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CREATIVE DIRECTOR Robin Johnson Bethke EDITOR-IN-CHIEF Jennifer Bryerton TECHNICAL DIRECTOR Peter D. Bethke SENIOR EDITOR Sarah Pastorek Short

we grew up and our families still live. It was a whirlwind road trip. Although the

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kids no longer need playpens and car seats, they somehow take up just as much

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space with their long limbs and school backpacks. Along the way, we listened

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to podcasts, including “Dolly Parton’s America” with Jad Appenrod. I suspect the kids were tuning out, but I heard a theme emerging, one that appeared again

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when I was reading Interpreter of Maladies by Jhumpa Lahiri. What is home. Home

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I’m from a small town, and although I’ve lived away for 20 plus years now,

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were reminiscing about Uncle Willard’s mechanic shop, where we could ride

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on the wheel-y thing that he used to work under the cars, as well as about our

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elementary school playground where some of the dads used pipes to build us

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I bet if I were to visit the local grocery store, odds are good I’d meet someone I knew. And, those connections are important. While visiting, my sisters and I

bars that we did acrobatic tricks on (Tara Ann broke her arm but we still got to play on them).

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someday, they will tell their own, perhaps of going hiking and barely rescuing little brother from a lake of mud, or of riding the carousel on the Downtown Mall, swimming at Mint Springs Park, shopping at the Farmers Market and pushing one another on the tree swing (that they were still allowed to play on even after sister fell off and broke her arm). These are the meaningful everyday stories that knit us together.

My New Year’s resolution this year is to make a more permanent collection of stories for our family—a family tree that will not only have dates but also include some anecdotes that will help to create a picture of personalities and the day-to-day adventures. It is an ambitious idea, so I’m going to just tackle one little bit at a time—call Grandma this month. That will make it fun.

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Contents TABLE OF

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OUR TOWN

News 8

The Buzz Around Town 10

Do you allow family pets to sleep with your child(ren) at night?

Snapshot 12

Katie Kishore, Mom & Owner

Our Schools 14

Changing the Narrative

Out & About Calendar 16

January & February Activities & Events for Families

LIVING WELL New Mom 26 Parenting As a Team

INSPIRATION

Dear Bob 28 Your Parenting Questions Answered Healthy Family 30 Winter Safety Tips

Tips & Trends 32 Fabulous Finds and Fun

New Year, New Home 36

4 New Year’s Resolutions for Your Family’s Nest

2019 CharlottesvilleFamily Favorite Home Winners 46

Your Winning Picks for Family-Friendly Home Services

Summer on the Stage 50

Reflections of A Theater Camper

Valentine’s Day Fun 24

Craft, Recipe & Book Ideas

Editor’s Pick From sleep-away camps (pg 52) and info on area private schools (pg 64) to winter safety tips (pg 30) and other parenting advice, this issue has everything you need to start the new year off on a great note.

Education: A Choice Decision 62

What to Look for When Choosing the Best

Private School for Your Child

RESOURCES

Guide to Residential Camps 52

What You Need to Find the Best Camp for Your Child

2020 Guide to Private Schools

The Inside Info on Area Schools

HOME & GARDEN Food & Family 34 Better Dining Experiences

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Cool Stuff 43 Products for the Home

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Revving the Wakeup Machine 70

A Dad’s Humorous Tales

So Love This!

“As the mom of a 3-year-old, I’m excited to read the books about kindness with him (pg 24). He could use a few kindness lessons!”

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It’s the perfect time for parents to plan for summer, and there is no better place to do that than at the annual CharlottesvilleFamily Fun Fair & Camp Expo. This popular event is easy, one-stop shopping for parents to select the camp of their kid’s and teen’s dreams—whether they’re into building robots, painting, horseback riding or extreme sports! Over 80 exhibitors from all over the East Coast typically attend this popular event. Nearly 3,000 people attended last year’s event and enjoyed more than $1,500 in great giveaways. This year’s event will be held on Sunday, February 16, 2020 at the DoubleTree Hotel from 10 a.m. until 3 p.m.

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Through a partnership with the Richmond Ballet, fourth-grade students from Charlottesville City schools delivered Minds in Motion performances at the end of October.

Teaching artists from the Richmond Ballet visited each elementary school for two-week residencies, meeting weekly with the students.

At the end of the sessions, students performed “Journey of the Monarch” to demonstrate their dancing skills, creative expression and learning through action. The partnership culminated in two live performances at the Martin Luther King, Jr. Performing Arts Center.

The Spirit of Theater

Supporting One of Our Own Through a Superhero Scavenger Hunt and a Kids’ Superhero Dash, JackFest brought the community together to support a local “hero.”

This past February, 4-year-old Jack Callahan was diagnosed with an aggressive germ cell tumor that is rare in children and then underwent several rounds of chemotherapy at the University of Virginia (UVA) before being transferred to the Children’s Hospital in Philadelphia, PA, for cuttingedge treatment. So, in honor of their community member, JackFest, an event hosted by Ragged Mountain Running Shop at Panorama Farms in Earlysville, was devised to raise funds that directly benefitted not only Callahan and his family but also the Child Life Program at UVA.

Charlottesville High School (CHS) earned the first-ever “Spirit of Theater” award at the Virginia Theatre Association’s annual high school festival in Norfolk, VA, for its one-act play “Failure.” The cast and crew, directed by CHS senior Jack Heaphy, were awarded for their collaboration, problem solving and positivity throughout the challenging execution of the love story. Well received by audience members, “Failure” was celebrated for the Charlottesville students’ hard work and excellent performance, winning this new award over 60 other public and private high schools in Virginia.

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40% say “yes” 60% say “no” “We stopped letting them sleep with us and we are more rested! But, I wouldn’t stop with the kiddos.”

– Angie, momma of four

“We keep our pets out of bedrooms. I have allergies, and I don’t want to wash sheets every day.”

– Tara, mom to two

“Our dog is part of the family. If my kids want to sleep with their pup, it is fine by us.”

– Dad of two

“I don’t really have anything against it, except I’m afraid my kids would get woken up by the dog or cat. Sleep is precious, and I don’t want it getting messed up by a pet. :)”

– Whitney, Charlottesville

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“We allow our dogs to sleep with us, so if the kids want to do the same thing we allow it.”

– Scottsville mom of two

“My son feels safer when our dog sleeps in his room, so we allow it. Every so often, the dog will hop up on his bed!”

– Dad of two, Charlottesville

“It’s only because my kids are too small.

It’s more for my dog.”

– Mother of two boys

“I want to make sure my daughter sleeps well. Our dog moves around and makes noises when he’s dreaming, and I’m worried he would disturb her.”

– Mom of one girl

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Release the Drones St. Anne’s-Belfield School students are integrating new technology into their education—drones.

Workshops have been designed to combine the coding that students are already learning in computer science with an in-depth exploration of drones.

Seventh- and eight-grade students in a Quest program conducted interviews with students in grades K–4 to find a drone that could be coded with a program already utilized by these classes.

Then, Quest students planned a drone workshop that included an obstacle course and a virtual reality demonstration with drones for third-grade students.

In an effort to create memorable experiences for everyone involved and to challenge the Quest students to adapt their plans, the students now plan to devise a workshop for kindergarteners.

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CLOSINGS Hardywood Park Craft Brewery, 1000 W Main St. Suite A Jefferson Ale House, 852 W Main St. Ste 110 Sugar Shack Donuts, 1001 W Main St. Tin Whistle Irish Pub, 609 E Market St.

ANNOUNCEMENTS Charlottesville City Council voted 4–0 to remove the statue of Lewis, Clark and Sacagawea from West Main St.

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Duner’s Chef Laura Fonner recently won Food Network’s “Guys Grocery Games” Cook-Off. The Charlottesville Regional Chamber of Commerce selected Juandiego Wade for the Chamber’s 2019 Paul Goodloe McIntire Citizenship Award and Christopher A. Henry of Stony Point Development Group for the Christopher Lee Small Business Person of the Year Award.

The Piedmont Family YMCA shared that ACAC will take over the Crozet facility in April. ACAC will still offer after school programs, summer camps and the swim team.

The former Simeon Market is under new ownership.

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Katie Kishore Mom & Owner

Founder Katie Kishore is excitedly awaiting the opening of Kindness Cafe + Play, set to open in February in the Brooks Family YMCA. Like other coffee shops, it will sell coffee and espresso, kombucha and family-friendly food options, with space for reading, conversation and small group gatherings. But, Kindness Cafe has a larger goal in mind: inclusiveness. Kindness Cafe’s primary mission is to provide meaningful employment and a supportive community to adults with cognitive disabilities.

In many ways, a coffee shop is an ideal setting for the employment of adults with cognitive disabilities. With coaching and mentoring, adults with disabilities can learn the ins and outs of cafe management, with each individual paired to the role for which he or she is best suited.

In her talk at the Tom Tom Festival crowd-sourcing event, Kishore said, “In this world that often feels like a race, generally speaking people with cognitive disabilities are not concerned with finishing first. They are less likely to seek power and tend to care more about relationships—the giving and receiving of love.” With this in mind, Kishore is putting her own go-getter past behind her and focusing on Kindness Cafe as a community asset that will bring about social change, one cup of coffee at a time.

Kishore is a 2001 University of Virginia graduate, where she played varsity soccer and basketball, co- captaining both teams her senior year. The 2014 arrival of her second child Kiran, born with Down syndrome, and the subsequent death of her husband Kris, changed her outlook considerably. “I’m creating Kindness as a place where both my children can feel welcomed and valued. I want Kindness Cafe to be the most welcoming place in Charlottesville.”

Her goal is to create a community space where people of all abilities will celebrate the gifts in themselves and others, while interacting as peers. As a happy bonus, she hopes the spirit of inclusiveness

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in her coffee shop will have a ripple effect in the Charlottesville community and beyond.

Kindness Cafe has found early support from several other Charlottesville organizations. The Brooks Family YMCA facility in McIntire Park is the cafe’s current home. Grit Coffee, with multiple locations in Charlottesville, is partnering with Kindness to train employees and provide coffee in its early months. Arc of the Piedmont is serving as a fiscal sponsor, while Kindness Cafe awaits approval on its 501(c)3 status.

In the planning stages, Kishore spent time in conversations with Charlottesville organizations such as Breadworks and Innisfree, which also employ adults with disabilities. At every turn, Kishore has been delighted at how receptive and helpful the community has been to the mission and vision.

