The Observer Vol. 90 No.5 – May 2025

Jewish OBSERVER

President’s Message

By ARON KARABEL

Hope everyone had an enjoyable Pesach.

I wanted to share a few important announcements and updates.

First, on May 4th, we will be celebrating the graduation of several emerging leaders of the Jewish Federation of Greater Nashville’s program known as Leadership615.This program is an intense six-month fellowship designed to train the next generation and grow our leadership pipeline. We are grateful for our benefactors, Dr. Mark Goldfarb and Beth Levine, and extremely proud of the accomplishments of the graduates.

Second, our CEO search process has been moving forward steadily. I am personally thankful for the hard work of our committee. In just a few short weeks, the process has already generated a large number of qualified candidates. Through in-depth interviews, we are now narrowing the field to a small group of semi-finalists. We remain on track to have a new CEO who will serve as both a community leader and relationship builder.

Finally, I’m excited to share details about our 2025 Annual Campaign. As many of you know, our campaign goal this year is $3 million. This increased goal reflects growing needs locally and in Israel. I am thankful for the ongoing work of the Campaign Committee led by Arlene Averbuch and Jacob Kleinrock. Given our community growth and philanthropic potential, I believe this year’s campaign goal is reachable and will challenge us to find new and innovative ways of giving. The campaign’s success will serve as a catalyst to expand our reach as a Federation and enable us to provide critical funding for our most ambitious initiatives and serve as a transformative investment in our shared future for the Jewish community.

I’m deeply grateful for the hard work of our board, professionals,

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Celebrating the Lions of Judah

By JASON SPARKS

The Jewish Federation of Greater Nashville is proud to celebrate the official relaunch of the Lions of Judah! On Sunday, April 6th, we celebrated and honored our Lions with a special springtime floral arranging class. #JewishNashville would not be possible without the dedication these women

The Lions of Judah make a minimum

gift of $5,000 to the annual campaign, and they are the most dynamic philanthropic Jewish women in the world. Consisting of women of all ages, it is an international sisterhood of thousands of global activists who care deeply about the Jewish future. Lions of Judah play a vital role in promoting social justice, aiding

the vulnerable, preserving human dignity, and building Jewish identity. Lions demonstrate dedication to the Jewish community by contributing time and resources.

To learn more about the Lions of Judah, contact Jason Sparks, jason@ jewishnashville.org. •

Rule of Law: A Tradition Under Pressure

By BARBARA DAB

Over the last several weeks President Donald Trump has taken aim at some of the country’s largest law firms through the use of executive orders. These orders include actions such as stripping the firms’ security clearanc-

es, barring access to federal buildings, and terminating federal contracts held by the firms. According to the Free Speech Center at Middle Tennessee State University, the orders accuse the firms of being, “dishonest and engaging in litigation and conduct he declared was detrimental to American interests.” And

the Center says some of the orders attack the firms for their diversity, equity, and inclusion policies.

In the wake of these orders, some of the firms have struck deals with the administration allowing them to continue their regular work in exchange for

The Power of Purpose: Jewish Women’s

Philanthropy

By JASON SPARKS

Back in February, I was honored to participate in a special Fundraising Institute in Miami that was a joint venture between Jewish Federations of North America (JFNA) and the University of Indiana’s Lilly Family School of Philanthropy. I learned so much about the great work we do for our communities that it was almost like drinking from a firehose. But there were two major takeaways that I gathered from that experience that were not necessarily part of the curriculum.

The first was that of the 36 participants who had been selected, only two of them were men, including myself. I was surrounded by some truly incredible women who had devoted their careers to helping to enrich their communities all over our country. It was truly humbling to be in the presence of such accomplished, talented fundraisers, many of whom were major donors themselves.

The second big takeaway was the display at the Greater Miami Jewish Federation of the founding of the Lions of Judah program by Norma Kipnis Wilson and Toby Friedland back in 1972. Their vision, of women donating $5000 or more to their local Jewish Federations, resulted in an international movement that has raised over a billion dollars for communities all around the world, and over 20,000 women who have participated in the program.

This year for Passover, I celebrated the second seder at the home of friend’s who tried a tradition that was a little

in Nashville and Beyond

bit different. They had an assortment of Haggadot and every guest was handed a unique book. There was a large range, from a Harry Potter-themed version, to the one I was given which was focused on the founding of the modern state of Israel. Sadly, there was no classic Maxwell House edition. My wife Abby ended up getting a Haggadah that was feminist themed. As she was reading through it, she saw a passage about Hannah Greenebaum Solomon and was intrigued about her work advocating with suffragists, especially those who were heavily-involved in the 1920 battle to ratify the 19th Amendment in Nashville. And, as it happened, in addition to founding the National Council for Jewish Women (NCJW), she travelled to Nashville in 1901 to help Leah Lebeck organize a Nashville Section of the National Council.

For generations, Jewish women have been the quiet architects of communal care—organizing, educating, giving, and leading with a blend of compassion and resolve. Today, their philanthropic spirit continues to shape the Jewish world in profound and visible ways, especially here in Nashville.

Jewish women’s philanthropy is not new. Rooted in our tradition and propelled by the value of tzedakah (righteous giving), women have long played essential roles in sustaining Jewish life. From the tzedakah boxes kept in kitchens and bedrooms to the formation of sisterhoods, Hadassah chapters, and more, women’s giving has always been deeply personal, often familial, and

unmistakably powerful.

In Nashville, that legacy has taken a unique shape. In the mid-20th century, as the city’s Jewish population grew and evolved, Jewish women were at the forefront of building and sustaining institutions like the Jewish Community Center and local synagogues. Many remember the vital leadership of women in fundraising for the original JCC on West End Avenue, and later, the Gordon Jewish Community Center in Bellevue. Behind every major campaign, there were women making calls, hosting parlor meetings, organizing events—and writing checks.

Here in Nashville, Jewish women’s philanthropy has blossomed into a dynamic force for change. Through the Jewish Federation of Greater Nashville, women have supported local programs for families in need, seniors, Holocaust education, Jewish summer camps, and global humanitarian efforts.

Many of today’s community leaders—both lay and professional—point to the influence of Federation Women’s Philanthropy events, as their entry point into Jewish communal life.

“Women’s philanthropy is not just about fundraising,” says Leslie Kirby, past president of the Jewish Federation of Greater Nashville and a longtime leader in women’s giving, “It’s about finding your voice, taking ownership of your values, and being part of something bigger than yourself.”

One of the most significant impacts of Jewish women’s philanthropy in Nashville has been its focus on multigenerational leadership. Programs like the

Community Relations Committee

The Righteous among the Nations

Pomegranate Society which comprises donors who give $1800 or more to our Annual Campaign, Lions of Judah, and community service projects encourage daughters, mothers, and grandmothers to engage in giving together. The message is clear: philanthropy is a Jewish value, and it is passed down from woman to woman, heart to heart.

In an era where Jewish communities face new and evolving challenges—from antisemitism to rising needs in Israel and around the world—women’s philanthropy remains a source of strength and inspiration. “Our mothers and grandmothers didn’t wait for someone else to act,” says Susan Diamond, a past Lion of Judah honoree. “They rolled up their sleeves. They gave what they had. They made things happen. And so do we.”

As Nashville’s Jewish community looks to the future, the women who lead and give continue to set the pace. With each campaign, each event, each act of generosity, they honor a legacy of strength and shape the next chapter of Jewish life—right here at home.

And that is why we are so pleased to announce that our 2025 Annual Campaign Co-chair, Arlene Averbuch, was able to host the first Lion of Judah event our community has had in a number of years. It’s just a start, as we have had many members of our community ask how they can get more involved, and to bring back our joint Lions and Pomegranate Society events. We look forward to helping facilitate and provide spaces to ensure that Women’s Philanthropy continues to thrive in our community. •

By DEBORAH OLESHANSKY

Under cover of darkness, with the table set for the Passover Seder that should have been celebrated the next day, my grandparents, with my two-yearold mother and their nine-year-old niece in tow, fled their comfortable and familiar home to escape the clutches of the Nazis. After the horrors of Kristallnacht on November 9-10, 1938, in which Jewish homes, synagogues and businesses were destroyed, and 30,000 Jewish males rounded up and taken to concentration camps, my grandfather and his brothers began plans to escape Germany as quickly as possible. My grandfather, the oldest and most vulnerable to arrest, would leave only if all his brothers agreed to do the same, and they created a plan for each brother and his family to escape over a different border, hoping if one found safety he could help the others. On that April night in 1939, the timing was urgent. The day before, my grandfather had received a call from his childhood friend who was now a city official. He warned my grandfather that he was on the list to be arrested the next day by the Nazis for the crime of being Jewish. Without the bravery, moral courage, and conviction of his friend, one of several Righteous Among the Nations who

risked their own personal safety and security to save my family and assist Jews, I, my children and my grandchildren would not be here today.

Tall, blond and blue eyed, my grandfather appeared more Aryan than Hitler and most of his henchman. He and his family had lived in Germany for generations. It was the only home he ever knew. He fought for the Kaiser in WWI, earning military honors, and was a leader in his hometown, a resort community on the Baltic Sea, both well-known and respected. None of this was enough to protect him from the Nazi hatred against the Jews that began in 1935 with the Nuremberg Race Laws. These laws distinguished Jews as separate race from Germans, part of the propaganda necessary to ultimately move to the effort to kill all the Jews in Europe.

The Nazis were able to promulgate the Final Solution because of the slow

role of propaganda about the Jews, designating them as a separate race, second class citizens, enemies of the state, and ultimately subhuman. This did not happen overnight. The Nazis used a well-orchestrated campaign, threats, and intimidation to convince otherwise decent people that all their troubles were because of the Jews. It took time but they ultimately succeeded in instilling the belief that Jews were an inferior race, vermin, who needed to be exterminated from the earth.

After several harrowing years in hiding, with the help of the righteous willing to defy these Nazi laws, my grandparents, mother, cousin and most of the other family members made their way to the United States of America to begin a new life. My grandfather and his brother, successful businessmen, forced to leave everything behind, started a new business in New York. My grandmother and aunt worked right alongside them while raising the children and running their homes without the domestic assistance they had relied on in Germany. Despite the hardships they remained joyful, grateful to be alive and developed a stronger appreciation and observance of their Jewish heritage. My grandmother told me repeatedly about the moment she spotted the Statue of

Liberty as they approached New York Harbor. After several terrible years, she felt she could finally exhale and begin to relax. America represented welcome, safety, and freedom for her, and no one loved this country more.

I was raised to know that my life was only possible because of the courage and moral clarity of those described at Yad Vashem as the Righteous among the Nations, those willing to take tremendous risks to assist Jews in defiance of a ruthless government. I was taught to understand the responsibility that comes with the rights and freedom we enjoy in this country, and the obligation to help others. The steps taken by the righteous to stand up and act, knowing the risks to themselves and their families, have been an inspiration and set a very high bar of civic responsibility.

But it is only recently that I have more fully begun to understand the risk they took to be righteous in that time and place. I was born and raised in the United States, and despite the resurgence of modern antisemitism, have lived my life in relative safety and security. Only recently have I begun to personally fear the actions of my own government, the deliberate denial of basic rights and due process for

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Presenting the Winners of the Jewish Observer

First Annual Creative Writing Contest

We are pleased to announce the young writers recognized for their submissions to the Jewish Observer’s First Annual Creative Writing Contest. This year’s theme was “Spring,” and all the submissions beautifully represented the authors’ ideas of the season.

This first year we decided to recognize four young writers, and you will find their winning entries below. Each will receive a gift and a special certificate. We congratulate all the winners and everyone who submitted their writing.

And a final note of thanks to the parents who supported and encouraged their young authors.

Be watching for next year’s Creative Writing contest call for submissions. In the meantime, keep reading, keep writing, and enjoy your upcoming summer!

Spring Showers

By Orly Aviv Barzel, 4th Grade

the birds call the winds blow the april rain makes me feel not alone. listen to the animals feel warm breeze. see the rain fall it makes me feel at home. The rainbows shine

The flowers bloom

The green grass grows

Lets me know it’s ok

And then I remember that aviv’s my middle name.

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Last Years Leaves

By Naomi Becker, 4th Grade

Yeah, we know Spring is so special

With all the beginnings ahead

But what about the beautiful things

That in Spring, they’re dead?

I wish for a moment of silence

For all the melting snow

I know it’s lovely Spring

But why does the white have to go?

Oh, the joy of ice skating

Slipping fast so you don’t sink

But since it’s not cold, Why do you have to go back to the rink?

Back then, all was quiet I could finally have my peace

But with all the noise now, I can get annoyed with ease

The cold was meant for hot chocolate

To make it, I learned

But the cocoa had a such short time Until ice cream and popsicle’s turn

Why doesn’t everyone remember?

Don’t they love the sights

That Winter holds dear to them, All throughout the night?

All I’m saying is this: Spring isn’t the best. All seasons have equal love And an equal amount of zest.

