In this issue...
team forming for
Helping families displaced by LA fires
Parashat Bo Shabbat times (Overland Park): Candlelighting: 5:21 p.m.
Havdalah: 6:22 p.m.
Building a community through cancer The Breast Cancer Club supports Kansas Citians affected by the disease
By Jane Martin Special to The Chronicle
During a routine mammogram in 2023, Julie Rudman, founder and executive director of The Breast Cancer Club, was diagnosed with invasive lobular carcinoma — a type of breast cancer. Her diagnosis, treatment and a three-hour conversation with another Kansas City woman with breast cancer led Rudman to change the fabric of breast cancer support in Kansas City.
“When I was diagnosed with cancer, my friend asked if she could connect me with a friend who had breast cancer,” she said. “The friend and I met at Corner Bakery. She had flowers and a gift bag, and she talked to me for three hours. At the end, I said, ‘I can’t thank you enough.’ She said, ‘Just pay it forward.’”
The next day, Rudman realized the way to pay it forward was to give the gift of support, resources and commu-
Renowned Israeli artist to visit KC as artist-in-residence
By Alexis Greenberg Special to The Chronicle
Award-winning Israeli illustrator, educator and children’s book author Hanoch Piven will be in Kansas City from Feb. 28 to March 3 for an artist-in-residence weekend. Throughout the weekend, Piven will lead multiple events for hundreds of members from the Kansas City Jewish community.
Piven’s art has been published across the world, including in publications such as Time Magazine, Rolling Stone Magazine and Israel’s Haaretz. He is also the creator of several TV programs for the Israeli Educational Television network.
Piven’s visual art method takes everyday objects and uses
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nity to anyone in Kansas City who is impacted by breast cancer.
“People always say, ‘Welcome to the club you never wanted to be a part of,’” Rudman said. “I thought, ‘Where’s the club? There isn’t any club.’ So I decided to build the club.”
The organization’s website, thebreastcancerclub.org, features a forum, links to local resources and communication forms, among other things. The club is also working on projects around the community, including the collection and redistribution of gently used cancer supplies.
dealt in used supplies has closed their doors,” Rudman said. “Supplies are expensive, and you don’t need them for long. There’s a lot of good, gently used stuff out there that we want to get in people’s hands.”
“People don’t know what to do with their supplies when they’re done, and the only place I know of in town that
The Breast Cancer Club centers around five core values: community, privacy, inclusivity, equity and convenience. Its mission is to provide support and connection for everyone in the Kansas City area who is impacted by breast cancer — whether someone has a diagnosis, is in remission, is at high risk, or has a loved one with breast cancer, they are welcome
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JVS refugee services halted by government order
By The Chronicle staff
Jewish Vocational Service of Kansas City (JVS), along with refugee resettlement agencies across the United States, were issued a stop-work order for the Reception & Placement Program, which helps refugees with housing, work and support. The notice, issued on Jan. 24 by President Donald Trump’s administration, announced an immediate suspension of federal grants for the program. According to JVS leadership, this ceasing of financial support from the U.S. government negatively affects JVS’ ability to support its clients.
viduals right here in Kansas City who have been waiting to reunite with their loved ones for years if not decades, and now have those hopes dashed,” JVS Executive Director Hilary Cohen Singer said. “Not only have we closed our doors to new refugees, we have abruptly halted federal support for
“These recent actions harm indi-
HBHA basketball team competes in Toronto
KC
2025 Maccabi Games
Artist Hanoch Piven
Julie Rudman, founder of The Breast Cancer Club.
President Donald Trump signing executive orders on Jan. 20, 2025.
community news
Israeli artist Hanoch Piven to visit KC
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them to create collage portraits. His process relies heavily on found items, miscellaneous objects and upcycled materials, such as fake flowers, disposable utensils, loose beads, broken crayons, spare hardware, pebbles, buttons, marbles and more.
Bridey Stangler, Jewish Federation’s Engagement Specialist and PJ Library coordinator, organized and planned the artist-in-residence weekend.
“I am so thrilled to be working with our many partners to gather our community around such a joyful body of art and such a whimsical and creative process,” Stangler said. “This is our chance to explore our individual and group identities as members of so many different tribes — Americans, Jews, Midwesterners, men, women — the list is unending.”
The artist-in-residence weekend includes workshops and talks from Piven designed for all ages. In addition to working with Hyman Brand Hebrew Academy
students and Village Shalom residents, there will be a number of free events open to the community as a whole.
Throughout Shabbat, there will be three opportunities to hear from Piven about his work and to explore themes of identity, self-expression and what community is made of.
Piven will be speaking at Kabbalat Shabbat services at The Temple, Congregation B’nai Jehudah and presenting a screen-free lecture on his creative process on Saturday morning at Congregation Beth Shalom. On Saturday afternoon, adults in the community can gather at B’nai Jehudah for a workshop on artistic reinvention and self-expression. Attendees will create their own Piven-style portraits and explore Jewish identity through visual arts.
On Sunday, there are workshops for both children and families, aiming to bring together the future generation of our Jewish community. In the morning, hundreds of children will gather for
the Kids Community Workshop.
Stangler organized the participation of all religious schools in the area, and those not enrolled in religious school are also encouraged to attend. Piven will work with third-through-sixthgrade students to create their own abstract self-portraits from upcycled materials.
In the afternoon, Piven will bring his visit to a close with a family portrait session. He’ll be working across generations to help families grow closer and foster their connections and relationships through art. Kids, parents and grandparents are invited to create their family portraits together.
“This is a really special opportunity for our community to experiment with art and their imagination,” Stangler said. “I hope everyone will take the chance to participate and learn.”
Additional information and registration for the events is available at jewishkansascity.org/ events/hanoch-piven.
Hanoch Piven portraits of famous Jews (from left) Larry David, Albert Einstein, Golda Meir and Gal Gadot as Wonder Woman.
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to join. The club is for all people, regardless of gender, ethnic heritage, religious denomination or any other culturally defining factor.
“We are inclusive. Anyone with breast tissue can get breast cancer, and all humans have breast tissue,” Rudman said.
Yet the inclusivity of the group expands far beyond gender. Rudman said, “breast cancer affects us all but does not affect us equally.” She shared statistics to support that statement: White women are the most likely to be diagnosed with breast cancer; Black women are 40% more likely to die from breast cancer; and Hispanic women are 30% more likely to die from breast cancer.
“The pursuit of health equity is woven into the fabric of The Breast Cancer Club. We are doing everything we can to be inclusive. Our logo features five shades of skin tones – to represent everyone – and our website displays in more than 100 languages,” Rudman said.
“As an 11-year breast cancer survivor, I was very fortunate to have an excellent support system, but I know this isn’t the case for everyone,” said Miriam Kaseff, a board member of The Breast Cancer Club. “We hope to reach as many people as possible through our free online platform, especially in communities where illnesses like cancer are not discussed.”
According to Rudman, there remains a great deal of shame and stigma associated with breast cancer in some communities. Anonymity within the club is critical so all feel comfortable when asking for help and talking about their health and their bodies.
While some of the information is globally applicable — including forms
The
HBHA varsity basketball competes in Toronto
that help individuals communicate with friends, family and physicians — The Breast Cancer Club is hyperlocal to Kansas City. It provides a discussion network where individuals can ask for and share local information about treatment options, doctors and other resources.
