Four States Living Magazine November 2021

ON THE COVER NOVEMBER 2021

Four States Living Magazine’s “30 Days of Gratitude” issue is devoted to taking a look around us and expressing thankfulness to those who make our community a better place to live, work, and play. Whether pharmacists, linemen, physicians, police officers, coaches, or pastors, these vital workers deserve our utmost appreciation and gratitude for dedicating their lives to helping others.

See “30 Days of Gratitude” starting on page 12.

CONTENTS

Native Texarkanian Ben McGinnis wins an Emmy® for Outstanding Innovation in Interactive Programming for “For All Mankind,” starting on page 8. INSIDE :

Scene About Town 17-18, 26, 34, 41, 42, 48, 52, 56, 59-60, 64, 68, 71, 73, 77, 81, 84

The Way I See It...

PUBLISHER’S LETTER

Robin Rogers, Ed.D.

For almost 30 years, Four States Living Magazine has been telling the best stories of our area. No orange jumpsuits, no sordid tales of arrests, and no wreckage. Without hesitation, we need solid news coverage, but I just can’t do it because I personally let the bad news consume me. Newspaper editors say, “If it bleeds, it leads.” Startling statistics and bad news grabs our attention. I’m the rubbernecking motorist that slows down to see if everyone made it out, I listen to NPR during my lunch hour, and I’m also the key audience member for a “bleeding” newspaper headline. I’m shaking my head at myself as I type. An abundance of bad news couldn’t be good. This last year and a half has been a doozy, too. National news, full of crazy politics (regardless of party affiliation) and illnesses and death have eaten at my soul every day. Like too much social media can be dangerous to young people growing into healthy adults, too much XYZ News has sent some of us news nuts spiraling into depression.

Sometimes, something happens to knock us in the head and remind us to stop worrying about issues that we truly can’t change. I have a friend I see just about every day. Last week, out of the blue, she told me that she had moved. “What? Why? Where did you go?” I asked. She has lived in the same home for like six years. Long story short. She had been renting to own this house in PG from a man who lived out of town. They had agreed on a selling/starting price six years ago. The man passed away last year from COVID-19, and last week, his wife decided to pay a visit to my friend. She told her that it was time to take their old agreement of “rent to own” to the title company. My friend agreed. But, there was

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a twist. The wife had decided that she wasn’t going to honor the agreement of $150,000 from 6 years ago; real estate has changed, so now, she was upping the sales price to $260,000, and if my friend didn’t like it, they could move.

I was furious. I failed to mention that my friend is a retired educator who takes care of her grandchildren, one of whom is disabled. While I was steaming about her circumstances, my dear friend calmed me down. I was shocked as to why she wasn’t furious. She told me that she was praying for that woman to learn a lesson and never do that to anyone else. She told me that there was a reason for what just happened, but we couldn’t see it yet.

Now my friend had just spent two days moving all of their belongings into storage in order for their family of five to live with a friend while starting a home search again (in a seller’s market). But, she wasn’t consumed or angry or depressed. Her reaction was calm and positive and trusting in God’s purpose for her family. This was merely a bump in the journey He has for them.

I’m still upset about it; why do bad things happen to great people? That is the greatest question of all time. Too often, it feels like the people who cheat, steal, and lie are winning, all while creating excuses for bad behavior. My friend, who has all of her life packed away in some storage units, has not let the Devil win. Her actions speak volumes about her character in the face of a bad actor. You stand up, dust off, and just keep going; do God’s work, and the biggest blessing will come. I am so thankful for her influence. Because of her, I try harder to be better. If you live long enough, bad things are

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Dr. Robin Rogers

EDITOR

Suzy Turner

GRAPHIC DESIGNER

Kim McMurry

SALES REPRESENTATIVE

Victoria Herman

FEATURE PHOTOGRAPHERS

Abby Elliott

Victoria Herman

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FEATURED COLUMNISTS

Nichole Holze

Donnie Spriggs

CONTRIBUTING WRITER

Amber E. Willman

going to happen, but so are really great things. She lives, breathes, and works for a mansion in the sky.

Every November, I start a calendar of thankfulness on the first. At work, we also planned our issue around thankfulness for the people in professions who haven’t had a break since the beginning of the pandemic. I saw a cartoon recently with a little boy asking an older man, “Grandpa, how’d you get through the great COVID-19 pandemic?” And the Grandpa said, “I went to work every day.”

While we all know of people who weren’t working in 2020/2021 (because jobs were abundant and government checks were, too), many of us never paused; many people worked harder than they have ever worked in their lives. These are the people who we are most grateful for today and wanted to spotlight in November. In honor of each day in November, Four States Living has interviewed 30 incredible people who have been busting it.

They are the nurses, linemen, doctors, public servants, teachers, pastors, and caregivers of the community. Many I got the opportunity to meet, but to them all, thank you for continuing to show up, work, and do good in our community.

Life doesn’t always go the way we plan. Some of us get angry. Some quit. Some just keep on keeping on. Then, some, like my friend, know that the dark spots in life make the bright days ahead so much sweeter!

I hope you enjoy this issue and its stories and find reasons to be thankful this month!

Happy Thanksgiving!

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And the Emmy® Goes to ...

by AMBER E. WILLMAN

“And the Emmy® goes to…”

We’ve all dreamed of hearing those words. Substitute Emmy® with Oscar, Grammy, Pulitzer, or Nobel, but the effect is the same. No one escapes childhood without dreaming of the penultimate moment of winning a prestigious award in front of his friends, family, colleagues, and fans. For many, that is all it will ever be, a dream. But for one former Texarkana resident, the dream became reality on September 11, 2021.

For Ben McGinnis, working in film and television was always the goal. “Growing up, I was always filming something … and then things got more advanced as I got access to professional equipment,” Ben says.

As a student at Arkansas High School, Ben was active in Razorback TV and volunteered for the production team at First United Methodist Church. But it was an opportunity while majoring in film and television production at The University of Texas in Austin, that really changed his life.

In 2008, Ben moved to Los Angeles for an internship where he worked on the Ellen DeGeneres talk show and Scott Free Productions. The stars aligned again for Ben later that year. A post-producer for “Battlestar Galactica,” Paul Leonard was a UT alum and taught a class at the UTLA center, which coordinates the “study abroad” program for UT students in LA. Students spend one day per week in class and four days at internships. Ben credits Paul with helping him get in the door for his first paying job. “My first job on ‘Battlestar’ was supposed to be temporary since they were shooting the series finale when I started working there (it filmed in Vancouver, but the writers and postproduction offices were in LA), and they needed someone to help wrap up the offices over the next few months,” Ben explains.

One job turned into another and another. After “Battlestar,” came its spin-off series, “Caprica,” where Ben served as a writer’s assistant/showrunner’s assistant. In 2010, Ben became Ronald D. Moore’s assistant when Moore signed a deal with Sony Pictures Television. For the next seven years, Ben worked as an assistant to Moore, creator and showrunner for the new “Battlestar Galactica,” and his producing partner, Maril Davis. “My goal was to help him expand and grow his company by helping oversee multiple series and rise through the producer ranks on those shows,” Ben says. “It’s very rare to work with the same people for so long – most people bounce around between many different companies and jobs in the industry, often every two years or so. But I got very lucky, and I found kind and loyal people on the first try who I knew would let me rise through the ranks when those opportunities presented themselves.”

The next big break came in 2017 when Ben was made an associate producer for “Outlander,” a wildly popular period drama on the Starz Network. The show is adapted from the equally popular best-selling “Outlander” book series by Diana Gabaldon.

In fact, Ben’s favorite TV memory comes from the set of “Outlander.” “While traveling to Scotland during the filming of seasons one and two of ‘Outlander,’ we got to shoot in castles, various historical sites, and on beautiful locations. It was work combined with sightseeing and so much fun,” Ben explains. “There are many advantages to shooting in LA, but I’m excited to go on location again. We hope our next show shoots in Hawaii. Haha.”

With a show as popular as “Outlander,” fans are always curious about what happens behind-the-scenes.

“During season one, we put our actors through an 18th century boot camp. They had daily classes learning how to speak Gaelic and the correct dialects for the region, ride horses, sword fight, shoot muskets, perform medical procedures, and blend herbal medicines.” He adds, “Our costume designer created our own original tartan plaid just for the show.”

It is this kind of attention to detail that explains why fans and critics fell in love with the show which has been nominated a total of 71 times with 32 wins, including Golden Globes, BAFTA, Critics Choice, and Primetime Emmy.

Then along came a new show and a promotion to co-producer. “For All Mankind” supposes an alternative history. What if the Soviets reached the moon first in 1969? The space race would not have ended. Instead, we might experience a world where science and technology are advancing at a rapid rate and humanity becomes more accepting of each other. Exploring space could benefit everyone. The show time jumps 10 years every season. They are currently in season three which features an alternate version of the ’90s, and NASA and the Russians are sending manned missions to Mars.

As producer and development executive, Ben’s role is to help oversee every aspect of making the TV show. He develops ideas with the writers, gives notes on scripts, and helps execute the creative vision during production. Ben attends meetings for the art department, props, costumes, location scouts, etc., all before the camera rolls.

Although Ben doesn’t love the long hours and grind of actually filming the shows, he loves the challenges presented by each show. “It’s a fun challenge figuring out how to shoot in tiny space capsule sets, with wires to simulate zero gravity ... and on our moon and moon base sets and now Mars. And the 10-year time jumps ... it’s like a new show every season. New sets, props, new characters, aging up existing characters, etc. It’s a

huge headache for everyone but also a fun challenge. It’s such a cool show. I love the alt-history world that’s only becoming more and more sci-fi as things advance.”

It’s this kind of creative vision infused with technology that landed Apple and Tall Ship Productions an Emmy® for Outstanding Innovation in Interactive Programming for “For All Mankind” last September. As a member of the four-person team that makes up Ron Moore’s company, Tall Ship Productions, Ben was the only producer to work on the app. This category was presented at one of the three Creative Arts Emmy Ceremonies. FAM airs on Apple TV+ and Apple wished to create an app that combined the show with its AR technology found in customers’ iPhones and iPads. Ben worked with Apple, who was already recognized internationally for its innovation in new technology, to create an app that incorporated the FAM world, characters, and story.

“The story we told with interactive AR objects was an extension of the show, using objects from the time period such as a Sony Walkman, answering machine, VHS player, etc. Our actors helped out by doing voiceover work and one of the writers from the show, Stephanie Shannon, wrote some of the material. The attention to details is incredible, and there are tons of Easter eggs hidden in every corner of the app,” Ben says.

Over 10 years in Hollywood, producing credits from some of the last decade’s most popular and successful television shows, and an Emmy® win, it would be easy to forget that Ben McGinnis is only in his thirties. He has experienced great success and has no plans to slow down anytime soon. Last year, Tall Ship Productions signed a production deal with 20th Century Studios/Disney. Ben will serve as co-executive producer on new series. They currently have two ideas in development for Disney+ and one for Hulu.

Many folks head to LA with big dreams and never look back. This was not so for Ben McGinnis who has not forgotten his roots. “It was also my love for the stories and the connection to the characters of the shows I was watching growing up that made me want to pursue a

Patrick Mullen, Ben, Stephanie Shannon, and James Cooper at the Emmy® cerebration.

Ben with Krys Marshall who plays Danielle Poole in “For All Mankind” on the Sony Pictures Studio lot.

While visiting Texarkana in October 2020, Ben took a family photo with his parents, Camille and Rob, sister-in-law and brother, Katrina and Robert, and their children, Sam and Katelyn.

Rob and Ben at the Cossatot River State Park in Wickes, Arkansas, last December.

Camille and Ben look at the “Outlander” costumes on the Sony Pictures Studio lot in 2019.

In February 2020, Ben attended the “Outlander” season 5 premiere in Los Angeles.

career in film and TV. I remember obsessing about the latest episode of ‘Lois and Clark: The New Adventures of Superman’ at the Kilpatrick Elementary School lunch table.”

Ben stays busy. He doesn’t get home to Texarkana as much as he’d like, but his parents enjoy visiting him in California. Ben’s parents, Rob and Camille McGinnis, are proud of their son’s success, and they don’t hesitate to brag about him on social media.

Ben knows that he was blessed from the beginning of his career to find and work with people who were kind, considerate, and loyal, and he knows this is not everyone’s experience. “There’s no right way or wrong way to break into the industry. Try them all! It usually comes down to a combination of who you know, being in the right place at the right time, and luck.”

Some say they would rather be lucky than good. But for Ben McGinnis, his career in television has been a lot of both.

During August 2015, Ben visited Stonehenge while filming season 2 of “Outlander.”

Ben at the “For All Mankind” season 1 premiere in Los Angeles during October 2019.

COUNTY JUDGE

Bowie County

Leading the County Bobby Howell

Bobby Howell has served as the Bowie County Judge for the past two years. As the chief administrator for the county, he works hard to take care of the welfare of its citizens. Since he is also the county leader responsible for the Joint Emergency Operations Center, Judge Howell was instrumental in Bowie County acquiring a 20-chair infusion center for monoclonal antibody treatment from the State of Texas. Judge Howell keeps an open door policy and presides over the county government with fairness and honesty

Why did you decide to be a county judge?

Initially, I was asked by a few close friends if I would agree to do the job when Judge James Carlow retired. I agreed to accept the job and was appointed by the Bowie County Commissioners Court on October 1, 2019, to serve until the next General Election. In November of 2020, I received over 75% of the vote to fill the unexpired term, which runs through the end

of 2022. After serving for two years during a very difficult and unique time, I find that I enjoy the challenge of helping guide Bowie County through all that we have experienced. I have announced my candidacy for another term and will run in the 2022 election.

Name one thing about your profession that people might not know.

In addition to being the presiding Judge of the Constitutional County Court and the Commissioners Court, the County Judge is also the Chief Executive Officer of the county, responsible for the day-to-day operations, which include responsibility for the budget, finances, emergency management, elections, building maintenance, and operations. The County Judge wears many hats.

Who has helped you become the person you are today, and how did they inspire you?

My father taught me to treat all people with respect, work hard, and be truthful.

Tell us one thing you can’t do without on Thanksgiving Day and explain why.

I certainly enjoy the traditions of food, fellowship with family, and college football. Mostly, I am thankful for all that God has blessed me with in my life.

What do you love most about the Four States area?

I guess it has to be the people of our area. I grew up here, went off to college and worked a few years, but I came back to start a family. I worked for several years, then went to Law School, but came back. It is just a good place to live.

What lessons have you learned from the pandemic?

I have learned not to take anything for granted. No matter how many blessings God has bestowed on us, they can all be gone in an instant. The pandemic has touched all aspects of everyone’s daily lives. We have to adjust.

How would you like for others to remember you?

I would like to be remembered as an honest, hardworking guy who loved his family and friends.

photo by DR. ROBIN ROGERS

Cindy Marsh

EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR

Hospice of Texarkana, Inc.

A Hospice Hero

Executive Director Cindy Marsh has compassionately been helping Hospice of Texarkana families for almost 30 years. Although Cindy and the HOT team work with people who need end-of-life care, the services they provide bring dignity and honor to those family members before, during, and after the loss of a loved one. Hospice of Texarkana assists the community in an ethical manner while promoting the true meaning of community service.

Why did you decide to work in Hospice care?

I was hired by Hospice of Texarkana on September 2, 1992. By the end of that year, we had to borrow money twice to cover payroll. It was definitely a struggle for several years. (And, at this point I always like to give credit to Dr. Ed Eichler. Without his confidence and support, we would not have been able to survive those lean years!)

Our big break came in 2000 when CHRISTUS St. Michael opted to close their own hospice in favor of collaborating with Hospice of Texarkana. At this point, our nonprofit organization had the volume and income to expand services, like bereavement care for the entire community. And of course, by 2016 we were able

to offer the only inpatient hospice center in this region. This addressed a completely unmet need and has been such a blessing to so many! I love my job and the Hospice of Texarkana mission!

