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Dear Friends in Christ, And he said to them, “Go into all the world and proclaim the gospel to the whole creation.” - Mark 16:15 Warm and prayerful greetings in the Lord! I pray that you and your families are enjoying the summer months. When we first introduced this magazine in 2019, it was created to evangelize and tell stories of those who have embraced their faith throughout our 19-county diocese. We continue that tradition with this sixth edition of “Graceful Living.”

On our cover are the Cramer brothers (with Hank the dog), who grew up and still live and work on the Bucyrus family farm. They live a life centered around the Catholic faith, family and farming.

In April, we announced our $65 million diocesan-wide “Living Christ” campaign that will go to support the capital, endowment and programmatic needs of our 122 parishes and diocesan ministries.

One of our feature stories in this issue of the magazine is about a fine Sylvania couple, Brad and Mary Crown, who literally answered the call to help strengthen their own parish and the Diocese by volunteering to help with the “Living Christ” campaign.

As a Bishop, I never thought I would be sharing with you a story about a roller coaster-loving priest! Learn about Father Jeff Walker’s faith journey from a boy who loved Cedar Point to a priest (who still loves the coasters) now serving at Saint Thomas More University parish in Bowling Green. Thrilled in this edition to introduce you to Tom Sloma, a Model T enthusiast from Sandusky who didn’t slow down in retirement but sped up working at his favorite hobby, serving on the board of Catholic Charities, and putting his love for fixing things to find ways to help his community.

Sure hope you enjoy this edition of “Graceful Living,” as much as I have, as we continue to share stories featuring Catholics from around the diocese. Please do continue to send your suggestions and ideas for the magazine to our team and we will look for opportunities to share the stories of the wonderful people who make up our local Church, their lives and their faith!

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IN THIS ISSUE ON THE FARM: Bucyrus brothers Doug and Ken Cramer share their love for family, farming and faith. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 8

COASTERS TO COLLARS: Follow Fr. Jeff Walker's ride from coaster-obsessed kid to coaster-loving priest . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .22

13 BOOKS TO FEED YOUR FAITH: A list of easy reads that will add enjoyment to your spiritual life . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .34

SUNDAY DRIVE: Take a trip down memory lane with Tom Sloma and his remarkable collection of Ford Model T's. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .14

TASTY TWISTS: Check out these uncommon ways to add flair and flavor to your grill fare. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .28

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WEEKEND GETAWAY: Find out why Van Wert should be your next short-term vacation destination. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .20

ANSWERING THE CALL: Sylvania couple assists in the initial phase of the Living Christ campaign. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .30

ON THE COVER: Brothers Doug and Ken Cramer were made for life on the farm. Photo by Scott W. Grau/Diocese of Toledo

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Priesthood discernment event attracts record numbers Bishop Daniel E. Thomas joined more than 60 young men on March 23 for an Andrew Dinner at Perrysburg St. Rose Parish. Hosted by the diocese's vocations department, the dinners are focused on those open to pursuing a vocation in the priesthood.

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t’s just the way we were raised,” Doug Cramer tells me. He is sitting shoulder to shoulder with his older brother, Ken, who adds, “I think it’s in our blood.” They are referring to their way of life that includes hard work on the farm, brother helping brother, neighbor helping neighbor. To Ken and Doug, their lifestyle is so ordinary that they seemed baffled when approached about being interviewed. In fact, they looked at one another, looked around the farm and then laughed. The thing is, their life does not appear ordinary.

In 2022, it seems extraordinary.

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Life moves at a different pace. Busy but not hurried.

John Denver might have been singing about West Virginia in his folksy classic tune, 'Take Me Home, Country Roads,' but the words 'almost heaven' apply here just as well

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Their childhood included milking cows (which had to be done twice daily) and caring for hogs, chickens and dogs. The Cramer way of life was —and still is —one where everyone works together.

On my first visit to pitch the idea for the magazine interview, I drove just beyond the pasture, where 30-some cows relaxed on a green hillside. I slowed to gaze at the calves, some only days old, curled beside their mothers. The C&B Country Meats sign signaled me to turn onto the driveway, where the gravel crunched beneath my tires as I continued past the house to the building a little further from the road.

A droopy-eared, tail-wagging hound with the name "Hank" embroidered on his collar greeted me as I strolled to the building. A sign hangs with weekday and Saturday hours. Sundays are, of course, closed. The building houses a general

store that the Cramers operate. They sell beef, but you can also find fresh eggs, Amish noodles, jam and a variety of other items. I grabbed steaks for dinner and headed to the counter where I noticed the “No debit or credit cards.

