930north Fall 2018 Edition

930north

A PUBLICATION OF FIRST UNITED METHODIST CHURCH

NEVER BE THE SAME

Two teens share their recent mission trip experiences

WHY I SERVE

Recipients of the 2018 UMW Service Awards share what inspires them

FOLLOWING TO LEAD

Two leaders in Spiritual Formation discuss how following God's call to step out of their comfort zones has given them the confidence to lead others TRANSFORMING LIVES BY ENGAGING OUR MEMBERS TO CELEBRATE & SHARE GOD’S LOVE IN JESUS CHRIST

[LOVE SELF] WITHOUT CONDITIONS

FEATURES A LETTER FROM THE

4............................. ..............PASTOR

SANCTUARY RENOVATION 5..............................................UPDATE

6.....................NEVER BE THE SAME

Caiden McDowell shares how participating in a youth summer mission trip changed his life

7............BRINGING IT BACK HOME Emma Lancaster opens up about the insights she gained about herself on a recent youth mission trip

8................MAKE A CONNECTION

Meet the Connections Team and learn how you can create deeper connections within our church community

10..................................WHY I SERVE

Recipients of the 2018 United Methodist Women Service Awards talk about what inspires them to serve

12...............................HEARING GOD Laura Wolf describes how she discovered that God does speak into our daily lives

14.................FOLLOWING TO LEAD Marianne Hebert and Kay Martin reflect on how following God's call to step out of their comfort zones has given them the confidence to lead others

WHO WE ARE & WHAT WE’RE ABOUT: We are a worshipping community that seeks to provide a place of belonging where you can experience the Living God.

• LOVE3: We are personally committed to loving God, ourselves and others.

• We offer JESUS CHRIST TO EVERYONE. • GOT BRAINS? We offer Christ to people who have questions and doubts, creating a space for thinking people to come to faith.

• WE ARE PASSIONATE about making a place of hospitality for people already claiming the Christian faith, and non-religious people seeking to find out more.

• WE EXPLORE fresh expressions of worship and contemporary styles of music.

• YOU ARE WELCOME HERE: No matter who you are, you have a home at First Methodist.

16......................JOYS & CONCERNS

Sharing our joys and sorrows with one another

ON THE COVER: Members of Kullichito United Methodist Church in Oklahoma and members of the FUMC Mission Team participate in their annual balloon release during the 2018 High School Mission Trip. THIS PAGE: 2018 High School Mission Team Members Susan Copeland and Brenden McGee at Kullichito UMC, building a form in preparation for pouring a sidewalk to enable better access.

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JOIN US IN OUR MISSION:

Transforming lives by engaging our members to celebrate and share God’s love in Jesus Christ.

Senior Pastor Rev. Brady Whitton Meet Butch Robertson, reader, writer, poet, grandfather of four and a member of our custodial team at FUMC. This year Mr. Butch is celebrating 15 years of employment at First United Methodist Church.

Join us in congratulating him–we love you, Butch! ››››

Associate Pastors Rev. Becky Poor Rev. Fernie Rivera Rev. Dr. Jane Riecke

COLORS

BY BUTCH ROBERTSON If we were the same color, Would we still fuss and fight?

Would we rob and kill and continue to do evil things to each other?

In this life, If we were the same color, Would we still get along?

I doubt that because if we would we’d be singing the same song.

When I was growing up the first three colors I knew were red, white and blue, and I’m sure it was the same for you.

We use to pledge allegiance to the Flag, Now we look at each other and shake our heads, that’s sad.

There were 100 colors in a box, If you wanted to play with one, All you had to do was flip the top.

The name of those colors were called Crayola, Now our children have to worry about something called Ebola.

But hold on the world is already in crisis, And we have to worry about a group called ISIS. When someone discriminates against you, it leaves a bad taste in your mouth and it’s sour There were all colors of people who got killed in the twin towers.

When discrimination problems arise in Baton Rouge, we don’t protest and riot, We sit down and discuss things peacefully and quiet.

All I’m saying is it’s not about poorer or richer, Let’s put these colors together and make a beautiful picture.

Pastor Emeritus Rev. Dr. Don Cottrill Proofreaders Extraordinare Lisa Russ Toni Gilboy Virginia Guffey Stephanie Schroeck Contributing Writers Caiden Mcdowell Emma Lancaster Rob Harroun Mike Steinkamp Jan Steinkamp Marianne Hebert Kay Martin Donna Britt Willa Roof Tasha Whitton Editorial Director/ Graphic Designer Amy Book

930north Magazine is published quarterly for the Baton Rouge community and friends of First United Methodist Church by the FUMC Department of Communications HAVE A STORY TO TELL? Email: abook@firstmethodist.org WANT TO KNOW MORE? Contact us at (225) 383-4777 www.firstmethodist.org SEND CHANGE OF ADDRESS TO: toni@firstmethodist.org

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[LOVE GOD] LETTER FROM THE PASTOR To Vicki Kellum and the SPR Committee, I appreciate the beautiful farewell reception held on my last Sunday.

You all went above and beyond, offering Jimmy and I the perfect send-off. From beginning to end, it felt like a hug from heaven.

To the staff, I can’t begin to express how much I will miss you. It’s not only been a joy, but a privilege to share the hard, yet fruitful work of ministry.

Dear Brothers & Sisters in Christ, It’s very difficult to put into words how grateful I am for having served with and among you these past four years. Over the 1,460 days of my pastorate with you all, God’s grace has been at work in you, in our community and in my own life of faith, and for that I am eternally thankful.

The flood of cards, gifts, honorariums, face-to-face hugs and well-wishes received by email and Facebook have often times brought me to tears. As I often say, “Tears are a gift from God that allow us to express things too deep for words.” Thank you for demonstrating your love for me in so many thoughtful ways.

And to Rev. Whitton and my pastoral colleagues, you have blessed me more than you can imagine. Through days of joy and laughter, and those of frustration and exhaustion, our journey together has shaped me into a more Christ-like servant. I am grateful that the special bond we share as clergy persons will remain.

