Four States Living Magazine September 2024

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THE WAY I SEE IT ...

PUBLISHER’S LETTER Robin Rogers, Ed.D.

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s a kid, I thought “rich and famous” was the life I wanted to live—but, alas, I am neither, though I am very happy. At 54, I look at the “rich and famous” on t.v. and the internet, and I would never trade lives with the vast majority of them. Sure, it would be nice to live like Beyoncé for a week or so and have a chef, glam team, and driver. Maybe if I had professionals taking care of me in those ways, I’d never, say, head to the store with crazy hair and no makeup, sporting hot-pink flip-flops and a Grateful Dead t-shirt, only to run out of gas on the way there. But, throughout my adulthood, my goals have been less lucrative than sold-out world tours—but, to me, no less important or lofty.

In my 20s, I started raising kids, and I knew then that “rich and famous” was probably off the table, or at least on a very long hold.

I consider that decade to be my cartoon-watching, bottle-making, stretch-pant-wearing, fast-food-chefing, zombie-walking years.

One time, we got to talking about how long I had bought diapers consistently, and the total number of years was 10. Ten years is an awfully long time to ring the register on diapers.

When I was 28, I bought Four States Living Magazine, jumping into a whole business with no clue whatsoever of the challenges that lay ahead. Thank goodness for having learned to sell cars while I was in college. If you can sell, you will always be able to feed your family. That’s a pretty good piece of advice that no one teaches in formal education: find (or create) a product or service that you really believe in, and then learn how to show someone else the features and benefits of it until they know that they have to have it. It’s hard to sell something you don’t believe in, so choose your products carefully.

When you know in your bones that the sale is a win-win transaction, the hard work of selling becomes a lot more fun.

PUBLISHER Dr. Robin Rogers EDITOR Ellen Orr INSPIRE THE PESSIMIST EL E VAT E T H E O PT I M I S T STIR THE MIND

GRAPHIC DESIGN & PHOTOGRAPHY Shane Darby

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SALES REPRESENTATIVE Victoria Herman

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EDITORIAL ASSISTANT Phoebe Warren

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Four States didn’t make money for years, but I knew in my bones that our product was excellent. I worked hard in my 30s, taking a chance on myself and my team and trusting that our hard work really would pay off eventually. I think that your 30s are made for taking chances; the failures of your 30s won’t define your entire life. In the midst of taking what felt at the time like huge risks, I was determined to achieve a few simple but significant goals: to make sure that my kids were safe and that there was always a roof over our heads and food in the fridge, and that the people who worked for my company always received their paychecks on time (and that those paychecks did not bounce). Somehow, we pulled it off.

In my 40s, I finished a doctorate in education and started to travel more. Seeing the world and sharing experiences with my kids before they flew the coop was my driving motivation.

Now that I am well over 50, I am in less of a hurry than I was in decades past. Nobody is chasing me to get anything done. My children are grown, my business is stable, and my team is strong. I have slowed down.

Every year, the Fabulous 40 & Under issue gets me excited and inspired. Reading of the honorees’ achievements and successes always amazes me. (This year, there were hundreds of nominations, so if your nominee wasn’t chosen this year, please nominate them again in the future!) If you’re anything like me, reading this issue will give you hope; the people featured continually give back to the community and look for ways to make our area a better place to live, raise a family, start a business, pursue dreams.

I hope I have a few decades left to live and pursue more dreams.

I am not anticipating a new career coming on soon, but you never know. Laura Ingalls Wilder didn’t publish her first book until she was 64. Ray Kroc was 52 when he franchised McDonald’s. And Nolan Ryan pitched his seventh and last no-hitter at 44.

Once in a while, I question where my own years went, and then I remember all that is left to do. Age 40, while a significant milestone, is not the end of the best years of life. I’m reminded by my own role models and mentors, most older than me, that if I keep my passion alive, keep setting goals, and keep taking risks, life will always be an adventure, no matter my eligibility for AARP discounts.

This year’s honorees understand passion, goal-setting, risktaking, and adventure. Though young, they have already made a significant difference in the community and world—and I know that they are just getting started. I hope you enjoy their stories, and as always, thanks for reading FSLM!

CONTRIBUTING PHOTOGRAPHERS Victoria Herman Hannah Wren CONTRIBUTING WRITERS Ellen Orr Phoebe Warren

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ON THE COVER The annual Four States Living Magazine Fabulous 40 & Under issue has been a staple of the community for 18 years. Each September, 40 young people from Texarkana and the surrounding area are recognized for their outstanding achievements and community service, and this year is no exception. The 2024 honorees are innovative entrepreneurs, dedicated professionals, selfless public servants, and volunteers extraordinaire. Their stories of perseverance, hard work, and creativity serve to inspire readers of all ages.

See this year’s Fabulous 40 & Under starting on page 13.

ALSO IN THIS ISSUE The Way I See It—An op-ed piece from the publisher Exquisite Interiors Events Scene About Town

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Congratulations TO THIS YEAR’S HONOREES!

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Deirdre Smith and Anne Douglas

Patty Morel and Alana Morel

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AMBER ADAMS

34 | Director of Engagement | East Texas Food Bank

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mber Adams, originally from the Galveston area, believes in leaving her comfort zone.

“Moving away from my hometown was the best decision I’ve made—not easy but worth it,” she said. “It has taught me to learn quickly, network, and [develop] serious independence. I highly recommend it.”

In October 2018, Amber moved to Texarkana for a work promotion. Within 30 days, she packed up her life and relocated to a city where she knew nobody. Within four years, she would reach what she said is her greatest personal achievement: “being the FSLM cover girl in August 2022!”

Amber was featured for her nontraditional journey in higher education. She worked on her bachelor’s degree for 12 years before graduating from Texas A&M University–Texarkana in 2020 (and walking the next year due to the COVID-19 pandemic).

“It just seemed like it was never going to happen,” she said. “And then, lo and behold: I walked, changed careers, and the next thing I knew I was ‘the face’ of a TAMU–T campaign and then featured in the magazine. Looking back, it was worth the wait; God knew what he was doing. Besides, what gal doesn’t want to be a cover girl?”

Amber has previously worked in senior living and at the Texarkana Chamber of Commerce. She now acts as the director of engagement for the East Texas Food Bank.

WHAT IS SOMETHING MOST PEOPLE DON’T KNOW ABOUT YOU? I’m a twin!

“When I learned how severe the food insecurity was in Texarkana and that [the East Texas Food Bank] needed someone to help fight hunger, I thought, ‘If not me, then who?’” she said.

“I do what I do to remove barriers so families don’t have to choose between having access to food or other fundamental needs. I get to help neighbors have access to nutritious food and short-term help for long-term success.”

Amber belongs to the Texas A&M University–Texarkana Alumni Board, Women for TAMUT, and the United Way Community Impact Committee. This year, she competed in Temple Memorial’s “Dancing With Our Stars” event and has fundraised for the Texarkana Symphony Orchestra and Perot Theatre.

Though living miles away from her hometown, Amber values family highly. She lived with her grandparents, helping care for them, for over five years. During that time, she “learned to not rely on technology, garden, tend to horses and animals, and have real conversations, and created precious memories,” she said. She also cited her nephew as a person from whom she has learned life lessons. “I helped raise him, and seeing the world through his eyes has been nothing short of exciting and beautiful,” she said. “He’s my favorite little buddy.”

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JON ROBERT BECK 28 | Owner and Operator | JR’s Building Supplies

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on Robert Beck is in his sixth year of business ownership. He runs JR’s Building Supplies, which he described as “a failed and heavily distressed business and property” before his acquisition.

“Reviving it took countless hours every day for over a year of pure dedication and discipline [in order to reopen],” he said.

Even after its initial revitalization, Jon Robert faced additional physical hardships.

“The greatest obstacle that I have faced with my business was when my main warehouse, with all my inventory, flooded, [and I didn’t have] flood insurance,” he said. He had to contend with more than a foot of standing water and a large percentage of ruined inventory. However, with the help of family members, friends, and members of the community, he persisted, evacuating the water, cleaning the building, salvaging as much inventory as possible, and liquidating the rest. “It was a blessing to see how many people supported me and came together to help save such a devastating blow to my new business,” he said.

In addition to selling building supplies, Jon Robert is also a landlord and house flipper. “I have acquired over 50 rentals and have flipped several houses,” he said. Noting that he was raised around people pursuing similar careers, he said, “I have always had a desire to be a successful business owner to provide a good life for my family.”

Jon Robert said that he was formed by three primary organizations, the first being the BSA. He grew up scouting and is an Eagle Scout. Secondly, he served in the Arkansas Army National Guard for six years and was deployed to various countries throughout the African continent. “This was a very humbling experience and gave me a great appreciation for all the small blessings in life that many people in other countries never get to experience,” he said.

Finally, he said, joining the Texas A&M–Texarkana Ambassadors organization introduced him to people who motivated him to “strive for a higher success,” he shared.

In his limited free time, Jon Robert enjoys grilling on the back porch with his wife, Michala, and 2-month-old son, Jaxson. “I also enjoy slipping away to the golf course,” he said, “for benefit tournaments and rounds catching up with friends.”

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WHAT IS THE BEST ADVICE THAT YOU HAVE EVER BEEN GIVEN? “It is easier to go down a hill than up it, but the view is much better at the top.”

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JASMINE BRUCE

25 | Social Media and Community Outreach Director Total Medical Supply & We Are Washington

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leasant Grove alumna Jasmine Bruce did not envision herself returning to her hometown after going away for college.

“I always thought I’d move to a big city and only visit during the holidays,” she said. “But the Lord had greater plans for me, knowing exactly where I belonged.”

Jasmine attended the University of Arkansas, where she was a political science major and cheerleader. Making the cheer team at U of A, she said, is one of her “greatest personal achievements.”

“I worked incredibly hard to achieve this goal, dedicating countless hours to training and preparation,” she said. “The sense of accomplishment and pride I felt when I finally made the team made it all worthwhile. It was a moment that showed me the power of determination and hard work in reaching my dreams.”

After graduating, Jasmine worked and studied at Arkansas Tech, coaching cheer and working in communication for the university while earning a master’s degree in digital communication and media. In 2023, she returned to Texarkana, where she has “[dived] headfirst into the local community,” she said. She currently works as the social media and community outreach director for both Total Medical Supply and We Are Washington.

“Taking on the role of social media manager for local businesses and organizations, I have been able to help them grow their online presence and connect with the community in meaningful ways,” she said. “There is nothing more rewarding than seeing the impact of my work reflected in the success of the businesses and initiatives that make this town so special.”

Jasmine is a member of LNK TXK, the Junior League of Texarkana, and the Leadership Texarkana class of 2025. She sits on the Miss Texarkana Twin Rivers Board as well as the 2025 Twice as Fine Texarkana Wine Festival committee.

WHAT IS SOMETHING MOST PEOPLE DON’T KNOW ABOUT YOU? I was Miss Texarkana in 2018!

Passionate about uplifting local businesses, Jasmine cofounded The Texarkana Odyssey, a social media presence with the motto, “Let’s make TXK fun again.” They promote local restaurants, retailers, and events on Instagram and Facebook.

“Returning home has been a blessing,” Jasmine said. “I remember telling my fiancé [Austin Cree] that, if I moved back, I had to love what I do and do what I love. That’s exactly what I’m doing here, surrounded by an amazing group of friends and family. I am so grateful for this journey.”

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KADI BURNS

33 | Registered Nurse | CHRISTUS St. Michael Hospital Lactation Counselor | Feed and Flourish Lactation Counseling

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adi Burns realized her calling as a women’s health nurse when she was pregnant with her eldest child. “[Women’s health nurse practitioner] Cathy Green was my prenatal provider, and the care that she gave me inspired me to want to work in women’s health,” Kadi said. “I’d often tell her that I want to do what she does and work with her. A few years later, I had the opportunity to work in the clinic with her as a nurse and absolutely loved it. She encouraged me to continue my education and has been my cheerleader throughout the years.”

A lifelong resident of Texarkana, Arkansas, Kadi began her nursing career as a licensed practical nurse in 2012, after graduating from Texarkana College. Six years later, she earned a BSN from the University of Arkansas for Medical Sciences (UAMS). She has spent most of her career working in women’s health, in both the inpatient and outpatient settings. She is currently pursuing a doctorate in nursing practice from UAMS and is set to complete her degree in May 2026.

“Maybe one day, when I’ve finished my nurse practitioner degree, I’ll be back in the clinic alongside [Cathy],” she said.

In addition to her work as a nurse, Kadi is also the owner and sole operator of Feed and Flourish Lactation Counseling, providing breastfeeding education and guidance to families both in-person and virtually. An infant itself, Feed and Flourish is less than a year old. Though an L&D expert, Kadi was nervous about “birthing” her business.