Sorry!” sign. I waffled a bit, knowing I only had a few random dollars floating at the bottom of my purse. “Oh, don’t worry about it,” Doug immediately said. “Take those and just bring back the money another time.” I drove away a little shocked, steaks in tow, whistling the tune to The Andy Griffith Show.

Doug lives in the house beside C&B Country Meats, and Ken lives a couple of miles down

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Ken and Doug Cramer (left), standing in front of their hay rake, take a momentary break from farm work. Doug (above) runs a John Deere tractor. On a spring morning at the Cramer farm, the cows and horse (below) graze in the field beyond Doug's home.

the road. In fact, they have always lived within this two-mile stretch of country road. The house Ken lives in today with his wife, Roxann, is the same house where the Cramers grew up.

Their parents married in 1948, moved into the house and started a dairy a few years later.

That environment is what formed Ken, Doug and their six siblings. “It was hard work,” they both said. But as they shared the memory, they smiled. Their childhood included milking cows (which had to be done twice daily) and caring for hogs, chickens and dogs. The Cramer way of life was — and still is — one where everyone works together. Their parents both worked on the farm.

“I think Mom ran the tractor as much as dad did,” Ken recalled. The life appealed to Ken and Doug. “I always knew I wanted to be a farmer,” Doug said before recounting his impatience to finish high school. Post-graduation, Doug

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The Cramer cows line up for a meal with Doug in the background.

worked and lived on the farm, just like Ken had been doing since his own graduation. They each married — Ken to Roxann in 1980, followed by Doug’s marriage to Cyndie in 1981 — and started their families. They lived in houses on the family farmland, raising their children much like they had been raised. In the mid-'80s, Doug purchased the farm where their beef operation is today. In 2001, Ken and Doug transitioned from dairy farming to beef farming, opening C&B Country Meats. Their days are filled with caring for their livestock, planting and harvesting their fields, running the meat processing facility, running the store and everything else that comes with farm life. They’re busy, but they never seem to be in a rush.

Their parents instilled more than just a love of farming, of course. On Sundays, they went to Mass, did only the essential chores and rested.

The Cramers have been members of Holy Trinity Parish in Bucyrus for their entire lives. Every Sunday, they swap their overalls, boots and baseball caps for their Sunday best. Supporting their parish is as much part of their DNA as farming. It’s generally behind-the-scenes support.

During the annual bratwurst festival that closes the main street in Bucyrus, you can follow the smoky, savory aroma to the Knights of Columbus booth where the brats are furnished by C&B Country Meats. The Cramers give regularly to

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A look inside C&B Country Meats where you can purchase steak, pork chops and a variety of other items.

parish festivals, fish fries and Right to Life. They sell gift cards to the parish at a discount, so the parish recoups a percentage of money spent at their store. They even agreed to this magazine interview — although the limelight is clearly not their preference — because it’s for the Church. Their Catholic faith, they tell me, followed by family and farming, are the most important things in life.

Ken and Doug have both passed retirement age.

“I retired from the post office last year,” Doug said.

In response, I asked, “But from the farm?” They both laughed. I can’t help but notice that hanging just above their heads is a wooden sign that reads Life is Better on the Farm. 

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As Tom Sloma revs up for another summer of cruising around Sandusky with his fleet of Model T’s, he’s excited to share his hobby with others and the lessons he's learned, too. This is his perfect

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s a young boy on his father’s farm, Tom Sloma grew up surrounded by machinery and equipment. He was enthralled by the intricate mechanics of it all — how does this equipment work or why won’t this tractor run?

“It’s very rewarding to be able to figure things out like that,” said Sloma, a parishioner at St. Mary Parish in Sandusky.

Decades later, as Sloma prepared for life in retirement after a career as an electrical contractor, his cousin told him he needed to find a hobby to take up his spare time. As it happened, Tom’s cousin had the perfect hobby in mind — Model T automobiles. With the Model T’s multiple pedal system and groundbreaking mechanisms of its time, it was an easy sell.

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After acquiring his first Model T, a 1924 black truck with “Sloma Farms” painted on the pickup bed, Tom and his wife, Teresa, joined more than 1,000 Model T owners in Richmond, Ind., to celebrate the 100th anniversary of the Model T. Having had a taste of the fellowship in the Model T community, Tom was all in.