Summer has its beaches, Fall has its leaves.

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Winter has its lovely snow, And Spring has its trees.

What about the plants

That are not alive anymore? Last year’s leaves Is the solemn thing they hold.

I think it’s time for Spring. By Harrison Prichard, 5th Grade

As I watch the leaves,

Emerging from the trees.

With its white, glittering flowers.

With beauty, I cannot comprehend

My gratitude for.

I used to not see these ones.

These stunning, glorious ones.

Spring used to feel so far away.

Now, I look at the sky, With it’s new white fluffy lands,

With feeling of being free.

I lift my head high, I don’t wan’t to be late,

I think it’s time for Spring.

River Over Storm By Mackenzie Eastman, 1st Grade

The river is light the storm falls at night I see the storm fall and I hear the river call the storm is done and the flowers bloom the sun turns maroon flowers sprout the sun comes out the sun is light and the rain stops at night the sun comes out

I see roses when i’m out and about bunnies hop flowers pop birds sing to the butterfly king ladybugs climb all of spring is a rhyme •

Letter to the Editor

Many of us have expressed dismay at the defunding of local charitable organizations. Of course, we can opt to send donations to them, but there is another option: volunteer.

Because of funding cuts, these organizations have had to downsize staff and are having difficulty serving their clients.

By volunteering, you can offer help, and not just complain. Tikkun Olam, repairing the world, is not just a “slogan” for the Jewish people, it is a call to action.

Find an organization you support and call to see what you can do, personally, to help.

For me, that organization is N.I.C.E.,

President’s Message

Continued from page 1 and volunteers, as well as the ongoing commitment of our community. Together, we are building a stronger, more vibrant Jewish future. I look forward to providing further updates in the months ahead.

2025 Leadership615 Cohort: Alexander Krew

Nashville International Center for Empowerment. It helps refugees vetted by the U.S. government to resettle in Nashville. It has drastically cut down it’s staff, leaving recent refugee families struggling for assistance. The Jewish Federation worked with N.I.C.E. several years ago to resettle Afghan refugees, most of whom have become productive members of the Nashville community. I work in their office several hours a week. You can find your best organizational fit and help make Nashville a better place for all who live here. Just make a call. •

Judith Saks

Alyssa Hassenfeld

Brooke Wasserman

Courtney Bruns

Ethan Hassenfeld

Hunter Bernstein

John Jivens

Julie Galbierz

Laura Heiman

Matthew Hertz

Penny Woody

Saba Getaneh

Sandy Rochelle

Victor Nachmann •

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Looking back, looking forward

By JESSE FELD

J

ust about one year ago, I started my tenure as Executive Director at the Gordon JCC. Passing the one-year mark has me looking back as we continue to build forward into the future. Having grown up in Memphis and studied at the University of Tennessee in Knoxville for college, I knew how strong the Jewish community in Nashville really was. While I may have known the strength of the community, there are several things that I am proud to have learned in my first year here at the J.

Revisiting this past year, here are a few of the instances that stand out:

- I learned Camp Davis is the premier day camp in Nashville. We’ve been, “keeping kids dirty since 1930,” as the slogan says. Camp activities are so important in this digital age, and our Camp Davis provides kids aged

5-16 the best summer ever connecting with friends and counselors inside and outside on our beautiful campus.

- I learned that if I am ever curious about history at the J, or daily operations of the organization, I can rely on Marilyn Rubin to have the answer, or to know exactly who to ask. Marilyn is one of the many dedicated employees at the J without whom we would simply not be able to operate.

- I learned the Gordon JCC Early Childhood Learning Center is a beacon of light. With Director Elizabeth-Lee Gertonson leading the way, we are educating and fostering a sense of community with our youngest members.

- I learned that community members rely on and engage with the J in so many different ways. Some folks are here daily to work out or do water

aerobics, some are here weekly for a TGIT meal or art reception, and others rely on the J once or twice a year to come to the Hanukkah Festival or the Kosher Nashville Hot Chicken and Jewish Arts and Music Festival. Even though these are all such different avenues to the J, the common thread is that people come here to be part of something bigger than themselves.

- Finally, while I knew how strong the community was, I have been blown away to learn how warm it has been for me and my family.

As nice as it is to look back, I am even more excited about looking forwards. We are in the middle of developing a strategic plan to set long-term organizational goals for the next 5-10 years. Through this process we have done a lot of listening and learning from members and non-members alike and will be

setting a new standard to grow the J both in membership and participation.

While the planning process is coming to fruition, I am still looking forward to a great summer at the outdoor pool. We have a brand-new filtration system to keep the pool open and clean all summer long, as well as totally renovated locker rooms. We are going to have new pooldeck programs like summer solstice yoga, mermaid karaoke, back to school movie night and so much more.

There is so much to be proud of for our 123-year history here at the J, and so much to look forward to. It is my honor to serve as the Executive Director, and I’m excited to continue building on our successes. As always, please reach out to me with any thoughts, questions, or concerns. I hope you join me as we grow, because as our community says, “Chazak, chazak, v’nitchazek,” which means, be strong, be strong, and let us be strengthened. •

Generations of Giving: The Hirsch Family Grows Their Legacy

On April 17th, we were able to welcome Bruce and Rae Hirsch as they celebrated their ninth grandchild to be recognized on Jewish Federation’s Tree of Life installation, joining the hundreds of other members of our community that have recognized family members over the decades since the display went up in 1987. Community members and guests of the JCC pass by it on a regular basis as it stands in a prominent place in the Main Hall of the Gordon Jewish Community Center.

Bruce and Rae have long been supporters of Jewish Federation and our partner agencies, including the Temple and Jewish Family Services. According to Bruce, adding to the Tree of Life became a way to leave a legacy. “Years ago, we just thought we wanted to have our place in this community,” he says. They both very much believe in the importance of having a vibrant and diverse Jewish community that gets stronger through the generations. Rae says, “This is a good way to teach our children to give to and support their Jewish community.”

Rae has long been an active supporter and volunteer with Jewish Family Service. And the Hirsches have even

included their grandchildren in their philanthropy by participating in the holiday gift programs. Rae says, “For Hanukah we take our grandchildren, and we shop at Target and places like that and buy presents. Then we bring them here and JFS gives them out to people who can’t afford it.”

We are honored to have them as supporters and donors that truly add so much to Jewish Nashville.

Currently, the Tree of Life has 150 spaces to continue to recognize and celebrate our community. Feel free to reach out if you would also like to add your family branch to our tree as we continue to grow! Contact Jason Sparks, jason@ jewishnashville.org. •

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Bruce and Rae Hirsch added a ninth grandchild to the Jewish Federation’s Tree of Life.

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Social Justice Seder Brings Together Friends and Neighbors

By BARBARA DAB

Despite some challenging weather, approximately 250 people attended this year’s Jewish Community Relations Committee Social Justice Seder, featuring special guest Sloan Luckie. Luckie, a lay pastor and youth mentor in his hometown of Chicago, spoke about his passion

for studying the Old Testament in its original language, and the connections between the Jewish and Christian faith traditions. The seder was led by Rabbi Saul Strosberg of Congregation Sherith Israel and included musical selections by Cantor Tracy Fishbein and musician Brett Fromson. The event was chaired by Danny Goldberg and Sara Roth. •

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Learning to Mourn: Akiva’s Educators Embrace Grief-Sensitive Training

By BARBARA DAB

An estimated 6.3 million children in the United States will experience the death of a parent or sibling by age 18. That’s according to the National Alliance for Children’s Grief. Tennessee ranks fifth in the nation, with one in nine children affected by these losses, and that means the state’s teachers must deal with grieving children on a regular basis, but many lack the training and resources to help.

Akiva School is doing its part to prepare teachers who will likely have students dealing with the loss of a parent, sibling, grandparent, or be facing serious life changes like divorce or family illness. The school’s teachers participated in a training created by the Grief-Sensitive Schools Initiative, sponsored by New York Life and designed to equip educators to care for grieving students.

Rabba Daniella Pressner, Akiva head of school, says the program was the right fit for her staff. “Jewish life situates us in a unique space to be able to address grief with our kids. Whether it’s a commemoration for Yom Hashoah or Yom Hazikaron where we have this transfer from one day with Israel’s Memorial Day and the next day with Israel’s independence, they understand there is a cadence to Jewish life that provides structure.” She says there is also an understanding among the teachers and parents so there

is already what she says is a built-in response to grief.

The training was conducted by Kristin Keiper-Berneman, a school counselor in Metro Nashville Public Schools and an Akiva parent. She says while researching continuing education programs she found the grant-based program designed for any accredited k-12 school. There is one required presentation from the New York Life Foundation for at least five staff members, and a commitment to provide one professional development class for the staff annually. The process results in being designated as a grief sensitive school, and an accompanying $500 grant.

Keiper-Berneman says she felt the straight forward process would go a long way toward addressing the incidents of childhood bereavement in the state. She says she believes the high number is the result of three main issues. “We have some state gun laws. I know that especially more in the eastern side of our state the opioid crisis was really tough. And we have patches of really rural areas, so health care is less accessible.”

The training consists of three modules the teachers access virtually. It includes learning to understand the students’ experience with grieving, practical suggestions about how to initiate conversations with students, and information about how to manage available resources.

Ellen Haber is a kindergarten teacher at Akiva and participated in the training.

She says initially, she found it helpful when Keiper-Berneman acknowledged the subject is often difficult to discuss. “I felt very put at ease with the way she set expectations for the time we would spend together and that it wasn’t going to be morose or mobid.”

Haber says she was pleased the focus was on helping the students. And while the sobering statistics do not exactly fit with Akiva’s demographics, the students do deal regularly with loss. “All of this is in the shadow of the Covenant shooting and the general awareness of violence, especially gun violence, in the world. This just really hits close to home.”

Karlin Edwards is the guidance counselor at Akiva. She also participated in the training and says she was impressed with the straightforward approach to talking about the subject. “Something I learned about was the language. Just not beating around the bush saying, ‘he passed,’ or, ‘he went over the rainbow.’ Nope just saying, ‘he’s dead.’” She said a fellow teacher reported it was helpful with her own daughter when their family dog recently died. “She said it seemed like she accepted it.”

Mental health professionals say training teachers and school staff to help students deal with grief provides important resources for families. Toni Jacobsen is the clinical director at Jewish Family Service of Nashville and Middle Tennessee. She says supporting children during difficult times can provide inroads into helping the entire family.

“It’s another objective adult looking and caring for children. Because if that child has grief, then you know the family does too. That child is not isolated in their grief.” She says the grief could take the form of divorce, a move, or the loss of a childhood home. “This is just another layer of protection for that child.”

Jacobsen also says programs like this helps the staff deal with their own grief. “Through training the school staff to recognize and support grieving children, they will be able to apply the same concepts to each other as colleagues which results in a more supportive work environment for everyone.”

Parents say Akiva’s approach to the grieving process is part and parcel of what sets it apart from other schools. Rabbi Laurie Rice of Congregation Micah, says, “One of the reasons we chose to send our kids to Akiva is because they would graduate with ‘values competency.’ The idea of kindness and compassion and reaching out to others in need. Those were things they would be educated in. That’s what I think the Jewish piece of the Jewish school brings.”

Rabbi Rice also says creating a school culture that is comfortable with death and the grief process is also core to Jewish tradition. “We want to normalize death as part of the cycle of life. Judaism does not try to do anything other than that.” She says it is a western concept to fear and fight death. “That’s not Judaism’s imperative.” •

A Mexican Seder in Nashville? Who Wudda Thunk?

By DR. ROB STEIN

Avery improbable example of the current Nashville restaurant scene expansion played out this year at Fonda, a recent entry into Mexican dining in the 12 South neighborhood. Fonda is a higher end destination serving authentic Mexican cuisine that represents a departure from Tex-Mex and an attempt to show the depth of Mexican culinary tradition. Starting in New York City and then expanding to Tokyo, the owners (one of whom is Jewish) felt that Nashville was an appropriate next location. What they brought to Music City was also a desire to innovate and share what was successful in New York—an original interpretation of classic Passover tradition and dishes that paid homage to their origin but also lent themselves to be represented by the breadth of Mexican culinary heritage.

It turns out that chopped liver can be enhanced by salsa verde (a tomatilla sauce) with chopped hand-boiled egg. The charoses, made with pepitas, coriander, dates, honey and apples and pear in a chunky rendition, was delicious. The pickled salmon appetizer with chiles was remarkable. All were gobbled up quickly and with relish. A surprising interpretation of matzoh ball soup using pasilla chiles and epazote was a great success notwithstanding the rich red color

departure from the classic clear broth we are all familiar with. The mains dishes were also a very pleasant surprise. Who would have thought that a brisket a la Mexicana served with a mole poblano sauce would be so successful. Which is not to diminish the salmon with a chile ancho mole sauce. What is remarkable was the ability of this menu to balance the heat level to accommodate even the most sensitive palates.

