Jewish Dayton Magazine July/August/September 2018

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magazine The Jewish Federation of Greater Dayton 525 Versailles Drive Centerville, Ohio 45459 (937) 610-1555 jewishdayton.org

Agency Leadership

Cathy Gardner CEO Jewish Federation of Greater Dayton

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feel incredibly fortunate to have a job I love. In fact, I can’t imagine doing anything else. As this issue of the JewishDayton Magazine was being produced, I found myself reflecting on my own youth as many of my fondest memories come from similar programs and activities highlighted in the following pages. It was those experiences that gave me my desire to pursue Jewish communal work. I was very active in the Jewish community as a child. My participation included Sunday Fun-days at the JCC, summer camp, sleep-a-way camp, religious school, and BBYO. Each one was incredibly important in driving my desire to learn and grow. Those experiences helped to create a beautiful mosaic of love and appreciation for Judaism. I hope as you read through this issue of the JewishDayton Magazine, our stories spark wonderful childhood memories you may have of your own Jewish upbringing.

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2017/2018 Board of Directors David Pierce PRESIDENT Judy Abromowitz IMMEDIATE PAST PRESIDENT Bruce Feldman PRESIDENT ELECT Todd Bettman OFFICER Joel Frydman OFFICER Dr. Heath Gilbert OFFICER Beverly Louis OFFICER

Jane Hochstein Director Jewish Community Center of Greater Dayton

Mary Rita Weissman OFFICER

Cathy Gardner ceo, Jewish Federation of Greater Dayton

Table of Contents

Tara Feiner Director Jewish Family Services of Greater Dayton

Janese R. Sweeny, Esq. Director Jewish Foundation of Greater Dayton

Magazine Team Editorial Staff

Katie Lehner

Jordan Moyer

Jodi Phares

Emily Snyder

Alisa Thomas

Staff Contributors

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Jewish Federation (JFGD)

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Jewish Community Center (JCC)

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Jewish Family Services (JFS)

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Hillel Academy of Dayton:

Meryl Hattenbach

Juliet Glaser

Audrey Mackenzie

Preschool, Teen Programming

Youth Programming, Passover Outreach

Provides Global Connections through P2G Twinning Program

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Jewish Foundation (JF)

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Campaign

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Young Adult Division, Holocaust Education, & PJ Library

Setting A Solid Foundation, Heuman Scholarship Winner

Home is Where Hillel Is

Community Catchup

Check out what's going on across the Jewish community

BOARD MEMBERS Amy Bloom Patty Holt Caruso Rabbi Judy Chessin Melinda Doner Dr. Samuel Dorf Dr. Michele Dritz Alan Gabel Shirlee Gilbert David Goldenberg Helene Gordon Ed Kress Scott Liberman Dave London Dr. Martha Moody-Jacobs Gayle Moscowitz Kathryn Polk Hannah Schwartz Ira Segalewitz Dan Sweeny

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Dayton's hometown advantage and growing opportunities encourage young adults to return to their roots Cheryl Carne

Director of External Relations Alisa Thomas

Executive Assistant If you have spent any time in downtown Dayton recently, you’ve probably noticed the city looks vastly different than it did a decade ago. Areas that were once dilapidated and desolate are now bustling with activity. New buildings and townhomes seem to be popping up constantly. People can be found partaking in various activities ~ whether that be attending a baseball game, going out for dinner at one of the many downtown restaurants, attending a play or musical, or spending time at Riverscape.

Brittany’s also busy in the Jewish community. She participates in the Federation’s Young Adult Division (YAD as well as other Federation events), and activities at her synagogue, Beth Abraham. Brittany says, “There are many ways to get involved with the Jewish community!” Rachel left Dayton to attend the University of Toledo and Cleveland State University for occupational therapy. After receiving her graduate degree from Cleveland State, Rachel moved to Richmond, Virginia to complete her first fieldwork at Richmond Children’s Hospital. She came back to Dayton to complete her second and final fieldwork experience. She now works at Miami Valley Hospital.

As young people There is more going on move to Dayton, we can see a in downtown Dayton than shift starting to there was when I left, occur in the city. Thanks to new job there is a lot more to do. opportunities, many people are planting Brittany Sussman roots in Dayton Community member for the first time. Others are choosing to return to the city they once called home. Rachel One of the things Rachel Shon and Brittany Sussman are loves most about Dayton, two young Jewish adults who apart from her family being returned to Dayton. here, is access to different activities within the city, such After living in New Iberia and as MetroParks and the arts. Lafayette, Louisiana, Brittany “It’s been great to see and was offered a job promotion at experience the revitalization of Cargill. It happened to be in downtown Dayton, including Dayton. Although she was only the Oregon District and St. gone for three years, Brittany Anne’s Hill,” says Rachel. was surprised by the changes throughout the city. “There is She is also enjoying Dayton’s more going on in downtown Jewish community. “Growing Dayton than there was when I up at Temple Israel and then left,” says Brittany. “There is a returning as an adult~ it felt lot more to do. Downtown has like I never left. The community really grown. And there are lots is welcoming, warm, and of new local restaurants and sharing. I think that’s what breweries!” we as a community have

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Brittany Sussman [above] and rachel shon [below] enjoy dayton's vibrant jewish community. Photo courtesy of YAD Facebook group. over Cleveland, Toledo, or Richmond, Virginia. In other cities you have to make the first move, where as in Dayton, it seems like our community actively seeks out new arrivals.” In addition to her involvement at Temple Israel, Rachel is also active in YAD. “It’s a great way to meet other people,” she says. Rachel is now passing on the warmth of our community with new Jewish hospital employees who may need a place to celebrate the holidays by inviting them to her home.

Ultimately, both Rachel and Brittany recommend Dayton as a great place to move, or to return. “Come on back!” says Rachel. “Dayton isn’t the sleepy city you left.”