“The Model T community is composed of people all over the United States and all over the world, Australia and other countries,” said Tom. “So I made a lot of good relationships.

Everybody helps everybody — if one guy has a problem, somebody in there knows how to fix it. We have a lot of fun.”

Driving a Model T is an altogether different experience from driving any modern vehicle.

The first thing an observer might notice is that there are three pedals, none of which are acceleration. That is actually in the handle of the steering column.

And as Tom learned the hard way, drivers have to gauge their own gas.

“There’s no gas gauge, so you

don’t know how much gas is in your tank,” Tom said. “We were out driving after first getting the truck, and well, we ran out of gas.

They never let me forget that — and I’ve done it a couple times since then, too. Teresa always asks me now, ‘Did you check the gas?’

Yes dear, I checked the gas.”

Tom’s pride is apparent as he gazes at his Model T collection, which has expanded to include a 1913 parade car and another 1926 car, which he refers to as his wife’s car. When the weather is nice, he and Teresa will take one of the cars out for a drive, often inviting friends or even their parish priests to join them.

“There’s no sense in having them if you’re not going to ride them,” he said.

But it’s not just personal rides the cars are used for. Tom and 20 or so fellow members of the local Firelands Timeless T’s Club will often volunteer their cars to be in parades or at special events and fundraisers. The Sandusky-based Serving Our Seniors organization hosts an annual barbecue where club members will offer Model

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Tom Sloma (above) sits behind the wheel of his 1926 Model T in Sandusky. The most recent addition to Sloma's collection is a 1913 Model T (at right) which he drives in parades as a member of the Fireland's Timeless T's Club.

TIMELINE OF THE MODEL T 1896

Henry Ford builds his first car, the Quadricycle.

1903

Ford Motor Company is founded. Ford Motor Company sells the first Model A for $850.

“Everybody helps everybody… we have a lot of fun.”

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1906

Ford Model N is the bestselling car in America.

1908

Ford introduces the Model T, which costs $850 or $950 with a windshield and top. Henry Ford wanted the Model T to be affordable, simple to operate and durable.

1910

Ford starts the Model T assembly line.

Production increases and car prices drop.

Three years later, Ford introduces the first moving assembly line.

1916

Ford sells the Model T for a record low price of $350, making it affordable for many people.

1927

The final Model T went down the assembly line on May 26, 1927. Model T production ends in America, shortly after the 15 millionth car. Ford ends the Model T to focus on a new model.

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“Not everybody has a Model T, so we share our enthusiasm with them.”

TOM SLOMA

T rides throughout downtown Sandusky and return all the donations they’ve collected to the organization. The club also has a presence at the Erie County Fair. ​​“It’s kind of a novelty,” said Tom. “You want to go for a ride on a motorcycle, you can do that pretty easily. But not everybody has a Model T and so that’s the way that we kind of share our enthusiasm with them. If we receive any money for it, we give it back to that community or whatever was going on.”

The importance of giving back to the community was instilled in Tom as a young boy and remains a significant part of his life. He serves on the board

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Model T collector Tom Sloma (above) sits behind the wheel of his 1913 parade car.

Sloma is a member of the Fireland Timeless T's Club which consists of about 20 enthusiasts of the classic Fords. The group often volunteers their cars for special events and fundraisers. The photo (at right) displays closeups of two of Sloma's three classic Fords.

of Catholic Charities of the Diocese of Toledo and continues to volunteer at Catholic Charities’ Sandusky location.

He’s served in many roles at St. Mary Parish, including helping start the parish’s Building Committee, which he continues to serve on.

When St. Mary’s pews were redone a few years ago, the kneelers didn’t work properly afterward. But Tom’s affinity for the intricacies of a Model

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T’s mechanics served a higher purpose as the Building Committee discovered the problem and re-modified the kneelers so they worked properly.

“You learn a lot of patience,” Tom said. “Things aren’t always going to go the way they’re supposed to, whether it’s a hiccup at a Catholic Charities event or finding that a Model T part is off by just 1/16th of an inch.” 

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Just over ten miles from the Ohio-Indiana border, you’ll find the charming city of Van Wert, Ohio. Despite the spelling discrepancy, the city is named after Isaac Van Wart, a Revolutionary War hero. You’ll find history in more than just the name — the Van Wert residents are particularly proud of the historic downtown, which boasts events year around. Even on your first visit, you’ll feel at home: Their slogan “Welcome Home” is the greeting used for residents and guests alike!

