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Just Between Us…

PUBLISHERS

december 2018 Robin Johnson Bethke Jennifer Bryerton

CREATIVE DIRECTOR Robin Johnson Bethke EDITOR-IN-CHIEF Jennifer Bryerton TECHNICAL DIRECTOR Peter D. Bethke SENIOR EDITOR Sarah Pastorek

Dear Friends,

ONLINE EDITOR Madison Stanley CALENDAR EDITOR Caroline Hockenbury

One of my favorite holiday traditions is decorating the Christmas tree.

Every ornament has a story. There is the pretty one Aunt Susie gave us at our wedding, one we purchased backpacking in Italy before we had children, and another from a trip we took with the grandparents to Disney World. All of

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these conjure up scents, sounds and funny stories we reshare every year while

sipping cider and trying to make sure to route the youngest helpers towards

HOME & GARDEN EDITOR Becky Calvert

hanging the less fragile ornaments. Other decorations have a longer history,

FAMILY HEALTH EDITOR Katharine Paljug

like the shimmering glass bird my grandfather purchased for his bride when he

Carter Schotta, Jenny Stoltz

CONTRIBUTING WRITERS

Becky Calvert, Jennifer Carroll,

Rick Epstein, Ellen French,

set my husband made in kindergarten that always gets lots of giggles from our

Sylvia & Patrick Kibler, Janeen Lewis,

kids—it is a little hard to tell who’s who, but it is a treasured part of our own

Catherine Malone, Whitney Woollerton

family story.

Morrill, Katharine Paljug, Krissy Vick

was a young soldier stationed in Germany. There is also a painted clay nativity

One of my most beloved childhood ornaments is a large glass globe with a hand-painted scene. The year I was in second grade, I missed the class holiday party while I was home sharing chicken pox with my two younger sisters. Yes, my mother deserved an award that year. Not only were we all ill, but also our

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grandparents—her in-laws—came for the holidays, forcing us into quarantine upstairs. Just when you thought it couldn’t get any worse, our dog died. My favorite memory of that Christmas was Mrs. Dale, making an unprecedented teacher visit to our home, laden with coloring books and that very special glass ornament she had painted herself, just for me, of a little girl picking flowers.

Some 30 years later, this act of kindness comes back to us every year as we decorate our tree and muse about ideas for things we could do for our friends and neighbors that would be a special holiday surprise.

Wishing you a happy time with your family and joyful memories!

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Contents TABLE OF

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OUR TOWN

LIVING WELL

New Mom 24 Bonding with Baby

News 4

The Buzz Around Town 6

Are elementary-aged kids too young for smartphones?

Healthy Family 26 Knowing Anemia

Out & About Calendar 12 December Holiday Activities & Events for Families

Daytrip Fun! 20

Holiday Happenings

at Busch Gardens

Your Winning Picks for Family-Friendly Fun & Services

Deck The Halls 50

Thank you to everyone for voting for this year’s Family Favorite Awards. I hope you are able to venture to many fun and festive holiday outings this year, as well as enjoy the local gift ideas in this issue.

Happy Holidays!

UVA’s Fralin Art Museum Inspires Students to Write

Editor’s Pick!

Our Schools 10

2018 CharlottesvilleFamily Favorite Winners 38

Snapshot 8 Wesley Shelley, School Psychologist & Dad

INSPIRATION

Salt Dough Christmas Tree Ornaments

Raising A Giver 52

Seven Ways to Foster a Spirit of

Generosity in Kids

The Buddy Bench 58

Jackson-Via Strives to Redefine Kindness & Empathy

RESOURCES

Tips & Trends 28 Fabulous Finds and Fun

Give the Gift of Camp 22

Home & Garden 30 Interiorscaping

Food & Family 34 Better Dining Out Experiences

Local Handmade & Vintage 48 Holiday Gift Giving Ideas

Residential Camp is a Gift That Lasts a Lifetime

Buy Local Shopping Guide 49

Support Our Community

UNTIL NEXT TIME

It’s Not About the Gifts 64

A Dad’s Humorous Tales

34 So Love This!

“I’m looking forward to attending some of the shopping events (pg 17) like Horton Vineyards’ Holiday Shopping Days and finding unique gifts at local stores (pg 49).”

— Jenny, advertising consultant

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News

local buzz

Ivy Publications proudly sponsors: The Best Christmas Pageant Ever

Charlottesville Waldorf School Holiday Bazaar

Meals on Wheels Santa Picture Event & Holiday Gift Drive

Four County Players Mainstage November 30–December 16

Charlottesville Waldorf School December 1

Cardinal Point Winery December 1

The Polar Express

Toy Lift

Santa Pancake Breakfast

The Paramount Theater December 2

Fashion Square Mall December 7

Virginia Discovery Museum December 9

Moscow Ballet Presents: Great Russian Nutcracker

Charlottesville Ballet’s The Nutcracker

The Paramount Theater December 9

The Paramount Theater December 20–23

Tech Talk A globally renowned speaker specializing in educational technology engaged an audience of parents and community members at Albemarle High School last month. Kenneth Shelton, part of the California State Superintendent of Public Instruction’s Education Task Force, talked about the impact of technology on present generations and the anxiety surrounding the rapid digitization of the workspace. Although it may feel overwhelming to parents and educators alike that many students will take on jobs in the future that haven’t yet been created, Shelton argues that this is more cause for excitement than fear. The tech sphere is rife with opportunity, and digital assets can be leveraged for good—including bolstering social and emotional learning. The lecture was part of Albemarle County Public Schools’ Community Speaker Series that is pushing to promote innovation as a nationally recognized member of the League of Innovative Schools. Kenneth Shelton also has Certified Innovator status from Google and Distinguished Educator recognition from Apple.

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Giving the Gift of Life Beloved, local high school teacher Matt Shields has received a lot from his father over the years, so he felt it was only right to give back a meaningful gift. Shields pitched in to save his dad in the most personal way possible: by donating up one of his kidneys for transplant. His father, 75-year-old Bob Shields, has battled with high blood pressure and related kidney damage for years. Although he was initially reluctant to accept the offer from his son, who is a young father, his doctor encouraged him to consider how refusal would deny his son the opportunity to give the ultimate gift.

Shields, the after-school advisor of BACON, the Best All-Around Club of Nerds, will lead a post-surgery trip to Wallops Island with the club to observe the launch of their mini-satellites.

Turning Learners into Leaders

Music Video Earns Award

Peer teaching is beneficial for a long list of reasons: it encourages interactive exploration; pupils share a similar language, which promotes understanding; students reinforce what they already know by explaining material to others; and so on. It is for these benefits, and more, that Renaissance School makes the method a priority.

In late October, Environmental Science students from Renaissance invited eighth graders from Charlottesville Day School onto their campus to participate in a wide range of science activities. The session created a safe space for students to discuss everything from seismography to plate tectonics, and it culminated with the exciting eruption of a volcanic model. Renaissance School organizes peer teaching workshops like this two or more times a year, helping teach a diverse array of topics to younger students from area schools.

The music video “Right Now,” created by 80 Charlottesville High School (CHS) orchestra and choir students and Metro Nashville public schools’ (MNPS) group “Fab 5,” won a 2018 Advocacy in Action Award.

Music for All, a music education non-profit, acknowledged the video collaboration that was done in response to the August 11–12 events in Charlottesville. This past spring, the groups reconnected after the tragedy at Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School in Florida. Together, they recorded a second musical tribute of “Shine,” which was written by students at Stoneman Douglas. Music for All’s mission is “to create, provide and expand positively life-changing experiences through music for all.”

UVA® CHILDREN’S HOSPITAL & KOHL’S CARES. WORKING TO MAKE OUR CHILDREN HEALTHY Nationally close to 32% of school aged children are overweight or obese.

The Kohl’s Hoo’s Fit Program is a UVA® Children’s Fitness Clinic initiative whose mission is to promote healthy eating and active living among area children. It includes innovative nutrition education and fitness programs provided in schools and community centers.

Here are some tips to help set your child on a healthy path. Plan a family physical activity each week and make sure kids get one hour of exercise daily. Make meals at home and eat around the table. It’s never too soon for healthier lifestyle choices.

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Buzz

AROUND

TOWN Are elementary-aged kids too young for smartphones?

95% say “yes” “Children should be free to be children.

I think the smartphone adds a level of responsibility that—though they may fight for—they don’t need to be saddled with.”

– Kelly, Mom of three “They are not mature enough to have constant Internet access at their fingertips.”

– Crozet Mom of four “Kids spend too much time on electronics and not enough time just playing and dealing with the real world. Kids should be out playing and learning how do deal with problems. I used so much of my imagination as a kid and learned more than I ever would from a phone. I also believe it makes kids impatient. They do not know how to wait. Phones give them immediate information, contact with someone, etc.

There is no waiting for commercials to be over for the show to come one. Kids don’t learn patience and being polite at dinner or when waiting, they all have some tablet or phone to entertain them. I understand it is easier, but how many kids were asked what they did at school today and what was something fun they learned.”

– Sam, Mother of a little girl

5% say “no” “Times are changing. While it may not be the best thing for them, it’s almost inevitable.”

– Local Mom “There are certain things on smartphones that children should not be able to use, yes, but there are also good reasons for parents to equip their young one with a phone, such as when they are staying over at a friend’s house, traveling on a field trip, etc. We are able to get in touch with them immediately as well as track their whereabouts and know they are safe.”

– Louisa Mom of one “We have a child with diabetes, so this allows us to stay in the loop on her readings and levels while at school. It gives us a piece of mind and alerts us when we should reach out to the school for any reason.”

– Dad of two girls

Visit CharlottesvilleFamily.com to answer next month’s question:

Do you think it’s appropriate for parents to get their infant’s ears pierced?

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Baking Dreams Come True Lexy Smith, a 13-year-old battling epilepsy, cerebral palsy and a brain defect, is looking forward to a visit at Walt Disney World. After undergoing extensive treatment at the University of Virginia Hospital, she and her family will head to Disney in January thanks to New York nonprofit Baking Memories 4 Kids. After reaching out to and receiving a warm confirmation from the foundation, Lexy’s grateful mother withheld the ultimate secret for months. She finally broke the exciting news to her family at the beginning of November, gearing them up to make memories that will last a lifetime. Baking Memories 4 Kids bakes and sells chocolate chip cookies to help send deserving families to theme parks in Orlando, Florida. Their mission is to “give families the opportunity to create amazing, lifelong memories that may be a form of comfort for their journeys ahead.”

BIZ BITS OPENINGS Charlottesville Craft Collective Gracie Charlottesville, 1646 Seminole Trail

CLOSINGS

Read It Again, Sam, 214 E. Main St.

ANNOUNCEMENTS Derriére de Soie opened a second location in Downtown Roanoke, Virginia.