Reagan Stillerman is serving as Kindness Cafe’s Operations Director. With 19 years of experience in special education, most recently at Monticello High School, Stillerman is excited to take her expertise out of the classroom and into a real-world setting. Her goal is to ensure the work environment is positive, the customers are satisfied, and that the cafe is a place of belonging for all.

Kishore wants Kindness to be the “warmest, friendliest space in Charlottesville.” The cafe aims to employ people with and without disabilities, and she’s hoping it will be a welcoming space for children and adults with special needs as well as typically abled customers. “My older daughter Mira is typically developing, and I want her to know that everyone has talents to share,” Kishore shares. “For my younger daughter Kiran, I want her to see adults with disabilities like hers engaged in meaningful work and contributing to our community. It will give her a picture of how she might fit into our community in her adult life.” kindnesscafecville.com

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2nd Annual “Play for Preemies”

Changing the Narrative When you think back on your own history classes, chances are you remember a celebratory study of major events in American and European history. But, were you asked to consider hard truths about our history and your own place in it?

Today’s history classes seek to reflect a wider array of cultures, voices and experiences, helping our students see and understand themselves and others, and situate themselves in a complicated past and present.

Charlottesville City Schools is working with Virginia Humanities and other partners such as Jefferson School African American Heritage Center to change the narrative.

This work builds on past efforts to bring more local and diverse voices into our social sciences curriculum.

Charlottesville, in particular, has vast resources for teaching American themes in local ways, from our colonial roots through the Civil Rights Movement and beyond.

“One way we can use local stories to tell broader narratives is by teaching the schools’ own history of desegregation while also recognizing that we have a very long way to go,” notes Neeley Minton, social studies coordinator for Charlottesville City Schools.

This year, the schools and City unveiled a historic marker describing the desegregation of Johnson Elementary School, which prompted the schools to designate November 21 as the first annual “Trailblazers Day” in an effort to teach about the students and families who bravely challenged segregation at Venable Elementary, Johnson Elementary and Lane High School. In age-appropriate ways, students considered the past and how it shapes our present.

Other opportunities abound, from hearing voices of the Monacan Indian Nation who first inhabited this area to studying real estate covenants that prohibited African-American and Jewish families from living in many Charlottesville neighborhoods.

Minton adds, “We are surrounded by resources, from places like Monticello, Highland and Montpelier, and Jefferson School to resources like City and University records, and to our neighbors who are willing to share their voices.

The challenges are to make these resources available to our staff, to equip staff to lead challenging conversations, and to make space in our schools and community that will allow us to stumble and learn as we strive to tell a more complete and honest history.”

Beth is the Charlottesville City Schools’ Coordinator of Community Affairs and Development.

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As the 2019 fall sports seasons wrapped up, The Covenant School ended things by bringing home two state titles in football and boys’ soccer. Both teams entered the playoffs with high expectations, and left with well deserved state championship titles.

Prior to the Virginia Independent Schools Football League (VISFL) championship game, The Covenant School football team averaged 52 points per game throughout their undefeated season. Led by quarterback Joe Sanker, the Eagles won against in-town rivals St. Anne’s-Belfield School 64-44 for their second state title in two seasons. After a semifinal loss in last year’s playoffs, Covenant boys’ soccer returned this season hoping to use the loss as motivation for this year’s playoffs. The Eagles ended this season with a 3-2 win over Seton School to secure the Virginia Independent Schools Athletic Association (VISAA) Division II title. Seniors scored all three of Covenant’s goals, marking a bittersweet end to their high school soccer careers. The two titles add to Covenant’s athletic achievements, bringing the school to a total of 35 state championships in school history.

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The students at Johnson Elementary welcomed a special guest at one of their readings for Jumpstart’s 14th annual Read for the Record event in November.

University of Virginia President James Ryan visited Johnson Elementary to read Thank You, Omu by Oge Mora in participation in this global reading program. The Jumpstart program is an annual campaign that raises awareness about the importance of building quality language and literacy education for all children.

Through its Read for the Record event, it invites adults and children worldwide to read the same book on the same day.

Three teams of young Charlottesville scientists from the Renaissance School were published in BioTreks Journal, the first international synthetic biology journal to be authored and reviewed by high school students. The peer-reviewed research addressed a range of synthetic biology subjects. One group studied the genetic engineering of poplars with the goal of upregulating a certain gene’s expression so poplar trees can more safely remove and metabolize pollutants from groundwater. Another group examined the harmful Brevetoxins (neurotoxins that bind to channels in nerve cells) produced by red tide algal blooms and how they could be stopped by altering the genetic code. While, the third group published work on using Antifreeze Proteins as an alternative to road salts.

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The Muppet Movie

January 19, 2pm at The Paramount Theater After a chance meeting with a great talent scout, Kermit goes to Hollywood dreaming about the world of show business.

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Winter Madison Farmers Markets

January 11 & February 8, 10am–12pm at Hoover Ridge Park, Madison Come out to the winter markets to enjoy some local shopping. 540-948-6881, madisonfarmersmarket.info

Winter Farmers Market

January 11–March 21, Saturdays, 9am–1pm at IX Art Park Browse Virginia-born fruits, vegetables, meats, cheeses and prepared foods, as well as arts and crafts from local makers. 434-207-2355, ixartpark.org

Kid*Vention 2020

February 8, 10am–3pm at Key Recreation Center Explore a wide variety of fields through handson experiments, demonstrations, games and more, as the museum welcomes local exhibitors with expertise in biology, chemistry, physics, zoology and more. CharlottesvilleFamily is a proud sponsor! 434-977-1025, vadm.org

CharlottesvilleFamily Fun Fair & Camp Expo

February 16, 10am–3pm at The DoubleTree

by Hilton Hotel Charlottesville The annual Fun Fair & Camp Expo helps parents

Daniel Tiger’s Neighborhood Live get a jump on camp shopping. Meet over 80 exhibitors from camps offering horseback riding, sailing, sports training, travel, robotics and much more. There will be entertainment and special kids’ activities. 434-984-4713, charlottesvillefamily.com

8th Annual ArtFest in the West

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February 28, 6–9pm at Western Albemarle High School Enjoy kids’ activities, worldly decorations, food, arts & crafts, a photo booth, a silent auction and live performances by local kids. 434-806-1149, artsinwesterneducation.org

STAGE & SCREEN School of Rock Movie

January 5, 2pm at The Paramount Theater Kicked out of his band and desperate for work, Jack Black impersonates a substitute teacher and turns a class of fifth grade high-achievers into high-voltage rock and rollers.

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January 21, 6pm at Carpenter Theatre, Richmond Enjoy an interactive musical adventure to the Neighborhood of Make-Believe, while sharing stories of friendship, helping others and new experiences. 804-592-3330, dominionenergycenter.com

Tandem Friends School One-Act Plays

January 24, 25 & 26, 7pm at Tandem Friends School Community Hall The Upper School Drama program presents a series of one-act plays, with assistance from local directors and playwrights. 434-296-1303, tandemfs.org

Harriet Tubman & the Underground Railroad

January 24–March 1 at The Children’s Theatre at Willow Lawn This stirring drama with music shares in the joys, sorrows and challenges Tubman faced while freeing herself and hundreds of others from slavery. 804-282-2620, va-rep.org

A Symphony Sing-A-Long

January 25, 11am at Carpenter Theatre, Richmond Enjoy a “karaoke style” concert featuring some of your child’s favorite music. 804-592-3330, dominionenergycenter.com

A Night at the Movies

January 27, 6:30–8:30pm at Crozet Library Join for a night at the movies with theater-style popcorn and drinks. 434-823-4050, jmrl.org

Dear Edwina

January 31–February 9 at Four County Players Cellar A children’s one-hour musical, it features a young girl who gives her neighborhood friends and family advice through singing.

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February 16, 10am–3pm at The DoubleTree by Hilton Hotel Charlottesville.

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February 7, 7pm at The Paramount Theater Hear from wildlife conservationist, photographer and cinematographer Shannon Wild, who lives in Africa but works where the wildlife calls. 434-979-1333, theparamount.net

Green Book

February 9, 2pm at The Paramount Theater A film inspired by a true friendship that transcended race, class and the 1962 MasonDixon line. 434-979-1333, theparamount.net

Harry Potter & the Prisoner of Azkaban in Concert

February 15, 8pm at Altria Theater, Richmond Fans of all ages can now experience the thrilling tale accompanied by the music of a live symphony orchestra. 800-514-3849, altriatheater.com

Indiana Jones & the Raiders of the Lost Ark February 16, 2pm at The Paramount Theater The quick-witted and hardy archaeologist Indiana Jones goes on the hunt for the Lost Ark of the Covenant. 434-979-1333, theparamount.net

Yamato – The Drummers from Japan

February 20, 7pm at The Paramount Theater A high-energy and explosive interpretation of the centuries-old Taiko Japanese drumming tradition. 434-979-1333, theparamount.net

Youth Orchestra Concert

February 25, 7pm at Martin Luther King Jr. Performing Arts Center, CHS Featured ensembles: the Rita M. Evans Orchestra, the Flute Ensemble and the Youth Symphony. 434-974-7776, yocva.org

CatVideoFest 2020

February 29, 2–3:30pm at Violet Crown Cinema Enjoy a compilation reel of the latest and best cat videos culled from unique submissions and sourced animations, music videos and classic internet powerhouses. charlottesville.violetcrown.com

SPORTS, OUTDOORS & ACTIVE FUN Roller Skating

Now–May, Saturdays, 6–9pm at Greenwood Community Center Open every Saturday night for roller skating.

434-296-5844, albemarle.org

New Year’s Day 5K YOU CAN HELP!

January 1, 11am at 5404 Wesley Chapel Road, Free Union Celebrate the New Year with a fairly flat, outand-back 3.1-mile course. Proceeds will benefit the Boys & Girls Clubs of Central Virginia. cvilletrackclub.org

With a state-of-the art sports club as a base camp and 600 rolling acres to explore, the summer camp program at Boar’s Head offers an experience like no other. Campers will enjoy an array of outdoor-driven activities from Knockerball and splashing in the pool to paddleboarding and geocaching. To inquire about becoming a member and sending your child to one of the most dynamic camps in Charlottesville, contact Samantha Strong.

Sstrong@BoarsHeadResort.com or (434) 972-6031

UVA Women’s Basketball Home Games

January 2, 9, 19 & 26, February 2, 6, 13 & 27 at John Paul Jones Arena Cheer on our ‘Hoos at home. January 19 also includes National Girls & Women in Sports Day. 800-542-8821, virginiasports.com

Boar’s Head Resort is owned and operatioed by the UVA Foundation

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{our town calendar} Block Play

January 24, 10:30–11:30am at Crozet Library Through play with blocks, babies learn about math, physics and language, all while using their amazing motor and social skills. Ages 6–35 months.

