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PUBLISHERS
september 2018 Robin Johnson Bethke Jennifer Bryerton
CREATIVE DIRECTOR Robin Johnson Bethke EDITOR-IN-CHIEF Jennifer Bryerton TECHNICAL DIRECTOR Peter D. Bethke
Dear Friends,
SENIOR EDITOR Sarah Pastorek ONLINE EDITOR Madison Stanley CALENDAR EDITOR Caroline Hirst
My husband describes our life as parents as the ultimate action-adventure
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game, packed with thrill rides (to urgent care), mystery (of lost shoes), conflict
(over turns and toys) and humor ... always a lot of humor. I think reality shows
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are missing the boat focusing on attractive 20-somethings and their romantic entanglements—too predictable! They should really observe kids in their
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natural habitat and share what they get up to on a regular basis.
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Our 9-year-old would make a great host. He asks really insightful questions.
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Last week’s gem, which came from out of the blue, was: “If I didn’t have to
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be a human, could I be a Wii game?” My friend’s daughter could be the color
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10-minute segment on sisters who share their brothers’ deodorant … and the
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Whitney Woollerton Morrill, Katharine
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commentator. The first day of school, she regaled her whole family with a
We all know potential stars of this hit called “Reality Living Under Our Own Roofs,” whether they are the daring kids who wear capes to fly from the top of the stairs, the nature-loving kids who have a mini zoo of bugs and lizards in their backyard collection, the musical kids who sing as boldly, surely and as
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the kids who are super readers, athletes, question-askers and all the others we
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love for their funny quirks. And at this time of year, all of these fascinating kids converge to compare backpacks, share summer stories and continue on their great adventure. We wish all of our readers and your families a glorious year!
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Contents TABLE OF
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OUR TOWN
LIVING WELL
New Mom 32 Bringing Home Baby
News 8
The Buzz Around Town 10 Do you allow your child to be picky at the dinner table?
Dear Bob 34 Your Parenting Questions Answered
Out & About Calendar 16
September Festivals & Events for Families
Great for Tailgating & Celebrating
Readiness for Kindergarten 46 A Parent’s Guide to Basic Skills
Family Preparedness 54 How to Prepare Your Family for Emergencies
This issue is packed with family health resources and tips on tackling physicals, advice on self-directed play and tips on how to prepare your family for emergencies.
Embracing Opportunities
Football Cake Pops 30
Editor’s Pick!
Our Schools 14
Snapshot 12 Elizabeth Irvin, Mom & Executive Director
INSPIRATION
Self-Directed Play 60
Photo Safari Fun 66 Capture Your Scavenger Hunt on Camera
Physicals 101 72
Tips & Trends 36 Fabulous Finds and Fun
The Importance of Raising A Child Who Can Entertain Herself
How to Protect Your Child’s Health, From Toddler to Teenager
RESOURCES
Home & Garden 38 Autumn Planting
Food & Family 42 Better Dining Out Experiences
2018 Pick-Your-Own Guide 26
Guide to the Best of Local Apples
2018 Family Health Guide 74
Local Resources for All Ages
UNTIL NEXT TIME Baby’s 1st Brush with the Law 80 A Dad’s Humorous Tales
38 So Love This! “Fall football games and tailgates are here. I can’t wait to try the football cake pop recipe (pg 30)!” — Abby, marketing concierge
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Ivy Publications proudly sponsors: Paramount at the Movies Presents: Disney’s Moana The Paramount Theater September 9
Heritage Harvest Festival Thomas Jefferson’s Monticello September 22
Vegan Roots Fest Booker T. Washington Park September 29
CPD Wraps Up “Ice Cream with a Cop” Event
The Charlottesville Police Department (CPD) hosted its last “Ice Cream with a Cop” event of the summer in late July, finishing the community outreach program’s fourth annual run. The program had officers meet community members in neighborhoods and at popular local parks to beat the heat with Kona Ice treats. The final event, which took place at 900 1st Street South, gave over 200 Kona Ice treats out to members of the community. This year’s events marked a change in the program’s strategy by having officers go into community neighborhoods rather than relying solely on public parks that, for many, require transportation to access. After the success of the program, the CPD hopes to reach even more neighborhoods next year.
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Albemarle High Teacher Wins Award
Safer Buses A pilot program study led by the Albemarle County Public Schools’ transportation department found the frequency of drivers illegally passing school buses decreased by 89 percent after changing the deployment time of the stop arms on the school bus. Rather than the typical seven seconds it takes for a normal school bus stop arm to deploy, the study changed the actuator to speed the deployment time up to four seconds, which gave motorists more time to recognize the stop sign. After the success of the program study, the state department of education is considering to authorize the program for all school divisions in Virginia, which could significantly reduce the amount of times motorists illegally pass school buses.
Russell Carlock, the eleventh grade history teacher at Albemarle High School, was honored as the 2018 Virginia History Teacher of the Year for his outstanding work teaching Virginia and United States History. Carlock was one of 160 nominees considered for the award, which comes courtesy of The Virginia Department of Education and the Gilder Lehrman Institute of American History. In addition to receiving a $1,000 award, Carlock also stands as the Commonwealth’s nominee for the National History Teacher of the Year Award, which will be announced later this year. The Gilder Lehrman Institute will also give Albemarle High an archive of primary historical materials in Carlock’s honor.
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Do you allow your child to be picky at the dinner table?
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61% say “yes” 39% say “no” “We try to encourage consumption of a well rounded meal (eat the greens, at least!) but also do not force a clean-plateclub. Food battles are not ones I really want to have; I have memories of long nights at the table while I ever so slowly finished an undesirable plate when I was a kid, and I don’t want to repeat that with my children.” – Beth, Charlottesville, mom of two “Sort of. Both of my girls have a couple of foods that they just really dislike, so they are allowed to swap out those specific foods for something else. I have food I hate too, so it’s only fair.” – Cate, Albemarle, mom of two girls “Absolutely! I encourage them to try new foods; however, they are allowed to develop their own likes and dislikes.” – Donna, Charlottesville, grandmother of seven angels “We always offer food we know they will like, but we also try to offer foods that are new or they might not like.” – Amy, Charlottesville, mom of two boys “I don’t know if ‘allow’ is the right word. But, who has time for hours of meal negotiations every night?” – Lucy
“We ask them to try what is for dinner no matter what. If it is something they have tried before, we ask them to try it again. If it something that I know the child does not eat at all, then their option is leftovers or something they can prepare themselves.” – Batesville mom of four “My 18-month-old eats everything we eat, from paella to kale and sushi. The rule with new foods is that he has to try at least two bites. I’ve been trying to open his taste buds since he started solids at 5 months old. It’s been a joy seeing him experience so many different flavors and foods.” – Megan C., Charlottesville “We have a policy that you try a new food at least once. If you don’t like it, you don’t have to eat it. If you don’t like what is on the menu, you can have a sandwich. I always try to include at least one food the picky eater likes. My mom raised me this way and now I love almost every food, except liver. It’s how I raised my six kids, and all love a wide variety of foods now that they are adults.” – Jenn O. “My oldest son is super picky. But, he eats what we are having for dinner or he doesn’t eat.”
– Heather, mother of two boys
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Two locals were recognized as Hometown Heroes for their inspiring efforts in bettering the community. The Allen and Allen law firm acknowledged Myra Anderson, an advocate in the community and a social entrepreneur, and Tony Brown, the dean of students at Blue Ridge School, as hometown heroes for their commitment to the community by empowering local youth and encouraging others to give. Anderson hosts “pay what you can” fitness classes and also created the Ebony Princess Book Club, which allows young African-American girls to dress up as princesses and read along with one another in an effort to inspire a love of reading and make every girl feel like royalty. Brown organizes two bike races that benefit the Blue Ridge School pantry, which is affiliated with the Buck Mountain Food Pantry, and the World Bicycle Relief, collecting food for families in need. Additionally, Brown leads a group of volunteers each Saturday at the Buck Mountain Food Pantry and helps prepare food items for community members who need it.
Grants Awarded to Local Teachers The Edgar and Eleanor Shannon Foundation for Excellence in Public Education selected seventeen proposals from Charlottesville and Albemarle County School teachers for grant funding, totaling over $19,000. This year’s funding supports initiatives from teachers at Buford Middle School, Burnley-Moran Elementary, Johnson Elementary, Venable Elementary, Charlottesville High School, Walker Upper Elementary, Baker-Butler Elementary, Burley Middle School, Scottsville Elementary and Western Albemarle High School. An award ceremony took place at the CharlottesvilleAlbemarle Technical Education Center to formally recognize the achievements of the exceptional teachers who were chosen. The Shannon Foundation supports outstanding local educators by funding innovative proposals for hands-on learning experiences in the classroom, encouraging creative learning methods that enhance public education.
Our Public Schools Recognized as Top Systems in the Nation
Niche, the national educational assessment organization, ranked both Albemarle County Public Schools and Charlottesville City Schools in the top 5 percentile. Albemarle County Public Schools (ACPS), which earned a spot in the top 2 percentile of public divisions in the United States, was accompanied with Charlottesville City Schools in the top 3 percent of schools in the nation. Among the 131 school divisions in Virginia, Charlottesville City Schools ranked sixth, while ACPS placed third among all Virginia divisions. ACPS also earned an A+ rating for academic quality, athletic programming and college preparation. In addition, Charlottesville City Schools’ earned an A+ rating in college preparation and diversity as well as an A in academics and teachers.
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Elizabeth Irvin Executive Director & Mom
Elizabeth Irvin, LCSW, the Executive Director of The Women’s Initiative, strives to serve the community with passion and purpose. A mother of two sons, ages 10 and 5, Irvin utilizes her role in the organization to help create a workplace environment that allows everyone to do just that for themselves and their families. Since being founded in 2007 by Bebe Heiner, LPC, The Women’s Initiative, a nonprofit that provides vital mental health services regardless of ability to pay, continues to incorporate programs that cater to multiple ethnicities and backgrounds. What are the best and most challenging parts about your job? The best part of my job is the privilege of witnessing the strength and resilience of women as they heal and grow. Our biggest challenge is that there is an enormous need for what we provide, which is low cost, effective mental health care. To make sure women get the help they need without having to wait, we also have weekly walk-in clinics where any woman 18 and over can come in for free and see a counselor, with no appointment necessary.
What have you learned from your sons? My two awesome sons, Patrick and Jason, teach me something every day. The biggest lessons are slowing down, having patience and being present. My 5-year-old constantly helps me enjoy each moment and laugh, and my 10-year-old teaches me that there is always good on the inside of people. What is one practice you’ve put in place to get quality time with your family/friends? Work/life balance can be so hard, but I maintain the intention of leaving work at work so that I can be fully present at home. I make a conscious effort to put my phone away at the end of the day so I can connect individually with my children.
How have you grown and changed over the years? The Women’s Initiative grew from three staff members to a team of 20 who provide trauma-informed, culturally responsive mental health care in the form of individual counseling, social support and education. We’ve grown our capacity to not only serve Latina women through our Bienestar program but also serve Black women and women of color through our Sister Circle program. I am hopeful
If you had a 25-hour day, what would you do with an extra hour? I would take a walk at the creek by my house with my family and our Golden Retriever, Joy.
for a future where, nationally and internationally, we reduce the stigma around mental health issues.
between parents and kids, and as often as possible.
What advice do you have for young people aspiring to help others through their careers? Recognize that it is an honor and a privilege to have an opportunity
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What is one thing your parents did well that you try to incorporate into your parenting? Family dinners that consist of no screens, just conversation
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Embracing Opportunities Two days out of the school year that are the most exhilarating are those that kick off our New Teacher Academy program in August. This year’s edition was held at Jack Jouett Middle School, where we welcomed nearly 175 new teachers to Albemarle County Public Schools. Each year, we receive over 1,000 inquiries from educators throughout the country, and sometimes the world. According to one national education assessment organization, our division is ranked third out of the 132 school divisions in the state, and we consistently out-perform in regards to college readiness and SAT scores. Our ontime graduation rate exceeds state and national averages, and our dropout rate is well below that of our state and nation. An important reason why these student achievements are possible starts with the educators and the support systems in place to ensure their success. The New Teacher Academy builds the foundation of instructional values that are essential to what takes place in our schools. They hear how vital it is to align beliefs with the four values of our division—young people, respect, community and excellence. During their first two days with
subsequent time during the week they spend with staff from their assigned schools, our new teachers hear about those qualities that will make them successful in the classroom. They will need to be flexible thinkers, lifelong learners, designers of highly engaging lesson plans and open to embrace opportunities outside their comfort zone. That’s where innovation often happens and stretch goals are realized. New teachers immediately benefit from our instructional coaching model that matches them with senior educators on best practices around teaching strategies. Each teacher also automatically becomes a part of the professional learning community in their school, where they regularly share ideas with their peers about how to overcome a barrier to one student’s learning, how to generate enthusiasm around a new concept, how to pair the latest technological resource with a learning opportunity or how to engage parents in a project. Many school divisions can purchase similar technology, supplies or even facilities. That’s not where the differences are made, though. It’s the people inside those buildings with enthusiasm, energy and pure joy that make the difference.
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Dr. Keiser is the Assistant Superintendent for Organizational Development and Human Resource Leadership. A former principal of Hollymead Elementary School, while in the central divisional office, she has conducted over 3,000 interviews of educators wanting to join the school division.