To each of you who are a part of the FUMC family, keep growing in faith; keep cultivating love for others and for the world; keep praising God; keep serving in Christ’s name; and by the power of the Holy Spirit, keep sharing the Good News that you have heard and that you know in your own life.

With much love, Rev. Pattye Hewitt

In July, the Louisiana Annual Conference appointed Rev. Dr. Jane Riecke as an associate minister at FUMC. Please join us in welcoming her into our congregation!

FUMC and its people while acquainting myself with the newly formed Connect Ministry of the church. I even think I am making some headway in getting to know Small Group Leaders and Sunday Morning study groups, but there are many more visits to come.

Dear Members & Friends of First United Methodist Church, These past two months have been as wonderful as they’ve been hectic. I’ve had a great time getting to know

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As Associate Pastor of Discipleship and Spiritual Formation, I have the opportunity to fulfill a lifetime's ambition to bring individuals into a closer relationship with Jesus Christ, create small groups that transform and strengthen that relationship and see lay ministry flourish through spiritual formation. I’m so excited about all the possibilities and the challenges of my ministry here. I hope you will feel free to connect with me soon. My office door is always open!

In Christ, Rev. Jane Riecke

Sanctuary Renovation Update

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he Generations Capital Campaign for the sanctuary renovation has been a tremendous success. The congregation has generously responded and to date we have received pledges and gifts totaling $ 3,612,396. The Board of Trustees has committed a portion of their budget for a professional accessibility study for the sanctuary, and to kick off funding for the needed accessibility work. The study will investigate ways to improve access to the church for the elderly and for persons using wheelchairs.

On Monday, July 2, 2018, Reverend Whitton and Jim Smith, Board of Trustees Chair, signed a contract for a new organ to be built by Casavant Frères of Saint-Hayacinthe, Quebec. Founded in 1879, Casavant Frères is one of the best-known and most respected pipe organ builders in the world. Organs built by Casavant can be found on all six inhabited continents, ranging from small portable organs of only a few stops to enormous cathedral and concert hall instruments. Representatives from Casavant have visited Baton Rouge several times and have begun working on a design that will not only meet our musical needs, but will also accentuate the beauty of the sanctuary.

Members of the Sanctuary Renovation Committee (Alan Brock, Lamar Drummonds, Jerry Fischer, Norma Killgore, Phil Preis, Cliff Vannoy, and Rev. Whitton) have met with Liturgical Designer, Terry Eason, and are well on the way to having design drawings for the sanctuary renovation. One of the many goals of the renovation is to improve sight lines for persons sitting in the balcony as well as in the lower level of the sanctuary. Terry Eason’s creative suggestions for improved sight lines will have a positive impact on worshippers experiencing the consecration of communion elements, baptisms, children’s sermons, children’s choirs, and sermons offered at the pulpit.

Additional renderings and information will be shared in the coming months.

If you have not made a commitment to the Generations Sanctuary Renovation Project, we need you to participate to this once-in-a-generation effort.

There are always unexpected costs related to a project of this size; in addition, we would like to create an ongoing maintenance fund for the sanctuary. This is an exciting time in the life of our congregation. Thank you for your commitment to our church and to this project. To God Be the Glory!

EMBRACING THE PAST

RENEWING THE FUTURE

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[LOVE OTHERS] SAYING "YES": MY ADVENTURES IN YOUTH MINISTRY

YOUTH SUMMER MISSION TRIP

“...THE EXHAUSTION WAS EXHILARATING. GOD WAS GLORIOUS AND EVER-PRESENT.”

NEVER BE THE SAME

BY CAIDEN MCDOWELL

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ello. My name is Caiden McDowell and I had the measurements off and compounding the problem. As the privilege of going on the 2018 Youth a solution, I tied a rope to the support beam and pulled it Mission Trip to Broken Bow, Oklahoma. My back so that it was straight, which was a lot harder than it family and I attend church in our hometown of Zachary, sounds. In the end, we came together as a team and got it however, my Grandparents have been members of FUMC all done, and the sense of satisfaction was palpable. for many years. When my Grandmother called and offered me the opportunity to go, I must admit that I was pretty I was amazed at how I saw God through every single nervous at the thought of spending a week in a strange person there, working hard, doing things that maybe they place, with a bunch of people I didn’t know but from the weren’t used to doing, yet never giving up on the mission, moment I got on the van, I on themselves, or each other. I knew it was going to be a watched everyone, confronted I’ve never been one that struggled with obstacles and fatigue, great week. I’ve never been with shyness, but I was amazed at refuse to give up and instead one that struggled with shyness, but I was amazed at how everyone was instantly my friend respond with patience, grace how everyone was instantly and I was accepted into the and love. I know we couldn’t my friend and I was accepted have done that without God’s youth family. into the youth “family.” spirit. I felt closest to God when we were at worship, able In Broken Bow, the days were long, and the work was to focus 100% on Him, surrounded by His presence. challenging. For our group, it seemed that everything that could go wrong, did. We were tasked with building I feel as though my life will never be the same. I have an awning for the bathroom so that the churchgoers had gained mentors and, hopefully, life-long friends. I wouldn’t shelter from the elements. First, as we tried to set posts, trade being able to go on this trip for anything. The sweat we kept hitting an underground concrete holding tank; so was sweet. The exhaustion was exhilarating. God was we dug and dug and dug some more. Finally, we went glorious and ever-present. I loved every second of it! out far enough to avoid the tank, but this forced us to get longer support boards, which halted all work for a while.

Once we got all of the beams up and were laying the rafters, we noticed that as we laid more rafters, the support beam was bending out more and more, making

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ABOVE LEFT: Caiden securing rafters. RIGHT: Kale Wetekamm, Director of Youth Ministry, Jack Savario & Caiden working together to cut framing boards for a new sidewalk built for Kullichito United Methodist Church.

