The Observer Vol. 90 No. 8 – August 2025

Jewish OBSERVER

Shalom, Nashville

By JUDY ALPERIN

My quest to learn as much as I can—quickly—about Jewish Nashville began the moment I landed at BNA.

The first lesson I learned: Southern hospitality is everything it’s rumored to be.

Jewish Nashville truly understands the meaning of Shalom. I’ve received such a warm welcome and feel incredibly fortunate to be meeting so many people who are generously sharing their insights and experiences with me.

I want to hear your stories. Please feel free to reach out: judy@ jewishnashville.org.

My second lesson: Always carry an umbrella! Seriously though, I do appreciate how beautifully green Tennessee is from all the precipitation.

The Nashville community is a remarkably special place. It might not always be apparent in the bustle of day-to-day life but take it from someone seeing it with fresh eyes— the warmth and openness to Jewish life here is not something to take for granted. Sadly, it’s not the norm across the country. I’m looking forward to proudly sharing Nashville’s unique spirit as I connect with colleagues nationwide.

Our patriarch Abraham taught us about the tent of meeting—the idea of throwing open the tent flaps to welcome others in. The Jewish Federation of Greater Nashville is an extension of that tent: a welcoming, inclusive central address for Jewish life, where all are encouraged to participate.

There’s a song by Stealer’s Wheel from 1972, “Stuck in the Middle with You,” that’s been covered more than 35 times across a wide range of genres. That diversity of interpretation says something powerful: people from very different places and perspectives are seeking common ground.

Finding comfort in the middle isn’t easy. It requires a willingness

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Nashville Holds Hate Accountable in Landmark Civil Rights Conviction

By BARBARA DAB

ACanadian member of a neo-Nazi group was found guilty last month of misdemeanor assault and civil rights intimidation after he attacked a man last summer in downtown Nashville. The attack came after members of the Goyim Defense League, a white supremacist and antisemitic group, descended on Nashville in July 2024. During their time in town, the group demonstrated outside of West End Synagogue, disrupted Metro Council meetings, and marched down Broadway carrying hate filled banners and signs.

The convictions are being hailed as a victory for the city, according to Metro Council member Jacob Kupin (District 19), whose district includes downtown. “Nashville is showing that we’re going to

hold people like this accountable. We’re not going to tolerate what I believe the mayor called, ‘terror tourism.’” He says Nashville’s high profile is what attracts these types of hate groups but is hopeful the convictions send a clear message. “It’s heartening to see how quickly, albeit government quickly, we’ve responded.”

The Jewish community is also pleased

with the outcome. Judy Alperin, CEO of The Jewish Federation of Greater Nashville, says she is happy to see the levers of the justice system used to both enforce existing laws, and to hopefully set a new precedent. “We are happy to see law enforcement and the courts working together, as they should, to combat antisemitism and hate in all its forms,” she says, “While we support everyone’s right to free speech, it is clear Nashville is a city where inciting violence against Jews or any other group is unwelcome.” The attack by Ryan McCann occurred in a parking lot downtown. The victim was Jewish and said he was hit and kicked while others in the hate group watched. Judge Dan Eisenstein was present during some of the trial and says comments by the defendant were

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Our Community, Our Future: It’s Time to Meet the Moment

By JACOB KLEINROCK AND ARLENE AVERBUCH, 2025 ANNUAL CAMPAIGN CO-CHAIRS,

The story of Nashville’s Jewish community is one of vibrancy, of growth, and of a warm, welcoming spirit that embraces newcomers and lifelong residents alike.

From the splashes at the Gordon JCC pool emanating from senior water aerobics to the joyful sounds of children in our schools, we have built something truly special here in Middle Tennessee.

We are proud to co-chair the 2025 Annual Campaign for the Jewish Federation of Greater Nashville. We are filled with both immense pride and a profound sense of urgency. This year, as you likely have seen, we are setting an ambitious goal: to raise $3 million. This represents a 20% increase from last year’s campaign, and it is a number we did not arrive at lightly. It is a number born out of necessity.

Nashville’s Jewish community continues to grow at an unprecedented pace. The Jewish Nashville of today is diverse and includes people from around the

world, as well as legacy families. From West to East Nashville, from Franklin to Murfreesboro, this growth means our needs have also grown and changed right along with the community.

In addition, we all know the shadows of antisemitism are lengthening. On college campuses, online, and in the streets, this ancient hatred has found new voices both abroad and here at home. We have witnessed Nazis marching down Broadway, demonstrating in front of West End Synagogue, and disrupting Metro Council meetings. To be a Jew in 2025 is to live with a renewed sense of vigilance.

Our spirit is strong, and we must meet that fighting spirit with increased resources. This year, more than ever, it is important we all commit to achieving our goal with renewed vigor and dedication to all our community faces today, and what we hope for our future. It is up to all of us to ensure we continue to care for each other and to prioritize our security. We deserve to worship, congregate, and celebrate all of life’s milestones peacefully and with joy.

Together we can continue building a safe, secure, vibrant Jewish community. We are asking you to consider increasing your previous gift by 20%. This increase sends a clear message that the safety and future of Jewish Nashville is non-negotiable.

If you have not given previously, please consider how you can support our community now and into the future. Your generosity fuels every part of our shared mission. Federation ensures that the areas of Jewish life that need help the most get it quickly and fairly, both here in Nashville and abroad.

A significant portion of our campaign directly supports our brothers and sisters in Israel, providing a lifeline of solidarity and strength. Locally, your dollars are the engine behind everything we do: combating the poison of antisemitism through education and advocacy, enriching Jewish life with cultural programs, ensuring our synagogues and community buildings are secure, and inspiring the next generation with a love for their heritage.

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Erin Wides Joins Federation Team,

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Community Mourns Annette Schaffer Eskind

The Nashville Jewish community is mourning the loss of Annette Schaffer Eskind, 97, who died on July 13. Annette was a giant in our community both individually, and with her husband Irwin, z”l.

Annette was a civic leader, social worker, and public-school advocate.. From 1956 through 1980, She was a caseworker at Jewish Family Service (JFS) of Nashville, becoming case work supervisor from 1980 through 1990. She found this work very rewarding, especially with the placement of immigrant eastern European and Russian Jewish families into the Nashville community.

“Annette was casework supervisor when I began my employment at Jewish Family Service in December 1982,” said Teri Sogol. “She was an incredible mentor and role model providing guidance and support. It quickly became very clear to me how important the work of the agency was to her. She had a no-nonsense way about her. But I thrived and grew under her supervision. After her retirement from Jewish Family Service in 1990 she stayed on for a while as a consultant, and for many more years after that, as my friend. She touched so many lives and I feel blessed that mine was one of them.”

On a larger scale, Annette served on the national Hebrew Immigration Aid Society (HIAS), of which she served as national vice president. Another favorite endeavor she pursued while at the Jewish Family Services was that of adoption. She was instrumental in facilitating local adoptions for which numerous children benefited and many families are forever grateful.

Current JFS executive director Pam Kelner noted, “As you read through the history of Jewish Family Service, one name appears more than any other: Annette Eskind,”

A quote from Sara Cohen, in her 1956 annual address as JFS president, captures Annette’s impact. Reflecting on Annette’s first year as a part-time caseworker, Cohen said, “During her one year of service, she demonstrated that Jewish Social Service had shifted from relying primarily on volunteers and providing relief, to a program rendering welfare services through professionally trained caseworkers.”

Over her 34 years as a caseworker and then case work supervisor, Annette transformed Jewish Family Service from a volunteer-based charity into a professional social service agency launching programs in adoption, counseling, family life education, and more.

“We are forever grateful to Annette for setting us on this path” Kelner said. “All of us at JFS strive every day to honor her powerful legacy. Her spirit, dignity and professionalism will always live on at JFS.”

A native of Boston, Annette graduated from Arcadia University in Jenkintown, Pa., and earned a graduate degree at Boston University’s School of Social Work. While she was working towards her master’s degree, her brother Joseph introduced her to his fellow resident and her future husband of 55 years, Dr. Irwin B. Eskind. Upon completion of his residency, fellowship and military duty at West Point, the couple moved to Nashville in 1956, and he began his tenure as a busy private-practice internist with patients at multiple hospitals within the city.

In Nashville, over the years, Annette became actively involved in the broader community, becoming a member of the first Metropolitan Nashville Board of Education, the Tennessee Holocaust Commission and Vanderbilt University. Her family established the Annette and Irwin Eskind Biomedical Library and Learning Center and the Annette Schaffer Eskind Chair at the Vanderbilt Kennedy Center, as well as a chair in autism spectrum disorder research within the School of Medicine. Annette and Irwin were instrumental in the development of the Vanderbilt Eskind Diabetes Clinic within the medical center.

In addition, Annette served on numerous boards, including Nashville Board of Parks and Recreation, the advisory board of Alive Hospice, the Tennessee Performing Arts Center, the National Council of Jewish Women, Vanderbilt University’s mental health advisory committee, the Nashville League of Women Voters, the W.O. Smith Music School, and the Bill Wilkerson Speech and Hearing Center. Annette also served on the Kennedy Center’s board for research on human development.

Among many awards recognizing her service, she received the Human Relations Award from the National Conference of Christians and Jews and the Alexis de Tocqueville Society Award from the United Way, YWCA Academy Award for women of achievement, the E. Bronson Ingram award for involvement with the Pencil Foundation, Boston University’s School of Social Work alumni award, and the Jack C. Massey Leadership Award of Mental Health America of the MidSouth.

Annette Eskind was preceded in death by her parents, Samuel and Dorothy Schaffer, and her two brothers, Dr. Joseph Schaffer (Edith) and Stanley Schaffer, all of Boston. Her husband, Irwin Eskind, M.D., died in 2005. She is survived by her two sons, Steven Eskind, M.D. (Laurie) and Jeffrey Eskind, M.D. (Donna). Annette had five grandchildren: Michael Eskind (Kristin), Julie Galbierz (Andrew), David Eskind, M.D. (Megan), Matthew Eskind (Caroline, M.D.) and Sara Eskind. Fondly known as “Nana”, Annette had nine great grandchildren. Nieces and nephews include Jonathan Schaffer (Elaine Shaver), Ellen Eskind Lehman and William Eskind.

The family has received numerous text messages from Annette’s friends who have reflected upon her life. Each has described her as being one of signature grace and elegance. She displayed steadfast devotion and a profound sense of dignity in facing personal successes as well as

losses. Her generosity and caring for her family, her friends and her community serve as a benchmark for all. The family

wishes to express sincere appreciation to Jackie Reed and Tony Cook for their heartfelt care for Annette.

Donations may be made to Jewish Family Service of Nashville or the Metropolitan Nashville Public Education Foundation. •

A Rabbi and a Doctor Wrote a Book: Building Bridges of Understanding

By BARBARA DAB

“These two men have written a book I believe Christians should read as it imparts important information on various aspects of a Jewish way of thinking and life and allows the reader to feel a closer relation to the Jewish people.” - Actress, Patricia Heaton

Love, antisemitism, life, education, Jewish community: these are just some of the topics explored by a retired congregational rabbi and a retired obstetrician/ gynecologist in a regular newspaper column, during walks in the park, and now in book form. In A Rabbi and a Doctor Walk into a Bar: A Shared Dialogue on Faith and Belief Rabbi Mark Schiftan and Dr. Frank Boehm aim to both inspire and educate, each from his vantage point, but always from a Jewish perspective.

And what started as a fun way to spend meaningful time together has evolved into much more. “At first, I think our intent was to just sort of entertain people, share a dialogue between a man of faith and a man of science,” says Boehm, “And there’s a lot of difference in how we look at things. And we thought that was interesting to people.”

