Shepherd’s Watch The magazine for and by the people of the Good Shepherd www.goodshepherdbrighton.org.uk
September 2014
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Forthcoming Events, pg 4 The Alton Abbey Retreat, ................pg 6 Victor and Constance, . ....pg 8 Bells & Bell-ringing …...pg 11 Engaging Christianity Course pg13 Hymns & Pimms… pg22 “One man in his time plays many parts” pg24 For those in peril in the sea...pg30 Air CDR, John Langston, RIP...pg32
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Vicar
Deacon
Revd. Felix Mascarenhas The Vicarage, 272 Dyke Road Brighton BN1 5AE Tel (01273) 882987 vicar@goodshepherdbrighton.org.uk
The Revd. Helen Rawlings 6 Beacon Hill Ovingdean, Brighton BN2 7BN Tel 07967695753 hrawlings@sky.com
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Churchwardens David Stevens: 2 Shirley Road, Hove, BN3 6NN, Tel (01273) 555197; desandpms@yahoo.com
Michael Miller 68 Ainsworth Avenue, Ovingdean, Brighton BN2 7BG Tel (01273) 240287 michael.miller@tiscali.co.uk
Hannah Beattie: 36 Matlock Road, Brighton BN15BF Tel 07771511879, hannahbeat@googlemail.com
Parish Office The Parish Office is open on Wednesday and Friday mornings from 9.30 to 10.30. The Parish Office telephone number is (01273) 553747; vicar@goodshepherdbrighton.org.uk
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Any plans for Autumn ? The grey and golden colours around, now paint nature with a spiritual beauty; a banquet to eyes in search of autumn glory. Summer has ended and the harvest feasts begin . As children and parents return from their holidays nature begins its rest. Most of us now make our plans for autumn and beyond, even leading up to Christmas. Hopefully you too will have your diary full by now. There will be personal, family as well as community commitments. By planning ahead and keeping up with them it gives meaning to our own life and to that of the community. You know that there is greater joy when we celebrate or journey together, in the company of others. We thus share in one another’s joys and sorrows. Here at the Good Shepherd, we have called the forthcoming season as "A season of Invitations". We shall be having a variety of events some of which will be to help various charities. Who knows, your friends might give you some of these invitations. I hope you will come and join us to enhance your joy. Rev. Felix While every effort is made to ensure all information in Shepherd’s
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Here are the special Autumn events with their dates : Sun. 21st Sept. at 10.15am. : Service for the Blessing of Animals. During September many churches celebrate "Back to church Sunday". I think this occasion could also be a great opportunity to invite those who may have been to our church before, for a wedding, baptism or funeral, or perhaps when they were younger for Sunday school – but haven’t been back since. You can invite your friends to come and bring along your amicable animals too. Sat 4th Oct. 7pm: Harvest Supper & Dance A wonderful opportunity for people to join in the social life of the church. There will be people who would love to dance, share a supper, or even just be with others. It’s healthy to dance and fun to look at others as they dance. and Sun 5th Oct. 10.15am : Harvest Eucharist. Harvest, one of our oldest festivals, reminds us of nature, thanksgiving, food and this year we celebrate the Harvest of the Sea together with our local fishermen. Fri 31st Oct. 7.30pm: All Souls Requiem: A wonderful tradition exists in our church as we remember those who have died. It is an occasion to invite particularly those who are bereaved and those wishing to remember their loved ones; with a chance to share a glass of wine afterwards. Sat 1st Nov. 6pm: Bonfire Party Fireworks in the vicarage garden with Baked Beans and Jacket Potatoes: Children love this event and though often regarded as a feast for the kids, people of all ages can join in. The evening ends in the hall with food and drinks.
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Sun 9th Nov. at 10am : Remembrance Sunday: With the First World War centenary, this year’s Remembrance Sunday will be a very special one and many will remember their loved ones who died for their country. This is an opportunity to commemorate them together. Christmas Fayre & Tree Festival: Saturday 6th Dec & Sunday 7th December (exact times to be confirmed, please see website) To support our charities listed below, we will again hold our Christmas Fayre in the hall on the morning of Saturday 6th. At the same time in the church we will have a new initiative, a Christmas Tree Festival, with trees all decorated by different groups in the community. The Tree Festival will continue on Sunday 7th in the afternoon with the opportunity to vote for your favourite in a competition for the best decorated tree. There will be musical entertainment on Sunday afternoon culminating at 5 pm in a service of "Carols amongst the Trees" . We could see this as "Christmas begins" leading us into our Christmas events and services of celebration. I pray that all your wishes and ideas will be fulfilled, whilst at the same time building our neighborhood church and fulfilling the Mission of God. Fr.Felix Our Charities for 2014: International: The Shalom Children’s Home, Karunalaya, Bangalore. Building a life, creating a future—every child needs a happy childhood. National: Fishermen’s Mission. Providing emergency assistance to our fishermen and their families. Local: Carousel; supporting people with learning disabilities Clock Tower Sanctuary; crisis assistance for young people.
