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Four sisters

March 6, 2015 15 Adar 5775 Vol. 95 | No. 25

This Week

by ANNETTE VAN DE KAMPWRIGHT Jewish Press Editor You only have to spend a few moments in Sarah Spooner’s company to know she has a vision. It’s an inspired, carefully planned vision, and it comes with gift-wrap. Sarah is the daughter of Gayle Milder and O.J. (Jim) Spooner. This spring, Sarah is opening her Four Sisters Boutique in Rockbrook Village. It’s not an impulsive decision; Sarah has been thinking about and preparing for this a long time. “My whole life I’ve wanted to open my own business,” she says. “I began to plan in earnest in December of 2011, when surgery forced me to sit on my mother’s couch. With nothing else to occupy me, I wrote up a business plan.” It must have been good, because from there, the ball started rolling. Meticulously, and with great attention to detail, Sarah has fulfilled her promise to herself: she is now a proud business owner, with all the hard work that entails.

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The Four Sisters: Frances, Evelyn, Pearl, and Roselle But the story doesn’t begin here. Sarah’s great-grandfather, Russian immigrant Hyman Osoff, arrived in the United States with $17 in his pocket, worked hard and became the owner of Osoff ’s Hardware. The store

was initially located on 16th and Davenport, and later moved to 44th and Dodge, at which time it added sporting goods. Her maternal grandfather, Jerome Milder, built and operated a nursing home in Lincoln,

called Milder Manor. Grandmother Fran Osoff Milder was the head of the Kilpatrick bridal department, which later merged with Younkers. Retail is in Sarah’s blood. But, so is family history, and it shows in the design of her boutique: named for the Osoff girls (great-grandfather Hyman and his wife Sarah’s four daughters), it prominently displays a beautiful black and white photograph of them in the store. “I wanted a store with a story,” Sarah says, “and so each of the sisters will get her own dressing room. An enlarged photo of Pearl, Frances, Roselle and Evelyn will be placed on the door of “their” dressing room, with my grandmother Frances getting the biggest one.” She adds: “The four sisters were smart, well mannered and personable. They also had a delightful sense of humor, sparkling eyes and absolutely fantastic legs. They became locally known as the beautiful Osoff girls.” According to family history, Pearl Continued on page 3

Domestic violence: Beth Cohen Closer than you think to lead Friedel by OZZIE NOGG Though they never married, Rochelle Tatrai-Ray and Sean Ray were together for many years and had two daughters. While living in Pennsylvania in 2002, Sean Ray beat Rochelle so badly with a metal base-

her attacker in court and charges were eventually dropped. She and her daughters eventually moved to Florida. In December 2014, this same man ambushed Tatrai-Ray in her Largo home and shot her multiple times with a semiautomatic be-

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ball bat that she suffered a fractured back, hip and major facial injuries requiring months of rehabilitation. According to newspaper reports, Ray was charged with attempted murder, but Tatrai refused to testify against

fore turning the gun on himself. Police called the incident a domestic violence murder-suicide. Ironically, Rochelle Tatrai-Ray was a Licensed Mental Health Therapist. At the time of her murder she served as CEO of Gulf Coast Jewish Family and Community Services, a Florida agency that offers violence prevention programs and counseling to victims and survivors of abuse. This is how Karen Gustafson, Executive Director of Omaha’s Jewish Family Service, summed up the situation. “Rochelle Tatrai-Ray was a trained professional who worked with domestic violence. If she could become Continued on page 2

by CLAUDIA SHERMAN for Friedel Jewish Academy Beth Cohen has received the unanimous support of the Friedel Jewish Academy Board of Trustees to be the next head of school of the day school, Jeff Zacharia, president of the Board, recently announced. “Beth brings organization and great leadership to Friedel. She’s a true professional who understands Friedel and what we need to do to continue growing in the community and promote Jewish education,” Zacharia added. Cohen will begin official duties at Friedel on Thursday, March 26. She’ll work closely with Ron Giller, a former Friedel head of school who has been the interim principal this year after Pam Cohn resigned to take on a new position with Omaha Public Schools as executive director of school support for sec-

ondary schools. She was head of Friedel for two years. Zacharia thanked Giller for filling in. “Ron has been wonderful to work with and a true gentleman. He’s great with the students and our staff, and we cannot thank him enough for his service.” “Friedel is really lucky to have Mr. Giller serving as head of school this year,” said Cohen. “He’ll stay on through the end of the school year which will help tremendously with my transition,” she explained. “I’ll have the opportunity to learn from him, and I’ll have the time to spend getting to know the ins and outs of the school.” “First and foremost,” Cohen believes in Friedel as “a school that provides an excellent education.” In her role as head of school, Cohen said she “will always be working Continued on page 4


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