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Dear Friends in Christ, I hope this finds you happy and healthy! We have a great edition of Graceful Living this summer that I am pleased to share with you.

The feature article in this issue is about Deacon Jim and Christy O’Donnell, who moved from Findlay to South Bass Island to serve the Church, finding a renewed faith, contentment and a stronger marriage running the diocese’s smallest parishes on Put-in-Bay and Kelleys Island.

Bringing attention and prayer to priestly vocations in the Diocese of Toledo is always a priority. Three diocesan priests, Msgr. Tad Oxley, Fr. David Kidd and Fr. Joseph Mominee, participated in a Walking Pilgrimage for Vocations to the Diocesan Priesthood that saw them traverse 70 miles in four days, ending their journey at Our Lady of Consolation Shrine in Carey. We share their story in this edition of Graceful Living.

Lifelong parishioner of Most Blessed Sacrament Parish in Toledo, Tom Mishka is one of six full-time chaplains who minister to those in need at St. Vincent Medical Center, giving comfort and accompaniment to the sick and suffering.

We share Chris and Tara Newton’s faith journey, which begins when they enrolled their daughters, Cora and Lauren at Sandusky Central Catholic School, bringing Catholic traditions and faith into their home and kicking off a deep spiritual conversion.

Enjoy these incredible stories of inspiration and faith! With every good wish, I remain Sincerely yours in Christ Jesus,

Most Reverend Daniel E. Thomas Bishop of Toledo

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Deacon Jim O’Donnell and his wife Christy left behind their former life to begin a new ministry adventure on the Lake Erie Islands.

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Explore the rich history of the Lake Erie Islands.

Just off the northern shores of Ohio, experience their scenic beauty and recreational activities.

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CONTENTS Three diocesan priests went on a four-day, 70-mile walking pilgrimage for the intention of an increase in diocesan priestly vocations.

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A lifelong parishioner of Most Blessed Sacrament Parish in Toledo, Tom Mishka is one of six full-time chaplains ministering at St. Vincent Medical Center in Toledo.

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After years of searching for a spiritual home, Chris and Tara Newton were at a roadblock until they enrolled their daughters in Catholic school.

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Check out one of four local pilgrimage sites to visit during this Jubilee Year of Hope to nurture the virtue of hope and to obtain a plenary indulgence.

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ON THE COVER: Deacon Jim O’Donnell and his wife Christy (of the Lake Erie Island parishes) share their experience of what life is like living on Lake Erie's islands. Photo by Scott W. Grau/ Special to the Diocese of Toledo.

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ope Francis, born Jorge Mario Bergoglio on December 17, 1936, in Buenos Aires, Argentina, became the 266th Pope of the Catholic Church on March 13, 2013. A member of the Society of Jesus (the Jesuits), he was ordained as a priest in 1969, later becoming a bishop in 1992, and then a cardinal in 2001. Throughout his years in the priesthood, he was known for his pastoral care, focus on education, and deep commitment to social justice. His papacy, marked by humility and compassion, called the world’s attention to the need for mercy, care for the poor and environmental stewardship.

In September 2015, Pope Francis visited the United States for the World Meeting of Families in Philadelphia. Bishop Daniel E. Thomas led a pilgrimage with more than 300 pilgrims from

the Diocese of Toledo for the historic event.

In December 2019, Bishop Daniel E. Thomas traveled to Rome alongside the Bishops of Ohio and Michigan for an Ad Limina visit. An Ad Limina visit is a periodic obligatory visit made by all bishops to Rome during which they pray at the tombs of St. Peter and St. Paul. In addition, they meet with the Pope and Vatican officials. During this visit, the Diocese of Toledo’s seminarians at the Pontifical North American College in Rome were also invited to meet Pope Francis.

In October 2022, Bishop Daniel E. Thomas led a pilgrimage to Rome and Italy. During the Wednesday Papal Audience, the pilgrims were seated rather close to Pope Francis, and Bishop Thomas had the opportunity personally to greet him and offer prayers, support and love on behalf of the entire Diocese.

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n May 8, 2025, white smoke billowed from the chimney of the Sistine Chapel, and the faithful around the world cheered as they were introduced to Pope Leo XIV. Born in Chicago in 1955, he is the first North American-born pope in the history of the Catholic Church. A member of the Order of St. Augustine, he spent more than 20 years serving first as a priest missionary in Peru, and later led the Diocese of Chiclayo as bishop. From 2001 to 2013, he served as Prior General of the Augustinian Order, overseeing missions in nearly 50 countries.

Pope Leo XIV brings to the papacy a strong academic and pastoral foundation. He studied mathematics, theology and canon law outside Philadelphia, in Chicago, and Rome, earning degrees from Villanova University, Catholic Theological Union, and the Pontifical University of St. Thomas Aquinas. In 2023, he was appointed Prefect of the Dicastery for Bishops and was created a cardinal by Pope Francis. His papal motto, In Illo Uno Unum — "In the One, we are One" taken from a commentary of St. Augustine on Psalm 127 — reflects his vision of unity and communion in Christ, “Ad multos annos.”

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One couple left behind their former life to begin a new ministry adventure in the Lake Erie Island parishes The early morning sun casts golden ripples across Lake Erie as Deacon Jim O’Donnell steps from the gently rocking water taxi to the solid wooden dock. A humid breeze carries the scent of fresh lake air with a hint of sunscreen discernible as the first ferries of the day churn toward Put-in-Bay, packed with tourists eager for island adventures. Deacon Jim has already come and gone from nearby Middle Bass Island, where he assisted with the Sunday morning Mass. In his golf cart, he cruises past shop owners preparing for another bustling summer day. He waves at friends out for a morning walk.

When Mother of Sorrows Catholic Church comes into view, the doors are already open, and vacationers stream in, some with flip-flops on their feet, others with hair still damp from a morning swim. Among the faces is the one most familiar, Deacon Jim’s wife, Christy. She is preparing the altar and greeting friends and visitors. Before Mass begins, Deacon Jim and Christy share a smile. Even in the whirlwind of summer, they find moments like this — small, sacred pauses in the rush — reminders of why they are here, living out their calling in the heart of Lake Erie.

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“We need to pray about it and be open to God’s will.”