If you would like more information about YAD, or would like to connect with Jewish people in the community, please contact Cheryl Carne, Director of External Relations at (937) 610-1778 or ccarne@jfgd.net.

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Max May & Lydia May

Memorial Holocaust Art & Writing Contest

A Heart-Felt Thank You Max May & Lydia May Holocaust Art Contest Winner Spencer Stevenson shares his thoughts

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Dear Renate Frydman, I would like to thank you so much for the opportunity that the Max May & Lydia May Memorial Holocaust Art Contest provided me. I have always thought so highly of those who survived, as well as those who stood up for those who were suffering. With this contest, I was able to learn about so many inspiring stories and figures that can teach us so many things.

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PJ Library Books & Programming Give the Gift of Jewish Culture & Values to Local Families Juliet Glaser

Campaign Director As a child, I used to love receiving mail. And if I knew a package or letter was coming, the anticipation was almost as exciting as opening the mail! I see my children experience that same joy each month when they receive their PJ Library books. A gift from PJ Library and PJ Our Way, the books are mailed monthly to Jewish children in the Dayton area, ages 6 months to 11 years old. They are highquality, expertly selected, age-appropriate, and free of charge. The PJ program goes far beyond books. Several events are held throughout the year, typically in conjunction with holidays. Our most recent event took place in celebration of Shavuot. Over 25 children and their families joined us as we got a behind the scenes tour of Graeter’s Ice Cream shop in Centerville. After learning about all things ice cream, guests were able to enjoy a scoop of their own. The day concluded with several families meeting up at a nearby park to schmooze

Books our children received as babies are well-loved and memorized. They [PJ Library] give us new kid-friendly ideas on how to celebrate holidays, and help us explain the significance and meaning of holidays of which we, as parents, may not be very familiar. Kate Elder ~ Community member while their children played. While PJ programs help promote reading and a deeper connection to Judaism, the program also creates lasting friendships among children and families within the community. PJ parent Kate Elder has seen this first-hand. “PJ programs bring together families from the entire Dayton Jewish community. It gives adults and kids a chance to see friends and meet new ones,” says Kate. The programs have also had a positive effect in Kate’s home. “Some of my favorite books our family has are from PJ Library,” says Kate. “Books our children received as babies are well-loved and memorized. PJ gives us new kid-friendly ideas on how to celebrate holidays, and help us explain the significance

and meaning of holidays of which we, as parents, may not be very familiar.” In addition to programs for children, Dayton has pioneered a PJ Grandparents program that is gaining attention within the national PJ Library community. Grandparents in the Dayton area are able to connect with other grandparents through semi-annual events. The events focus on various ways grandparents can use PJ Library as a tool to connect with their grandchildren. It also gives them a chance to get together and k vell over their grandchildren. PJ Library, PJ Our Way, and PJ Grandparents provide a way for all Jewish families ~ regardless of affiliation ~ to connect with Judaism, explore their faith and meet other Jewish families in the community. We are incredibly proud of the impact of this program.

Funded nationally by the Harold Grinspoon Foundation and locally by the Jewish Federation of Greater Dayton and anonymous philanthropists, PJ Library and PJ Our Way create a fun way to celebrate Jewish culture and values. In addition to the books, we create events throughout the year to help kids and families connect with one another. PJ Library is available to Jewish children living in the Dayton area between the ages of 6 months and 8 years old. PJ Our Way offers the next chapter, and is available to children between the ages of 8 and 11 years old.

For more information about PJ Library, please contact PJ Library Coordinator Rachel Gilbert at 937-610-1555 or rgilbert@jfgd.net.

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Early Childhood Shares Big Jewish Concepts with Our Little Ones Weekly Shabbat observance, Passover, and more key to sharing cultural values and traditions JCC Early Childhood Director If you walk into the JCC on a Friday morning and peek in our multipurpose room, you will find children ~ from toddlers through kindergarteners ~ singing songs, dancing, and saying blessings over challah and juice to welcome in Shabbat. This isn’t a special one-time celebration. The JCC Early Childhood Education classrooms join together each week to celebrate Shabbat. Rochel Simon, from Chabad of Greater Dayton, visits the classrooms each week to teach Judaics and lead the Shabbat celebration. Once per month, students roll up their sleeves to learn what goes into our delicious bread by kneading and braiding their own challah to take home. And in November, preschool families are invited to attend our Annual “Share Shabbat” where they are able to experience the warmth of Shabbat with us. Last year we had over 200 people join us for this meaningful event. Open to children ages 6 weeks through kindergarten, the JCC Early Childhood Education program provides top-notch care and education while connecting students to Judaism. For the 99 children ~ both Jewish and non-Jewish ~ who attend our preschool, this has proven to be an important piece of their early childhood education experience. Throughout their day, children learn about mitzvot, tzedakah, traditions and Jewish holidays. In addition, the students play, connect and develop an understanding for each other. We prepare our children for Kindergarten, beginning when they are toddlers, by linking our lesson plans to the Early Learning Content Standards from the State of Ohio. Many of our efforts can be seen beyond the classroom. Preschool parent Lindsey Roth has witnessed the Jewish values instilled at school in her home. “I was making dinner, and my daughter asked me to look at something,” says Lindsey. “She had picked up everything off the floor and put it away as best she could, without me asking. I told her thank you, and she exclaimed ‘I did a Mitzvah ~ I am so excited!’ This is exactly what I wanted from a preschool.” Because we are a Jewish preschool, our focus is on all things related to Judaism

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~ including culture, values, traditions, and holidays. Throughout the year, our students can be found parading through the halls and offices to show off their Purim costumes, enjoying apples and honey to celebrate Rosh Hashanah, and making delicious latkes for Chanukah. We instill a love of Judaism through all we do. Because we are play based, our students learn through hands-on projects and experiences. It provides the students the opportunity to learn while having fun. Apart from Shabbat, our Passover Experience is our biggest celebration. It begins with Rabbi Levi & Rochel Simon and their interactive Matzah Factory. Students learn about matzah and why we eat it during Passover. They have fun getting their hands in the flour and water mixture, and watching their doughy creation turn into a crisp and crunchy snack. Another aspect of the celebration, the Passover Experience, tells the story of the holiday by taking students on a journey with Moses, Miriam, the Pharaoh and his slaves. Staff and volunteers dress up as these historical figures to add to the realness of the experience. Stations are set up representing Baby Moses in the Nile River, freeing the slaves from the Pharaoh, encountering the plagues and the Passover celebration, complete with a life size Seder plate. At each station children have the opportunity to learn about the holiday through stories and songs.