The two began with a monthly column in the Nashville Jewish Observer, the newspaper for the Jewish community in Middle Tennessee. What they could not foresee was the events of October 7th and the sharp rise in antisemitism and that would change the trajectory of their

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writing. “I think our reason for putting this book together is to combat the Jew hatred that’s now rising in our society,” says Boehm.

“What emerged as the primary mission here is to create bridges of deep understanding and respect from the Christian community to members of the Jewish community,” says Schiftan. Boehm adds, “We believe that the more our Christian neighbors know about our faith, the more they’ll be sympathetic to our point of view.”

Schiftan, who is the emeritus rabbi of The Temple, Ohabai Shalom in Nashville, has a long history of developing relationships with the local Christian community. He is currently faculty liaison for Jewish students at Belmont University and was instrumental in creating a Jewish studies initiative at the university.

It is this proximity that ignited his passion for building relationships beyond the synagogue walls. “We in Nashville live in an extraordinary time and place where the Christian community is finally

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comfortable with the idea that the more they know about the Jewish faith, Jesus’s faith, the more they come to appreciate and value who we are and what we bring to the table.”

He says now, more than ever, it is important to harness the power of that appreciation. “What we’ve learned since October 7th, 2023, is that it is critical for us to recognize who our friends are, which may be different than who our friends used to be.” He believes there is a large part of the Christian world that has befriended the Jewish community and become defenders of the Jews, and he is not concerned with any perceived ulterior motivation. “In the here and now, what matters is that we have people who will rise to defend us.”

The book’s publisher, Nurturing Faith, is a Christian publishing house, and this is their first book by a non-Christian author. The relationship is also a by-product of Schiftan’s friendship with Belmont. Dr. Jon Roebuck, executive director of the Charlie Curb Center for Faith Leadership, has published several books with the company. He suggested it might be a good fit for Schiftan and Boehm’s book.

Indeed, it was a good fit, although there was a wrinkle: the book was already contracted with another non-religious publisher. “I got out of that one because we felt that even though we didn’t really know what we were getting into, we thought that because of this antisemitism stuff it might be really good to reach out to Christians, even more than to Jews,” says Boehm.

Roebuck connected the authors with John Pierce, director of Worldview Initiative at Belmont and former executive editor of the Nurturing Faith Journal, now the book’s Nurturing Faith imprint. Pierce says the Nurturing Faith brand represents a move away from what had been a more strictly Baptist identity toward a broader, more ecumenical vision. “Our appreciation for multi-faith engagement and understanding has motivated our interest in publishing books beyond our particular Christian focus.” He adds the company has published on a variety of topics including theology, leadership, fiction, biography, history and Bible study.

Pierce says the book also represents an important lesson about civil discourse

and constructive disagreement. “The honesty, sincerity and respect that Rabbi Shiftan and Dr, Boehm display in the book creates a very healthy example of how people who disagree can do so in constructive ways. So, in addition to their many insights offered throughout their conversations in the book, there is a model for respectful dialogue at a time when religious and philosophical difference can be so divisive and damaging.”

The tone of the book and the personalities of the authors is what attracted Mitch Randall, CEO of Good Faith Media, the publisher. He says the book was very approachable and would connect well with readers. “Bringing a rabbi and doctor together to discuss matters of faith seemed to us an organic conversation that would occur in cafes and bars across the world. There is something very authentic about the authors and the book.”

Randall says this authenticity is at the core of Good Faith Media’s mission, which is to foster spaces for dialogue and conversation among intellectuals from diverse faith backgrounds. “Rabbi Schiftan and Dr. Boehm demonstrate the power of curiosity and the openness to learn.”

It is this openness by Good Faith Media and Belmont that Schiftan says he hopes readers will appreciate. The book is divided into three main areas. First is a discussion around the dual loyalties of Jews in America, issues of antisemitism and Jew hatred. The second is what the authors consider to be a catch-all of social, ethical, moral issues of the day, and the Jewish response to it. And the third, and perhaps more difficult and unorthodox, is concepts around God, prayer, life after death. “It will be very interesting for Christians,” says Schiftan, “But I think that all sort of encapsulates the fact that Jesus was a Jew. He lived as a Jew. He died as a Jew.” He says the more Christians understand a different approach, the more they might be willing to grapple with their own views.

As a companion to the book, the authors have planned speaking engagements designed in the same conversational format as the book. The idea is to bring to life the concepts in the book, and to model what Schiftan says is rabbinic Judaism and Talmudic study. “We’re presenting opinions sometimes that coalesce, sometimes that differ, but both have value in the process of critical thought.”

Pierce says this broader, more diverse study of faith, presented by Jews, should go a long way toward doing exactly what the authors hope: to build bridges of understanding. “My hope is the book will find a larger audience than within the Jewish community in Nashville and become a source of conversation for many people who want to better understand the explorations of faith beyond their own familiar experiences.”

The book is available now, and the first of the speaking engagements are already scheduled. Local events are: August 17 and 24 at The Temple, October 19 at Congregation Micah, October 22 at West End Synagogue, and September 5 at Green Hills Rotary Club. And the dialogue continues; the two report a second volume is in the works. •

Rabbi Mark Schiftan, co-author Dr. Frank Boehm, co-author

Shlicha Corner

Passport?

By ZIV SHEMESH, COMMUNITY SHLICHA

No matter where you go in the world— whether it’s the jungles of South America, the mountains of Asia, or the deserts of Africa—there’s a good chance you’ll run into Israelis. You’ll spot them with their “Shoresh sandals”, a sizzling shakshuka cooking in the hostel kitchen, and a 70-liter backpack that somehow contains their entire life. Ask them why they’re traveling, and most will respond: “What do you mean? It’s my post-military trip, of course!”

I had a plan for that kind of journey too. Part of it hiking the Israel National Trail, and the rest exploring Asia. I started the trail during Sukkot 2023 and managed to hike about 100 kilometers before heading home for Simchat Torah—October 7th. The trail was left unfinished, and so was the flight to Asia. But In Israel, the “post-military trip” isn’t just tradition, it’s a cultural rite of passage. So before beginning my current role abroad, I managed to squeeze in one short month in India. When I arrived in Nashville, I came with one clear promise to myself:

After this mission, I’m flying to finish my “post-military trip” without a time limit!

The rise in Israeli backpackers began in the 1970s and 80s, as a form of recovery from national trauma—wars like Yom Kippur, Lebanon, and the First Intifada. As second-generation children of Holocaust survivors and immigrants from North Africa gained more economic stability, young people suddenly had the resources—and the emotional need—to travel.

In a generation where “self-discovery” is practically a job title, the Israeli version is shaped by something unique:

Three years of rigid hierarchy, schedules, uniforms, and discipline. When it’s over, what most crave isn’t just rest—it’s absolute freedom

To wake up whenever, go wherever, and choose whatever.

You decide who you travel with— often people you’d never meet in “real life.” When everyone’s a stranger, connections happen fast. And sometimes, you choose to walk alone and it’s often the first real encounter with yourself, far from home, expectations, and pressure of others.

Many Israelis abroad tend to cluster in “Israeli” hostels. Some places feel like little embassies, complete with Hebrew signs, hummus for breakfast, and Chabad houses to keep tradition alive.

Before flying to India, I asked myself: How can you recognize an Israeli so fast? We come in all shapes, colors, and backgrounds.

Check. Backpack? Check. Israelis? Already There!

And then… I landed.

It took one glance to know who was Israeli—by the clothing, body language, and yes… the volume and friendliness too.

One of the most popular experiences is hiking the Israel National Trail—a 1,088 km trek from Mount Hermon in the north to the shores of the Red Sea in the south. It takes about two to three months and offers not only nature, but a microcosm of Israeli society

One of the trail’s most special features is the “Trail Angels”—locals who open their homes to exhausted hikers, offering a warm shower, a place to rest, and often a heartfelt conversation. You meet fellow travelers and walk together for a day, a week, or more.

In just five days on the trail, I crossed paths with:

A recent immigrant from the U.S. who made Aliya, former special forces soldiers, two backpackers from Germany, and a handful of Israelis —each carrying not just gear but stories. And somehow, kilometer by kilometer, those stories begin to unfold.

And in the end, that’s what this journey is really about. Not just the landscapes, the hostels, or the stamps in your passport. It’s the shift that happens inside. When your heavy, wrinkled backpack becomes a symbol of what you’ve let go of—and what you’ve picked up along the way. When strangers become companions, you learn to live with less, and appreciate more. You become fluent in patience and wonder. You discover cultures that challenge what you thought you knew. And most of all, you learn about yourself— Your strength and weaknesses, where you want to go and eventually, where you want to return.

If you’d like to be part of the Shlicha’s hiking group, you’re warmly invited to join a monthly Saturday hike for all ages, exploring Nashville and the surrounding area. These easygoing hikes are less about the challenge and more

about community, connection, and the shared experience of classic Israeli coffee in nature.

You can join the WhatsApp group by scanning the QR code. •

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Where Jewish Leadership Begins: Apply Now for Leadership615

By MICHAL ESKENAZI BECKER

Leadership matters. This is obviously true for every single aspect of our society. But it takes time, experience, knowledge, and a connection to the community to become a strong leader. This is exactly the goal of Leadership615: to engage our community’s emerging leaders and provide them with the tools to grow into strong leaders in Nashville’s Jewish community.

Strong leaders must understand our community. They need to learn about how Nashville’s Jewish organizations serve our community, their achievements, challenges, and leaders. They need to learn who Jewish Nashville is.

Good leaders need context. Jewish Nashville doesn’t operate in a vacuum. It is part of a much greater Jewish community in America, Israel, and the world. Trends and changes that we see in Nashville happen in other communities, and we can only learn and develop if we have a bird’s-eye view of the entire Jewish community.

Good leaders need to know to earn

the trust of their community, especially in times of change. The community is composed of people who have their own varied passions and opinions (we are Jewish, after all). Our leaders need to helpunify our community, make sure everyone feels included, heard and understood.

Good leaders need a safe space to raise questions, to express doubt, and to speak their mind. Through healthy discussion, debate, and active listening, they are able to grow and feel connected to the community. This process enables them to discover for themselves why they want to take on an important role in the community.

These are the strong leaders our community deserves to have. And thanks to the generous support of Dr. Mark Goldfarb, this was the Federation’s vision, when Leadership 615 was conceived three years ago. We are proud of the connections we created with so many of our smart and talented fellows and are excited to see them helping Jewish Nashville grow. And now we begin preparing for another Leadership615 cohort.

Our program is open to mid-career professionals in the Nashville Jewish community who are ready to take their leadership skills to the next level. It is a six-month program, which includes a

I Lost My Voice in Poland

By RON GALBRAITH

The Tennessee Holocaust Commission (THC) recently sponsored a trip to Poland. The trip had a very specific purpose: to both honor and inspire a carefully selected group of teachers from across the state of Tennessee, each of whom teach about the Holocaust and want to do more. Also joining this journey were Rabbi Michael Danziger and Cantor Tracy Fishbien (The Temple), Rabbi Mark Schiftan (Chair of THC), Alyssa Trachtman (THC Executive Director), several staff members and seven Christian clergy.

I was honored to be asked to join

this group with a specific role—to prepare material and facilitate conversations throughout the trip. With Zoom calls we prepared the group, the itinerary was set, our excellent tour leader and docents selected and everyone—often coming on different flights—arrived in Krakow on time.