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Deacon Jim O’Donnell during his Ordination to the Permanent Diaconate in 2021. Deacon Jim was ordained alongside 22 other permanent deacons.

did mention it, though, and Christy’s response surprised Jim. “We need to pray about it and be open to God’s will,” Christy recalls saying.

Praying together was a regular habit for Jim and Christy. While they were both home during COVID-19 lockdowns, their joint prayer life flourished. They also got used to spending all their time together and enjoyed it. So, when they prayerfully considered applying for the assignment on Put-in-Bay, “it felt more and more like God was calling us to do it,” Christy explained. So, they applied. After a couple of months, just when they assumed someone else had been assigned to the role, Jim and Christy heard the news. Jim was given the assignment. In mere weeks, they would sell their home and many of their belongings, bid farewell to their parish, their friends and their lives in Findlay to begin a new life on South Bass Island.

It turns out the island life suits Deacon Jim and Christy. “The first thing people want to know about it is what the winters are like,” Deacon Jim remarked with a chuckle. “We love the winter,” he said. Christy added, “It’s so peaceful.” The weather is no different than the mainland, except that autumn hangs on a little longer because of the warm lake water. With less than 400 full-time residents and many businesses shuttered, South Bass Island is peaceful in the off-season. Still, Deacon Jim and Christy find ways to fill their days. “There’s a dart league and euchre league. You can be as busy as you want,” Deacon Jim said.

Of course, ministry work does not let up, even when the only mode of transportation off the island is by plane. Deacon Jim island hops weekly, at a minimum, going to St. Michael on Kelleys Island or the mainland for Diocesan meetings. There are two weekend Masses during the winter months—one at Mother of Sorrows, Put-in-Bay and one at St. Michael, Kelleys Island. The crowds, made up of permanent residents, are small.

In the summer, everything accelerates.

There are five weekend Masses, including one on Middle Bass Island. Typically, one visiting priest handles Kelleys Island and one handles Put-in-Bay and Middle Bass.

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Jim and Christy O’Donnell spent 35 years living the American dream. They had a neat house in Findlay where they raised two sons. They had successful careers — Jim in the automotive industry and Christy in the dental industry. They spent evenings with friends and weekends at their lake house. Their faith was somewhat on the back burner. “We weren’t the best Catholics, but God has a way of turning things around,” Christy said.

In the early 2010s, Jim and Christy had a reversion. They not only attended Mass but got involved in ministry at St. Michael the Archangel Parish in Findlay. “It set our faith on fire,” Christy explained. The years of active involvement, particularly working as a catechist, ignited something in Jim. “I wasn’t really asked about [becoming a deacon], I just felt the call,” Jim said. He began researching and reached out to the Diocese of Toledo. It would be years before the next class of deacons began formation, but Jim used that time to deepen his faith.

By 2021, Jim’s long-awaited diaconate formation was coming to an end, with ordination in September of that year. Jim and Christy decided to sell their lake house. What was once leisurely weekends on the lake would now be filled with ministry work. The same week their lake house sold, Jim heard a surprising announcement, along with the other deacons in formation: The Diocese of Toledo was looking for a Pastoral Leader to serve the island parishes on Put-in-Bay and Kelleys Island. Initially, Jim did not even plan to mention the opening to Christy. The position would require a permanent move to Put-in-Bay, they were established and happy in Findlay. He

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In the small island parishes, Deacon Jim handles nearly all of the office duties as part of his role as Pastoral Leader. He has the assistance of a part-time bookkeeper and the volunteer work of Christy.

“A water taxi picks me up and the priest and takes us to Middle Bass, then brings us back [to Put-in-Bay] for another Mass,” Deacon Jim explained. This arrangement is only possible with the assistance of senior status priests, mainly Father John Missler and Father Frank Kehres who each live close enough to the ferry for easy island access.

The two island parishes are some of the smallest in the Diocese of Toledo. It was a significant change for Deacon Jim and Christy, who were formerly members of the largest parish in the Diocese of Toledo. “We enjoyed St. Mike’s [in Findlay].” Christy continued, “And this is very different, but we love it.” As a Pastoral Leader, Deacon Jim explained, “I do basically everything that a pastor would do, but I’m a deacon. I can celebrate Baptisms and weddings, but I can’t hear confessions, celebrate Mass or give Anointing of the Sick.” There’s also the business side of parish life. There is no full-time staff at either parish; there is just a part-time bookkeeper. The office duties are Deacon Jim’s responsibility. “I do whatever is needed, volunteer-wise,” Christy said. That might mean, refilling votive candles, Saturday morning rosary on the lawn in the summers, “I can be a sacristan, a lector, the Altar Rosary Society, just to name a few,” Christy said.

It’s impossible to visit Deacon Jim and Christy without seeing how happy they are. Their love for the ministry work and one another is easy to recognize. “I feel that [moving to Put-in-Bay has] strengthened our marriage,” Deacon Jim said. That could be attributed to their long walks on the South Bass shoreline, but Jim and Christy mention something much more influential. “We pray together, even more than we did before moving,” Christy said.

“For example, if someone does not show up for their Holy Hour, we cover it, together,” Deacon Jim said. Sitting quietly, shoulder to shoulder, in front of the Blessed Sacrament in the small church they both serve is what island life looks like, at least for Deacon Jim and Christy.  GRACEFUL LIVING MAGAZINE | DIOCESE OF TOLEDO | SUMMER/FALL 2025 11

the rich history OF THE LAKE ERIE ISLANDS

Just off the northern shores of Ohio, the Lake Erie Islands have long captivated visitors with their scenic beauty, recreational activities and rich history. They date back to the last Ice Age, when a massive sheet of ice shaped the Great Lakes and their surrounding landscapes, including the Lake Erie Islands. Among the most iconic of these islands are Kelleys Island and South Bass Island, home to the renowned village of Put-InBay. These islands have played key roles in the development of the region, from Native American settlements to military fortifications and tourism hotspots. — B Y A N N I E L U S T 12 SUMMER/FALL 2025 | DIOCESE OF TOLEDO | GRACEFUL LIVING MAGAZINE

KELLEYS ISLAND: FROM QUARRY TO QUIET RETREAT The largest of the Lake Erie Islands at 4.4 square miles, Kelleys Island has a long, fascinating history. As glaciers that formed Lake Erie advanced, they scoured through layers of Columbus Limestone, etching deep grooves into the island’s northern shore. Over time, these grooves were uncovered and quarried, but in 1892, the Kelleys Island Lime & Transport Company chose to preserve one of the last remaining grooves, protecting this natural wonder for future generations. Today, the glacial grooves are the island’s most popular attraction.

