The Observer Vol. 88 No. 3 – March 2023

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Vol. 88 No. 3 • March 2023

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Cookbook Author and Chef Michael Twitty Bridges Cultures with Koshersoul at This Year’s JCRC Social Justice Seder By BARBARA DAB

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new name, a new logo, and a new campaign timeline, the Jewish Federation of Greater Nashville is excited to announce the beginning of the 2023 Annual Campaign with the theme “Now We Move Forward.” With the future of Nashville’s growing Jewish community top of mind, our focus will be to combat and shine a light on antisemitism, ensure our agencies and our congregations’ community programming are supported, and continue to support the work of more than 70 beneficiary agencies around the world whose success is vital for our own community’s safety, well-being, and growth. And now we move forward, to begin the process of engaging our community of donors and volunteers. It’s a back-to-basics approach with face-to-face conversations, and meaningful phone conversations. We want to hear from you about your needs, concerns, and questions about Jewish Nashville; and we want to grow our campaign and do even more. The campaign will run from February 2023- December 31st, 2023, and we would love your help. If are interested in volunteering to make calls or help us to engage new community members, please reach out to Carolyn Hyatt at Carolynh@jewishnashville.org. Let’s Move! •

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assover is said to be the most celebrated of Jewish holidays. Of course, that notion may vary depending on whom you ask. Nevertheless, Passover is significant in that it provides an opportunity to bring together people from varying walks of life, different religions, and different cultures, and to delve into the concepts of slavery, freedom, and redemption. For cookbook author and chef Michael Twitty, this blending of tradition, culture, and identity is what he terms “koshersoul.” “It’s a catchall term. But it’s also ethnic. It is a way to describe the amalgamation of Black and Jewish cultures and the venn diagram space between them,” he said in an interview for the Jewish Observer podcast. And it is the title of his latest book, “Koshersoul.” Twitty will be sharing Koshersoul as leader of this year’s Jewish Community Relations Committee’s Social Justice Seder. Rachel Whitney, co-Chair of

Author and chef Michael Twitty will lead this year’s JCRC Social Justice Seder on March 30.

the JCRC’s Social Justice Seder, said, “We are so excited to welcome Michael Twitty to Nashville. His books are rich with lessons in our shared culture and

great food, and I’m looking forward to celebrating Passover with him leading our Social Justice Seder.” In describing the various identities that make up koshersoul, Twitty describes a diverse array of backgrounds. “There is the koshersoul of white Jewish Southerners in the deep South, there’s the koshersoul of Black Jews everywhere in the United States and Canada and the Caribbean, there’s the koshersoul of Africans who are also Jews…and then there’s the koshersoul of people who are deliberately fusing the different foods and cultures who get a different ‘midrash,’ a different interpretation of American Jewish and Black life.” Twitty’s first book, “The Cooking Gene,” won him two James Beard awards, for Best Food Writing and Book of the Year. Both books read like memoirs, rather than traditional cookbooks and take readers deep into his own personal story, and the story of the politics of food. Continued on page 6

Affordable Housing is Becoming Scarce in Nashville: What does this mean for the Jewish Community? By BARBARA DAB

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ashville’s popularity as an “it” city continues to rise, and companies like Amazon and Oracle are bringing an influx of jobs. Despite this growth, finding affordable housing is fast becoming an insurmountable obstacle for most workers. A recent affordable housing forum sponsored by West End Synagogue’s Social Action Committee, and attended by people from throughout Nashville, brought the statistics into sharp focus. Kay Bowers, affordable housing chair of Nashville Organized for Action and Hope (NOAH), who was a panelist at the forum, began by explaining what constitutes affordable housing. “For housing to be considered affordable, a person should be spending about one-third Continued on page 6 Tennessee’s Jewish Federation Join Together for a Day on the Hill, page 2

Rabbi Joshua Kullock of West End Synagogue welcomes attendees to the Affordable Housing Forum. PHOTO CREDIT: RICK MALKIN Israel’s Ambassador to the United Nations Makes His First Visit to Nashville, page 4

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Tennessee’s Jewish Federations Join Together for a Day on the Hill By BARBARA DAB

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epresentatives from Tennessee’s Jewish Federations joined together at Capitol Hill to meet with state lawmakers, urging them to support measures aimed at combating antisemitism in the state, and beefing up security at houses of worship. The overall goal, according to Leslie Kirby, president of the Jewish Federation of Greater Nashville, is to continue building relationships and raising awareness of the community’s concerns. “A study by The American Jewish Committee found that people outside the Jewish community don’t know about the rising antisemitism. But there are 30,000 Jews in Tennessee and we are feeling afraid.” The day began with Rabbi Joshua Kullock of West End Synagogue delivering the opening invocation for the legislative session. He says he is honored to be asked. “I felt deeply honored by the possibility to share an invocation at the state legislature. It’s not every day we get the opportunity to talk about some of our core Jewish values in front of our elected officials. I’m grateful to the Federation for organizing this day at the Hill, as Jewish representatives from all over the state came to Nashville hoping to make our voices and concerns heard.” One of the lawmakers the group met was state Senator Bo Watson (R-Hixon), who is chair of the finance, ways and means committee. He was a key supporter of last year’s efforts to provide security funds, as well as co-sponsoring a bill aimed at combatting the Boycott, Divest, and Sanctions movement. “I understand the challenges getting this legislation passed. I was happy to lend my support

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Rabbi Joshua Kullock with Rep Ryan Williams (R-Cookeville)

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last year. This year, we’ll have to figure out a way to continue.” Michael Dzik, Executive Director of the Jewish Federation of Greater Chattanooga, stressed the urgency facing members of his community. “I represent about 2,500 Jews in Chattanooga. Antisemitism and racism exist. We see it in New York, and other parts of the country, and we need to be proactive.” A key factor to addressing antisemitism and racism, according to Representative Harold Love (D-Nashville), is ensuring everyone in the state is focused on the problem. “This threat has statewide implications. My church also spends thousands of dollars on security,” he said. Love is also pastor of the Lee Chapel African Methodist Episcopal Church. “What happened in Charleston could have happened here. It could have been me. Some people’s minds and souls are so sick they see no problem bringing pain and destruction to houses of worship. We have to come together more often.” Senator Mark Pody (R-Lebanon) agreed with Love’s statement regarding unity. “Every session I’ve tried to do something to publicly say Tennessee is a friend of Israel,” he says, “This is a principal stand for me. I want to be standing right there in front with all of you.” Pody supported last year’s bills that provided for security funding, and addressed the definitions of antisemitism, and says he plans to do so again. At the end of the whirlwind day, one

thing was made clear. The Jewish communities of Tennessee are united in their efforts to engage and urge lawmakers to continue their support to keep the Jewish people in the state safe from those who wish to do them harm. Dzik said, “It was a great opportunity to connect with our colleagues across the state as well as meet with legislators. We’re looking to build personal relationships with our elected officials. Going to the Hill is a great step in this direction. We also can and will meet with them in our districts.” Steven Hirsch, past president of the Jewish Federation, says the most important thing was speaking up. “The Jewish community is standing up and speaking out about our concerns around the recent rise in antisemitism and the more individual legislators hear about this, it is bound to stick with them at some point. We cannot remain silent and hope that antisemitism will go away with no action on our part.” Efforts like the day on the Hill also go a long way toward raising awareness of the work of the Jewish Federation. Steve Remer is char of the Jewish Community Relations Committee. He said, “Any time we can do something constructive for the Jewish community and not just be seen as a money collection organization for overseas Jews, it’s a win. Anytime we can be out in the community working together with nonJews, it’s a win. Any time our neighbors stand up for us without being asked, it’s a win for us and for them.” •


‘There’s no race in Judaism’: Jews Reflect on Diversity within Community

Jewish Community Relations Committee hosts annual Passover seder March 30 with theme of social justice By ZOE BELL

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ocial justice may be the theme for the Jewish Federation of Greater Nashville’s annual Passover Seder on

March 30, but it permeates everyday life for these members of the United States’ Jewish community who are of color. Nate Looney, a Black Jew living in Los Angeles, said he does not feel a strong sense of belonging in Jewish spaces due to the color of his skin. “When I walk into mainstream Jewish spaces, it’s not uncommon to be othered,” Looney said in a Zoom interview. “It happens less to me now, …but if I were

to walk into a random synagogue where people don’t know me, there’s often that sort of, ‘Oh, so how are you Jewish? What are you doing here?’ Or I just get ignored altogether.” He said these experiences of feeling like an outsider in his own community were hurtful. “There were a few times when I left [a] Jewish communal environment and went home and cried,” Looney said.

Looney is the director of community safety and belonging at the Jewish Federation of North America, where he works to create inclusive spaces within Jewish communities. A demographic study by the Jewish Federation of Greater Los Angeles found that the LA Jewish community has risen by 25 percent over the past 25 years, now the second largest Jewish community in the United States. Continued on page 11

Community Relations Committee Koshersoul: The Faith and Food Journey of an African American Jew JCRC Seder March 30

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he Jewish Community Relations Committee Social Justice Seder had been a community tradition for over 15 years. The event itself was brought here to Nashville by Avi Poster when he relocated from Chicago. Since then, Avi provided consistent inspiration, support, and encouragement for the event which is designed to build bridges and strengthen relationships between the Jewish community and friends and neighbors in the general community. By using his extraordinary and wide-reaching personal contacts, Avi was always at the center of the event, and it was through his dedication and commitment that the program expanded in reach and influence c

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that continues today. When we originally considered bringing Michael Twitty to be the special guest for our return to an in-person event this year, after three years of virtual programs, Avi was wholeheartedly supportive and excited for the event. Sadly, Avi will not be with us in person on March 30, but his memory lives on for all who knew him. As Keel Hunt wrote in his beautiful tribute to Avi’s memory, “Avi Poster was a man of big shoulders…

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who seemed to be everywhere. He was the kind of character you enjoyed meeting – and made you feel better about this city. He lived the welcoming spirit of Nashville.” We mourn the loss of Avi, and we will honor and remember his impact and tireless efforts to promote kindness, compassion, and justice at the event March 30. Our special guest for the JCRC Seder is Michael Twitty, a culinary historian and food writer living in Fredericksburg, Virginia. HarperCollins released Twitty’s “The Cooking Gene,” in 2017, tracing his ancestry through food from Africa to America and from slavery to freedom. “The Cooking Gene” won the 2018 James Beard Award for best writing as well as book of the year, making him the first Black author so awarded. “KosherSoul,” his follow-up book, was published in August 2022 through HarperCollins and received the 2022 National Jewish Book Award. Michael can also be found on MasterClass online, where he teaches Tracing Your Roots Through Food and he served as a historical consultant on the FX adaptation of Octavia Butler’s “Kindred.” We have over 300 people registered for the event representing many

groups within the community including Vanderbilt University, Metro Nashville Public Schools, Nashville Public Television, Nashville Public Radio, Metro Government, Metro Nashville Police Department, NICE Refugee Services, Our Place, Brentwood High School, and University School of Nashville. The overwhelming interest in the Seder this year is a testament to the outreach efforts of event chairs, Rachel and Marcus Whitney, and to all our table hosts who invited specific community contacts from many corners of our area to join us: Harold Benus, Erin Coleman, LeBron Hill and Lilyfish Gomberg, Rebecca and Eric Kadura, Pam and Shaul Kelner, Hayley and Jacob Kupin, Debbie Linn, Bobbi Lipschutz, Rabbi Shana Mackler, Rae Oleshansky, John Jivens and Sheri Rosenberg, Freya Sachs, Judy Saks, Mary Shelton, Jason Shuster, Ricki and Barry Sokol. Patti and Jerry Stelmaszak, Anna Stern, Irwin Venick, Christie and Titus Weimers. Public registration for the Seder has closed. Please message Deborah Oleshansky, deborah@jewishnashville. org to be added to the waiting list. •

Shining a Light on Antisemitism: Luciana Berger, Former Member of Parliament, to Speak at Federation Women’s Event

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s we continue our efforts to shine a light on antisemitism, it is important to highlight those in our global Jewish community who are brave enough to call out and stand up against hate- even if it means big sacrifices. In April we will shine a light on Luciana Berger, a former member of the British Parliament. Luciana will share her inspiring and courageous story about being forced to resign from her position in Parliament as a victim of antisemi-

Former UK Member of Parliament, Luciana Berger, with speak in Nashville at Federation Women’s Event on April 17th.

tism herself, and how she is continuing to combat antisemitism in the United Kingdom. Ms. Berger will enlighten us, teach us, and inspire all of us to stand up against all forms of hate no matter the cost. The program is open to the entire Nashville community, and will take place on April 17th, 2023, at 7pm at the Noah Liff Opera Center. Please register at www. jewishnashville.org/shinealight. Email Carolynh@ jewishnashville.org with questions. •

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Israel’s Ambassador to the United Nations Makes His First Visit to Nashville By BARBARA DAB

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ilad Erdan, Israel’s ambassador to the United Nations spent a whirlwind 48 hours in Nashville last month. In his first ever visit to Music City Erdan met with Tennessee governor Bill Lee, Nashville mayor John Cooper, as well as with Jewish community leaders. He spoke publicly at a dinner that included local business leaders, elected officials, and leaders in the greater Nashville community. The visit was sponsored

by Delek Logistics Partners and hosted by The Jewish Federation of Greater Nashville. During the dinner, attended by close to 200 people, Erdan spoke of Israel’s long and close relationship with the United States. He said his priority for the UN is to push back against those who work to demonize Israel. He also shared highlights of Israel’s achievements in the technology sector and pointed to developments in the areas of water scarcity, renewable energy, and global security. •

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Michael Twitty Continued from page 1 “A cookbook is nice, don’t get me wrong. But cookbooks are not in the same place culturally that they once were because of the internet. Anyone can get anything they want. It’s recipe without the meaning, they can get the cuisine without the culture,” he says. “That’s not my thing. I want you to get to know the people. I want to effect positive social change. He says people often ask him how many Black Jews like him there are. “Well, I’m glad you asked,” he said, “It just so happens that there are about 150,000 Jews of African descent in North America, the islands, the United States and Canada combined.” When asked about his influences, Twitty credits scholar John Michael Vlach, of George Washington

Housing Continued from page 1 of their income,” she said, “Right now the problem is the gap between income and housing cost.” Out of approximately 480,000 jobs in Nashville, 260,000 workers earn below $20 per hour and 211,000 workers earn below $18 per hour. According to Bowers, those most affected by what she calls, “The Big Squeeze,” are seniors, young people, and low-income workers. Statistics she presented from NOAH show that between 2018 and 2022 wages have increased in Nashville by 12%. During that same time period, apartment rents increased by 63% and home sales prices increased by 55%. Additionally, said Bowers, 93% of apartment units built between 2021 and 2022 are luxury housing. “High home sale prices have pushed more people into the rental market,” she said. Even for renters, the picture is bleak. NOAH’s statistics show 49% of renters are cost burdened. Antone Christianson-Galina, who was also a panelist and is involved with NOAH, says for young people like himself, it is discouraging to look toward the future. After graduating from the University School of Nashville and the University of Richmond, he spent time studying and living in London. When he returned, he found he could not afford to live on his own. “When I came back, I had to live with two roommates. I was disheartened because I thought I did everything right. I work hard, focus on making and saving