Our second day was one of our longer days in so many ways. A full day at Auschwitz-Birkenau with much to absorb and process. Later in the afternoon, gathered next to what had been described as the “Killing Wall,” our group stood in the sun as I was to facilitate a discussion of our shared experience. I was prepared. I had my journal of carefully selected read-

Erin Wides Joins Federation Team

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he Jewish Federation of Greater Nashville is pleased to welcome Erin Wides as the new donor engagement associate. She joins the development team, led by Jason Sparks, chief development officer. “Erin brings to the team a passion for building Jewish community. She is an excellent addition to the Federation, bringing energy and creativity to her new role.”

media production, with a minor in communications, from the University of Central Missouri (Warrensburg, MO) in 2019. Erin enjoys listening and connecting with others and values and understands the importance of creating and fostering Jewish spaces.

ings, thoughtful questions and somber quotes to launch our conversation. I was prepared. Except I wasn’t.

I stammered, stopped, and blundered through a few awkward thoughts and then lost my voice.

To be clear, I have been facilitating tough conversations since the sixties when I put up posters on campus, scheduled a room in the student center, and amped up the dialogue on the civil rights movement. I did not even know it had a name— “facilitation”—at that time. And for more than fifty years I have designed and facilitated conversations on some tough subjects in far-away places; never once did my vision blur or did I lose my voice. You would think, having been to Yad Vashem three times, the U.S. Holocaust Museum four times, the Children’s Holocaust Museum in Paris, I would be ready for this day, this group, this moment. Except I wasn’t. I could not talk.

Around 4 AM the next morning I got up, looked down at my shoes I had worn the day before, picked up my iPad and wrote the following:

My Shoes

I have Auschwitz on my shoes

Doesn’t everyone?

Birkenau muck on my soles

Erin comes to the Federation from Vanderbilt University Medical Center where she designed communication materials and wrote stories. Prior to finding her way to Music City, she spent three years in East Texas as a journalist.

Originally from Saint Louis, Missouri, Erin grew up surrounded by the Jewish community: attending services, participating in youth group, and has fond memories of Jewish summer camp. She received her bachelor’s degree in digital

In June 2023 she began the Nashville chapter of Nice Jewish Runners, a social running and walking group that meets weekly for community, coffee, and movement. She says she is excited for the opportunity to merge her passion for Jewish life with her professional experience. “The Federation supports and provides so many opportunities in our community. I’m looking forward to being part of this team and connecting with all the incredible people here in Nashville.” Outside of work, you’ll find her on the trails, with her dogs, at a soccer game, listening room, or with friends. •

Fine bone ash covers the rest

My shoes remember the journey… Routed by fear

With a cruel conductor for a crowded carload and Low-class/no class tickets for all on board

Which shoes were mine?

My shoes remember the journey… Lost luggage upon arrival

With a pillaging cultural thief and A pleading plaintiff at lost and found

monthly session and a discussion meeting. The application for Cohort III is now open! The deadline is September 1st, and an information session will take place on August 13th. •

Which shoes were mine?

My shoes remember the journey… The wrenching separations

With vicious dogs guiding my love one way and Cudgels and whips forcing me in another

Which shoes were mine?

My shoes remember the journey… A suite reserved, cement pillow and some straw

With a scowling front desk clerk and A weary, worried traveler checking in

Which shoes were mine?

My shoes remember the journey… An a la carte menu, a crumb and thimble of sour soup

With a smirking master-class chef and A desperate, groveling diner

Which shoes were mine?

My shoes remember the journey… Fingerprints on the oven door

Left by a clutching, gasping guest or A mechanic polishing the death machine

Which shoes were mine?

My shoes remember the journey… Neighbors knew or guessed the foul smoke

While inside efficiency became a craft and beyond Silent witnesses became complicit

Which shoes were mine?

I have Auschwitz on my shoes Doesn’t everyone?

Ron Galbraith

– The morning after a visit to AuschwitzBirkenau 2025 •

Michal Eskenazi Becker pictured center with Leadership615 cohort II at the 2025 spring celebration.

Erin Wides joins the Jewish Federation’s development team.

Heart of the Matter

By ASHLEY FRANKLIN, LCSW

just food; it’s a message to struggling families: You are not alone.

Working with our Kosher Food Program, I have seen firsthand how a little bit of help can mean everything. For families facing food insecurity, it’s not just about hungerit’s about stress, making ends meet, and dignity. One missed paycheck or unexpected expense can be the difference between having enough and going without. That’s where we come in. Each delivery is more than

We don’t just provide food. We provide hope, relief, and a sense of security. When families get one of our deliveries, we want them to know that someone cares. Helping families become more food secure isn’t just about solving today’s problem. It’s about creating connection, building trust, and offering support during hard times. We want to meet immediate needs while also connecting people to resources that can help them get back on their feet long-term. Every delivery is a reminder that even in hard times, there is hope. •

Bellevue’s Nova Café and Grocery Honors Israeli Roots with Kosher Comfort and Community

By BARBARA DAB

Have you ever been traveling and suddenly got a craving for your favorite food from home? A burger, burrito, fish and chips? How about a falafel? For Israeli born Ornit Arony that longing for familiar comfort foods is what inspired her to open her brand-new café and specialty food store, Nova. “Whenever I travel, I keep searching for things that remind me of home,” she says.

Arony has lived in Nashville for about 10 years and has owned several small businesses. After a brief break from the pressures of ownership, her entrepreneurial spirit came roaring back. “Eventually I decided it was time for me to go back out on my own but this time I decided I wanted to do something with a little bit more meaning. I wanted to do something more for the community,” she says.

That desire to create something meaningful led to her name for her new business. “I wanted to give a good meaning to it and talk a little bit about the people that we’ve lost and pay homage to them.”

Arony admits she was somewhat distant from the Jewish community over the years, but like many, felt drawn back after October 7, 2023. “The war made me realize how many Jewish people we have here.”

The 1,000 square foot store is divided into two sections, and includes televisions displaying Israeli programming, and pictures and memorabilia commemorating those who were lost in the war. It is a bittersweet endeavor. “Soon I won’t be able to put all of them there because unfortunately it will be too many. But if I can put the ones that are important to this community, that would be great.”

The endeavor is clearly a labor of love for Arony and her mother, Vered, who is the creator of the recipes and menu items. “It’s pure Israeli food,” says Arony, “Nothing you can get anywhere here in Nashville.” Vered is also the face of the company, and her image will appear on all the products. And Rabbi Tiechtel of Chabad of Nashville, is supervising the kitchen.

The grocery side of the store which, according to Arony, is larger. Food offerings include a large variety of kosher Israeli foods, 25 different types of meat, dairy products, chocolates, and snacks.

On the business side of things, Arony

says she does not have any investors, relying completely on her own life savings. “I’m solo. I have everything invested in this and we are bootstrapping everything.”

Nova is slated to be open by mid-August, well before the High Holidays, and will be open six days a week. There will also be fresh baked good every day, with a potential collaboration for challah for Shabbat.

The store is located in Bellevue at 7648 Highway 70 S. •

Nova kosher café and grocery store founders l. to r. Ornit Arony and her mother Vered

The new “face” of Nova, Vered Arony

The cafe and shop will include this memory wall with photos of those lost on October 7th, 2023.

New Leadership, Deeper Roots: Kehilla Upper School Welcomes Rabbi Raffi Levi as Head of Jewish Studies

By ELLY EBIN

This year marks an exciting new chapter as the Jewish Middle School and Kehilla High School come together as the Kehilla Upper School. While continuing to offer distinct middle and high school experiences, this integration allows for a more cohesive and powerful vision, especially in Jewish learning.

At the center of that vision is Rabbi Raffi Levi, Kehilla’s new Head of Jewish Studies. Rabbi Raffi brings warmth, depth, and a forward-thinking approach to Jewish education that aligns deeply with Kehilla’s values. His arrival represents a meaningful investment in what Jewish education must be today: grounded, relevant, and transformative.

Rabbi Raffi joins Kehilla at a time when many in the Jewish community, parents, educators, and leaders alike, are grappling with how best to prepare the next generation to engage with the world through a strong, confident Jewish lens. As questions of Jewish identity grow more complex, the need for a deep, thoughtful, and inspiring Jewish educa-

tion has never been greater.

“Jewish education helps students develop deep roots,” Rabbi Raffi explains.

“The more strands of connection a student has to Judaism, through text, tradition, history, and practice, the more resilient and confident they become. We want our students to feel empowered and proud, ready to support their peers and stand strong in who they are.”

For Kehilla, this means going far

beyond rote learning. Students study Torah, Talmud, modern Jewish thought, history, Hebrew, and Israel. They build the critical thinking skills to ask hard questions and the spiritual foundation to meet those questions with strength and empathy. All of this happens within a community that sees them not just as students, but as future leaders of the Jewish people.

“We want them to carry Torah into the future with joy and meaning,” says Rabbi Raffi. “To be able to show up for themselves, for their communities, and for the Jewish world—especially in times of challenge.”

Rabbi Raffi’s approach emphasizes curiosity and creativity. He encourages students to see themselves in conversation with Jewish tradition, drawing on ancient sages, modern thinkers, and even poetry and art. This blending of classic learning with fresh interpretation is central to Kehilla’s evolving Jewish Studies vision. “Rabbi Raffi brings a rare combination of intellectual depth, spiritual warmth, and vision,” says Alene Arnold, Interim Head of School. “His approach

to Jewish learning resonates deeply with our mission at Kehilla—to help students feel rooted in tradition, inspired by ideas, and empowered to live meaningful Jewish lives.”

The shared Kehilla Upper School campus strengthens this vision by allowing for a more dynamic and flexible curriculum—one that grows with students, fosters mentorship across age groups, and builds continuity without sacrificing the distinctiveness of each division. Rabbi Raffi sees this as a tremendous strength. “This is a community that’s not just growing in numbers, it’s growing in vision. Being together on one campus allows us to think bigger, build stronger relationships, and ground everything we do in Jewish values and pride.”

With Rabbi Raffi Levi joining an already exceptional faculty, Kehilla Upper School takes another bold step forward—advancing a model of Jewish education that is rigorous, joyful, and deeply relevant. One that prepares students not only for academic success, but for lives of purpose, connection, and lasting Jewish identity. •

A Rabbi and a Doctor Discuss the Issue of Nature vs. Nurture

By RABBI MARK SCHIFTAN AND DR. FRANK BOEHM

Frank: It was 150 years ago when the phrase “nature versus nurture” surfaced in scientific literature and ever since a debate of which was more important in determining our personality, skills, interests, morality, and intellect, among many other characteristics has been a popular subject to discuss. It has been the opinion of many behavioral scientists that there is an even split in how these two factors affect our lives, yet we really do not know which of these two elements of nature and nurture is the most important. There is now evidence, however, that our genetic makeup (nature) and environmental influences (nurture) work closely together in concert to form who we are and what we become in life. What percentage each plays in who we are and become is no longer a valid question. The point is that nature and nurture work with varying degrees of impact.

Nature’s effect on who we are is determined by the DNA we are born with and that is contained within the thirty-six trillion cells of our body while nurture’s effect results from a process called epigenetics. This is defined as the process our environment and lifestyle participate in altering how a gene works without changing its molecular structure. In other words, nature and nurture do not work in isolation, they influence each other and help create each other and therefore us. What percentage each plays in helping define who we are is irrelevant.

Mark, as a man of faith, how does this explanation of human nature and behavior effect your concept of God?

Mark: There are questions that we can only attempt to answer, and the exact balance and composition of each of us, the precise combination of nature and nurture, is certainly one of them. Why and how we are who we are, how we evolve and become who we are, is an elusive exercise in discovery and identification.

Here is what we do know: Each of our lives is woven of both generational threads and genetic fibers, woven across numerous generations of our biological and spiritual ancestors. They themselves were composites of those who came before them, as well as the cultural, social, and environmental impacts of the times and places in which they lived.