The Women’s Initiative expanded its weekly walk-in clinic hours by adding Friday mornings from 10am–12pm, as well as Monday evenings from 5–7pm at its main office location.

Submit Biz Bits to: editor@IvyPublications.com

Safety Comes First The physical education classroom is not only a place to wrestle with health and fitness topics but also a zone for kids to discuss safety. The Charlottesville branch of “Moms Demand Action,” a grassroots organization advocating for increased public safety and gun violence reduction, is teaming up with the Charlottesville City Schools to kickstart “Be Smart” conversations. The letters of “SMART” stand for a string of gun safety messages: “Secure your gun; Model responsible behavior; Ask about unsecured guns in other homes; Recognize the risks of teen suicide; and Tell your peers.” Through this partnership, Moms Demand Action and participating schools hope to equip students with potentially life-saving information and encourage families to safely store any and all weapons in their homes. By setting this example, the organization is hopeful that schools in surrounding regions will pursue similar campaigns. To get involved and to find more information, visit momsdemandaction.org.

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SNAPshot written & photographed

by Sylvia & Patrick Kibler

Wesley Shelley School Psychologist & Dad A school psychologist in Charlottesville, Wesley Shelley specializes in comprehensive evaluations for ADD/ADHD, learning disabilities in reading, writing, math (dyslexia, dysgraphia and dyscalculia) and Autism, providing students with answers for why they are struggling and how they can move forward. This dad of three school-aged children also provides programs for students who either: study hard but test poorly; need support to stay organized and on-top of their work; and are consumed by screentime. Shelley has worked in local schools since 2006 before also launching his own practice in 2016.

What are the best and most challenging parts about your job?

I’m spoiled by my job. Let’s face it, there aren’t many people who get to spend hours working 1:1 with a student, really getting to know them and how they think and process the world. I also get to support parents as they understand their child, and support and advocate for them in and out of school. I still work part-time in the local schools, and this is perhaps the most challenging part of my work. I believe intensely in the mission of public education, and there are countless teachers out there going the extra mile for their students every single day.

What inspired you to become a school psychologist?

After graduating from college, I worked at a residential school in New Hampshire. We worked with boys who didn’t make it in public schools. Our job was to help them be students and friends: staying in class, managing their frustrations, connecting with peers and adults, and resolving conflict. One night after work, a group of staff was reflecting on our work, and one of the leaders said, “School, by nature, is a dehumanizing process. Our job is to make it as humane as possible.” At 24, that struck me. At 40-something, and as a father, that resonates deep within. Above all, I want to make this process personal and walk closely with families on their road of parenting.

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How have you grown and changed over the years?

Fatherhood has changed me dramatically. It’s incredibly rewarding, demanding, healing, exhausting, exhilarating and, above all, humbling. I think, nowadays, I can better appreciate where parents are when they come to share their hopes and fears. I probably tear up more often in my meetings with parents. My hopes for the future are twofold. I hope to increase awareness of how screen-time can impact the mental health of our youth and work with families to battle these effects. Secondly, I want to raise awareness about those students who consistently work hard and study hard but test poorly.

What advice do you have for parents and their youth who are aspiring to help others through their careers?

Several years ago, one of my good friends died from cancer. But, these experiences force us to reflect and ask tough questions about this world, this life and what really matters. Our world needs people who consider how their behaviors affect others, people who can accept responsibility and leaders who can heal broken relationships. As a parent, I try to model humility and forgiveness. It takes courage for any of us—kids, teens or adults—to reflect and say, “I made a mistake and wronged you. Please forgive me.”

What is your favorite childhood book?

I didn’t read much growing up; I was outside playing nearly all the time, or fiddling with Legos. But over the past decade, I’ve become quite a picture book fanatic. I never tire of The Day the Crayons Quit, Rhyming Dust Bunnies and The Book With No Pictures. And, there aren’t times sweeter than snuggling with your kiddo over a good book.

Sylvia and Patrick, parents of five rambunctious children, are a husband and wife team in the Charlottesville area who focus on lifestyle photography, weddings and portraiture. See their work at sylviakiblerphotography.com.

We have plenty of affordable activities for your family this winter.

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Register online at www.charlottesville.org/parksandrec or call (434) 970-3260 CharlottesvilleFamily.com

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SPORTS ZONE

Schools photo by coe sweet photography

by Krissy Vick

UVA’s Fralin Art Museum Inspires Students to Write Nearly 2,000 Charlottesville City School students in grades three through eight visited the Fralin Museum of Art at the University of Virginia to participate in an annual program that combines art appreciation and literacy.

Writer’s Eye offers interactive tours of the Fralin to encourage students of all ages to use art as inspiration for writing original poetry and prose. The program culminates with a writing competition that publishes the top three entries in each age group in the annual Writer’s Eye Anthology.

“For many of our students, visiting an art museum is a new experience,” says Charlottesville City Schools Literacy Coordinator Jen Davis. “The Writer’s Eye program helps our students look at art through a detailed lens and produce creatively written pieces using the art as the springboard.”

While touring the museum, students view a special collection of 12 original works ranging from a 1910 Edward Henry Potthast oil painting, “The Balloon Vender,” to more contemporary pieces like Nigerian artist Njideka Akunyili Crosby’s

mixed-media work, “Home: As you See Me.” Then, the group begins writing about their observations, emotions and feelings evoked by the artwork, a concept known as ekphrasis.

Museum docents help young writers consider their own human experiences using prompts such as, “Does this painting remind you of a place you’ve been or an experience you’ve had?” and “Imagine a conversation between the figures in this painting—what are they talking about?”

Walker Upper Elementary teacher Jennifer Snyder visited the museum with students who are learning English as a second language. “It was amazing to see how these students were able to think deeply about small details in the artwork and then put their ideas down on paper,” she says.

Following the visit, students complete their writing back at school and have the option to submit their final works for the contest. Charlottesville students have been well represented among past winners, who are honored at an awards ceremony and reception each March.

Krissy is the Community Relations Liaison for Charlottesville City Schools.

She can be reached at goodnews@charlottesvilleschools.org.

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Suiting Up as a National All Star For athletes, jerseys are the ultimate source of pride. They are emblems of team spirit and symbols of dedication. Holding up an All-American jersey, though, fills a player with a whole new level of joy. Louisa County senior and football linebacker Brandon Smith received that very honor at a special celebratory ceremony at his school last month. In addition to earning cross-country recognition for his athletic talents, he landed a spot on the field for the annual Under Armour All-State football game this upcoming January, which convenes the strongest senior athletes in the sport nationally for one all-star event. Current NFL stars have also padded up for the same game in the past. Smith looks forward to representing Virginia and his county at the nationally televised event.

Although Smith certainly stands out as the Jefferson District Defensive Player of the Year and as an unstoppable tackling force, he ultimately puts his team before himself. He hopes to help his squad maintain their undefeated season record and lead them to a state title win.

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HOLIDAY EVENTS, LIGHTS & SANTA VISITS Cookies with Santa

Now–December 9 at Stonefield Children enjoy one-on-one time and a photo with Santa, and share cookies at this holiday event. jlcville.org

Check out our online calendar for more local family events and fun!

YOU CAN HELP!

Breakfast with Santa & Carriage Ride

Now–December 22, Saturdays, 9–11am at The Boar’s Head Inn Glide on a horse-drawn carriage through the resort and enjoy a traditional breakfast as children whisper Christmas wishes in Santa’s ear. 434-972-2230, boarsheadinn.com

Legendary Santa

Now–December 24 at Children’s Museum of Richmond – Central Visit Santa at the Children’s Museum of Richmond and celebrate an 82-year local tradition. 804-474-7009, c-mor.org

ZooLights

DECEMBER 2018

Now–January 1, 5–9pm at the National Zoo, Washington, D.C. More than 500,000 environmentally-friendly LED lights transform the Zoo into a winter wonderland. Enjoy a dazzling light show set to music. 202-633-8743, nationalzoo.si.edu

Celebration of Holiday Lights

Now–January 1, 5–11pm at Gypsy Hill Park, Staunton Drive through the 214-acre park aglow with charming night-time scenes, most homemade by local organizations and businesses.

540-886-8660, celebrationoflights.org

Maymont Mansion Holiday Tours

Now–January 6, 12–5pm at Maymont Mansion, Richmond Lavish decorations and old-timey activities bring a Victorian Christmas to life.

804-358-7166, maymont.org

Dominion GardenFest of Lights

Now–January 7, 5–10pm at Lewis Ginter Botanical Garden A holiday tradition featuring more than half a million lights, botanical decorations, trains, holiday activities and more.

804-262-9887, lewisginter.org

Holiday Open House at Montpelier

December 1, 9am–4pm at James Madison’s Montpelier Tour the Madisons’ decorated home, visit with Santa, enjoy hands-on history activities for kids and delicious dining options for all.

540-672-2728, montpelier.org

Barracks Road Annual Holiday Parade

December 1, 9:30am at Barracks Road Shopping Center Annual hometown parade with costumed characters, antique cars, live animals, Santa Claus, marching bands and more.

434-977-9233, barracksroad.com

Meals on Wheels Santa Picture Event & Holiday Gift Drive

YOU CAN HELP!

December 1, 1–4pm at Cardinal Point Winery, Afton Have a blast with Santa and help your neighbors in need. Decorate cookies, enjoy hot chocolate and groove to music, too.

CharlottesvilleFamily is a proud sponsor!

434-293-4364, cvillemeals.org

Caroling in the Caverns

YOU

CAN December 1, 6–8pm HELP! at Grand Caverns, Grottoes Candlelight tours and performances inside Grand Caverns. Proceeds benefit the South River Club and the Grottoes Ruritan Scholarship Fund.

540-249-5705, grandcaverns.com

Virginia Gingerbread House Competition

YOU CAN HELP!

December 2–5 at Omni Hotel This year’s theme is “Favorite Holiday Book.”

Creations will be on display from December 2–5 at the Omni with free admission.

434-295-1885, rmhcharlottesville.org

12th Annual Let There Be Light: An Outdoor Art Exhibit

December 7, 6–9pm at Piedmont Virginia Community College An evening of light-centered art and performances illuminating the outdoors for one night only. Rain date December 8.

434-961-5376, pvcc.edu

BARRACKS ROAD ANNUAL HOLIDAY PARADE

December 1, 9:30am at Barracks Road Shopping Center. See this page.

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Holiday Evening Tours

December 7–8, 14–15, 21–23 & 26–30, 5:30pm, 5:45pm & 6pm each evening at Thomas Jefferson’s Monticello Experience Monticello after dark, historically decorated and illuminated. The tour, about 1.5 hours, is not recommended for children under 6. 434-984-9800, monticello.org

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10th Annual Holiday Heritage Parade December 8, 10am at Charlottesville Downtown Mall Celebrate national and community history and culture with marching bands, floats, performers and more. Santa and Mrs. Claus will be there, too. 434-295-9073, downtowncharlottesville.net

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Children’s Holiday Festival

December 9, 8:30am & 11am at Amazement Square, Lynchburg Enjoy a pancake breakfast and photos with Santa, holiday crafts, science demonstrations and all-day admission.

