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UNCOVERING THE HIDDEN AGENDA: ASKING THE RIGHT QUESTIONS
Successful negotiations don’t happen by accident they’re the result of curiosity, listening, and asking the right questions at the right time As a broker at John L Scott Real Estate, your ability to uncover your client’s true motivations, needs, and concerns is key to guiding them through a successful transaction. Sometimes, what’s said at the surface level doesn’t reflect the full story To uncover the real decisionmaking factors, it’s your job to listen beyond the words and read between the lines
Strategies for Uncovering True Needs
Ask, Then Listen
Let your clients do the talking Ask thoughtful, open-ended questions and then truly listen to their responses.
Clarify and Summarize
Repeat back what you heard using phrases like, “So what I’m hearing is ” to confirm understanding and identify any misalignment
Cross-Check with Follow-Up Questions
Ask variations of the same question to see if answers remain consistent or reveal new details
Involve All Decision-Makers
Ensure the true decision-maker is either present or easily accessible It’s difficult to move a negotiation forward without their input
Look for Gaps
Be alert to what hasn’t been said Ask, “Is there anything else that hasn’t come up yet that you’re concerned about?”
Observe Nonverbal Cues
Watch for hesitations, tone changes, or body language that signals discomfort or hidden concerns
Identify Unspoken Needs
Clients often focus on surface wants (location, price, size) while holding back on deeper concerns (safety, commute time, financial security) Dig deeper by asking what really matters to them long-term
NEGOTIATION IS A NATURAL STEP-NOT A SEPARATE ONE
Negotiation isn't a moment that arrives out of nowhere it's a natural part of the relationship-building and decision-making process Clients are more likely to make a decision when they feel heard, understood, and supported.
Use the following approach to guide the decision process:
Ask Trial Closing Questions
Get feedback by asking questions like:
“How does that feel to you so far?”
“Does this option seem like a good fit based on your goals?”
Acknowledge Their Responses
Reinforce what they say with affirming language:
“That makes sense”
“I can see why that’s important to you”
Restate Benefits
Show how the property, terms, or offer align with their priorities and outweigh potential concerns
Ask for a Decision
If they’re not ready, continue the conversation with supportive questions like:
“What other questions can I answer for you at this point?”
“Is there any information you still need to feel comfortable moving forward?”
“Do you need to speak with anyone else before making a decision?”
“Have we covered all of the factors that are important to you?”
“Is there anything I haven’t addressed that’s keeping you from deciding?”
The key to effective negotiation at John L Scott Real Estate is creating an environment where the client feels understood, supported, and empowered to take the next step When you lead with empathy and ask thoughtful questions, your clients will naturally look to you for guidance and be ready to act with confidence
OFFER NEGOTIATION PREPARATION WORKSHEET
John L. Scott Real Estate – Washington Region
Effective negotiation starts with preparation, professionalism, and presence At John L Scott Real Estate, we strive to represent our clients with integrity and clarity throughout the negotiation process Sellers are not only seeking the best price they want the best value, based on their unique goals and expectations
To deliver that, your role is to listen, interpret, and advocate Before discussing or presenting offers, take time to intentionally prepare your mindset and environment for success.
Effective Validation Builds Trust
Clients trust what you say only after they trust you. Show genuine care and create value by understanding what matters most to your sellers not just numbers, but timing, terms, and peace of mind
Price is a key factor, but value is broader: it includes a smooth transaction, reliable buyers, favorable timelines, and minimized risk Sellers want to feel confident they are making the right decision, not just the highest one
The Foundation of Negotiation: Listening
Being a strong negotiator begins with being an excellent listener You can't uncover hidden priorities or build strong agreements if you're not actively engaged in hearing what your clients are telling you both in words and tone.
A Good Listener:
Maintains eye contact to show focus and engagement. Minimizes distractions (put away your phone, choose a quiet space, and arrange seating for easy connection)
Communicates interest through thoughtful pauses and affirmations (“I see,” “That makes sense,” etc.).
