the meaning of Israel to the Jewish community and examine daily life of Israelis

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and Palestinians. We developed and launched a new three-year strategic plan, updating our goals and strategies for the year ahead after listening closely to community members across Rhode Island. Our “Lift the J” campaign provided JCC members with an opportunity to support the work happening in this building and give us the ability to improve services for everyone. The JCC increased its membership again, adding 100 new members. Our Tigersharks Swim Team made it to Nationals. And much more. At the same time, I look back on the last year and look at the challenges of our community. Israeli hostages have been held by Hamas for 620 days. At the moment,

by what’s happening in our world is an enduring sign of our shared humanity. With so much at stake, allowing ourselves an alternative to feeling powerless and paralyzed is a path to power, and it becomes available to us only when we allow the cries of our neighbors to break through the cacophony of crises we’re bombarded with daily.

If you saw this strike not as something causing traffic on the boulevard but instead as a fundamental violation of the well-being of a beloved family member, neighbor or friend, how would you respond? Who would you call, email or hold accountable? If you saw the Talmud’s call to personal responsibility as practical permission to experience an alternative to powerlessness instead of just another abstract burden to an already exhausted conscience, what would you do right now, today, in your own backyard?

In a world that profits literally and metaphorically from our feeling too dumbfounded to act, taking care of each other is a path to power. Walking our Jewish values out of our prayer spaces and into our board rooms, contacts and community spaces is a way to put that path to power into effect. Showing up for people and believing them when we hear that they are hurting is a way we can take control in this moment. To remain passive in response to the call of these beloved community members is to surrender

Israel is at war, and our Israeli brothers and sisters are spending more time in shelters. We pray for their safety and that they may one day soon live in peace. In the last month across our country, we’ve seen heinous antisemitic incidents kill and injure people for no other reason than they were believed to be Jews. We’ve seen antisemitic incidents here in

‘We need to keep moving forward. Because in the end, that is the story of our people.’

Rhode Island, and we’ve seen an uncertain national and global financial picture affect the ability of our partners to deliver critical services to our community.

We’ve responded to those challenges. Over 300 people

the power that is well within our hands to change things for the better. It is my firm belief that doing so is acting in direct opposition to some of our most central Jewish values.

We are a small state, connected to one another in intricate webs of relationships frayed and re-braided again and again through decades of rupture and repair, a state built through generations of friends and families always finding their way back to this one tiny stretch of land. I believe that at the end of the day, it will be relationships leveraged with loving accountability that will tip this strike trajectory toward the conditions needed to allow Butler’s dedicated staff to get back to the work they’re so skilled at providing for our community. As a fellow community caregiver and as a lifelong community member, I am imploring each of us (yes, even you, dear reader) to act as though our actions matter even and especially in a world that is screaming at us to tell us that they don’t. Our tradition teaches us that we are all responsible for one another; it’s time to act in a way that honors the seriousness and the sanctity of that responsibility.

To any of Butler’s striking workers reading this, to anyone who wanted to walk out but couldn’t and to those who were forced back due to financial or familial stress, please know that we, your local clergy, see you. We believe you. We are with you, not just as representatives of our faith communities but also as your colleagues, friends, neighbors, patients and family. We are

received security training throughout Rhode Island through the Alliance this year. We’ve supported parents in their fight against antisemitism in their school districts in multiple communities. It can be easy in a moment like this to focus on the bad. But history demonstrates time and again that is not how the Jewish community responds to adversity, and it is not how we should either. We need to continue to focus on the good and the joy. We need to keep moving forward. Because in the end, that is the story of our people. We keep marching forward. When we were lost in the desert for 40 years, we kept moving forward. When inquisitions and pogroms violently sought to destroy Jewish communities, we kept moving forward. And today, amid a rise in antisemitism and anti-Israel sentiment, at a

full of gratitude for the work that you do to keep this tiny state of ours thriving for every person you serve and support. We know that we cannot do the work that we are doing if you are not able to do yours. We are at your back and with you shoulder to shoulder. You should not have to be in this position, and we are so sincerely sorry that you are. May the way we stand together be a reminder that “that’s just how things are” need not become how things will always be.

To the rest of us, let us not just answer but also echo and amplify this clear call to justice, to humanity, to a world that not only believes but also acts in a way that values people over profits. Those who want to amplify the voices of the striking workers can contact Dr. Michael Wagner, President and Chief Executive Officer of Care New England Health System or the Board of Directors. Those who want to offer solidarity to those striking can also stop by the picket line any day of the week. These striking workers are our neighbors and our caregivers begging us to give them the basic support they need to be able to safely and sustainably provide the care they’ve been offering for decades and are desperate to be able to return to as soon as possible.

Just a few short chapters after instructing us, “not [to] abuse a needy and destitute laborer” (Deut. 24:14), the book of Deuteronomy reminds us, “Surely, this Instruction which I enjoin upon you this day is not too baffling for you, nor is it beyond reach.

time where we require security at events to keep us safe, we keep moving forward. In the next year, we will continue to do just that. Our second Jewish Culture Fest will take place on Sept. 14 right outside this building. Together we’ll celebrate who we are with so many from throughout our Rhode Island community. As part of our initiative to fight antisemitism, we’ll be launching a Parent Support Network, that will provide resources for parents in communities throughout Rhode Island so that they can advocate for change when incidents arise. We will partner with synagogues to offer Jewish programming and create thriving Jewish life in each part of our state, and we will continue to ensure this building remains a hub of Jewish pride, Jewish identity and

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It is not in the heavens, that you should say, “Who among us can go up to the heavens and get it for us and impart it to us, that we may observe it?” Neither is it beyond the sea, that you should say, “Who among us can cross to the other side of the sea and get it for us and impart it to us, that we may observe it?” No, the thing is very close to you, in your mouth and in your heart to observe it… Choose life” (Deut. 30: 11-14;19b).

There can be no cause closer to us than this, a call coming from within the walls of our own home. The call of these dedicated professionals is a call to “choose life” – life for Butler’s workers, life for Butler’s patients and life for the sustained health of the greater Rhode Island community. The call to choose life is, in this very moment, sounding in the cries of our neighbors. You have this imperative from Deuteronomy to act, how will you answer their call?

RABBI HEATHER SHORE is an HUCJIR ordained rabbi and received an MA in Clinical Mental Health Counseling & Spiritual Integration through Fordham University in May 2024. She has worked in a wide range of programmatic, educational and pastoral capacities in the US and Israel, and loves the challenge of crafting creative spiritual experiences to meet the needs of our moment. She now serves the greater RI Jewish community through chaplaincy and clinical work as an LMHC-A.

Tons of fun at summer J-Camp

PHOTOS GLENN OSMUNDSEN

Inside or outside, campers enjoy all the activities at the camp, held at the Dwares Jewish Community Center in Providence. Camp runs through Aug. 22.

Interfaith vigil supports immigrant rights

BY FRAN OSTENDORF

The mood was somber. The voices were serious. And the tone was a call to action as approximately 50 members of the interfaith community came together Monday [June 16] to advocate for rights for immigrants, refugees and asylum seekers.

AS THEY GATHERED in the shade of the Rhode Island Irish Famine Memorial in downtown Providence, the group was led in song by Rabbi Preston Neimeiser of Temple Beth-El, in Providence, who said that the gathering was a time to give

meaning to “never again.”

Clergy and participants of all faiths spoke about the history of immigration in the United States through a series of readings. The halfhour program invoked the memory of the MS St. Louis, which sailed from Germany

in 1939 with more than 900 Jewish passengers and was turned away from ports in Cuba and the United States. It eventually returned to Europe, where many from that ill-fated ship perished.

At the start of the program, which drew on material prepared by HIAS, Wendy Joering, executive director of the Sandra Bornstein Holocaust Education Center, said, “We honor the memories of those who died after being denied refuge. We lament efforts today to once again close the doors of our country to refugees seeking freedom and safety. We cry out for the expulsion of those who have found

peace and tranquility within our borders.”