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EVENTS You will find unique things to do on your visit to Van Wert! You cannot skip a visit to Brumback Library. The building structure has a blend of Gothic and Romanesque features, and it is listed on the National Register of Historic Places. In the early 1900s, Van Wert was known as the “Peony Capital of the World” and, as a nod to this, Van Wert holds a Peony Festival on the first full weekend in June. Another great place to visit is The Wassenberg Art Center.

The community art center offers workshops and exhibits. You can be sure to have an exciting night if you visit Hat Creek Rodeo, an indoor bull riding facility in Van Wert.

SHOP The Bridge is a local Christian bookstore and gift shop. You can also browse Van Wert’s boutiques, including MOD Boutique, Humble Bumble, Curvy Closet and Stephanie Ann’s Boutique. If you’re looking for specialty food items, don’t miss Collins Fine Foods for cheese and wine, Truly D’Vine Bread Company or Something from the Garden, a farm fresh market with produce and Amish-style foods. (for more NW Ohio farmers markets, check out Road Trip, page 38)

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If you are in the mood for steak, look no further than Black Angus on Main. Drop

by Brewed Expressions for coffee, pastries and food — you can even drive through if you’re in a hurry. Turn back the clock with a visit to B&K Drive-In, a 1950s-style joint where car hops bring homemade root beer along with your coney dog. Wild Willy’s is the place to go if you want a great slice of pizza, and stop by Sycamore of Van Wert for a scoop of ice cream for dessert!

PRAY Make a trip to St. Mary of the Assumption Catholic Church in Van Wert (601 Jennings Rd.) for Mass, Confession or Eucharistic Adoration. Find out more by calling 419-238-3979 or visiting www.stmarysvanwert.com.

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You can easily find a traditional hotel in Van Wert, including a highly rated Holiday Inn Express & Suites, but you can find some great non-traditional options as well. Bring your tent or camper to Timberwoods Camping Resort where you can enjoy a pool, pond and outdoor activities, including a minigolf course. You can also find a few great places to stay in Van Wert on Airbnb. If you are willing to stay a little further from Van Wert, the Hillside Bed & Breakfast in nearby Willshire is a unique and beautifully restored 1870s farmhouse.

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BY ANNIE LUST

ER WALK PHOTO COURTESY FR. JEFF

Follow Fr. Jeff Walker’s ride from coaster-obsessed kid to coaster-loving priest

“I

was terrified of roller coasters.” A pretty unlikely statement from a man known to many as The Roller Coaster Priest, but in the mid-1990s, a young Jeff Walker loved Cedar Point for the experience more than the thrills. That would change.

“There was some trickery involved,” he mused about the time his sister convinced an unwilling Jeff to ride the Magnum XL-200. When the red steel coaster debuted in 1989, it was the world’s tallest, fastest and steepest roller coaster. Jeff’s sister left out those facts, of course. The ride up the 200-foot first hill, around pretzel-shaped curves and through three tunnels took only two minutes, but Jeff stepped out of the train changed. His love of Cedar Point expanded. He started collecting memorabilia. The year after his inaugural roller coaster ride, he built his own Cedar Point website by learning website coding. He absorbed everything he could about the minutiae of roller coasters (just ask him if German or Swiss manufactured roller coasters are GRACEFUL LIVING MAGAZINE | DIOCESE OF TOLEDO | SUMMER/FALL 2022 23

Fr. Jeff Walkerer's

FAVORITE RIDES Best Pre-2000 Coaster: MAGNUM XL-200

This classic coaster was the first in the world to top 200 feet. While others surpassed its height, the Magnum still packs a punch more than 30 years after its introduction.

Best Water Ride:

SNAKE RIVER FALLS

Beware, you will get wet! When this attraction hit the scene in 1993, it was the tallest, fastest and steepest water ride in the world. The 20-passenger boat climbs 82 feet before taking a steep plunge into the river below.

Best Unique Experience: FRONTIER FLING

Imagine being hoisted almost 15 stories into the air with only a harness around you. You hear “3, 2, 1, fly!” and drop at 65 mph. There is no description that captures the adrenaline rush of the Frontier Fling. You have to experience it.

Best Post-2000 Coaster:

Best Ride No Longer There:

PADDLEWHEEL EXCURSIONS Many rides have come and gone throughout Cedar Point history. Paddlewheel Excursions was an easy paddleboat ride through the lagoon. The real fun was the amusing commentary from the captain.

