Horam & Vines Cross Village Diary

Horam and Vines Cross Village Diary December 2024

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I would like to wish all my readers, volunteers, advertisers and to those who support the diary, a very Happy Christmas.

Warmest wishes, Dawn xx Lunch Lunch Afternoon Tea Afternoon Tea Singing Singing Dancing Dancing

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Events Coming up NEW FOR 2024 Xmas Wreath Making Community Bingo & Tea Dancing Visits to local schools for their Union Church Heathfield Christmas concerts Every other Thursday from 2pm

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Christmas Recycling and Rubbish Collection Dates Usual collection day: Wednesday 25 Dec Thursday 26 Dec Friday 27 Dec Monday 30 Dec Tuesday 31 Dec Wednesday 1 Jan Thursday 2 Jan Friday 3 Jan Monday 6 Jan Tuesday 7 Jan Wednesday 8 Jan Thursday 9 Jan Friday 10 Jan

Revised collection day: Friday 27 Dec Saturday 28 Dec Monday 30 Dec Tuesday 31 Dec Thursday 2 Jan Friday 3 Jan Saturday 4 Jan Monday 6 Jan Tuesday 7 Jan Wednesday 8 Jan Thursday 9 Jan Friday 10 Jan Saturday 11 Jan

Collections resume on your usual collection day, from Monday 13 January 2025 Garden Waste collections are suspended from Wednesday 25 December 2024 and resume on your usual collection day, from Wednesday 8 January 2025.

Check your collection days online: www.wealden.gov.uk  Please ensure that the bins are put out at the edge of your property by 7am on the day of collection.

Please take them in as soon as possible after collection.  Extra recycling can be placed out in non-black plastic bags next to the recycling bin for collection (except for glass which should only be placed into the recycling bin).  All your wrapping paper and cards (except foil/glitter) can be placed in the recycling bin.  Recycle your real tree in your Garden Waste Bin or take it to your local Household Waste Recycling Site.

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NEWS FROM CORNELIE USBORNE

Dark Skies policy

End of October I attended an inspiring talk in Bodle Street Green, organised by residents as part of the High Weald Dark Skies Festival.

Doug Edworthy of the Astronomical Society and Herstmonceux Observatory (soon to close its doors, alas) explained how easy it is to spot on clear nights the Milky Way and many constellations with the naked eye, as long as we avoid light pollution. Wealden is backing this and has laid down clear rules for planning applications.

Update on Southern Water SW finally recognised the huge problems it has created for residents. In the latest meeting with ESCC and WDC, SW’s representatives were keen to stress that customers and the environment are their priority (a tacit admission that this is new); they acknowledged that it will take a long time to fix the faulty system and cost a lot of money and that it will have to come from customers (us), borrowing and shareholders. Work at the Wastewater Treatment Works in Crowborough and in Hailsham has started and some drains and sewers are having their capacities increased but the deadline of 2050 for completion seems to have been adopted by the new government.

Planning A detailed response to the government’s consultation on planning changes by WDC: https://www.wealden.gov.uk/UploadedFiles/Response-to-the-NPPF-Consultation-2024-V5. pdf WDC Leader (Rachel Millward) and Deputy Leader (James Partridge) have written to Angela Rayner (Deputy Prime Minister and in charge of planning) about the current planning and housing finance systems preventing us from providing or securing the social and affordable housing badly needed by thousands of people in Wealden. Please email me if you’d like a copy of the letter.

Community Infrastructure Levy (CIL) Wealden parish and town councils will receive their share of just over £1.2 million from WDC’s fund for 31 March to 30 September 2024 to support infrastructure like play areas, parks, roads, public transport, health facilities, schools and flood defences. Horam’s Neighbourhood Plan ensures that HPC will receive 25% of CIL.

Wealden Disability Inclusion Group (WDIG) Horam Parish Councillor Jane Trott, an active member of WDIG, is registered Severely Sight Impaired / Blind and campaigns, on behalf of the parish, for those with accessibility issues for improved pavements, parking and, importantly, better access to the Horam council. Jane encourages people to approach her with any concerns or suggestions: jane.trott@horamparishcouncil.gov.uk.