Keys to Good Listening
Limit Your Talking
You can’t listen and speak effectively at the same time Let silence do some of the work
Think From Their Perspective
Step into their shoes When you focus on their priorities, you're better equipped to guide them
Ask Clarifying Questions
If something is unclear or feels incomplete, ask A clear understanding prevents future misunderstandings
Don’t Interrupt
A pause doesn’t mean they’re done Allow space for reflection it often leads to deeper insights
Concentrate Fully
Stay focused Tune out distractions and give them your full attention
Take Meaningful Notes
Jot down key insights but don’t try to transcribe every word Capture what truly matters to the negotiation
Listen for Ideas, Not Just Words
Focus on the full picture, not just individual statements
Pay Attention to Tone and Delivery
Often, how something is said reveals more than what is said
Use Brief Affirmations
Small acknowledgments like “Got it” or “I understand” help the client feel heard just avoid overdoing it
Set Aside Your Thoughts
Clear your mental clutter Personal worries can block your ability to connect in the moment
Prepare in Advance
Bring thoughtful questions and points into the conversation Being prepared allows you to be more present and responsive
Final Reminder
Negotiation is not a one-time conversation it’s an ongoing process of earning trust, reading between the lines, and guiding your client with confidence and clarity Preparation sets the tone Listening seals the connection Advocacy earns the result
SHARPENING YOUR LISTENING SKILLS
AtJohnL ScottRealEstate,ourbrokersaretrustedadvisors guidedbyempathy,clarity,and professionalism Oneofthemostcritical(andoftenoverlooked)negotiationtoolsisactivelistening In high-stakesconversationslikerealestatetransactions,thewayyoulistencanmakeallthedifference inhowyourclientsperceiveyourvalueandhowsmoothlyadealprogresses.
At John L Scott Real Estate, strong communication is the foundation of every successful transaction Your ability to understand and adapt to different communication styles can directly impact your relationships, negotiations, and ultimately, your success
A lack of communication or a mismatch in communication styles is one of the most common reasons clients lose trust or disengage Deals can fall apart simply because the agent didn’t take time to listen or adjust how they communicated
To become a more effective communicator, you must first recognize your own style and learn how to identify and respond to the styles of your clients When working with couples or multiple decision-makers, you may encounter contrasting personalities Your goal is to blend your approach, adapt your delivery, and meet people where they are In other words, be a communication chameleon
Remember: no one is exclusively one style. We are all a blend, but most people lead with one dominant communication trait. Your ability to recognize and flex to that dominant style is what sets you apart as a trusted advisor.
Why It Matters in Real Estate
Reduces misunderstandings and client frustration
Builds stronger trust with buyers and sellers
Keeps negotiations on track
Helps prevent conflict between you and your clients, or between co-buyers themselves
The Four Core Communication Styles
�� The Director
Driven, decisive, confident, results-oriented
Expects direct answers and quick results
Dislikes indecision or over-explaining
Prefers control and autonomy in decision-making
Focuses on the big picture and outcomes, not the details
May be impulsive, but seeks inspiration and fun in the process
How to work with a Socializer:
Engage with positivity and energy
Don’t be too formal or rigid
Build rapport before diving into data
Reinforce their ideas and acknowledge their contributions
�� The Analyzer
Detail-oriented, cautious, logical, methodical
Wants all the facts before making a decision
Prefers order, structure, and accuracy
May appear reserved or unemotional
Dislikes risk and avoids surprises
How to work with an Analyzer:
Come prepared with data, comps, timelines, and clear explanations
Respect their need for time to process and evaluate
Be patient and answer questions thoroughly
Avoid pressuring them into quick decisions
�� The Supporter (You can include this fourth category if intended it was omitted from the original text but is often part of DISC-style frameworks.)