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UVA Football Hosts Youth Day In lieu of the kickoff of football season, the UVA football team once again welcomes the community to its annual Youth Day on September 15 as the ‘Hoos take on Ohio University at home. The event includes special ticket offers for members of Cavman’s Crew, youth giveaways at Scott Stadium and a special halftime performance featuring dozens of regional high school bands. Fans can cheer the Cavaliers on while enjoying the special programs that recognize and celebrate the youngest of fans. In early August, the UVA Athletics Department also held its annual Meet the Football Team Night along with the Scott Stadium Night. The free event provided a special opportunity for younger fans of the Cavaliers to interact with their beloved team and enjoy a movie together. For the first time, these two events took place on the same night and allowed fans to meet members of the UVA football team on the field at Scott Stadium and receive autographs from their favorite players. Fans and players also enjoyed a screening of “The Incredibles” on the Hoo Vision jumbotron screen.
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FESTIVALS & FAIRS Shenandoah County Fair
Now–September 1 at 300 Fairground Road, Woodstock Enjoy tractor pulls, demo derbies, concerts, a Monster Truck show and more. 540-459-3867, shencofair.com
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Somerset Steam & Gas Pasture Party
YOU CAN September 7–9 HELP! at Fairfield View Dairy Farm, Somerset Enjoy antique tractors, a tractor pull, flea markets, cloggers, arts & crafts, live bands and more. 540-672-3429, somersetsteamandgas.org
10th Annual Baking Contest
Summer’s End Festival
Now–September 3 at Wintergreen Resort An end of the summer hurrah with regional live music, arts & craft shows and much more. 434-325-2200, wintergreenresort.com
Pancake Breakfasts
Now–November, Weekends, 10am–12pm at Chiles Peach Orchard, Crozet Enjoy all-you-can-eat pancakes, a fresh fruit topping, a side of sausage and OJ/milk/coffee. 434-823-1583, chilesfamilyorchards.com
Fall Fruit Festival
September 1, 9am–5pm at Edible Landscaping, Afton Tours, music, food, lectures, door prizes, a plant sale and more. Leashed pets welcome. 434-361-9134, ediblelandscaping.com
Flock-N-Spiel
September 1, 9am–5pm at Lower Sherwood Farm A fun day of learning, shopping and animals with vendors, demonstrations, workshops and competitions. 434-286-4494, flocknspiel.com
Taste of the Mountains Street Festival
September 1, 10am–4pm at Main Street, Madison Celebrate the 26th annual festival with live entertainment, shopping, food, pony rides and more. 540-948-4455, madison-va.com
CiderFest at Castle Hill
September 1, 11am–5pm at Castle Hill Cider Cideries sampling and selling, food trucks, music by Hard Swimmin Fish and Positive Collective, kids’ activities and more. 434-296-0047, castlehillcider.com
September 8, 9am–12pm at Saunders Brothers Farm Market, Piney River Enter your favorite recipes in several categories, including a category for 12 and under, to compete for prizes. 434-277-5455, saundersbrothersfarmmarket.com
43rd Annual Orange Street Festival
September 8, 9am–4pm at Main Street, Orange A festival with live music, childrens’ activities and vendors offering a wide range of items including artwork, crafts, food and drinks. 540-672-5216, orangevachamber.com
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September 1–October 27, Saturdays, 5–9pm at IX Art Park Freefall picks up where Fridays After Five ends with a unique and funky vibe. Enjoy live music, art, food and more. freefallcville.com
September 8, 5:30pm HELP! at Oakland Heights Farm, Gordonsville Enjoy live music, mutton busting, ladies barrel racing with vendors and food concessions benefiting the Gordonsville Fire Department. 540-222-1824, sites.google.com/view/oaklandheightsfarm
Labor Day Fair
18th Annual Apple Butter Celebration
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September 3, 10:30am–2pm HELP! at Frontier Culture Museum, Staunton Enjoy a fair with live music, games, face painting, food and more after the I Am Brave 5K Race. 540-332-7850, frontiermuseum.org
September 15, 10am–5pm at Skyland Historic Lower Level Area Entertainment, apple-infused culinary creations, pony rides, childrens’ crafts, apple butter and more. 540-999-3500, goshenandoah.com
7th Annual Charlottesville Pride Festival September 15, 11am–7pm at Sprint Pavilion A kid-friendly celebration of diversity and inclusion with bouncy houses, food trucks and more. cvillepride.org
Constitution Day Celebration
September 15 at James Madison’s Montpelier Celebrate the anniversary of the U.S. Constitution with free open house tours, handson family-friendly activities, a buffet lunch, live music and more. 540-672-2728, montpelier.org
African-American Heritage Festival
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September 15–16, 12–6pm Saturday, 10am– 6pm Sunday at Gypsy Hill Park, Staunton An annual celebration of black culture and history with music, face painting, cornhole, crafts, kids’ activities, resources and health screenings. 540-337-704, ci.staunton.va.us
12th Annual Heritage Harvest Festival
September 22, 10am–5pm at West Lawn of Monticello Over 100 programs, workshops, garden tours, fruit and vegetable tastings, food, kids’ activities and more. Ivy Publications is a proud sponsor! 434-984-9800, heritageharvestfestival.com
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Belvedere’s Fall Harvest Festival
September 22–November 3, Weekends at Belvedere Plantation, Fredericksburg Pick your own pumpkins from the patch, and enjoy the corn maze, wagon and pony rides, a campfire, pies, ziplines, straw jump, pumpkin cannon and more. 540-373-4478, belvedereplantation.com
9th Annual Ten Miler Family Festival
September 28, 4:30–7:30pm at Amazement Square, Lynchburg Following the Amazing Mile Children’s Run, the public is invited to enjoy a free family-friendly festival. 434-845-1888, amazementsquare.org
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Queen City Mischief & Magic: Harry Potter Party
September 28–30 at Downtown Staunton Downtown Staunton transforms into a magical village where you can experiment with potions, enjoy wizard fare, try your hand at a wizard duel and more. 540-885-9988, potterpartyva.com
Fall Harvest Weekend
September 28–30 at Misty Mountain Camp Resort, Greenwood Enjoy trick or treating, costume contests, pumpkin carving, bobbing for apples, wagon rides, air brush tattoos, a bonfire and more. 888-647-8900, mistymountaincampresort.com
State Fair of Virginia
September 28–October 7 at The Meadow Event Park, Doswell See Virginia’s finest animals and agriculture, exhibits and shows, music, arts & crafts, blue ribbon competitions and more. 804-994-2800, statefairva.org
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Tucked away on a cul de sac in coveted Ivy, 10 mins from UVA & Downtown, the interiors of this classic 5-6 bedroom will astound. Shelter & Associates just completed a comprehensive renovation & finished an additional 1,800 sqft. The remarkable 4+ acre parcel, which is embraced by permanently protected meadows, provides extraordinary privacy, strong views, expansive lawns & a meandering creek. 1st fl master, open living spaces, incredible finish quality, large wine cellar, screening room, spa-quality master bathroom… The list goes on. Not to be missed.
MERIWETHER LEWIS DISTRICT
BLUE RIDGE VIEWS - W. ALBEMARLE
3270 WAVERLY DRIVE • $659,000 Park-like, private setting features multi-level Decks, saltwater Pool & mature landscaping. Ideal for entertaining inside & out. Many recent improvements include: new 2-zone HVAC, Generator, new granite counters & painted kitchen cabinets, & Home Office. Tommy Brannock (434) 981-1486 MLS# 579143
115 NETHER SPRINGS COURT • $635,000 Renovated in the heart of Western Albemarle, this almost 2-acre New England saltbox is situated between Afton & Batesville, with several wineries just 15 minutes away! Garage apartment. Spacious floor plan, partially fenced yard, and Blue Ridge views. Inessa Telefus (434) 989-1559. MLS# 579289
Annual Charlottesville Vegan Roots Fest September 29, 12–6pm at Booker T. Washington Park This family- and dog-friendly festival will include local music and entertainment, food, talks about nutrition and more. Ivy Publications is a proud sponsor! cvillevegfest.org
21st Harrisonburg International Festival
September 29, 12–6pm at Downtown Harrisonburg A day of family fun with international foods, musical talent and dance, folk art, and language and intercultural learning. 540-434-0059, harrisonburg-international-festival.org
Greenfield Fall Festival
September 29–October 31, 10am–5pm Saturdays, 1–5pm Sundays at Greenfield Farm Enjoy hayrides, farm animals, a toddler play area and corn maze. 434-985-7653, greenfieldfallfest.com
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Zinc. Vintage Market
Albemarle Farmers Market
Now–September 30, Saturdays, 8:30am–1pm at Hollymead Town Center 434-531-2733, localharvest.org
Crozet Farmers Market
Now–October 13, Saturdays, 8am–12pm at Crozet United Methodist parking lot 434-823-1092
Forest Lakes Farmers Market
Now–October, Tuesdays, 4–7pm at Forest Lakes South 434-531-2733, facebook.com/ForestLakesFarmersMarket
September 7–9, 10am–5pm Friday–Saturday, 11am–4pm Sunday at Misty Mountain Camp Resort, Greenwood Shop all things vintage while enjoying live music, food trucks and a kids’ zone. 540-456-6409, zincvintagemarket.com
Here Wee Grow Again!
September 15–22 at Aldersgate United Methodist Church This semi-annual kids consignment sale offers gently-used clothes, toys, gear and more to benefit local families and Aldersgate Methodist Church’s outreach efforts. 434-973-5806, hereweegrowagain.com
STAGE & SCREEN Cville Series: The Open Mic
Farmers in the Park
Now–October, Wednesdays, 3–7pm at Meade Park 434-970-3371, charlottesville.org
City Market
Now–October, Saturdays, 7am–12pm at Second and Water Street parking lots 434-970-3371, charlottesville.org
Scottsville Community Farmers Market Now–November 3, Saturdays, 8am–12pm at Scottsville Pavilion 434-286-9267, scottsvillefarmersmarket.org
YOU CAN HELP!
YOU CAN
Now–December 14, Second Fridays, HELP! 7–9pm at Jefferson African American Heritage Center Singers, dancers, painters, comedians, actors and more are invited to perform to benefit the Heritage Center. 434-260-8720, jeffschoolheritagecenter.org
Outdoor Movie: A Wrinkle in Time
September 1, 7:45pm at Frontier Culture Museum, Staunton Bring a blanket or folding chairs and enjoy the 2018 film. 540-332-7850, frontiermuseum.org
Come Play in the Hay! Greenfield Fall Festival 2018 Greenfield is a great educational activity for people of all ages. Take home a pumpkin, enjoy hayrides, farm animals and try the giant slide! And of course play in the 5 acre corn maze. There is also a play area for toddlers.
Rese r Fun ve Your Fall Fi Trip TOD eld AY!
Dairy Road (Rt 633)
2 miles north of Ruckersville off Rt 29
(434) 985-7653 • www.greenfieldfallfest.com
Open to the public - weekends from September 29 - October 31, Sat 10-5, Sun 1-5 Groups of 15 or More Welcome Anytime! Please call for an appointment during the week.
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Open Mic Night
September 7, 6:30–8pm at Crozet Library Share music, poetry, comedy, stories, dance, art or any other creation. Registration required for performers by September 5. Grades 7–12. 434-823-4050, jmrl.org
Paramount at the Movies Presents: Disney’s Moana
September 9, 11am (sensory-friendly screening) & 2pm at The Paramount Theater See the Disney movie on The Paramount’s big screen. Ivy Publications is a proud sponsor! 434-979-1333, theparamount.net
Light House Youth Film Festival
September 14 at The Paramount Theater Enjoy some popcorn and mingle with Light House participants before the screening of the year’s best works. 434-293-6992, lighthousestudio.org
Free Movie Friday: “Leave No Trace”
September 21, 7:30–9:30pm at PVCC, Dickinson Building When a small mistake tips off a father and daughter to authorities, they are sent on a journey in search of a place to call their own. Based on a true story, this film is rated PG. 434-961-5378, pvcc.edu
Act It Out
September 26, 3:30–4:30pm at Crozet Library Participate in theater games and other creative activities to act out a few fun stories. Ages 5–10. Required registration. 434-823-4050, jmrl.org
National Geographic Live: Ocean Soul
Free Rides on the Gypsy Express
September 3, 1–5pm at Gypsy Hill Park, Staunton On Labor Day, Gypsy Express, Virginia’s hometown mini-train, will offer free rides. 540-332-3800, ci.staunton.va.us
September 26, 7pm at The Paramount Theater Using his camera to communicate, Brian Skerry has spent more than 10,000 hours underwater. His images celebrate the mystery of the depths and offer intimate portraits of creatures. 434-979-1333, theparamount.net
Tinkergarten Free Class at Mint Springs
LEARNING FUN
Back-to-School Paws to Read
Free Admission
First Full Weekends at Virginia Discovery Museum The first full weekend of the month, Bank of America, Merrill Lynch and U.S. Trust credit and debit cardholders will get free admission to the Museum. vadm.org
Barn and Farm History Days
Now–November 15, Weekends, 2–4pm at Ivy Creek Natural Area Come explore the barn at Ivy Creek Natural Area. Enjoy displays including an observing beehive and farm equipment. 434-973-7772, ivycreekfoundation.org
September 4, 10–11am at Mint Springs Park, Crozet Children ages 18 months to 8 years old are invited to this free outdoors class to connect and learn through play. 413-397-2800, tinkergarten.com
September 11, 6–7pm at Central Library Practice reading and your school voice with a visit by Stella, a certified therapy dog. 434-979-7151, jmrl.org
Fall Homeschool Day
September 14, 9am–5pm at Frontier Culture Museum, Staunton Visitors will see activities such as cooking, gardening, woodworking, flax and wool spinning, rare-breed animals, schoolhouse lessons and more. 540-332-7850, frontiermuseum.org
City Market
Now through October, Saturdays. See page 18.