The program was part of a national effort called “Together in Welcome: Faith Communities for Immigrants, Refugees and Asylum Seekers.” The local program was sponsored by Temple Beth-El and HIAS. HIAS, formally incorporated in 1903 as the Hebrew Immigrant Aid Society, had been working to help Jewish refugees from Eastern Europe and Russia as early as the 1880s. Today it works with all refugees.

Rabbi Jeffrey Goldwasser of Temple Sinai, in Cranston, ended the program by calling on elected officials to

listen to the message of this vigil and to represent those at the vigil.

“We will not idly stand by as the laws and institutions meant to affirm our rights and the rights of all within our borders are being wielded as tools of injustice,” he said. “When our government slams the doors shut on today’s refugees, when our leaders instill fear within the inhabitants of this land, we have just two words: Never Again.”

FRAN OSTENDORF (fostendorf@jewishallianceri. org) is the editor of Jewish Rhode Island.

PHOTOS | GLENN OSMUNDSEN

Clergy and others gathered for the Rhode Island Faith Communities’ “Together in Welcome.:” A vigil for immigrants, refugees and asylum seekers. The event was held at the Rhode Island Irish Famine Memorial.

Rabbi Jeffery Goldwasser gave a rousing speech.

Clergy, including Rabbi Andrew Klein, right, had a chance to gather with community members to support immigrant rights.

Rabbi Preston Neimeiser led the group in song.

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Alliance celebrates 14 years, welcomes sixth board chair

BY FRAN OSTENDORF

PROVIDENCE – Members of the Jewish community celebrated 14 years of the Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island at the organization’s annual meeting June 18.

THE EVENING PROGRAM marked the end of three years as board chair for Harris Chorney of Narragansett and the installation of Marisa Garber of Newport as the sixth chair of the board.

Rabbi Michael Fel of Temple Emanu-El in Providence started the evening with a D’var Torah that emphasized hope. “We gather in hope and optimism,” he said. And he also said that we have “gratitude for those who have served.”

In his final remarks as chair, Chorney talked about the “joys and oys” of his tenure. He mentioned accomplishments such as the Jewish Culture Fest, increasing agency partnerships and revitalizing the Jewish Community Center membership after COVID. And he talked about addressing antisemitism and hate, bringing the community together after Oct. 7 and increasing community security.

“None of this is possible without the financial support of people in this room,” Chorney said. “None of this

is possible without teachers, staff and volunteers.”

“It really has been a wonderful ride.”

Garber, in her first speech as chair, told the crowd the story of being asked to be board chair and preparing to say “no.” What changed her mind? She told the story of coming to Providence with her husband, Dan Gamm, and settling in, finding their place in the community, having three children and becoming active in community organizations.

“I’m here tonight because this community helped me raise my family, provided them with a Jewish education and framework, all the while instilling values to help them navigate their way in the world,” she said.

“It’s my turn now to give back to the community that has given me, and my family, so much.”

Each year at the annual meeting, recognition awards are presented for leadership development, community service as well as staff excellence.

The Reisman Leadership

Development Award was presented to two people this year. Both had participated in a leadership development program at the Alliance –the first such program in 20 years. The Reisman Award is presented to those who have demonstrated Jewish commitment, leadership and significant service in Jewish Alliance activities.

Honored were Amy Page DeBlasio and Katie N. Ziegler.

The Norman D. and Flo Tilles Community Relations Council Award was presented to Rabbi Preston Neimeiser of Temple Beth-El in Providence. This award recognizes significant service, leadership and commitment to the Community Relations Council at the Alliance. Rabbi Neimeiser serves on the Community Relations Council and is active in interfaith work.

setter and Lions of Judah donors, the Melvin G. Alperin Award for Excellence in Jewish Communal Leadership was presented to Edward D. Feldstein, who has been a leader in the Rhode Island Jewish community for many years, including serving as board chair of the Jewish Federa-

The Gail A. Putnam Award was presented to Michele Gallagher, senior manager of campaign operations at the Alliance. The award recognizes an Alliance staff person for outstanding commitment and dedication. Gallagher has worked at the Alliance for 25 years.

Earlier in the evening during a dinner for Pace -

tion (now Alliance) and The Miriam Hospital. The award, which was established in the last year, recognizes a history of commitment and significant service and leadership to the Jewish community and Jewish Alliance.

In his remarks to the audience, Adam Greenman, president and CEO of the Alliance, thanked Chorney for his leadership and the outgoing board members for their service. He welcomed Garber to her new role as chair of the board and told

her he was looking forward to working with her. He then spoke about the ups and downs of the past year, the 14th of the Alliance and his eighth as president and CEO.

He listed successes such as the Jewish Culture Fest in June 2024 and the B’nai Mitzvah Gala in December. He talked about the challenges of antisemitism, the hostages still held in Israel and the war in Gaza.

And he emphasized the need to move forward and to have hope. “I urge all of you to have that same hope. That things will be better in the year ahead. That we will have many opportunities to celebrate. That we will focus on the good and the joy and less on the negative,” he said.

(For the entire speech, see page 13.)

The boards of the Alliance, Jewish Federation Foundation and the Alliance Realty, Inc. were installed by Rabbi Fel. He led the installation with a sense of humor and kept the formalities moving at a good pace.

The approximately 90-minute program was held in the Baxt Social Hall at the Bonnie and Donald Dwares Jewish Community Center in Providence.

FRAN OSTENDORF (fostendorf@jewishallianceri. org) is the editor of Jewish Rhode Island.

Reisman Leadership Development award winners Katie N. Zeigler (left) and Amy Page DeBlasio with (left to right) Rich Glucksman, Adam Greenman and Harris Chorney.

Melvin D. Alperin Award for Excellence in Jewish Communal Leadership recipient Edward D. Feldstein speaks at the Pacesetters dinner.

Marisa Garber, left, and Harris Chorney.

PHOTOS | GLENN OSMUNDSON

This Birthright trip was beyond memorable COMMUNITY

BY SAM WARD

Itraveled to Israel as part of my birthright and I turned 22 in the holy city of Jerusalem. I adventured alongside 29 other young Jewish adults whom I had never met. Some came in small groups of friends from home, school or Jewish summer camps. Familiar faces comforting each other in the unknown. We were also joined by eight courageous IDF soldiers. Although they were similar to us in age, they told a completely different story.

BEFORE GOING on this journey, I was already educated and aware of the ongoing battles between Hamas and Israel. We were promised safety and protection on this adventure. After arriving in Tel Aviv, we were welcomed by kind-hearted Israelis. They welcomed us into their country and treated us with the respect everyone deserves. The community surrounding us immediately curated positive vibes and true spirit.

The first six days felt absolutely surreal getting to see the thriving city and beautiful beaches of Tel Aviv, meeting local sixth graders as we joined them in preparing care packages to send to soldiers, visiting the Western Wall in Jerusalem, hiking up Masada and floating in the Dead Sea. The vibes eventually became somber as we prayed for the families of hostages at Hostage Square, grieved Holocaust victims at Yad Vashem, honored the brave men and women who fell during war at Mount Herzl and took a short trip to visit the Nova Festival site where we had time to read the stories of those who had been brutally attacked and killed on Oct. 7, 2023.

I felt worry free until the evening of my birthday. We were sitting at a local Jerusalem restaurant when a bomb warning sounded a few miles away. We were not in immediate danger. I stepped outside, and in the daylight, I could see the Iron Dome intercepting a missile. Thanks for the birthday candles, Hamas! We remained safe, and I enjoyed the fresh tastes of Israeli food. We went about our evening meet-up with another American group to enjoy a night out in “The Shuk” markets, a staple of Jerusalem.

Two days passed, and we arrived at a small kibbutz community up north. The beautiful mountains, wildlife and farms around us created what felt like a safe haven far

from danger. Shortly after sunset that Thursday evening, the heroes among us began to look worried. They warned us that they heard that the IDF planned to strike an Iranian nuclear base.