WHAT IS THE BEST ADVICE THAT YOU HAVE EVER BEEN GIVEN? My mother, Carmen Hoffmeyer, always told me, “If you don’t ask, the answer is always no, and if you don’t try, you’ll never know what you’re capable of.” This has always followed me and led me in the right direction for any decision I’ve lacked courage in making.

“I was nervous about gaining clients and making sure that I had the skills and knowledge to help them,” she admitted.

“Imposter syndrome is one heck of a thing. However, validation came from the outpouring support of my friends and colleagues. And, within my first few clients, their reviews and session outcomes made me feel so proud to be able to offer the community the outpatient lactation support that they need.”

Kadi volunteers her time at “Mommy Coffee,” a free monthly meetup for expectant, new, and seasoned mothers, hosted by the Four States Doulas and Midwife Christina Winton.

“Providing breastfeeding care isn’t just a one-session-anddone type of service but [rather] ongoing care for families during their entire breastfeeding journey—whether that be two weeks or two years,” Kadi said. “I love all of my many roles for the opportunity they give me to connect to those in my community and share my passion for evidence-based healthcare practice and creativity.”

In her free time, Kadi enjoys painting as well as being outside with her husband, Andy, and daughters Lilly (13) and Willow (5).

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SAMANTHA BURZYNSKI 31 | Counselor | Texas A&M University–Texarkana

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arlier this year, Samantha Burzynski returned to her alma mater—as an employee. A graduate of Texas A&M–Texarkana’s clinical mental health master’s program, Samantha works in the university’s counseling center.

“After my first class [in the counseling program], I knew this was the right path for me,” Samantha said. “I could listen to people talk all day. Going through the counseling program equipped me with the tools to do it effectively. So many people just need someone to listen and to hold space for them as they find their way. I feel so honored to get to do that each day.”

Samantha is from Avery, Texas. She commuted to TAMU–T for her bachelor’s before moving to Texarkana in 2015. She earned her bachelor’s in 2016 and her master’s in 2022. The latter degree she completed while working full-time and raising infant twins.

“Max and Violet had just turned 1 year old when I graduated with my master’s degree,” she said. Samantha’s final year of study required two semesters of internship, consisting of at least 600 hours at a clinical site. “This, on top of the other coursework, was intense to say the least,” she shared. “That year was one of the most rewarding and challenging times of my life.”

Samantha said that the support of her husband, parents, and grandparents was critical to her success. Her husband and “favorite person on the planet,” Joe Burzynski, kept the household and family afloat. Her mother regularly drove more than two hours round-trip to watch the twins, and her father and grandparents frequently expressed their pride in her hard work; the value of this cheerleading should not be overlooked.

“I started college as an undergraduate with the intention of making my family proud,” Samantha admitted. “But I can wholeheartedly say that I ended that pursuit making myself proud. It is my sincerest hope that my kids will be able to look back and see that they are capable of doing that, too.”

Just as she hopes her own children are inspired by her, Samantha is inspired by her own parents.

WHAT IS SOMETHING MOST PEOPLE DON’T KNOW ABOUT YOU? I was an exchange student with the Rotary Club in high school. I went to Japan in 2010 for three weeks on a short-term exchange during the summer between my sophomore and junior years of high school. It was my first time leaving the country and my first time flying (13 hours).

“My dad has always motivated me to do my best, and my mom inspired me to be a helper,” she said. Her grandparents, whom she refers to as her “bonus parents,” have also influenced her—her “Granny” in particular.

“I spent a lot of time at her house watching shows like Jeopardy and Who Wants to be a Millionaire,” Samantha said. “Any time I would miss an answer, she would say, ‘You’re smart. Study hard, and you’ll know it next time.’ She would always tell me I was smart enough to do anything I wanted. I believe that is true because of her and my parents.”

Samantha also credits Dr. Peter Racheotes as an “irreplaceable and incredible influence on my life,” she said. “He was my graduate professor and advisor in the clinical mental health program at TAMU–T. It is no exaggeration to say I would not be where I am today without his influence and guidance.”

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DR. DAVID CALTRIDER 33 | ER and Urgent Care Doctor | HealthCARE Express

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avid Caltrider dreamed of being a doctor for most of his life. As a child, his father fell out of a tree, surviving a 20-foot drop but requiring long-term in-patient care; he spent months in the ICU. “I always felt this pushed me towards the medical field,” David said. “No one in my family really was in healthcare.”

Born in Dallas and raised in the small town of Argyle, Texas, David attended community college right out of high school, where he received important encouragement from his chemistry instructor.

“He always told me I would be great, even when I didn’t believe that myself,” David recalled. “I hope to live up to his perception of me.”

David went on to earn a bachelor’s from Texas Woman’s University and then pursued a medical degree at The University of Texas at Galveston. He graduated in 2018 before moving to Louisiana to complete his residency at LSU–Shreveport.

After residency, he and his wife, Emily, moved to Texarkana, along with David’s “best friend from medical school and residency, [who now] lives next door,” David shared. “I met him at the start of medical school, and he has helped shape the man I am today.”

David works at HealthCARE Express as a specialist in emergency medicine and urgent care. “I am a doctor because I love helping others and making a difference in someone’s darkest day of their life,” he said.

His proudest professional moment, David said, was becoming board-certified with the American Board of Emergency Medicine.

WHAT IS THE BEST ADVICE THAT YOU HAVE EVER BEEN GIVEN? A particular piece of advice that has stuck with me is more of a mantra. It goes, “I am responsible for everything in my world. I create the life I choose. I live my dreams.” —Dr. Tim Reynolds, mentor

“This was a lifelong achievement that started when I was young,” he shared. Outside of work, he is proud of his marriage, which is approaching its 10th anniversary. He is also proud to be a member of a leadership group called Gladiators; he earned his place through completing what he called “a grueling two-part physical and mental leadership course.”

For fun, David enjoys traveling with his wife, listening to audiobooks, and checking out new restaurants.

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KRISTEN COATS

40 | Director of Quality, Performance Improvement, and Referrals Genesis PrimeCare

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llinois native Kristen Coats moved to Texarkana in 2006 after graduating from nursing school. “I relocated to Texarkana to take my dream job at CHRISTUS St. Michael as an emergency room nurse,” she said. This decision proved tremendously consequential, shaping the rest of her life.

“Relocating to Texas was a formative event for me,” she said. “I moved away from family and friends. In a week’s time, I had packed up everything I had and moved, [taken] my boards for nursing, and started my new job. I had to learn to live completely independently and drive my own successes. I would not be where I am today if I had not taken that step way out of my comfort zone and seized the opportunity.”

Over the next 11 years, Kristen climbed to the role of nurse practitioner in the St. Michael’s emergency department. During her time there, her colleagues grew into a surrogate family. Kristen relied heavily on them when tragedy struck her world: a child she knew and loved died.

“She and her sister were my ‘original’ kids, before I gave birth to my two,” Kristen shared. “They taught me how to be a mother and a love that I had never known. I struggled to return to work because of flashbacks from the experience. My ER nursing family stepped up and helped me get through the process, supporting me in ways I would have never imagined. The experience strengthened my faith, which is ultimately what allowed me to make it through. I treasure the people

WHAT IS SOMETHING MOST PEOPLE DON’T KNOW ABOUT YOU? I am an adrenaline junkie! I went into nursing with a love for all things trauma and emergency. I perform well in high-pressure situations. I have been bungee jumping.

in both the family God gave me and the ‘family’ that I have built for myself. All relationships are not blood-based.”

After Kristen’s eldest child was born, she transitioned to a job at Genesis PrimeCare as a family practice nurse practitioner in order to have a more family-friendly schedule. For the past few years, she has led the company’s Quality and Referrals Department. “My job is to ensure that our patients are receiving quality and timely care,” she said. “I work with our providers to ensure that they have the tools and training to ensure their patients receive that quality care.”

This work, like all of her work in healthcare, has been deeply satisfying. “I have formed bonds and relationships with my primary-care patients over my years caring for them,” she shared.

“In my role as the quality director, I get to ensure these patients are receiving the quality care they deserve and that their needs are being adequately met.”

Kristen lives with her husband and children on their family’s hobby farm, which is home to miniature horses, a miniature cow, chickens, turkeys, emus, goats, dogs, cats, and a miniature potbellied pig.

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SAMANTHA BRYANT COLEMAN 36 | Principal | North Heights Community School

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amantha Bryant Coleman is the principal of North Heights Community School. North Heights, a preschool–5th grade institution within the Texarkana Arkansas School District, is the only “MicroSociety” school in the Texarkana area.

“Our MicroSociety, which we refer to as The Heights, provides our students with an opportunity to learn the skills they will need to become leaders in their communities,” Samantha explained. “Our students elect representatives and school leaders, such as a mayor and ward directors. They establish a constitution and develop business plans. They earn a wage for selling products, providing services, or working in a non-profit or government agency. We even provide occupational training for students in our local consignment shop.”

Samantha said that developing The Heights alongside her colleagues is one of her greatest achievements as an educator. “We have worked very hard to make this program a unique experience for our students, and we are proud of the skills that it teaches them, which will carry them to future success,” she said.

Samantha, who said she “struggled at times in school,” has earned four post-secondary degrees and multiple educational certifications, all for the benefit of helping children learn.

“I’ve taught elementary, so I have taught many students to read, which is probably the most important skill we teach in the classroom,” she said. “But, for me, helping a child become a good person is just as important. And the connections I see them making to good citizenship, to an ability to communicate and collaborate with their peers—those are the moments that make me want to keep getting up and going to work each day.”

After hours, Samantha volunteers as an active member of the Junior League of Texarkana. In the last eight years of her service, she has served on the board as the membership vice president and the community vice president. She is particularly passionate about the Packs for a Purpose project, which provides personal-care supplies and comfort items to children in the foster care system.

A lifelong resident of Texarkana, Samantha cited numerous local women as sources of inspiration and support.

“I have heard before that seeing a woman in a position of leadership is a little bit like seeing a squirrel in a bird feeder: everything was designed to keep her out of it, but she got there

WHAT IS SOMETHING MOST PEOPLE DON’T KNOW ABOUT YOU? I have made more than one major life decision by literally tossing a coin.

anyway,” Samantha shared. “I have worked directly for excellent women leaders, such as Gwen Adams and Robin Hickerson; and I have worked alongside excellent women leaders, like Leah Sams and Crystal Russell. Each one of these women has taught me something that I have taken into the next step of my own development, and I am grateful for all of the challenges I have been fortunate enough to face alongside them.”

Samantha also noted her parents, Damona and Wayne Bryant, as influential figures in her life.

“My parents raised me to be a girl from College Hill who never forgets to appreciate where she came from while never losing sight of where she’s going,” she said.

Samantha is married to Matt Coleman and has two stepdaughters, Adelia (22) and Sadie (18).

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RACHELLE COPE 34 | Consultant | Scout & Cellar

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ince moving to Texarkana five years ago, Rachelle Cope has plunged headfirst into the community, primarily with the Junior League of Texarkana.

“I am highly involved with JLT, where I have held various positions over the years,” she said, noting that she has served on the Mistletoe Market committee, held the position of provisional class co-chair, and sat on the board. This year, she is acting as the community relations co-chair.

“I love being able to serve and positively impact our community and the generations that are rising up,” she said. “Through Junior League, I’ve been able to learn about and help out with our local CPS and their needs. In 2023, our class was able to raise funds to fully stock their ‘rainbow room’ with essentials, as well as furnish their visitation rooms.”

Earlier this year, Rachelle volunteered at the Grace House gala, an experience she described as moving. “It opened my eyes even more to how there is still so much hurt in our world,” she said, “but there are so many people who are willing to go out of their way to support women and children in crisis situations.”

Rachelle works part-time as a Scout & Cellar consultant, hosting in-home wine tastings. Scout & Cellar is a direct-toconsumer winery based in Dallas. Consultants like Rachelle sell the product, which she described as “clean-crafted, organic wine.”

WHAT IS SOMETHING MOST PEOPLE DON’T KNOW ABOUT YOU? I met my husband on Match (even though he will tell you Craigslist!).

Rachelle is currently in between corporate jobs. “I love being in a season where I can always honor God, all while being a full-time mom and wife, too,” she said. “I know and have faith that God has such big plans for me and my professional career, and I get to enjoy this season of waiting—a.k.a. midlife retirement.”

Rachelle was born and raised in Orange County, California, and moved to Texas at 21, when she received a rowing scholarship at Southern Methodist University. She and her husband, Cody, moved to Texarkana in 2019.

