Family Matters - Frome and West Wilts edition

FROME AND WEST WILTS EDITION

ISSUE 46 • MARCH/APRIL 2018

FORMERLY

Easter fun!

UNLEASH YOUR CHILD'S BRILLIANCE

'FREE-FROM' EASTER TREATS

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WELCOME

Welcome to our Easter edition of Family Matters!

How are you liking the magazine’s new layout and look? Spring is the right time to make changes and refresh as Winter starts fading into Spring. It’s time to look forward to lighter nights, warmer weather and the brighter colours of the garden as flowers begin blooming and the birds begin singing!

The Easter Weekend is just around the corner, giving the whole family the opportunity to enjoy that nicer weather with some days out, do take a look at our What’s On section to see what events are taking place in the area, while trying to wear out those sugar energised children! In this edition you’ll find all the usual host of events and activities to keep the whole family entertained!

Easter is a time for fresh starts, so start making use of the lighter evenings for family walks and make sure to keep active and healthy by not eating all those eggs in one go! Speaking of being healthy, Wear a Hat Day raising awareness for brain tumour research takes place in March, make sure to keep an eye on your and your children’s health, it’s a great opportunity to teach them about fundraising and being charitable, especially as part of lessons about the traditional meaning of Easter.

This issue is full of achievements from your local schools, as well as ideas for those family members with food allergies so they can also enjoy Easter’s sweet treats. We hope you have a wonderful Easter break and that you get the chance to enjoy the lighter days and warmer weather!

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THURSDAY 29TH MARCH 2018!

Hats off for Brain Tumour Research Schools and organisations are once again taking part in the Brain Tumour Research campaign – Wear a Hat Day where participants are invited to wear a hat to raise awareness for brain tumours.

Businesswoman, model, actress and mum, Caprice, revealed she had been diagnosed with a brain tumour in April last year. Following successful surgery to remove the tumour, Caprice continues to be monitored by her medical team. This year she is leading the charge for Wear a Hat Day, alongside Debbie McGee and Shelia Hancock.

Debbie McGee lost her husband, Paul Daniels, to a brain tumour in 2016 and has teamed up with Brain Tumour Research to create a pin, available from the charity, in tribute to the magician.

Shelia Hancock has also been a long-time supporter of the charity; her grandson survived a childhood brain tumour and will be appearing in the ad campaign for the second year running.

Wear a Hat Day has raised over a million pounds since it was launched by the charity Brain Tumour Research nine years ago and the big day will see schools, workplaces, families and individuals across the UK fundraising and taking part in fun events to raise awareness of brain tumours and to fund life-saving research.

Brain tumours kill more children and adults under the age of forty than any other cancer, yet just 1% of the national spend on cancer research has been allocated to this devastating disease. Funds raised through Wear A Hat

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Day 2018 will develop the charity’s network of worldclass brain tumour research centres in the UK. To get involved or donate, please visit: www.wearahatday. org or text HAT to 70660 to donate £5 – this excludes network charges, please check with bill payers before donating!

Brain Tumour Research is the leading voice in the UK for communicating the trends surrounding brain tumours • Brain tumours kill more children and adults under the age of 40 than any other cancer • Just 1% of the national spend on cancer research has been allocated to this devastating disease • Approximately 16,000 people each year are diagnosed with a brain tumour • Less than 20% of those diagnosed with a brain tumour survive beyond five years compared with an average of 50% across all cancers • Unlike most other cancers, incidences of and deaths from brain tumours are rising

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Find Your Child's Passion And You Will Unleash Their Brilliance Julia Black

I’ve been involved in education wearing many different hats over the past ten years and been priviledged to learn alongside close to a 1000 children of all ages, shapes and sizes.

I remember one mum coming to us, referred by her son’s school, and she said ‘I’ve got a trapezium shaped child who really struggles to fit inside the square box!”

What I loved about our conversation was she acknowledged her son was who he was, and he needed a different environment in which to really thrive. But part of the problem we face as parents is that sometimes the environment that is right for our children is hard to come by, especially if we work full-time and so can’t get a flexi-schooling agreement in place or home educate.

So if we can’t change the environment that our children learn in (at least not overnight) what can we do instead? I’ve looked closely at how we can unleash the brilliance in ALL our children and I’ve realised the thing that makes the difference, no matter who the child is, is less about looking for the right external environment and more about nurturing their internal learning environment.

For all our learners our starting point is always the same; find out what is it that our children would jump out of bed every morning to get up and do and we can move them forward and their learning takes off exponentiallly.

We call it Learning with their Lights On. Sir Ken Robinson talks about ‘being in your element’ and Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi (try saying that one during a webinar!) refers to ‘flow’. I absolutely know it to be true, because I’ve seen it in all our children, we all have something that we can become excellent at. We all have a genius zone that we can go deep into - it is just most of us (and I’m talking adults here too) never get to discover what that is. I didn’t truly understand my genius zone until I was 40 and I have been surprised by how many children we’ve had come to us who didn’t really know what their switch was. So I’d like to share with you some simple steps that you can implement at home to help you locate your child’s switch.