434-823-4050, jmrl.org

Romp & Stomp

Starry Nights Under the Dome Now–February at UVA’s Rotunda.

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UVA Men’s Basketball

January 4, 11, 18, 20 & 28, February 5, 11, 19 & 29 at John Paul Jones Arena Come cheer on our ‘Hoos at home.

800-542-8821, virginiasports.com

The Xperience Tennis Invitational

January 9–12 at The Boar’s Head Sports Club Xperience Special Olympics tennis at its best at this three-day tennis extravaganza.

800-932-4653, specialolympicsva.org

Fee Free Day at Shenandoah National Park January 20 at Shenandoah National Park In honor of Martin Luther King Jr. Day, Shenandoah National Park is waiving all entrance fees. visitshenandoah.org

PLAYTIME, ARTS & CRAFTS Wintry LEGO

January 2, 3:30–5pm at Central Library Celebrate the season by making some wintry wonders with LEGO blocks and vote for your favorite snowflake, while enjoying a tasty treat.

434-979-7151, jmrl.org

Life-Sized Candy Land

January 4, 2–4pm at Central Library Gum drops, licorice and lollipops, oh my. Wind up Winter Break with a sweet treat. Bring your family and friends for a life-sized version of Candy Land. 434-979-7151, jmrl.org

Do You Want to Build a Snowman?

January 15, 4–5pm at Central Library Step inside the library to build and dress a snow person of your very own. Best for ages 5+.

434-979-7151, jmrl.org

TICKETS ON SALE NOW SprintPavilion.com, Downtown Visitor Center

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Family Art JAMs: Clay Constructions

January 18, 1pm & 3pm at The Fralin Museum of Art Use the bronze sculpture by Marisol Escobar to construct an abstract sculpture from clay slabs.

434-243-2050, uvafralinartmuseum.virginia.edu

January 30–March 5, Thursdays, 10:30–11:15am & 1:30–2:15pm at Central Library Play with your preschooler in this early literacy class of music, stories, drama, movement, art play and more. For 2to 5-year-olds with a caregiver.

434-979-7151, jmrl.org

Tinkergarten Class

January 30–March 19, 10:15–11:30am at Pen Park Children 18 months–5 years old are invited to meet outdoors to explore, problem solve, communicate, collaborate and create together.

413-397-2800, tinkergarten.com

Handcraft Group

February 6, 10am–12pm at Scottsville Library Swap ideas, learn new skills or just enjoy the conversations. Bring a project in progress, or the supplies you need to get started.

434-296-5544, jmrl.org

Family Art Drop-In

February 10, 2–4pm at Crozet Library Stop by anytime during the two hours to create a hand-crafted token for a special someone.

434-823-4050, jmrl.org

Babies in Artland

February 11, 10–10:45am at The Fralin Museum of Art Designed for adult caregivers and their infant companions, this event invites conversation about works of art, with baby coos and cries encouraged. 434-243-2050, uvafralinartmuseum.virginia.edu

Family Art JAMs: Wire Figures

February 15 at The Fralin Museum of Art After discussing small cowboy wire sculptures

by Aboriginal Australian artist Johnny Perrurle Young, participants will use wire and paper mache to construct animal and human figures.

434-243-2050, uvafralinartmuseum.virginia.edu

Picturebook Potpourri: Art in the Family

February 18, 3:30–4pm at Gordon Avenue Library Explore the wealth of childrens’ books by the Pinkney Family and then enjoy creating your own art piece. 434-296-5544, jmrl.org

LEARNING FUN Full Day Out-of-School Fun

Now–January 3, 7am–6pm at Crozet YMCA Have fun during winter break.

434-270-7550, piedmontymca.org

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January 3, 12–1pm at Ivy Creek Foundation The Charlottesville Astronomical Society will present and allow viewers to see flares and other signs of the sun through their special viewing scope. 434-973-7772, ivycreekfoundation.org

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Mother Goose Time

January 6–March 9, Mondays, 9:30–10am at Central Library Ten to 15 minutes of simple stories, rhymes and songs chosen to enhance your wee one’s language development followed by time to play and socialize. 434-979-7151, jmrl.org

Twos & Threes Together

January 6–March 9, Mondays, 10:30–11am at Central Library Stories, songs, movement and fingerplays designed for 2–3 year-olds with an accompanying adult to encourage early literacy skills through singing, talking, reading and playing. 434-979-7151, jmrl.org

Free Admission

January 7–12, 9am–5pm at Lewis Ginter Botanical Garden Adventure through the conservatory and see orchids, passion flowers and other tropical plants. lewisginter.org

Digging For Your Roots

January 8, 6:30–8:30pm at Northside Library Susan Emer with the Central Virginia Genealogical Association will teach you how to use Ancestry.com and Heritage Quest to help you in your genealogical research.

434-973-7893, jmrl.org

BABIES IN ARTLAND for 0–12 mos

February 11 & March 10

Art conversation, with baby coos and cries encouraged.

TODDLERS IN ARTLAND for 12–24 mos

February 25 & March 24

Introduction to child development and playful engagement.

PICTURES & PAGES for 2–4 yo January 8, February 5 & March 4

Story time with children’s librarian Glynis Welte.

FUN FOR THE YOUNG for 2–4 yo January 29, February 19 & March 18

Explore artwork through observation, play and projects.

FAMILY ART JAMs for 5–12 yo January 18, February 15 & March 21

Age-appropriate tours with hands-on art activities.

uvafralinartmuseum.virginia.edu | museumoutreach@virginia.edu | 434.243.2050 CharlottesvilleFamily.com

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January 8 & February 5, 10–10:45am at The Fralin Museum of Art Children’s librarian Glynis Welte delivers artsrelated storytimes incorporating movement, songs and puppets with a variety of books.

434-243-2050, uvafralinartmuseum.virginia.edu

Cuentos y Canciones Bilingual Storytime

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January 8 & February 12, 10:30–11am at Central Library Enjoy a special storytime in both English and Spanish featuring favorite stories, rhymes and songs to help you and your little one learn basic Spanish. 434-979-7151, jmrl.org

Wee Ones

Weekdays 8:30 a.m. & 1:30 p.m.

January 8–February 26, 10:30 or 11:15am at Crozet Library A special time for babies and caregivers to read, sing, move and play. No siblings, please. Ages 12–23 months. 434-823-4050, jmrl.org

Tales for Twos

January 9–March 5, Thursdays, 9:30–10am at Crozet Library A fun half hour that promotes verbal, motor and social skills through the use of stories, songs, rhymes and more. 434-823-4050, jmrl.org

Girls’ Geek Days

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Monday, March 9, 2020 • 10am-6pm • $5 Entry Fee SALE DATES: March 13-21 (Closed Sunday) (Restocking dates are March 10 & 11— sale closed.)

New Parents, Grandparents, Teachers & Heroes’ Pre-sale!

Thursday, March 12, 2-8pm. See website for info.

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UVA® CHILDREN’S HOSPITAL & KOHL’S CARES WORKING TO MAKE OUR CHILDREN HEALTHY

The Kohl’s Hoo’s Fit Program is a UVA® Children’s Fitness Clinic initiative whose mission is to promote healthy eating and active living among area children. It includes innovative nutrition education and fitness programs provided in schools and community centers.

Kohl’s Hoo’s Fit • UVA® Children’s Fitness Clinic® 434.982.1607 • uvahealth.com/kohlshealthykids 20

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January 11, 9am–12pm at Meriwether Lewis Elementary School Spark girls’ interest in STEM in a fun, collaborative, hands-on environment. Girls learn new tech skills and connect to other STEM programs in the community. tech-girls.org

Zap!: Graphic Novel Discussion

January 11 & February 8, 2–3pm at Central Library Caregivers and kids devour a graphic novel together, then enjoy snacks, activities and dynamic discussion. Free books will be provided (one book per pair). 434-979-7151, jmrl.org

Paws to Read

January 11 & February 8, 3–4pm at Crozet Library Improve reading skills and make a new friend by reading aloud to Abby, a registered therapy animal with Therapy Dogs International.

434-823-4050, jmrl.org

Roots and Remembrance: From the Descendants of Monticello

January 13, 6–8pm at Northside Library In two sales in January 1827 and 1829, over 130 enslaved people were sold locally. Over 190 years later, their descendants reflect upon and remember their ancestors. 434-973-7893, jmrl.org

Queens Who Read: I Have a Dream

January 18, 3–3:30pm at Central Library Local drag artist Dreama Belle returns with stories about equality, community and dreaming of a brighter future for everyone as part of this special storytime. 434-979-7151, jmrl.org

The Look Glass

Opening January 18 at IX Art Park This new immersive art space will be the first of its kind in Virginia. The 3,000-square-foot enchanted forest is designed to spark visitors’ imagination and childlike sense of wonder.

434-207-2355, ixartpark.org

ESPECIALLY FOR TEENS Teen Art Lab

January 7 & February 4, 6:30–8pm at Crozet Library Whether you’re an experienced artist or just want to give it a try, join other teens every month for an evening of art. Grades 6–12.

434-823-4050, jmrl.org

Jazz Master Class With Casey Turner Fun for the Young @ The Fralin

January 29–March 18, Wednesdays, 10–11am at UVA’s Fralin Museum of Art Children enjoy a story read by arts educator Aimee Hunt and explore artwork through observation, movement, play and projects.

434-243-2050, jmrl.org

Romp & Stomp

January 30–March 5, Thursdays, 10:30– 11:15am & 1:30–2:15pm at Central Library Play with your preschooler in an early literacy class of music, stories, drama, movement, art play and more. For 2–5 year olds with a caregiver. 434-979-7151, jmrl.org

WAHS Robotics Demo

February 1, 1–3pm at Crozet Library See a robot demo, practice programming, and learn about robot design and competitions.

434-823-4050, jmrl.org

Stuffed Animal Checkup Clinic

February 3, 2–4pm at Crozet Library Discover how your stuffed animal measures up in size, softness and more at this drop-in STEAM session. 434-979-7151, jmrl.org YOU CAN HELP!

Nibbles & Notes Narratives Theme: Travel February 3, 4–5pm at Central Library Drop by to decorate a notebook, taste some treats and start your very own story.

434-979-7151, jmrl.org

Tots and Dots: Environment and Senses

February 4, at 9, 10 & 11am at Kluge-Ruhe Aboriginal Art Museum This is a two-part early visual literacy program for children ages 6 months–4 years.