As the strikes started, millions of Israelis rushed to shelters multiple times a night. Alarms sounded allowing 90 seconds to protect ourselves amid the looming thoughts of a missile piercing the roofs above our heads.

After the first two nights, it felt like the norm to me. But how can these people live their lives in fear? They don’t! At the kibbutz, many people sat on their porches accepting that this is a part of their normal life. Nothing about that should be considered normal. Why so much hatred for such beautiful people? Understanding what the Israeli people, my people, felt for the five days we were under attack was mind-bending.

be combined with other Birthright groups. Now hundreds of us were grouped together wishing for a return to our homes.

The following morning, we embarked on the next part of our journey. A cruise ship was sent to take the first half of the 3,000 American Jews to Cyprus, the only way out.

While waiting to board the ship, we were met with the piercing noise of air raid sirens once again. A million thoughts ran through my head all at once. This time we had no shelter to run to. Nearly 1,400 of us had to lie down in the port’s parking lot, covering our heads, hoping the Iron Dome would do its job to protect us. Twenty minutes went by, and the air was clear. What a great job the IDF does, I think to myself. The process to board the boat resumed, and tensions were high to get us out of the port city of Ashdod.

sailed across the Mediterranean Sea toward Cyprus. Not many were able to access internet, which may have been a nice break from reality.

The harsh reality though was the Iranian regime wasn’t finished. An Iranian UAV had flown out far offshore, stalking us from above and revealing the position of our ship. No sound this time. From the top deck of the ship only those who were looking off in the distance away from the party could see a cloud form in the sky. UAV down. Another cloud formed in the distance shortly after. Ballistic missile down. The joy and anger I felt all in the same moment was incomprehensible. While we still were safe, hatred followed us across the sea. It seemed like it would never end.

We, the Jewish people, will always be a target of hatred. Now, safe upon the shore of Cyprus, we still have hours left on our journey home to America…. Am Yisrael Chai, the People of Israel Live.

As the fifth day dawned, we had no idea when this was going to end. We were alerted shortly after lunch that day that we would be brought to a new location where we would

Once we set sail, we were met with what felt like a sigh of relief. We, the Jewish people, are a community. Everyone’s stress was gone. It felt like we were all united for a short time as one. Escorted and surrounded by Israeli naval ships, we

SAM WARD participated in a Birthright trip with Hillel International that was scheduled from June 6-15. He was part of the group that was evacuated to Cyprus during the recent Israel-Iran War. He ended up returning home on June 19. He lives in Hartford, Connecticut, where he was raised. His grandmother’s family is from Newport.

Some of Birthright group by the Western Wall.

PHOTOS COURTESY SAM WARD

The writer at the Bedouin tents in the Negev.

Building a safe community

BY EMILY GAUDREAU

With antisemitism on the rise nationally and here in Rhode Island, the Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island is taking decisive action to protect and uplift our community. Our efforts recognize that true safety requires more than physical protection; it also demands deep relationships, strong democratic norms, and proactive civic engagement.

LAST MONTH, I had the opportunity to represent the Alliance in Washington, D.C., at a two-day summit hosted by the Jewish Council on Public Affairs (JCPA), a national organization dedicated to building a just and equitable society based in the belief that Jewish safety is intrinsically tied to the safety of others. The summit focused on

coalition and bridge building as a tool to combat antisemitism in the wake of Oct. 7 and growing domestic threats. It was held at the Capital Jewish Museum, a deeply symbolic location following the tragic murders of Yaron Lischinsky and Sarah Lynn Milgrim.

Alongside over 100 Jewish community relations

professionals from across the country, I took part in workshops exploring how cross-community partnerships and civic advocacy can strengthen Jewish safety. The summit concluded with a Hill Day of Advocacy, where I met with Rep. Gabe Amo and Sen. Jack Reed, and staff from the offices of Rep. Seth Magaziner and Sen. Sheldon Whitehouse. We discussed legislative avenues to address antisemitism and to ensure that Rhode Island’s Jewish community is protected, represented, and included.

But while coalition-building and community engagement are vital, they are not enough on their own. We also need a robust investment in physical security.

Just last week, nearly 400 Jewish leaders from more than 100 major Jewish organizations across the country

who participated in emergency meetings had one message: “Jewish security cannot wait.” The Alliance’s Chief Strategy Officer Stephanie Hague, and board member, Avi Rosenstein represented Rhode Island in the advocacy effort.

The Jewish Federations of North America and the Conference of Presidents of Major Jewish Organizations led the United for Security Emergency Leadership Mission in response to the recent attacks targeting Jewish events in Washington, D.C., and Boulder, Colorado.

In more than 200 meetings on Capitol Hill, advocates pushed for a six-point security policy plan for the Jewish community. Hague and Rosenstein had the opportunity meet with Reps. Amo and Magaziner, Sen. Reed, and staff from Sen. White -

house’s office. They shared the significant financial burden facing Jewish institutions in light of increased security concerns and discussed legislative avenues to address Jewish security.

The Alliance is committed to both tracks of this work: strengthening our physical defenses and building enduring community relationships. Through ongoing legislative advocacy, cross-community collaboration, and engagement with our federal delegation, we are working to create a future in which the Jewish community is not only safe but thrives.

EMILY GAUDREAU (egaudreau@jewishallianceri. org) is director of Community Advocacy and Engagement at the Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island.

A fresh perspective on endowment and planned giving from new JFF board member

BY JFF STAFF

AT THE RECENT annual meeting of the Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island, Susan

Froehlich was installed as the newest member of the Board of Directors of the Jewish Federation Foundation of Greater Rhode Island

(JFF). The JFF oversees the Alliance endowment of $101 million in partnership with the Rhode Island Foundation.

Froehlich brings decades of experience contributing to the strength and vitality of the local Jewish community. In recent years, she’s helmed the Jewish Alliance’s Leadership Development program for lay leaders and participated in the Development Committee.

“I’m excited to learn more about endowment and planned giving” shared Froehlich. “Annual giving will always be critical, but we need to expand our thinking if we want to truly secure the future of our community.”

The shift reflects a broader organizational change in how philanthropy is approached, focusing less on one-time gifts and more on the legacy donors want to leave behind. Endowments and estate gifts offer the special opportunity to sustain programs and causes into the future –allowing the organization to weather uncertain financial times. But these gifts require building relationships and trust over time.

And Froehlich knows this

first-hand. In addition to her family’s JFF donor-advised fund, she has a planned gift to endow her Lion of Judah campaign gift. She’s following the example set by her mother Elaine Odessa. Thanks to Odessa’s generosity, the Alliance receives a Community Campaign gift in her name even though she passed away more than a decade ago.

“We have to do a better job with stewardship,” explained Froehlich. “That means really getting to know our donors—what drives them, what they’re passionate about—so we can guide them toward making lasting gifts.”

To support this vision, the development team looks to seasoned community volunteers and skilled solicitors as well as staff to personally connect with key donors and help them explore options for endowing their gifts. This peer-to-peer communication is essential. The goal is to strengthen bonds, honor individual legacies, and build financial resilience for generations to come.

Besides thinking about the future, Froehlich is also looking back, explaining, “Over

the years, some endowment donors have moved away or have passed on. In many cases, their families may not even know those gifts exist.” Reconnecting with them is an opportunity to foster renewed engagement and possibly even spark new donations.

Another suggestion Froehlich has is using social media to share what JFF funds have accomplished—what they fund year after year. This storytelling not only honors our donors but can inspire others.

As the development team and its committees move forward, one thing is clear: the future is not just about raising funds. The aim is to build legacy, strengthen connection, and enhance contributions that last well beyond our lifetimes.

The Alliance and JFF depend on volunteers to complement the work of the staff. There are many ways to get involved. To learn more about becoming a volunteer solicitor, submit the form at https://www.jewishallianceri.org/connect/thingsto-do/volunteer.