Please get in touch with me with any concerns by e-mail (preferred) or phone.

Sadly, I won’t be able to hold my monthly session at the next Repair Café, Horam Village Hall, 14 December 2024. HAPPY XMAS AND A HEALTHY AND ENJOYABLE NEW YEAR to all Horam parishioners.

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The Importance of Hearing Tests

Hearing is one of the most critical senses we rely on for communication, social interaction, and overall well-being. Yet as adults age, hearing loss can become a common issue, often creeping up gradually and unnoticed until it significantly impacts daily life. The importance of regular hearing tests, cannot be overstated. These tests play a crucial role in early detection, prevention, and management of hearing loss, ensuring quality of life is maintained for as long as possible.

Age-Related Hearing Loss

Age-related hearing loss, or presbycusis, affects a large portion of the aging population.

It is estimated that more than 40% of people over 50 and nearly 70% of those over 70 experience some form of hearing loss. The reasons for this include natural wear and tear on the auditory system, prolonged exposure to loud noises over a lifetime, and other agerelated health conditions, such as cardiovascular issues and diabetes, which can contribute to hearing problems.

Despite its prevalence, hearing loss is often neglected or accepted as an inevitable part of aging. Many older adults may not even realize their hearing has deteriorated because the process is gradual. Therefore, regular hearing tests are essential to detect problems early on, even before the individual notices symptoms.

Early Detection and Intervention

One of the primary reasons hearing tests are important is that they facilitate early detection. Like many health conditions, hearing loss can worsen over time if left unaddressed.

Early detection enables prompt interventions that can slow down or manage the progression of hearing decline. For example, using hearing aids early on can help maintain the brain’s ability to process sounds, as the brain adapts to hearing loss over time by weakening the neural pathways responsible for sound recognition.

Moreover, untreated hearing loss is linked to a range of other health problems, including cognitive decline, social isolation, and depression. A study by Action on Hearing Loss suggests that older adults with untreated hearing loss are at a higher risk of developing dementia. Regular hearing tests, coupled with appropriate interventions, can mitigate these risks, contributing to better cognitive health and mental well-being.

Maintaining Social Connections

Another important reason for regular hearing tests is the impact hearing loss can have on social relationships. Difficulty hearing can make conversations challenging, leading to frustration for both the individual and their friends and family. As a result, many people with untreated hearing loss tend to withdraw from social situations, which can lead to feelings of loneliness and isolation.

In the UK, social isolation among older adults is already a significant issue, and hearing loss only exacerbates the problem. By identifying hearing issues early, hearing tests enable individuals to take steps, such as using hearing aids or communication strategies, to stay engaged with their communities and maintain their social connections.

Conclusion

Regular hearing tests for adults as they age are essential for maintaining overall health, well-being, and quality of life. Hearing loss is a common part of aging, but it does not have to be a barrier to communication, cognitive health, or social connection. With early detection, accessible treatment options, and ongoing support, you can manage hearing loss effectively and continue to live vibrant, connected lives well into their later years.

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HORAM PARISH NEWS It was nice to see so many members of the local community at the Remembrance Day Parade on Sunday 10th November and at the Service of Remembrance on Monday 11th November. The Chairman and Vice-Chairman of the council laid wreaths and paid their respects on behalf of all Members.

On an exciting note, the Horam Christmas Fun Night is days away. The event is on Thursday 5th December from 5.30-8.00pm. Many of the local shops will be open and some will offer free goodies. There is the free treasure hunt taking place along the High Street. Please come to the parish council office to pick up your form and there is a prize for all children on completion which can be collected from Samuel & Son. Downwood Vets will be hosting activities for the children, Diamond Dance will be performing at the Chapel, Horam Emporium and the Cuckoo Café will be decorating gingerbread reindeer and face-painting with some mulled wine for the adults. There will be live performances from the Wealden Brass Band and various choirs on the Co-op forecourt from 5.30-8pm. And most importantly for the children Father Christmas will be coming to the Horam Centre from 5.30pm free of charge – each child will receive a gift (whilst stocks last). Art and Tricha will be presented with a community award certificate from the council on the night for all their efforts arranging events over the years. This is the first year the parish council are organising the night and we would like to officially thank Samuel & Son, Sussex Weald Homes, The Horam Club Rooms Charity and the Horam Traders Association for their generous sponsorship.