Dependable, loyal, patient, empathetic
Values harmony and relationships
Avoids conflict and prefers steady environments
Wants to feel secure in their decisions
May take longer to commit but seeks trust and reassurance
How to work with a Supporter:
Be warm, consistent, and patient
Offer reassurance and walk through the process slowly
Avoid aggressive sales tactics
Emphasize reliability, comfort, and long-term satisfaction
Final Thought
Being a successful broker at John L Scott means more than having market knowledge it means being emotionally intelligent Adapt your style to your client’s needs, and you’ll build lasting relationships, smoother transactions, and better results for everyone involved
UNDERSTANDING THE ANALYZER AND SUPPORTER STYLES IN NEGOTIATION
The Analyzer
Analyzers are logical, methodical, and data-driven They focus heavily on facts, figures, and small details often at the expense of the broader picture Because of their careful, deliberate nature, they may appear reserved or emotionally detached Analyzers prefer to move slowly through the decision-making process, taking time to evaluate all available information
They are typically uncomfortable with pressure or high-stakes conflict and will shut down if rushed Patience, clarity, and detailed answers are key when negotiating with this type
Tip: When working with an Analyzer, come prepared with well-organized data, a clear breakdown of terms, and plenty of time for discussion and follow-up
The Supporter
Supporters are steady, warm, and relationship-focused individuals They value harmony, consistency, and a sense of emotional and financial security Often soft-spoken and thoughtful, they prefer to observe rather than lead, and they support others’ decisions more than initiate their own
Supporters avoid conflict and can become stressed by sudden changes or pressure They are loyal, empathetic, and highly people-oriented, often prioritizing the needs of others While their calm demeanor is a strength, they can sometimes delay decisions or be perceived as overly accommodating
Tip: When working with a Supporter, focus on reassurance, stability, and long-term comfort Be patient, walk through steps clearly, and create an emotionally safe space for conversation
Negotiation Tools for Success
Strong negotiators understand that their communication style and presence are as important as the content of their message Mastering the art of negotiation means continuously learning how to adapt to others while staying grounded in your own professionalism
Reading the Room: Communication Awareness
Conflict and misunderstandings often stem from mismatched communication styles Pay close attention to how clients or agents communicate both verbally and through body language If you notice discomfort, resistance, or imbalance, adjust your approach:
Slow down your pace
Use simpler or more direct language
Ask thoughtful questions
Back off if someone feels overwhelmed then re-engage with patience
Your goal isn’t just to express yourself clearly it’s to connect, build trust, and move the conversation forward productively
Self-Awareness and Adaptability
Knowing your natural communication style helps, but the real value lies in your ability to adapt. You might identify with one dominant style or a blend of several, but remember: in negotiation, perception matters Consider how you’re coming across to others and make intentional adjustments as needed
Whether you're naturally assertive, expressive, analytical, or supportive, you must be flexible to build rapport and maintain momentum in a negotiation
Your Negotiation Voice
A confident, composed voice is one of your most powerful negotiation tools It reflects your mindset your internal belief that a mutually beneficial agreement is within reach
Confidence isn’t always innate. It’s built over time through trial, error, and continuous refinement Real estate negotiation is often fast-paced and emotional Your voice steady, respectful, and solution-oriented can de-escalate tension, demonstrate leadership, and keep everyone focused on the shared goal: a successful transaction
Practice your negotiation voice. Speak clearly Maintain a calm tone Lead with purpose These subtle cues signal to others that you are professional, prepared, and capable of guiding the deal to a close
THE POWER OF TONE, INFLECTION & MIRRORING IN NEGOTIATION
In real estate negotiations, how you say something often carries more weight than what you say Your tone of voice and speech patterns influence how clients, cooperating agents, and other parties perceive your professionalism, intent, and trustworthiness The right delivery builds rapport and moves conversations forward The wrong tone can derail an otherwise successful deal.
Mastering Your Tone of Voice
�� Assertive Tone (Use with caution)
An overly assertive tone is often blunt and unfiltered, like a verbal gut punch It may be seen as aggressive, dismissive, or emotionally charged, which can quickly create defensiveness and stall negotiations This tone should be avoided in most situations
�� Accommodating Tone (Your go-to tone)
This tone is warm, calm, collaborative, and sincere It builds trust and invites open conversation Use this tone consistently it makes you sound reasonable, attentive, and solutions-oriented
�� Soothing Tone (Use strategically)
A soothing tone is quieter and slower-paced It’s ideal for tense moments, emotional discussions, or when a negotiation reaches a stalemate This tone helps lower defenses, encourages reflection, and refocuses the dialogue
Inflection Matters: The Way You Shape Your Words
Your inflection can signal curiosity or confidence, and it directly affects how your message is received
Inquisitive Inflection
This upward tone sounds like you’re asking a question, even when you’re not It conveys curiosity and interest, making you sound engaged and open This should be your primary inflection, especially during sensitive discussions Directive Inflection
This downward tone signals finality and certainty It can come across as firm or even dismissive if overused Use this inflection when confirming facts or delivering important information but not during exploratory dialogue
Remember: People tend to mirror the emotions you express If you stay calm, they’re more likely to stay calm If you escalate, so will they Your tone sets the emotional tone for the conversation
The Art of Mirroring
Mirroring is the subtle repetition of a few key words or phrases your client or counterpart just used This technique shows you’re listening, encourages them to expand, and builds instant rapport especially when paired with an inquisitive tone.
