Spirit of the Dragon Magazine (Fall 2021)

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MIDDLE SCHOOL

FINDING THE NEW MIDDLE SCHOOL STUDENTS NAVIGATE A NEW SCHOOL YEAR. By Kevin Boland HEAD OF MIDDLE SCHOOL

Is this actually a “new” beginning or just a continuation

As students returned, we noticed subtle differences in

of the “old”? The beginning of something can be eye-

their demeanor. Maybe it was our imagination. They all

opening, like a new chapter, the start of a new adventure,

seemed very aware, concerned, and more sensitive to one

new project, new job, new semester, a new workout, or

another. They were just glad to be back and seemed to

the decision to quit a bad habit. However we see it, it

appreciate this “new beginning.” A student dropped some

is a chance to start fresh, an opportunity full of endless

books, and a handful of students scrambled to help. New

possibilities. We might meet new people, try new things,

students learned to find their classrooms and where to go

challenge ourselves in ways that we have not in our past,

for lunch and physical education. The atmosphere at our

ditch old habits, anything to give us that slight edge.

Lobby meetings is more focused; there is less chaos when students enter the room. Students listen and ask questions.

As we begin a new school year, that for now, looks very

They are enthusiastic but reserved and respectful. In class,

different from the start of last year, we leave behind many

students seem more eager to learn, listen, and participate.

things that might be best forgotten. Things like isolation,

At lunch, they’re enjoying their time together with masks

missing friends, a simple trip to the store, a restaurant,

off, mixing with different peer groups. During recess, they

travel, remote learning, Zoom meetings, and the freedom

organize games, including some new ones they brought

to do what we wanted when we wanted. In many ways,

with them from their backyards or the beach. At dismissal,

perhaps it helped us realize the endless choices we had

students are torn between leaving their friends and

from the minute we opened our eyes in the morning until

boarding their cars to go home.

our heads hit the pillow at night. We held on tight for the ride that was longer than most anticipated—that roller

This new beginning may not be apparent to everyone,

coaster that entered the dark tunnel spinning out of control,

but it is to us. Sometimes minor things can become the

that seemingly endless trip that looked as if there was no

most significant. You have to start somewhere to make

end in sight.

the changes you might want to see. This apparent new beginning is not something students predetermined or

We see the light. It may not be as bright as we had hoped,

predestined or carved into their fate; it is beyond their

but it’s a start. In-person school, no virtual meetings, less

consciousness and is in the moment of each little decision

screen time, singing, drama, lockers, athletics, catered

they make in the course of their day. Our students see

lunch. We are still wearing masks inside and keeping a

things through a different lens this year, although they are

three-foot distance, but it’s a lot better. But it didn’t come

still breathing through their masks.

soon enough. Life is pretty much back to normal, and let’s hope it stays that way.

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