The earliest inhabitants of the island were indigenous peoples, including the Ottawa and Wyandot tribes. By the 1800s, European settlers began to arrive, and the island was named after the Kelley family in 1831. Kelleys Island’s fortunes changed dramatically in the mid-19th century when it became a center for limestone quarrying. The resource contributed not only to the island’s prosperity, but also to the growth of nearby cities like Cleveland and Detroit.

After the quarries closed in the early 20th century, Kelleys Island transitioned into a more serene residential community. With its quiet charm, abundant wildlife and natural beauty, Kelleys Island is a peaceful retreat that continues to attract tourists looking to step back in time.

SOUTH BASS ISLAND: THE BIRTHPLACE OF PUT-IN-BAY Just a short ferry ride away from Kelleys Island lies South Bass Island, home to the lively village of Put-In-Bay. South Bass Island has a history that stretches back to prehistoric times, but it wasn’t until the early 19th century that European settlers made their mark. The island was initially established as a strategic location for trade, but it would rise to national prominence during the War of 1812.

In 1813, the waters surrounding South Bass Island became the site of the pivotal Battle of Lake Erie, one of the most significant naval engagements of the war. Led by Commodore Oliver Hazard Perry, the American forces defeated the British fleet, securing control of the Great Lakes. To commemorate this victory, the Perry’s Victory and International Peace Memorial was erected on the island in 1915.

In the late 19th and early 20th centuries, South Bass Island became a popular vacation destination, with its picturesque views, resortstyle accommodations and recreational opportunities. The island’s historic charm, paired with its modern amenities, makes it a perennial favorite for tourists seeking relaxation.

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THREE PRIESTS EMBARKED ON A 70-MILE WALKING PILGRIMAGE FOR VOCATIONS

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a bright September morning, three pilgrim priests started day four of their walking pilgrimage

bandaged and battered. Sore, blistered feet made every step a sacrifice. “I would have stopped long ago if we weren’t doing this for a purpose,” Fr. David Kidd remarked, limping with shin splints. A straight, flat road stretched ahead for many miles. Trees were sparse, which made the rare patches of shade along the road a brief but welcome respite from the sweltering heat. The pilgrims carried a blue flag with a gold emblem, giving passersby a hint that this was no leisurely stroll through the countryside. The rosaries dangling from their hands were a clue that this was no mere athletic competition. This endeavor was a Walking Pilgrimage for Vocations to the Diocesan Priesthood. That is what kept Msgr. Tad Oxley, Fr. David Kidd and Fr. Joseph Mominee moving forward, through pain and fatigue, until they reached The Basilica and National Shrine of Our Lady of Consolation after walking more than 70 miles in four days.

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A recurring comment among the three priests and the individuals who joined the pilgrimage was that it was more physically difficult than they anticipated, but also more spiritually fruitful.

DIVINE INSPIRATION Fr. Joseph Mominee cannot pinpoint the exact moment the inspiration for the Walking Pilgrimage for Vocations struck him. He had heard stories of walking pilgrimages to honor Our Lady of Częstochowa in Poland. While living in Italy, he had also participated in the Via Francigena, a walking pilgrimage to Rome.

“That was the beginning. I started thinking about what we could do [in the Diocese of Toledo] for Our Lady.” Fr. Mominee continued, “The major intention for vocations to the priesthood just made perfect sense.” At the time, he lived in Rome alongside Fr. Kidd and Msgr.

Oxley, as he studied at the Pontifical North American College. They both enthusiastically agreed to accompany Fr. Mominee.

PRE-PLANNED ROUTE Planning the pilgrimage was Fr. Mominee’s task, but it quickly became evident that the route

was almost pre-planned. “It really seemed that the Lord was lining up the pilgrimage how he wanted it, through Our Lady,” Fr. Mominee said. They would leave on a Sunday after Mass so that the first day would be slightly shorter, and the other three days would be roughly equal in number of miles. The churches that fit this arrangement were, unsurprisingly, Marian in theme — Our Lady of Mt. Carmel, Our Lady of Lourdes, St. Joseph and Our Lady Help of Christians, with the final destination as The Basilica and National Shrine of Our Lady of Consolation. There was divine providence even on the dates. When the three priests looked at the schedule, Sept. 8 was the only option for a starting day. “We did not intentionally plan to begin on the Nativity of the Blessed Virgin Mary,” Fr. Mominee said with a smile and a shrug as if to say that detail was decided for them.

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Equipped with backpacks, hats, water bottles and just a few other essentials, Fr. Mominee, Fr. Kidd and Msgr. Oxley departed on a warm and breezy Sunday afternoon. “Doing a pilgrim route, you bring what you absolutely need and then have to rely on God’s care and the assistance of others,” Fr. Mominee explained. For these three pilgrims, 70 miles stretched between themselves and their destination. “It was a profound moment,” Fr. Joseph said.

NOT ALONE While the three priests were the only pilgrims to make the entire journey, they were not alone.

Many people accompanied them in prayer and some physically accompanied them for part of the pilgrimage. “People want to be a part of something extraordinary,” Fr. Joseph said. The number of pilgrims walking varied daily, but on the third day of the pilgrimage, a mother and her preteen son walked the entire 20 miles. Nearing their destination, the eleven-year-old proudly led the group and held aloft the Marian flag. “It was incredible to see,” Fr. Kidd said. “Those moments and interactions with people kept us [three priests] going.”

SERIOUS PENANCE Still, the going was anything but simple. “I run half marathons, so I really thought it was going to be easy,” Msgr. Oxley confessed. “It was not easy,’ he said emphatically. He compared the physical toll of this pilgrimage to the physical toll of a full marathon. Msgr. Oxley, Fr. Kidd, and Fr. Mominee are three fit and active men who were all surprised by the physical toll. By the final day of their pilgrimage, they are bandaged and aching. “We have blisters the size of west Texas,” Fr. Kidd said, injecting levity. Despite their smiles and laughs, their pain was real, from searing pain in their feet to aching in their backs. “This is very serious penance. Not taking on pain for its own sake, but pain endured for God and for the sake of arriving at a holy place,” Fr. Mominee explained.