Accompanying the mains were broccolini, roasted carrots, and kugel. In sum, a delightfully thought-out meal that was truly unique and mind-expanding. Appropriate Passover wine options were also offered even though our group couldn’t avoid washing things down with some satisfying margaritas.

Our group of six went to Fonda to support the initiative, the first of its kind that we can remember being offered in Nashville within the past 50 years. The food was available both as take out or for dining at Fonda. We greeted two other families also enjoying the seder dining. We enjoyed the ambience that the restaurant has managed to achieve. What we didn’t expect was such a revolutionary expansion of our culinary experience and the high level of gastronomic enjoyment. We can only hope this is just the first expression of classic Jewish cuisine in the Nashville culinary market. Kudos to Fonda! •

Akiva Fun Run Helps Build Community and Foster Pride

By ELLY EBIN

The Akiva Fun Run, held just before families headed off for Pesach break, was not just a chance for students to stretch their legs—it was a joyful, schoolwide event that brought together students, teachers, and families in support of something bigger than themselves. From the youngest runners in kindergarten to our sixth-grade leaders, everyone hit the course to raise funds and cheer each other on, showing off their Akiva spirit in every step.

This exciting program was all part of a broader initiative from the PTFA (ParentTeacher-Family Association), whose mission is to build community, support our teachers, and enrich student life. The PTFA organized the Fun Run not just to raise money, but to spark connection and pride. Proceeds from the Fun Run

go directly back into the school, teacher appreciation efforts, and student programming—helping ensure every Akiva child has an exceptional and joyful experience.

With music pumping, families cheering, colors flying and kids dashing toward the finish line, the Fun Run was a celebration of movement, community, and the values that make Akiva such a special place. •

Mazal Tov to the 73rd Consecration Class of West End Synagogue Beit Miriam Kitah Alef 5785

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he Consecration Class of 5785 presented the play, “The Living Seder Plate” on Sunday, March 23, 2025. The ceremony was followed by a lunch reception catered by Polly Roffwarg.

The Consecration Class of 5785:

Raphael Avraham Fox

Son of Jonah and Rachel Fox

Hunter Phillip Inman

Son of Chad and Randee Inman

Henry Paxton Lipp

Son of Michael Lipp and Lauren Max

Mary Lowenfels

Daughter of Henry Lowenfels and Toby Lowenfels

Ethan Naftali Pearl

Son of David and Amy Pearl

Caleb Joshua Rosenberg

Son of Adam Rosenberg and Abigail Schachter

Emmitt Miles Roffwarg

Son of David and Polly Roffwarg

Levi Meyer Rubin

Son of Todd and Sarah Rubin •

Empowering Education: NCJW Nashville’s 50+ Years of Scholarship Loans

By JENNIFER HOFFMAN, EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR OF NCJW NASHVILLE

For over fifty years, National Council of Jewish Women (NCJW)Nashville has offered interest-free loans to worthy students who are pursuing their own higher education through our Scholarship Loan program.

Around 1910, NCJW Nashville formed the “Scholarship Memorial Fund,” with the purpose of helping the children of the Bertha Fensterwald House attend college. Later, the fund pivoted to helping students attend college during the Great Depression and World War II.

For the 2025-2026 academic year, Scholarship Loan, as it has been known for the past 50 years, will award loans of up to $4000 per year annually to 15 Middle Tennessee students pursuing higher education at the school and academic path of their choice. These loans were based on eligibility regardless of background.

These 14 students, 10 of whom are new applicants, come from a variety of backgrounds. They are seeking degrees ranging from associates- to doctoral-level and will be using the loans to cover such needs as tuition, books, room and board, and childcare.

The impact of a Scholarship Loan is wide-ranging. “NCJW’s Scholarship Loan opened up many opportunities for me in college, including the chance to study abroad,” shares a former recipient. “Thanks to the NCJW’s generosity, I was

able to finance these opportunities and deepen my knowledge about topics I’m passionate about.”

The project receives its funding from repayments of loans by past recipients. The applications are reviewed anonymously and confidentially. The loans are granted and administered through the Scholarship Loan Committee and are offered to qualified applicants as a loan of last resort.

For the past three years, the committee has been chaired by Freya Sachs. We are so grateful for the vision and expertise she brought to this program and are looking forward to the leadership brought by 2025-2026 Scholarship Loan co-chairs, Marci Kleinrock and Amy Smith.

The impact of an interest-free loan in the age of rising costs of college goes a long way. Another former recipient shares, “My interest-free loan courtesy of NCJW Nashville allowed me to cover some living expenses while in college. This was a huge relief given the high cost of college at the time, which has only compounded over time. I am grateful for this wonderful service benefiting our community.”

Those wishing to support the work of NCJW Nashville are encouraged to reach out to Jennifer Hoffman, Executive Director, at nashvillencjw@gmail.com or make a donation on our website at www.ncjwnashville.org/donate. NCJW Nashville thanks our community for their continued support! •

PHOTO CREDIT: JENNIFER FLEISCHER

Beit Miriam’s Consecration Class of 5785. From left to right: Front row: Hunter Inman, Caleb Rosenberg, Mary Lowenfels, Henry Lipp, Rafael Fox. Back row: Ethan Pearl, Emmitt Roffwarg, Levi Rubin

Music Review: The Promise Sessions Cultivates

Connection, Nurtures Healing, Inspires Harmony

By LEERON RESNICK

March 26th at The Foundry transcended the ordinary in Music City, becoming a vibrant nexus of cultures and sounds orchestrated by The Promise Sessions. Headlining the evening were IDF veterans Osher Beniso and Shlomo Zichel, artists who carry the weight of experience and the fire of creativity within their music. But this wasn’t a solitary affair. They were joined by a cadre of local Jewish musicians, and a house band that laid down grooves so infectious they transcended genre and language.

The air crackled with anticipation as the band launched into their set. What followed was a breathtaking journey through musical landscapes. Original songs in Hebrew resonated with a raw honesty, painting vivid pictures of life in the Promised Land. Then, with effortless cool, they seamlessly transitioned into beloved classics. Imagine the surprise and delight of hearing Dolly Parton’s “Jolene” infused with a Middle Eastern flair, or Pharrell’s “Happy” reimagined with a soulful Hebrew undercurrent. It wasn’t just about covers; it was about connection, a testament to the universal language of music that binds us all.

Adding to the magic were the captivating performances of Harrison Prichard and Ada Pasternak, each bringing their unique artistry to the stage, further enriching the tapestry of sound.

What made this night truly extraordinary was the audience itself. Over 200 people packed The Foundry, a testament to the power of this initiative. They hailed from across the United States –

California, New York, Florida – and even further afield, with enthusiastic guests from Australia, South Africa, and Israel joining the celebration. The palpable sense of unity was fueled by the generous support of the local Jewish community and Christian allies.

So, what exactly is The Promise Sessions? It is Nashville’s answer to October 7th, a vital organization dedicated to empowering the voices of individuals affected by terror and war through the transformative power of music. They provide a platform for these artists to heal, connect, and share their stories with the world, fostering understanding and empathy through their creative expression. The NasHeal program is a cornerstone of their work, offering a unique and intensive experience that blends artistic development with therapeutic support.

This remarkable evening was the culmination of The Promise Sessions’ second NasHeal program, a powerful two-week immersive retreat designed for IDF veteran artists. Imagine a space where these individuals, who have faced the unimaginable, can channel their experiences into their art. During their time in Nashville, they weren’t just performing; they were recording in the renowned Blackbird Studio, filming compelling music videos at The Soundstage at Sherith Israel, sharing their stories through insightful interviews (including a feature on News Channel 5!), connecting with key leaders in the music industry, and immersing themselves in the vibrant energy of Music City. This latest iteration of NasHeal was made possible

by the heartfelt generosity of members within the Nashville Jewish community, underscoring the power of local support in fostering global impact.

The Promise Sessions’ event at The Foundry was more than just a concert; it was a testament to the resilience of the human spirit, the unifying power of music, and the profound impact of community support. It was a night where geographical boundaries blurred, cultural differences were celebrated, and the promise of healing through art resonated deeply within every heart present.

Don’t let the music stop here!

Visit their website: www. promisesessions.com to learn more about their mission and how you

can contribute to empowering these vital voices. Support their mission to empower the voices of those affected by terror and war through music.

Follow The Promise Sessions on Instagram: @promisesessions (https:// www.instagram.com/promisesessions/) to stay updated on their incredible work, upcoming events, and the inspiring stories of the artists they support.

The Promise Sessions are creating something truly meaningful, and their night at The Foundry was a powerful reminder of the beauty and connection that can emerge even from the most challenging of circumstances. Be a part of their journey. Together, we will heal, one song at a time. •

Promise Sessions founders Natasha and Yossi Amit

Highlights of West End Synagogue’s Annual Social Action Day

By JUDITH SAKS

On Sunday, April 6, West End Synagogue members fanned out across Nashville to serve a number of nonprofit community organizations. It was the synagogue’s annual Social Action Day which included work at Belle Gardens, Glenncliff High School Urban Farrm, the H.E.R.O. (program providing clothing and supplies to unhoused Metro school children), Project C.U.R.E (supplying medical equipment to underserved countries) Ronald McDonald House and Room in the Inn (Sunday lasagna dinner for 75 men). The event is sponsored by the WES Social Action Committee. •

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By ASHLEY FRANKLIN, LCSW

Aaccepts most major insurance plans, including Medicare, for counseling ser vices. For those without insurance, a sliding scale based on income is available.

include support for individuals, couples, families, and young

s a social worker, I often hear stories of how pain and trauma have affected people’s lives. Recently, JFS hosted a Family Life Education program for teens in the community. The presenter was Marc Mero, who gave a powerful presentation about his life. Mero is a motivational speaker and former champion wrestler, who gave a powerful presentation on his life, career, failures, and successes. He talked about his rise to fame, losing people he loved, and the emptiness of success when it wasn’t rooted in purpose.

Mero shared his story with vulnerability and acknowledged the mistakes that he has made; turning his regrets into a message that can help others. The way he owned his mistakes and was willing to be vulnerable about the relationships he neglected is something we also help people navigate.

Marc Mero’s message of hope and resilience reaffirms the importance of our work. People are not defined by their worst choices, and everyone has the potential for growth, healing, and change. As a social worker, we often plant seeds we may never see grow—but hearing Marc’s story was a good reminder that change is always possible, and sometimes the most important things we offer are hope, compassion, and presence. •

Belle Gardens

Room in the Inn

Ronald McDonald House

H.E.R.O.

At Our Congregations…

Nashville’s congregations

Here are the websites for all five Nashville Jewish congregations, with information on services, upcoming events and more:

Congregation Beit Tefilah Chabad, www.chabadnashville.com

Congregation Micah, www.congregationmicah.org

Congregation Sherith Israel, www.sherithisrael.com

The Temple – Congregation Ohabai Sholom, www.templenashville.org West End Synagogue, www.westendsyn.org

The Observer provides congregational listings of events and services as a complimentary service to the community. If your congregation is not listed, it is because we did not receive the information in time to meet our publication deadline. Please give your rabbi, executive director, or synagogue volunteer a gentle nudge.

@ Chabad /Congregation Beit Tefilah

Revere Jewish Montessori preschool to offer three scholarships to new students

Imagine that the Shtetl of Europe has been frozen in time, transported to New The Revere Jewish Montessori preschool will be presenting a one-time offer of providing three scholarships of forty percent off the annual tuition, for new students between the ages of 36 months and five years old, for the fall of 2025

This scholarship funding is made possible thanks to the support of an anonymous donor.

To apply for this scholarship, please call the Jewish Montessori preschool office at 615-646-5750 as soon as possible

Chabad to host a Southern Style Lag B’Omer BBQ

Join the Nashville community for a delightful evening of a Lag B’Omer Southern Style Kosher BBQ and an Israeli Bonfire on Thursday, May 15 at 5:00 PM on the outdoor patio of Chabad of Nashville.

Participants will also be celebrating the Jewish holiday of Lag B’Omer, specifically by gathering around a bonfire together for a kumzitz of Israeli music, in Chabad Park, which is on the nine-acre property of the Genesis Campus for Jewish Life. Participants will also have the opportunity to take part in the planting of an organic herb garden which will be used in preparing Shabbat dinners throughout the summer months for the Nashville community.

There is no charge to attend this event, but reservations are appreciated. The cost for the BBQ dinner is $18 per person. For further information or to make reservations go to chabadnashville.com

Craving Community? There is hope!

Craving Community? There is hope! Join people like yourself for our weekly Shabbat morning service. For the whole family. Come for all, come for part.

Join us for our weekly Shabbat service and community experience. Services are warm, welcoming, joyous, and friendly, and they will include some traditional prayers in Hebrew, explanations and English readings, Torah reading and inspirational talk.

The traditional service is designed to guide you step-by-step and will make you comfortable regardless of previous exposure and background. This, coupled with modern Jewish melodies and an easy to read prayer book translation will make Shabbat prayer services an enjoyable and meaningful experience for you.