Temple Beth-El hosts book talk, with Marc J. Dunkelman

BY RUTH MARRIS-MACAULAY

PROVIDENCE – On June 3, Temple Beth-El hosted a book talk with Marc J. Dunkelman, author of “Why Nothing Works: Who Killed Progress and How to Bring it Back.” Dunkelman discussed his book and current challenges to our nation with three local faith leaders and addressed questions from the audience.

THE CONVERSATION took place with Rabbi Sarah Mack of Temple Beth-El, Rev. Liz Lerner of the First Unitarian Church in Providence and Rev. Jamie Washam of The First Baptist Church in America also in Providence. Dunkelman, a member of Temple Beth-El, is a Fellow in International and Public Affairs at Brown University’s Taubman Center for American Politics and Policy. He is also involved in Project 2029, an effort “to devise ways to connect to voters who have lost faith in the political system,” according to a June 30 article in the New York Times.

His previous book “The Vanishing Neighbor: The Transformation of American Community” was a preview of what he addresses in the new book. In the earlier book, he recognized that the sense

of community America once had has gradually eroded since the postwar era, leaving us frustrated and uncertain at a time when politics is having a profoundly polarizing influence on how we respond to one another or even want to know about each other. He expresses hope, however, that we can rebuild community in a new way in the 21st century. The event at Temple Beth-El seemed to be an encouraging start, bringing together people from three different faith communities to talk about creative solutions to today’s malaise.

The three women, who consider themselves progressive faith leaders, meet regularly for breakfast and to share their thinking on such topics. They said they felt it was imperative to reach a wider audience and hear a range of voices. Dunkelman’s

new book seemed to be the catalyst. In short, the book addresses the tension that lies at the heart of progressive thinking and has done so since our nation’s founding.

The opposing visions of Alexander Hamilton and Thomas Jefferson, Dunkelman contends, were key factors in shaping our politics from the beginning. Hamilton wanted a strong federal government whereas Jefferson feared it might threaten individual liberties. Dunkelman, avoiding terms like “liberal” or “Democrat,” focuses on the fact that both Jefferson and Hamilton were progressive in their own ways and that a tension has always existed in the heart of progressivism. He went on to say that Hamiltonian-style strong government can do the greatest good for the greatest number in efforts like FDR’s New Deal or LBJ’s Great Society. The Jeffersonian advancement of individual liberties protects those on the margins of society. The problem occurs when progressivism leans too heavily one way or the other. It must incorporate both – which means discussion, listening, and compromise.

There was a time when the power of the federal government was respected for programs that brought jobs

during the Great Depression or extensions of the social safety net in the 1960s. However, progressivism’s relationship with power shifted during the ’60s and ’70s as what came to be vilified as The Establishment misused its power, he pointed out.

Events like the Vietnam War and the Watergate scandal led to a loss of trust in government and a growing focus on individual rights and identity politics. Because of this, the structures are not in place today to do things like build sufficient affordable housing or a high-speed rail service. We have moved power to the margins and created systems that make communal action difficult.

We critique authority and conflate it with the bureaucracy that supports it – but they are not the same thing. We have adopted the mantra of speaking truth to power without sufficient examination.

Rev. Lerner raised the issue of power in a faith context where suspicion of it is deeply ingrained. While faith communities value reaching out to the powerless and including the marginalized, they may need to look at power in a less suspicious way to achieve results.

Rev. Washam noted that it is easy to tear things down

but much harder to build them up – or to be part of the solution rather than simply naming the problem. Rabbi Mack spoke about finding our moral center and bringing the political to it, and, with reference to the story of Abraham and Isaac, recognizing that sacrifice for the common good is often a difficult concept to embrace.

All three see that the sharing of ideas with a wider community is a path toward a more balanced progressive agenda.

Dunkelman’s book provides many telling examples of how progress has been stymied in the past, but it also offers the possibility of a new way forward when we recognize that we must go beyond critiquing the present if we are to build a better future.

RUTH MARRIS-MACAULAY, a retired educator, is the copy editor for Jewish Rhode Island.

Fund-a-Need big winner at Annual Golf Classic

BY BRIGITTE BAUM

THE 39TH ANNUAL Richard Bornstein Memorial Dwares JCC Golf Classic, held on June 9, was a tremendous success, raising more than $90,000 and drawing an impressive 167 guests to the Warwick Country Club. This year’s event was made memorable with the introduction of tennis and pickleball – a first in the event’s history – which proved to be a hit among attendees.

Participants enjoyed a day of friendly competition, community spirit and meaningful fundraising. The "Fund

A Need" initiative raised close to $13,000 – the highest amount ever collected at this event. And the funds for this initiative are still being tallied. These funds will go directly toward J-Camp scholarships, helping children who would otherwise be unable to attend camp, as

well as provide for essential equipment that keeps the camp running strong every summer.

The Golf Classic's success was bolstered by the generous support of sponsors, including Eagle Sponsors Bonnie and Donald Dwares. Their contributions were

instrumental in sustaining the impactful and engaging community services and programs provided by the Dwares Jewish Community Center, ensuring that the JCC continues to serve as a central hub for the Rhode Island Jewish community.

Thanks go to Ruthie Fur-

man-Ingard and Ben Ingard and their planning committee for a day to remember.

BRIGITTE BAUM (bbaum@ jewishallianceri.org) is manager of donor recognition and events at the Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island.

COMMUNITY Dinerman, Halsband installed as Touro lodge presidents

Campers enjoy a diverse and welcoming environment with a theme and corresponding activities every week. J-Camp is built on four pillars of JAMS: Judaism, Arts, Movement (athletics), and STEM

In addition to our on-site programs, we have weekly field trips and specials guests! In the past, field trips included the zoo, local parks, museums and more.

NORMAN DINERMAN and Scott Halsband were installed as presidents of the two lodges of Touro Fraternal Association at its recent annual Installation Dinner. Touro is the largest Jewish fraternal organization in the Northeast with more than 500 members, headquartered in Cranston. Installed to three-year terms as members of the Board of Directors are Barry Ackerman, Max Guarino, Stevan Labush, Ried Redlich and Steven White. All are current board members except White, who returns to the board after most recently

treasurer, as Harmony Lodge officers. All the lodge officers serve one-year terms.

Dinerman, who joined Touro 25 years ago, returns to a leadership position after an absence of more than a decade. He previously served as a three-term lodge president and as a board member. Halsband is beginning his second year as a lodge president.

Jed Brandes, former board chairman, served as the installing officer and Steve Dinerman was the master of ceremonies.

At Touro’s recent board meeting, Stevan Labush and Jeffrey Davis were elected to their sixth oneyear terms as chairman and vice chairman respectively. Labush re-appointed the following to association positions: Bruce Wasser, secretary; Ralph Orleck, treasurer; Barry Schiff, chaplain, Ried Redlich, faithful guide; and Mitchell Cohen, inside guard.

Submitted by Touro Fraternal Association

TOV! Alex Brenner graduated from The College of New Jersey (TCNJ) on May 23, with a Bachelor of Science degree in Kinesiology and Health Sciences. He i s planning to attend Paramedic School and is pursuing a career in Emergency Medical Services. Alex is the son of Sandi and Jeremy Brenner of Smithfield.

Scott Halsband

Norman Dinerman

MAZEL

BY FRAN OSTENDORF

Miriam time capsule contents revealed Knitting for courage: Hats for Soldiers of the IDF

PROVIDENCE – On Thursday morning, June 19, the time capsule from the cornerstone of The Miriam Hospital’s second building was opened by Jeffrey G. Brier and family as more than 50 members of the Miriam staff and community looked on.

Brier’s grandfather Benjamin placed the original time capsule in The Miriam cornerstone some 75 years ago. Benjamin Brier was the hospital’s third president. The cornerstone was part of the original Jewish Orphanage of Rhode Island.