A FULFILLING PILGRIMAGE While the pain was more than they expected, the spiritual fruits were also more significant.

“This has been an incredible experience for me, spiritually,” Msgr. Oxley said. Before returning to Northwest Ohio in 2021, Msgr. Oxley lived in Rome, working for the Holy See’s Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith.

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At each stop, the weary walkers found generous hosts with food, water and friendly faces. The last pitstop before arriving in Carey was in New Riegel, where high school students greeted the pilgrims at All Saints Parish.

This experience of walking through the Diocese of Toledo was a poignant reminder: “I can find the spiritual life right here in Northwest Ohio,” Msgr. Oxley said. “This experience is very much a real pilgrimage like it would be to Lourdes or Fatima,” he emphasized. During this UPCOMING PILGRIMAGE journey, a friend asked him to lead The second a pilgrimage to Poland this year.

Walking He declined. “This is a fulfilling Pilgrimage for pilgrimage. I can find that here,” he Priestly Vocations concluded. will take place along the same route from September 28 to October 1, 2025. To learn more or to join the pilgrimage, look for details in August at toledodiocese.org.

CAN WE FINISH? The final ten miles of the pilgrimage were brutal. Temperatures were in the mid-80s, there was no shade coverage, and the water supply ran out. “There are moments when you think, ‘Can we finish this? Can we do this?’ The honest answer is no, but God can,” Fr. Kidd said. In the final couple of miles, the pilgrims were joined by families, including many young children, giving the pilgrims much-needed hydration and a final burst of energy to complete their task. Arriving within sight of the Basilica was a profound relief.

“All I could do was say Thank you, Jesus, in utter desperation,” Fr. Kidd said. It was a moment of keen awareness that this pilgrimage was only accomplished through God’s grace and with the support of a team of brother priests and many prayers of the lay faithful.

The intention for this walking pilgrimage was somewhat prophetic for Fr. David Kidd. When he agreed to join the pilgrimage, he had no idea that Diocesan priestly vocations would become such a large part of his daily life. In 2024, Fr. Kidd was named Director of Diocesan Priestly Vocations.

THE HIGHEST FORM OF PRAYER The culmination of the pilgrimage was a Mass in the Basilica and National Shrine of Our Lady of Consolation with Fr. Mominee as celebrant. “That’s the highest form of prayer we have. It’s a way of thanking God for arriving and for a beautiful week, but also, going back to the intention of the pilgrimage, asking Our Lady to have a hand in calling more men to the priesthood.” Fr. Joseph summed it up, “It was a very simple but beautifully overwhelming Mass. It was the most fitting way to conclude.”

AN ANNUAL TRADITION? Just fifteen hours after reaching the steps of Our Lady of Consolation, all three priests were on their aching feet at a diocesan event. The exhaustion was still evident, but joy radiated from them after the experience. The inevitable question arose: will they do this again? Fr. Mominee beamed, “We’ve already discussed making this an annual event for vocations.” 

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ercy Health’s spiritual care program, which includes internships and a clinical pastoral education residency program in addition to full-time chaplains, aims to provide holistic care for a patient’s mind, body and soul — a trademark of Catholic healthcare. A lifelong parishioner of Most Blessed Sacrament Parish in Toledo, Tom Mishka is one of six fulltime chaplains ministering at St. Vincent Medical Center. He spoke to Graceful Living about how he finds purpose and fulfillment in accompanying the sick and suffering.

This interview has been edited for length and clarity.

Q. Tom, you spent more than 20 years working in retail and banking before dropping it all to pursue hospital chaplaincy.

What led to you taking that leap of faith?

A. I’ve always been drawn to accompanying people who don’t have a voice, who are anxious or feel abandoned. My experience advocating for my son, who was diagnosed with special needs at the age of 2, helped foster that within me. And working in retail and banking wasn’t fulfilling me; I felt incomplete and without meaning.

I was raised Catholic but there were times I turned away from God after experiencing trauma or hardship in life. Around 2010, though, I found my way back for good and began pinpointing what was missing in my life — a purposeful vocation. I felt called to minister in a hospital, where patients and families are often at their moments of greatest need.

Q. And once you felt the call, how did you go about pursuing it?

A. At 45, I had to begin working toward a bachelor’s degree. For someone who took five years to graduate high school and had a family — a wife and three kids — to provide for, it wasn’t easy.

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Chaplain Tom Mishka and nurse Jordan Farnsworth share a light moment at the St. Vincent Medical Center nurses station. As part of Mercy Health’s spiritual care team, Mishka collaborates closely with staff to offer patients holistic, faith-rooted support during their most vulnerable moments.

internship at St. Vincent’s that turned into an 18-month residency before I became a full-time chaplain here. And my education is ongoing; I’m wrapping up a master’s degree in pastoral studies from Loyola University Chicago.

Q. What’s a typical shift like, or is there one?

A. I usually work Monday to Friday, 4 p.m. until midnight, and you never know what’s coming through those doors. We respond to anything that comes in; could be a death, a trauma incident like a motor vehicle accident or cardiac arrest. We also get consult requests from the nursing staff to visit specific patients. We’re really there for people going through spiritual or emotional distress, whether patients, family members or hospital staff. It’s a ministry of presence — checking in on them, seeing where they’re at.

One thing I always remember in cases of lifethreatening illness or injuries is that in many cases, the patient’s autonomy is diminished.

They can’t eat when they want, go to the bathroom when they want. Can’t leave like it’s your house, with the door open all the time.

On one hand, there are patients whose faith fortifies them in these moments. But on the other hand, some patients need someone to help them process their diagnosis or condition, someone who will walk with them through the crying and questioning.

Chaplains are in a space that very few people get to enter, and to hear their stories, what they’re scared or anxious about, is powerful. This leads to great conversations almost every day.

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Q. How has this experience as a hospital chaplain shaped your faith or worldview?

Mercy Health — St. Vincent Medical Center boasts Immaculate Conception Chapel, a beautiful, peaceful space for visitors to pray.

A. In addition to a greater appreciation and respect for each day, because tomorrow is not promised, is recognizing the intrinsic value others have because they are made in the image of God. Seeing others in this light, no matter their religious background (or lack thereof), that person bears the Imago Dei. As Christ says, what you do the least of my brothers, you do unto me.