University, with helping him find direction and focus himself, suggesting he figure out one or two things he could master. “I homed in on food. I’ve done that for quite some time…About the same time, I was meeting Joan Nathan and Martha Cohen Ferris, author of ‘Matzoh Ball Gumbo,’ and learning I could do this for a living,” he said, “I don’t want to be mistaken for someone who is all about technique. But I do want to be known as someone who uses food to tell stories about culture.” Twitty is a former Hebrew school teacher who often used food to teach the lessons around culture and Jewish heritage. “I introduced my students to different ways with food, different traditions. Food is an excellent way to keep their attention.” He said since he did not fit the traditional mold for Hebrew school teachers, it was easier to

reach the students and begin to change their narratives around what it means to be Jewish. For example, in teaching seventh graders about the Holocaust, he used cooking lessons to discuss the lives of the people who were murdered. “We talked about the lives of people who had been living in areas of Europe for centuries, if not a millennium and these communities are being destroyed, but there was also resistance. What does resistance look like, what does pushing back look like, what does antisemitism look like?” Resistance is something Twitty has faced, and continues to face, in his own life. After winning the James Beard award, he says there were those in the publishing world who wanted him to shed his Jewish identity. “They said, ‘Well, you can’t wear a kippah in public. You can’t really talk about this. This is

money, but when I looked to buy a house, I couldn’t afford it.” Christianson-Galina said he sees people getting pushed out of the market entirely or forced to move farther from the city. He says there will be long-term implications. “People will be buying smaller houses, which means they might have smaller families. There might even be a labor shortage down the road because people can’t live and work here,” he said. He said the answer is creating density. “A lot of people love their community, they love where they are, but don’t want to build density. But if we want room for places where young people can live, we need to build.” The problems with workforce shortages are not just something far in the future. Randy Rayburn, owner of Midtown Café, said many restaurants do not have enough employees to work shifts and he has seen several long-standing establishments forced to close. “Whisky Kitchen and Tavern had to close because they didn’t have enough people.” He said he was forced to sell his Cabana restaurant because of the shortages. “I was scared. I called my partner to discuss closing. We ended up selling it for pennies on the dollar.” Metro Councilwoman Burkley Allen, also a panelist, discussed recommendations by the Mayor’s Affordable Housing Task Force to address the affordable housing issue. The recommendations include creating a Department of Housing, reducing zoning barriers, implementing tax incentives, and using public

WPLN’s Chas Sisk moderates the panel. PHOTO CREDIT: RICK MALKIN

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lands and buildings. She also cited legislative solutions, including implementing inclusionary zoning measures that would require every residential project to have low-income housing set aside, a move that was pre-empted by the state. “There is no silver bullet to solving this problem. It takes all of us,” she said. She referenced the Barnes Housing Trust Fund, created by Metro government in 2012 to set aside $15 million per year to provide grants for affordable housing. “The fund helps provide for thousands of units per year of affordable housing.” These solutions, however, can run into resistance from all sides. Panelist Dr. Paulette Coleman is on the Board of Commissioners of the Metro Development and Housing Agency. She pointed to some external factors that impede progress. “First off, we are up against institutional buyers coming in and buying up properties wholesale. Then there is the stigma around the concept of affordable housing.” She said positive change takes time. “We’ve been clamoring for an affordable housing division for four mayoral administrations, and we finally got it.” Coleman also stressed the need to consider transit alternatives. “We need different attitudes about transportation. The South is very car-centric.” Overall, she said any changes must be far-reaching. “We need a comprehensive, systemic development plan that is coordinated anad vertical. Until we have that, we just have an ad hoc response, which is not how you make systemic change.” For Nashville’s Jewish community, affordable housing close to places like synagogues and the Gordon Jewish Community Center is scarce. The result, according to Toni Jacobsen, Clinical Director of Jewish Family Service, is that families are moving farther away

confusing to people; this will muddy the waters. Thank God they were there when I won. They were wrong.” This year’s Social Justice Seder is being held on Thursday, March 30 from 6-8pm at the Gordon JCC’s Pargh Auditorium. Table hosts include: Rabbi Shana Mackler, of The Temple; co-Chairs Rachel and Marcus Whitney; Anna Stern, The Jewish Federation of Greater Nashville board member, and The University School; Freya Sacks and Jason Shuster, The University School; Jerry Stelmaszak, of Brentwood High School; Patty Stelmaszak. Deborah Oleshansky, Director of the JCRC of The Jewish Federation of Greater Nashville said, “The seder is an opportunity to build bridges and connect with the broader community. Michael represents many different identities and is a natural person to bring in to lead the seder.” •

from the community. “If you’re a family, you’re not going to find anything near the Jewish community for less than $1,500 per month, and it will be more depending on where you look. It makes participating in the community very difficult.” Jacobsen says declining ability to participate results in people feeling less inclined to volunteer in the community and eventually becoming disengaged in the community. Jessica Averbuch, CEO of Zeitlin Sotheby’s, said in an email that Nashville has one of the hottest housing markets in the country, and statistics show affordable housing is one of the weakest links. “Nashville passed the threshold of affordability, meaning on average the median income household in the region is paying around 33% of their income if they were to purchase the average price of a house on the market. However, Nashville is still considered relatively affordable compared to other major U.S. metro areas.” Averbuch said that although there is more demand than supply, there have been on average 25 sales per month in the neighborhoods surrounding the Jewish community’s landmarks like the Gordon JCC. And for rentals, the picture is relatively the same. “The average rent for a one-bedroom apartment in Nashville is currently $1,799 and two bedrooms rent for $1,900 on average.” She says other options for affordable options can be found in North Nashville and Madison, both a bit farther from the Jewish community’s hub. The West End Synagogue Social Action Committee urges people to ask their city council member to support a $30 million annual budget for the Barnes Fund. To learn more about affordable housing in Nashville, or to get involved in helping to find solutions, visit www. nashville.gov, and www.noahtn.org. •


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Remembering Avi Poster By JUDITH A. SAKS

Avi Poster died on January 26. His funeral was attended by hundreds of people from across Nashville whose lives he touched. He is survived by the love of his life, his wife, Joie.

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t was an ordinary day in my office about 20 years ago when I answered a phone call from a man who had just retired as a middle school principal and moved to Nashville from Chicago. He wanted to know how he could become a member of the Jewish Federation’s Community Relations Committee (CRC). That man was Avi Poster, who, in his subsequent years in Nashville, reframed the social justice scene in his adopted city. But first, he brought life to a committee that addressed social justice issues by writing letters. Avi’s presence transformed the CRC into a social action group that made its presence known in Nashville’s ethnic, religious, immigrant, poverty, and disabilities communities. And he always let it be known that he was a Jew. “If there were ever a Jew, whose inner core and Jewish spirit charged him to help lift up the broader community and broader world, it was Avi Poster,” said Rabbi Saul Strosberg. “It was daunting for me to see, and to know the amount and depth of organizations with which he was involved, but I believe, that is what he lived for, and he certainly left his mark.” He was a connector for all his many “best” friends in the wide social justice circles he inhabited and created. Indeed, at the reception following his funeral, so many of us from throughout Nashville acknowledged that we would never have met each other if not for Avi. When Rabbi Joshua Kullock moved

to Nashville, “He offered to take me around town and to show me the many challenges and opportunities that Nashville was facing, which he did. A few days after the High Holidays he drove me all around, introduced me to different people, took me to all kinds of meetings from public education to poverty, and everything in between…He was greater than life and I hope that his memory will continue to inspire us all. I miss him.” Those in the non-Jewish community who had never heard the word, mensch, came to realize that the definition fit Avi perfectly. His close friend and ally in social justice work, Irwin Venick, noted that, “Avi was always looking ahead when faced with a problem or challenge. Although fully supportive of the CRC, when it became clear that certain advocacy efforts of the CRC could not proceed, he worked with others to create the Nashville Jewish Social Justice Roundtable … to advocate for other social justice concerns.” “It is no exaggeration to say that I would have never become President of the Federation without Avi’s encouragement, support and constant reminders of how to stay focused on the greater good,” said Leslie Kirby. “He was passionate and doggedly determined to make the world a better place. He inspired me, truly, every single day.” Even when he disagreed with someone’s opinion, he remained friends. Mark Friedman, former Jewish Federation Executive Director, commented, “When we disagreed, we did so as models in the spirit of Mahloket Matters and we always came away from debates respecting and understanding each other’s point of view. Avi was a true bridge builder, and he alone, really was the architect

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and foundation of a strong and vibrant League of Women Voters, pointed out CRC in Nashville.” that “Most of us have a few best friends. Tom Negri, retired General Manager Avi seemed to have hundreds …. What I of the Loews Vanderbilt Hotel, spoke to loved about Avi is that he always, always Avi nearly every day “about a wide range believed that if one gave those doubters of topics, from Israel to the Pope and [about a cause] the right information, the the Vatican. While we agreed on almost right opportunities to see for themselves everything, on the rare occasion that we the impact they could have, they would didn’t, there was never an argument.” share his passion to help.” “Avi would put his ‘Menschness’ “I had the opportunity to eat and into action,” Negri added. “If he found a converse with Avi many times at his wrong, he would attempt to correct it, no favorite breakfast and lunch spots, first, matter how long it took to rectify. That the old Noshville in Midtown, and can be seen in his work on affordable then Midtown Café,” David Plazas, the housing, people with disabilities, immiOpinion and Engagement Director for grants, the Family of Abraham, Clergy the USA TODAY Network newsrooms for Tolerance, political matters concernin Tennessee wrote. “He also regularly ing honesty and integrity and on and on.” sent encouraging emails to me to keep Vanderbilt University Professor writing editorials demanding accountShaul Kelner noted that, “Avi teaches us ability from elected officials. Finally, we all just how much one person can make bonded over our mutual roots in Chicago a serious difference in our community. – the baseball, the food, the diversity. At Think of all the things that did happen, his funeral, I wore my socks emblazoned and that would not have happened had with the Chicago flag in his honor.” it not been for his unrelenting energy, One special focus of Avi’s passion passion, and leadership. Nashville is a was Our Place Nashville, where he served darker place for his absence. It’s on us to as President of the Board. Its mission is to bring the light.” provide affordable housing to adults with At a time when relations between developmental disabilities. “Avi rolled the Nashville Jewish community and the up his shirtsleeves and went to work: Muslim community in Nashville were raising money, introducing us to people, nearly non-existent, Avi worked to drawing attention to our work, keeping change that. He met Abdelghani Barre, us on task, encouraging us and inspiring the then-president of the Islamic Center us to do more because he would not of Nashville. “When Avi learned that we be able to rest until those who wanted both cared so much about social justice, a place of their own, especially those he invited me to come and speak at the with special needs, got the home and CRC,” Barre said. “That trip has bridged respect they deserve,” said Carole Naifeh, the relationship between the Jewish and Our Place Co-Founder and Executive Muslim communities of Nashville.” One Director. “Avi Poster was our hero and joyful result was the annual Christmas Day our friend.” “Juslim” lunch at a Chinese restaurant. Tom Negri encouraged everyone to Avi introduced Barre to the concept carry on Avi’s legacy by declaring, from of Tikkun Olam, “which has strengthtime to time, “an Avi Day, Week or ened my own belief in doing more in Month. In this way, we can be inspired to repairing this broken world …. In his continue his work here on Earth.” honor, I will carry the Tikkun Olam For so many of us who knew him, torch he passed on to me.” we will still hear his voice saying, “I Debby PassoverAD_2023.qxp_SPTZ-48OB Gould, President of the loooooove you!” • SPTZ-48OB PassoverAD_2023 1/31/23 8:34 AM Page 1

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ey y’all! My name is Omer Shabat and I’m the Israeli Shaliach (Israeli emissary) in Nashville. I came to Nashville almost six months ago. After little time here I wanted to share with you my story about why I decided to take this position and move to the United States. It all started in 2013. I moved to Jezreel valley from the city of Yokneam and found out that my school participates in a program that sends Israeli teenagers to a summer camp together with American teenagers. As soon as I heard about it, I really wanted to go there and tried to be accepted. After some interviews, they informed me that I didn’t pass, and I was really, really upset, but I said that it was not important, and I forgot about it over the years. In high school I studied physics, computer science and music and in the 11th grade I had a prolonged medical case that forced me to miss a lot of my studies. I entered a challenging period in my life. At that moment I realized that I had to do everything possible to be able to continue my courses and manage to finish school. I knew that I couldn’t be in a combat unit in the army because of my medical situation, so I immediately started thinking about where I wanted to go. That’s where the idea of going for a year of service before the army was born. I knew I wanted to give of myself to others and I told myself there was no better time than now to do it. When I was 17 years old, I applied for the year of service at the Jewish Agency. I very quickly received a negative answer. Despite the rejection, I choose to do service in the youth movement. I wanted the opportunity to give back to the organization that had been my home during that time, and that gave me so much. After the year of service, I joined the army with Gerin Nahal, which is a very different path from many people. It is a path that provides the opportunity for everyone who has done years of service to join the army together as a group. We spent a year and eight months together in different positions, and another year of living together. The job was to guide and accompany youth through the recruitment process. I served in the Education and Youth unit. The goal is to give the populations of the Israeli society the tools so that they can do the meaningful service helping at-risk youth, Olim Hadashim (new immigrants), and others with special needs. During my service, I met soldiers from over 50 different countries. Everyone came to Israel for various reasons. Some came because they are Zionists, some have family in Israel, and some come from difficult personal situations. I learned to hear different stories about what made them take such a significant step and leave everything they know behind for a few years to actively contribute to the country. I didn’t always understand their challenges, but I tried to help in the best way possible. When I was released during the end of the Covid pandemic, I went straight to work as a director of the youth movement

where I grew up. I managed the Jezreel Valley and the Gilboa area and had under me 2,000 youths, instructors, graduate instructors and front teams of each locality and the work was 24/7 around education about Zionism, love of the land, tolerance, equality, and equality of human value. I accompanied groups with overnight stays during every holiday/vacation from school, which includes all the Jewish holidays and the big vacation that happens in July and August. Each trip was 4-10 days and there were 800-1500 students in total, and I was sometimes responsible for 300-100. After almost two years at work, I told myself that I wanted to try to do something different, with an even bigger impact and then I started looking. I had to decide if I would continue doing service, look for another job, or if this was my time to begin the University. One day, I was driving to a work meeting, and a radio advertisement popped up for the shaliach position. I didn’t understand what it meant but it sounded cool so I said to myself let’s see what could happen. I passed all the interviews, and because of my background, I was asked to start in Cape Town South Africa, to manage the youth movement and the camp there. I knew I wanted to go in this direction, but I thought to myself that maybe I wanted a change from the atmosphere of a youth movement. I wanted to bring the things I learned there to a different type of environment. After a few conversations, it was decided that I would have an interview at the Jewish community in Nashville. And there it happened. As soon as I heard about the community something immediately attracted me. Without knowing much, I started planning and building to come up with many ideas. The whole process from how I started until the placement was so fast and I was so busy with my previous job that I couldn’t spare the time to even think about it, which really helped me pass the four months until I had to leave. Today, I’ve been the Nashville shaliach for six months. Six months I’ve been living in a country where I don’t speak the language well, the culture is different, people think differently with a completely different life path than I know, different ways of working and everyone I’ve ever known in my life is on the other side of the earth and eight hours apart. And it’s hard. It’s hard to get through the Sabbaths with-

out remembering the family meals, the holidays, the birthdays that give reasons to meet friends or just pick up the phone to call a friend I haven’t talked to in a long time. Now I needed to find new things that would fill me up and other people who would give me that feeling of belonging. Today I’m beginning to understand a little of what happened to those I accompanied who left everything and came to contribute to the state even though they really didn’t have to but felt obligated. And for it to be good, you just have to decide that you are doing good! I have no doubt that the process here is still long. But I want to say a huge thank you for accepting me. Receiving the warmth and love from all of you gives me the strength to stay here longer. •

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Chabad of Nashville invites all to journey to Shabbat in the Heights

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magine that the Shtetl of Europe has been frozen in time, transported to New York, and then unfrozen. Imagine walking down the main street and seeing the Judaica shops, hearing the sounds of yeshiva students studying the Talmud, smelling the aromas of the freshly baked challah wafting from the local kosher bakeries, while seeing signs in Hebrew and Yiddish and shuls at every corner, while the skyscrapers of Manhattan rise in the distance. Chabad of Nashville invites the

Nashville community to experience this at Shabbat in the Heights. When friends from the Nashville community arrived in the Crown Heights neighborhood of Brooklyn at the last Shabbat in the Heights trip, they knew this would be unlike any other trip taken before. Many have traveled all over the world, but on this weekend, they were hoping to gain something more meaningful. Stacy Miller from Knoxville, a recent participant from Shabbat in the Heights, shared “Joining the Shabbat in

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the Heights was a unique experience, that by the end of the weekend, it felt like the whole community in Crown Heights had opened their homes and hearts to welcome us.” Throughout Shabbat, guest lecturers and study groups provide opportunities to study the Rebbe’s teachings and illuminating perspective on life and its purpose. A guided tour of the Chabad World Headquarters allows a glimpse into the life of the Rebbe, Rabbi M.M. Schneerson, and how he inspired his thousands of emissaries, leaders in their own right, to be points of light in Jewish communities in every corner of the globe. Nashville, Tennessee will be well-represented this year with a group led by Rabbi Yitzchak and Esther

