FRENSHAM SUMMER 2025
OUR FRENSHAM
SUMMER 2025
HEAD'S WELCOME BEN MCCAREY
How quickly a year goes by and what an amazing year it has been. I first introduced myself to you in last year’s magazine, having started as Head in September 2024. I had the great privilege of working with Andrew Fisher during the summer term, which gave me valuable time to learn about the school and its people before taking on the role fully. Since then, it has been a wonderful rollercoaster ride of getting to know everyone and starting to make my mark on this incredible school. It’s going to take time to get to know the wider Old Frenshamian community, but I’ve been fortunate to have met some of you already over the course of this academic year. Everyone has a story to tell about this place and many are hilarious, outrageous, and uniquely Frensham.
I came here because this is the school I wanted my children to attend. After 20 years in state education, I became disillusioned with the restrictions of the traditional system
and wanted so much more for my children - and in education as a whole. When I discovered Frensham, I was intrigued. Now, I understand why so many families and students have chosen Frensham and I can truly say that leading Frensham into its second century feels like the pinnacle of my professional journey.
I am incredibly excited about what the future holds for this school.
This September marks the Centenary where we’ll be celebrating our rich, slightly bonkers heritage. I hope to meet many more of you soon. You are always welcome here.
FROM THE ALUMNI OFFICE
I joined in the autumn of 2024 and it didn’t take long to realise how unique this place is. There’s a sense of magic, joy, creativity, and a strong community spirit that’s truly infectious. Since September, I’ve organised three OF events and met many Old Frenshamians along the way. What stands out most is the lasting friendships and the affection everyone holds for their time here. It’s been great getting to know former staff too - many of them having spent over a decade in their roles at Frensham. We're also very lucky that some have become Centenary Ambassadors and volunteers in the Frensham Archive (more about that on page 12). Whatever the role, thank you for your continued dedication.
The recent Spring Drinks event in London was another great opportunity for me to meet more of you, and we hope it will become an annual get-together.
As a new staff member, there have already been some unforgettable moments; soaring above Main House on the ferris wheel and zip-wiring through the trees at the Christmas Fair, helping to feed and put to bed the new chickens and goats and working within the most beautiful house and grounds. There’s never a dull moment!
I look forward to meeting many more of you at our events, culminating in the Centenary Founders’ Day on 4th July 2026.
See you soon.
Polly Murray Alumni Manager
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FRENSHAM IS THRIVING! GOATS, ZIP LINES, AND ZEN DENS
Since Ben joined last summer, the school has been buzzing with energy and ideas. He’s already led a renovation of the Junior School, creating a new library, a dynamic performance space, and a peaceful Zen Den for quiet reflection.
Classrooms across the school are also being redesigned in collaboration with students, shaping spaces that match how young people learn and thrive today. Meanwhile, our growing Sixth Form is getting an upgrade: a new library and café area are on the way, to complement Roberts House and give Years 12 and 13 their own vibrant space.
Outdoors, the changes are just as exciting. We’ve added a zipwire to our upgraded high ropes course in the woods and refreshed the beloved treehouse. And then there’s the kitchen garden farm nestled between the Junior and Senior Schools and home to Issy and Bea, two pygmy goats named in honour of our Founders, plus thirteen rare breed chickens and seven runner ducks.
Our Nursery has also undergone a transformation. From September 2025, Fireflies Nursery will offer year-round care (48 weeks a year), extended hours from 7:30am to 6:30pm, and 15 & 30-hour funding options to support our youngest families.
At its heart, Frensham remains what it’s always been: a school where children are encouraged to explore, question, discover, and love learning - the kind of place you were proud to be part of.
We’d love for you to come back and see it all for yourself. Whether it’s your first visit in years or just a quick stop to see what’s new, you’re always welcome. Come and walk the grounds, meet the goats, and see what your old school looks like today. We can’t wait to show you around.
Contact Polly Murray for a tour: of@frensham.org
STUDENT SUCCESS CELEBRATING ART AND DANCE THROUGH GRAFFITI
At Frensham, we celebrate the Arts in all their forms. Every student experiences Dance, Music, Drama, Art, Ceramics, and Design Technology throughout their time at school. There is nothing we love more than working across art forms.
Eve joined Frensham in September of last year. Although initially reluctant to go away to boarding school, it quickly became clear what an opportunity it was.
“I started to become much more productive, making more music, drawing, and talking to people. Nobody judges you for how you look or what you’re into. I think coming to Frensham is one of the best things that has ever happened to me.”
Eve wanted to give back to Frensham in a creative way, and when a wall in need of attention was spotted, there was a clear vision of how to bring it to life. Inspired by the energy and movement inside the building, this piece was created to reflect the spirit of dance at Frensham.
With experience painting in graffiti-supported spaces in Munich, Eve took this project to the next level - learning how to create a proposal,
liaise with staff and SLT, and work safely along the way. A true showcase of passion, initiative, and graffiti talent!
Our Sixth Form Arts Awards recognise talented students in the Creative and Performing Arts who want to pursue their passion alongside their chosen A level subjects.
Find out more about these Awards and our Arts offer: https://www.frensham.org/artsawards
FRENSHAM IN THE COMMUNITY
At Frensham Heights, we believe that creativity, collaboration, and community go hand in hand. We are proud to play an active role in the vibrant local arts scene, supporting events that inspire imagination and bring people together.
This October, we are thrilled, once again, to sponsor Farnham Town Council’s October Craft Month, a celebration of local makers and artistic talent. We’re delighted to host the official launch event on Saturday 4th October from 11am to 4pm, with a day packed with workshops, exhibitions, and opportunities to get hands-on with craft.
Looking ahead, The Big Draw returns in 2026, and we’re excited to be part of this global festival celebrating the power of drawing.
In March 2026, we proudly sponsor the Farnham Literary Festival, opening our doors to host talks, readings, and workshops that champion the written word.
Our creative connections extend beyond Farnham. We support the Alton Arts Festival and Surrey Artists Open Studios, offering local artists a platform and our students a chance to engage with real-world creativity.
Frensham is proud to be a place where the arts thrive, both on campus and in the wider community.
Keep an eye on the main school website for updates and tickets: Frensham.org/events
CHARITY & OUTREACH
Community engagement is a key part of school life. From Nursery to Sixth Form, students take part in a wide range of outreach initiatives designed to build interpersonal skills, confidence, and social awareness.
Each week, students visit Gostrey Brightwell Day Centre, spending time with elderly clients through conversation, board games, and creative activities. Performances of singing, piano, monologues - even homemade treats, have helped form genuine intergenerational connections.
Year 9 and 10 students work with Rowledge C of E School’s Acorn SEND group, designing inclusive sessions around shared interests. Activities include pom-pom making, drumming, art, and exploring the outdoors.
Senior students also support Farnham Assist’s monthly Sunday lunches at the Memorial Hall, helping to serve food and socialise with guests, many of whom rarely leave their homes except for this event. These opportunities strengthen teamwork, communication, and social responsibility.
Younger pupils also play a part. Year 4 recently organised afternoon tea for elderly guests from Farnham Assist, sharing performances and conversation. Year 5 will soon run their own event for them, presenting their local history projects and inviting guests to share memories from their own lives.
Each spring, we host a sports tournament for local state junior schools. Our Sports Leaders prepare
from the autumn term to organise and run the event, ensuring a fun and inclusive day. Regular attendees include Potters Gate, St Peter’s, Rowledge, and Bordon.
Performing Arts outreach is equally strong. Local schools are invited into our theatre for events including professional Shakespeare productions, Curiosity lectures, and musicals, concerts, and plays.