Here is what we Jews believe: We were created in God’s image. The way we are constructed as human beings was intentional and by design. We are an undeniable mix of who came before us, and who we choose to become. Part of this is built in by patterns set in motion the moment we are born, part of what defines us in how we conduct ourselves through the ways by which we navigate our way in the world. The former is nature; the latter is nurture.

The God who fashioned us in His image, made both influences possible.

Frank, does it really matter how much is determined by nature, and how much by nurture? How can we ever really know about what motivates or defines us? Isn’t it better to reflect, instead, on how lives might “nurture” the behavior of others, towards becoming better human souls?

Frank: Mark, while we disagree on occasion, on this issue I totally agree with you. It really does not matter what percentage nature or nurture plays in creating us, however, since the genes we are born with, is something we have no control over, it is important that we are exposed to the appropriate type of nurture, since that is what helps augment or alter the person we eventually become. Nature working through our genetic makeup works in part, by helping create the very environment that further helps define us through the process of epigenetics. As Dalton Conley writes in the New York Times, “Genes and environment do not operate in isolation; they influence each other and to a very real degree even create each other.” Another way I like to think of this is that while nature loads the gun, nurture pulls the trigger.

This explanation gets more interesting as since 2009, scientists have identified, via approximately six thousand studies, more than 3500 traits of human behavior such as sleep habits, right or left handedness, extroversion, and educational attainment which are based on thousands of tiny variants contained along our strands of DNA. Since I believe in a God that created my DNA and influences me through the small still voice of my conscience, I feel as if I understand the majesty of God’s work. I also understand how important it is for me to nurture others and especially my children, in ways that will help them become better human beings. I understand that nurturing helps create a better world and aids in helping me feel that how I deal with others makes a difference.

As you have said, I am who I am due to a nature-nurture process that resulted from an enormous number of ancestors and individuals throughout many generations who shared DNA and helped nurture those with whom they shared that DNA. It is with this in mind that I delight in the knowledge that I am now a part of that process which will continue long after I leave this life.

Mark: The nurturing of ourselves, as well as others, is the sacred work we engage in making ourselves and others into better human beings. We can change. We can improve. We can evolve. We can conquer the negative nature within us, brought by the harsh prior experiences and genetic codes of previous generations. We can also improve upon the strength of those positive contributions both transferred and translated genetically by those who came before us. We alone can make that choice to better ourselves, as others surrounding our lives can also better us.

That is the primary purpose of religion done right. Our shared JudeoChristian ethics, values, teachings, and moral vision all combine in their goal of making us better human souls and better sacred vessels.

This was Judaism’s initial and inspirational gift to all humankind: The belief that no matter who we are, no matter where we came from or who we descended from, we are created in the image of the Divine. No matter what our nature, no matter what our genetic past, we believe we can be nurtured to become our best selves, our best reflection of that Divine image within us. We believe in the promise of nurturing a better and brighter future, for ourselves and the world around us. •

Rabbi Mark Schiftan can be reached at mschiftan@aol.com

Dr. Frank Boehm can be reached at frank.boehm@vumc.org

Rabbi Raffi Levi joins Kehilla upper school as Head of Jewish Studies

Jewish Nashville Celebrates Pride 2025

June is Pride month in Nashville, and the Jewish community showed up and celebrated at all three local Pride events. First up was Franklin Pride followed by Rutherford County, and the grand finale was Nashville Pride. The two-day event

kicked off with the annual Pride parade and festival. The Jewish Federation of Greater Nashville led the community’s participation in all the festivals, and hundreds showed up to show their support and celebrate. •

One Campus, One Community: Expanded After-School Programming Launches at the JCC

By RACHEL CLARK

Families looking for a meaningful, enriching, and fun after-school experience will find all that and more this year at the Gordon Jewish Community Center. In partnership with The Akiva School, the JCC is launching an expanded slate of programs for the 2025–2026 school year, building on the success of Camp Davis Clubhouse and deepening its commitment to serving local families with high-quality, community-centered care.

At the heart of the program is Camp Davis Clubhouse, the JCC’s established after-school care program for students in grades K–5. The Clubhouse offers a warm, welcoming space where children can unwind after the school day with art, movement, social time, and enrichment led by caring, experienced staff. Open to students from Gower, Harpeth Valley, Westmeade, and other area elementary schools, the Clubhouse offers flexible scheduling and transportation options to meet a wide range of family needs.

But this year, there’s even more in store.

New This Year: JCC + Akiva AfterSchool Clubs

Thanks to a growing partnership between the JCC and The Akiva School, the campus will now host a new lineup of specialty after-school clubs, open to all students in grades 2–6 — not just

those enrolled in Clubhouse. To lead this expanded programming, the JCC is thrilled to welcome Alyssa Seibers as its new Director of Children’s Services. A familiar face to many, Alyssa is a Camp Davis staff alum who brings a passion for youth engagement, a deep understanding of Jewish community, and years of experience in education and child development. In her new role, she’ll oversee the Camp Davis Clubhouse, support the rollout of after-school enrichment, and work closely with families throughout the school year.

Alyssa joins Max O’Dell, Director of Camp Davis, to create a strong, seasoned leadership team dedicated to year-round youth programs that prioritize safety, joy, and Jewish values.

Celia Lerch, the Director of Enrollment at Akiva School, is excited to work closely with the JCC staff this year to bring this expanded programming to life. “By working closely with the JCC, we plan to facilitate the seamless

integration of Akiva’s mission with the newly refreshed lineup of after-school clubs, creating enriching opportunities for students throughout the Nashville community and the J campus. This partnership deepens Akiva’s commitment to the whole child and strengthens the bond within the Nashville Jewish community.”

These enrichment offerings are designed to nurture creativity, confidence, and connection, and will take place across both institutions shared spaces, including the Madeline Pargh Arts Studio and outdoor green areas.

Fall 2025 Clubs Include:

Art & Animals (Mondays): Students explore art and nature through drawing, painting, sculpting, and more in this hands-on, eco-inspired studio class.

Theater (Tuesdays): Young performers build confidence and stage skills through games, improvisation, and scene work, culminating in an informal presentation.

Chess Club (Wednesdays at Akiva): The Knight School’s approach has had amazing success - winning multiple state championships because of our unique and unprecedented educational philosophy, “the chess party.”

Club Green (Thursdays): Led by therapeutic horticulture facilitator Jenn Fleischer, this program uses gardening and nature-based activities to promote wellness and creativity.

These clubs reflect the shared values and educational missions of the JCC and

The Akiva School, rooted in whole-child development and the power of community learning.

Running Monday through Friday from 3:30-6pm, the Clubhouse follows the Metro Nashville Public Schools calendar and offers care on early-dismissal days with advance notice. Each afternoon includes homework support, arts and crafts, active games, free play, and time to relax with friends.

Clubhouse is open to students in grades K–5 (must be at least five years old), with transportation provided from Gower and Harpeth Valley Elementary Schools. Students from Westmeade can take the MNPS bus directly to the JCC, and families from other schools are welcome to join with their own transportation.

Families can choose 2 to 5 days a week, with competitive monthly rates available for members and non-members. Registration is now open for both Camp Davis Clubhouse and AfterSchool Clubs. A small deposit secures your spot, and space is limited in all programs. Separate registration is required for School’s Out camps during Fall, Winter, and Spring Break.

To learn more or register, visit nashvillejcc.org/clubhouse or contact Alyssa Seibers directly at aseibers@ nashvillejcc.org

Join us for a joyful year of learning, creativity, and community — all on one campus. •

Revere Jewish Montessori Preschool Offers three

50%

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Scholarships for 2025–2026 School Year

he Revere Jewish Montessori Preschool, Tennessee’s only Jewish Montessori early childhood program, will be opening its doors this fall for its eighth consecutive year—and it’s celebrating with a generous opportunity for local families.

In honor of the school’s continued success and growth, an anonymous donor has stepped forward to offer three half-tuition scholarships for new families enrolling children in the 4- or 5-year-old

class for the upcoming academic year beginning in August 2025.

These scholarships, available on a first-come, first-served basis, will reduce the monthly tuition for full-day students from the standard tuition rate, to just $575 per month. The program runs five days a week and offers families a meaningful and affordable opportunity to invest in their child’s early Jewish education.

Located on a beautiful nine-acre campus, the Revere Jewish Montessori

Preschool is widely recognized for combining the hands-on, child-centered approach of the Montessori method, with a warm and enriching Jewish environment. The school offers small class sizes, individualized instruction, and a strong focus on character-building, spiritual development, and a lifelong love of learning.

“Our goal is to give every child not just an education, but a joyful and meaningful foundation for life,” said Morah

Esther Tiechtel, the preschool director.

“These scholarships make that gift accessible to more families.”

A few spots are still open for the 2025–2026 school year, and the school encourages interested families to act quickly, as scholarship spots are limited and expected to fill fast.

To apply for the scholarship or to schedule a private tour of the school, contact the Revere Jewish Montessori Preschool at 615-646-5750. •

Jumpstart Your Child’s Jewish Life with a Gift for Your Newborn

ASpecial Blessing for a Special Beginning

As the big day approaches, expectant mothers experience a flood of emotions— excitement, anticipation, and sometimes

a little nervousness. Amid all the preparation, there’s a beautiful Jewish tradition that brings spiritual comfort and protection: the Shir Hamalot (Psalm 121).

For centuries, this powerful prayer

has been recited to safeguard both mother and baby during labor and recovery. Placing a Shir Hamalot in your hospital bag is a simple yet meaningful way to invite G-d’s presence and protection into

one of life’s most sacred moments.

After birth, many families continue the tradition by placing the Shir Hamalot near the baby’s cradle or hanging it on the doorpost of the nursery. It’s a beautiful reminder that everything a newborn sees and hears carries spiritual impact—and that the earliest moments of life matter deeply.

A Free Gift from Chabad of Nashville

If you’re expecting—or know someone who is—Chabad of Nashville is offering a free, beautifully designed Shir Hamalot prayer card to any Jewish family in Middle Tennessee. Cards are available in baby pink or baby blue, with soft pastel artwork that adds a loving touch to this timeless tradition.

To request your free Shir Hamalot card:

Email: office@chabadnashville.com

Or call: 615-646-5750

Bring blessing and beauty into your baby’s life from the very beginning. •

Shalom, Nashville

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We are a small people—just 2% of the global population—and, especially in the wake of the events of October 7, 2023, we’ve been reminded of the deep-seated hate that still exists toward the Jewish community. But history has shown us that this is not a new story. And it’s also shown us that through unity, resilience, and mutual support, we endure—and thrive.

As I begin what I believe will be a long, meaningful, and fulfilling tenure serving the Nashville Jewish community, I look forward to discovering all that makes Jewish Nashville so vibrant—and working alongside you to ensure our future remains strong and bright.

Thank you for the opportunity to call Nashville home. •

Warmly, Judy

Learn more about the Jewish Federation of Greater Nashville at www.jewishnashville.org

News from Nashville Jewish Film Festival

The national hit comedy of the year

Bad Shabbbos has been named as the opening night film for the 2025 NJFF season. On October 16, Kyra Sedgewick will lead an all -star cast in this very, very funny and outrageous comedy about what could go wrong at a Shabbos dinner meant to introduce your sons gentile family to the wonder of Shabbbos. Tickets will be available as of September 15 at www.nashvillejff.org or belcourt.org.

PLAN YOUR

…so that it’s not just a fairy tale.

AGE IS JUST A NUMBER*

By LORETTA SAFF

Last week I was hav-

ing lunch out, and I overheard the following debate: two women, let’s call them Pam and Carol (Pros and Cons), were celebrating their common birthdays and discussing the phrase: AGE IS JUST A NUMBER!