Name one thing about your profession that people might not know. We are not morbid! Hospice care is about “life” and living every day to its fullest! That is why we welcome the opportunity to have people in our facility and open the conference rooms to healthcare partners, civic groups, and nonprofit organizations. The 2407 Galleria Oaks location is filled with original art donated by local artists, and the 501 East 6th Street location has a wonderful mid-century vibe that is totally unexpected. When you walk in the door, you will be greeted by people who care about you … and possibly get a snuggle from our comfort dog, Maggie Grace.

Who has helped you become the person you are today, and how did they inspire you?

My grandfather! He was a hardworking Frenchman whose eyes twinkled with mischief! I grew up hearing, “You can do anything that you think you are big enough to do!,” and “I love you so much, I love you too much!” With those mantras playing in the background, how can you not be filled with confidence and excitement about life?

Tell us one thing you can’t do without on Thanksgiving Day and explain why. My grandmother’s cranberry salad. And, I always set the formal table with her Fiestaware®. If anyone knows me, they know how much I enjoy cooking. This was definitely imparted from her including me in her kitchen activities!

What do you love most about the Four States area?

The people! I love going to restaurants and events where I see so many friends and acquaintances. Even strangers seem to go out of their way to be engaging and friendly.

What lessons have you learned from the pandemic?

How much we need one another! When we were working from home, isolating and avoiding people … it was incredibly undermining to morale. People need people!

How would you like for others to remember you?

I would like to think that I am kind and supportive to others. (I give it my best shot.) Hopefully, people will know that I am a Christian because of the love shown to others. If we can just look at life through the other person’s perspective, our view might change a bit!

But most of all, I pray that I will be remembered for the unconditional love I have for my family!

photo by ABBY ELLIOTT

Mandy Freeman

FIRE CHIEF

Liberty-Eylau Fire Department

Duty. Honor. Community.

into it until I became chief. I will continue pouring my heart and soul into it to help the people in need. To me, there is no better feeling than knowing that I have given my all to help a stranger in need and my community when they need me the most. I have a total of 17 years in the fire service, and I hope I have many more years to go.

Name one thing about your profession that people might not know. People don’t realize how much time goes into filling out paperwork for calls, training, and grants.

Who has helped you become the person you are today, and how did they inspire you?

My mom and dad are why I am who I am today. They have always been there for me and showed me love and support in everything I did. They always told me to take that mentality with me on every call that I go on whether fires, wrecks, medical calls, and even my regular job. I try to put others before myself so I know they are taken care of even if I am not. I also owe part of putting others before myself to Becky Bayless. Becky would always pick me up every Monday night to take me to the fire department trainings/meetings. Becky would also swing by and pick me up on her way to a fire call so I could learn more on what I needed to do at a scene. I think Mom, Dad, and Becky have all inspired me to work hard, respect others, and to help other people when they need help the most.

Tell us one thing you can’t do without on Thanksgiving Day and explain why.

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When she was 15 years old, Mandy Freeman knew that she wanted to be a firefighter. After hearing friends at school talk about being a member of the fire department, Mandy became very interested in learning more about the program. She mentioned her desires to be a firefighter to her mother and father, and they agreed to let her join the Liberty-Eylau Fire Department. Since that time, she has put her heart and soul into moving up the ranks within the fire department, and she now serves as the department’s fire chief.

Why did you decide to be a volunteer firefighter?

Since I was only 15 at the time, I went through the Liberty-Eylau Fire Department Cadet program, where I got to do the same training as the firefighters. When I turned 18, I was able to become a firefighter. Ever since my first call, I loved getting to help people in my community. I was on the fire department for six years until I had my kids. As soon as my kids got old enough, I came back. I have been back 11 years now. I refused to give up when the times got hard. I just kept my head up and kept pouring my heart

I enjoy our family get-togethers. My family and all my brothers and their families go to my mom and dad’s for Thanksgiving. We catch up on each other’s daily lives, and of course, eat my mom’s dressing. After we all eat, we will pack up and go to deer camp. We will continue our tradition there and make many more memories.

What do you love most about the Four States area?

I love how everyone will come together when there is a disaster.

What lessons have you learned from the pandemic?

I have learned how life can change so quickly.

How would you like for others to remember you?

I hope they will remember me for my strength, courage, commitment, and the love I have for my family, friends, and community.

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TEXARKANA BOURBON TASTING EXPERIENCE

Kyle DeLaughter, a 2021 candidate for the Texarkana Symphony Orchestra’s annual Celebrity Conductor Competition, hosted a Texarkana Bourbon Tasting Experience on October 4. Held at Benchmark American Brasserie, the event featured live music by Taryn and Jase, heavy hors d’oeuvres, and a silent auction. Proceeds from the evening benefitted the Texarkana Symphony Orchestra.

Kayla Howard and Raegan Rice

Vicki DeLaughter, Kyle DeLaughter and Steve DeLaughter

Bruce and Kim Hornbuckle

Garreth and Chalissa Russell

Andrew Clark, Kyle DeLaughter, Jason Williams and Mark Van Herpen

Rex Simmons, Tom Simmons and Jeff Prieskorn

Remica and Danny Gray

Angela and Andrew Clark

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DE KALB OKTOBERFEST

2021

The City of De Kalb held Oktoberfest 2021 on October 2. Activities included a pancake breakfast, parade, Jeep show, kids’ games, art show, quilt show, cake walk, Bingo tournament, variety show, carnival, food, and entertainment.

Harper Jo, Presley, Mindy, Elaine and James Sparks

Walker Matteson, Weston Baxley and Kaden Rankin

Chris Moser and David Meadows

Velma Eastman and Molly Blackmon

Jennifer and Cynthia Matteson

Warren McDaniel and Dustin Austin

Georgia Rae, Jessica and Landry Burgin

Emma Kate McDaniel

Deb Wilson Joni Haldeman

Jonna Reed and Taylor Reed

Warren, Emma Kate, Witten and Dr. Donna McDaniel

Anna Claire, Hobie and Cassie Raulston

Kali and Clayton Little

Emily Hinton and Alita Leadbeater

Madison and DeKlan Brashears

Denise Swint and Jana Ford

Joni Reed, Jamie Shipley and Paula Booth

Marissa Johnston

PHARMACIST

Wadley Regional Medical Center

Helping You Feel Better

Marissa Johnston has had the opportunity to study and practice in the pharmaceutical industry for the past five years. Although this is her first year practicing full-time as pharmacist, she knew it was the profession she wanted to pursue for quite some time. Helping others live a healthy life is her goal, so sharing her knowledge and providing support to those who are not feeling their best is her mission.

What made you decide to be a pharmacist?

Similar to most, I think I can point to a combination of passion and a sense of natural curiosity that led to my decision to pursue a profession in the pharmaceutical industry. One’s health care and even medication, for most people, is a part of life from the beginning. I wanted to understand the meaning behind different issues and conditions, along with the accompanying medication that I started to see family members and friends experience. I’m also very passionate about improving the quality of life of others. That said, its fulfilling to have the opportunity to share my knowledge and provide support to others.

Name one thing about your profession that people might not know. I think most people conceptualize the role of a pharmacist as being one that simply fills prescriptions when they’re placed. However, there are many different paths one could pursue as a pharmacist, including clinical, community, geriatric, home health, hospital, pharmacoeconomics, education, consulting, drug development/ compounding, and more. The responsibility of a pharmacist is to help advance modern practices and medication in any way possible, which could range from servicing patients, advising on regulatory matters, or finding a way to improve the medication itself.

Who has helped you become the person you are today, and how did they inspire you?

I’m fortunate enough to have my mother, Susan Johnston, as a role model and my biggest inspiration. She is a hardworking woman with a caring personality, big heart, and strong faith. She embodies passion, determination, and strength, which are key attributes one should wield to make a positive impact. She is patient with every hardship that comes her way and seems to handle each with such grace. I think everyone should look for someone in their life to be there for them as she has been there for me. She helped me become the person I am today and the one I aspire to be tomorrow.

Tell us one thing you can’t do without on Thanksgiving Day and explain why. Its not Thanksgiving without our homemade apple pie. It is a traditional dish for us, and the recipe has been passed down from my grandmother. I think what makes it special is that we are able to reminisce and preserve memories of loved ones that are no longer with us.

What do you love most about the Four States area?

As a native to the area, it is the place I will always call home. I have so many fond memories from the time I’ve spent here and with the people I’ve had the opportunity to meet. Four States area hospitality is second to none. I’m thankful for all the community has given to me to date and hope to give back to others that also call this place home.

What lessons have you learned from the pandemic?

In a time of self-reflection, the most important educational moment for me was understanding that time is all we have. I think it is important for people to spend what little time we have doing what they love with the people they love.

How would you like for others to remember you?

I simply hope that others are able to remember my personality, heart, and compassion. Nothing gives me more joy than helping and caring for others. I hope I will be remembered as one who had a positive impact on their life.

photo by ABBY ELLIOTT

Lynnel Westerman

YOGA

TEACHER

Texarkana College, Self-Employed

Mindfulness and Meditation

Yoga benefits the mind and body. Although it has been around for many, many years, there is no better time than now to reap the benefits of this ancient practice. After retiring from teaching, Lynnel Westerman became interested in yoga and became an instructor. Those who attend her classes have found that this trusted practice can promote endurance, strength, calmness, flexibility, and well-being.

Why did you decide to be a yoga instructor?

I don’t recall making a conscious decision to teach yoga. Following retirement nine years ago from teaching in the public school setting, I attended yoga teacher training strictly for my own benefit. The next thing I knew I found myself in a New Boston gym in front of a group of teachers at the end of their day. I found I enjoyed guiding them into a peaceful body/mind yoga experience. Having been in their shoes, I knew I had something valuable to offer. That’s when Yoga with Lynnel was born.

Name one thing about your profession that people might not know.

There’s a lot that goes into preparing a 75-minute yoga class. My 38 years of teaching experience has served me well, even in the field of yoga. Each class is intentionally planned with an initial “reading” and a meaningful posture sequence that flows smoothly from pose to pose, making sense in the body. I love the creative

process of crafting a session that realistically and compassionately meets students where they are, and then delivering it clearly. That process takes time!

Who has helped you become the person you are today, and how did they inspire you?

I am profoundly grateful for my parents and family for everything. I honor my teachers for gifting me with their knowledge. My fiancé has been a force of love and a catalyst for my life journey! My yoga students inspire me beyond measure. We connect live at the local church and from all four time zones on Zoom. My people tune in from homes, retirement facilities, and along the Cossatot River. My people demonstrate that yoga is for every body. They show up with hip replacements, Lyme disease, arthritis, and even loss of loved ones. I’m overwhelmed with extreme gratitude to know and love each one and humbled to roll out a mat with them every day.

Tell us one thing you can’t do without on Thanksgiving Day and explain why.

There is this organized frenzy of activity leading up to the feast, and I thrive on that joyful energy! Everyone is busy stirring, carving, decorating, baking, serving, singing, laughing! Thanksgiving is a clan of people, whoever shows up. “A good cook knows that it is not about what is on the table that matters, it’s what is in the chairs!” Oh, but don’t forget the Brussels sprouts, please!

What do you love most about the Four-States area?

I love the arts community in Texarkana!  With a degree in music, I taught elementary school music locally for many years, and I appreciate the diverse offerings here.  I can sing with the Texarkana Regional Chorale, enjoy a Texarkana Symphony Orchestra concert at the stunning Perot Theatre, view a TRAHC art event, attend a hilarious Tex*Rep show, and visit with local visual artists at a variety of hip new studios downtown. Even the culinary arts is strong!

What lessons have you learned from the pandemic?

The pandemic has reminded us that nothing stays the same. I had to let go, and seamlessly transform our traditional yoga room at the Pinkerton Center to an online format. I’ve been able to spread the joy of Kripalu Yoga far more broadly. We have co-created a sangha of shared spirit, no matter how physically far away we reside. How cool is that? I am now experimenting with a new web classroom! In March 2020, you could not have convinced me that this is where I would be today.

How would you like for others to remember you?

I hope to be seen as a lover and advocate of the arts. I also hope my passion for health, wellness, mind care, and longevity shines through as I continue to share the traditional practices of yoga, meditation, and Ayurveda. I wish to be regarded as an inspiring and creative teacher.

photo by DR. ROBIN ROGERS

Angie Watson

NICU NURSE

CHRISTUS St. Michael Health System

Dedicated to the Tiniest Blessings

Angie Watson graduated from Texarkana College in 1996 with her ADN and has been a nurse for 25½ years. She has always cared for children, originally as a pediatric nurse and now as a NICU nurse where she gets to make a difference in the lives of infants and their families. Since these babies are often born with a variety of medical conditions, Angie serves as the voice for the tiniest of blessings.

Why did you decide to be a NICU nurse?

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NICU families become family; we share in the joy, the setbacks, the tears, the laughs, and the milestones that these tiny warriors accomplish daily. Celebrating a NICU graduation is amazing!

Who has helped you become the person you are today, and how did they inspire you?

My parents both worked, so they instilled a strong work ethic in me and my sister. My dad was big on saying, “If it’s worth doing, it’s worth doing right the first time.” Those words have stuck with me throughout the years. I have been very fortunate to work with some great nurses during my career, who have inspired, encouraged, and believed in me. I have an amazing support system of family and friends who push me to be the best version of myself on a daily basis.

Tell us one thing you can’t do without on Thanksgiving Day and explain why. Food ... my mom’s chicken & dressing and pecan pie. It wouldn’t be Thanksgiving without them! For years, Thanksgiving meant food and football, everyone together eating, and then watching the game. But, with the pandemic last year and social gatherings being frowned upon and discouraged, we had to get creative to spend time together. We had a Thanksgiving “picnic.” We set up a buffet outside with tables and chairs spaced out in my sister’s backyard. It was a beautiful day to be outdoors, gathered in fellowship and thanksgiving, enjoying the day, and each other’s company. A different Thanksgiving Day than previous years to be sure, but one of the best, ever.

What do you love most about the Four States area?

In terms of my profession, the advancements in health care in our community! Our tiniest patients do not always have to leave “home” to receive excellent, quality NICU care. They can grow and thrive here in Texarkana.

In our community, it is so exciting to see the downtown area being revitalized! I also enjoy seeing our community come together and support school athletics in our area. For example, when the Pleasant Grove Hawks played for their first ever State Football Championship in 2017, the stands at Cowboy Stadium were full of support from this community!

What lessons have you learned from the pandemic?

I knew before going to nursing school that I wanted to be a NICU or pediatric nurse. I have been very blessed to practice my profession as both a pediatric and NICU nurse in Texarkana. I was a pediatric nurse for the first 13 years of my nursing career. When the opportunity to move to the NICU became available in 2009, I took advantage and made the change. Best decision ever!

Name one thing about your profession that people might not know.

As nurses, we see patients and their families at the highest of highs and the lowest of lows. Nursing is hard. It’s complicated, tiring, awe-inspiring, and so very gratifying. There is no better feeling than to see an infant who started life at 24 weeks gestation grow, thrive, and go home with his or her family in a few months! Our

We are resilient and adapting. We were forced to change very quickly because our lives changed forever in 2020. The toll COVID-19 has taken on health care and healthcare workers, frontline workers, businesses, and families has been unreal. This disease has no respect for anyone: the young, the elderly, the middle-aged, it doesn’t care. This virus can make a victim of anyone, at any time. It is so important to tell those you care about how much you care and hug them when you can because COVID-19 changed everything almost overnight.

How would you like for others to remember you?

I am intensely loyal; if I count you as one of “my people,” I will do anything I can to help you in any way I can, whenever you need me. I also want people to remember the passion I have for the patient population I care for: God’s tiniest miracles and fiercest little warriors!