“This is built for KC,” said Rudman. Coming soon on the website will be a list of local businesses that are providing discounted goods or services to breast cancer patients, as well as a library of video resources. Videos will include yoga for those who can’t do upper body weight-bearing exercise (with local instructor Ali Jacobson) and meditation (led by Aimee Bernstein). Rudman also seeks teachers from other communities to help create more connections throughout Kansas City.
Jewish community as a driving force
According to Rudman, the Jewish community has been a critical driver and supporter of The Breast Cancer Club.
“This community has been the engine. My first conversations were with members of Kansas City’s Jewish community — people teaching me the landscape, helping me understand how to do this work and leveraging their connections,” Rudman said. “This whole journey has been tied into the Jewish community from the very beginning. Dr. Michael Farber found my cancer; Dr. Brad Koffman was my radiation oncologist. I reached out to Joe Hiersteiner with legal questions, and Rita Cortes walked me through how to create a nonprofit organization. Fay Balk
donated two pro bono sessions with the board to help craft our mission statement and come up with our core values.”
The list of those in the Jewish community who supported Rudman in turning her dream into a reality is a long one that goes well beyond Rudman’s husband, David, and three children, Zoe, Grace and Max. According to Rudman, many who helped did it out of a sense of social justice and tikkun olam, yet there remains an overarching awareness of the impact of breast cancer within many Jewish families and friend groups.
“People of Ashkenazi Jewish ancestry are at greater risk of having the BRCA mutation, which puts them at higher risk for developing certain cancers, one of them being breast cancer,” Kaseff said. “Even though we have many Jewish friends who are willing to share information and help in any way, some people are very private and don’t want others to know about their illness. The Breast Cancer Club provides support with anonymity. They can ask for help, learn about providers and find local resources without providing their identity.”
Whatever the reasons for involvement, Rudman says she is indebted to many.
“I’ve been lifted up in many ways by the Jewish community. So many of my advisors and donors have come from within. I think many in our community feel aligned with our mission,” Rudman said.
More information about The Breast Cancer Club is available at thebreastcancerclub.org.
HBHA basketball players in action.
(Avital Mullokandova)
From Jan. 26 to 29, the Hyman Brand Hebrew Academy varsity boys’ and girls’ basketball teams attended the Israel Becker Basketball Tournament, hosted by The Anne & Max Tanenbaum Community Hebrew Academy of Toronto (TanenbaumCHAT) in Toronto, Canada. At the tournament, they were joined by seven other Jewish day schools, including three schools from Israel. As of printing, the tournament scores have not been finalized.
“We are so excited to compete against international teams,” said Golan Silverman, HBHA varsity girls’ basketball head coach. “It’s an opportunity to show the team the trust we have in them and that their hard work pays off. I could not be prouder. This is the first step in growing HBHA’s basketball program and showing what we can do.”
Over the course of the four-day tournament, HBHA students had the opportunity to compete at a high level, connect with dozens of Jewish teens from around the world and represent the Kansas City community abroad.
“The tournament is an experience I could never turn down,” junior starting guard Avital Mullokandova said ahead of the competition. “There’s a special connection you make when bonding with peers over Judaism and basketball, and I can’t wait to do so in Toronto.”
Sophomore shooting guard Naftali Tilove was determined to bring home a win. “It would bring back the school pride in HBHA because it has been a while since we have contributed to the trophy case,” Tilove said. “It would reinvoke a passion for HBHA sports.”
This year marks the 30th anniversary of the Israel Becker Basketball Tournament. The first tournament was held in 1995 as a tribute to the memory of TanenbaumCHAT alumnus and varsity basketball player Israel Becker.
celebrations and community news
Wedding
Daniel Goldberg and Hannah Zweig
Wedding
Morgan Sonnenschein and Molly Pearman
Morgan Sonnenschein and Molly Pearman were married on Nov. 24,
Engagement
Yael Green and Naftali Lehrfield
Dr. Lawrence and Allison Green of Potomac, Maryland, announce the engagement of their daughter Yael Green to Naftali Lehrfield, son of Dr. Yoni and Debbie Lehrfield of Ma’ale Adumim, Israel.
Yael is the granddaughter of Robert (z”l) and Barbara Frager of Overland Park, Kansas and Lenny and Adele Green of Washington, D.C. Yael made aliyah to Israel in 2020 and is current
Daniel Goldberg and Hannah Zweig were married on Nov. 10, 2024, at The Phoenician in Scottsdale, Arizona.
The groom is the son of Dr. John Goldberg and Marla Brockman of Leawood, Kansas, and the grandson of Gerry Goldberg and Richard and Charlotte Brockman.
The bride is the daughter of Dr. Jill Zweig and Jay Zweig and the granddaughter of Dr. Marty and Shelly Reiss.
The couple currently resides in Santa Monica, California.
2024, in downtown Kansas City.
The wedding was officiated by Rabbi Moti Rieber.
The groom is the son of Dr. Ken and Sheila Sonnenschein and the grandson of Dr. Ben (z”l) and Debra Rubin and Ralph and Annette (z”l) Sonnenschein. Dr. Avi Sonnenschein was his best man.
The bride is the daughter of Teddy Pearman and the late James and Jamie Pearman; and the granddaughter of the late Winona and Har-
The first Jewish baby of the year
Oren Kannberg Sipp
Birth
Oren Kannberg Sipp, son of Savannah Kannberg and Joshua Sipp of Leawood, Kansas, was born on Jan. 3.
Oren is the grandson of Joni Sand and Daryl Kannberg of Solon, Ohio, and Tammy and David Sipp of Leawood. He is the great-grandson of Mona Sand and Norman Sand (z”l) of Tallahassee, Florida; Erv and Mary Kannberg of Peotone, Illinois; and Betty James and K. H. (Jess) James (z”l) of Olathe, Kansas.
Theodore Oswald Minnich, son of Gary and Ashly Minnich of Nashville, Tennessee, was born on Jan. 9.
Theodore’s grandparents are Allan and Jackie Rosenstock of Fairway, Kansas, and Ed Minnich and Dennae Dvorak.
Beth Shalom Sisterhood to hold Tu B’Shvat seder
Beth Shalom Sisterhood will hold its annual seder celebrating Tu B’Shvat, the Jewish agricultural new year. Fruits and wines related to the holiday will be among the light snacks and drinks available at the seder.
The event will be held in Goldsmith Hall at Congregation Beth Shalom (14200 Lamar Ave., Overland Park, KS 66223) on Thursday, Feb. 6, from 7 to 9 p.m. Prices for members and non-members as well as payment in-
formation are available at bethsha lomkc.org/events/sisterhood-tu-bsh vat-seder.
dancing, time for mingling and con versation based on parts of the Tu B’Shvat haggadah. The winner of Sisterhood’s art contest will be announced, and there will be a raffle drawing at the end of the seder. Dried fruit and nut packages will also be available for purchase.
Jewish Federation Women’s Philanthropy to host challah braiding event
Jewish Federation’s Women’s Philanthropy will host a challah braiding and candle painting event to kick off 2025.
The event, Knead a Night Out, will be on Thursday, Feb. 6, at 7 p.m. at the Jewish Community Campus (5801 W. 115th St., Overland Park, KS 66211). It is open to women in the Kansas City Jewish community ages 18 and up.
Tu B’Shvat Seder
Thursday, Feb. 6, from 7 to 9 p.m.