Castle Hill Cider, a place to celebrate.
Come visit. Drink our award-winning ciders. Wander the gorgeous grounds. We trust you’ll enjoy our rich history, and perhaps even create some of your own. We have daily tasting hours of 11-5, and host special events like weddings, corporate parties, and small gatherings —all sure to create beautiful memories. 434.296.0047 • castlehillcider.com • 6065 Turkey Sag Road, Keswick CharlottesvilleFamily.com
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{our town calendar} Pond Ecology Workshop
September 15, 2–4:30pm at Scheier Natural Area Explore eight different ponds with Naturalist and educator Ida Swenson. Registration requested. 434-977-4873, rivannariver.org
Dig It! Montpelier Archaeology Tour
WITH KING TUFF
SEPTEMBER 25
MOON TAXI WITH RIPE SEPT 27
September 15 & October 27, 1–2pm at James Madison’s Montpelier Come see sites that have been located by the archaeology department and explore the ongoing excavations and analysis being conducted. 540-672-2728, montpelier.org
New Roots Farm Open House
September 18, 5:30–7pm at New Roots Farm Everyone’s invited to visit the farm. 434-979-7772, rescue.org
51st Annual Gem & Mineral Show
BRANDI CARLILE with Darlingside
September 21–23, 2–6pm Friday, 10am–6pm Saturday, 11am–5pm Sunday at Augusta Expo Experience the fascinating aspects of rocks and minerals from around the world—panning for gold demos, door prizes and a “treasure hunt” for kids. shenandoahvalleyrockclub.org
14th Annual Smithsonian Museum Day TO BENEFIT THE
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September 22 at Participating Museums Participating museums across the U.S. will open their doors for free to those who download a Museum Day ticket. smithsonianmag.com
Spanish Moves With Ali
September 24–November 26, Final Mondays, 12–12:30pm at Central Library This bilingual session will get kids moving while learning Spanish and enjoying stories and rhymes. 434-979-7151, jmrl.org
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Home Educators’ Day at Monticello
September 26, 10am–4pm at Monticello The homeschool community is invited to explore hands-on activity stations, take a guided tour of Monticello, roll hoops and play games
on the West Lawn and more. Reservations recommended. 434-984-9880, monticello.org
ARTS & CRAFTS KEVA Block Building
September 5, 4–5pm at Central Library Bust out your building moves and get your designs to spring up into structures. 434-979-7151, jmrl.org
Family Art JAMs: Studying the Still Life
September 15, 1–3pm for ages 5–7, 3–5pm for ages 8–12 at UVA’s Fralin Museum of Art Programs combining age-appropriate tours with hands-on art activities for children. 434-243-2050, uvafralinartmuseum.virginia.edu
STORYTIMES & GAMES Queens Who Read: Pride Week
September 8, 2pm at Central Library Local drag artist Dreama Belle will share stories that celebrate diversity and inclusion at a special storytime. 434-979-7151, jmrl.org
All Kinds of Families Storytime
September 15, 10:30–11am at Central Library Celebrate Charlottesville’s Pride Festival with stories, songs and dance. Create a rainbow craft that you can take to the festival where you can add more decorations. 434-979-7151, jmrl.org
Storytime With Wendy Zomparelli
September 15, 11am at New Dominion Bookshop Local author Wendy Zomparelli will be reading from her children’s book, “Princess Ingeborg and the Dragons.” A special activity will follow the reading. 434-295-2552, ndbookshop.com
TURNPIKE OCTOBER 5 TROUBADOURS OCTOBER 14
ALL SHOWS ON SALE NOW TICKETS: SprintPavilion.com, Downtown Visitor Center, 877-CPAV-TIX 5th ANNUAL PANCAKE 5K September 8, 8am. See page 21.
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Adventures in Dinglewood
September 21, 10–11am at Crozet Library Journey into the forest as local author Helen Williamson reads some original tales from her new book about two mice and their adventures with their woodland friends. Ages 4+. Registration requested. 434-823-4050, jmrl.org
SPORTS & ACTIVE FUN UVA Home Football Games
September 1, 15 & 22 at Scott Stadium Cheer on the ‘Hoos at home. 800-542-8821, virginiasports.com YOU CAN HELP!
“I Am Brave” Frontier 5K Race & Fun Run and Labor Day Fair
September 3, 8am race, 9:15am Family Fun Day at Frontier Culture Museum, Staunton A fair with live music, games, face painting, food and more following the 5K to benefit the Meredith Furr Summer Camp Scholarship Fund. 540-332-7850, frontiermuseum.org
Road Ride & Ramble
September 8 at Devils Backbone Brewing Company, Roseland An awesome day on the bike with well-stocked rest stops along the routes and music and childrens’ activities at the finish. 540-817-6080, dbbrewingcompany.com
YOU CAN HELP!
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3rd Annual Guardians’ Gauntlet 5K Obstacle Challenge
September 8, 7am–12pm at Walnut Creek Park, North Garden This 5K obstacle course challenge offers an inclusive environment and the opportunity to interact with members of the Albemarle County Police Department. 434-960-3644, acpdfoundation.org
5th Annual Pancake 5K YOU CAN HELP!
YOU CAN HELP!
September 8, 8am race at Chiles Peach Orchard, Crozet This annual community event is a scenic out-and-back run down Jarman Gap Road. Following the race, enjoy a pancake breakfast. 434-823-1583, chilesfamilyorchards.com
Area 3 Special Olympics 10K Run & 2-Mile Walk
September 15, 8am at Meriwether Lewis Elementary School This gently rolling 6.2-mile course features prizes for the best male and female overall, as well as age group place prizes and grab bags. 434-295-2391, pepsi10krun.com
Boys and Girls Club Cycling Challenge YOU CAN HELP!
September 16, 8am start at Old Trail Swim Club Join hundreds of cyclists for a bike ride through the foothills of the Blue Ridge Mountains then enjoy catered food, drinks, awards, a swimming pool, live music and more. bgcchallenge.org CharlottesvilleFamily.com
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September 28, 6pm at Amazement Square, Lynchburg A fun run perfect to encourage youth, ages 13 and under, to stay active. Participants will receive a t-shirt, medal and goodie bag. 434-845-1888, amazementsquare.org
16th Annual In The Pink Tennis Tournament
September 29, 9am–12pm at Boar’s Head Sports Club, Farmington, Forest Lakes, Glenmore or Keswick Hall Central Virginia’s favorite double’s tennis fundraising event. All proceeds benefit Marianne’s Room and the Cancer Resource Center at Sentara Martha Jefferson Hospital. 434-654-8258, mjhfoundation.org
Hoop Dreams 3-On-3 Basketball Tournament
YOU CAN HELP!
YOU CAN HELP!
September 29, 10am–4pm at Rockfish Valley Community Center A basketball tournament benefiting RVCC with 4 flights, including youth and teen flights, and food, drinks and trophies to the winners of each flight. 434-361-0100, rockfishcc.org
NATURE & OUTDOORS The Dogs of Montpelier Landscape Walk
Rain, snow, or shine! Sunday, December 2 11:00 AM Start Downtown Mall Course: 1 mile
Be a Claus for a Cause! Put a team together or fund-raise individually and run/walk a mile as Santa to help The Arc of the Piedmont provide and serve people with intellectual and developmental disabilities. All proceeds from this event go to support the programs and services The Arc of the Piedmont provides for people in Charlottesville and the surrounding community living with intellectual and developmental disabilities. Thank you for supporting our mission! Event Day Registrants will receive their costumes (Santa suit for adults and elf ears for children). Please arrive to the check-in location at the Sprint Pavilion on the Downtown Mall between 9:30 and 10:30 a.m. to receive your costume and turn in any donations if Awards will be presented necessary. No paper tickets are necessary.
to the top corporate team and family team for raising money for the Arc of the Piedmont mission!
Enjoy light breakfast snacks and refreshments beginning at 9:30am to fuel up before your run/walk!
Register online: https://events.arcpva.org/arcsantarun2018
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September 2, 2pm at James Madison’s Montpelier Enjoy Montpelier’s trails and grounds with your canine companion while learning about the history and folklore of dogs at Montpelier. 540-672-2728, montpelier.org
Shenandoah National Park’s 18th Annual Wilderness Weekend September 8–9 Celebrate America’s Wilderness heritage at one of the largest Wilderness areas in the eastern United States. Shenandoah’s Wilderness offers opportunities for solitude, scenic views, wildlife sightings and glimpses into the past. nps.gov
Pups at the Pool
September 16, 1–5pm, 1–2:45pm dogs under 50lbs, 3–4:45pm dogs over 50lbs YOU CAN at Washington Park Pool Maximum fifty dogs swimming per time slot, HELP! with half of all proceeds going to the animals at the CASPCA. The CASPCA Compassionate Care-A-Van will be on-site with adoptable dogs. 434-970-3567, caspca.org
25th Annual National Public Lands Day September 22 at All National Parks Visit your National Parks for special holidays and get in free. nps.gov
Rustic Trail Hike
September 29, 9:15–11:30am at Route 53 parking area of the Saunders-Monticello Trail Take an informal ramble along one of the park’s many rustic woodland paths to learn about the natural history of the area. 434-984-9800, monticello.org
ESPECIALLY FOR TEENS Central Teen Advisory Board (TAB)
Now–December 4, First Tuesdays, 6:30–7:30pm at Central Library Share ideas and give feedback to the library by joining the Central Teen Advisory Board. Build your leadership skills and earn volunteer hours by helping to plan activities and events at the library. Grades 6–12. 434-979-7151, jmrl.org
Animanga Book Club
Now–December 18, Third Tuesdays, 4:30– 5:30pm at Central Library Discuss and read great manga, then watch the anime adaptation with other teens. Light snacks provided. Registration required. Grades 7–12. 434-979-7151, jmrl.org
UVA HOME FOOTBALL GAMES
September 1, 15 & 22 at Scott Stadium. See page 21.
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Quality Course Conditions 5 Minutes from Downtown
sheep shearing spinning knitting skein & garment contest braiding rug hooking children’s corner felting tatting weaving basketry Montpelier Sheep Dog Trials 20 different breeds of sheep & goats delicious food booths
Affordable Rates: WEEKENDS $48 w/cart 18 holes
WEEKDAYS
craft vendors & artisans selling natural fiber clothing,
$43 w/cart 18 holes
yarns, blankets & socks Celtic Dancing group & Bagpiper DON’T MISS THIS EVENT! GREAT HOLIDAY GIFTS!
PGA PROFESSIONAL AVAILABLE FOR GROUP AND PRIVATE INSTRUCTION Rent the Meadowcreek Grill space for your next event.
Saturday, Oct. 6 10am-5pm Sunday, Oct. 7 10am-4pm 1400 Pen Park Road (434) 977-0615 www.meadowcreekgolf.org
2018
For more information, contact Michele Mangham at 434-822-2222 no pets allowed
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7th ANNUAL LIBERTY RIDE AT MONTPELIER September 15, 10am. See this page.
Teen Advisory Board (TAB)
September 11, October 9 & November 20, 6:30–7:30pm at Crozet Library Be a part of the Crozet Library Teen Advisory Board and help the library create displays, lead programs and plan activities while enjoying snacks and earning volunteer hours. Grades 6–12. Registration required. 434-823-4050, jmrl.org
ESPECIALLY FOR PARENTS $5 After Five: Late-Play Nights at the Museum
Now–September 7, Fridays at Virginia Discovery Museum Play late on Fridays at the Museum. No registration required. 434-977-1025, vadm.org
National Grandparents’ Day
September 9 CharlottesvilleFamily wishes everyone a very happy Grandparents’ Day!
Parent Survival Night
September 15, 6:45–9:45pm at The Little Gym Parents can enjoy a much-needed night out on the town, while kids have a blast with friends and participate in fun activities with the supervision of trained professionals. 434-975-5437, thelittlegym.com
Black Business Expo
September 22, 2–9pm at IX Art Park Connect with buyers, business owners and the public, and take part in vendor workshops and networking. The expo coincides with the Freefall concert series featuring independent
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reggae artist Mighty Joshua. 434-825-0650, facebook.com/events/893044680871546
DATE NIGHT Brandi Carlile
September 28 at Sprint Pavilion Brandi Carlile comes to Charlottesville to play a benefit concert for the Charlottesville Free Clinic. 877-272-8849, sprintpavilion.com
Artisan Cheesemaking at Home
September 8, 11am–3pm at Caromont Farm, Esmont Learn the craft of cheesemaking and enjoy a cheese-centric bite around the farm table. 434-831-1393, caromontcheese.com
7th Annual Liberty Ride at Montpelier
September 15, 10am ride at Montpelier Ride your horse on 7–10 miles of pasture land, wooded trails and gravel roads in this fun group trail ride. Lunch is provided after the ride. 540-672-5435, orangecountyva.gov
Sunday Wine and Paint
September 16, 1–4pm at Horton Vineyards Local artist/instructor Carol Barber will teach you how to handpaint a wine glass into a flower as you sip on a glass of wine of your choice. 540-832-7440, hortonwine.com
Cooking Class With Terre Sisson
September 23, 11am–2pm at First Colony Winery Follow along with Chef Terre Sisson of Charlottesville Wine & Culinary as you prepare and enjoy a three-course meal paired with First Colony wines. 434-979-7105, firstcolonywinery.com
The
Foxfield Races s u n Joi tober!