434-244-0234, kluge-ruhe.org

Weekly Story

February 5–26, Wednesdays, 10am at Charlottesville Barnes & Noble Fun stories and an activity for all to enjoy.

434-984-6598, bn.com

Girls’ Geek Days

February 15 at St. Anne’s-Belfield School Sparking girls’ interest in STEM in a fun, collaborative, hands-on environment. Girls learn new tech skills and connect to other STEM programs in the community. tech-girls.org

January 25, 10–11am at Charlottesville Ballet Academy This class will focus on jazz technique with instructor Casey Turner. Ages 13+.

434-973-2555, charlottesvilleballet.org

KniTeen

February 5–19, Wednesdays, 4:30–5:30pm at Gordon Avenue Library Unravel the basics of knitting as you start a simple project over this three-week program.

434-296-5544, jmrl.org

The Art of Headwrapping

February 25, 6–7pm at Central Library Learn to wrap your own headwrap with your own fabric or practice with one from the library. Enjoy learning about the history of headwrapping around the world. For grades 6–12. 434-979-7151, jmrl.org

ESPECIALLY FOR PARENTS 2019–2020 Golden Apple Award Nominations

Now–January 27 Nominate a favorite teacher at a public or private school in Albemarle County or the City of Charlottesville. One winner will be selected from each school. 434-296-5820, k12albemarle.org

2020 Child Advocate of the Year Award Call for Nominations

January 3–February 14 Nominate someone for the John L. Snook Child Advocate Award that will be presented at the Annual ReadyKids Community Lunch in April.

434-296-4118, readykidscville.org

Healthy Dating Relationships

January 8, 6–7:30pm at Shelter for Help in Emergency & Planned Parenthood For parents of kids ages 12–18, join in for this parenting seminar on healthy relationships.

434-296-4118, readykidscville.org

Back to Basics Postpartum

January 10, 2pm at Bend Yoga Back to Basics is about restoring the fourth Trimester before returning to rigorous exercise.

Two hour movement-based class, and babies are welcome to join. bendcville.com CharlottesvilleFamily.com

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{our town calendar} Too Much Stuff: What Kids Actually Need

February 8, 9–11am at Our Neighborhood Child Development Center Learn how to evaluate materials, minimize the amount of stuff and maximize learning.

434-202-8639, ourneighborhood.community

Nonviolent Communication Community of Practice

February 20, 6:15–7:45pm at Our Neighborhood Child Development Center A session supporting the development of skills through practice exercises and exploration of personal communication challenges.

434-202-8639, ourneighborhood.community

OPEN HOUSES Explore the Past Through Archaeology

February 8, 10am–12pm at Monticello.

See this page.

Oakland School Open House

January 20, 10am–12pm at Oakland School 434-293-9059, oaklandschool.net

Covenant School Coffee With Head of Lower School and Open House Is Your Family Getting Enough Sleep?

January 11, 9–11am at Our Neighborhood Child Development Center In this hands-on workshop, families are supported in creating a custom sleep plan for their child so they get the sleep they need to be able to grow, play and learn. 434-202-8639, ourneighborhood.community

Grandparents Class

January 11, 10am–12pm at UVA Hospital Prepare for the addition to your family by learning what’s new in labor, delivery and baby care. Review basic safety tips and the latest in baby gear. 434-924-9920, uvahealth.com

Parent’s Survival Night

January 18, 6:15–9:15pm at The Little Gym Parents get a night off while the kids have fun. An evening of gymnastics and tumbling followed by a pizza party. 434-975-5437, thelittlegym.com

Respectful Parenting Support Group

January 19 & February 16, 3:30–5pm at Our Neighborhood Child Development Center Join other parents and caregivers in supporting each others’ journey in respectful parenting.

434-202-8639, ourneighborhood.community

Sibling Class

February 8 at UVA Hospital A one-session class for children who are expecting a new sibling. Interactive play teaches about life with a new baby in the home.

434-924-0000, uvahealth.com

Pregnancy Prep Workshop

February 8, 8–11am at ACAC Adventure Central Registration fee includes mom and birth partner, and the class is limited to five couples. womeninmotionwellness.com

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January 21, 8:30–9:30am at The Covenant School, Birdwood Campus 434-220-7330, covenantschool.org

United Christian Academy Open House January 21 at United Christian Academy 434-985-2947, ucacrusaders.com

Tandem Friends Admissions Information Session January 21 & February 10, 9–10:30am at Tandem Friends School Blue Room 434-951-9314, tandemfs.org

Field School Admissions Open House January 22, 9–11am at Field School 434-823-4353, fieldschoolcv.net

BLACK HISTORY MONTH Hemings Family Tour at Monticello

February, 1:30–2:30pm daily at Monticello A one-hour-and-45-minute small-group, interactive tour exploring the Main House and Mulberry Row through the stories of seven members of the largest enslaved family at Monticello. Ages 12+. 434-984-9800, monticello.org

Explore the Past Through Archaeology

February 8, 10am–12pm at Monticello Work with authentic artifacts and learn how archaeologists puzzle together pieces of the past to learn about the people who lived at Monticello. Ages 7–11. 434-984-9800, monticello.org

Seeds of Culture: Storytelling from Charlottesville

February 8, 3–4pm at Gordon Avenue Library Professional storyteller Page Hill of Seeds of Culture will bring to life stories from Charlottesville’s Black community and engage participants in a creative art project. For ages 6+. 434-296-5544, jmrl.org

Presidents’ Day Weekend

February 15–17, 10am–4pm at James Madison’s Montpelier Speciality tours include “Madison and the Constitution,” “Journey from Slavery to Freedom” and “Montpelier’s Enslaved Community.” 540-672-2728, montpelier.org

VALENTINE’S DAY Annual Father/Daughter Valentine’s Dance

January 24, 9–10am at The Covenant School, Hickory Campus 434-220-7330, covenantschool.org

February 1 & 2, 1pm or 4:30pm Saturday, 2pm Sunday at Charlottesville Ballet Studios The afternoon will include a mini-performance, refreshments, Valentine decorating and plenty of dancing led by the dancers of Charlottesville Ballet. 434-227-7592, charlottesvilleballet.org

Peabody School Winter Open House

Valentine’s Fun: Notes for Troops

Covenant School Coffee With Heads of Middle and Upper Schools

February 11, 9am–1pm at Peabody School 434-296-6901, peabodyschool.org

North Branch School Open House

February 11, 9:30–11:30am & 5:30–7:30pm at North Branch School, Afton 540-456-8450, north-branch-school.org

Renaissance School Open House

February 17, 9am–4pm at Renaissance School 434-984-1952, renaissanceschool.org

February 8 at Crozet Library Put those valentine making skills to use and make a note for a U.S. Military Service Person.

Enjoy yummy Valentine’s Day treats. Grades 5–8. 434-823-4050, jmrl.org

UpFront: Evening of Romance

February 14 & 15 at Charlottesville Ballet Bring your valentine for an evening of romance.

Watch the artists “up front” and enjoy complimentary wine by DuCard Vineyards and hors d’oeuvres by The Shebeen Pub & Braai.

434-227-7592, charlottesvilleballet.org

DATE NIGHT Frank Vignola’s Hot Jazz Trio

January 10, 8pm at The Front Porch Enjoy one of the most popular and sought-after guitarists on the international music scene.

434-806-7062, frontporchcville.org

Wood-Fired Pizza Cooking Class

January 15, 6–9pm at Pippin Hill Farm & Vineyards You’ll perfect the art of the pizza toss, and experiment with a variety of toppings and flavor profiles. Following the hands-on cooking demonstration, you’ll enjoy a family-style dinner. 434-202-8063, pippinhillfarm.com

The Legwarmers: The Ultimate 80s Tribute Band

January 17, 9pm at the Jefferson Theater Remember the 80s? The Legwarmers don’t just remember, they relive them.

434-245-4980, jeffersontheater.com

Wassail 2020

January 18, 4–8pm at Castle Hill Cider Wassail parties originated centuries ago in England to awaken the apple trees and wish them a healthy growing season. Continue the tradition with music, Wahoo BBQ and delicious cider. 434-296-0047, castlehillcider.com

10th Annual Grand Marquee Gala YOU CAN HELP!

January 25, 7pm at The Paramount Theater The evening includes entertainment, food & drink, a silent auction, raffle and dancing on the stage. Proceeds benefits The Paramount.

434-293-1009, theparamount.net

Valentine’s Day Dinner & Dancing

February 14, 6:30pm at Veritas Vineyard & Winery Treat your loved one to a five-course, winepaired dinner in Saddleback Hall, followed by music and dancing. 540-456-8000, veritaswines.com

Kendall Street Company’s A Loveboat Supreme

February 14, 8:30pm at the Jefferson Theater Enjoy improvised rock and a world of jazzgrass infused psychedelic bliss. 800-594-8499, jeffersontheater.com

Lewis Black – It Gets Better Every Day

February 28, 8pm at The Paramount Theater Hear from this popular performer, a brilliant trifecta of a stand-up comedian, actor and author. 434-979-1333, theparamount.net

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For My Special Valentines Homemade French Macarons

by Julie Snyder

A special Valentine’s Day treat is easier to make than you may think, so get the family involved in crafting these pint-sized treats. Grab some cellophane bags and pretty ribbon, and package them up to make gifts for all your Valentines.

MERINGUE: • 6 room temperature egg whites • 1 cup white granulated sugar • ½ teaspoon cream of tartar • 1 teaspoon vanilla extract • 2¾ cups almond flour • 2 cups powdered sugar • Red gel food coloring (for pink color: about two drops; for red: six drops or more) Preheat oven to 300 degrees. Using the whisk attachment of an electric mixer, whisk the egg whites and cream of tartar on a low speed until frothy, then increase the speed to medium and whisk until it turns fluffy white. Continue whisking, and add the granulated sugar 1/3 cup at a time. Increase speed to high, and add vanilla extract. Continue whisking until mixture forms stiff peaks. (Test by removing the whisk and holding it upright to see if the meringue stands up and does not fold over.) In a separate bowl, whisk together the almond flour and powdered sugar until

well combined and is a fine powder.

Using a rubber spatula, mix half of the dry ingredients into the meringue by scraping the sides of the bowl and folding into the center. When just combined, add drops of red coloring until desired color is reached. Add remaining half of the dry ingredients into the batter, continuing the method of scraping sides and folding over. Batter should have a “lava-like” consistency and fall off of the spatula in a ribbonlike pattern (not in clumps). If too thick, continue scraping and folding.