Shabbat morning services begin at 10:00 AM, with Torah reading at 11:00 AM, and is followed by a social Kiddush buffet luncheon, including a hot gourmet cholent, and a spread of delicious dishes and freshly baked desserts.

The event is always capped off with Torah and Tea for women, and the Men’s Group weekly farbrengen with L’Chaim.

Torah and Tea - for Women by Women

Join an all woman’s Torah and Tea leadership study group every Shabbat, following the sit down lunch, at congregation Beit Tefilah Chabad, at 1:00 PM. The study group is led by Rebetzen Esther Tiechtel, who teaches with wisdom and wit, and embraces each participant with warmth and friendship.

Torah and Tea will bring you this tradition of classical Jewish learning in a series of clear and engaging weekly classes. Probing the ideas and issues related to the modern Jewish woman, these classes will offer timely lessons -from the most timeless of all texts. Join together with fellow women from the Nashville community, for inspiring Torah study, warm camaraderie, Tea Time and delicious refreshments!

Chabad to host two TGIS celebration in May

Start your Shabbat off right with good friends, great conversation, and excellent kosher cuisine, all seasoned with the perfect amount of spirit and joy. TGIS is a Club Med Shabbat: An all-inclusive Shabbat experience. Enjoy a Friday night Shabbat dinner replete with traditional dishes. Blended with spirited singing, a Chasidic tale, and a chance to meet some wonderful new people. TGIS will be held on Friday evening, May 9 and May 23, at 6:30 PM at Chabad of Nashville.

There is no cost to attend the TGIS Shabbat experience, however we kindly request that you RSVP by letting us know you will be attending at chabadnashville@ gmail.com

Start off your week with a dose of Jewish Wisdom from the comfort of your home

Join friends and community from the comfort of your home, every Sunday morning, as you begin the new week with a dose of Jewish wisdom, and learn the current Torah portion of the upcoming week.

The Weekly Parsha class on the Torah portion meets every Sunday morning At 10:30 AM via ZOOM.

Explore together with friends the profound wisdom of our Torah.

Class is taught by Rabbi Levi Tiechtel. No rsvp needed. Just come when you can. Please email chabadnashville@gmail.com for link to the Weekly Parsha Class.

@ Micah

Congregation Micah - an inclusive, innovative synagogue exploring and celebrating Jewish life - is committed to building community and repairing the world! We offer creative and diverse ways to live a Jewish life in Tennessee and beyond, using the rich beliefs and practices of Progressive Judaism as our foundation. Visit our 30+ acre campus or access our virtual programs from our website, www.congregationmicah.org. Like us on socials: Facebook, and Instagram @MicahNashville; sign up for our e-blasts; learn and pray with us in-person, or livestream our service on our website, YouTube, or Facebook. In our tent, there is room for everyone!

Weekly Events

Sanctuary Shabbat Services: Fridays at 6 PM

At Micah, we approach God in many ways: the inspiration of words, the beauty of sacred space, the authenticity of our intentions, and through the power of music and song. Join us in-person or virtually for services this month that will be as diverse as they are engaging, as moving as they are participatory. Come early and schmooze with us starting at 5:30 PM! Light refreshments are served.

Saturday Morning Torah Study: 9 AM on Zoom

Deep conversations about the text with thoughtful and caring people led by the clergy.

Mah Jongg: Tuesdays from 12:30 PM- 3:30 PM

Join our players for an afternoon of fun in the social hall! For more information, contact Paula: pgkwn@comcast.net.

Schmooze & Views: Thursdays from 10:30 AM- 11:30 AM

At Micah, we keep politics off the pulpit but not out of the building. Share your views in a round-table discussion on current events facilitated by Rabbi Flip and Dr. Bob Smith.

May Events

Jewish Music History with Cantor Josh Goldberg: May 7th and 14 at 6:30 PM

Explore the evolution of Jewish music from various parts of the world across the centuries! From the Psalms of King David to composers like Salamone Rossi, golden-age Cantors like Moshe Koussevitzky, to modern Jewish folk artists like Debbie Friedman, you will get a taste of the many sounds and styles in the Jewish musical landscape.

Women’s Circle: Friday, May 16 at 12 PM

Rabbi Laurie engages your intellect and inspires conversation on a variety of Jewish topics. All are welcome. Bring a friend.

Micah Reads: Monday, May 19 at 7 PM on Zoom

Education Director Julie Greenberg leads the discussion on “Woman on Fire” by Lisa Barr.

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@ Sherith Israel

Lag BaOmer Bonfire & Barbecue

Lag BaOmer Bonfire & Barbecue

Thursday Night, May 15, back parking lot of Sherith Israel $12 per person, reserve online, www.sherithisrael.com

@ The Temple

Exploring the Prayerbook

Every Friday from 5:00-5:40 PM before Shabbat Services

Start Shabbat with a little study each week. We will explore the prayers of our Shabbat Service and discuss, and discover how these ancient Jewish texts still speak to us today.

Join us in person or via zoom at https://www.templenashville.org/virtualprogramming.html

Shabbat Schedule for May at The Temple

Our Shabbat Services will be held in person at The Temple. You can also watch via zoom from https://www.templenashville.org/virtual-programming.html

Friday, May 2nd-6:00 PM - Annual Meeting Shabbat

Friday, May 9th- 6:00 PM- Family Shabbat Service with Birthday Blessings & Mazel Tones

Friday, May 16th-6:00 PM

Friday, May 23rd-6:00 PM- Blue Jean Shabbat

Friday, May 30th-6:00 PM - Blue Jean Shabbat

Chevrah Torah Study

9:30AM on Saturdays

Join us for our weekly Torah study on the portion of the week, led by the clergy. You can join us in person at The Temple or via zoom from https://www. templenashville.org/virtual-programming.html

Playground Playdate

The Temple invites young families to join us for a Playground Playdate

Saturday, May 3rd

9:00-10:30 AM

Parmer Park

It will be a time for parents and children to meet and connect. NO RSVP required!

Tot Shabbat –Family Theme

Friday, May 16th at 5:15pm

For families with children up to age 5

Tot Shabbat offers families the chance to celebrate Shabbat with their young children in a creative way!

Golden Lunch Bunch

Our Golden Lunch Bunch will meet at Temple from 11:30-1:00pm on

• May 6 - Craig Duncan

• May 20 - Andi Kopek

RSVP to Jewish Family Service at 615-354-1686 or via email at helpinghands@ jfsnashville.org

Women’s Torah Study

May 1st, 8th, 15th, 22nd, 29th

10:30 AM

Ongoing weekly women’s Torah study led by Patty Marks. Available in person at The Temple and via zoom through https://www. templenashville.org/virtual-programming.html

Lunch with the Rabbi

May 1st, 8th, 15th, 22nd, 29th

Lunch at 11:30AM

Program12:00-1:00 PM

$15 per person for lunch

Engage with Rabbi Danziger and guests in a discussion of current and important issues from a Jewish perspective.

RSVP on templenashville.org/virtual-programming.html or by calling the Temple at 615-352-7620

Available in person and via zoom.

At Our Congregations…

Monday Mah Jongg

Join Us for MAH JONGG Mondays at The Temple!

May 5th, 12th, 19th

1:00pm

Drop in for Mah Jongg. We’ll have coffee and water. Bring your friends, a card, and a set and have some fun. Mah Jongg cards and sets are available for purchase in The Temple Gift Shop.

Join Benji Lovitt at The Temple Israeli Humor: Is it OK to Laugh?

Jews throughout history have laughed to keep from crying. Gain a richer understanding of Israeli resilience by viewing classic comedy clips, social media posts, and video testimonials from Israeli comedians.

Saturday, May 10th

6:30-8:00 pm

Join us for a brief Havdalah, followed by laughter and learning with Benji. For more information, see templenashville.org/events

Hike and Havdalah

May 17th

Starting at the Edwin Warner Park Nature Center on HWY. 100. Plenty of parking! See the spring bloom! Bring friends! Meet at 3:45 PM for a family friendly walk on a paved trail followed by Havdalah at 5:30 PM. All ages! Bring friends and family.

For more information or questions, please contact Anne Davenport at adavlaw@ comcast.net

@ West End

For links to the following online services or programs, please email office@westendsyn.org or visit our website calendar for more information https://westendsyn.shulcloud.com/calendar

5/1 – Fundraiser Patron Party

Building on the success of our incredible March fundraiser with Jared Stillman, we’re excited to continue the celebration with a special Patron Party—an evening dedicated to honoring those whose exceptional generosity helps make our work possible.

5/2 – Beit Miriam Graduation and Kabbalat Shabbat Services – 6:00 p.m.

Join us as we honor the graduating class of Beit Miriam.

5/4 – Honor the Teacher Day and Last Day of Beit Miriam

5/8 – Men’s Torah Group (in person) –12:00 p.m.

Join us for our Torah class for men followed by a pizza lunch. We are currently reading the Book of Ezra.

5/9 – Celebrate our new Board and Israel with our Annual Meeting, Musical Kabbalat Shabbat, Congregational Israeli Dinner, & Performance from Comedian Benji Lovitt –5:30 p.m.

Friday, May 9th, at 5:30 p.m. Annual Meeting and election of officers, followed by a musical Kabbalat Shabbat, a congregational Israeli dinner, and performance from Israeli comedian Benji Lovitt who will talk about how we can laugh after October 7th. Go to tinyurl.com/AnnualMeeting25 to register and learn more. RSVPs required and must be completed by May 6th at 5:00 p.m.

5/10 – Kid’ish Club – 10:30 a.m.

Inviting all 2nd – 7th graders for Kid’ish Club Shabbat morning from 10:30-11:30 a.m. Kiddush lunch to follow.

5/11 – Music & Me for Families with Young Children 3 and under - Sunday, 3:30 p.m.

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5/14 – The Sandi Goldstein Learn & Lunch Program for ages 60+ – 11:00 a.m.

Reservations required, catered lunch following the presentation.

Speaker: Pam Kelner - Executive Director of Jewish Family Service of Nashville and Middle Tennessee

Lunch catered by Goldie Shepard at 12:00 p.m. Cost: $5.00 RSVP 615-269-4592 ext. 11 or office@westendsyn.org.

5/17 – Holden Ehresman Bar Mitzvah –9:30 a.m.

5/18 – Sisterhood Afternoon Tea – 3:00 p.m.

You’re Invited to a delightful afternoon tea honoring our Light of Torah Ladies. Join us as we celebrate Renee Stein – our 2025 Light of Torah Honoree and Ruth Lebovitz – past recipient of this cherished honor. Let’s gather in gratitude and joy to honor these inspiring women and their dedication to our community.

Free for paid Sisterhood members

$12 for nonmembers

Bring your favorite teacup and enjoy an elegant afternoon filled with love, laughter, and friendship.

RSVP by going to bit.ly/MCSSundaytea.

5/21 – Women’s Torah Group (on Zoom) –10:00 a.m.

Rabbi Joshua leads our Women’s study group. We are learning the book of Joshua. This month we will be learning one hour before our usual time!!!

5/30 – It’s Shabbat – 5:30 p.m.

Families with young children are invited to join us for Shabbos schmoozing, candle lighting, Kiddush blessing, HaMotzi, and Shabbat songs on Friday from 5:30-6:30 p.m. Email spaz@westendsyn.org to RSVP.

Learning Opportunities

Talmud on Tuesdays

Rabbi Joshua leads a lively Talmudic discussion at 7:30 a.m. in person and on Zoom every Tuesday, immediately after morning minyan. Come and join us!

Torah Study on Thursdays

Come join us for breakfast and Torah study at 7:40 a.m. following morning minyan

Jewish Ethics on Fridays

Between Kabbalat Shabbat and Maariv, every Friday we study together a portion of Pirkei Avot and we delve into the world of Jewish Ethics at 6:00 p.m.

Religious Services

Shacharit (in person)

Our minyanaires are always looking for more people to strengthen the only egalitarian minyan in town! Sunday services are at 9:00 a.m. and Monday-Friday at 7:00 a.m. Thursday minyan is followed by breakfast.

Mincha (on Zoom)

Join us for daily Mincha at 6:00 p.m., Sunday-Thursday.

Kabbalat Shabbat (in person)

You are invited to join us every Friday for Kabbalat Shabbat at 6:00 p.m.

Shabbat Morning services (In person and on Zoom)

Please join us every Saturday morning at 9:30 a.m. Great davening, insightful learning of the Torah portion followed by a yummy (and nutritious!) kiddush lunch following services! •

Learn more about the Jewish Federation of Greater Nashville at www.jewishnashville.org

Community Listings

B’nai B’rith Social Unit

Bring together both long-term members of the Nashville Jewish Community and people new to Nashville who are ages 50+ for monthly fun social, educational and service programs. Our next event will be our Kentucky Derby Party on May 3rd.

For more information, contact Gil Fox at gsfox3@comcast.net or Joyce Levin at joylevin8@gmail.com.