Every time I walk into my parish, I always look at or touch the Fifth Station of the Cross — Simon of Cyrene helping Jesus carry his cross. I get to be someone else’s Simon, to help them carry their cross, albeit for a short time. And if I can be there to help walk alongside that suffering, that’s what has awoken my faith journey more than I ever expected. I mean, it’s transformative. 

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Q. How does a chaplain minister to people in their greatest moments of grief, especially if they’re not from a faith background?

A. You still provide that same presence and care. And through those conversations, in the case of atheists or agnostics, I think they tend to have an openness toward faith. Some still don’t want to hear anything faith-related, so the best I can do is just be present and just show God’s love.

I remember one person, his wife had passed, and she was relatively young. I was there when the doctor gave him the news, and I just let him know I was available if he wanted to talk. “I don’t need your BS,” was the response. So I told him, “Sir, I’m not here to preach. I’m here to hold space with you.” And an hour and a half later, he hugged me and thanked me for being there because I just gave him space to process the raw emotions. This was in the moment, and he was angry at God for taking his wife and I just let him talk. He just needed someone there.

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Brew black tea. Add dried lavender (or any foodgrade flower petals). Mix in sugar to taste. Chill and serve over ice.

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This iced tea is refreshing enough to quench your thirst on the hottest of summer days. Brew green tea. Add sliced honeydew and fresh mint. Mix in honey to taste. Chill and serve over ice with a mint garnish.

The tea variety you select is just as important as the additions. Enjoy this fruity, floral blend. Brew hibiscus tea. Add mixed berries to steep. Mix in sugar to taste. Chill and serve over ice.

SPICE IT UP It does not need to be winter weather to utilize warm spices; they work just as well in cold beverages. Brew Chai tea. Add orange slices and cinnamon sticks. Mix in sugar to taste. When chilled, top off with orange juice and serve over ice.

PEACHES AND GREEN Herbs are a tasty addition to sweet teas, especially when paired with a complementary flavor. Brew white tea.

Add peaches and basil to steep. Mix in sugar to taste. Chill and serve over ice with basil garnish.

While classic sweet tea is a refreshing beverage to beat the summer heat, there’s no need to stick to the basics every time you brew.

This season, it’s time to shake up your go-to recipe and dive into a world of creative iced tea variations that go beyond the usual lemon or mint. From fruity infusions to herbal twists, these unexpected iced tea recipes will turn your summer sips into a flavorful adventure.

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WEEKEND GETAWAY

BY ANNIE LUST

Tucked away in the southeast corner of the Diocese of Toledo, Mansfield is a city that surprises at every turn. From a charming downtown to beautiful vistas to iconic film locations, this city is a true hidden gem. Whether you are a thrill-seeker or just looking to unwind, spend your time in Mansfield for a weekend to remember.

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EAT&DRINK A stroll down Main Street in Mansfield will energize you for the day, no matter your beverage of choice. Stop at 3rd Cup of Tea or just a few doors down at Relax, It’s Just Coffee for your preferred caffeine fix paired with a delicious pastry. A little later in the day, take in the beautiful views at 1285 Winery at The Blueberry Patch while enjoying woodfired pizzas, locally legendary grinder sandwiches, artisan cheese plates and more. You can find an array of blueberry items or simply step into the fields to pick your bushel during blueberry season. Another lunch option is local favorite, Uncle John’s Place, where they serve mouth-watering burgers, cheese steaks and other comfort food. There are plenty of delightful dinner choices, but if you’re in the mood to splurge on an unforgettable memory, try Prohibition at the Caverns. This unique fine dining experience takes place underground, where guests are transported back to the Roaring Twenties with expertly crafted cocktails, live entertainment and a fascinating glimpse into the secretive world of speakeasies. Reservations are required.

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STAY You can stay at traditional hotels or campgrounds during your visit or choose something more unexpected. These three private rentals situate you near some of Mansfield’s most fascinating destinations. The Voegele Historic Lofts Bed & Breakfast is at the center of the action in a renovated building located in the Historic Carrousel District. A group of brick row houses called Hancock Heights stand directly across from the Ohio State Reformatory (the primary filming location for The Shawshank Redemption) and include the perk of discounted tours and experiences at the Reformatory.

Spruce Hill Inn & Cottages sits on top of a wooded hill and combines Victorian charm with rustic beauty. Located across from Snow Trails, this is a particularly convenient spot for winter sports enthusiasts.

No trip to Mansfield is complete without a visit to St. Peter Catholic Church. The twin spires soaring 150 feet in the air beckon locals and visitors alike. Inside, the Romanesque building features vaulted ceilings, intricate detailing and a unique color palette. Every inch of the church is breathtaking, from the custom Italian marble altar to the magnificent murals. This beloved treasure of Downtown Mansfield is on the National Register of Historic Places. St. Peter is the oldest of the three area parishes. St. Mary of the Snows in Mansfield and Resurrection in nearby Lexington operate as a tri-parish grouping under the same pastor as St. Peter.

EXPLORE

A favorite Mansfield experience among film enthusiasts is The Shawshank Trail. Follow the footsteps of Red and Andy from The Shawshank Redemption through 16 filming locations across Mansfield. The 47-acre estate of Kingwood Center features beautifully landscaped gardens, walking paths and a historic mansion, making it a peaceful retreat for nature lovers and history enthusiasts alike. Children and children at heart enjoy taking a spin on the Richland Carrousel at the heart of Downtown. Fifty-two hand-carved wooden animals circle an operational Stinson Band Organ for a whimsical ride.

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After years of searching for a spiritual home, Chris and Tara Newton were at a roadblock. But a fateful decision to enroll their daughters in Catholic school helped them find where they were always meant to be.

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ara Newton was driving home one night with her husband, Chris, when an idea entered her mind, and she blurted it out with hardly a moment to think about it.

“What would you think if we became Catholic?”

As the words tumbled out of her mouth, her heart began to race, not knowing what Chris would say. For the better part of the Newtons’ 15-year marriage, going to church had not been a big part of their life. But recently, they’d been visiting different churches to find the right fit and bring faith to the center of their home.

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Sure, their two daughters attended Sandusky Central Catholic School. They had never discussed the possibility of becoming Catholic, nor had it ever crossed their minds. Until now.

Pensive silence ensued, a few minutes feeling like hours. Finally, Chris spoke.