Pam looked at Carol and saw her furrowed brow as she contemplated the glowing candles. Then she leaned in and said, “Carol, don’t let more candles bother you—numbers can be tricky!” Think about it:

Did you know 11 + 11 is the same as 10 + 10?

After all, 11 + 11 = 22! And

‘Do you know why 6 is afraid of 7?’

Because 7 8 9”!

Carol just shook her head. “Come on, Pam. I know you like number riddles, but this is really important. Numbers can go up and down, but years keep adding up. We both know there is aging and successful aging. We must be smart and cautious. We need to consider the long view.”

Pam answered, “Well, my long view includes a full-length mirror! That plus a little Botox and a cute new outfit equals a WOW! I told you – numbers can be tricky! By the way:

Do you know what happened when 19 raced 20?

Of course, 21!”

Carol sighed. “Listen, Pam, just remember it doesn’t matter how cute you

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Other films in this 25th anniversary season will include featurs like The Ring, Everything’s Kosher, The Blond Boy From The Casbah, The Property and Pink Lady. Documentary subjects are Brian Epstein, often called the fifth Beatle, Art Spiegelman the author of Maus and Elie Wiesel.

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look or how many wrinkles you will make disappear. It won’t be fun aging if we can’t chase after the grandkids or manage the long walks through the airport terminals. To be realistic, we have to PLAN ahead - starting now!”

Pam rolled her eyes. “Ok, ok. I’m just determined to enjoy every day. I can’t keep thinking about getting old or infirm or sick. I make a habit of living each day to its fullest. I do what I like to do and as long as I’m not hurting anyone and making a few people smile, it’s all good.” Then she winked and whispered, “In case you need a little more proof that numbers can be tricky: What did 0 say to 8?

Nice belt!

By this time Carol had blown out the candles and allowed herself a little smile. “What I’m saying is sure, live every day to its fullest. Just choose your activities wisely. Successful aging doesn’t just happen.

We have to start NOW doing things that remind us to stay healthy and be challenged to learn new things (like our pickleball!). Maybe you can even join me as a volunteer at the shelter!

Pam smiled at her friend. As they got up to leave, I heard her say, “Thank you, Carol. I know you’re right. Social media and TV do try to convince me that I can stay forever young by buying certain things or coloring my hair. But I know it’s more than that.

I promise I’ll pay more attention to the long game with exercise, learning new things and simply making each day count.

But, please, just one more: We know that six is afraid of seven because seven ate nine, but Why did 7 eat 9?

Because you’re supposed to Eat ‘three square’ meals per day!

I was pleased when I left the restaurant. Yes, age is just a number. But, to age successfully we must take charge of how we age. Now it’s your turn – so start planning!

Loretta loretta@coachingwithloretta.com

*The full quote from the actress Joan Collins is:

Age is just a number. It’s totally irrelevant unless, of course, you happen to be a bottle of wine. •

stability of our community.

We have the capacity to meet this moment. We see it every day in the passion of our volunteers and the dedication of our professionals. Now, we must match that passion with our philanthropy. Let’s continue telling the story of our community’s generosity and make the 2025 Annual Campaign our collective success story. •

At Our Congregations…

Nashville’s congregations

Here are the websites for all five Nashville Jewish congregations, with information on services, upcoming events and more:

Congregation Beit Tefilah Chabad, www.chabadnashville.com

Congregation Micah, www.congregationmicah.org

Congregation Sherith Israel, www.sherithisrael.com

The Temple – Congregation Ohabai Sholom, www.templenashville.org West End Synagogue, www.westendsyn.org

The Observer provides congregational listings of events and services as a complimentary service to the community. If your congregation is not listed, it is because we did not receive the information in time to meet our publication deadline. Please give your rabbi, executive director, or synagogue volunteer a gentle nudge.

@ Chabad /Congregation Beit Tefilah

A Night of Remembrance, A Day of Reflection: Tisha B’Av at Beit Tefilah

Tisha B’Av—the saddest day on the Jewish calendar—is a time when we come together as a community to reflect, to remember, and to mourn the destruction of our Holy Temple and the many tragedies that have befallen our people throughout history.

This year, Tisha B’Av begins on Saturday night, August 2, with the fast starting at 7:51 PM, and concludes on Sunday night, August 3, at 8:19 PM.

Chabad of Nashville warmly invites you to gather with us at Congregation Beit Tefilah Chabad for two special moments of connection and reflection:

Saturday Night, August 2 at 8:45 PM

A moving Tisha B’Av Memorial Service with the traditional candlelit reading of Eicha (Lamentations) as we sit low and reflect on the brokenness of the world and the hope for redemption.

Sunday, August 3 at 7:00 PM

Join us for Mincha Service with Torah reading, as we don Tallit and Tefillin and begin to shift from sorrow to hope, followed by a light break-fast after nightfall.

Let’s come together on this sacred day—united in memory, in faith, and in hope for a brighter future.

For more details, visit chabadnashville.com.

Discover the Power of Trust

Now more than ever, people are seeking meaningful ways to deepen their trust in G-d.

In response, Chabad of Nashville is launching a six-week course on “The Gate of Trust” (Shaar HaBitachon), a powerful section from the classic work of “Duties of the Heart”. Chovot HaLevavot.

This new course will bring the teachings of Shaar HaBitachon into dialogue with today’s challenges, offering practical wisdom on how to cultivate genuine and unwavering trust in G-d—not as an abstract idea, but as a guiding force in everyday life.

Through engaging lessons, students will explore how trust in G-d can foster inner peace, emotional resilience, and strong moral character. Each session will provide tools for navigating real-life situations—whether in relationships, the workplace, or personal struggles—through the lens of faith and spiritual awareness. The Rebbe often encouraged the study of this timeless text as a transformative path toward strengthening one’s faith.

The course will be taught by Dr. Michael Zemel, and begins Tuesday, August 5, at 7:00 PM, and will run for six consecutive Tuesdays, live on Zoom, via the Chabad of Nashville virtual classroom. Register at chabadnashville.com for login information.

Fuel Your Week with Soul & Insight — All from Home

Start your Sunday morning with meaning, inspiration, and community.

Join Rabbi Levi Tiechtel every Sunday at 10:30 AM for a refreshing dose of Jewish wisdom drawn from the weekly Torah portion — timeless lessons that uplift, challenge, and empower.

From ancient truths to modern-day relevance, discover how the Parsha speaks to you, right now.

No RSVP, no pressure — just inspiration.

Zoom in from wherever you are.

Email chabadnashville@gmail.com for the link.

Presented by Chabad of Nashville:

Because your week deserves a deeper start.

You’re Invited: Shabbat Morning at Chabad of Nashville

Where Prayer Meets Community, and Cholent Warms the Soul

There’s something special happening every Shabbat morning at Chabad. It’s where friends gather, spirits are lifted, and hearts are full.

Join us at 10:00 AM for a meaningful and joyful Shabbat service, filled with soulful prayer, heartfelt kavanah, beautiful singing, and words of Torah that inspire and uplift.

After services, stay for a warm, home-cooked cholent, freshly baked challah, and a gourmet buffet lunch shared around a table of laughter, stories, and connection. And of course, a lively farbrengen with a friendly L’Chaim to top it all off.

Whether you come every week or it’s your first time, there’s a seat for you at our table—and a place for you in our family.

Come feel the warmth of Shabbat. We can’t wait to welcome you!

Two Special TGIS Shabbat Dinners This August!

There’s nothing like welcoming Shabbat surrounded by friends, joy, and delicious food—and that’s exactly what TGIS (Thank G d It’s Shabbat) is all about!

Join us for a warm, all-inclusive Shabbat experience filled with traditional dishes, uplifting singing, a heartwarming Chassidic story, and the kind of community connection that makes Friday night feel truly special.

Mark your calendar for two beautiful evenings: Friday, August 8 & Friday, August 22, 6:30 PM, at Chabad of Nashville.

Whether you come with friends or on your own, you’ll leave feeling full—in every sense of the word. There’s no cost to attend, but we’d love to know you’re coming!

Kindly RSVP by emailing: chabadnashville@gmail.com

There is a seat waiting for you at our Shabbat table!

Torah & Tea – For Women, By Women

Take a moment for yourself each Shabbat to nourish your soul, your mind—and your spirit.

Torah & Tea is a weekly women’s-only Torah study group that gathers every Shabbat afternoon following the sit-down lunch at Congregation Beit Tefilah Chabad, at 1:00 PM

Led by Rebbetzin Esther Tiechtel, these classes blend timeless Jewish wisdom with a fresh, engaging style—sprinkled with warmth, wit, and heartfelt connection. Together, we’ll explore meaningful topics that speak to the modern Jewish woman, drawn from the most enduring source of all: the Torah.

Join a beautiful circle of Nashville women for:

– Inspiring Torah study

– Warm camaraderie

– Hot tea & delicious refreshments

Come as you are, and leave uplifted.

No RSVP necessary—just bring an open heart.

Searching for Meaning? Start with a Study Partner

Ever wanted to dive deeper into Jewish learning—but didn’t know where to start or who to learn with?

Chabad of Nashville is here to help! We’ll connect you with a personal study partner (Chavruta) so you can explore the topics and texts that matter most to you—at your own pace, on your own schedule.

Whether you’re curious about Chumash, Tanya, Halacha, Hebrew reading, or something else entirely, this is your chance to grow, ask, discover, and connect—one meaningful session at a time.

Here’s how to get started:

Send an email to ChabadNashville@gmail.com with:

– Your name

– Contact info

– The topics or texts you’d like to study

We’ll match you with the right partner to help elevate your learning—and your life.

Because every soul shines brighter with Torah.

Congregation Micah - an inclusive, innovative synagogue exploring and celebrating Jewish life - is committed to building community and repairing the world! We offer creative and diverse ways to live a Jewish life in Tennessee and beyond, using the

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rich beliefs and practices of Progressive Judaism as our foundation. Visit our 30+ acre campus or access our virtual programs from our website, www.congregationmicah.org. Like us on socials: Facebook, and Instagram @MicahNashville; sign up for our e-blasts; learn and pray with us in-person, or livestream our service on our website, YouTube, or Facebook. In our tent, there is room for everyone!

Weekly Events

Sanctuary Shabbat Services: Fridays at 6 PM

At Micah, we approach God in many ways: the inspiration of words, the beauty of sacred space, the authenticity of our intentions, and through the power of music and song. Join us in-person or virtually for services this month that will be as diverse as they are engaging, as moving as they are participatory. Come early and schmooze with us starting at 5:30 PM! Light refreshments are served.

Saturday Morning Torah Study: 9 AM on Zoom

Deep conversations about the text with thoughtful and caring people led by the clergy.

Mah Jongg: Tuesdays from 12:30 PM- 3:30 PM

Join our players for an afternoon of fun in the social hall! For more information, contact Paula: pgkwn@comcast.net.

Schmooze & Views: Thursdays from 10:30 AM- 11:30 AM

At Micah, we keep politics off the pulpit but not out of the building. Share your views in a round-table discussion on current events facilitated by Rabbi Flip and Dr. Bob Smith.

August Events

Pickin’ Party: Friday, August 8 at 7 PM

Come together at Edwin Warner Park for their summer Full Moon Pickin Party following Shabbat services.

Purchase tickets at https://warnerparks.org

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Shabbat Morning, August 9th

Guest Speaker: Rabbi Elie Mischel, Director of Education, Israel365

Sunday, August 17th

Annual End of Summer Barbecue RSVP at www.sherithisrael.com

Schedule of Services:

Weekdays: 6:30 am Shacharit

7:00 pm Mincha / Maariv

Sundays: 8:00 am Shacharit

7:00 pm Mincha / Maariv

Friday/Shabbat: 7:00 pm Mincha / Kabbalat Shabbat 9:00 am Shacharit

Mincha/Maariv - 72 minutes prior to Havdalah

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Exploring the Prayerbook

Every Friday from 5:00-5:40 PM before Shabbat Services

Start Shabbat with a little study each week. We will explore the prayers of our Shabbat Service and discuss, and discover how these ancient Jewish texts still speak to us today.