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UNITED WAY OF GREATER TEXARKANA’S CAMPAIGN

KICKOFF

The United Way of Greater Texarkana held its 97th annual Campaign Kickoff on September 24 at the Texarkana Convention Center. Josh Nichols and friends from Texarkana Resources sang “The National Anthem.” Dr. James Henry Russell, Sr. Vice President and CFO of The Arnold Companies, served as the guest speaker. Tina Bell is this year’s campaign chair, and Mike Mahone serves as the UWGT board chairman.

Mayor Bob Bruggeman, James Bramlett and Rachael Potter Mike Malone, Mike Mahone and Tom Whitten

John Williams and Anna Pink

Tina Bell, Mark Bledsoe and Mike Mahone

Tina Bell and Molly Riley

Jennifer Harland, Sherri and Sam Clem and Dr. James Henry Russell

Shannon Rowe, Suki O’Neal, Cheryl Gildon, Keely Bledsoe and Summer Nelson

Mike Malone, Diane Engelkes and Robert Irwin

LaKesha Taylor

PRINCIPAL, PAUL LAURENCE DUNBAR EEC

Texarkana Independent School District

Educators Touch the Future

LaKesha Taylor has been in public education for 17 years. Since the pandemic began, leaders in education have been tasked with making unprecedented decisions that would keep students safe while continuing to foster learning. This has been no simple undertaking, and leaders like LaKesha put students, especially their safety and success, at the forefront of their minds every day of the year. Trying times have plagued many school leaders but Principal Taylor has pushed through with her contagious smile and determined attitude to put kids first in her role.

Why did you decide to be an educator?

It is simple. This is what I was called to do. I must admit, I tried to run away from my calling when I graduated from college but God had other plans. I have always worked with kids whether it was volunteering at the Boys and Girls Club, working and leading the youth in my church, or just taking care of my little cousins. So really, it’s not about why I decided to be an educator, but more about why I am still in education. This is my 17th year, and I still love it! I love being able to positively impact the lives of my students and staff. I love seeing them gain new knowledge and witness the excitement they have on a daily basis. I love seeing the staff step out of their comfort zone to ensure their students are successful. There may be challenging days, but the success stories outweigh those days.

Name one thing about your profession that people might not know.

As the principal of a campus, it is not about me. It is and will always be about my students and staff. Being in this position requires educators to expand their views and needs to encompass the needs of others before their own.

Who has helped you become the person you are today, and how did they inspire you?

I have been blessed throughout my life to learn from my parents, pastor, educators, and professional learning opportunities to gain the knowledge and skills needed to be the person I am today. I will continue to personally and professionally grow.

Tell us one thing you can’t do without on Thanksgiving Day and explain why.

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If I have to choose one thing, it would be the food. However, if I am being totally honest, it would be the food and family. I feel you cannot have one without the other.

What do you love most about the Four States area?

I absolutely love the “hometown” atmosphere and the proximity to the recreational activities available in the Four States area.

What lessons have you learned from the pandemic?

The need to be willing to think “outside the box” to approach and solve obstacles with flexibility and creative solutions.

How would you like for others to remember you?

I want to be remembered as being one who led through faith, with compassion, and had the ability to encourage others to maximize their own potential through empowering, teaching, and trusting the staff.

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Susie Stanley

SPEECH-LANGUAGE PATHOLOGIST

Temple Memorial Pediatric Center

Molding Miracles

Speech-language pathologists specialize in communication. They assess, diagnose, treat, and help to prevent communication and swallowing disorders in children and adults. Since January 1978, Susie Stanley has served as a speech-language pathologist. She feels blessed that she has found a career she loves. For the past 33 years, she has worked for Temple and has looked forward to going to work each day. After all, who wouldn’t look forward to getting to play all day in a fun, loving atmosphere?

Why did you decide to become involved with Temple?

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Who has helped you become the person you are today, and how did they inspire you?

My biggest inspiration has been my mother, Billie Williams. She was an active volunteer at our local Easter Seals in Anchorage, Alaska. She introduced me to many therapists, which led me to decide that speech-language pathology was the job for me at 9 years old. She believed in me and encouraged me to look for ways to give back to our community,

Another incredible influence in my life was Janet Hoag. She was the director of Temple when I first came to work there. She had a no-nonsense approach to providing services to our clients. She was very active in the community and had a way of coaxing tremendous resources out of people, whether it was financial support for our mission or helping motivate an individual client to keep working toward their goals.

One more inspiration is the families of the children I work with. These families are so strong and resourceful. They work hard to find solutions for the problems that their children face. In working together, we frequently can find a way that neither of us would have found on our own. I tell these families that I am an expert in speech and communication, but they are the expert in their child.

Tell us one thing you can’t do without on Thanksgiving Day and explain why. Family is the most important thing about Thanksgiving. I do love to make a beautiful dinner with turkey and all the trimmings; however, it is the people gathered around the food that make the day. We have a tradition of going around the table and allowing each person to list one thing they are particularly thankful for in their present lives.

When my kids were younger, I would have them go through their toys on Thanksgiving week and give away the toys they were no longer playing with. Many of these toys are the ones I use in therapy today.

What do you love most about the Four States area?

I love the many trails and camping opportunities we have in this area. We are so blessed to have lakes, mountains, rivers, and parks within easy driving distance of Texarkana.

What lessons have you learned from the pandemic?

I have discovered the value of touch. Because touch was so available, I took touching others for granted. Also, I am now more aware of the power of being present to those I serve. This 18-month period of physical distancing, doing therapy by Zoom, and being sure to keep hands off people, has taken a toll on most of my clients, and me personally. Though I understand the need for these measures, it has been a heavy burden for many of my kids and for me.

I joined Temple in March of 1989 because I wanted to provide speech therapy services to all who need it regardless of their ability to pay for the services. I had been working in private practice and was frustrated with so many clients unable to afford services. Because Temple was a nonprofit, we could see more clients, thanks to the generosity of our community.

Name one thing about your profession that people might not know.

Speech-language pathologists do a lot more than work on speech. We provide therapy for swallowing, feeding disorders, pragmatic skills, and my favorite, providing nonverbal clients with an alternative/assistive communication (AAC) in the use of sign language, picture exchange, or computer/tablet assisted communication.

How would you like for others to remember you?

I would like people to think of me as someone who genuinely cared about others. A person who focused on the positive and looked for solutions to difficult problems. I hope people will smile when they think of me.

Joseph Tucker

DRIVER

Deliveries Soar but Joseph’s Still Smiling

A 25-year veteran driver for UPS, single dad Joseph Tucker always has a kind word and a smile when delivering packages from his truck. Since the pandemic began, an exponential rise has occurred in online ordering, and drivers have been tasked with providing essential service in unseen times. Rain or shine, Joseph has been working nonstop, and we are thankful for his attitude and hard work during this time.

Why did you decide to be a UPS driver?

I went to work at UPS at 19, and I loaded trucks for nine years. I became a driver as soon as a spot opened up. For only having a high school degree and a year of college, I truly am humbled and blessed to have my job.

Name one thing about your profession that people might not know. One thing about my job that people don’t know is we have a new system called turn by turn. It tells you how to run your route. When I started driving, I had to learn Texarkana the old-fashioned way: buried in a map.

Who has helped you become the person you are today, and how did they inspire you?

My two sons. The moment they both took breath, my life changed. Becoming a dad has been the most rewarding thing in my life. God entrusted me to raise them. Both of their births are really something to me. I was battling cancer when Braden was born, and then doctors told me I would never have children again. Four years later, Caleb came into the world. Every day is a gift. They inspire me every day because each day is a gift from above.

Tell us one thing you can’t do without on Thanksgiving Day and explain why.

Hands down, the gravy and the dressing is my favorite part because I only get it once a year. I so look forward to Thanksgiving. I believe Thanksgiving gets a bad rap because everyone goes straight to Christmas after Halloween. I just love the entire day ... the food, the whole atmosphere, then we get to watch the Cowboys.

What do you love most about the Four States area?

The thing I love most about the Four States is that it is home to me. When I’m

coming home from a trip, it is always nice to see that road marker that tells me how far I am from home.

What lessons have you learned from the pandemic?

When the pandemic started, to be honest, I was scared. Overnight, our normalcy stopped. Everyone was on lock down the first few weeks. There was a shop that I passed on a daily basis, and in the window, there were signs saying, “You got this, don’t give up.” That really meant the world to me seeing those two signs. We all got this!

How would you like for others to remember you?

I want to be remembered as one who never quits, and one who always puts others first. My life is a blessing more than people will ever know. Living in this crazy time because of the pandemic, I’m humbled and thankful to say the least to be able to get up every day and do what I do. God has truly blessed me beyond measure.

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Braden Herman

VETERAN

United States Marine Corps

One of the Few, The Proud

Honor, courage, and commitment are the values that every member of the United States Marine Corps pledges to uphold. As a veteran of the Marine Corps, Braden Herman made this lifelong commitment to instill these principles in his everyday life. FSLM thanks him for listening to his calling when he was a senior in high school and dedicating four years of his life to fighting for our freedoms.

Why did you decide join the military?

When I was 18 and fresh out of high school, I didn’t know what I wanted to do. That led me to join the military and start over with a new beginning. The military helped me learn discipline, accountability, and numerous other traits I will now possess forever. I served four years total in the United States Marine Corps and obtained the rank of Sergeant (E5).

Name one thing about your profession that people might not know. Most people who are not familiar with the military don’t realize how many

different jobs and roles there are in the military. My job for the first three years was being a radio operator. The important part about this job is making sure you have proper communication with whoever is on the other side of the radio. In my last year of service, I served as the Battalion Legal Chief where I was in charge of processing paperwork for Marines who were getting processed out of the military.

Who has helped you become the person you are today, and how did they inspire you?

My mother, Diana Herman, helped me to become the person I am today. Even though she passed away when I was 17 years old, everything she did is still with me. Seeing how hard she worked at her job, taking care of me, and being the “do it all parent” showed me what it took to be successful in life. She not only showed me how to be successful in a profession, but also how to be there for your children and raise them the right way.

Tell us one thing you can’t do without on Thanksgiving Day and explain why.

The food I look forward to the most on Thanksgiving Day is dressing, or as some people like to call it, stuffing. I also prefer ham over turkey, but that’s just my preference. Seeing as I am a major sports fan, football being on all day is awesome for me as well.

What do you love most about the Four States area?

One thing about the Four States area that I enjoy is how unique it is. While you are on the border of many different states, you also get to experience the different types of cultures from those states.

What lessons have you learned from the pandemic?

During the pandemic, I was able to spend the majority of time with my son. This was a blessing for me because he was my first child, and I was able to appreciate each stage that he went through. I was also able to spend more time with my wife, Victoria, than I have in past years due to being in the military. I learned from the pandemic that when society is shut down or limited, all that really matters is the people you have around you.

How would you like for others to remember you?

I want people to remember me as the type of person that could always be relied on. I have always enjoyed meeting new people and getting to know them and their interests.

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GATHERING OF AUTHORS CHARITY EVENT AND BOOK SIGNING

The 12th annual Gathering of Authors Charity Event and Book Signing was held October 9 at Circle J Cowboy Church. A family event, activities included: vendors, prizes, live and silent auction, crafts, and more. All proceeds from the event benefit autism awareness.

Patty and Ron Wiseman

Donna Quarles and Matthew White

“Ed the Toonist” and Jill Clay

Kamrin Vega and Chase Livingston

Tammy and Tony Thompson

Karen and Troy Gammons

Byron and Pamela Walker

Morgan Chance, Nancy Whittemore and Glenda Moore

Theresa and Eddie Teer

Dana Wayne and Judi Lowe

Stephanie and Cal Davis

Jerlyn Stone and Penny Richards

Shan Parks and Lashundra Bradley

Sharron and David Walker Wyletta, Tristan and Darius Johnson

Connie Thomason and Tammy Thompson

Chris Baca

AGENCY MANAGER

Texas Farm Bureau Insurance & Southern Farm Bureau Life Insurance

Here to Help

For the past 12 years, Chris Baca has helped his clients find the best insurance policies to protect their most valuable assets.

During this time, he has spent the last year and a half as agency manager and thoroughly enjoys taking care of people. Whether you are in need of home, auto, or life insurance, Chris can help you find the right policy that suits your needs.

Why did you decide to become an insurance agent?

I am a people person. I have always enjoyed getting to know people, and fortunately, we get to take care of people in the insurance business. This profession has also allowed me to have flexibility in my schedule, which is important to me because I haven’t missed any of my kids’ activities. This career has been a blessing to my family, and I am thankful to have the opportunity to be a part of so many people’s lives.

Name one thing about your profession that people might not know.

Most people are underinsured. I have found that across home, auto ,and life insurance, most people could use more than they have. The cost to rebuild a home is considerably more now than it has been in recent years. Automobiles also cost more, and minimum liability limits are not adequate.

Life insurance is most important! We can find another house, and we can find another vehicle but people are irreplaceable, especially if it is mom or dad. I cannot emphasize enough how important it is to have frequent policy reviews with your agent to bridge any gaps in all of these coverages.

Who has helped you become the person you are today, and how did they inspire you?

My wife, Christie. She has always encouraged me even when I doubted myself she was faithful to be by my side and pick me up when I couldn’t pick myself up. She has been rock solid since I met her. Honestly, I don’t know where I would be today without her.

Tell us one thing you can’t do without on Thanksgiving Day and explain why.

I grew up out west in New Mexico. We had a family tradition to go quail hunting every Thanksgiving morning. My dad, younger brother, and some of my uncles and cousins would go and hunt until about noon and then come home and enjoy food and family! It has been a few years for me but we plan on going this year!

What do you love most about the Four States area?

One thing we have noticed here is how friendly the people are. We have met some genuinely nice people here. I also love that there is a lot of different things to do within an hour to two hour drive, including lakes, rivers, casinos, golf courses, etc.

What lessons have you learned from the pandemic?

Freedom should never be taken for granted. More importantly, life is precious, short, fragile, and we are not guaranteed tomorrow. So enjoy life, love fiercely, and be kind!

How would you like for others to remember you?

I hope that their life was better for knowing me. I want to have a positive impact on people’s lives and to leave things better than I found them. Human nature is to always look at one’s own best interest but the world would be a better place if we used the golden rule to “treat others like we would like to be treated.” This is ultimately found in Christ.

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A Spirit of Excellence

Seventeen-year-old Ethan Miller serves as concert master for two symphonies and will enter college next year as a sophomore

by AMBER E. WILLMAN

Words have power. Names have meanings. When choosing a name for a tiny human, you are writing that child’s future. Did Larry and Kimberly Miller know what they were setting in motion 16 years ago?

From the Hebrew, meaning firm and strong, Ethan Miller is living up to his name. A junior at Arkansas High School in Texarkana, Arkansas, Ethan is on track to graduate in May 2022. Because of his stellar academic record which includes straight A’s and 72 college credits, he will enter college at Texas A&M as a 17-year-old sophomore. Although this is a great achievement, most teenagers would be intimidated at the thought of being two years younger than their classmates. “I was at first, but now I thrive on the fact that I am the youngest. I take pride in being the youngest in college because I feel like I deserve to be where I am,” Ethan explains.

Ethan’s attitude of excellence is not limited to the classroom. At age 4, Kimberly Miller handed her son a violin. He eventually fell in love with the instrument. Not only did Ethan have natural music talents, but his work ethic made him an accomplished young musician. Since seventh grade, he has held the title of concert master for the Arkansas High School Orchestra. A concert master leads the orchestra, is an assistant to the conductor, and is chosen by tryout. Additionally, this is a title Ethan has held for three years for the Texarkana Youth Symphony Orchestra and for two years for the Southwest Arkansas Symphony Orchestra. His advice to budding musicians is to “stay consistent and play pieces you enjoy. Finding the right instrument to fit you will make the difference.”