The stair climber to aid accessibility into the council offices and for public meetings has finally been ordered and will be arriving early in the new year. The council’s grant application for funding has been successful and Wealden District Council have provided 50% of the cost for the stair climber. The parish council are extremely pleased with this news.

Please report any overgrown hedges on the highway and road signs blocked by foliage to East Sussex Highways who will contact the landowner. Now is the time for homeowners to trim their hedges ready for winter. Also to help promote the growth of wildflowers the council recommend that you compost any grass cuttings left on your verges.

Pension Credit gives you extra money to help with your living costs if you’re over state pension age and on a low income. Pension Credit can also help with housing costs such as ground rent or service charges. It is separate from your State Pension. You can get Pension Credit even if you have other income, savings or own your own home.

Pension Credit is worth, on average, £3,900 a year. You might get extra help if you’re a carer, severely disabled, or responsible for a child or young person.

You can apply for Pension Credit online: gov.uk/pension-credit You can also call the Pension Credit claim line on 0800 99 1234.

Wealden Works, who are based in Heathfield, help to develop employability and life skills for those 16–24-year-olds who are not in employment, education or training (NEET). Following the end of mainstream education at GCSE age, students can opt to enrol with Wealden Works to help develop further skills and qualifications and explore career choices. During their time with Wealden Works there are opportunities for work trials and business tours to help provide an insight into industries that may match skills and interests. Their services are free and over the years they have helped many children in the parish. They are in desperate need of any old laptops which you may have

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We also hope some of the local children are enjoying the Horam Detached Youth Session on a Monday evening from 6pm-7pm which is open to children and young adults from the ages of 10 to 19 at the Horam recreation ground. Younger children are welcome if accompanied by an appropriate adult. The parish council continues to actively work with East Sussex County Council to find a permanent youth facility for the young people of Horam.

All the meetings of the council are public meetings. Please come along and have your say. There is a public participation part at the beginning of each meeting where members of the public are invited to speak on any of the agenda items. The agenda for any council meeting is always published at least 3 days before the meeting and is available on the council website https://horam.com/ and the parish council notice boards.

These are located at the Horam Centre and in the Memorial Garden. The council are now adding all the agenda documentation onto the website for public information.

If you have any accessibility issues regarding physically attending a council meeting, please contact the Clerk directly who will arrange access to the meeting via zoom.

The Parish Council wish to clarify that they are a non-party political corporate body.

The parish council are continuing to liaise with the police regarding a new PCSO for the parish. There should be good news in the next couple of months.

Please report any crimes or anti-social behaviour to the police through 101. They cannot investigate an incident unless there is a crime report.

The parish council office hours: Tuesday - Thursday 9.30am – 12.30pm, Friday: 10am – 1pm. You can contact the Parish Council by email, post or telephone.

Parish Clerk: clerk@horamparishcouncil@gov.uk 01435 812151 or 07900 576236 The Clerk, Horam Parish Council, The Horam Centre, High Street, Horam

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NEWS FROM NUS GHANI

As we approach the end of another busy year, please allow me to reflect on some of the local successes and work that has been done to support our communities.

I am hugely grateful to the voters of Sussex Weald for returning me to Parliament in July. I continue building on my strong record of delivery and I am pleased that we’ve had some great news for several local organisations receiving Government support. Amongst others, these included: Beacon Academy in Crowborough and Uplands Academy in Wadhurst benefitting from multi-million-pound funding for building upgrades; the 1st Horam Scouts receiving over £27,500 for improvements to their facilities; investment of over £70,000 to help Hailsham swimming pool improve its energy efficiency; and over £297,000 for a new Community and Health Centre in Mayfield and Five Ashes. Improvements to water infrastructure are also taking place across the constituency, including in Halland, Hellingly, Wadhurst, Rotherfield, Heathfield and Punnets Town, as well as the £30 million upgrades at Bewl Water reservoir.

