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Megan Zelaski • Sarah Shriver
Megan Baksh • Centralina Regional Council
Felicia Bittle • Tony Miros • Caitlin Conner
Dr. Peter Rowan • Michael McQuitter
Ryan Schrift • Melissa Latin
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Gaston County Family YMCA
Radient
Felicia Bittle
Regional Council
Latin, Charlotte Fashion Plate
By Deborah Ally, Publisher, Gaston Lifestyles magazine
September 25, 2025
Gaston College Foundation hosted the 2025-2026 Scholarship Legacy Dinner to honor scholarship donors and recipients. Luke Upchurch, Executive Director, welcomed guests followed by greetings and invocation from Rev. Dr. Joan Martin, board member. College accomplishments were shared by President, Dr. John Hauser and why scholarships make a difference were shared by Ms. Phyllis Davis-Brown. New scholarship funds were recognized by Ms. Andrea Grenier, Foundation Development Manager and student Chip Cogdell
The 2025 GLM scholarship recipient was Tabitha Aylsworth who attended the event with her mother, Tonya Grigg.
shared words of gratitude. Daniel Freeman, Chief Development Office rendered closing remarks.
The 2025 GLM scholarship recipient was Tabitha Aylsworth who attended the event with her mother, Tonya Grigg. Congratulations to all recipients and thank you to all donors who make their dreams come true.
ChristmasTown 5K
Saturday, November 29, 2025
McAdenville, NC
This year’s event is sold out. They have an active waiting list. You can review the details on how the wait list works prior to registering. You are not committed to participate if you are on the waiting list, and they can make no guarantees you will get a spot.
Christmas Light Display
December 1-26, 2025
Walk or drive through the downtown area to view the frosty majesty of the winter landscape. Green, red and white lights will shine from 5:30 PM to 10:00 PM each night. Arrive early to enjoy dinner at Terra Mia Ristorante, a craft beer or glass of wine at 115 Craft and The River Room. Shop at Mona’s Boutique and Gifts, Revolver Records and Life is a Sweet-Candy Shop. An evening in Christmas Town U.S.A.® is like a magical trip back in time. Enjoy!
Tree Lighting Ceremony
December 1, 2025
Each December, Christmas Town, U.S.A.® is kicked off with a Tree Lighting Ceremony.
Join them at Dynamo 31, 102 Main Street in McAdenville at 5:30pm to celebrate as the children usher us into the Christmas Season! The countdown is always exciting just before a child “flips the switch” to turn on the beautiful light display!
Yule Log Parade
December 11, 2025
The Yule Log Parade, which began in 1949, pays tribute to the true spirit of community that makes McAdenville stand out during Christmas.
Join the event on December 11 with plans to arrive to Town early at 100 Main Street near the Yule Log on the vintage sled. Singing will begin at 5:30 PM.
By Megan Baksh Photographs Courtesy of Megan Baksh
With the season of giving just around the corner, you may be wondering where to shop and what to buy for that special someone who has it all. Discover some of the best that Gaston has to offer at the following locations, where you’re bound to find a sleigh full of festive presents for everyone on your list.
Painted Tree Boutique
3704 E. Franklin Blvd., Gastonia, NC 28054
Looking for a holiday gift that sparkles with whimsy?
Painted Tree Boutique has everything you need to add a little bit of flair to your holiday cheer. Hundreds of curated vendor booths make it a go-to favorite for those who enjoy shopping small in a big way. Featuring exquisite pieces of original clothing, handmade jewelry, seasonal décor, and hand-poured candles from local artisans and small businesses, each corner is stocked year-round with unique finds you won’t discover elsewhere. The charming boutique will host two Christmas open house events on Nov. 8 and Dec. 13, as well as a nighttime Jingle Ladies event on Dec. 18. Each event will feature live holiday music and dazzling refreshments. Visit https://paintedtree.com for more information.
100 W. First St., Lowell, NC 28098
Join the City of Lowell on Saturday, Dec. 6, 2025, for its annual Christmas Parade & Artisan Market, where guests are invited to partake in an afternoon full of enchanted merriment. Experience the joy of the season as you peruse a wondrous selection of handmade goods crafted by local artisans. Before the Christmas parade begins, don’t forget to capture a magical moment with Santa for free. Parents, Santa has a lot of presents to carry this year and won’t be able to lift or lower children, so please be prepared to lend a helping “elf
hand.” A celebration of community spirit, this family-friendly event is sure to become a yuletide tradition in no time. Visit https://lowellnc.gov for more information.
Sponsored by Primal Brewery Belmont, CharlotteMecklenburg Animal Care & Control, and Grateful Meds on Saturday, Nov. 15, 2025, this merrily mindful event is for anyone seeking solace from what can often be a hectic time of the year. While offering an assortment of self-care gifts crafted by local artisans, holistic healers, and wellness-based businesses, the Wellness Wonderland Holiday Market has the community’s well-being at heart this holiday season. Shoppers can look forward to clean-ingredient skincare by KizMet, herbal tea blends by Anam Cara Path Apothecary, and handmade charcuterie boards and birdhouses by Cheffyfish Creative Creations, to name a few. Visit https://www. wellnesswonderland.social for an extensive list of vendors and more information.
By Megan Zelaski Photographs Courtesy of Gaston Business Association
Each year, the Gaston Business Association’s Annual Celebration shines a light on the people who shape our community through leadership, service, and vision. Among the most meaningful moments of the event are the presentations of the Athena and Aurora Awards—two honors that recognize the incredible women driving progress in Gaston County.
The Athena Award is one of the GBA’s most prestigious honors, recognizing business and professional leaders who have made lasting contributions to advancing opportunities for women. This year’s recipient, Mary Frances Forrester, embodies the very essence of that mission.