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Tiechtel, with Chabad of Nashville. “Living in Nashville and working in the community for the past 25 years makes Nashville home, but a big piece of my heart is always in Crown Heights where I grew up,” said, Rabbi Tiechtel. “I can’t wait to share it with my friends from the Nashville community.” The all-inclusive weekend feels like a retreat, complete with a smorgasbord of authentic Jewish cuisine, and eclectic Chasidic entertainment, providing a much-needed boost of spiritual energy, which will inspire you to living a more meaningful life. To learn more about Shabbat in the Heights please go to www.shabbatintheheights.com or call Chabad at 615-646-5750. •


Diversity Continued from page 3 “I think from there, there’s a lot of intentional work that’s being done to create more communities of belonging,” Looney said. “There’s an initiative out of the LA Federation called NuRoots, and NuRoots is intended to attract Jews that aren’t necessarily engaged in Jewish community. One of the things they’re doing is putting a special emphasis on Jews of color.” While the majority of Jews identify as white, 17 percent of U.S. Jewish adults live with at least one person who is nonwhite. Data show that the U.S. Jewish population is becoming more racially and ethnically diverse, according to studies by the Pew Research Center. There are reportedly about 50 Jewish people of color living in Nashville today, but this data is purely anecdotal and based on self-identification, according to Deborah Oleshansky, director of the Jewish community relations committee for the Jewish Federation of Greater Nashville. Michael Twitty, an African American Jewish chef, and author scheduled to speak at the Jewish Federation of Greater Nashville’s Passover event, told The Jewish Observer that there are likely around 100,000 Jews of African descent in North America. “This number probably represents one of the largest components of so-called interracial marriage, … and we’ve conveniently forgotten that this is a phenomenon that’s gone on since the 1960s,” Twitty said. “People might be surprised to learn that there are Black Jews who have been Black Jews for centuries.” Rabbi Isaiah Joseph Rothstein, a multiracial Orthodox Jew, said his child-

hood in Monsey, New York was the “classic suburban experience” except for the fact that his maternal side of the family is African American or of other faith backgrounds. “I sort of grew up holding multiple worlds, cultures, and there are multiple worlds — there are so many worlds around us, within us,” Rothstein said in a Zoom interview. “From a young age, I was already considering what identity meant.” Like Looney, he said his biggest challenge is dealing with the insider/ outsider phenomenon, in which one is a member of a group but may experience some social distance from other members of that group. “There’s this teaching from the Torah about Moshe where Moshe — Moses — says … ‘because I was a stranger in a strange land’ [in Egypt],” Rothstein said. “So I think it’s wild being marginalized by a marginalized community or feeling like an outsider within a community of outsiders like that.” He added that both the Jewish and African populations have faced persecution and oppression throughout the centuries. “Holding both of those histories in my DNA and in my blood is somewhat complex, but then when those two communities aren’t seeing eye to eye with one another or where there could sometimes be racism in the Jewish community or antisemitism in the Black and African American communities, that really hurts,” Rothstein said. He said Jewish texts teach that humans should embrace unity based on the story of creation. “There’s no race in Judaism, so we’re using our modern sensibilities to read into race,” Rothstein said. “What it’s trying to say is that we’re everything;

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there isn’t a race. We’re created in an image of God and we’re created of everything. We’re created from all soil from all places; we’re not sliced into categories of melanin, skin tone.” Rothstein, rabbinic scholar and the public affairs advisor at the JFNA, said he works to promote an inclusive community for all Jews and loved ones through the Jewish equity, diversity & inclusion (JEDI) initiative. “When we say all Jews and our loved ones, we have 10 different identity groups that we’re advancing justice and equity for,” Rothstein said. “One identity group is race and ethnicity, another is LGBTQ+, another is around gender, another religious affiliation, disabilities, non-native English-speaking, economic precarity, mental and physical health.” The JEDI initiative consists of three areas of work, which include education, engagement and empowerment. The engagement area focuses on who has a seat at the proverbial table and who built the table, as well as increasing representation of underserved groups in leadership positions.

Empowerment, which Rothstein said contains public policy and federal civic engagement, centers the four Rs: recruitment, relevance, relationships and retainment. “Recruiting people is great, but that’s not going to actually create inclusive spaces or welcome experiences,” Rothstein said. “So the second part that we measure is around relevance; when the person is in the room, do they feel like what’s being provided is relevant to them? Again, we do this by each identity.” Rothstein said relationships should be genuine connections. PJ Pettis, a professor of sociology at Michigan State University, said that leadership in Jewish spaces may begin to reflect the changing demographics within the Jewish community. “Diverse doesn’t mean equality, right?” Pettis said in a Zoom interview. “I don’t know that leadership can necessarily change, but I think it’s going to become more diverse, just because the population is changing. I think you’re going to see more visibility because people are not going to sit at the back of the table anymore.” •

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Kehilla High School Freshmen Explore New York City in 48 Hours By RABBI SAUL STROSBERG

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ith 48 hours between touchdown and takeoff, the Genesis Fellows of Kehilla High School took New York City by storm, this past week, for their freshman class trip. After landing at the La Guardia, Kehilla’s five freshmen (and chaperone) drove into midtown Manhattan’s Museum Of Modern Art (MOMA), one

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of the world’s largest art museums, followed by a visit to the Diamond District, dinner at KD46, and then up to the Washington Heights neighborhood, where students experienced New York’s little Dominican Republic, on the west side, and then Yeshiva University, on the east. The night ended with a visit with Rabbi Dov Lerea, one of the founders of the famous Heschel School. The second day began at Ground Zero and the 9/11 museum, followed by lunch in Chinatown and then a stop at the Tenement Museum, where students toured two apartments belonging to immigrants from Poland and Puerto Rico, both from the famous third wave of immigration. From there the group experienced Lower East Side pickles, at the Pickle Guys and then walked up to the High Line, a former, raised New York Central railroad spur that has since been turned into a green

Aaron Cheng, Carson Pounds, Xavier Rodriguez, Ava Sassser, and Isaac Simpson, explore the sights, sounds, taste, and smells of New York City on their freshman class trip.

park. After eight and a half miles of walking, students cabbed up to Times Square, had an early dinner at Le Marais, kosher French steakhouse, and then were treated to Hamilton on Broadway. With only half a day left, students woke up early, and visited the Statue of Liberty and then off to the airport. In many ways, the trip was a true

reflection of the values of Kehilla: making connections between disciplines and across cultures, learning more deeply about the world around through exposure and conversation, and building our own community through positive experiences. The trip brought the students closer together and they looking forward to future school adventures. •


The Temple’s Next D’or and Jewish Federation’s NowGen Group Collaborate on a Networking Night

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ongregation Ohabai Sholom’s young adult group, Next D’or, is teaming up with The Jewish Federation’s young adult group, NowGen, for a night of networking, learning and interacting with some of the Jewish community’s top leaders and professionals. “I think this is consistently one of the best events put on by NowGen and Next Dor,” said Nashville newcomer and program attendee, Matthew Caplan. “Not only is it a great way to connect with those in your industry and make new friends along the way, but it also provides a rewarding outlet to hear life and career advice from people outside of your industry who’ve done jobs they’ve loved for years - often decades. I often find it’s their advice that sticks with me the most, and I’ve drawn upon it to this day.” This event, to be held on March 23, 2023, at The Temple, will feature a number of Jewish leaders from a variety of industries and professions. Participants will have the opportunity to share round tables with the speakers and ask any

Chabad to Host Family Cliff Notes Passover Seder and a Kabalistic Seder

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habad of Nashville invites the Nashville Jewish community to its 25th annual Community Passover Seders, which will take place in the magnificent ballroom of the Genesis Campus for Jewish Life. Participants will experience the freedom of Passover the way our ancestors did when they left Egypt 3,335 years ago. Chabad will host two different types of Seders on the first two nights of Passover. On Wednesday, April 5, at 7:00 PM, Chabad will host a Cliff Notes Family Friendly Seder. It will be an interactive family Seder, a warm, fun, and thought-provoking event, which includes a Passover experience in a royal setting, handmade shmurah Matzah for each Seder participant, an abundance of exquisite wines for every palate, an elegant royal dinner, which will include authentic gefilte fish, Bubby’s Passover brisket, and array of salad and side dishes, catered by one of Nashville’s premiere chefs. On Thursday, April 6, at 8:00 PM, Chabad will host “A Chasidic Seder for the Inquisitive Mind.” This will be a full Chasidic Seder with many insights to the Haggadah and various Chasidic tales and melodies, and an exquisite Seder feast. This Seder will delve into the deeper meaning and dimensions of the Passover Exodus. Both seders will take place in the Bernard Ballroom at the Genesis Campus for Jewish Life, 95 Bellevue Road, and will be catered by one of Nashville’s premiere chefs. Reservation for each seder can be made at www.chabadnashville.com.. Chabad will also be offering gift boxes of shmurah matzah, the traditional hand-made round matzah for all who would like to celebrate Passover with the ancient biblical Matzah, by calling Chabad at (615) 646-5750. •

question they may have in regard to their careers. This will be the third time the two organizations have teamed up for such an event, and the number of attendees continues to grow. “We are thrilled to offer this program again! It’s the first and only progressional networking program for young Jewish professionals offered within the Jewish community,” said Sheri Rosenberg, The Temple’s Director of Membership and Inclusion. “Our planning team believes it’s great to have an opportunity like this to meet C-Suite professionals and thought leaders who are willing to sit down and answer questions from young professionals. We are bringing different generations of Jewish professionals together to share knowledge and advice

and build lasting connections.” There is no cost for attendees. However, an RSVP email to sheri@

templenashville.org is requested. Refreshments and drinks will be served during the event, beginning at 6 pm. •

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Commentary Do You Believe in Miracles? By RABBI YITZCHOK TIECHTEL

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young man was having a difficult time getting married. He was set up with girl after girl, all to no avail. After a first date, the girls just wouldn’t want to see him again. They didn’t tell him why, but he knew it had something to do with the large scar on his cheek, which was difficult to look at. He felt short-changed. After all, he was a man with a big heart, and good character. He went to visit a great rabbi for his council and wisdom. “Rabbi,” he said tearfully, “I don’t know what to do. I don’t want to be lonely. I want to be a husband and a father.” He told the Rabbi that he felt that his physical appearance was getting in the way of his chances.The saintly Rabbi suggested to him softly, “The next time you meet a girl, bring up your scar in conversation. Tell her about it, how you got it, and how it makes you feel. Speak of it with confidence and without shame,” the Rabbi told him. The fellow had never considered this approach and decided to give it a try. A couple of months later someone suggested that he meet a girl. She was described to him as a very special and

vibrant individual, kind and sweet. But what worried him was that they also told him that she was very beautiful. “If she is as attractive as people said, then she will not be interested in a damaged person like me.” Can you imagine his pain? He comforted himself; “People exaggerate; perhaps she is average!” And he took her out on a date. When he met her, he saw that she was as beautiful as people had said and his heart sank. He thought to himself that there was no chance this would go anywhere. They started talking. She was charming, sweet, and open. And though he would have preferred to do just about anything else in the world, he awkwardly shared the following: “I am sure that the first thing you noticed about me was the horrible scar on my cheek. My teacher told me to share the story about this scar on the very first date. Would it be ok for me to share?” She said yes. He went on to tell her that when he was 20 years old, he was heading home from the Yeshiva one night, and the streets were dark and deserted. Suddenly, he heard a cry. A young girl was scream-

ing. He saw a man running after the Jewish girl, who was fleeing and crying out in fear. Without thinking, he immediately gave chase and with a pounding heart he caught up to the predator and held him down long enough for the girl to escape! But in the struggle the man took out a knife and slashed him across the face. Though he survived, his face would never look the same. “That is the story of my scar,” the man concluded. To his shock, the girl began to shudder, and wiped tears from her eyes. He was surprised by her intense emotional reaction, until she said to him, “I never thought that I ever would find you. You see, all those years ago, the girl you saved was me. And since that day, I have never stopped wondering about the man who saved me. Who is he? Where is he? Is he ok? I wish I knew his name. Will I ever have the opportunity to thank him?” The young man and woman in the story are happily married today. Albert Einstein once said, “There are two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle.” This is the underlying message in the story of the Festival Purim that we celebrate this month. The mystics teach that when G-d created our world He did so by hiding His revealed Presence in history, nature, and human affairs in this mundane world. Indeed, the Hebrew word for the

“World” is “Olam,” which is etymologically linked to the word He’elem, meaning hidden, teaching us that G-d concealed his Presence in the world, to allow humanity to exercise their free will, to choose whether to see this world as secular or sacred, as purposeless or providential, as mundane or miraculous. It is for each one of us to decide whether we see history, in the words of writer Joseph Heller, “As a trash bag of random coincidences torn open by the wind” or whether we subscribe to the belief that, “Coincidence is G-d’s way of choosing to remain anonymous.” For this is precisely what makes Purim different from all other Jewish festivals. The Megilah is the only book of scripture that does not mention G-d’s name explicitly, and the story of Purim is the only Jewish holiday which does not feature open miracles and instead reads like a series of well-timed random coincidences whose convergence results in salvation. Correspondingly, the heroine of the Purim story is named Esther, which means concealed, and indeed for this reason we wear masks on Purim, all in order to celebrate the hidden Presence and providence of G-d in nature, in history, and in our lives. As the late Rabbi Jonathan Sacks summed it up well in saying: “Faith is about seeing the miraculous in the everyday, not about waiting every day for the miraculous.” •

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sation on Thursday, March 23 at 7PM. Benedetta has been spreading the word about the marvels of Italian Jewish food in Italy and abroad and will share with us how some of Italy’s most delectable dishes are Jewish in origin. Her work has been featured in The Washington Post, Cosmopolitan, Elle à Table, Saveur, and Tablet. Both conversations will be moderated by Natasha Senjanovic, NJBS committee member as well as an award-winning journalist who covers vulnerable populations and spent 16 years living and eating her way through Italy. For more information, please visit nashvillejcc.org/book, or contact Adult and Community-Wide Programs Director, Sharon Benus at sharonb@ nashvillejcc.org or 615/354-1697. •

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Jewish Family Service: Volunteer Opportunities for Everyone

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023 marks the 20th anniversary of Jewish Family Service’s Helping Hands program. The Helping Hands program was developed to help older adults continue to live independently while maintaining social interaction and connections with the Jewish community at a time in their lives when those things have become more difficult. The program offers in-person friendly visits, telephone reassurance, and pen pals. The magic of this program lies in the connections that develop over time. When the older adult and volunteer first meet, they are usually strangers or possibly acquaintances, but gradually friendships develop. Program Coordinator, Jamie Maresca, described this phenomenon, “I was checking in with one of the older adults, and asked how visits with her volunteer were going. She responded with, ‘What volunteer?’ I gave her the name. She quickly said, ‘Oh she’s not a volunteer, she’s my dear friend.’ Yet, this older adult and volunteer had never met before they were matched through the Helping Hands program.” The Helping Hands program is an example of an ongoing volunteer opportunity. Each volunteer must commit to visiting, calling, or writing their senior at least once a month. Volunteers are encouraged to continue with their assigned older adult for at least a year. The consistency of the relationship between the volunteer and older adult is what makes this experience valuable and special. Bobbi Lipschutz, who has been a volunteer with Jewish Family Service for over five years said, “I love volunteering with JFS. I love helping people in need. As a former recipient

Bobbi Lipshutz and her daughter volunteer with Helping Hands, Golden Lunch Bunch, and Senior Seder programs through Jewish Family Service

of help from JFS it is my honor to give back to the organization that helped me.” When asked why she chooses to continue to volunteer, Bobbi stated, “I have always been the helper person ever since I was little. I just really like to help people. Volunteering gives me that warm fuzzy feeling.” Bobbi’s energy and warm heart is strongly felt by the older adults she visits. The senior that Bobbi currently visits, does not usually attend events in the community, but has attended both the TGIT lunch at the Gordon JCC and the Golden Lunch Bunch at the Temple with some encouragement from Bobbi. In addition to volunteering with the Helping Hands program, Bobbi also volunteers with the Golden Lunch Bunch and Senior Seder programs and has actively recruited her friends and even her daughter to volunteer as well. Not able to commit to an ongoing volunteer opportunity? Jewish Family Service also provides one-time volunteer opportunities with Jacob’s Ladder, Cyber

Lloyd and Paula Tannenbaum lead Shabbat services at Belmont Villag.