Beth Shalom, 14200 Lamar Ave., Overland Park, KS 66223
Team Kansas City forming for 2025 JCC Maccabi Games
The Jewish Community Center of Greater Kansas City is forming Team Kansas City to participate in the 2025 JCC Maccabi Games. The games will be in Tucson, Arizona, from July 27 to Aug. 1 and in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, from Aug. 3 to 8. Athletes will participate in one but not both sets of the Maccabi Games.
The JCC Maccabi Games is an Olympic-style sporting competition held each summer in North America and one of the largest sports programs for Jewish teens (ages 12-16) in the world. The week-long multi-sport and cultural event features competitions in sports such as baseball, basketball, soccer, volleyball, table tennis, swim, tennis, bowling and competition dance.
Team Kansas City is looking for Jew-
ish athletes to form full or partial sports teams or compete in individual sports. Over 2,500 participants from North America and beyond are expected to compete in the JCC Maccabi Games this summer.
Interested parents and teens who have not participated previously are invited to attend an informational meeting in the boardroom at the Jewish Community Campus on either Sunday, Feb. 2 at 4 p.m. or Wednesday, Feb. 5 at 7 p.m.
More information is available by contacting Bob Hennecke at (913) 327-8005 or bobh@thejkc.org or Maggie Osgood Nicholls at (913) 327-4612 or maggieo@thejkc.org. Those interested can also visit thejkc.org/JCCMaccabi for more information.
Knead a Night Out is an opportunity for Jewish women to connect with one another and get a preview of what Federation’s Women’s Philanthropy has planned for the upcoming year.
The evening will begin in the galleria of the JCC, with challah, butter boards and dessert for attendees to nosh on. This will be followed by challah braiding and
painting Shabbat candles in the Heritage Center. Attendees will bring home two challot and two shabbat candles for use in their homes.
Registration for the event is requested in advance. More information, ticket purchasing and registration is available at jewishkansascity. org/events/kneadanightout.
Knead a Night Out Thursday, Feb. 6, at 7 p.m. Jewish Community Campus, 5801 W. 115th St., Overland Park, KS 66211
Women braid challah at the Knead a Night Out event in 2023.
Last year’s Kansas City Maccabi Games delegation.
This week in history
25 years
Chairing Congregation Beth Shalom’s Sisterhood Torah Fund campaign are (from left) Katherine Zack, Sondra Friedman, Bobbye Picker and Sharon Mallin.
40 years
Jewish Community Center teacher Sandy Jungk leads a class in a song. Shown (from left) are Alan Yedlin, Aaron Jacobs, Hedy Miller and David Landers.
75 years
“The Case of the Wandering Wife,” a play to be presented at the annual Child Welfare meeting of the Youth Service Committee of Hadassah, will have the following cast: (front row from left) Joyce Price, Regina Pachter, Toby Joffee; (second row) Helen Kaufman, Helen Gold, Hope Copeland, Gloria Asner, Deborah Saver, Doris Levine, Pauline Markel, Edna Finkle, Iris Chaikin, Rosalie Milens, Renee Swartz; (third row) Busch, Florine Lieberman, Sophie Manfield, Evelyn Gibian; (back row) Lee Chick, Miriam Pittel, Gilda Bormaster and Sylvia Bornstein.
Find these historical stories and more community history at kcjc.com/archive.
• A Night of Stars (pg. 12)
TUBSHVAT ANIGHTOFSTARS TORONTO JFSGIFT REPROSHABBAT TEAMKANSASCITY ALLROADSLEADTOSHUSHAN MILESSCHNAER CHALLAH BLINTZES HAIRSPRAY THEBREASTCANCERCLUB HANOCHPIVEN DIGITALARCHIVES HARDRESET
• All Roads Lead to Shushan (pg. 10)
• Blintzes (pg. 8)
• The Breast Cancer Club (pg. 1)
• Challah (pg. 5)
• Hairspray (pg. 9)
• Hanoch Piven (pg. 1)
• JFS Gift (pg. 10)
CRYPTOGRAM
• Miles Schnaer (pg. 12)
• Repro Shabbat (pg. 8)
• Team Kansas City (pg. 5)
• Toronto (pg. 3)
• Tu B’Shvat (pg. 5)
Under the Stars
JVS refugee services halted by government order
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those already in our community.”
JVS is asking community members to help support its work with the integration of refugees locally. The organization suggests volunteering, donating and contacting federal representatives to urge lawmakers to resume refugee support.
The announcement to cut funding for the Reception & Placement Program comes on the heels of President Trump’s executive order on Jan. 20 to suspend almost all refugee resettlement in the United States for at least 90 days. After 90 days, President Trump will re-evaluate whether the U.S. Refugee Admissions Program should be resumed. JVS leadership also issued a statement condemning this decision.
“The move jeopardizes the legacy of U.S. leadership and commitment to humanitarian protection and freedom for the 43 million people impacted by war, violence and persecution,” the JVS statement read. “This action im-
pacts thousands in the United States who are now unable to reunify with their family members through the refugee program, including countless Afghan nationals who served alongside our armed forces.”
JVS, which was originally established to assist Holocaust survivors and refugees adapt to new lives in the United States after World War II, now largely serves refugees from across the world who come to Kansas City. In addition to the intake processes, JVS helps refugees with community integration, wellness support and vocational skills.
“This shift could have devastating consequences for families brand new to the United States, who counted on agencies like JVS to walk alongside them and help them get up on their feet,” Cohen Singer said. “As a Jewish community, we should be alarmed out of concern for the wellbeing of our neighbors, and because we know all too well what happens when vulnerable and marginalized communities are targeted.”
Kindness Team
The Temple, Congregation B'nai Jehudah recently hosted "A Night Under the Stars" at the Union Station Planetarium for members to learn about how faith connects with the night sky.
Noah, Danielle and Eliana Schwartzbard (front row, from left) held their fifth annual Martin Luther King Jr. Day hot chocolate stand to spread kindness and raise money for the Midwest Center for Holocaust Education (MCHE). Pictured with the Schwartzbards are (back row, from left) MCHE Director of Education Dr. Shelly Cline, Executive Director Jessica Rockhold and Program Associate Laura Patton.
Hot Chocolate Mitzvah
Hyman Brand Hebrew Academy students, staff and parents participated in Harvesters’ annual Day of Service on Martin Luther King Jr. Day.
Members of the SevenDays Kindness Youth Leadership Team dropped off donation items for the JFS food pantry at RevoCup Coffee in Town Center. Pictured (from left) are Athan Tran, Abhi Kamphampati, Mia Mondry and Maeve Riley.
Ketubah
By Ellie Holsten
This ketubah was made in Yemen in 1858. Representations of figures like the ones at the bottom of this document are unusual for pieces produced in the Middle East. Islamic ideas of aniconism (not depicting living beings in art) led to designs that rely more on floral patterns and geometric forms. Artists who did not practice Islam were not required to follow these design prohibitions, but the general art culture and customs influenced Jewish artists in the Middle East. Some scholars have suggested that the human figures on examples like this ketubah are stylized in this way so that they are clearly not an attempt to create an exact human form.