With more than 45 years of political and civic leadership, Forrester’s influence reaches across North Carolina and beyond. She has held national leadership roles with Concerned Women for America (CWA), serving as the North Carolina State Director, Legislative and Media Coordinator, and as a member of the National Board of Directors—earning recognition as Outstanding Director in Training in 1998. Beyond politics, Forrester has long championed healthcare and civic engagement. She served as President of both the NC Medical Society Alliance and Gaston County Medical Alliance, maintaining an active role in the American Medical Association Alliance for over 35 years. Her service to the community also includes leadership in organizations such as the Girl Scouts, Red Cross, Hospice, and P.E.O.
Her lifelong commitment to service and mentorship makes her a fitting recipient of the 2025 Athena Award—a recognition of her tireless work to open doors for women and strengthen the fabric of civic life in Gaston County. The recipient list for this prestigious award includes notable
names such as May Barger, Jennifer Davis, Natalie Tindol, Jennie Stultz, and many others.
If the Athena Award honors legacy, the Aurora Award celebrates potential—a recognition of rising female professionals who are not only excelling in their fields but also shaping their communities with purpose and compassion. This year’s recipient, Sarah McLean Levy, perfectly embodies that spirit.
A fifth-generation leader of McLean Funeral Directors, Levy continues her family’s proud tradition of compassionate service while bringing fresh perspective and modern expertise to a legacy business. A licensed attorney since 2014, she combines legal insight with deep empathy to help families navigate preplanning and estate matters with confidence and care.
Beyond her professional life, Levy is a pillar of community leadership. She directs the Gaston Country Club swim team, guiding local youth with the same integrity and compassion she brings to her career. At First Presbyterian Church of Gastonia, she teaches Sunday School, serves on the youth committee, and helps lead Vacation Bible School programs— demonstrating that true leadership begins with service.
Sarah McLean Levy’s passion, professionalism, and community spirit represent the heart of the Aurora Award and the bright future of women’s leadership in Gaston County.
The Aurora recipient list include names such as Dr. Jenna Stover Patricia Goble, Andrea Grenier, and Mary Grace Bean.
Join us on Friday, December 5th, from 11:00 AM to 2:00 PM at the Gastonia Conference Center as we honor Mary Frances Forrester, and Sarah Levy, along with other winners, and look ahead to another year of growth and opportunity.
For more information or to reserve your seat, visit www. gastonbusiness.com.
By Sarah Shriver, Stowe Family YMCA VP of Marketing and Financial Development Strategic Digital Marketing Leader
Photographs Courtesy of Gaston County Family YMCA
The holiday season is often described as the most wonderful time of the year, a season of connection, gratitude, and giving. But at the Gaston County Family YMCA, those things aren’t reserved for December. They’re part of who we are all year long.
At the Y, we believe the greatest gift you can give isn’t wrapped in a bow, it’s belonging. It’s a safe place for a child to grow, a space for seniors to connect, a team that cheers you on when you need it most.
Ask any member, and chances are they have a “Y” story. For Caden, it began at age 6 in our Safety Around Water classes. He was nervous at first, but with patient coaching, he learned to float, kick, and breathe with confidence. The pool became a place he looked forward to, a place he grew up.
Today, Caden is back on the deck each summer as a Safety Around Water instructor, teaching kids who are just like he was. His journey is a full-circle story of learning essential life skills, growing as a leader, and giving back to his community. “I remember how it felt for kids like me, to be scared of the water,” he says. “Now I get to help someone else build confidence.” For others, they found connection through LIVESTRONG® at the YMCA, a program that helps them as cancer survivors regain strength and confidence. At just 31, Bethany faced major health challenges, two strokes and a diagnosis of Papillary Thyroid Cancer. After surgery and recovery, she knew something had to change. That’s when she joined the LIVESTRONG® at the YMCA program.
“When I started, I could barely lift my own body weight,” Bethany recalls. “But I stayed consistent. By the end, I was lifting weights, gaining strength, and moving again.”
One year later, Bethany is thriving. She’s stronger, more confident, and active in Y exercise classes, with a community that cheers her on every step of the way. “I’m not a victim of poor health anymore,” she says. “I’m a survivor, and the Y helped me get here.”
When Elaine moved to the area, she felt lonely and unsure of where to find connection. That changed when she discovered SilverSneakers at the YMCA. “Going to class has made my life so much more rewarding,” she says. “I feel good knowing I’m doing something healthy for my body, and I’ve met so many nice people!”
Now, Elaine looks forward to every day at the Y. Along with fitness classes, she’s part of a growing Seniors Club that meets for Bingo and card games, turning her new community into family. “It’s all good,” she says with a smile.
All of these stories are a reminder that at the Y, wellness means more than movement, it means connection, healing, and hope.
Caden with Warlick Family YMCA Senior Aquatics Director, Candance Hyde. Candace was his instructor when he was 6 and in the SAW program. Now she’s his supervisor as he’s an instructor for the Safety Around Water Program
Each year, the YMCA’s Annual Giving Campaign helps ensure that no one is turned away because of financial barriers. Donations provide access to programs like Afterschool, Summer Camp, Swim Lessons, and Safety Around Water, programs that change lives in ways big and small.
It’s how a single gift today can ripple into something much
greater tomorrow, helping a child learn confidence in the pool, cancer survivors continue their wellness journey, or a senior rediscover joy in movement and friendship.
As we celebrate this holiday season, the Gaston County Family YMCA invites you to take a moment to reflect on what it means to be part of something bigger, a place where everyone belongs, everyone matters, and everyone has something to give.
Because at the Y, the spirit of giving isn’t just a holiday tradition, it’s our mission, 365 days a year.