“We moved here for a job opportunity for my husband, and over time that has evolved into so much more,” Rachelle said. “God truly opens and closes doors when they are needed and least expected.”

Rachelle and Cody have two children, ages 5 and 2, and are expecting a third, due in January.

“I know that my main mission in life is to raise up my littles to be godly men and women of the next generation who have courage to stand up for what is right and true,” Rachelle said.

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T.J. COX

33 | Owner | D-BAT Texarkana Baseball and Softball Academy Teacher | Texas Middle School

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grew up in a house that revolved around baseball,” said T.J. Cox, owner of D-BAT Texarkana Baseball and Softball Academy.

“My mom taught me to work hard and [give] everything that I have, and my dad inspired my love for the game.”

T.J. played baseball at the University of Arkansas at Monticello under Head Coach John Harvey. “[He] helped me to grow not only in the way I teach baseball but in how to love my family and the people around me,” T.J. said. “My years at U of Arkansas– Monticello were extremely formative. I also spent every Thursday night listening to our campus pastor, Rob Leonard, preach.” This led to his baptism in 2012, when T.J. says he “really began [his] walk with God.” Though a Tenneseean by birth, T.J. moved to Texarkana in 2015 to assume the position of head baseball coach at Genoa Central High School. He was voted District Coach of the Year for two of his three years there. He went on to work at Arkansas Middle School and then Texas Middle School, where he currently works as a seventh grade history teacher. He is in his 10th year of teaching.

“Being in a classroom has always been and probably always will be outside of my comfort zone,” he admitted, “but I try to be a positive role model for my students.”

T.J. is much more at-home teaching on the field. Last year, he founded D-BAT Texarkana Baseball and Softball Academy,

WHAT IS SOMETHING MOST PEOPLE DON’T KNOW ABOUT YOU? I ate 19 waffles in five hours doing the “24-Hour Waffle House Challenge” because I finished in last place in my fantasy football league last year.

running camps and clinics, hosting birthday parties, and teaching lessons.

“I do what I do because I love working with kids, and I love providing opportunities for them to grow not just in their skill level but in their love for the game,” he said. “Any time I hear about a kid’s success who comes to our facility to work with me or any of our great instructors, or just to work by themselves, it gives me great joy knowing that we have provided an opportunity for them to reach their highest potential.”

Working two (more than) full-time jobs is tough. “Last school year, running a new business on top of teaching at a middle school was especially challenging,” T.J. said. “Most days, I was working from 7:30 a.m. to 9 p.m. and then working on the weekends. The toughest part by far to me was missing so much time with my wife and kids. As rewarding as my work is, it was a real grind mentally, physically, and emotionally.”

T.J. said that he could not do it without his wife, Emily, whom he described as “a superstar wife and mother.” The couple is raising four children, ranging in age from 3 months to 12 years.

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KRISTY DAY

37 | COO | The Rancher’s Wife Boutique COO | Brooks Day Printing and Graphics

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WHAT BOOK ARE YOU CURRENTLY READING? I am currently reading Atomic Habits by James Clear.

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hough Kristy Day is a physical therapist assistant by training (and still works PRN), she spends most of her time working as the chief operating officer for both The Rancher’s Wife Boutique and Brooks Day Printing and Graphics, the latter of which she herself founded in 2022. Brooks Day, she said, was her late father’s dream.

“I recently lost my father this past year, and helping to open this company has been a true accolade to his memory and legacy as a businessman,” she said. Bill Brooks Jr. died in spring of 2023 of cancer.

“Throughout the whole journey of navigating his sickness and death, I learned what compassion and empathy for another person truly means,” Kristy reflected. “I thought I understood the effects and toll of this terrible disease from the outside looking in, but I didn’t grasp the true meaning until I had to watch and care for someone I loved while they suffered from cancer. I learned it does not cost anything to be nice, patient, kind, or even to give grace to someone else. You never know what someone else is going through and what your kindness and grace can mean to them.”

Brooks Day operates out of Ashdown, Arkansas, where Kristy lives. She said that, upon opening the business in 2022, she created 10 high-paying jobs for Ashdown workers. “Brooks Day also works to meet a great need for print manufacturing services for our local region at affordable prices during one of the toughest economies,” she said. “There is no better feeling than contributing to both the advancement of your community and to the personal growth of others.”

In her position at The Rancher’s Wife, Kristy spearheads Varsitee Spirit Trailers, which travel around to area schools selling school-spirit apparel. A portion of the proceeds benefit the individual districts; they have raised over $15,000 todate. Additionally, Kristy annually volunteers for the Ashdown Community Auction and fundraises for both the Ashdown High School Athletic Booster Club and the Ashdown City Park.

Despite having her hands full with two corporate jobs, a husband of 15 years, an 8-year-old daughter at home, and two adult “bonus kids,” Kristy has not been able to give up her career as a physical therapist assistant; on an as-needed basis, she works at CHRISTUS St. Michael Health System.

“My passion for helping others has kept me in this role, currently PRN, after making a major career move into the retail and print manufacturing industries in 2021,” she said. “It is amazing to see someone who is recovering from a stroke or a major car crash overcome every obstacle and, with hard work and determination, regain the ability to walk.”

Inspired by the determination of her patients, Kristy recently completed the Hotter’N Hell Hundred, a 100-mile bike race and half marathon trail race in Wichita Falls, Texas.

“This past year, I made it a goal to pursue my own personal dream of accomplishing this competition,” she shared. “This decision has required me to make the hardest sacrifice yet: putting myself first for once. I know many others can relate to this, and I am here to encourage you to be unashamed in taking time to nourish your own body and soul from time to time.”

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CAMERON FLORES 38 | President | Alpha Stone TXK

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had always dreamed of entrepreneurship,” said Cameron Flores, the founder, owner, and president of Alpha Stone TXK. In 2022, he realized that dream, launching his stone countertop business.

“I have a passion for the stone industry and everything that comes with it,” he said: “from importing stone from other countries to custom fabrication for homes locally built or remodeled.”

Founding Alpha Stone required a leap of faith and many personal sacrifices.

“Starting Alpha was definitely the biggest obstacle I’ve ever faced, starting with nothing but a small business loan from Bodcaw and a ton of sweat and prayer,” he said. “But meeting with my kids and having to explain that we wouldn’t be able to afford things with this pursuit of happiness, and then being able to overcome all of that and create a successful business has been nothing short of a miracle. I worked hard, very hard, days, nights, weekends. And I thanked God every step of the way, for the highs and lows.”

Cameron and his wife, Amanda, have a blended family.

“Becoming a father and being able to step up and adopt my son, Hunter, in 2023 has been special to me,” he said.

The couple’s three children range in age from 7 to 17. Cameron said that his family is his primary business motivator. “My family and needing to provide for their needs has been a big factor on the days I wanted to give up,” he explained.

WHAT IS SOMETHING MOST PEOPLE DON’T KNOW ABOUT YOU? We [hosted] a foreign exchange student from Thailand named Atchariya Amatacheewanon (we called her Ya) in 2022. She was able to see me start a business and witness firsthand the “American Dream” of entrepreneurship.

Setting an example for his children of both entrepreneurship and charity is important to Cameron. To that end, in 2023, Alpha Stone gave away a kitchen remodel to a family in need.

“We were able to bless someone with new countertops, a new sink, and all the plumbing reworked with the help of Moore Supply Co. and Pegleg Plumbing,” he said.

Community is important to Cameron; when asked about overcoming hardship, he credited his church as well as other industry professionals. “Radiant Church TXK and my relationship with my pastor, KJ, has always helped bring me up when I was down,” he said. “Paul Cerar with P&C Fab has been huge for me in my business; he believed in me before I believed in myself and really was the nudge I needed to make the jump.”

Cameron is a 2021 graduate of Leadership Texarkana. In his limited free time, he likes taking family trips to the beach, camping in their camper, and taking their boat out on the lake.

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ZAC HARRINGTON 27 | Loan Officer | Bodcaw Bank

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aseball brought Zac Harrington to Texarkana. His wife, Ashley, kept him here.

“I attended Southern Arkansas University for my undergraduate degree and was on the baseball team there,” he said. “After completing my undergraduate degree, I wanted to continue to play baseball, so I moved to Texas A&M University–Texarkana to play baseball and work on my MBA. While at TAMU–T, I met my wife, Ashley, who played on the basketball team. Soon after college, we decided to get married and start a family here in Texarkana.”

Zac and Ashley’s daughter, Avery, is now less than a year old.

“God has blessed me in so many ways, but Avery is the biggest blessing of all,” Zac said. “It has been a joy to watch her grow and develop. The greatest challenge I have faced is learning how to raise Avery as an infant. I had never even held a baby before Avery was born. Although I had a lot to learn, it has been one of the most rewarding experiences of my life.”

Zac gives back to the community through his involvement with LNK TXK, the Kiwanis Club of Texarkana, and the Beech Street First Baptist Church youth group. Further, his work as a loan officer at Bodcaw Bank also allows him to contribute to the place he now calls home.

“I enjoy being a community banker because it gives me the opportunity to support and grow the local economy,” he said. “I am proud of the fact that I was able to start as a teller and work my way up to a loan officer position in a year and a half. I am thankful to Bodcaw Bank’s leadership for investing in me and giving me opportunities to grow and advance my career.”

Zac has been shaped by “numerous Christian men who have influenced and encouraged me throughout my life,” he said, listing his father, various pastors, and small-group leaders. “These men have helped strengthen my relationship with Jesus and helped mold me into the man I am today.”

He also cited college baseball as formative in his life. “I made many friends that I am still close with today,” he said. “[Baseball] also taught me the importance of hard work, sacrifice, and teamwork. Many coaches and teammates helped shape me into who I am today.”

In his free time, Zac enjoys spending time with his family, playing golf, and watching the Arkansas Razorbacks.

WHAT IS SOMETHING MOST PEOPLE DON’T KNOW ABOUT YOU? I received two different master’s degrees during my time at Texas A&M University–Texarkana.

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VICTORIA HERMAN 27 | Account Manager | Four States Living Magazine

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hough born and raised here, Victoria Herman truly fell in love with Texarkana as an adult. “I always thought I would leave this town until I really began to immerse myself in the community,” she said. “I’m proud to be from here and hope to make a difference here.”

In her role as account manager at Four States Living Magazine, Victoria cultivates relationships with local businesses and nonprofits, helping both new and established organizations grow through print and web advertising.

“I didn’t have the plan to work for a magazine,” she said, “but I was looking for a change after over five years in the service industry, and God sent [FSLM owner] Robin Rogers my way. I’m thankful she took a chance on me.”

In her time at the magazine, Victoria has surpassed $1 million in sales, a testament to her personability and commitment to her customers—as well as her business acumen, which she began developing as a student at Texas A&M–Texarkana. Victoria earned a bachelor’s in business administration, becoming the first in her immediate family to obtain a post-secondary degree. She pursued this goal while working more than full-time hours at multiple jobs. “It was really challenging,” she said, “but I’m thankful for all that I learned.”

To this day, Victoria stays busy. A member of Church on the Rock, she completed multiple international mission trips before the birth of her eldest child. Upon returning home, she felt inspired to serve locally as a member of the Junior League of Texarkana. “Living for God drives me to serve,” she said. In 2023, she acted as the chair of the Mistletoe Market, which raised over $95,000 for local children. She is currently a co-chair of the league’s public relations team. Further, she serves on the committees for both the Alzheimer’s Alliance Twice as Fine Wine Fest and Williams School’s Walk for Williams event. She is a new member of LNK TXK and volunteers annually with For the Sake of One and the Salvation Army.

Victoria and her husband, Braden, have been together since high school and married for seven years. They have two children, Brooks (4) and Hayes (16 months). Victoria and Braden coached t-ball for Pleasant Grove Youth Athletics last season. Victoria also serves as a room mom at Williams School.

“We really pour everything into our children,” Victoria said. “‘Mom’ is the most important role I play. Most of the time, my fun is vicariously living through my children’s joy. We are constantly finding fun things to do for them.”

WHAT IS THE BEST ADVICE THAT YOU HAVE EVER BEEN GIVEN? My mom, Carey Griggs, always told me, “Never let someone else make you the person you are.” I apply this to so many different situations in my life. Most importantly, it always helps me remember who I am and what I stand for.

Family is of the utmost importance to Victoria, who lost her mother at age 16. “My mom and I had a really strong bond. She is the reason I am the person I am,” Victoria shared. “She taught me to always give more than I receive and work really hard for things I want. Her passing has really fueled my drive to be successful and most importantly to be the best mom.”

Victoria’s favorite creative outlet is photography; she has a side business called Victoria Drue Photography. “I took a break from it while focusing on my youngest baby but plan to start it up again soon,” she said.