PHOTOS COURTESY OF CEDAR POINT

MAVERICK

This is not your average roller coaster.

The Maverick’s thrills come from lightning-fast twists, corkscrews, tunnels and plenty of airtime, not a tall first hill. Since 2007, this coaster has been surprising riders at every turn.

better). In early 2000, Ohio was buzzing about the new, record-breaking roller coaster debuting at Cedar Point. Jeff, a Cedar Point aficionado for a few years, was as excited as anyone, so he concocted a plan. He contacted the Bowling Green Sentinel-Tribune with a pitch: take him to Media Day to cover the opening of the Millennium Force. They liked it. A 14 year old Jeff went on assignment to his favorite place to ride the newest, most exciting roller coaster in the world. After five rides in the span of an hour, he said, “there’s nothing like it.”

Gerald and Joyce Walker were undoubtedly proud of their son. As Jeff neared his high school graduation, they may have worried, also. “I expressed no other ambition to my parents than to work at Cedar Point, so they were very concerned for my future plans,” Fr. Jeff recalled with a laugh. Just three days after commencement, he packed his bags and moved to the Cedar Point dormitories. To his delight, Jeff was assigned to work on the coaster that ignited his interest: the Magnum XL-200. “I loved the job; it was my dream,” he enthused.

“That summer also formed a big part of my faith journey,” Fr. Jeff explained. He was surrounded by people who did not practice any faith. He worked on Sundays and often did not go to Mass. “It was a struggle, but the Lord works in mysterious ways through all circumstances.” That autumn, he arrived for his first year at Bowling Green State University and experienced a similar atmosphere of worldliness until Jeff found a Catholic student organization led by Fr. Mike Dandurand. “That’s where I began to experience a conversion in my faith.

Though I had always been Catholic, I took ownership of my faith.” The people who now

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PHOTO COURTESY FR. JEFF WALKER

Fulfilling his childhood dream, Jeff Walker worked at Cedar Point for four consecutive summers.

Among his responsibilities were working on the Magnum XL-200 (pictured), the big first roller coaster he ever rode. It's still a favorite of his today.

“That summer also formed a big part of my faith journey.”

FR. JEFF WALKER

surrounded him made a significant impact. Suddenly Jeff realized that the people he’d met over the summer — the ones who were not concerned with Christian morality — had seemed happy until he met the people at Bowling Green who were striving to live according to the Catholic faith. “Their joy so far exceeded anything I had encountered until then, that it made my friends from Cedar Point seem miserable. That led me to discerning my vocation.”

He decided he would not return to Bowling Green State University for a second year. Instead, Jeff was going to enter seminary in the fall. In the meantime, he decided to go back to Cedar Point for the summer.

The second-year working at the amusement park was different because Jeff’s faith was different. “I found a whole different experience.” Not only did he find the time for Mass, but he also volunteered to play music for Sunday Masses. He also met some new faithfilled friends, including Craig, who played guitar at Mass to accompany Jeff’s keyboard. “Craig and I had When the Millennium Force debuted in 2000 at Cedar Point, a teenage Jeff Walker convinced the Bowling Green Sentinel to take him to media day where he was among the first riders of the giga coaster. He then wrote a review that appeared in the newspaper at left.

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During his time as associate pastor in Sandusky, Fr. Jeff Walker would occasionally make the quick trip to Cedar Point for lunch and a quick ride before resuming his pastoral duties. Fr. Walker glides above Cedar Point's iconic midway on the Sky Ride.

a routine. We would play for both Masses, we would get breakfast, we would ride the Magnum, and he would go work on the bumper cars while I worked on the Magnum,” Fr. Jeff recollected. As it happens, Craig is now Fr. Craig, a priest for the Diocese of Fort Wayne-South Bend, Ind. Jeff went to Chicago for seminary, and he returned to Cedar Point to work over the next two summers. He’d moved to park operations, where tasks included monitoring weather conditions and guest relations. “After four summers, I still wasn’t sick of the place,” Fr. Jeff said. But his seminarian and priestly responsibilities kept him busy for the next several years. First, he went to the Pontifical North American College in Rome for graduate studies, even returning to complete his degree after priesthood ordination in 2013. Fr. Jeff’s first assignment was St. Rose Parish in Perrysburg, where he spent three years.

“Jesus and amusement parks I can talk about all day.”