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ALTON ABBEY RETREAT A few weeks ago a small group from our parish went to Alton Abbey on Retreat. It is a journey we have made over the last few years, beautifully organised, as always, by Jean Eke. Her husband Father Robert Eke was a vicar in Alton before they retired to Brighton and he is buried in the lovely peaceful graveyard at the Abbey sheltered by the many old trees. There are no headstones, only simple wooden crosses and it is so relaxing to sit there with only the sound of birdsong in the presence of God and all those who have gone before us. The extensive grounds range from a wild flower meadow, an orchard and the beautifully kept more formal gardens tended by Bishop Timothy Bavin who was a well loved vicar at the Good Shepherd before he went to South Africa at the time of apartheid to be first Dean and then Bishop of Johannesburg . The retreat is partly silent and we eat with the monks with the final Sunday lunch being a very jolly non silent occasion with the monks amongst us. Previous retreats had the usual three meditations and discussions led by one of the monks but this year we had Michael Miller and Deacon Helen as our leaders. The rooms are very simple but comfortable; the meals cooked by the Abbot's sisters were excellent and we had our own kitchen well supplied with tea, coffee, hot chocolate etc and biscuits that
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we could use at any time. The six resident chickens do a sterling job of supplying all the eggs! This year the Bishop of Europe Geoffrey Howell was visiting the Abbey at the same time and celebrated for us the Sunday morning Eucharist which is attended by local people and then joined us for lunch. We always come back refreshed and ready to tackle our various problems and having learnt a lot about ourselves. Thank you Jean once again for all your excellent arrangements. Every year seems to go seamlessly and I am sure those who visited for the first time will tell you what a rewarding experience it has been. Maybe you would like to join us next time?
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PARTY PLANNERS The Party is not over until the fat lady sings Mavis’ party hangs over Constance and I like a great black cloud. Our guest list has increased, it is now over 100, and I am half way to being a nervous wreck. This morning I lost my list of things to do. In front of me a vision of Corporal Jones from Dad’s Army – ‘Don’t panic Mr Victor! Don’t panic!’ My list was on the Kitchen table. Constance was out – she had gone to meet Victoria Sweet, my cooking instructor. Victoria has found 90 plates, 82 cups, 120 saucers and a splendid tea urn. And there will be no need to worry about the catering with Victoria in charge. I crossed off food, crockery and catering from my list, made myself a coffee, read the paper and felt rather better. I rang Mavis. ‘Constance and I would like to meet. We are very worried about the party.’ ‘I don’t see why’, said Mavis, it’s all very simple. Anyway, you’ll have to do it, I have broken my ankle.’ ‘I am sorry about that, but we need help. What about the extra chairs and tables you’ve promised?’ Mavis was difficult, I knew she would be, but finally she agreed to ask her gardener to put out as many chairs and tables as he could manage. ‘But,’ she added, ‘You will have to provide the transport.’ I then rang my friend John Duffy, a local Estate Agent. ‘I’m holding a garden party for 100 old folk, and I wonder if you can help me with some portaloos?’ ‘I’ve never been asked that question, as a rule I sell houses, but try Flush with Success in East Grinstead.’