This ketubah has a Hebrew date of 22 Sivan, 5617 [June 4, 1858], and it also has a date of 2203 of the Seleucid era. The Seleucid system of numbering was in general use in some parts of the world until the sixth century CE, with some groups continuing to use it until as late as the 15th century CE. In Yemeni Jewish communities, its use continued through modern times for ketubot and other contracts or legal documents. This tradition is based on Talmudic law stating that diaspora Jewish communities should count years by the Seleucid era, a custom that went out of popular practice by non-Yemeni Jews by the 16th century.
More information about the Michael Klein Collection at the Temple, Congregation B’nai Jehudah can be found at kleincollection.org or by calling (913) 6634050 to schedule a tour.
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community news
NCJW, Beth Shalom to host Repro Shabbat event
The Kansas City Section of The National Council of Jewish Women (NCJW) and Congregation Beth Shalom will host Dr. Michal Raucher at its first Repro Shabbat event on Feb. 21 and 22.
Repro Shabbat is an annual Shabbat celebration that honors the Jewish value of reproductive freedom. It takes place on the week of reading Torah parshat Mishpatim, which contains the verses commonly referenced as the foundation of Judaism’s approach to reproductive health, rights and justice.
Dr. Raucher is an associate professor of Jewish studies at Rutgers University. Her research lies at the intersection of the anthropology of women in Judaism, reproductive ethics and religious authority. As a Fulbright Fellow, Dr. Raucher conducted research on the reproductive ethics of Haredi (ultra-Orthodox) Jewish women in Israel. Her first book, “Conceiving Agency: Reproductive Authority among Haredi Women,” is based on this research.
Dr. Raucher is working on her second book, “The New Rabbis,” exploring how women’s
religious authority is changing American Orthodoxy.
Dr. Raucher is currently conducting research on abortion and religion in America. Since 2021, she has been interviewing Jews who have had abortions. Her team has interviewed over 100 Jews who have had abortions since 1973, and they will be publishing their findings in the coming months.
Repro Shabbat will start on Friday, Feb. 21, with services at 6 p.m. at Congregation Beth Shalom (14200 Lamar Ave, Overland Park, KS 66223) followed by dinner at 7 p.m. Thereafter, Dr. Raucher will speak about religious perspectives on abortion and the history of advocacy in reproductive health, including within the Jewish community.
Repro Shabbat
On Saturday morning, Dr. Raucher will speak after Kiddush on the topic of, “What do we talk about when we talk about ‘reproductive justice?’”
Shabbat dinner prices are partially subsidized by the Jewish Community Foundation. RSVPs and payments must be done by Feb. 7 at tinyurl.com/ CBSReproShabbat.
Friday, Feb. 21, and Saturday, Feb. 22
Beth Shalom, 14200 Lamar Ave., Overland Park, KS 66223
Community member Michael Crane will teach a class on how to make blintzes at Jewish-owned business Olive Tree (7044 W. 105th Street, Overland Park, KS 66212).
The event will take place on Saturday, Feb. 22, from 1 to 3 p.m. Spaces are limited, and advanced registration and payment is required at tinyurl.com/3xnhsfc2 or by contacting Olive Tree at (913) 338-2700 or office@olivetreekc.com.
In the interactive class, participants will learn how to make homemade dry cottage cheese; gain hands-on experience in creating blintzes with delicate crepes and filling; taste blintzes; and
leave with six vacuum-sealed blintzes to take home.
The class is designed for all experience levels. Since retiring from Crane Brewing, Crane has been working in the field of traditional Jewish foods and often works with Olive Tree. Last July, Crane and Olive Tree worked together on a
pastrami-and-rye pop-up event, and they collaborated on a Rosh Hashanah menu last September.
Blintz-making class Saturday, Feb. 22, from 1 to 3 p.m. Olive Tree, 7044 W. 105th Street, Overland Park, KS 66212
Michael Crane’s homemade blintzes.
Dr. Michal Raucher
community news
Tickets available for Broadway musical “Hairspray” at The White Theatre
The Broadway musical “Hairspray” will begin its run at The Lewis & Shirley White Theatre at The J on Saturday, Feb. 1. The show runs for 11 public performances and two school matinees on Wednesdays, Thursdays, Saturdays and Sundays through Feb. 23.
The production is co-produced with The Black Repertory Theatre of Kansas City, the fourth such partnership between the two groups, and major funding is provided by presenting sponsor, the Mark Edelman Theater Fund at the Jewish Community Foundation of Greater Kansas City.
daughter. The role is wellknown for being portrayed by a man in drag, which was an opportunity Gardner didn’t want to pass up.
Recent Scores Basketball
Varsity Boys
• Jan. 13 — 54-56 loss vs. SOE
• Jan. 14 — 46-26 win vs. STEM
• Jan. 18 — 36-45 loss vs. Midland
Varsity Girls
• Jan. 13 — 54-56 loss vs. SOE
• Jan. 14 — 46-26 win vs. STEM
Tickets are available at TheWhiteTheatre.org. Performance dates and times include Wednesdays, Feb. 5 and 12 at 9:30 a.m. (student matinee performances; tickets must be purchased through the box office directly.); Thursdays: Feb. 6, 13 and 20 at 7:30 p.m.; Saturdays, Feb. 1, 8, 15 and 22 at 7:30 p.m.; and Sundays, Feb. 2, 9, 16 and 23 at 2 p.m.
“Hairspray,” winner of eight Tony Awards – including Best Musical – is a family-friendly musical set in Baltimore in 1962. “Hairspray” tells the story of Tracy Turn-
blad and her desire to dance on the popular “Corny Collins Show.” When her dream comes true, Tracy is transformed from social outcast to sudden star. She must use her newfound power to dethrone the reigning Teen Queen, win the affections of heartthrob, Link Larkin, and integrate a TV network.
Guy Gardner, actor and current associate artistic director at Theatre in the Park, is no stranger to The White Theatre stage, having performed in “Spamalot,” “Anything Goes,” “Something Rotten” and “Kinky Boots,” and having directed and choreographed “The Little Mermaid” and “The Addams Family.” In “Hairspray,” Gardner takes on the role of Edna Turnblad, Tracy’s mother, who struggles with her own insecurities and nerves while trying to best support her
“It’s not very often a tall male who sings most comfortably in the bass range gets to take on an iconic matron role,” Gardner said. “The opportunity to get to be funny, portray a strong woman and perform on stage with amazing performers is one I couldn’t pass up… I get to be a little sassy, a little insecure, a little cute and a whole lot of funny. I think anyone would be a fool to pass up on an opportunity to play a woman of such stature.”
The cast is composed of actors both returning and new to The White Theatre stage. Newcomer Olivia Hollan takes on the role of Tracy Turnblad with Gardner (Edna) and Mike Saxton (Wilbur) playing her parents.
David Thompson, a theatre veteran who performed in The White Theatre’s first-ever production of “A Chorus Line” in 2005, plays Corny Collins, while Zane Champie, who starred as Prince Eric “The Little Mermaid” and Charlie Price
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B’nai B’rith Bowling Scores
The following bowlers achieved high scores in the Sunday Kansas City B’nai B’rith Men’s Bowling League at Ward Parkway Lanes on Jan. 19 and 26.