Seniors, and religious programming. The Jacob’s Ladder program matches handy volunteers with older adults who need assistance with tasks that require climbing a ladder, such as changing light bulbs and batteries in smoke detectors. The Cyber Seniors program matches computer savvy volunteers with older adults who need assistance using technology, such as ordering groceries and/or medications online and how to video chat with family. Both these programs allow volunteers to choose if they want to help one time or on an as-needed basis. No long-term commitment is necessary. Another fulfilling volunteer opportunity that does not require a long-term commitment is leading Shabbat Services in assisted living facilities. Jewish Family Service currently offers Shabbat Services once a month at two local assisted living facilities, Abe’s Garden and Belmont Village, and hopes to add more facilities soon. Eileen Handler, a resident at Abe’s Garden and long-time Shabbat Service attendee said, “We are grateful

to Jewish Family Service for helping us to be part of the Jewish community. Several residents are no longer able to attend services in the synagogue. This allows us to keep in touch with Judaism and each other.” Madi Lundin, a resident at Belmont Village, commented on the services, “Candles, wine, challah and a short service...lovely!” These wonderful Shabbat Services are made possible, because of compassionate volunteers. Jewish Family Service provides the service booklets, candles, challah, wine, and grape juice, but our volunteers lead the service and provide the heart and soul of the experience. Cheryl Lane has been leading Shabbat Services at Abe’s Garden for over six years. She said of her experience, “I look forward to leading services every month. I love to see Eileen and give her a hug. I have known these women for a long time and care about them. I love hearing Joanie sing along.” We recently introduced Shabbat Services at Belmont Village. Lloyd and Paula Tannenbaum have led the service there twice so far. When asked about their experience, they said, “We’re grateful to [Jewish Family Service] for reaching out to the greater community and privileged to be a part of that effort.” • Jewish Family Service is always looking to add caring volunteers to help with programming. If you are interested in learning more, please contact Jamie Maresca, Volunteer Coordinator/Helping Hands Program Coordinator at Jewish Family Service at jamie@jfsnashville.org or 615354-1686.

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Get Outside: Visit Radnor Lake State Park By MELISSA SOSTRIN

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hen your child returns to school next fall, wouldn’t it be great if their “What I Did Over Summer Vacation” essay included “I helped maintain a bald eagle nesting area?” They can do that at Radnor Lake State Park which is a mere twenty minutes from Broadway and home to herons, hawks, and herring. Just kidding about the herring. The lake was created in 1914 by damming Otter Creek to provide water for steam locomotives. In 1971 concerned citizens formed Friends of Radnor Lake to stop residential development that threatened the lake and hills. In 1973 their successful grassroots fundraising effort combined with state and federal funds enabled the purchase of the area which is home to fauna such as otter, mink, turtles, bobcat, snakes, and many species of native and migrating birds. The flora includes ferns, wildflowers, mosses, trees, fungi, and other plants. Park Manager Steve Ward, who has been there over two decades, told me that last year they welcomed 2.2 million visitors. While most simply hiked some of the over seven miles of trails, many participated in the Junior Ranger program, went on a guided canoe float, did some serious birding, or attended special programs with visiting scholars. I have attended hikes with Dr. Robert Loeb of Penn State who for the last 12 years has visited to research the beaver population, plant life, and the importance of beavers to the health of Radnor Lake. One of his fascinating research conclusions was that the park could use human pathways as an “odor fence” to limit beaver damage to this

A Heron colony in Radnor Lake state park

Bald eagles nesting at Radnor Lake state park

urban forest. I was also fortunate to get an early glimpse of the newly developed Harris Ridge trail on a guided walk with Dr. Doug Heffington of Henderson State University. He and his students worked with the ranger staff on trail planning through historical features such as the Franklin Interurban Railway tracks discovered on the site. This new 3-mile trail includes the addition of 89 acres to the park and access from a Franklin Road lot

which will help reduce parking congestion, and, when completed, will make for an 8-mile loop around the lake. In early February a friend and I saw a flock of turkeys, deer, and turtles basking in the sun. We were also able to look through a high-powered telescope at the nesting pair of bald eagles who had just laid two to three eggs which Steve said

would hatch in 32 days. Through his lens Steve was able to see the mother turning the eggs at one point, and my friend and I saw the male swooping down to the nest in response to the cries of his mate. One of last year’s eaglets is still hanging around Radnor. On a mid-February walk, another friend and I also focused on birds as her son’s love of ornithology has led her to become quite adept at recognizing them by their calls or markings as they flitted around us. And we were thrilled to be less than 20 yards from a red-tailed hawk that swooped through the trees and to have clear sight of a great blue heron nesting colony. Radnor also is home to the Barbara J. Mapp Aviary Education Center, which was a vision of Steve Ward, and was built through the generosity of donors and volunteers. The aviary houses seven birds of prey who can no longer be in the wild, and has an interpretive center with displays on snakes and turtles. The hours it is open are limited so as not to stress the birds so check before you go. Nature, invasive plant species, and the millions of visitors means the park must be carefully protected and vigorously maintained. So, Radnor relies on volunteers to remove invasive species, mulch the much-traveled trails, and currently to help to complete the Harris Ridge Trail. Do you know a bar or bat mitzvah or a youth group that would like to do a tzedakah project outside with their friends? Contact Lyndy. Maness@tn.gov and spend some time at a Nashville treasure. See you out there! •

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Building Community is the Answer By BARBARA DAB

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nyone asking the question, “Where is a good place to go for dinner or drinks that is fun, has great food, and feels like home?” need only look as far as Sylvan Park and answer. Anyone asking where they can find a place where, on any given night, they will spot their neighbors, their friends, and even their rabbi, should also look to answer. Indeed, the local restaurant serves up equal portions of consistently great food and welcoming community. The face behind answer is Victoria Rothberg, who, along with her partner, chef Chris Rauci, opened the restaurant nearly six years ago. The Denver native was raised in a Reform Jewish home and describes herself as more culturally Jewish and less religious. “I had a Bat Mitzvah, but we were not super involved,” she says. After earning her bachelor’s degree in business at New York University, Rothberg entered the management training program at Houston’s, a large hospitality company. “Houston’s is the industry standard for the restaurant business,” she says. Following her stint at Houston’s Rothberg moved on to Atlanta, and another large company. It was there she connected with Rauci, the corporate chef, and the two became friends. As the company expanded, Rothberg and Rauci were assigned to travel the country, opening new restaurants, and training staff. Eventually, the two landed in Nashville and hatched the plan to strike out on their own. The pair encountered many chal-

Victoria Rothberg, co-owner of answer. Restaurant in Sylvan Park

Victoria Rothberg and partner chef Chris Rauci in the answer. Space before the buildout.

lenges and bumps as they set about building on the dream. There was push back from neighbors who worried about late night noise, traffic, and lack of parking. “It was the craziest of challenges,” says Rothberg, “I like to say, ‘ignorance is bliss,’ because we had no idea what we would encounter.” Rothberg says she and Rauci went door-to-door to meet the neighbors, they attended city council meetings, and spoke to anyone who would listen. “By the time we opened, we had met tons of people.” The concept for the new eatery was based on Rothberg and Rauci’s shared

childhood experiences. The name even sprung up out of their memories of family meals. “We really want our restaurant to provide a comfortable environment for guests to enjoy each other’s company and connect with one another – like a dinner table in your house. I think about growing up and having parents ask you question after question. The name came from the idea that hopefully our restaurant provides a place for people to connect and find some answers.” Over the past six years, Rothberg and Rauci tested the waters with a second, short-lived, restaurant in the midtown neighborhood. “We were convinced to open a second place, and then Covid hit, so the timing was bad,” says Rothberg. But the two learned a valuable lesson. “It taught me what I want my life to be like. What the two of us are really good at, and that we should focus on that.” What they’re good at is creating community. “If I had to pick the most Jewish influence I have, it’s bringing people together,” she says. “Nothing warms my heart more.” In fact, answer. is often the gathering spot for members of the Jewish community and most years the take home dinner offerings include their twist on Hanukkah and Passover. (Note: answer. is not kosher.) Rabbi Laurie Rice of Congregation Micah and her family are regulars, as are many of their congregants. “Victoria is a super hard worker. She is on the line, at the kitchen, serving dinners,” says Rice. “She creates com-

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munity and makes you feel like family, which is most certainly a Jewish value.” Rothberg’s work ethic led her to add another title to her name: realtor. “I was thinking about other ways to grow my income and became friendly with someone who comes into the restaurant who is a realtor,” she says. That friend is Christie Wilson, owner/broker of The Wilson Group. “I met Victoria when she was going door to door in Sylvan Park to gain support for the restaurant. Then I got to know her more as a patron of answer.,” says Wilson. “She is very smart, and we talked real estate. But I really knew she was interested when she emailed me one day asking about the process of getting into the business.” Wilson describes Rothberg as, “Impressive. Driven. Determined. Fearless. And she is also very nice.” Rothberg says in addition to the additional income, she wants to be someone a homeowner will trust. And according to Wilson, that is exactly how clients feel. “She makes newcomers feel welcome and included in our community. She helps current residents find their next chapter in their home and community.” There is that word again: community. According to Wilson, Rothberg’s contribution to Nashville cannot be overstated. “Being involved in her successful restaurant business and her successful real estate business is about as community minded an entrepreneur could be.” And whether she is showing property to prospective homeowners, or greeting guests at the door of the restaurant, Rothberg’s entrepreneurial spirit shines through. Wilson says, “She has a way with people, and she is very organized, together, and gets things done by listening to the customer’s needs, being efficient and organized. She also is always asking questions and has a desire to grow, like all good entrepreneurs.” As for the future, Rothberg says she plans to stay the course in a volatile industry. “It’s never ending. Chris and I are here every day. We are always hiring and training new people,” she says. “And I genuinely like being here. I love when the place is buzzing, and people are having a good time.” •

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Big Night 2023: Broadway Comes to Nashville was a Hit!

l. to r. Morgan Karr, Gordon JCC Membership Director Arielle Kaufman, Brandon Contreras, Alisa Melendez, Marina Kondo, and Anthony Lee Medina

l. to r. Jessica Ginsberg, Dara Freiberg, Lana Pargh, Erin Coleman, Leeron Resnick, Laurel Orley, & Quin Segal

By LESLIE SAX, GORDON JCC EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR

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ig Night Out 2023 was an entertaining evening and a great success. Over 200 people attended as Broadway came to Nashville. Guests entered through the Backstage door to an auction room to bid on interesting auction items and feast on appetizers and our own hummus board display. They enjoyed mingling as they strolled through Central Park, on their way to Broadway and the Pargh Theater. After an introduction and thank you’s from Board President Cindee Gold, and Hamotzi led by Rabbis Danziger and Strosberg, guests enjoyed a seated dinner catered by Chef Burke Conley from Takeaway Catering. Munching on black and white cookies from Stren’s bakery in Brooklyn, attendees settled down for the show, a musical review of songs written by Jewish composers and their mentees. Broadway stars Brandon Contreras, Morgan Karr, Marina Kondo, Anthony Lee Medina, and Alisa Melendez wowed the audience with their selections from musicals including “Oklahoma!,” “The Sound of Music,” “Sunday in the Park with George,” “The Little Mermaid,” “Hamilton” and “Tick, Tick…Boom!.” Thank you to everyone who supported the cause and raised $50,000 for the JCC. Sponsors included Zander Insurance, Capstar Bank, Gold Skin Care, Sprintz, The Dorothy Cate & Thomas F. Frist Foundation, Argent Trust, Ghertner and Company, Hermitage Design Center, KraftCPAs, and The Pargh Team, as well as in-kind sponsors Best Brands, Red Spirits and Wine, Branches and Tennessee Brew Works. •

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James Threalkill is the Revere Jewish Featured Artist for Art Montessori Preschool on the West Side 2023 celebrated Tu B’Shvat C

hildren at the Revere Jewish Montessori Preschool celebrated Tu B’Shvat by creating an indoor art garden, using the seven elements of art, Line, Shape, Space, Value, Form, Texture, and Color. The children learned how trees play a significant role in our world. Trees give us clean water to drink, air to breathe, shade and food to humans, animals, and plants.

By SHARON BENUS, GORDON JCC ADULT AND COMMUNITY-WIDE PROGRAMS DIRECTOR

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rt on the West Side, a juried Fine Art and Craft show, hosting more than 40 local and regional artists showcasing several medium including oil, acrylic, watercolor, glass, metal, clay, wood, fiber, photography, and jewelry, will take place Saturday, April 15 through Sunday, April 16. Celebrating its ninth year, Art on the West Side will feature renowned artist James Threalkill, whose vibrant expressive paintings celebrate music, movement, life, and community. Threalkill uses his palette knife as a brush, layering acrylic paint to create images that are textured in a three-dimensional style and vividly accented. This method pulls the viewer in more closely to examine the characteristics of the painting in more detail. Growing up in East Nashville, Threalkill went on to play wide receiver at Vanderbilt University, where he began to hone his talent in art and earned a Bachelor of Science degree in Fine Arts. After graduation. he won an Emmy Award for his creation of a mural painting program with youth for the Edgehill Community in South Nashville. His work has been featured on both television and film, as well as an illustrated children’s book series entitled; “Visions; African American Experiences,” which was showcased on Sesame Street. Furthermore, his work has been collected internationally, including locations in South Africa where he had the incredible opportunity of meeting President Nelson Mandela, and in South America by the U. S. Embassy in Bogotá, Colombia. James shared, “I am both honored and excited about serving as the featured artist for this year’s Art on the West Side exhibition. I have a wonderful history with this show and have enjoyed great relationships

They provide habitats for numerous species, firewood for cooking and heat, materials for buildings and places of spiritual, cultural, and recreational importance. Registration for the academic year starting in August 2023 will open on February 1, 2023. Spaces are filling up and are very limited. To take a tour or to register your child please call 615-6465750 or email rjmpinfo@gmail.com •

This year’s Art on the West Side exhibit will feature the work of artist James Threalkill

with the Gordon JCC staff, participating artists, and the patrons who come out to support the artists.” This year’s Art on the West Side, co-chaired by Betsy Hoffman and Missi Freidenberg, begins Saturday, April 15 from 6-9PM with a cocktail reception. Tickets are $10 per person. Entry on Sunday, April 16 is free and open to the public from 10 am-4 pm A percentage of all sales from Art on the West Side benefit art programming at the Gordon JCC. Find a full list of artists and more information at www.artonthewestside.org and for more information regarding the show, contact sharonb@nashvillejcc.org. Follow us on Facebook (www.facebook.com/artonthewestside) and Instagram (@artonthewestside) and visit us at www. artonthewestside.org. •

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Akiva Students Honor Parents at 5th Commandment Tea By ELLY EBIN

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ver 25 years ago, Akiva School held its very first 5th Commandment Tea. Now an annual event and long-standing tradition, the 5th Commandment Tea is an opportunity for Akiva students to honor the impactful contributions of their parents and caregivers. Scheduled to coincide with Parshat Yitro, the weekly Torah portion where the Israelites are given the Ten Commandments, students learn about the fifth commandment, honor your father and mother, and ways in which to demonstrate their respect and appreciation. The 5th Commandment Tea began back in 1996 with Evelyn Koch. Then on the faculty of Akiva School, she says, “I saw the amount of volunteering Akiva parents were doing and how involved they were, and wanted to find a way to show appreciation to these parents and give students a special opportunity to demonstrate the fifth commandment.”” Koch adds, “It was always the most attended event of the school year, and still today, parents come up to me and mention how much they loved it.”

Over 100 parents and caregivers enjoy student-made treats while listening to their children perform a musical tribute to show their appreciation and love.