The contents in the time capsule included:

• A bundle of letters of support, including one from then-Rhode Island Governor Dennis J. Roberts

• A Sunday edition of the Providence Journal

• A 1925 copy of the Jewish Advocate newspaper, specially dedicated to the Parade Street Hospital dedication

• Original ceremony program

• Several newly minted 1951 dimes.

A delighted Brier, who served as chairman of The Miriam from 20042008, looked at each paper and summarized its contents to the crowd. The contents of the time capsule, including the copies of newspapers from the day, were still in excellent condition.

The capsule and cornerstone are being removed as part of The Miriam’s replacement project. Hospital President Maria Ducharme said “We honor the legacy of those who built and cared for patients in this hospital as we begin The Miriam Hospital’s next phase.”

FRAN OSTENDORF (fostendorf@ jewishallianceri.org) is editor of Jewish Rhode Island.

CALLING ALL KNITTERS! At Temple Torat Yisrael, a group of dedicated volunteers is putting love and purpose into every stitch. Members of the community have come together to knit warm, close-fitting hats for Israeli soldiers to wear under their helmets as insulation to keep them warm.

The project, initiated by a handful of the East Greenwich Temple’s congregants moved by the need to support and comfort those on the front lines, has quickly grown into a meaningful volunteer effort. Using machine washable plain black worsted yarn, each hat is handmade with care and gratitude for the young men and women serving in the Israel Defense Forces.

“QUICK RESPONSE TEAM”

“Received warning message–drivetrain malfunction–on Saturday for my 430i; called Tracy first thing Monday, she and Gerry had me come right in, performed diagnostics, and Gerry and I discussed results and made a game plan. That is service!”

These hats do more than just provide warmth – they serve as a tangible reminder to the soldiers that they are not alone. Every stitch carries a message of strength, solidarity, and hope from across the ocean. Since each hat must be knitted according to the IDF specifications, the pattern must be strictly followed.

The project is going strong, and we welcome anyone who would like to participate – no experience necessary. Dona-

tions are welcome.

Together, we are wrapping our Israeli soldiers in warmth, support and love – one hat at a time. All the hats will be sent to Israel for distribution to the soldiers. Knitted hats can be dropped off at Temple Torat Yisrael, 1251 Middle Road, East Greenwich RI 02818 or at the Jewish Alliance of Greater RI, 401 Elmgrove Ave., Providence RI 02906. To obtain the pattern by email (for both circular needles and straight needles), and for further information, contact us at hats@toratyisrael.org.

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The cornerstone where the time capsule had been placed in 1951.

Jeffrey Brier helps to open the Miriam Hospital time capsule.

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COMMUNITY Graduates shine at JCDSRI

WOW! THESE GRADUATES are IMPRESSIVE. With the support of their 5th grade teachers and mentors, along with the Principal and Director of Yahadut (Judaics) at the Jewish Community Day School of Rhode Island in Providence, these students shared their hearts with the community at their graduation. Each student developed a capstone project that represented something they experienced or learned

during their time at JCDSRI ranging from composing music to creating a dance, from researching Israel to writing a d’var Torah. It has been an incredible gift to be on this journey with them, and we cannot wait to see what comes next! Congratulations, class of 2025! We are SO proud of you!

Submitted by the Jewish Community Day School of Rhode Island

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‘Holding Space’ at Rochambeau library

BY HILARY SALK

ON JUNE 5, 20 or so people gathered at Rochambeau Library for the program

“Holding Space- An Artist’s Exploration of the Sons of Jacob Synagogue in Smith Hill.” The synagogue sits at the intersection of Douglas and Orms Streets, largely hidden by trees and a sign welcoming comers to the Smith Hill neighborhood. It is the oldest building in continuous use as a Jewish house of worship in Providence.

The program was a pop-up exhibit and presentation by Zo Baker, formerly Artist-in-Residence and now Curator of the Rhode Island Jewish Museum housed at the Sons of Jacob. Zo created collages, paintings and photo -

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Jewish inclusion.

I have great hope in the future of our community, because of everyone here tonight. Because of our donors who support our work. Because of our agency partners and synagogue partners who work hand in hand with us to build this community. Because of our Board members, new and retiring who are rolling up their sleeves to move our community forward. Because of our incredible staff at the Alliance who pursue this work each day with such a passion and such a commitment that it inspires me to give my all and more each and every day.

And I have great hope because others who are living in more dire circumstances have that hope too. Last month, after returning from our trip to Israel, I shared the story of Yoel, who we met at Nativ Haasarah, just 1,200 feet from the Gaza border. Yoel was born in the Sinai when it was under Israeli control. In 1982 he and his family were forced to relocate because of the peace negotiated between Israel and Egypt. Yoel shared with us that when he was a teen he hated Palestinians because of his forced relocation. By his 20s, when he was working in Gaza in the 1990s, he came to see that the people in Gaza were not very different from him and his family. He shared how

graphs using the synagogue’s archives and artifacts and inspired by the building’s interior, which itself is a work of art. Sam Shore, the first President of the congregation, created intricate paper cuttings as well as murals that are visible throughout the building. An elaborate Hebrew zodiac, linked to various aspects of Jewish teachings, remains remarkably well-preserved on the ceiling in the domed sanctuary. Zo came to the synagogue at the warm invitation of Shelley Parness and her husband, Larry, who grew up on Smith Hill. Larry’s family attended Sons of Jacob, where he continues to be an active member. Through the project at the synagogue as artist-in-residence, Zo says,

that changed when Hamas took power, and he shared how Nativ Haasarah built a peace wall to remind those in Gaza that they want to be neighbors.

Yoel shared with us his harrowing experience on Oct. 7, when three Hamas terrorists entered the Moshav. How he had to come to terms with the fact that because he was with his wife and daughters, he would not be able to save his son or his sister who were in other parts of the village. He talked of the text message he received from his son telling him to run. The text he received from his sister, who was hiding in a closet, that Hamas was in her house. Thankfully they survived, but 20 others in the village did not.

As we stood in front of the giant concrete security barrier which had been adorned with a mural for peace, one member of our group asked Yoel if he thought we could see peace soon. His answer was an unequivocal yes. He said that if someone like him, who had such hatred for Palestinians as a teen could come to work with them and befriend them in a fraction of his own lifetime, that the reverse was possible as well. He had hope. Yoel had a determination to keep moving forward.

As we conclude this 14th

“for the first time in a while I started to feel like I had permission to bring my whole self into a Jewish communal space. I came to Sons of Jacob feeling like a stranger in a community I cannot claim, but continues to claim me.”

The program became an opportunity for people to share their own memories of Smith Hill and other Jewish immigrant communities, which is what Zo Baker and Rochambeau Librarian Lee Teverow, who facilitated the program, had hoped for. Shelley Parness, who is President of the Rhode Island Jewish Museum, spoke of her commitment to telling the story of this lasting piece of Providence’s Jewish history. Her dedication to preserving Jewish stories came from her

annual meeting, I urge all of you to have that same hope. That things will be better in the year ahead. That we will have many opportunities to

childhood. As a very young girl, she overheard her parents speaking of the children killed in the Holocaust, a fate which her parents themselves narrowly escaped. She was, she said, so devastated by this revelation that she “secretly vowed to represent all those children and to devote herself on their behalf to good deeds, to making people laugh, and to spreading kindness.”

Stories from those in attendance began to flow with the encouragement of Lee Teverow. There were stories of immigrant parents and grandparents, stories of the old Jewish bakeries and kosher butchers along Douglas Avenue, a debate on the exact spot on Charles St. where Davis, the late beloved kosher store “used

celebrate. That we will focus on the good and the joy and less on the negative. That we will keep moving forward, from strength to strength.

to be,” and reflections on an entire neighborhood wiped out by the construction of Interstate 95 in the 1960s. Those who were not native Rhode Islanders talked about other Jewish neighborhoods, and the never-ending game of Jewish geography ensued over rugelach and seltzer. This is what makes a community a community: the sharing of stories that intersect or overlap. As we hear each story, I am intensely aware of how we as Jews are so individual in our Jewishness, and in our connection to the past, present and future of the Jewish people.