Our student-led charity programme chose Great Ormond Street Hospital this year, with support also going to Mary’s Meals and The Woodlarks Centre. Fundraisers have included toy sales, bake-offs, a sponsored head shave, and a half marathon that alone raised over £3,000.
Lynn Goodburne – Head of Hamilton House, Dance Teacher, Charity and Outreach
COVER STORY ORLANDA BROOM
A Flourishing Presence at Saatchi Gallery's 'Flowers' Exhibition
Orlanda Broom (OF 1988-1990), a distinguished artist with a diverse background, has carved a prominent place in the contemporary art scene. She graduated with an MA in Fine Art from Winchester School of Art (Barcelona) in 1997, after completing her BA in Fine Art at Cheltenham & Gloucester.
Frensham was a formative experience for Orlanda that would influence much of her creative journey. Her career has taken her on a fascinating international journey, living in Portugal during the 2000s before making London her home for over a decade. Eventually, she returned to the countryside, where she now works from a large industrial studio just outside Liphook. The space serves as the perfect environment for her expansive artistic practice.
Orlanda's work has been widely recognised and celebrated, both in the UK and internationally. She regularly exhibits in London, showcasing her art to a broad and diverse audience. Her recent work was part of an exhibition at the prestigious Saatchi Gallery, titled Flowers - Flora in Contemporary Art & Culture. This exhibition highlighted her exceptional contributions to the contemporary art world and offered a unique opportunity to experience Orlanda's compelling art in one of the most respected galleries in the world.
“My landscapes represent re-imagined places which are abundant and wild, the immediate sense of joyousness is tempered by an uneasy sense of abandonment. I depict places that offer a timeless quality and a glimpse of paradise that is lost to us.”
Front Cover: “Dark Light” by Orlanda Broom
A LASTING TRIBUTE LORD MOSER RETURNS TO FRENSHAM
(L-R) Kath and Sue Moser
This spring, we were honoured to welcome Kath and Sue, daughters of the late Lord Claus Moser, as they presented Frensham with a bronze bust of their father. A striking likeness, it now sits proudly on the mantlepiece in the Drawing Room - a space filled with stories and memories for generations of Frenshamians. It feels only right that he is back among us, quietly watching over the school he once called home. There is a copy of the bronze sculpture at the Royal Opera House, London at the back of the stalls.
Lord Moser arrived in England from Nazi Germany in April 1936, fleeing with his family as a young boy. It was, as he later reflected, his supreme good fortune that his parents chose to send him to Frensham Heights. The school’s warmth and spirit of acceptance meant that, from all sides, he soon felt completely at home.
He spent four happy years at Frensham. The progressive spirit and creative freedom left a big impression, nurturing a love of learning and a sense of belonging that helped shape the remarkable life he would go on to lead.
Claus Moser at Founders’ Day 1994, taken by Neil Whichelow
A distinguished statistician and public servant, Lord Moser became one of the most respected figures in British academic and cultural life. He remained a passionate advocate for the arts and education, and never forgot the sanctuary Frensham offered in those uncertain early days.
We are deeply grateful to Kath, Sue and their brother Pete for this generous and touching gesture. It is a lasting reminder of Lord Moser’s journey, his affection for Frensham, and the enduring impact of a school that welcomes individuals from all walks of life.
FROM THE ARCHIVE
Exciting things are happening behind the scenes as we continue to care for and bring new life to the Frensham Heights archive.
Last autumn, Alumni Manager Polly Murray met with Governor and Old Frenshamian Sally Marriott to assess the current state of the archive store room. Together with their archive knowledge, they reviewed what was needed to improve the organisation and preservation of the collection and a list of essential items was drawn up, including acid-free labels, sleeves, tissue, pens, boxes and storage materials, and the project got underway.
Following an appeal for volunteers, a dedicated team now meets every Wednesday in Main House to sort, catalogue, and care for the archive. The group includes current parent Natasha Hill, former staff members Diana Small, Sue Millerchip and
Carol Mallett, overseen by Sally. Their work is already making a real difference.
We’ve recently received some wonderful donations; blazers, magazines, photographs, and a remarkable collection from New Zealand sent by Gabriel Gati. It includes items from his grandmother, a 1930s pupil and her cousin Enid Roberts, wife of Headmaster Paul Roberts (1928–1949). Amongst the gems is a farewell book for Paul Roberts’ retirement, lovingly created by the Junior Department in 1949.
To begin sharing these treasures more widely, there will be exhibitions at Founders’ Day and
other events, as well as posts on social media and in the e-newsletter. We hope they will spark memories and encourage even more contributions to the archive.
A heartfelt thank you to all our donors and volunteers who are generously giving their time to this meaningful project.
Stay tuned, there’s so much more to come as we uncover more from the archive.
1930s The Sweet Stall (top right)
1930s The Bundle Race (bottom right)
THE DAN ELEY FOUNDATION
Where There Is Life, There Is Hope
In 2009, I was living in Cali, Colombia, working as an English teacher. I had spent three years travelling and working across Latin America and had fallen in love with the continent. For the Christmas holidays, two colleagues and I decided to visit the Amazon for what we hoped would be the adventure of a lifetime.
On New Year’s Day 2010, we were at an outdoor lido. I took a dive into what I thought was deep water and hit my head on the bottom. I lost consciousness instantly and when I came to, I was lying on the bank of the pond, not being able to move or feel anything from the neck down.
I was taken by ambulance to a poorly equipped clinic in a jungle town where I spent two days fighting
for my life. Before slipping into a coma, I remember thinking, "If I were to die now, what kind of legacy would my life leave?"
Doctors told me I had broken my neck in two places. They said I would never walk again, never use my hands, and probably never have a meaningful quality of life. In the week that followed, I suffered five cardiac arrests.
After eleven months in hospital, I left as a severely disabled person, still paralysed from the neck down. I moved into a nursing home in Godalming, wondering how life had come to this, so I resolved to turn things around, and started a charity to support disadvantaged young people: The Dan Eley Foundation.
Between 2012 and 2022, we raised funds in the UK to provide vocational training in accounting
and marketing to 800 young people in Cali, Colombia. After completing the courses, many were able to find jobs with local businesses, bringing vital income to their families.
In 2012, I had the great honour of being chosen as a torchbearer for the London Olympic Games. Carrying the torch through my hometown was one of the greatest and happiest experiences of my life.
Fifteen years after my accident, I have rebuilt my life and found peace and inner contentment. The most important things I have learned are, where there is life, there is hope. And, if you persevere through hardship, life may reward you in ways you never imagined or expected.
www.daneleyfoundation.org
Daniel Eley OF 1990-1994
MAX VARDY BRAIN TUMOUR TRUST
We're proud to share the inspiring story of former student Max Vardy (OF 2018), who has been diagnosed with terminal brain cancer.
In a powerful show of support, Max's best friend and fellow Old Frenshamian, Rhys Griffiths, took on the gruelling 'David Goggins 4x4x48' challenge; running 4 miles every 4 hours for 48 hours, to raise awareness and vital funds for Brain Tumour Research.
Rhys has also created a video documenting his incredible journey to support Max and this crucial cause.
Let's unite to raise awareness and if you’d like to donate, visit: https://www.justgiving.com/page/ max-vardy-brain-cancer.
Every donation makes a difference.
Instagram: @maxvardybraincancer @rhysgriffithsmedia
CATCHING UP WITH OFS 2024-2025
It’s always a pleasure to welcome Old Frenshamians back to their school, whether they’re giving a Morning Talk, taking a nostalgic tour of the site, or even DJing at a Sixth Form dance!
Here’s a selection of photos, including when Alison Anholt (OF 1968-1973) met Vanessa at her home on a trip to the UK – the first time they’ve seen each other since they left Frensham in 1973!