To learn more about programs or ways to give, visit www.gastonymca.org
Forestbrook
Gastonia
Dr. Mark E. Epstein, DABVP, CVPP
Dr. Sarah Toner
Dr. Emily Salmon
www.totalbondforestbrook.com (704) 867-8318
Bethel Lake Wylie SC
Dr. Hadley Harris, CVA
Dr. Jaime Uren
Dr. Caroline LaCalamito
Dr. Katie Heisler
Dr. Katharine Nowland
www.totalbondbethel.com (803) 831-1318
Paw Creek
Mt. Holly/NW Meck
Dr. Wes Spangler
Dr. Luke Boliek
Dr. Andi Eways
Dr. Shauna Gross
www.totalbondpawcreek.com (704) 827-7422
New Hope Veterinary Belmont/Gastonia
Dr. Jodi Werfal
Dr. Peter Rowan www.newhopevet.com 704-874-1802
By Centralina Regional Council
Photographs Courtesy of Centralina Regional Council
Centralina Regional Council is proud to announce the recipients of the 2025 Region of Excellence Awards, recognizing outstanding local governments, organizations and individuals who have made significant contributions to improving quality of life and advancing regional collaboration across the nine-county greater Charlotte region.
“These awardees embody the spirit of innovation, cooperation and service that make our region thrive,” said Executive Director Geraldine Gardner. “Their work demonstrates what’s possible when communities come together to solve problems, protect resources and improve lives.”
This year’s honorees represent excellence across a range of categories:
• Vision Zero Belmont
A community-led initiative using data, design and compassion to eliminate traffic fatalities and make streets safer for all by 2030.
• Chronolog: Citizen Science Project
Turning everyday trail users into citizen scientists through technology and engagement that fosters environmental stewardship.
• Pump Station Project
A model partnership with Charlotte Water that ensures sustainable, cost-effective water management for generations to come.
Centralina congratulates all of this year’s winners for their achievements and continued dedication to regional excellence. Awards were presented on October 8, 2025, at Centralina Celebrates!, hosted at the Gastonia Conference Center.
For more information about the Region of Excellence Awards or to learn how to nominate an organization for next year’s program, visitwww.regionofexcellence.org.
Centralina Regional Council is a public organization working to strengthen regional collaboration and improve quality of life in three distinct ways. Centralina identifies regional opportunities and sparks action by facilitating area-wide planning, collaboration and problemsolving; supports local governments by giving them the technical support, training and expertise they need to serve their communities; and provides direct health, aging and workforce services to individuals. To learn more or request Centralina services, visit centralina.org
By Staff Reports
Pull Day #2 of the school year was a success! We pulled food to cover 5 weekends for over 700 kids all thanks to our incredible volunteers! We also welcomed some new faces who learned how to keep things moving on the assembly line from our veteran crew. A big shout out to our awesome team at US Foods! They not only worked hard, they also treated everyone to a delicious lunch.
For those who don’t know what a “pull day” looks like, here’s how it works!
Our food is carefully picked, counted, double-checked, recounted, and organized for each of our partner sites. From there, our amazing partner churches, businesses, and families take over! They pack and deliver weekend meals for students in our program to take home from school on a weekly basis.
Did you know? We use dark plastic bags to pack the food so students can discreetly place them in their bookbags before heading home for the weekend.
We provide shelf stable nutritious food to students in need of food at home on two- and three-day weekends during the school year. It truly takes a team and we are so grateful for everyone who helps make it happen!
By Felicia Bittle, Certified Image & Style Consultant, FABstyles, LLC
Courtesy of Felicia Bittle
The holiday season brings an abundance of memorable moments—family portraits, festive dinners, and gatherings that fill both our hearts and our camera rolls. Whether you’re posing for an annual photo or hosting at home, effortless style begins with intentional planning.
Before selecting your outfit, begin with a cohesive color palette. For family photos, aim for complementary tones rather than identical hues. Deep emerald, cranberry, navy, and gold remain timeless choices that photograph beautifully. If you lean toward neutrals, winter white, camel, or cream create a soft, elegant aesthetic.
Stylist’s Tip: Add a hint of metallic—perhaps a gold earring or silver belt—for subtle sophistication without overwhelming your look.
Between sitting, standing, and greeting loved ones, comfort is key. Select pieces that move with you and flatter your natural shape. A sweater dress paired with tall boots offers cozy polish, while wide-leg trousers and a silk blouse provide a relaxed yet refined silhouette. Avoid anything overly tight or restrictive; your comfort will reflect in your expression and posture.
Stylist’s Tip: If shapewear is part of your look, wear it in advance to ensure you can breathe and move comfortably.
Holiday dressing is the perfect time to incorporate texture. Fabrics such as velvet, silk, sequins, or cashmere add richness and dimension. A velvet blazer layered over denim transitions seamlessly from casual to elevated, while satin or lace adds an elegant contrast under soft knits.
Stylist’s Tip: If your photos are outdoors, consider how your textures and tones interact with the background. A touch of contrast brings visual balance and makes your outfit stand out.
Accessories define your look. Statement earrings, a structured handbag, or a bold lip can transform an outfit from simple to stunning. For understated elegance, layered gold jewelry or classic pearls never fail.
Stylist’s Tip: Pay attention to footwear. Clean, sleek shoes maintain a polished impression in photos—scuffed or bulky pairs can distract from your overall presentation.
Holiday celebrations often span the entire day, so choose versatile pieces that can transition effortlessly. A belted blazer over a turtleneck or a midi dress with elegant heels can adapt to multiple settings—from brunch to dinner to an evening toast.
Stylist’s Tip: When in doubt, build your outfit around elevated basics. Choose luxe fabrics—like satin, velvet, or wool blends—that instantly make a look feel intentional.
The best holiday look is not about following trends—it’s about expressing your confidence and authenticity. When you feel comfortable and aligned with your style, it shows in every photograph and every interaction. Style should celebrate who you are, not conceal it.
Felicia Bittle is a Certified Image & Style Consultant, Fashion Contributor, and Media Style Expert. As the Owner of FABstyles LLC, she helps women align their style with their power through personalized wardrobe transformations and media styling..