434-845-1888, amazementsquare.com

Santa Pancake Breakfast

December 9, 9am, 9:20am, 11:30am & 11:45am at Virginia Discovery Museum Enjoy a yummy breakfast and meet with Santa, too. CharlottesvilleFamily is a proud sponsor! 434-977-1025, vadm.org

Santa and Mrs. Claus at Pharsalia

December 9, 1–5pm at Pharsalia, Tyro Join Santa and Mrs. Claus for a day of stories, crafts and Christmas cheer. Professional photos with Santa and snacks are included.

434-277-5231, pharsaliaevents.com

Night of a Thousand Lights

YOU CAN HELP!

December 14–15, 6–9pm at Prospect Hill Plantation Inn, Louisa See Prospect Hill amid the soft glow of more than 100 hand-lit candles and countless sparkling lights, enjoy photos with Santa and shop local vendors. Proceeds will go the Young Life Louisa. 540-967-0844, prospecthill.com

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After Hours at Highland

December 14–15 & 28–29, 4:30–6:30pm at James Monroe’s Highland Enjoy an after hours holiday tour. Open hearth cooks will lead participants in making Monroe-era desserts, which guests can munch on by candlelight. 434-293-8000, highland.org

Holiday Lantern Tours

December 14–16 & 21–23, 6–8pm at The Frontier Culture Museum, Staunton Glimpse Christmas’ past and experience stories from around the world. Ages 3+.

540-332-7850, frontiermuseum.org 401 PARK STREET • CHARLOT TESVILLE, VA

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December 16, 5–7pm at ACAC Downtown Charlottesville Admire the Holiday lights around town, then step inside ACAC to enjoy festive perks like face-painting, crafts, music, a hot cocoa bar and more. 434-984-3800, acac.com

HOLIDAY ARTS & CRAFTS Gingerbread Workshops

Now–December 23, Sundays, 1–3pm at The Boar’s Head Inn Spend a fun afternoon with Santa and Mrs. Claus building your own edible masterpiece.

855-220-6620, boarsheadinn.com

Holiday Craft Extravaganza

December 5, 6:30–8:30pm at Northside Library Make some gifts for the holidays at multiple stations with different craft choices. Holiday refreshments will be available, too. Ages 14+.

434-973-7893, jmrl.org

Holiday Gift Making for Kids

December 8 & 15 at Lewis & Clark Exploratory Center Children can make holiday gifts, including bracelets, wreaths and more.

434-979-2425, lewisandclarkvirginia.org

Crafternoon

December 12, 4:30–5:30pm at Crozet Library Construct a holiday-worthy craft out of vibrant wool and learn the art of felting. Ages 7–12.

Registration required. 434-823-4050, jmrl.org

Family Art Drop-In

December 14, 3–4:30pm at Northside Library Head to the library to make non-edible gingerbread houses. The library will provide glitter, glue and guaranteed fun. For children up to age 12. 434-973-7893, jmrl.org

Kids Holiday Craft Day

December 15, 12–4pm at Horton Vineyards, Gordonsville Bring the kids for tons of fun holiday crafts.

Adults can enjoy a glass of wine while their kids decorate ornaments and more in the tasting room. 800-829-4633, facebook.com/hortonvineyards

Blue Ridge Mountain Christmas

December 21–31 at Wintergreen Resort, Wintergreen Celebrate the season with holiday craft workshops, Santa on the slopes, storytime with Mrs. Claus and New Year’s Eve-style celebrations.

434-325-8180, wintergreenresort.com

NEW YEAR’S FUN New Year’s Eve Celebrations

December 31 at Wintergreen Resort, Wintergreen Ring in 2018 and watch stunning fireworks glimmer over the slopes. This party is perfect for everyone, including the kids.

434-325-2200, wintergreenresort.com

Noon Year’s Eve Bash

December 31, 9am–1pm at Science Museum of Virginia, Richmond Ring in the Noon Year with a countdown and a dramatic and quirky version of the traditional ball drop. 804-864-1400, smv.org

Noon Year’s Eve Family Dance Party

December 31, 11:15am–12pm at Northside Library Put on your dancing shoes and ring in the new year a few hours early with a familyfun dance party. Music and snacks will be provided. 434-973-7893, jmrl.org

New Year’s Eve Family Frolic

December 31, 2–5pm at the Lewis Ginter Botanical Garden, Richmond Enjoy an afternoon full of fun family activities, including a party hat crafting session, a concert and a parade. Stick around for the Dominion Energy GardenFest from 5–10pm. 804-262-9887, lewisginter.org

37th Annual First Night Virginia

December 31, 3pm–12am at Downtown Mall Ring in the New Year at this popular community arts fest featuring performers, a creation station, a kids’ fun zone and more.

See the website for the full event schedule.

434-975-8269, firstnightva.org

SPORTS & OUTDOORS Monticello Holiday Classic 5K and Deck the Halls Kids Dash!

December 1, 8–10am (8:10am kids dash, 8:20am 5K) at Monticello A family-oriented 5K. Kids 12 and under can enjoy the Deck the Halls Kids Dash.

434-984-9800, monticello.org

The 5th Annual Charlottesville Santa Fun Run & Walk a Mile

December 2, 9–10:30am check-in, 11am run and walk at the Sprint Pavilion This one-mile stroller and wheelchair-friendly course starts and finishes on the Downtown Mall. Proceeds benefit Arc of the Piedmont.

434-977-4002, arcpva.org

UVA Women’s Basketball

December 2, 5, 8 & 30 at John Paul Jones Arena Cheer on our ‘Hoos at home.

800-542-8821, virginiasports.com

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UVA Men’s Basketball

December 3, 9, 22 & 31 at John Paul Jones Arena Cheer on our ‘Hoos at home.

800-542-8821, virginiasports.com

Swimming with Santa

December 14, 5:30–8:30pm at Brooks Family YMCA Children will enjoy decorating Christmas cookies, doing arts and crafts, and swimming with Santa. Each child with have their picture taken with Santa. Dinner included in the fee.

434-974-9622, piedmontymca.org

STAGE & SCREEN The Best Christmas Pageant Ever

November 30–December 16 at Four County Players Mainstage, Barboursville This holiday-themed production, written

by Barbara Robinson and directed by Jane Gargett, will be presented on the Mainstage.

CharlottesvilleFamily is a proud sponsor!

540-832-5355, fourcp.org

Christmas with the Consort

December 1, 4:30pm & 7:30pm at First Presbyterian Church The Virginia Consort’s annual candlelight Christmas concert with the Youth Chorale.

Recommended for school-aged children and older. 434-244-8444, virginiaconsort.org

Family Holiday Concerts

December 1 & 2, 8pm Saturday, 3:30pm Sunday at UVA’s Old Cabell Hall The Charlottesville Symphony at the University of Virginia and the UVA University Singers join to present their annual Family Holiday Concerts. Recommended for ages 6+.

434-924-3376, cvillesymphony.org

Paramount at the Movies Presents: The Polar Express December 2, 11am & 2pm at The Paramount Theater See the timeless Christmas classic. The 11am screening is sensory-friendly, too.

CharlottesvilleFamily is a proud sponsor!

434-979-1333, theparamount.net

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The Nutcracker Mini-Suite

December 3, 4:30–5pm at Crozet Library The Albemarle Ballet Theatre dancers perform stories and scenes from the Nutcracker Suite.

Registration required. 434-823-4050, jmrl.org

Messiah Sing-In

December 4, 8pm at Old Cabell Hall, University of Virginia The University and Charlottesville communities come together to sing and perform one of the greatest oratorios ever written. This event benefits UVA choral ensembles. 434-924-3376, music.virginia.edu

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December 4–26 at The Blackfriars Playhouse, Staunton This family-friendly romp takes you on a Christmas journey through favorite holiday classics and then some. 540-851-1733, americanshakespearecenter.com

A Christmas Carol at the Blackfriars Playhouse

December 4–30 at The Blackfriars Playhouse, Staunton Experience the traditional tale with new twists, turns and surprises, and enjoy a festive production filled with cheer fitting for the whole family. 540-851-1733, americanshakespearecenter.com

Paramount at the Movies Presents: Elf December 8, 1pm & 6pm at The Paramount Theater You won’t want to miss these big-screen showings of the seasonal comedy classic.

434-979-1333, theparamount.net

Virginia Glee Club’s 78th Annual Christmas Concert

December 8, 8pm at First Presbyterian Church The UVA Glee Club performs seasonal favorites with plenty of audience participation and entertainment for the entire family. virginiagleeclub.org

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CharlottesvilleFamily is a proud sponsor!

434-227-7592, theparamount.net

Charlottesville Ballet’s The Nutcracker

December 20–23 at The V. Earl Dickinson Building at PVCC Charlottesville Ballet’s 90-minute production is sure to delight the entire family. Following select performances, children ages 3–8 can take a ballet class on stage with Clara and her friends. Class size is limited, so reserve soon.

Charlottesville Family is a proud sponsor!

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Marvelous Morning Matinee

December 27, 10:30–11am at Central Library Don’t miss the library’s annual showing of “The Snowman,” based on the book by Raymond Briggs. 434-979-7151, jmrl.org

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SHOPPING & SHARING YOU Mason’s Toy Box

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Now–December 10 at various locations around Charlottesville Donate new, unwrapped toys and gift cards. These gifts will be given to hospitalized children and their families. masonstoybox.org

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Green Valley Book Fair

Now–December 17 at 2192 Green Valley Ln., Mt. Crawford Encourage your child to read by expanding his or her home library. Enjoy a Holiday Open House on December 8 with photos with Santa, as well.

800-385-0099, gobookfair.com

Annual Pottery Club Sale

December 1, 9am–12pm at PVCC Hundreds of handmade mugs, bowls, vases, plates, casseroles, pitchers and works of art for prices between $5 and $75.