Jan. 19
500 Series
Scott Hecht 615 (214 214 187)
Bruce Parker 595 (215 178 202)
Steve Baraban 581 (159 214 208)
Irwin Snitz 580 (178 211 191)
Hunter Thomas 561 (194 183 184)
Morty Rock 538 (190 188 160)
Mark Newton 536 (182 196 158)
Nick Meyers 533 (170 161 202)
Steve Eisman 529 (158 191 180)
Steve Thomas 528 (181 176 171)
Ryan Thomas 521 (189 160 172)
Stuart Pollack 510 (168 171 171)
170 Series
Christopher Eldredge 200 Michael Sokol 194
Tom Balke 178 Ray Kopek 177 Kent Verden 175 Steve Greenberg 173
Jan. 26
500 Series
Steve Greenberg 629 (174 233 222)
Steve Baraban 601 (186 212 203)
Hunter Thomas 600 (161 218 221)
Bruce Parker 554 (202 171 181)
Ryan Thomas 549 (188 188 173)
Irwin Snitz 544 (160 213 171)
Scott Hecht 643 (179 178 186)
Michael Altman 533 (168 171 194)
Morty Rock 531 (221 165 145)
Nick Meyers 526 (192 181 153)
Steve Eisman 518 (193 158 167)
Christopher Eldredge 508 (192 152 164) 170 Series
Scott Bronston 194 Kent Verden 192
Bill Sloan 191
Michael Sokol 182
Tom Balke 182
Maury Kohn 173
Bruce Singer 171
If you are interested in bowling during the ‘24-’25 season for a competitive, fun, social atmosphere, you can contact Tom Balke at (913) 244-7010 or balketw@yahoo.com or Stuart Pollack at (913) 9573716 or skp28@aol.com.
• Jan. 18 — 36-45 loss vs. Midland
7/8 Boys
• Jan. 11 — 35-40 loss vs. Midland
• Jan. 13 — 32-52 loss vs. SOE (JV)
• Jan. 16 — 27-23 win vs. Summit Christian
• Jan. 21 — 30-39 loss vs. St. Paul’s
5/6 Boys
• Jan. 14 — 10-32 loss vs. Maranatha
• Jan. 16 — 35-9 win vs. Summit Christian
• Jan. 21 — 32-12 win vs. St. Paul’s
MS Girls
• Jan. 11 — 19-22 loss vs. Midland
• Jan. 14 — 19-22 loss vs. Maranatha
• Jan. 16 — 12-28 loss vs. Summit Chrsitian
• Jan. 21 — 5-42 loss vs. St. Paul’s
Upcoming Games
Basketball
Varsity Boys
• Feb. 3 — vs. Guadalupe (away) at 5 p.m.
• Feb. 6 — vs. University Academy (away) at 6:30 p.m.
• Feb. 10 — vs. Ozanam (away) at 4:30 p.m.
• Feb. 11 — vs. Daniel (home) at 7 p.m.
Varsity Girls
• Feb. 3 — vs. Guadalupe (away) at 6:30 p.m.
• Feb. 4 — vs. St. Pius X (home) at 7 p.m.
• Feb. 6 — vs. University Academy (away) at 5 p.m.
• Feb. 11 — vs. Daniel (home) at 5:30 p.m.
7/8 Boys
• Feb. 6 — vs. Christ Prep. (away) at 5:15 p.m.
• Feb. 10 — vs. Pembroke Hill (at Phillips Gym) at 7 p.m.
5/6 Boys
• Feb. 3 — vs. St. Vincent de Paul (At Christ the King) at 6:30 p.m.
• Feb. 4 — vs. Guadalupe (home) at 5 p.m.
• Feb. 10 — vs. Pembroke Hill (at Phillips Gym) at 6 p.m.
• Feb. 11 — vs. JCC Triple Threat (home) at 4:30 p.m.
MS Girls
• Feb. 4 — vs. Guadalupe (home) at 6 p.m.
• Feb. 6 — vs. Christ Prep. (away) at 5:15 p.m.
• Feb. 10 — vs. Pembroke Hill (at Phillips Gym) at 5 p.m.
Contact HBHA Athletic Director Sam Matsil at smatsil@hbha.edu for more information
Using The Chronicle’s archives and community submissions, here are some recipes for you to try out. Email samk@ jewishkc.org with a recipe, and it might be published here!
Corn fritters
“Mom’s Best Recipes” by Betty Kalikow
Ingredients
• 1 ½ cups sifted flour
• ¾ tsp. salt
• 2 eggs, beaten
• ¼ cup milk
• 2 tsp. baking powder
• 2 tbsp. sugar
• 11 oz. drained canned corn
• Oil or fat for frying
Instructions
1. Sift dry ingredients
2. Mix eggs with milk and corn
3. Add egg mixture to dry ingredients and mix well
4. Drop spoonfuls into hot fat to fry
5. Drain on paper towels
6. Serve hot
Cheeseless Cheesecake
“Mom’s Best Recipes” by Betty Kalikow
Ingredients
• 4 eggs, separated
• 15oz. evaporated milk
• 1 tsp. lemon rind, grated
• 1/3 cup lemon juice
• 1 tsp. Vanilla
• 2 tbsp. Butter, melted
• 15 graham crackers
Instructions
1. Heat oven to 325 degrees
2. Crush graham crackers, mix with butter
3. Line springform pan
4. Beat egg yolks
5. Blend yolks, milk, juice, lemon rind and vanilla
6. Fold in stiffly-beaten egg whites
7. Bake for 30 min.
8. Turn heat off, leave cake in oven for 1 hr. with door closed
9. Refrigerate
The Chronicle thanks the family of Betty Kalikow (z”l) for a copy of her 1958 book, “Mom’s Best Recipes: 151 Jewish-American Dishes.”
community news
Congregations, Jewish agencies collaborating for community Purim celebration
The Kansas City Jewish community is invited to celebrate Purim together for the fourth year in a row at the Kansas City Jewish Community Purim Carnival.
The carnival will be held on Sunday, March 9, from 2 to 5 p.m. at the Jewish Community Campus (5801 W. 115th St., Overland Park, KS 66211). The theme is “Purim 2025: All Roads Lead to Shushan,” a play on “The Wizard of Oz.” Attendees are encouraged to dress in costume.
Vaad-supervised snacks and drinks will be provided. Attendees are encouraged to bring an item for the Jewish Family Services Food Pantry, as it is a tradition to give (matanot l’evyonim) gifts on Purim.
Additionally, volunteers are needed. Volunteers receive free entry to
the carnival, and the event accommodates those in need of community service hours.
This year’s title sponsor is Josef Loeffler. The event is coordinated by Jew-
ish Experiences, a collaboration of Jewish Federation and The J, and participating organizations include Congregation Beth Shalom; Congregation Beth Torah; Kehilath Israel Synagogue; The Temple, Congregation B’nai Jehudah; New Reform Temple; Congregation BIAV and Kol Ami. Both Sasone and Vaad HaKashruth of Kansas City donated time and resources to help support this year’s event.
Guests are encouraged to purchase tickets ahead of time, or they can purchase their tickets at the door. Pricing, more information and registration can be found at PurimKC.org.
All Roads Lead to Shushan
Sunday, March 9, from 2 to 5 p.m.
Jewish Community Campus, 5801 W. 115th St., Overland Park, KS 66211
JFS receives $125,000 gift from McGowan Charitable Fund
Jewish Family Services of Greater Kansas City (JFS) received a surprise gift of $125,000 as part of the William G. McGowan Charitable Fund’s Food Insecurity Response Initiative. This unexpected gift will support the JFS Food Pantry as the agency weathers the winter months.
