Kids
A double loss Sophie became expectant twice while she and her husband were located abroad. Tragically, on each occasion, she was given the news by doctors that her babies would not survive full-term pregnancies. Expatriated in Islamic countries, meant that both times she found herself returning home for medical treatment. teXt Margit Kranenburg
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ophie* is able to be open but frank as she shares her experience of the tragic events she has faced over the last few years. “We started our lives abroad full of positivity. I was pregnant, after a previous miscarriage, and all of our check-ups had been OK up until then. After two weeks in Qatar, I went for my first appointment with the doctor who was to be my gynaecologist. He informed me that there was something amiss with the pregnancy. The ultrasound showed that the baby was not going to survive.
Global Connection | December 2014
“So there you are, just the two of you in a strange land. In the short time we had lived there, I had only met a few people; we only had a handful of acquaintances. Bringing the pregnancy to term wasn’t an option; our baby wasn’t going to survive. But Qatar is a strict Muslim country and terminating a pregnancy is considered to be abortion. “My husband’s organisation was very understanding and put us on a flight home right away. A day later, back in Germany, the same bad news was confirmed by our own doctor. Five days later, we decided to induce labour. I was twenty weeks pregnant.