HILARY SALK of Providence is the author of “Eavesdropping in Oberammergau.”

ADAM GREENMAN is president and CEO of the Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island.

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Evelyn Beder, 98 WARWICK, R.I. – Evelyn Beder died on June 24, 2025, at the Saint Elizabeth Home in East Greenwich. She was the beloved wife of the late Harry Beder and Arthur Pressman. Born in Chelsea, Massachusetts, a daughter of the late Meyer and Mary (Parven) Eisenberg, she had lived in Warwick for 10 years, previously living in Delray Beach, Florida, and Malden, Massachusetts.

Evelyn was a member of ORT and sold their mahjong cards. She was also a lifelong member of Hadassah.

She was the devoted mother of Mitchell Pressman (the late Carol Jacques) of East Greenwich and the late Peter Pressman and Kenneth Pressman and stepmother of Barry Beder (Eileen O’Connell) of Falmouth, Massachusetts, and the late Alan Beder. She was the dear sister of Carl Eisenberg of Chelsea, and the late Albert Eisenberg. She was a loving grandmother of eight and a cherished great-grandmother of many. Contributions may be made to the St. Elizabeth Home, 1 St. Elizabeth Way, East Greenwich, RI 02818.

Richard Bergel, 90 PALM BEACH GARDENS, FLA. –

Richard “Dick” Bergel, of Palm Beach Gardens, passed away on June 14, 2025.

He was born on May 12, 1935, in Providence to Isadore and Anna (Capobianco) Bergel.

He was a standout multisport athlete at Mount Pleasant High School, in Providence, and graduated from Brandeis University, where he lettered for four years as a running back on the football team and was on the university’s first-ever track squad.  He played a prominent role in the early years of Friends

of Brandeis Athletics and was presented with the department’s Charlie Napoli Distinguished Achievement Award in 1990. He was a member of the Brandeis Athletics Hall of Fame. He was a member of the Brandeis University Board of Trustees from 1997 to 2001 and was a Lifetime Fellow of the university.

Dick was employed by Montgomery Ward from 1959 until his retirement in 1995. He rose to become vice chairman and a director of the company as well as chairman and CEO of the Lechmere chain. After living in Latham, New York; Menands, New York; Northbrook, Illinois; and Boston, Massachusetts, he retired to Palm Beach Gardens, Florida.

He was preceded in death by his parents and his brother, Arthur, and is survived by his wife of 67 years, Mimi; his sons, Gary (Shari) and Mark; his granddaughters, Julia and Charlotte; his sister, Barbara Domenico (Steve); his brotherin-law, Herb Kaplan (Evie); and his sister-in-law, Judy Bergel.

Donations can be sent to The Shared Humanity Project.

Sharon Eisman, 68 WARWICK, R.I. – Sharon D. Eisman, of Warwick, passed away unexpectedly on May 26, 2025. Born in Providence, a daughter of the late Irving and Rita (Schweitzer) Eisman, she was predeceased by her loving dog, Starr. She leaves behind her beloved sister, Bonnie Eisman, of Warwick; aunts and uncles, Sydelle and Marty Rosenwasser, of New York, and Lynne and Marty Eisman, of Florida; along with many cousins throughout the country and others with whom she had always appreciated spending time. She is also survived by her dear sister and best friend, Cheryl Labrandi, and numerous friends in and out

of the art community.

Sharon, owner of Starr Designs, was an award-winning professional artist, calligrapher and master gardener. She passionately tended to her home garden. She was an active member of the Warwick Center for the Arts and a longtime supporter of the Wickford Art Association, Providence Art Club, Masscribes, IAMPETH and East Greenwich Art Club, to name a few. She was also a great supporter of her fellow artists. Please visit her website sharondeisman. art to fully appreciate what an amazing artist she was.

Following in the footsteps of her father, Irving, Sharon continued to volunteer at St. Patrick’s soup kitchen, in Providence, a tradition since the early 1970s. She maintained lifelong friendships with the many wonderful people she worked with there. Sharon was a kind and generous person, loved by many, who will surely be missed!

Donations can be made to Warwick Center for the Arts, 3259 Post Road, Warwick, RI 02886; Wickford Art Association, 36 Beach St., North Kingstown, RI 02852; or the art organization of your choice.

Celia Gamm, 82

PROVIDENCE, R.I. – Celia Borenstein Gamm passed away peacefully on June 9, 2025, at her Providence residence surrounded by her devoted family. She was happily married to Dr. Stephen H. Gamm for 32 years.

Born in Tel Aviv, she was the daughter of the late Harry and Rachel (Rabinowitz) Lidzki; she grew up in Brooklyn and lived in Providence for many years. Celia earned a bachelor’s degree from Brooklyn College and a master’s degree from Columbia University. Over two decades, she honed her skills as a physical

Alan Hassenfeld, 76

Alan G. Hassenfeld passed away Tuesday in London. He was 76. The prominent Rhode Island businessman and philanthropist was chairman and CEO of Hasbro in Pawtucket from 1989-2003. Last year, he had stepped down as chairman emeritus of the toymaker founded by his grandfather and great uncle a century ago. That ended the family’s direct role in the company.

Hassenfeld was known in Rhode Island and elsewhere for philanthropic generosity as well as his passion for advocating for children. He served as an honorary director of the Jewish Alliance of Greater Rhode Island.

As of press time, funeral arrangements have not been announced. Check jewishrhody.org for updates.

therapist, establishing Physical Therapy Consultants, in Providence. Prior to that, she spent time working as a physical therapist at various hospitals in the region. Beyond her professional achievements, Celia was an active member of the Jewish community. She played a pivotal role in founding the Jewish Community Day School of Rhode Island (JCDSRI) and actively participated on committees for Temple Emanu-El

and the Jewish Community Center. In her personal life, Celia found joy in various pursuits, including cooking, reading and traveling. However, her greatest happiness lay in cherishing the time she spent with her family.

In addition to her husband, she is survived by three sons, four stepchildren, 16 grandchildren and one great-granddaughter: Ammi Borenstein and Vivian Scheidt, of Seattle, Washington; Joram Boren-

A DECADE BEFORE online booking became a thing, Dorothy Ann Wiener helped Rhode Islanders arrange far-flung vacations. This Jewish Herald story from 1994 profiles the master travel agent,

who had spent decades planning itineraries in her office at 766 Hope Street. By the time this story came out, her company, Dorothy Ann Wiener Travel, had just celebrated 20 years since its

founding. Wiener helped vacationers trot all over the world, but she had a particular passion for Israel; the next month, Wiener was scheduled to fly there for the 43rd time.

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stein and Marci, of Newton, Massachusetts; Noah Borenstein and Amy Heller, of Riverdale, New York; Gerald Gamm and Charles Towles, of Rochester, New York; Benjamin Gamm and Stephanie, of Sharon, Massachusetts; Shanna Trufan and Leon Fortin, of Providence; and Daniel Gamm and Marisa Garber, also of Providence. She was also loved by an untold number of friends.

Contributions may be made to the Jewish Community Day School of RI, 85 Taft Ave., Providence, RI 02906 or your favorite charity.

Stanley Horovitz, 91 CRANSTON, R.I. – Stanley Horovitz passed away on June 21, 2025, at the HopeHealth Hulitar Hospice Center in Providence. He was the faithful and beloved husband of the late Audrey Hope (Blau) Horovitz for 62 years. Born in Providence, he was a son of the late Morris and Dena (Delerson) Horovitz.

Stanley loved life and made sure to live every moment with grace and purpose. He collected hobbies that allowed him to dive in headfirst –cooking, gardening, winemaking, traveling, reading, golf

and bowling. He made sure to keep his family involved by sharing the spoils of his garden and the pride of his first successful bottle of wine. He enjoyed traveling and made sure to do it as often as possible, frequently visiting England and the Far and Middle East. He enjoyed opera, specifically Giacomo Puccini’s “La bohème.” Stanley was a member of many community centered groups: The Rotary Club of RI, the Aurora Club, OLLI, Tin Can Sailors, the National Postcard Association, and the US Naval Officers Candidate School.