Now those of you with young children you will probably find they are still fairly well connected with their switch. They have a hunger for learning, they know what they love to do and they spend time exploring, discovering and problem-solving their way through their learning landscape of choice. But if you are reading this thinking “I haven’t a clue what they like to do” don’t panic because here are 3 steps to help you find out.

Step 1. This one is simple: ask your child what they love doing if they could spend their time doing ANYTHING what would it be?

You are trying to determine here whether they know or not.

If they don’t try thinking back to a time before school, how would they spend their time? Did they play endlessly with Lego®? Or were they always wanting to get their hands into something and create - whether it was flour, mud, paint? We don’t need to over complicate things here.

Step 2. Set up a learning carousel to allow them to explore through a variety of different ways. Put out some paper and paint, or recycled bits and bobs for them to make something with. Have a tech station with a tablet set up to make an animation. Perhaps you’ve got an old bit of technology they can take apart. The key is have choice so you can see where they gravitate towards.

Step 3. Give them free time during their week and this one can be difficult as we can tend, as parents, to over structure their time with after school clubs, activities on the weekend.

But we absolutely have to give them time where they can explore without someone else telling them what to do. Do this and you’ll start to flush out really quickly whether they have a switch that they are still in tune with or if they clearly don’t know what to do with themselves when they do have time on their hands.

Julia Black hosts a closed free FB group, Lights On Online Community, where once a week she does a LIVE Q&A and gives away lots of free content about how you, as a parent, can unleash your child’s brilliance. www.facebook.com/groups/exploriumlightson ukfamilymatters |

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FOOD INTOLERANCE STOP THE EASTER FUN For chocolate lovers everywhere, Easter is a wonderful time of year. For those who are into the traditions of Easter, this time of year is perfect for getting together to celebrate the coming of spring, for those that love the outdoors, itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s great for feeling the change in the seasons, for spotting new life growing around you and the joy of knowing that winter is on its way out. And of course, Easter is a wonderful time of year for chocolate lovers, but, for those families who have food allergies, Easter can be stressful.

Fear not though, as the future has arrived and those suffering with lactose or gluten intolerances can finally join in the chocolate and cake fest.

Before parents would find themselves having to venture into expensive health food shops and searching packets for ingredients, now with the rise of veganism and gluten free diets, super markets are jumping on the bandwagon and there are whole aisles dedicated to treats this Easter. From dairy free chocolate eggs to gluten free cakes to suit a range of budgets, children need not feel left out again.

Parents and children alike can choose from a whole host of brand name treats, such as Lindt, whose dark chocolate bunnies and eggs are milk free, and the own brand options, as even the budget supermarkets are including free from Easter treats on their shelves.

So, keep an eye out when doing your food shop over the Easter period and grab a few chocolate eggs or gluten free cakes to hand out to your children on the big day!

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THE BENEFITS OF PETS Growing up with a pet can be a tremendous thing for a child and the experience can create lifelong memories.

Having a pet is engaging and gives kids a warm glowing feeling, but did you know it can also positively affect your child in more ways than one?

Socially

Physically

The saying goes, "Dog is man's best friend" which can be true but pets can also help people make new human friends too. For children especially, pets can be a wonderful motivation for socializing. Children are more drawn to other children who are playing with an animal, so a pet can be the bridge between a less socially outgoing child and potential playmates.

One study showed that kids who had a dog exercised on average 11 minutes more a day than other children who didn't have a dog. Doesn't sound like a lot, but a little bit of exercise every day can be beneficial to most children. Having a pet helps kids improve their motor skills and also just increases overall activity.

Emotionally

Cognitively

A pet is a source of unconditional love who provides support but never judges. Children with low-self esteem may talk to, or confide in, an animal in ways they would not with people. They are often more confident in performing tasks they find difficult with an animal simply because the animal does not care if mistakes are made. Children with pets also tend to show empathy to others easier because they learn how to care for their own animal.

A study done showed that children who read aloud to an animal actually made bigger strides in their reading ability than their peers who read out loud to an adult. This is possibly due to reduced stress in the children and the fact that an animal provides nonjudgmental support.

Although the experience of owning a pet gives kids a children a sense of responsibility, only us adults can be truly responsible for our pets. Selecting the right pet is a serious decision that family members should always make together.

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An egg-cellent Easter treat What you’ll need for this recipe:

For the outside - Egg shaped moulds Any kind of chocolate you like Food colouring (if you want to get creative) Or: ready made chocolate eggs.

For the filling - 150g cream cheese 30g icing sugar 1 table spoon lemon juice 1 table spoon vanilla essence Optional: 100 ml cream.

For the yolk – lemon curd or apricot jam, which ever your prefer.

Firstly, you need to create or buy the eggs, either pick yourself up mini sized hollow chocolate eggs and cut off the tops, or using a mould, supervise the melting of chocolate – which can then be coloured however the children like, pour into moulds and freeze for a few hours.