Jack Sachs (OF 2002-2007) returned to Frensham from Berlin with his partner Sarah in May 2025 as part of a road trip around the UK coastline. Of course, we couldn’t resist calling his favourite teacher, John Atkinson – who immediately dropped everything and drove to the school to see them. It was a truly lovely, spontaneous reunion. The moment Jack saw John, his face said it all. This was the teacher who had pushed him to succeed and encouraged him to pursue art – the path he’s now thriving in. @jacksachs
We were humbled to be joined by Old Frenshamian and Holocaust Survivor Steven Frank (OF 1949-1953) in February 2025. Steven gave a very moving, personal and engaging account of his childhood before the war and of his time in Barneveld, Westerbork and Theresienstadt camps. Students in Years 9-13 listened in silence as Steven recounted both personal experiences and heartbreaking facts and figures. He warned of the importance of remembering and learning from these atrocious events. Steven, we feel extremely lucky and privileged to have heard your story first-hand. Thank you so much for continuing to share it with schools and communities across the UK and beyond.
Book group
Jack Sachs and John Atkinson
Steven Frank
DJ Harrison Read Alison Anholt and Vanessa
Saraya Haddad (OF 2008-2015) shared her experiences at Morning Talk of being spiked at university and how she turned her trauma into a positive by spreading awareness through her one person production that she took to the Edinburgh Fringe Festival.
We welcomed back Johanna Kerz (OF 2012-2014) from Berlin when she was in the UK and she was thrilled to see some favourite teachers. Johanna is now a doctor specialising in Forensic Pathology.
We met Henry Reichhold (OF 1970-1972) at London Bridge station where he was displaying his impressive photo montages as part of the ‘Finding The Story’ exhibition. Ben Bowles (OF 2002-2013) was visiting family in the area and couldn't resist coming to say hi to his favourite teachers and meeting our Head with the same name!
Tashi Gore, Gunnar Cauthery and Libby Curley
Beverley Wrigglesworth and Piers Carter
Polina Storozhuk
Saraya Haddad
Johanna Kerz
Henry Reichhold
Ben Bowles
FRENSHAM'S GOT TALENT SAM ROLLES
Sam Rolles Takes Centre Stage with Electric Umbrella on Britain’s Got Talent
Electric Umbrella creates space for learning-disabled and neurodivergent people to shine, express themselves, and challenge perceptions through the power of performance. Earlier this year, their mission reached an extraordinary milestone when they took to the Britain’s Got Talent stage and earned the coveted Golden Buzzer.
Their performance was nothing short of electrifying. With a song that celebrated individuality and
possibility, the group, made up of learning-disabled performers supported by professional musicians, a dedicated team, and an army of enthusiastic volunteers, brought the entire audience to its feet. Emotions ran high as the judges were visibly moved, culminating in a Golden Buzzer moment from Simon Cowell that catapulted Electric Umbrella to the live semi-finals.
This landmark performance was also deeply personal for Old Frenshamian, Sam Rolles (OF 1999–2004), one of Electric Umbrella’s Music Practitioners. Reflecting on the experience, Sam shared:
“Being on that stage back in January and being a part of Electric Umbrella has been one of the most rewarding
and uplifting experiences of my career. It has made a huge impact on my life, and I hope that us being able to take to the Britain's Got Talent stage will help lift up our learningdisabled community.
As a Music Practitioner with Electric Umbrella, my main role is to take teams of learning-disabled adults into both mainstream and SEN schools around the country and deliver workshops and performances to the school children based around disability awareness and acceptance. I also do online interactive workshops that get streamed live to schools around the UK. It's the best job I've ever had!”
To find out more or get involved, visit electricumbrella.org.uk
GLOBAL CONNECTIONS CLIVE GILLINSON
Sir Clive Gillinson: Transforming Carnegie Hall into a Global Hub for Music, Education, and Innovation
Sir Clive Gillinson has been the Executive and Artistic Director of Carnegie Hall since 2005, leading the world-renowned venue with a focus on artistic innovation and community impact. He oversees the programming for Carnegie Hall's three performance spaces, curating around 170 performances each season, ranging from classical and jazz to world music and popular music genres.
Clive is committed to making Carnegie Hall a cultural hub that goes beyond just music. A major focus of Clive’s tenure has been expanding Carnegie Hall’s educational and digital outreach. He was instrumental in creating Ensemble Connect, a unique program that helps young musicians transition to professional careers while teaching in New York City public schools.
Clive’s vision has also led to the transformation of Carnegie Hall’s Studio Towers into a dedicated
space for the Weill Music Institute, making Carnegie Hall a true centre for music education. In 2024, he launched WOW! (World Orchestra Week), an exciting international event that brought together youth orchestras from around the world.
Born in Bangalore, India, Clive grew up immersed in music, with a professional cellist mother and an artist father. He joined Frensham Heights at the age of seven and stayed there through his A-Levels. His two loves at school were mathematics and music and credits Frensham’s creative educational approach for the entrepreneurship which has been such an important ingredient in his career in management.
After briefly studying mathematics at London University, he went to the Royal Academy of Music where he won the top cello prize. From there he joined the LSO and eventually took on a leadership role, shaping the orchestra’s global impact. Over the years, Clive has earned numerous awards for his contributions to music, including a Knighthood in 2005, making him the only orchestra manager to ever receive this honour.
Clive continues to work to ensure that Carnegie Hall remains a place of innovation, inclusivity, and excellence in the global cultural landscape.
GLOBAL CONNECTIONS PEGGY SPEIR
A Holiday Buy Turns into a Dream Business
With a lifetime in the food industry and nearly 20 years as a touring chef for musicians, Peggy Speir (OF 1980–1984) is the creative force behind Frostbites Syrup Co.
The business began in 2010 after Peggy impulsively bought a shave ice machine on holiday. She and her former partner, Martyn, initially planned to sell shave ice at farmers’ markets, but they soon realised there was demand for something more.
A product capturing the essence of summer and regional flavours.
By 2013, Peggy had established herself as a syrup maker in Squamish, British Columbia, creating seasonal syrups with two
goals: to connect with local farmers and build relationships within the Sea to Sky corridor community.
Frostbites Syrup Co. became known for fresh, whimsical flavours made from locally grown ingredients - a vibrant alternative to artificial cordials. Customers use them to craft sodas, enhance desserts, boost smoothies, flavour cocktails, or sweeten iced teas and lemonades.
With strong community support, Peggy’s syrups are now sold in local stores and served in cafes and restaurants across Canada.
Peggy’s Memories of Frensham
Coming from New York, everything about boarding school in England felt alien. The schooling style, living with classmates, and the international outlook Frensham offered. I loved it. There are far too many fond (and naughty) memories to recount.
The friendships forged during those years had a lasting impact on my development and world view. Under Headmaster Alan Pattenson, I learned as much from fellow students as from teachers.
After Frensham, I lost touch with most, apart from surprise run-ins. But by the mid-2000s, social media helped me reconnect with many hilarious, talented friends from school. Despite the time apart, the impact we had on each other during those formative years is undeniable.
I often reflect on what I learned at Frensham. A love of literature from Craig, history from Jonathan, and a passion for geography from John Bayston. But more than that, Frensham gave me space to grow creatively, think independently, challenge authority (with minimal reprimand!), and explore adulthood. I’ve carried these lessons throughout my career and owe Frensham much for how I’ve navigated life.
GLOBAL CONNECTIONS TIM ROBERTSON
Astronomy Missions Control Room, European Space Operations Centre (ESOC), Darmstadt, Germany. A few hours before sunrise.
Above the hum of the air conditioning, an alarm sounds. A glance at the display confirms it’s expected. XMM is slewing to a new target. Routine, but not to be ignored.