I was making dinner, and my daughter asked me to look at something. She had picked up everything off the floor and put it away as best as she could, without me asking. I told her thank you, and she exclaimed 'I did a Mitzvah ~ I am so excited!' This is exactly what I wanted from a preschool. Lindsey Roth ~ JCC preschool parent

Activities such as these provide students with a unique way to learn about the holidays and understand the traditions they may witness at home. For students who do not practice Judaism, the activities give them a glimpse into a culture they may not be exposed to otherwise. Ultimately, our goal is to help mold our young students into respectful, responsible and caring adults. And our preschool model is allowing us to do just that.

For more information about the JCC’s Early Childhood Education program, please contact Audrey MacKenzie at 937610-1555 or amackenzie@jfgd.net.

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The JCC: A Place for Teens Leadership opportunities and community engagement growing among teens Meryl Hattenbach

Program Manager I grew up three blocks away from my JCC. Some days, especially during the summer, I spent more waking hours at the J than I did in my own home. I would often ride my bike up to the J, park it on the bike rack, walk through the front door and greet my grandma (my grandmother worked at the front desk). I would visit the J to participate in Children’s Theatre, take tennis lessons, meet a friend to play racquet ball or swim at the pool. When I was older, I worked as a lifeguard with the same friends I hung out

with at the J. It was truly my second home. I am proud to say the JCC is still a vibrant place for our teens. Read on to find out about all the things our teens have been doing!

For more information about Teen Programming contact Meryl Camp shalom's CIT program provides Hattenbach, JCC Program a meaningful experience for teens. Photos Manager at (937) 401-1550 courtesy of Tara Feiner, meryl hattenbach, peter or mhattenbach@jfgd.net. wine.

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Dayton Junior Youth Group

What could be a more powerful experience for a Jewish teen than to join a group of peers and spend the afternoon volunteering to make a difference in the community? In partnership with Jewish Family Services, 22 Dayton teens did just that at the YWCA as part of J-Serve 2018. The teens assisted women and children in need by donating much-needed personal care items, touring the YWCA, learning about its mission, organizing donations, and cleaning key spaces. Dayton BBYO is active and growing under the leadership of our young teens and City Director, Sarah Wolf-Knight.

I didn’t expect to find myself in the back of a hay wagon, clutching an 11 year old and trying to hide from a scary masked man with a chainsaw. But that’s exactly where I was at “Havdalah and Haunt” at Young’s Dairy, the first program of the year for the Dayton Junior Youth Group. Jewish pre-teens and teens in grades 6 through 8 meet monthly for fun, social-action and Jewish programs. The kids come from all congregations and school districts throughout the Miami Valley.

JCC Maccabi Games and ArtsFest

Our teen CITs (Counselors-in-Training) are a vital part of camp life. These young adults in 8th-10th grade provide fresh ideas and a different skill set for our camp programming. We rely on our CITs to help supervise campers and lead programs. These years are a critical transition period for young adults when they gain valuable skills in leadership, organization and supervision. They create strong bonds with each other and with the younger campers who look up to them as role models!

We are proud to announce that Dayton is sending a delegation to this year’s JCC Maccabi Games and ArtsFest. The teens will participate as part of “Team Ohio.” They will travel to Orange County and Long Beach, California in August to join 2,000 other teens from around the world. The athletes will compete in a variety of individual and team sports. Our ArtsFest participants will take part in weeklong master classes in specialty areas culminating in a showcase at the end of the week.

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JCC Children’s Theatre Had you been in the girl’s dressing room following the closing of the JCC Children’s Theatre performance of TARZAN, you would have seen a bunch of girls ~many dressed like apes ~ hugging and crying. Who knew that four months of rehearsals would create such a strong bond between friends, many of whom just met at the start of the season? As our experienced Children’s Theatre staff will tell you, it’s not about the show or the songs or the part you get—it’s about the relationships you build and the personal challenges you overcome. Twenty-three kids ages 7 through 16 shared the amazing experience of staging a full length production of Disney’s TARZAN, complete with a live pit orchestra. Mazel tov to the entire cast on their hard work and a successful season!

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Honoring the Legacy of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. with the Next Generation Jewish Family Services, Camp Shalom & PJ Library teach Tikkun Olam

Tara Feiner

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and Winter Camp Shalom for a special program with the camp children.

In our world, we often hear people speak about “waiting until the time is right.” Whether they are referring to relocating or purchasing a new vehicle, or something as simple as planting a garden, waiting on time seems to be a common thing. Sometimes waiting is necessary. After all, if we planted a vegetable garden in the dead of winter, the results would be dismal. However it is always the right time to be an ambassador for social justice and do what is right.

The program started with an overview of Dr. King, and the meaning of Martin Luther King Day. Afterwards Rachel Gilbert, our PJ Library Coordinator, read the empowering PJ Library story Brave Girl: Clara and the Shirtwaist Makers’ Strike of 1909 by Melissa Sweet. This true story is about a young Ukrainian immigrant, Clara, who worked in a shirtwaist factory and fought against and inspired others to fight against the deplorable and dangerous working conditions. This was the perfect story to ignite a conversation about being an everyday hero and to do what is right even when it is not easy.