Ethan’s devotion to academics and music is a significant time commitment. Many teenagers would balk at trying to balance both. “I work hard, I use my time wisely, and I study smart. For me, it all comes down to hard work and motivation. I make good use of my time and NEVER procrastinate,” Ethan says. “Also, know what is important to you and thrive on this. Even when you don’t feel like practicing, go ahead and do it. Invest in yourself, and this will return great profits for your future.”

Ethan’s reputation for hard work and academic success has expanded beyond the school walls. On Thursday, October 7, he gave a speech at the groundbreaking ceremony for a new building on the University of Arkansas Hope-Texarkana campus. Ethan was chosen by the dean, and his speech, “How to be Successful in College at a Young Age,” was received well by his audience. In fact, he was asked to give another speech next January. “For me, it’s about making a difference with my words and making the best impact I can. If I am able to help one person, I have succeeded,” Ethan said.

Ethan credits his mom, Kimberly, for his success, citing her as the most influential person in his life. “She has helped me get to where I am today. No matter what my problem is, she will always be there to help me. She gets real with me, and I appreciate that. There have been many times that I struggled, and she has me come back to what is important. My dad is always there for me, and I know that he always will be. He and my mom balance me.”

In his spare time, Ethan enjoys football, working out, and spending time with friends. He is intrigued by muscles and the human body. This interest has prompted him to pursue a Doctorate in Physical Therapy. He believes he can

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achieve this milestone by age 22. “Make academics a priority. It is very simple; if you work hard, it will pay off. Don’t give up or give in; you can be anything you want to be, just make sure you are being the best you!”

Social media is flooded with memes, posts, and stories complaining about teenagers. They are viewed as lazy, unmotivated, and troublesome. This is as unfair a generalization as any other age, gender, race, or ethnic stereotype. In a society where adults consistently voice concern about “this new generation,” it is reassuring to know that there are kids like Ethan ... kids with gentle humility, positive attitudes, and spirits of excellence. From the Hebrew, “Ethan” is firm in his convictions and strong in his work ethic.

During a Dolly Parton concert on September 30, 2017, Ethan played “The Star-Spangled Banner.”

On October 7, Ethan played the violin and made a speech during the dedication of the new University of Arkansas Hope-Texarkana facility.

Two months ago, Ethan performed with his violin teacher, Dr. Tim Chung, at Central Mall.

Ethan served as the concert master during this year’s Texarkana Youth Symphony Orchestra Spring Concert.

Last Christmas, this family photo was taken of the Miller family. With Ethan are his parents, Larry and Kimberly, and younger brother, Grayson.

Kyle Thomason

LINEMAN

Southwest Arkansas Electric REA

The Power to Light Up the World

photo by DR. ROBIN ROGERS

Whether installing underground electrical lines or climbing poles to repair overhead lines, the men and women who perform utility line work often find themselves working in extreme circumstances. For the past eight years, Kyle Thomason has used his problem-solving skills to install, maintain, and repair electrical lines, oftentimes after natural disasters. Being a problem-solver comes naturally to him, and we all thank Kyle for dedicating his life to this dangerous and risky job

Why did you decide to be a lineman?

I decided to become a lineman when I was about 14 years old. I was stacking hay with my dad’s tractor and hit a service line with the hay bale. I sat there and watched the lineman that came out to repair it, and that’s when I decided what I wanted to do for a living.

Name one thing about your profession that people might not know.

One thing people may not know about line work is that it’s not always easy and quick to get the lights back on. Sometimes depending on the amount of damage and repair needed, it may take a while to fix.

Who has helped you become the person you are today, and how did they inspire you?

My dad helped me become the person that I am today. He taught me how to be respectful and gave me the work ethic that I have now.

Tell us one thing you can’t do without on Thanksgiving Day and explain why.

One thing I can’t do without on Thanksgiving Day is my mom’s banana pudding because she makes the best banana pudding ever!

What do you love most about the Four States area?

All the good people that I know and get to meet. The Four States area is definitely my forever home.

What lessons have you learned from the pandemic?

The pandemic has shown me that we take a lot of things for granted.

How would you like for others to remember you?

I would like to be remembered as the guy that was always there for someone when they needed it ... someone honest, trustworthy, and a man of his word.

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2021 TEXARKANA WALK TO END ALZHEIMER’S

The Alzheimer’s Association® Walk to End Alzheimer’s was held October 16 at Spring Lake Park. KTAL NBC 6 anchors Dan and Jacque Jovic led the walk while radio personality Mario Garcia deejayed the event.

Jack Pappas, Erin Radford and Alice Colman

Bailey Roach and Jennifer Bowering

Mario Garcia and Scott Finley with Jacque and Dan Jovic

Peggy Friend, Tammy Thompson, Kim Pyatt, Stacy Hart, Trina Armstrong, Josh Tice, Denise Musgrave, Jonathan Biddy and Donna Jackson

Kelly Willmoore and Liz Carter

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TEXAR PRESENTS LOCAL BANDS, LOCAL BREWS, LOCAL BITES

TEXAR presented Local Bands, Local Brews, Local Bites on October 7 in Downtown Texarkana in front of Hopkins

Musical entertainment was provided by Trophy

while drinks and dinner were available at Hopkins.

Icehouse.

Husband,

Mark and Keely Bledsoe, Blaire Bledsoe and Robin Christen

Tanya and Philip House, Anita Bland, Carol and Cale Branum

Summer Nelson and Kayla Jones

Rachel Harris, Renada Nelson, Tonya Jones and Lizzie Jones

Megan Peloquin and Amy Mills

Summer Nelson and Laura Homan

Robin Christen and Kelly Mitchell

Dr. Matt Young

CHIEF MEDICAL OFFICER

Texarkana Emergency Center & Hospital

A Physician Who Puts Patients First

Dr. Matt Young has been a physician for 25 years. He is board certified in emergency medicine by the American College of Emergency Physicians. He is a Fellow of the American College of Emergency Physicians. He studied and received his training at the University of Arkansas for Medical Sciences in Little Rock, Arkansas. Dr. Young has served as the medical director of emergency services at both local hospitals.

Dr. Young has been the Medical Director for LifeNet, Inc. for more than a decade. Since the beginning of the COVID-19 pandemic, Dr. Young has served as the Bowie County Health Authority, providing the area with up-to-date medical information on COVID-19 and made recommendations for the safety of the area communities. We are tremendously grateful for his expertise, time, and dedication to people.

Why did you decide to be the Bowie County Health Authority?

When asked by Bowie County Judge Bobby Howell, I felt it was the appropriate thing to do with the uncertainty of this pandemic.  This also fit my specialty in emergency medicine, emergency services, and public health. I always love the opportunity to serve our community.

Name one thing about your profession that people might not know.

As the Local Health Authority, I volunteer my time and services. This role was important to me during the recent pandemic because there were so many changes and uncertainties in which I felt I could help manage. I was also able to keep up-to-date on all of the medical treatment and literature for our community. This would not have been possible without the amazing Emergency Operations Center team.

As an emergency room physician and the Bowie County Health Authority, what do residents need to know about COVID-19 today, and how should they approach gatherings and activities during the holidays?

Currently, the cases are declining. The Emergency Operations team is very hopeful in getting closer to a normal holiday season, but we need to stay optimistically cautious.

Who has helped you become the person you are today, and how did they inspire you?

My faith, family, and friends.

Tell us one thing you can’t do without on Thanksgiving Day and explain why.

Dressing. Being one of 10 children in a family of 12, this was one of the only times during the year we got turkey and dressing. Dressing reminds me of so many traditions and celebrations with family.

What do you love most about the Four States area?

The people make it a great place! Texarkana and the Four States area are home. I have so many wonderful memories as a child and now as an adult. I also have so many friends and family that I enjoy spending time with.

What lessons have you learned from the pandemic?

The pandemic has taught me to constantly be open to learning and being flexible. It has also made us be even more aware that everyday truly is a gift. COVID-19 did not discriminate and has changed our lives in so many ways.

How would you like for others to remember you?

I would like to be remembered for living my life with a servant’s heart and always being a good faithful servant to our community.

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Samantha Morgan

CHILD CARE CENTER OWNER

Little Rascals Day Care

The Children’s Champion

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Ever since she was very young, Samantha Morgan has enjoyed teaching and interacting with children. She remembers playing with her baby dolls “way longer than most girls did” and always pretending and playing school. She began working in the child care setting at 17 years old and knew that managing and owning her own business was on her radar. Becoming a director for her child care center just made sense to her, so she followed her heart’s desire and made her dreams a reality.

Why did you decide to be a child care director?

I opened a home day care at 21 years old and needed to find a larger facility so I opened Little Rascals in 2005, when I was just 23 years old (16 years ago). For the past eight years, I have also worked as an office manager for Dr. Charles Hollingsworth, a plastic surgeon. I have a wonderful director at the day care now and am grateful that she is there when I am not since I work two jobs.

Name one thing about your profession that people might not know.

I don’t think people understand that child care is much more than just “babysitting.” We teach the children. We have strict schedules, and each class has a

curriculum and lesson plan that we follow. All of our full-time lead teachers have an associate’s degree or higher, or are working toward that now.

Who has helped you become the person you are today, and how did they inspire you?

Several people have helped me along the way. My family seems to be hardworkers, and we all really love to work. My work ethic definitely came from my parents and brothers. I would say it’s in our bloodline. We all have owned or managed a business.

Three women have taught, encouraged, and inspired me to be where and what I am today. My mother, who is outspoken, head strong and independent has always inspired me. I always want to make her proud and not let her down. My first child care employer, Kelli Foster-Fannin, has taught me a lot. She made child care fun. The last lady who molded me as a child care teacher, director, and owner was my very strict licensing inspector, Shirley Dansby. This lady was by the book on her rules and regulations when inspecting, and she never cut me any slack. I wouldn’t be as successful or precise now if it wasn’t for her.

Tell us one thing you can’t do without on Thanksgiving Day and explain why. My Mama’s chocolate pie! Growing up, all three of her kids have loved her pie. One liked the meringue and chocolate, but not the crust. The other liked the crust and chocolate, but not the meringue. As a little girl, I wanted the chocolate and nothing else. Now, needless to say, we like and eat it all. She now makes more than one pie to avoid us fussing and fighting over it.

What do you love most about the Four States area?

I like the small town friendships and relationships. When push comes to shove, our hometown area steps in to help when needed. When we celebrate, everyone celebrates. When someone is experiencing sorrow from a tragic event, everyone seems to hurt or be affected.

What lessons have you learned from the pandemic?

I learned a lot about “self-care” and to take time for myself. I also learned that it is okay to say no and tend to your own needs sometimes. I learned that I really love my quiet time and alone time. And I actually really enjoyed the world slowing down a bit. I think everything happens for a reason, and God was definitely trying to get our attention.

How would you like for others to remember you?

I want to be remembered for being an independent yet humble person. I always try to give my all. I am a very hardworker and am very driven. I would also hope that I am remembered for always trying to see the best in people and giving people a chance when others won’t.

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CASA FOR CHILDREN EDGE OF TEXAS GOLF TOURNAMENT

CASA for Children held its 16th annual Edge of Texas Golf Tournament on September 27 at Northridge Country Club. Thirty-four teams enjoyed a day of golf while supporting a great cause. All proceeds from the tournament benefit CASA and the Texarkana Children’s Advocacy Center.

Joe Crane, David Magness, Jerome Duenas and Justin Magness

John Givens, John Coffee, Blake Rich and Chris Clemens

Josh Thane, Cole Riddell, Randy Roeser and Darby Doan Kevin Avery, Kyle Akin, Conner Ribble and Dr. Blane Graves

Robbie Smith, Braxton Langdon, Stan Lawrence and Heath Lawrence Russell Sparks, Rich Payne, Bart Vance and Mark Luckett

Don Morriss, Danny Gray, Don Capshaw and William Morriss

Lauree Romero, Trish Reed, Sam Wacha and Sarah Brown

John May, Chase Beebe, Buck Buchanan and Mike Ward

Collins Bruner, John Crisp and Justin Fitts Daniel Ludwig, Tommy Dixon, Philip Mobley and Zac Ames

Debbie Sheppard, Elaine Flanagan, Frieda Brainard and Frieda Sims

Drew Mims, Cody White, Josh Kurtz and Clayton Wisdom

Jon Thornton, Jason Lott, Levi Ponder and Chad Rains

Jerry Rochelle, Bruce Hornbuckle, Michael Griffin and Derick Giles

Mitch James, Brad Davis, Anthony Pinkham and Zack Clapp

Patrick Hill

FUNERAL DIRECTOR/ENTREPRENEUR

Richardson Hill Funeral Home

Helping Families Celebrate a Life Well-Lived

Patrick Hill never thought that he would serve as a funeral director or own a funeral home. Always one who liked helping others, he decided to give this career a try. From the beginning to the end, Patrick coordinates and works with the family of the deceased to arrange the entire funeral. When families are hurting and grieving, Patrick tries his very best to ease their burdens with compassionate care.

Why did you decide to be a funeral director?

Back in 2001, it rained on and off almost four months. I couldn’t build any houses, and traffic was very slow at the car lot. I told my late wife, Monica, that I was going to have to find a career where the weather or the economy would not keep me from making a living. In the middle of the night, I rose up and said, “Funeral home.” She said, “What? Lie back down. You are having a nightmare.” I bought Richardson Funeral Home with partners in April of 2001 but later bought them out.

Name one thing about your profession that people might not know. We don’t sit around the funeral home 24 hours a day, 7 days a week waiting on people to die. We are on call. Many people call us in the middle of the night checking prices, and the office is closed. We are just available for removal services.

Who has helped you become the person you are today, and how did they inspire you?

My mother, Mable Hill, and father, Sylvester Hill, Sr. helped me become the person I am today. My father was a well-known and well-liked businessman. My mother has always been the kind of person that if she gave you her word, she would do everything in her power to keep it. She always told me what the Bible said about the value of a good name. Unfortunately, in this day and time, people’s words are just words.

Tell us one thing you can’t do without on Thanksgiving Day and explain why.

I cannot do without dressing and sweet potato pie on Thanksgiving. I also enjoy watching the Dallas Cowboys play football. I also love playing cards and dominoes with friends and family on Thanksgiving.

What do you love most about the Four States area?

What I love most about the Four States area are the local bankers. David White and James Bramlett of Farmers Bank and Trust will definitely help you. Brad Davis and Joe Nichols of State Bank will give the average person a chance. Ted Kelton of Texana Bank is always finding ways to make a loan. Rick Wisdom of Diamond Bank loves to

call you personally and tell you how he can get a loan done for you. Robert Irwin of Guaranty Bank & Trust has helped just about everyone I have sent to him. He is really a good banker. My good friend and banker, George Merrill, of Bancorp South, started me in business when I didn’t have good credit or a lot of money. He took the time to show me how to get my credit good, and I did everything I said I would do. He has always been there for me.

What lessons have you learned from the pandemic?

The pandemic has taught me that we can’t listen to conspiracy theories because I have seen so many people die that should not have. I literally beg people at all of my funerals, on Facebook, and in the public to get vaccinated because I don’t want to see them die. I know I am in the funeral business but with me, it’s going to always be “people over profits.” I just wished more funeral homes would step up and help me because I believe it is a shame before God that we stay quiet and don’t do all we can to help keep families from breaking apart.

How would you like for others to remember you?

I would love to be remembered as someone who would help anybody and that loved children, animals, and the Lord.

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Dr. Priyal Patel

FAMILY PHYSICIAN CHRISTUS Trinity Clinic

Privileged to be a Physician

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A family physician with CHRISTUS Trinity Clinic, Dr. Priyal Patel really likes the fact that she is able to follow the entire family and be a small part of their journey through life. She enjoys the diversity that comes with being involved in family medicine and handles all the tasks involved with that position, including medication management, performing procedures, etc. She admits that there is never a dull moment in her career but is very grateful that she can have a lucrative career but still have a great work/life balance.