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Later that evening Enid, our next door neighbour, rang the doorbell. Enid Twinkleson is 92 years of age. She specialises in making rhubarb wine. ‘Look Victor,’ she said, ‘you have more old folks for your party than you have room, so I’ll be happy to give them a tour of my house and garden and they can buy my wine at £2 a bottle. ‘Enid, that’s not a bad idea’, I said, and gave her a kiss. The weather forecast for the weekend was wretched. I rang Charlie. ‘Can you bring your tent? And please remember the chairs and tables from Hill House. And can you be here on Wednesday morning, Flush with Success are delivering and I don’t want their loos on our front lawn,’ ‘I have to . make a living’, said an exasperated Charlie. On the Wednesday evening, I gathered our team together. We were an odd bunch: Enid Twinkleson, Colonel Herny Astle, my father-in-law, Mumsy, his wife, Victoria Sweet, Charlie, Constance, Sally from the Bridge Circle, Mr James from the Church of the Good Shepherd, Pat and Derek and three lovely girls from the Water Board. The meeting started badly. Sally told us she had been asked to bring another 14 old people from the Day Centre. The Lord will provide,’ said Henry. ‘He better had,’ I muttered. Charlie’s tent was horrendous. ‘How will the old people find the loos behind the rhododendrons?’ asked Mumsey. ‘There will be a sign.’ I snapped. ‘They are not old people,’ said Henry, ‘they are our guests.’ We were luck. Saturday was a fine, sunny day. We pulled our piano onto the terrace. Mumsey’s rehearsal was not encouraging. The party started slowly but Constance and Victoria had set up a splendid tea. Mumsey began to play, badly, she was nervous. And then, walking down our drive was a 3-piece jazz band led by Pat and Derek. It was magic. Our guests began to tap their feet in time with the music. Mumsey recovered her nerve and when the jazz band stopped for a beer led a sing-song of the old favourites. The tour of Enid’s house was a great success, most
Page 10 The Good Shepherd Magazine Sept. groups returning with a bottle of rhubarb wine. In the middle of the party, to our astonishment, Richard, our son, and a new girlfriend, Fa-Tu-Yung arrived in a taxi from Gatwick. They were amazed. At 5.45 Victoria Sweet, a real heavy weight but pretty with it, sang ‘Now is the Hour.’ The party was over. Tim Parker TEA CLUB We have had a very busy few months at the Tea Club, culminating with my final time in charge which took place at Rushfields Garden Centre where we spent a very enjoyable afternoon with nearly forty of us being treated to tea and cakes. We had an unexpected hiccup when the minibus we use to transport our wheelchair members which sadly meant they were unable to attend. They did come however to the Fish and Chip lunch which was an extra in August arranged by Sheena Richardson who has taken over from me. It was a wonderful surprise when I realised it was a farewell "Thank You" occasion where I was presented with a beautiful bouquet, a cake decorated by the very talented Pat Hunter,, almost too good to cut and eat and some lovely presents. I was very shaken and could hardly reply to Father Felix's kind speech so thank you again everyone, so much. I took on the Tea Club almost 3 years ago when my dear friend Elizabeth Alcock who was running it became very ill and it seemed that it was coming to a very sudden end. I decided I couldn't let that happen, I used to take my own mother to it many years ago and it had been serving the wider local community run by some lovely people including dear Tom Wing who greeted his "ladies" with such old world courtesy. Lancing Prep were very disappointed to be told that the annual Christmas Party where they had always entertained was cancelled so they
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invited us to their school hall instead and I carried on from January. The club has gone from strength to strength and I know Sheena will be marvellous and full of new ideas, please give her your support. I would like to say a special thank you to Donald Baxter who has put out the chairs and tables for us all these years. The programme up to Christmas will be 1st September, Prestonville Trefoil Guild Choir, 6th October, talk by Julie Pullinger on Wills and Legal matters, 3rd November, outing to a Garden Centre and 1st December, Christmas Party with Lancing Prep. Meetings start at 1.30pm. Contact Sheena Richardson, Telephone07932591172 for information. I look forward to seeing you as an ordinary member and thank you all for your loyal support. Marguerite Harland BELLS AND BELLRINGING Church bells have been a feature of English life for hundreds of years. Dozens of carols and songs, even current popular songs make mention of bells. Wedding cards and gift wrap very frequently have bells on them. Bells have been used for centuries to summon people to church, and they ring out over the countryside, in towns and cities all over the country especially on Sundays. Bells are also synonymous with celebration, but surprisingly, church bells rung the way they are in the UK is very much a British thing, as I will explain later. My wife Sue and I started to learn to ring bells shortly after we came to Great Chishill at the end of 2006. We had seen the sign at the church saying that new people would be welcome, and we thought it would be a good way to meet people and become involved in village life. How right that proved to be! We had no previous knowledge about bell ring-
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ing, and if asked, we probably would have thought, like most people, that ringing the bells was just a matter of tugging on a rope to make the bell ring. We were to very soon find out that that is not the case at all. In fact, just getting the bell to ring is quite a skill, and getting it to ring at the right time proved to be near impossible for us for the first 3 months or so of learning! Church bells in Britain and the Commonwealth and just a few other places, are rung in a completely different way to anywhere else in the world. We don’t just pull a rope to swing a bell until it chimes, we actually make the bell swing through slightly more than 360 degrees. The bell is connected to a large wooden wheel which has a diameter of about 2½ times the height of the bell, and it is to this that the rope is attached. The bell starts upside down, then when we pull on the rope, the bell rotates through a full circle until it is upside down again. The sound is made when the clapper inside the bell catches up with the bell, which is in fact after it has gone 180 degrees. The skill of just ringing the bell comes from the fact that you are holding onto a rope that has on the end of it, a piece of metal which weighs, in the case of the biggest bell in St Swithun’s, the equivalent of 7 full kegs of beer (10 cwt and 3 quarters). Once that is moving there is no way that you are going to be able to stop it. Secondly, there is a delay between pulling on the rope and the bell ringing. Once one has mastered the art of just ringing the bell on the hand stroke (that’s pulling on the woolly coloured part called the 'sally'), then on the back stroke, (when the sally has disappeared up into the ceiling), the next task is to be able to do it at just the right time, with just the right amount of pull, to make it ring just after the previous bell rang, so that the five bells ring one after the other, the highest pitched (the treble) ringing first, and the lowest, heaviest bell (the tenor) ringing last. Then it all starts again. This is called ringing in rounds, and it is what you will most commonly hear us doing. After that, it’s a matter of doing ‘change ringing’ where the order in which the bells are rung is changed, and after that ‘methods’ where all the bells change according to a fixed pattern on every round – but we won’t go into that here! If you want to know more – or would like to have a go – come to the Good Shepherd bell tower one Tuesday at 7pm. Tower Captain, Pat Hunter