On Martin Luther King Day, some of us marched in memory of the great civil rights leader. Some attended vigils to remember the sacrifices he and other civil rights movement heroes made. Some participated in a day of service to strengthen our community. Jewish Family Services decided to pass on some of the wonderful teachings of Dr. King by partnering with PJ Library

Following the reading, I facilitated a conversation focusing on the story’s heroine Clara, tikkun olam (repairing the world) and social justice. The campers did an incredible job capturing Clara’s personality. They described her as prepared, considerate, brave, helpful, resilient, and a leader. Together, we linked Clara’s traits to the definition of a hero – a person of courage or ability,

“The time is always right to do what is right,” Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.

CAMPER'S SUPERHERO-SELVES. Photos courtesy of PETER WINE.

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admired for brave deeds and noble qualities. From there, the campers were asked to list injustices in the world and what can we do to make things better. At the end of our program, the campers created their own social justice league and transformed themselves into superheroes. Each camper created a superhero in their own likeness (with special powers, of course). The campers stood up for fairness, better health care and respect. They stood against bullying, pollution, animal abuse, and hunger. It was rewarding to speak of the amazing advances in our world thanks to Dr. King’s bravery and determination, and convey it in a way that the campers could understand. We at Jewish Family Services look forward to more programs with PJ Library and Camp Shalom.

If you would like more information about JFS youth initiatives and resources, please contact Tara Feiner, JFS Director at (937) 401-1546 or tfeiner@jfgd.net.


JFS Brings Warm Traditions of Passover to Inmates at Dayton Correctional Institution Tara Feiner

JFS Director Many of us have fond Passover memories. I know I do. Maybe you think about finding the afikomen and going person to person for a reward, or seders that lasted late into the night. Sadly, not everyone has warm memories of this very meaningful holiday. An email from several years ago was the catalyst to bring Passover seders to one such group of women. In 2016, we were contacted by Ohio Jewish Communities (OJC) with a request for Federations to provide seder plates for inmates at the prisons within their catchment areas. I immediately contacted the Dayton Correctional Institution (DCI) and their chaplain to discuss the request. I explained that the seder plate is not an item that stands alone; the items on the seder plate are symbols of our past. We remember the meaning of the items during the Passover seder. I then volunteered to go to DCI to lead two seders so that the inmates could celebrate Passover appropriately. It has been such an important and enriching experience that I have returned each year since. This year, I asked the three Jewish inmates who participated in the seders what this Passover meant to them. I was so inspired by the responses. One woman who is Jewish by choice expressed that the seders made her feel closer to Judaism. “This validates my choice,” she said, “It feels like home.” The women come from different backgrounds. One of the women grew up in a traditional Jewish home. The seders helped her feel connected to her heritage, childhood and family. Another woman had only recently learned her grandfather was Jewish and wanted to learn more about her heritage. The seders allowed her to experience something new. She hopes to share Judaism with her son. This has been an amazing program for Jewish Family Services. Within the scope of our mission to provide individuals and families within the Miami Valley with the tools and services to lead a happy and healthy life, JFS strives to keep those who may be isolated connected to the Jewish community.

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July 1 - Mysteries of Jewish Dayton Part 2

August 22 - Celebrate Israel @ 70: An Evening with Golda Meir August 26 - Active Adults Annual Brunch

JFS Director Tara Feiner and her Passover tablescape at DCI.

Photos courtesy oF Dayton Correctional Institution.

It [the seder] feels like home. Seder participant ~Dayton Correctional Institution

Real Life, Real Resources Jewish Family Services will be hosting speakers and panels on a variety of topics that reflect the real life needs of our diverse Greater Dayton community. From diversity, physical health, mental health, and family to planning and preparing for the aging process, there is something for everyone – resources to help us navigate our lives. Look for more information in the near future.

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Hillel Academy Ensures Jewish Learning and Provides Global Connections through Israeli Twinning Program Students benefit from expert guidance paired with Federation resources Jodi Phares

met and developed relationships with many Jewish families.

Alisa Thomas

When Hillel Academy began envisioning their future, Jerry Kotler approached Kathy and Dan to see if they would be interested in consulting on the project. Throughout the strategic planning process, it became clear they were the perfect pair to run Hillel Academy.

Project manager ExEcutive Assistant It’s a Tuesday afternoon at Hillel Academy of Greater Dayton. The children just finished eating lunch. A small group is gathered in the hall with Principal Dan Mecoli, working on robotics. Other children are in their respective classrooms, ready to tackle the afternoon’s lessons. When Dr. Kathy Mecoli & Dan Mecoli became co-principals at Hillel Academy of Greater Dayton seven years ago, they knew they were embarking on a special journey. Kathy and Dan both come from long, successful careers in education. They worked for many years in the Dayton Public School system at Colonel White High School and Meadowdale High School. In addition, Kathy had been principal at the Miami Valley School and Dan had been principal at Mills Lawn Elementary in Yellow Springs and Precious Blood Catholic School. Throughout their careers, they

Over the years, Kathy and Dan have perfected a rhythm of their shared position as principal. Kathy focuses on curriculum and instruction; Dan focuses on the nuts and bolts of running the school. “Our goal is to create life-long learners,” says Kathy. “We utilize project based learning, which engages the children in solving real-world problems. They ask questions, and we work with them to help figure out the answers. Recently, the students were studying electricity. They had a great idea to make a backlit “Welcome to Hillel” sign in Hebrew. When the children presented the idea to their

teacher, he embarked on a journey with the students to learn how to make their idea a reality. They reached out to an electrician and researched the topic, eventually making their signs come to fruition.” Students at Hillel Academy are also presented with the opportunity to work on public speaking through various projects and assignments. The school recently presented a play based on the graphic novels of Rabbi Harvey. All 28 students, from Kindergarten through sixth grade, had speaking roles. By speaking in front of an audience from an early age, the children are able to develop the skills necessary to engage in public speaking in the future. Hillel Academy also utilizes flexible grouping for the classroom. The school consists of one primary class (K-2nd grade) and two intermediate classes (3rd-6th grades). Within the classes, each child’s experience is customized to fit their learning level and abilities. “There are tons of individualization and customization options,” says Dan. Kathy added, “Homework is all