Why did you decide to a family physician?

Growing up, I always liked science/biology, and honestly it’s not really an option if you are born in an Indian family. You are either a doctor if you like biology or an engineer if you like math. I wish there was an “aha” moment, but honestly there wasn’t.

Name one thing about your profession that people might not know. We actually do a lot of women’s health as family doctors which includes well checkups, Pap smears, and mammograms. Some family doctors can even do some obstetrics, but that is specific to the physician and where they were trained. Family doctors can also work in the ER, do hospital medicine, and work in urgent care.

Who has helped you become the person you are today, and how did they inspire you?

Most definitely my parents. We are all immigrants, and they migrated to the USA at the age of 45 leaving a thriving architectural practice in India only so their children could have a great education and the best shot at their future. Immigrant parents are so underrated! Being able to give up your dreams so your kids can follow their own is incredible. They had to learn a new way of life in a different country, and I admire them for that.

Tell us one thing you can’t do without on Thanksgiving Day and explain why.

Traditionally, we don’t celebrate Thanksgiving but we always make sure we are with family every year during the holiday doing things we love or travelling to a new place with everyone. Of course, since it’s Thanksgiving, our visits focus around a lot of food and trying different cuisines which is always exciting.

What do you love most about the Four States area?

I love that so many amazing locations are so close by. It is so convenient to do a quick family weekend trip. Hot Springs, Fayetteville/Bentonville, and Broken Bow are our favorites! I had no idea Arkansas was so beautiful until I moved here. There’s just so much greenery everywhere, and there are so many great hiking spots.

What lessons have you learned from the pandemic?

Health and family are the two most important things. Nothing else really matters if we don’t have those two. Also, it has become all the more important to be present, and live every day like it’s your last. We worry so much about the future that we forget to live in the present.

How would you like for others to remember you?

I always want to be remembered as someone who always had a smile on their face and was easy to get along with and made people laugh/smile. I also love when people are like “you are always going places.” I also want to be remembered for traveling to different places and always being up for an adventure.

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TEXARKANA RESOURCES OKTOBERFEST DRAWDOWN

On September 23, Texarkana Resources hosted its Oktoberfest Drawdown at 6 p.m. at the home of Monica and Collins Bruner. A night of dinner, drinks, and good cheer took place while raising money for Texarkana Resources for the Disabled, Inc.

Tina Cunningham, Dedra Jones, Dakota Roberts and Veronica Bursey

Jill McMahon and Alton Endsley

Joe Strickland, Stacy Hart and Jack Pappas

Tina Cunnningham, Leigh Cheek, Tami Parker-Eakin, James Syler, Larry Davis, Collins Bruner, Michelle Walraven, Tanya Dunlap and Jennifer Lewis

Cassandra Freeman and Christa Burton

Trey and Jennifer Lewis

Laura Jenkins and Larry Davis

Terri and Sam Martinez

Desirae and Shirley McElroy

Michael and Arwen McDaniel

Gary Seifert

FLIGHT NURSE/PARAMEDIC LifeNet, Inc.

Making Every Second Count

Helping people survive the worst day of their lives is the job of flight nurse/paramedic, Gary Seifert. As a trained medical professional, Gary’s job is to remain calm while his patient is oftentimes going through a life or death situation. It takes a specially trained, even keeled person to be involved in emergency care, and members of the Texarkana community appreciate people like Gary for devoting the past 11 years of his life to saving others.

Why did you decide to be a flight nurse/paramedic?

Nursing runs in my family. I always wanted to work in the medical field, and getting to help people during what is typically the worst day of their life for some reason appealed to me. I also love aviation so getting to blend the two has been a great experience.

Name one thing about your profession that people might not know. We wear night vision goggles while flying at night to increase safety.

Who has helped you become the person you are today, and how did they inspire you?

I have had a lot of great people in my life. I try to take the best parts of each of those individuals and apply that to my life.

Tell us one thing you can’t do without on Thanksgiving Day and explain why.

Family. I definitely love the food, but having my family with me is the most important part.

What do you love most about the Four States area?

It is a great place to raise a family.

What lessons have you learned from the pandemic?

Resiliency. I am proud to be a part of the local healthcare team. I have watched how it can adapt and overcome all the challenges that came with the onset of the pandemic.

How would you like for others to remember you?

I never wanted to be remembered as a hero or anything like that. I am just one of millions of people in health care that work everyday to serve our communities. Most important to me is being remembered as a good husband and good father to my children.

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Lisa Sangalli

RETAIL MANAGEMENT – STORE DIRECTOR

Shopping As It Should Be

Whether looking for a gift for a loved one or buying an essential item for the home, most retail shoppers acknowledge Target as one of their favorite go-to places. Not only is this retail giant known for taking care of its team members; they also invest in the well-being of each members’ families, their communities, and the guests who keep their doors open. “To help all families discover the joy of everyday life” is Target’s purpose, and Texarkana Store Director Lisa Sangalli has helped carry out this mission for 30 years.

Why did you decide to be a manager of Target?

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encouraged me to grow my career at Target, it was an easy choice.

Name one thing about your profession that people might not know. As previously mentioned, I’ve worked at Target for 30 years, and we have a lot of fun bringing joy to others. It’s important to me that you leave Target happier than when you arrived. Some people aren’t aware that we care this much about your shopping experience.

Who has helped you become the person you are today, and how did they inspire you?

I would not be the person I am today without my husband, Todd. He has been my go-to person for my entire adult life. He listens and encourages me, is smart, kind, funny, and has brought me joy for 31 perfect years.

Tell us one thing you can’t do without on Thanksgiving Day and explain why.

My mom always served a strawberry gelatin-based dessert with whipped cream, pecans, fruit, and lots of other delicious ingredients. I only know it as “pink stuff,” and holiday meals were not complete unless the “pink stuff” was on the table. One year, my sister made this dessert using green Jell-O. We barely got through Thanksgiving that year! It’s NOT “pink stuff” if it’s green!

What do you love most about the Four States area?

I love Texarkana! I moved here in 1990, and I’ll always call it home. The people I meet through Target and the friendships I’ve developed in the community have brought me a lot of happiness. There are so many good people in Texarkana, and I love my life here. Special shout-out to the Redlick Dinner Club ... I think it’s time for a reunion!

What lessons have you learned from the pandemic?

I have learned so many lessons from the pandemic. Some of my favorite lessons involve quality family time. Game night is a Sangalli family favorite. My husband and I have found new ways to vacation or escape for the weekend. We enjoy kayaking, hiking, boating, and sightseeing more now than ever before.

How would you like for others to remember you?

I started at Target in 1991 as a seasonal team member, and I loved everything about Target. My team and the leaders inspire me to do my best work every day. I was still in college and wasn’t sure about my career plan so when my boss

I strive to be a kind and generous person and to always have positive intentions. I think it’s important to build others up every chance I get and give the best of myself to those around me. That’s what fills my cup. With a little luck and our good Lord’s grace, this is how I hope to be remembered.

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UNIVERSITY OF ARKANSAS HOPE-TEXARKANA BREAKS GROUND ON NEW FACILITY

The University of Arkansas HopeTexarkana broke ground on a new facility at the Texarkana campus on October 7. The new 14,754 square foot facility will house a welding program, the Secondary Career and Technical Education Center, the Arkansas High Collegiate Academy, and more. “This new facility is a testament to our dedication to higher education in the Texarkana area community and the region as a whole,” said Dr. Christine Holt, UAHT Chancellor. “UAHT has seen significant growth at the Texarkana campus, which shows that the Texarkana community is committed to us. Therefore, we want to showcase our commitment to this region by expanding our footprint to improve and grow the programs and services we offer to our Texarkana area constituents.”

Leigh Quillin and Jennifer Wright

Mikki Curtis and Ethan Miller

Charlie Scoggins and Dr. Phil McLarty

Grayson Miller, Kimberly Miller, Kassidy Gennings, Larry Miller and Pat Miller

Charlotte Bradley and Steve Lance

Paul and Dolly Henley

Teresa Reed, Nancy Herron and Prissy Hickerson

Dennis Ramsey, Chris Thomason, Freddie Smith and Dr. Donald Bobbitt

Dr. Christine Holt and Freddie Smith

Kristi Bennett

CHIEF OF POLICE

Texarkana Arkansas Police Department

To Protect and Serve

The chief of police for the Texarkana Arkansas Police Department, Kristi Bennett feels blessed that she has had a long, lucrative career. She has served in law enforcement for 18 years and became the TAPD’s first female chief of police on March 29, 2021. She takes pride in overseeing this department and loves being a part of this incredible agency.

Why did you decide to be a police officer/chief of police?

I believe that being a police officer was my destined path. Even as a small child, I was obsessed with police officers and always wanted to be part of the blue family.

Name one thing about your profession that people might not know.

People don’t realize the many hats a police officer must wear daily. It is not just about taking people to jail; it is about doing whatever it takes to help people who are in need. Whether lending an ear or working to find the resources in the community, we do whatever is urgently needed at that moment. I think most people do not realize that most of us look at this as more than just a paying job; it is about helping others and wanting to see the lives of those we serve to be productive and successful.

Who has helped you become the person you are today, and how did they inspire you?

My husband, Joe, is my very best friend and has inspired me to always “stay the course.” He pushes me to be better in all aspects of my career and our lives. And he urges me to look at all opportunities around me and encourage others to be successful and to reach their highest potential. He has a heart of gold, and I am so very blessed to share my life with him.

Tell us one thing you can’t do without on Thanksgiving Day and explain why.

All I need is my family! Every year is different but as long as we are together that is all I need. We have a large family, and it continues to grow. Even though some are far away we cherish our holidays where we can spend time together.

What do you love most about the Four States area?

The love and support of this community for law enforcement. There are so many negative attitudes toward law enforcement around this country. It saddens me. I am so very thankful for this community’s unwavering support for all our law enforcement brothers and sisters.

What lessons have you learned from the pandemic?

Adaptability! Working hard to change gears and procedures in an instant has been quite the challenge. Moving forward to keep the safety of our officers and community first and foremost is ever evolving through this pandemic. And always have an extra roll of toilet paper?

How would you like for others to remember you?

I want to be remembered as someone who was always available, with a positive attitude, and willing to help out in any way! I want others to feel that they could count on me for whatever reason they needed at the moment, and I want to be known as the person who supported their endeavors.

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TOUGH KOOKIE KIDS KORNER T-SHIRT CONTEST

Ten-year-old Riley Witterstaetter, a student at Nash Elementary School, recently won the Touch Kookie Kids Korner T-Shirt Contest. Riley’s parents are Elodia and Randy Witterstaetter.

Liliana Luna, Katina Levingston, Riley Witterstaetter, Elodia Witterstaetter and Cynthia Gauntt

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PRE-OPENING “AGED TO PERFECTION” TOAST FOR PEROT THEATRE

The Texarkana Symphony Orchestra (new managers of the Perot Theatre) and the City of Texarkana, Texas, invited generous contributors and collaborators for a PreOpening “Aged to Perfection” Toast of the newly enhanced Perot Theatre on October 12. Attendees were treated to hors d’oeuvres along with tours of the theatre to see the new additions as well as the work in progress. Robin Thomas, TSO board member, provided beautiful piano music on stage as guests visited parts of the theatre usually only seen by performers and crew.

Sherri and Sam Clem

Robby Robertson and Andrew Clark

Judy Morgan, Angela Clark and Jeff Brown

Christopher Allen and Dr. Robin Rogers

C.D. Little, Randi Little and Philip Mann

Dr. Cordell Klein, Judge Sherry Jackson Hawkins, Jane Portis and Lisa Thompson

Deb Gilliam and Dolly Henley

Lairie Kincaid and Christopher Allen

Pat and Jane Davitt

Philip Mann and Taylor Coleman

Remica Gray and Mayor Bob Bruggeman

Rashinda Hampton and Richard Reynolds

Robin Thomas

Julie Parr

MULTI-MEDIA JOURNALIST

KTBS 3 News

Through Her Eyes

A multi-media journalist, Julie Parr covers the news in a 13-county area, including Texas and Arkansas. In the Texarkana region, she covers breaking news, crime, city government, health, and education on both sides of the state line. During the wake of the pandemic, journalists were especially busy trying to create interesting and informative content to keep their viewers abreast of the most current happenings. Julie is a multi-tasker who does it all and feels fortunate to have a career she loves.

Why did you decide to be a newscaster?

When I was a kid, I would pretend to be a news anchor standing in front of a map and using a candlestand to report the news. I guess that’s where it all started, but college is where I learned good journalism matters. Who knew nearly 20 years later, I would be living out my dream reporting the real news in a community I love and care for deeply.

Name one thing about your profession that people might not know. Sometimes people will ask if I have a photographer or who edits the video. In this day and time, most journalists do it all. A multi-media journalist is a storyteller who wears many hats. Some of the duties and responsibilities of an MMJ include researching and writing stories, shooting and editing video, and publishing online content.

Who has helped you become the person you are today, and how did they inspire you?

Family is the most important part of my life. It’s one of the main reasons I chose to live in the Texarkana area. My mom, a school teacher, taught me to value education and to be kind to others. My dad taught me to be a hard worker with focus and follow through. My brother and his family inspire me to enjoy life, travel, and embrace new adventures.

Tell us one thing you can’t do without on Thanksgiving Day and explain why. Thanksgiving is one of my all-time favorite holidays. There’s just something comforting about having everyone you love in one room, reminiscing on old memories while making new ones. Even if we all started the day off stressed about making a perfect meal and creating the best experience, it was the imperfections that brought us the most laughter and gratitude.

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What do you love most about the Four States area?

I love that my job allows

me to travel the Four States area on a regular basis. I enjoy learning about all the unique characteristics of the different states and communities. There’s so much natural beauty in this region. I think we’re fortunate to not only live in a beautiful area of the country, but we’re also blessed to have neighbors who look out for each other.

What lessons have you learned from the pandemic?

The COVID-19 pandemic started out on a national stage, but it quickly became an important issue on a local level. It’s been heartbreaking to lose friends and family members to this deadly virus. Life is a precious gift, and we must appreciate it. The pandemic also expanded the way in which TV stations gather the news. Reporters were forced to think outside the box, use even more technology and remote interviews to inform the public.

How would you like for others to remember you?

I would be happy if people remembered me like they remember my grandfather, James Pool. He was fiercely devoted to his family, loved helping others, and was a loyal friend. You could always count on him. He passed away when I was in high school. I still think about the valuable lessons he taught me every day.

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Carmen Gatlin

ACUTE CARE NURSE PRACTITIONER, PULMONOLOGY

Collom & Carney Clinic

Covid Care with Compassion

Carmen Gatlin has been practicing as a nurse practitioner in pulmonology for 15 years both in the clinic and hospital settings. Her compassion for helping others has been the driving force behind her decision to obtain her acute care nurse practitioner certification. While working on the front lines during this Covid pandemic, Carmen has remained steadfast in her dedication to her patients and genuinely does her best to help them return to everyday life.

Why did you decide to be a nurse practitioner?

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But at the end of the day, I look at all of these experiences with gratitude that I was able to make a difference even if I was unable to control the outcome. I think nurses get that, and that’s what drives us to keep providing the best care we can and to be cognizant that we don’t just provide physical care to the patient. It’s spiritual and emotional care that extends not only to the patient but to families and our coworkers as well. These experiences are what make us better nurses and providers.

Who has helped you become the person you are today, and how did they inspire you?