434-961-5219, pvcc.edu

Charlottesville Waldorf School Holiday Bazaar

December 1, 10am–4pm at Charlottesville Waldorf School Local artisans, raffle, handmade gifts, gift making for adults and children and children’s activities. CharlottesvilleFamily is a proud sponsor! 434-973-4946, facebook. com/charlottesville.holiday.bazaar

13th Annual Holiday Craftacular December 1, 10am–5pm at Carver Recreation Center at the Historic Jefferson School Annual holiday market with the best craftwork from Charlottesville, Waynesboro, Staunton, Richmond, Lynchburg and surrounding areas. craft-cville.com

Free Union Artisans’ Open House

December 1–2, 10am at Free Union Country School, Free Union Enjoy indoor holiday shopping, purchase professional artisans’ products and munch on treats galore. 434-971-3901, facebook.com/freeunioncraftshow

Holiday Shopping Days

December 2 & 9, 12–4pm at Horton Vineyards, Gordonsville Gifts for all ages and interests, with items priced at $5 or less so children can do their holiday shopping, too. 540-832-7440, hortonwine.com

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December 7 YOU CAN at Charlottesville Fashion Square Mall HELP! Bring an unwrapped new toy or make an online donation to help make a local child’s holiday bright. CharlottesvilleFamily is a proud sponsor! 434-975-8697, toylift.org

Holiday Group Show and Gift Market

December 7, 5:30–7:30pm at McGuffey Art Center Enjoy a festive afternoon looking at art and sifting through gifts.

434-295-7973, mcguffeyartcenter.com

2nd Annual Santa’s Shop Til You Drop Christmas Boutique

December 15, 10am–3pm at Best Western Plus Crossroads Inn & Suites You’ll find vendors, prize raffles, Swag Bags and more. facebook.com/likeabossllc

ESPECIALLY FOR TEENS Invitation to Weaving

December 1, 11am–12pm at Central Library Explore the work of weaving with local artist Andrea Korotky through hands-on demonstrations. Space is limited. Ages 16+.

434-979-7151, jmrl.org

Cosplay Party

December 3, 6:30–8pm at Northside Library Attend in costume or borrow apparel at the library. There will be a costume contest, trivia, special snacks and, of course, anime.

434-973-7893, jmrl.org

PICTURES & PAGES: Jan. 9, Feb. 6, Mar. 6 Story time with Children’s Librarian Glynis Welte.

BABIES IN ARTLAND: Mar. 12 Art conversation, with baby coos and cries encouraged.

Exam Cram

TODDLERS IN ARTLAND: Jan. 22, Feb. 26, Mar. 26 Introduction to development theory.

December 10–13, 15 & 17, 4–9pm weekdays, 9am–5pm Saturday at Crozet Library Reserved space and extended hours for high school students studying for midterms. Free snacks and beverages available. Contact the library to even reserve a group study room.

434-823-4050, jmrl.org

FUN FOR THE YOUNG: Jan. 23, Feb. 20, Mar. 20 Explore artwork through observation, play and projects.

FAMILY ART JAMs: Jan. 19, Feb. 16, Mar. 16 Age-appropriate tours with hands-on art activities.

uvafralinartmuseum.virginia.edu

museumoutreach@virginia.edu or 434.243.2050

Yule Ball

Join us for the Family Service at 4 pm Christmas Eve! All children are invited to participate.

December 15, 2–4pm at Northside Library Muggles and magic folk are invited to this winter, Harry Potter-themed party. Enjoy scrumptious snacks, magical music and a series of spell-binding activities.

434-973-7893, jmrl.org

Board in the Library

December 18, 6:30–8pm at Northside Library Play classic board games or try your hand at a Wii tournament in the Teen Room. Bring a friend or make a new one. Snacks will be provided. 434-973-7893, jmrl.org

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ESPECIALLY FOR PARENTS Drop & Shop Parents’ Survival Nights December 1 & 15, 6:45–9:45pm at The Little Gym Charlottesville 434-975-5437, thelittlegym.com

Teaching Your Teen To Drive

December 13, 6–7:30pm at Monticello High School A free seminar for parents before they enroll their teens in Behind-the-Wheel. Parents or guardians need only attend once if they have more than one child.

434-296-5820, www2.k12albemarle.org

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WITH LOCAL VENDORS Sundays, December 2 & 9 12pm - 4pm

Visit United Christian Academy Now–December 14, 8am–3pm at United Christian Academy 434-985-2947, ucacrusaders.com

MESA Open House

December 6, 5–7pm at Albemarle High School 434-975-9300, www2.k12albemarle.org

DATE NIGHT Missy Raines Trio

December 2, 8–10pm at The Front Porch Enjoy this trio’s rich, jazz-tinged combination of bluegrass and Americana.

201-925-4464, frontporchcville.org

Michie Tavern Yuletide Feast

December 7–8, 8pm seatings at Michie Tavern Enjoy a Yuletide Feast in the Tavern, decorated in festive 18th-century tradition.

434-977-1234, michietavern.com

White Christmas

December 21, 3pm & 7pm at The Paramount Theater See the classic movie at The Paramount Theater. 434-979-1333, theparamount.net

New Year’s Eve with Love Canon

Gifts for every size, shape, and age! Each vendor will have items priced at $5 or less, so children can do their holiday shopping too!

Please join us in our tasting room to help these local businesses grow, and enjoy some Horton wine!

December 31, 7pm doors, 8pm show at the Jefferson Theater Come out to see Love Canon and groove to some lively 80s tunes. VIP Tickets include a Meet & Greet Cocktail Hour.

800-594-8499, jeffersontheater.com

New Year’s Eve Masked Ball

December 31, 7pm–1am at Veritas Vineyard & Winery, Afton Ring in the New Year with a lavish five-course wine-paired dinner, mingling and a midnight buffet. Black tie optional.

540-456-8000, veritaswines.com

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Holiday Happenings at Busch Gardens In celebration of 10 years of Christmas Town, Busch Gardens, a two-hour drive from Charlottesville, will display more lights than ever—10 million. From November 17 through January 5, 2019, you’ll be able to make your way through a holiday event that will include the most lights of any other in North America. That’s at least 15 miles of lights to take in with the kids. But, even before the sun goes down, there’s plenty to see and do in this amazing transformation of the theme park into a holiday wonderland. At Santa’s Workshop, the kids can see the inner workings of the North Pole and get a photograph with the man in red himself. Make sure to dress warmly for this outdoor excursion, and indulge in some hot chocolate along the route. For the theme park lovers, many of the rides will remain open, despite the cooler weather. For a view over the park’s

transformation, take a turn on the skyride or the train. You’ll also find the new Christmas Town Express, a 1.5-mile tour with caroling, lights, themed vignettes and more. To continue with the holiday experience, sit down at one of the theme park’s eateries. There are several shows, including a cappella show “Gift of Harmony,” “Twas the Night” headlined by former Olympic skater Elvis Stojko, “Deck the Halls,” “Scrooge No More!” and “Gloria!,” along with the 50foot Christmas tree light show “O’Tannenbaum.” Sesame Street’s holiday show presents “Elmo’s Christmas Wish,” a new addition to an already enticing list of shows. Tickets in advance are necessary if you want to enjoy Santa’s Fireside feast, with cookies passed out

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Camp This holiday season, consider the gift of camp!

Now is the perfect time to begin exploring the variety of summer camp opportunities, and consider gift giving especially from grandparents! According to the American Camp Association, this is one gift that lasts the whole year, helping your camper grow in many ways!

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Bonding with Baby Combining Nature & Nurture for An Unbreakable Bond

New Mom

Nature equips mothers with powerful bonds to their babies. However, combining nature with nurture is a sure way to build an irreplaceable bond beginning in the womb.

Nature.

For babies, bonding with their mothers begins in utero. Research shows that a mother’s voice and scent are discernible above the swish-swish of her circulation and beat of her heart. For moms, the bond develops during pregnancy, with special peaks during ultrasounds and when baby begins to kick.

After delivery, the mother-child bond continues to grow, varying from mom to mom. For some, the second they lay eyes on their newborn, they connect. For other moms, it takes time. Be patient, though. The love is there, and will only strengthen.

Nature also promotes bonding by equipping newborns with tiny tummies,

by Whitney Woollerton Morrill and rapidly developing minds and bodies. Together, these two factors mean frequent feedings and, in turn, ample opportunities for mom and baby to connect. For maximum mealtime bonding, do go shirtless during feedings whenever possible for skin-to-skin contact. This is true when breastfeeding and/ or bottle-feeding your newborn. Skin-to-skin contact releases oxytocin, the feelgood hormone that engenders a feeling of love and connection between mother and child. Also, talk to your baby and look her in the eye while she’s at the breast/bottle. Put screens away so they won’t distract you, smile and coo. Your attentive presence tells her you love her and are there for her. In a couple of months, she’ll pause mid-feeding to flash you a grin, which is one of the all-time best jackpots of parenting.

Nurture.

Baby-wearing: Whether you choose a front carrier or sling, wearing baby keeps him snuggled up to your warmth, scent and heartbeat. What could be more comforting. Dr. William Sears, pediatrician, author and advocate of “attachment For more professionals and parenting,” credits baby-wearing with positive outcomes parenting groups who can support you and baby building for babies such as reduced crying, improved learning and a bond, see the "Connect" tab better sleep. He writes, “It is natural for baby to be close on CharlottesvilleFamily.com. to his mother. Babies are happiest when being held by mom.

Baby wearing is a great practice for keeping baby happy and to help build a stronger bond between mom and her baby.”

Baby wearing also keeps your hands free to move around and tend to tasks.

Bathing: At the end of a busy day, a calming activity for mom and baby is a bath together. The warm water, the sound of a slow trickle from the faucet and skin-to-skin contact can set the stage for a calm evening. Baby can prop up on your legs facing you, with her feet on your tummy. Hold her safely in place and enjoy her as she takes in the sights and smells. This is a magical time that can build into an evening routine, signaling the coming of rest for both of you.

Reading: A baby’s never too young to be read to. He won’t understand the words, but the varied intonation of your voice, the warmth of your arms and the sight of a book will make for a wonderful time together.

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Knowing Anemia

Healthy Family

How to Recognize & Prevent at Any Age Your child has always been healthy and active, but lately, you noticed instead of playing, she’s tired all the time, her skin looks ashy, and she seems oddly irritable. Individually, these symptoms might not seem too bad. But together, they may indicate your child has anemia.

What is anemia? “A child with anemia can’t deliver as much oxygen to their cells, so their bodies struggle to do the things like think, run and play,” says Dr. Gretchen Brantley, a pediatrician at Piedmont Pediatrics.

Anemia can indicate an underlying health problem and can also be caused by prolonged bleeding, such as an intestinal injury or heavy menstruation. But, the most common cause of anemia is not getting enough iron. In iron-deficiency anemia, low iron leads to a low red blood cell count.

“In infants and preschoolers, iron-deficiency anemia can cause developmental

by Katharine Paljug delays and behavioral disturbances,” says Brantley. “Developmental problems can become permanent [at any age] if the iron deficiency is not treated.”

Symptoms. The most common signs of anemia are fatigue and weakness.

Other signs include: Pale or ashy skin; irregular heartbeat; difficulty breathing; chest pain; headache; dizziness or light-headedness; and irritability or fussiness.

If your child regularly experiences any of these symptoms, talk to your doctor.