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ENGAGING CHRISTIANITY
This module is part of the Engaging Christianity Course produced by the University of Chichester in partnership with The Diocese of Chichester This year, as part of our Home Groups, we shall be following the “ENGAGING CHRISTIANITY� Course for our Autumn study groups. Aim: The aim of this module is to explore a range of Christian responses to the fact of religious pluralism Description: In the context of globalisation and increasingly multi-cultural societies, religious diversity is a fact of life. The experience of this social reality poses a range of questions for Christians today. How should I relate to my neighbours of another faith? What can I learn from their faith without compromising my own? Are all religions true in different ways? Or is one true, all the others being either in error, or only having a partial truth? Do Muslims and Christians believe in the same God? What does the Bible say about other religions? How can I live well as a Christian in a multi-faith world? This module examines such questions using a range of resources and approaches from the Christian tradition.
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Approach: You don’t have to be an academic to take this module! Although it is informed by the latest academic theological thinking on this important, contemporary and wide-ranging topic, the material that you will be required to engage with is designed to be accessible and thought-provoking rather than baffling. That’s not to say that there won’t be difficult ideas to discuss, but you will be encouraged to come at these issues drawing on your own experience and perspective, thinking about them as they arise in real situations rather than in theologians’ heads. What this means in practice is that there will be passages of the Bible and other traditional Christian texts to consider and discuss; hymns and other devotional sources to meditate on; scenarios to respond to; courses of action to commit to as part of your Christian life. You will be invited to consider some of the different ways in which Christian theologians have engaged with these questions and some of the underlying issues. Studying this course may confirm your existing understanding of and approach to the topic; but it should also challenge you to new ways of thinking and acting. Practicalities: The module consists of seven sessions, each lasting approximately 90 minutes and taking place after a short act of worship. There will be a group leader, often your parish priest, to guide you through the material. Commitment: Apart from attending and playing a full part in the twelve sessions, the only other commitment is to do some preparation prior to each session. This will normally be something to think about or read. There will also be additional resources recommended - such as books, websites and films – but there is no requirement to make use of these. Cost: £15 per person for the course pack
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MOTHERS’ UNION AUTUMN 2014 Saturday 6th September 9am Corporate Communion in the Lady Chapel ----------------------------------------------------Thursday 25th September- Saturday 27th September - Visit to the Diocese by Lynne Tembey, Worldwide President. Main events for us to support are: Friday 26th September 7.30pm at St Michael and All Angels Church in Lancing. A light supper and a chance to meet and hear Lynne. Please let Christine James know if you will be going as numbers are needed for the supper. Saturday 27th September 10.30am Overseas Day at St Paul’s Church, Chichester. Another chance to hear Lynne. Ploughman’s lunch can be ordered for £5. Again please let Christine know. Some of us plan to go by train as parking may be difficult. Details of other events are on the Mothers’ Union notice board -----------------------------------------------------Saturday 4th October 9.00am Corporate Communion in the Lady Chapel Thursday 9th October 12.45pm Talk Time led by Veronica Holden at 60 Princess Drive, Seaford followed by snack lunch. Saturday 25th October 10.30 till 3.00 Diocesan Council at Haywards Heath Saturday 1st November 9.00am Corporate Communion in the Lady Chapel Thursday 13th November 12.45pm Talk Time Venue to be arranged Thursday 27th November 7.30pm Discussion or Quiz Venue to be arranged Saturday 6th December 9.00am Corporate Communion in the Holy Redeemer Chapel Thursday 11th December Christmas Party to be arranged Christine James
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The Good Shepherd Magazine Sept. PLANNING AN ADVENTURE Some interest has been shown in Holy Island since we saw our former Vicar Paul Collins on television recently as he was taking part in Songs of Praise. Being a foreigner myself (from what is now Cumbria) I was keen to pay another visit to Holy Island . The idea of men in cockle shell boats risking their lives to cross the North Sea to bring the story of Jesus to my part of the country has always thrilled me and Durham Cathedral is so impressive and commanding. Beginning to think of a group visit made me realise that it is very complicated. Should we fly or go by train or coach – and where should we start? Edinborough and Newcastle are equidistant from Holy Island. What would the weather be like? Most people anticipated cold winds and rain. September or March ? When were the tides suitable (access to the island is only possible at low tide). How many days? Two? Four or five? Needless to say, Church Mouse will not be organising things so will just have to creep into someone’s luggage. HYMNS AND PIMMS We had hoped to sit in the vicarage garden in the sunshine as we did last year but the afternoon sky indicated that this would not be possible. The hall was set up with tables for eight and looked really welcoming so all was well. The Pimms was served and our voices were oiled into a tuneful mood helped by Gill Griffiths playing on the piano. Thank you Gill –that really gave things a lovely atmosphere. The hymns had been chosen during previous weeks and Felix guided us through them. The singing was not exactly like the choir but had been chosen as favourites and the roof was in danger at times. The hog roast was simply lovely and the salads were good. All sorts of sauces were on offer. I did not count the number of diners but the hall was full and the meeting of old friends and regular worshippers was noisy and jolly. For me the best bit was watching Stanley, Raffi and Small Daisy playing together.