By Tony Miros
Photographs Courtesy of Max Vadukal and Getty Images
Of all the artists I’ve had the privilege of interviewing for my Hollywood Obsessed podcast over the past three years, few have been as fascinating—or as downright iconic—as Eric Roberts. A true Hollywood original, he’s an Academy Award nominee, a three-time Golden Globe nominee, and a powerhouse performer whose career spans more than five decades and over 700 screen credits. Yes, you read that right—seven hundred!
You’ve seen him in unforgettable films like “Runaway Train,” “Star 80,” “King of the Gypsies,” “The Pope of Greenwich Village,” “The Dark Knight,” “Inherent Vice,” “Raggedy Man,” “The Specialist,” “Lovelace,” and “Babylon”—or on hit TV series like “Suits,” “Heroes,” “The Righteous Gemstones,” and even competing on Season 33 of “Dancing with the Stars.” He’s collaborated with legendary directors including Bob Fosse, Paul Thomas Anderson, and Christopher Nolan—bringing to each role a mix of raw intensity, vulnerability, and magnetic presence that’s pure Eric Roberts.
Now, he’s pulling back the curtain on his extraordinary life in his brand-new memoir, “Runaway Train: Or, The Story of My Life So Far,” co-written with Vanity Fair’s Sam Kashner. The book is raw, funny, and brutally honest—packed with wild behind-the-scenes stories, hard-earned wisdom, and a surprising amount of heart. I recently had the pleasure of sitting down with Eric to talk about it all: his rocket ride to fame as a young movie star, his relationship with his famous sister Julia, and his evolution into one of Hollywood’s most prolific and sought-after character actors.
Tony Miros: Eric, I have to start by saying—I loved your book. Honestly, no BS. It’s such a well-written, easy, and fun read, filled with these little glimpses into your life and career. I learned so much about you that I didn’t know before.
Eric Roberts: Thank you so much. That means a lot. The book was actually the hardest thing I’ve ever done—mainly because my wife kept me honest. Writing about yourself is tough. Your first instinct is to write the version of who you want to be, not necessarily who you are. So it became this strange mix of therapy, education, and enlightenment. It forced me to look back at my life in a way I never had before.
TM: You weren’t born in Hollywood—you’re a Southern boy! I had no idea your father had an acting school in Atlanta.
ER: Yeah, my first home was actually in New Orleans, and when I was a little kid, we moved to Atlanta. That’s where my dad started a place called The Actors and Writers Workshop. It was partially funded by the Martin Luther King Foundation, and we even had a “showmobile.” We were modeled after Joe Papp’s Public Theater in New York.
That’s the world I grew up in—total theater immersion. Looking back, I realize I never really chose to become an actor; it was just the only world I knew. From as early as I can remember, that was life— rehearsals, performances, storytelling. It was all I breathed. I didn’t even know there was another option.
Roberts
TM: And eventually, it seemed inevitable—you’d have to head to New York or L.A., right? Was that a tough move to make?
ER: Oh, it was spooky! But you had to go—one or the other. And since New York was closer, I started there. Cheaper flight!
80 (1983)
TM: One of my favorite stories in your book involves Robin Williams—and your sister, Julia. Apparently, Robin had some strong opinions about fame and money, but this story about when Julia came to visit you in New York had me cracking up.
ER: (laughs) Yeah, that one’s a classic. So, I told Robin, “Hey, my sister’s coming to town tomorrow. Do me a favor— freak her out.” And he says, “No sweat.”
So the next day, Julia and I are sitting in a café, right by the window. She orders a hamburger, it arrives, and suddenly Robin walks by. He stops, looks at us, looks at her, opens the door, grabs her hamburger, closes the door again, and just walks away like nothing happened.
Julia’s stunned—she goes, “Was that Robin Williams?!” Totally freaked out. And we never got that hamburger back. (laughs)
TM: “King of the Gypsies” was your film debut—and it made you an instant star. What’s it like to suddenly go from unknown actor to movie star overnight?
ER: It’s wild. One minute, you’re just another struggling actor, and the next, your face is everywhere—posters, TV ads, interviews. You become internationally recognizable in what feels like a month.
But here’s the weird part: you don’t really change. Everyone else does. People expect you to be different, so they start acting differently toward you. You’re the same person—just overwhelmed—but the energy around you shifts. And you have to learn to roll with it, be kind, and stay grounded. Fame is strange—it messes with people’s expectations more than it messes with you.
On Working with Mariel Hemingway in Star 80
TM: You’ve had so many memorable co-stars, but let’s talk about Mariel Hemingway. What was that experience like?
ER: Oh, Mariel—what a cool woman. Such a good actor. She didn’t get nearly enough credit for what she did in “Star 80”. It’s such a thankless role if you think about it—her character’s story is seen mostly through his madness, not her own perspective.
But she played that part with such subtlety and grace—delicate but never cutesy, vulnerable but strong. I admired her so much for that performance. And if you look at her work in “Personal Best” compared to “Star 80” —wow. The transformation is incredible. Nobody gave her enough credit for that.
On the Film That Earned Him an Oscar Nomination
TM: When you look back at your career, there are certain films that just stand out—those moments where you go, Wow, that was really something special. One of those has to be “Runaway Train”. It’s such an intense, powerful movie. I honestly don’t know how you guys filmed it—was it months on a moving train? It looked brutal!
ER: (laughs) It was definitely brutal—but unforgettable. And I have to give full credit to my co-star. Without Jon Voight, my character never would’ve been what he was. We pushed each other every single day.
People don’t realize this, but Jon is about 6’2”, and back then he weighed roughly what I weigh now—around 175 pounds. So he was tall, lean, and wiry. In the film, he wore a body suit that made him look like he was 250, maybe 260 pounds—just this massive, intimidating presence.
To listen to the rest of my fascinating conversation with the incredible Eric Roberts (Episodes 143 & 144) visit my podcast website https://www.hollywoodobsessedthepodcast.com/ Enjoy!