Are you bored of the traditional Easternest-rice-crispie-cake recipes that you trot out every year to keep the kids entertained in the run up to Easter? Are you looking to find something else sweet and edible to keep them entertained with?

Well, how about mixing it up a little with cheesecake filled chocolate eggs?

While Easter nests are a little easier, these will really allow your kids to get creative with colours or make their own versions of Crème Eggs and well, who doesn’t prefer cheesecake to chocolate covered cereal?

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When your eggs are ready, pop them out of the moulds, cutting off the tip and joining the halves together or unwrap them from their packaging and arrange them in an empty egg carton. Now you can get cracking on the cheesecake mixture.

In a bowl, mix together the cream cheese, icing sugar, lemon juice and vanilla until smooth. If you want it extra creamy, whip up some cream and then fold it into the mixture. Using a piping bag, or some very small spoons and nimble fingers, fill the eggs with the cheese cake mixture and pop back into the fridge for half an hour to let them set. While they’re chilling, get the yolks ready by either using lemon curd or apricot jam, which ever you would prefer.

Give the curd/jam a mix to smooth it out and when the egg mixture is ready, use a tea spoon to scoop out a section and then fill with the yolk. Give them a few minutes to set and then it’s time to eat!

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Win over £100 worth of Tractor Ted goodies Children’s favourite little green tractor, Tractor Ted, has a wealth of new events, exciting downloads and activities, cinema screenings and more lined up for 2018. Get close to big farm machines at the Bowood Big Machines Weekend (Sat 26th to Mon 28th May), see Tractor Ted on the Big Screen across Picturehouse Cinemas Toddler Time from Friday 6th April, check out the free Spring and Easter activities online at www.tractorted.com/littlefarmerclub and so much more! Full details including NEW Tractor Ted Rucksacks, Water Bottles and more can be found at www.tractorted.com

Visit Cheddar Gorge & Caves this Easter for an eggs-pedition like no other! The Easter Bunny must have made an unexpected visit to Cheddar Gorge & Caves because clusters of magical, glow in the dark eggs have appeared in all the nooks and crannies of the mysterious chambers of Gough’s Cave.

Egg-splore Gough’s Cave between 24th March and 8th April to crack the mystery code and get your paws on a tasty treat. There’s also the chance to get creative in the Museum of Prehistory where younger ones can make their own Easter decoration to take home.

Win a family ticket to Haynes International Motor Museum The Haynes International Motor Museum is the UK’s largest exhibition of great cars from around the world. A living and working museum, with over 400 amazing cars and bikes from nostalgic classics of the 50’s and 60’s, glorious Bentleys and Rolls Royces to exciting super cars of today, like the Jaguar XJ220. The Museum will give you unrivalled access to explore, discover and experience the history, designs and technologies of motoring from around the world.

Complete your day out in Café 750, serving a variety of meals, drinks and snacks; visit our gift shop whilst the children play in our outdoor motor themed play area.

Win a family day out at the award-winning Hawk Conservancy Trust, near Andover A day at the Trust is like no other, with three daily world-class flying displays, opportunities to meet birds of prey, keeper talks and additional activities at weekends and during school holidays. New for 2018 is an exciting bird of prey adventure playground, ‘Matt Sewell Owl Prowl’ activity trail and, from summer 2018, the Trust invite you to discover the exciting world of Burrowing Owls in all-new immersive exhibit.

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what’s on 23rd March Easter Family Bingo Come along for a great fun evening with lots of Easter treats to be won.

Elmhurst Junior School, eyes down 7.00pm.

24th March Easter Trail Pilton Pre-school is holding its annual Easter Trail 10:30am -2:30pm. Entry fee for the trail will include a prize for all participants. There will be crafts, activities and refreshments.

Pilton Tithe Barn, Pilton.

24th - 31st March Grow Wild at Farrington Farm Join us for spring time fun during the Easter Holidays!

Make a clay flower pot to take away or Hop along our Easter Trail Open 10am – 3pm daily Farrington Farm, Farrington 24th March Puxton Park High Ropes Course - Grand Opening!

Puxton Park is opening their newest attraction, the Puxton High Ropes Course. This course will be one of the most exciting and challenging courses in the West of England! www.puxtonpark.com 24 March – 6 April Cadbury Easter Egg Hunt at Lacock As the abbey grounds burst back into life, can you find some eggs of a different nature? A yummy Cadbury treat waits for you when you're done. £2 per trail, normal admission applies. nationaltrust.org.uk/lacock

25th March Easter EGGstravagansa Whatever the weather, be transported to sunnier climes with fun and creative activities.