Example:
Seller says: “I can’t accept this offer it’s too low and I won’t have enough to buy my next home.”
Agent mirrors: “Too low and not enough to move forward?”
By repeating and rephrasing in the form of a question, you create space for the other person to elaborate without sounding confrontational. This opens the door to deeper understanding, gives you more insight, and reassures the other party that they are being heard
Rephrasing as a Question
Rephrasing your client’s concerns in question form shows empathy and invites conversation This is especially effective when working through objections or emotional blocks in negotiation
Try asking:
“It sounds like this offer doesn’t give you the financial flexibility you need am I understanding that correctly?”
“Is your concern more about the price or the timing of the sale?”
“What would make this offer feel more aligned with your goals?”
These approaches not only affirm your listening skills but also shift the conversation from resistance to resolution.
Final Thought
At John L Scott Real Estate, we don’t just deliver messages we build trust, one word at a time Your tone, inflection, and listening skills are powerful tools in shaping client experience and creating win-win outcomes in every negotiation
STRATEGIC QUESTIONING, LABELING, AND THE POWER OF SILENCE
Effective communication in real estate isn’t just about asking questions it’s about asking the right questions in a way that invites conversation, not confrontation The way you phrase your words can either open the door to dialogue or cause someone to become defensive and shut down
Use Reflective, Non-Accusatory Language
When engaging in sensitive conversations, frame your observations in a way that feels neutral and encourages openness Avoid using phrasing that centers your interpretation, as it can sound judgmental, even when it’s not intended to
❌ Avoid phrases like:
“I think I hear you saying ”
“What I’m hearing is ”
These start with “I,” which may unintentionally shift focus onto you and can make the other party feel like they need to defend their position
✅ Use phrases like:
“It seems like you’re saying ”
“It appears that…”
“You’re concerned about ”
“It looks like ”
These statements reflect their message to them, creating space for clarification and further explanation You’re signaling that you’re trying to understand, not challenge their perspective
Why it works: Most people don’t want to feel wrong. When they sense understanding rather than confrontation, they are more likely to engage, clarify, and share honestly
The Technique of Mislabeling
One counterintuitive but highly effective technique in negotiation is mislabeling intentionally naming an emotion or concern incorrectly
Why would you do this? Because people love to correct others when they believe they’re misunderstood This correction often leads to deeper insight into their true priorities or concerns
Example:
Agent: “It sounds like you’re ready to reject the offer?”
Seller: “No, it’s not that I want to reject it I’m just worried I won’t be able to find a home I like after this one sells”
In this case, the seller’s main concern isn’t price it’s about transition and uncertainty That’s valuable information you might not have discovered by asking directly
Mislabeling invites correction without conflict It reduces emotional tension, demonstrates that you’re engaged, and helps uncover deeper motivations
Let Silence Do the Work
You’ve heard the phrase: “Silence speaks volumes” In negotiation, silence is not uncomfortable it’s strategic.