COOKIES: Prepare the cookie sheet with a silicone baking mat or parchment paper. Using a piping bag with a plain round ¼-inch tip, fill the bag with the meringue mixture and pipe the batter onto the cookie sheet, about 1 inch in diameter and a ½ to 1 inch apart (batter will spread).

Once the cookie sheet is full, tap the tray to release any air bubbles. Let the tray sit until “skin” forms (you can run a finger over the cookie and batter does not stick). This time can vary, but takes about 15–30 minutes. Bake for 10–12 minutes. Cookies will rise and form “feet.” To know if baking is complete, touch top of cookie shell, if the cookie “wiggles” it needs another minute or two. If it sticks, it’s complete. Let cool

completely before removing from the sheet. (Tip: When using more than one cookie sheet, bake one sheet at a time for more even baking.)

FILLING & ASSEMBLING THE MACARONS: Use any recipe for the center! It can be a simple buttercream, ganache, jam, or secret homemade family recipe. Try vanilla, chocolate, lemon, raspberry, anything!

VANILLA BUTTERCREAM FILLING: • ¼ cup butter • 2½ cups powdered sugar • 1 teaspoon vanilla • Dash of milk if needed Cream together butter, powdered sugar and vanilla until smooth and creamy. Add milk if needed. Match up cookies, fill with filling and enjoy! Makes approximately 50 macarons.

Julie is a new mom who began Mercer Macs after countless orders for weddings and other events kept coming in. You can find her on facebook.

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Valentine’s Heart Box

by Jennifer Carroll

This is a beautiful craft you can make for yourself or give as a gift. One method for creating is by using a Cricut paper-cutting machine (directions are on my blog). The other method is by using an editable PDF and scissors, which makes it an easy craft for anyone.

SUPPLIES: • Valentine heart-shaped box pattern (find it in my FREE Resource Library) • Adobe Acrobat Reader • Cardstock or thin cardboard • Printer

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Scissors Hot glue gun with glue sticks Glitter Glitter trays Mod Podge Foam tip brush

PATTERN: Sign up to receive my email newsletter, and you’ll be sent a password to access the library. Log in, download the file “Valentine Heart-Shaped Box Pattern PDF,” and print onto card stock. Once it’s printed, use scissors to cut it out.

Kindness Month With February being Kindness Month, we wanted to support the idea that “Kindness counts every day in every way.” We hope you enjoy these books that encourage kindness and teach empathy, compassion and gratitude.

ABC’s of Kindness

by Samantha Berger Kindness Counts 1, 2, 3

by R.A. Strong Launching this February, both of these books by Highlights address ways kids can be kind to themselves and everyone around them.

THE BOX: Prep the side panels by bending the “teeth” of the rectangle sides so they’re ready to attach.

You also want to bend the little flap on the top pieces. Assemble the bottom by taking one rectangle and placing it at the center “v” of the heart. You want to hold it firmly against that point. Then, add a drop of hot glue to a few of the tabs and begin adhering them to the bottom. Keep adding a drop to a few tabs and shaping the box until it’s all attached. Then, repeat starting at the other side of the “v.” You will have some wrap around. Give that a little squeeze to encourage the crease and some glue to attach it. I also recommend taking a little strip and folding it in half and attaching it to the “v” at the inside top to help secure the seam.

The Monster Who Lost His Mean

by Tiffany Strelitz Haber This is the hilarious story of a monster who can’t be mean anymore. With the help of friends, he discovers it’s who you are that matters.

Just as you did with the bottom, you’re going to attach the top; except this time, you’ll be gluing to the underside. Put a dot of glue on a couple of tabs and attach following the curve of the heart. Once one side is complete, pick up your second rectangle and start with the tab at the opposite side to help secure together with a bit of glue. Now add some sparkle! You’ll need some Mod Podge, glitter, a foam brush and some glitter trays.

Simply brush on a thin coat of mod podge and sprinkle glitter onto the side of the box, over your glitter tray. Repeat as you work your way around the sides of the box. I used a combination of coarse and fine glitter for interest. Allow it to dry, and ta-da!

Last Stop on Market Street

by Matt de la Peña In this #1 New York Times bestseller, CJ wonders why they don’t have what others have. His grandmother’s encouraging answers help him see the beauty and fun in their routine.

Jennifer, a Southern gal with a thirst for all things creative, wears many hats—a photographer, blogger, designer and home entertainer. From cooking to decorating, no matter what she is doing, she is committed to celebrating everyday life. Visit celebratingeverydaylife.com.

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Parenting As a Team 6 Ways to Work Together in the New Year

New Mom

Good things come in twos: eyes, ears, hands and feet, and even parenting partners. When a family welcomes home a newborn, there’s an abundance of both joy and work. Having a trustworthy and equal partner to share the experience in lockstep with mom makes a huge difference. Not only does co-parenting make it easier to manage feedings, naps, diaper changes, cuddle sessions and evening fussy times, but it also keeps family members close and connected during a time of many changes.

A new mother’s co-parent may be her partner, her own parent, a sibling or friend, or a hired helper. Whomever mom chooses, a good partnership is defined by the following: Mutual respect for one another, and above all, trustworthiness. Philosopher Onora O’Neill explains in her oft-streamed TED talk that trustworthiness is defined by honesty, competence and reliability.

by Whitney Woollerton Morrill A shared parenting philosophy. Babies and children thrive in safe, loving, consistent environments. Make sure you and your partner agree on major topics, such as baby’s diet, naps, daily routine and health care. As baby grows, partners need to discuss approaches to discipline, sleep training and work/ childcare balance.

Good communication. Even with the best of intentions, co-parents sometimes misunderstand and disagree with one another. Start discussions with the premise that everyone’s doing his/her best—especially on limited sleep. Don’t argue in front of your child, and remember that you and your partner are on the same team. You both also don’t need to give an answer to your stance or opinion right away. If you need, take time to talk things through in a respectful matter. That will not only take care of your relationship but also take care of your baby.

Complementary strengths. Do you excel at soothing a For other helpful advice on cranky baby but recoil from the bulb syringe? Work with how to better parent as a your partner to divide and conquer the tasks that suit you team, check out The Center best and least. And, check-in frequently to make sure the for Parenting Education at workload stays balanced.

A willingness to compromise. Maybe you’re not a huge centerforparentingeducation.org. fan of family counseling, but your partner’s overwhelmed by new parenthood and wants some professional guidance. Or, perhaps you want to nurse your baby for a year, but to do so would impact family work schedules. There may be no perfect answer, but there’s almost always a middle ground. If no solution emerges immediately, give it some time. Sleep a little, and try again.

Presence. During the early months at home with a newborn, we need as many arms as Goddess Shiva to unfurl baby’s limbs for a feeding, and to hold one another close. Being there for each other means putting our phones down to change a diaper or cuddle as a family. If you both agree to posting photos online, consider doing so in moderation so you can still embrace the meaningful peace and togetherness that the family needs, and notice the small things.

It’s love, presence and forbearance that make a family, one that your sweet wee one needs from the start.

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Expert Advice

Your Parenting Questions Answered

Dear Bob

by Bob Taibbi

Will I spoil my child if I go to her every time she cries?

A lot has changed in our parenting approach in the last generation—much of it shaped by our knowledge and awareness of child attachment and with it the need to create a foundation of trust and safety in those critical beginning months and years. The short answer is no. Children need to be comforted and certainly not be ignored when they are upset. This helps them build a view of the world that it is safe and that people are there to care for each other.

That said, children, even young children, also need to learn how to self-regulate and self-soothe. As you already instinctively know, there are different types of cries: the scraped knee or being sad because grandma just left are different from the frustrated cry or the minor upset when she falls down.

For serious distress like the knee or grandma, you want to comfort her. But, you can distract her from a frustrated cry, or reassure or use humor for her falling down. What you want to avoid doing is making too big a deal about every cry. If you overreact to each cry, this feeds into her distress, encourages her to rely on you for comfort rather than self-soothing and subtly trains her to use crying to get your attention.

When and how should I begin using discipline with my child?

I think of discipline as having two purposes. One is to teach your child about appropriate and inappropriate behavior like not hitting others or putting rocks in your mouth. The other is to help children learn self-control.

Before 12 months old, your primary strategy is simple distraction and redirection. If, for example, your 6-month-old is pulling your hair, you move his hands away and give him something else to hold. Between 12 and 24 months, you can begin to set down basic rules, such as no hitting. If your child does try to hit you out of frustration, say, “we don’t hit,” and then redirect. You can also say “no” in instances like when your child heads for the electrical outlet. She won’t know Email your parenting concerns what “no” actually means, but if you say it in a firm voice and and queries to editor@ then redirect her, she’ll begin to understand that she needs to IvyLifeandStyleMedia.com. stay away from them (obviously baby-proof your house in advance Yours might be included in as well). an upcoming issue!

What you don’t want to do is give a long explanation, because your child can’t understand what you’re saying and your message is therefore diluted. One sentence is enough for your child to take in at this age.

Between 24 and 36 months, you can begin to use time-outs. The key to timeouts is being calm (not angry) when using them. The purpose is not punishment, but rather creating a short space to self-regulate. A phrase that could be helpful is: “You seem to be getting upset. I think you and I need a time-out for a couple of minutes to calm down.” Have a time-out chair or space, and you can teach your child to take some deep breaths to help him settle on his own. And, no matter your child’s age or stage, follow through is key and will help everyone in the long run.

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Winter Safety Tips

Healthy Family

Keeping Every Age Safe, Healthy & Warm Between never-ending school illnesses and bad weather, it’s hard to keep your children safe and healthy during winter months. “You want your kid to be able to explore and play without you hovering, worrying or saying no,” says Dr. Katherine Smyth, a pediatrician at Sentara Palmyra Medical Associates. “It takes time to get there… but there are things that make it easier on everyone.”

Safety around the house. If you use a wood-burning stove or fireplace, put a barrier in front of it that young children can’t move and be sure to install a carbon monoxide detector. Teach older children fireplace safety and establish rules about who can light fires and when. Smyth recommends skipping space heaters if you have toddlers or cruisers. If you have to have one, put it in a place a child can’t reach, and look for a space heater with safety features, like if it gets turned over it turns off, and watch out for cords.

Colds and flu. “Last winter, around 80,000 people in the country died from the

by Katharine Paljug flu and flu complications,” Smyth shares. Your best protection is flu shots for the entire family, along with good hygiene and hand-washing.