Decorate an eggstraordinary Easter egg inspired by traditional Indian patterns. www.holburne.org 26th & 28th March Woodland Adventures with EcoWild Tracking and code cracking, tree climbing, woodland theatre and much more. Check online for full dates and times. www.ecowild.org.uk 26th March - 6th April Easter Escapades at Montacute Avoid the hustle and bustle of Easter trails and chocolate eggs for a day. Explore St Michael's Hill, steeped in wildlife and history. 10am - 4pm, Montacute House 26th - 29th March Easter Art Camp Due to popular demand we are now offering four Art Camp weeks packed full of fun, creative activities. 5-11 year old’s 9am-4pm. £38 per day; £15 discount for booking 4 consecutive days.www.holburne.org 27th March Easter holiday den building days at Barrington Court A full day of outdoor fun, down in the woods with Ranger George and his team. Learn how to construct a clever den from what you can find around you, then play in it. www.nationaltrust.org.uk/barringtoncourt

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29th March Family Fun - Easter Frolics Come along for crafts and activities for all the family.

Somerset Rural Life Museum www.swheritage.org.uk/rural-life-museum

29th March Spring Play with BAPP Inflatables, Sports and Games, Egg Hunt, Den building and much more.

Paulton Memorial Park, Paulton, 1pm - 4pm

30th March Easter at Bowood House From naming the newly born chicks to finding the hidden golden eggs. Bowood House & Gardens will make the perfect family day out! www.bowood.org

30th March - 2nd April Cadbury Easter Egg Hunt at Barrington Court Barrington Court is the best place for a great Easter egg hunt.

Lots of running around, lots of fresh air and a Cadbury's chocolate prize. www.nationaltrust.org.uk 30th March Feel Good Friday - Raceday & Family Fun Day at Bath Racecourse The perfect way to start your Easter weekend with a family fun day packed with free entertainment. www.bath-racecourse.co.uk 31st March Easter Lambing Weekend at Puxton There will be a chance to hold and bottle feed the lambs, and if you are lucky enough you may even see one being born! Along with lambing, the Park will have lots of fun Easter activities that the whole family will enjoy! www.puxton.co.uk

3rd April Go Wild at Carymoor!

Look at the local birdlife with a whole range of different activities, including making a bird feeder, dissecting owl pellets and watching our nestbox camera for signs of life!

The day ends with a campfire, songs and something delicious to eat! 8-12 year-olds, 10am to 3pm. www.carymoor.org.uk 4th-6th April Woodland Adventures with EcoWild Tracking and code cracking, tree climbing, woodland theatre and much more Check online for full dates and times. www.ecowild.org.uk

5th April Family Fun - Nature Day A Somerset Festival of Nature event with Sharandy's Bird of Prey. 10am - 5pm www.swheritage.org.uk/rural-life-museum 14th April - Early Man (PG) Set at the dawn of time, when prehistoric creatures and woolly mammoths roamed the earth, Early Man tells the story of how plucky caveman Dug. Midsomer Norton Town Hall, 2.30pm. midsomernortoncommunitytrust. co.uk 28th April Farmers' Market at Montacute House All your local food and crafts at one quality market.

10am - 2pm. Free entrance to market. (Please enter at reception) 5th & 6th May The Sheep Show NEW this spring comes an entertaining and educational show which has touched the hearts of many. Learn about different breeds, watch shearing demonstrations, dancing sheep and more! www.farringtons.co.uk

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AN INTRODUCTION TO ONLINE GAMING Online gaming is hugely popular with children and young people. Annual research conducted by OFCOM shows that gaming is still one of the top activities enjoyed by 5-16 year olds online, with many of them gaming via mobile devices and going online using their games console.

We know that parents and carers do have questions and concerns about games, often about the type of games their child plays, who they may be speaking to and for how much time their child is playing.

Online gaming; how and where to play

There are many ways for users to play games online.

This includes free games found on the internet, games on smartphones, tablets and handheld consoles, as well as downloadable and boxed games on PCs and consoles such as the PlayStation, Nintendo Wii or Xbox.

Online gaming, the risks

Internet safety advice is directly applicable to the games environment because risks of Content, Contact, Conduct and Commercialism also apply to games.

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CONTENT: inappropriate material is available to children online.

The quality of graphics in many games is very sophisticated and realistic. Some games might not be suitable for your child’s age as they might contain violent or sexually-explicit content or scenes intended to invoke horror or fear.

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CONTACT: potential contact from someone online who may wish to bully or abuse them.

If your child takes part in multiplayer games on the internet they might be at risk of hearing offensive language from other players, being bullied, or making themselves vulnerable to contact by those with a sexual interest. Bullying on games is known as ‘griefing’. This is when players single out others specifically to make their gaming experience less enjoyable by sending hurtful messages or destroying parts of their gaming world.

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CONDUCT: children may be at risk because of their own and others’ online behaviour, such as the personal information they make public.

Specific conduct risks for gamers include excessive gaming use to the detriment of other aspects of their lives. This is sometimes referred to as ‘addiction’. Some websites might not have the game owner’s permission to offer a game as a download i.e. copyright infringement, the same as for music and film.

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COMMERCIALISM: young people’s privacy can be invaded by aggressive advertising and marketing schemes.