I think probably the most influential people in my life are my parents. I am adopted, as are my three siblings. I am forever grateful for their unconditional love and support and for the irrefutable fact that my life would not be anywhere near the same had they not extended a lifeline to me and each of my siblings through adoption. My mom is the rock of our family and despite losing my dad to cancer at the age of 62, she has remained strong, if not stronger. She inspires me on the daily with her strength, her unwavering faith, and devotion to her family.

Tell us one thing you can’t do without on Thanksgiving Day and explain why. A laid back Thanksgiving dinner with family and friends is definitely the tradition that I love the most. Of course, a little Dallas Cowboys football doesn’t hurt either. I was born and raised a Cowboys fan so a win on Thanksgiving Day is always a plus! Go ’Boys!

What do you love most about the Four States area?

I think the Four States Area is a great place to raise a family. The region still has a small hometown feel to it, but its central location makes an easy day trip to Dallas, Shreveport, or Little Rock if you’re in the mood for big city life. But if you want an easy weekend in the country or at the lake, there are plenty of beautiful places in the area. I prefer the latter.

What lessons have you learned from the pandemic?

One thing I have learned from the pandemic is to cherish your health and the health of your loved ones. It’s a reminder that we do not have a guarantee of tomorrow. At this point in the pandemic, we all know someone who has been greatly affected by Covid or have personally lost someone to the virus. Working on the front lines has proven to me that this virus really knows no bounds, affecting both healthy and unhealthy, both young and old, the weak and the strong.

How would you like for others to remember you?

I chose nursing because I am an empath and compassionate, and I knew that those traits would be complementary in the nursing profession. I had a desire to help others, and I was fascinated by the complexities of the human body. I was an RN for nine years before completing my Master of Science in Nursing and obtaining certification as an acute care nurse practitioner.

Name one thing about your profession that people might not know.

One thing about my profession and the nursing profession as a whole that most don’t realize is that our experiences stay with us, even years later. I can recall so many details about specific patients and situations, some good, some heart-wrenching.

I would like others to remember me in a positive light: as someone fun loving, with an easy smile and a genuine laugh, as a supportive and loving mom, as a good friend and listener, as someone that worked hard in life, but enjoyed playing hard too, and as a knowledgeable, competent, and compassionate healthcare provider.

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FOR THE SAKE OF ONE FUNDRAISING BANQUET

Local community members and businesses gathered together during For the Sake of One’s Annual Fundraising Banquet on October 7 at Ramage Farms in Hooks, Texas. The funding will help For the Sake of One continue their efforts in supporting the local foster care community. Visit www.forthesakeofone.com to learn more!

Tommy and Cyndy Rider with Carly Anderson

(front row) Jessica Spinks, Kelly Neal, Lauren Crow and Alyssa Beach; (back row) Kyle Akin, Kathy Hudson, Jaimie Alexander and Angela Coston

Brandon and Amy O’Brien

April, Allie and Mark Graves

Angela and Samuel Coston

Brian and Tori DePriest, Bobbie Nell and Chris Ross and Bill and Malia Morel

Johnny Murphy

SENIOR PASTOR

Flower Acres Baptist Church

Feeding the Soul

Senior Pastor Johnny Murphy has been preaching the gospel at Flower Acres Baptist Church for 20 years. A natural leader, Pastor Murphy oversees the operations of the church while leading, nurturing, and guiding his congregation. Flower Acres’ Food Pantry has been a blessing to many in the Four States area by providing food to those in our community who need it the most. Whether filling souls or filling stomachs, Flower Acres’ ministry is showing the love of God to all.

Why did you decide to be a pastor?

I had no intentions of becoming a Christian, much less a preacher, or heaven forbid, a pastor. I was not raised in church or around church, but through a chain of events, on March 3, 1998, I found myself in a church walking down an aisle to receive a forgiveness I did not know I even needed. The very next week, I heard the same voice that called me down that aisle to be saved tell me to surrender my life to preach a gospel that I had just met myself.

How did the food pantry that Flower Acres does come about?

The food pantry was started when we asked the question, “What does God want to do here at Flower Acres Church?” From that prayer meeting, ladies in the church started bringing canned food from their homes making up food bags and giving them to those in need. Fonda Newsom, Eve Johnson, and my wife, Freida, and others continued to do that for several years. We became a part of Harvest Regional Food Bank’s food distribution system and worked with them for several years. We then partnered with East Texas Food Bank out of Tyler, and now they are our sole provider, and we are one of their largest distributors. Last year, during the pandemic, we gave approximately five million pounds of food away and fed around 25,000 families.

Name one thing about your profession that people might not know.

God has called me to love people unconditionally. When He sent me here to Flower Acres, I asked God to give me a love for the people. To have a love for the people, one has to love them unconditionally. You have to help them when there seems to be no hope, to be willing to give, to get up and go in the wee hours of the morning, to pray, and to just listen. Pastors are just people, too.

Who has helped you become the person you are today, and how did they inspire you?

My pastor, Steve Rice, has helped me so much. Without him, I would have never become a preacher, must less a pastor. He helped me to become licensed and stood by me. His love for others, the gospel, and the Lord Jesus Christ gave me a desire to have what he had.

My wife, Frieda, also helped me. She was saved at 9 years old and has served the Lord and never wavered in her conviction. Her passion for the word of God and others outweigh anything I have or will ever have. Her service to this church is exhausting even to me, and I am the pastor. Her strength is what has turned the tide so many times. Her wisdom surpasses all others including all preachers that I know. She is the one and only Proverbs 31 woman I know.

Tell us one thing you can’t do without on Thanksgiving Day and explain why.

My wife’s dressing. We have a tradition of asking all who are present, including children, to tell one thing they are thankful for each year.

What do you love most about the Four States area?

The people. I have traveled all over America and even to Brazil but the folks here are real and downhome folks.

What lessons have you learned from the pandemic?

I learned two things: first, God is faithful. Second, fear is one of the greatest tools of the devil.

How would you like for others to remember you?

I would like to be remembered simply as a man of God.

photo by DR. ROBIN ROGERS

Jennifer Tanner

EXECUTIVE CHEF/EVENTS

Julie’s Deli & Market

Putting Food on the Table

For the past 19 years, Executive Chef Jennifer Tanner has been fortunate to have a career she loves and work at her dream job. Keeping the kitchen at Julie’s running smoothly and efficiently is her forte. The many patrons who frequent this local deli and market are thankful for Jennifer’s expertise in preparing quality food that is second-to-none.

Why did you decide to be a chef?

by ABBY ELLIOTT

Name one thing about your profession that people might not know. People in the service industry rock! They are the hardest working group of people I know – super adaptive, resilient, and we do really care if you enjoy your meal. It is important to us that people have a good guest experience and leave happy. I am so lucky to work with the best team around at Julie’s.

Who has helped you become the person you are today, and how did they inspire you?

I have had the great fortune to work with strong women – Suzanne Johnson, Teresa Brown and Julie Furlow - who always led by example. They inspired me to always keep family first, do my best, and encouraged me to trust my instincts.

Tell us one thing you can’t do without on Thanksgiving Day and explain why.

Thanksgiving, for me, is a day of rest and relaxation with family. I look forward to my mom’s desserts and yeast rolls – she doesn’t make them very often, but they are worth waiting for! And, my husband’s birthday usually falls on Thanksgiving weekend, and he is such a trooper to just pretend he loves that pumpkin pie with a candle shoved in it.

What do you love most about the Four States area?

Well, it’s home and most of my family is still here. Texarkana’s best asset has always been its people. The citizens of this community are so involved and really care about making it better for everyone.

What lessons have you learned from the pandemic?

I have learned not to get so tangled up in the details – plan but be extra flexible because it will inevitably change! I also know now how much I really appreciate eye-to-eye conversations after a million Zoom meetings.

How would you like for others to remember you?

Cooking, for me, was always a creative outlet. It was a great way to unwind. I was in accounting for several years and really no one wants a “creative” person messing with their books!

Oh, gosh! If my daughter and husband know that they are truly loved, that is good enough for me.

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RUNNIN’ WJ RANCH 20TH ANNIVERSARY CELEBRATION

Runnin’ WJ Ranch held its 20th Anniversary Celebration Fundraiser on October 19 at Twisted Fork. The evening celebrated 20 years of providing therapeutic riding services to the special needs community. Guests enjoyed entertainment, a silent auction, food, and a visit from the Express Clydesdales, and actor Brad Maule, best known for his role as Dr. Tony Jones on “General Hospital.”

Arniga White, Katelyn Robinson, Ayden Blair and Isabella Carper

Jodi Griffin and Gary Gathright

Aaron Murray, Amy Kirk and Sherri Waters Clem Mark Smith, Dr. Mark Wright and Amy Reynolds

Arnija White and Sani Wells Judy Smith, Lee Ann McCulloch and Jillian McCulloch

Brittany Rogers, Susan Whitten and Joan Cutter

Sam Clem with Julie and Brad Maule

Shelly and Steve Crane

Kasey Lewis and Trish Reed

Robert, Katrina, Sam and Katelyn McGinnis

Riley Fincher

HEAD BASEBALL COACH/ASSISTANT FOOTBALL COACH/PE TEACHER

Pleasant Grove High School

Leading the Team

Recently named the 2021 High School Coach of the Year by the American Baseball Coaches Association, Coach Riley Fincher has coached for Pleasant Grove ISD for the past nine years. Motivating, advising, and developing students to be the best they can be, both on and off the field, is the reason Coach Fincher deserves this honor, and FSLM wishes him the best in all of his future endeavors.

Why did you decide to be a coach?

For as long as I can remember, sports have always been a part of my life. If I wasn’t playing organized sports, my friends and I were always outside playing pickup games. Whether it was football, basketball, baseball, soccer, kick the can, whatever it was, we were always playing and always competing. As I got older, I began to realize that coaching was something I really wanted to pursue once I was finished playing. Outside of my parents (my dad, mom and step-dad), my coaches had some of the biggest impacts on my life. The influences that they had on me was something that showed me that coaching was a career that I was wanting to pursue and be passionate about. This school year is my 19th year in the profession.

Name one thing about your profession that people might not know.

One thing that people might not know about the coaching profession is that our young men make a bigger impact on my life and my family’s life than they will ever know.

Who has helped you become the person you are today, and how did they inspire you?

There are many people that have inspired me in my lifetime. First and foremost is our Lord and Savior. I have been and continue to be truly blessed on a daily basis by The Good Lord. I am far from perfect, but He is always there for all of us, and without Him, nothing is possible. My parents (Darrell Fincher, Mike and Debbie Chapman) have always been there with their support. From a young age, they showed me the importance of faith, hard work, determination, resiliency, compassion, and thankfulness. My siblings, although we have all grown up and have our own families, continue to be inspirations in their daily lives through their drives to be great parents and providers. My wife, Stephanie, and my kids, Landon and Lauren, are the backbone of the family. They sacrifice a lot, but are the biggest supporters of not only me, but the teams and student-athletes here at Pleasant Grove. Some of my closest friends to this day are teammates and coaches that I have played together, coached together, or coached against. Those people are inspirations because of the impacts they made and continue to make on myself. This profession truly is a blessing that will bring some of the best people into each other’s lives.

Tell us one thing you can’t do without on Thanksgiving Day and explain why.

Thanksgiving Day is a great family tradition of ours. We either take our kids to my parents’ house, or my wife’s parents’ house. Just having that little bit of down time to relax with loved ones is priceless. One thing that is a must on Thanksgiving is banana pudding made by my Aunt Mary Jane. My cousin, Trent and I, look forward to that every single year. There’s just something about the way she makes it.

What do you love most about the Four States area?

I grew up in Texarkana and moved away for college in the fall of 1998. After graduating college and moving for a couple of jobs, I never envisioned myself moving back home. But in the fall of 2012, the opportunity arose to come back home, and it was too good to pass up. When we made the decision to move back to Texarkana, I was excited because my kids and family would have the opportunity to grow up in the city where I was able to. Although Texarkana has grown and expanded throughout the years, it still has that small town feel with unbelievable people and amazing support for our community. The Four States area is so special because of the amazing people that we have here. It is a community that supports each other, and I am darn proud to say that I am from Texarkana, and this is our home.

What lessons have you learned from the pandemic?

During the pandemic, the main lesson that I have learned is that there are so many great and amazing people in our community. You see people helping people, leaders in our community working together to ensure that our town is safe and still thriving. I know there have been hardships, but our community continues to come together to pull for each other, support each other, and always be there for each other.

How would you like for others to remember you?

When The Good Lord calls me home, I just want my kids, my wife, my family to know that I was always there to support and provide and always loved them unconditionally. And I would like for people to know that I always tried to do the very best for each person that I was in contact with.

photo by DR. ROBIN ROGERS

Grab your Christmas shopping list and join TRAHC and the For Arts’ Sake Gift Shop for the 13th annual Holiday Arts Market on Friday, December 3, and Saturday, December 4. The holiday shopping event will be held at the Regional Arts Center, located at 312 West 4th Street in downtown Texarkana. “We will have 35-40 local artists and artisans who will be featuring their creations that are often a one–of-a-kind item,” said Jeanne Harrel, manager of For Arts’ Sake Gift Shop. “We will also have live music again this year in Cabe Hall to help put our shoppers in a festive holiday mood. From stocking stuffers to gifts that fit perfectly under the tree, you will find jewelry, paintings, pottery, art, handmade soaps, cheese, doll clothes, knitted scarves, leather goods, and so much more.”

Covid guidelines will be followed again this year during the event for a safe shopping experience. Masks, currently, are optional. Hand sanitizer will be available on all levels of the building along with open windows and air circulating in the rooms.

In addition to holiday shopping, two food trucks will be located behind the Arts Center in the city parking lot. Everyone is welcome to savor their treats and enjoy a snack or meal before or after shopping.

Hours of the event will be from 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. on Friday, December 3, and from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. on Saturday, December 4. Artists will be featured on all four floors, starting in the basement and working up to the third floor. There is no entry fee for shopping or looking. The building is wheelchair accessible with an entrance ramp located at the back of the Regional Arts Center building and an elevator inside the Arts Center to reach all floors.

For more information, call Jeanne Harrel at 903-832-3404 or contact the Arts Center at 903-792-8681.

The 13th annual Holiday Arts Market, set for December 3-4 offers custom creations and many one-of-a-kind items

2021 ARTISTS

1. Sarah and Mike Bobbitt – Soap 2. Nina Cork – Pottery 3. Mark Thomas – Leather Goods 4. Jon Welborn – Wood Bowls & Turned Pcs.

Glenda Griffin – Honey

Joseph Raymond – Artist

Christa Atchison – Baked Goods 8. Jenny Dodez – Jewelry 9. Earlene Crowell – Jewelry Wraps

Vicki Avery – Doll Clothes

Kathy Madison –Blown Glass & Jewelry 13. Kay Reynolds – Holiday Designs & Ornaments 14. Donald Barfield – Wood Turner

Roger Tipton – Wood Turner

Polly Cook – Art and Ceramics

Gabrielle and Gary Bachers –Scarves & Art 18. Lisa Clark – Copper & Enamel Jewelry 19. Chris Thomas – Pottery 20. Donna Corb – Eco-dyed Natural Fabrics

21. Tammy Pruitt – Leather and Jewelry 22. Debbie James – Doodle Stitch 23. Joyce Parry – Pottery

Leitha Herring & Dell Kirkman –Jewelry

25. Nan Waits – Jewelry 26. Christopher Bachers –Art 27. Andy Dodez – Hiking Sticks

28. Jes Weiner – Art

29. Monica and Dennis Sartin – Soap

30. Sue Beck, Donna Anderson and Andrea Mathews – Jewelry & Glitz

31. Denise Bolster – Pottery

32. Agnes Tirrito – Creative Art

33. Peggy Whisenhunt – Creative Jewelry

34. Robert Burke Burns – Art

35. Delbert Dowdy –Wood Turner 36. Jeffery Vanderbilt – Haute Goat Cheese

37. Gay Vaughan – Artistic Creations 38. Amy Thomas – Manebangle

TRAHC was formed in 1978 by community leaders with generous assistance from the Junior League of Texarkana. TRAHC’s mission is to “grow people and community through the arts”. TRAHC’s core values include: artistic excellence, education, collaboration, leadership, accessibility, and community involvement.