FR. JEFF WALKER

His next assignment placed him close to his old stomping grounds. While he was associate pastor for the Catholic Parishes of Sandusky, he occasionally visited Cedar Point for lunch and a quick ride before returning to his priestly duties. Over the years, he’s been able to see many amusement parks across the country and around the world. “Of course, Cedar Point is still my home,” Fr. Jeff states. His presence there is sometimes evangelization in itself. Strolling through the park, parishioners from across the Diocese of Toledo often recognize him and stop to chat with The Roller Coaster Priest. Many

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people, especially kids, are surprised and fascinated by Fr. Jeff’s passion for coasters.

“It’s a little unexpected. People forget that priests are people, too.”

Since 2020, Fr. Jeff has served as the Pastor of St. Thomas More in Bowling Green. Some things have changed in the 15 years since he left Bowling Green. “I discerned my vocation by praying in the Blessed Sacrament chapel, which is now the sacristy where I vest for Mass every day.” A quick look around his office, and there’s evidence of his two passions: a rosary and the Catechism of the Catholic Church, but also a Cedar Point board game and a book about roller coasters.

“Jesus and amusement parks I can talk about all day,” he said. And that pretty much sums up Fr. Jeff Walker. 

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TWISTS

TO THE TRADITIONAL PATRIOTIC FARE

BY ANNIE LUST

The traditional ketchup or mustard hot dog is great at the ballpark, but the options are endless when you’re at home. Have a little fun with one of these twists on the typical hot dog. These toppings also pair well with other grill fare like steaks and hamburgers.

F O U R T H O F J U LY Who needs a plate when you can pile all of your favorite cookout fixings on top of your hot dog? Start with a bun, add a hot dog, then pile pulled pork, macaroni and cheese, coleslaw and even a few potato chips.

FRENCH ONION You cannot go wrong with this mouthwatering spin on French Onion Soup. Lightly toast the bun, grill a hotdog and GREEK caramelize onions. Then, Give your hot sprinkle Gruyere over the dog some hot dog and place it Mediterranean under the broiler until flair. Top with the cheese is melted cucumber, and bubbly. Your olives, onion, feta bun is taking the PH crumbles and OT OB place of the crouton, YS CO tzatziki drizzle.

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Don’t wait until lunch to enjoy a hot dog. Toast your bun and grill your hot dog. Fry an egg, a slice of bacon and some shredded potatoes. Pile everything on your hot dog, sprinkle with cheddar cheese and devour.

CHICKEN BACON R ANCH

Caesar salads? Delicious. Hot dogs? Also delicious. Put them together for a tasty treat. Toast your bun and grill your hot dog.

Make parmesan chips by putting small piles of parmesan under the broiler until they are golden. Let the chips cool, top the hot dog with romaine lettuce, parmesan chips and a drizzle of caesar dressing.

This classic combo works so well on a hot dog. Use chicken hot dogs. Toast your bun. Before grilling, wrap bacon around your hot dog. Top with lettuce, tomato and a drizzle of Ranch.

SEAFOOD Shrimp! Lobster!

Crab! You can add a sea flair to any hot dog. Butter and toast your bun and grill your hot dog. Top with crab meat, lettuce, tomato, mayonnaise, salt, pepper and lemon juice. Pretend you’re on the beach and enjoy.

V E G E TA R I A N Not a meat-eater? No problem. A carrot makes a surprisingly tasty substitute. Peel a carrot and trim it to bun-size. Marinate it (it’s easy to find a recipe online). Brush with olive oil and grill. Voila! Add any toppings you like.

ENCHIL ADA

P H I L LY C H E E S E

Add some Mexican flavors to a hot dog for an incredible treat. Select chicken hot dogs. Toast your bun and grill your hot dog. Top with your favorite enchilada toppings, including black beans, Mexican shredded cheese, onion, diced green chiles and enchilada sauce.

Start with a beef hot dog. Butter and toast your bun.

Saute peppers and onions. Add a slice of provolone cheese to your hot dog and place under broiler until melted and bubbly.

Add peppers and onions and enjoy.

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ANSWERING

THE

CALL

A Sylvania couple helps navigate through the pilot phase of the Living Christ campaign

BY ANNIE LUST

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t began with a voicemail. Actually, Brad and Mary Crown each received a message from Msgr. Michael Billian, their pastor. That led to the couple attending an informational meeting, then volunteering to be a part of the Living Christ capital and endowment campaign parish team. Which then led to speaking at a parish event, attending weekly gatherings and meeting with a couple of dozen parishioners. Still, they are glad they answered the call.