At this year’s 5th Commandment Tea, Akiva students welcomed over 100 parents and caregivers with student-prepared treats and decorations, a musical performance, and warm words of appreciation and love. Rachel Goodrich is an Akiva parent

to a fourth grader and a second grader. Goodrich reflected that, “Gathering together with our children and the diverse Akiva community to celebrate shared values brought me so much joy.” Goodrich says, “It is programs like this one that help us parents instill the values

of honoring each other every day.” She added that, “Seeing the pride with which the students performed and honored the parents really compounded this year’s school theme of community.” Morah Batya Rosenfeld, who teaches Jewish Studies and the weekly Parsha (Torah portion) at Akiva, echoes Goodrich, explaining that, “The 5th Commandment Tea is an opportunity to see the Torah brought to life. It gives students the chance to actually live out the many lessons they are learning, in this case the fifth commandment.” Rosenfeld adds that, “Akiva teachers consistently emphasize experiential and values-based learning, and the 5th Commandment Tea is a perfect example of seeing this in action.” As fourth grader Estie Livshitz reflected, “Our parents help us so much and take care of us all the time, so it’s really important that we do this for them and tell them why we are so thankful for all they do.” For both Akiva students and parents, the 5th Commandment Tea is a long standing and beloved tradition, and one that the community looks forward to carrying on for many years to come! •

Jewish Middle School Students Explore Options at Career Day By ELLY EBIN

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long-term exploration into career options and evolving professional fields ended on a high for Jewish Middle School students. Local professionals joined JMS for a culminating Career Day, from industries including music, automotive engineering, entertainment, hospitality, and medicine. Meeting with these professionals gave students a glimpse into how to go about pursuing their interests and the careers of their choice. It is a short leap from middle school to high school, where students begin to acutely focus their skills and interests towards a post- secondary education and ultimately a career path. To prepare them for this transition, JMS school counselor Rachel Dega, has been leading students on an inventory of their interests and aspirations, and a survey of career options that may fit those interests. Career-focused education gives students an up-close look at different pro-

and intricacies of modern and evolving job fields. For sixth grader Chase Rogers, the chance to hear from a music producer and audio engineer was particularly interesting. Chase is already passionate about music and dabbles in amateur music production on his own, so, “Hearing about a music producer’s journey was really impactful and my favorite part of the Career Fair.” As part of Career Day, JMS students hear about the Other students were field of nursing from Janell Jayamohan,a professor at equally inspired by the Vanderbilt’s School of Nursing visiting professionals. fessions and broadens their perspective Seventh grader Amalia Strosberg said beyond more traditional and familiar jobs. that, “Hearing from a professor of Nurse Students also gain an understanding of the Practitioning really changed my perskills and education required for the indusception on this profession and made it tries they have an interest in. Meeting with something I might seriously look into.” professionals in these fields is a chance to Rayna Simpson, a sixth grader, added ask questions and learn about the details that, “Nursing and healthcare science

has always been something I am passionate about. Knowing there were so many different kinds of nurses, who all work in different fields and places is really cool.” Dega said that the goal of the Career Fair was to, “Really expose students to the vast array of career options available to them, and to help them learn how they can align their skills and interests with growing fields of work. Our students learned that there is no one prescribed way or journey towards finding your career, and that the most important thing is to be open, willing to learn, and remain committed to following your dream.” Co-Head of School, Alene Arnold, added that “a successful Career Day, such as this one, gives students a look at the many different ways their studies and interests can relate to career opportunities, and most importantly it gets students excited and energized about their learning, which is always something we are thrilled to provide at JMS!” •

Breaking with Tradition, Elite NYC School Adds a Second Entrance Exam Date to Accommodate Jewish Families By JACOB HENRY

(New York Jewish Week) — Hunter College High School, a prestigious middle and high school in Manhattan, has added a second date for its entrance exam after a Jewish parent complained that the test was scheduled for the eve of Passover. Hunter spokesperson Vince Dimiceli told the New York Jewish Week that he believes this is the first time the school has offered a second test date. Hunter College High School, which runs from seventh to 12th grade, is a coveted destination for many New York City students. Because the school is run by Hunter College, an affiliate of the City University of New York, it is free to attend. Its three-hour entrance exam is invitation-only, and is open only to students whose grades or scores on state tests in English and math exceed a high threshold. The school does not admit anyone after

seventh grade, so the exam is students’ only chance to gain acceptance to Hunter. Erica Rahavy, a Jewish parent, told the Jewish Week before the second test date was announced that her son was invited to take the exam, but was dismayed to see that it fell on April 5, the morning preceding the first Seder night of Passover. Although the test does not fall on the holiday itself, which begins at sundown, Rahavy said the school “has to understand that families travel to be with their families on the holidays.” Hunter’s decision to add a second date to allow for Passover preparation reflects increasing sensitivity to religious observance at New York City schools, which have begun in recent years to close for a broad range of religious holidays. And it speaks to the particular sensitivities around Jewish practice in a city where Jews still make up more than 10% of the population. At the same time, the incident reflects how religious Jewish parents still contend with making some-

times difficult choices around holiday observance. “I have no problem missing the day of school for my kids,” Rahavy said. “We’ve done that before to celebrate holidays with our families. It shouldn’t be quite so high-stakes that it’s just this one day or nothing.” In an email sent to Hunter’s admissions office last week and obtained by the Jewish Week, Rahavy wrote that her family has plans to travel on April 5 and asked if the school offered an “alternate time for students celebrating the holiday.” The school’s response, sent yesterday, was terse: “The Entrance Exam will only be held on Wednesday, April 5, 2023 in the morning and students have about three hours to complete the exam. HCCS is unable to administer make-up exams.” Upon receiving Hunter’s response, Rahavy was worried that she would be forced to “decide to have my son take this exam or have a holiday with our family, which isn’t really a choice we should be

asked to make.” Soon afterward, however, the school changed its answer. As of Wednesday, a note on Hunter’s admissions website read, “An alternate test date for religious observance on Tuesday afternoon, April 4, 2023, held at Hunter College, will be made available upon request.” A day earlier, that line had not appeared on the site. But Dimiceli told the Jewish Week, ‘[W]e always knew we would need to make accommodations. That was not reflected on the Campus School website. It is so now.” Rahavy did not immediately respond to a request for comment about her reaction to the additional test date. But speaking to the Jewish Week before the date was added, she said accommodating a widely observed Jewish holiday in New York City felt like a clear choice. “I can’t imagine they would have planned this out on Christmas Eve when families travel to be with each other for the holidays,” she said. •

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March in Galleries: The work of John Guider, Peach McComb, Brenda Butka, and Marla Faith

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he Janet Levine March Gallery will feature the work of James Threalkill. Threalkill is originally from Nashville, Tennessee and after a three-sport career at East Nashville High School, played wide receiver at Vanderbilt University where he earned a Bachelor of Science degree in Fine Arts. He won an Emmy Award for his creation of a mural painting program with youth from the Edgehill Community in South Nashville. He also illustrated a children’s book series Visions; African American Experiences that was featured on Sesame Street. Threalkill’s work has been featured on major television programs and in movies. His work has been collected internationally, including locations in South Africa where he met President Nelson Mandela, and in South America by the U. S. Embassy in Bogotá, Colombia. James currently works out of his studio in Murfreesboro, Tennessee. The JLMG2 Gallery will feature the work of Nashville artist Henry Jones. A Detroit native, Jones is known for digging deeply inside to find the right way to express himself. The international poet, visual artist, playwright, and performance artist/actor is inspired by links to the African Diaspora and his heritage as a Black person. He seeks the human element which all people can relate to. For Jones’ current exhibit “Read in Red,” he has brought together 24 paintings about life, death, love, personal growth, historical connections, and cultural links. The Sig Held Gallery will feature the watercolors of Nadine Shillingford. Shillingford was born on the island of

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Dominica in the Caribbean but currently resides in Nashville, TN. Shillingford’s art captures people in everyday situations and brings them to life by studying their facial expressions. Her whimsical approach to art also gives life to her work.

Boats at Rest, Half Moon Island, by John Guider

Yellow, by Brenda Butka

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She does not have a formal art background and most of her methods are self-taught and developed through a lot of practice. She has established an international following on social media by completing and posting a daily #quicksketch drawing on her Instagram and Facebook pages. Each #quicksketch drawing is completed in 1-3 hours. Her work has been displayed in several shows at the Centennial Art Center and she is currently exhibiting artwork at the Rose-Hulman Institute Technology gallery in Terre Haute, IN. Shillingford is the author of the book “Hello Beautiful!” which is a wonderful portrayal of her relationship with her father, Mr. Wilmurt Shillingford, who

passed away due to cancer in 2017. The book is a collection of short stories which evokes both laughter and tears. She is also a computer security consultant and holds a doctoral degree in computer science from the University of Notre Dame. The House gallery will feature the Under One Roof collaborative exhibit. The Art Reception will be Wednesday, Feb. 8 from 6 – 8pm. The exhibition dates are Feb. 2 to 28. The exhibitions are free and open to the public. Attendees will need to sign in at the front desk. For more information, contact the GJCC at 615.354-1699, curator Carrie Mills at carrie@nashvillejcc.org, or go to www.nashvillejcc.org. •

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LET’S TALK RETIREMENT! (…because it’s not just about the money!) LET’S PLAY “GUESS WHAT?” By LORETTA SAFF

1. Guess what number … “RETIREMENT” is on the list of “Life’s 43 Most Stressful Life Events.” It’s #10! And that’s why I say we need to talk about your plans. Some p e o ple might find the transition easy, but many retirees are truly stressed at the challenge of creating a new identity and purpose. 2. Guess what … it might mean if your work defines “who you are” rather than “what you do.” It will make leaving your workplace more difficult. Think about how you will introduce yourself when you retire, and please don’t say ‘I used to be!’ Thinking about who you are NOW and what you want NOW will help you create the things you will be retiring TO. 3. Guess what … will happen if your social connections are mostly related to your workplace. It will probably be a lot harder to replace those connections. Finding new friends and interests before you leave your job will create a ready community of people you like to spend time with when you do retire. By the way, a Harvard Grant Study has shown that having a strong social connection in retirement not only helps people outlive those who don’t but also aids in delaying the onset of Alzheimer’s and dementia! 4. Guess what … sitting at a desk most of the day can cause. Complicated physical issues that can interfere with your retirement plans. Get up and get moving! Those grandkids want to play hide and seek. Your condo wants you to be on the pickleball team, and the dog just brought you his leash asking for a long walk.

You don’t want to miss out on any of that – do you? 5. Guess what … believing that “the best is yet to come” can encourage. Fresh ideas and possibilities! Having a positive mental outlook is not just being a cockeyed optimist. It helps you deal with change as well as giving you more energy for new opportunities and accomplishments. It also makes you more resilient so you can more easily handle the other ‘stuff’ that comes your way. 6. Guess what happens … when volunteering is what you want to do in retirement, but you don’t spend any time looking into it beforehand. You will probably waste time searching for appropriate opportunities and get stuck in roles you don’t like. Start early thinking about organizations you want to help and make some inquiries. Think about what you would like to do for an organization, so you don’t get stuck making phone calls or stuffing envelopes (unless, of course, you like that!). AND BY THE WAY… one more 7. Guess what happens … when you WRITE DOWN goals you want to achieve. Whether it’s a trip to Machu Picchu or creating an online creative cooking club, you will be more likely to achieve your goal if it is WRITTEN DOWN. (You’ve probably already done it on the financial side. Now do the same for all those non-financial issues!) Research has shown that when goals are written down, it reminds us of what they are and what we need to do to achieve them. Just make sure you put the list in a place where you can easily find it! No more guessing. Having a little extra information makes you smarter. Now you have it, so get started! • Loretta Saff is a Certified Professional Life Coach dealing with life transitions like Retirement, Careers, Parenting, and Empty Nesting. She can be reached at www.coachingwithloretta.com.

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he connections we have in life affect us every day- even if we don’t realize it. Our relationships at home, work, school, and socially, make up a huge part of who we are. When certain connections are disturbed, it can cause anxiety, mood dysregulation, and several other issues that can negatively affect us. How do we maintain healthy connections, and how do we continue moving toward our best life- even if the important connections in our life are disrupted? When I think of forming connections or relationships, it all starts with how you feel about yourself. Developing a deep connection with ourselves is one of the biggest keys to happiness, and it’s our most important, and longest lasting relationship. We all balance our own

insecurities, boundaries, and needs with a desire to connect to other people, places, and things. Connections build community. And in some ways, we are a center of connection in our community! One of my favorite things about working at JFS is watching someone make new connections with someone or something in their life, or just watching the happiness in the seniors at Golden Lunch Bunch who enjoy being together socially. We facilitate connections when a child meets their new mentor/chaver, or when a senior feels less isolated by receiving a visit from a Friendly Visitor or attending Golden Lunch Bunch. I love seeing these connections in our community and look forward to seeing many more! • Ashley Ashley Franklin, LMSW JFS Social Worker

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Health and Wellness Corner “Don’t Stop Thinkin’ About Tomorrow” By SHERRI HOLZER

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f we’ve spent any time together, you’ve heard me emphatically announce my gratitude for the opportunities the Nashville community has provided me. The women of Hadassah, WES Sisterhood, BCON, Music City Pickleball, Today in Nashville, and Local on 2, to name a few, have offered me a village that allows me to not look back at challenges, mistakes, or opportunities missed. These women I’ve been blessed to now call friends stand by my side with words, gestures, and guidance that support me - the new girl from California - who talks a lot with hand gestures and has never had a Sonic milkshake; to not look back and to keep on believing in tomorrow. “Why not think about times to come? And not about the things that you’ve done. If your life was bad to you, Just think what tomorrow will do.” Fleetwood Mac’s iconic song, “Don’t Stop,” is about perseverance and determination. It’s easy to get discouraged if we don’t see results immediately. However, the song is a reminder to “keep on believing,” and that success will eventually come. It also emphasizes the importance

of never giving up, no matter our obstacles. This is an important reminder for those striving for a healthier lifestyle, career growth, or relationship fulfillment. We have to stay motivated, even when it’s hard. We must keep pushing ourselves forward and never lose sight of our goals. Ultimately, “Don’t Stop” is an excellent reminder that with a little perseverance and determination, we can reach our goals and lead healthier, happier lives. Last night while crisping up some Halloumi for one of my favorite salads, I said, “Alexa, play Fleetwood Mac.” Singing along, internalizing the lyrics, “yesterday’s gone, yesterday’s gone,” allowed reflection on my personal history and how it shaped my life. The chorus’s words, “light up the fire and don’t look back,” are a reminder to keep my energy in the present, stay positive, never give up, learn from the past, and take action now. •

“Fried” Halloumi Citrus Salad Ingredients 1/4 cup extra virgin olive oil (dressing) Juice of 1 medium lemon (dressing) 2 Tbsp freshly chopped dill (dressing)

2 Tbsp chopped mint (dressing) ½ tsp each sea salt & black pepper (dressing) 1 bulb fennel (thinly sliced) 1 can chickpeas (rinsed and drained) 2 cups arugula 2 Tbsp extra virgin olive Oil 1 navel orange (cut into segments) ½ avocado (cubed) 8 ozs Halloumi (cut into small pieces) 1 cup brussels sprouts (shaved) 1 whole wheat pita (torn in pieces) 1 tsp ground sumac (for pita) Instructions • In a large bowl, whisk together all dressing ingredients and season to taste with salt and pepper. • Add chickpeas, fennel, and brussel sprouts to bowl with dressing and toss to combine. • In a large skillet over medium heat, heat 1 Tbsp oil. Add halloumi and cook until charred and golden on both sides, about 4 to 6 minutes total. Remove cheese to a large plate. • In the same skillet over medium heat, add remaining oil. Add pita, sprinkle with sumac and toast until golden and crisp, about 4 minutes. Remove to a plate with halloumi. • Add arugula, halloumi, and pita to the bowl with chickpeas, fennel, and sprouts, toss to combine. Add orange segments and avocado slices and toss very gently until combined. Season to taste with salt, pepper, and red pepper flakes, and serve. Achieving a positive self-image is an important part of overall wellness. When we’re able to practice self-love and appreciation, we can improve our self-confidence and mental health, which can lead to better physical, emotional, and spiritual wellbeing. Here are some ways to work on achieving and maintaining a positive self-image: 1. Embrace your unique traits. Everyone has something special about them, and it’s important to recognize and celebrate our individual differences. Knowing and appreciating our own strengths and characteristics can help us to build a positive self-image. 2. Surround yourself with people who make you feel good. Being around people who appreciate and support us can boost our self-esteem and help us gain more confidence in ourselves. 3. Take care of your body. Eating nutritious foods, engaging in physical activity, and getting enough sleep are all essential for good physical health, which can in turn help us to feel better about ourselves. 4. Practice self-care. Taking care of ourselves through activities that bring us joy and relaxation, such as spending time outdoors, reading a book, or taking a nice bath can help us to feel better about ourselves and create a more positive self-image.