[LOVE OTHERS] BRINGING IT BACK HOME

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s a high school student, life can be pretty distracting. Social media, jobs, friends, and money consume our lives. My summer days had been spent sleeping until noon, hanging with my friends, and staring at my phone. As this mission trip neared, I was sad to leave my routine schedule of doing nothing all day, and a little nervous to go on my first high school mission trip. It’s always hard to break habits and change your lifestyle (even if it is just for a week). I remember standing outside the church the morning we left thinking, “I’m living a pretty good life right now, I don’t know why I need this trip.’” Looking back now, I immediately see those red flags. I’m guilty of letting my laziness sway me from a life focused on God. First United Methodist Church has never failed to bring me back to my roots and remind me how sweet the path is that God has paved for us.

When we arrived in Broken Bow, OK, everyone set up their temporary homes and headed to dinner. Looking around at all the faces, I realized I was out of my comfort zone.

Although I recognized these people, I didn’t actually know them. Little did I know, these faces would become my second family. With no experience in construction, I was eager to see what my job would be. As Kale read out the tasks for the week I was thrilled to be placed in the group building an awning for a bathhouse our church had constructed 5 years before.

The first day of work came with many challenges. I didn’t know the people in my group well and I had no idea what I was doing.

Throughout the week, that all changed. Each day I learned more about my team members and the language of construction. Instead of leaving me confused and helpless, my group made sure I was always aware of what we were doing and how to do it. The patience of my group leader, Mr. Brett, was without a doubt God working through him. Mr. Brett knew exactly how to build that awning, but knew he couldn’t do it alone.

We started digging postholes for our awning and I remember thinking, “This is never going to be finished. We have no idea what to do.” After going through all

BRINGING

IT BACK the calculations, mistakes, and manpower it took to mount those posts, my whole view changed. Once in place, the posts didn’t seem to catch anyone else’s eye, which confused me at first. I realized the truth of the saying: “you appreciate something more when you work for it.”

HOME

BY EMMA LANCASTER

Although we were proud of our project coming together, our satisfaction was rooted in something much greater. By the end of the week, you couldn’t tell who belonged to each project group. We went from six separate groups, to one team. God was watching over us even when we didn’t notice. He was working to bring us together.

By the end of the week, you couldn’t tell who belonged to each project group. We went from six separate groups, to one team.

God was watching over us even when we didn’t notice. He was working to bring us together.

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[LOVE OTHERS] BRINGING IT BACK HOME traditional songs, dances, and ceremonies. The friendships we made were genuine and sincere.

These relationships are one of a kind and so precious. The amount of smiles, laughs, and tears we shared brought us closer than we could have imagined. Each person on the trip cared for one another deeply and selflessly. Family is the only word that can describe such a unique group. I will cherish the friendships made there forever.

Our ride back to Baton Rouge didn’t go as planned. The 6-hour drive was extended to 12 due to flat tires and a broken trailer axle. Trying to describe that experience to my friends and family back home was harder than expected. From their point of view, our ride home seemed miserable. Weirdly enough, it was the exact opposite. We bonded with each other as we faced these challenges. It was reminder of the real world obstacles we will still face as we leave the mission trip. It was a perfect example of living your life for God even when The amount of smiles, laughs, and tears we shared frustration tries to overcome you.

brought us closer than we could have imagined.

As I went home and started Each person on the trip cared for one another deeply living my normal life again, I kept thinking about something and selflessly. Family is the only word that can describe Kale had told us on the last day. such a unique group. I will cherish the friendships “When you go back home and tell your friends and family what made there forever. you’ve been doing for the past week, they won’t understand. For someone who hasn’t experienced the ways God worked through us this week, they’ll think you’re crazy for giving up a week of your summer to work for people who you’ve never even met.” When I first heard that, I couldn’t fully grasp it.

After many attempts of convincing my friends how much fun it was to work with the Kullichito Church in a small town that no one knew of, I began to understand what Kale meant. People will never understand the joy and happiness that fills our lives through serving others. But God does, because that’s what he created us to do. Mission trips are not about posting pictures or the “play time” at the end. It’s about growing in your faith, changing, and bringing that back home with you.

After coming home from Broken Bow, I realize how fortunate I’ve been. With each trip my faith has grown in ways that I could have never imagined and there are so many amazing people that are responsible for that.

Are you looking for a church home? Come check out Youth Ministry at FUMC! Each week we seek to grow closer to God and each other while being the people God calls us to be. Join us for: Sunday School | Sundays | 9:40-10:40 AM Youth Night | Sundays | 5:00-7:00 PM Bible Study | Wednesdays | 6:00-7:30 PM You can join in one of our All-Nighters, big events like Slime Night and the Great Pumpkin Hunt, or the Mardi Gras Ball. Our year spent learning to love like Jesus is always capped off with life-changing summer mission trips like the ones you just read about.

PARENTS: We are in constant need of volunteers to teach, guide, cook, drive, chaperone and plan for all of the above programs.

Please let me know where we can get you living out the call to serve as well. I would love to meet up to discuss your questions and to find a place for you to make a lasting influence in someone’s life!

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CONTACT KALE WETEKAMM,

Director of Youth Ministry, at kwet@firstmethodist.org or 383-4777, ext. 235.

Follow us on Instagram, Facebook and Twitter @fumcyouthbr.

[LOVE SELF] MAKE A CONNECTION

Cindy Mann Director of Connections Ministry cmann@firstmethodist.org

Jennifer Stephens Director of Small Group Ministry jennifer@firstmethodist.org

Shelly Caro Director of Welcoming Ministry scaro@firstmethodist.org

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od created in each of us a distinct desire for human connection. In fact, our need for meaningful Christian relationships is so great that, without them, we miss out on the fullness of joy that Christ intends for our lives. At First United Methodist Church, we encourage small group participation as a means to grow closer to God through your relationships with others. With the addition of our newest Pastor, Rev. Dr. Jane Riecke, and two new staff members, First Methodist is excited to introduce the Connections Ministry team whose mission is to continually create new opportunities, make them more accessible to our church community, and offer guidance to those who feel they are being called to something more.