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FAN FARE GIFTS & BOUTIQUE HOSTS LADIES NIGHT

Fan Fare Gifts & Boutique hosted its Ladies Night on October 19. Giveaways, drawings, snacks, and savings were available for ladies to enjoy as they shopped.

Charli and Kara Holden

T.C. Hunt and Katie Shepherd

Diane Miller and Lisa White

Kaycie Fowler, Jess Sparks, Katie Shepherd, and Lesa Asbille

Cori Tapia and Armida Huffman

Denesha Ewing’s-Hill and T.C. Hunt

Karrie Morse and Lesa Asbille

Diane Goza and Katie Shepherd

Shawn Vaughn

PUBLIC INFORMATION OFFICER

Texarkana Texas Police Department

Communication is Key

Keeping the community informed and safe is the duty of every public information officer. A great communicator, Shawn Vaughn has worked in this capacity for the Texarkana Texas Police Department, since 2013. Whether gathering facts for the media or addressing the public, Shawn takes pride in his career and handles it all with a smile on his face.

Why did you decide to be the public information officer for the Texarkana Texas Police Department?

I came to work with the Texarkana Texas Police Department after I retired from the Arkansas side police department in 2013. I was a police officer over there for 26 years and was fortunate to have had a wide range of jobs assignments while there. However, I discovered that my most fulfilling position was when I served as the PIO, so I jumped at the chance to do it on the Texas side when

given the opportunity by former Police Chief Dan Shiner. I absolutely love my job and take great pride in keeping the community informed of what’s going on and what they can do to best protect themselves and their families. Between the two agencies, I’ve been doing this for about 15 years.

Name one thing about your profession that people might not know.

I’ve seen a lot of changes over the last 34 years in the way that our City communicates with our community. Social media has transformed what used to be largely a one-way street into a multi-lane highway with information flowing constantly in both directions. I think it’s a huge game changer for us as a city and believe that the possibilities are wide open for us to use this enhanced communication to work together to make Texarkana an even better place to live, work, and raise a family.

Who has helped you become the person you are today, and how did they inspire you?

Growing up, my grandfather was a huge influence in my life. He taught me the value of hard work and helped me realize that I can do anything if I am willing to invest the time and effort into making it happen.

Tell us one thing you can’t do without on Thanksgiving Day (a tradition, a food, a favorite game, etc.) and explain why?

I don’t have any specific traditions on Thanksgiving Day but do enjoy taking the time to think about those things in my life for which I am thankful – and there are many.

What do you love most about the Four States area?

I love the sense of community here. Texarkana is big enough that we have access to most of what we need or want here but still small enough that you know the people that live here. It’s almost impossible for me to go anywhere in Texarkana without running into someone that I know.

What lessons have you learned from the pandemic?

I certainly have a new sense of appreciation for many of the simple things that I took for granted before –going to the store without worrying about wearing a mask, being able to sit down in a restaurant for a meal, being able to travel, or even shaking someone’s hand.

How would you like for others to remember you?

I would like to be remembered as a person of integrity who made a difference within my small corner of the world.

photo by DR. ROBIN ROGERS

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“TOUCHDOWNS & TASTINGS” BENEFITS OPPORTUNITIES

On October 17, the Opportunities, Inc. Angel Guild hosted “Touchdowns & Tastings” at Pecan Point Gastropub & Brewery. An afternoon of football, craft beer, and delicious food was enjoyed by attendees. Proceeds from the event support the mission of Opportunities, Inc. which is to empower children and adults with developmental disabilities to live full lives in our community.

Caroline Curry, Taylor Harvey, Corie Woodman, Whitney Fuqua, Katie Andrus, Susan Owens and Chase Magness

Brent Langdon, Vickers Fuqua, Dr. Chad Patterson, Joe Crane, Dr. Brett Barker and Michael Hawkins

Susan Owen and Margaret Mobley

Haley Stokes, Kristie Reed and Cali Gudino

Ava Harvey and Whitney Fuqua with Addie and Lorie Son

Margaret and Dr. Brett Barker

Steven and Taylor Harvey with Dr. Andy and Caroline Curry

Sonja Hubbard, Sherry Young and Megan Schroeder

Casey Rampy, Margaret Mobley, Lyndsey Craig and Danielle Patterson

Dr. Ken and Michelle Crane

Dr. Cindy Porter

PEDIATRICIAN

Collom & Carney Clinic

Caring for Children

From an early age, Dr. Cindy Porter knew that she wanted to be a pediatrician. Whether taking care of children or volunteering in the community, Dr. Porter nourishes everyone she meets. Compassionate and caring, she is always giving back to others, and FSLM appreciates Dr. Porter for being a blessing to all who know her. for the past 25 years.

Why did you decide to become a pediatrician?

I decided to become a pediatrician when I was 4-5 years old. We used to get mail from St. Jude because my parents donated often. I told my grandmother that I was going to be a pediatrician and help kids with cancer at St. Jude. I never wavered. And, I did my residency in Memphis. One of our training hospitals is St. Jude.

Name one thing about your profession that people might not know. One thing people may not know is the time requirement to become a medical doctor. First is the undergraduate degree, followed by four years of medical school and residency which can range from three to several years. Pediatrics is a three-year residency.

Who has helped you become the person you are today, and how did they inspire you?

The person I am today is a reflection of my family and my faith in God. My family, especially my maternal grandmother (Bigmama), and my parents, were my cheerleaders. You sacrifice a lot of yourself, mainly your personal life, to complete medical training. You need your support group. My Bigmama would mail me the sweetest cards with $10-$20 in them with the most amazing scriptures and words of encouragement to me. My parents would just pop in for a few days (although I was five hours away). In doing so, they showed me how to give and love without expecting anything in return, how to sacrifice that $10-20 on a fixed income, or make that long trip.

When I was doubtful, I would repeat Phil 4:13: “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” My whole life has seemed to fall into place, and that has been the hand of God.

Tell us one thing you can’t do without on Thanksgiving Day and explain why.

I cannot do without my mother’s cornbread dressing on Thanksgiving. I have her recipe and make it every year. Thanksgiving wouldn’t be the same without it.

What do you love most about the Four States area?

I love the sense of community in the Four States area. People help people in need. There are so many good nonprofit organizations in this town that do so much good for this community. It’s really amazing.

What lessons have you learned from the pandemic?

When I had Covid and pneumonia, I learned that I don’t like 21 days of isolation. I think it bothered me as much as the pneumonia. I do not watch much television, so I found it hard occupying my time. I have learned people rely too much on social media. I have learned everyone has their own opinion, and that is great. It is what makes this a free country. I have seen the government attempt to control U.S. citizens through medicine.

How would you like for others to remember you?

I want to be remembered for being a giving, caring, truthful Christian and as someone who loved her neighbor.

photo by ABBY ELLIOTT

Terrie Arnold

EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR

Alzheimer’s Alliance Tri-State Area

The Alzheimer’s Advocate

Alzheimer’s Alliance Executive Director Terrie Arnold has given her heart and soul to this local nonprofit for the past seven years. Educating, caring, and connecting to those who are affected by Alzheimer’s and dementia is the goal of the Alzheimer’s Alliance. The Texarkana community is very fortunate that this nonprofit also offers Our Place Day Respite Center, a place for caregivers to bring their loved ones for the day so they can receive a much-needed day of rest.

Why did you decide to be the ED of Alzheimer’s Alliance Tri-State Area?

Prior to my current position, I worked as the ED for Susan G. Komen for the Cure for 10 years. I thoroughly enjoyed my time with SGK and witnessed many medical advances during that time in the treatment and survival rate for breast cancer. The organization was financially sound because of its strong leadership. When I was asked to consider the ED position with the Alzheimer’s Alliance, and I learned more about the organization. In my heart, I believed God was leading me to this organization. The AA needed ways to increase sustaining dollars to continue their mission and help families in our community. I believed I could

use my talents that I gained during my time with SGK to complete this task. I was able to accomplish that with the leadership of a strong board of directors and fundraising committee who helped our new fundraiser, the Twice as Fine Wine Festival, come to fruition.

Name one thing about your profession that people might not know. Working in the nonprofit world is very rewarding, but you must have a strong desire to help others and be able to deal with the day-to-day stress and heartbreak. In dealing with breast cancer, there are losses but also many victories. However, with Alzheimer’s and dementia, there are no victories, and there is no cure. Each day, we work diligently to help families dealing with this horrible disease and pray that a cure will be found.

Who has helped you become the person you are today, and how did they inspire you?

I know this sounds cliché, but it is my mother. She is the most caring and compassionate person I know. I hope that I can be that person and try to follow her example every day.

Tell us one thing you can’t do without on Thanksgiving Day and explain why.

FAMILY and Dallas Cowboys football. My family is my most precious gift; we spend every Thanksgiving together cheering for the Cowboys and counting our blessings. (Hopefully, the Cowboys win, too).

What do you love most about the Four States area?

I was born and raised in Texarkana, and I am proud to call it home. This community is so giving, I am able to witness this every day! We could not do what we do without the compassionate volunteers and those willing to support our organization financially.

What lessons have you learned from the pandemic?

Mental health issues have increased significantly during the pandemic. I have seen firsthand through the AA’s Our Place Day Respite program how the pandemic and the long-term isolation has caused a decline in the mental health of not only those we care for at our facility, but the population in general.

How would you like for others to remember you?

I would like to be remembered for being humble and kind. I hope when people remember me that it makes them SMILE.

photo by ABBY ELLIOTT

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KATINA R. LEVINGSTON TOUGH KOOKIE INAUGURAL BREAST CANCER RACE

The Katina R. Levingston Touch Kookie Inaugural Breast Cancer Race was held on October 16 at Texas A&M University-Texarkana. The Touch Kookie Foundation is committed to establishing extraordinary levels of effectiveness in support, encouragement, resources, education, and advocacy for breast and childhood cancer survivors.

Winners included: Friends & Family – first place, The Girls; second place, Team Lora; and third place, Fight Like Sha; School/College/University – first place, LE 4 the Cure; second place, Social Workers Students Association; and third place, Team TASD; Health Care/Medical – first place, Total Medical Supply; second place, Collom & Carney Pediatric; and third place, CHRISTUS St. Michael Health System; Non-Profit/Community – first place, Enon 1st Baptist Church in Atlanta Texas; second place, Xappa Xi Omega, and third place, Junior League of Texarkana.

Holly Danner and Cody LaRose

Katina Levingston and Nakina Levingston

Katina Levingston, Joe Levingston, Johnny Washington, Lula Washington, Bertha Germany, Joe Morgan, Lucy Morgan, Nakina Levingston, Ashanti Levingston, Kendra Jones and Journey Williams

Carlee Robinson, Sarah Robinson, Tiffannee Watson, Tracy Graf, Billie Pritchett, Karsyn Graf, Lynleigh Burns and Drew Burns

Kim Yingling and Kristen Sharp

Haleigh Alexander and Jackie Arellano

Claire Molten and Rita Cooksey Lilli Risinger and Victoria Ratliff

Michelle Hlavinka, Holly Winters, Ginger Oliver and JaKala Biersecker

Ann Moore and Anita Pickett

Exquisite INTERIORS

PEACEFUL. OPEN. IMMACULATE..

by SUZY TURNER photos by KIM MCMURRY

Driving up to this immaculate home, passersby immediately sense the festive feel of the autumnal season. Located in the Sugarhill Farms area, Janet and Craig Cox have brought the Thanksgiving spirit to life in their newly-built 3 bedroom, 3 bath home. The seasonal curb appeal of their place brings with it feelings of blessedness and bounty. Pumpkins, spheres, and mums on the front porch exude a warm ambiance to visitors, setting the tone for what is to come once inside.

The foyer of the home emits an elegant feel. Decorated with several accent pieces, a console table from Merchant House plays host to two tall lamps, a houseplant, and an abstract painting Janet created featuring beautiful neutral hues.

Thanksgiving décor is not limited to the front porch, but continues to be demonstrated inside the home. Janet’s knack for decorating is abundant throughout the home, but the two tables in the home showcase her God-given talents. The breakfast table and the dining table are beautiful and inviting. Those who attend Friendsgiving parties at this pristine showplace will not easily forget their time spent here. The women’s table, situated in the breakfast area, exudes sophistication and femininity. White decanters and gold candlesticks add dimension to the white flowers and natural greenery strewn down the middle of the table. Gold and white pumpkins are nestled atop the plate settings. The men’s table is found in the dining room and exhibits hardiness and masculinity. Nature is the distinctive theme of this fall table. Cream-colored pumpkins and gourds, interlaced with twigs and sprigs of eucalyptus, are the focal point of the unique tablescape. Layered copper plates hold decorative acorns and place cards for each guest. An Italian greyhound statue stands guard over this manly tablescape while a black iron chandelier from Logan Electric hangs above the table, creating the perfect finishing touches.

Clean lines and a neutral color palette are visible in the open living area. Cream leather sofas from Four States Furniture create a contemporary feel while wooden cognac leather chairs add a modern vibe to the space. The stone fireplace serves as the focal point of the room while elongated windows add plenty of natural light.

The functional kitchen is every woman’s dream. The massive quartzite island allows plenty of space for food prep or entertaining guests. The earthtone herringbone backsplash blends harmoniously with the countertops. Stainless appliances, pullout drawers, and tall cabinets that reach to the ceiling add usability and practicality to this modern space.

Perhaps the most intriguing room in the house is the hidden pantry, situated in front of the kitchen. Everything has its own place in this organized area. All small appliances are housed here, and there is ample storage space and room to move around. Janet recalls having a party and a guest kept wondering where everyone was disappearing to because several guests had gone into her pantry to look around. He was surprised to learn that there was actually an extra room located right off of the kitchen area.

A large window allows plenty of natural light to invade Craig’s home office while blinds from Blind Ambition can be adjusted when he prefers ambient lighting. With a mixture of gray colors and varying textures, this workspace has an eclectic style. A cowhide rug, wooden leaf statuettes, and rectangular metal chandelier add energy to this calming space.

The guest bath features an oversized vertical mirror, a glass bowl lavatory, and oil-rubbed bronze fixtures. The shower curtain goes to the ceiling, drawing the eye upward. Unique rectangular-shaped metal light sconces with chunky chains hanging below them add a bit of contrast to the stark white walls.

Classy and stylish, the master bedroom features bedding in shades of gray and gold. Black and white geometric prints are situated above the bed. Beside the bed sits nightstands that were originally sold as changing tables. They offer plenty of storage space and house tall lamps and vertical mirrors. A cozy sitting area serves as the perfect place to sit and reminisce about the day’s events. The master bath features dual sinks with a black vanity area situated between them. Beautiful oneof-a-kind gold sconces flank three vertical black mirrors. Janet’s spacious soaking tub is the perfect spot for relaxation while Craig’s walk-in tile shower is a definite eye-catcher.

A massive walk-in his and hers closet features custom shelving that helps keep clothes, shoes, and purses tidy. Drawers allow extra space for jewelry, scarves, and belts. A drop-down ironing board serves as a time-saver when the Coxes are getting dressed and ready to start each new day.

Although they have only been settled into their new home for about four months, Janet and Craig have continued to customize it to fit their wants and needs. While Janet has amazing decorating ideas, Craig has the manpower to make her visions a reality. Together, these two have created an exquisite home where memories are easily made with those that they love and cherish.