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NICHOLE HOLZE

39 | Blogger and Content Creator | ArkLaTex Adventures

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f you didn’t know better, you might assume that Nichole Holze is a homegrown Texarkanan. However, the founder of the ArkLaTex Adventures website and associated Adventure Club has lived here for just a decade.

“I was born and raised in eastern Iowa and attended college in Charleston, South Carolina, while on a swimming scholarship before returning to Iowa,” she said. “I met my husband [Ryan] after college. We moved to Texarkana for a job opportunity for him with Domtar in 2014. It was a big adjustment, but we are delighted to call Texarkana home, even if I still say ‘you guys’ and ‘shopping cart.’”

Nichole and Ryan have two children, ages 10 and 13, whom Nichole homeschools. In 2017, she launched her business as a blogger and content creator, sharing information about family travel and homeschooling. She has been published in homeschooling books and interviewed on popular podcasts. One milestone career moment was walking into a Barnes & Noble and seeing her words and photos in three different books; another was guesting on the successful podcast 1000 Hours Outside, which boasts over 7 million downloads. Further, Nichole’s own online course, “Responsibly Brave,” and accompanying ebook have been enjoyed by over 1000 people worldwide. She has enjoyed multiple paid travel opportunities across the United States.

Despite success as a national travel creator, in 2023, Nichole decided to shift her focus to local and regional travel.

“My ultimate goal has always been to be a source of encouragement, joy, WHAT IS SOMETHING MOST PEOPLE DON’T KNOW ABOUT YOU? I used to work in a biotech lab and have a background in microbiology.

and inspiration for women and families to go take the adventures with their children, whether those shenanigans happen close to home or on the road,” Nichole said. “I’ve always been passionate about promoting the idea of ‘loving where you live,’ partially because of moving to a completely new area of the country from where I grew up. I do what I do because I believe in seeing the beauty in all places and want to help boost our region as a destination and great place to live.”

In January 2024, ArkLaTexAdventures.com was born. There, Nichole promotes the Four States area, sharing information for locals and visitors alike.

As a content creator, Nichole resists measuring her success by virality. Instead, she primarily finds validation from connecting with her readers and followers.

“I am most proud of the messages that I get from moms who have been inspired to adventure with their children thanks to what I’ve shared,” she said. “I’m also honored to have multiple blog posts on various subjects that rank on the very first page of Google search— which, if you’re familiar with SEO, [you know] that’s a pretty big deal.”

Since 2019, Nichole has been on the executive team of Run Wild My Child, an international online publication that focuses on outdoor education for children. She is a 2024 graduate of Leadership Texarkana and acted as the social media manager for the Solarbration. She is an active TRAHC member. Her family belongs to the local homeschool group TEACH (Texarkana Educators Association of Christian Homeschoolers), and they attend Church on the Rock. Nichole is also a dedicated swimmer, having completed multiple 5K swims and set multiple Arkansas Masters Swimming records.

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SARAH HURST

31 | Vice President and Branch Administrator | Farmers Bank & Trust

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arah Hurst has worked at Farmers Bank & Trust for the last nine years. She oversees over one third of the bank’s 34 locations.

“Managing a larger group of people is challenging, due to the variety of personalities and learning styles, but that’s what I love most about it,” she said of her job. “Every day is different. And to be able to see someone transform and blossom—that’s the most rewarding of it all.”

Sarah began her career at Farmers as a teller. “I honestly had no plan landing in management,” she admitted, “but I worked hard and didn’t give up on hard days and all the days in between.”

Putting her banking background to use in community service, Sarah previously acted as the treasurer of Texas Lone Star Ag Booster, a nonprofit her father served as president for over 15 years. Sarah’s dad, who died in June of 2020, was her “biggest cheerleader,” she said. Inspired by him, “I had no choice than to serve my part,” she shared.

Sarah is also a member of Sacred Heart Catholic Church, where she has “served on many committees and given numerous hours of volunteer time,” she said. “Giving back is a love language of mine. I have the biggest heart for others and enjoy giving my time to those in need.”

Sarah and her husband, Chase, have been married for four years. Their son, Graham, is 3.

WHAT IS THE BEST ADVICE THAT YOU HAVE EVER BEEN GIVEN? “If you’re blessed, be a blessing.”

—Alec Clark, founder and president of Plexus Worldwide

“One week after [my father’s] death, we found out we were expecting,” Sarah recalled. “Graham saved me in the darkest days. I had joy knowing I was bringing life into this world.”

One way the Hursts celebrate life is through an annual winter trip. “Since we had our son, every Christmas we take a family vacation. We decided when he was born that our Christmas tradition would be a trip for memories instead of gifts,” Sarah explained. “We love taking trips and creating memories.”

In the summers, the Hursts can be found at their cabin in Albert Pike as often as possible. “Graham loves being outside,” Sarah said. “He’s quite adventurous for 3 years old.”

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SAMANTHA KNOX 40 | Founder | Wellspring Pregnancy Ministry

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athway Resource Center, a local “Christ-centered pregnancy center,” was established in 2022. Samantha Knox, a current board member, has been involved since the beginning.

“Pathway is a multi-faceted ministry in Texarkana,” Samantha said. “Pathway’s mission is to share the love of Jesus Christ within our community by offering sexual-risk avoidance and life-affirming services in order to prevent or alleviate a lifestyle crisis. The founders of Pathway developed a youth curriculum to take a proactive approach to real-world issues that young people are facing. In the curriculum, I was able to share my life story of drug and alcohol use, having a fatherless childhood, and ultimately how Christ changed my life and my identity.”

Samantha was born and raised in Southern California, where, she said, she was “your stereotypical California girl: went to the beach every weekend and lived a party life. I grew up with a single mother and didn’t meet my biological father until I was 21 years old. I didn’t grow up going to church at all, and drug and alcohol use started at a young age.”

At 22, she felt her life “spinning out of control,” she said. A high school friend had moved to De Kalb, Texas, and they let Samantha move in with them temporarily. “I planned to stay a few months, get my life together, and go back to California,” Samantha said. “God had other plans for me, though.”

WHAT IS SOMETHING MOST PEOPLE DON’T KNOW ABOUT YOU? I danced on stage at the Deal or No Deal show to get the audience hyped up before the show started.

Within a year, Samantha had converted to Christianity, which she said is her greatest accomplishment. In 2009, she became a youth minister, a role she occupied for five years. It was during that time that she was introduced to “crisis pregnancy ministry.”

“I found my calling,” she said: “to minister and teach women about the love of Christ, the importance of scripture, and the lifechanging power of surrendering to Jesus.”

In addition to her work at Pathway, Samantha started the Wellspring Pregnancy Ministry at Church on the Rock.

“Wellspring connects women in our church that are facing a crisis pregnancy to Pathway for classes and counseling and also disciples them to strengthen their relationship with Christ and the church,” she said. “Since we started Wellspring, we have discipled six women, helped them stay connected to the church, and showered them with all the things necessary for their baby.

My friends jokingly say I am the one to call if someone needs baby stuff. It is quite normal to see donations of clothes, diapers, and all things baby piled on my front porch.”

Samantha teaches a women’s group at Church on the Rock, where she serves on the prayer team. She is also the parent sponsor of the new Christian club at Texas Middle School called “God Squad.”

Professionally, Samantha works as a commercial insurance account manager for Red River Insurance and Bockmon Insurance Agency. She and her husband, Joe, have a blended family of five; their children range in age from 3 to 13.

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WAYNE ALAN KNUDSEN II 36 | Owner and Operator | Synergy Martial Arts Academy

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ynergy Martial Arts Academy is a jiu-jitsu school with two locations: one in Bossier City, Louisiana, and one in Texarkana, Texas. Running SMAA is how owner Wayne Knudsen expresses gratitude for the gifts that the martial art has given him.

“Jiu-jitsu is a passion of mine that has changed my life for the better, and I’ve found a way to give back to the art and the community simultaneously,” he said: “by sharing this amazing art with others through my academies.”

Though Wayne is a title-winning competitor, he is most fulfilled by helping others at SMAA. “We help so many people change their lives through our programs,” he said. Beyond offering lessons, SMAA also hosts several annual fundraising events for organizations like the Shriners. “We do as much as we can to give back to the community,” he said.

As a young person, Wayne faced “the adversity of growing up with a rough life and dealing with all the naysayers,” he shared. “I dealt with people shooting down my dreams, dealing with the loss of close family members at a young age, and not having a support system to fall back on.”

Wayne is committed to providing the encouragement and stability he did not have as a kid to his young students, as well as to his daughter, 8-yearold Wyatt.

“No other accomplishment compares to being a father to the most amazing daughter in the world,” he said.

When not at work, Wayne enjoys spending time with Wyatt and his wife, Angela, preferably “on a river somewhere,” he said.

WHAT IS SOMETHING MOST PEOPLE DON’T KNOW ABOUT YOU? I play several instruments such as piano, guitar, French horn, and trumpet.

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MEGAN LEWIS 36 | CEO | Freeman Landscape

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s CEO of her family’s landscaping business, Megan Lewis does “a little bit of everything,” she said—“besides holding a shovel. I attempt to keep the moving parts working smoothly behind the scenes.”

Megan’s great-grandparents began working in the landscaping industry 99 years ago. “They laid the foundation for everything that we are able to do today,” Megan said. The team at Freeman Landscape includes her husband, father, two brothers, and sister-in-law. She said that she is proud of their ability to sustain a family business over three generations. “Not every family is cut out to work together,” she reflected. “I am proud that we have been able to work together as a family to have this business succeed.”

Megan and her husband, Timothy, were high school sweethearts and have been together for 21 years. “We have learned so much along the way and have had to grow together through it all,” she said. “I never imagined all that time ago that we would be in business together, but I wouldn’t have it any other way.”

Megan and Timothy have three daughters, all of whom have spent or are spending their earliest years at the office with Megan.

“I have been blessed to be able to bring all three of my daughters to work with me, starting as babies until they were old enough to start school,” she said.

“My youngest is 18 months and comes with me now. I’m thankful to have been able to have them with me each day and watch them grow along the way.”

Megan coaches her daughters’ peewee cheerleading squads and enjoys chauffeuring them to dance, softball, and volleyball practices. “They keep me busy,” she said, “but I love it.”

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WHAT IS SOMETHING MOST PEOPLE DON’T KNOW ABOUT YOU? I nearly cut my finger off while helping my husband remodel our house. I have the scar to prove it. I stay far away from all power tools these days!

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HAILEY LIVINGSTON 35 | Salon Owner and Hairstylist | Salt & Light Hair Co. Co-Founder and CEO | High Powered

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ailey Livingston wears many hats, metaphorically speaking. As a hairstylist and owner of Salt & Light Hair Co., she is known by her clients as a hair magician. “Having the opportunity to love on them and make them feel beautiful is such a blessing,” she said. “I have so much love for this industry.”

In addition to her work at the salon, Hailey works with her husband, Chase, on their nonprofit, High Powered, a Christian fitness organization. Hailey serves as the CEO. She is also on the worship team at Church on the Rock. Though she has always been religious, she said that she began a renewed faith journey four years ago.

“My husband and I say that the birth of my first son, Arrow, was the catalyst for our faith,” she said. “I’ve been in church pretty much all my life, but when our brand new baby was taken to the NICU, my desperation for the Lord’s peace was palpable.” Their child’s name is an allusion to Psalm 127:4: “Like arrows in the hand of a warrior are the children of one’s youth.”

Hailey has relied heavily on her faith over the last year, as she has suffered numerous losses. Last October, she experienced a miscarriage. Then, this March, her mother died after a prolonged battle with Alzheimer’s.

“Two major losses in less than a year felt like the biggest gut punch of my life,” she shared. “To be honest, watching my mother

WHAT BOOK ARE YOU CURRENTLY READING? I’m currently reading Funny Story by Emily Henry.

live with that horrible disease for six years was like a continuous gut punch. My mom was ready to be a ‘Nonny’ before I was ready to be a mom, and Alzheimer’s robbed her of so many good years with grandbabies.

“Though both of these losses shook me to my core, my faith in my Lord never wavered,” she continued. “I don’t know what I would have done without trusting and leaning on him and what his word says throughout my grief. My husband and our friends supported us and lifted us up with prayer through it all, and I never once felt alone in the process.”

Hailey is currently pregnant with a “rainbow baby” and is due to deliver in December. She is excited to grow her family, whom she calls her “treasure here on Earth.”

In her free time, Hailey loves to read and engage with other bibliophiles online through TikTok and Instagram, where she runs accounts dedicated to reading. “I have a lot of fun connecting with other readers all over the world and sharing our love for reading,” she said.