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By making an effort to practice these tips, we can work towards creating a positive self-image which can help us to improve our overall wellness. Are you a pickleball player looking for some healthy fuel for your game? Eating the right foods can go a long way in helping you stay energized and focused on the court. Here are a few helpful tips on selecting nutritious, energy-filled snacks and meals to keep you playing your best. Snacks: Fruits and veggies: Nature’s snack packs are packed with essential vitamins and minerals. They’re also a great source of fiber and water, which can help keep you hydrated and energized during your game. Nuts: Nuts are a great source of protein and healthy fats. Be sure to choose heart-healthy options like almonds, walnuts, and unsalted peanuts. Yogurt: Yogurt is an excellent source of protein and calcium, both of which are essential for muscle repair and strength. Greek yogurt is especially beneficial as it contains more protein than regular yogurt. Whole grain crackers: Whole grain crackers are a great source of complex carbohydrates, which can provide sustained energy. Look for crackers made from whole wheat or oats. Meals: Salads: Salads are a great way to get a variety of nutrients in one meal. Fill your salad bowl with a variety of fresh vegetables, lean proteins, and healthy fats. Soups: Soups are a great way to get a lot of nutrients in a single meal. Look for soups made with lean proteins, vegetables, and heart-healthy grains like quinoa and barley. Sandwiches: Sandwiches are an easy way to get a balanced meal. Go for whole grain breads, lean proteins, and healthy fats. Pasta: Pasta is an excellent source of complex carbohydrates, which can help fuel your game. Look for whole grain pasta, and pair it with lean proteins and vegetables. No matter what you choose, the key to staying healthy and energized on the court is to make sure you’re getting a balance of protein, carbohydrates, and healthy fats. Eating a variety of nutritious foods will help keep you playing your best! When it comes to food, there are certain ingredients you should always avoid. These five ingredients are: 1. High fructose corn syrup - this artificial sweetener has been linked to obesity, diabetes, and other health issues. 2. Trans fats - these fats are found in processed and fried foods and have been linked to heart disease. 3. Artificial colors and preservatives these are added to food to enhance their appearance and shelf life, but can be harmful to our health. 4. MSG - this flavor enhancer is found in many processed foods, but has been linked to headaches, nausea, and other adverse health effects. 5. Nitrates and nitrites - these preservatives are found in processed meats, but can be linked to higher risks of cancer. •

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People of the Books Hatemail: Anti-Semitism on Picture Postcards by Salo Aizenberg (University of Nebraska Press, 2013) Reviews by ELYCE RAE HELFORD

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efore email and social media, the best way to reach across the miles to share a brief, friendly greeting was the picture postcard. From the 1890s through the 1910s, the US, Great Britain, and Europe saw the Golden Era of the “postcard craze.” Over this 20-year period, explains collector and author Salo Aizenberg, at least 200 billion cards were sold. Only the telephone could stop the craze in the post-WWI years. Germans were the undisputed industry leaders, supplying postcards of high quality, featuring colored images unavailable in photographs around the world. Every subject imaginable appeared, from scenic locales to classic art and from holiday greetings to nudity. This window to the world, however, was also replete with racism and xenophobia, including antiBlack, anti-Asian, and antisemitic imagery and tropes. We may think of the rise of the Nazi party as bringing antisemitism to Europe, but, in truth, the history of picture postcards reveals a chronicle of popular hatred of Jews beginning many decades before the Holocaust. Hatemail is a vivid, detailed introduction to the subject of postcards and their connection to antisemitism. This thick, coffee-table style paperback includes over 250 images from the author’s collection, in numerous short, informative chapters that build a powerful portrait. The

book begins with a guiding Introduction, including discussion of the origins of the postcard and the history of antisemitism (on and off postcards). Chapter one follows with the history of the Dreyfus Affair (involving the wrongful, antisemitic arrest in 1894 of French Jewish military officer Captain Alfred Dreyfus for espionage). We learn how the public clash of perspectives, including reactionary support for Dreyfus’s prosecution as well as political outcry against it, emerged in multiple series of postcards. Aizenberg takes the reader carefully through these examples that in many ways show the origin of the antisemitic postcard before moving on to the Golden Era of anti-Jewish images that emerged thereafter. Chapter two provides an overview of the primary stereotypes and myths to be found on postcards during their height of popularity, with each trope lavishly illustrated in large color photos from the author’s collection. We witness examples of the large, hooked nose; wealth, greed, and cheating; the awkward, deformed body; Jews as animals; expulsion and exclusion; Jews in power; mockery of beliefs (i.e. ridicule of prohibitions against eating pork); and Jews as unsuitable for the military. Following this overview is a chapter devoted to Germany. As Aizenberg explains, while France and the Dreyfus Affair may have introduced the antisemitic postcard to a worldwide audience, Germany published the most diverse and virulent cards in the highest quantities. The peak era for the German antisemitic postcard dovetailed with the general Golden Era. On display and deeply troubling are the cruelty, crudeness, and grotesqueness of the cards, their

”humor” and social commentary blending in breadth and offensiveness. Here and throughout this volume of 200+ pages, we learn as we view, for Aizenberg includes translations and ample discussion of each postcard presented, explaining content, production information, and social/historical context. Chapters four through seven next bring us short but potent considerations of antisemitic postcards from France, Great Britain, the U.S., and “other nations” (including Poland, Hungary, and French North Africa). We are invited to compare artistic styles, tone, and content from these varied locations, witnessing both similarities and particularities linked to differing cultural attitudes and experiences. Three additional short chapters add focus on “The Little Cohn,” an antisemitic song that produced its own series of cards; on cards produced for tourists to the (then) Austro-Hungarian tourist spa

towns of Karlsbad and Marienbad; and on Nazi-era postcards. I found the first two focuses particularly compelling, as I knew nothing about either subject. The Nazi focus was the most familiar to me, including some famous images that also appeared during the era on posters and flyers – and today on some contemporary neo-Nazi websites. The book concludes with a focus on anti-Israel postcards, highlighting antisemitism in images that attack Israeli politics, mostly from a Muslim perspective. Readers should note that Aizenberg writes from a strongly pro-Zionist perspective (here and in the introduction) that generalizes about Islam and is necessarily limited in conclusions by its publication a decade ago. Reading and considering the wealth of images in this engaging book brought me ample food for thought. The combination of its coffee table size and style alongside its troubling material offers a jarring, potent experience. Hatemail offers us an important opportunity to consider today’s antisemitic memes and tweets in light of past popular discourse, to see just how much – and how little – has changed. • Author bio: Elyce Rae Helford, PhD, is a professor of English and director of the Jewish and Holocaust Studies minor at Middle Tennessee State University. Her most recent book is What Price Hollywood?: Gender and Sex in the Films of George Cukor. Reach her at elyce.helford@mtsu.edu.

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At Our Congregations… Nashville’s congregations Here are the websites for all five Nashville Jewish congregations, with information on services, upcoming events and more: Congregation Beit Tefilah Chabad, www.chabadnashville.com Congregation Micah, www.congregationmicah.org Congregation Sherith Israel, www.sherithisrael.com The Temple – Congregation Ohabai Sholom, www.templenashville.org West End Synagogue, www.westendsyn.org

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Sell your Chametz with Chabad for Passover 2023

According to Jewish Law during Passover all types of Chametz (leavend foods) are prohibited to be owned by anyone of the Jewish faith. So what is one to do with all of the leavened food in their home during Passover? The rabbis in ancient biblical days have come up with a solution. One can authorize their rabbi before Passover to sell their Chametz to a non-Jew, who is permitted to own it during Passover. After the holiday is over, the Chametz is sold back to the rabbi, and one is permitted then to benefit from it. Rabbi Yitzchok Tiechtel at Chabad of Nashville is offering to sell the Chametz of anyone wishing to fulfill this special tradition for Passover, thus taking Passover 2023 to the next level. Go to chabadnashville.com/chametz to fill out the online form to do this.

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Chabad of Nashville will be hosting a variety of Purim events that will be offered to the Jewish community for people of all ages, including study, ritual, cultural and spiritual. The following are the programs that will be offered at Chabad of Nashville for Purim 2023:

Congregation Micah - an inclusive, innovative synagogue exploring and celebrating Jewish life - is committed to building community and repairing the world! We offer creative and diverse ways to live a Jewish life in Tennessee and beyond, using the rich beliefs and practices of Progressive Judaism as our foundation. Visit our 30+ acre campus or access our virtual programs from our website, www.congregationmicah.org. Like us on socials: Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram @MicahNashville; sign up for our e-blasts; learn and pray with us in-person or on YouTube, Zoom, and our Livestream. In our tent, there is room for everyone!

The Big Megillah Monday, March 6, 7:30 PM - Purim Eve

Weekly Events

PURIM 2023 with Chabad of Nashville

Chabad of Nashville will be celebrating Purim 2023 on Monday, March 6, 6:30 PM with the BIG MEGILLAH Reading. Festivities will begin with the Haman Booing, Megillah Reading, and Hamantashen Eating contest. All participants will receive a special Purim gift.

Purim In Dubai Celebration Tuesday, March 7, 5:30 PM

On Tuesday, March 7, the annual Purim Around the World celebration will take place at Chabad of Nashville with the Purim in Dubai Festivities. The event will include a Purim Themed party, as the celebration will take place in the ballroom of the Genesis Campus for Jewish Life. Party goers will get to see the beautiful murals of Dubai, as a delectable Dinner Buffet with dishes from the Middle East will be served in tents in a desert setting, with Arabian music, a colorful Hamantashen Bar, Mediterranean face painting, a Purim dress-up photo booth, a gigantic bounce house, a costume contest, and a Purim gift for each participant. All are invited to attend. There is a nominal fee to cover the cost of the dinner. RSVP is required by March 5, at www.chabadnashville.com.

Purim Gift Distribution

Chabad of Nashville will be distributing several hundred Purim gift packages to Jewish families across Middle Tennessee. If you know of someone that would enjoy receiving a Purim gift please contact the Chabad of Nashville office.

Chabad to host two TGIS celebration in March

Sanctuary Shabbat Services: Fridays at 6 PM

At Micah, we approach God in many ways: the inspiration of words, the beauty of sacred space, the authenticity of our intentions, and through the power of music and song. Join us in-person or virtually for services this month that will be as diverse as they are engaging, as moving as they are participatory. Come early and schmooze with us starting at 5:30 PM! Light hors d’oeuvres and refreshments are served.

Saturday Morning Torah Study: Saturdays at 9 AM on Zoom

Deep conversations about the text with thoughtful and caring people led by the clergy.

Mah Jongg: Tuesdays from 12:30 PM- 3:30 PM

Join our players for an afternoon of fun in the social hall! For more information, contact Paula: pgkwn@comcast.net.

Schmooze & Views: Thursdays from 10:30 AM- 11:30 AM In-Person

At Micah, we keep politics off the pulpit but not out of the building. Share your views in a round-table discussion on current events facilitated by Rabbi Flip and Dr. Bob Smith.

March Events: When You Wish Upon a Micah: Purim Schpiel and Carnival: Sunday, March 5, at 10 AM In-Person

Start your Shabbat off right with good friends, great conversation, and excellent kosher cuisine, all seasoned with the perfect amount of spirit and joy. TGIS is a Club Med Shabbat: An all-inclusive Shabbat experience. Enjoy a Friday night Shabbat dinner replete with traditional dishes. Blended with spirited singing, a Chasidic tale, and a chance to meet some wonderful new people. TGIS will be held on Friday evening, March 10, and on March 24, at 6:30 PM at Chabad of Nashville. There is no cost to attend the TGIS Shabbat experience, however we kindly request that you RSVP by letting us know you will be attending at chabadnashville@ gmail.com

It truly is a tale as old as time! Festivities will include a playful schpiel, refreshments, carnival games, a bounce house, and fun for the whole family! $8 for adults, $15 for individual students, and $36 for families. RSVP at www.congregationmicah. org/events.

PASSOVER 2023 with Chabad of Nashville

Caring for Aging Parents: A Series: Tuesday, March 7, at 7 PM In-Person

Chabad to host two unique communal Seders

Chabad of Nashville invites the Nashville Jewish community to its 25th annual Community Passover Seders, which will take place in the magnificent ballroom of the Genesis Campus for Jewish Life. On Wednesday, April 5, at 7:00 PM, Chabad will host a A Cliff Notes Family Friendly Seder. On Thursday, April 6, at 8:00 PM, Chabad will host “A Chassidic Seder for the Inquisitive Mind.” Go to chabadnashville.com for more details and to reserve your spot.

Get your own personal Shmurah Matzah for your Seder

Who can think of Passover today, when it is a while away. Well, Passover begins on April 5, and will be here before you know it. Chabad of Nashville is giving out a free Passover Shmurah Matzah for your Seder. All you need to do is email your name and contact information chabdnashville@gmail. com and you will receive your free Matzah gift box for your Seder. For more information call Chabad at 615-646-5750.

Micah Reads: Monday, March 6, and Monday, April 3, at 7 PM on Zoom

Education Director Julie Greenberg leads the discussion on the book The Beauty Queen of Jerusalem by Sarit Yishai-Levi in March and The Only Woman in the Room by Marie Benedict in April. All are welcome. Dive into the emotions of role reversal, navigating family conflict, and communication challenges. Build community with and gain support from others going through the same stage of life. Share. Learn from one another. No charge for members, $54 for guests. Registration is required. Register at www.congregationmicah.org/events.

Song Circle with Rabbi Laurie and Cantor Josh: Thursday, March 9, at 6:30 PM In-Person

Learn about our Jewish prayers and their musical renditions. RSVP at www.congregationmicah.org/events

Sports Trivia: Tuesday, March 14, at 10:30 AM In-Person

Have you ever wondered who was on 3rd base when Bobby Thompson of the New York Giants hit “the shot heard ‘round the world” to defeat the Brooklyn Dodgers in 1951? Find out the answer to this question and many more when you join Martin Light and other Micah members for an hour of sports trivia on the second Tuesday of every month. Questions? Contact Martin at martylight@aol.com. Continued on page 27

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Women’s Seder: Tuesday, March 21, in partnership with The Temple See www.congregationmicah.org/events for more information.

American Jewish Identity: Thursday, March 23, at 12 PM on Zoom

Rabbis Laurie Rice and Joshua Kullock in conversation with Rabbi Angela Buchdahl of Central Synagogue in New York City. Register for the Zoom at www. congregationmicah.org/events.

Micah Minis: Saturday, March 25, at 9:30 AM

Sing and dance in the chapel with Rabbi Laurie and Cantor Josh! This family-friendly Shabbat experience is aimed at ages 7 and younger.

Blood Drive in Partnership with the American Red Cross: Sunday, March 26, from 9 AM – 1 PM

Use Sponsor Code “CHAI” to schedule a time to donate here: https://www.redcrossblood.org/give.html/find-drive.

Micah Makers Charity Knit and Crochet Group: Sunday, March 26, at 10 AM All experience levels welcome, including those who want to learn!

A Night of Laughs: Congregation Micah’s Annual Fundraiser Featuring up-and-coming comedian and Jewish Southerner, Ariel Elias: Saturday, April 1, at 6:30 PM

Mel Brooks once said, “Humor is just another defense against the Universe.” In 2023, with antisemitism on the rise and much of the world at odds, there’s no doubt our community could use a little more humor. RSVP at www.congregationmicah.org/ laughs.

@ Sherith Israel Purim Night Monday March 6 Megillah Reading 6:00 pm Purim Celebration, Pizza, Hamentaschen, Bouncy Houses, Face Painting

Purim Day - Tuesday March 7 Early Reading 6:30 am Women’s Reading 8:30 am Purim Seudah 5:30 pm Chicken Dinner, Live Music, Libations $15 adults, $10 kids RSVP at sherithisrael.com

Tefillah Workshop with Cantor Dov Sundays 3/5, 3/19, 3/26 10am - 11:15am

Join Cantor Dov for three workshops in March to delve into understanding some of the prayers we say each day, through the lens of songwriting. Daveners of all levels are welcome. Cake and coffee will be served.