Join us in person or via zoom at https://www.templenashville.org/virtualprogramming.html

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First Fridays with Alyssa

Join us on August 1st for Nosh & Conversation with our Temple President, Alyssa 5:00pm prior to Shabbat Services

Shabbat Schedule for August at The Temple

Our Shabbat Services will be held in person at The Temple. You can also watch via zoom from https://www.templenashville.org/virtual-programming.html

Friday, August 1st -6:00 PM – Shabbat Service and Nice Jewish Runners Shabbat

Friday, August 8th- 6:00 PM- Family Shabbat Service with Birthday Blessings Friday, August 15th -6:00 PM- Shabbat Service

Friday, August 22nd-6:00 PM- Blue Jean Shabbat

Friday, August 29th-6:00 PM- Blue Jean Shabbat

Chevrah Torah Study

9:30AM on Saturdays

Join us for our weekly Torah study on the portion of the week, led by the clergy. You can join us in person at The Temple or via zoom from https://www.templenashville.org/virtual-programming.html

Golden Lunch Bunch

Our Golden Lunch Bunch will meet at Temple from 11:30-1:00pm on

• August 5th – Amy Jarman | Classical Vocalist

• August 19th- Jon Byrd | Real Country

RSVP to Jewish Family Service at 615-354-1686 or via email at helpinghands@ jfsnashville.org

Women’s Torah Study

August 7th, 14th, 21st, 28th

10:30 AM

Ongoing weekly women’s Torah study led by Patty Marks. Available in person at The Temple and via zoom through https://www.templenashville.org/virtualprogramming.html

Lunch with the Rabbi

August 7th, 14th, 21st, 28th

Lunch at 11:30AM

Program12:00-1:00 PM

$15 per person for lunch

Engage with Rabbi Danziger and guests in a discussion of current and important issues from a Jewish perspective.

RSVP on templenashville.org/virtual-programming.html or by calling the Temple at 615-352-7620

Available in person and via zoom at https://www.templenashville.org/virtualprogramming.html

Monday Mah Jongg

Join us for MAH JONGG Mondays at The Temple!

August 4th, 11th, 18th, 25th

1:00pm

Drop in for Mah Jongg. We’ll have coffee and water. Bring your friends, a card, and a set and have some fun. Mah Jongg cards and sets are available for purchase in The Temple Gift Shop.

Chai Society Sounds Game- Saturday, August 9th

Join members 65 and older for fun at the ballpark. Game begins at 6:35pm against the Jacksonville Jumbo Shrimp

Purchase your tickets by August 1st at templenashville.org/form/ChaiSounds Contact Sheri Rosenberg at sheri@templenashville.org for more information.

BAGELS & Shabbat Fun in Hendersonville

The Temple is coming to Sumner County for BAGELS & Shabbat Fun! All are welcome!

Join Rabbi Danziger on Saturday, August 16th at 10:30am at the Hendersonville Public Library (140 Saundersville Rd)

RSVP to Sheri at sheri@templenashville.org by August 13th.

Temple Together Baseball Night-August 23rd

Join Temple Together, the group for people ages 35ish-50ish for: Baseball Night with The Nashville Sounds Game begins at 6:35pm against the Louisville Bats. Tickets are $19 and Children are Welcome!

Purchase your tickets by August 15th at templenashville.org/form/sounds Contact Sheri Rosenberg at sheri@templenashville.org for more information.

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Learn more about the Jewish Federation of Greater Nashville at www.jewishnashville.org

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For links to the following online services or programs, please email office@westendsyn.org or visit our website calendar for more information https://westendsyn.shulcloud.com/calendar

8/1 –Shabbat in Williamson County – 6:00 p.m.

Join your fellow Williamson County & Bellevue WES members for a special Shabbat! Services will start at 6:00 p.m. with potluck dinner after. There is no cost to the event, but participants must bring a dairy or pareve dish to share. Go to tinyurl.com/ shabbatinwilliamsoncounty to rsvp and select your dish.

8/4 – Sisterhood Book Club: By Any Other Name – 7:00 p.m. (on Zoom)

7:00 p.m. on Zoom. Join us as we discuss By Any Other Name by Jodi Picoult. Go to bit.ly/MCSAugust2025BookClub to rsvp.

8/6 - Women’s Torah Group (on Zoom) –11:00 a.m.

Rabbi Joshua leads our Women’s study group. We are learning the book of Joshua.

8/9 – Alex Shipkoff Bar Mitzvah – 9:30 a.m.

8/10 – Music & Me for Families with Young Children 3 and under - Sunday, 3:30 p.m.

Inviting all parents and children 3 and under for an afternoon of music and movement with singer /song writer, Brett Fromson, on Sunday, August 10th, from 3:30-4:30 p.m. RSVP by emailing spaz@westendsyn.org.

8/10 – Annual Welcome Back BBQ

Get ready to fire up your taste buds at the annual WES Welcome Back BBQ! More information coming soon.

8/13 – The Sandi Goldstein Learn & Lunch Program for ages 60+ – 11:00 a.m.

Reservations required, catered lunch following the presentation. Speaker: Rabbi Joshua Kullock Lunch catered by Goldie Shepard at 12:00 p.m. Cost: $5.00 RSVP 615-269-4592 ext. 11 or office@westendsyn.org.

8/14 – Men’s Torah Group (in person) –12:00 p.m.

Join us for our Torah class for men followed by a pizza lunch. We are currently reading the Book of Ezra.

8/15 – Ramah Reunion Kabbalat Shabbat –6:00 p.m.

Campers and Madrichim will lead Kabbalat Shabbat services, followed by Shabbat Dinner. More information coming soon.

8/20 – First Day of Beit Miriam – 4:15 p.m.

8/22 – It’s Shabbat – 5:30 p.m.

Families with young children are invited to join us for Shabbos schmoozing, candle lighting, Kiddush blessing, HaMotzi, and Shabbat songs on Friday from 5:30-6:30 p.m. Email spaz@westendsyn.org to RSVP.

8/22 – Potluck Shabbat – 6:00 p.m.

Join us for dinner following Kabbalat Shabbat services (6:00-7:00 p.m.). Bring a dairy or pareve dish to share. RSVP to spaz@westendsyn.org. Weather permitting, we may dine outside!

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8/27 – The Sandi Goldstein

Learn &

Lunch Program for ages 60+ – 11:00 a.m.

Reservations required, catered lunch following the presentation.

Speaker: TBD

Lunch catered by Goldie Shepard at 12:00 p.m. Cost: $5.00 RSVP 615-269-4592 ext. 11 or office@westendsyn.org.

Religious Services

Shacharit (in person)

Our minyanaires are always looking for more people to strengthen the only egalitarian minyan in town! Sunday services are at 9:00 a.m. and Monday-Friday at 7:00 a.m. Thursday minyan is followed by breakfast.

Torah Study with Breakfast

Begins immediately after minyan on Thursdays, typically around 7:40 a.m. Mincha (on Zoom)

Join us for daily Mincha at 6:00 p.m., Sunday-Thursday.

Kabbalat Shabbat (in person)

You are invited to join us every Friday for Kabbalat Shabbat at 6:00 p.m.

Shabbat Morning services (In person and on Zoom)

Please join us every Saturday morning at 9:30 a.m. Great davening, insightful learning of the Torah portion followed by a yummy (and nutritious!) kiddush lunch following services! •

B’nai B’rith Social Unit

Bring together both long-term members of the Nashville Jewish Community and people new to Nashville who are ages 50+ for monthly fun social, educational and service programs. Our next 2 events will be our annual summer Picnic in the Park on August 24th and our Picnic and Music in the Vines at Arrington Vineyard on September 14th.

For more information, contact Joyce Levin at joylevin8@gmail.com or Gil Fox at gsfox3@comcast.net.

Tennessee Holocaust Commission:

Subject: Invitation to Join a Group for Second and Third Generation Families of Holocaust Survivors

Dear Families of Holocaust Survivors,

My name is Ken Gluck, and I am the Education Coordinator for the Tennessee Holocaust Education Commission. I am also a second-generation survivor—my father, who was from Hungary, survived the Mauthausen Death Camp.

We are starting a group for the families of Holocaust survivors, refugees, hidden children, and resistance fighters, to honor their memories and ensure they are never forgotten.

The purpose of this group is simple: to share and learn about our families’ journeys, fostering connection and support. Our goal is to meet once a month in the greater Nashville area. The day, time, and location will be determined based on the group’s availability and preferences.

If you are interested in learning more or participating, please don’t hesitate to contact me ken.gluck@tnholcom.org If you know others who share this background, please feel free to forward this message to them as well.

Thank you for your interest. I look forward to connecting with you soon.

Widowers & Widows Social Group

Group of Jewish widowers and widows who have lost his/her spouse recently or in the distant past. This is not a dating service or a meet/meat group but a group of adult individuals who are interested in doing things with a group of people who have been through a similar loss as opposed to doing things by him/herself. We meet for lunch on the 2nd Monday of each month at various restaurants.

For more information, contact Gil Fox at gsfox3@comcast.net. •

Lifecycles

B’rit Mitzvah

Lindsay Ambers

Archer Night Kroser

Sam Glasser will become a Bar MitArcher

Madeleine Giulietta Tenzer

Obituaries

Lindsay Ambers will become a bat mitzvah on Saturday, August 9, at 10:30 a.m. at Congregation Micah. She is the child of Cindy and Steve Ambers, the sister of Jonah and Nolan Ambers, foster sister to Demoze Talbot, and the granddaughter of Anne Ambers of Los Angeles, Calif.

A seventh grader at Brentwood Middle School, Lindsay loves to play tennis.

For her mitzvah project, Lindsay will spend her time reading to cats at Williamson County Animal Shelter.

Night Kroser will become a bar mitzvah on Saturday, August 23, at 11 a.m. at The Temple. He was born on August 8, 2012, in Springfield, Tenn. His parents are Jonathan and Ryan Kroser.

A seventh grader at Pope John Paul, Archer enjoys music, languages and gaming.

For his Mitzvah project, Archer is having a book drive for victims of Hurricane Helene and volunteering for a domestic violence charity.

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Madeleine Giulietta Tenzer will become a bat mitzvah on Saturday, August 30, at 11 a.m. at The Temple. She was born on October 10, 2012, in Watertown, Wis. Her parents are Amy and Neil Tenzer. Her grandparents are Marti and Len Tenzer of Lake Mills, Wisconsin., and Tom and Gigi Roth of Naperville, Ill.

A seventh grader at Woodland Middle School, Madeleine enjoys dancing, singing and acting.

For her Mitzvah project, Madeleine is having a drive for crayons to be donated to Monroe Carell Jr. Children’s Hospital at Vanderbilt.

Evelyn Eisenberg Pressman Beder

Condolences to the family of Evelyn Eisenberg Pressman Beder, who died on June 24. She was the mother-inlaw of Ruth Pressmen. She was predeceased by her late husbands, Arthur Pressman and Harry Beder; her sons, the late Peter Pressman and the late Kenneth Pressman; and brother, the late Al Eisenberg. She is survived by her son, Dr. Mitchell Pressman; brother, Carl Eisenberg; eight grandchildren; and 14 great-grandchildren.