Our students are able to see there are other children in the world who are like them. These children, they celebrate the same holidays as our students and they share the same beliefs. It makes our children feel connected to their Judaism. Rina Thau ~Hebrew Teacher, Hillel Academy of Greater Dayton

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differentiated. Projects are tailored to the individual student’s ability. Even their spelling lists are individualized.” This type of individualization helps students maximize their potential. Most students are operating at least one grade level above where a typical child would be, and that gap usually expands over time. However, the most critical component of Hillel Academy is one which cannot be found in any other school in our area, and that is the integration of Judaics into the academics. In addition to core subjects such as math, science and social studies, the students also participate in a Judaics class, Hebrew and daily prayer. “Parents know their values are safe and secure in this environment,” says Dan. “By weaving Judaics into the curriculum, students are able to build upon their Jewish values. The children aren’t just learning something for a test; they are learning skills and lessons that are applicable to life.”

In their Hebrew class, the students participate in a Partnership2Gether (P2G) Twinning program with a kibbutz in Gesher Haziv, which is in northern Israel close to the Lebanon border. The program, facilitated by Hebrew teacher Rina Thau, connects the Hillel Academy students with Israeli students. “The students send each other cards for holidays such as Rosh Hashanah and Chanukah and masks for Purim,” says Rina. “For Tu B’Shevat, we made leaves that were decorated by both the local students and the Israeli students. The children also send videos to each other where they speak in Hebrew and introduce themselves.” The P2G Twinning program has proven to be very beneficial. “Our students are able to see there are other children in the world who are like them,” says Rina. “These children celebrate the same holidays as our students and they share the same beliefs. It makes our students feel connected to their Judaism.” Not only are current students reaping

the benefits of their Hillel Academy experience, but alumni are as well. Most students who start at Hillel Academy only leave because their family is moving out of the area, or the student ages out. Those that move on to their local junior high and high schools continue to be involved in the community, Jewish Federation, synagogue, temple, and school events. Small but mighty, Hillel Academy has proven to be an excellent choice for families in the Dayton area. “Whether a student is reform, conservative, orthodox or unaffiliated, students are accepting of each other,” says Dan. “The success of a Jewish day school is critical to the success of the Jewish community, and this is THE place if you want to grow Jewish values.”

For more information on this and other P2G programs, please contact Jodi Phares, Project Manager at (937) 610-5513 or jphares@jfgd.net.

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The Partnership2Gether School Twinning Program seeks to create a high sense of regional and national belonging, both in Israel and in Dayton, by exposing participants to different shades of Jewish culture and identity. In addition, the program helps participants learn about each other, recognize their similarities, and respect their differences.

Hillel students get a healthy mix of jewish and israeli culture. Photos courtesy of hillel academy of dayton.

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CREATING A SOLID FOUNDATION: LIFE & LEGACY Helps Dayton Jewish Community Ensure Traditions for the Next Generation Janese R. Sweeny, Esq.

Jewish Foundation Director There is no greater reason to create a legacy than for our children and the countless generations that will follow. After all, this is why we do what we do ~ why we work so hard, try so hard and strive to make the world a better place. Through the LIFE & LEGACY TM program, we get to do just that as a community. When our CEO Cathy Gardner and I were thinking about the LIFE & LEGACY program, and who would spearhead it, two names instantly came to my mind~ Debby Goldenberg and Michele Dritz. You can only imagine how thrilled I was when both accepted the offer to chair the program. A longtime proponent of the Dayton community ~ both Jewish and nonJewish ~ Debby has served many roles, including President of the Jewish Federation. Her passion for the community runs deep. “Dayton is a wonderful place to live and bring up a family. Within the Jewish community there could not be a better support system both in good times and tough ones,” says Debby. Debby’s connection to her Judaism is strong. She has especially fond memories of the holidays. “Many of the holidays are hosted at our house. We thrive on the warmth and joy

of love and friendship that exude during holiday times. We are among friends and family and surrounded by meaningful rituals,” says Debby. Life cycle events are also very important. “They are very emotionally charged and steeped in tradition.” Chairing the LIFE & LEGACY program is a natural fit. “One could not ask for a better way to be remembered and be cherished by subsequent generations than by leaving a legacy gift,” Debby says. “It is not the dollar amount that is as important, but the act of Tzedakah and the promise of caring for those who we leave behind. We are responsible to our fellow Jews and if we don’t take care of ourselves, no one else will. How can we not be the stewards for our own generations to come?” When Debby is not busy with her numerous volunteer commitments, she and her husband Bob love to travel. There is one place they go back to again and again ~ Israel. “We have made many wonderful trips there and will look forward to another trip this fall for the Jewish Federations of North America’s Israel 70th Anniversary Mission and General Assembly.” Although Michele is newer to the Jewish community, she has immersed herself and become an invaluable leader. Raised in the Catholic faith, Michele is raising a Jewish family. “Without ever formally converting, I

found myself early on trying to find a way to raise our children in the Jewish traditions while still honoring the traditions of my upbringing and family. Luckily, we have been able to create new traditions that honor all sides of our family, while also helping teach inclusion, tolerance and respect for others,” says Michele. She is particularly fond of Friday night Shabbat. “I find myself looking forward to Fridays and relishing the opportunity to slow down and spend time as a family. We light our Shabbat candles (using the candlesticks our Dayton Federation gave me many years ago), we say our prayers and we share our homemade challah together as a family. Not only does Friday Shabbat give us an opportunity to take a much needed breath after a long week, but it also helps build a tradition for our children that centers around being thankful for family and our many blessings, including being part of a long and vibrant Jewish tradition.” Michele describes the Dayton Jewish community as welcoming, warm and inclusive. “There seems to be a space for everyone in this community. Regardless of whether your connection with Jewish life and this community is cultural, religious, social, or something else, the Dayton Jewish community does a wonderful job of creating space for all,” says Michele.