Symptoms can take time to show up, so the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) advises pediatricians to screen all children for anemia throughout their development. Catching the condition early allows it to be treated more quickly.

“Most doctors screen for anemia when children are 1 year old,” says Brantley, “because rapid growth is a potential cause of iron deficiency, and the first year of life and adolescence are age groups where infants and children are especially prone to anemia.” Many doctors will also screen adolescent or teenage girls after they begin menstruating.

Preventing. Iron-deficiency anemia is easily preventable.

“Breastfed babies will have an adequate supply of iron until at least 4 months of age,” says Brantley. She recommends that breastfeeding moms include iron-rich foods in their diets.

To learn more about Formula-fed babies should be given formula fortified with preventing and managing iron, and babies under 1 should not be given cow’s milk, anemia, visit the American as it can cause blood loss in the stool and decrease iron Academy of Pediatrics’ absorption. The AAP recommends that children drink no website healthychildren.org. more than 24 ounces of cow’s milk a day to lower the risk of iron deficiency. For older children, a balanced diet is the best way to prevent anemia. Iron-dense foods include red meat, yellow vegetables and fruits, green vegetables, tomatoes, egg yolks, raisins and iron-fortified cereals. Eating foods rich in vitamin C. As for supplements, “A multivitamin with iron is almost never harmful, but… vitamins and minerals are always better absorbed when they are taken in their natural form,” advises Brantley. Ask a doctor before giving your child any.

Treating. Anemia caused by a chronic condition may never go away completely, but it can be managed. Anemia caused by iron deficiency, on the other hand, is easy to treat with a diet full of iron-rich foods. Once your child’s iron levels are back up, continue to encourage a varied diet full of essential nutrients. This will help prevent future instances of iron deficiency, along with other health conditions.

FURTHER READING

Katharine is a freelance writer, Bloom’s Family Health Editor and mother to one busy toddler. You can see more of her work at katharine-writes.com.

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{living well tips & trends} When Life Gives You Lululemons

by Lauren Weisberger

Lauren Weisberger, the author of The Devil Wears Prada, released her newest novel that’s set in Greenwich, Connecticut, and that tells the story of three friends who face life-altering changes. It’s a fun, easy read that’s perfect during the holiday season.

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Holiday Shopping, Streamlined 1.

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Stay Organized. Keep a running list of gifts you have purchased, noting the date purchased and price. This will help you maintain your budget and keep your sanity.

Make Time for Downtime. Plan to do some holiday shopping with a friend. Make lunch reservations or stop for a cocktail after. You’ll also have less of a crowd earier on.

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Make Gift Wrapping Fun. Put on some holiday tunes, make some hot chocolate and invite friends over to wrap together. Set up a wrapping station and get in the spirit.

Shop for Yourself. While shopping for others, keep your eyes open for any gifts you might like and snap a photo to start a running list to share with others.

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THE ON BEING PROJECT On Being with Krista Tippett is your antidote to the business of the season, as she interviews writers, scientists, psychologists and artists to discuss the deeper, more meaningful questions surrounding being human. Available for free download.

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“Winter is the time for comfort, for good food and warmth, for the touch of a friendly hand and for a talk beside the fire: it is the time for home.”

– Edith Sitwell

Interiorscaping

Bringing the Outdoors In

words by Becky Calvert

“Interiorscaping” is more than just having houseplants.

It’s about incorporating plants into your décor in a thoughtful and purposeful way, such as placing a taller plant in a room with a vaulted ceiling or having a row of succulents along a window ledge.

House plants bring in a little bit of the outdoors, while adding color and improving indoor air quality by adding oxygen and removing toxins like mold and mildew. Some plants can be seasonal—either refugees from the outdoors during the winter months or winter holiday plants like poinsettias or forced bulbs—while other plants may be part of your interiorscape all year long.

When placing plants indoors, consider the conditions, such as how much light and water is needed, and what are the preferred temperatures and humidity needed.

Some plants can be fussier than others, but there are a number of plants that are considered hardier than others

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when it comes to neglect. Spider plants, jade, aloe, snake plants (aka, mother-in-law’s tongue), rubber plants, golden pothos, philodendrons, cactus and schefflera are among the houseplants considered hardest to kill. Most prefer indirect light and are forgiving if you forget to water them regularly. Succulents and air plants are other easy-to-carefor additions to your interiorscape. For a more dramatic look, consider some taller, more tropical plants like a fiddle leaf fern, palm, bromeliad or even an orchid or two.

Houseplants don’t require regular fertilizing but do appreciate a repotting from time to time. Don’t let them sit in saucers of water for long periods of time and be sure to clear dropped leaves from pots. Most houseplants are easy to please while adding to your home’s ambiance. Start with a few low maintenance plants before turning your home into a full on terrarium, and see how much interiorscaping can add to your décor.

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Slab Pies, the unfussy method of baking a pie in a sheet pan that easily serves a crowd or your family dinner, are featured in this new cookbook by food writer Cathy Barrow. Enjoy over 75 recipes of sweet and savory with a variety of crusts. Available at barnesandnoble.com for $25.20.

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{living well home & garden} Cake: A Cookbook

by Maira Kalman & Barbara Scott-Goodman

Celebrating all that is good about cake, this whimsical book features Kalman's illustrations and Scott-Goodman's recipes for a cozy, little down-home tome on everyone's favorite desserts.

This book is perfect for birthday cakes, holiday parties and more. Available at barnesandnoble.com for $15.17.

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Handmade, hand-glazed, handdecorated, CrazyCatLadyCeramics combines beautiful floral motifs with animal portraits on these one-of-akind mugs, perfect for your afternoon tea or morning coffee. Available at O’Suzannah for $48.

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The warm, soft glow of light given off by candles is an easy way to add atmosphere to those shorter, darker days of winter. The first burn of a candle is the most important one, as they should burn one hour for every inch of diameter to avoid creating a memory ring. A candle will continue to tunnel and burn the same way every time after that first burn, so it is necessary to ensure the top layer of wax is liquefied that first time. Be careful to not burn a candle past four hours at a time.

Always keep the wicks trimmed to about 1/8 of an inch, and use scissors to trim them. Candles should never be burned in a drafty area, nor should they be stored near bright sunlight. Never burn a candle in an item not made specifically for holding a lit candle. To remove wax drippings, run the item under warm water or place in freezer and the wax should pop right off.

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{living well food & family} words and photos by Sylvia & Patrick Kibler

“A recipe is a story that ends with a good meal.”

– Pat Conroy

Y L H S E FR D E T S A RO Husband and wife duo, John and Lynelle Lawrence, first started selling coffee in the mid 90s from a cart on the downtown mall. At the time, there were no other coffee shops in the area, and their novel idea of beginning one of their own was seen as risky. But today, their passion for their community and freshly roasted coffee has helped expand Mudhouse Coffee to three different locations and a geisha coffee farm in western Panama where they will harvest their first production crop in early 2020. Godparents to three girls, this couple strives to offer spaces that are warm and inviting to all walks of life, encouraging dialogue and a strong sense of community. Mixed in with the delicious coffee and good people, one can find local artists featured on the walls, further enhancing the vibe. After nearly 25 years of operation, Mudhouse Coffee is one the most recognized names in Virginia’s coffee industry, and they even earned the prestigious “Roaster of the Year” award in 2017.

What inspired you to begin a coffeehouse?

Lynelle: We wanted to open a community space for everyone, one where there was open dialogue and free expression, where kids could sit next to city council members and have a conversation, where attorneys and skaters all felt it was theirs, where art and music people and beautiful coffee all smashed up into one another.

John: Lynelle and I were travelling in Alaska in the early 90s, and we spent a lot of time in this cool coffeehouse in Anchorage.

Driving back from camping on the beach near Homer, I had said, “I think we should start a coffeehouse in Virginia and

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Mudhouse Coffee take something back to our community.” There weren’t any coffeehouses on the East Coast at that time. We went to a lot of banks, and they thought we were crazy.

What are your favorite recipes to make?

Vegetable soup from the garden.

What’s your favorite blend of coffee?

Thomas Jefferson Airplane Blend.

Do you have any current projects at work?

We are opening a new coffeehouse in the Tenth Street Warehouses next to the new Peloton Station Cafe. We have a roof deck, a mezzanine level for a DJ and communal tables in every space. We’re very excited about the coffee service we’ve designed. The second big project we’re working on is the geisha coffee farm we started on the Volcán Barú in western Panama with our coffee mentor Willem Boot and Kelly Hartmann of Finca Hartmann. We’ll have a small fly crop this winter and our first real production crop in early 2020.

What was your favorite book as a child?

Lynelle: Judith Kerr’s book The Tiger Who Came to Tea. John: A. M. Lightner’s book Star Dog. What is one of your first food memories?

Lynelle: My father had given me a spoonful of coffee when I was little. I might have been in the high chair. He loved coffee.

American Girl Baking: Recipes for Cookies, Cupcakes & More

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Table Talk: A Book About Table Manners

by Julia Cook, Illustrations by Anita DuFalla

In this funny, yet educational, tale, Cook tells the story from the perspective of the Dinner Table. Fitting for grades K–6, this book is filled with advice and how-tos for explaining proper etiquette around the dinner table. Available at barnesandnoble.com for $10.95.

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Whom do you admire, and why?

Lynelle: Patti Smith; she’s the real deal in every way.

John: Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. for his profound and enduring moral teachings.

Walking through the MLK Memorial in Washington, DC at night fills a person and is one my most inspirational experiences.

I also love Patti Smith.

What traits do you find admirable in others?

Lynelle: Ethical discipline.

John: Breeziness and a clear mind.

Where do you love to eat out locally?

Lynelle: Bizou; their chicken ragout is ridiculous.

John: Bang (kale tortellini), C&O Restaurant (lamb gnocchi) and Blue Ridge Pig out in Nellysford (smoked turkey croissant, dill potato salad, a limeade and all the barbecues). Also Maru, Downtown (everything).

What is the best advice your parents have ever given you?

Lynelle: Dream it first, and then make it happen.

John: I remember my father teaching me what spite was and how not to do that.

What is your favorite go-to snack?

Lynelle: I could eat a million digestives.

John: I am an animal. I just want comfort food.

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Can you share a recipe that is quick and easy to make with kids that they, too, will love?

Lynelle: Spoonfuls of coffee.

John: My mom would core and slice an apple crosswise and smear peanut butter on the slices, and we’d have little apple and peanut butter sandwiches.

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If you could have a super power what would it be?

John: To grant everyone eternal happiness.

Lynelle: Hey, I was going to say that.

Why is it important to teach children about healthy eating?

Lynelle: Green is good, and the plate is a blank canvas, so put as many colors on it as you can.

John: Our body is our vehicle, like a car, except we can’t trade it in for a new one.

Why is it important to give back to the community?