Back in the mid-’80s, Julia Roberts, Eric Roberts, their sister Lisa, and a young Jon Voight
The Gaston County Museum of Art & History’s Murder Mystery Disco fundraiser was the talk of the town following the event on September 20th!
More than 200 partyers from across Gaston County, Charlotte, and beyond dusted off their platforms and polyester to hit the light-up dance floor at the Loray Mill to show off their retro moves and
support a worthy cause.
The Museum is grateful to everyone who made the night possible – the guests, the generous sponsors, the silent auction winners, the cast of the Gastonia Little Theater, and the fabulous DJ for the evening, Alfredo!
The community’s support turned this event into a successful fundraiser and a spectacular night to remember!
Day of Caring is an annual tradition of volunteerism organized by the United Way to support local nonprofit organizations. Each year, United Way staff plan and coordinate a wide range of projects, pairing volunteer teams with nonprofit partners to complete work that many organizations would otherwise be unable to afford.
Thanks to the generosity of sponsors including Enbridge, Atrium Health, Gilmore’s Mercantile and CaroMont Health, this year’s Day of Caring was a resounding success. A total of 60 plus volunteers canvassed the community and completed 24 projects, contributing more than 350 hours of volunteer service.
For more information on how to get involved, please contact 704.864.4554 ext. 106.
By Caitlin Conner, Marketing + Communications Manager, Daniel Stowe Conservancy
Photographs Courtesy of Radient Photography by Sydney Danielle
When the holiday season arrives, Daniel Stowe Conservancy invites visitors to step into a luminous winter wonderland with Holidays at the Garden, Stowe’s most anticipated yearly exhibit. 90 acres of botanical gardens sparkle with millions of lights, fountains dance in festive rhythm and every path invites discovery, delight and holiday cheer.
Beginning Friday, November 28, The Gardens at Stowe opens from 5 p.m. to 10 p.m. (last admission at 9 p.m.) for an immersive, walking-tour style light display. As you wander along paved, gravel and brick paths (wide enough for strollers and wheelchairs), The Gardens come alive under a canopy of twinkling lights. An added gift to the experience – parking is free!
Throughout the paths and garden features, interactive light exhibits and glowing installations guide you deeper into the festive wonder. Whether pausing beneath illuminated arches or passing by light-draped shrubs, there’s a continual sense of movement, surprise and holiday joy.
Inside the Garden Pavilion, the show continues. The radiant 14-foot Orchid Tree stands as a show-stopping centerpiece, ideal for memory-making photos and selfies. On selected evenings, live music fills the Pavilion, enhancing the atmosphere with festive melodies. For guests 21 and older,
there’s a secretive twist: an adults-only speakeasy, where exclusive holiday cocktails await (a modest $5 cover applies). Back outdoors, a handful of fire pits dot the grounds — perfect spots to cozy up with a hot cocoa or a seasonal beverage. Nearby food trucks offer holiday bites and local favorites, so you can chow down at your leisure against the backdrop of glittering trees.
Little ones will find their own moments of wonder, too: on Friday evenings, a trackless train ride chugs its way through lighted paths, offering families a magical view from a moving vantage point. And on Fridays and Saturdays, Santa comes to visit ready to chat, pose, and spread holiday cheer.
Beyond nightly events, the 2025 season brings some special activations you won’t want to miss:
• Merry Market (Saturday, December 6): A holiday market in the Great Hall, featuring local artisan vendors and a cozy holiday shopping experience.
• Santa Paws (Saturday, December 13): a pet-friendly event at The Village where dogs can take a photo with Santa and explore a pup market.
• Morning with Santa (Saturday, December 20) in the Great Hall: a continental breakfast, crafts, a letter-writing station and morning photos with Santa himself.
• Seasonal workshops like Coffee + Crafts (e.g. gingerbreadstyle keepsake houses, winter miniatures) offered at The Trailhead Store on select mornings.
• Festive events ahead of the official opening:
◆ Member Preview Night — November 21, 5–10 p.m. (free for members)
◆ Jazz at the Garden: Holiday Edition — November 22, 5–7 p.m. + 7:30–9 p.m., featuring acclaimed musician Adam Hawley.
◆ Bright Lights 5k & Fun Run — November 26: run or walk through illuminated garden pathways post-sunset.
◆ Cars + Coffee / Christmas Cruise-In — December 6, 8:30–10 a.m. at the Pavilion parking lot.
To guarantee entry (especially on popular nights), prepurchase is strongly encouraged. Tickets come in two basic types:
• General Tickets: held for a specific date; non-refundable.
• Flex Tickets: allow you to reschedule to any open night between November 28 and December 27 — providing builtin flexibility for unpredictable weather or shifts in plans.
Over the years, Holidays at the Garden has become a highlight of the regional holiday calendar — a place where nature, light and festive spirit entwine. With something for every age and mood, from romantic date nights and musical evenings to family adventures, Holidays at the Garden is as inclusive as it is enchanting.
For full show dates, ticket purchase and more details, visit the official site: danielstoweconservancy.org/visit/holidays-at-the-garden Walk, wonder and warm your heart at Holidays at the Garden — where millions of lights await.
By Dr. Peter Rowan, DVM, TotalBond Veterinary Hospitals
New Hope Veterinary Hospital - Partner
TotalBond at Forestbrook - Associate Doctor
Gobble gobble! As Thanksgiving rolls around, Americans everywhere ready themselves for a day filled with family, warmth, and tradition. For many, that means watching the iconic Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade, cozying up under blankets, and indulging in a turkey feast. Yet, for countless others—including myself— there’s another anticipated event: the National Dog Show, a captivating display of canine elegance and companionship. While it may appear, at first glance, to be a pageant of pampered pets parading for prizes, the reality is much deeper and more profound.