Daily contact with Euclid is underway. Nothing to report. When all is nominal, tranquillity reigns. When the unexpected happens, things get “interesting.”
Welcome to ESOC, where diverse skills and specialisations keep a fleet of spacecraft from becoming expensive space junk! Engineers, flight dynamics experts, scientists, partner agencies, and a skilled scheduling team work in sync to keep everything running smoothly.
It’s been busy in the astronomy corner. Integral ended science observations in February 2025 after 23 years. We’re now shifting to a different operational mode until its re-entry in 2029, when orbital decay brings it down in a final blaze.
XMM-Newton is still going strong, 25 years after its launch on 10th December 1999.
I was at Frensham in the late ’80s, where I earned my amateur radio licence. A particularly memorable moment was making direct contact with an aid worker in Sudan during the famine in that region. As a result of that exchange, the school was able to offer direct assistance to the aid worker’s project.
Now, with a lighter workload, I’m reviving that licence to support ground terminals for SMILE and CubeSat missions.
I’ve been at ESOC for 20 years - in IT, ground station ops, and since 2021 as an astronomy mission controller. This job is often likened to working in a living history museum (cue jokes about me being one of the exhibits!).
While much is now automated, XMM and Integral remain handson. They’re the only ESA spacecraft where Spacons like me can independently recover or command manoeuvres - a daunting task the first time. Euclid, by contrast, can store days of commands and selfrecover. That’s the future.
LOOKING BACK: SPRING DRINKS MAY 2025
CELEBRATE 100 YEARS OF FRENSHAM!
LET THE CENTENARY CELEBRATIONS BEGIN
In September 1925, Frensham Heights first opened its doors to a small group of students, starting their journey of educational innovation, creativity, and community. One hundred years later, we’re thrilled to invite all
Old Frenshamians, families, and friends to join us in celebrating a century of Frensham Heights.
Our official Centenary celebrations will begin in September 2025, marking 100 years since the school first welcomed pupils. Over the
following months, we’ll be hosting a packed calendar of events and Frensham fun. Everything will lead up to the grand finale: Centenary Founders' Day on Saturday 4th
July 2026 - our biggest Founders' Day yet!
YOUR REUNIONS
CELEBRATE 100 YEARS WITH YOUR YEAR GROUP
There’s never been a better time to come back to Frensham. As we celebrate our centenary, we’re inviting Old Frenshamians from across the decades to return for special reunion events throughout the year. Whether it’s been five years or fifty, this is your chance to reconnect, reminisce, and be part of the celebrations.
It’s an added bonus if you left in 2020, 2015, 2010, 2005, 2000, 1995, 1985, 1975, etc, as that will be a double milestone celebration. Please help us to spread the word, by rallying your friends, sharing the dates in your WhatsApp and Facebook groups, and let’s make it a year to remember.
We’ll keep you updated by newsletters and social media.
September 2025 onwards
Centenary celebrations begin within the school and wider community
Saturday 27th September 2025
1940s-1960s OF Reunion
Saturday 18th October 2025
1970s-1980s OF Reunion
Monday 3rd November 2025
Centenary Fireworks Night
Saturday 15th November 2025
1990s-2000s OF Reunion
Saturday 6th December 2025
OF Christmas Singers concert with Edwin Rolles
Wednesday 10th December 2025
Christmas Fair
Wednesday 10th December 2025
2010s-current leavers Reunion 2026:
Friday 3rd July 2026
Frensham Fringe - a day of workshops and performances run by OFs for the students. Please email of@frensham.org if you’d like to be considered to run a creative or academic workshop.
Saturday 4th July 2026
Centenary Founders' Day
NOT SURE WHICH REUNION TO BOOK?
LET’S HELP YOU PICK THE RIGHT PARTY
To make sure you're with the right group, we're organising reunions by the years you left Frensham. For example, if you were here from 1978 to 1984, you'll join the 1970s-1980s
Year you left Frensham if you had stayed until the end of Sixth Form:
Your Reunion: Date of Reunion:
1940 1940s-1960s 27th Sept 2025
1941 1940s-1960s 27th Sept 2025
1942 1940s-1960s 27th Sept 2025
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1944 1940s-1960s 27th Sept 2025
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reunion. This way, you'll be with people you know. If you left at the beginning of a decade, for example in 1970, you might consider coming to both the '60s and '70s reunions.
1966 1940s-1960s 27th Sept 2025
1967 1940s-1960s 27th Sept 2025
1968 1940s-1960s 27th Sept 2025
1969 1940s-1960s 27th Sept 2025
1970 1970s-1980s 18th Oct 2025
1971 1970s-1980s 18th Oct 2025
1972 1970s-1980s 18th Oct 2025
1973 1970s-1980s 18th Oct 2025
1974 1970s-1980s 18th Oct 2025
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1984 1970s-1980s 18th Oct 2025
1985 1970s-1980s 18th Oct 2025
1986 1970s-1980s 18th Oct 2025
1987 1970s-1980s 18th Oct 2025
1988 1970s-1980s 18th Oct 2025
1989 1970s-1980s 18th Oct 2025
1990 1990s-2000s 15th Nov 2025
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1992 1990s-2000s 15th Nov 2025
1993 1990s-2000s 15th Nov 2025
1994 1990s-2000s 15th Nov 2025
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Former staff are welcome to any reunion.
Events can be booked on the OF Community website: https://oldfrenshamians.org
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TREVOR ALDRIDGE
THE NAME BEHIND THE THEATRE
At the beginning of World War II, many children were evacuated from cities to safer rural areas. Five-yearold Trevor Aldridge, whose father was a GP, lived in London. His school, Dulwich College Prep, was evacuated to huts near Cranbrook, Kent. Trevor was miserable and became so ill he had to return to London by ambulance. After that, he made a miraculous recovery.
A friend of his parents suggested Frensham Heights, and at the age of six, Trevor went there as a boarder. He was very happy at Frensham. During the war, beds were set up in the cellar of Main House, and students sheltered there during air raids. On one weekend walk, Trevor and a friend found an unexploded bomb in the woods. They threw stones at it, but nothing happened. As they walked away, it exploded. Terrified, they ran back to school.
Mornings started with a run down The Long Road and a cold bath. A common trick was to run backwards on the return side of the road, ready to switch directions if staff approached. This made it look like the run was nearly finished. Sport was not Trevor’s favourite thing.
He remembered the school food of that era vividly. “Frogspawn” (tapioca
pudding), “baby’s bottom” (exact identity unknown!), and spotted dick were among the dishes served. Later in his school career, Trevor stood in the school’s mock election as the Liberal candidate but lost to the Conservative, who secured votes by buying ice cream for the junior school!
Paul Roberts was headmaster for most of Trevor’s time at Frensham and greatly influenced his lifelong interest in education and appreciation for the school. Roberts welcomed Jewish refugee students during the 1930s, some of whom spoke no English and it was his inclusive spirit that meant religion or nationality never stood in the way of friendship or belonging. Trevor went on to study at the Sorbonne in Paris and then St John’s College, Cambridge, earning a First in Law. After National Service, he joined a London firm of solicitors, becoming a partner at 28. He wrote 35 legal textbooks, lectured, and sat on numerous committees. He was a Law Commissioner and the first President of the Special Educational Needs Tribunal, which he designed to be parent-friendly. Trevor also championed plain English in legal writing, striving to make the law more accessible.
For his contributions, he was named
an honorary Queen’s Counsel and made an honorary life member of the Law Society. In 1962, aged 28, he joined Frensham’s Board of Governors. He went on to serve as Treasurer and then Chairman for 19 years, and later became honorary President until his death in 2010.