“When you sneeze, if you don’t cover your mouth, there’s 18 to 25 feet that the sneeze can go,” Smyth explains. “And, the flu is viable for 24 hours after it lands on a surface.” She recommends teaching kids to sneeze and cough into their elbows, rather than their hands, and to avoid touching their mouths and eyes.

When kids get home from school, have them wash their hands right away.

Small colds in the winter are unavoidable and not always a bad thing.

“Catching some colds, especially in [a child’s] first few years, is associated with having a better immune system,” Smyth explains. “A few colds are okay if you’re a kid with a normal immune system… More important than the virus itself are signs like respiratory distress or a fever for more than 48 hours.”

Cold weather clothing. Dressing children of any age for cold weather is a challenge. According to Smyth, newborns and babies should have one more layer than adults at room temperature, two more layers if it’s below 50 degrees Fahrenheit and another layer if it’s below freezing. “Always add a hat with little guys,” she advises. “We lose a lot of body heat from our head.”

For other safety advice for Toddlers and preschoolers should wear heavy socks, kids of all ages, especially scarves, hats and mittens. “Make sure they’ve got really good when partaking in winter gloves and socks on, because you won’t want their extremities activities, visit safekids.org. to get cold,” Smyth advises. “The nice thing about little kids is if they’re uncomfortable, they’re not going to hold it in.”

With elementary school children, it’s okay to let them pick what they wear. “If they’re going to school or playing where they can go back inside to get comfortable, make sure they have the layers available that you have for yourself, and then let them wear what they need,” says Smyth. “Throw the gloves in their pocket should she realize she wants them.”

It’s also a good idea, says Smyth, to let middle and high schoolers be in charge of their own winter gear. “Your preteen or your teen is going to forget their gloves sometimes, and they’ll have to put their hands in their pockets. That’s okay,” she says. “Little mistakes like that are great for them to learn from… You have to start trusting older kids to be a little responsible.”

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{living well food & family}

by Jennifer Carroll

“Love yourself enough to live a healthy lifestyle.”

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Veggie Mac Yummy + Healthy

My daughter and I love macaroni and cheese, and I thought it would be a great idea to add in some cauliflower to sneak a few more veggies into both of our diets. So, I played a bit with my favorite mac ‘n cheese recipe and have devised this Veggie Mac recipe.

It’s so yummy! The creaminess of the cheesy noodles is one of my favorite parts, but I do like a little bit of crunch, too. So, I decided to add a crumble topping made from a combination of bread crumbs and one of our absolute favorite crunchy treats— Cheez-Its! I figured they’re crunchy and cheesy—a perfect fit for the topping.

Veggie Mac Ingredients • 8 oz. pasta (I used shells but any type will do) • ½ head cauliflower, chopped • ¾ teaspoon salt • 4 tablespoons butter • 2 ½ tablespoons flour • 3 cups milk • 8 oz. extra sharp cheddar, grated • 4 oz. Gruyere, grated • 4 oz. Parmesan, grated • ¼ cup Parmesan bread crumbs • ¼ cup Cheez-It crackers, crumbled

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Instructions Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Spray a 9- by 13-inch pan with cooking spray and set aside. Bring a large pot of water to a boil, add salt and pasta, and boil according to package directions.

When the pasta has just five minutes left in its cooking time, add cauliflower to the boiling pasta water. When the pasta and the cauliflower are tender, drain and set aside. Melt butter in a pot (I use the same pot I just cooked the pasta in to save on cleanup), add flour and stir constantly allowing the flour to cook for a couple of moments (this takes away the raw flour taste). Slowly pour in milk, stirring constantly until thickened (about four minutes or so). Add cheese, and stir until melted and sauce is smooth. Taste sauce at this point, and add salt and pepper as desired. Add pasta to sauce, and stir to coat. Pour into prepared pan and top with Parmesan bread crumbs and crumbled Cheez-Its. Bake at 350 degrees for 30 minutes, and allow to rest for about five minutes before serving.

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NEW YEAR, NEW HOME 4 New Year's Resolutions for Your Family's Nest

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At the beginning of every year, we find ourselves setting goals for everything from being healthier to spending more time with loved ones. Many of us also welcome the New Year with a fresh perspective, wanting to give our homes a new and cleansed look. No matter whether we aim to better organize and de-clutter or conquer a few small home projects, setting goals and creating a plan are great ways to meet and complete these resolutions. So, here are a few of our favorite projects that can help you jumpstart your home this new year and enter the new decade with purpose.

Cleaning & Organizing Every Room After the holidays, the entire house can feel overwhelming, but perhaps none more so than the kitchen and living room.

These areas of the house get the most traffic throughout the holiday season, and often become more disheveled than usual. Deep cleaning and reorganizing these rooms can jump-start the rest of the home and make the process of tidying up seem less daunting.

Consider beginning with the most time-consuming and labor-intensive tasks first. For instance, in the kitchen, take time to deep clean your oven and fridge.

Both appliances see intense use during this time of year, and a deep clean helps them—and you—to run more smoothly.

By emptying your fridge to clean it, you create an opportunity to also reorganize the content and trash any expired items.

This same concept can apply to your pantry. Cleaning the places you store food also gives you an opportunity to start fresh and replace expired goods with healthier

options. Remember those resolutions!

sure no needles are left underneath. As

Next, tackle the part of the kitchen

you take down the rest of your holiday

you (and others!) see most often. Having

decorations, be sure to either throw away

a clear counter and knowing where

or fix broken ornaments now, as well

everything is located allows you to create

as donate decorations that go unused.

without distractions. So, while you are in

This de-clutters any storage space you

the organizing and purging mood, analyze

use throughout the rest of the year and

what tools and gadgets you actually use,

makes next year that much easier. Your

and how often. Kitchen gadgets and tools

couch has also likely seen a lot of use and

that aren’t used regularly take up valuable

could use a deep clean as it enters a new

space, so find a system that works for your

year. Spot-clean any stains from holiday

family but that also limits little fingers

entertaining, and clean underneath the

from getting to sharp tools or chemicals

cushions to get out those pesky crumbs.

that can be harmful. Perhaps this process

Finish your post-holiday overhaul by

includes installing a few floating shelves,

wiping down baseboards, side tables and

storing items like spices and oils near

knick-knacks.

the stovetop, or putting away heavy-duty tools that aren’t used on a daily basis.

Cleaning the holiday clutter will also help jump-start the organizing in the rest

Like the kitchen, the living room

of your house. New toys from the holiday

receives heightened use over the holidays.

season create an excellent reason to go

After removing your tree, begin with

through all of your child’s toys together,

vacuuming up all the dropped pine

organizing

needles. Use this opportunity to vacuum

child has outgrown or no longer wants.

everywhere. Yes, everywhere, including

Organizing together helps your child

moving the couch, throw rugs and any

know where to put things back and makes

other furniture near the tree to make

it easier to maintain the new system you

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remove buildup on any shower heads and

made to mimic the spectrum available

sort through any clothes and books to be

clear any clogged drains. Empty out any

from traditional wood. Installing this in

donated. Consider using boxes from the

beauty products and toiletries in your

a lighter, warmer shade makes a room

holiday season to transport items you’re

bathroom cabinets. Only keep those you

appear brighter, while going with a darker

getting rid of, or to help sort your child’s

use regularly, and reorganize the items

shade can add depth to an already bright

belongings once you have de-cluttered.

you keep as they go back into the cabinets.

space.

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is carpet. The durability and comfort

After re-organizing and streamlining your kid’s spaces, do the same to the other

Another cost-effective flooring option

rooms. Empty the closets and donate any

After deep cleaning and reorganizing

of carpeting makes it a great choice

clothes that have not been worn over the

your home, you may notice parts of the

for certain areas, such as kids’ rooms

past year. If you are unsure about what

house that should be added to this year’s

or hallways. However, be sure to keep

to get rid of, begin the year by trying the

home

worn-down

carpet away from outside doors entering

well known practice of flipping all of your

floors—whether installing new flooring or

the home that welcome in more dirt,

hangers backwards and turning them

simply adding a new rug—can completely

leaves, moisture, etc. Carpet also comes

around correctly after wearing that item—

change the look of your home. Floors can

in a wide variety of colors, patterns and

any hangers that remain backwards at

create the illusion of a bigger or brighter

styles, and is versatile enough to be a

the end of the year probably do not get

room, and an update can greatly impact

bold color that complements a space or

enough use to justify keeping. Once you

the space.

a neutral tone that ties it all together. For

have gone through closets, vacuum any

projects.

Changing

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families with pets and/or small children,

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another

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holiday season, such as underneath beds

affordable, yet durable, alternative is

cleaned frequently to keep everyone in

or the corners of closets.

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the family healthy and allergy free.

Finally, cleaning the bathrooms will

like hardwood, it’s stain-resistant and

If you’re not ready to commit to a

have you feeling refreshed and motivate

easy to clean, making it great for families

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you to tackle daily tasks. Deep-clean the

with younger children and pets. Vinyl

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floors, including the grout if you have tile,

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changing, and you can’t scroll online

a bold look, a multicolored, patterned rug

without finding constant inspiration for

can become the centerpiece of a room,

chic new tiles and slabs. Bold trends are

completely altering the space with its

great options if you’re looking to spice

presence. If you’re looking to complement

up your kitchen and make a statement,

a space rather than add a statement,

but subtler shifts in style may be more

a pastel or neutral-toned pattern adds

realistic for your update.

interest without becoming the focal point.

One way to add some flair to your

Rugs can even be added to hallways and

kitchen is with metal or glossy-finished

will bring life into this high-traffic space.

backsplashes. These options don’t have to

While a backsplash literally protects your walls from getting damaged by all the cooking and cleaning in the kitchen, it can also set the mood for the whole space.

be fully chrome, but a slighter sheen can

Freshen Up Backsplashes

amplify the natural light in your kitchen.

With winter comes the temptation

At nighttime, use interior or under-cabinet

to stay inside all day and bake or cook

lighting to bring out your tile. You can use

up some comfort food or warm treats. It

anything from pennies to a zinc sheet to

helps to have an inviting kitchen where

play with this trend.

you can hide out. Instead of undergoing

There are other ways to add texture to

a whole kitchen renovation, a simple

kitchen walls. A tile medallion is an ode to

way to revamp the space is to redo your

classic architecture while adding a focal

backsplash. It’s only a quick day’s project

point for the eye on the middle of the wall.

for an experienced tile setter. While a

Experts recommend using a medallion

backsplash literally protects your walls

to highlight a large centerpiece to your

from getting damaged by all the cooking

kitchen, such as above the stove. Another

and cleaning in the kitchen, it can also set

trend is copper slate tiles, which have a

the mood for the whole space.