Dog shows such as the National Dog Show serve many purposes within both the canine community and broader society. Their impact stretches far beyond the show ring, influencing breed preservation, public education, animal welfare, and even the economy. Here’s a closer look at the many reasons these events are so important:
One of the chief purposes of dog shows is to maintain and display the breed standards set forth by organizations such as the American Kennel Club (AKC) or other national kennel clubs. These breed standards serve as detailed blueprints outlining the ideal physical and behavioral qualities for each breed—from the height and color of a Boxer, to the temperament and gait of a Scottish Terrier.
witnessing not just a competition but a celebration of canine history and heritage.
Closely connected to breed preservation is the notion of responsible breeding. Award-winning dogs in the ring are often those that embody the healthiest, most stable, and best examples of their breed. Breeders and handlers are encouraged—by the stringent requirements of top dog shows—to make breeding decisions that favor good health, sound temperament, and adherence to standards rather than fads or mass production.
During competitions, dogs are meticulously evaluated on how closely they match their breed’s written standard. Every detail is considered: coat texture, ear position, structure, movement, and the dog’s demeanor in the show environment. This painstaking attention to detail is not about superficial beauty; rather, it preserves the essence and unique characteristics of each breed for future generations. When viewers tune in to the National Dog Show, they’re
This can have a trickle-down effect on the canine population; as reputable breeders strive for excellence, they raise the overall quality and well-being within certain breeds. Judging criteria often include health and vigor, which subtly discourages practices that lead to hereditary disease or exaggeration of harmful physical traits. In this way, the competitive environment champions canine welfare at its core, making positive impacts far beyond the show setting.
A perhaps underappreciated aspect of televised dog shows is their role in public education. For many viewers, the National Dog Show provides a rare opportunity to learn about the diversity of dog breeds recognized in the United States and beyond. Commentary during the broadcast showcases not only the dogs’ appearances, but also their traditional roles—like herding sheep, retrieving game, or serving as loyal family companions.
For families considering dog adoption, this visibility can be invaluable. Understanding a breed’s temperament, exercise needs, grooming requirements, and potential health issues helps people make informed choices. This can reduce the likelihood of mismatches that result in pets being surrendered to shelters, ultimately supporting better lifelong placements for companion animals.
The popularity and reach of events like the National Dog Show amplify messages about the humane treatment of all dogs. Many shows actively partner with charities and rescue groups to promote adoption of shelter and rescue animals. By highlighting the importance of animal care and responsible ownership, these events nurture greater empathy and respect for pets everywhere.
Public talks, demonstrations, and information booths at shows often provide further education about responsible pet ownership—covering everything from proper nutrition to the welfare implications of choosing a reputable breeder or considering a rescue dog.
Dog shows are gathering places not only for professional breeders and handlers, but also for families, volunteers, vendors, and passionate dog lovers from all walks of life. The camaraderie forged within this community is tangible; participants share advice, swap stories, and support each other. For many, lifelong friendships and professional collaborations begin at such events.
Local and national shows alike become touchpoints for regional pride and involvement. Spectators and participants alike become invested in the dogs’ journeys—cheering them on and celebrating their stories.
The economic impact of dog shows is significant. Host
cities benefit from increased tourism as participants and spectators visit hotels, restaurants, and shops. Booths selling treats, toys, grooming products, and unique pet accessories thrive at these events. For businesses both large and small, dog shows create marketing opportunities and consumer interest—fueling an economic boost that can last well beyond the weekend.
Nationally televised events, such as the National Dog Show, attract major sponsorships and charitable partnerships, driving additional revenue and community support initiatives.
Ultimately, dog shows provide entertainment and inspiration to millions. Watching magnificent dogs perform and interact with their handlers offers a glimpse of the remarkable capabilities, athleticism, and intelligence of man’s best friend. Especially during a holiday like Thanksgiving, the tradition of gathering to watch the National Dog Show can bring families together, creating cherished memories and sparking conversations about shared values—compassion, dedication, and the joy of caring for animals.
Dog shows like the National Dog Show are much more than a parade of pedigrees. They stand at the intersection of culture, heritage, health, and community. Through their celebration of canine excellence, promotion of responsible pet ownership, and educational outreach, they play a pivotal role within the world of dogs—and in our own human communities.
Next time you tune in, remember: you’re witnessing not only beauty and skill, but the ongoing, vital partnership between people and dogs. Happy Thanksgiving and best wishes for a joyful holiday season!
By Michael “Donovan” McQuitter, CC, IT and Cybersecurity Photographs Courtesy of Michael McQuitter
Have you ever played Battleship? If not, it’s a board game where you set up different size ships on a grid map and your opponent does the same. The goal is to choose a point on the opponent’s grid to attack and, hopefully, sink a ship. But you can’t see the other person’s side so this guessing game of trying to narrow down where the boats are and defeating them before they sink all your ships becomes complex pretty quick.
The same goes for defending yourself against attackers on the internet. You don’t see them or know their next move. We just hope we don’t get hit. The phrase “Know your enemy. Know yourself.” was popularized by Sun Tsu’s The Art of War. To understand our opponent’s perspective, we must think like our opponent.
Peter Nelson, a leader in security right here in North Carolina, has mastered this art when thinking like a hacker. His path into cybersecurity offers a rare glimpse into the mindset of an attacker and the lessons every organization and individual can learn from it. Join me (MM) and Peter (PN) as we discuss the mindset of those behind the screens.
MM: All right! Peter, thanks for being here. I’m excited to chat with you, about Stern Security, and what you do. To kick things off, tell us about yourself and your role at Stern Security.
PN: Yeah, absolutely! So, I’m Peter Nelson, Chief Information Security Officer here at Stern Security. I originally got started in cybersecurity indirectly. You know, growing up as a kid, I was fascinated with emerging technology and the internet. In my professional career, I worked different non-IT jobs, but I always had the mindset of ‘You know, this is a security issue.’