Widowers & Widows Social Group

Group of Jewish widowers and widows who have lost his/her spouse recently or in the distant past. This is not a dating service or a meet/meat group but a group of adult individuals who are interested in doing things with a group of people who have been through a similar loss as opposed to doing things by him/herself. We meet for lunch on the 2nd Monday of each month at various restaurants.

For more information, contact Gil Fox at gsfox3@comcast.net •

PLAN YOUR

…so that it’s not just a fairy tale.

By LORETTA SAFF

I’m sending this column from May last year to remind you to be sure to include your MOTHER in your happily ever after plans.

As you think of a gift For your Jewish Mother this year Here is a thought That you should hold dear:

A JEWISH MOTHER NEVER RETIRES!

Yes, it all began In the usual way. She shouted and groaned On her Labor Day.

Then she held you real close And inspected each part. You could tell by her face That you’d stolen her heart

A JEWISH MOTHER NEVER RETIRES

Your pulkies filled out. You began to talk. She said, ‘You’re a genius!’ And watched you like a hawk.

Then you started school Ahead of the rest . She packed all your lunchesBrisket sandwich was best!

You got older and said, “Even though I’m quite clever, I want to play sports!”

She said, “NO CONTACT SPORTS –EVER!”

A JEWISH MOTHER NEVER RETIRES

Soon it was college. You fit into the crowd. And you chose a career That would make her proud.

But her laser-like attention Put you on the hook. When choosing your friends She would give you that look.

She’d say, “Really? This one?” (You’d tried not to upset her) “Honestly,” she’d say, “You can do so much better.”

A JEWISH MOTHER NEVER RETIRES

There were Seders and Break Fasts. You made sure to attend. But her everyday calling Would just have to end.

The years they flew by, Marriage, kids, and a house. She’s an in-law and a “Bubbe,” Loving you and your spouse.

Sometimes she is nudgyWith her support and her love. Other times it is like She was sent from above.

She may have stopped working In her choice career. But she never stopped mothering Her children so dear.

Opinionated, outspoken, Determined to be a part, A Jewish mother loves her kids With all of her heart.

So, make a place for your Mom in your future plans, because A JEWISH MOTHER NEVER RETIRES

With Motherly love, Loretta loretta@coachingwithloretta.com • Visit The Jewish Observer’s website www.jewishobservernashville.org

The Boy Who Hid comes to Nashville

Holocaust survivor and photographer Laszlo Selly was a young boy during the Holocaust, and will be visiting Nashville this month, to share his moving and captivating story of resilience and survival. The event, “An Evening with Laszlo Selly,” will take place on May 19, 7:00 PM, at Chabad of Nashville.

Selly survived the unimaginable; a genocide that claimed the lives of six million people just like him, and he’s hoping his words will prevent anything like that from ever happening again. Selly has close to 90 years of life under his belt. Some of those years were spent deprived of freedom, dignity, and nearly his very life.

Selly and his twin brother were born in Budapest, Hungary, on December 31, 1937, into a middle-class, secular Jewish family. When Laszlo was six years old, he remembered his mother sewing a yellow star onto his outer garments. Desperate to keep their twins safe, Selly’s parents made the difficult decision to send them into hiding.

His family was fortunate enough to have never stepped foot in a concentration camp. They survived that time in Budapest’s Jewish housing. But their lives secluded from the rest of the country weren’t much better than others in places like the Polish camps.

Freedom was a distant memory. Their new reality was living crammed up in an apartment shared with three other families, where food was a luxury and so was your next breath. “It never became normal, things happened so fast and fear took over,” Selly said. “We realized at a very young age that people wanted to hurt us.”

Every morning there was a new group of people lined up and executed in front

of the entire neighborhood. And every morning Selly and his family prayed they wouldn’t be next.

One night there was a knock on the door. When they answered, their hearts dropped. A Nazi soldier ordered them to be lined up outside by sunrise. They knew what that meant for their fate. The families spent the night hugging and praying that morning wouldn’t come.

Just before sunrise, there was a loud banging at the door. All the families in the apartment gathered somberly but were shocked when the soldier on the other side was not a Nazi. They were informed that they had been liberated. There was shock, joy and relief running through their minds. It was over — almost.

He plans to describe what he went through in honor of those who were killed in the Holocaust — and so that that the next generation can witness as people like himself share their life story. This will ensure that never again will anyone deny the Holocaust, and the six million Jewish people that were murdered, simply for being Jews.

“These people will not be here any much longer,” Selly said. “Once they are gone, the holocaust deniers will come out and say it never happened.”

Rabbi Yitzchok Tiechtel of the Chabad Jewish Center of Nashville invited Selly to come to Nashville and speak about his journey and years of horror, and his close brush with death, and his miraculous story of survival. “This is a very special opportunity for us all to hear his story, to personally hear the story of survival,” said Rabbi Tiechtel, “Somebody who survived the one of the worst times in our history, and in our memory.”

The best way for us to prevent such atrocities from ever happening again, and the best way for us to honor the memory of those six million who were killed, is to know what happened, and to resolve to live more ethical and moral lives.

“We need to remember there’s not many opportunities left, where we can meet somebody who survived the holocaust, somebody who survived the Final Solution perpetrated by the Nazis,” Rabbi Tiechtel expressed, “It is incumbent on us to ensure their stories will be told and heard by the next generation.”

The event with Laszlo Selly will take place on Monday, May 19, at Chabad of Nashville, 95 Bellevue Road. There is limited seating for this special event. Tickets can be purchased at holocasutsurvivorsnashville.com or by Calling Chabad at 615-646-5750. •

Colorful Profiles: an all New Learning Opportunity

This spring, Chabad of Nashville will launch a new Rohr Jewish Learning Institute (JLI) course, beginning, Wednesday, May 7, at 7:00 PM. Led by Rabbi Rabbi Yitzchok Tiechtel, Colorful Profiles brings stories to life of intriguing and lesser-known Jewish figures who showed remarkable courage throughout history. Participants will learn how these individuals navigated issues that continue to resonate today.

“Our past imparts critical life lessons, but history may sometimes come across as dry and boring,” says Rabbi Tiechtel. “This course is anything but that. The stories contained in this course bring the past to life in gripping sagas, many of which seem too impossible to believe— yet they are real.”

The four-session course is divided into four lessons and will delve into 12 fascinating personalities that include high-profile hostages, savvy businesswomen, unlikely converts, and more. Through a Torah-centered approach, participants will gain a richer understanding of some of the historical challenges that people faced in living a Jewish life and how their stories resulted in enduring, impactful legacies.

Lesson One will highlight the story of three Courageous Converts

What attracted a Roman Caesar’s nephew to convert to Judaism, and what message does his revolutionary Hebrewto-Aramaic Torah translation provide us?

Why did a twelfth-century Italian priest surrender his career to live as a wandering Jew, and what cultural gifts did he bring with him? How did a young Polish eighteenth-century nobleman become a legend of devotion and sacrifice for Judaism?

This lesson explores the fascinating life stories of three converts to Judaism: Onkelos, Ovadiah of Normandy, and Avraham ben Avraham. Through their remarkable lives we will discover what it means to become a Jew, and we will

learn about the invaluable contributions converts have made to Jewish life.

Lesson Two will highlight Influential Jews in Jewish history

How did a leading Torah sage of eleventh-century Spain command a Muslim army? How did a child born in the terrifying shadow of the Portuguese Inquisition open the doors of England for his oppressed brethren? How did the relationship between a leading Italian rabbi and his young non-Jewish German pupil save the Talmud from destruction and establish it as a source of wisdom for all humanity?

This lesson explores the respective dramas and triumphs of three rabbis: Shmuel Hanagid, Menasheh ben Yisrael, and Ovadiah Seforno. They provide us with insight into the historic Jewish mission of serving as “a light unto the nations,” and they teach us how to become part of this mission ourselves.

Lesson Three will highlight several Unsung Heroines

How did a clandestinely Jewish businesswoman smuggle thousands of her brethren from the clutches of the Inquisition and launch an ambitious settlement project in the Holy Land? How did a Polish rabbi’s wife change Jewish ritual practice? What profound life-lessons did a seventeenth century German Jewish entrepreneur impart via her remarkable autobiography?

This lesson delves into the experiences of three extraordinary women: Doña Gracia, Rebbetzin Bayla Katz, and Glikl of Hameln. They collectively gift us with fresh insight into the unique role of Jewish women as nurturers of their families, communities, and faith.

Lesson Four will highlight Heroes and Hostages of our people

How did a band of pirates’ capture of a ship ferrying four rabbis change the course of Jewish history? Why did the top German Talmudic sage of the thirteenth

century refuse to be released from prison?

How did a seventeenth-century hostage crisis in Ukraine unite the Jewish world for an unprecedented rescue mission?

This lesson explores the sagas of the “Four Captives”: Maharam of Rothenburg, and Rabbi Yaakov Koppel Margolis and his fellow captives from the 1648 Khmelnytskyi Massacres. Their moving stories of tragedy and bravery leave us with new insight into the foundations of Jewish unity and the extent of our responsibilities toward Jewish hostages.

“After learning about these Jewish heroes, attendees will come away with a greater sense of appreciation for their history and heritage,” says Rabbi Yitzchok Tiechtel, lead teacher of the Jewish Learning Institute in Nashville. “These stories are not defined by tragedy and suffering, but what it means to be a proud, resilient Jew.” He adds that participants will develop a deeper connection to those figures who bravely stood up for their beliefs.

Like all JLI courses, Colorful Profiles is open to adults of all ages and is geared toward every level of knowledge, including those who have no background in Hebrew or Judaism. Participants need not be affiliated with a synagogue to attend. This course was developed by The Rohr Jewish Learning Institute, which is the adult education arm of Chabad International, and its JLI classes are offered at over 1600 locations in more than 900 communities worldwide.

Chabad of Nashville is the local affiliate of the Jewish Learning Institute, and is dedicated to serving the Jewish community of Nashville and Middle Tennessee. It offers a wide range of educational, social, and spiritual programs for Jews of all backgrounds.

To register for this new course “Colorful Profiles”, go to myjli.com , and select the city of Nashville as the location you are seeking to take this groundbreaking course. For more information please call 615-646-5740 or go to chabadnashville.com •

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Holocaust survivor Laszlo Selly will speak on May 19th at Chabad of Nashville.

May in The Galleries: Featured works by John Knox, Beth Bernard, Lorna Graff and Jake Wells

The Janet Levine March Gallery will feature the work of John Knox and Beth Bernard. Knox was born in Munich (West) Germany two days before the Eagle landed in 1969. As the child of a career Army father, he travelled some before his father retired in North Carolina and spent most of his formative years growing up in a suburban environment across from a small forest. From this, came his interest in the outdoors, drawing nature along with hobbies like rock collecting, hiking and camping. His

interest in art came from his secondary education art teachers that took notice of his natural ability to render and encouraged him to pursue it.

Knox earned his Bachelor of Arts in Studio Art from the University of North Carolina at Pembroke in 1991. He later completed a Master of Fine Arts in Painting from the Savannah College of Art & Design in 1997.

He began his academic career in 2000 in Fayetteville, North Carolina as an adjunct teacher at a community college.

From 2000 to 2005, he was an instructor at Middle Tennessee State University. Since 2007, he has been a faculty member at Nashville State Community College, teaching Painting, Drawing, Introduction to Art, and Design Studio. He retains the title of Associate Professor.

Knox is best known for his largescale oil paintings of clouds. His body of work also includes figurative pieces, still-life compositions and landscapes using oil, acrylic and gouache. He works actively as a commissioned artist in the Nashville area. His artworks are part of corporate gallery and private collections along the East Coast and in private collections in Connecticut, Georgia, North Carolina, and New York.

Beth Bernard is a lifetime career psychotherapist. She started sculpting on a whim at 63 years of age and hasn’t looked back. She creates portrait and figurative sculptures working with both water-based clay to create ceramic sculptures and with Plastalina Clay that requires mold making and casting in either resin with crushed marble or with bronze. She has been featured in an episode of Tennessee Crossroads. Her pieces have been featured in multiple galleries and shows and are currently exhibited in the Church Street gallery in Murfreesboro.

The JLMG2 Gallery will feature the work of Lorna Graff, who grew up in Champaign, Illinois and has always enjoyed drawing in elementary school. When she was in high school her art teacher selected her and several other students for extracurricular oil painting classes. At the University of Illinois, she studied art history. When she worked in downtown Chicago she took sketching classes at the art institute. Since then, she has painted on a regular basis studying with Rhonda Wernick. These classes have enriched her life and that of the Jewish Community Center.

The Sig Held Gallery will feature the Jake Wells. Over more than 20 years of making art, Jake’s work has evolved to incorporate a variety of media, often reuse materials. His love of ecology and passion for education and the visual arts found their harmonious match at Turnip Green Creative Reuse in Nashville, TN, where he’s been able to give back to

the community as a teaching artist and board member since 2011. Wells grew up in Missouri, but moved to Tennessee in 2009, shortly after earning an MFA in Painting from Southern Illinois University of Carbondale.