@ The Temple February 2023 Events All programming can be accessed via thetemplehub.org unless noted to be in person only

Pirkei Avot: Jewish Wisdom for Today’s World Every Friday from 5:00-5:40 PM

Get ready for Shabbat with a little text study! Each week we will study a piece of wisdom from Pirkei Avot, The Ethics of our Ancestors, an ancient Jewish text still relevant in our own times. Available in person at The Temple and via zoom. Zoom Room: https://us02web.zoom.us/j/81973096738

Shabbat Schedule for March

Our Shabbat Services will be held in person at The Temple. You can also watch via zoom from thetemplehub.org. Friday, March 3rd ~ 6:00 PM Friday, March 10Th~ 6:00 PM-PURIM SERVICE Friday, March 17th~6:00 PM Friday, March 24th ~ 6:00 PM

Golden Lunch Bunch

Will meet at Temple from 11:30-1:00pm on March 7th with entertainment by Bryan Cumming & Purim Celebration March 21st with entertainment by Dennis & Lori Scott RSVP to Jamie Maresca at 615-354-1686 or via email at helpinghands@ jfsnashville.org

Chevrah Torah Study 9:30AM on Saturdays

Join us for our weekly Torah study on the portion of the week, led by the clergy. You can join us in person at The Temple or via zoom from thetemplehub.org

Hike and Havdallah March 18th

Where and When for the Hike? Meet at the top of the steps at the end of Belle Meade Boulevard at 3:45 PM with the hike of the 2.5 mile white trail to begin at 4:00 PM. If you are not hiking, please meet us for Havdalah at the stone gate entrance to the park at 5:30 PM. Who? All ages! Bring friends and family. For more information or questions, please contact Anne Davenport at adavlaw@comcast.net

Women’s Torah Study March 2nd, 9th, 16th, 23rd and 30th 10:30 AM

Ongoing weekly women’s Torah study led by Patty Marks. Available in person at The Temple and via zoom through thetemplehub.org

Lunch with the Rabbi March 2nd, 9th, 16th, 23rd and 30th Lunch at 11:30AM Program12:00-1:00 PM $15 per person for lunch

Engage with Rabbi Danziger and guests in a discussion of current and important issues from a Jewish perspective. RSVP on thetemplehub.org or by calling the Temple at 615-352-7620 Available in person and via zoom. Zoom Room: thetemplehub.org

Monday Morning Mah Jongg

Join Us for MAH JONGG Mondays at The Temple! March 6th, 13th, 20th, 27th from 10:00 AM - Noon+ Drop in for Mah Jongg. We’ll have coffee and water. Bring your friends, a card, and a set and have some fun. Mah Jongg cards and sets are available for purchase in The Temple Gift Shop.

Writers of the Lost Ark First Wednesday of the Month March 1st 7:00-8:00 PM

Are you looking for a creative outlet? Writers of the Lost Ark, our Temple writer’s group, meets the first Wednesday of each month currently via Zoom. This is a safe, supportive, and no pressure environment to share your creative ideas whether they be stories, songs, poems, or praise. The group is open to all regardless of how little or how long you’ve been writing. Those curious to find their creative side are welcome as well. For more information, please contact ninapacent@bellsouth.net.

Purim @ The Temple For more information about Purim at The Temple, please visit thetemplehub.org or templenashville.org

Purim Carnival on Sunday, March 5th from10:30a.m.-12:30p.m.

in person at The Temple-Games, Treats, Costume Contest and so much more…!

Tot Shabbat –Get Ready for Purim! Saturday, March 11th @ 10:00a.m. (for families with children up to age 6)

Temple Purim Service

Let’s celebrate Purim at our Friday night service on Friday, March 10th at 6:00pm with a festive Purim Oneg to follow. Come in your costume and enjoy all the fun! You can join us in person or via zoom from thetemplehub.org

Golden Lunch Bunch

Golden Lunch Bunch will meet at Temple from 11:30-1:00pm on March 7th with entertainment by Bryan Cumming & Purim Celebration

Calling all women! W.E.L.L. invites you to Megillah and Muffins on Purim Morning!

Join us Tuesday, March 7 @ 8:30am at Sherith Israel to hear the whole megillah read by women in our Nashville community! Listen to Cantor Fishbein chant chapter 8, and join in the fun as we celebrate and observe this Purim mitzvah together. Costumes are welcomed and encouraged! Rsvp to rabbisgmackler@templenashvile.org Continued on page 28

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At Our Congregations… @ The Temple Continued from page 27

Exploring Jewish Medal of Honor Recipients with Steve Lefkovitz

Tuesdays, March 14th & 21st 6:00 – 7:00 p.m. Since 1851, about 3500 people have been awarded the Medal of Honor, America’s highest military decoration. Of those, 17 are Jewish. Who are these Jewish heroes, how did their stories come to be known, and are there others whose Judaism may have kept them from recognition? Learn together about these Jewish heroes of American military history. See thetemplehub.org to RSVP.

@ West End For links to the following online services or programs, please email office@westendsyn.org

Fundraiser and Tribute to Marcia Stewart and Linda Sisselman with Comedian Avi Liberman

Men’s Torah Group (in person)

Join us Thursday, March 9, at noon for our Torah class for men. This upcoming class, we will begin reading the Second Book of Kings, while we eat some delicious pizza as well!

TOT Shabbat and Shabbat dinner

Friday, March 10, from 5:30-7:30 p.m. Open to families with young children first grade and under.

Sisterhood Chapel Cap Assembly

Sunday, March 12, from 3:00-5:00 p.m. Join the WES Sisterhood as they assemble 200 lace and ribbon hair coverings for use during WES Synagogue services. RVSP via the link below. https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfjHtibT2JQ1B0qY-8i8z5qlxam_ Q64615X0YV28T1qIHbf7A/viewform

“How to Jew It: The Pesach Seder”

Sunday, March 12 from 9:30-11:00 a.m. An Introduction to Passover led by Dr. Joel Gluck with discussion on Ron Wolfson’s book, “Passover- The Family Guide to Spiritual Celebration”. Geared towards the WES Intro to Judaism class but all are welcome.

Learn and Lunch with Cantor Dov Rosenblatt

Wednesday, March 22, at 11:00 a.m. Reservations required, catered lunch following presentation.

Rabbis Laurie Rice and Joshua Kullock Discuss American Jewish Identity, Anti-Semitism, and Israel with guest Rabbi Angela Buchdahl from the Central Synagogue in New York

Sunday, March 5 at West End Synagogue, join us for an evening of honor and laughter. We will pay tribute to two West End Synagogue retirees, Linda Sisselman and Marcia Stewart, at 6:30 p.m., followed by plenty of laughter and mirth with a performance by acclaimed comedian Avi Liberman at 8:00 p.m. You can RSVP via the QR code below, email office@ westendsyn.org, or call WES. RSVP By Monday, February 27.

Join us on Shabbat morning, March 25, for a special celebration of our March birthdays. The main service begins at 9:30 a.m. and a kiddush sponsored by the synagogue will follow. Our 2nd -7th graders won’t want to miss Junior Congregation from 10:30-11:30 a.m. Everyone is welcome.

PURIM at WES

Consecration-Kitah Alef (for 1st Graders)

Monday night, March 6

Join us for a festive, dairy dinner & fun filled celebration! Come dressed as your favorite Purim character or anyone else and enter our Purim Costume Parade. Prizes for the most creative! Dinner starts at 5:45 p.m. and Maariv, Megillah, and parade begin at 6:30 p.m. There is a $5 per person charge for dinner and $25 per family maximum. RSVPs are requested but not required. All are welcome. This dinner is sponsored by Sisterhood. Go to the link below to register, or if you would prefer to register through the office, call 615-269-4592 or email office@westendsyn.org. https://tinyurl.com/purimdinner23 Tuesday morning, March 7, services will be at 7:00 a.m. Come hear the Megillah during morning minyan!

Scholar in Residence

Join us Friday, March 17 as we welcome Gil Ben Herut, PhD (University of South Florida), who will be teaching with Rabbi Joshua Kullock about Rabbi Judah, the “Hindu”. There will be a special Shabbat dinner featuring Indian food from Woodlands. RSVP’s are required, more details to follow. RSVP via the link below. https://tinyurl.com/SIRHerut

USY Sub-Regional Convention

Join us March 24th - 26th for an amazing weekend full of ruach, delicious food, great activities, and so many friends, both new and old! Early bird registration at $135 ends on Monday, March 6th at 11:59 pm. Regular registration is $150 and closes on Friday March 17. Open to all in grades 5-12. RSVP Here: https://tinyurl.com/USYCon23

Women’s Torah Group (on Zoom)

Join us on Wednesday, March 1, at 11:00 a.m. Rabbi Joshua leads our study of the book of Deuteronomy.

Shabbat Nosh!

Join us for Shabbat services on Friday, March 3, at 6:00 p.m. followed by an Oneg reception. Everyone is welcome! It is also Young Professionals Shabbat. This is a great opportunity to meet friends and network while schmoozing after services at the Oneg.

Junior Congregation (for 2nd-7th graders)

Saturday, March 4 from 10:30-11:30 a.m. Followed by a congregational Kiddush lunch. The main service begins at 9:30 a.m.

Learn and Lunch with Jean Roseman

Wednesday, March 8, at 11:00 a.m. Reservations required, catered lunch following the presentation.

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March 23, at 12:00 p.m. on Zoom.

Birthday Shabbat

Sunday, March 26 from 11:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m. Join us to celebrate with the Consecration Class of 2023. Consecration marks the students’ formal introduction into Jewish Learning.

Sisterhood Challah Sales made by Melissa Sostrin

Sign up on the Google form linked below or text Jessica Kullock at 615-881-4455 by WEDNESDAY AT 9:00 p.m. each week to pre-order for pickup Friday during synagogue office hours. Flavors: Plain, chocolate, cinnamon, cinnamon raisin, zaatar, poppy seeds, sesame, bag of 8 challah rolls. Plain is $7/each, the rest are $8/each. https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfhQUa6iflZvg8gP-sOaREXK8JNGloMceEBkuvUynahkVdt8A/viewform?fbclid=IwAR1jz_oKOT8Df3E82W7iNu8TX_ G70Nc3bOXOEJ25r73efxnvQT3ATFijvC0

Shacharit (in person)

Our minyaners are always looking for more people to strengthen the only egalitarian minyan in town! Sunday services will be at 9:00 a.m. and Monday-Friday will be at 7:00 a.m.

Kabbalat Shabbat

You are invited to join us for Kabbalat Shabbat on Fridays in person (or on Zoom) at 6:00 p.m. As part of our Friday night services, we are currently studying Jewish ethics through an in-depth reading of Pirkei Avot.

Morning Shabbat services

You are invited to join us Saturday mornings in person (or on Zoom) at 9:30 a.m. Great davening, insightful learning of the Torah portion and a yummy (and nutritious!) kiddush lunch once services are over!

Talmud on Tuesdays

Rabbi Joshua leads a lively Talmudic discussion at 7:30 a.m. in person and on Zoom every Tuesday, immediately after morning minyan. We are exploring a new tractate: Sotah. Come and join us!

Torah study

Join us for breakfast and study of the weekly parasha with Nechemya Rosenfeld every Thursday morning at 7:30 a.m. following morning minyan at 7:00 a.m.

Pesach Candy from BEIT MIRIAM at WEST END SYNAGOGUE

Let Beit Miriam make getting ready for Pesach much sweeter! We are selling Miss Chocolate Barton’s Kosher for Pesach candy. For more information, contact a Beit Miriam student you know or Emily Grove, Administrative Assistant at school@westendsyn.org or call (615) 269-4592 ext. 18. All orders are due by March 5.


Lifecycles B’rit Mitzvah London Fair

London Fair will become a Brit Mitzvah on Saturday, March 4, at 10:30 a.m. at Congregation Micah. London is the child of Ron and Stefanie Fair, the sibling of Ellington Fair, Ella Fair and Rocky Fair, and the grandchild of Shirley I. Fair of Los Angeles, Calif., and Barry Ridel and Sheila Ridel of Brentwood, Tenn. An eighth grader at Brentwood Middle School, London is very active in theater arts, music and acting. In addition, London is passionate about a variety of things like ping pong and haircutting and enjoys spending time with his family and his dog.

Alexander “Alex” Jacob Klein

Alexander “Alex” Jacob Klein will become a Bar Mitzvah on Saturday, March 4, at 11 a.m. at The Temple. Alex was born on January 11, 2010, in Nashville. His parents are Jeff and Tonia Klein. His grandparents are Richard and Lynda Friedman of Venice, Fla.; and the

late Donald and Jeri Klein of New Orleans. A seventh grader at University School of Nashville, Alex plays tennis, soccer, lacrosse and basketball. He loves to cheer on the New Orleans Saints and LSU Tigers football teams, and the UVA basketball team. He enjoys spending time with his friends, playing Madden and fantasy football, traveling and playing piano. For his mitzvah project, Alex is raising money and will be volunteering for ABLE Youth, an organization that uses sports as a motivating catalyst for kids in wheelchairs to reach goals of independence.

Arden Marie Salomon and Zoe Kathleen Salomon

Arden Marie Salomon and Zoe Kathleen Salomon will become B’nai Mitzvah on Saturday, March 27, at 11 a.m. at The Temple. Arden was born on March 27, 2010, in Nashville. Her parents are Bret and Sherry Salomon of Smyrna, Tennessee. Her grandparents are Dr. Milton and Sylvia Salomon of Nashville; and Lonnie and Vickie Prayter of Christiana, Tennessee. Zoe was born on March 26, 2010, in Nashville. Her parents are David and Karla Salomon. Her grandparents are Dr. Milton and Sylvia Salomon of Nashville, and Mrs. Kathleen Grimme of Dubuque, Iowa.

Community Listings East Side Tribe Join us for a Shabbat on March 31st from 6:30 to 8:30 to meet new people and relax after a long week. RSVP on Eventbrite to receive the location. Email us if you’d like to be a future host, you don’t need to live on the East Side! We provide the food, wine and dessert and you provide the space! Our Shabbats are the last Friday of the month and we look forward to meeting you! Check us out on Instagram @eastsidetribenashville

Jewish Widow and Widowers Group Are you widowed and looking for support and friendship? You are invited to join a monthly group for lunch, conversation, and companionship on the second Monday of each month. All are welcome, regardless of congregational affiliation, and even if you do not belong a congregation. The next meeting will be held on Monday, March 13th at Anatolia on White Bridge Road at 11:30am. Reservations are required. If you would like to join, or have additional questions, contact Gil Fox, gsfox3@comcast.net, or call 615-330-2666.

Tennessee Holocaust Commission The Tennessee Holocaust Commission is bringing a special guest to Nashville. Father Patrick Desbois is founder of the international human rights organization Yahad-In Unum. He is a prolific author, distinguished Professor at Georgetown University, historian, forensic detective, and world-renowned human-rights activist. He has committed himself to a life-long effort to fight the disease of Genocide and bring solace to its victims. For more than 15 years, Yahad-In Unum (“Together In One”), has worked tirelessly to collect testimonies of eyewitnesses, and identify and document sites of mass crimes committed against European Jews and Roma by the Nazis and their collaborators during the so-called “Holocaust by Bullets.” Their meticulous forensic study has Father Patrick Desbois will be the led to the identification of nearly 2,900 execution guest of the Tennessee Holocaust sites while interviewing more than 7,000 eyewit- Commission on March 28th. nesses on the crimes committed by the Nazi death squads. Many of those interviewed have never spoken of the massacres, many of the sites have never been documented, and many remain unmarked even today. Father Desbois will be speaking on March 28, 2023, 7-8pm at Montgomery Bell Academy (MBA) in the Paschall Theater, 4001 Harding Road. The program is free, but registration is required. Email atrachtman@tnholcom.org to reserve a seat. •

A seventh grader at Thurman Francis Arts Academy, Arden is a member of the Drama Club, the Advanced Choir, the Lyrical Dance Company and the Paleontology Club. Outside of school, she is active in community theater, a Cadette in the Girl Scouts, and takes contemporary dance classes at The Dancer’s School and voice lessons at Wright Violin Music. Cats are her favorite things. A seventh grader at Mill Creek Middle School Zoe enjoys playing soccer and baton and taking care of animals. For Arden’s mitzvah project, she is completing two service projects, doing volunteer work on the weekends at Carpe Artista, an arts community outreach non-profit organization in Smyrna, Tennessee, and collecting food and supplies for Catfeine Café in Murfreesboro, Tennessee, a foster home and adoption agency for cats that supports several local non-profit pet rescues. For Zoe’s mitzvah project, she has collected monetary donations and 1,500 items for the Williamson County No Kill Animal Shelter. She volunteered at the shelter feeding, watering, snuggling and playing with the animals – cats, dogs, and miniature cows.