“Everyone’s path is different. Everyone’s needs are different, and everyone’s relationship with God is uniquely his or her own,” states Cindy Mann, Director of Connections Ministry. “Our desire is to help individuals find the right small group that creates a sense of belonging, fosters commitment, and leads to spiritual growth.”

Growth does not happen in isolation or without intention. When we choose to commit to one another in this kind of Christ-centered way, we invite the Spirit to work in us and through us. Thus, the mutual bond we share in love of Christ and for one another becomes a powerful tool in which we can see and know God as never before.

“From the visitor to the life-long member, our desire is to shepherd and navigate people into the life of the church in a meaningful way. We recognize that many people worship here faithfully on Sundays, but they feel stuck in not knowing how or where to take that next step. They feel called to creating deeper relationships within the church but often don’t know where to start,” states Shelly Caro, Director of Welcoming Ministry. “We want to help them find their place.” In fact, the goal for the Connections Ministry is to help you take that first small step and then watch it develop into a way of life.

Soon, your "regular life" and your "church life" become hard to separate, as families, friendships, and life experiences bleed into one another, with the Holy Spirit everpresent in them all. The small group experience starts with mere humans who want a deeper connection. It ends with the awesome power of God at work in your life.

As you consider the importance of this ministry in your life, here are some questions for you to ponder: • In what ways do you feel connected to the church?

• In what new ways would you like to connect?

• Are you feeling called to connect more deeply but are unsure how?

Jennifer Maltbie Connections Ministry Coordinator jmaltbie@firstmethodist.org

Maybe you're already experiencing church as a way of life. Take a minute to consider: • What does that mean for you, and what steps did you take to get there?

• How can you nurture/help/encourage others to make those meaningful connections?

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United Methodist Women (UMW) is the largest denominational faith organization for women with over 800,000 members whose mission is fostering spiritual growth, developing leaders and advocating for justice.

Members raise up to $20 million annually for programs and projects related to women and children in the U.S. and countries around the world. Each year the UMW of First Methodist recognize and honor members who have served through our church and in the community.

Congratulations to the 2018 UMW Service Award recipients: Rob Harroun, Jan and Mike Steinkamp, Tasha Whitton, Willa Roof and Donna Britt! Thank you for your service and your stories.

WHY I SERVE: THE POWER OF PRAYER & CARE

BY ROB HARROUN

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ears ago, after my family joined First United Methodist Church, my Mom, Thelma Horton (a very service-minded person), became a member of the “Care Team”. I was just starting a new job so, at that time, service was not a real priority. I wasn’t familiar with the Care Team nor was I aware of Mom’s membership.

Despite the devastating illness and the difficult problems she faced, Mom never gave up the hope of returning to the church and her service. Rev. Chris Andrews saw her at the end and said ‘You just look into those eyes of hers and you know she has ‘that spirit’.’

I had to find out who and what this Care Team was. I did and I sought membership Then, one day, I was told that Mom had and was accepted. Through this wonderful terminal metastatic breast cancer. I lived team and other service ministries I was with her during the last two years of her able to give back to others the thoughts, illness. We would open her mail prayers and care given to Mom Through this wonderful Team and and I in our time of need. I thank and I couldn’t help but notice the many beautifully written other service ministries I was able God, our Church, through its cards she was receiving from this to give back to others the thoughts, service ministries, but especially Care Team. Then there were the prayers and care given to Mom my Mom and her service for my flower arrangements and visits and I in our time of need. inspiration to help and serve from her Care Team and Rings others.

N Ivy members, some bearing delicious dishes. I began to experience firsthand what TOP: Volunteers from FUMC head out to help others in our neighborhood after the flooding in 2016. ABOVE: Rob Harroun the power of prayer and care were doing for us. pictured with "Sir Winston."

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[LOVE OTHERS] WHY I SERVE: SIMPLE GESTURES OF KINDNESS

WHY I SERVE: SIMPLE GESTURES OF KINDNESS

BY MIKE & JAN STEINKAMP

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grew up in Harahan, Louisiana where I attended St. Paul’s United Methodist Church. When I was a young person, I accepted the Lord Jesus into my life as my Lord and Savior.

Having a desire to serve my Lord, I participated in all the activities the church offered for the youth and even had the privilege of preaching as a youth participant.

Having a desire to work with people, I pursued a career in counseling, receiving a graduate degree from LSU in the field of social work. My career included serving 3 years in the U.S. Army as a social worker. Following this I worked in the field of mental health and addictions both as a clinician and an administrator.

We have learned that simple gestures of kindness can lift another’s spirit, and helps them know that we care about them. We feel a caring and compassionate heart toward others goes along with the teaching of Christ to “love your neighbor as yourself.” –Written

by Mike Steinkamp.

We have learned the simple gestures of kindness can lift another’s spirit and help them to know that we care about them.

I now enjoy giving on a more personal level. An example is feeling blessed to be able to bring joy into the life of a homebound church member by serenading her on her birthday with my ukulele.

Jan and I had both been widowed and our paths crossed in our field of social work. We married in 2000 at FUMC. It is a pleasure for us to work together on the Care Team as we have for the past 12 years. This team effort enables us to continue serving others and to share the love of Christ.

After retirement, we both enjoy continuing to touch the lives of others. It has also been rewarding to participate in Revive 225, the 2016 Flood Recovery, VBS and the annual Christmas basket ministry. Other opportunities for us to serve have come by way of the homebound and hospital visitation as well as assisting various seniors. We continue to be active members of FUMC’s ministries.

I grew up attending Grace United Methodist Church in Ruston, La. My mother was a charter member and I participated in and enjoyed all the church related activities. A young, female minister, Rev. Lea Joyner, came to speak to our church about the field of missions. It was her presentation that kindled my desire to help others. This led me to the field of social work. I studied it in undergraduate at La. Tech and pursued a graduate degree at LSU.