Randall T. Bellows

Condolences to the family of Randall T. Bellows, who died on July 12. He was the husband of Jayne Bellows; brother of Dr. David Bellows (Nancy), Sandra Jonson Bellows and Diane King; uncle of BJ Johnson, Jessica, Roxanne, Benjamin, Emily and Rebecca. Tributes in Randy’s memory may be made to Congregation Micah.

George “Lindsay” Chappell

Condolences to the family of George “Lindsay” Chappell, who died on June 20. He was the husband of Susan Chappell; father of Anna Eades (Cameron) and Lily Chappell Smith (Wilder); grandfather of Peyton, Ellis, Lennon, Asher and Turner; brother to Michael Chappell (z”l), Debby Amos (z”l) and Margaret Fawbush (z”l). Tributes may be made in Lindsay’s memory to the American Cancer Society or Congregation Micah.

Alexander Jacob Gross

Condolences to the family of Alexander Jacob Gross, who died on July. He is survived by his wife, Daisy Adouth; daughters, Etta Zimmerman (Raymond), Stephanie Weiss (Avi), and Robin Gross (Anthony Lehv); grandchildren, Leya Kaufman (Joel), Hannah Weiss, Eliana Weiss, Benjamin Lehv, and Marissa Lehv; and great-grandsons, Ezra and Theo Kaufman.

Jean Harriet Isenberg

Condolences to the family of Jean Harriet Isenberg, who died on Jully 14. She was the sister of Martin Light (Ann). Her funeral will take place at Beth Abraham Synagogue in Dayton, Ohio, at a later date. Tributes may be made in Jean’s memory to Congregation Micah.

Dr. Martin E. Lee

Condolences to the family of Dr. Martin E. Lee, who died on July 1 in Sarasota, Fla. He was the husband of the late Miriam Lee; the father of  Linda (Glen) Bodzy, Lawrence (Cindy) Lee, Lester Lee, and their extended families. Tributes may be made in Alex’s memory to Congregation Micah, the Holocaust Memorial of Miami Beach, or Café Europa for Holocaust Survivors.

Margo Murray

Condolences to the family of Margo Murray of Cherry Hill, N.J., who died on July 7. Survivors include her sister, Susan Turkel; and her nephew, David Parrella (Jordana Loeb). •

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Seniors and Post Hospital Care

August in the Gordon JCC Galleries: Works by Nashville Artist Guild and Carrie Mills’ travel sketches.

The Janet Levine March and JLMG2 Gallery spaces will feature the work of the Nashville Artist Guild. The Nashville Artist Guild is a juried membership of professional visual artists from the Nashville, Tennessee area. Members are painters, sculptors, and mixed media artists working in a wide range of media. Prior to the inception of the Guild in 1950 there was no cohesive arts organization in the city to promote art or art education. Nevertheless, since its founding, the Guild has maintained an active exhibition history, and has had an annual exhibit at the Gordon JCC Galleries for well over ten years.

The Sig Held Gallery will feature

Conviction

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The civil rights conviction, a Class D felony, is one that Eisenstein says is unusual. “I couldn’t find any prior law in

the show, Somewhere Along the Way, a collection of travel sketches by Carrie Mills. Born in Brooklyn, NY, Carrie Mills is an artist, stylist, fashion designer and illustrator, singer/songwriter and columnist. She has been the curator

Tennessee, nor could the presiding judge, nor could defense council, nor could the prosecutor. There’s been no other, as far as we could tell, no other reported case in Tennessee on this statute.”

Local criminal defense attorney Erin Coleman agrees with Eisenstein that the civil rights violation is an important point in this case. “I’ve never seen that charge before. It’s a very hard, theory based criminal law to prosecute.” She says it is difficult to draw the line from the assault, which was captured on video, and what it meant to the victim personally.

The

The Exhibition Dates are August 4th - 31st.

The Artist reception will be held

Coleman credits the lead detective’s testimony as being key to this conviction, as well as district attorney Wesley King’s presentation, which she says was systematic and well prepared. In addition, she says this case has even greater importance. “This is a win for the Jewish community, but nationally it is a win for Americans that these charges stuck, and that a jury of our peers was able to understand what a civil rights violation looks like.”

Looking forward, Coleman says this is a very important precedent. “Looking first at Tennessee, we now have a case on the books with a jury ruling that can be followed, the transcript can be read by prosecutors all over the state. Basically, it’s a step-by-step teaching tool on how to prosecute civil rights violations under Tennessee state law.” Eisenstein agrees, and says if the case is appealed, which is likely, this conviction would be considered a reported case and could set precedent for future similar offenses.

on August 13th from 6-8 pm and feature music by DJ Joseph

by

and a jewelry pop up by Chandler

The exhibitions are free and open to the public. For more information, contact the GJCC at 615.354-1699, Curator Carrie Mills at carrie@nashvillejcc.org, or go to www.nashvillejcc.org. •

In addition, Coleman, who is also a board member for The Jewish Federation of Greater Nashville, says the application of this particular statute could strengthen the Federation’s ability to push for similar laws at the Federal level.

“We as a Federation can say to state legislators that we would love to have this type of law placed on the books. We know it works in Tennessee, we’ve seen it prosecuted. This is something we can advocate for.”

A second member of the Goyim Defense League, Louis Dunn, was indicted is expected to stand trial for the same incident as McCann. According to a press release from the Metro Nashville Police Department, Dunn will face similar charges. Police Chief John Drake says, ‘“Nashville and our police department will not let stand hatred that translates into criminal conduct. I am grateful to the team at the Specialized Investigations Division for their months of work to hold GDL members accountable.” •

Don’t Just Sit There, Do Something, by Carrie Mills

Dreamscape, by Peach McComb #1, by Tom Veirs

Abstract, by Pam Austin for the Gordon JCC galleries for over twenty years.

The Senior Lounge will feature the work of Pamela Dove.

House gallery will feature the Under One Roof collaborative exhibit.

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All Things Seniors ISSUE

AUGUST

Cura For Care

The medical system in Nashville is changing, posing dangerous conditions to unsuspecting seniors. Many assume each care sector is working in coordination, from hospital, to rehab, to physician. Unfortunately, this is no longer a given.

Our home care agency received a call. The woman said, “My husband was discharged today, and I can’t get him out of the car.” This, not to mention other necessary arrangements, had not been managed when the facility declared it was time for him to go home.

The situation extends beyond lack of mobility. Medication mistakes are dangerous, especially when medications prescribed by your doctor are changed by hospitals and then again by rehab centers without appropriate coordination between the three & the pharmacy. Frequently there’s a lack of necessary supplies and equipment to facilitate a safe and smooth transition home.

If you or your loved one heads to the hospital, it is important to assign an advocate to oversee discharge proceedings. This person will confirm every appointment, make sure needed equipment is ordered, and ensure you receive all eligible Medicare payments and benefits, including needed medical equipment, before you leave. They should also confirm your medication list is reviewed by your pharmacist to ensure any updated medications won’t introduce contraindications.

Hospitalization and rehab are expensive enough without a bungled discharge process, mismanaged medications, disorientation, and a preventable fall restarting the whole process.

To learn how we can help seniors live healthy, happy and safe at home, call 615522-5265.

Jewish Family Service: Sustaining Older Adults in Our Community

Jewish Family Service (JFS) offers a variety of evolving programs to support older adults in the community. The Helping Hands Program connects volunteers with Jewish seniors—whether living alone or in care facilities—for friendly visits and phone check-ins. JFS also provides Shabbat services at assisted living facilities, and a yearly Senior Seder for the community. Musical Helping Hands and the Art/OMA Program are designed for people living with dementia. Trained facilitators offer one-on-one sessions to promote meaningful engagement and positive interaction through music and art. In partnership with Temple Congregation Ohabai Sholom, JFS also hosts the Golden Lunch Bunch, a twice-monthly gathering with good food, entertainment, and friendly company. Cyber Seniors pairs tech-savvy volunteers with older adults who need help with basic tech assistance. Volunteers provide assistance with online shop-

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615.354.1662

jfsnashville.org

ping, cell phone features and emailing/video calls with family and friends. The Jacob’s Ladder Program matches volunteers with seniors needing help with tasks that require the use of a ladder like changing light bulbs or setting clocks. In partnership with B’nai Brith Maimonides Lodge #46, the Low-Vision Aid Program provides visually impaired seniors with low vision aids that assist with daily activities such as cooking, dressing, and reading. JFS social workers provide information, referrals, and help to evaluate living options—from aging in place to assisted living or nursing care. They also offer individual, couples, and family counseling, along with support groups for caregivers and those grieving. Most major insurance plans are accepted and a sliding scale fee for those without insurance. For more information, call 615-356-4234 or visit jfsnashville.org

AIPS - Move Management

Serving the senior population is one of my favorite things to focus on. Partnering with the best peers in the industry and certainly the BEST clients a girl could wish for.

What is that focus, you might ask? Move Management. Move Management is a full-circle, service concept. Including: Downsize/Right size/Simplify, Sort/Organize, Pack/Unpack, Move/Relocate, Layout/Design Solutions, Setup/Staging, Cleanup/ Cleanout, Estate Sale Assistance

Our systems are personalized to meet your needs. Our teams are kind & compassionate. Our service is about lifestyle! We are also focused on life transitions and the continuing changes at any age.

Creating memories in each new moment and experiencing JOY in the JOurneY!

Remember, it’s always the right move when it’s about YOU!

Angie Durr, Owner

PH: 629.999.2477 | www.aginginplaceservices.net

Jackie Roth Karr, Realtor

When it comes to buying or selling at Wessex Towers, no one knows the building better than Jackie Roth Karr. With over 50 units sold, Jackie is the go-to expert for this unique, full-service property—not senior living, but a concierge-style residence for people of all ages, several residents in their 30s. Her deep knowledge of the building, community, and market trends gives her clients a major edge.

Jackie often gets early word of units coming on the market, giving buyers first-mover advantage in a high-demand building. She has helped countless families move their loved ones into Wessex to be closer to Nashville’s vibrant Jewish community—and has just as often helped transition residents out of Wessex to be nearer to adult children in other cities. Whether you’re moving in, moving out, or moving a loved one, Jackie

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brings experience, empathy, and unmatched familiarity with the building.

Wessex Towers offers effortless, all-inclusive living—utilities, cable, internet, and HVAC are all included in one simple HOA payment. Residents enjoy expansive terraces, sweeping views, and upscale amenities like a 24/7 concierge, newly upgraded security, and a private, around-the-clock fitness center.

Jackie doesn’t just sell property—she helps clients understand the lifestyle they’re stepping into. Her insight, track record, and personal touch make her the trusted choice for anyone navigating next steps. If you’re serious about buying or selling, Jackie Roth Karr is your Realtor who will get it done right.

M Jaffa Health Insurance, LLC

Marsha Ross Jaffa

Medicare open enrollment will begin October 15th and end December 7th. This is a time for insureds over 65 to review their coverage and determine if they would like to make any changes to their current insurance. Most Advantage plans and Drug plans may be shopped at this time. Please remember that Supplement plans are usually medically underwritten unless you are turning 65 or have a qualifying event, i.e. moved to another city or you are being dropped from group coverage. If you choose to drop a Supplement plan and enroll in an Advantage Plan you will be medically underwritten if you choose to go back to a Supplement Plan.

Open Enrollment for people under 65 is known as “Affordable Care Act” ACA. Open enrollment begins November 1 and goes to December 15 if you want coverage for January 1. The deductible and premium are very high unless you have a low income.

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It’s best to sit down with an agent to review coverage as doctors and hospitals vary with the insurance companies they want to be affiliated with.