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SUNDAY, OCTOBER 7th
Gates Open at 10:00 am • Gates Close at 5:00 pm The 2018 Foxfield Races Beneficiary www.jachip.org
Events include Jack Russell Terrier Races, Farm Credit Stick Pony Races, Pony Rides, VA Tent Rental Children’s Tent, Crutchfield Tween Tent and Bounce Play-n-Create and much more! ALL ACTIVITIES INCLUDED WITH ADMISSION • CHILDREN 8 AND UNDER ARE FREE
foxfieldraces.com
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apple picking fun!
Picking apples is a favorite autumn tradition. Bring a basket and select the best of the bunch at our local orchards. Check out the harvest festivals, too!
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7th Annual “Fall Into Fun” Festival
Apple Harvest at Carter Mountain Orchard
September 22–23 in Crozet
October, Weekends in Charlottesville
Kick off autumn by watching apple butter
Join the Chiles family for food, hayrides,
being made the old-fashioned way (Sat.),
wine tastings, apple picking and all
playing games, savoring great food, taking
things apple—including apple butter,
wagon rides—and, of course, picking
apple cider, apple cider donuts and apple
some apples! Be sure to enjoy the open
pie! Pumpkins will come in mid to late
pumpkin patch and face painting at this
September.
family-friendly fall festival.
434-977-1833, chilesfamilyorchards.com
434-823-1583, chilesfamilyorchards.com
Graves Mountain Apple Harvest Festival
Apple Festivals at Drumheller’s Orchard
October 6–7, 13–14 & 20–21 in Syria
September 29–30 & October 20–21
In celebration of 48 years, savor good
in Lovingston
food and homemade apple butter at this
Take the family on a hayride and enjoy
annual fest with bluegrass music, crafts
a wide selection of apples and cider,
fair, hay maze, hayrides and horseback
country music, inflatables, crafts and
rides, rain or shine. Kids can climb the
food. Kids can try their luck with the old-
hay mountain, visit the animals
fashioned apple slingshot.
and pick apples.
434-263-5036, drumhellersorchard.com
540-923-4231, gravesmountain.com
Apple Butter Makin’ Festivals at Silver Creek & Seamans’ Orchards October 6 & 20 in Tyro Watch apple butter being made the old-fashioned way! Enjoy live music
Pick-Your-Own Apples Now Through October
Critzer Family Farm Afton Stemming from five generations of farmers, Critzer Family Farm offers a variety of fruits and vegetables throughout the year, with apples this fall
while kids pick pumpkins, play games,
We’re lucky to have fresh fruit available at
and blackberries throughout September.
create crafts, explore the corn maze and
local farms from spring through fall. Always
Open Monday–Saturday and closed on
visit with the clown. A cider pressing
call ahead for times and harvest availability.
Sundays. 540-290-0710,
demonstration will happen at 11am.
Many orchards have pumpkin patches later
critzerfamilyfarm.com
434-277-5824,
in the fall, so you may want to return in a
silvercreekseamansorchards.com
few weeks!
Dickie Bros. Orchard
18th Annual Apple Harvest Festival at Albemarle CiderWorks
Carter Mountain Orchard
This Nelson County orchard has been
Charlottesville
owned and operated by the same
Look for hayrides and pumpkins in the
family for more than 267 years, ever
November 3 in North Garden
fall, and enjoy baked goods, jams and hot
since King George issued their land
Go on a hayride, look at crafts, taste
apple cider donuts—a mouth-watering
grant! The orchard—home to 20 apple
apples, watch old-fashioned apple butter
local tradition—year-round. This is also
varieties—is located near the scenic George Washington National Forest and
Roseland
and Brunswick stew cooking and cider
a great place to bring visitors, since the
pressing, partake in an apple pie contest,
panoramic view of Charlottesville and
Wintergreen Resort, and many families
listen to live music, tour the cidery and
the Blue Ridge Mountains is fantastic.
include a hike to Crabtree Falls while in
learn about growing your own fruit.
See page 26 to learn about Carter
the area. 434-277-5516, dickiebrothers.com
434-297-2326, albemarleciderworks.com
Mountain’s Apple Harvest Celebrations. 434-977-1833, chilesfamilyorchards.com
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{our town calendar} Henley’s Orchard Crozet Just north of downtown Crozet, Henley’s grows more than 25 varieties of apples with a low-spray method—including the regional darling: Albemarle Pippin. 434-823-7848, henleysorchard.com
The Market at Grelen Somerset Located on the Grelen nursery, this market offers pick-your-own apples in the fall, along with a café, garden shop and plenty of workshops that teach varied planting techniques. There are also scenic trails where a pre-ordered lunch from the café or a Grelen Picnic Basket can be enjoyed at a picnic table at the Nursery Overlooks. 540-672-7268, themarketatgrelen.com
Saunders Brothers Piney River Founded by five brothers in 1915, Saunders Brothers is now owned by its third generation of siblings, along with their father. This family-owned orchard offers a variety of specialty apples to be picked by visitors. A farm market
FAMILY ART JAMs:
with fresh fruits and vegetables for sale is also available, along with events
September 15
on each Saturday until the end of the
Age-appropriate tours with hands-on art activities.
season in December. 434-277-5455, saundersbrothersfarmmarket.com
uvafralinartmuseum.virginia.edu
Seamans’ Orchard
museumoutreach@virginia.edu 434.243.2050
Roseland Pick-your-own apples are only available
AldersgAte United Methodist ChUrCh Presents…
Children’s
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Consign with us and receive 65% of your sales! Easiest tagging process around! Volunteer with us and shop first! (You are not required to consign in order to volunteer.)
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one weekend a year, rain or shine— CharlottesvilleFamily
Saturday, Sept. 15, 9am–4pm, and
2017
Sunday, Sept. 16, 11am–4pm—and are
Favorite Award Winner
Consignment Sale
Gently Used Children’s Clothing, Toys, Baby Equipment and lots more!
“Choose YoUr ChAritY” Preview event! Monday, September 10, 2018 • 10am-6pm • $5 Entry Fee SALE DATES: September 15-22 (Closed Sunday) (Restocking dates are Sept. 11-13 — sale closed.) Heroes’ Pre-sale! September 14, 10am-6pm for active duty military, first responders, and nurses. ID and/or pass req’d. “...an extremely well-organized sale...the best run sale I know of!!” ~Helen S.
1500 East Rio Rd. Charlottesville
For sale hours, volunteer and SPONSORSHIP opportunities:
www.hereweegrowagain.com
sold by the half-bushel and bushel. Like Dickie Bros., Seamans’ is near Crabtree Falls (an easy-to-moderate hike for families) and the Blue Ridge Parkway. Families are encouraged to picnic on the property while visiting. 434-277-8130, seamansorchard.com
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Silver Creek Orchards Tyro Although the packing shed (farm stand) is open daily in Sept., this orchard’s PYO dates are limited to two weekends, rain or shine: Sept. 8–9 & Oct. 13–14. Plan to peruse the local goodies at the packing shed after you pick your basketful. Retail shop is closed on weekends with limited hours throughout the week. Together with Seamans’ Orchard, Silver Creek also hosts
Saturday Oct. 6
Apple Butter Makin’ Festivals. 434-277-5824, silvercreekseamansorchards.com
Acca Shrine Center • Richmond
Bushels of Tips for Picking Apples • Always call ahead for conditions,
(Rain or Shine) 5K Run/Advocacy Walk • 9AM Free Family Festival • 9AM - 1PM
Promoting awareness & acceptance of individuals with Down syndrome!
Register to run/ walk / volunteer/donate: Pr e s e nte d by :
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S p o n s o r e d by :
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• Don’t forget bug spray and sunscreen. • Dress in layers and wear comfortable shoes. • Carry canvas shopping bags, which won’t rip when full of heavy fruit. • Bring a little wagon along to carry apples—or tired pickers. • Ask about discounted pre-picked seconds or blemished apples, which are fine for baking and cooking. • Check for worms. • Have cash on hand, since not all orchards will take credit or debit cards. • Visit the website to check which varieties are PYO and which are prepicked. • Time your visit carefully if you’re looking to pick a lot, because you may be joined by school groups on weekdays and festival-goers on weekends.
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Cake Pops
September 2018
It’s football time! Even if you typically avoid all mention of America’s favorite sport, UVA Football season and Super Bowl Sunday (on February 3 this season) are two occasions where even non-athletes can become a football fan. Chances are your entire clan will be around the television donning jerseys and spouting stats come kick-off time, so why not add some pizzazz to your tailgating party grub and host a sporty soiree for the football fans in your life. Football Cake Pops are unique, fun, easy to make and perfect for nibbling upon as the final seconds tick off the clock. Bake your own cake or buy a store-made pound cake, mold into a football shape and dip in milk chocolate to present your guests with mini-footballs.
*Makes 50 football cake pops
4. Meanwhile, melt chocolate candy bark in the microwave, being careful not to
• 1 box of yellow cake mix (plus additional ingredients listed on the box)
overheat it. 5. Remove the footballs from the fridge and grab your sticks. Dip one end of
• 1 can of frosting
the stick into the melted chocolate
• 1 package of chocolate candy bark for
no more than ½ inch. Then stick the
dipping
chocolate dipped-end into the football.
• 50 paper lollipop sticks • 1 big Styrofoam block • White icing
6. Repeat until all footballs are on sticks, laying them down on a piece of wax paper to allow the chocolate to set. 7. Once the chocolate hardens, dip
1. Prepare the cake according to package and let cool completely. 2. In a large bowl, finely crumble the cake. Add half of the frosting (you can add more if you need it but start with half). Using a spoon, gently combine
the entire football into the melted chocolate to cover. Gently tap the football to allow all excess chocolate to run-off. Stick the footballs into the Styrofoam block to allow them to dry. 8. Once the footballs are dry, lay them on
cake and frosting until it’s well
your baking sheet and prepare your
blended like cookie dough.
white icing for piping the laces. Pipe
3. Scoop the mixture into balls and roll into football shapes. Place on a wax
the long vertical line first, then pipe your short horizontal “laces.”
paper-lined baking sheet and place in fridge.
Jennifer, a Southern gal with an unquenchable thirst for all things creative, wears many hats—a photographer, blogger, designer and home entertainer. From cooking to decorating, no matter what she is doing, she is committed to celebrating everyday life. Visit celebratingeverydaylife.com.
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{living well new mom}
Bringing Home Baby Tips on Introducing New Baby to Siblings
New Mom
To an expecting mom, it can seem impossible to fit love for another baby in your overflowing heart. But when that child arrives, it’s love at first sight all over again. For baby’s older siblings, growing another heart may not be as instantaneous. But with patience, effort and time, brothers and sisters will learn that love isn’t something a person can run out of. To help children adjust to the arrival of a new sibling, start early with these suggestions. Before Delivery: 1) Read Together. Along with your favorite read-aloud books, feather in some new texts about becoming a big brother or sister. Use it to answer your child’s questions about the coming family change. 2) Meet & Greet. Visit friends or family members who have a new baby. Explain gentle handling of an infant and how mom or dad has to hold baby because he’s too little to sit up by himself. Enjoy looking at his tiny clothes, touch his toes and reminisce aloud about how precious each of them was at that age, too. 3) Take A Tour. Sentara Martha Jefferson Hospital and the University of by Whitney Woollerton Morrill Virginia Hospital offer tours for older brothers- and sisters-to-be. It’s not only a fun outing but also a way to familiarize children with the places and faces they’ll see when baby arrives. 4) Pick Out A Gift. Take your child to a favorite toy story to pick out a gift for baby. Then, select a special gift for your child that’s “from the baby.” Or, surprise your older child with a special gift from baby after delivery. 5) Talk About Change & Consistency. Prepare your child for some of the changes she can expect. Also, reassure her your special bond will never change and that you’ll still read, play and tuck her in at night. 6) Choose A Friendly Face. Choose a caregiver your child knows and loves for when you go to deliver. Plan some special meals and activities for them to do while you’re at the hospital. After Delivery: 1) Be Accessible. One of the simplest and best tools for Both Sentara Martha Jefferson reassuring your older child(ren) is to sit on the floor while Hospital and UVA Health you feed your newborn. This puts you eye-to-eye with your System offer sibling classes. child, and enables you to wrap your free arm around him. For days and times, check the 2) Get Support. Many moms can feel guilty about not giving “Classes, Baby & Me” section of older siblings enough attention. Counselors have a myriad of CharlottesvilleFamily.com. tools to help moms adjust during the postpartum months. 3) Plan Dates. One-on-one time, even a walk down the street with mom and dad, is a balm for older siblings when a newborn arrives. Try to carve out a time each day—however simple. 4) Love Patiently. Children may act out or regress to get your attention when a new baby comes home. As hard as it is, see the hurt behind the behavior. Speak calmly and acknowledge the validity of her feelings. Help her identify that she’s angry, sad, lonely or frustrated. 5) Draw On Experience. Talk to your child about times you were young and felt jealous of a younger sibling. Encourage her to draw how she’s feeling, too. Sometimes young children can communicate better by describing a drawing. Becoming a family is a process that takes time. Your child(ren) will adjust. On good days and bad, remember that you’ve given your children the best gift of all: each other.