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Who planned and organised this event? I don’t know but I thank them for another COGS enjoyable event. Another view. They usually have this party outside and then we can collect the bits dropped and enjoy them in peace. We can even allow friends to join in the feast. Not this time! They collected every crumb and put them all in black bags out of our reach. We were very disappointed. Church Mouse. FROM THE SOCIAL COMMITTE It has been a busy few months for the social committee starting with a very busy Easter Egg hunt in the vicarage garden on Easter Sunday. Despite the pouring rain we had a large group of very keen hunters who all left with their pockets bulging with chocolate eggs! June was very busy too. We provided refreshments for the schools concert which took place in festival week. Also during festival week, Pat Hunter very successfully organised the bi -annual "welly wanging" competition. There were individual entries and group entries from some of the Brownies. The social committee ran the buffet which was very well stocked with some lovely food and drinks. July brought us the transferred Corpus Christi. Sadly poor weather meant we had to keep the strawberries and cream
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inside but it didn't put anyone off and we had a good crowd. In August we held the annual Hymns and Pimms event. Once again this year the food was a hog roast. The event was held inside again due to poor weather (anyone noticing a pattern here...?!), however it turned to our advantage as the participants enjoyed it, as it didn't get too cold and could hear the singing better. Coming up we have the Harvest Supper, Bonfire Night celebration plus, the Christmas Tree Festival and the Christmas Fayre, Children's Christmas party with a visit from you know who - so there is lots to look forward too. If anyone has any suggestions for social events that you would like us to consider putting on or if indeed you would like to join the social committee (many hands make light work...) please do call Louise Hotchkiss on 07914 605907 or email louisetordoff@hotmail.com Thanks for all your help.
Louise Hotchkiss
‘One man in his time plays many parts’ (William Shakespeare) I was too young to fully appreciate the changes that were taking place in society post World War II. But there is no doubt that there were radical changes in the way the British viewed themselves, their past and their future. They had survived a major conflict during which new standards of morality were to surface and the traditions of the past were to become less important. But in my view it was the Sixties that set in train changes in society that transformed it into a different country altogether - and one which has not altogether advanced the cause of civilisation: a view not shared by the so-called progressives of the time who thought this was precisely what they were doing. Post war changing attitudes led to promiscuity and disregard of the traditional values that had provided the safeguards that allowed society to retain a level of decency. Sex, drugs and rock
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and roll were said to be the staple ingredients of the legendary Permissive Society of the Sixties. To many this was seen as progress; certainly no one sought to stop the clock. Doubtless we all have our views concerning the so-called decade of liberation but what depresses me is that older generations capitulated to the vociferous minority that promoted the self- gratification that has led to the creation of dependency, selfishness and greed that exists in society today. Clearly much water has flowed under the bridge since the Sixties and the fastest growing group is in the over-eighties – said to be in the order of three million strong. Today our towns and cities are changing, as more come to resemble Chichester – Britain’s ‘oldie’ capital where reports indicate an astonishing thirty-two per cent of inhabitants are pensioners. It is also needs to be remembered that the over-fifties are said to hold about eighty per cent of the UK’s disposable wealth establishing an entitlement to an identifiable voice of authority in the community – as against coercing them into becoming increasingly reliant on the State and placed in ‘one size fits all’ boxes where no one takes responsibility for themselves. It also needs to be recognised that increasingly, high streets will cater to the potentially powerful ‘grey market’ rather than the young and the time is long overdue to acknowledge the situation. In 2003 a group of doctors complained to the British Medical Journal about this road sign warning drivers to watch out for elderly people. They claimed it ‘stigmatised’ the old by suggesting that they must all expect bent backs. In 2008 Age Concern and Help the Aged (now combined as Age UK) condemned the sign as ‘ageist’ and called for its removal. Yet it is still in use. Clearly image does matter. If signs depicting coloured people or gays appeared on street posts and caused offence, there would be public outrage, so why should elderly people be treated any differently? Stale images keep prejudice alive if they linger while the world moves on. Banning them gives new images a chance.