LIFE & LEGACY Co-Chairs We are responsible to our fellow Jews and if we don’t take care of ourselves, no one else will. How can we not be the stewards for our own generations to come? Debby Goldenberg ~LIFE & LEGACY Co-CHAIR

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As the beneficiaries of the commitments made by those who came before us, we all have an opportunity and obligation to continue to keep those traditions alive and to keep our Jewish community strong for countless more generations. Michele Dritz ~LIFE & LEGACY Co-CHAIR


Heuman Scholarship Awarded for 2018/2019 School Year Michele is a great choice to chair the LIFE & LEGACY program with Debby. “None of us would be here today if it was not for the commitment of those who came before us in keeping the Jewish traditions and culture alive, Michele says. “It is easy to recognize in everything around me that Jewish life is so much more than religion – it is a culture, a community and a sense of who we are as a people that has stood the test of time for countless generations despite sometimes the thinnest of odds. As the beneficiaries of the commitments made by those who came before us, we all have an opportunity and obligation to continue to keep those traditions alive and to keep our Jewish community strong for countless more generations.” A program of the Harold Grinspoon Foundation, LIFE & LEGACY is a four year partnership program that assists communities across North America, through partnerships with Jewish Federations and Foundations, to promote after-lifetime giving to benefit Jewish day schools, synagogues, social service organizations and other Jewish entities.

Dayton teen Tamir Rastetter is the 12th student to recieve the scholarship since its inception in 2006 Alisa Thomas

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The Jewish Foundation of Greater Dayton is pleased to announce Tamir Rastetter has been named as this year’s recipient of the Heuman Scholarship. Tamir recently graduated from The Miami Valley School. He will attend The Ohio State University in the fall, where he is majoring in Business Administration, specializing in International Business. After graduation, Tamir would like to start his own business. When asked why he decided to pursue this career path, Tamir said, “I want to do something that will positively impact people’s lives. I watched my mother start her own business, and I see that it can be a rewarding experience.”

Tamir is very active in both the Jewish and general community. Outside of his studies, Tamir participated in an array of activities while at The Miami Valley School including soccer, basketball, Model UN Club, Investment Club, Aviation Club and Prom Committee. He has also worked at Chipotle for the past year, and plans to work there while in college. When he has downtime, Tamir enjoys playing video games. Tamir is the son of Dr. Danielle Rastetter and Dr. Jason Sobel. He is a member of Temple Israel, where he was an assistant teacher after graduating Sunday school. He was also a member of the North American Federation of Temple Youth (NFTY) and a leading member of Temple Israel’s youth group.

Mazel tov Tamir!

For more information about LIFE & LEGACY, contact Janese R. Sweeny, Esq., Foundation Director at (937) 401-1542 or jsweeny@jfgd.net. LIFE & LEGACY is a partnership between the Jewish Foundation of Greater Dayton and the Harold Grinspoon Foundation in collaboration with the Dayton Jewish community.

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The Heuman Scholarship is made possible through a fund established by Bob and Vicky Heuman. Since its creation in 2006, the Heuman Scholarship has been awarded annually to an undergraduate or graduate student who demonstrates both academic achievement and financial need. The scholarship is open to Jewish students who reside in the Dayton area. Thank you to Bob and Vicky for their generosity and dedication to our Jewish Community. For more information about Scholarship opportunities, contact Alisa Thomas at (937) 610-1796 or athomas@jfgd.net. Jewish Foundation | 13


Home is Where Hillel Is

Campaign dollars help fund Jewish community & culture on campus Juliet Glaser

Campaign Director I grew up in a very secular interfaith family. My first real experience with the Jewish community took place in college at the University of Maryland Hillel. It was the mid 1990’s, and as I recall, I really needed to use a phone. As I approached the Hillel I thought, “I’m Jewish. I bet they’ll let me use their phone.” Upon entering the building, I was greeted by a very enthusiastic receptionist who happened to be a fellow student. After introducing ourselves, Miriam immediately started inviting me to every upcoming event on Hillel’s calendar. It was terribly overwhelming for someone uninitiated to vibrant Jewish communal life. Miriam seemed to sense this, so she narrowed her invitations down to just one: “Come to Shabbat dinner this week.” I had never been to a Shabbat dinner. I didn’t even know that was a thing people actually did. I had some vague recollection that Shabbat was on Saturday, but beyond that, I had no clue. But I was a college student and I wasn’t going to pass up a free meal, so I showed up that Friday night. And then I showed up the next Friday night, and the next, and from there I was hooked. To say that my experience at Hillel had a profound effect on the course of my life would not be an exaggeration. Hillel engaged me in Jewish communal life and helped me connect with my Jewish heritage, and I will be forever grateful.

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In terms of continuity of Jewish life, college students are perhaps most vulnerable as they are experiencing being on their own for the first time. Whether a student has enjoyed a rich Jewish life, or are like me and newly exposed to it upon entering college, Hillels are there to provide a Jewish foundation away from home. Students are engaged through a variety of programs, celebrations, and educational and leadership opportunities.