I was also greatly influenced by my mother who was so thoughtful and generous towards others. She set the example of giving of herself through visits, cards, food and flowers. I have been blessed to take part in arranging and delivering flowers to people in the hospital and the homebound as part of the Congregational Care Ministry when I learned there was a need for this. My husband Mike occasionally assists me with this ministry as needed. –Written by Jan Steinkamp.

Read more "Why I Serve" stories written by the 2018 UMW Service Award Recipients on pages 14-15.

ABOVE: Mike Steinkamp playing his ukulele for a homebound member of our congregation. Jan Steinkamp helping children paint at the craft table during Vacation Bible School.

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[LOVE GOD] HEARING GOD

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Sunday morning, I was looking online for a funny religious cartoon and I found one that was a playoff of the Footprints in the Sand poem. The gist of the poem is that a man had a dream where scenes from his life played before him and he saw two sets of footprints in the sand: his and God's. He noticed that at the lowest point in his life there was only one set of footprints and he asked God why he would leave him where he needed him the most and God said he would never leave him and the times he saw one set of footprints is where God carried him. In the cartoon God and the man are standing next to each other and God says, “Where you see one set of footprints is where I carried you. The long groove is where I dragged you kicking and screaming.” I can relate because God often carries me kicking and screaming. It’s abundantly clear that I need to give up control, but here I am kicking and screaming. I want to give up control, but I want to do it my way.

HEARING GOD

BY LEARNING TO LISTEN

BY LAURA WOLF

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ecently I’ve been struggling with some recurring themes in my life. One being control. I have huge control issues in that I want to control everything and everyone. When I’m having a conversation with someone and they respond I think, “you’re not following the script in my head of how this is supposed to go.”

I am also a bit of a perfectionist and am independent to my own detriment most of the time. I started having questions of “How do I give up control? Can I? Can I trust God? Why can’t I move past this? Why am I standing in my own way? Why can’t I do this?” I felt like I was on a hamster wheel and cried out to God wondering if I was ever going to change.

I don’t know that I intentionally test God so much as I don’t always listen. God heard my cry and took over. In a matter of less than 24 hours I heard God speak to me in 7 different ways.

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I heard God in the sermon that Sunday when Brady preached about "doing it my way." I’m constantly trying to do things my own way. I thought I could give up control on my own, but it turns out that I need God to help me with that. So I have to give up control by asking God to help me give up control so that I can have a fuller relationship with God.

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I was an emotional mess as I’m leaving church wondering if I have the strength to give up control and still wondering if God can really help me and how am I going to do it. I sneak out the back door and down the steps and Brady calls me back up so I get back to the top and he says “I just wanted to give you a hug.” And then I start thinking right I can’t do it alone. I have to have God and other people help me.

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I heard God in a Facebook status that Rev. Pattye posted that Sunday night. The words that spoke to me the most were “We so often forget that surrendering is what the Lord desires, a willingness to allow Him to lead us to experience a real, authentic life.”

Here was yet another message of surrendering and giving up control.

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Every morning I read a devotion book and Monday morning’s reading were the words “We tend to put off living…Today is our day to act…

We don’t have to deal directly with anything but today.

We must rid ourselves of self-pity, criticism, and blame.

Bury all excuses. Tomorrow is the fool’s paradise. Today is

[LOVE GOD] HEARING GOD ours.” I’m notorious for waiting for Mondays, or New Year’s or Lent to make changes. I don’t have to wait to ask God to help me. I can ask him every minute of every day if I have to, to help me give up control.

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Monday morning, I read my Disciple lesson and part of the scripture was “Do not be afraid I am with you.” I don’t have to be afraid to give up control because God is with me. There is a section on spiritual discipline and that week it was about submission and these words—"We find our true identity when we give up our own need to have our own way.” And the prayer for the week in Disciple was “Listen Lord, to my prayer, hear my cries for help. I call to you in times of trouble because you answer my prayers.” Another message of pray to God for help and give up the need to have your own way.

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I receive the email every morning from Richard Rohr. I skip it every morning. Monday the title of the lesson was “All things change and grow” so I decided to read it and it talked about growing and evolving and the human psyche’s need for stability, security, and superiority. I feel that if I have stability and security then I am in control.

My need for superiority is my need to do it myself to somehow prove that I’m better than others.

All of these ways have the same message that I was needing that I am not in control and that I CANNOT do it alone.

Seven ways that God spoke to me. One thing that I noticed is that four of those ways I heard God were through intentional acts on my part. I went to church. I read my devotional, I read my Disciples lesson, and I read that email. Without that intentionality I would’ve missed out on several times that God spoke to me. I am also really bad at remembering. Just 5 days after I heard God in 7 ways I was already back to thinking I was in control. I asked God to speak to me again. His answer was right there in the Disciple lesson that I read Friday morning.

I’m not always great at listening to God, but when I ask God to speak and put myself in a position to hear, I’ve discovered that God does speak. I hope you’ll be encouraged by my story and listen for God in your life."

You're invited to HYPE's

FIFTH YEAR FIESTA! Wednesday, September 19, 5:30 pm @ La Carreta on Government St. You can help our youth prepare for excellence!

CELEBRATE & SUPPORT HYPE Join us as we celebrate HYPE’s 5th birthday and you will learn more about the success of our church's after school program, how it's impacting participating Bernard Terrace students, and how YOU can get involved in our mission to help youth prepare for excellence!

Visit hypebr.com to make a donation and support our students and families or to get more information about the program or for more information.

Questions? Contact Mary Treppendahl, Director of HYPE & Missionary to Public Schools at mtrep@firstmethodist.org, or 383-4777, ext. 246.