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SUMMER ON THE

Stage Reflections of A Theater Camper

by Katherine Ludwig

I was not one of those kids who experienced your traditional, Norman Rockwell type of sleep-away summer camp, the kind where you ride a bus to a remote rural location and learn to swim or ride a horse or have your first kiss at sunset in the off-limits area between the boys and girls cabins. Oh, I went to camp all right. But, mine involved learning to be a tree, not playing in one ... I went to theater arts camp!

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Y

ou can probably imagine

feigned drunkenness as my prepubescent

drop me off with the other campers who

what teens and tweens

self could muster. It worked. I got the

ranged in age from 10 (I was, in fact, the

would

a

scholarship and a big laugh. I pronounced

youngest) to a whopping 18 years old.

theater audition in 1985—

myself a woman of the theater and

(In the theater, we don’t see age or even

lots of loud songs from Annie. By the time

set my sights on Broadway. I attended

gender as limitations, after all.) They’d

my audition slot came up, the director of

camp for several summers, and though

return to retrieve me eight hours later.

the program had had a long day of little

I never did make it to Broadway, I’m

The “Playhouse” is the performing arts

orphan after little orphan. Thanks to my

grateful for my summers on the stage.

center of Point Park University and has its

teacher’s creative thinking, I’d instead

Though untraditional perhaps, I learned

own professional theatre company and

dressed up as Miss Hannigan, complete

some universal survival skills and had

several adult and student productions

with wig, bathrobe and ripped pantyhose

quintessential camp experiences all the

throughout the year, so there were always

and performed the slimy “Little Girls” with

same.

colorful

perform

for

as much cynicism, emotional depth and

Each day for camp, my parents would

theater

characters

hanging

around the place. My parents truly must CharlottesvilleFamily.com

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have felt they were leaving their babe in

minds and voices for an hour each

philosophies in Thailand and India, so

the woods. Turns out, theater camp is not

morning. All 100 or so campers would

naturally, we’d also spend part of our

that different from traditional wilderness

convene on the Rockwell Theatre stage

morning ritual lying on the floor and

camp—at least, some of the same bases

and the programs director would lead

meditating to clear our heads for serious

are covered.

us through a series of weird stretches

acting—very challenging for a 10-year-

and contortionist movements that were

old to do, let me tell you. Typically, I’d

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spend those awful minutes either trying

First off, there was physical exercise.

mental faculties primed for the hard

not to fall asleep or trying not to laugh,

It wasn’t a ropes course or capture-the-

theater work that lay ahead. At the time,

anything to avoid being called out by the

flag, but I certainly burned calories and

I had no idea what we were doing, but

director, who’d once shouted at a young

learned teamwork those summers. In

when I took my first yoga class in college,

camper, “Leave the stage if you are not

addition to my two-hour dance class each

I realized that I already knew the sun

serious about your craft!” The boy—I

day (I went the musical theater route;

salute from theater camp! Our theater

think he was about 12—had begun to

the drama tract had stage movement

director was an ex-hippie who’d spent

giggle during the warm-up.

class instead), we warmed up our bodies,

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{resources camp guide} stretching came vocal exercises. We’d

area of Pittsburgh better than my parents,

sing scales and recite tongue twisters,

or that I came home one day raving that

and then we’d gather in a circle and join

I had found “the absolute best place for

hands for the “ball of energy” exercise …

bagels in the city.” The bagel craze had

the theater camp version of the campfire

yet to hit the mainstream or the “burbs”

song, if you will. Our director would tell

yet, and so I threw a fit when my parents

us to visualize this ball of energy in the

refused to drive me back into town on the

middle of the circle. We’d start by quietly

weekends for coffee and lox.

humming and then gradually get louder

I even had my first run-in with a

and louder until the ball of energy was

policeman, who scolded a friend and me

supposed to fill the entire stage. It wasn’t

for jaywalking across a four-lane road

“Row, Row, Row Your Boat” in the round,

on our way back to the theater. I think

but it was pretty cool.

he said, “You girls are going to get hurt crossing this busy street like that. Next

OUTDOOR SKILLS

time, use the crosswalk.” He was just

At my camp, the outdoors was not

giving us a warning, of course, but I guess

really involved. But, we did venture into

we felt compelled to give our new method

the sunshine for at least one hour each

acting skills a try. I don’t know how my

day. That’s when all of us were unleashed

friend did it. For my part, I recalled the

onto the streets of downtown Pittsburgh

emotional trauma of my dog Fozzy being

to find lunch from one of the college delis

hit by a car. Either way, we both coughed

or fast food restaurants along Forbes

up some tears and began whimpering

Avenue near the University of Pittsburgh.

about how sorry we were, that we were

At the time, it didn’t strike me as

late for our voice class and that we were

unwholesome or potentially dangerous

terribly worried we would get in trouble,

that I learned all the side streets, cross

hence the risking of our lives across the

streets and alleys around the Oakland

thoroughfare. Apparently, our fear and

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That first summer, I kept the endof-summer production a secret from my parents so they would be fully blown away when they came to see the show.

remorse was believable, because he

happened—Police raid? Aliens?—and all

agreed to drive us back to the theater in

the patrons had fled at once.

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for theater events, however, and the

I wasn’t bummed that I missed out on

staircase to the basement would be

ghost stories either. I’m pretty sure the

available. When such a thing happened

theater invented them. Every stage has at

during one of my stints at the Playhouse,

least a tale or two about a deceased old

a few of us jumped at the chance to

actress moping around and haunting the

dare each other into venturing down to

place or stage props going inexplicably

the haunted restaurant. We held hands

missing

The

down the stairs into the pitch black and

century-old Pittsburgh Playhouse was

stumbled about the place. If there had

no different. We had the Lady in White

once been tables and chairs, they had

and John Johns, among other notable

long been cleared. We could not see or

spectres. But, we even had a real historic

feel anything except the hairs standing

mystery and plenty of double-dog-dares

up on our own arms. And, there was that

to go with it.

dank, moldy, scary basement smell. “The

The

during

buildings

performances.

making

up

the

smell of death,” someone whispered.

playhouse had been several different

Suddenly, one of our group members

businesses over the last hundred years,

said he felt something touch his ankle.

including a social hall of sorts in the

Probably a mouse rather than a ghost, but

early part of the 20th century. The story

either way, we were out of there. Tripping

among the theater kids was that decades

over each other to get up the stairs, we

later, when the original theater was being

emerged into the light scared out of our

reestablished in the 1970s, a restaurant

wits, yet exhilarated. We began laughing

was discovered in the basement with

at how silly we were to be so scared until

plates still on the tables and food still

a girl in our group shouted with horror. “I

on the plates, albeit rotted and picked

left my dance bag down there!” Somehow

over from the subsequent rat population.

she convinced the bravest of our group

The chairs had been pushed out and

to go back down with her to retrieve

knocked over as if something terrible had

the bag, but when the two of them recont’d pg 60

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See ad page 60 Nike Sports Camps at UVA Charlottesville, VA 800-645-3226 ussportscamps.com Summer camps aimed to provide young players with the opportunity to improve their skills and have tons of fun. Camps offer both overnight and day camp options geared towards kids ages 9–18 of all ability levels.

See ad page 60 Oakland School Summer Program Troy, VA 434-293-9059 oaklandschool.net Five-week summer program with both day and boarding options, and a mix of academic support and traditional camp fun. Campers ages 6–13, enjoy small class sizes, 1:1 instruction and

recreational activities like horseback riding, swimming, archery, arts, nature study and more. See ad page 68 SOCA Charlottesville, VA 434-975-5025 socaspot.org SOCA’s flagship Blue Ridge Residential Soccer Academy provides U9–U16 players an all-inclusive soccer experience with daily training sessions, modern dormitories, great food, new turf field, a field house, pool and lounge. See a full line up of summer camps and academies.

See ad page 60 STEAM Discovery Academy Charlottesville, VA 434-987-3918 steamdiscoveryacademy.com STEAM Discovery Academy is offering STEAM and sports camps at both Charlottesville Catholic School and The Covenant School for students in grades K–12. They will have the opportunity to explore all aspects of STEAM: Science, Technology, Engineering, Art and Math.

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Triple C Camp Charlottesville, VA 434-293-2529 tripleccamp.com Day camp offering horseback riding, swimming, ropes/challenge course, nature, sports, music, art and more. Transportation available, meals included and optional weekly overnights. Licensed VA childcare.

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losing the bag, so that girl never did get it back, as far as I know. I always liked to think that maybe one of the old ghosts was thrilled to find herself some new tap shoes.

THE SKIT Every camp ends with a performance, right? My camp was no different. But, this was serious stage work, so no goofy renditions of “Grease” or “You’re a Good Man, Charlie Brown” for us. That first summer,

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EDUCATION: A Choice Decision

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What to Look for When Choosing the Best Private School for Your Child There are a host of reasons why parents send their children to private schools. For some it is a smaller teacher-student ratio and more individualized attention. For others, it is the religious grounding their children receive.

For others, still, it is to better address their student’s needs and cater to his academic timetable—be it a late bloomer or one who is gifted in math or art. But since no two schools are alike, where do parents begin their search for the right academic setting?

Most families start by talking with someone they know. It may be someone in the community or at work.

What’s important is that you ask people whose opinions you trust.

While investigating the options, avoid trying to find the “perfect school,” but rather look for a good fit—one that meets the child’s needs.

“When it comes to schools, there is no-one-sizefits-all,” says Maria Barber, retired private school headmistress. “Every academic setting has a different flavor, and one is not necessarily better than another.

It’s that one may be a better fit for your child than another.”

For this reason, look at your child’s needs, taking into account his strengths, weaknesses, interests and talents.

Also, consider what sort of learning environment he would be most comfortable in. A self-motivated learner, for example, may do well in a program where he gets to direct and carry out his own learning. But, a child in need of constant direction might be more suited to a structured environment.

by Denise Yearian

Next, make a list of what you want in a school, with top priorities and non-negotiables, such as class size, a strong art program or a religious affiliation at the top of that list. Be specific about ambiance, class size, teaching style, curriculum, the role of art and music, homework and where parents fit in the running of the school.

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{resources private schools} 2020 Guide to Private Schools See what the area’s private schools have to say about themselves, and use this guide as a starting point for your research to finding the right fit.

BLUE RIDGE SCHOOL

FROST MONTESSORI SCHOOL

NORTH BRANCH SCHOOL

434-985-2811, blueridgeschool.com Grades 9–12 This all-boys boarding school is committed to helping boys reach their potential through a character-based culture and personalized, structured, innovative learning practices in a college-preparatory, all-boarding community.