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{living well dear bob}
Expert Advice
Your Parenting Questions Answered
Dear Bob
by Bob Taibbi
How do I get my preschooler to leave behind their favorite blankey? Whether its blankey or bunny, at some point you’ve got to give it up. But for your child, it’s a big milestone and emotional challenge. Here are some suggestions for easing into the transition. Timing is everything. Don’t start a weaning process when your child is starting a new school or daycare. Wait until spring after he’s settled. Encourage him to step up. Here is where you can say, “You’re getting to be a big boy now, so maybe it’s time to leave bunny at home. He’ll be here when you get home.” Then you can add a ritual of tucking bunny in and saying goodbye. Take baby steps. Suggest, for example, that your daughter take her blankey to daycare for a week but keep it in her cubby. If she copes well, move towards leaving it at home. Or experiment with setting limits, such as blankey can be at home or in the car but not in a store or at school. Provide a substitute. Give your child a picture of you that she you can carry around. While not quite a comfort, it can help soothe her. Or, ask if you can cut up her blankey into smaller pieces so she can put some in her pocket. We did this with my son and his old rabbit skin, and it worked well. Finally, expect some regression during times of change, such as a move or welcoming a new sibling. And, always give tons of praise for taking these risks.
What are reasonable limits for teens and social media? I feel we should have full access to their activity, but they say no other parents do that. When I talk with parents about this, their concerns are usually either the amount of time spent on social media or what their child is actually doing on it. You probably want to tackle each one of these separately. First, what are reasonable limits is somewhat in the eyes of the beholder. Here, parents institute rules about no phones at the dinner table, or they limit computer time after homework is done in the evenings. They even don’t allow phones in bedrooms after their teens go to bed to avoid any texting in the middle of the night Email your parenting when they should be sleeping. Because you are talking about concerns and queries to 14-year-olds and not 4-year-olds, you need to explain to them editor@IvyPublications.com. what your concerns are, be willing to negotiate and decide in Yours might be included in advance on your bottom lines. Making everything an issue makes it an upcoming issue! difficult for your teen to sort out what is and isn’t important. The other issue of monitoring is a delicate one. Some parents just hook up viewing software so they can check on a phone and/or computer use, while other parents institute the right to ask for their teen’s phone at any time just to see what is going on. The underlying concern for both of these issues is your underlying concern. Is there an issue of good judgment or trust? Are you worried that is too preoccupied and not focusing on other outlets? Or, is the social media she is exposed to potentially harmful? Help your teen understand your concerns, and yes, you are allowed to pull rank even if he objects. If he shows he is able to use good judgment, and can be open and honest, then you can begin to back off of the control.
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{living well tips & trends} All We Ever Wanted
by Emily Giffin
In her newest novel, Emily Giffin explores the challenges within the world of social media. When Nashville-based parents discover their son has exploited someone using social media, they are faced with difficult parenting decisions. Available for $16.80 at Barnes and Noble.
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Tailgate Style
TRENDS by Ellen French
With fall upon us, the weather will soon transition into cooler evenings. Try out these layering tricks to keep you feeling comfortable while looking stylish.
1. Invest in a Denim Jacket. Denim jackets are always in style and go with just about anything. Layer over a sundress, pair with white jeans or throw one on with a pair of colorful shorts. 2. Tie on a Bandana. Bandanas are having a moment again. Add some interest to your tailgate outfit with a bandana in
your team’s color tied loosely around your neck or tied to your purse. If it’s warm out, let it hold back a low ponytail. 3. Wear Ankle Boots. Ankle boots might just be the MVP of fall footwear. At ankle height, they’re short enough to keep you cool but don’t feel too summery paired with a fall outfit.
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“Be kinder to yourself. And then let your kindness flood the world.”
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Ellen is a former high school teacher and a current graduate student at UVA. When not reading and writing, she is spending time with her husband and cat, hiking in the Shenandoah Mountains and dreaming of places to travel.
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{living well home & garden}
“Life starts all over again when it gets crisp in the fall.” – F. Scott Fitzgerald, The Great Gatsby
Autumn Planting words by Becky Calvert
While there is a mad rush to plant in the spring, the cool crisp days of fall are actually the optimal time to plant many items in the yard and garden. The soil is still warm, allowing the roots of plants to settle in and establish themselves, while the shorter, cooler days mean plants hold onto moisture longer. Because plants don’t push out new growth until their roots are established and the soil reaches particular temperatures in the spring, items planted in the fall will be established and ready to go come spring. Ideally, you’ll want to put your plants in the ground six weeks before the first frost, but you can plant right up to and through the first frost if needed. Plants do not need as much fertilizer when planted in the fall, but do take the time to mulch them properly, as the mulch helps protect the roots from plunging winter temperatures while also holds moisture in the ground.
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Trees and bushes are not the only items that are suited for fall planting, although more tender items, like butterfly bushes, are best planted in spring. Spring blooming bulbs, such as snowdrops, daffodils and allium need a cold dormant period to bloom, making fall the time to plant them. Many perennials, such as peonies and hostas, prefer to be split in the fall. Turf grass is also best planted in the fall. In regards to your vegetable garden, there are a number of crops to plant in the fall like broccoli and Brussels sprouts need more time to mature, while carrots, radishes, spinach, lettuces and other greens can be sown repeatedly well into fall for harvest until the mercury drops and stays low. Some greens like collards taste better after a frost, although using a row cover can help protect more vulnerable greens well into the colder season.
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{living well home & garden} Once Upon a Chef, the Cookbook: 100 Tested, Perfected and Family Approved Recipes by Jennifer Segal, Photography by Alexandra Grablewski
Trained chef, mother and food blogger, Segal offers tips on how to cook like a pro while also creating meals your kids will eat. She shares everything from quick simple meals like buttermilk fried chicken tenders to more exotic fare like buttery Cajun popcorn while also giving advice on how to handle leftovers. Available for $24.20 at Barnes & Noble, Barracks Shops.
DeWit Dibber Make bulb planting a snap with a DeWit Dibber. Simply push it into the ground and swill around. The cone-shaped device makes the appropriate size hole for your seeds and bulbs. It is made with certified sustainable wood to last a lifetime. Available for $29.99 at Fifth Season Gardening.
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It’s easy for the garage to fill with clutter when you’re not looking. While the space is often regularly used, it’s easy to dump items and keep moving. Try maximizing storage in your garage with a few simple solutions that you can tackle in an afternoon. Make the most of your blank wall space by using them to add more storage. Whether you add hanging shelves and/or baskets in which to move items up off the floor, racks on the walls that are designed to hang long handled tools such as garden rakes, brooms and mops or bikes, are a practical goldmine of space. If you don’t want to hang items directly on the walls, try freestanding shelving units that take your storage vertical and say goodbye to those stacked boxes and bins. There is a plethora of instructions online for constructing your own ceiling storage systems. For instance, some of them use scrap wood while others use PVC pipe. Or, purchase a system that you install to store light- to medium-weight seasonal items like holiday decorations, and beach and camping gear. Getting items you don’t regularly use out of the way will help de-clutter your garage in no time.
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{living well food & family}
“The scientific truth may be put quite briefly; eat moderately, have an ordinary mixed diet, and don’t worry.” – Robert Hutchison
MEL WALKER
words and photos by Beth Seliga
On West Main Street in Charlottesville, Mel Walker, the owner and chef of Mel’s Café, enjoys serving up home-style soul food dishes with a touch of Southern hospitality. After coming from a home where his grandma always had food on the table, this self-taught chef enjoys sharing dishes he, too, enjoys eating. For the past 30 years, Walker has served the community in his restaurant, which is housed in a 1960s-inspired building, bringing together students, locals and visitors alike. What are your favorite recipes to make? I love so many different things that it is hard to name just one. I enjoy old-fashioned, home cooked meals like chicken and dumplings, and fried chicken. I love meat, potatoes and veggies! What technology could you not live without? I can live without all of it, actually! I am not much of a tech guy. I don’t really watch TV or get on the computer. [On the contrary] I really value personal relationships and love that I have such a diverse client base here at the restaurant. Whom do you admire? I admire Eugene Williams who is a retired businessman here in Charlottesville and a good friend. His work in the community has been so influential from being regional vice president of Universal Life Insurance Co. in Charlottesville to rehabilitating properties to provide quality housing at affordable prices.
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What traits do you find admirable in others? I value honesty, kindness and those who treat others the way that they would like to be treated. Where do you love to eat out? What do you order? When I eat out, I like to go to Cracker Barrel. What is the best advice your parents have ever given you? The best advice my parents have given me is to respect others, and in particular, my elders. What is your favorite go-to snack? My favorite snack is potato chips. If you could have a super power what would it be? If I had a super power, I would want to predict the future. I think it would be great to know what is going to happen before anyone else does. Why is it important to teach children about healthy eating? Obesity is such a problem among our young people nowadays. We are seeing diseases that we never had when I was young. It is critical to teach our kids how to eat, exercise and focus on having healthy minds and bodies.
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From mixing and kneading the dough to cutting the perfect slice, this interactive book teaches young readers how to make pizza from scratch. This hands-on introduction to making pizza is sure to keep the youngest of chefs entertained while giving them a mess-free way to create their own masterpiece. Available for $13.08 at barnesandnoble.com.
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{living well food & family} Voted Best South of the Border Restaurant! CharlottesvilleFamily Favorite Award Winner 2017
Black Bean & Corn Salad with Chipotle Honey Vinaigrette A crowd-pleasing, make-ahead recipes that everyone is sure to love.
*Serves 6
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• ½ cup [10 g] loosely packed fresh cilantro leaves, chopped, plus a bit more for garnish • 1 avocado
FOR THE DRESSING • 2 tablespoons red wine vinegar • 2 tablespoons fresh lime juice • 2 tablespoons honey • ¼ cup plus 2 tablespoons vegetable oil • 1 large garlic clove, roughly chopped • ¾ teaspoon ground cumin
combine all of the ingredients and process until smooth. Pour the dressing over the bean and corn mixture and toss well. Cover and refrigerate for at least 1 hour or preferably overnight. Right before serving, cut the avocado in half and remove the pit. Using a butter knife, cut a grid in each half. Holding each avocado half over the salad, use a spoon to scoop out the diced flesh. Toss the salad gently, then taste and adjust the seasoning, if necessary (I usually add a squeeze of fresh lime to freshen it up). Garnish with a bit of fresh chopped cilantro, if desired. Serve cold. This salad is best made a day ahead of time, but wait to add the avocado until right before serving. Allow at least 1 hour for this salad to chill in the refrigerator. For more on this recipe, see Once Upon a Chef by Jennifer Segal.
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To make the salad: Bring a large pot of salted water to a boil. Add the corn, cover and turn the heat down to low. Simmer for 10 minutes. Remove the corn from the pot and let cool. Meanwhile, place the chopped red onion in a small bowl and cover with water. Let sit for about 10 minutes, then drain completely in a sieve and set aside. One at a time, holding the cooled corn upright in a large bowl, cut the kernels off the cobs in strips. Add the beans, onion, bell pepper and cilantro to the corn. To make the dressing: In a blender or mini food processor fitted with the steel blade,
*From Once Upon a Chef by Jennifer Segal with permission by Chronicle Books, 2018.
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READINESS FOR
kindergarten A Parent’s Guide to Basic Skills 46
September 2018
I began teaching first grade back in the dark ages—the decade of the 1960s. Back then, many children didn’t attend Kindergarten, but those who did spent their days at play stations where they painted, dressed up, pretended to cook meals and built tall walls with blocks. Their day was rounded out with storytime, a snack and a nap.
In my first grade classrooms, we started
“the
very
beginning.”
students are expected to have achieved a high degree of understanding.
Children learned the alphabet and their
Parents may feel the pressure of greater
numbers in the fall of first grade. Many of
responsibility to introduce structured
them learned color recognition and how
learning in the home setting. In our fast-
to cut with scissors. First grade was truly
paced culture with both parents working,
their first formal learning experience. By
there may not seem to be enough hours in
spring, most of them were reading well
the day. The result? Parents feel stressed
and doing simple math problems. No one
over the possibility that their child isn’t
was in a hurry to push for mastery of
ready for the rigors of classroom learning,
skills in the first grade.
come Kindergarten.