It’s also been a year of huge success for TeamGB and I’m incredibly proud that Sussex Weald has its own Olympic Gold Medallist Emily Craig from Mark Cross, who began her career at Bewl Bridge Rowing Club. I was pleased to meet Emily to congratulate her in person, and I continue working with our organisations including Hailsham Active and Horam GAP project on boosting accessible sports facilities in the area.

There are many ongoing projects which I will continue progressing next year including work with: Southern Water to prevent flooding and sewage overspills; Sussex Police on tackling rural crime and enhancing road safety; Ashdown Forest CEO and Conservators; our local charities including Rotherfield St Martin, Care for the Carers and Wealden Works in Heathfield; and the National Farmers’ Union and our fantastic local farmers.

It has been a busy year with lots of wonderful news and wins locally, but there is more to be done. Please be assured that I will continue to work hard in 2025 to campaign for more resources for Sussex Weald and to ensure that your concerns are heard in Westminster. This year, my office helped over 10,000 residents and I continue to hold weekly surgeries to provide advice and representation. If you need please Pagemy 1 of assistance, 1 email me at nusrat.ghani.mp@parliament.uk or visit my website www.nusghani.org.uk for more information.

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THURSDAY 5th DECEMBER FROM 5.30 TO 8.00 PM LATE NIGHT SHOPPPING SANTA’S GROTTO CHILDREN’S TREASURE HUNT WEALDEN BRASS BAND CAROL SINGERS DIAMOND DANCE SCOUT’S TOMBOLA

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OH COME ALL YE FAITHFUL, JOYFUL AND TRIUMPHANT

The holidays aren’t always what the hallmark movies represent and often behind closed doors it’s a very different story.

We grow up believing in fairy tales, and other myths and legends that keep dreams, family and society traditions alive.

The holidays arrive when many are suffering from seasonal sadness and an increase in fatigue and feelings of exhaustion.

Holiday trauma is a real thing and for some can bring up old trauma wounds, as the festive traditions, rituals, scents, grandmas gravy and the memorable Christmas tree decorations reappear. It can often feel overwhelming and be painful reminders of traumatic events or people. Despite its challenges Christmas can be made easier for everyone when we take time to understand the impact of trauma on enjoying the holidays.

For some these traumatic memories might still be subconscious, trauma does not always have to be remembered or cognitive. The body keeps score of everything that has happened to us and this is remembered in our nervous system. When the body says no we go into survival mode, but our system always, always gives us a signal to our safety. Be gentle with yourself as you navigate this time of year, let go of the perfect Christmas. It can be a time of love and connection to others but this can be hard to achieve when those around us are not being heard, validated and respected.

Tips for managing your health at Christmas: •

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Know that you are not alone YOU are worthy and YOU are loved, those social media posts may not be all they appear to be.

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GARDENING DIARY ‘When dark December glooms the day and takes our Autumn joys away’ Sir Walter Scott.

Well not a bit of it, these may be the sentiments of a gloomy Scot, mired in his arctic gloom, but we take heart from the month in which the sun is reborn and, though the worst rigors of winter are still ahead of us, there is the promise of rebirth ahead, once celebrated in the Roman saturnalia and the Germanic yuletide hunts, now personified by a girthful and jolly chap in a chimney.

As in November, the weather this month is rarely an incentive to be out there upside down in a border, but the garden is a relentless tyrant, which may only be tamed by seizing every chance to press on.

The edges of lawns may have been eroded away or died back from being smothered by overgrowth from the borders, lying leaves, or the depredations of children. The easiest way to make the edges good is to roll a length of turf along the edge and cut around it with a sharp knife, then roll it up, the outlined shape may now be excavated to an inch depth, the base broken down to a tilth and the new turf rolled back into place, a board to stand on will help bed the turf down, expelling any air; there should be no air pockets, especially under the edges.

New plantings should be checked from time to time as frost or wind may have loosened the roots, and loose plantings rarely survive; we must always have our mallet about our person to firm up any loose stakes.

Any brassicas in the vegetable plot should likewise be checked for firm footing; brassicas greatly resent any looseness around their feet.