Children and young people can get themselves into difficulty by inadvertently running up bills when playing games online. Some online games offer enticing ‘in app’ purchases, eg buying more lives or gems to complete a level.

Online gaming, FAQs 1. How can I keep my child safe whilst they chat in games? What tools are available to help?

Parental control tools are available on PCs and consoles. Make sure your children know how to protect their privacy by locking down privacy features. These could include using a voice mask to disguise their voice in a multiplayer game, as well as how to block and report other players.

Advise them never to give out any personal information (including pictures of themselves) or agree to meet someone in person when using online chats or sharing information in their user profile. Encourage your child to use an appropriate screen or character name (sometimes called gamertags) that follow the rules of the game service.

2. How do I know which games are appropriate or suitable for my child?

PEGI age rating system exists to help parents make informed decisions when buying or downloading games. The rating on a

game confirms that it is suitable for players over a certain age, but is not indicative of the level of difficulty. Encourage your child to only access online games that are appropriate and always check the age rating on any game before buying it for your child, as well as considering whether it has an online component.

3. Do games have parental controls?

Games and services will approach privacy and safety in a variety of ways so it is worth getting to know the features on the games your child plays. However, these controls aren’t a substitute for parental involvement. You can find out more information about how to set up the parental controls on each device by visiting www.saferinternet.org.uk/parent-tech.

4. How can I report inappropriate behaviour by other users?

Sadly cyberbullying can occur in online games. If your child is being harassed by another player on a game, follow the game’s reporting guide to report this behaviour or visit www.childnet. com/resources/how-to-make-a-report. Inappropriate behaviour can also be reported to the moderator on a moderated game and in many instances you can contact the customer support team for further assistance. If your child does encounter inappropriate behaviour in an online game, encourage them to block that user.

If you are suspicious that another player is wishing to meet up with your child, or asking them to share personal information or images and videos of themselves, then you can report them to the police at www.ceop.police.uk.

ONLINE GAMING, TOP-TIPS

SMART rules

» It may seem daunting, but one of the best things you can do is to engage with the gaming environment and begin to understand what makes it is so attractive to young people as well as the types of activities that they enjoy!

Safe: Keep safe by being careful not to give out personal information when playing online. This includes your e-mail address, phone number and password, as well as images and videos of yourself, friends and family.

» Read game reviews to understand more about potential risks or difficulties other players have experienced and content they have seen. App stores and Google Play offer reviews but you can also find app reviews on www.net-aware.org.uk or game reviews on www. commonsensemedia.org.

Meeting: Meeting someone you have only known online can be dangerous. Remember that no matter how long you have spoken to someone for, or how nice they are, if you have never met this person before then they are still a stranger. If anyone asks to meet up then tell an adult immediately.

» Some games may offer children the chance to chat with other players by voice and text. Ask them who they are playing with and find out if they are talking to other players. If chat is available, look at the type of language that is used by other players. » Remember that the same safety rules for going online apply to playing games on the internet. Familiarise yourself with the SMART rules, and encourage your children to do so as well.

Accepting: Accepting gaming requests, direct messages or clicking on links from people you don’t know can lead to problems – they may contain viruses, inappropriate content or nasty messages!

Reliable: People we speak to online might not always be who they say they are as it is very easy to give away false information online. Try to only speak to your friends and family.

Tell: Tell your parent, carer or a trusted adult if someone or something makes you feel uncomfortable or worried, or if you or someone you know is being bullied online.

Childnet: Childnet International is a non-profit organisation working in partnership with others around the world to help make the internet a great and safe place for children. The Childnet website hosts all the online resources detailed below, as well as a number of recommended resources for young people, parents, carers and teachers. www.childnet.com

COWTASTIC PLAYBARN PRESENTS

Join us for spring time fun during the Easter Holidays!

Saturday 24th March till Saturday 31st March Open 10am â&#x20AC;&#x201C; 3pm daily (Closed Easter Sunday) Make a clay flower pot to take away (includes clay, soil and sunflower seeds) Hop along our Easter Trail (Chocolate Easter prize)

Cost: ÂŁ3 per child.

For full details of all these events visit:

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World

April 23rd marks World Shakespeare Day and with so many children preparing for their exams having to read and analyse Shakespeare plays, it is the right time of year to talk to your family about the Bard himself.

Shakespeare Day

Many students find themselves overwhelmed when presented with Shakespeare for the first time and parents also find themselves out of their depths when asked for help, but Shakespeare needn’t be scary and there are many easy ways to engage your children’s interest without having to splash out on text books.

One of the simplest ways to introduce Shakespeare to the family and engage in it with them is through adaptations, of which there are many, most of which you’ll have either heard of before or will have already experienced.

The Lion King

Yes, Disney’s The Lion King is based on the story of Hamlet, a play about a Danish Prince who’s uncle murders his father, something he’s trying to prove. While Simba doesn’t have quite the same amount of existential turmoil as Hamlet, it’s a good starting point and from here, you can move onto other adaptations that follow the original script.