At one point, I was working in a financial institution on the retail banking side and kept pointing out security issues to auditors. Eventually, they came to me asking how I was finding these problems, and I realized I needed to move into IT. My first role was as a system administrator for another financial institution, which also had its own internal security
group. When a position opened there, I joined and worked there for a few years.
Later, I moved to a large regional hospital, which was a huge jump—from protecting about 1,000 endpoints [desktops, workstations, servers] to 20,000 so I got a lot of experience in network testing, cyberattack simulations, and application testing. While I was working there, I found multiple zero-day vulnerabilities [flaws in software or hardware] for vendors and would disclose those before the products would go into our production environment.
During that time, I also started doing contract work for Stern Security after hours. Then, the business grew to the point where I could join full-time. Jon and I continued to grow the business, hired more, and with the help of our amazing team, we’ve built Stern Security into what it is today.
Peter Nelson, a leader in security right here in North Carolina, has mastered this art when thinking like a hacker.
MM: Wow! That is awesome and such a cool backstory. Penetration testing [simulated cyberattacks before malicious attacks], is the big focus of today. Let’s get into the mind of a penetration tester. What is that? What does that mindset look like when approaching businesses?
PN: Working on cybersecurity blue teams [IT professionals that protect an organization from threats] with organizations gives you an understanding of how systems are configured, how network protocols operate, how patching goes or doesn’t go, and where common configuration issues exist that organizations may not be familiar with. It’s really understanding the environment that you’re operating in and having the most coverage possible.
We’ve developed internally based testing methodologies
for discovering common misconfiguration issues. Then we have methodologies for more complex attack chains where you have to know how to think like an attacker. You really have to understand how exploits work, how attack chains come together, and know gaining one privilege doesn’t mean that’s the end. It’s ‘What else can you do with that privilege now that you have it?’
If you compromise a system, can you grab more credentials [system identities] or find if there is sensitive data on that system? You really have to explore, within the Rules of Engagement of course, everything you can and get the most coverage from your client.
MM: Awesome. Since you’ve had that experience working with businesses, I’m interested in this question: What are some of the most common mistakes you see businesses make—those low-hanging fruit vulnerabilities? Like one of those you see again and again.
PN: I would go back to default vendor configurations [pre-set version of system]. Companies not doing their due diligence or project management when implementing new products in the environment. A lot of times we find default configurations and default passwords or elevated privileged accounts that never get changed. Those are easily compromised by somebody that gets on the network. We have an entire default password list that we’ve curated over the years with close to a hundred sets of credentials that we run against their active directory and usually get some sort of hit.
Then there’s unmanaged systems. Admins use it for testing; they leave admin credentials on it. Others include forgotten systems, unpatched systems, and not maintaining endpoint protection. We’ve found numerous organizations where they have endpoint protection but it’s either outdated or no longer used.
MM: That’s surprising, especially when something’s outdated. Now, whether for businesses or individuals, what’s one online habit you always recommend? It could even be one you have in everyday conversations.
PN: Internally, I would say Shadow IT [information technology not formally approved] is a big one. Employees going out, signing up for or downloading services that aren’t approved and doesn’t require admin to install. Finding their own solutions to stuff leaves big gaps in security. I was working at an organization and we got a call from an employee that was using a piece of software. It was just a standalone executable for a very specific reason. Basically, it turned out to be adware [advertising material]. So, it’s really
about educating users on sticking to approved services or applications when they’re out on the internet. Follow those proper channels for getting stuff approved.
MM: That makes sense. I’m sure I’ve done that in the past and I have seen people even download games on their work computers. So, you probably hear the word AI every day. While some don’t even really know what it means, it’s happening and we’re in it now. How does that impact what you do? Does it help?
PN: Yeah, businesses need to be cautious with AI services, especially free versions that may use your data to train their models. For example, Gemini [an AI assistant] is now integrated into Google services. How does that affect the files that you’re keeping in there?
I would recommend organizations look into enterprise or team-level accounts that guarantee data won’t be used for training. These accounts also give administrators visibility into how employees are using the tools.
Some newer AI models also allow you to turn off memory so conversations aren’t stored. That kind of control is important for keeping sensitive data safe.
Peering behind the screens with Peter revealed that hacking is about patience, creativity, and knowing where the cracks usually form. Peter’s insights highlight the real challenges companies face every day. What we must do is stay diligent in practicing secure habits and be inquisitive about the tools we utilize. Use strong passwords along with multifactor authentication (MFA), know the security around the tools you use, and don’t allow your IT assets to sit in the shadows. And good luck in your next game of Battleship!
By Ryan Schrift, Managing Director of R.J. Schrift Private Asset Management
Ifit feels like everything from cookies to Christmas trees costs more this year, you’re not imagining it — even the “Twelve Days of Christmas” got pricier. According to the Christmas Index, the cost of gifting one of each of those famous holiday items rose again from 2023 to 2024, offering a festive snapshot of how inflation touches nearly everything.
Goods have leveled off. Supply chains have mostly caught up, keeping prices for items like gifts and groceries more stable.
Last year’s Christmas Index put the total cost of one of each gift at $49,263.47, up 5.4% from 2023. That’s roughly double the U.S. inflation rate over the same period.
What’s behind it? Not the birds or the baubles — it’s the people. The “service gifts” — nine ladies dancing, ten lords a-leaping, eleven pipers piping, and twelve drummers drumming — jumped the most, up nearly 8%. When wages rise, so do the costs of performances, labor, and all things powered by people.
Meanwhile, several of the “goods” gifts held steady. The Five Gold Rings, Two Turtle Doves, Four Calling Birds, and even Eight Maids-A-Milking stayed flat last year. But some didn’t — the Partridge in a Pear Tree got more expensive thanks to higher nursery and landscaping costs, while Six Geese-a-Laying continued its streak as one of the more volatile items.
And while the 2025 Christmas Index hasn’t been officially updated yet, I have a sneaking suspicion that those Five Gold Rings have gotten pricier this year — gold prices have climbed noticeably since January. Even Santa might be rethinking what to put under the tree.