Frost and gales in November will have seen to the last of the roses, thus we may reduce the top growth back a little and remove frosted flowers and hips, this will reduce wind resistance and present a more orderly appearance in the rose garden. This is not the main pruning, which may be done at the end of winter (Though many gardeners do this before Christmas).

The harvesting of brussels sprouts should be in full swing, starting from the bottom up and leaving the green tops until last. In the event of an ‘arctic blast ‘ being forecast, it may be worthwhile digging up some leeks and parsnips and heeling them into a trench so as to avoid having to harvest by hammer and bolster.

Sometime between Alamein Day and the ides of the month we may beg, borrow or otherwise purloin a number of twigs from some of the more forward of the trees and shrubs, including yellow flowering jasmine, willow, winter flowering viburnums, berberis, hawthorn, witch hazel and contorted hazel, these, when brought into a warm room and put in water should be in flower by Christmas, hinting at the rebirth and new life just

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around the corner. The no-mans’ land behind the bonfire heap may supply teasels, whilst sea thistle and artichoke heads saved from last month will make for a fine Christmas display when spray-painted by the more responsible of the junior members in the family. The dried seed pods of honesty make a fine sight shivering in a vase on the piano.

Whilst the keen gardener will have been digging over the soil since Battle of Britain Day, it is not too late to keep up the digging when conditions allow. The more soil we can get exposed to the weather the better. Areas reserved for hardy annuals should be dug over as well, but unless the soil is very poor there is no need to dig in compost or manure as annuals flower best on poorer soil.

Now most of the leaves have dropped, we may appreciate nature’s architecture in the boughs and burls of the trees around us whilst also taking worried note of deciduous trees and shrubs that are starting to crowd over the lawns and borders, this encroachment eventually leads to a thin, mossy lawn and straggling shrubs straining for the dwindling light, in such cases we must be ruthless with the chain saw and loppers; Nature is constantly trying to crowd us out, thus in the time of the Egg kings the quality of a Saxon was measured by his willingness to strip to his badger pelt underwear in all weathers, and with halberd in hand, wage unceasing battle on the forest around him.

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Trudi - Mothering Mojo

I’ve recently had a client come to me with a tricky issue. She is pregnant with her first baby and beyond excited about motherhood. Understandably she wants to do everything right and enjoy the experience. Hence why she has employed the best doula in town (that’s me, by the way!). We have booked in our antenatal session and I plan to be with her and her partner during the birth and for the first 3-6 months. Helping them learn to become parents.

Her issue is that she has told family she would like no visitors for the first 2 weeks at least. And it’s landed like she’s told them they are all banned from her life forever. She’s understandably upset and doesn’t quite know how to navigate between what she wants to do and what her family expects of her, when the new baby arrives.

I’ve written an article before on what family and friends can bring new parents, but here’s a few tips for the new parents themselves on how to get the ‘babymoon’ they deserve.

The first thing is to recognise that YOU are the most important person here. Your baby, your partner and you have every right to postnatal however you like. Boundaries can be set up with compassion.

And it’s up to everyone else to honour them. It is a great parenting skill to learn as early as possible!

People want to be involved and are excited. And there is an excellent middle ground here that can be established. An American client of mine recently told me about something called a ‘Mealtrain’.

You send around a document of dates and, if family and friends want to support you, they pick a date and a meal and bring that round when the time comes. The idea is that they drop the meal, take a peak at the baby and go.

I know some of us wince at the idea of a baby shower, but what a great way to get everyone together BEFORE the baby is born. If they only saw you last week they might feel better about leaving it a few weeks before coming again.

My favourite doula trick for the more persistent of visitors though, is to get the mum in to bed with her baby. No one feels comfortable hanging out in someone else’s private space. Furthermore, research shows mums and babies both benefit from skin-to-skin time together for weeks and so it’s science-approved!

Trudi Dawson is a doula, Infant Feeding Specialist and Holistic Sleep Coach. For postnatal support sessions get in touch via trudi@motheringmojo.com

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There is a great deal that surrounds Christmas these days that shrouds its real meaning.