Since 2010, Wells been an adjunct art professor at various institutions, including: Pellissippi, Volunteer & Nashville State Community Colleges, and O’More College of Design. He’s also been a community educator, leading art and reuse workshops at schools, public and private businesses, art co-ops, parks, community centers, and Nashville Public Library branches. Jake has shown nationally at galleries in Nashville, TN, Chicago, IL, St. Louis, MO, Houston, TX, and New York City.

The Senior Lounge will feature the work of Pamela Dove.

The House gallery will feature the Under One Roof collaborative exhibit.

The Exhibition Dates are May 2 -30th. The Artist reception will be held on May 14th from 6-8 pm and feature music by DJ Joseph Harris, pop up jewelry by Chandler Dezigns and Henna by Seemi.

The exhibitions are free and open to the public. For more information, contact the GJCC at 615.354-1699, Curator Carrie Mills at carrie@nashvillejcc.org, or go to www.nashvillejcc.org. •

Spotlight, by Jake Wells

Great North II, by John Knox

Flowers for Mom, by Lorna Graff

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what in some cases amounts to hundreds of millions of dollars in pro bono work. The Associated Press reports Kirkland & Ellis LLP; Allen Overy Shearman Sterling US LLP; Simpson Thacher & Bartlett LLP; and Latham & Watkins LLP would each provide $125 million in free legal work for causes including veterans’ affairs and combatting antisemitism.

For the Jewish people, adherence to the rule of law has deep and historic roots. Rabbi Shana Mackler of The Temple, says Jews are a people who are deeply rooted in law, both divine law but also civil law. “When we go back we can realize that our tradition actually begins not with some mythic hero, but with a covenant, which is a legal and moral framework that tradition believes was handed down at Sinai.” She says the Torah is a legal blueprint for building a just society and detailing accountability.

Barbara Mayden, now retired from law practice, has been a member of the American Bar Association’s House of Delegates for over 30 years and currently co-chairs the ABA’s Task Force to Combat Antisemitism. She also practiced at Skadden Arps and Willkie Farr & Gallagher, two of the firms targeted by the administration and two who struck deals. She says the executive orders take aim at the heart of the profession. “At all of these firms I would say there is a similar culture of promoting rule of law, of promoting an independent judiciary and the independence of lawyers.”

Mayden says a core value of law practice is to take a case whether or not it is popular. “That’s a basic tenet of the profession,” she says, “Especially the pro bono work you take. You do it regardless of the popularity of the cause.” For example, she says the Skadden Fellows program is designed to train new lawyers on sometimes unpopular causes.

Local attorney David Raybin, of the law firm Raybin & Weissman, agrees and says lawyers are duty bound to represent their clients, and now the larger firms are facing what he says is retribution by the

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immigrants, and mass deportations with a shoot, ready, aim approach.

My son in law is one of the talented young people who came to the United States on a student visa to study at one of our universities. After graduation, he acquired Permanent Resident status, referred to as a green card, when he was hired by Vanderbilt University Medical Center to begin his career. He is the father of my granddaughter, an American citizen. The increasingly disturbing policies of the current administration affecting even those with legal status motivated him to meet again with his immigration lawyer to be sure he was doing everything possible to expedite the next step in his immigration story. After consulting his lawyer, he prepared for a meeting with a United States immigration official. During that meeting, which had the feel of an interrogation, he mentioned our plans

president. “The attacks on these firms that, ‘We’ll take away your clients unless you repent,’ is unprecedented in our system. That you have this revenge attack on lawyers who are basically doing their job. We represent the client, and we advocate for them, but we don’t necessarily subscribe to all their beliefs.” He says the overall effect will be to deter people from acquiring the lawyers of their choosing.

Mayden says the firms who capitulated did so because the price of not giving in was just too high. “They’re very scary threats that were waved at them. As lawyers you’re going to be blocked from going into federal buildings. Blocked from access to federal officials.” She says she believes the firms were afraid of the enormity of the fiscal consequences.

But Mayden says the firms had a choice, “They could cave, which many of them did. Or they could look at this as an attack on the profession, as an attack on the rule of law. You can either acquiesce or you can fight back.” She says the executive orders are attacks on the rule of law and an overreach of federal power, “And you could choose instead, as good law firms should be able to do, to fight back.”

Some firms have fought back and sued the administration, winning injunctions. But it remains to be seen what the long-term ramifications will be. Mayden says there could be a shift in personnel as dissatisfied partners leave and go elsewhere, taking clients with them. She says there have also been some unexpected voices. “What’s been interesting and very rewarding is some of these associates at Skadden and at others have very publicly spoken up and resigned.”

Rabbi Mackler says those dissenting voices are essential to a free society. “When you have legal systems that are being challenged, or court rulings that are being ignored, that to us is a litmus test. We can see that societies that are committed to the integrity of law are the ones that will survive.”

Local attorneys say they, too, are feeling the pressure. Irwin Venick is a partner at Venick, Austin & Rosen. He says for firms that do not have national practices or are engaged in federal litigation, the

for a family vacation to Niagara Falls this summer and wondered about traveling to the Canadian side of the falls. Despite his legal status, the official warned him not to travel to Canada at this time for fear that border agents might not let him return to the US.

Changing our plans to stay in the US this summer is disappointing, but not a huge sacrifice. But the sinister backdrop to the decision is disturbing. The intimidation, harassment and fear foreign students and immigrants feel in this moment is both real and painful. Foreign students with proper student visas have been taken by masked government agents from the streets of our cities in broad daylight, and deportations of those with legal status continue without due process. As of this writing, our government is not only denying due process to many but is willing to defy Supreme Court orders to return those deported without proper cause. The government itself is violating the rule of law.

As we prepare to remember the

impact day to day is minimal. But he says there is great concern for what is happening in those bigger firms. “Those firms that have been targeted by the administration with fairly severe and probably illegal limitations on their practice.” What is most disturbing he says, is the big firms that have chosen profit over principle. “It’s a pretty major capitulation and there’s been a fair amount of writing about how this puts these firms in an ethical bind.” He adds that these agreements are being negotiated by President Trump’s personal attorney, not by the administration.

Venick says his practice, which includes nonprofit organizations that receive federal funding, is already feeling some of the trickle-down effects. “A lot of my time now is being spent with counseling them on how to deal with things on their websites that are related to the services they provide, to policies and procedures that are within their scope of operation.” He adds that those service providers with undocumented clientele have additional concerns, “How to deal with the imminent and feared approach of ICE and the police in terms of protecting their patients, protecting their privacy and not putting themselves in jeopardy.”

For immigration attorney Greg Siskind, the administration’s approach to immigration in this second term is not entirely new. And he says this time around both sides are better prepared. “The last time most immigration lawyers didn’t have any federal court room experience. They either handled things administratively or they went to immigration court which is not federal court.”

Siskind says his experience with the first Trump administration, and with Covid, provided a steep learning curve. He says the current use of “invasion language” is an effort to avoid the law. “They’re trying to do things that bypass due process that people are entitled to, or judicial review by the courts, or the Administrative Procedures Act.”

The result, says Siskind, is another spate of lawsuits. “Even in the last couple days, there have been cases in Nashville of students who’ve had their status reversed, and there have been a

Holocaust during our community Yom HaShoah service and commemorate the 80th anniversary of the liberation of Auschwitz, I have a new understanding and appreciation for the actions of the Righteous Among the Nations who helped Jews in resistance to the injustice of a ruthless and vicious Nazi Regime.

We remember the Holocaust with the words, “Never Again.” We teach our children to be upstanders, not bystanders, if they witness bigotry and injustice. The Final Solution of the Holocaust did not happen overnight. It was a several year slide toward that ultimate atrocity. We remember the Holocaust with determination that the inhumanity of the Nazis in denying basic human rights should never happen again.

We remember the Holocaust and know that once one group is demonized and dehumanized by a government, any group can face the same threat. Jews were not the only ones targeted. Perhaps that is part of what the righteous understood.

ton of them in Memphis.” He says this is an example of the actions ICE is taking toward deporting foreign students. There are other more detailed examples. “ICE is combing police records, but police records don’t record someone’s immigration status, they just record their name and their information. We think they’re just catching people by their name being the same as someone in the same geographic area and making the assumption that this must be the same person because they have this foreign sounding name and they’re in the same area.” Siskind says many people are being misidentified, leading to several hundred cases being filed nationally, and his firm is preparing to file several as well.

Siskind says all these issues are in addition to his regular immigration practice, and many of his clients who are naturalized citizens are worried. “They don’t know whether the government will abide by the rule of law. Will they be able to go back and undo my naturalization?”

According to both Siskind and Raybin, the uncertainty surrounding immigration cases is part and parcel of the overall uncertainty permeating the legal system and the practice of law. Raybin says another top concern is the speed with which the changes are happening. “Now you’re having a wholesale attack on the checks and balances very, very quickly. It is destabilizing. I think government works best and society works best when things are predictable.”

Siskind is also concerned about the use of the rule of law as a means of combatting antisemitism, “I feel like in a lot of cases the Jewish community is being used to advance all kinds of other political goals. And one day that can really come back to haunt the community where we end up getting blamed for sending America down this path.”

Rabbi Mackler says it is precisely the belief that the law is sacred that has helped the Jewish people survive. “As a people living in diaspora, we have relied on that rule of law to ensure our safety and our dignity. We know that when justice systems are fair and independent the Jewish communities around the world can flourish.” •

If they did not try to help the Jews, they could be next on the list to be doomed.

Many of us are familiar with the famous teaching of Rabbi Hillel, “If I am not for myself, who will be for me? If I am only for myself, what am I? And if not now, when?” This teaching represents the hierarchy of responsibility. We must take care of ourselves and our family first, but if we only think about ourselves, we are missing an essential element in the lesson of human responsibility.

As we remember the past, do we have the courage to be like the righteous now, in this time and place? Will we stand up for those who are not necessarily the same as us, as the righteous did during the Holocaust? Can we ignore the danger before us and think we can outrun the inevitable? Can we deny those in need now and believe unjust actions won’t turn on us in the future?

If not now, it will be too late.

To Learn more about immigrant rights and how you can help others: www.nilc.org •

Learn more about the Jewish Federation of Greater Nashville at www.jewishnashville.org

A Rabbi and a Doctor Discuss Leadership

By RABBI MARK SCHIFTAN AND DR. FRANK BOEHM

Frank: Mark, while there have been numerous criteria listed as emblematic of what it takes to be a leader, I have, over the years, concluded that there are only three real qualities that help define what it takes to be an effective and successful leader.

The first involves a high emotional quotient.

The second is a display of vision.

The third is that of a willingness to reward.

Let me explain.

Emotional quotient (EQ), a sibling of Intelligent quotient (IQ), refers to the ability to perceive, understand, and manage one’s own emotions as well as the emotions of others and includes the display of awareness and empathy with others as well as an ability to openly communicate effectively. Vision is the ability to accurately see and understand what is happening and to then take measures to mitigate or solve, the evolving issue. This involves an ability to “Think outside the box.” A willingness to reward is the act of giving others the credit for solving problems, initiating programs, or managing difficult problems.

Mark, October 7, 2023, changed everything for Israel and the Diaspora and because of this, our world is in desperate need of effective leadership. In particular, we need innovative leadership to deal with the rise in Jew hatred that we are now witnessing, coupled with the increased need for defense of Israel from its enemies. What is your opinion on this need for effective leadership on these issues?

Mark: Frank, I am in total agreement with you on these three requirements for effective leadership. For the moment,

I will speak to the vision required for a successful leader.

Vision requires the ability to see beyond the horizon, to realize that things are always evolving, and organizations must acknowledge that the landscape is constantly changing and adapting. To lead successfully and effectively, those in leadership roles must be courageous enough to respond to those emerging trends, many of which are beyond our ability to control. The effective leader must have the courage and the vision to meet the challenges that rise up to confront them.

To your point, October 7th shook our American Jewish community to its core. We now face an antisemitism we thought was a distant memory. We never imagined the vehemence and virulence by which it erupted on college campuses and on city streets.

We are now under constant threats of violence, intimidation, and harassment. We thought, perhaps naively, that never again truly meant never, ever again.

We were wrong.

What is required now is a serious reexamination of the priorities of Jewish communal leadership. This begins with a dramatic refocusing of the priorities of our vision.

If vision requires courage to make crucial changes necessary to a changing reality, the question for us is whether Jewish communal leaders currently possess that degree of courage. One can honor the past models of organizational life while simultaneously preparing to assess a changing landscape with honesty and adaptability.

For example, when central Jewish fundraising institutions continue to not allow individual donors to direct their donations, people inevitably do so anyway, by giving directly to those organi-

Gordon JCC Adult Program Happenings:

TGIT – May 2025

May 1st – Alexis Michelle Tischler

Back by popular demand, singer/songwriter Alexis Michelle Tischler returns with her dynamic personality, wonderful voice and engaging songwriting.