Trevor’s intelligence, humour, and integrity helped the school through good times and bad. His love for Frensham and belief in its educational values never wavered. The naming of the Aldridge Theatre honours his years of service and lasting impact on the school he cherished.
WiththankstotheAldridgefamilyfor sharingTrevor’smemories.
TrevorAldridge(OF1940–1951)
ESALAN GATES REGENERATION
Past Meets Present
Last November, I returned to Frensham to direct the senior play Regeneration. As a former Frensham student who took part in every school production and pursued Drama at GCSE and A-Level before completing a Masters in Theatre Directing, it was an opportunity I couldn’t pass up and an incredibly rewarding experience.
Regeneration, a novel by Pat Barker, draws on historical events, exploring the experiences of soldiers being treated for shell shock after the First World War. The students’ skill, focus, and respect for the material was nothing short of inspiring. The dedication of both the cast and backstage crew exemplifies the spirit of Frensham - a beacon of creativity
and resilience. This production stands as a testament to that spirit, reminding us that even in the darkest moments, we must continue to speak, create, and persevere.
Rehearsing in the weeks leading up to the Armistice, I was struck by the profound reality of the soldiers’ experiences, especially given Frensham’s history as a wartime hospital. Regeneration is a beautiful play that reminds us of the courage it takes to listen to our conscience and speak up when it matters most. In today’s world, where political strife and conflict persist, with lives still caught in the crossfire, this play resonates deeply. It reminds us of the power of finding our voice - whether through politics, art, or personal conviction. One of the students in our cast aptly observed that Regeneration
reflects the patience needed to endure difficult times, a lesson that feels particularly relevant today. Esalan Gates (OF 2013-2018) Watch Esalan’s exclusive interview on the Old Frenshamian YouTube channel.
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BELLA HUTTON THE SOCIAL PULSE
From Frensham to Founder: How a Lockdown Spark Became a Business
I left Frensham Heights in 2019 after joining for Sixth Form, finishing with A-Levels in Sociology, Drama, Photography and a Level 4 Diploma in Music. My time at Frensham was incredibly special. It’s where I discovered my passion for music during singing lessons with Mandy, who encouraged me to step out of my comfort zone and truly pursue it.
After school, I went on to study music at the London College of Contemporary Music (LCCM), aiming for a career in the music industry. But like many others, I was hit hard by the COVID-19 pandemic.
Studying from home left me feeling uninspired and after nearly two years, I made the tough decision to leave the course. My mum’s advice at that point? “Find a job!”
Lockdown made that easier said than done. With no clear path, I spent a lot of time scrolling through social media. That’s when I started seeing videos about social media management. I was intrigued. I found a work experience opportunity that taught me how to manage digital marketing campaigns, and it lit a spark.
I threw myself into learning everything I could: free online courses, late nights teaching myself about content creation, website building, ad campaigns and more. I had no money to invest, so I came up with a name, designed a logo, built a basic website, and launched The Social Pulse.
The beginning was tough. I worked long hours, undercharged, and often worked for free just to get testimonials. But eventually, I landed my first client: a construction company in London. It wasn’t the glamorous project I’d imagined, but it turned out to be a game-changer. I spotted a gap in the market and decided to specialise in the construction sector.
Word spread through social media and referrals. Soon I was climbing scaffolding in a hard hat, flying drones and working with major construction firms. The business grew quickly – from just me, to managing a team – and I even travelled to Dubai to work with multinational companies.
One of my proudest moments so far was being named a finalist for the Young Business Owner of the Year 2025. Running a business is full of challenges, but the freedom, creativity and pride of being your own boss are completely worth it. If you’re considering starting your own business – do it.
Frensham played a huge role in shaping who I am. It’s a remarkable place that treats students as young adults, not just grades. You’re encouraged to be yourself, have an opinion and think independently. The teaching promotes self-reliance and responsibility – skills I use every day.
To any current students reading this: make the most of your time at Frensham. Take every opportunity, say yes more often and enjoy every second. You won’t realise how much it means until you’ve left.
LIFE AFTER FRENSHAM
In the week before May half term, our Year 12 students took part in a dynamic session with nine OFs, rotating through short, focused conversations to gain career insights, practical advice, and fresh perspectives on life after Frensham. Our visiting alumni brought with them an impressive variety of backgrounds, including roles in the civil service, marketing, education, entrepreneurship, and even specialist fields such as gemmology.
It was not only a valuable opportunity for our students, but also a reflective
experience for our alumni. Many appreciated the chance to pause and consider how far they had come since their own time at school and to see how the school has changed and grown since they were here.
Events like these highlight the strength of the Frensham community and the lasting connections that continue to inspire across generations.
ThankyouKatieMason,Ollie Harding,OttilieYoung,RosieForster, OllieCray,MattGreen,BellaHutton, GeorgeWyethandAlyssaAbbottfor takingpartandsharingyouradvice.
TOP TIPS BY LOUISE MYERSCOUGH (OF 2017)
1. Choose a university course with a placement or gap year
If you're heading to university, pick a course that offers a placement or sandwich year. Real-world experience is one of the most valuable things you can gain - it gives you a serious edge when it comes to job hunting after graduation.
2. Don’t be afraid to take extra qualifications
Whether it’s a short course, online certificate, or an extra module alongside your degree, stacking up
additional skills can set you apart. Employers love to see initiative and specialist knowledge beyond your core course.
3. Try things out - you don’t have to have it all figured out
Careers aren’t linear anymore. It’s okay to test different roles, industries, or paths before finding your fit. Every experience teaches you something useful. Personally, I studied communications, have had two marketing roles and now work for a heritage railway doing campaigns, communications
and corporate events (and lots of fundraising and working on the company strategy).
4. Make connections early
Start building your network now. Use LinkedIn, go to events, talk to alumni, and don’t be shy about asking questions. Opportunities often come from who you know, not just what you know.
5. Keep an open mind
You might go into one field and end up thriving in another. Stay curious, say yes to opportunities, and don’t box yourself in too early.
GERALD RIDDETT JUST JANE...A RESPECTFUL RELATIONSHIP
I left Frensham in 1964 and went to Guildford Technical College then Leeds University where I flew Chipmunks with the University Air Squadron, followed by Officer Training at Cranwell. I had operational tours on 85 Sqn Canberras and 203/206 Nimrod then as an instructor and latterly on the Central Flying School staff. I left the RAF and flew the ATP, Jetstream
41, Regional Jet RJ 100 with BA regional; Buffalo and Dornier 228 for the Royal Oman Police ; Chief instructor Moncton flight college; Head of Training in Australia; Commercial Instructor with Flight Training Europe.
I retired from flying in 2021, after 52 years of continuous flying, first flight 1968, and it became increasingly important for me to
obtain a hobby that would keep me occupied and maintain a connection with aviation. In a chance conversation whilst volunteering at Doddington Hall, I expressed an interest in volunteering at the Lincolnshire Aviation Heritage Centre at East Kirkby where the Lancaster lives. The advice I received was, just turn up and ask. That’s exactly what I did.
The Lincolnshire Aviation Heritage Centre was set up by two farming brothers, Fred and Harold Panton as a memorial to Bomber Command and primarily as a tribute to their eldest brother Christopher Witton Panton who was shot down and killed on a bombing raid over Nuremberg in March 1944.
They chose Lancaster NX 611, affectionately known as Just Jane, which was made in 1945 but never saw war service however, after many adventures, she became the gate guard at RAF Scampton where I was working as a flying instructor. On weekends I would take my three boys and clamber all over her. Now some 30 years later I am honoured to have the opportunity to help restore
her and bring her back to flying condition.