That’s where real happiness comes from … for everyone involved.

What advice do you have for parents when eating out with kids?

Lynelle: My mother would frame it as choices, and sugar wasn’t on the list. We could have carrots, peas or broccoli, so we grew up with the freedom of choice.

John: What Lynelle said, but in my house it was, “Ok. You don’t want to eat your spinach? Fine. That will be the next thing you eat. You can have it for breakfast.”

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FAMILY FUN FAMILY DAYTRIP (WITHIN 3 HOURS) 1. Washington, D.C. 2. Richmond 3. Williamsburg FESTIVAL 1. Crozet Arts & Crafts Festival 2. Tom Tom Founders Festival 3. The Festy Experience HIKE 1. Humpback Rock 2. Sugar Hollow 3. Crabtree Falls HISTORIC ATTRACTION (WITHIN 1 HOUR) 1. Thomas Jefferson’s Monticello 2. Frontier Culture Museum 3. James Madison’s Montpelier CHILDREN’S MUSEUM 1. Virginia Discovery Museum (pg 20) 2. Amazement Square 3. Children’s Museum of Richmond LOCAL RESORT/SPA 1. Boar’s Head Resort 2. The Omni Homestead Resort 3. The Greenbrier Resort

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We asked and you answered! More than 1,300 of you shared your favorite places to eat, shop and play in the seventh annual CharlottesvilleFamily Favorite Awards.

Discover the top vote getters here!

SPORTS RESORT 1. Wintergreen Resort 2. Massanutten Resort 3. Snowshoe Mountain

PRIVATE POOL 1. ACAC Adventure Central (pg 23) 2. Fry’s Spring Beach Club 3. Farmington Country Club

MOVIE THEATER 1. Alamo Drafthouse Cinema 2. Violet Crown Cinema 3. Regal Stonefield Stadium 14 & IMAX

PUBLIC POOL 1. Onesty Family Aquatic Center 2. YMCA (pg 15) 3. Smith Aquatic & Fitness Center

MUSIC VENUE 1. The Paramount Theater (pg 18) 2. UVA’s John Paul Jones Arena 3. Jefferson Theater (pg 14)

RAINY DAY OUTING 1. Bounce Play-n-Create 2. Virginia Discovery Museum (pg 20) 3. Jump Trampoline Park

CITY PARK/PLAYGROUND 1. Greenleaf Park (pg 9) 2. Azalea Park (pg 9) 3. McGuffey Park (pg 9)

STUDIOS FOR CRAFTING 1. Wine & Design 2. Lazy Daisy Ceramics & The Pottery Paintin’ Place 3. Muse Paintbar

COUNTY PARK/PLAYGROUND 1. Pen Park (pg 9) 2. Mint Springs Valley Park 3. Crozet YMCA (pg 15) PICK-YOUR-OWN FARM 1. Chiles Peach Orchard 2. Carter Mountain Orchard 3. Bellair Farm

THEATRE GROUP 1. American Shakespeare Center 2. Live Arts 3. Four County Players 3. Black Box Players THEME PARK 1. Busch Gardens 2. Great Wolf Lodge Water Park 3. Kings Dominion

UVA SPORTS TEAM 1. Basketball 2. Baseball 3. Football ZOO 1. Metro Richmond Zoo 2. Virginia Safari Park 3. Natural Bridge Zoo PARTIES & PORTRAITS LOCAL BAKERY 1. Sweethaus Cupcake Café 2. Chandler’s Bakery 3. The Pie Chest PARTY ENTERTAINMENT 1. Bounce Play-n-Create 2. PowerPlay 3. Cville Inflatables with Superfun Attractions PARTY LOCATION 1. The Little Gym (pg 61) 2. ACAC (pg 23) 3. Bounce Play-n-Create

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LOCAL PARTY SUPPLIES 1. The Party Starts Here 2. Rock Paper Scissors PHOTOGRAPHER 1. 3 Cats Photo (pg 44) 2. Jen Fariello Photography 3. Robert Radifera Photography

Before school & evening appointments Gentle professional care

SHOPPING BABY GEAR & CLOTHING – LOCAL 1. Green Bean Baby Boutique 2. Whimsies 3. Here WEE Grow Again (pg 20)

BIKE SHOP 1. Blue Wheel Bicycle (pg 44) 2. Blue Ridge Cyclery 3. Crozet Bicycle Shop BOOKSTORE FOR KID’S TITLES – LOCAL 1. Shenanigans Toys (pg 49) 2. Over the Moon Bookstore & Artisan Gallery 3. New Dominion Bookshop (pg 42) BOOKSTORE FOR KID’S TITLES – NATIONAL 1. Barnes & Noble 2. Books-A-Million

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{inspiration family favorites} CHILDREN’S CLOTHING – LOCAL 1. Whimsies 2. Green Bean Baby Boutique

HOBBY SHOP 1. Michael’s Arts & Crafts 2. JO-ANN Fabrics & Crafts

CHILDREN’S CLOTHING – NATIONAL 1. Target 2. Old Navy 3. Gap Kids

JEWELRY BOUTIQUE 1. Schwarzschild, Keller & George Jewelers 2. Penelope 3. Fink’s Jewelers 3. Andrew Minton Jewelers

PET SUPPLIES – LOCAL 1. Animal Connections 2. Crate & Marrow 3. Natural Pet Essentials 3. Pet Supplies Plus PET SUPPLIES – NATIONAL 1. PetSmart 2. Pet Supplies Plus 3. Petco

LOCAL CUSTOM FRAME SHOP 1. Creative Framing & The Art Box 2. The Great Frame Up

KITCHEN GEAR & SUPPLIES – LOCAL 1. The Happy Cook

FARMERS MARKET LOCATION 1. Charlottesville City Market 2. Crozet Farmers Market 3. Green Market at Stonefield

KITCHEN GEAR & SUPPLIES – NATIONAL 1. Bed Bath & Beyond 2. Williams-Sonoma 3. HomeGoods

GROCERY STORE – LOCAL 1. Foods of All Nations 1. Rebecca’s Natural Foods (pg 35) 2. Reid Super-Save Market 3. Feast! (pg 35) 3. Integral Yoga

MATERNITY CLOTHING – LOCAL 1. Green Bean Baby Boutique

PLACE TO BUY JEANS 1. Jean Theory 2. Belk 3. Gap

MATERNITY CLOTHING – NATIONAL 1. Target 2. Motherhood Maternity 3. Old Navy

RESALE/CONSIGNMENT FOR KIDS – LOCAL 1. Here WEE Grow Again (pg 20) 2. Natalie Dressed 3. Schoolhouse Thrift Shop

MUSIC STORE 1. Stacy’s Music Shop 2. Plan 9 Music 3. Music & Arts Center

RESALE/CONSIGNMENT FOR KIDS – NATIONAL 1. Kid to Kid Charlottesville 2. Plato’s Closet

GROCERY STORE – NATIONAL 1. Wegmans 2. Trader Joe’s 3. Kroger

PLACE TO BUY GREEN 1. Green Bean Baby Boutique 2. Charlottesville City Market 3. Rebecca’s Natural Foods (pg 35)

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RESALE/CONSIGNMENT FOR WOMEN 1. ReThreads 2. Darling Boutique (pg 65) 3. Natalie Dressed

WOMEN’S CLOTHING – NATIONAL 1. Ann Taylor Loft 2. Belk 3. J. Jill

DERMATOLOGIST 1. Charlottesville Dermatology 2. Albemarle Dermatology Associates 3. Family Dermatology of Albemarle

SPORTING GOODS – LOCAL 1. Ragged Mountain Running Shop 2. Crozet Running Shop 3. Freestyle

HEALTH & WELLNESS ALTERNATIVE CARE PROVIDER 1. Downtown Family Health Care 2. Scott Wagner Chiropractic & Sports Medicine

FAMILY MEDICINE PRACTICE 1. Downtown Family Health Care 2. Family Medicine of Albemarle 2. Albemarle Center for Family Medicine (pg 46)

CHIROPRACTOR 1. Heppner Family Chiropractic & Wellness Center (pg 25) 2. Jubilee Chiropractic 3. Ivy Commons Chiropractic

HOSPITAL FOR CHILDREN’S HEALTH 1. UVA Children’s Hospital 2. Sentara Martha Jefferson Hospital (pg 27) 3. Augusta Health

SPORTING GOODS – NATIONAL 1. Dick’s Sporting Goods 2. Play It Again Sports 3. L.L. Bean TOY SHOP – LOCAL 1. Alakazam Toys & Gifts (pg 49) 2. Shenanigans Toys (pg 49) 3. The Bounce Toy Shop TOY SHOP – NATIONAL 1. Target 2. Walmart WOMEN’S CLOTHING – LOCAL 1. Bittersweet Clothing & Accessories 2. Darling Boutique (pg 65) 3. Levy’s

HOSPITALITY FOR MATERNITY CARE 1. Sentara Martha Jefferson Hospital (pg 27) 2. UVA Health System 3. Augusta Health

COUNSELING SERVICE 1. The Women’s Initiative 2. Poehailos, Dupont & Associates 3. New Beginnings Family Counseling

OBSTETRICS & GYNECOLOGY 1. Jefferson Obstetrics & Gynecology (pg 54) 2. Obstetrics & Gynecology Associates (pg 60) 3. Dr. Edward Wolanski, GYN (pg 62)

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EDUCATION NANNY/SITTER SERVICE 1. Local Nanny Network 2. HooSitting 3. ASAP Sitters

PRESCHOOL 1. Bright Beginnings Preschool (pg 41) 2. First Presbyterian Preschool (pg 65) 3. Millstone of Ivy (pg 57) 3. International School of Charlottesville

DAYCARE – FULL-TIME INFANT CARE 1. Bright Beginnings Preschool (pg 41) 2. Foundations Child Development Center 3. Westminster Child Care Center

PRIVATE SCHOOL – ELEMENTARY 1. The Covenant School (pg 55) 2. Regents School of Charlottesville (pg 43) 3. Mountaintop Montessori School 3. North Branch School (pg 56)

EDUCATIONAL CONSULTANT/TUTORING PROGRAM/LEARNING PROGRAM 1. Aloha Mind Math, Reading, Writing 2. Georgetown Learning Centers 3. Kumon Math & Reading Center EDUCATIONAL RECREATION 1. The Little Gym (pg 61) 2. Bounce Play-n-Create 3. Alliance Française Charlottesville LIBRARY BRANCH 1. Northside Library 2. Crozet Library 3. Central Library

PRIVATE SCHOOL – MIDDLE 1. Charlottesville Catholic School 2. Peabody School 2. Charlottesville Waldorf School 3. Grymes Memorial School 3. St. Anne’s-Belfield School PRIVATE SCHOOL – HIGH & COLLEGE PREP 1. The Covenant School (pg 55) 2. St. Anne’s-Belfield School 3. Tandem Friends School (pg 62) SPEECH-LANGUAGE PROGRAM 1. Crozet Speech & Learning Center 2. Albemarle Therapy Center 3. Small Talk Speech & Therapy Center