In
by Jan Pierce
from
today’s
more
academic
An Overview of Readiness Skills
environment, much of the creative play
Readiness for learning is much more
and art activity has moved down to pre-
than what a child can do with a pencil
school classrooms or daycare; and from
and paper. Social and self-regulation
day one, children are expected to dive into
skills such as taking turns, listening and
reading and writing, science and math in
following
Kindergarten. By the end of Kindergarten,
feelings
directions, in
a
and
positive
expressing
manner
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essential foundational skills necessary
in each area. If not, focus on adding extra
for school readiness. The ability to both
support at home. Young children are very
communicate
cooperate
adaptable. They learn new skills quickly
ultimately helps smooth the way for
needs
and
when they’re introduced in a positive
effective learning.
manner. Even a few weeks of practice on
Knowing how to build friendships by
a certain skill will produce good results.
demonstrating care for others, sharing toys and materials, and carrying on
Social/Emotional Readiness: Does your
appropriate
child…
conversations
are
also
essential for readiness in the classroom
Have basic health and hygiene skills
setting. Children who know how to
in place, such as using the bathroom,
problem-solve in a social setting are able
washing hands, using a tissue, covering a
to avoid conflict and are thus more able
sneeze or cough, etc;
to focus on healthy play and learning. There areas
and
are
five
basic
corresponding
turns, care about the feelings of
entry-level
others, share, cooperate, say please
expectations to not only help you see
• Follow two- or three-step directions;
you determine whether another year
• Show
beneficial for your little learner. A family is wise if they are willing to give their child the necessary time to prepare for the rigors of classroom
self-control
in
words
and
actions, and recognize consequences of actions; • Express feelings in a safe way; • Clean up toys or work areas when it’s time;
learning to ensure optimal success later.
• Complete projects;
And, as most educators will tell you, boys
• Make an effort to build friendships by
often benefit from beginning their school
offering to work or play with others;
years when they’re a little older and can
• Know his or her own full name,
focus and attend at a higher level.
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• Play well with other children, take
readiness
address and phone number;
As you scan through the skills below,
• Know names of some body parts; and
ask yourself if your child is well prepared
• Know his or her own age and birthday.
Ways Parents Can Help Kids Make New Friends • Practice saying hello. Encourage children to meet new
• Converse with your child. Teach kids how to hold a
people by practicing greeting others at different places. It
conversation by talking with them about a variety of
could be the checkout person at the grocery store, a fellow
topics. Boost their confidence by acknowledging their
kid at the bookstore, another child on playground, etc.
successes and good deeds, and address any hardships they
• Plan a play date. For shyer children, having a play date at their own home allows them to feel more comfortable.
are having with making conversation. • Model proper social behavior at home. Be mindful and
Try providing an activity that is participation based, not
set a good example for your children with polite, positive
necessarily conversation based. This will also help shyer
interactions in your daily life. Whether talking to a close
children learn how to interact with others in a social
friend, a neighbor or a stranger, model positive social
environment.
interactions so kids can learn how to behave around
• Practice helping others. Children learn empathy through the practice of helping others, so small activities like
others. • Role-play. If your child is struggling with making friends,
making a card for a sick relative or baking a special treat
try practicing common social situations with them at
to deliver to neighbors teaches children to socialize and
home. Work through lunchtime and recess scenarios, and
identify with different emotions.
help build their confidence to handle them on their own.
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Building emotional skills takes time and practice. Give your child simple chores to build responsibility. Give simple directions, and support your child in completing the task. Talk about ways to get along with others and give reminders when
necessary.
Provide
role-playing
opportunities to build skill in social situations. Provide proper instruction for hygiene skills. Reading/Writing (Literacy) Readiness: Does your child… • Name and describe familiar objects in the environment; • Speak clearly in complete sentences; • Express thoughts or needs using words; • Know children’s rhymes or songs, and recognize rhymes; • Recognize words that begin with the same sound; • Recognize and name most of the letters, and identify their sounds; • Know the parts of a book—cover, title, pages, words and pictures; • •Enjoy listening to stories, and ask and answer questions about the story; • Predict outcomes of stories; • Write his or her own name; • Say the alphabet; • “Write” a story using pictures or some letters;
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• Tell original stories or retell familiar stories with a beginning, middle and end; and • Hear parts of words (syllables) such as birthday. Reading
and
extremely
writing
important
skills
to
are
learning.
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make predictions and see if they were right. Point out simple words and talk about unique words in the text. Allow a child to retell a story in his or her own words. Change the ending of a story or tell the story with different characters. Provide lots of writing supplies. Pictures will evolve into approximated letter shapes. Standard writing will
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Physical Readiness: Does your child… • Cut well with scissors; • Hold and use a pencil; • Tie his or her own shoes; • Draw and trace basic shapes; • Bounce a ball and catch a ball; • Ride a tricycle or bicycle; • Enjoy
running,
jumping
and
climbing; • Hop, jump and skip; • Sit still and focus on a story or other group activity; and • Move or dance to music. Materials to help grow physical skills
related
to
learning
include
crayons, markers, pencils, glue, scissors, paper and paints, puzzles, and building toys such as Lego’s and blocks. Encourage your child to run and play outside. Playing ball, using playground equipment and other outdoor physical activities will build skills. Math Readiness: Does your child… • Count to 20 or higher; • Read and write numbers 0–20; • Count objects accurately (one-toone correspondence);
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Family
PREPAREDNESS How to Prepare Your Family for Emergencies
by Lindsey Chiles
Emergencies come in all shapes and sizes. Each has their own unique set of circumstances and oftentimes play out in unpredictable ways. In honor of September being National Preparedness Month (NPM), it’s a great time for families to engage in preparedness actions at home. As much as we don’t like to think about it, home accidents and other calamities do happen. Whether it’s a relatively minor thunderstorm and power outage or a major tornado, home fire or town flooding, it’s best to be like the Boy & Girl Scouts: Prepared! Ensuring your family, from the youngest child to the oldest adult, is educated on how to be prepared for an emergency is critical to ensuring everyone remains safe.
It is never too early to start teaching
Disease Control and Prevention (CDC)
a child what to do in an emergency
reports that about half of adults in the
situation. “The younger, the better,” says
United States do not have the resources
Assistant Fire Marshal Captain Jonathan
and plans in place for an emergency. The
Williams of the Charlottesville City Fire
CDC instructs that in the event of an
Department. How to educate a child on
emergency such as a natural disaster, an
safety measures to take in an emergency
act of terrorism or a disease outbreak,
situation depends on his or her age, says
there are preventative steps that can be
Williams.
taken to help your family cope with an
Williams shares a few tips on how ones in your family. When a child is 1 or 2 years old, he or she can be taught not to
September 2018
Making A Plan Before
compiling
an
emergency
touch or to stay away from a hot surface.
kit, create a family communication
At ages 3 and 4, children are exposed to
plan in case an emergency occurs.
fire safety in daycare and schools with
If disaster strikes, your family might
various safety drills. As children grow
not all be together. A communication
up, they are taught lessons given by the
plan will make connecting with one
fire department at local schools. At these
another seamless. Start by assigning
education sessions, firefighters dress up
an emergency contact. Choose a family
in full uniform to show students what a
member or friend that lives close by as
firefighter will look like when they go into
well as one out of town to be a contact
a structure that’s in flames or when they
person. Also, be sure the entire family
are responding to a variety of natural
personally
disasters. This is to familiarize them with
neighbor. Make sure everyone in the
the image of a firefighter and eliminate
family has the contact’s phone number
any fear a child might experience if they
memorized to call as quickly as possible.
come in contact with one in uniform.
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emergency.
and when to start educating the little
knows
the
designated
Next, make sure each family member
Never do we wish an emergency to
knows how to dial emergency response
occur, but when one does, it is usually
phone numbers, such as 9-1-1, the police
abrupt and unexpected. The Centers for
department and the closest hospital. A
Emergency Contact & Information List for Kit Pediatrician/doctor Closest emergency room Fire department Police department Poison control Parents’ work, cell and home numbers (include a landline in case cell phones are overloaded) School phone numbers A nearby family contact/point person An out-of-town family contact/ point person Pharmacy Veterinarian Insurance
“The greatest thing a child can know is his address,” says Williams.
In addition to contact lists, you should compile written lists of all medications that family members take daily and the appropriate doses, insurance information and the numbers where family members spend much of their time (e.g., schools; friend’s houses; sports facilities) to track anyone down who’s separated in an emergency.
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wildfires, tornados, flooding and more.
a crime target. Included in the list are
numbers as well as your own contact
While these kinds of natural disasters
specific tips on how to secure all exterior
information and address hanging on
are not common, having an emergency
doors and windows, and garages and
the wall beside the phone. In the event
disaster plan will also help your family
sliding glass doors; how to use exterior
that an emergency occurs and a family
when reacting to an emergency. Your
lighting and landscaping to maximize
member is responsible for calling for
family can do this in a few ways.
security; and how to protect outdoor
help, he or she can expect an operator
First, search for safe spots in your
to ask them specific information. “The
home. If you are able to stay in the
valuables and personal property. To prevent fires and electric shocks,
greatest thing a child can know is his
comfort of your home, make sure your
check all your electrical cords and replace
address,” says Williams.
family is located in an area where each
any that are cracked or frayed. Consider
cell
individual will be unharmed. Different
replacing
phones take the place of landlines.
disasters call for different protocols and
ground-fault circuit interrupter power
Operators cannot detect an address from
safety measures. Choose a meeting spot
strips that turn on and off. Make sure a
an emergency phone call that comes
in your home, one outside your home
portable fire extinguisher is stashed near
through on a cell phone immediately
and another
the exit so you can make a quick escape
upon receiving the phone call. An
Lastly, practice, practice and practice.
operator will also ask the caller his or her
Make sure every family member knows
Smoke detectors should be visible on
name and what type of an emergency is
every detail of these plans so everyone is
every floor and should be installed near
happening to determine what kind of
on the same page.
every sleeping area. The National Fire
In
many
households
today,
in
your
neighborhood.
rescue team to send. If someone were to give too vague of information, Williams
any
extension
cords
with
if the fire can’t be controlled.
Protection Agency (NFPA) recommends
All-Around Preparedness
installing interconnected alarms so that
says the operator will send all three
In addition to preventing disasters,
at the very least, you’ll always hear it.
types of emergency response teams—
the Crime Prevention Unit of the City of
You should check smoke detectors every
fire, rescue and the police department—
Charlottesville’s Police Department has
six months to ensure they’re working
to the scene.
compiled a Home Security Survey and
properly and can take advantage of this
Checklist on its website for the purpose
time to also clean them, as dust build-up
of preventing your home from being
can affect functionality.
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Williams stresses the importance of familiarizing children with the sound of a smoke alarm, a house alarm and any other necessary alarms to know how to identify and react when one goes off. “Get out of the house instead of hiding,” says Williams. As a family, create a route through the house depending on which level you are when detecting an emergency. In addition, make sure your older children know how to open windows and locked doors. Another friendly reminder is to advise all ages to crawl under smoke during a fire until he or she is out of the building and danger to fit over the steps to help minimize
zone.
Creating A Kit
Also note that obstructions to easy
clutter. While inspecting your home, also
escapes as well as fire hazards can be
consider adding window guards to all
situation
any such clutter. See that all walkways
upstairs windows (that aren’t emergency
Emergency Kit easily accessible to all in
are clear and well lighted and that lights
exits), especially if you have young and
the family. When creating this kit, there
can be turned on without having to walk
curious children. You should also ensure
are a few important things to keep in
into any dark areas. Make sure staircases
that you have grab bars and nonskid
mind. First, ensure that the entire family
are always free of debris like stray socks,
mats in all bathtubs and showers and
knows where the kit is located and that
toys, shoes and other stuff that needs
that you have night lights to illuminate
each person knows how to utilize the
to make its way to the second floor.
middle-of the-night potty runs.
items in the kit in an emergency situation.
Preparation
for
begins
an with
emergency having
an
Consider getting one of those staircase
Next, be sure to gather enough of each
storage baskets that’s uniquely designed
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Pack
a
flashlight
To build your family’s emergency kit,
operated radio to receive updates on any
the CDC suggests you include these key
emergency details, cell phone chargers
items:
and extra batteries. 6.
Pet
Supplies.
If
your
family
Water. Keep items like canned foods,
owns a pet, make sure there are also
pasta, powdered milk and plenty of
supplies included for them. The CDC
water (one gallon of water per person
recommends a three-day supply of food
per day) in case you are not able to cook.
and water (an animal generally needs
Don’t forget to include a manual can
one gallon of water for three days). Don’t
opener and utensils.
forget safety items, like a leash and a
2. Health Supplies. A basic first aid kit, a three-day supply of all medicines,
collar, medicines as well as copies of their medical documents.
supplies
7. Copies of Documents. Keep an
should be included in case someone in
extra copy of insurance cards, medical
your family is sick or gets injured.
and immunization records, and your
medications
and
medical
3. Personal Care Items. Include items
entire family emergency plan in this kit. It might come in handy.
baby wipes and diapers, toilet paper, a
Keep in mind that every family is
change of clothes and shoes, and extra
unique. Some of these items might fit
sets of contacts or glasses for everyone
your family profile and there may be
in your family.
items not on this list that you believe will
4.
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Safety
Supplies.
Gather
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be helpful to your group in an emergency.
emergency blanket, a small tool kit, a fire
Make sure you personalize your family’s
extinguisher, duct tape to seal off a room
kit, including a teddy bear or stuffed
from airborne contaminants, a whistle to
animal to comfort the little ones.