Page 26 The Good Shepherd Magazine Sept. Interestingly some years ago when launching a new equity release product with a minimum eligibility age of fifty-five, the Norwich Union conducted a survey of over sixties across the country i.e. not confined to a local area. In commenting on the findings, Daren Carter, head of equity release marketing for the Norwich Union said: ‘Our research shows that perceptions of the over sixties are out of date and quite patronising. People simply don’t want to be known as OAPs any more’. He also commented on an issue that continues to manifest itself in relation to age i.e. ‘longevity’: ‘Radical changes in work patterns mean people could be looking forward to 30 or more years of retirement. Many feel at the prime of their lives, have a younger outlook and real zest for life’. Don Steel, director of social policy for the Association of Retired and Persons over fifty added: ‘The UK’s mature population is more active than ever but still suffers from the social stigma attached to being labelled OAPs. Society has become youth obsessed. It’s time for people to change their perceptions and realise that for a growing number of people life begins not at forty, but at sixty’. As I see the position there is ample evidence to support the argument that there is an urgent need to review strategies in relation to the ageing population with a view to enhancing the status and embracing the abilities of the older generation. In today’s society hardly a day goes by without reference to the subjects of ‘sexism’ and ‘racism’ and the heated debate that they generate. So why are we continuing to ignore the casual or systematic stereotyping and discriminating against individuals or groups on the basis of age? Quite apart from the fact that many people do not like being labelled with names that highlight or imply that they have passed their ‘sell-by’ date, has it not occurred to our politicians, bureaucrats, medical researchers and other well-intentioned but often naïve groups, that despite promises to look after us from cradle to grave – insufficient provision has been made for the inevitable demands which are being exacerbated by uncontrolled immigration? So what can we do?
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As a first step, it seems to me that there is a need to recognise that many people retain their vitality, creativity and continued growth through their fifties, sixties and seventies: additionally many of them have considerable work and life experience. Quite apart from the fact that such people should be encouraged to remain ‘self-sufficient’ – an ingredient that seems to be lacking in today’s society much of which believes that the State will provide – their energy needs to be harnessed and they should be given a second chance to contribute to the needs of society. As discussed, longevity has created a new potential lifespan which cannot be ignored and we now have vast numbers of people that are in the process of retiring or have retired. In the circumstances we need to create a new ‘mind-set’ where we no longer seek to categorise people as ‘young’ or ‘old’ – with the old being written off as people that can barely cross the road – but recognise differing abilities and against a background where many people have no wish to retire, afford them the opportunity to develop new skills and channel their energies into areas that lack their skills and thereby create a newness of life. They could become mentors for people at work and young people in their communities, contributors to organisations and society, and protectors of the environment. Additionally they could become involved in addressing some of the major problems facing the elderly today – caring for those that are unable to help themselves and at a time when Lord Falconer is busily promoting his questionable and potentially dangerous Assisted Dying Bill, ensuring that this will not lead to the syringe becoming the ultimate expedient for population control. Clearly the proposals discussed envisage focused and positive leadership within the older generation and a well-coordinated strategy: it is not a task for the usual suspects that sit around in snug offices, ticking boxes and attending meetings. Neil Kelly, 25 August 2014
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The Good Shepherd Magazine Sept. FOR THOSE IN PERIL IN THE SEA...