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LINDSEY LOONEY 38 | Assistant Head of School | St. James Day School

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indsey Looney is in her 15th year of employment at St. James Day School.

“I knew the second that I walked onto St. James’ campus in 2010 that it was a place I wanted to be,” she said. “The culture, the atmosphere, and the people make this a place where I want to spend my days and have my children learn and grow.”

Lindsey, who grew up in Oklahoma City and Shreveport, moved to Texarkana after graduating from Louisiana Tech University. She and her husband, Thomas, have called Texarkana home ever since. She was first hired as a teacher. Working with first- and second-grade students on literacy inspired her to become a certified academic language therapist, also known as a licensed dyslexia therapist. “This was such a rewarding occupation for me,” she said, “as I was able to watch the lightbulb switch in so many students when they reached a level of understanding.”

In 2020, Lindsey—who holds both a bachelor’s and a master’s degree in education—was hired as an administrator at the school, focusing on marketing and curriculum. “Some of the things that are in my wheelhouse include involving myself in the day-to-day operations of students and teachers, managing curriculum development, overseeing standardized testing, and coordinating instructional programs and activities,” she explained.

While academic excellence is important to her, Lindsey noted that her aims as an educator are much larger than content mastery.

“I do what I do because I absolutely love seeing children learn and grow into the leaders that they are capable of being,” she shared. “I love inspiring and watching children develop their minds. Not only do I get to help mold children academically, but I also have the opportunity to help grow them as people and individuals who will have a voice and transform our society.”

Lindsey has two of her own children: Emmett (7) and Evelyn (2).

“My kids have taught me patience and an unconditional love,” she said.

“They have encouraged me to be better, day in and day out, for them.

They are strong, courageous, and respectful, and I am so proud of them for that.”

Motherhood is a central tenet of Lindsey’s identity. She strives daily, she said, to live up to the influence of her own mom, who died last spring after years of cancer treatment.

“It was a very challenging experience to watch my mother, best friend, and pillar struggle with the medical challenges that she faced,” Lindsey said. “Her determination, her fight, her drive, and her grit were inspiring in so many ways. This experience taught me that life isn’t always what we envision it will be, but her outlook, courage, and tenacity are something to be focused upon. She’s the type of person that I strive to be every single day: an honest, caring, loving, positive, influential go-getter. She’s taught me to stand my ground in a respectful manner and always strive to better myself.”

WHAT IS THE BEST ADVICE THAT YOU HAVE EVER BEEN GIVEN? The best advice I’ve ever been given is to smile. It sets such a positive tone for conversations and allows you to be more approachable in your day-to-day endeavors. I often think about that and put my focus on positively impacting others in that way.

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CODY LORANCE 38 | Mortgage Loan Officer and Branch Manager Mortgage Financial Services

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WHAT IS SOMETHING MOST PEOPLE DON’T KNOW ABOUT YOU? I went to school to be a nurse. After graduation, I worked for Dr. Michael Saldino, and that is where Jessica and I met. We started dating after we discharged her and have now been married for 14 years.

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ody Lorance is a nationally ranked mortgage originator, placing in the Scotsman Guide’s top 1% in both volume and number of transactions.

“Being ranked nationally in the Scotsman Guide the past several years really meant a lot to me,” he said. “There are over 2 million licensed originators in the US, so being ranked in the top 1% was a huge accomplishment.”

Cody’s work is driven by his belief that home ownership is an important piece of long-term financial stability.

“I love helping people not only finance their homes but set them up for financial success for the rest of their lives,” he said. “Being able to change the lives of so many people over the course of my career has definitely made my job a very rewarding one.”

Cody and his wife, Jessica, have two children: Jaxon (10) and Jolie (9). Raising a family while producing professionally at such a large volume has proven to be the biggest challenge of Cody’s life so far.

“Trying to figure out the work/life balance has always been a struggle to me,” he said. “We have built an amazing team of people to help navigate and streamline the mortgage process, and that has helped a lot. My wife has always been very supportive in taking on a lot of the roles that I would normally be doing at home when we are really busy at work.”

Cody said that, more than anyone else, his children have shaped his life the most significantly.

“I have been influenced by a lot of great people in my life, but I think having kids really puts things into perspective,” he shared. “Trying to grow children into being productive, respectful, and courteous adults makes you think deeper about the decisions you make.”

Cody is on the board of To Reach Every Youth (T.R.E.Y.), a local nonprofit created in memory of Cody’s childhood best friend, Trey Von Sutton; T.R.E.Y. benefits people ages 16–30 diagnosed with sarcoma. He also sits on the Texas A&M University–Texarkana CBET Business Advisory Board and is a member of the Redwater Youth Sports Association.

Cody and Jessica spend their free time outdoors—relaxing at the lake, cheering on their children in youth sports, fishing, and hunting. The couple even owns and operates King Rack Whitetails Hunting Ranch. “We have always loved animals, and being around such magnificent creatures every day has been a huge blessing to us,” Cody said.

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KOBEY MABRY

30 | Commercial Lending Officer | Red River Credit Union

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RCU’s Kobey Mabry is passionate about credit unions.

“Credit unions are not-for-profit entities, owned by each member and governed by a volunteer board of directors,” he explained. “With the ever-changing atmosphere of legislative agendas, credit union advocates must remain vigilant to protect credit union members. As a credit union advocate, it is important to defend and promote legislation that can affect credit unions.”

Kobey previously served the Cornerstone Credit Union League as their board’s associate director and as an advisor and advocate for their young professionals program.

He joined Red River Credit Union 13 years ago, where he works today as a commercial lending officer. He is proud to be “part of the growth of local businesses and participating in RRCU’s strategic projects along the way,” he said.

Born and raised in Texarkana, Kobey is an active member of both the Elks Lodge #2771 and LNK TXK. He said he feels “so lucky to have such a tight-knit family and a close network of friends.” This was especially true when, at age 20, he unexpectedly lost his mother, Lisa Mabry, to cancer.

“Navigating adulthood while experiencing such a great loss was extremely difficult,” he said. “Remembering my mother’s contagious smile and her comforting arms is my greatest motivation and inspiration for every accomplishment, every setback, every milestone.”

Kobey, who holds a master’s degree in business administration from Southern Arkansas University, does not just talk the credit-union talk; he also walks the walk.

“I have spent time at the US Capitol on behalf of credit union members, to speak to our legislators regarding key issues impacting their constituents,” he said, “which truly solidifies the ‘people helping people’ philosophy of credit unions.”

WHAT IS THE BEST ADVICE THAT YOU HAVE EVER BEEN GIVEN? My late grandfather, Don Allen, always told me, “Don’t sweat the small stuff, bud.” I remember not really knowing what that meant growing up. As an adult, I truly relish that advice. It’s important to me to always remember to challenge myself and try not to let the small stuff trouble me along the way.

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JESSICA McCARTY 40 | Owner and Founder | Prodigy Life

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was born and raised in a beautiful Christian home but experienced some rebellion and trauma in my late teens and early 20s,” Jessica McCarty, founder of Prodigy Life, said. “Instead of turning to Christ, I turned to drugs and alcohol.” At 32, while living in San Antonio, she became a single mother, which pushed her to move back to her hometown. “I moved to Texarkana and surrendered my life to God. It was through this surrender that my entire world changed, and I devoted my life to serving God,” she shared. “I truly believe this is how Prodigy came to be.”

Prodigy Life is a “lifestyle center,” offering fitness and wellness services, as well as shopping. “I named the business Prodigy Life because prodigy means ‘bright child,’” Jessica explained. “For years I lived as a prodigal, a wayward child. When I gave my life to Jesus, I became his bright child, and I work every day to help others to live a ‘bright-child life.’”

Jessica said that the idea for her business was divinely revealed to her during Christian yoga teacher training.

“I had a vision from God that I would start a business teaching Christian Yoga,” she said. “I went home and told my husband what I experienced. He said, ‘Let’s do it.’”

Prodigy Life does not offer traditional yoga. “Although we use stretching and movement to heal the outward body, we use scripture, biblical mediation, breathwork, and resting in God’s presence to WHAT IS SOMETHING MOST PEOPLE DON’T KNOW ABOUT YOU? Well, we have not announced yet that I am pregnant, so I guess this is our baby announcement! Margot Ann McCarty is due January 2025.

draw close to God and to receive healing on a spiritual level,” Jessica said. She has completed multiple training and certification programs through YogaFaith, a Christian yoga training company.

“Since I began this journey, I have completed several trainings that make me an expert in the field of Christian Yoga,” she said.

“In 2020, I was YogaFaith’s Ambassador of the Year, and I am now a lead trainer for YogaFaith.” She is hosting a four-day training in Texarkana this month.

While Jessica loves to teach and “experience others’ healing from the inside out, being the owner is my least favorite part of the whole thing,” she said. “Becoming a business owner is the most challenging thing I have ever done. I did not know what I was stepping into, and honestly, it is easier to raise kids than it is to run a business. My survival tools are God giving me strength, my husband giving me wise counsel, and my clients giving me words of encouragement when I need it most.”

Jessica said that her goal is to franchise. “I have been told that I am pioneering something unheard of, a Christian yoga studio,” she said. “We will see what happens, but it will have to be a miracle from God!” Jessica, her husband, and her two children are members of Church on the Rock, where Jessica serves on the prayer team and as a deacon. She is also a member of the Junior League of Texarkana.

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WARREN McDANIEL 28 | Financial Advisor | Edward Jones

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fter one year away at college, Warren McDaniel, age 19, felt aimless.

“I had no true direction in my life,” he admitted. He moved home to finish his undergraduate degree at Texarkana College and Texas A&M–Texarkana. “I wasn’t sure what I wanted to do,” he said, “and I had no drive to try hard in college to get a degree.”

Then, at 21, everything changed.

“Kaitlyn told me she was pregnant,” he said, referring to his now-wife. “I was terrified. I was merely working part-time jobs and barely trying in school at the time. I then got a full-time job at the college, and I turned my entire life around. I credit all of this to my son, Witten. Before he came along, I was lost. He saved my life because I know without a doubt in my mind I would not be where I am today if it wasn’t for him. God knew I needed something to work for, and he gave it to me. Since then, my life has only gotten exceedingly better.”

Witten, now 6, is the big sibling of 4-year-old Emma Kate.

Kaitlyn is expecting a third child early next year. The growing family lives in De Kalb, Texas, in a house next door to Warren’s childhood home, where his parents still reside.

From 2017 to 2020, Warren worked as a recruiter for Texarkana College, before he transitioned to his current role as financial advisor for Edward Jones.

“I do what I do because I always wanted to find a career where I could make an impact in my community,” he said. “I grew up the son of a lifelong educator, so I originally thought education was the right career path for me. As I got older, I saw the opportunities that Edward Jones offered my dad. Not only would I be able to serve families and business owners by helping them achieve their financial goals, but Edward Jones offered me the flexibility to get involved in local organizations and serve on boards in our community.”

Currently, Warren sits on the boards for LNK TXK, the De Kalb Youth Sports Association, and the DeKalb Chamber of Commerce.

He is the vice president of development for the DeKalb Education Foundation.

Recreationally, Warren loves hunting, fishing, and watching and playing sports with his kids—especially football. “I am a fullblown football addict,” he said.

WHAT IS THE BEST ADVICE THAT YOU HAVE EVER BEEN GIVEN? The best advice I ever received was from my parents. They told me to be friends with everyone and never burn bridges. You never know—that person could be the boss of your dream job or the person to get you connected with an opportunity you have always dreamed of.

Take care of others, and they will take care of you.

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JESSICA McMORDIE 36 | Founder | Texarkana Montessori School

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essica McMordie and her family moved to Texarkana in 2022.

“We enjoy being near large cities, not having to live in them,” she said. “The Texarkana area has provided us with the space we wanted to raise our family.”

Along with her husband, Dr. Joseph McMordie, Jessica has three sons, who are 5, 3, and 1. They attend Texarkana Montessori School, the early-childhood educational institution that their mother founded in 2023.

“I am proud to have brought the Montessori philosophy to the Texarkana area,” Jessica said. “It has been a rewarding experience collaborating with a dedicated team to positively impact the lives of children and families in our community. The mission of Texarkana Montessori is ‘to serve our community by educating children within a prepared environment that is responsive to the child’s needs by guiding and encouraging development of the whole child— spiritual, social, intellectual, emotional, and physical.’”

Jessica holds a degree in elementary education as well as master’s in speech-language pathology and a certificate in lactation counseling.

“My greatest occupational moments have been when I have been able to help a child and family achieve their feeding goals,” she said. “I enjoy creating relationships with patients, their families, and their care teams to work together toward a common goal. And now I enjoy helping families feed their infants and children at Texarkana Montessori School by collaborating with families and guides to help students progress in their feeding journeys.”