Stanley was a talented salesman with Harwood Manufacturing; meeting new people, selling souvenirs and traveling. It was a job he loved and performed for 61 years. Stanley was a Korean Conflict Navy veteran, serving in the Mediterranean onboard the USS Bache as a Lt. Junior Grade. Stanley had lived in Cranston, around the corner from Temple Sinai, for 65 years, and he was a lifelong member of and volunteer with Temple Sinai, their brotherhood and various other search committees throughout the years. He was proud to serve his community during Minyan breakfast, a position he gladly held for over 50 years, and he was an usher with the Temple. His love for learning was enriched by

Temple Sinai’s adult education classes, he thrived in the classroom setting and made sure to inform his “daughter,” friend and healthcare quarterback Dina, about all the interesting historical facts that he learned that week. He joined Temple Emanu-El in 2015 to honor his lifelong involvement in the temple where he was Bar Mitzvahed and married. He proudly attended minyan services and other miscellaneous events held there. In 2022 he celebrated his second Bar Mitzvah at the Western Wall in Jerusalem.

He was the devoted father of Alan Horovitz, his partner, Dina, of Midvale, Utah; Cindy Wilson, her husband, John, of North Kingstown; Marcy Horovitz, of Cranston; and the late Steven (Christine) Horovitz. He was the dear brother of the late David Horovitz and his wife, Maida Horovitz. He was the loving grandfather of seven: Alexandra (Jay), David (Emily), Edward (Alex), Sam, Jack (Lily), Kyle, Kate (Ben). He was the cherished great-grandfather of nine: Emily, Maggie, Hadley, Chase, Audrey, Benjamin, Max, Madison and Maeve. Contributions may be made to Temple Sinai’s Minyan Breakfast fund or the Rabbi Discretionary Fund, 30 Hagen Avenue, Cranston, RI 02920.

Dorothy Horowitz, 92 PROVIDENCE, R.I. – Dorothy Levin Horowitz passed away peacefully on June 5, 2025. She will be remembered as a loving woman with a huge smile, a devoted wife and mother, loved by her grandchildren and great-grandchildren. Dorothy, with her quick wit and compassion, made friends easily throughout her life, including many neighbors at Corliss Landing.

Dorothy is survived by her sons, Bruce and his wife, Jane, of Los Angeles, California; and Sandy and his wife, Ellen, of Brookline, Massachusetts; grandchildren, Andrew and his wife, Abigail; Zachary and his wife, Alison; Mitchell; and Bradley; and great-grandsons, Jordan and Caleb. She is also survived by her sister, Shirley Kirsh. She was predeceased by Donald, her loving husband of 68 years.

The daughter of the late Harry and Rebecca (Lifshitz), Dorothy was born on July 13, 1932, in Woonsocket. She graduated from Syracuse University, where she met Donald. While Donald was serving in the U.S. Army in

Ft. Smith, Arkansas, Dorothy and Donald took advantage of a three-day pass and were married. Fifty years later, their marriage was commemorated in the Providence Journal with a photo from the nuptials.

She lived in Rhode Island all her life. In their retirement, Dorothy and Donald ran a bed and breakfast on Cape Cod, where they enjoyed welcoming guests from all over the world. It was also the site of annual family vacations.

Contributions may be made to Temple Beth-El, 70 Orchard Ave., Providence, RI 02906.

Diane Kaufman, 72 WARWICK, R.I. – Diane S. Kaufman died on June 26, 2025, at Kent Hospital. Born in Norfolk, Virginia, a daughter of the late Samuel and Mildred (Eisenberg) Silver, she had lived in Warwick for over 20 years, previously living in Cranston.

She was a medical transcriptionist for Kent Hospital for over 20 years, retiring 10 years ago. In her retirement, she enjoyed ballroom dancing, vacationing in Virginia Beach, and spending time with friends and family.

She was the devoted mother of Michael Kaufman and his wife, Jaime, of Clarksville, Tennessee; and Meredith Barr and her husband, David Barr Jr., of West Warwick. She was the dear sister of the late Judith Ray. She was the loving grandmother of Kennedy and Samantha.

Contributions may be made to the charity of your choice.

Lev Kris, 88 EAST GREENWICH, R.I. –

Lev Isaakovich Kris passed away on July 2, 2025 at the Miriam Hospital. He was the beloved and devoted husband of Asya Markovna (Stoliarskaya) Kris. Born in the village of Khashchevato, Ukraine, a son of the late Isaak and Brana (Schwartz) Kris, he had lived in East Greenwich for over 25 years, previously residing in Odessa, Ukraine. Lev came to the United States as a political refugee from Ukraine, formerly USSR.

He was the devoted father of Dr. Alla Korennaya of East Greenwich. He was the dear brother of Hannah Friedman of New York City, New York; Mikhail Kris of Haifa, Israel; Tsilya Shamess of Providence; and the late Evgenia Medovaya. He was the loving grandfather of Dr. Marina Korennaya and her husband, Robert.

Contributions may be made to Jewish War Veterans, P.O.

Box 100064, Cranston, RI 02910.

David Mullen, 48

PROVIDENCE, R.I. –

David Mullen passed away peacefully surrounded by his family on June 13, 2025, after a heroic health battle of 15 years.

A graduate of Georgetown University in Political Science, George Washington University Law School and Columbia University School of Public Health, David was both highly intelligent and creative. David will be remembered by his ability to surround himself with loyal and loving friends, whether it was from Varieur Elementary School, Moses Brown School, his college experiences or the Providence community. David loved when his loyal Georgetown friends, 14 of them, would regularly hold Zoom sessions with him, bringing them together for updates on their lives.

David was particularly grateful for the daily companionship of his CNA, Abdoulaye Sembarga. He is survived by his parents, Arthur and Nancy Mullen; his sister, Laura Mullen (Ben McOsker); and his beloved nephew, Maxwell McOsker.

Contributions can be made to the Movement Disorders Clinic at Mass General Hospital, a cause dear to his heart, at MGH Dept. of Neurology ATTN: Dr. Diana Rosas, 149 13th St., Room 10126, Charlestown, MA 02129. Please include “HD Clinic sundry” on the memo line.

Joyce

Ritch, 92 EAST PROVIDENCE, R.I. –Joyce Frances (Berman) Ritch, affectionately known as “Bub” to her family and friends, a resident of Tockwotton on the Waterfront, East Providence, since 2017, passed away on June 18, 2025. She was the wife of the late Marshall Louis Ritch.

Born in New Bedford, Massachusetts, on May 10, 1933, Joyce was the daughter of the late Max P. Berman and Bertha (Gordon) Berman and had lived most of her early years in Fall River, Massachusetts, until getting married and moving to Providence, RI, in 1954 and to Cranston in 1980.

Joyce was an elementary school teacher’s aide and school bus monitor in the Providence School System for over 20 years until her

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retirement.

Bub was dedicated to her family and loved them all completely and unconditionally. She is survived by and was most proud of her three children: Scott A. Ritch, his wife, Christine, of Wrentham, Massachusetts; Sara-Ann Foster, her husband, Harold, of Barrington; and Steven A. Ritch, his wife, Andrea, of Glocester. The light of her life were her three grandchildren: David E. Foster, his wife, Monica; Adam B. Foster, his wife, Heather; and Marshall P. Ritch. Her heart was dedicated to her five great-grandchildren: Levi Foster, Ezra Foster, Shea Foster, and Madeline Foster. Her memory is held dear by numerous nieces, nephews, cousins and other devoted and loving family members.

Donations may be made to the Shriner’s Hospital for Children or St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital.