John Betjamen, past poet laureate, wrote: “Some ways indeed are very odd By which we hail the birth of God.” And in his poem, ‘Advent 1955’, Betjamen uses rhyme with cutting humour to expose so much of what we call Christmas today, before finally focusing on the real reason for the season: The time draws near - the birth of Christ.

A present that cannot be priced Given two thousand years ago Yet if God had not given so He still would be a distant stranger And not the baby in the manger.

The real reason for our celebration is that Christmas means God is no longer a stranger. Matthew’s gospel tells us that he was called “Jesus, because he will save his people from their sins”, and “Immanuel – which means, ‘God with us.’”

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WORLD WAR ONE LONG DISTANCE LOVE STORY Abbreviated from the memoirs of Grace Hobden.

By Steve Ziegler Soon after Mary & Jim found a home in Sutton, Surrey, Stirling Villa, Binhill Wood Road.

World events intervened again, and soon both were crying farewell tears of seperation as Jim’s regiment had to report for embarkation from Southampton on the 14th July 1915, destination, Rouen, France.

With his experience of horses he took on the roll of ‘horse trainer’, but most of his time was spent helping the regimental vet care for wounded horses.

A smiling portrait of Jim taken in France betrays the real truth of his feelings. He became very distressed and greatly angered by the terrible injuries caused by warfare to such beautiful animals.

Along with his colleages they tried desperately to save as many as they could; many though could not be saved and he had to put a lot down with his pistol. These distessing images stayed with him all his life.

Jim in France, front row far right, July Relief from this imposed torture came in the most bizzarre fashion. On the 13th August 1915 his regiment came under heavy shelling. It was expected the Germans were about to make a sudden advance.

The order was given to prepare for this. Jim and his comrades grabbed their rifles and made ready to go to their stations. There was a lot of nervous tension and in the ensuing excitement one of the men accidentally fired his rifle. Jim felt a sharp stabbing pain in his left upper shoulder and collapsed to the floor in agony. Help was called for and he was promptly placed on a stretcher and taken to the nearest field hospital for emergency treatment, before being transferred to 26 General Hospital, Etaples in the Pas-De-Calais. Back home in Surrey, Mary and Jim’s family at Warbleton Priory in Sussex, were relived to hear via telegram that he was not seriously injured Jim was at Etaples hospital from the 15th August to the 31st August. He continued to complain of pains to the side of his wound and to the back of his head. It was then suspected he had shrapnel fragments embedded in his shoulder, which would require further investigation and an operation. On the 31st August he was transferred briefly back to England before travelling to a hospital in Kilkenny, Ireland, for an operation and time to convalescence. Jim’s part in the war was over, and he eventually spent thirty four months in Ireland.

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Jim around 1911, paying a visit to the family at Warbleton Priory, where they had moved to in 1906.

Showing off his brand-new bicycle.

Jim front row, fourth from left; with nursing staff at Kilkenny Ireland.

Mary had hoped they would meet up again however brief, but it was not to be, she had been advised it was too dangerous to travel. They had to wait until 1918 before being re-united at last.

Jim on left with two comrades.

Photograph of Jim with Mary inset.

This photograph was taken at Warbleton Priory after the war when Jim and some of his brothers that had served in the army had all returned safely.

Sadly, William and Alfred were to both die in 1925 as a consequence of the war, William as a result of gas poisoning and Alfred T.B. From back left to right: David, R.F.A ‘Sussex Territorials.’ Bert, R.F.A.. Arthur, Royal Sussex. Front left to right: William, Royal Sussex. ‘Jim’, 2nd King Edwards Horse Regiment. Alfred, R.F.A..

Jim and Mary eventually returned to Sussex, he found employment as Chauffeur/gardener with the Hassle family at Tanners Manor, between Horeham (Horam) and Waldron; living in the Lodge House.

Jim and Mary (marked with an X), hay making at Tanners Manor, mid 1920’s.

Mary was not a great lover of country life, however, the family spent many happy years at Tanners Manor, before moving to Polegate in the 1950’s.

At first Jim looked after Mr Hassle’s carriage horses and later learnt to drive Mr Hassle’s new car after deciding to enter the modern age. They were to have two children, Dennis and Margaret.

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