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LOCAL KID’S MENU 1. Timberwood Grill 2. Bodo’s Bagels 3. Tip Top Restaurant (pg 37)

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KID’S ACTIVITIES BABY/TODDLER PROGRAM 1. The Little Gym (pg 61) 2. Bend Yoga 3. YMCA (pg 15)

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{inspiration family favorites} GYMNASTICS PROGRAM 1. The Little Gym (pg 61) 2. Classic Gymnastics Center 3. Friendship Gymnastics Center

THEATRE PROGRAM 1. Live Arts 2. Black Box Players 3. DMR Adventures (pg 42)

BARBER SHOP 1. Chung’s Barber Shop 2. His Barber Shop 3. Barber House Barber Shop

MIND/BODY CLASSES 1. ACAC (pg 23) 2. FlyDog Yoga 3. Opal Yoga

HORSEBACK RIDING LESSONS 1. The Pony Academy (pg 23) 2. The Barracks Farm 3. Carriage Hill Farm

SUMMER DAY CAMP 1. Triple C Camp 2. ACAC (pg 23) 3. Living Earth Camp

EXERCISE CLASS – MOMMY & ME 1. The Little Gym (pg 61) 2. Bend Yoga 3. Baby Boot Camp

PLACE FOR A MASSAGE 1. Boar’s Head Resort 2. Hand and Stone 3. ACAC (pg 23)

MARTIAL ARTS 1. 7 Tigers Taekwondo & Hapkido 2. Mountain Kim Martial Arts 3. Superior Martial Arts

SUMMER RESIDENTIAL CAMP 1. Camp Friendship (pg 23) 2. Camp Alleghany (pg 22) 2. Westview on the James 3. Camp Hidden Meadows 3. Camp Horizons

EXERCISE CLASS – WOMEN 1. YMCA (pg 15) 2. ACAC (pg 23) 3. Orange Theory

MUSIC TEACHER/SCHOOL 1. Stacy’s Music Shop 2. Blue Ridge Music Together (pg 56) 3. Music Education Center

SWIM PROGRAM 1. ACAC (pg 23) 2. Fry’s Spring Beach Club 3. YMCA (pg 15)

TEAM SPORTS PROGRAM 1. SOCA (pg 56) 2. YMCA (pg 15) 3. VABA

FITNESS & BEAUTY BEAUTY SALON 1. Glo-Out Glamour Bar 2. Face Value Salon 3. Moxie Hair & Body Lounge

TENNIS LESSONS 1. Boar’s Head Sports Club 2. ACAC (pg 23) 3. Matilda Blue Tennis

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{living well handmade + shop local} LOCAL

handmade

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Chickapig Game What started as a hobby for Brian Calhoun of Charlottesville turned into a fun, educational game that has been shared at schools, camps, breweries and more.

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Bags and Thank You Gifts. Filled with 100% local ingredients, these

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BUY LOCAL shopping guide

Support the community by doing most of your holiday shopping at Charlottesville’s locally owned stores!

GIFTS FOR ALL AGES Blue Wheel Bicycle see ad page 44

New Dominion Bookshop see ad page 42

The Paramount Theater see ad page 18

GIFTS FOR CHILDREN Alakazam Toys see ad page 49

PHOTOGRAPHY & ART GIFTS 3 Cats Photo see ad page 44

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GIFTS FOR THE HOME Cavalier Window Cleaning see ad page 65

HEALTH & FITNESS FOR GROWN-UPS ACAC see ad page 23

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{living well crafts}

CRAFT TREE ORNAMENTS SUPPLIES

• Regular Unbleached Flour (If you want to lighten your dough a bit more, use bleached flour.)

• Table Salt • Cold Tap Water (To avoid little fingers and hot water.)

• Cookie Cutters (Think about the size of the cutter and how you intend to hang the ornament when it’s finished.)

• Straw or Toothpick Stamps • Food Coloring • Artist Brush • Mod Podge

INGREDIENTS

• 2 cups of flour • 1 cup of salt • 1 cup of water

DIRECTIONS Tis the season to have some fun and make some memories in the kitchen. I first made one with my mom when I was a young girl. My mom, who is a wonderful pottery artist, would craft and create these beautiful and elaborate creations, and so I wanted to try something, too. This How to Make Salt Dough Ornaments Christmas craft is one that anyone can do, so grab your supplies and make your own.

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1. Preheat oven to 225°.

2. Combine flour and salt in a bowl. Give it a quick stir to combine.

3. Add water to flour/salt mixture and stir with a wooden spoon or spatula until it gets too thick and tricky to stir. At this point, roll up your sleeves and knead the dough into a nice ball. You may

need to add more water or flour to get the right consistency. I tend to err on the drier side. Too much water and it’s just a mess. I also recommend you work in sections so your dough doesn’t dry out too fast.

4. Sprinkle a bit of flour onto your work surface. Grab a fist-sized piece of dough and use a rolling pin to roll it out to your desired thickness. I recommend around ¼ of an inch. Add a bit of flour as needed while rolling if it starts to stick to your rolling pin.

5. Keep remaining dough in the bowl, and cover with a towel to help it stay moist.

6. Once the dough is rolled to your desired thickness, cut out with your cutters and place on a baking sheet lined with parchment paper.

7. Make your holes for hanging each ornament with either a straw or toothpick.

8. Add any embellishments like stamp details, food coloring, etc.

9. Bake for approximately two hours or until the ornaments are completely dry.

TIPS

• For whiter salt dough ornaments, add some white acrylic paint to your mix. A teaspoon or so will whiten your dough even more.

• You can substitute plates, cups, pottery tools and flatware in for cookie cutters.

Find a cool shape, gently set it on your dough and use a knife to cut the dough away.

• The best holes for hanging salt dough ornaments are made with a straw. The straw can be metal, plastic or paper and will make the easiest hole for stringing the ornament with ribbon or twine.

If your ornament is smaller, you would want to use a toothpick.

• To make a hole with a straw, simply press down to your desired spot, gently twist your straw in and remove. (Do not bake with the straw in, as it’s a fire hazard.)

• To make a hole with a toothpick, press down to your desired spot, gently slide the toothpick around to make the opening wider. Consider leaving the wooden toothpick in the hole while baking to ensure the hole does not close up.

• To use a stamp, do so prior to baking. Press down gently, so as to not squish your ornament’s shape, but hard enough to make an impression. (I did not use ink with my stamp. If you wish to add color to your ornament though, I recommend doing a test batch.)

• Ways to add color before baking: food coloring, acrylic paint, watercolor paint or stamp ink.

• Ways to add color after baking: chalk style paint, acrylic paint, watercolor paint or glitter with mod podge applied first so it sticks.

• To help your ornaments last, seal it with mod podge and allow to dry.

Jennifer, a Southern gal with an unquenchable thirst for all things creative, wears many hats—a photographer, blogger, designer and home entertainer. From cooking to decorating, no matter what she is doing, she is committed to celebrating everyday life. Visit celebratingeverydaylife.com.

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{inspiration parenting}

by Janeen Lewis

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Seven Ways to Foster a Spirit of Generosity in Kids

As most parents do, I often think about my children and wonder what kind of adults they will be when they grow up. I hope they will become altruistic individuals, giving more than they take from the world. However, I know that my children, like many others, are constantly bombarded by messages from billboard ads, celebrity figures and television commercials that scream the opposite—that pursuing one’s own luxury and comfort leads to happiness.

So, we’re left with the question, “How do parents tune out the mantra of ‘gimme’ and replace it with a spirit of generosity?”

This may not be as daunting as it seems, though. These simple steps can help put your child on the path to philanthropy.

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Model A Life of Giving

“Children are watching all the time, and you need to ‘walk the walk,’” says Ellen Sabin, author of The Giving Book: Open the Door to a Lifetime of Giving. “There are dozens of things that you can do every day to demonstrate giving. When kids see parents doing those things, they want to do them, too.”

Sabin wrote the book about giving as a gift for her 6-year-old niece, Leah.

“It was a recipe for a happy life,” Sabin

says. “I was hoping to show her she was powerful and could change the world around her, and that it feels good to do that.”

Adopt A Charity Annually

Sabin suggests that family members choose a charity together to support each year. “Join an annual walk for autism or cancer, or any other charitable cause.

When you are at the dinner table talking, decide how you want to spend your philanthropic dollars together.”

Since children often connect with

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{resources parenting}

I want my children to understand that giving to others is a way of life, not just something we do once a year.

helping animals, consider a charity

give time out of our busy schedules to

you harvest to a local soup kitchen. You

walk that benefits pet rescue or animal

help others. Take your children with you

will not only help others in need but also

adoption. Another good idea would be

when you volunteer at a local homeless

reduce your carbon footprint.

to pick a cause that is personal to your

shelter, food drive, nursing home, animal

Recently, my own children and I

family or a close friend. When there’s a

shelter or school fundraiser. Deviating

volunteered during an annual waterway

connection and a purpose, then you’re

from your own schedule sometimes to

cleanup near our community. When

likely to leave a lasting impression.

do something special with your child can

we cleared a creek of litter with other

Another idea would be to participate

have an impactful meaning. Children

helpers, it made an impression on

in Heifer International’s “Read to Feed,” a

pick up on parent’s subtle clues as to

my son, Andrew, who felt a sense of

program in which an individual child or

what is important, and that is how they

accomplishment when he realized he

group of children find financial sponsors

will choose to invest their time as they

was helping keep a habitat clean for

and then read a designated amount. The

grow into adults.

creek life. Now, he wants to adopt a

money they earn then goes to Heifer International to provide education, tools and livestock to feed millions of families

Take Care of the Environment

waterways in our community.

One simple way to teach children

around the globe. You can learn more at

to give is to teach them to be kind to

heifer.org.

the earth. Start a recycling program

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often

organizations

While it is important to donate money

or volunteer to work in a community

teaching children to help others includes

whenever we can, it is also important to

garden, and donate some of the produce

more than donating time and money. Let

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10 Easy Ways to Teach Kids Compassion

checkout line or offer to help an elderly person load their groceries into their car.

Other simple ways to show generosity could include smiling and saying please and thank you to restaurant servers, store clerks, mail carriers and trash collectors. I tell my children how much those

particular

employees

improve

our lives. As parents, we need to always look for opportunities to model kindness and compassion; and by doing so, our children will want to do the same.

Make Giving Part of Every Day

The Wright family makes it a point to practice Random Acts of Kindness throughout the year. One day, Brandi Wright and her daughter Vivian, who was 9 years old at the time, placed quarters in the rental slots of Aldi’s carts for other shoppers. Vivian and her father, Anthony, gave out helium balloons to strangers in front of Wal-Mart just to brighten other’s days.