Helping Youth Prepare for Excellence

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[LOVE GOD] FOLLOWING TO LEAD: MARIANNE HEBERT It is with great joy and celebration that the Ministry of Spiritual Formation at FUMC in partnership with Garrett Evangelical Theological Seminary recognizes and honors eleven members of First Methodist who have successfully completed the two year training for Paraprofessional Certification in Spiritual Formation Ministries.

Congratulations to: Stacy Garrett, Stuart Gilly, Carolyn Golightly, Katie Goodson, Marianne Hebert, Vicki Kellum, Eric Lockridge, Kay Martin, Lynn Mitchell, Mary Rotenberg, and Jennifer Rossnagel.

»» FOLLOWING TO LEAD »» Marianne Hebert and Kay Martin reflect on their experiences and how following God's call to step out of their comfort zones has given them the confidence to lead others toward a deeper relationship with God.

BY MARIANNE HEBERT

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y journey of spiritual formation began several years prior to my participation in the Paraprofessional training program for Spiritual Formation ministries, a training program coordinated and sponsored by the Ministry of Spiritual Formation at FUMC. God had placed many spiritual friends and mentors in my life…. to name a few, Cherri Johnson, Rev. Liz Wyatt, Carolyn Peyton, Rev. Becky Poor and my Disciple group who journeyed with me for five years as we studied Scripture.

When Cherri Johnson, Director of Spiritual Formation, approached me about participating in “this amazing new opportunity”, I felt a sense of excitement that I hadn’t felt in a very long time. I didn’t understand fully, at that time, what she was offering me, but I did have a “heart-warming” experience!

I asked myself, 'Am I ready to commit to this training? Lord, I’m scared.' I prayed and I listened. My response turned out to be the best decision I have ever made! I stepped out of my comfort zone and said, Yes! God, I will do this!

After speaking with Cherri, I learned that the Ministry of Spiritual Formation was partnering with GarrettEvangelical Theological Seminary to provide two year training in Spiritual Formation. The program would bring in professors from Garrett Theological Seminary to teach the courses. Completion of this training would qualify me for Paraprofessional Certification in Spiritual Formation. I thought, “Wow, this is just what I have been waiting for! “I didn’t expect to go through a time of questioning my decision, but eventually I asked myself, “Am I ready to commit to this training? Lord, I’m scared.” I prayed and I listened. My response turned out to be the best decision I have ever made! I stepped out of my comfort zone and say, “Yes! God, I will do this!”

After committing to the journey, my first course was on Christian spiritual disciplines and listening for God speaking in my life. I learned about prayer and my relationship with God. I learned how to listen for God and how to

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[LOVE GOD] FOLLOWING TO LEAD: KAY MARTIN apply the narratives of Jesus in my life and I learned about our Methodist tradition. I must admit that the journey wasn’t always easy. After beginning the program in September, the month of December, was a time for me of questioning and waiting. It was a time in the desert, as I wondered where God was leading me.

I continued to listen and pray, and the message I received was, “Depend on Me”. This was the message I kept receiving each time I was in solitude. God’s grace brought me through this dark time in my journey. As I persevered, I continued to grow in faith by grace. I learned how to teach the Bible from a spiritual formation perspective and by listening to the Spirit in me and through others. I learned about Christian conferencing and creating sacred space for holy listening to God and another. I learned about facilitating small groups, and I had the opportunity to practice my ‘listening and learning’ as I co-facilitated the 26week Companions in Christ course from Upper Room. I also facilitated two formational Bible studies at the annual FUMC Women’s Retreat in March.

As I prepared for and led these experiences, it seemed as though, “everywhere I turned, I saw and experienced God.” God placed before me the people and resources I most needed! How amazing is that!

The two year practicum requirements for completion of training were absolutely transformational for me! Although I don’t fully know “what’s next”, I am filled with excitement and wonder for I know the Spirit is leading me!

A BEAD AND A PRAYER WORKSHOP SATURDAY, OCTOBER 6, 2018 9:00-11:00 AM - CENTER FOR SPIRITUAL FORMATION AT FUMC COST: $15 A Bead and a Prayer Workshop will center us in Scripture, cover the history and uses of Protestant prayer beads as a means of grace to help you focus on prayer, be silent and hear what God wants to say to you. Facilitated by Vicki Kellum and Kay Martin.

Visit firstmethodist.org to register.

BY KAY MARTIN

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hen I signed up for a two-year paraprofessional training in spiritual formation, I had no idea that I would wind up organizing a retreat on protestant prayer beads! The idea came from my daughter Shannon, who goes to Inman Park Methodist Church in Atlanta, where the husband of the retreat leader, Kristen Vincent, was the minister. Shannon showed me her protestant prayer beads and Kristen’s book, A Bead and a Prayer, and I suppose the rest is history.

My partner in this undertaking was Vicki Kellum and together we worked with Cherri Johnson, Director of Spiritual Formation, to plan this retreat. As we progressed, we read the book, worked on a budget, coordinated with Kristen, selected dates, publicized the event and selected table leaders to guide those who would attend. I know I grew spiritually and I also learned a lot about ministry within the congregation. God was certainly with us all the way!

For me, training our table leaders and guiding them in the process of making their own prayer beads, was one of the most moving and personal parts of my experience. We met with each table leader and allowed each to choose the color of beads that ‘spoke’ to them. One person closed her eyes to choose her beads.

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[LOVE GOD] FOLLOWING TO LEAD: KAY MARTIN (continued from the previous page) choose her prayer beads and I could visibly see her relax. As she created her prayer beads, a peaceful expression came upon her face. Each time we met with a table leader, we prayed over their beads. The whole experience drew us closer to God and one another.

As Kristen Vincent said in her presentation, “Prayer beads can help us recognize that we are deeply loved by God.” They can remind us to be still and pray. They can help us listen and pay attention. They are concrete objects that remind us that we are not alone and that God is always with us! Everyone who attended the Bead and A Prayer Retreat encouraged us to bring this ministry to our entire congregation!