....is a line from one of my all time favourite hymns and is also the hymn of the Fisherman's Mission. I joined the Mission only a couple of years ago and found myself in a family of fellow Christians supporting each other as we minister to 'our' fishermen. This brought to mind Paul’s image of the Body of Christ, (1Cor 12) of a team, centred on Christ, recognising that every individual had a vital role to play, utilising our own personalities and talents, enabling us to function effectively for God in service to the fishing community. This year The Good Shepherd has adopted the Mission as one of its charities and this could not have been at a more appropriate time. The winter storms earlier this year devastated the lives of many fishermen especially those here on the south coast who ply the smaller, under 10 metre, boats. Many of them lost expensive nets and pots but worst of all was their inability to fish. They were powerless against the storms. Of course those with experience always put aside some funds for the leaner winter months but no one expected the storms to last for so long and many didn't earn any money for a full three months. Being self-employed they are not able to claim benefits unless they stop fishing, which none wish to do because 'tomorrow the weather will change' and they would have to pay any benefits back if they do as much as one day at sea. The situation by February, when the Mission set up its emergency relief fund, was desperate; indeed one local fishing community spokes person voiced his concerns that in that desperation some might take risks in an already dangerous industry. Using the relief fund I was able to assist a number of fishermen with mortgage and rent arrears; sadly I also attended the funeral of one who just felt unable to continue with the struggle. Fishing is our most dangerous peacetime profession. Many men are lost at sea every year but this only reaches local news, it is so common place, so most of the British population are unaware of this sacrifice as they eat their fish & chips. The equipment
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they use on the boats is also dangerous not only costing more lives but since my short time with the Mission at least a dozen limbs. These dangers were made apparent by Ben Fogle in his documentary 'Trawlermen's Lives' in which he joined crew as they went out to fish on the north sea. If you missed it you still watch it on ITV player: https://www.itv.com/itvplayer/ trawlermen-s-lives Fishermen very much depend on the elements and feel themselves at God's mercy perhaps more than most of us. "They that go down to the sea in ships, that do business in great waters; 24These see the works of the LORD, and his wonders in the deep." (Ps.107) Our Harvest Festival Service, at 10.15 on Sunday 5th October, is dedicated to the Harvest of the Sea. The church will be decorated accordingly with pots and nets as well as flowers. It will be an opportunity for some of our local fishermen to give thanks as well give us the chance to thank them. Fish will be offered up and then sold after the service to support the work of the Fisherman's Mission so I hope you will make every effort to come along and give generously. As Jesus called fishermen to be his disciples and build His Church on earth, so the Fishermen's Mission go in His name to them. ‘”I go fishing,” said Simon Peter. “We will come with you” said the others, and they toiled all night. But when morning came there was Jesus waiting for them on the shore, standing beside a fire. “Come and have breakfast” he said “I have made provision for you’” (John 21) So long as men work and die there will be a need for the Mission, those who, following Jesus, make provision today for His fishermen.’ Deacon Helen
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The tall elderly gentleman was a familiar figure at The Good Shepherd. He was always seated towards the back on the right side of the church – someone said he was “something” in the RAF... John Langston originally served as a Navigator with 630, 189 and 246 Squadrons. He volunteered for 617 Squadron (that’s the Dambusters) becoming Flight Engineer and taking part in operations including viaduct bombing raids on Armsberg and Bielefeld in 1945. He rose to the rank of Air Commodore and was awarded the CBE. He was President of the 617 Squadron Aircrew Association which has regular meetings at Woodhall Spa and was a key figure behind the fight to get a memorial for aircrews of RAF Bomber Command who embarked on missions during the Second World War. The Bomber Command Memorial was finally officially opened by HM Queen Elizabeth II on 28 June 2012 in Green Park by Hyde Park Corner. John passed away on 11 August 2014 at the age of 90. Tributes were paid to him at his funeral by his friend and fellow member of the 617 Squadron Aircrew Association Wg Cdr John Bell MBE DFC who also read a tribute from the Chairman Gp Capt D G Robertson who was unable to be present. Many of the congregation in the church were wearing 617 Squadron ties and sporting medals. John Langston was certainly SOMEBODY in the RAF. John’s family roots are in Dawlish, Devon which is where he has been laid to rest alongside his American wife, Marilyn. They had two children: Susan who, I believe, tragically disappeared whilst touring South America, and James who paid tribute to his father. He described their annual holidays in Devon when John would take him and Susan to his favourite childhood haunts on the shore, the moors and the countryside. James last memory of his father was a visit with him to the Bomber Command Memorial when he commented that it should have been erected 50 years ago but it was there at last. Amen. Pat Hunter
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Air Commodore JOHN LANGSTON CBE
Sept. 2014 R.I.P.
John and I were long-time members of 617 Squadron Aircrew Association, but it was only after I was invited to join the Association Committee in 1992 that I got to know him well. John had recently been appointed Chairman and the committee were busily engaged in planning events for the celebration of the 50th anniversary of 617 Squadron – due to be held in May 1993. John had a style of management which encouraged free expression of ideas and we gradually put together a programme of events covering 7 days. We met frequently to progress our plans, meetings which John had to fit in with his employment requiring his attendance at Clean Air conferences around the world. He took on some of the more difficult jobs such as writing to HM Queen Elizabeth the Queen Mother to invite her to a gathering of Association and Squadron members and wives at the Imperial War Museum. She was pleased to accept. John’s chairmanship, guidance and support undoubtedly ensured the complete success of the 1993 celebrations. A few years ago I moved to west Sussex which enabled me see John more often socially. We were both widowed so it became the usual arrangement for us to travel together to functions, pub lunches, funerals and signing events. I would drive to Woodhall Spa twice a year for the Association weekend, picking up Basil Fish on the way.