When asked about the struggles of founding a preschool, Jessica accredits the education and nurturing she received at her former place of employment, the University of Nebraska Medical Center.

“Their dedication and mentorship have played a significant role in preparing me for the responsibilities and challenges that come with overseeing Texarkana Montessori,” she said. “Without their invaluable investment in my professional growth in the preceding years, I may not have been equipped with the necessary skills to effectively lead in my current role.”

She also cited Arianna Stover, Texarkana Montessori’s head of school, as an invaluable partner. “She demonstrates exceptional leadership in guiding our school, fostering the continuous growth

WHAT IS THE BEST ADVICE THAT YOU HAVE EVER BEEN GIVEN? My grad school professor Carolyn Perry said, “Be like water,” in reference to being flexible and learning to go with the flow.

of our staff and students, and upholding the principles of individualized education set by Maria Montessori,” Jessica said. “Arianna’s steadfast support has been indispensable in the establishment and sustenance of our school.”

Jessica spends her free time with her family of five, as well as her parents, who also relocated to Texarkana in 2022.

“Our family cherishes quality time spent together, engaging in various outdoor activities such as camping, hiking, fishing, biking, gardening, and playing games,” she said. “With three energetic young boys, we prioritize staying active and creating lasting memories as a family unit.”

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ETHAN MILLER 19 | Violin Instructor | Studio 57

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he reason that I teach violin,” said 19-year-old Ethan Miller, “is so that I can leave something behind greater than myself.” As a private instructor at Studio 57, he has taught over 40 students. Additionally, he has assisted with the Texarkana Arkansas School District orchestra, working with over 100 students in that capacity.

“I enjoy seeing young kids playing an instrument as difficult as the violin, and I especially love seeing their families’ reactions to hearing them play at recitals,” Ethan said. His proudest moment as a teacher came this past summer. One of his students, overcome with stage fright, left the stage without finishing her performance. “After the recital, I told her that this was good for her and that one day she would look back on this moment and be thankful. Of course, that is hard to say at the moment, but I knew who she was as a violinist and, more importantly, as a person,” Ethan said. The second recital was one week later, where the student would have another opportunity to perform her piece. She and Ethan met for an extra lesson before the second recital. “I talked to her and got a general sense of what exactly went wrong and how we could fix it,” he said.

“After working through some issues, the next recital day came— except there were over twice the amount of people [as had been in the audience at the first recital]; the total neared 100. As I announced her name, I saw her walk out, but this time it felt different,” he recalled.

“She began playing Bach’s Minuet in G as well as I have ever heard her

WHAT IS SOMETHING MOST PEOPLE DON’T KNOW ABOUT YOU? I do not think a lot of people know that I am very much into lifting and nutrition.

play it before. My proudest moments do not come from what I have done but what others have done with the knowledge and skill that I have equipped them with.”

Ethan said his proudest personal moment was receiving his acceptance into the physical therapy program at the University of Central Arkansas. This achievement was a culmination of “all of the work and dedication that I had put into my academic career my whole life,” he said.

In his free time, Ethan goes to the gym with his dad and reads the Bible.

“Reading the Bible, which is the spoken word of God, guides me constantly and leads me in the path of righteousness,” he said.

“Without the work of God in my life, I would not enjoy any true peace, happiness, joy, meaning, and most importantly, eternal life.

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BRYCE MONTGOMERY 28 | General Practice Attorney | Montgomery Law Firm

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ryce Montgomery is a native of Hope, Arkansas, where he currently practices with his family’s law firm. He is a product of Hope Public Schools and the Arkansas School for Mathematics, Science, and the Arts. He referenced his third-grade teacher, Mrs. Cynthia Murphy, as one of his greatest influences.

“She really encouraged me and put a lot of investment into reading and writing,” he said.

“I’m very thankful for the influence she had in my life.”

Bryce went on to attend the University of Arkansas for both his undergraduate and law degrees. He pursued a career in law because it is an “opportunity to get to help people,” he said.

A general practice attorney, Bryce most enjoys adoption law. “A lot of the lawyering we see on television is based around causing division and drama. In adoptions, however, we’re using the law to create families, and that is something I really enjoy being a part of,” he shared.

Creating his own family with his wife, Katie Daniels Montgomery, is what Bryce considers to be his greatest achievement. The couple is currently remodeling a 120-year-old house in Bodcaw, Arkansas. He said that this project consumes most of their free evenings and weekends, but the end is in sight. “We’re almost complete and so excited for everyone to see the final product,” he said.

The timing of the renovation is ideal, as the Montgomerys’ autumn weekends are prebooked. “Every year, we assist my wife’s family in their fall fest and Christmas lights hayride at Miracle Farms in Bodcaw, Arkansas, on Saturdays in October and December,” Bryce explained.

Bryce is a member of Garrett Memorial Baptist Church and the Hope Lions Club. He is currently campaigning for district judge in Hempstead and Nevada Counties. The general election is on November 5th. “If you live in one of those counties, I would appreciate your vote!” he said.

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WHAT IS SOMETHING MOST PEOPLE DON’T KNOW ABOUT YOU? I built a wooden tenor banjo from scratch and still have it to this day.

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DR. PRIYAL PATEL

36 | Family Practice Physician | CHRISTUS Trinity Clinic

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WHAT IS THE BEST ADVICE THAT YOU HAVE EVER BEEN GIVEN? “You don’t always have to react instantly. Sit with it, sleep over it.” —Ramneesh Baweja, my psychiatrist of a husband. I feel like I’ve been much more at peace just letting a lot of things in my life be.

riyal Patel was born and raised in Baroda, India, until 2006, when her family immigrated to the United States.

“My parents have always been very inspirational to me. They moved countries in their mid-40s, only so my brother and I could have a shot at the ‘American Dream,’” she said. “It really taught me to dream big, work hard, and aim for the sky.”

In 2015, as a student in medical school, she matched into a residency at the University of Arkansas for Medical Sciences (UAMS). “I convinced my then-boyfriend, now-husband, to move from New York City to Texarkana,” Priyal said, “and we started a family here.”

Priyal and her husband, Ramneesh Baweja, have twin daughters, who are 5 years old. A self-described “girl mom,” Priyal said that parenting is the hardest endeavor she has ever undertaken.

“I think this goes for both me and my husband: raising kids without a village while simultaneously working full-time [is the greatest struggle we face],” she said. “It hasn’t been easy, but it is so fulfilling. Of course, moving to a different country, the culture shock, and medical school all had their own sets of challenges, but I think by far the hardest challenge is being a good mom. I hope and wish every day that my girls will grow up thinking that their mom is pretty awesome.”

When Priyal herself was a young girl, she already knew her life path.

“I’ve always wanted to be a doctor, since I was a little girl,” she said. “I love learning about different medical pathologies and treatments. The human body and how genetics and environment affect it are so fascinating. I love putting all of that knowledge into practice daily. My favorite moments are when an older doctor or specialist gives me a compliment on my patient care, or when a patient comes back to me and tells me that I have made some sort of a positive impact on their life.”

Priyal admitted that, between her full-time medical career and parenting responsibilities, she finds herself with very little free time.

However, when possible, she and her family enjoy traveling: “We love trying different cuisines, waterparks, interactive museums, and learning about different cultures,” she said.

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SHEA PHILLIPS 37 | Arts Chair | Texas High School Owner | ColorHype TXK

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hea Phillips’ life has, in large part, been shaped by exceptional children.

As a Texas High School art teacher, she is uplifted daily by her students.

“Helping students build confidence in their artmaking is my most rewarding experience,” she said. “The greatest achievement in my role is when a student reaches out to express their enjoyment of my class or to share that I helped them discover their love for art.”

Just as Shea inspires her students, so too do they inspire her. One such inspiring student was Grace Comer. Shea, who taught Grace for six years, described Grace as “an exceptional artist and creative individual.” When, in 2018, Grace was killed in a car wreck, Shea had to not only contend with her own grief but also support her other students, who were grieving the loss of a close friend.

“Her passing sent shockwaves through our school community,” Shea said. “Grace was an active member of the Art Club and had planned to attend my alma mater to major in art. Grace’s legacy profoundly impacted me.”

To honor her memory, Shea and the rest of the art department established the annual District Art Show and Auction to raise funds for the Grace Comer Memorial Fund. Since the 2019 inaugural event, they have raised over $10,000 and awarded six scholarships.

Her students are not the only exceptional young people shaping Shea’s life. “Being a mom to [7-year-old] Atlas has been the most transformative experience of my life,” she said. “I love getting to watch him grow, but he has no idea he’s watching me grow, too.”

WHAT IS THE BEST ADVICE THAT YOU HAVE EVER BEEN GIVEN? My mom always used to say, “Where there is a will, there is a way,” and this has been my mantra throughout life. With a little creative problemsolving and drive, I can accomplish anything I put my mind to.

In 2019, Shea opened ColorHype TXK, offering “sip and paint” classes or parties. She launched the business as a way to pay for therapies for Atlas, who is autistic.

“This venture has since blossomed into a vibrant community of women who share a passion for art and fellowship,” she said. “Each week, I host sold-out paint classes at Redbone Magic, and seeing repeat clients, who have now become friends, fills me with immense gratitude.”

ColorHype TXK regularly partners with nonprofit organizations to raise funds. In the last year, Shea has used her position to support Fearfully and Wonderfully Made, the Tough Kookie Foundation, the Texarkana Animal Shelter, and HandsOn Texarkana. She is the sponsor of the THS Art Club, which fundraises for various charities and volunteers for local events. “In the past school year, our club dedicated over 60 hours to community service, sharing our passion for art through a variety of initiatives,” she said. Shea is also an active member of the Texas Art Education Association.

A first-generation college student, Shea holds a BFA in studio art, a BFA in art education, and a master’s degree in curriculum and instruction. Under her leadership as chair, the THS Fine Arts Department has achieved the Texas Art Association District of Distinction Award for the past three years.

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MORGAN PRITCHETT 31 | Account Executive and Individual Agent | Daines Insurance

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WHAT IS SOMETHING MOST PEOPLE DON’T KNOW ABOUT YOU? I have traveled to more countries than US states.

ost people don’t understand or like talking about insurance.

I am able to help navigate them through the ever-changing world of insurance and help each person make the right decision for themselves and their family,” said Morgan Pritchett, who has worked at Daines Insurance for eight years. “Not only does this help my clients, but I have friends or family who will call to ask questions, and I love being able to answer their questions and help them.”

At Daines Insurance, Morgan works with small businesses, creating and managing their employee benefits programs, as well as with individuals, helping them with their health- and life-insurance needs. This job does not keep her stuck in an office, for which Morgan is grateful.

“I’m able to get out in my community through this role and meet with other local businesses and their employees and build longlasting relationships,” she said. “Being involved in my community is one of my greatest personal achievements. I have always had a heart for helping others and being involved.”

Outside of her 9–to–5, Morgan is an active member and past board member of the Junior League of Texarkana. She also serves on the committees for Temple Memorial Pediatric Center’s “Dancing With Our Stars” and “Tee Up for Temple” fundraising events. Further, she is an ambassador for the Texarkana Chamber of Commerce and a member of the 2024–2025 Leadership Texarkana class.

Morgan is an alumna of Arkansas High School. A firstgeneration college graduate, she obtained a BBA from Texas A&M–Texarkana in 2016. She said that her parents are the most influential people in her life.

“They have shaped the person I am today,” she said. “They taught my sisters and me the value of dedication, hard work, and honesty. I would not be who I am today without the love, support, and guidance from them.”

In her free time, Morgan enjoys traveling, attending concerts, and calling the hogs at Razorback football games.

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MICHAEL RHODES 40 | Financial Advisor | Edward Jones

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he greatest challenge I have had is being the ‘only’ or the ‘first,’” said Michael Rhodes, who, in 2017, became the first African American financial advisor for Edward Jones in Texarkana and the entire state of Arkansas. “Many times, being the ‘only’ or ‘first’ puts you in rooms where you don’t always feel like you belong or fit. Sometimes, the people in the room may let you know you don’t belong, or, even worse—my own inner voice told me I didn’t belong.”

Michael pivoted to a career in financial services after over a decade of teaching K-12 math. “I am a teacher at heart,” he said. “I love to make complex concepts seem relatively simple. I changed the classroom to adults and the subject to financial advising.”

When Michael began his new career, he knew he “was traveling a tough road,” he shared. “But I realized that my purpose was much bigger than the challenge; my family and my children matter much more than temporary discomfort. I also realized that every challenge presents an opportunity. Being the only African American advisor helped me stand out and be more memorable. It also gave me a huge opportunity with an underserved demographic.