See ad page 65

434-979-5223, frostmontessori.com Ages 24 months–6 years An enriching child-centered Montessori curriculum that promotes development of the whole child (academic, social, emotional and physical components of each child are emphasized regularly). Excited learners emerge. See ad page 67

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GRYMES MEMORIAL SCHOOL

540-456-8450, north-branch-school.org Preschool–Grade 8 Rooted in a love of learning with an emphasis on hands-on projects, environmental stewardship, community involvement and cooperation. Students receive a foundation in academics, the arts and life skills, and experience outdoor time daily on the 11-acre campus. See ad page 68

434-220-7330, covenantschool.org Pre-K–Grade 12 A PK–12 non-denominational, co-educational day school, providing a Christian Liberal Arts and Sciences education within a vibrant school community. Students develop morally, intellectually and physically in a nurturing, college-preparatory environment.

See ad page 67

540-672-1010, grymesschool.org Pre-K–Grade 8 An independent day school set on 42 acres.

Small class sizes foster well rounded students and a love of learning with a curriculum that incorporates traditional values, creative arts, physical education and Spanish instruction starting in Pre K. See ad page 67

OAKLAND SCHOOL 434-293-9059, oaklandschool.net Ages 6–13 at admission A small co-educational day and boarding school that enables children with learning or attention differences to reach their academic and personal potential through small class sizes, a multi-sensory learning approach and individualized student programs.

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After the list has been made, call schools that are potential candidates and

that distance to let their child study or to spend quality time together.”

ask for information to be sent. Consider

Next, arrange to visit those schools

each one’s program, mission, services,

that meet your initial criteria. This will

faculty and administration. What makes

give you a feel for the school’s educational

the school unique? What is its teaching

and developmental philosophy. Note,

philosophy? Is there a vision for the

however, that even schools which adhere

future? Is there anything the school

to

does particularly well? What about the

tremendously different.

curriculum? Will it cater to your child’s talents and interests?

like-minded

philosophies

can

be

“A school that seemed to be the perfect fit on paper or over the phone

While cost and commuting distance

may prove otherwise once parents have

are factors, experts agree these are

visited,” says Smith. “And, the school they

hurdles that can be overcome.

weren’t initially drawn to may be ‘the

“It’s okay for parents to look at a school even if they don’t think they can

one.’ That’s why it’s important that you go, test it and feel it. See what it is like.”

afford it,” says Smith, another former

While visiting, spend a few minutes

private school headmaster. “Most have

talking with the principal or school

financial aid based on need, so it’s no big

administrator. Discuss your child’s needs

deal to ask about it.”

and ask if the school can meet those

As for commute, Barber suggests a ride as far as 30 minutes may be worth it

needs.

If possible, sit in on classes and

if the school has an environment where

observe

your child will be happy and thrive.

Record obvious facts such as school

the

teachers

and

students.

“Parents may be able to find someone to

and class size, ambiance as a whole and

carpool with,” she says. “Or, they may use

within individual classrooms, absence cont’d pg 69

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{resources private schools} TO-DO LIST OF CHOOSING A PRIVATE SCHOOL

• Be realistic. There’s no perfect school or one-size-fits-all academic setting.

Look for the best fit for your child.

• Make a list of your wants in a school.

Be specific and prioritize your list.

• Consider your child’s needs. Choose one that will foster his strengths, weaknesses, interests and talents.

A ClAssiCAl ChristiAn sChool • GrAdes K-12 Challenging Academics • Biblical Worldview Affordable Tuition • Small Class Sizes • Team Sports

• Make a list of schools that are potential candidates. Call and ask for information to be sent. Then, make an appointment to further investigate.

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• Consider a school, even if it is out of your price range. Many schools offer financial aid or scholarships.

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• Consider commute.

• Visit the school. Sit in on classes and observe how the students and teachers interact.

• Talk with the principal or school administrator. Ask specific questions and be realistic and honest in discussing your child’s strengths and weaknesses.

• Meet the teacher who would be teaching your child and consider how they will interact with each other.

• Keep a written record of what you observe.

• Talk with other parents whose children currently attend the school to find out what they do and don’t like.

• Take your child to visit once a decision has been made. If possible, let him meet the teacher and other students and sit in on the class.

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• Follow your instinct. You know your child and family situation the best.

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{resources private schools} PEABODY SCHOOL 434-296-6901, peabodyschool.org Pre-K–Grade 8 Offers in-depth programs to serve gifted and academically advanced students. A rich curriculum offers weekly experiences in world language, visual and performing arts, technology, athletics and service learning.

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REGENTS SCHOOL OF CHARLOTTESVILLE 434-293-0633, regents-school.org K–Grade 12 Independent, private school based on the classical Christian model. Challenging academics, small class sizes, fine arts and a growing athletic program. Raising up leaders who can discern truth, think logically and speak winsomely for the glory of God. See ad page 66

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ST. ANNE’S–BELFIELD SCHOOL 434-296-5106, stab.org Age 2–Grade 12 Dedicated to inspiring and preparing the next generation of exemplary citizens and visionary leaders. Boarding options are available in grades 9–12. See ad page 69

TANDEM FRIENDS SCHOOL 434-296-1303, tandemfs.org Grades 5–12 A co-educational day school rooted in Quaker values. Prepares young people for higher education and fulfilling lives of integrity, creative expression and service by pursuing intellectual, ethical, artistic and athletic ideals.

See ad page 69

THE VILLAGE SCHOOL

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Olivet Preschool at Olivet Presbyterian Church 2575 Garth Road, Charlottesville • 434.295.1367

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434-984-4404, villageschool.us Grades 5–8 Village School is a warm and welcoming place for girls to discover their strengths, find their own voices, and grow into confident, selfreliant and intellectually curious learners.

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or presence of a dress code and general demeanor of the students and teachers.

Also record the students’ reactions. Did they feel comfortable and relaxed, or anxious and uptight?

Ask for names of several parents whose children attend the school and would be willing to talk with you. Find out what they do and don’t like about the school. If you can, obtain a few names of parents who were not happy with the school and enrolled their children elsewhere. All

schools

have

success

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stories, but no school works for every child. So find out about a child who did not thrive there so you can get a balanced perspective.

Once you have visited several schools and narrowed your selection, return with your child. Have him meet the teacher, and if possible, spend time in the classroom with the other students. What was his reaction? Did he seem comfortable with the school? The teacher? Other students?

Finally, and most importantly, follow your intuition. You know your child better than anyone else. If you have done your homework, you’ll know if it’s the right school for your child.

“Sometimes it’s not necessarily a specific program or academic feature that lets parents know it’s a good match,” says Smith. “It’s that intangible feeling— that visceral reaction. They know this is a place where their child can grow and academically succeed.”

Denise is the former editor of two parenting magazines and the mother of three children.

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{until next time humorous reflections}

Revving the Wakeup Machine

A Dad’s Humorous Tales

by Rick Epstein

My dad said, “Look out, Ricky, here comes the Wakeup Machine!”

It was dawn on a school day, and my teenage-self was under the covers only half-asleep.

In his role of Wakeup Machine, my father would deliver a methodical series of quick slaps going up and down the length of my body two or three times. It didn’t hurt, but there was no way you could pretend to sleep through it. I liked the Wakeup Machine partly because it was funny, and mostly because even a rebellious young lout can enjoy a little father-son horseplay.

When the Machine stopped, I would crawl right out of bed to prove the Machine’s effectiveness and thereby encourage the old man’s last shred of playfulness.

Years later, when my daughter Marie was in elementary school, and gentler child-awakening techniques had failed, I applied the Wakeup Machine.

The result—howls of anger—was disappointing.

Getting Marie out of bed and into school should’ve been easy. The distance involved was only 1,000 feet. In fact, Marie Marie was conscientious could lie in her bed and and responsible in most look out her window and see it. But, there were a other ways, but when it few obstacles between came to arriving at school Marie and school: her on time, she just hadn’t tendency toward dreamy accepted the job. dawdling and morning crabbiness, and her casual attitude towards punctuality.

“Marie, wake up,” I’d croon, rubbing her back. She’d snarl, “Stop it!

I’m awake.” So, I’d desist and she’d go back to sleep. I’d resume, and she’d get really angry and sometimes cry.

At the breakfast table, Marie ate slowly, taking time out to build herself an enclosure with the cereal boxes.

I tried to get her to use a tablespoon for more efficient shoveling, but a teaspoon was the more-congenial implement in her aimless drift toward school.

Then, it was time to get dressed. Marie would carefully select a garment and carry it from room to room as if in a dream, until an adult would tell her to put it on. Then she’d say with aggrieved exasperation, “I AAAAMM!” We tried to send her out the door 15 minutes before school started. She would descend our front steps as

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slowly as if she were stepping onto the surface of an alien planet. If weather conditions had produced dew or frost, she would linger to write her name on our car windows.

Uh oh! A cat. Marie would crouch murmuring amiably as she stroked its back. It would be hard to say who seemed to have the looser schedule, the child or the cat.

Her route took her across ball fields that had no sidewalks to channel her progress, so Marie’s course was inefficient and meandering.

I asked her what she thinks about. “Are you looking for feathers or interesting rocks, or are you playing your secret games of pretend?”

“No,” she said. “I’m just thinking about going to school.” Ha! One morning, she left the house later than usual, so that night I asked her if she’d gotten to school on time. “Well, they hadn’t actually started any work. But, I wouldn’t say that I was ‘on time.’” You could hear the quotation marks around the phrase “on time” because it was the jargon of an alien culture.

Marie was conscientious and responsible in most other ways, but when it came to arriving at school on time, she just hadn’t accepted the job. I nagged her, trying to make the idea of punctuality adhere to her, but it was like using wet Scotch Tape.

She continued like that through high school, but after four years of college and two years of living away from home, she has changed. She’s back home now and working as a waitress on the other side of our little town.

When she has an early shift, she’s out of bed before dawn, and is washed, dressed and on her bicycle in the amount of time she used to spend gazing into her sock drawer.

Of course, I haven’t had trouble getting myself out of bed for many years. If the alarm goes off and I linger, my wife kicks me. I appreciate the support, and it does get me moving. But, I miss the Wakeup Machine. Back then, I was a fool, obedient only to my own teenage impulses, so Dad spoke to me entirely in admonitions. Consequently, his early-morning slaps were the highlight of our daily interaction. My lovely wife can kick me all she wants, but she’ll never replace the dear, old Wakeup Machine.

Rick can be reached at rickepstein@yahoo.com.

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