As fun as the Christmas Index is, it mirrors what we’ve seen across the broader economy:
• Services keep getting more expensive. When people are part of the product — from restaurants to concerts to holiday decorators — costs climb faster.
• Goods have leveled off. Supply chains have mostly caught up, keeping prices for items like gifts and groceries more stable.
• Labor matters most. Whether you’re hiring a drummer, a contractor, or a local Santa, higher wages ripple through the entire economy.
Here in Gaston County, we feel that in small ways — from higher prices at local events to the cost of hiring help for holiday projects. But it’s also a reminder of the strength of our local workforce and businesses. Inflation may raise prices, but it also reflects growth, demand, and a community that’s thriving. So yes, the 12 Days of Christmas cost more again this year. But maybe that’s not all bad news. Prices rise and fall — joy doesn’t.
Ryan Schrift is the Managing Director of R.J. Schrift Private Asset Management, a Belmont based Financial Planning and Investment Advisory Firm. Securities are offered through LPL Financial, Member FINRA/SIPC. R.J. Schrift Private Asset Management is an other business name of Independent Advisor Alliance, LLC. All investment advice is offered through Independent Advisor Alliance, LLC, a registered investment adviser. Independent Advisor Alliance, LLC is a separate entity from LPL Financial.
By Cassie Watkins Photographs Courtesy of Frederic Marsh
Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Incorporated ® was founded January 15, 1908, on the campus of Howard University in Washington, DC, and is the first Greek letter organization established by college-educated African American women. The main objective of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Incorporated ® is “To be Supreme in Service to All Mankind.” Currently, Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority has over 355,000 members worldwide.
Zeta Mu Omega Chapter, chartered in Gastonia, NC on February 26, 1955, held its 70th Chapter Anniversary Celebration on Saturday, September 20, 2025 at the Gastonia Conference Center. The brunch, themed “A Visionary Affair: Celebrating 70 Years of Sisterhood” honored the Chapter’s 16 Chartering Members – Dorothy Starr Johnson, Gladys Carter, Louise Herron, Beatrice Smith
Talley, Shirley Harrison Crump, Johnsie Allen, Margaret Wilson
Cabiness, Ethel Harrell
Foxx, Tillatha Brooks, Bertha Simmons, Lillie Blue, Marguerite Wilson
Jordan, Barbara Walls
Shivers, Sara Smith
Beattie, Jeane Rorie Ross and Alice Haywood
Wellmon. In attendance were sorority members, community members, Charter Member Mrs. Shirley Harrison Crump,
Mrs. Doris Asbury, 13th MidAtlantic Regional Director and Divine Nine members.
The keynote address was delivered by the 19th MidAtlantic Regional Director, Jennifer King Congleton, who recalled some outstanding trailblazers in history and emphasized the importance of continued service to our community. Entertainment was provided by Mr. Julian Wilson, trumpeter, 5th and York Entertainment and Music, and soloists, Mr. David Currence and Mrs. Erica Taylor, Zeta Mu Omega Chapter member. During the brunch, President Cassie Watkins recognized sorority member Mrs. Geraldine Dye as a Pearl Member for 65 years of service as a member of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Incorporated®. Civic Awards were presented to Dr. Rodney B. Freeman (Gladys Carter Community Service Award) for significant contributions made to improve the quality of life in the community; Mr. Vincent Lowery (Ethel Harrell Foxx Entrepreneurship and Business Award) for significant contributions to economic growth and job creation in the community; and Miss Zaniah McDowell (Margaret Wilson Cabiness Youth Award) for outstanding dedication to community service.
Twenty Pearls, Incorporated, the chapter’s foundation, presented the Mid-Atlantic Region’s Educational Advancement Foundation with a $25,000 endowment and the Zeta Mu Omega Chapter contributed an additional $5,000. This endowment will fund scholarships to undergraduates and provide opportunities to help enhance their leadership skills.
By Melissa Latin, Charlotte Fashion Plate
Photo by Melissa Latin, Charlotte Fashion Plate
Elevate your Thanksgiving dinner with this Stuffed Roasted Turkey Breast, over the traditional whole turkey. This recipe offers a unique twist on the holiday classic, delivering a flavorful and moist turkey roulade that is generously filled with homemade sausage stuffing. This rolled turkey is both visually impressive, and incredibly delicious
• 3 to 5 pound turkey breast
• 2 teaspoons kosher salt, divided
• 2 teaspoons black pepper, divided
• 1 1/2 cups prepared sausage stuffing
• 1/2 stick butter
• 2 to 3 cups chicken or turkey stock
• kitchen twine
1. Prepare sausage stuffing, or you favorite stuffing.
2. Preheat oven to 450°.
3. Debone the turkey breast, or have your butcher do for you.
4. Give the boneless turkey breast a quick rinse. Pat dry.
5. Place the breast (flesh side down) on a clean cutting board.
6. Lay a piece of plastic wrap on top of the skin.
7. Using a flat meat tenderizer, pound the breast very gently to even out.
8. Flip.
9. Season the inside with a tablespoon each of kosher salt and black pepper.
10. Fill the turkey breast with an even layer of prepared stuffing.
11. Roll super tight and secure the roulade tightly with kitchen twine.
12. Season the outside with the remaining kosher salt and black pepper.
13. Place in a roasting pan, seam side down.
14. Roast at 450° for 30 minutes.
1. Baste with a few pats of butter.
2. Add the chicken stock to the bottom of the roasting pan.
3. Reduce heat to 350°.
4. Continue roasting and basting with butter until the internal temperature (taken at the thickest part) is at least 160°.
5. Remove from oven.
6. Give it a final overall baste with butter.
7. Allow to rest for at least 5 minutes before slicing.
8. Remove all of the kitchen twine.
9. Slice into equal rounds.
10. Serve topped with homemade turkey gravy.