Gnomeo and Juliet

Another children’s classic where fiction’s greatest love story is portrayed by gnomes to the music of Elton John. The animated film follows the story of Romeo and Juliet, including the introduction of love rival, Paris. Start off with this to give you a taste for the story before delving into the Leonardo DiCaprio retelling. If imagining gnomes reciting the words of Shakespeare isn’t enough to get your head around it, I don’t know what is.

10 Things I hate about You

A staple in teen dramas and perhaps Heath Ledger’s greatest performance, 10 Things I Hate About You is based on the Taming of the Shew and is pretty true to the source material in terms of story line.

Thinking of these characters as spoiled high schoolers who just want to go to prom will definitely help make it more relatable.

She’s the Man

This Amanda Bynes film is the story of Twelfth Night. The story of gender swapping and hilarity ensuing through cases of mistaken identity.

Again, the school setting makes it easier for the story and characters to be understood.

The best thing? These aren’t the only available adaptations that make Shakespeare more accessible. From novel retellings to movies and TV shows, there are a whole host of options to allow students to get their heads around the plays and for parents to get involved in their education and be able to discuss the assignments without having to panic.

WHY IS MUSIC SO IMPORTANT FOR CHILDREN AND YOUNG PEOPLE? Most people know that music is a ‘good thing’. Research proves again and again that it is important to children and young people’s lives and futures. But why?

Because music education increases confidence and self-esteem, which has a knock-on effect in all areas of life and learning. It improves health and wellbeing while also providing important life and social skills – such as listening, concentration and working as a team.

Music education is also known to improve cognition, literacy and numeracy. Recent neuroscience research has shown that children who learn an instrument have higher levels of cognitive capacity, specifically in their language acquisition and numerical problem-solving skills.

Wiltshire Music Connect is the Music Education Hub for Wiltshire – supporting teachers to provide great music in schools. But did you know that Wiltshire Music Connect

can also support you in navigating the many and varied ways that your children can make music?

You can find out more about the benefits of music education by visiting the Wiltshire Music Connect website to download the Why Music? leaflets for parents and carers. If you live in Wiltshire the website can also provide information on how to access: - Help with the cost of instrumental tuition (for some families) - A subsidised instrument hire scheme - A searchable database of quality assured and ‘safe’ music tutors And why not sign up for the Music Hub bulletin - it’s free and keeps you in the loop. www.wiltshiremusicconnect.org.uk

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If you have a child in Year 6 then look out for the leaflet coming home in bookbags soon with advice on making a musical transition to secondary school

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Tales of a Ho-Hum Mum Okay, so we all have a most hated time of the day, for some it’s the morning battle, others the bed time traumas, but for me, it’s the car journey. argumentative My darling little cherubs, Lily aged 10 and Thomas who’s 7, turn into device for me) terrors once placed into the car (or some kind of Chinese torture huge chore list the plating I’m generally hangry, fed up from work and contem have no I have at home, when I have to endure 2 little people who seem to know they swear I fact, In volume control or sense of my growing irritation. push me to when they’re not annoying me enough and just keep ramping it up to the limit.

So today, it started with the school run where I hear about how Lily’s ever teacher is the most evil and unfair person in the whole wide world (worse than Dolores Umbridge from Harry Potter apparently), anger) and how Thomas is obviously cleverer than Lils, (to her despair and pulling hair because he got top marks at spelling. This rolls into a full blown, spirals into barney, to which treats when they get home are banned. This then of history the being the worst Mum in the world and the most unfair thing in everything.

Is it wine time yet? are So we get home for tea along with a little telly and just as the kids Judo relaxing and chilling out (along with me), it’s car time again for the class run. Here we go again……. h time, when So deja vu kicks in again and we listen to Dimelo for the 10 milliont song love g all I want is the dulcet tones of George Michael singing a relaxin is to me. Thomas is shouting out some form of Judo chant to Lily who pick constantly correcting him in a much louder voice. At this point, we up Mac, Thomas’s friend, and the noisy twosome turn it the terrible on Lily, threesome. One minute into the journey and the boys turn the tables what I like annoying her (this now annoys me even more). The conversation, or farts of is to call the ‘shoutathon’, then turns into an in depth analys and and poos, to which an outbreak of giggling ensues when Mac swears child a off telling says the ‘sh’ word. This leaves me the uneasy task of who’s not my own and nearly losing my own ‘sh’. God, I need wine.

Ahhh, how I look forward to the morning run tomorrow!

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Grants awarded to

future sports stars at special ceremony Twelve promising young Wiltshire sportspeople have received sports scholarship grants of £500 at a special ceremony at County Hall.

The grants, which are awarded by Wiltshire Council in partnership with local businesses as part of the Funding Future Olympians and Paralympians foundation, were presented by John Thomson, deputy leader of Wiltshire Council; Jerry Kunkler, portfolio holder for leisure and sport; Terence Herbert, Wiltshire Council corporate director; and gold medal-winning Paralympic swimmer, Stephanie Millward MBE. The funding is awarded to young people aged eight to 18, who compete at regional or national level in an Olympic/Paralympic sport, or a sport recognised by Sport England. The grant assists the recipients with training and competition opportunities and the purchase of new equipment and travel costs.