Lunch – Tomato soup, sandwiches, chips. Birthday cake and ice cream.

May 8th – Andrea Czspruiz

Continuing our ongoing Healthy Aging Series, physical therapist, Andrea Czsrpruiz returns once again with her knowledge and informative sessions. Andrea is a physical therapist who believes in a proactive approach to healthy aging. She provides individualized physical therapy and wellness services.

Lunch – Salmon, salad, sides and dessert.

May 15th – Brett Fromson

Back by popular demand, musician Brett Fromson specializes in music of the 50s and 60s, Elvis, classic country, Motown, etc. If you want to be entertained, be sure not to miss this show.

Lunch – Chicken, salad, sides and dessert.

zations they feel most suit their philanthropic priorities. Some of the largest contributions now given by large donors bypass the system of blind communal giving. My sense is that this is even more true for the emerging generations of Jews.

Does our Jewish communal leadership have the courage and the vision to recognize this trend, and make a bold and courageous change? Or will it continue to operate in the same way it has for decades?

The main goals of our communal leadership should be the protection and security of Jewish institutions and individuals, combined with a vigorous defense against antisemitic and anti-Zionist actions and attitudes. Nothing is more important than these two crucial priorities. We need leadership that is capable of both recognizing and responding to these concerns.

Frank, how do you think emotional intelligence affects or enhances Jewish communal leadership? How does its absence, by contrast, affect it adversely?

Frank: EQ is a critical factor of effective leadership. A person who has an outgoing and pleasant personality does not, by itself, qualify in being labeled as someone with a high EQ. It is the ability of that individual to also understand his or her own emotions and how to deal with them as well as being able to understand the emotions of those he or she is dealing with, thereby being sensitive to what others are feeling and going though. An individual with a high EQ can do more than merely listen to what is being said but can also read the energy, mood, and body language of the individual speaking the words. That quality allows for a potential leader to understand others and to allow followers to feel comfortable in following the paths outlined by the leader.

We need these types of leaders as they are the ones who can best help us focus on what is truly needed in our Jewish community. That type of leadership requires considerable courage to make necessary changes based on the words of those who have expressed criticism of our current way of doing things. It will not be an easy leadership process, but it is a necessary one. The question today, is do we have these three qualities of leadership in our Jewish community to make the kind of changes needed to effectively combat Jew hatred and support of the State of Israel. I believe we do. Mark, what is your opinion?

Mark: Frank, I think the jury is still out as to whether the boldness required to recruit and engage those leaders exist. It relates to the third component of your three pillars of leadership. There is the necessary requirement of courageous vision, coupled with a second, strong emotional skill of listening and responding to a variety of ideas, including those that are critical or disagreeable. The third element of successful leadership is the ability to recognize and reward those with whom one serves. I believe what you mean is the recognition and complement expressed to one’s colleagues for their contributions to the articulated goals of a given leader and the organization they all collectively serve.

May 22nd – CenterWell Senior Primary Care

Health Care program will be provided by CenterWell. CenterWell is an integrated senior primary care, home health, and pharmacy services. They are a dedicated, convenient care that tailors to individual health needs.

Lunch – Lasagna, salad, sides and dessert

May 29th – Zeta the Vantriloquist

A Nashville native, 14-year-old Zeta Kenner is a ventriloquist, singer, actress, and dancer. Zeta has starred, sung, and danced in such musicals as Annie, Oliver, Jungle Book, Bugsy Malone, Seussical and many more. She has displayed her ventriloquism skills at school talent nights, church events and performed with Crystal Gayle at “Variety on Main” at the Franklin Theater. In July 2024 she performed at the International Vent Haven Ventriloquist Convention and placed 2nd in the Junior open mic contest.

Lunch – Loaded Baked Potatoes, salad, sides and dessert. •

With a high EQ, a leader will allow followers to feel a sense of pride in resulting accomplishments and a feeling of loyalty to the leader who gave them praise and credit. A leader who is confident and secure in his or her own skin, understands that the world will recognize that it is the leader who deserves much of the credit for change and positive effects. As a result, followers feel rewarded and develop loyalty to the leader and leaders feel rewarded and proud, resulting in a classical win-win situation.

Here I would emphasize a different aspect of reward: It is the freedom given to a Jewish communal leader by a Board of Trustees, in this extraordinary time, to make the difficult choices necessary to bring about fundamental changes in the organizational structure. Do our communal institutions have the courageous vision, and the emotional intelligence, to allow our emerging leaders to effectively do their jobs without limitation or fear of failure? Do we have the wisdom to look for a different type of leader, with a distinct set of skills, to effectively respond to the crises of the current moment?

The Book of Esther suggests that unique leadership is required “for such a time as this.” Are we up to the challenge of the moment, at a time such as this? •

Rabbi Mark Schiftan can be reached at mschiftan@aol.com

Dr. Frank Boehm can be reached at frank.boehm@vumc.org

NJFF: It Takes a Village

By FRAN BRUMLIK

T

hey say it takes a village to raise a child, if that is correct it takes a big city to create a Jewish Film Festival. We are grateful to have dedicated volunteers who spend hours previewing movies and submitting written evaluations of the films so that we can present the best in film that explore contemporary Jewish life.

Screener Chair Roberta Bergman has been spending long hours collating film evaluations and preparing spread sheets so that the co-directors Laurie Eskind and Loretta Saff, along with festival director Fran Brumlik can select the 2025 season. We are grateful to Roberta and her dedicated volunteers for making our work easier.

Thank you to our wonderful volunteers!

Robert Baum

Michal Eskenazi Becker

Mark Bergman

Roberta Bergman

Jody Dobrin

Michael Dobrin

Linda Kartoz-Doochin

Michael Doochin

Donna Eskind

Gil Fox and Terry Minnen

Mickey Goorman

Jackie Harrison

Ellen Hirsch

Marilyn Krick

Ted Krick

Arlene Lapp

Barry Levin

Joyce Levin

Libby Salberg

Rabbi Michael Shulman

Rabbi Joshua Kullock •

Ten Reasons Why Learning to Swim Will Be the Best Thing You Ever Did

By AMY SCHWARTZ, GORDON JCC SWIM LESSONS COORDINATOR

1.Get in Shape

Swimming is one of the best forms of exercise—low impact and joint-friendly while building flexible strength. A well-executed stroke stretches and strengthens your body and can even help correct muscular imbalances. A smooth crawl can work wonders for a healthy spine.

2. Boost Heart and Lung Health

Swimming strengthens your cardiovascular system and improves your heart health while reducing the risk of heart disease and stroke. It also trains your body to use oxy -

gen more efficiently, supporting overall wellness.

3. Sharpen Your Brain

Intentional practice of any skill strengthens brain connections. Swimming coordinates body and mind, offering

a meditative rhythm that relieves stress and enhances mental clarity. Staying focused on technique keeps your brain flexible and engaged.

4. Save a Life

Drowning is the leading cause of death for children under five and second for those under sixteen. Learning to swim can prevent tragedy—for yourself or someone else. Children with autism are especially at risk, and programs like the Nashville Dolphins provide excellent resources for special needs swimmers. Consider lifeguard training— The J even covers the cost if you commit to a few shifts a week.

5. The Planet Is Mostly Water

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Over 70% of Earth is covered in water—and so are you! Comfort in the water opens up more of the world to explore. Oceans are vital ecosystems and essential to our global health. Feeling at home in the water helps us connect more deeply with our environment.

6. Adventure Awaits

From snorkeling and surfing to scuba diving and freediving, water sports become more fun and accessible as your swimming comfort grows. Whether you’re planning a vacation or just want to meet new people, swimming is a great way to prepare and connect.

7. Career Readiness

Swimming skills open doors. The Coast Guard, Navy, and EMS services all need strong swimmers. Dive professionals, rescue divers, and underwater technicians are in demand. Even here at The J, we’re hiring swimmers to teach and support our aquatics programs.

8. Challenge Yourself

Swimming can be as competitive or personal as you make it. Join a swim team, train for a triathlon, or simply commit to your own practice. There’s great satisfaction in setting goals, tracking progress, and pushing yourself toward improvement.

9. Teach Others

The Gordon JCC’s Starfish programs can equip you to teach kids or adults how to swim. It’s a powerful way to give back to your community. You can also support swim teams like the Tiger Sharks or the Nashville Dolphins. We’re always looking for passionate people to join our team.

10. Just Have Fun

There’s nothing more refreshing on a hot day than jumping into cool water. Floating, swimming, and playing in the water is a joyful, freeing experience at any age.

About the Author:

Amy Schwartz has been swimming at The Gordon JCC for 11 years and teaching here since 2023. You’ll find her poolside most days, coordinating swim lessons and promoting water safety. Want to get her talking? Just ask about scuba diving.

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Carrie Mills

Referred to as a “Renaissance Woman,” Brooklyn born Carrie Mills is an artist, stylist, fashion designer and illustrator, singer/ songwriter and columnist. At 16, she was awarded a fashion design / art history scholarship to study fashion at the Parson’s School of Design and The New School. She went on to design for Anne Klein Design Studios in Manhattan and eventually branched out designing handbags and business products. Her many muses and forms of expressions include songwriting, singing, drawing, photography, collage, jewelry design, fashion stylist, writing, and pet portraiture. Upon moving to Nashville, she designed a line of vests that were sought after and worn by numerous country and pop music stars, including Ringo Starr.

The Tennessean newspaper and Nashville Woman magazine have both written feature articles on her work.

Her fashion illustrations and fine artwork, which include animal portraiture, continues to be shown in several Nashville galleries and can be found in numerous private collections. Her jewelry designs can be found at Nashville ‘Darlin’ and the Gordon JCC gallery showcases. Carrie created a successful recurring Fashion Camp for children at the Gordon JCC and continues to run Art labs for the Frist Center for the Visual Arts to coincide with their Fashion Exhibits.

For the past 21 years, she has been the curator for the art galleries at the Gordon JCC in Nashville.

Her work as a fashion stylist and art director with her photographer son, Garrett Mills can be found: Instagram: @carrie.mills

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She’s an essential part of our team and the friendly face you’ll see at the front desk. Jamie brings warmth, kindness, and a genuine passion for helping others. She always says that working here doesn’t feel like work—because we truly care about our patients.

Beyond her warm welcome, Jamie also plays a vital role in overseeing our daily operations. From coordinating patient care to ensuring every detail of customer service runs smoothly, she keeps our clinic running like a well-oiled machine. Her attention to detail and heart for service make a difference every single day.

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Exercise and physical well-being are cornerstones of life at Blakeford. Residents who spent years empowering others now empower themselves through a range of activities designed to enhance health and vitality. From state-of-the-art weight machines to Tai Chi and water aerobics, opportunities to stay fit are plentiful. This focus extends beyond physical activities, encompassing delicious meals and wellness programs that ensure residents live their best lives every day.

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Celebrating Women in Business & Our Roots in the Jewish Community

In 1979, Shirley Zeitlin—a trailblazing businesswoman and proud member of Nashville’s Jewish community—founded a real estate company grounded in integrity,

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Lifecycles

B’rit Mitzvah

Benjamin Abe Pargh

Benjamin Abe Pargh will become a Bar Mitzvah on Saturday, May 10, at 11 a.m. at The Temple. He was born on January 22, 2012 in Nashville. His parents are Lana and Franklin Pargh. His grandparents are Maria and Bernard Pargh of Nashville and Dora and Gregory Sorin of Nashville.

A seventh grader at University School of Nashville, Benjamin loves basketball, lacrosse, golf, and just about any outdoor activity. He also enjoys traveling, playing video games, and spending time with his favorite people — especially his brother and family. Benjamin has a big love for life and those around him.

For his Bar Mitzvah, Benjamin is raising funds for United Hatzalah of Israel — a volunteer-based emergency response organization that provides fast, free medical aid to anyone in need, regardless of background or beliefs. Like an “Uber for emergencies,” United Hatzalah dispatches trained volunteers to the scene in under three minutes using

GPS and ambucycles. To support this life-saving work, Benjamin is hosting a special music night featuring Nashville singer-songwriters.

Sophie Nicole Hammond

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mom, and doing pretty much anything with her friends.

Sophie Nicole Hammond will become a Bat Mitzvah on Saturday, May 17, at 11 a.m. at The Temple. She was born on May 12, 2012, in New York City. Her parents are Liz and Kenny Hammond. Her grandparents are Sandy and Mark Hammond of Louisville, Ky., Honey Vertreese of Nashville and Dan Washburn of Enid, Okla.

A seventh grader at Harpeth Hall, Sophie has been a gymnast since birth. She spends many hours per week perfecting her routines as a member of a gymnastics team, and she spends much of her non-team time on a trampoline or upside down for one reason or another. Sophie adores her twin little sisters Poppy and Rosie, alternating between teaching them stunts and teaching them bad habits. She enjoys visiting escape rooms and playing word games with her dad, watching scary movies with her

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For her mitzvah project, Sophie is collecting toys and books for the Head Start Program of Nashville and Davidson County. If members of the Temple community have any age-appropriate toys or books for preschool-age children that they no longer need, please consider donating them to this wonderful cause. Sophie will be collecting at The Temple prior to Sunday School on May 4.