Your phone will be ringing a lot during Open Enrollment. If you have any questions, it is best to talk to a local insurance agent

Argent Trust can help you with your estate planning “to do” list

When it comes to estate planning, there is a well-known adage that families and individuals should heed: By failing to prepare, you are preparing to fail. For most people, estate planning and preparation do not rank high on a “to do” list but having an action plan can help.

Create a Will or Trust: Outline how assets should be distributed among heirs and specify guardianship for minor children if applicable.

Establish Healthcare Directives: Prepare a living will and designate a healthcare power of attorney to make medical decisions if unable to do so.

Review and Update Regularly: Ensure documents reflect current circumstances, especially after major life events like marriage, divorce, or the birth of grandchildren.

Consider Implications of Tax Changes Likely Coming Soon: Utilize strategies like trusts or gifting to minimize estate taxes and maximize the value left to beneficiaries.

Organize Important Documents: Compile and securely store essential documents like deeds, insurance policies, and financial account information.

Consult Legal and Financial Advisors: Seek guidance from professionals to navigate complex legal and financial aspects of estate planning.

Communicate with Family: Discuss plans with loved ones to avoid misunderstandings and ensure everyone understands your wishes.

Estate planning not only provides peace of mind but also ensures a smooth transition for loved ones during a challenging time. Taking proactive steps now can alleviate future stress and protect your legacy. Your friends at Argent Trust are here to assist and can be reached at mhirt@argenttrust.com, hsafer@argenttrust.com or (615) 385-2718 to start a complimentary conversation.

Drs. Hecklin, Smiley, and DiLuzio

Drs. Hecklin, Smiley, and DiLuzio are passionate about restoring smiles, especially for those over the age of 65. With years of experience in the field, they’ve mastered the art of replacing old silver, mercury fillings, and metal crowns with modern, aesthetic materials that mimic the natural tooth.

The team understands that dental needs change as we age, and they’re committed to providing services that cater specifically to this demographic. They believe that

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everyone deserves a beautiful smile, regardless of their age. That’s why they’ve dedicated their practice to replacing outdated, noticeable dental work with materials that blend seamlessly with the rest of your teeth.

Their approach is not just about aesthetics, though. The materials they use are designed to be durable and long-lasting, providing a solution that not only looks great but also stands the test of time. They’re committed to using the latest technology and techniques to ensure that their patients receive the best possible care.

So, if you’re over 65 and looking to refresh your smile, consider Drs. Hecklin, Smiley, and DiLuzio. They’re not just dentists - they’re artists, transforming smiles and restoring confidence. With their expertise and commitment to using modern, aesthetic materials, they’re helping their patients to look and feel their best, one tooth at a time. To view our full list of cosmetic and restorative dental services or to schedule an appointment, visit drhecklin.com or call us at (615) 356-7500.

Senior Living With a Clear Focus on Health and Beauty

Senior health is so important at Clarendale at Bellevue Place. Naturally, a healthy

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Loved One Show These Signs?

•Forgetting re cent conversations or events? •Struggling with ever yday tasks like cooking or cleaning? •Feeling confused about time or environmen t?

It’s okay to ask for help.

At Clarendale at Bellev ue Place, we understand how hard it is to see someone you love face these challenges. That ’s why we’re here as a resource to suppor t you and your family ever y step of the way.

With compassionate care in a secure and vibrant communit y, we’ll help your loved one live life to the fullest – and give you the peace of mind you deserve.

To learn more, call 615-258- 6364 or visit ClarendaleAtBellevuePlace.com.

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lifestyle starts with a well-designed, safe and secure apartment, but it’s the beauty of experiences and amenities that help residents stay active and involved in life.

With Health & Wellness Navigation™, the trained wellness Navigation team partners with residents to anticipate needs and address them—from day-to-day nutrition, fitness and life-enriching activities to preparation and follow-up for hospital care.

All eight dimensions of wellness are key at Clarendale at Bellevue Place. The team helps to ensure that everyday life encompasses all of them—physical, emotional, social, intellectual, vocational, environmental, spiritual and health services.

Between the skilled professionals and on-site amenities, health and wellness are practically guaranteed. There’s an on-site fitness center with professionally-led exercise classes and the latest strength and cardio equipment, as well as a full-service salon. Plus, residents enjoy an ever-changing menu of dining options, including nutritious meals to suit any taste and diet requirements. The Clarendale at Bellevue Place staff always finds ways to keep residents entertained, enlightened and engaged.

Your senior health and beauty lifestyle option is nearby at Clarendale at Bellevue Place—just 13 miles southwest of downtown Nashville at the intersection of I-40 and US 70 South in the exciting development of One Bellevue Place. Call 615-271-5511 or go to ClarendaleAtBellevuePlace.com to learn more about this independent living, assisted living and memory care community.

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ersonal Assistant, Concierge & Family Advocate allJane@comcast.net • 615-557-6277

Jane R. Snyder Delivers Solutions and Peace of Mind

One of the most difficult things for seniors to accept is how aging may lessen the amount of your energy and concentration. Tasks that used to take no time at all, or a list of chores you once finished in a flash, can become huge obstacles on your “To Do List.” Dozens of clients have reached out for her help when they confronted these kinds of problems.

Happily, another pair of expert hands and some professional input can turn your large projects into smaller pieces so they don’t leave you at a standstill. Multiple tasks that are accomplished in an organized sequence can enable you to accomplish your goal whether it’s cleaning out a garage, preparing to downsize your home or office, or making sure your heirs can someday honor all of your estate wishes with ease and without any confusion or arguments. Heartfelt planning now is something you and your family will never regret you having done!

It comes as no surprise that Ms. Snyder’s established clients say, “I don’t know what I would do without Jane. Since the first day we met, my life got so much simpler!”

Jane begins each project with a FREE one-hour consultation and all NEW clients receive a 20% discount on their first 10 hours (with a four-hour minimum.) For more information or to book an appointment, you can contact her at: calljane@comcast.net or 615-557-6277. Rest Assured, whatever you need, Jane has probably done it before!

Blakeford at Green Hills

It’s never too early to plan for your future. Blakeford at Green Hills is a Continuing Care Retirement Community that offers a vibrant lifestyle and peace of mind for the future. It is where residents can engage in various activities and build lasting relationships. One of the key benefits of living at Blakeford is the strong sense of community and belonging it fosters. With a variety of social, cultural, and recreational activities, residents have ample opportunities to engage, connect, and thrive. Maintenance-free living affords you the opportunity to plan your day the way you want, without regard to household obligations. A professional and compassionate staff are dedicated to providing personalized care and support, ensuring that each resident’s physical, emotional, and social needs are met. Additionally, the on-site wellness programs, coupled with topnotch healthcare services, provide peace of mind for yourself and your family, knowing that assistance is readily available when needed.

Joining Blakeford at Green Hills’ waitlist is a strategic move to reserve a future apartment in this desirable community, even if you’re not planning an immediate move. The waitlist exists because Blakeford consistently operates at full capacity. The

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waitlist allows prospective residents to be proactive about their future living arrangements, ensuring they have access to the high-quality services and vibrant lifestyle Blakeford offers when the time is right. This way individuals can plan ahead, ensuring that they, or their loved ones, will enjoy a seamless transition to a place where they can thrive and enjoy life to the fullest.

Call today to schedule your visit 615-665-2522 or visit www.blakeford.com.

Celebrating Life’ s Moments at Sperry’s Restaurant – A Tradition of Quality and Care

For 51 years, Sperry’ s Restaurant has been a beloved destination for celebrating life’ s most meaningful moments. From anniversaries and birthdays to quiet dinners with loved ones, Sperry’ s offers more than a meal it offers a tradition rooted in quality and warmth.

We’ re proud to be a place where generations gather. For many of our senior guests, Sperry’ s brings comfort, nostalgia, and the joy of familiar favorites. Whether it’ s a perfectly cooked steak, our classic salad bar, or friendly, attentive service, we strive to deliver a consistent and memorable experience every time.

Sperry’ s has shared in countless life milestones such as first dates, retirement dinners, rehearsal dinners, family celebrations, and everything in between. Our guests return again and again not just for the food, but for the sense of home they feel when they walk through our doors.

As we celebrate 51 years, we want to thank the senior members of our community who have supported us through the decades. Your loyalty and stories are part of our legacy, and we’ re grateful to continue being part of yours.

At Sperry’ s , every visit is a reason to celebrate. Whether it’ s a major milestone or a quiet evening out, we’ re honored to help make your moments special just as we have since 1974 . Here’ s to tradition, community, and many more memories shared around the table. •

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Kvetch in the City

By CARRIE MILLS

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bout two months ago, Pam Kelner, the executive director of Jewish Family Service came into my office and completely unexpectedly announced that the board of JFS had decided to honor me at their annual meeting with the Chaver award. An award that means friend. As I held back humble tears of delight, she asked me who I’d like to introduce me for this award. The first person who came to mind was my son. However, I had a feeling that he would not be able to get away from work to be present at the event because of the timing of some important obligations at his job in NYC. Gratefully, it turned out, Toni Jacobsen at JFS who happened to be the next person on my list to introduce me, along with Pam, easily managed to find a way through technology to have my son introduce me live on screen the evening of the event.

Little did I know or expect to hear what my loving son had to say about me. I, at once, realized not only did I raise a mensch, but if there was one person who truly ‘got me’ in this world it was him.

I leave you with his words:

“Hi everyone,

It’s a real honor to introduce this year’s Chaver Award recipient: my mom,

She’s a Parsons-trained fashion designer, a painter, a jewelry maker, a columnist, a mom, a stylist, a curator, and I could keep going, because really, what does she not DO. If you’ve ever read her monthly column, Kvetch in the City, which I highly recommend, you’ll know it’s basically what would happen if Fran Lebowitz and Larry David had a child… who also happened to be on JSwipe. It’s funny, biting, romantic, and deeply Jewish in the best way.

But beyond the headlines and hilarity, there’s another side to her, one that gives just as generously as it kvetches.

At JFS, my mom has spent years giving her time and talent, bringing Helping Hands to those living with Alzheimer’s and dementia. She meets people where they are, with humor, heart, and the uncanny ability to accessorize empathy.

She’s Brooklyn-born: bold, warm, and honest. But always with love and intention. Always with Carrie-ness, the kind that’s more Sex and the City than Shtetl and the Suburbs.

This award celebrates friendship, and Carrie doesn’t just have friends, she builds community. Through music, art, style, storytelling, and showing up for people in a way that’s rare and real.

So please join me in celebrating this year’s Chaver Award honoree: my mom, Carrie Mills, an artist, icon, and living proof that kvetching can be a mitzvah.” •

Gordon JCC Adult Program Happenings:

TGIT – August 2025

August 7th – Don Cusic

Curb Professor of Music Industry History at Belmont University, Don Cusic, will present the history of How Nashville became Music City. If you’ve ever wanted to know how Nashville famously came to be known as Music City, don’t miss this special presentation.

Lunch: Quiche, salad, sides, Birthday Cake and Ice Cream

August 14th – Alexis Michelle Tischler

Back by popular demand, the ever delightful and talented singer and songwriter, Alexis Michelle Tischler. Come experience her warmth and engaging musical performance. You’ll be happy you did.

Lunch: Lasagna, salad, bread, sides, dessert

August 21st – Peter Hodes

The Master of Tai Chi returns with our ongoing health series. Any level, or no level at all, are welcome to attend this meditative and healthy session that engages body, mind and spirit. Led with charm and humor by the knowledgeable and experienced Peter Hodes.

Lunch: Salmon, salad, sides, dessert

August 28th – The Frist Art Museum Quilt Exhibition

Our once very own Meryl Kraft, now docent at the Frist Art Museum, will take on us on an informative and visual presentation of the exceptional Quilt Exhibit presently showing at the museum.

Lunch: Bagels, lox, salad, sides, dessert