Brad and Mary love their parish. Brad has been a member of St. Joseph in Sylvania his entire life, except during college and a few years afterward. When Brad returned to Sylvania with his wife, Mary, being members of the parish and enrolling their children in St. Joseph Catholic School was a priority. They even inquired about the parish boundaries to ensure their new house was within the parish. They were frequently involved in school and parish life for the next couple of decades. “We immersed ourselves in their activities, and our involvement with the parish was the perfect complement,” Mary explained. After their sons graduated and moved away, their school and parish involvement tapered off.

Several years later, when Brad and Mary both received a voicemail from Msgr. Billian, the pastor of St. Joseph, they were ready. “It was time to jump back in,” Mary said. Their parish was in the pilot phase of the Diocese of

Toledo’s Living Christ capital and endowment campaign. Going into the informational meeting, they had little knowledge about the specifics, but they were open to volunteering with one caveat: “We are not asking people for money,” they emphasized.

In the meeting, they learned the purpose of the campaign: to strengthen local parish ministries, support clergy, expand Catholic charitable outreach, enhance Catholic education, form lay leaders and support Holy Rosary Cathedral. “We liked what we heard and knew we wanted to be a part of it. The time had come for us to step up … to put forth the effort to keep our parish top-notch and to strengthen the Diocese of Toledo. It was simply the right thing to do,” Mary said.

They became so passionate that they agreed to reach out to other parishioners to inform them about the campaign and its importance to the parish and diocese and how they could contribute to the success. The very thing they

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originally pledged not to do — Mary said. They built relationships ask people for money — became with other volunteers, like their more comfortable. “Once we neighbors who walked to meetings saw what we were supporting, it with them and the people they met became easier to ask people for with to ask for support. their financial support. We just Their involvement as volunteers felt good about the campaign,” for the Living Christ campaign Mary explained. Brad continued, strengthened their bond with their “And the more we [met with parish and also helped them view SUBMITTED PHOTO people], the easier it became.” the Catholic Church beyond parish Msgr. Michael Billian, pastor of Sylvania St. And they had success. Nearly boundaries. They encouraged fellow Joseph Parish, introduces the Living Christ everyone Brad and Mary met parishioners to expand their love of the campaign to parishioners of the church. The Sylvania parish was part of the pilot phase with decided to support the parish to a broader scale, to support of the campaign which involved parishioners campaign. “The generosity is not only their own parish but to help from eight diocesan parishes. The capital and indeed heartwarming,” Mary build a vibrant Church throughout the endowment campaign is being launched in said. Mary credits that success Diocese of Toledo. Brad summed up three phases after the initial pilot phase. to the Holy Spirit, helping them their feelings: “This is our chance to find the words to inspire others. Before meeting with people, shine. To lay the groundwork for future generations, not Mary recited the campaign prayer. “What better time to call only in our parish but in all parishes.” on the Holy Spirit to help us find the words to reach people?”

As Brad and Mary are quick to point out, they are only Looking back on the fruits, there are a few obvious one small part of the team their parish organized. It takes blessings. The parish campaign was a tremendous success, many people to be successful, so if you get a call from far exceeding its goal. It’s something Brad and Mary take your pastor or someone at your parish, Brad said, “Answer pride in. An unexpected benefit has been the community- the call. Go to the meeting and be open to it. Hopefully, building aspect. “I enjoyed it. I had the opportunity to get you will feel compelled to be a part of it. You won’t regret to know some people I otherwise wouldn’t have known,” it.” Mary concluded, “It’s such a rewarding experience.” 

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“Through the Living Christ campaign, we will fulfill our responsibility as faithful Catholics to serve those in need. This campaign will address the physical and spiritual poverty of the communities that seek God’s grace in every corner of the diocese. Each of the case elements that the campaign will fund give depth to our diocesan obligation to serve our brothers and sisters in Christ, wherever they may find themselves on their personal journey.”

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fter many months of prayer and careful planning, the Diocese of Toledo is embarking upon a major fundraising campaign. This diocesan-wide initiative will support important capital, endowment, and programmatic needs to fund all of our 122 parishes and targeted ministries. The Living Christ campaign will raise $65 million to maintain the vitality of our local Church for this generation and beyond.