The first question they asked was, can you file? My immediate reaction was I haven’t volunteered to be a paper pusher but instead I was given a metal file and told to make a cleat.
The cleat is an integral part of the fuselage and joins the stringers to the frames. The cleat is only two inches by one and a half but has to conform to exacting standards.
This was when I realised that I had made a part, albeit small, that would fly as part of the Lancaster. A real change from the many hours sitting in the cockpit. I’ve made seventy or more of them! Well this proved to be the beginning of two years of metalworking that has been the most fulfilling work I have ever done.
Currently I am working to restore the part of the port wing that houses the flap. This requires the remaking of 20 ribs because the originals, like so much of the airframe, are in a very corroded state. We have copies of the original drawings to help us fabricate new parts by bending, hammering and filing the aluminium into the appropriate shape. This may sound simple but because every part is handmade, many hours of careful and accurate work is required. All measurements are in inches, down to 1/64, and woe betide anyone who mentions centimetres!
The port wing has had to be removed, stripped and checked for corrosion before being rebuilt, painted and returned to the aircraft. That seems easy! Well actually it was relatively straight forward. Just support the wing and undo the eight bolts and lower it onto a jig. The mighty Lancaster is one beautiful model aeroplane on a vast scale.
Although we are refurbishing the Lancaster, work is also progressing on a Mosquito and B 27 Mitchell. All three are used to take the general public on taxi rides around the airfield.
To give you an idea of the timescale, I will be around 90 before she can be considered to have been refurbished and fit to be released to fly.
I sincerely hope I will live to see that day. It will be interesting if I am able to continue until 2031 when I’ll be 85, a number that was my first squadron. 85 Sqn Canberras.
If you are anywhere near Lincoln and East Kirkby, please come and see the restoration. It’s truly fascinating.
OF NEWS
JANE
READ
(OF 1958-1963)
What counts as “news” in one’s 80th year, I wonder? Perhaps just still being “above ground.”
A (thankfully successful) fourth operation in December 2021 for a rare cancer left me with a severed left femoral nerve and limited mobility. I now walk with crutches or a Rollator and still manage to drive an automatic car, although I suspect the electric scooter is looming.
I’m still singing in three local choirs (thanks, Frensham and Teddy Rice)
and manage most household tasks, with much support from John. We celebrate our emerald wedding anniversary this year - though likely without emeralds.
Many of our cohort are also turning 80 this year: David Elias, Jeremy Stavenhagen, Julia Besch (Cornelius), Hilary Powell (Stephen), Lindy Mason (Rutter), Geoff Counsell, Adrian Goolden, Frank Wibaut, and Michael Watson. I suspect Linda Latter (Johnson)
and Jill Sim (Bunker) join the club too. Chris Heinitz, Hammy Sparks, Peter Pilley, Nick Kaye, and Clive Gillinson will catch up next year.
Bernard Myers and, I believe, Stephen Kwik beat us to it.
It would be lovely to see as many of you as possible at the reunion on 27th September, or at any of next year’s Centenary celebrations.
With thanks to Jane Read for all she does in keeping the OFs together.
OLIVIA BIANCARDI
(OF 2008-2010)
I am from the class of 2010 and would like to add my personal news that I got married in 2023 and recently gave birth to my first child, a daughter, in February 2025.
A PASSION FOR DESIGN CHARLIE DEDMAN
(OF 2004-2009)
My passion for design and making was sparked during my time at Frensham Heights, thanks to the inspiring teaching of John A and Richard Evans. Their encouragement laid the foundation for my creative journey and motivated me to pursue a career in this field.
After Frensham, I completed a design degree at Kingston University, which provided me with essential skills and knowledge. I then spent two years working in furniture making, honing my craftsmanship and deepening my understanding of materiality and form. In Spring 2024, after 8 years working as Head of Design at outdoor furniture specialist, Gaze Burvill, I took a nine-week sabbatical to walk the South West Coast Path, raising over £10,000 for Woodland Heritage. This adventure was inspired by a love of the outdoors and exploration that Lynne Elgy nurtured in me during my school years. The experience reinforced
my connection with nature, which continues to influence my design philosophy.
At Gaze Burvill, I have had the privilege to lead exciting projects all around the UK and earn a few Design Guild Marks along the way, both for the company and my independent design work. Some recent highlights include designing a bespoke curved seat for the gold-winning show garden at the Chelsea Flower Show, created for the Chelsea Pensioners. The launch of a collection with the National Trust.
Currently, I am working on a bespoke seat, to be unveiled this July in the new Carbon Garden at Kew Gardens. Last month, we launched a new brand, ‘Meon’, focused on unique interior chairs and tables crafted from English ash, designed, made and sometimes grown in Hampshire - continuing my commitment to quality craftsmanship and sustainable materials. I’m always happy to offer advice to anyone interested in pursuing a career in this great industry, so please contact me via charlesdedman@gmail.com
CHRIS MCBEATH (WALROND) (OF
1964-1969)
I recently appeared as Madeleine in the Canadian/Vancouver premier of In the Height of the Storm, a remarkable psychological script by Florian Zeller about familial love dealing with loss and dementia. It’s a companion piece to Zeller’s play The Father, in which Anthony Hopkins earned an Oscar when it was made into a film. Outside of acting, I love travelling (keep up with where I am - www.greatestgetaways. com) as well as various other endeavours such as helping seniors transition to assisted living.
My sister Anne Hemingway (OF 1959-1963), continues to thrive in Burnham-on-Crouch, Essex where she volunteers for many good causes, including for her lifelong passion, The RNLI. Her long-time efforts have earned many kudos, including an invitation in 2024 to a Buckingham Palace garden party!
ALEXIS WALMSLEY
A truly delightful reunion for three of us former day girls in Oxford. Julia Oliver (Sturgess) and I haven’t seen Mary Ann Dale for over 50 years! We started at Frensham in September 1967, leaving respectively in 1972 and 1973. Such a lot of memories and life experiences shared.
GUNNAR CAUTHERY (OF
1992-1999)
Gunnar Cauthery Shines in Dear England
Gunnar Cauthery has recently appeared in the critically acclaimed production, Dear England, at the National Theatre, portraying a key role in the compelling dramatisation of Gareth Southgate’s journey with the England football team. The play, which explores national identity through the lens of sport,
has resonated with audiences and critics alike. Gunnar's performance was praised for its depth and nuance, cementing his reputation as a versatile and accomplished actor. Looking ahead, he has several exciting projects in development, both on stage and screen, and continues to build an impressive career in the performing arts. We look forward to seeing what he does next.
ANGEL-CLARE GRANT (WATSON)
(OF 1996-1998)
After 20 years in events and hospitality, I decided to change careers in 2020 and after four years at St Mary’s University, studying on the work based route course, I am pleased to say I have now graduated in BA Primary Education with QTS with a First Class Honours Degree. My first teaching position will begin in September 2025.
I will use my fabulous experiences at Frensham Heights to ensure my pedagogical approach to teaching is just as supportive, inclusive and fun!
Pictured far right, with fellow OFs Lucia Willson (Glover), middle, and Chloe Lowis (Warner), left.
ALUMNI AUTHORS
JOANNA MURPHY (OF 1970-1976)
I was at Frensham during the turbulent Bridgeland era. While I had some great experiences, especially in drama, I don’t view those years through rose-tinted glasses. The school was struggling, and many of us felt academically unsupported.
After Frensham, I studied Theatre and Education at London University, then taught briefly before moving to Italy with my writer husband. There, I began writing myself and published Burnt Dress, a multi-genre memoir about growing up with a bipolar parent. Available on Amazon
Back in the UK by the late ’80s, I returned to teaching and eventually became Head of Drama at Bedales. It was a challenging but rewarding decade. Later, I taught part-time at the Sylvia Young Theatre School while building a parallel career running communication skills workshops with the NHS, helping trainee doctors develop professional presence and pass their interpersonal exams.