Nearly eight years later, I have a profitable and successful practice that serves hundreds of clients.”

Through Edward Jones’ Travel Award Program, Michael has been able to take his wife, Natoya, and their two children (ages 6 years and 6 months), as well as his parents, on vacations all over the world.

“Having two children has given me a new ‘why’ for making things happen,” he said. “MJ and Niyah are the reason I strive to be the best father and provider I can be. When I want to give in or cave to a challenge, I think of them, and it has made all the difference in my practice and in life in general.”

Michael serves Mt. Grove Baptist Church as their minister of music. He is a member of the Alpha Phi Alpha fraternity, which provides scholarships for local students. He is also on the board of Teachers Support Teachers.

WHAT IS THE BEST ADVICE THAT YOU HAVE EVER BEEN GIVEN? “Get your education, and you will have something that no one can ever take from you.”

—My late grandmother, L. Lee Richardson

“I am a person that loves to help others, and I will always remember where I started and how life was,” he said. “I did not come up in a wealthy family. I remember times when we didn’t have enough. Now that God has blessed me and my family with more than enough, I love to give my time, talents, and treasure to others to help along their journey.”

In his spare time, Michael performs jazz music with his friends as “Michael Rhodes and the Jive Band.” While he is proficient in 11 instruments, he primarily plays the piano and drums.

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JERRY RODRIGUEZ 25 | Co-Founder and Coach | GT United Soccer Club

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erardo “Jerry” Rodriguez was born and raised in Guayama, Puerto Rico, with his mother, stepfather, and two younger brothers.

After his freshman year of high school, his family moved to Corpus Christi, Texas, where Jerry played soccer not only at school but also with the Houston Dynamo Coastal Bend Academy.

“After a great three years playing club and high-school ball, I woke up one morning with an offer to come play and be a part of the Texas A&M University–Texarkana inaugural men’s soccer team,” he said. He accepted the offer.

Jerry played for TAMU–T for two years, but the COVID-19 pandemic interfered with his junior year. The following season, a torn ACL prevented him from competing his senior season. These disappointments, Jerry said, were actually for the best.

“Everything has a reason,” he said. “During that time, my daughter, Amelia Dru Rodriguez, was born, and I got my first coaching job with FC Dallas East Texas.”

It only took Jerry one year of professional coaching to realize that he had found his vocation. In 2023, with partners Tanner Kidwell and JuanCarlos Garibay-Jurado, he founded GT United Soccer Club.

“We made GT United with the intention of being able to provide competitive soccer and [share] everything we have learned during our careers just to help the community achieve more,” Jerry

WHAT IS THE BEST ADVICE THAT YOU HAVE EVER BEEN GIVEN? “Some opportunities only come once, so make the most out of every single one you get.”

My dad gave me that one, and even though we don’t talk as much, I still live by that every day.

said. “We love what we do, and we would not change it for anything in the world.”

While GT United is a dream come true, no amount of footwork could have prepared Jerry for the amount of juggling he has to do as a coach, athlete, and father. The key to his success, he said, is staying focused.

“I need to stay true to myself and focus on the goal,” he said. “I have my journal that keeps me grounded and helps me keep everything balanced for the most part.”

Jerry’s primary motivation is his 2-year-old daughter. “She is the reason for what I do,” he shared. “​​My greatest personal achievement is becoming a dad. My life has changed so much with Amelia around, and I wouldn’t have it any other way. She is my literal twin.”

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39 | Director of Pharmacy | Red River Pharmacy of Texarkana

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eople take for granted their everyday lives—the connections they’ve made, the friendships they cherish, even the things they’ve collected over the years,” Garreth Russell said. “I lived in Louisiana during Hurricane Katrina and lost most of my belongings, including my vehicle, to the flooding. This was circa 2005. Then, in early October of 2007, I lost everything to an apartment fire. When I moved to Texarkana, I had a trash bag of clothes, a burned-up guitar, and flip flops on my feet.”

Garreth moved to Texarkana for “the biggest connection and friendship of my life,” he said, referring to his now-wife, Chalissa, whom he had met on a cruise in August of 2007. Two months later, with virtually all of his possessions incinerated, he “decided to give Texarkana a try,” he said. “Chalissa and I have been inseparable ever since.”

In 2009, Garreth entered the pre-pharmacy program at Texarkana College. “I chuckle every time I see their slogan that they still use to this day: ‘A great place to start or start over,’” he said. “That is no lie.” Concurrently, he worked at Red River Pharmacy of Texarkana, initially doing things like cleaning the premises and stocking the vending machines. As he worked and learned, he was promoted: delivery driver, tech-in-training, certified tech, compound tech, pharmacist intern, and eventually pharmacist in 2016 (after completing the Doctor of Pharmacy program at UAMS). In 2021, he was named the director of pharmacy.

“I’m constantly reminded why I love my job,” Garreth said. “From time to time, we have patients who come in, and you can just tell that they have exhausted all their options. Maybe it’s pain that hinders their day-today activities. Maybe all available medications are just too expensive for them to be able to afford. After using us, they get their spark back, and it’s that moment that we strive for.”

Outside of work, Garreth loves participating in jiu-jitsu with his two sons. He is very passionate about the sport.

“Jiu-jitsu is by far the hardest thing I’ve ever done,” he said. “[At first] I could barely do the warmups and spent most of the sessions just trying not to suck as much as I did the time before. I changed my eating habits, my exercise habits, even the way I approach life because of this newfound passion.” The real magic, he said, is that “you learn to embrace the suck, to be okay with not being okay.”

Jiu-jitsu is far from Garreth’s only “extracurricular.” He enjoys scuba diving, mountain biking, hiking, overlanding, rock crawling, drawing, and woodworking. He’s currently trying to learn Japanese. He even pulls out his old guitar every now and then, though his life is so much bigger than it was when he salvaged it from that apartment fire 17 years ago. He accredits this big life to the people in the city he now calls home.

“I would still be in New Orleans trying to peddle my not-so-good guitar skills if it wasn’t for the relationships I’ve made and learned to cherish here in Texarkana,” he said.

WHAT IS SOMETHING MOST PEOPLE DON’T KNOW ABOUT YOU? I was in a Jimmy Buffett music video in my 20s.

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REED RUSSELL

22 | City Management Fellow | City of Texarkana, Texas

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y ancestors came to Texarkana on wagons in the 1800s,” Reed Russell said. “I am extremely proud to be from here. I came back to Texarkana because I have seen how rewarding service to this community has been for my family, and I truly believe I can make a positive difference.”

Reed graduated from Texas A&M University only a few months ago, where, in four years, he earned both a bachelor’s in political science and a master’s in public service and administration— an accomplishment he said would not be possible without the courses he took at Texas High School and Texarkana College as a teenager. In the summer of 2023, he acted as an intern at the City of Texarkana, Texas. He now works as a city management fellow in the finance department. He also handles the duties of a purchasing administrator. Primarily, he understands his role as one of facilitation and support for other public servants.

“I have done my very best to make everyone’s experience with the purchasing process as seamless as possible,” he said. “I am proud to be working for an organization full of people who work tirelessly to make sure Texarkana, Texas, runs efficiently and for the good of all citizens. The more I am able to support the city workers and not waste any of their time, the more time they have to positively impact the community.”

Reed decided to pursue a life of public service while in College Station. While enrolled at A&M, he participated in various service organizations, including the Aggie Muster Committee, which coordinates an annual ceremony honoring Aggies who have died in the last year. Reed served on the executive team. “Seeing how much serving others could mean to people and their families showed me that I wanted to go into a life of public service,” he explained.

After a year of service, Reed applied to chair the executive team and was not selected. The following year, he was not selected to rejoin the executive committee in any capacity. As someone devoted to the work, Reed was confused and hurt.

WHAT BOOK ARE YOU CURRENTLY READING? Lonesome Dove.

“This experience was challenging to process at the time as I knew that the work my team had done in the last year met and exceeded the goals we had set,” he said. “My parents kept telling me that everything happens for a reason and to have faith.”

Later that year, Reed was chosen to represent his entire Texas A&M class as their senior executive vice president. “This was an amazing experience,” he said, “and it would not have been possible if I had been selected for the Muster executive team.”

Reed, an Eagle Scout, currently sits on the board of the BSA Caddo Area Council. He is an active member of Williams Memorial United Methodist Church and the Wilbur Smith Rotary Club. After four years away, he is happy to be home.

“Growing up in Texarkana has been one of the most formative events of who I am,” he said. “Texarkana is full of great people who care about each other and their community.

Everyone I met at A&M might not remember my name, but they remember I am from Texarkana.”

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BRANDON SANDERS 37 | Director of Aviation | Texarkana College Brigade Chaplain | US Army

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was 16 when I first skipped school to find someone to teach me how to fly,” said Brandon Sanders, the director of aviation at Texarkana College.

“I ended up in Hope with a guy named Sid. We took a very rickety Cessna 152 and buzzed his girlfriend’s house. Ever since then, I have always found myself pursuing aviation. I love the freedom and engineering that goes hand-in-hand with aircraft.”

At 18, Brandon enlisted in the US Army.

“My deployments to Iraq and Afghanistan transformed me from a boy into a man, from a novice to an aircraft mechanic, and from a citizen into a soldier,” he said. “For all the nightmares, it has proven to be a cross I needed to bear to build a back strong enough to carry others.”

In 2011, he transitioned from active duty to the National Guard.

This season was filled with what he said were the darkest moments of his life. “Joining the National Guard and then getting help at the VA really helped get my feet underneath me,” he said. “From then on, I have always tried to give back and help other soldiers who may be having the same experiences.”

To that end, 10 years ago, Brandon became an Army chaplain, “to help junior soldiers through the trials of living a warrior’s life,” he shared.

He commutes to Washington State to serve as Brigade Chaplain of the 81st Stryker Brigade in the Washington National Guard.

In June 2023, Brandon was hired as TC’s director of aviation. “Our job is to supply the Texarkana area with aviation experts so that we can attract

WHAT IS THE BEST ADVICE THAT YOU HAVE EVER BEEN GIVEN? Bill Steeger told me when I was shadowing him in the 8th grade that a bookshelf is a man’s toolbox. From then on, I have done my best to build a vivacious and thorough reading practice. No other advice has been so consequential in my life, as I’m still an aggressive reader today 20 years later.

large maintenance, repair, and overhaul businesses to the airport,” he explained. “If we do our job correctly, then we can change Texarkana for the better.”

Education is one of Brandon’s highest values. He even earned his bachelor’s degree during his first enlistment. “I can vividly remember reading for my political philosophy class in a bunker in the middle of a mortar attack on Salerno, Afghanistan,” he said. This past May, he earned his MBA. Brandon is the husband of Cailtin Sanders.

“By God’s grace I married well out of my league, and I’m incredibly thankful for it,” he said. “My wife is, by far, the most influential person in my life. I have her saved in my phone as ‘My Hero’ for a reason.” In 2023, after 6 years of fertility struggles, they became a family of three.

“I try to spend most of my free time, if there is such a thing, with my daughter, Murphy. Sometimes I get lucky and can take her to the hangar with me as I change the oil on my airplane,” Brandon said.

Brandon is a member of the Knights of Columbus and the lead planner of the future Texarkana Airshow. He is also a contributing writer for Backcountry Hunters and Anglers Veterans Initiative, as well as his own Substack, Hone the Edge.

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HOLLY SWECKER 34 | Academic Counselor | Liberty Eylau High School

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olly Swecker is beginning her 14th year as an education professional. She is an academic counselor at Liberty-Eylau High School, where she also serves as the campus’ dual-credit liaison.

“I enjoy seeing students reach their full potential and attend college,” she said. “One of my biggest accomplishments is holding the dual-credit fundraiser in the fall to raise tuition money for students attending dual credit. We now have over 45% of the high school [enrolled in] dual-credit [courses], and more students [are participating in the program] every year.”

Though born in Little Rock, Arkansas, Holly has lived in Texarkana for most of her life and calls it home. Early in her career, she taught in Minden, Louisiana, and even spoke at the Louisiana Teacher Leaders of America Conference, which she cited as a career highlight, along with being awarded the Jim Yates Foundation’s “Capturing a Community by Digital Learning Grant” in 2016.

Holly holds multiple advanced degrees. In 2013, she was granted a master’s in educational administration from Texas A&M– Texarkana. In 2021, she earned an MBA from TAMU–T. She is currently enrolled in a doctoral program.

In addition to her career and higher educational pursuits, Holly is also involved with many local nonprofits.

“My biggest passion is helping in the community,” she said.