The JFS Food Pantry is committed to providing nutritious, culturally and dietarily appropriate food for
the 500 families it serves each month. Rising food prices have made this more difficult in recent years. Special funds like the McGowan Charitable Fund ensure JFS clients can continue to receive items like proteins, fresh produce and pantry staples each time they visit JFS.
“The McGowan Fund has been an incredible partner to us in challenging times,” JFS Chief Program Officer Mag-
gie Haghirian said. “They understand the way we seek to serve Kansas City, and they’ve shown their support again and again. Our clients, our board, our staff and our volunteers thank you for all you do for JFS and our shared community.”
More information about how to support JFS and its mission is available by contacting JFS Chief Development Officer Debbie Bass at dbass@jfskc.org.
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in “Kinky Boots,” returns to play teen heartthrob Link Larkin. Leading the charge with Tracy to spur change is Motormouth Maybelle, played by Brietta Goodman. “Little Mermaid” star Lacy Goettling returns to play Tracy’s friend and supporter, Penny Pingleton, while Lucas Lowry plays Penny’s love interest, Seaweed J. Stubbs. Jenny Hines also returns to play Prudy, Penny’s mother. In her first professional show, Sophia Carey plays Little Inez,
Seaweed’s younger sister. Liz Golson plays Velma Von Tussle, and MaryAnn Traxler Rosinski plays daughter Amber, the major antagonists of the musical. Catherine Stagner, Emy Blake, Ellery Bailey, Katelynn Quick, Cody Kreutzer, Tristan Jacobson, Henry Morgan and Wyman Wheeler complete The Nicest Kids, while Aggie Williams, Lauren Thompson and Pancha Brown take on the roles of The Dynamites. Completing the cast in the adult ensemble, and assisting as understudies are Tony Francisco,
Topher Michael, Taylor Williams (Dynamites U/S), and Joy Arrington (Motormouth Maybelle U/S).
The White Theatre continues its 2024-25 season with “The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-Time;” “West Side Story,” co-produced with the Hispanic Chamber of Commerce of Greater Kansas City; and “Stuff of Dreams,” a new musical. For more information, visit thewhitetheatre.org. Auditions for musicals and plays produced at The White Theatre are announced online and on Facebook.
By Nancy Kalikow Maxwell
Team Bubbe and Zayde
When my daughter got engaged to a man who was raised Catholic, I sought counsel from a rabbi I knew.
“I’m not so much worried about him. But his mother is Catholic and active in her local church,” I told the rabbi.
“In that case, it will fall on you to see that any grandchildren are also exposed to Judaism,” he said.
“Do you mean it will become a ‘battle of the grandmas?’” I asked.
“Not exactly.” He paused, then said, “Yeah. I guess it sort of will be. In some ways, it will kind of be a competition.”
Fortunately, I now have a whole team on my side to help me win this “sort of, kind of” contest. Thanks to PJ Library’s “Jewish Grandparents Huddle,” I can gather with other Kansas City bubbes and zaydes and share strategies for passing down Judaism to the next generation.
The brainchild of Bridey Stangler of Jewish Federation, these monthly gatherings provide an opportunity for Jewish grandparents to gather for what she calls, “coffee, chitchat and the exchange of ideas on Jewish grandparenting.” (Full disclosure, I’m friends with her mother, Jill Maidof. But even if I didn’t know her mom, I would be singing the praises of Bridey and this program.)
Funded through a grant from Implementing Partner Engagement Grants, the focus of the initiative is to provide Jewish activities and materials for grandparents to share with their grandchildren. The program is geared to those with grandchildren living locally and those out of town. According to a 2019 study by the Jewish Grandparents Network, almost half of Jewish grandchildren don’t live in the same place as their grandchildren. Of the local participants, it has been estimated that approximately 25% have grandchildren living far away.
Along with grandparenting from
afar, the program also addresses grandparenting of children in interfaith households. Nationally, more than half of Jewish grandchildren have a parent that’s not Jewish. At one recent meeting, 100% of the grandparents present had a non-Jewish son- or daughter-in-law.
At these monthly discussions, we discuss the challenges presented by this reality. Over bagels and coffee (and no less than three kinds of milk), we delve into the “joys” and “oys” of being a Jewish grandparent today. We have talked about the anguish of watching a new grandbaby be baptized; the frustration over Hanukkah decorations never getting unpacked; the anxiety wrought by a family attending Midnight Mass. But we’ve also discussed the joy of hearing a grandchild say, “L’Shanah Tovah, Grandma;” the beauty of a Shabbat dinner prepared by a Muslim daughter-in-law; the latkes fried by a non-Jewish son-in-law.
Each session ends with Bridey foisting Jewish children’s books on us. As a librarian, I am especially pleased with this part of the session, delighted to see books with titles such as “Tea with Zayde” and “Mitzi’s Mitzvah.” Several books are provided in duplicate for out-of-town use, with one copy to be kept and the other sent to the grandkids, then read together remotely.
Much as I love this literary encouragement, it is the intimate discussion among us that I enjoy most about these huddles. I’m not much of a sports fan, but I’ve been told that when football players gather on the field and put their heads together, they are receiving instructions and signals to use in the next offensive play. That’s what we are doing in our Jewish Grandparents Huddle: learning tactics and strategies for successful Jewish grandparenting. Our end goal is not to win points, but rather to gain another generation of Jews. May our team prevail in this worthy pursuit. Go, team, go!
Nancy Kalikow Maxwell is a Kansas City native and award-winning author. Her book, “Typically Jewish,” is available through the Jewish Publication Society or Amazon. Her website is kaliwellinc.com and email is nancykalikowmaxwell@gmail.com.
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HBHA announces ‘A Night of Stars’ spring celebration to honor educators
Hyman Brand Hebrew Academy (HBHA) announced that its annual spring celebration will honor educators, departing from the tradition of recognizing a Civic Service Award honoree. The event, “A Night of Stars: Celebrating Our Educators,” will be held on Sunday, March 23, at Fiorella’s in South Overland Park.
Instead of recognizing a Civic Service Award honoree, “A Night of Stars” will focus on the school’s past and present educators who inspire students and made HBHA a cornerstone of the Jewish community in Kansas City.
“This year’s celebration will be a heartfelt tribute to our current and past outstanding professionals who
have shaped generations of HBHA students,” HBHA Head of School Annie Glickman said. “We look forward to expressing our deepest appreciation for these educators and their contributions to our community.”
The event, chaired by Netta and Joseph Krashin, Julie and Jeremy Krashin and Sharon and Stuart Pase, will include a kosher hors d’oeuvres, tributes
to HBHA educators and opportunities to connect and celebrate with friends and community members.
“We’re thrilled to introduce a fresh approach to this event while still honoring the rich traditions that make it
so special,” Netta Krashin said. “This year’s celebration will truly reflect the spirit and mission of HBHA.”
HBHA invites the entire community to attend and support “A Night of Stars: Celebrating Our Educators.” Sponsorship opportunities are available, with all proceeds directly benefiting HBHA’s mission to cultivate a generation of Jewish independent and ethical thinkers. More information, including ticket sales, sponsorship opportunities and event details, is available at hbha.edu/ support-us/celebration-event.cfm.