During the pandemic, I turned that work into a 12-module online course, complete with resources and a free introductory webinar. If any OFs are in or connected to medicine, I’d love for you to take a look or share it.
The Doctors Interpersonal Skills 360: doctorsinterpersonal.com “fantastic new resource”
- Dr Mary Allan
DAVID ELIAS (OF 1958-1963)
David Elias’ debut book Shaping
The Wild is a beautiful and insightful read. Focused on CraigY-Tân, a Gwynedd hill farm, retired conversationist David Elias discusses its EU-funded efforts to integrate into the local ecosystems. It explores the history of agricultural and ecological policy via an exploration of rural north Wales, with rich and evocative descriptions of the landscape and the wildlife (or lack thereof) within it. The book was illustrated by the late Peter Hanauer, who was also an Old Frenshamian.
SUSAN CATON (BENHAM)
(OF 1955-1962)
I was Head Girl in my final year of Frensham (pictured) and then went on to University College and University College Hospital London for my medical studies. When I went for my medicine interviews at UCH, I was asked many questions and even required to take an oath on the bible, promising never to leave the medical profession, as it was considered a waste of time and money to train women who might not continue. UCH was a very scientifically based men's medical school until shortly before I started there. They took very few women, so I felt very lucky to get a place at all. I married, had two children, and migrated to Australia with my young family in December 1971. After an interesting career in medicine, when I retired, I went back to university
and studied for a Flinders Bachelor of Theology, which I needed to do, as my early education was very much leaning towards science which I needed for medicine, and languages. The broad study of theology gave me a good balance and I enjoyed it thoroughly, ending up as a voluntary chaplain at the Royal Adelaide Hospital.
I have very fond memories of Frensham and realise how much it influenced me to love learning, to be independent, and have a huge sense of responsibility. The school now seems very different - it has moved with the times, but with the same basic beliefs and philosophy. I would love to catch up with some old friends from 1955-1962.
Photos from the 1962 Magazine
THE TRUE SCRUNCH
Defined by Nan Payne (Hadley) (1935-43)
“Scrunch was dried-up leathery toast? Never! I remember Scrunch from even before my days at Frensham Heights (1935- 1943) and I remember its precursor, Pull-bread. These were associated. I believe, with an idea prevalent in the 1930s, and probably earlier, that it was good for children to be toughened up (hence the earlymorning run and cold baths) and fresh, new bread was considered
unwholesome. Pull bread was made by pulling a loaf into rough pieces and re-baking it, creating crisp hard chunks with deliciously soft centres. This, however, was felt to be too easy for us to eat so, instead, the loaves were sliced and returned to the oven to be baked hard right through, producing Scrunch. Boarders at my first school, prior to 1935, were never given bread, only Scrunch. It certainly slowed down one’s rate of eating and was meant to be good for the jaws, teeth and digestion.”
Those of us who have memories of scrunch from the 70s should be thankful; we got off lightly. Mother’s Pride and Stork margarine…manner from heaven by contrast.
PaintingbyTrinaHart (Moffatt) 1971-1973
PENELOPE CHAMBERLAIN (OF 1955-1958)
Known as Loopy Weeks at FH
Frensham in the 50s - more boys than girls, baked stale bread with Marmite at break, cedar tree, always cold (no trousers or tights for girls), always hungry (Spartan meals). I loved Silence after lunch, disliked counterpane duty, and mending with Mrs Keats.
Scottish Country Dancing when hockey fields froze, icy swims, and cross-country runs from pub to pub, signed in by Mr Hebdon in the warm with a pint. Our charismatic, warexperienced teachers had real stories to tell.
I loved the freedom. To ice skate on Frensham Ponds, trek to sweet shops, even Saturday morning lessons. We
learned life skills like budgeting, and best of all, we were free to be ourselves. I was useless at most subjects but never made to feel stupid. I got to do craft and use lathes - unheard of for girls elsewhere.
I loved our eccentric staff, Friday night hops. Morning Talks gave us a love of authors we would never have read otherwise. Teddy Rice gave me a lifelong love of music; I still sing in a choir and have returned to sing with the OF choir too.
Frensham was small and mostly boarders then, but I’m sure its spirit is still the same.
FROM CLASSMATES TO SOULMATES NATASHA AND CRISPIN
Back in 1973, I was a boarder at Frensham for just one year. I was 17 and there to complete the final year of my A-Levels. To be honest, I had never been to boarding school before and was a little nervous.
In that short year, I discovered much about myself and met lifelong friends. Frensham was a carefree, creative place where joining in and caring about others was encouraged. It gave me the stability I needed to succeed later in life and it is so good to see that this is still a core part of the school today.
That year, I met Natasha and we fell in love. Love can be complicated in a school full of swirling young hormones and emotions, and ours was no different. It was glorious, risky, slightly naughty at times, but probably nothing more than what many of us experience. We were torn apart once, and then again a year or so later after we met up in a bar in Chelsea.
I regret nothing. That is the university of life. But I am grateful to be enmeshed in all those wonderful memories from just one year at Frensham. So many friends and so much love.
It is a very lovely thing to wake up in the morning later in life and find yourself beside your teenage sweetheart. That rekindled energy of youth is something very special. Back in 2016, that is exactly what happened to me. To find yourself with so many shared memories, many forgotten but now rediscovered, makes one feel young again. I have Natasha to thank for that. That is what I like to wake up to.
Crispin Hall (OF 1973-1974) and Natasha Maddison (OF 1969-1974)
DAN FLOWERS AND NICOLA HICKS
Taj Mahal, India 1989 Rosscarbery Bay, Ireland 2023
I spent one year at Frensham, from January to December 1973. Nicola started in January 1974, so although we both went there, we never actually met during our time at school.
But, our lives were strangely intertwined even then. My mum, Angela Flowers, was involved in the art world, as were Nicola’s parents, Philip Hicks and Jill Tweed. Nicola often accompanied her father to art shows hosted by my mum, but somehow, our paths still didn’t cross.
In our early twenties, we each married and went our separate ways. I emigrated to Australia to
build a career creating film scenery. Meanwhile, Nicola’s career as a sculptor was flourishing in London, and she was now represented by none other than The Angela Flowers Gallery.
By late 1987, both of our marriages were on the rocks, leading to separation and divorce.
In 1988, mum asked if I’d return to London to build her a new art gallery, as her business was growing rapidly. While working on the gallery, I was given an unusual instruction to make sure the new loading bay doors were large enough to fit a life-sized elephant as one of
the artists was planning to exhibit a large sculpture. “No problem,” I said.
A couple of weeks before I was due to head back to Australia, I met the artist behind the elephant. It was Nicola.
We fell madly in love, eloped, and travelled the world. We started a family, and now, 37 incredible years later, we still have so much exploring to do.
Maybe it was just a coincidence that we both went to Frensham Heights, but the values we gained there connected us later in life, which made us especially proud to send our son, Bill, there too.
SUE GULLIFORD FEATHERSTON (OF
1974-1976)
Almost 65… reality hit. I needed a change, so I retired, relocated, divorced… and then asked: now what?
Sorting through my old photo boxes (my life in pictures), I felt something spark. It was time to reconnect, revisit memories, and return to the only place I ever truly called home: England.
Frensham shaped me. It was freedom, friendship, and my first real taste of being me. Inspired, I hung old photos by my computer and began my mission to find anyone from those days.
That’s when I found the OF website and a whole new path. I connected with old classmates and met new ones online, sharing stories and photos, reliving memories.