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TOUGH KOOKIE FOUNDATION HOSTS PINK OUT DAY AND PINK OUT SUNDAY

The Tough Kookie Foundation celebrated Pink Out Day on October 8 and Pink Out Sunday on October 10 in honor of breast cancer awareness. Several businesses, organizations, churches, and sponsors of the Katina R. Levingston Breast Cancer Race participated by wearing pink and getting their photos taken with the “Pink Jeep,” courtesy of owners Mike and Debbi Jones.

CHRISTUS Trinity Clinic

Rhonda, Joe Levingston Jr. and Mike Jones St. Paul CME Church

TEXAR Federal Credit Union

Eternal Beauty Medical Aesthetics & Day Spa

CHRISTUS St. Michael Health System

NOVEMBER 2021

NOVEMBER 4

Opportunities Foundation Board will host its annual Autumn Luncheon from 11 a.m. to 1 p.m. at 1 Oakhollow. For more information, call 903-791-2270.

NOVEMBER 6

A ragtime celebration featuring Scott Kirby playing the works of Scott Joplin will take place at noon at the Scott Joplin Mural at 301 Main. Food trucks will be onsite. Attendees should bring chairs! Reserved pavilions are available by contacting the Texarkana Museums System at 903-793-4831 or online at: www.texarkanamuseums.org/ events

NOVEMBER 6

The Texarkana Museums System will host its Talking Dead Living History Cemetery Tour at Rosehill Cemetery. Purchase tickets soon at: www. texarkanamuseums.org/events

NOVEMBER 13

The Texarkana Area Veterans Council (TAVC) will host its annual Veterans Day parade, beginning at 11 a.m. at East Broad and Hazel Streets. Theme of this year’s parade is: “Welcome Home, Afghanistan Veterans.” For more information or to confirm participation, please call 870-773-8279 or 870-773-1078 or email: USMCgreg@aol.com.

NOVEMBER 13

Texas A&M University - Texarkana’s Wellness Committee is sponsoring a Turkey Trot 5K on the campus at 7101 University Avenue, beginning at 8 a.m. Entry fees are $25 and all proceeds go to the TAMUT Student Pantry. Register at https://tinyurl. com/det574uw

NOVEMBER 13

The Texarkana Symphony Orchestra will present “Ancient Fire & Voices” during a 7:30 p.m. performance in the Historic Perot Theatre. Tickets are $47, $36, and $25 for adults, and

$15 and $10 for children. Call 903792-4992 to purchase tickets or visit: www.texarkanasymphony.org.

NOVEMBER 14

LoneStar Health & Wellness will celebrate its second anniversary with brunch from 2-6 p.m. Giveaways and specials will take place throughout the day. RSVP to: info@lonestarhealthwellness. com.

NOVEMBER 15

The United Way of Greater Texarkana’s seventh annual Uncork Your Support will be held from 6-9 p.m. at Crossties. Tickets are $30/person or $50/couple The Moss Brothers will provide musical entertainment, and there will be a silent auction and raffle items. Call 903-794-3105 for details about the event.

NOVEMBER 16

The Texarkana Regional Chorale will preset “Requiem” at 7 p.m. at Sacred Heart Catholic Church. The performance will feature soprano Candace Taylor, baritone Thomas Irwin, and the Chorale Orchestra. Admission is free with donations accepted. For more information, email: txkregionalchorale@gmail. com.

NOVEMBER 19

Season of Lights Drive-Thru Christmas Light Park and Entertainment Center will open. Cost is $25 per car, and activities include a concession stand, stocking stuffer store, Christmas tree maze, and a variety of family photo opportunities. Visit: www.seasonoflights.org for more information.

NOVEMBER 19-20

H&N Floral, Gifts & Garden will host its Christmas Open House from 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. at its location on Hwy. 71 North. For more information, call 903-794-1417.

SNOVEMBER 20

This year’s Arkansas Country Music Awards Female Vocalist, Mae Estes, will perform at Hempstead Hall. Tickets are on sale through Hempstead Hall’s website ( https:// www.hempsteadhall.com/ events/mae-estes); they range from $25 to $35. Doors will open at 6 p.m., and the show will start at 7 p.m.

NOVEMBER 20

Fan Fare Boutique & Gifts will host its Christmas Extravaganza from 10 a.m. to 6 p.m. Santa will be onsite for “Selfies with Santa” from 11 a.m. to 2 p.m. Refreshments will be served. Call 903-832-5196 for more info.

NOVEMBER 25

Community Healthcore Foundation will host its eighth annual Thanksgiving Day Turkey Trot at Spring Lake Park. Registration begins at 7 a.m., and the race will start at 8. For more information, call Jeanell Cannon at 903-831-7585 or 903-3195456 or email: jeanell.cannon@ communityhealthcore.com.

NOVEMBER 27

“Scott Joplin’s Jazzy Birthday Cocktails” will begin at 6:30 p.m. at the 1923 Banana Club, located in the basement of the 1894 Gallery & Lofts Complex. Guests will enjoy entertainment by the jazz trio, Three of a Kind, and Carol Miles will sing her newly released song, “Texarkana Cutie.” Pianist and singer, Haley Patillo, will also entertain guests. A painting by artist Henry Fort will be a silent auction item. For information, email: scottjoplinsg@rocketmail. com or call/text: 903-490-5471

NOVEMBER 30

The Morriss Engineering & Mathematics Elementary School will host Open House at 6:30 p.m. for the 2022-23 kindergarten classes. For more information, call 903-7943651, ext. 1030.

DECEMBER EVENTS

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The 23rd annual Bramlett Beans & Cornbread Community Fundraiser will be held from 11 a.m. to 1 p.m. at the Texarkana Convention Center. Tickets are $5 per person and include tea, coffee and dessert (or six non-perishable food items). All proceeds benefit the Christmas Basket program, a volunteer effort that provides holiday food for Texarkana, USA, citizens who are in need. Call 903-798-3978 for more information.

DECEMBER 2-4 AND 9-11

Jefferson, Texas, will host its 39th annual Candlelight Tour of Homes featuring four lavishly decorated historic homes. Hours are: 3-7 p.m. on Thursday, and 4-8 p.m. on Friday and Saturday. Purchase tickets online at www. jeffersoncandlelight.com.

DECEMBER 3-4

TRAHC’s Holiday Arts Market will be held from 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. on Friday and 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. on Saturday at the Regional Arts Center, located at Fourth Street and Texas Boulevard. The event will feature local and regional artists offering original works for sale. Call 903-792-8681 for more information.

DECEMBER 4

Forward Events will host a Pop Up Shop from 12-4 p.m. at 1801 North Robison Road, Suite 10. Call 800982-4454 for more information.

DECEMBER 6

Main Street Texarkana’s 37th annual Christmas Parade will begin at 7 p.m. in downtown Texarkana. Theme of the parade is “12 Days of Christmas” and will feature three live camels leading the parade. To download an application, visit: www.mainstreettexarkana.org.

A Pinch of Salt by

Donnie Spriggs

Well, well, well ... is that Thanksgiving I see coming around the corner? I feel like you either love or hate this holiday. You either hate having people over at your house and having to cook and clean or you just love when people are over and are having a good time. I personally love the holidays because most people are in a better mood and aren’t as rude, unless you’re out shopping, and there is one can left of cream of mushroom soup then it’s a fight to the death situation.

But since we are on the topic of cream of mushroom, that is what one of the recipes has in the mixture.

First up, we have everyone’s favorite, green bean casserole.

Ingredients:

2 cans French-style green beans, drained

1 can condensed cream of mushroom soup

1/4 cup milk

1 container crispy fried onions

10 ozs. Cheez Whiz (I promise its good!)

Directions:

Mix your milk, cream of mushroom, and Cheez Whiz in a pan until bubbly.

Heat oven to 350°F. In 1½-quart casserole or glass baking dish, mix green beans, soup mixture.

Bake 20-25 minutes, topping with onions during last 5 minutes of baking, until bubbly.

Finally, probably one of my most favorite side dishes, garlic potatoes.

Ingredients:

8 medium-sized potatoes (Yukon

Gold and red work well)

2 tablespoons olive oil

Salt and pepper

4 tablespoons butter

5 cloves garlic

½ tsp. oregano

½ cup shredded fresh Parmesan cheese

Instructions:

Preheat oven to 400 degrees.

Scrub the potatoes clean, and cut them into bite-size pieces.

Spread the potatoes out on a baking sheet. Drizzle them with 2 tablespoons olive oil and season with salt and pepper. Bake in the preheated oven for 30 minutes.

Prepare a garlic butter compound by combining the butter, garlic cloves, and oregano in a food processor until everything is pureed and a bit whipped.

After 30 minutes of roasting, remove the potatoes from the oven and top with the butter compound. Stir so that they all get coated. Put them back in the oven for another 15 minutes.

Check on them, and if they are done, top them with the Parmesan cheese and put them back in the oven for another 5 minutes to let the cheese melt a bit. Your actual cooking time will depend on your potato variety and how big you cut the pieces. Serve hot

I hope y’all enjoy these recipes. Don’t forget to follow me on Instagram at pinch_ of_salt20.

Donnie Spriggs is a longtime resident of Texarkana, Texas.

He has been in the restaurant industry since he was 16 and has been with Silver Star Smokehouse since 2014.

He is a student at Texas A&M-Texarkana where he is part of the BAAS program.

He loves people but likes food even more, mainly because food makes people happy!

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HANDSON TEXARKANA “PUTTIN’ ON THE RITZ”

TAPAS & WINE 2021

The 13th annual Tapas & Wine event, presented by HandsOn Texarkana, was held October 1 on the rounds of the Collins Home. Themed “Puttin’ on the Ritz,” many of the attendees dressed in 1920s attire. Dinner was provided by Chef on the Run Jeff Loving. Activities included a silent auction, live music, and a photo booth by Smile on the Line.

Gail and Dr. Ed Eichler, Nelda Timmons, Lousia Strutton and Amy Kirk

James and Stephanie Syler

Michelle Whitehead, Anita Mudford, Shanna Mudford and Caleb Mudford

Nelda Shavers and Neika Shavers

Sheri and Michael Avalos Smokey and Toni Crabtree

Vee and Ron Collins

Vanessa, Sydney and Dennis Schoen

Jason and Kristen Freeman with Summer and Marshall Freeman

Amanda and Heath Lawrence Amy Lemley, Tess Baker, Susan Whitten and Dr. Lila Walker

Dawn and Grant Parker

(back row) Jeannie Van Hoose, Holly Swecker, MIchael and Sheri Avalos and Ken Larson; (front row) Cassie and Jimmy Anderson with Connie Mitchell

Deidre Arnold, Lora Johnson and Susan Whitten

Shanna Mudford and Amy Lemley

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BY NICHOLE HOLZE

Hands-on learning is our favorite way to learn, and lucky for Texarkana, we have one of the most unique state parks in Arkansas just a short drive away. Historic Washington State Park makes history come alive with their 19th Century accurate reenactments, events, and historic buildings. There are reenactments and events each fall. This year, we dove a little deeper in the experience by staying nearby at a beautiful bed and breakfast.

Coulter Farms is a multi-faceted historic property located right at the edge of Historic Washington State Park, near Hope, Arkansas. It features four historic log cabins, a charming barn apartment, beautiful Greek Revival style pool and main house, and a unique general store. The log cabins and barn can be reserved individually, or the entire property can be reserved for weddings or other events.

For our immersive history experience, we had the delight of staying in the Neal cabin on Coulter Farms. The cabin is a 180-year-old log cabin that was meticulously restored, adding in all of the modern amenities you could want, but maintaining the period accurate vibe. Some of the furniture in the cabin are the original pieces that belonged to the Coulter family. My favorite were the piles of books in every corner. My children’s favorite was the “secret” room upstairs next to the main loft. It was full of whimsical toys and books, and two cozy twin beds.

We were warmly welcomed by the farm staff and invited to check out the historic general store, one of the oldest still in operation in Arkansas. After browsing the carefully curated shop, we went to say hello to the goats, and yes, you can pet them. A quick swim in the saltwater pool, and we were ready to relax for the night. I stayed up entirely too late finishing a book with a cup of tea, in the cozy master bedroom downstairs, and it was delightful.

While staying, you have the option to add on a hand-delivered farm breakfast. I ordered two for my children, and it was delivered the next morning by the owner of the farm, Brad Houser, who has truly created a little slice of peaceful paradise, not all that far from home.

I’m certain we will be back.

For a unique holiday experience, be sure to check out the Christmas by Candlelight event on December 10-11 at Historic Washington State Park.

Never afraid of a long drive, Nichole is a homeschooling mom to two and wife to Ryan. Coffee, always, and black please. You can probably find her scheming up their next road trip while hiking in the woods. Experience-based learning and good books abound in their homeschool, as they chase the spark of curiosity where it wanders on the road less traveled.

the FRIENDS list

Each month, Four States Living will choose two people who have “liked” our Facebook page to be featured in The Friend List. Chosen randomly, these two “friends” will answer questions we provide so our readers can get to know them better. The bonus question (the last question) will be related to the theme of each month’s issue.

TIFFANNEE WATSON

age: 47

Occupation: Business Development Director at Encompass

Health Rehab Hospital of Texarkana

If you won the lottery, what is the first thing you would do?

Scream and pay off my bills!

When you have 30 minutes of free time, how do you pass the time?

Scroll Facebook to see the latest with my friends and family or sort through emails because I hate to have unread emails.

If you were allowed to have one wish granted, what would it be?

I would wish to have our son back that ran to Jesus in February.

BRAXTON LANGDON

age: 31

Occupation: Texas Farm Bureau Insurance, Agent

Southern Farm Bureau Life Insurance

If you won the lottery, what is the first thing you would do?

I would pay off my family’s debt, take out another whole life policy on myself and my wife, buy my wife a new vehicle, and put the rest in an interest bearing account.

When you have 30 minutes of free time, how do you pass the time?

I enjoy watching YouTube videos, TikTok, or reading an article about golf or hunting.

If you were allowed to have one wish granted, what would it be? For my family and friends to stay healthy and happy.

At what business could you max out a credit card?

World Market ... I would buy all the things!

Choose a movie title for the story of your life.

“Stand by Me.” I’ve always had my people that I can count on for anything, and that’s been so evident in the past year.

What are you currently watching on Netflix? “Maid.”

If you could visit anywhere in the world, where would you go?

Bora Bora and stay in an overwater bungalow. It looks like the ultimate escape.

If you could only have three apps on your smartphone, which would you pick?

My bank app because who balances a checkbook, Apple music and Target. (The drive up pickup has changed my life!)

What’s your favorite sport to watch, and which team do you root for?

I used to love to watch baseball and rooted for any team my sons played on. Since they are all grown up, I would settle for the Texas Rangers.

At what business could you max out a credit card?

Mack’s Prairie Wings, Cabela’s, or PGA Superstore.

Choose a movie title for the story of your life. “The Pursuit of Happiness.”

What are you currently watching on Netflix?

We are currently watching all of the Harry Potter movies on HBO.

If you could visit anywhere in the world, where would you go? Montana.

If you could only have three apps on your smartphone, which would you pick? YouTube. TikTok. The Weather Channel.

What’s your favorite sport to watch, and which team do you root for?

My favorite sports to watch are football or golf. I root for my Arkansas Razorbacks and the Dallas Cowboys.

“ 30 DAYS OF GRATITUDE ”

WHAT IS THE GREATEST BLESSING YOU HAVE RECEIVED IN YOUR LIFE?

I have to start with salvation because where would I be without Jesus? Second to that, my family. I grew up with sisters that are my best friends. I have a loving husband of almost 30 years that tells me I’m beautiful every day. Together, we have raised three amazing young men that have given us three of our greatest blessings: grandbabies. When you lose someone you love, you realize the greatest blessings are never things, they come from the love of your people surrounding you.

I would say my greatest blessing is marrying my wife, Cylas. She’s always been my biggest supporter and my best friend!