The foundation, established in 2013, is supported by local businesses through the successful annual Business and Sports Gala fundraising dinner. To date, it has supported 34 young people with scholarship grants, with many of these young people going on to achieve national, and in some cases, international success in their chosen sport.

The recipients of the grants are:

John Thomson said: “It was a real pleasure to meet these young people, all of whom are competing at a high level in their chosen sport, and I was delighted to present them with a grant.

“We know that these grants make a huge difference to the opportunities for our future sports stars, providing much-needed financial support for training, events and competitions.

"We wish Wiltshire’s young sports stars every success, and we’ll be watching their careers with interest. We hope to see them representing Team GB – and Wiltshire – on the world stage, in the future.”

Grant recipient and sprint canoeist, Edward Nightingale, from West Ashton, near Trowbridge, said: “I am honoured to receive this grant and to have my achievements recognised.

“This funding will really help me this year as I aim to regain my under 16 British champion titles and continue to represent the GB squad internationally, to keep progressing towards my ultimate goal to be selected for the senior team. Thank you to Wiltshire Council and the foundation for all their support.”

Molly Hole, age 14, Salisbury, high jump

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Lucy-Jane Matthews, age 15, Salisbury, athletics Mark Edmundson, age 16, Corsham, swimming Megan Galpin, age 14, Tidworth, javelin Rebecca Heaps, age 11, Lydiard Millicent, tennis Eirlys Jones, age 10, Malmesbury, rhythmic gymnastics Isabel Sowels, age 13, Corsham, hockey Matthew Davies, age 13, Alderbury, swimming Edward Nightingale, age 15, Trowbridge, canoeing Katy Cutler, age 16, Salisbury, water polo Sarah Wilson, age 16, Trowbridge, pentathlon Jessica Daykin, age 15, Little Panell, gymnastics

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News and Reviews OAKFIELD ACADEMY RAISE £325 FOR DEMENTIA CARE Year 6 Oakfield Academy pupils were delighted to present a cheque for £325 to the Dementia Care unit at the RUH. Oliver, Fleur, Seren and Edward, together with all the other students and staff at Oakfield raised the money during a spinning bike charity event supported by Frome Leisure Centre, Train Station Gymnasium and Frome Town Council's Rangers. In total the pupils cycled over 592km (the equivalent of Frome to Paris!).

FUNDS RAISED BY LEIGH ON MENDIP PUPILS An amazing £249.80 was raised by the children at Leigh on Mendip First School who were each given a tube of mini eggs by FOLS (PTA), before the spring half term break. The children were asked to fill the tube with 20 pence pieces which they earned by doing jobs around the house and for their families. They then decorated the tubes in a fairy tale theme and bought them back in to be judged in a competition.

Some very artistic entries were judged by the school's Chair of Governors and the winners awarded an Easter egg.

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FROME TOWN FC DELIVER AN EXCITING NEW GIRLS’ FOOTBALL INITIATIVE Frome Town Youth FC are delighted to announce they've been selected to work in partnership with Somerset FA to deliver a SSE Wildcats Football Centre in Frome.

The FA and SSE have launched an initiative designed to inspire girls aged between 5-11 to be involved in football.

They provide a safe environment for girls to have fun engaging with football, make new friends, develop fundamental skills, try a variety of sessions and create foundations for a lifelong love of sport.

Club Chairman, Chris Wilkinson says he is looking forward to working with Somerset FA to introduce even more girls to football from Frome and the surrounding areas. Club Secretary, Sarah Davis, is over the moon with the news. "Girls have been having fun and making friends whilst playing football with our club since 2011. We hope our experience delivering girls' football for the past 7 years combined with Somerset FA's support and funding will encourage even more girls to give football a go."

The official launch and free drop in training session will take place on Sunday 8th April between 10:30 & 12:30pm on the astroturf at Frome Leisure Centre. To register your child's interest, please email wildcats@ frometownyouthfc.co.uk with the following information: Child's full name, child's DOB, parent contact tel no and parent email address.

BACK TO SCHOOL ... FOR MUMS AND DADS! On Tuesday, 6th February, parents and carers of Vallis School pupils in Frome, went back to school for a maths class, as part of the school's comprehensive family learning programme. A far cry from the dreary rote learning many of us may remember from our own school days, the session was filled with fun activities for all ages, from reception children pairing socks to older children using colourful board games to practise multiplication and long division.

Parents visited their children's classroom where teachers had been busy setting out a range of activities for the parents and children to work on together. The children loved showing their parents and carers how hard they have been working and the different methods they have learned.

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Age groups are judged on ability as well as age, gymnasts are moved up a group when we feel they are able and there is space in the appropriate class. Price £6.00 per class. All gymnasts in structured termly classes require a british gymnastics membership. October 2017-September 2018 - £19.