Now, Vicki and I are looking for ways to offer this prayer ministry to others including children and youth. We want each person’s experience to be special and unique, and we want the beads to help people in their prayer life and to feel closer to God; not only speak to God in prayer but to feel God’s presence and grace, and to be able to listen to what God is saying. I pray that this ministry will continue to grow in the life of our congregation! If you or your small group is interested in learning about protestant prayer beads or if you or your group would like to make prayer beads, please contact Cherri Johnson at cherri@firstmethodist.org. or by calling 383-4777, ext. 249.

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WHY I SERVE: SINGING FROM THE HEART

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y faith journey began the moment I was born while my parents were in seminary in Fort Worth, TX. My mother immediately dropped out of school to raise a family. When I was in first grade I gave my heart to the Lord. From childhood, volunteering has been a major part of my life – the fun part. Through the years, my dad as a Southern Baptist preacher would roll up his sleeves and work alongside people in his church community. My dad said, “Using your power to help is the best witness you could give.”

Through my 37 years as a TV personality at WAFB, I have appeared at hundreds of schools, luncheons, and fund-raisers. I have served on almost 20 community boards; I have worked hundreds of hours on Salvation Army kettles as a “bell-ringer”, raising much-needed funds while spreading joy through singing. God makes your heart sing when you are doing the right

What inspired you to start serving others?

From a young age, I have always felt blessed. It is hard to explain because I did not grown up in a family that was particularly blessed financially or by other ordinary measures of success. But, I always had a strong sense of being given gifts that I did not deserve and wanting to serve others because I had been blessed in this way.

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How has serving others changed you?

I love to read and talk to others about what I am reading. I use this gift by facilitating discussions about books and materials that I have found useful.

Walking with God is an ongoing journey of spiritual transformation. I am so grateful for those who have joined me on this journey and agreed to discuss books and ideas with me along the way. I am changed by each of those conversations.

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WHY I SERVE: THE GIFT OF HELPING

BY WILLA ROOF

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hen I heard that I had been chosen to receive this award, I was stunned, and not sure if I had heard correctly. After it was clearly explained to me again, I began to reflect on my long membership at First United Methodist Church, and what it has meant to me.

It all began with my Methodist parents at our church in Mansfield, Louisiana. One of my first memories was at age three, reciting the Bible verse “God is love” during church, loud enough for everyone to hear! Thus began my history of reading in Sunday school and church. Shortly after moving to Baton Rouge, my mother brought me to Sunday School at FUMC. That was 75 years ago, and this church has been my rock, the constant source of my spiritual guidance ever since. I joined the church three years later, and the people I have worked with here over my spiritual journey have been my inspiration as they brought me closer to God through Christ.

My faith grew through the devoted Sunday school teachers I had over the years. Then, as a young adult it was in a Sunday School class where I met Marvin Roof, an engineer who had moved here from Oklahoma. We were married in 1959 in the chapel. Marvin, a fifty+ year member of FUMC, has been a dedicated supporter as we started serving others together. Our three children were baptized and grew up attending here. Our church experiences helped our family to grow in Jesus’ teachings.

The “Young UMW Circle”, which I was a part of from its beginning, had a nursery available for our babies. With this group of women I learned the blessing of serving

others and grew to appreciate the gift of helping. In addition, they gave me an appreciation for my own family life, my role as a wife and mother, and the important part God contributed to our lives together.

While my children attended Sunday school, I learned much by teaching the 11th grade class. For a number of years I served as a Communion Steward in memory of an old church friend. Preparing Communion helped me grow in my devotion to the Sacrament. Reading scripture in church and choir services is a blessing.

Several years ago, members of the “Young Circle” came back together to form Woodfin Circle. Only now we have grandchildren! New friends have joined us.

While we celebrate joys in our senior years, we have serious challenges as well. As a result, I have become more aware of the God-given continuum of life. As I reflect back on my church journey, I feel I have received so much more than I have given. I’m grateful my family legacy is United Methodist, for I truly love this community and church.

Mission work has always been an important part of my life. I began traveling to Mexico with a group of missionaries when I was in middle school. We put on puppet shows and shared our stories with each small village that we visited. As I got older, I had the opportunity to travel to Brazil on a medical mission trip and more recently, to Alaska. Mission work reminds me, again, of how blessed I am and how much I have to be thankful for. I am forever changed by the people that I encounter. In Baton Rouge, I am so appreciative of the opportunity to do regular, local mission work in the community.

How has serving affected your life, your relationships with God and with others, your family, etc.?

I can't imagine a life without serving. To pinpoint a single change is daunting. I am who I am because I have had the opportunity to serve.

Where have you seen God working in your own life or in the lives of others?

God is at work in my life and the lives of others every day, every hour, every minute. Humans seem to prefer the big, splashy changes where a person seems to be completely different or a situation miraculously resolves, but I love to be the drop of water on the stone. The change may not be obvious today or tomorrow or next year, but that is how the Grand Canyon was created, one drop of water at a time.

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SHARING OUR JOYS & CONCERNS│CONGREGATIONAL NEWS

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Celebrating Our New Members...

Photos not available for these new members: Idell Thomas Sarah Vandivier Vern Thomas III Dustin & Liz Kidder Dyke Martin Megan Racca Sherry Smelley Richard Hobson

Celebrating the Baptism of...