After your kit is created, double check that everything is ready to use. An item may need to be accessed quickly, so it is critical that everything be prepped beforehand. Make sure bags and containers are labeled clearly and items such as medicines and documents are kept in waterproof containers. Part of making sure your kit is ready to use means keeping it fresh as time passes. The CDC instructs families to check their kit twice per year, so it is functional in an emergency.
Stay Informed Emergency teams share news and updates in many ways, so research emergency alerts, like text alerts, social media accounts, phone calling systems and sirens in your local area. Alerts like these could be the difference in making sure your family is notified of a disaster headed your way. Know the difference between a watch and a warning as well as
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happening, or
will happen soon.” If you hear word of a warning, take immediate action. Creating a plan and compiling a kit like this is important for your family’s safety, so involve your kids in the project. Ask them what items they might like to keep in the kit, like entertainment and types of pre-packaged foods, as well as who they would feel comfortable having for emergency contacts. Have them mark dates on the calendar to check the kit, so they become involved in the household precautionary actions. All of the prep work will pay off with keeping your family safe.
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SELF-DIRECTED
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The Importance of Raising A Child Who Can Entertain Herself
As parents, it is important that we give our children the tools to successfully entertain themselves. It’s also important for kids to know that entertaining themselves can be uncomfortable and that a little boredom is not the end of the world. Being selfsufficient is a skill that both kids and adults must incorporate into their lives, one that is an essential component to our happiness and security.
We love our children with our whole
This brings up an interesting question
being, but it’s fair to say that they can
that I once wrestled with for years,
sometimes push every single solitary
“Should I feel guilty for wanting to take
button that we have. With all the
a break from my children from time to
grumbling we parents endure from our
time?”
kids, it’s a wonder they don’t eventually
I don’t think there is another job
succeed in sending us all over to the dark
in the world that naturally offers both
side. Oh, the sweet melodious sounds of
abundant joy yet delivers its fair share
parenthood.
of angst, as does the job of parenting. We
Consequently, I don’t think I’d get
teeter between these soaring emotional
too many arguments when I suggest
highs and deflating struggles, and when
that, occasionally, we parents could use
these feelings fluctuate, sometimes from
a brief intermission. For instance, it’s
moment to moment, we realize that half
common for us parents to crave a few
the job of parenting is about learning how
moments of peaceful solitude to sip a cup
to regulate our emotions.
of coffee, meditate or thumb through a
Amidst all of the emotions we as
magazine while also taking a pause from
parents deal with personally, as well as
the constant barrage of whines, needs
with our spouse and children, is guilt.
and wants that naturally come with the
Perhaps we are feeling guilty because we
territory.
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{resources after-school} I was investing not only in activities they would later be able to do on their own but also in their abilities to use their imagination and creativity to entertain themselves.
10 Ideas for Self-Directed Play Here is a round up of ideas for the kids to occupy themselves while you’re cooking dinner or just plain busy. You can even create a shelf or cabinet in the family room that houses materials for activities they can start, work on and put away themselves.
a job at parenting as everyone else. The uplifting side, though, is that we all feel it at one point or another. Having children changes everything, including how we prioritize our lives. What we must remember, though, is that aside from all of the emotions that inter-mix in us, we must love ourselves. That includes taking the time that is necessary to recharge and breathe, and to understand that taking care of ourselves is as important as taking care of our children. By modeling self-care, we are
1. Read a book 2. Journal 3. Build a fort 4. Put on a fashion show 5. Practice a musical instrument 6. Make a home movie 7. Make up an obstacle course 8. Learn a magic trick 9. Write someone a letter 10. Be active: ride a bike, jump rope, walk the dog, etc.
showing our kids the importance of self. As our children mature and age, so do their actions and independence. To encourage and support their continued development, we need to be teaching and encouraging our children to entertain themselves. Of
course,
infants
and
toddlers
require constant care and attention. The best I could hope for when my girls were younger, was to maybe take a nap when they napped or place them in their swinging chair and hope for the best. I knew that one day, though, I would
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reach the period when they are big
These are vital life skills we, as parents,
enough to be semi self-sufficient, such as
should be concerned with imparting onto
getting their own cup of water or bowl of
our children.
cereal, or even dressing themselves and buckling their own seat belt.
One of the key themes in the book is, just because you’re alone, doesn’t mean
In lieu of them becoming more self
you have to feel lonely! There are many
sufficient, I began to expose our three
things that children can do on their own
girls to a variety of activities. For instance,
that can spark their creativity, stimulate
I introduced them to puzzles, word
their minds and deepen their character.
searches and coloring books. And, I began
Helping a child learn to entertain
taking them on weekly trips to the library
herself is not always an easy task, it
to expose them to the joys of reading.
requires deliberate effort and the patience
I was investing not only in activities
of a full-time job. As a parent, we may
they would later be able to do on their
have to actively participate in a desired
own but also in their abilities to use their
endeavor before our effort is rewarded
imagination and creativity to entertain
by our child tackling the task on her own.
themselves.
Unless they are self-motivated or self-
In my latest children’s book titled,
starters from an early age, you’ll need to
What About Me?, the youngest of three
be prepared to roll up your sleeves and
siblings is seeking the attention of her
get your hands dirty initially.
two older sisters. In the book, the two
For
example,
our
daughters
are
older sisters go about their day of having
becoming fine little musicians. After
fun, blithely unaware of their littlest
several
sister’s attempts to join the play. This
lessons, practice is truly beginning to
story touches on how even as a child,
make progress. The sound of music
discovering our own gifts can make us
encapsulates our house in an ambient
more self-empowered and self-sufficient.
bubble of vibrant contentment; however,
years
of
piano
and
violin
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It’s also important for kids to know that entertaining themselves can be uncomfortable and that it’s not the end of the world.
cheerful contentment wasn’t always the case. There was a time when my ears were severely punished by the coarse and unpleasant sound of scratching, scraping, squeaking, squawking and plonking. My mind swam in a lake of unpalatable vexation as I attempted to convince them of the edifying merits of learning, and someday loving, to play their musical
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instruments. I
tried
everything
from
rewards to penalties, incentives and, I’m a bit ashamed, straight up bribes. I must admit that some days I wondered if my attempts to expose them to music hadn’t turned into a misguided proposition. I felt I understood exactly why psychologists caution us parents against the fallacy of trying to fulfill our unfulfilled dreams through our children. This wasn’t really true in my case; I just wanted to expose them to the joy of music. I endured and pressed on, and as a result, they’ve not only gotten better at playing but also, and most importantly, learned to like playing. Plus, they even practice on their own (for the most part that is). This is a prime example of something they can do now to entertain themselves. If you feel that learning an instrument isn’t your child’s thing, I’d like to propose
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kids
(something
we
parents did when we were kids) Through teaching our kids to entertain themselves, we as parents can continue to
have
close
relationships,
connected, while
also
nurturing creating
opportunities for some occasional space. And for parents who sometimes seek a brief respite, having a child that can entertain her/himself will be granted permission to become more independent while allowing us parents to keep on the sunny side of life.
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Capture Your Scavenger Hunt On Camera
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Dreaming of an adventurous safari through an exotic locale is a common imaginative exercise for kids, but you don’t have to go far to engage a sense of wild curiosity. A photography safari, or photo scavenger hunt, is a creative, interactive way to usher your kids away from screens and out into nature this summer. A local park, a nearby zoo or even your own backyard can be transformed into an exciting adventure that allows kids to explore nature in a fun and captivating way. Getting kids outside is more important than ever. The Kaiser Family Foundation reports that kids are spending upwards of seven hours a day with screen technology, which means less time outside playing. According to a nationwide poll conducted by The Nature Conservancy, only about 10 percent of children spend time outdoors every day. In the poll, kids said they either aren’t interested in being outside, they don’t have access to parks or outdoor recreation,
or
they’re
uncomfortable
outdoors. But
If you’re going to the zoo, you might craft a list of adjectives that describe different animals. For example, look for animals that are striped, have tusks, swim, waddle, fly, etc.
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spending
time
outdoors
has
You can even use your own backyard if you want to stick close to home. Photo safaris can take place nearly anywhere, but make sure you plan accordingly to the locale you select.
numerous mental and physical health
1) Select a location. Parks with nature
benefits. Research finds that kids who
trails, botanical gardens, nature centers
• Open Gate Farm
spend time outside are more creative
and zoos provide plenty of material
• Pen Park Nature Trail
in their play, more physically active and
for a safari. You can even use your own
• Quarry Park (stop on the Virginia
have enhanced attention spans. And as
backyard if you want to stick close to
they get older, children who’ve spent time
home. Photo safaris can take place
outdoors show a greater appreciation for
nearly anywhere, but make sure you plan
• Meadow Creek Gardens
Birding and Wildlife Trail) • Richmond Zoo
the environment.
I found that by taking my 9- and
accordingly to the locale you select.
• Riverview Park & Rivanna Trail (stop
11-year-old sons out on a photography
• Forest Hills Park
safari at one of our local parks, we were
• Greenbrier Park
• Shenandoah National Park
able to slow down and intentionally
• Greenleaf Park
• Wildrock
observe nature’s quiet rhythm, including
• Ivy Creek Foundation
• Wintergreen Nature Foundation
wildlife, insects, seasonal plants and
• Lewis Ginter Botanical Gardens
colors. Here’s how to plan a photography
• Luray Zoo
safari with your family:
• Maymont Gardens
Set aside 30 minutes to an hour. Or, if
• McIntire Botanical Garden/Park
you’re on vacation, turn the safari into
on the Virginia Birding and Wildlife Trail)
2) Consider the time commitment.
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a multi-day event where snapshots are
you like, but remember to plan according
man-made subjects game, too; and how
collected over the duration of your trip.
to your locale.
competitive do you want the hunt to be.
Be aware of the duration of your safari so
5) Types of lists. If you’re going to the
The rules you make can encourage your
that littler ones don’t get tuckered out too
zoo, you might craft a list of adjectives
kids to use critical thinking and problem
quickly or lose interest. Tackling in small
that
solving skills throughout the safari, so get
segments is best.
example, look for animals that are
3)
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Gather
your
describe
different
animals.
For
creative!
supplies. If you
striped, have tusks, swim, waddle, fly,
don’t have a digital camera and you’re
etc. I opted to keep my list for the park
competition. I opted not to make our
uncomfortable with your child borrowing
general and stuck to having my kids
safari a competition with prizes at the
your phone or iPad, check out inexpensive,
search
shapes
end, but you could, especially if you’re
kid-friendly
options
and textures. To challenge kids who are
hosting a large group of kids that you
available online and at large discount
already handy with a camera, you might
plan to split into teams with a chaperone
stores. A disposable camera can also do
have them hunt for interesting angles,
like a Boy Scout/Girl Scout group or for a
the trick. Also, pack sunscreen, bug spray,
lighting and reflections. To satisfy the
birthday party. Dollar stores offer a variety
water and snacks.
budding scientists, you can try keeping
of inexpensive prize options. You might
4) Construct your list. Do some
track of each species of plants, insects
award prizes to teams who captured the
advance research of your destination to
and animals you encounter on your safari
funniest, most striking or creative images.
decide what to include on your list. Maybe
to compile a list of all your unique finds.
digital
camera
for
particular
colors,
7)
Decide
if
you
want
friendly
8) Review and discuss. Go through
you plan to hike in a forest or camp at a
6) Establish ground rules. For our
your photos together and share what
national park this summer. Make a list
safari, we decided that we couldn’t choose
you like about each other’s photos. Ask
of animals, plants, birds or landscapes to
the same subjects to photograph. Consider
your kids about their favorite shots and
be on the lookout for. Decide how many
how you will structure your hunt. For
why they like them. This is a fun way
and what types of items to put on your
example: can one person help another;
to encourage a love of the outdoors and
list according to the age of your child. You
is there a time limit to complete the list;
include the whole family in a recap of the
can make the list as broad or as specific as
can they only shoot natural objects or are
safari. For the photography enthusiasts,
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you can also use this discussion for future photo scavenger hunts by reminding your kids how using certain angles, lighting and framing techniques affect a shot. 9) Make it seasonal. Help your kids see the beauty of the changing seasons
Planning Your Outing
through the eye of their cameras. They may be surprised about how much nature has to offer, even in the winter. Look for wintering birds, animal prints in snow, wild grasses, and stick-like tendrils of ivy that will resume its climb when spring arrives. You can even compare photos from different photography safaris to review how the changing seasons impact the area’s wildlife. My sons and I began to see all kinds of various shapes and interesting colors that we’d never before noticed when we’d visited the park in the past. We
Pack wisely. Pack your bag the night before, so you’re not rushing around the morning of trying to remember what all to bring. An old backpack with granola bars, water, diapers, wipes, sunscreen, bug spray, a first aid kit, crayons and a notebook has rescued many a strained moments with tired cranky travelers. Try packing individualized portions of snacks so each child can have his or her own bag. Also consider packing a bag with toys that will encourage your kids to burn off excess energy such as a jump rope, a few pieces of sidewalk chalk or a couple of inflatable beach balls that are perfect to use during a quick pit stop at a rest area.
watched a goose swimming gracefully across the lake, a fisherman casting his line and a kayaker paddling smoothly
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across the water. We peered over a bridge and marveled at the geometric design engineers used to build the lake’s dam. And best of all, while we walked side-byside, cameras in hand, we simply enjoyed each other’s company.