After you: Mirror a phrase Rephrase a concern Mislabel an emotion
..pause. Give the other person space to process and respond A few seconds of silence can feel like an eternity, but it often leads the other party to elaborate, clarify, or volunteer new information
Tip: Resist the urge to fill the silence The longer the pause, the more likely the other party is to continue speaking, giving you insight without needing to push
Final Thought
At John L Scott Real Estate, we aim to lead every negotiation with empathy, strategy, and professionalism How you ask, label, or listen matters just as much as what you say Small adjustments in phrasing, paired with intentional silence, can dramatically shift the tone of a conversation and the outcome of your negotiations
ADVANCED NEGOTIATION TECHNIQUES: STRATEGY, MINDSET & LANGUAGE
At John L Scott Real Estate, we believe powerful negotiations aren’t just about numbers they’re about understanding human behavior, reading the room, and responding with clarity, empathy, and purpose Below are three advanced strategies to elevate your negotiation skills and client outcomes.
1. Show Your Hand Without Giving It All Away
Sharing perspective doesn’t mean revealing your bottom line it means helping the other side understand your position without appearing confrontational or desperate Use disarming, reflective questions that prompt empathy and introspection
Try asking:
“How am I supposed to make that work?”
“What happens if we can’t get that done?”
“Are you comfortable if this deal falls apart over this issue?”
These types of questions signal that you’re reaching a limit, while still leaving the door open for collaboration They invite the other party to reconsider, not out of pressure, but from a shared interest in finding a resolution
When people sense you're out of room, yet still negotiating in good faith, they may back down to preserve the deal
2. Move – Countermove: Think Like a Strategist
Negotiation is often like a game of chess Each move requires thought, anticipation, and emotional control The best brokers don’t just think one step ahead they step into the other party’s mindset and consider the entire landscape
Preparation tips:
List out all possible negotiation points, emotional triggers, deal breakers, and assumptions yours and theirs
Don’t just defend your client’s position ask: What would I think if I received this offer on the other side?
Roleplay internally: If I were the seller, buyer, or agent receiving this, how would I respond?
Practicing this perspective shift builds adaptability and confidence With time, you'll begin predicting counteroffers and objections more intuitively, which will reduce negotiation anxiety and improve your outcomes.
Pro tip: The key is listening Talk less Ask more The better you listen, the more you know and the more effective your counter-moves will be
3. The Power of “No” Questions
Many people instinctively resist saying “yes” because it feels like surrendering control or committing too soon But saying “no” often feels safer and strangely empowering
Compare these approaches:
Yes question: “Can you agree to this price?”
(May feel like pressure or risk)
No question: “Is it unreasonable to agree to this price?”
(Feels safer, easier to say out loud, and allows them to maintain their autonomy)
Using questions that invite a “no” can lower defenses and foster progress It signals that you’re not trying to win at their expense you’re working together
Pair this with silence. After asking a “no” question, pause. Let the moment sit. This silence communicates patience, trust, and confidence often prompting the other party to speak more openly
Final Thought
Negotiation is both art and skill By asking the right questions, managing your delivery, and preparing like a strategist, you’ll position yourself as a confident, solutions-oriented professional one your clients trust and the other side respects.
MODERN TACTICS: REFRAMING FEAR OF LOSS, DELIVERING TOUGH NEWS & USING MEMORY BRIDGES
In real estate, the way you deliver a message is just as important as the message itself As a broker at John L Scott Real Estate, your goal is not only to close a transaction but to build lasting client relationships through empathy, professionalism, and skilled communication
Reframing “Fear of Loss” as a Trust-Building Tool
Historically taught as a closing strategy, fear of loss was once used to pressure clients into making quick decisions While it may have secured a sale, it often came at the cost of longterm trust Today, we know better
Fear of loss is a deep-seated emotional driver, but rather than using it as leverage, we use it to foster fair, balanced negotiations
Updated approach:
Acknowledge the other side’s concerns, and assure them you’re working toward a mutually beneficial outcome This builds credibility and softens resistance
Example:
“I’m hopeful we can find common ground here, because I assume you don’t want to lose this deal and I don’t either.”