Addison’s mother, Patty Caruso, has witnessed the importance of Hillel in her son’s life. “It is vital to keep our Jewish youth engaged. A thriving campus Hillel is crucial to the college experience, says Patty. “College is a period of time when young adults are molding themselves into whom and what they will become as older adults. As a Jewish community, we must capture these questioning young adults through a vibrant Hillel that has alluring programs and a warm, welcoming facility. Doing so will help to ensure that our Jewish lineage continues from one generation to When I came to Miami from Colorado, the next.”

I was afraid of being so far away from my family. With my Hillel family, I can celebrate my Judaism freely and it provides me a place to call home. Without Hillel, I would not be the leader, the Jew, or the family member I am today. Elise Kramer ~Student

Miami University of Ohio Addison Caruso, who recently graduated from Miami University, enjoyed the connections Hillel provided. “Hillel has helped me establish meaningful and lifelong connections to other Jewish students while giving me the support and opportunity to create and be involved in insightful and engaging programming.”

Another student, Elise Kramer, found comfort in the family atmosphere Hillel provided her as a new student. “When I came to Miami from Colorado, I was afraid of being so far away from my family. With my Hillel family, I can celebrate my Judaism freely and it provides me a place to call home,” says Elise. She adds, “Without Hillel, I would not be the leader, the Jew, or the family member I am today.” When I hear stories like this, it reinforces my love for Jewish communal work. Each year, funds raised through JFGD’s Annual Campaign are allocated across our community. Miami University and the Ohio Valley Hillel Consortium


Miami university hillel students at the 2018 AIPAC, ISrael Fest, and spring break. Photos courtesy of Miami University hillel

Hillels provide a Jewish foundation away from home. Students are engaged through a variety of programs, celebrations, and educational and leadership opportunities. each receive allocations of $10,000. In addition to Miami University, the Ohio Valley Hillel Consortium helps fund Hillels at Indiana University, Purdue and the University of Louisville. Recently, members of our Dayton community were invited to Miami University to enjoy a Shabbat dinner at the campus Hillel. JFGD Board member and incoming board president Bruce Feldman, who happens to be a Miami University alumnus, enjoyed the evening. “It brought back good memories of my time spent at the Miami Hillel and the many Shabbat dinners that I attended,” Bruce shared. “It also showed me that young Jewish students spend valuable time at the Hillel and that our Dayton Jewish community

funding helps to make that happen.” I know how much my experience with Hillel meant to me, and how it has shaped my Jewish identity. It is a privilege to work for an organization that continues to support Hillels and help mold our young adults. Supporting Hillels in just one, yet critical, component of JFGD’s mission, which is to care for those in need, strengthen Jewish life, and create connections among Jews.

For more information on how your campaign donations help make an impact, please contact Juliet Glaser, Campaign Director, at (937) 401-1558 or jglaser@jfgd.net.

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Each year, funds raised through The Jewish Federation of Greater Dayton's Annual Campaign are allocated across our community. Miami University and the Ohio Valley Hillel Consortium each receive allocations of $10,000. In addition to Miami University, the Ohio Valley Hillel Consortium helps fund Hillels at Indiana University, Purdue and the University of Louisville.

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Days of Tikkun Olam:

Focus on Philanthropy Juliet Glaser

Campaign Director Tikkun Olam is a Hebrew phrase and key Jewish belief which references the shared responsibility to heal, repair and transform the world. Our work centers around tikkun olam all year long. The Jewish Federation of Greater Dayton’s Presidents Dinner marks the beginning of 100 Days of Tikkun Olam, a period of time where we focus on celebrating the incredible philanthropic work our community does through the Federation and its agencies. During these 100 Days, we will highlight the many reasons why people choose to participate in tikkun olam. From ensuring the continuity of the Jewish people, providing programming for children and families to caring for those in need, every reason is personal and meaningful to each community member who participates. Each year we strive to continue engaging our community in the work of tikkun olam, through both seasoned and new Jewish Federation supporters. This year, along with sharing the stories and reasons of why our community gives, we are setting a new goal ~ to obtain 100 NEW gifts in 100 days. We hope you will join us during these 100 days, and help us spread the message of tikkun olam in our community. Share your #TikkunOlam story on our Facebook page: facebook.com/ JFedDayton

For more information on how to participate in the 100 Days of Tikkun Olam, contact Juliet Glaser, Campaign Director at (937) 401-1558 or jglaser@jfgd.net.

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Beth Abraham Synagogue “I went looking for a community and I found one at Beth Abraham Synagogue. Having moved to Ohio without knowing anyone, I was reluctant to simply show up at shul alone. However, I decided to go one Friday night and was pleasantly surprised to be welcomed and invited to Shabbat dinner the following week. This community has accepted me as one of its own, and without any family locally, I can always count on Beth Abraham members to fulfill my needs.” - Hannah Schwartz Beth Abraham Synagogue is the only Conservative synagogue in the greater Dayton area. Our warm and inclusive community provides educational opportunities through youth services, religious school and adult learning. Strong bonds are created through one of our most popular programs, “Guess Who's Coming to Shabbas?” where congregants open their homes to friends and strangers to share a meaningful Shabbat experience. We also offer a blend of traditional and innovative social action, holiday, and social events, including our annual Purim shpiel, Shabbat Under the Stars and our MLK service collaboration with Corinthian Baptist Church. Come on over - we would love to get to know you!

Beth Jacob Congregation Beth Jacob Congregation would like to wish Rabbi Adam Rosenthal and his wife Sara and children Zecharya, Neriya, Michal and Esther Bon Voyage as they move back to California. High Holy Day services will be led by Rabbi Adam Rosenthal and Cantor Jerome Kopmar. On June 24, 2018, Beth Jacob Congregation held a Tribute Dinner in memory of Joe Hollander and Jack Edelman.