Oliver Abromowitz

Oliver Abromowitz will be called to the Torah as a Bar Mitzvah at Congregation Sherith Israel on Thursday, March 30. He is the son of Pam and Daniel Abromowitz and the grandson of Judy and Howard Abromowitz of Nashville, Beverly and Paul Williams and Gary Furst of Cincinnati, Ohio. Oliver is excited to share this simcha with his family, friends and Jewish Middle School (JMS) classmates. This will be the first Bar Mitzvah during the school day for JMS students. A seventh grader at JMS, Oliver is a great middle brother to Ellison and Henry. You can often find him babysitting at Sherith on Shabbos mornings. Oliver likes to play ultimate frisbee, basketball, wrestling and video games. He also enjoys learning almost every day with Cantor Lieberman. His planned mitzvah project will benefit the children of the school at Hadassah Hospital in Ein Kerem, Israel. The family plans to travel to Israel this summer where Oliver can present his gift to the school in person.

Henry David and Ruby Jane Kammerman

Henry David and Ruby Jane Kammerman will become B’nai Mitzvah on Saturday, April 1, 2023 at 11:00 a.m. at The Temple. Henry and Ruby were born on November 22, 2010, in Park Ridge, Ill. Their parents are Martin and Amy Kammerman. Their grandparents are Martin and Gloria Gonzalez of Pensacola, Fla. and the late Harry and Janice Kammerman of Staten Island, N.Y. Henry is the seventh grade and Ruby is in the sixth grade, both at Meigs Magnet Middle School. Henry enjoys video games, Boy Scouts, aviation, biking, piano, and travel. Ruby enjoys drawing, writing fiction, violin, reading, astronomy and travel. For Henry’s mitzvah project, he is working with the Jewish War Veterans of the United States of America to support Jewish service members overseas by collecting non-perishable foods, snacks and other items. For Ruby’s mitzvah project, she is working with Unicyle, the school uniform recycling non-profit to collect new socks for students in need. •

Abi Kullock

Abi Kullock will become a Bat Mitzvah on Saturday, April 1, at 9.30 a.m. at West End Synagogue. Abi was born on March 19, 2010, in Guadalajara, Mexico. Her parents are Joshua and Jessica Kullock. Abi has two sisters: Iara (14) and Meital (11). Some of her dear family members will be visiting from Buenos Aires, Argentina, for the occasion. A seventh grader at Harpeth Hall and an Akiva alumna, Abi practices strength and conditioning after school and loves spending time with friends and going to Camp Ramah Darom during the summers. For her Bat Mitzvah project, Abi is raising money to donate to St. Luke’s Community House. St. Luke partners with Second Harvest Food Bank to provide food boxes to families and individuals facing food insecurity.

Kvetch in the City By CARRIE MILLS

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somehow unwittingly, or perhaps somewhat wittingly, backed myself into a corner. I dared to blurt out, in my last column, for all to see, my nerve induced surprise encounter at a holiday party meeting a tall, dark, handsome guy from Brooklyn, that right off the bat appeared to have the possibility of relationship potential. As a matter of fact, when I was at my Jewish gynecologist doctor’s office today and he asked me how I am, I replied, “If you’ve read my column along with the entire community, you probably know already!” Now I feel the pressure of all eyes on me. And as expected, once last month’s paper hit the stands, immedi-

ately the heads started popping in my office door and inquiries started coming, “Is he Jewish?” (no), “How’d you meet?” (re-read the column), “Is there sex after sixty?” (excuse me…this column is called Kvetch in the City, not Sex in the city.) Now that the cat is out of the bag, let’s suffice it to say, so far so good…moving right along! Relationship beginnings can be all fun and games, fun games… hopefully. I certainly am not interested in the psychological type of games that scream “red flag”…or as my son and all his friends call them…situationships. Speaking of games…actual games, like the board games I grew up with, I started to make the connection metaphorically how various periods in my life, past and present, can actually be summed up by the games I played growing up. Let’s start with “Candy Land.” That Continued on page 30

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Obituaries Harold Cohen

Condolences to the family of Harold Cohen. He is survived by his son, Mark (Robin) Cohen and grandaughter, Jennifer.

Harris Abram Gilbert

Condolences to the family of Harris Abram Gilbert who died suddenly on February 15. Born, raised and residing in Nashville nearly his entire life, he leaves a loving legacy of generosity, intellect and friendship. As an attorney and community leader, Harris’ incredibly long list of accomplishments impacted numerous organizations and countless people. His true greatness though is found in his devotion to his family. Harris is preceded in death by his parents, Judge Charles and Freda Gilbert, and by his wife of 41 years, Dianne D. Gilbert. He is survived by his daughter, Jennifer L. Gilbert; son-in-law, John P. Ellersick; son, Harris N. Gilbert; daughter-in-law, Danielle M. Gilbert; grandchildren, Joshua H. Gilbert and Sophia C. Gilbert; sister, Pauline Gilbert Bader and brother, Charles Gilbert, Jr. Having met on a blind date, Dianne and Harris married in 1963 and started a family building a home on his childhood street. Their life together was full of dedication to their children, time with friends, endless travel adventures and community service. An avid golfer, tennis player, cyclist, yogi, health nut, rose grower and ill-advised boat owner, Harris brought an indomitable spirit to every one of his passions. He encouraged all around him to take wonder in this world and pursue life with gusto and delight. His purest joy was time with his grandchildren; creating treasure hunts, playing monster, going swimming or handing out Oreo cookies to everyone at every sporting event. A graduate of Yale University and the University of Chicago Law School, Harris returned to his home to practice law. After serving as Assistant District Attorney for Tennessee, Harris entered private practice

primarily focusing on areas of probate and estate planning, business and real estate law. As managing partner of Gilbert and Milom, he co-led the firm’s transition to Wyatt, Tarrant & Combs. As a young lawyer, Harris represented the City of Nashville as part of a bipartisan state-wide team of lawyers in the landmark case Baker v. Carr before the United States Supreme Court in 1962. He was involved in a number of high profile cases and clients, including helping the Rolling Stones out of a legal jam during a 1972 appearance in Nashville. The Baker case established the constitutional principle of “One Person, One Vote” and opened the door to malapportionment cases across the country, ultimately resulting in restructuring of America’s federal, state and local legislative bodies. Harris served as Board Member of the Nashville Bar Association and President of Tennessee Bar Association. He was an Instructor and Board Member of the Nashville School of Law as well as a former Chairman of the Tennessee Bar Foundation. Through law, Harris found immeasurable ways to serve his community’s most vulnerable and in need. He founded the Uniform Reciprocal Child Support Program for Davidson County. He was a founder of Legal Services of Middle Tennessee. In 1995, the Tennessee Bar Association created The Harris Gilbert Pro Bono Volunteer of the Year Award given annually to a private sector attorney who has demonstrated dedication to the development and delivery of legal services to the poor and has performed significant pro bono work. Harris was a lifelong member of The Temple Congregation Ohabai Shalom, serving as President and as a Board Member. He served many other charitable organizations and was awarded the Johnny Cash Americanism Award by the Anti-Defamation League. Memorial gifts may be sent to the charity that best fits your memory of Harris.

Eileen Rita Gluckman

Condolences to the family of Eileen Rita Gluckman, 92, who died on February 12. She was preceded in death by her husband of 50 years, Jay Gluckman and sister, Norma Sklut.

Born on April 17, 1930, to Benjamin and Mae Miller in Wilmington, Del., Eileen spent 30 years as a cosmetic sales representative. She was a Philadelphia Eagles fan, but quickly adopted the Tennessee Titans as her own. She loved lilacs and enjoyed the tree in front of her home each year. She enjoyed mahjong and puzzles, but most of all, Eileen loved being a mother, grandmother and great grandmother. She is survived by her children, Neal Gluckman, Howard Gluckman and Carole Wolaver; grandchildren, Katy Ray, Jennifer Miller and David Wolaver; and great grandchildren, Gavin Wolaver, Birdie Belle Ray and Aspen Willow Ray.

soap opera. Lea loved to entertain and enjoyed hosting many family gatherings.

Ardis Jacobson

Kvetch in the City

Condolences to the family of Ardis Jacobson who died on February 7. Ardis is survived by her daughter, Lisa (Mike) Shmerling; grandchildren, Andy Shmerling, Mollie (Bobby) Perry, Katie (Adam) Wayne; and great-grandchildren, David, Jack, and Max Perry, and Abby and Alice Wayne.

Lea Steinhart Limor

Condolences to the family of Lea Steinhart Limor (Leah bat Betzalel v’ Bella) who died on January 28. She was preceded in death by her husband of 66 years Menachem Limor. Theirs was an epic love story. Their pride and joy and Lea’s most proud accomplishment was in raising their three children, Miri Limor, Hagit Limor (Jeff) Sunberg, and Yoram (Janine) Limor. They had five grandchildren, Sharone (Seth) Hyatt, Avital (Michael) Cohen, Jake Sunberg, Aidan Limor and Anderson Limor, as well as four great grandchildren, Gabriella Cohen, Maya Cohen, Eliana Hyatt and Ariel Cohen. Born June 14,1933, Lea served as a sergeant in the Israeli army, was a talented knitter and seamstress, and could dance up a storm. She had been a teacher at both Sherith Israel and West End Synagogue and could speak six languages, learning English by watching her favorite

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Avrum (Avi) B. Poster

Condolences to the family of Avrum (Avi) B. Poster, who died on January 26, He was the husband of Joie Scott-Poster.

Inge Raybin

Condolences to the family of Inge Raybin who died on January 25. She is survived by her son, David (Kay) Raybin; and grandchildren, Benjamin (Sarah) Raybin and Jaime Rabin (David King).

Elliot Rivlin

Condolences to the family of Elliot Rivlin who died on February 1. He is survived by his son, Ron (Gail) Rivlin and grandchildren, Hayley, Steven and Eric. •

Continued from page 29 would pretty much sum up my entire life. From my first dentist visit with 11 cavities at like five years old, going to my first Weight Watchers meeting with my mom at 16 years old (and a lifetime member since my twenties), I’d say Candy Land has basically ruined my teeth, my waistline, and continues to rule my life to this day. Though now it’s dark chocolate Godiva, not Hershey’s. Then there’s “Risk.” Let’s just say while world domination, the motive of the game, is not necessarily my thing, I would definitely say I’ve been a risk taker and a somewhat courageous risk-taking person most of my life. While I’ve noticed I’ve become much less of one as I’ve gotten older, I noticed lately, I’d like to start rolling the dice a bit more and maybe take some chances, maybe not play it so safe, with the time I have left. “Trivial Pursuit” was never a favorite board game of mine and metaphorically speaking, I’ve never been known to pursue anything trivial. I like to play big. “Mouse Trap.” Oy! I have found myself caught like a mouse in a trap of my own making more times than I’d like to admit. I have always longed for a sense of freedom, a longing to travel the world, a life of being my own boss…which is a hard balance to achieve while loving stability, routine, and relationship to others. “Monopoly.” Have you seen Nashville lately? I feel like living here in Nashville is like living on the Monopoly game board with all those plastic looking tall skinnys, one after the other, popping up endlessly. And if I’m going to play Monopoly by living in Nashville, all I ask is for a few more of the $500 bills. Oh, and then there’s “Operation.” The word operation is never one I considered a fun thought to have, unless of course it’s elective! I certainly was lucky my surgeon had a sure hand when removing my hip bone and not setting off the buzzer! Let’s hope that’s the last time that game will ever rule my waking life. I think the one game that sums me up the best though is “Scrabble.” I’m always searching for the right words. Words with impact, effective words. Words that help make sense of my crazy monkey brain and make sense of this crazy world. Words that make a difference. Kind words, thoughtful words, true words. Words that are so powerful that when said change everything around you. Words that match up to action. Words that help make complicated things simple. Of course, there is one word that does that every time. The word Love. And when it comes to the game of love, I hope to someday come out a winner. I’ll keep you posted! •


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MARTIN SIR, ATTORNEY Family Law / Personal Injury / Probate Fifth Third Center 424 Church Street, Ste. 2250 Nashville, Tennessee 37219 (615) 256-5661 www.martinsirlaw.com

ZANDER INSURANCE GROUP, INC. Jeffrey J. Zander, CIC Michael Weinberger Auto, Home, Life, Health, Business, Long Term Care, Identity Theft Protection 6213 Charlotte Pike, Nashville, TN 37209 615-356-1700 www.zanderins.com

CARE GIVER

INSURANCE/MEDICARE

Custom senior care for active, healthy lifestyles. Affordable/no minimums. Meals, meds, transportation & outings. Memory loss and Hospital recovery. Professional & screened care partners. Locally owned. Call Moises for Free assessment: 615-678-9223 www.curaforcare.com

HAVE QUESTIONS ABOUT MEDICARE? Turning 65? Let us Assist you. Jeffrey G. Brier CLU, ChFC, CASL jbrier@brier-brier.com. 401-751-2990 www.Brier-Brier.com

DR. JAMES W. KIRKCONNELL Bellevue Eye Center 7640 Hwy 70 S, Ste 102 Nashville 615-662-7588 www.bec2020.com

ORTHODONTISTS

GLUCK ORTHODONTICS Specialists in Orthodontics Dr. Joel Gluck DDS, MS Dr. Jonathan Gluck DDS, MSD 2002 Richard Jones Road A-200 615.269.5903 drgluck.com

ORTHOPAEDIC SURGERY

DR. TODD A. RUBIN, M.D. Specializing in Hand & Upper Extremity Surgery Hughston Clinic Orthopaedics 615-342-6300

PROPERTY MANAGEMENT GHERTNER & COMPANY Homeowner Association and Condominium Management Full Service and Financial Management Property Management since 1968 615-255-8531 www.ghertner.com

PSYCHOTHERAPY & COUNSELING IRA HELDERMAN, PhD, LPC Psychotherapy for Individuals, Adolescents, Couples and Families nashvillepsychotherapyandcounseling. com Please contact: 615-473-4815 or ira.p.helderman@vanderbilt.edu

REAL ESTATE

FRANKLIN PARGH 615-351-7333 franklin.pargh@compass.com LANA PARGH 615-504-2685 lana.pargh@compass.com www.pargh.com Instagram: @theparghteam

JACOB KUPIN C - 615.440.6673 O - 615.279.5310 Jacob@TheKupinGroup.com We’ve got your back!

www.zeitlin.com Residential & Relocation Specialists

JESSICA AVERBUCH CEO, Zeitlin Sotheby’s International Realty 615-383-0183 (bus.) 615-294-9880 (cell) jessica.averbuch@zeitlin.com www.jessicaaverbuch.com LORNA M. GRAFF Broker, GRI, CRS, ABR 615-794-0833 (bus.) 615-351-5343 (cell) lorna.graff@zeitlin.com www.lornagraff.com NAN SPELLER Broker, GRI, ABR 615-383-0183 (bus.) 615-973-1117 (cell) nanspeller2014@gmail.com JENNIE ZAGNOEV Affiliate Broker 615-383-0183 (bus.) 615-838-2048 (cell) jennie.zagnoev@zeitlin.com

Jackie Roth Karr, REALTOR® www.JackieKarr.com Jackie.Karr@corcorangroup.com Mobile: 615.330.9779 Office: 615.250.7880

SPORTING GOODS TEAM NASHVILLE Your Running/Walking Swimming Headquarters 3205 West End Ave. Nashville, TN 37203 615-383-0098

TRAVEL SERVICES Expredia Cruise Ship Centers A Full Service Travel Agency Alan Cooper: Office: 629-202-8945 www.cruiseshipcenters.com/AlanCooper 7081 B Hwy 70 S / Kroger Shopping Ctr.

TREE SERVICES

Preserving the Natural Beauty of Trees and Shrubs. Specializing in the care of shade and ornamental trees and shrubs for residential and commercial properties. Serving Nashville since 1978. 615-373-4342 www.druidtree.com

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