Page 34 The Good Shepherd Magazine Sept. John liked to sit in the back where he could stretch out, read his paper and doze. Later, a bag of toffees coming over my left shoulder indicated that he was now awake, followed by – ‘when are we stopping for lunch?’ Over the years we travelled many miles together and I could not have wished for a better companion. John was a keen and much loved member of the Veteran’s group of the Sussex Aircrew Association. Taking part over the past 5 years in the group’s signing events, talks and lectures to raise funds for the building and future maintenance of the Bomber Command Memorial in Green Park, London. His stories of his war-time experiences were legendary and would keep the public enthralled as they waited to have his signature in a book. Over the past year John suffered an affliction which he bore stoically and with little complaint. He treated it as an inconvenience and although in poor health he continued to support the Squadron Association and local events. Sadly, he was unable to survive another illness. Throughout his 90 years John entered the lives of a great many people who can proudly say – ‘I knew John Langston. He was my friend.’ John Bell
Lord of the world, give us courage to face our own suffering-,holding fast to your hand in the darkness. Show us how to draw alongside others in pain of body, mind or spirit. When we are overwhelmed by large scale suffering in far away places, help us to understand and feel the depth of your love for all people and draw from us an appropriate response. Amen.
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OUR REGULAR SUNDAY SERVICES 8am, Holy Communion 10.15am, Parish Eucharist 10.15am, “Time for God”, informal worship for all, in the Church Hall 6.30pm, Please check on the website or on the weekly sheet (Eucharist: Thurs. at 10.30am followed by Coffee and on Sat. at 9am) September 2014 2nd: Tea Club 1.30pm 14th : Service of the Blessing of animals, during the morning service. October 2014 4th : Harvest Charity Dinner and Dance, 7pm 5th: Harvest Festival, 10.15am (Harvest of the Sea) 6th: Tea Club 1.30pm 7th: Lancing Prep School Harvest Eucharist, 9.15am 8th : Autumn courses begin Details in the magazine. 12th: Choral Evensong, preceded by Music Workshop 15th: Bishop's Visitation, 3 - 6pm 24th: Autumn Gardening 9.45am -12pm, followed by lunch. 31st: All Souls, “Requiem” Eucharist, 7.30pm November 2014 1st : Bonfire, Fireworks & Jacket potatoes, 6pm 2nd :All Saints, Eucharist, 10.30am 3rd: Tea Club 1.30pm 9th : Remembrance Sunday, Eucharist, 10am 23rd :Christ the King, Eucharist, 8 and 10.15am 30th: ADVENT 1, Advent Reflections, 5pm December 2014 1st : Tea Club, 1.30pm 5th: Light up a Life, A service of Remembrance, 7pm 6th: Christmas Fayre, 10am to 1pm, in the Hall 6th: Carols among Christmas Trees, 5pm
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Our Service Times Sunday Worship 8am Holy Communion 10:15 Sung Eucharist* 10:15 Time for God** 6.30pm: check on the web *On the 3rd Sunday of each month this will be a Family Eucharist to which children are particularly welcome. ** Time for God” Services are held in the Church Hall. Weekday Eucharist Thursday:10:30am Saturday: 9am =====================
Magazine Contributions to the magazine are welcome. Please leave copy at the back of Church by 15th of every Feb., May, Aug. and Nov. or e-mail daisy.kendall21@gmail.com or to The Vicar —————————————Tea Club Meets on the first Monday of the month at 1.30pm. We welcome all who are 50 years plus, and would like some company. Just come along. Tel. Marguerite Harland 503040; hughharland325@ btinternet.com
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Hall Bookings: Tel. Sheena on 07932591172 or sheenarichardson@btinternet.com
Grub Club Meets on third Monday of the month. All welcome. Please contact Daisy Walpole at (508600) or Pat Hunter at (555954)
Choir Choir practice: Sunday morning at 9. All are welcome. Please contact: Derek Froud (681007)
Flowers If you would like to donate an arrangement in memory of someone or help with the flower arranging, please contact church office 882987.
Stewardship Secretary David Nissen 1 Shirley Road, Hove, BN3 6NN Tel (01273) 554183 dnissen@btinternet.com
Bell Ringing Ringing practice every Tuesday evening in the Tower. New ringers are always welcome. Please contact Pat Hunter (555954)
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