Crown Automotive owner speaks to KU Jewish Business Club
The KU Jewish Business Club, a program of KU Chabad, recently hosted the owner of Crown Automotive, Miles Schnaer, for a special lecture, book signing and free distribution of his book, “Take the Crown.” Schnaer spoke about his career and the Jewish values that have guided his success.
Growing up in Kansas City, Schnaer attended Southwest High School and was involved in the Jewish community, earning recognition as Synagogue Youth of the Year in 1964 as a member of Kehilath Israel Synagogue. He was also an active leader in sports programs at The J and developed a strong connection to the athletics programs at both Pittsburg State University (where he is an alumnus) and the University of Kansas.
Starting his career selling cars in
1971, he went on to own his first Chevrolet dealership in 1979, eventually building an automotive dealer network under the Crown Automotive name. Along the way, he received business accolades, including 13 Toyota President’s Awards. Beyond his professional achievements, Schnaer is a philanthropist, community leader and proud supporter of many charitable organizations and causes throughout the region and beyond.
Schnaer’s talk focused on the val-
ues and principles that have shaped his life and career. Drawing from his Jewish upbringing, he emphasized the importance of integrity, perseverance and community. His book, “Take the Crown,” is based on the Jewish symbol of “Chai,” representing life and the number 18, and it explores 18 core principles and values that can bring one to success. He also spoke about proudly displaying his Jewish identity, from putting mezuzot on the doors of his dealerships to supporting initiatives that strengthen Jewish life.
“It is inspiring for us to see how such a successful business leader proudly displays his Jewishness without fear and encourages us to do the same,” said Dori Jezmir, co-president of the KU Jewish Business Club. “It was also so special to receive our own signed copies of his book, which I’ve been enjoying. It is amazing to see how much
the students are gaining from programs like these provided by the Jewish Business Club”. The KU Jewish Business Club is an initiative under KU Chabad’s Kehila program, which receives funding from Jewish Federation of Greater Kansas City. The KU Jewish Business Club was created to build a supportive community for Jewish and interested students at the KU School of Business. Its mission is to enhance the professional, social and educational experiences of its members while promoting Jewish values and business ethics. Through monthly events like this, the club works to provide students with opportunities to learn, grow and network while embracing their Jewish identity.
“It is so important for our students to feel supported, especially in today’s environment,” said Rabbi Zalman Tiechtel, KU Chabad co-director. “It is very meaningful for the Jewish Business Club to provide a safe space where Jewish students can connect and feel like they belong. Having such illustrious presenters like Mr. Schnaer allows the students to learn from real-life role models who can guide them forward in becoming active Jewish leaders in their own futures.”
“A Night of Stars: Celebrating Our Educators” Sunday, March 23 Fiorella’s, 9000 W. 137th St., Overland Park, KS 66221
Pictured is Miles Schnaer (center) along with participants of the recent KU Jewish Business Club event.
Editorials express the view of the writer and are not necessarily representative of the views of The Kansas City Jewish Chronicle staff, the Jewish Federation of Greater Kansas City, or the Kansas City Jewish Community as a whole.
Helping Jewish families displaced by the LA fires
By Sarah Markowitz Schreiber
Kansas Citians grow up with tornado warnings and snow days. I grew up in Northern California with fire danger warnings and earthquakes. I remember hearing stories from my parents about the 1991 Oakland Firestorm and knowing our home in the Oakland Hills was at risk, but I always took comfort in the fact that we lived up the street from a firehouse.
People often ask how I ended up in Kansas City, given that I’m from California. I tell them it’s because I attended Loyola Marymount University (LMU) in Los Angeles. One of the main reasons I chose LMU was its Jewish Studies program, and throughout college I became deeply involved in Jewish life on campus. I served as a research assistant for the director of the Jewish Studies Program, who became a mentor to me, and I gained exposure to the world of Jewish advocacy and Jewish communal organizations through internships at the AJC Los Angeles office and the Museum of Tolerance, which led me to the Jewish Community Relations Bureau|AJC in Kansas City.
Though it may seem surprising, my Jewish identity was nurtured and strengthened at a Jesuit university. I don’t believe I would be who I am today without attending a school that embraced the values of “the service of faith and the promotion of justice,” and I am grateful that I gained firsthand experience pursuing these values in a city like Los Angeles.
When the fires in LA began earlier this month, my social media feeds shifted from being filled with news and images about the massive snowstorm from local friends to posts from college friends, who were sharing real-time photos and videos of the fires and updates about the latest evacuation orders. From the comfort of my own home, I felt helpless and heartbroken for the city that holds so many wonderful memories. Beyond checking in with family and following friends’ updates on social media, I wanted to do something more to help
and began considering where I would want to donate.
Then, I received a message from my friend Alex Weisz, who serves as senior rabbi at Temple Beth Israel of Highland Park & Eagle Rock. Beyond the odd coincidence of us sharing a birthday and both being twins, we also both share the common experience of having had our professional lives shaped by being Jewish Studies students at LMU.
Alex had reached out to ask for help spreading the word about a GoFundMe database he had created to gather information about efforts to help Jewish families affected by the fires. Some of his congregants had lost their homes, and after seeing similar initiatives for Black and Latinx communities, he wanted to do something similar to support his own community. He explained, “Folks have been abundantly clear that their biggest need is immediate financial relief — not in three months or a year, but right now. Thankfully, they’re receiving essential supplies and navigating the complicated world of disaster relief. But they need this money as quickly as possible. That’s why these grassroots campaigns are far more effective than emergency funds from large organizations.”
Like any good rabbi, he shared that “rabbinic tradition calls upon us to act clearly and quickly when our friends and neighbors tell us exactly what they need – not to question whether or not they actually need it (Mishneh Torah, Gifts to the Poor, Chapter 7; Shulchan Aruch, Yoreh Deah 250:1).” He then told me that our LMU modern Israel professor had lost his home in the fires, and his family’s GoFundMe was one of those in the database. Feeling a little less helpless, I immediately made a donation and agreed to share information about the database with my community here in Kansas City.
After learning that I am from California and hearing how I ended up in Kansas City, people inevitably ask me if I am going to stay here for the long term. While Los Angeles will always be a part of my story, Kansas City has become home — a place where my husband and I have found a warm, supportive Jewish community that we care deeply about.
As we enjoy the safety and metaphorical warmth of our own community, I humbly ask that you consider joining me in making a donation to one of the funds in the Displaced Jewish Families Database to help those affected by the fires as they begin the process of re-
building their own communities. Thank you. Sarah Markowitz Schreiber is a California native and the director of educationsandprogramsattheJewish Community Relations Bureau|AJC in Kansas City.
A recent photo from the fires in Los Angeles.
By Mary Greenberg
In memory of Greenberg’s cousins who died in 2024.
My dear cousin, Sadly, your journey to recovery from illness came to an unwelcome end. And I attended your funeral.
During Shiva, as is a Sephardic custom, the “Woman of Valor” poem was recited praising the traits of working for others, such as helping the poor and supporting a husband as a civic leader. On taking care of herself, this verse surprisingly suggested “…She looks for wool and flax…” Wool and flax to indicate a balance between loving kindness and boundaries. Sensible attributes, yes, with the latter implying setting limits on one’s self to avoid becoming overburdened. Due to restricted space on these pages, the lengthy description of how these two may be linked to character traits is omitted. I believe, however, using cryptic language misses the point for such a crucial connection. Who among us can separate the true teaching from phrases that need elaborate clarification?