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Prayer for Beginners BY PETER KREEFT Jane Austen’s Genius Guide to Life: On Love, Friendship, and Becoming the Person God Created You to Be BY HALEY STEWART Rome Sweet Home: Our Journey to Catholicism BY SCOTT AND KIMBERLY HAHN

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BY MAGGIE GREEN “In these pages, author Maggie Green provides wise, compassionate guidance for members of what she calls “The Saint Monica Club”: good Catholics suffering like Monica the rejection of the Faith by persons they love dearly.”

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THE PARENT TRAP (1961) The Parent Trap is all about summer, from the beginning at a summer camp to a camping trip near the film’s end. Take your inspiration from the fight scene at the camp dance where Sharon and Susan knock over the snack table, including a large punch bowl. Make a simple, refreshing summer punch with Sprite, lime juice and frozen raspberries.

THE SANDLOT (1993) When you’re watching this quintessential ‘90s flick, there’s one snack that is a perfect fit: s’mores. In the overnight treehouse campout scene, the boys discuss s’mores when Ham Porter says the most famous line from the movie: "You’re killing me, Smalls.

These are s’mores stuff, ’kay? Pay attention. First, you take the graham. You stick the chocolate on the graham. Then, you roast the mallow. When the mallow’s flaming, you stick it on the chocolate.

Then you cover it with the other end. Then, you scarf. Kind of messy, but good. Try some." Make your s’mores, but be creative! Swap regular Hershey’s bars for Reese’s cups.

THE MUPPET MOVIE (1979) For kids, this may be one of the ultimate road trip movies and comes complete with campfires, ghost stories and some pretty awesome cars (1951 Studebaker and 1946 Ford Woodie station wagon). Your favorite road trip snacks will be the perfect pair for this movie. Pretzels, trail mix or potato chips are good options.

Just steer clear of frog legs!

LILO & STITCH (2002) In this Disney animated feature film, a girl adopts an alien that she believes is a dog. The Hawaiian setting makes it a perfect summer movie. Of course, you could opt for any Hawaiian-inspired snack, but one of Lilo’s most endearing traits is his love for Elvis Presley music, so an Elvis-inspired snack is perfect. Blend vanilla ice cream with peanut butter and bananas for an Elvis Shake.

STAR WARS: A NEW HOPE (1977) While not strictly set in the summertime, Star Wars: A New Hope is an excellent fit for a summer movie because it was a surprise hit in the summer of ‘77. It’s also scorching (two suns!) and sandy on Tatooine, the planet where Luke Skywalker was raised. So take a cue from the Star Wars universe and make a Tatooine Sunset, a tea-based fruit drink. Just add the fruit of your choice to your iced tea!

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Summertime smells like sunscreen, cut grass and fresh produce. You cannot find a better selection of in-season fruits and vegetables than stopping at a nearby farmers market. It’s also a great way to support local farmers and other small business owners. So visit your local farmers market or make a trip to one of these great options around the Diocese of Toledo.

Port Clinton

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EVERY OTHER SUNDAY Everything at the Port Clinton Farmers Market is handmade, homegrown, artisancrafted or homemade. The market makes a perfect destination for a summer Sunday drive.

THURSDAY AFTERNOONS While the fruits and vegetables are the stars of the show at the Dutchtown Farmers Market, on a Thursday afternoon visit, you can find everything from blueberry pies to cinnamon honey butter.

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WEDNESDAY AFTERNOONS Variety is the best description for the Bowling Green Farmers Market. Stop on a Wednesday afternoon, and you may find live music, food trucks, gourmet desserts and much more.

THURSDAY AFTERNOONS Food trucks, fresh flowers and specialty desserts abound at the Ottawa Farmers Market. Oh, and of course all the fresh fruits and vegetables you need.

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Toledo SATURDAY MORNINGS Unlike most, the Toledo Farmers Market is open year-round. So stop by any Saturday morning to get your local produce, eggs, sweet treats, coffee, poultry and bacon.

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Join Bishop Daniel Thomas on a pilgrimage to our Sister City of Toledo, Spain! We will tour Toledo, Avila, Madrid, and Segovia, before departing for Rome, Italy! While in Italy, we will spend two nights in Assisi, the city of Sts. Francis and Clare, visit the Eucharistic Miracle of Orvieto, enjoy an excursion to Castel Gandolfo, and finally spend 5 nights in Rome, with a papal audience, tour of the Vatican and its Museums, the Major Basilicas and sites of Rome, and a visit to the Pontifical North American College.

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