Janet, Maggie, Caitlin, and John Pendergast

Amy Lowe

David Lowe

Bruce Parker

Debra Parker

Jacob Ridge 3–11–18 son of Sam & Michelle Ridge Lillian Graves 3–11–18 daughter of Tyler & Meghan Graves Alice Grand 3–18–18 daughter of Todd & Ashley Grand William Valiollahi 3–18–18 son of Matt & Lauren Valiollahi Cashen deLorimier 4–8–18 son of Mike & Jennifer deLorimier Boston Laubscher 4–15–18 son of Jason & Whitney Laubscher Lucy Hood 4–15–18 daughter of Andrew & Lauren Hood Emery Payne 4–22–18 daughter of Denver & Lauren Payne Pierre Haynes 4–29–18 son of Mitchell & Maryanna Haynes Allie McIlwain 5–20–18 daughter of Logan & Emily McIlwain Samuel Kidder 5-20-18 son of Dustin & Liz Kidder Avery Waldrop 6–10–18 daughter of Rick & Christyn Waldrop Samantha Chachere 6–10–18 daughter of Adam & Catherine Chachere Sloan Hurley 6–17–18 daughter of Brandon & Rayne Hurley Alice Hebert 7–22–18 daughter of T-Bob & Caitlin Hebert Charles Smith 7–22–18 son of Brandon & Janie Smith Jacob Hubble 7–29–18 son of Jason & Shanna Hubble Margot Webre 8–19–18 daughter of Dean & Rachel Webre

Celebrating the Birth of...

Mark Monceaux Shanna Hubble

Frank Barnett

Bertha Brewer

Gary Whitehead

Michael, Louise & Marin Myers

Sally Martin

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Luke Sfondouris 3–5–18 son of John & Mary Sfondouris Molly Tyler 3–15–18 daughter of Thomas & Laura Tyler Margot Webre 4–4–18 daughter of Dean & Rachel Weber Charles Smith 4–18–18 son of Brandon & Janie Smith Jacob Hubble 4–19–18 son of Jason & Shanna Hubble Estelle Selig 4–30–18 daughter of Allison & Robert Selig Evelyn Davis 4–30–18 daughter of Brad & Sarah Davis Benjamin Jones 7–24–18 son of Ryan & Ellie Jones Annie Chua 8–2–18 daughter of Michael Chua & Sydney Brown-Chua

Sympathy to the Families of...

Eleanor Henry 2/28/2018 Robert Overall 5/2/2018 Gayle Guissinger 5/22/2018 Janet Hoffpauir 6/26/2018 Anita Fuller 7/6/2018 June Delhom 7/27/2018

Betty McCallum 4/20/2018 Sherman Jacobsen 5/8/2018 Joy Estess 6/12/2018 Rudolph Driftmier 7/1/2018 Melanie Stagg 7/25/2018

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The America Street Worship Service celebrated it's 5th Anniversary this past August with a weekend cook-out and concert.

FALL 2018 Calendar of Events

For more information about small groups, classes, retreats or special events visit www.firstmethodist.org or call 383–4777

WEEKLY CALENDAR SUNDAYS 8:30 AM WORSHIP–SANCTUARY 9:00 AM CAFÉ 930 9:40 AM SUNDAY SCHOOL NEWCOMER COFFEE/ DISCOVER FIRST ESSENTIALS I CHILDREN’S WORSHIP 9:45 AM WORSHIP–AMERICA STREET 11:00 AM WORSHIP–SANCTUARY 4:30 PM PRAYER MINISTRY 5:00 PM ADULT CLASSES

YOUTH NIGHT

FUSE CHILDREN’S PROG. 5:30 PM CORE MOM'S MINISTRY MONDAYS 10:30 AM PRAYER MINISTRY 12:00 PM AL-ANON MEETING

ADULT EVENTS

CHILDREN’S EVENTS

SENIOR ADULT PROGRAM/LUNCH SEPTEMBER 12 10:30 AM • FUMC CHURCH COUNCIL SEPTEMBER 24 8:30 & 11:00 AM • SANCTUARY 9:45 AM • AMERICA STREET AT FUMC SENIOR ADULT PROGRAM/LUNCH OCTOBER 10 10:30 AM • FUMC SENIOR ADULT PROGRAM/LUNCH NOVEMBER 14 10:30 AM • FUMC

FALL FESTIVAL OCTOBER 28 • 5:00-7:00 PM AT FUMC

YOUTH EVENTS YOUTH SLIME NIGHT SEPTEMBER 9 • 5:00-7:00 PM AT FUMC THE GREAT PUMPKIN HUNT OCTOBER 21 • TIMES TBA • BEGINS AT FUMC JUNIOR HIGH ALL-NIGHTER NOVEMBER 9 • TIMES TBA

TUESDAYS 9:00 AM KNITTING & MEN’S COFFEE 10:30 AM WOMEN’S AA GROUP 12:00 PM ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS WEDNESDAYS 8:30 AM CORE MOM'S MINISTRY 4:30 PM CARE TEAM 5:00 PM THE GATHERING - DINNER 6:00 PM YOUTH BIBLE STUDY BIBLE NAVIGATORS (children)

ADULT SMALL GROUPS 6:30 PM ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS PAL MEETING 7:00 PM CHANCEL CHOIR THURSDAYS 9:00 AM THURSDAY LADIES GROUP 9:30 AM EARLY LEARNING CTR CHAPEL 11:00 AM WOMEN'S AA 12:00 PM ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS

MONTHLY LECTIONARY TEXTS

A series of Scripture readings for specific days of the year. The Revised Common Lectionary is a 3–year cycle of readings. Four passages are recommended, usually 2 from both the Old & New Testaments. Thus, over a 3–year period the Bible is covered in a systematic & balanced way.

SEPTEMBER 9 Proverbs 22:1-2, 8-9, 22-23 Psalm 125 or Psalm 124 James 2:1-10(11-13), 14-17 MARK 7:24-37

SEPTEMBER 23 Proverbs 31:10-31 Psalm 1 James 3:13-4:3, 7-8a Mark 9:30-37

OCTOBER 7 Job 1:1; 2:1-10 Psalm 26 or Psalm 25 Hebrews 1:1-4; 2:5-12 Mark 10:2-16

SEPTEMBER 16 Proverbs 1:20-33 Psalm 19 James 3:1-12 Mark 8:27-38

SEPTEMBER 30 Ester 7:1-6, 9-10; 9:20-22 Psalm 124 James 5:13-20 Mark 9:38-50

OCTOBER 14 Job 23: 1-9, 16-17 Psalm 22:1-15 Hebrews 4:12-16 Mark 10:17-31

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