LESLEY BRAND BLACK (OF 1980-1984)
Dan Black (OF 1971) and I never crossed paths at Frensham - he was there for O-Levels and I came for A-Levels. We met as OFs in 2013 through a spirited exchange on the alumni Facebook page after he posted a poem about the school.
I challenged a few of his views, and
the conversation moved to private messages. We were both divorced and not looking for anything, but six months later we met in person. What started as a debate turned into a connection and ten years on, we’re married - all thanks to Frensham.
One name stood out: “Chou.” I had no idea who he was until I realised he was Jeremy Roychoudhury. We had barely known each other at school but quickly bonded. One year of deep, honest chats led to our 50th reunion in 2024.
Love at first sight, yes, even now. Our lives aligned, and we haven’t looked back.
Through the OF site, I found my past and my future. I love you Mr Chou. Thank you, Frensham, for bringing us together again. Love, adventure, and connection truly do come full circle.
Thankyoutoallourcouplesforsharingtheirstorieswithus.
FRENSHAM OVER THE SEASONS
WE REMEMBER
All obituaries can be found on the OF Community website
ROGER ‘DAVID’ SMITHELLS
1937-2025
My beloved husband, David, with whom I shared 43 wonderful years, died peacefully on 13th March 2025, in the palliative care unit at the Royal Surrey County Hospital. He had been there a short while, following nearly nine years of declining health. David was 87. He often spoke fondly of his time at Frensham Heights, particularly the joy of climbing the great cedar tree. Although he didn’t come from a sailing background, it was at Frensham that he discovered his
love for sailing. A passion that, after his National Service in the Navy, became his lifelong career. He later shared his experience with students at a careers evening at Frensham.
David was a director of Williams & Smithells International Yacht Brokers and served as president of the YBDSA: the Yacht Brokers, Designers and Surveyors Association.
He skippered yachts around the world, competed in ocean races, and even learned to fly, eventually becoming a partner in a light aircraft business.
Another of David’s great passions was restoring old buildings. He undertook projects in the UK, in France, and in Greece, a country he loved dearly, and where we kept our yacht.
David leaves his wife, stepchildren, and grandchildren, all of whom adored him deeply.
Sally Smithells
PETER EDWARDS
My younger brother, Peter Edwards (OF 1953-1957), died peacefully in Dunedin, New Zealand on 23 February, 2025.
Christopher Edwards (OF 1949-1959)
PETE HANAUER
We are sad to announce the passing of Pete Hanauer who died on 15th December 2024, after a long illness. Pete was at Frensham from 1957-1962.
JOHN HAZELDINE OCTOBER 2023
John passed away on 19th October 2023. He spoke very fondly of his time at Frensham and how much it inspired his passion for the Arts. Jill Hazeldine
MARY HODGSON MAY 2025
Mary's arrival at the school in 1982 initiated a personal renaissance. Though outwardly conventional, she was a ‘bohemian in disguise’ with an insatiable curiosity and a vibrant distaste for ‘grey as a lifestyle’.
Mary was exceptionally wise, perceptive, and deeply committed. Her roles blended English teaching with vital pastoral and administrative duties. As a ‘housemother’, her natural warmth created a caring, homely atmosphere for the boarders.
Mary was the bedrock of a stable English Department, respected for her high standards. Her classroom firmness was always tempered with sympathy, often for the ‘underdog’. Colleagues became friends, drawn to her funny, almost Rabelaisian humour.
Her calm competence extended to her significant leadership as Senior Mistress. She crucially helped to maintain the school's smooth operation during Alan Pattinson’s debilitating illness, working seamlessly with John Bayston as Senior Master.
In retirement in 1994, Mary’s creativity shone in her intricate, hand-built dolls' houses. Her home, shared with a cat of ‘gladiatorial courage’, mirrored the spirited vitality with which Mary lived her rich life.
Mary died on 12th May 2025, aged 90.
Compiled from the reflections of several of Mary’s colleagues
Mary with Jonathan Hughes and Alan Pattinson in Nevill Hall at a pupil social event.
DAVID TUTT
APRIL 2025
It is with great sadness that I am writing to inform you that my father, David Tutt, sadly passed away on the 13th April 2025. My father taught at Frensham Heights in the music department between 1965 and 1971 and kept in contact with the school via your newsletters.
Leo Tutt
AVERY BADENHOP
1969-2024
Avery ran the BASE jumping team, Team ILL VISION for decades, based in the heart of the Bay Area, California. A true pioneer, he helped shape modern BASE jumping alongside Dennis McGlynn and Harry Parker in the early 1990s, eventually opening Moab and overseas BASE events including KL Tower and Jin Mao Tower in Shanghai, and at one time had events ready for every letter in B.A.S.E. Avery’s wingsuit
journey began with a full team flying Phoenix-Fly suits, taking part in the largest demonstration over San Francisco for a T-Mobile commercial, as well as one of the earliest wingsuit formation records in Elsinore in the late 2000s.
Known for his fierce loyalty, generous heart, and preference for in-person conversations, Avery mentored countless jumpers and guided many into the world of
BASE. His friendships ran deep, and his faith in the spirit world was unwavering. A lover of animals, nature, art, and anything that exploded with fun, Avery was tattooed from head to toe. He was a living piece of art, full of life, wonder, and love.
Avery is survived by his daughter Alex, now a BASE jumper herself.
Photo and excerpt taken from Avery’s Facebook memorial page.
ELGIN STRUB RONAYNE
1929-2025
Elgin Strub was born in Weimar, Germany, in 1929 and spent her early years between Weimar and London. After her mother married writer Wyatt Rawson, Elgin moved to England with her family. From 1936–38, she lived with her grandparents in Weimar, but spent the war years in English boarding schools. She attended Frensham
Heights in 1944–45 and recalled hearing the V.E. Day announcement in the school’s Ballroom.
A passionate pianist from a young age, Elgin studied under Imogen Holst at Dartington and later at the Royal Academy of Music in London. She was also taught by Edwin Fischer. In the 1950s, she married violinist John Ronayne. They
performed together before Elgin stepped back to raise their three children, while continuing to write, broadcast, and research.
Elgin died on March 26th 2025, after a stroke. She was a respected musician, writer, and speaker, most recently giving a memorable talk at an OF reunion.
ANNABEL COLE
We were saddened to learn of the passing of Old Frenshamian Annabel Cole (Diamand) at the age of 101. Her life was rich and varied - from a childhood in France and progressive education at Frensham Heights, to wartime
service in the WAAF, where she led a rebellion protesting substandard living quarters. Annabel later became a teacher, artist, and lifelong campaigner, known for her activism with Campaign for Nuclear Disarmament (CND) and
at Greenham Common. Fiercely independent, she remained politically engaged well into her 90s. Her spirit truly reflected Frensham’s values.
CENTENARY DATES
September 2025
Centenary celebrations begin within the school and wider community
Saturday 27th September 2025
1940s-1960s OF Reunion
Saturday 18th October 2025
1970s-1980s OF Reunion
Monday 3rd November 2025
Centenary Fireworks Night
Saturday 15th November 2025
1990s-2000s OF Reunion
Saturday 6th December 2025
OF Christmas Singers concert with Edwin Rolles
Wednesday 10th December 2025
Christmas Fair
Wednesday 10th December 2025
2010s - current leavers Reunion
Friday 3rd July 2026
Frensham Fringe - a day of workshops and performances run by OFs for the students. Please email of@frensham.org if you’d like to be considered to run a creative or academic workshop.
Saturday 4th July 2026
Centenary Founders' Day
Events can be booked on the OF Community website: https://oldfrenshamians.org
Artwork: ‘Dark Light’ by Orlanda Broom