Many took turns praising your characteristics of “being selfless,” “always interested in welfare of others” and “good to a fault.” Had I known about these, dearest, I would have reminded you of the Talmudic sage Hillel’s wisdom, “If I am not for myself, who will be for me?...” Notice he emphasized first the significance of a person being true to herself or himself. Then later, Hillel balances caring for one’s self with loving deeds for others.
Your condition was discovered at “late onset,” so aggressive treatment was started. It was okay to be “aggressive” to stop disease. And you fought courageously. For many, it’s frowned upon for a woman to do just about anything “aggressively,” even taking care of herself.
Still, others encouraged you to take better care of yourself. But they could not be expected to act on your behalf. I wonder what needs to happen for each of us to be open and reachable to new vital choices?
We live fast-paced lives, too busy to think clearly about our own needs and wishes. In reality, it’s doable. Being clear can help identify what each of us will do and what we won’t do for ourselves and for close relationships. Working in this way, one may boldly create a well-defined self. If a wom-
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an fails to pay attention to and act for herself, she might waste away, in one sense or another.
Your own voice was filled with exceptional insights and perspectives. You were too shy, yet, to speak your own mind.
Another verse in the poem points to a woman’s many and varied efforts, for which others “…honor her for her work…” Excellent approval. I believe so great an appreciation should include taking actions to fulfill the true
meaning of the word. Clearly, all who live in the household should do their utmost to support, protect and take loving care of the woman apparently honored.
We should certainly continue to praise each woman for her virtues and strengths, and goodhearted commitments to family and more. Keeping in mind, too, that each adult has a responsibility to create and maintain a home of peace and love.
Beloved cousin, words alone fail to
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George Capito, 90, of Overland Park, Kansas, passed away on Jan. 21.
George was born on Feb. 4, 1934, in Kansas City, Missouri, to Mike and Jeanette Capito. He attended Border Star Elementary and Southwest High School there. Following the untimely death of his father, George ran the family business, Capito’s Service Station. After closing that business, he went to work at Feld Leasing. After about 10 years, he opened his own business, George’s Auto Clinic. After 35 years, he retired and worked part time for Auto Trader Magazine.
George was an avid car collector. He loved convertibles and old trucks. He restored several cars and trucks and attended many shows and auctions.
He was a member of B’nai B’rith. He belonged to the National Truck Historical Society. He was active on the Stovebolt website forum, known by the handle “Wrenchbender.”
In 1962, he married Stella Mick. They had a wonderful loving marriage for 55 years until Stella’s death from cancer in 2018.
George is survived by his brother Byron Capito; brother-in-law, Stan Mick; sister-in-law, Sally Mick; many cousins, nieces and nephews; and his dear friend and companion, Rose Hummelgaard, who resided with him at Bluebird Crossing senior living until his death.
He was predeceased by his parents; brother Alvin Capito; and sisters, Diane and Retha Sue Capito.
A graveside service was held on Jan. 24 in the Yukon Chapel at Mt. Carmel
Suggested contributions to Wayside Waifs, Blue Grass Crossing and National Truck Historical Society. Online condolences for the family may be left at louismemorialchapel. com.
Frank Loeffler
express my sorrow that you ran out of time, worn out both physically and emotionally.
Rest in everlasting peace, dear one Mary M. Greenberg, Ph.D., serves ontheStateofKansasHolocaustCommission. Her speaking engagements on preventing antisemitism are based on her research that advances the studyoftheJewishpeopleintheDiaspora.Sheisdedicated,also,towriting about how a Jewish perspective enriches our contemporary lives.
Rochelle Green Neiburger, 77, of Stilwell, Kansas, died on Jan. 22 after a hard-fought battle with an aggressive and rare neuroendocrine cancer.
Frank Loeffler, 79, passed away surrounded by his family on Jan. 14. Frank Loeffler was born to Eva and Joseph Loeffler, in Kansas City, Missouri. He was committed to Kansas City, Israel, education and practices in Judaism.
Frank is survived by his wife, Dr. Phyllis Carozza, and his son, Josef Loeffler, with whom he worked and encouraged him not to quit and avoid waste.
A funeral service was held on Jan. 15 at Louis Memorial Chapel with interment at Rose Hill Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, the family asks others to give to something that offers them meaning, a feeling of gratitude and growth. Online condolences for the family may be left at louismemorialchapel. com.
Shellie was born to Frieda and Isaac Green, Holocaust survivors, in Brooklyn, New York. She attended New York public schools and Hunter College High School in Manhattan, New York. She graduated from Cornell University in Ithaca, New York, and subsequently was awarded her Ph.D. in microbiology (immunology) at Northwestern University School of Medicine in Chicago.
In Chicago, she met her husband, Jim, a medical student, and they were married one year later. After graduation, they relocated to Indiana University Medical Center - Riley Hospital for Children in Indianapolis, Indiana, where Shellie completed a three year post-doctoral fellowship in pediatric cancer research. During this time, Shellie authored a number of scientific publications on childhood leukemia and cellular immunology.
Following her post-doctoral fellowship, Shellie and Jim moved to Kansas
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City, where she worked as a research scientist in immunology and allergy at Children’s Mercy Hospital. She presented papers at numerous national scientific meetings and published articles in scientific journals such as Nature and The New England Journal of Medicine, among others.
With the birth of her second child, Shellie interrupted her research career to become a full-time mother. After a few years, she began to manage Jim’s private medical practice in Leawood, Kansas, and Overland Park, Kansas, growing the practice to five physicians and 30 employees. Following retirement, she became a full-time grandma (Bubbie), gardener, caretaker of wildlife, champion baker and homemaker.
Auto Issue
Auto Issue
Everyone has a story about one of their cars — tell us yours!
Everyone has a story about one of their cars — tell us yours!
No matter if it was a jalopy or a Rolls-Royce, email samk@jewishkc.org with your car story (and a photo, if possible) by Feb. 20 for a chance to be featured in our Auto Issue!
No matter if it was a jalopy or a Rolls-Royce, email samk@jewishkc.org with your car story (and a photo, if possible) by Feb. 20 for a chance to be featured in our Auto Issue!
Shellie is survived by her husband of 54 years, Jim; son, Eli (Deanne); daughter, Abby (Bo); brother, Howard (Maureen); brother-in-law and sisterin-law, Skip and Sue; three grandchildren, Nemo, Ray and B; nieces, nephews, cousins, many friends and her pets, Eleanor and Ketzi.
The family is grateful to the staff at the KU Cancer Center, the Cambridge A 11th floor Oncology Unit and Kansas City Hospice House. Memorial donations may be made to the Kansas City Hospice House or your favorite charity.
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In 1920, The Kansas City Jewish Chronicle ran four pages entirely focused on cars — the first “Auto Issue.” Now, 105 years later, we’d like to do another.
The car plays a unique part in American culture. For some, cars are an expression of themselves. People name cars, display them at shows and care for them with as much attention as a doctor to their patient.
In a way, not much has changed regarding cars in more than a century. Different types of cars exist for the same purposes — basic a-to-b transportation, sports cars for thrills, luxury cars as status symbols, etc. They are still expensive and they still need upkeep. They are a part of almost everyone’s everyday life. All this strengthens our belief that an Auto Issue is as relevant as ever.
We hope you participate in and enjoy our Auto Issue on Feb. 27.
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