“Each day is an opportunity to have a positive influence on those around me.”

She is a 2024 graduate of Leadership Texarkana and currently serves on the LT Today’s Youth Tomorrow’s Leaders board, as well as on HandsOn Texarkana’s board. A member of the Junior League of Texarkana, she is on the 2024 Mistletoe Market committee. Holly is also a member of LNK TXK, the United Way’s impact committee, and Women for Texas A&M–Texarkana’s social committee.

Particularly important to her are her volunteer efforts with the Alzheimer’s Alliance Tri-State Area’s Twice as Fine Wine Festival.

WHAT IS SOMETHING MOST PEOPLE DON’T KNOW ABOUT YOU? I took dance class for 9 years and love to dance—ballet, tap, jazz, lyrical. I can play several musical instruments as well.

“My grandmother suffered from Alzheimer’s, and watching her struggle was a challenge,” Holly said. “Years later, I joined the Alzheimer’s Alliance to help spread awareness.”

Holly is a member of the Alpha Sigma Alpha Sorority and teaches bible study at First Baptist Church. In her free time, she and her fiancé, Justin, like boating on the lake and engaging in water sports. Holly also likes going to the gym, hiking, attending concerts, cooking, going to church, attending events for a special cause, and traveling.

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BIANCA JONES TELFORD 29 | Lead Family Advocate | Children’s Advocacy Center

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ianca Jones Telford, the lead family advocate at the Children’s Advocacy Center (CAC), understands that working successfully with children really means working successfully with families.

“My goal is to provide a nonjudgmental environment of knowledge and support, not only for the child but the whole family,” she said. “I have learned that when the victim is going through something, so is the family. So offering them all a safe, healing place is very important to me. What I tell families is, ‘If you aren’t healing properly, then your child isn’t either.’”

The children who utilize the CAC’s services have experienced abuse and trauma. Bianca’s job, she said, is “to give them a safe space to tell their story and guide them through the process of hope, healing, and justice.” She walks families through “the whole process,” she explained: “coming to our center, going through our services, and then going to court.” Her intention is to “meet families where they are and make sure the child’s voice is being heard on issues that are important to them, in a safe and kidfriendly environment,” she shared.

Creating a sense of safety and comfort for children and families who have experienced life-altering trauma is mission critical, and Bianca is a pro.

“Families tell me that I make them feel comfortable to talk about whatever they need,” she said. “For the majority of my families, I am seeing them on one of their worst days. Making them feel like they’re just like family of my own is very important to me, and I love when they can feel that and have some ease of being at our center.”

Bianca said her parents raised her to value work ethic and gratitude.

“Growing up with a lawyer in my house and a mother who had her own business, I learned early on about hard work, about work ethic, and that no one has to do a thing for you,” she shared. “You always be grateful and kind to others, and good things will come to

WHAT IS SOMETHING MOST PEOPLE DON’T KNOW ABOUT YOU? People don’t believe that I am extremely shy. I play it off very well, but I promise, my heart is usually beating 90-to-nothing when I’m out and about or even at work.

you. My parents have been big influences in my life and truly made me the person I am today. I thank them regularly for the things that they have instilled in me, that make me who I am.”

In addition to her work in child advocacy, Bianca is a member of the Junior League of Texarkana. She is married to Chance Telford, and the couple is currently expecting twins.

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KYLE TRUMBLE

31 | Vice President of Sales and Business Development | RBT Roofing

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yle Trumble has worked at his father’s business, which was then a residential contracting company, since he was 10 years old.

“I cleaned up all the jobsites and mowed grass for around $7 an hour,” he said. “I loved working with the guys. As time went on, my dad would put me to work for different subcontractors to learn the trade. Eventually, while I was in high school, I began overseeing resident home builds myself. In 2011, I took a week out of school to get certified in low slope roofing.”

When the business transitioned to commercial roof contracting, Kyle “started by installing the roofs and running the crews,” he said. “Eventually I moved into sales since I was full of ambition and big dreams.”

Now the VP of sales and business development, Kyle sometimes misses the good old days. “I love working in the office,” he said, “but often have a great desire for a hard day’s work on the roof.”

The most thrilling day of his career was a few years ago, when their team bid on a contract in Washington, D.C. “Unexpectedly, we won the contract, and it was a great success for us,” he said.

“This was a turning point for us, as we knew that we had developed a team that could execute anything anywhere.” Today, Kyle said, RBT operates in almost all 50 states.

Unsurprisingly, family is of the utmost importance to Kyle.

He is the husband of Katie Trumble, and they have three children, ages 10, 3, and 1. He said that, growing up, “having two solid parents who loved each other” helped shape him into the person he is today. The greatest loss he has experienced is that of his brother, who died in 2022.

“For a good bit, I believe I lost myself as well,” Kyle said.

“However, I have recently begun to live again through great friends who have led me to healing through Jesus Christ. I can say this is the only thing that has pulled me through.”

Kyle has recently gotten involved with Haven Homes Ministry and is on the board. “This is a great ministry, and I truly believe they have good intentions with their work.”

WHAT IS THE BEST ADVICE THAT YOU HAVE EVER BEEN GIVEN? My dad told me I could do anything I set my mind to.

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EDEN WHITE 28 | Senior Designer | PH Design Firm

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hen Eden White and her husband, Kyle, moved to Texarkana in 2020, they had a harder-than-usual time with all that moving entails: finding a home, creating new routines, and—most of all— integrating into a community.

“It was especially challenging because it was in the thick of the pandemic, so no one was leaving the house, let alone being social,” she recalled. “However, we’ve since found a welcoming community of fun friends and business connections that have made Texarkana feel more like home.”

This was not Eden’s first big move. Growing up, she lived in Austin, Dallas, and Southern California. She lived in Lubbock while at Texas Tech and then Birmingham, Alabama, for two years after graduating. Texarkana was next, a move made so that Kyle could join his family’s business, Pete Mankins Nissan. Eden quickly found a job here, too—at PH Design Firm.

“When I started at PH, I had a degree in public relations and had been working in events for the last two years,” she said. “[PH co-owner and lead designer] Lauren [Callaway] took a chance on me and taught me all she knows about design. Today, I independently oversee projects from conception to completion. I am extremely proud of where I’ve gotten in the last four years with PH, and I can’t wait to see what the future holds.”

WHAT IS SOMETHING MOST PEOPLE DON’T KNOW ABOUT YOU? Growing up, I dreamed of being a Dallas Cowboy cheerleader. I think it’s a dream of every little girl that grows up dancing in Texas!

While Eden does not have a formal background in interior design, she has always been creative. Using her creativity in this context is exceptionally fulfilling, she said.

“I love my job because it lets me use my creativity in ways that make our clients’ visions come to life,” she explained.

“Seeing the excitement on a client’s face when their dream space becomes a reality is my favorite part of what we do.”

Outside of work, Eden is very active in the nonprofit world. She has been a volunteer advocate with CASA for three years, which she said has been incredibly meaningful.

“Getting to be [a child’s] voice in court during difficult and sometimes highly emotional situations is something I don’t take lightly,” she said. “I am honored to do it.”

In addition, she is also a member of the Junior League of Texarkana, serving on the public relations committee, and a committee member for the Alzheimer’s Alliance Twice as Fine Wine Festival.

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estled in a rural area between Texarkana and Genoa sits Jessica and John Bolton’s beautiful home. They broke ground in January 2023 and, working with CK Southern Construction Company, have customized every square inch into the perfect space for their family. On August 1st, 2024, the Boltons finally moved into their three-bedroom, two-bathroom dream home and couldn’t be happier.

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The inspiration for their home’s design came from a wedding the couple attended in Louisiana, where they were struck by the breathtaking venue. Determined to recreate that stunning space, they set out to design their own sanctuary. The main living area and kitchen certainly evoke awe, with massive windows and wooden beams framing the cathedral ceiling of the living room. The elegant kitchen features matte black pendant lights over a white marble counter, as well as a posh bar area with built-in shelving and pantry space. Tucked away behind the kitchen is a cleverly designed space which serves as a mudroom from the garage entrance and a small office nook.

While the home’s sharp lines and sleek surfaces convey a modern aesthetic, there is an unmistakable nod to nature throughout the design, with lots of natural-finished wood and brick throughout the home. Jessica made these design choices intentionally. “I wanted to see nature,” she explained. “I wanted it to feel like we were living in nature.” The grand windows offer views of a rolling landscape, large pond, and towering forest line in the back.

In the living space, two particularly striking artworks command attention. By the front door hangs a piece by Jessica’s cousin, Meg Breaud, depicting a young girl with multiple superimposed images. Across the room, a large oil painting that once adorned Jessica’s childhood home now graces the space.

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Beyond the living room and kitchen lies the primary bedroom suite. A two-piece commissioned artwork by local artist Joseph Raymond hangs on the wall facing the entrance.

The sliding metal door leading into the master bath was made by Jessica’s father himself. The bathroom features a stunning wetroom with gray marble walls and a sleek, modern bathtub, all illuminated by a chic black lighting fixture.

Upstairs is the domain of John and Jessica’s 3-year-old twins, Boies and Sonny. A Jack and Jill bathroom connects their lovingly designed bedrooms. Boies’ room, fit for a young cowboy, boasts rustic wooden cribs, faux cacti, cowboy hats, and a large window overlooking his “terrain.” In contrast, Sonny’s room has pink checkered walls, a crystal chandelier, and an array of beloved stuffed animals, including a plush dog that Jessica loved in her own childhood. Outside of the two bedrooms is a play space.

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The home’s exterior is striking and stylish in black and white. The first outdoor seating area features a brick wood-burning fireplace and outdoor kitchen. The second outdoor lounge looks out onto a large backyard and chicken coop filled with chickens named after the Friends characters. Jessica and John have created their dream countryside home—a secret sanctuary.

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EVENTS | CALENDAR

SEPTEMBER 2024 SEPTEMBER 7

Adult Prom “Sneaker Ball” Style HandsOn Texarkana invites the community to travel back to the ‘80s and ‘90s for a party benefiting their programs and services. Wear your best formal prom attire of the past—but with comfortable shoes! The event will be located at 1915 Olive St. and begin at 7 p.m. For tickets and more information, go to the HandsOn Texarkana Facebook page, or visit handsontexarkana.org.

Operation Christmas Child Project Leaders’ Workshop The Texarkana Area Operation Christmas Child invites its partners to attend a workshop to share resources and ideas. Guest Speaker Billy Sparkman will share his experiences as a member of a shoebox distribution team in Ecuador. The workshop will be held from 2 to 4 p.m. at Northern Hills Baptist Church, located at 6000 Sammy Lane Texarkana, Arkansas. Please RSVP to Carolyn Sparkman at 903-277-0124.

SEPTEMBER 10

The Magic of Motown The Perot Theatre presents a musical journey through Motown’s best, including songs from The Temptations, The Jackson Five, Diana Ross & The Supremes, The Four Tops, Aretha Franklin, and Smokey Robinson.

The show begins at 7:30 p.m. For tickets and more information, go to perottheatre.org.

SEPTEMBER 12

Temple Memorial Drawdown & Casino Night Temple Memorial Pediatric Center will host their casino night event at the Holiday Inn Convention Center at 6 p.m. There will be a dinner, silent and live auctions, a cash bar, and casino tables. For more information, go to the Temple Memorial Facebook page.

SEPTEMBER 13–20

Four States Livestock Show You won’t want to miss the 79th Annual Four States Livestock Show. Stay up-to-date on everything involved with the livestock show through the Four States Fair Facebook page or at fourstatesfair.com.

SEPTEMBER 16

Invitational Golf Tournament Opportunities, Inc. invites the community to participate in its 35th annual invitational golf tournament. The event begins at 8 a.m., with breakfast offered at 9 a.m. For more information, go to oppinc.org.

SEPTEMBER 21

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walk will begin at 8 a.m. at Spring Lake Park. For registration and more information, go to act.alz.org/Texarkana.

SEPTEMBER 22 & 23

Songwriters on the Edge of Texas Golf Tournament and Concert The 19th Annual Songwriters on the Edge of Texas Golf Tournament and Concert will be held at Northridge Country Club. This two-day event begins on Sunday with a kickoff concert at 5 p.m. Registration for the tournament begins the following morning at 7:30 a.m. This event benefits CASA for Children and the Texarkana Children’s Advocacy Center. For tickets and more information, visit casacac.org.

SEPTEMBER 28

Friends for a Cause’s Kickball Tournament Friends For A Cause Foundation will “kick off” their seventh annual tournament at 8 am at Grady T. Wallace Park. Food trucks and vendors will be present. For more information, email FFACFoundation2014@gmail. com, or visit the Facebook event page.

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