This type of statement deactivates defensiveness and signals cooperation
Your role: Use your understanding of what the other side values not to exploit, but to build forward momentum Show you're looking for solutions, not wins
Don’t Shoot the Messenger: Delivering Disappointing News Gracefully
As a real estate broker, not every message you deliver will be good news Whether you're sharing a low offer, a rejected counter, or unexpected feedback, your delivery can determine whether the deal moves forward or falls apart
Offers can receive four types of responses:
1 Accepted
2 Countered
3.Rejected
4 No response (In real estate, silence can sometimes mean the offer has expired without formal rejection)
If you anticipate the offer may be poorly received, prepare your client in advance. Explain the potential responses before the seller responds, so your client understands what’s possible and doesn't take the response personally
When you manage expectations proactively, you reduce emotional reactions and create space for calm, constructive next steps
Memory Bridges: Enhancing Message Delivery
In today’s digital world, many negotiations are reduced to emailed documents and a few quick phone calls While technology makes transactions faster, it sometimes strips away the human element that builds connection and persuasion
In the past, buyer’s agents would present offers in person, allowing for real-time dialogue, emotion, and persuasion While that's less common today, you can still bring warmth and personalization into your offer delivery by using memory bridges
What is a Memory Bridge?
A memory bridge is a technique where you attach your message to a familiar or emotionally resonant experience something the other party can relate to This makes your offer more memorable and easier to receive
Example:
Instead of simply submitting an offer via email, add a message that highlights a personal connection or draws from a previous conversation:
“When my clients toured your listing, they couldn’t stop talking about the natural light in the kitchen it reminded them of their childhood home They’re truly excited about this opportunity”
This approach brings human emotion back into the process and builds rapport even without face-to-face contact
Final Thought
Technology may have changed how we submit offers, but the art of negotiation remains personal The best brokers at John L Scott use thoughtful phrasing, emotional intelligence, and strategic delivery to move deals forward and leave lasting impressions
MEMORY BRIDGES, CLARITY, EMPATHY & KNOWING WHEN THE NEGOTIATION IS DONE
At John L Scott Real Estate, effective communication is not just about being persuasive it’s about creating meaningful, relatable connections When working with clients or cooperating agents, your ability to tap into shared experiences and emotional cues can help move the conversation forward in a collaborative, respectful way
Memory Bridges: Framing for Understanding
Memory bridges are conversational tools that connect a current situation to a past experience, helping your client process information more clearly and emotionally
Example:
“Mom, do you remember last week when you made brownies and we added ice cream? I know we don’t have brownies, but I’d love some ice cream”
This strategy works in real estate too. You’re not just delivering facts you’re creating context. Memory bridges help set expectations, encourage openness, and reduce defensiveness
Use them to:
Recall previous client experiences (positive or negative)
Prepare your client for a likely outcome
Reinforce why a course of action may or may not be successful
Example in Real Estate:
“Remember the last time we submitted an offer below asking and the seller didn’t respond? This current situation looks very similar, so we’ll want to consider that when structuring this offer”
Why it works: Clients are less likely to "shoot the messenger" when they’re reminded of a shared reality, not just presented with cold data
Evoke Clarity: Be a Problem-Finder, Not Just a Problem-Solver
In today’s market, clients arrive well-informed They’ve done their research, compared listings, and know what’s on Zillow Your value now lies in helping them find clarity, not just facts Old-school sales focused on giving answers Today’s best brokers ask the right questions to uncover the real problem, then guide clients to the solution
Instead of asking:
“Are you in the market for a new home?”
Ask:
“Tell me about where you live now”
“What’s important to you in your next move?”
“Tell me about your family or who you’ll be living with” (when appropriate)
These questions reveal the true drivers behind their move Is it more space? A better commute? Closer to family? By helping them articulate their needs, you create emotional clarity and that builds trust
Employing Empathy: The Emotional Edge in Negotiation
Empathy is your ability to recognize and connect with your client’s emotional experience It’s not just about understanding their needs it’s about feeling what matters to them
Today’s buyers come equipped with facts What they need from you is the emotional insight that helps them make a decision
Ask thoughtful, open-ended questions that reveal: Their fears Their hopes Their real-life priorities
“What are you most nervous about with this move?” “What would make this feel like the right decision for you?”
If you can help someone step into your perspective or if you step fully into theirs you increase the likelihood of alignment, cooperation, and momentum.
How Do You Know When the Negotiation Is Finished?
Negotiation isn’t just finished when paperwork is signed. It’s finished when: The client is ready to move forward Their concerns have been addressed and acknowledged You clearly understand what they want from the transaction You’ve worked through objections together