“One woman gave Vivian a donation

1. Rake leaves, mow grass or shovel snow for a neighbor in need, even when you aren’t asked.

2. Send care packages to a relative or friend who is away at college or in the military.

3. Visit your local nursing home and read to a resident.

4. Take a meal to a new mom.

5. Contact your local parks and recreation department to find out about volunteer events that keep your community’s parks and waterways clean. Participate as a family.

6. Start a lemonade stand or have a yard sale and donate your earnings to a charity.

7. Volunteer at an animal shelter or pet store that sponsors pet adoption. Help clean up after, care for and feed the pets.

8. Let your child choose a charity. Then let them earn money for household chores and donate the money to the cause.

9. Fill clear storage bags with items such as socks, hand warmers, change, a bottle of water, lip balm, and contact information for food banks and shelters. Pass the bags out your vehicle window to the homeless at intersections.

10. During the holidays, invite a friend who is alone or lives far from relatives to a family gathering.

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by Catherine Malone

Jackson-Via Strives to Redefine Kindness & Empathy

Of all the memories from elementary school, the ones from recess stand out the strongest for most kids—climbing various metal structures and playing kick ball or soccer games that were so intense it’s hard to believe they only lasted 15 minutes.

If we still remember the rush for the

sensory,

all-inclusive

and

all-hands-

swings and playing squish the lemon on

on-deck approach to creating a positive

the slides, we probably also remember

atmosphere. If kindness begets kindness,

the drama of dividing into teams for

then Ullrich seeks to create a self-

games and feeling left out, being the

perpetuating cycle that only requires the

target of some cruel jokes or not having

slightest touch to keep spinning. Ullrich

similar interests as many other girls and

is constantly and intensely focused on

boys.

keeping the cycle going for the children.

Time on the playground should be a

But, if Ullrich is in constant motion,

release and a chance for fun, with the

one of her best tools is static. A bright

playground’s set-up facilitating that.

red bench next to the play structure on

These days, playgrounds are not only

the lower playground, called the Buddy

physically safer but also more emotionally

Bench, is a symbol of the success of

secure. Along with academics, school

Jackson-Via’s program. The bench was

districts are actively focused on teaching

built by the husband of former first grade

children kindness and empathy, looking

teacher Hillary Pleasants and painted by

to instill the emotional skills that will

Jackson-Via students circa 2015. With a

serve students as well as their academic

stylized sun in one corner, a turtle and

learning.

flowers on the seat, and a Jackson-Via

to

Nowhere

interpersonal

playground—better at

Jackson-Via

is

the

approach

dynamics—and highlighted

Elementary

the

jackrabbit appearing above a hill, the

than

bench is colorful and fun. This is great,

School.

because when the bench is working, it’s

There, under the leadership of school counselor

Kristin

Ullrich,

not being used at all.

students

The idea behind the buddy bench is

engage in a multi-dimensional, multi-

that it serves as a place where a child can CharlottesvilleFamily.com

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sit when they’re looking for a friend, or to be included. As fourth grader Naomi explains, “If someone’s having a hard time, it would take a really long time to ask someone to play.” Instead, that child can go sit on the buddy bench without having to say a word, and the other students understand that they need a friend. The idea is that the student won’t be on the bench for long—they’ll be pulled into a game, invited to play, or just invited to walk and talk with a friend. It’s a powerful object. Naomi remembers the arrival of the bench, and she says she’s

been able to include lots of her fellow

friends and talk to the student who was

classmates since then.

lonely. Not long after, they all went and

It not only takes vulnerability to sit

played kickball together. Jackson-Via has

on the bench but also takes bravery to

given a title to students like Jaidyn who

step up and go talk to someone. Naomi’s

speak up and take action, and who go

classmate Eva arrived at Jackson-Via in

out of their way to show kindness. These

the middle of second grade, which can be

students are known as the “Upstanders,”

a difficult time when it comes to joining

a title available to every student who

new groups for friends. Eva remembers

attends the school, and something many

sitting on the bench. “I used it once,” she

students are proud to aspire towards

says. “I was shy back then, and a friend

being called.

came over and asked if I could play, and

Ullrich is quick to mention she didn’t

so did someone else. They became my

come up with the idea of the buddy

first two friends!” Eva tells this story with

bench herself. She had read about it and

enviable ease, and that’s because Ullrich

thought it would be a great addition to

and the rest of the staff at Jackson-Via

Jackson-Via, just as other schools have

have infused the culture of the school

done. Buddy benches are taking off at

with a sense of empowerment towards

schools across the country, and the

kindness. When the buddy bench is

results of a recent study shows they are

working, “sometimes nobody’s there,”

a cost-effective playground intervention,

Eva says.

reducing instances of bullying around 25

Jaidyn, 10, had a similar experience

percent. Researchers classify the buddy

to Eva’s, except he was on the other side

bench as “positive behavioral support”

of the bench. When he was a second

and note that kids are very enthusiastic

grader, a new student joined the class

about its presence.

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“I used it once,” Eva says.

“I was shy back then, and a friend came over and asked if I could play, and so did someone else. They became my first two friends!”

school was Hat Day, and the hallways

something that you hope they will carry

were

wearing

with them throughout the rest of their

baseball caps, animal hats, big sunhats

lives. Ullrich frames the message like

and even a Santa Claus cap (as well as

this: “We can control what we do and

an enthusiastic showing from faculty

how we take action. If the students take

and staff). As Ullrich walked me to the

that, we are doing something right.”

filled

with

students

playground to show me the bench, we

There’s no doubt she is certainly

were stopped no fewer than five times for

doing a lot. Ullrich and her group of

hugs (including one from her own son, a

students called the “Bully-Nots,” which

first grader, wearing a bear hat). It’s clear

Eva, Jaidyn and Naomi all belong to, are

that she is a kind of axis around which

preparing for an assembly in a few weeks

students turn, however briefly, to quickly

where they’ll act out the story of Rudolph

check in or reset before returning to their

the Red-Nosed Reindeer in a way that

busy days.

addresses bullying. Although, Ullrich is

Now in her thirteenth year as a school

careful to note, the school as a whole

counselor, Ullrich is deeply passionate

is moving away from labeling “bullies,”

about what she calls “planting the seeds.”

and rather addressing the behavior

She tells me she draws inspiration from

than implicating a student. Bully-Nots

Ruth Bader Ginsburg and Martin Luther

is all about harnessing kids’ creative

King, Jr., people who go out of their way

talents. They have over 20 original songs

to make the world a better place. In

in their repertoire, and in fact, a small

a world where so many factors seem

group of Bully-Nots gave me a complete

increasingly out of our personal control,

performance of one song, with catchy

Ullrich gets students at the beginning of

refrain minus the tumbling due to the

their educational journey. It’s a two-fold

small confinement of Ullrich’s office.

responsibility, teaching students at the

The performance is just one of many

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The idea behind the buddy bench is that it serves as a place where a child can sit when they’re looking for a friend, or to be included.

both to the entire school and to individual

academics. With the help of a bright red

classes and groups. As Ullrich and her

bench and a dedicated school counselor

students strive to “make kindness cool”

and team, Jackson-Via’s student body is a

through

welcoming and safe place for all.

every

available

opportunity,

they make the playground, and the rest of the school, a place where friends move through the day supporting each other, where no one is left out of games

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“So, what do you girls want for Christmas?” My sisterin-law Eleanor asked my daughters. It was Thanksgiving, and we were waiting for our bodies to convert the main course into blubber before taking on pie and coffee.

Ten-year-old Marie said, “I don’t know.”

Three-year-old Wendy said, “A live chicken that lays golden eggs.”

credit, Jim did not ask the menswear personnel for the addresses of the people who’d purchased the other sets of gloves. But, he did get them to phone other branches of the store looking for more gloves for him to scrutinize.

In late January, he showed up for a visit happily flexing his gloved hands. “Thanks, Rick,” he said. “These are great.” That was generous of him, since I’d done little

Six-year-old Sally snatched an American Girl doll catalog off a side table, flipped it open and pointed to items circled in indelible marker. “I’d like Molly’s sunglasses and Felicity’s bustle and, if you can, Addy’s pantalettes, please.”

Aunt Eleanor laughed and started to look for pencil and paper, but Sally said, “Keep the magazine; we get new ones all the time.”

Twelve years later, Sally at age 18 is still easy to buy gifts for … as long as you can keep up with her financially and don’t mind feeling like she’s placing an order.

Her Uncle Jim, my One Christmas, I bought younger brother, is him a pair of brown another one who knows leather gloves. He liked exactly what he wants.

But he’s particular to the right-hand glove, but the point of eccentricity. he hated the left-hand When he shops for a glove. shirt, he looks for the right color, style and fabric, of course. But, he’ll also casually moisten a finger and touch the shirt in order to see how dark it would turn in the event of perspiration.

Jim is an art professor and an oil painter, and he’s passionate about aesthetics.

One Christmas, I bought him a pair of brown leather gloves. The gift was a partial success. He liked the righthand glove, but he hated the left-hand glove. He said the seams were sewn too loosely and the color was “mottled,” although it looked okay to me. Jim went back to the department store where I’d bought them, and they let him search their inventory to find a more pleasing left-hand glove.

Because it was December 26, there were only two or three pair in his size to examine, and all were bad. To his

more than launch his quest.

Gift buying for Jim is not a high point of my holiday season. Generally, we get a list from him and obey it, to the letter. When I see shoppers desperately talking on their phones, I wonder if they are calling Jim to ask, “Does it have to have three buttons?” or “What if the color isn’t so much beige as it is somewhere between wheat and camel?”

Getting gifts from Jim is another matter. He puts a lot of thought into them, buying things that are beautiful and classy, such as a futuristic fountain pen for me or an exquisite Chinese silk purse for one of the girls. That’s because Jim is not picky because of a smallness of spirit.

He’s picky because he has a vision of how he wants things to be, and he strives to make the elements of his world measure up. Over the years, I’ve been in for a lot of improvement myself, and I can tell you he’s strict, but on-target.

You’d think Jim would be unbearable, but he’s not.

He’s affectionate and practically a comic genius. He always spends Christmas with us, and it’s one of the best aspects of the holiday. He’ll tell us funny stories of his latest corrective clashes with students, professors, administrators, neighbors, his landlord and all the other skunks, slackers and blowhards he encounters. He can make me cry with laughter. Plus, he’s as much fun to tease as when he was 6 years old.

If the gifting is a chore, so what? For some, Christmas is all about the gifts, and for others it’s all about faith.

For me, it’s about embracing the people I love. You never know, though. Maybe this will be the year I’ll find something that will surprise and delight my little brother.

Angels will sing.

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