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Chabad of Greater Dayton Shabbat at Chabad Every Shabbat morning 9AM At Chabad the services are traditional, and are conducted in a joyous, casual atmosphere. Many of those who attend cannot read Hebrew, yet everyone feels at home. The prayer book is bi-lingual and various English readings are included in the service. Song and commentary add meaning and participation to the prayers. Children are included and most welcome. An important part of our community is the weekly Kiddush Luncheon that follows the Shabbat morning services, where friendships are created and nurtured and we celebrate each other's happy occasions and anniversaries.

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Dayton Jewish Chorale The Dayton Jewish Chorale would like to thank everyone for the overwhelming support of the CommUNITY Shabbat program at the Dayton Art Institute in January. We look forward to creating this type of event again in the future. Do you love to sing? Contact Hazzan Jenna Greenberg at yoninale@hotmail.com for information on joining the group. Want to show your support? Make a contribution to the Dayton Jewish Chorale! Tax-deductible donations can be sent to and made out to JFGD, with Dayton Jewish Chorale in the memo line. Any new donations will be matched up to $1250.

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Hadassah, Dayton Chapter Our 2018 calendar has been filled with remarkable activities . January saw our Installation Brunch at the home of Julie Bloom. Carol Ann Schwartz, National Vice-President, served as installing officer and presented an inspirational repertoire of Hadassah’s amazing achievements. Sis Litvin was installed as incoming president. In March Tara Feiner, Director of Jewish Family Service educated us on BRCA and Sharsheret. We are grateful to Tara for demystifying a relevant topic and sharing her personal story with us. In May Hadassah partnered with the Dayton Jewish Film Festival to bring “Act of Defiance,” a movie about racism in Apartheid-era South Africa and the little known role the Jews played

in eliminating Apartheid. Jim Levenson then led a discussion which was followed by lunch at Coco’s. In June we are manning an information booth at Temple Israel’s Jewish Cultural Festival. On August 22 at 6:30PM at the Boonshoft CJCE, GOLDA IS COMING TO TOWN. We’ll co-sponsor with the JCC and Active Adults for “Celebrate Israel @ 70: An Evening with Golda Meir.” The program stars Jessica Michna who will portray Golda. Born in the Ukraine and raised in Milwaukee, Golda rose to become Israel’s Prime Minister. We’re very excited about this program and hope you will join us. Details will follow in future PR releases. All of these programs are in addition to our book and shareshopper groups which meet every month.

Hillel Academy of Greater Dayton Students at Hillel Academy learn Hebrew language every day using the TaLAM/iTaLAM program. The students’ Hebrew and heritage literacy develop in a gradual and spiraled process, fostering Jewish identity by allowing children to explore their Jewish roots and traditions in fun and exciting ways. iTaLAM blends proven TaL AM printed materials with new digital components in order to create a holistic learning environment. Students engage in online games, songs, and interactive stories. They also converse in the classroom and act out stories and plays in Hebrew. This blended program successfully combines the benefits of print, digital learning, and creative classroom activities. Students emerge from the program able to read and speak Hebrew and are well poised to become proficient as they continue more formal instruction. By making the study of Hebrew and Judaism relevant to the children’s everyday lives, the program enables them to develop a true appreciation of their heritage, and to understand the need for continued, lifelong Jewish study.

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Jewish War Veterans Jewish War Veterans attends the monthly naturalization ceremony to welcome new citizens as they take their oath of allegiance to the United States. Several local civic organizations observe the ceremony and each gives a short welcome. We at JWV believe our presence is important to ensure that our newest citizens not only feel welcome, but are made aware that Jews always have served in our military and are ready to defend the nation that they now call home.

Temple Israel Take it outside! Temple Israel is enjoying the great outdoors this season and we hope you will join us! Shabbat Under the Stars Friday, July 20 at 6:30PM Join us for a special Shabbat service on Temple Israel’s south lawn overlooking the river. Shabbat in the Park Saturday, August 11 at 10:30AM Families and community members are invited to join us at Yankee Park (7500 Yankee Street, Centerville, 45459) for a kid-friendly service followed by lunch and play time. Sukkahs in the City September 23 – 29 This annual tradition returns for the fifth year! Plan a weeklong sukkah hop around town or choose your favorite night to party in the hut. Decorate the sukkah, enjoy crafts, and share a potluck dinner.

Temple Beth Or Temple Beth Or members remain active and welcoming over the summer months. Join us on Friday evenings in July and August for informal services led by members of the congregation beginning at 6PM Our Connections for Seniors group walks at Schoolhouse Park on Nutt Road at 10 a.m. on the second and fourth Wednesdays; and Chai Mitzvah meets at Temple at 1:30PM on the second Thursdays. Fall registration for Makor and Hebrew school opens online on July 1. The first day of classes will be Sunday, Sept. 23. In August, we welcome teens from around the region as we host the Ohio Valley NFTY Leadership Training Kallah from Aug. 17 through 19. Our High Holidays schedule includes both traditional and family friendly services for Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur and culminates in a music filled potluck in the sukkah on September 28! Visit our website for details. Temple Beth Or is proud to be a warm, welcoming community and we would love to meet you! Call our office at 937-435-3400 or visit www.templebethor.com to learn more.

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1. JCRC partnered with The Dayton Art Institute and artist Miri Golan during their Peace by Piece exhibit on April 9. 2. Federation's Inaugural Men's Event was hosted at Top Golf on March 11. 3. The JCC's Israel @ 70 Celebration brought the community together on April 15. 4. Yom Hashoah Observance honored the lives and memories of Holocaust victims on April 12.

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5. BBYO Teen, Sammy Caruso, led a group of Oakwood students to the March for Our Lives on March 24 in Washinton D.C. 6. Jewish Family Services & JCC Early Childhood team up for a Passover Mitzvah Mission at Friendship Village on April 4.

PHOTOS COURTESY of Peter wine, Sammy Caruso, shay shenefelt, & Mendy Fedotowsky.

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