“Well, I can’t think of a reason to say no,” he responded.

That fateful conversation in June 2022 led to Chris, Tara, and their daughters Cora and Lauren entering the Catholic Church the following year. Now parishioners at St. Mary Parish in Sandusky, the family hasn’t looked back since.

“It felt like a homecoming,” Chris said about becoming Catholic. “Now we are where we’re supposed to be.”

SEARCHING FOR TRUTH Both natives of Sandusky, Chris and Tara met in 1997 on a trip to Florida for the Perkins High School band. During a rest stop in West Virginia, Tara, a sophomore, wanted to change seatmates. “The next person that gets on this bus, they’re gonna sit with me,” she told herself.

Moments later, freshman Chris popped up the stairs and readily accepted Tara’s invitation.

“If some cute girl tells me to sit next to her, I’m going to do it,” Chris now says with a laugh.

They dated through high school and, after taking some time off during college, eventually married in 2007 at the Lutheran church that Chris attended twice a month growing up. As they began married life, attending church was largely relegated to attending Christmas Eve services with Chris’ family; this was closer to Tara’s own childhood experience of going to church on Christmas and Easter at a United Church of Christ.

Cora, their eldest, was born in 2012, and Lauren followed three years later. As Cora approached school age, the Newtons wanted her to have the same schooling they did but decided to send her to Sandusky Central Catholic School (SCCS) for the 2016-17 school year as a stopgap until they could move to Perkins Township.

But by the time the Newtons moved two years later, they decided to keep both girls enrolled at SCCS. “Even though we weren’t Catholic, they really looked out for our kids and wanted the best for them,” Tara said.

Like any good parents, the Newtons would

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Chris and Tara Newton prepare dinner alongside their daughters, Cora and Lauren, in their Sandusky home. The family’s journey to the Catholic Church began with enrolling the girls at Sandusky Central Catholic School — a decision that gradually brought faith into their everyday life and eventually led to a life-changing spiritual conversion.

ask the girls what they learned at school. The girls would respond with updates from math or science, but then they continued with, “And in religion class…” — not a topic Chris and Tara, with their public school background, were expecting.

“They were excited to tell us what they did in religion class,” Tara recalled. “And we were also excited to learn from them because we didn’t have that background growing up. But then they started asking us questions about faith.”

Chris, with a bit more religious background, did his best to keep up with the questions, but “it quickly escalated to the limits of my knowledge,” he said. “That’s what spurred us to start going back to church.”

THE JOURNEY HOME They tried going to the churches of their youth but couldn’t find the right fit. Chris sought a structured service, and Tara wanted a community with younger families and a moms’ group, and neither church met those needs. More importantly, the Newtons didn’t feel fulfilled spiritually.

“We’d get the ‘Good News Gospel,’ which was great to an extent,” said Chris. “But I felt there was so much more to the story than what we were getting each week.”

“Services always felt like a big hug,” Tara added. “But there’s also more than that. Evil exists, and we never talked about it. I wanted the entire truth, especially considering what we face in today’s world.”

The Newtons were involved in and made many friends from the SCCS community, and Tara even joined the Sandusky Catholic parishes’ Walking with Purpose Bible study. The thought occurred to her that she wanted a community

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like this, but actually becoming Catholic never crossed her mind, or Chris’ — until that fateful drive home.

The next day, the Newtons called their friends Robert and Valerie Burch, longtime St. Mary parishioners and fellow SCCS parents, and asked if they could meet to learn more about Catholicism. The invitation was immediate, and when they met a few days later — June 23, Chris and Tara’s wedding anniversary — the two couples spent hours asking each other questions and talking about the Catholic faith.

The decision was simple for the Newtons: a resounding yes.

Cora and Lauren were ecstatic when they found out. “Yay, we can’t wait for you to come to our church,” they said, referring to the weekly school Mass at St. Mary.

“The first couple times we went to Mass, we were leaning on the girls for guidance,” said Chris. “They walked us through it, and we counted on them for quite a bit.”

Soon after the Newtons began the Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults (RCIA), a schoolmate of Lauren’s, 7-year-old Addelyn Wehner, became very sick and in danger of death. Chris and Tara watched as the entire Sandusky Catholic community rallied around the Wehner family, organizing impromptu Holy Hours and prayer campaigns. This prayerful

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Gathered around the dinner table, the Newton family shares more than a meal — they share a renewed sense of purpose and unity. Now parishioners at St. Mary’s in Sandusky, Chris and Tara say their faith has transformed their family life, filling it with joy, truth and a deeper hope in the Resurrection.

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witness struck them deeply.

“It was so moving and powerful,” said Chris of the Holy Hour they attended. “The church was full, and all were kneeling before the monstrance. It was as if everyone was saying, ‘We believe that is Christ on the altar, and we’re going before him to pray for our intentions.’”

Chris, a longtime Freemason before starting the conversion process, wasn’t able to enter the Church until December 2023, after completing his obligations to the lodge and making a formal renunciation of Freemasonry. But he watched proudly as Tara and their daughters became Catholic at the Easter Vigil on April 8, 2023.

For Tara, the Easter Vigil liturgy was an experience of pure joy. “When the lights came on for the Gloria and the trumpets blared, the tears began flowing,” she said. Even today, the smell of chrism oil reminds her of coming home to the Church.

Nearly three years after this journey began, the family has no regrets, only gratitude. The growth they’ve experienced individually and as a family through retreats, different ministries and the sacraments, is immense. Now, they live with hope.

“We went to our first funeral Mass recently,” said Tara, “and I was struck by how much of our faith is present throughout the funeral liturgy.

It’s weird to say you can leave a funeral feeling good, but I did. Because now, I know and have hope in the Resurrection.” 

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JUBILEE 2025

THE FOUR LOCAL PILGRIMAGE SITES TO VISIT DURING THIS HOLY YEAR This is a Holy Year, or Jubilee, themed Pilgrims of Hope. In his announcement of the Jubilee Year, Pope Francis wrote: “Everyone knows what it is to hope. In the heart of each person, hope dwells as the desire and expectation of good things to come, despite our not knowing what the future may bring.”

CAN I RECEIVE AN INDULGENCE? The Vatican has detailed how to obtain plenary indulgences — removing temporal punishment for sin through Christ’s merits — during the 2025 Jubilee Year.