Even if you have more than an hour’s drive, the trip doesn’t always have to be boring or unbearable. Games that keep your kids entertained such as word search puzzles, Sudoku and even just a handful of crayons and a coloring book can change the whole dynamic of the car ride. If you have a portable DVD player or one in your car, try renting DVD’s at the library— they’re cheaper and will most likely have some titles you don’t have! You can also bring audio books or load an iPad with free audio stories for children (try Storynory). If your kids are old enough, give them each a job for the day. For example, one child could be the “Navigator” and be in charge of the directions while another could be the “Banker” and monitor the budget. This not only will give the kids a sense of responsibility but also will teach them valuable life skills.
Christa is a nationally published freelance journalist who loves to find creative ways to hang out with her sons, ages 11 and 13. Christa’s latest book is Happy, Healthy & Hyperconnected: Raise a Thoughtful Communicator in a Digital World.
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How to Protect Your Child’s Health, From Toddler to Teenager by Katharine Paljug
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WHY EVERY KID NEEDS AN ANNUAL
WHEN & WHERE TO SCHEDULE A
PHYSICAL
PHYSICAL
Some years, you will find that a back-
A school physical can happen any
to-school physical is mandatory. “The
time in the 12 months prior to the start
state of Virginia requires a physical exam
of school, but most insurance policies
report and proof of immunization prior to
will only cover one appointment per
kindergarten or first-time enrollment in
year.
elementary school,” says Dr. Alaina Brown,
appointments as close to the start of the
a pediatrician at Pediatric Associates.
academic year as possible, especially if
She also advises that students provide
your child plays sports or has particular
proof that they have received adolescent
health requirements that their school
immunizations, such as TdaP, meningitis
needs to be aware of.
and HPV, prior to starting sixth grade.
The back-to-school season is a time for getting into the swing of sports and schoolrelated paperwork. And for many students, that paperwork includes forms for an annual physical. Scheduling a physical in the late summer or fall is standard practice for many families with children. But, it can still feel like one more confusing, complicated thing to manage, especially as your children get older and more factors begin affecting their health. So, once you’ve got that appointment on the calendar, take a little time to prepare so you can not only make the most of your time with a pediatrician but also establish good health habits to carry your child through the school year and beyond.
Brown
recommends
scheduling
“There’s an expiration date every
If you have a young child starting
year, and that’s June 30th,” says Walker. It
daycare or preschool, you will likely also
ensures that coaches and teachers have
need to have their pediatrician fill out a
up-to-date information about students.
health form when they enroll. Children
This requirement allows schools to be
and teenagers who play sports or go away
informed about every family’s provider.
to camp will also need to get a yearly
“If they don’t, we provide alternatives,”
physical.
Walker adds. The alternatives include
If a physical isn’t required, you may
places like MedExpress and urgent care
be tempted to skip it. But well-kid visits
facilities, which will usually provide basic
to the pediatrician should be on your
physicals for $30–$75, even if you don’t
yearly to-do list. This appointment is a
have insurance.
chance for your child’s pediatrician to
“We only require one physical a year,
check on their growth and development,
but obviously things can change in that
double check immunizations, address
time,” Walker says, explaining that even
any concerns you have and keep an eye
if a coach or teacher suspects a health
out for health problems that may emerge
condition might be putting a child at risk,
over time, such as poor vision or asthma.
school officials have to rely on parents to
As children get older, these appointments
get kids to the doctor. If you suspect your
also give them an opportunity to develop
child has experienced health changes
a rapport with their doctor, ask their own
that may affect their daily safety or well
questions and learn to take responsibility
being, don’t hesitate to make a second
for managing their own health.
or even third visit to the doctor for a full
“They modify those [physicals] every
physical exam.
year based on new scenarios and new risks,” explains Clark Walker, the athletic director and varsity boys’ basketball
WHAT TO EXPECT No
matter
whether
your
child’s
coach at The Covenant School. And as
physical is required or not, the exam
kids get older, he says, the concerns
itself will be similar from year to year.
addressed in physicals are about more
Some elements will change as your child
than just your child’s height and weight.
gets older, especially if they participate in
“They’ve added things like social media,
sports or have specific health concerns.
taking pictures, privacy… as we become
However, much of what you can expect
more knowledgeable about [kids’] health,”
at a well-child visit is fairly routine. Most
he explains.
exams will start with a provider (often a
“Even if your child is healthy and
nurse or physician’s assistant) measuring
not playing sports, a yearly physical is
your child’s height, weight, blood pressure
important for everyone,” advises Brown.
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of your child’s health and allows the pediatrician to track their growth.
problems.”
such as Hepatitis A and a varicella booster,
A thorough exam helps ensure that
that they may need to receive.”
Next comes a review of your family’s
your child is growing and developing
Most colleges and universities require
medical history, as well as your child’s
properly, along with giving the doctor
a set of vaccines before students are
personal medical history. This helps
a chance to catch any problems before
allowed to live in dormitory housing;
pinpoint any areas of concern that you
they begin interfering with your child’s
these are usually given sometime in
and the pediatrician need to keep an eye
everyday life. If the exam does uncover
eleventh or twelfth grade. And if there
on. For example, if you have a history of
problems, the pediatrician will be able to
has been an outbreak of a particularly
depression, your child may be more at risk
talk to you about next steps. What those
dangerous disease, such as whooping
for developing mental health problems as
next steps are, says Brown, depends on
cough, the pediatrician will probably
well. If your child had eczema as a baby,
what is uncovered.
recommend that your child receive a
there’s a higher risk of asthma later in childhood.
Finally, even if the exam findings are completely
regular,
your
pediatrician
vaccine or booster. MAKE THE MOST OF YOUR TIME
Your child’s pediatrician will also want
should give you a chance to ask questions
to do a physical exam. For all children,
or share concerns. This will also be
All of that is, of course, a lot to cover
this involves checking the: heart, lungs
when they talk about promoting healthy
in a single appointment. To make the best
and lymph nodes; abdomen, belly sounds
behaviors, such as safety, nutrition, sleep
use of your appointment, and to avoid
and skin; ears, nose, eyes and throat;
habits and social media use.
making an extra trip for school forms or
joints, muscles and spine; and vision and hearing.
medication refills, Brown recommends SHOULD YOU EXPECT SHOTS?
planning ahead for your appointment.
Exams for teenagers may also include
“Sometimes but not always,” says
Check that you have all the paperwork
genital exams. “Adolescent males need
Brown. “There are vaccines at the… pre-
you need a doctor to sign, which may
a genital exam to assess for testicular
sixth grade physical, including HPV, which
include
irregularities and hernias,” says Brown.
requires a second, and sometimes third,
record, sports sign-off or specific back-
“Females may have an external genital
booster. There are some vaccines that
to-school forms. It’s a good idea, says
exam but do not require an internal exam
are currently recommended that weren’t
Brown, to fill out as much of the forms
or Pap smear unless they are having
when some adolescents were younger,
as you can in advance. This allows the
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child’s
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pediatrician to ask for clarification on any answers that confuse or concern them or make recommendations based on your child’s medical history. Bringing a list of any medication that your child takes regularly, including over-the-counter and supplements, will ensure you leave with refills for any prescriptions that are close to expiring. Brown also suggests coming prepared with specific questions that you want to discuss. In the weeks leading up to your appointment, pay close attention to your child’s health, behavior and habits to look for changes or points of concern. If you have specific concerns, bring a written list to your appointment so you don’t forget something important. The doctor may be
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Questions to Consider Prior to Your Child’s Physical • Are there any developmental milestones that your child hasn’t met on time? • Has your child experienced fatigue, pain, dizziness or trouble breathing? • Have you noticed any changes in appetite or weight? • Does your child seem anxious or depressed? • Is your child struggling at school or socially? • Have you noticed warning signs about your child’s vision, such as holding books too close when reading or being distracted in class? • Has your child been frequently sick or had illnesses that don’t seem to go away? • Is your child sleeping well?
oftentimes
this
will
lead
to
THE TEENAGE YEARS
break
As children grow into teenagers, their
down of the body due to overuse of the
annual physical will begin to change.
same movements,” explains Caplinger.
Though the doctor will still asses your
“Because kids haven’t stopped growing,
teen’s physical health and development,
specializing in one sport can lead to
there will be more of a focus on behaviors
muscular imbalance and lack of flexibility
and coping strategies, including managing
[along with] tendonitis, stress fractures or
stress, sexual health, sleep habits and
muscular strains.”
risk-taking behaviors.
“The most common injuries I see in
Many pediatricians will also set aside
child or teenage athletes are knee and
time to talk without a parent present. This
ankle injuries,” says Patricia Binard, a
eases teens into taking responsibility for
registered nurse and certified personal
their own health, as well as allows them
trainer. Binard works in the Physician
to ask questions or share information that
Referred Exercise Program (P.R.E.P.) at
they might hesitate to bring up in front of
ACAC, and she often sees young athletes
their parents.
come through after they were injured in practice or games.
In spite of these changes, however, you should still play an active role at
Caplinger also stresses the importance
physicals. In addition, continue to ask
of regular physicals if a child has been
your own questions, particularly if your
injured in the past. “It’s important that a
child is dealing with new challenges like
young athlete gets clearance from a doctor
social media use or a heavy course load
to return to sport... Oftentimes, there is
at school.
still a lack of strength and stability,” he
As
a
coach,
Walker
is
around
explains, even if the initial pain of the
adolescents all the time, and he advises
injury has subsided.
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Baby’s 1st Brush with the Law
A Dad’s Humorous Tales
by Rick Epstein Yes, that was my 13-year-old daughter and her two gal pals in the alley between 7th and 8th streets armed with shovels and surrounded by three state troopers, one town cop and an irate neighbor lady. It all started three years ago when Rebecca, Simona and our Wendy wrote a letter to the people of the future
running away?” “No, we’re walking to school,” said Marie. “Do your parents know?” he asked. “Yes,” said Marie. I hate when my kids drag me into it. But, I did in fact know and even approved. Although recent events have created a mood of zero tolerance for
and put it into a “time capsule” (a cylindrical plastic pretzel container). They also added in a few small toys they wouldn’t miss, plus a snapshot of themselves sticking out their tongues. They buried it beside an abandoned garage as a treat for posterity. But, about a thousand days later, they wanted to see it. So they went into the alley and began digging exploratory holes. An enraged neighbor, Mrs. Fenske, caught them and accused them of vandalism before dialing 911. To be fair to her, the new holes, along with some graffiti on the garage wall, did seem to be part of a downward trend for her viewscape. So, four police cars converged on the scene. “The police were more interested in calming down the lady,” Wendy told us later. “They only pretended to care about the holes.” Soon the State Police went off looking for worse crimes, and the neighbor withdrew victorious into her bunker, leaving the local cop to supervise the filling of the holes. He kidded the girls about their “buried treasure” and Wendy interviewed him while she and her accomplices worked. “Are we going to be fined?” (No.) “Did you ever pepper-spray anyone?” (Yes.) “Did you ever GET pepper-sprayed?” (Yes, in training.) “Did you cry?” (Uh, yes.) “What’s the silliest case you were ever on?” (This one. By far.) ... This is not the first time the Epstein children’s Dark Ops have come to the attention of the authorities. Back when Wendy’s big sisters were both in high school, they decided they would walk to school, which was six miles away. At 5 a.m., a patrolman saw two girls with backpacks hiking in the darkness and asked, “Are you
shenanigans, why live in a free country if you can’t test your freedom once in a while? When Marie expresses her kookiness in a harmless way, I’m generally for it. I even bought her a can of taupe spray paint when she wanted to obliterate a neon-orange curse word that someone had sprayed onto a tree trunk in the park. Nothing beats a good deed done with an air of mischief to it. Last summer, home from college, Marie was painting pictures on the ceiling of her ‘04 Dodge, which was parked in front of our house. As the day got hotter, she changed into something cooler in the car. Her act of semi-public, semi-indecency attracted the notice of a passing patrolman. He demanded ID and, once he had assessed the extent of her misconduct, he went away. I told Marie, “Go ahead and be eccentric, but remember: Police are on the lookout for anything unusual, so don’t be doing anything you don’t want to have to explain to them.” She can rely on that advice, because it has been field-tested … exhaustively by me long ago. My dad would tell me, “You are flirting with disaster. Someday you’ll be in the wrong place at the wrong time and good intentions will not suffice.” So what happens now in the Case of the Outlaw Archaeologists? Will posterity’s guide to understanding girls’ life in 2014 A.D. lie forever in an unmarked grave? “We still want our time capsule,” Wendy said. “Forget it,” I said. “Your right to dig holes has clashed with Mrs. Fenske’s right to live in a neighborhood that hasn’t been strip-mined by teenagers. Besides, that alley is red-hot right now. If you enter the Forbidden Zone, Mrs. Fenske will FEEL it. And when the police come, this time they’ll be mad at you for defying them.” I told her that if she’s so eager to discover a repository of forgotten artifacts she can just look under her bed.
This is not the first time the Epstein children’s Dark Ops have come to the attention of the authorities.
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