Hannah and Lana Hoffman

Boy Scout, cheering on the Alabama Crimson Tide, and eating chocolate. For Max’s mitzvah project, he is hosted a hike in Percy Warner Park on April 27 to collect funds to help those affected by Hurricane Helene in the mountains of Western North Carolina-a very special place to him.

Honors

Barri Bernstein

Hannah and Lana Hoffman will become B’nai Mitzvah on Saturday, May 17, at 10:30 a.m. at Congregation Micah. They are the children of Lizzy and Brian Hoffman, and the grandchildren of Donna Hoffman, Barbara and Robert Crain, Jay and Dulce Hoffman, and Jim and Nancy Randall.

Both are enrolled at Donelson Christian Academy with Lana in eighth grade and Hannah in sixth grade. Lana enjoys cheer and track, while Hannah enjoys softball.

Susannah Ilene Echlov

Barri Bernstein, executive director of the Tennessee Bar Foundation, has been named a 2024 Hall of Fame Honoree by the Tennessee Justice Center.

Ellen Goldring

Ellen Goldring has been elected a member of the National Academy of Education. She is vice dean of Vanderbilt Peabody College of education and human development, Patricia and Rodes Hart Professor, and professor of educational leadership and policy.

In recent years, her scholarship has offered important insights into the roles of assistant principals and on school district and central office redesign for building and sustaining principal pipelines and career pathways to effective school leadership.

Susannah Ilene Echlov will become a Bat Mitzvah on Saturday May 24, at 10:30 a.m. at Congregation Micah. She is the child of Elliot Echlov and Alexa Claremont-Echlov, the sister of Emilie, and the grandchild of Ilene and Edward (z”l) Claremont of Nashville, and Marilyn and Stephen (z”l) Echlov of Davie, Fla.

A seventh grader at Head Magnet Middle School, Susannah dances Hip Hop, Jazz, and Contemporary at the Bellevue Performing Arts Center, rides horses with the Girl Scout Council of Middle Tennessee, and is an active Cadette Girl Scout working on her Silver Award. She also enjoys reading, traveling, music, experimenting in the kitchen, and spending time with the family’s rescue cat, Thomas and rescue bunny, Flopsy.

Susannah will be raising money for the Tourette’s Association of America. As someone who lives with Tourette’s Syndrome, Susannah wants to raise awareness in the community about the needs of children and adolescents who live with tic disorders and Tourette’s Syndrome.

Milton Alexander “Max” Haber

“Ellen Goldring is an exemplary scholar and leader and well deserving of induction into the National Academy of Education. The intellectual rigor of her work and its profound impact on education policy and practice make her a remarkable addition to this esteemed organization,” said Camilla Benbow, Patricia and Rodes Hart Dean of Education and Human Development.

Obituaries

Don Louie Cinzori

Condolences to the family of Don Louie Cinzori, who died on March 30. He was the father of Heather Light (Mitchell); grandfather of Zoe and Gabe Light.

Tributes may be made in Don’s memory to Congregation Micah.

Anne Shirley Evans

Condolences to the family of Anne Shirley Evans, who died on March 31. She was the wife of Larry Evans; mother of Todd Evans (Christina), Stacey Kopelman (Mitchell), and Allison Srochi (David); grandmother of Jared and Justin Kopelman; Morgan, Jackson and Ansley Evans; and Lilly and Ryan Srochi. Tributes may be made in Anne’s memory to Alive Hospice or Congregation Micah.

Milton Alexander “Max” Haber will become a Bar Mitzvah on Saturday, May 31, at 11 a.m. at The Temple. He was born on April 27, 2012, in Nashville.. His parents are Ellen and Matthew Haber. Max’s grandparents are Sherry and Griffith Haber of Nashville, and Mary Jane and Philip Duke of Nashville.

A sixth grader at University School of Nashville, Max loves playing soccer, baseball, and the saxophone, being a

Grete Glick

Condolences to the family of Grete Glick, who died on March 18. She was the mother of Leslie Goldberg (Michael), Stephen Glick (Suzanne), Debbie Glick (Richard Kirschner), and Terry Glick (Michael Strauss); grandmother of Mack Goldberg (Townley), Perri and Jess Goldberg, Sarah Glick (Ryan Carvalho), Jeffrey Glick (Susan), Emily Glick, Adam Kirschner (Kate), Kayla Kirschner (James Dalton), Seth Kirschner (Allyson); great grandmother

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Celebrating Excellence: Mari-Lynn Latta Named AOAP’s Competitor Aquatic Professional

By RACHEL CLARK

Tof the Month

he Gordon Jewish Community Center is proud to celebrate a major milestone in the career of our own Mari- Lynn Latta, who was recently named Competitor Aquatic Professional of the Month by the Association of Aquatic Professionals (AOAP). This prestigious national recognition spotlights one outstanding professional each month whose dedication and contributions have made a meaningful impact in the field of aquatics. We can think of no one more deserving.

Mari-Lynn has been a cornerstone of our JCC for years, serving as Director of Aquatics and most recently stepping into the role of Senior Director of Programs. In this new leadership role, she continues to oversee aquatics while also guiding our summer camp and fitness departments. Her promotion reflects the trust and admiration she has earned across our staff, community, and the broader field of aquatics.

A Nashville native and lifelong advocate for community wellness, MariLynn began her career with the YMCA of Middle Tennessee while earning her degree in Exercise Science from Middle Tennessee State University. She later brought her talents to McMinnville Parks and Recreation, where she served as Wellness and Aquatics Coordinator, overseeing not just aquatic programming, but also fitness initiatives and summer camps. Her multifaceted experience made her a natural fit for the JCC, where she has continued to expand her leadership and influence.

Mari-Lynn is deeply committed to cultivating the next generation of aquatic

professionals. Since becoming an American Red Cross Lifeguarding Instructor in 2019, she has trained and mentored countless lifeguards—many of whom are high school and college students just entering the workforce. She is especially passionate about coaching high-performing aquatics leaders and educating both staff and community members on the importance of water safety.

Her work, however, doesn’t stop at the edge of the pool. Over the past year, Mari-Lynn has played a significant role in AOAP’s Diversity, Equity, Inclusion, and Justice (DEIJ) Committee. She continues to advocate for more equitable and inclusive programming, striving to ensure that every child—regardless of background or geography—has access to quality swim instruction and a safe, welcoming environment.

In addition to her work in aquatics, Mari-Lynn is an active voice for inclusion in outdoor spaces and recreation. When she’s not at the JCC or a swim meet, she can often be found supporting her son, Atticus, at hockey tournaments around the East Coast. She also finds time to enjoy kayaking, rock climbing, and ballet—a testament to her well-rounded approach to wellness and life.

We are honored to have Mari-Lynn on our team. Her integrity, passion, and vision enrich every program she touches. Her recent recognition by AOAP is not only a personal achievement, but a reflection of the caliber of leadership we are fortunate to have at the Gordon JCC.

Mazel Tov, Mari-Lynn, on this wellearned honor. Your work continues to inspire us all. •

Kvetch in the City

By CARRIE MILLS

Once upon a time, in a fearless world, people used to plaster their car with bumper stickers. In an instant you knew more about the person who owned that car then you may ever want to know. It was yesteryear’s version of social media. Yesteryear’s tweet, meme, and scroll all rolled into one stuck onto your most precious possession, your automobile. And it was fun, and okay. No worries that someone was going to wreck your car or road rage you for broadcasting for all the world to see, your thoughts, humor, religious beliefs, leisure time preferences and every campsite you’ve ever visited. And it was even okay if it was a political preference. I seriously think no one really cared what people chose to plaster on the back of their auto. It was all fun and games and a good read at a red light.

age with zero ability to remember more than one sentiment at a time. All I was left with was the one sticker that read, “I’m retired, go around me.”

Suddenly, I found myself at once yearning for the good old bumper sticker days, and to be a retired person like the car person in front of me that people should go around.

Since that bumper sticker day sighting, I can’t seem to get that car out of my head. All I can think of now is what my bumper stickers would say, dare I have the nerve to adhere one or multiples onto my car’s rear end.

I think I’d start with:

I’ve turned Complaining into an Art Form.

Here is a list of others that come to mind:

Please Leave me Alone. I’m fine.

I Choose to be Single, What’s Your Excuse?

If you’re Driving an Audi, I’ll Trade Cars.

Looking back, I think it all changed in the last election. And the reason I believe that is because, suddenly, I noticed it was a rare sighting to see a bumper sticker at all. In 2016 bumper stickers were still going strong, even if they were mostly political and less “I visited Yosemite and lived to make it out.”

Which was why, the other day, I was stunned into attention when I sat behind a car waiting for the light to change and still did not have enough time to read all the stickers adhered to the back end. Immediately, I knew it was a relic of a person, maybe someone not on social media at all, or perhaps the last person standing, old hippie. Unfortunately, I was too late to pull out a pen to write some of them down, and my brain is now at an

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of Monroe, Natalie, Andrew, Ethan, Connor, Eli, Simon and Olivia.

Tributes may be made in Grete’s

I Changed my Mind, Honk if you’re Single.

If you Win the Lottery, Please Feel Free to Share.

I Raised a Great Son; I did Something Right.

Worry, and STILL be Happy. Honk if you Care to Learn from My Mistakes.

If You’re for Peace, Don’t Honk, Act Accordingly.

And so, I did a little googling and found a business online where you can create your very own personalized bumper stickers!

Looks like I’m in luck! Goodbye social media. If you want to know what I’m up to, you’ll just have to get stuck behind me at a red light. And since I ain’t retired yet, don’t bother going ‘round me. •

memory to Congregation Ahavath Israel (P.O. Box 892, Liberty, NY 12754) or Congregation Micah.

Kenneth Jacobs

Condolences to the family of Kenneth Jacobs who died on April 12. Kenneth was the husband of Ellen Jacobs, and the father of Meg Jacobs Flax (Samuel), Tommy Jacobs, and Billy (Erica) Jacobs; the grandfather of Caroline Flax Ganz (Michael), Andrew Flax, Ellen Flax, Annie Jacobs, Olivia Jacobs, Daniel Jacobs, Sarah Jacobs and Joshua Jacobs; brother of Sylvia Shepard; uncle to many nieces and nephews. •

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Homeowner Association and Condominium Management Full Service and Financial Management Property Management since 1968 615-255-8531 www.ghertner.com

PSYCHOTHERAPY & COUNSELING

IRA HELDERMAN, PhD, LPC Psychotherapy for Individuals, Adolescents, Couples and Families nashvillepsychotherapyandcounseling. com Please contact: 615-473-4815 or ira.p.helderman@vanderbilt.edu

REAL ESTATE

FRANKLIN PARGH 615-351-7333

franklin.pargh@compass.com

LANA PARGH 615-504-2685 lana.pargh@compass.com www.pargh.com Instagram: @theparghteam

JESSICA AVERBUCH Broker/ Owner Zeitlin Sotheby’s International Realty 615-294-9880 jessica.averbuch@zeitlin.com

KAROL FARAGALLI 615-289-3359 karolfaragalli@gmail.com

LORNA M. GRAFF Broker, GRI, CRS, ABR 615-351-5343 lorna.graff@zeitlin.com www.lornagraff.com

SETH HOFFMAN

Associate Broker 615-351-2150 seth@sethhoffmannashvillehomes.com

NAN SPELLER

Broker, GRI, ABR 615-973-1117 nanspeller2014@gmail.com

Nashville: 615.383.0183 Franklin: 615.794.0833 zeitlin.com

JACOB KUPIN, REALTOR HAYLEY LEVY KUPIN, REALTOR 615-281-9035

Jacob@TheKupinGroup.com Hayley@TheKupinGroup.com www.TheKupinGroup.com We’ve got your back!

GREG ANSEL, REALTOR® Phone/Text: 615-815-6405 Email: GregAnsel@kw.com “Let’s Get Moving!”

Jackie Roth Karr, REALTOR® ABR, CRS

JackieKarr@gmail.com

JackieKarr.com Mobile: 615-330-9779 Office: 615-463-3333

SPORTING GOODS

TEAM NASHVILLE Your Running/Walking Swimming Headquarters 3205 West End Ave. Nashville, TN 37203 615-383-0098

TRAVEL SERVICES

Expedia Cruise Ship Centers A Full Service Travel Agency Alan Cooper: Office: 615-454-6439 www.expediacruises.com/AlanCooper 7081 B Hwy 70 S / Kroger Shopping Ctr.

TREE SERVICES

Preserving the Natural Beauty of Trees and Shrubs. Specializing in the care of shade and ornamental trees and shrubs for residential and commercial properties. Serving Nashville since 1978. 615-373-4342 www.druidtree.com

Seniors and Post Hospital Care