VISIT ANY OF THE DESIGNATED LOCATIONS BELOW AND DEVOUTLY DO ONE OF THE FOLLOWING: Participate in Holy Mass. Spend time in Eucharistic adoration, concluding with the Our Father, a Profession of Faith and invocations to Mary, the Mother of God. The standard requirements for an indulgence apply, including detachment from sin (even venial), confession within about 20 days, reception of Holy Communion and prayer for the Pope’s intentions.

DIOCESE OF TOLEDO PILGRIMAGE SITES OUR LADY, QUEEN OF THE MOST HOLY ROSARY CATHEDRAL, TOLEDO The Mother Church of the Diocese of Toledo was constructed during the Great Depression in a “Plateresque” style, popularized in 16th century Spain.

From the stunning frescoes to the marble finishes, it is a true masterpiece of art and inspiration to thousands of visitors each year.

Bishop Daniel E. Thomas has designated four locations in the Diocese of Toledo as Jubilee Pilgrimage Sites. You are invited to visit these locations throughout the year. In making a pilgrimage to any of these sacred sites, one may obtain the Jubilee Indulgence.

UPCOMING PILGRIMAGE

We are inviting all our lay faithful, families, youth groups, parish organizations, consecrated religious, deacons, and priests to join us as a Diocesan family on the Diocese of Toledo's Jubilee Pilgrimage on Sunday, September 14, 2025. Join Bishop Daniel E. Thomas on this one-day pilgrimage to visit three of the designated sites. Learn more at toledodiocese. org/jubilee.

THE SORROWFUL MOTHER SHRINE, BELLEVUE Celebrating the 175th anniversary of its founding, this Shrine near Bellevue is an inspiring place of prayer where God and nature touch. At the center of the 153 acres of woods and lawns is the Sorrowful Mother Chapel. The Missionaries of the Precious Blood have operated the Shrine since it was founded by Fr. Francis DeSales Brunner in 1850.

OUR LADY OF HOPE CATHOLIC CHURCH, ATTICA Our Lady of Hope was established in 2005 after the closure of three area parishes. Our Lady of Hope was chosen as the new patroness. Tradition holds that over 150 years ago, the faithful of Pontmain, France were reminded to have faith in God’s plans with the appearance of Our Lady of Hope. This parish was selected because of the 2025 Jubilee theme: Pilgrims of Hope.

THE BASILICA AND NATIONAL SHRINE OF OUR LADY OF CONSOLATION, CAREY This year marks the 150th anniversary of the arrival of the statue of Our Lady of Consolation and the 100th anniversary of the dedication of the church. Since 1875, countless pilgrims have journeyed to the Basilica and National Shrine of Our Lady of Consolation in Carey to offer prayers of thanks and to confide their needs to Mary, Consoler of the Afflicted. Through her prayers, the sick and afflicted have found health, comfort and consolation.

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As we approach the middle of summer and attention shifts from planting annuals and perennials to working on other garden projects, there are economical upgrades that can have a big impact. Here are some often overlooked ways to save money on garden projects while recycling or reusing existing items.

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Paint your fence: A weathered wooden fence can get a new lease on life by adding a coat of paint. Paint colors that have a big impact on curb appeal are lavender, cream, buff or burgundy, according to landscape afficionados. These colors provide a beautiful backdrop to accent flowers and foliage.

Install a patio or walkway with used pavers or install a crushed gravel or pea gravel walkway. Used pavers, flagstones or left-over crushed gravel can all be found either for free or inexpensively. Facebook Marketplace, Freecycle, Craigslist and similar websites can be a great place to locate — for a minimal cost or for free — used pavers or bricks that a homeowner is replacing. A power washer can often revitalize pavers that appear worn.

Visit garden centers during clearance sales and off-peak times: Garden centers at big-box retailers often have a clearance area which contains plants that are withering. Don’t be discouraged by what you might find! With intentional care, regular watering and soil rich in nutrients, it is often possible to revitalize withering plants. If you are willing to take the chance, it is possible to find some great discounts on the clearance rack.

Check out estate sales and garage sales: Another great place to find an assortment of items for your landscape is estate sales and garage sales. These places can be great to find used patio furniture and items for your landscape including planters.

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Upgrade the front entry to your home: Painting your front door can offer one of the quickest and most cost-effective ways to give your home and landscape a big upgrade for the price of a gallon of paint, a brush and sweat equity. A black front door always offers a classic and timeless choice and goes with many styles and house colors.

For a quick and stylish upgrade, consider upgrading exterior lighting fixtures and adding new house numbers. Look for sale priced and clearance light fixtures and paint.

Consider raised garden beds: A great option for beginning gardeners is raised garden beds, which often offer better soil drainage and easier weeding. And, you might be able to locate a range of free lumber and wood on an upcycling website to construct your garden beds. Another popular option is to purchase a plastic or galvanized water trough, commonly used with livestock, to use as a planter for flowers or vegetables.

Update your mailbox: Consider replacing an old mailbox with something new. At the low end, mailboxes can be found for around $20 and will definitely upgrade your curb appeal. When you install your mailbox, make sure you are following the regulations set forth by the United States Post Office.

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Stencil or stain your porch and its steps: Consider power washing your porch and steps then staining them or purchasing inexpensive stencils to add a fun, painted pattern to them. Here is what you will need: two cans of paint (white and gray, or whatever color you prefer), a plastic stencil, a roller, a paintbrush and a few hours of time.

Use a small white picket fence as a focal point: Install a couple painted picket fence panels to create a fun and beautiful focal point to your landscape.

Pickets painted in bright white or black offer striking contrasts for a variety of seasonal flowering bulbs, bushes and shrubs. While, orange and yellow climbing roses pair perfectly with pickets painted black. Consider adding in lavender or a plant like Walker’s Low to add a pop of purple and green at the lower heights.

Use a Trellis to fill a void: If you are looking for height near the rear of your garden, consider adding at least one inexpensive trellis along with a climbing vine like Trumpet Vine, Clematis or a climbing rose bush. If you have woodworking skills, consider making your own trellis using freecycled wood.