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We are dedicated to giving all gymnasts the opportunity to fulfil their potential by improving their co-ordination, physical condition and concentration in a friendly and safe environment whilst having fun!

Our development program aims to reach national grade level. This program is by invitation only. The coaches will recognise talent in the recreational program and extend an invite to gymnasts for the chance to attend a trial session.

**NEWS FLASH** The end of 2017 saw Liberty bring home 2 Somerset Champions, Freya Arnold in the Mini Group & Sophie Hobbs Simpson. In the Senior Group, 2018 so far, Ellie-Mae Kondratowicz & Hollie Brimble both competed at the “ENGLISH CHAMPIONSHIPS”, held in London in February. Liberty has 18 gymnasts entered into National Grades & 22 into Regional Grades in April. **NEWS FLASH**

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INSPIRING AUTHOR VISITS SELWOOD

LEIGH ON MENDIP – POET

Selwood Academy were delighted to be visited by author, Lisa Thompson on 24th January.

Lisa gave an inspiring presentation to pupils about her own writing journey. She gave lots of tips on writing a book, including writing short stories to build confidence. Lisa also revealed that eating Bourbon or Custard Cream biscuits helped her writing process! She read excerpts from her new novel, “The Light Jar” which has been chosen as the Children’s Book of the Week by many of the National Newspapers, including The Times.

Pete The Poet visited Leigh on Mendip First School recently and spent the day working with the children writing poems and singing songs themed around Spring and how the change in seasons made them feel. They thought about the new life that emerges and how that might sound using various instruments.

PREFECTS AT OAKFIELD ACADEMY

WORLD BOOK DAY AT WESTWOOD WITH IFORD SCHOOL Once again everyone at Westwood with Iford Primary School enjoyed the magic of World Book Day and it was so lovely to see how children, staff and adults had made such a superb effort to all come as their favourite book character to celebrate this annual event. With everyone from Harry Potter to The Mr Men and more traditional tales to The Highway Rat, all types of books and stories were represented and it demonstrated what a love of reading the school has.

In class the fun continued throughout the day, with the staff all having planned some fantastic learning activities for the children, all centred around reading and books. Sadly, the day was cut short by an early closure due to snow but it didn’t stop staff and pupils alike having a huge amount of fun! It was another day to be proud of at the school and a perfect way to mark the occasion. Everyone is already looking forward to next year!

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The new school prefects at Oakfield Academy have been awarded their ties and badges from Year Head, Mrs Green.

Congratulations to all of you on the marvelous achievement and good luck with your new responsibilities.

Their duties will include representing the Academy at various events, and meeting visitors to the school.

(L - R): Jess Willmot, Jacob Roberts, Willow Hunter, Kara Robinson, Laila Cotterill, Melissa Verwey, Annabel McDonald, Caitlin Curtis-Snook, Kate Scholefield and Mikolaj Kaczmar.

OAKFIELD ACADEMY AUTHOR VISIT Author Emma Carroll visited Year 5 and 6 students at Oakfield Academy to discuss her life and her successful books, Strange Star, Frost Hollow Hall and Snow Sister.

The students listened while she described her childhood and how she loved to write stories from a very young age. Emma, who graduated from Bath Spa University, now lives in Somerset with her family. After the talk, she held a Q and A session with the pupils who found it inspirational and enjoyable.

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The Beast From The East meant the majority of school closed across the country for World Book Day, but it didn't stopped some of our little readers from sporting their costumes.

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Bella Walker, 9.

Dressed as Katniss Everdeen.

Great costume Bella!

Owain Bevan, 5.

Dressed as Bilbo Baggins winner of extreme reading.

Congratulations on winning and having a great costume, Owain!

Florence, Eartha and Jack.

You look great guys!

Mia-Rose Skelton 6 Dressed as Mary Poppins.

You look great!

Samuel White's Infants School got to dress up but all had to go home at lunch to avoid the snow!

Pupils and staff at St John’s Primary School, celebrated World Book Day on 1st March with many imaginative costumes of favourite book characters.

Ceyda Kaya 6 Dressed as Rapunzel.

Cute dress Ceyda!

Jumping John’s Nursery Glastonbury’s World Book Day efforts Glad the snow didn’t keep you guys from enjoying the day!

Some of the children from Whitchurch Primary dressed as various characters.

You all look fantastic, well done.

Leigh on Mendip School children dressed up as a character from their favourite book which they bought into school with them.

Farrington School Pupils from Farrington School dressed up to celebrate their favourite characters!

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Freddie, 6.

Looking very mischievous as Dennis the Menace!

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Cadbury Easter Egg Hunts Stourhead, nr Mere 30 March-15 April, 11am-4pm, last hunts at 3pm.

Our Cadbury Easter Egg hunt has got bigger and better so there's lots of fun to be had at Stourhead this Easter. If you find all the clues and find out who has helped spring bloom, you'll be rewarded with a prize.

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