Barry Robbins, 96 NEEDHAM, MASS. – Barry Robbins, of Needham and Providence, passed away on June 16, 2025. He was the husband of the late Audrey Forman Robbins.

Born in Fall River, Massachusetts, he was the son of the late David and Mollie (Barashevsky) Robbins.

A graduate of Harvard Business School, St. Andrews University of Scotland and Brown University, Barry was the founder and CEO of Robbins Manufacturing Co., Inc., in Fall River. He also served for many years as chairman of the board of trustees of the Charlton Health System and the Southcoast Health System.

He is survived by his children, Seth Robbins and Nancy Ashbaugh; his grandchildren, Matthew Robbins (spouse, Susan Allen Robbins), Emily Robbins, Trevor Ashbaugh and Lucas Ashbaugh; and his great-grandson, Zachary Robbins; as well as his two stepdaughters from his marriage to Audrey Forman Robbins, Lisa Kantor and Joy Kaplan (spouse, Becky Brooker). He also leaves his grandchildren Rachel Eve Kantor and Shayna Pearl Kantor, Benjamin Brooker Kaplan and Zoe Brooker Kaplan. He was predeceased by his sister, Paula Shuman, and his stepson, Peter Joseph Kaplan. He also leaves behind his three nephews and their families, David Shuman, Peter Shuman, Andrew Shuman, as well as his beloved longtime

aide, Higina (Gina) Robinson, of Pawtucket.

Donations may be made to: Temple Beth-El, Rabbi Gutterman Discretionary Fund, 70 Orchard Ave., Providence, RI 02906.

Paul A. Silver, 75 PROVIDENCE, R.I. – Paul A. Silver, a highly respected attorney and a trusted advisor to generations of Rhode Islanders, passed away unexpectedly on July 5, 2025.

A partner at Hinckley Allen for nearly five decades, Paul was a nationally recognized expert in estate planning, nonprofit law and philanthropic advising. He practiced with precision, discretion and a deep sense of responsibility, always more interested in earning trust than in seeking attention. Behind his quiet demeanor was a characteristic dry sense of humor and unwavering loyalty to his family, clients, colleagues and community.

Born and raised in Providence, Paul graduated from Moses Brown School, Harvard University and Boston University Law School. His legal practice focused on trust and estate planning and administration, personal income tax matters and legal issues affecting individuals and families. He was widely respected for representing both individuals and institutions, including trust departments of major financial institutions and nonprofit organizations across Rhode Island. Beloved by his clients, he was consistently recognized for excellence in his field, including listings in Best Lawyers in America (Lawyer of the Year in 2017), Chambers and Partners (Leading Lawyer for Private Wealth Law), Rhode Island Monthly (Top Lawyer in Estate Planning) and Super Lawyers, Rhode Island. In 2010, he received the Rhode Island Foundation’s Harold B. Soloveitzik Professional Leadership Award, honoring his long-standing professional and personal commitment to philanthropy.

Paul was deeply engaged in the civic life of Providence, lending his time and counsel to countless organizations and serving on boards and committees for the Providence Ronald McDonald House, Camp Ruggles, RI Community Food Bank, Crossroads Rhode Island, Temple Beth-El, the Providence Athenaeum and Moses Brown School. Outside of his professional

life, Paul was devoted to his family and friends. Paul met his wife, Katherine “Kit” Haspel, on the day they arrived on campus at Harvard, and the two happily spent more than five decades together, enjoying traveling to Martha’s Vineyard, Sanibel Island and taking cruisesmost recently on a family trip celebrating their 50th anniversary with their children and grandchildren.

Despite his professional demeanor, Paul was known for his kindness and humor, and as a softie to those closest to him - he never made it through “Field of Dreams” without tearing up at the end. A proud and adoring grandfather, he frequented his granddaughters’ dance and musical performances, always with flowers in hand. He was a Rhode Islander through and through, with a deep love of fried calamari, New England clam chowder and whole belly clams. He was a quietly talented cook, known for his Thanksgiving chopped liver (a family recipe) and a much-loved take on spaghetti carbonara. When not working or spending time with family, he could be found focused on his favorite hobby: investing — reading analyst reports, watching CNBC, meeting with start-ups, and generally engaging with anyone on the topic of how to responsibly save for retirement and provide for future generations.

He is survived by his wife, Katherine “Kit” Haspel; his sons Andrew (Jenna) and Nathaniel (Christopher Shughrue); two granddaughters, Caroline and Sophie; and his sisters, June Rogul and Susan Silver.

In the spirit of carrying on Paul’s lifelong commitment to philanthropy, the family suggests donations be made to the Rhode Island Community Food Bank, 200 Niantic Ave., Providence, RI 02907 or a charity of your choice.

Eugene Weinberg, 98 PROVIDENCE, R.I. – Eugene G. Weinberg passed peacefully surrounded by his loving family. Born in Providence, the loving husband of the late Arline Weinberg, and son of the late Hyman and Anna Weinberg. Gene served in the Merchant Marines and the Army Signal Corps. He graduated from Brown University with a Bachelor of Arts Degree in 1951, majoring in English and American

Literature.

Gene was co-founder and partner with his late brother, Walter, of New Interiors Inc., a design and furniture company specializing in contemporary and Scandinavian furniture. Upon retirement, Gene was active in the Brown Learning Community, teaching advanced English conversation to foreign students at International House. He also was a volunteer reader for a weekly radio program at Insight, a support association for the visually impaired.

He served on the boards of John Hope Settlement House, the Music Festival of RI, the Arthritis Foundation and the ACLU. Gene was involved in Temple Beth-El and was a two-term Temple Trustee. As former president of the Rhode Island Jewish Historical Association, he worked on a program to interest young adults in the preservation of Jewish history

Gene touched many lives with his zest for life, including life-long friends. He enjoyed tennis, golf, skiing, travel, history, reading, music, bridge and the arts.

Most of all, Gene was devoted to his family. Gene will be greatly missed by his adoring family. He was the beloved father of Dr. Robert Weinberg and wife, Barbara; Richard Weinberg and wife, Marcy; and Susan Weinberg Tasca and partner, Wayne Turner; He was the devoted grandfather of Jessica and husband, David; Brooke and husband, Marcus; Matthew and wife, Lauren; Emily and husband, Dan; Ellen and husband, Tyrone; Rebecca and partner, Adam; Peter and wife, Stephanie. He was the cherished great-grandfather of Natalie, Dylan, Cameron, Oliver, Isla, Asher, Elsie,

Tyronne III, Robert, Carson and Levi. He was the brother of the late Gerald and Walter Weinberg. Contributions may be made to HopeHealth Hulitar Hospice, 1085 N. Main St., Providence, RI 02904; Temple Beth-El, 70 Orchard Ave., Providence, RI 02906 or the R.I. Jewish Historical Association, 401 Elmgrove Avenue, Providence, RI 02906.

Susan Wolfe, 74 WARWICK, R.I. – Susan Terry Wolfe died June 27, 2025, at Kent Hospital. She was the beloved wife of the late Michael Wolfe. Born in Providence, a daughter of Pearl (Friedman) Gorden of Warwick and the late Irving Gorden, she had lived in Warwick for 40 years, previously living in Providence. She was a secretary at Pleasant View Elementary School and its school system for 39 years, retiring five years ago. Susan was a former member of Temple Torat Yisrael. She earned a B.A. from Rhode Island College.

She was the devoted mother of Rachel Wolfe and her fiancée, Wayne Cayton, of Warwick. She was the dear sister of Robert Gorden and his wife, Lillian, of Warren, Massachusetts; Marshall Gorden and his wife, Karen, of Warwick; and David Gorden and his wife, Mara, of Dedham, Massachusetts. She was the cherished aunt of several nieces and nephews.

Contributions may be made to the American Heart Association (https://www.heart. org/?form=FUNELYZXFBW) or the RISPCA (https://www. rispca.org/tribute-gifts), 155 Plan Way, Warwick, RI 02886.

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