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Whether you’re picking juicy apples, ripe peaches or sweet berries, the region offers plenty of opportunities for farm-fresh fruit. With many orchards and fields open for picking in the summer and autumn months, visitors can experience the joy of selecting their own produce while enjoying the scenic beauty of the rural landscape. Some locations even offer wagon rides, fresh cider and homemade baked goods, making it the perfect day trip for families and food lovers alike. So grab your baskets and visit one of these locations for a delightful experience and a delicious treat!

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THE PICKWICK PLACE The Pickwick Place offers a delightful blend of local produce and seasonal activities for all ages. With a focus on fresh, locally-grown ingredients, the Market at Pickwick Place is stocked with everything from farm-fresh vegetables to regionally sourced jams, syrups and meats. Beyond the market, guests can enjoy picking their own strawberries, sunflowers and apples at the farm’s pick-your-own fields. Whether you’re browsing the shelves for local treats or enjoying a fun day out with the family at their Strawberry Jamboree, The Pickwick Place is a true celebration of Ohio’s harvest and the local community.

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LINCOLN RIDGE FARMS

BY ANNIE LUST

If you’re looking for a fun outdoor activity, look no further than the orchards of Northwest Ohio.

Located in Van Wert County, Lincoln Ridge Farms offers a delightful blend of farm fun and fresh produce. Known for its popular Fall Mums & Pumpkin Festival, the farm boasts several family-friendly attractions, including a corn maze, hay wagon rides and the chance to pick your pumpkins and apples straight from the orchard. Visitors can also enjoy delicious seasonal treats like fresh cider and homemade donuts. With events, shopping, and activities throughout the year, Lincoln Ridge Farms is a fantastic place to create lasting memories while savoring the harvest season in a beautiful, welcoming atmosphere.

GIBSONBURG

HASLINGER ORCHARDS Since the 1920s, Haslinger Orchards has been a cornerstone of the community.

Originally founded as a tree nursery by John Haslinger, the orchard transitioned into a full-fledged farm in the 1940s, where it continues to thrive today. Known for its high-quality apples, cider and homemade jams, the orchard preserves traditional methods like cooking apple butter in a copper kettle while embracing modern technology. In 2021, a new cider mill was introduced to enhance

production, ensuring fresh, local products for generations. A wide selection of fresh produce is available in the market, or step into the apple orchard to pick your own.

LIMA

JK ORCHARD & FARM What began as a small apple orchard has now blossomed into a full-fledged farm offering strawberries, pumpkins, raspberries, grapes and even a sunflower field. JK Orchard & Farm is more than just a place to shop — it’s a place to gather, make memories and enjoy the bounty of fresh, organic produce. Whether you’re picking strawberries in the summer or exploring their annual pumpkin patch festival, there’s something fun for every visit.

MANSFIELD

THE BLUEBERRY PATCH The Blueberry Patch is a must-visit destination for blueberry lovers. Spread across 37 acres of lush blueberry bushes, this family-friendly farm allows visitors to pick their own fresh berries during the summer harvest. The farm also offers an inviting gift shop and a cozy cafe, perfect for a relaxing break after a day in the fields. Additionally, visitors can explore 1285 Winery for a taste of local wine.

With beautiful surroundings and delicious offerings, The Blueberry Patch promises a perfect day trip for all ages.

SWANTON

JOHNSTON FRUIT FARM Established in 1954, Johnston Fruit Farm has been a beloved family-run operation for over 70 years, dedicated to providing the community with fresh, homegrown fruit. Offering a variety of activities for visitors, the farm invites you to pick apples, pumpkins, and even flowers, all while enjoying scenic views and family-friendly fun. Visitors can explore the farm’s petting zoo, enjoy freshly made donuts or watch cider being pressed using the original equipment. It is the perfect place to enjoy the fruits of the season and create lasting memories.

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We’re here for you when you need us most.

Sincera Palliative Care and Hospice of Northwest Ohio When selecting a palliative care or hospice provider, it is important to ask questions to assure you are receiving the best care possible.

How long have you been providing care?

Hospice of Northwest Ohio was the area’s first hospice. Founded in 1981, we are the only local, independent, non-profit agency that dedicates all of its resources exclusively to hospice and palliative care. Sincera palliative care was started in 2008 to meet the pain and symptom management needs of patients with serious illness who are not on a hospice program.

Where do you provide palliative care services?

To best meet the needs of seriously ill patients across the community, Sincera’s care is typically provided in one of our eight clinic spaces conveniently located throughout the Toledo and surrounding areas. If medically necessary, consideration will be made for a home visit.

How well do you manage pain and other symptoms?

Our pain and symptom management expertise is unmatched in this region. We strive to manage pain within 48 hours of admission to our program.

Do you have a freestanding inpatient center?

Yes, we have three! Designed to meet the unique needs of patients and their families at the end of life, our Ebeid, Edward and Marion Knight and Virginia Clifford Hospice Centers provide beautiful, home-like environments for patients who require close medical monitoring, or whose conditions can no longer be managed at home.

Do you provide bereavement services?

Yes. Hospice of Northwest Ohio provides the area’s most comprehensive range of grief support services.

These include counseling, support groups and special workshops, which are free and open to anyone in the community.

What about patients who are unable to pay for services?

Medicare, Medicaid and most commercial insurance plans will cover the cost of Hospice or Sincera. As a not-for-profit agency, we receive substantial support from a variety of community sources. We care for everyone who requests our services, regardless of their ability to pay or complexity of care.

sincera sinceracare.org 419-931-3440

hospicenwo.org 419-661-4001

Unforgettable PILGR IM AGES

Maggie McDaniel and Teresa Grodi Members of the Diocese of Toledo

APRIL 22 – 30, 2026

CATHOLIC CRUISE ON THE DANUBE RIVER GERMANY | AUSTRIA | SLOVAK REPUBLIC | HUNGARY

WITH MSGR. WILLIAM KUBACKI & FR. RONALD SCHOCK Join Msgr. Kubacki and Fr. Schock in exploring the rich history and Catholic roots in 4 countries along the Danube River, sailing the luxurious and relaxing 5-star hotel, the Amadeus Queen ship.

Daily excursions include St. Peter’s Cathedral in Regensburg, St. Stephan’s Cathedral in Vienna, Melk Abbey, Budapest, and many other sites in the varies towns we visit. Return to the ship each night for dinner and sailing.

CatholicFaithJourneys.com For information or to register, visit our website or contact Maggie McDaniel at 419.290.8782 or maggie@catholicfaithjourneys.com