Four States Living Magazine July 2020

ON THE COVER - JULY 2020

Anthony Micheal Pierce joined the Navy knowing that it was the right thing for him to do, both for his family and his country. Although he has missed many milestones with his boys, Ayden and Kayn, he is now adjusting to civilian life and enjoys being a very involved father. Micheal and his wife, Kali, are thankful for their many blessings and look forward to continuing to make up for lost family time.

See “A Hero to Many” on page 10.

FEATURE STORIES

A Hero for Many

A Well-Laid Path

INSIDE

BEACONS OF THE COMMUNITY:

Together, Faye and Gerald Brooks treasure education, family, and service to others.

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The Way I See It An op-ed piece from the publisher

Medical Professional Spotlight

Ask the Experts

Events

Exquisite Interiors

Raising

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The Way I See It...

PUBLISHER’S

Robin Rogers, Ed.D.

March 11, 2020. That’s the day COVID-19 started messing with my own little bubble. Granted, my bubble isn’t always a “Glinda the Good Witch” kind of iridescent bubble, where Technicolor and songs make everyone around you feel like dancing and singing, but for the most part, my bubble stays pretty routine and pleasant.

March 11th was the day my son was sent home from college, along with hundreds of thousands (if not millions) of other college students. Now, don’t get me wrong; I was thrilled to have him, but for a 19-year-old boy who never enjoyed public school and had finally found his place in a university setting away from his parents, the immediate transition back home to a quarantined situation burst all of our bubbles. For the most part, over the last four months, he has adapted fairly well into a Hugh Hefner lifestyle. Most days, he can be found roaming around the house in a robe, sleeping at odd times, and sprawled out on the living room couch with a remote control in one hand and his phone in the other. He goes out to the garage to lift weights once a day, and then may skateboard through the neighborhood, but that’s about it. He showers and gets back into the robe. His lovely and smart girlfriend is always close by (and that’s a good thing).

So, it seems like he has it made, right? Wrong. In four months, he has continually complained about how much he misses college and classes where he can actually see his professors face-to-face. Online learning is not the same, so he says. Yes, I agree.

Whether a student is in second grade or graduate school, teachers, and access to teachers, are vital to learning. That face-to-face discussion and those lively debates prove more valuable now than ever when a learner has trouble reading or concentrating from home. I can only imagine how hard it has been for the parents of school-

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aged kids to try to teach their own children. I believe that lack of human interaction and socialization has seriously affected our moods and mental health; social media is no replacement for conversations, laughter, and hugs. In fact, for me personally, when I spend too much time looking at Facebook or Instagram, I am more bummed out than usual. Staying cooped up in a robe for four months, eating the same canned soup every day for lunch, and dealing with often cranky and exhausted parents at the end of each day is a lot less fun than it sounds. Occasionally, I think he may be a little depressed, like the rest of us. WE ARE ALL OVER COVID-19!

As part of the information sector, FSLM is considered “essential.” Texarkana reacted early to slow the curve, and for the most part, we have had pretty good numbers compared to other cities of similar size. But, now that everything is opening back up, we can’t forget that COVID-19 is going to be here until we have a vaccine, and then it may still mutate and be bad again. People’s bills don’t stop coming, and we can’t shut down forever; we must evolve in business and be smart when we work. My sales have been lower in the last four months than they have been in almost two decades. Fortunately, my coworkers have a proactive attitude and work ethic about staying the course like I do. We are certainly working harder than we have in a long time, but we are getting our house in order like it has never been, so when there is a vaccine, and when all of the businesses and schools and restaurants and shops come back to 100%, we will be better prepared to reach more people in different ways, while keeping our commitment to positive stories of local people who are doing good things — in print, alongside new email blasts, social media updates daily, and interactive contests. If you want to receive our weekly Four States Living email blasts,

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If you are anything like me, right now, you probably have photos, report cards, Christmas cards, and drawings on your refrigerator. You look at them every day, and they make you smile. Those treasures on your fridge are tactile, and for some reason, you just can’t throw them away. Last week, I got the mail, and saw there was a large envelope from UCA for my son. I don’t know how it got ripped, but I didn’t do it, as my son jokingly suggested. I watched over him as he opened the brown package; inside was a ripped certificate that said he was a President’s Scholar (he made a 4.0 for the spring semester). We laughed that only his would arrive nearly torn in two pieces, and he asked me to get a frame for it. This is the first time he has made all A’s since third grade, so we will frame it, but until then, it goes on my refrigerator! I offered to call the university to request another one, but he giggled and said that the rip was what gave that certificate its character; I didn’t actually tell him this, but the 4.0 and the certificate are what gave him a couple more months in that robe.

Our treasures are in print. Our teachers are in the classroom. And air hugs are for the birds – literally. One of my best friends came by my office, and he said, “I just can’t stand it anymore. I need a hug.” And he grabbed me, pulled me in for a bear hug, and held on for the longest time; that hug felt so good that it made me want to cry. I didn’t realize how badly I needed a hug. That was a reminder to me that we must hold our loved ones close.

This month, we have some unique stories that make me proud to be an American. In spite of COVID-19, we are still the greatest country on the planet. Let’s keep going together, as we are cautious and striving to protect the people we want to keep hugging for many years.

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Jennifer Jordan

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Vicki Melde

Ellen Orr

Jileen Platt

Sara Rothwell

Lisa Porterfield Thompson

Amber Smith Zaliski

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DEBUTANTE COTILLION CLUB OF TEXARKANA ANNOUNCEMENT TEA

On Thursday, June 11, the Debutante Cotillion Club of Texarkana held its annual Announcement Tea at Texarkana Country Club to honor the debutantes of 2020. This year’s debutantes are Brooklynn Bearden, Sarah Grace Boudreaux, Lauren Hughes, Grace McGuire, Sarah Jane Paddock, Grace Pickelman, Sarah Rogers, Julie Sherman, Hartley Spaulding, Hailey Kate Whitten, and Catherine Wright. Debutante Cotillion Club sponsor is Blaire Barlow.

Darrah McGuire and Grace McGuire

(bottom row) Sarah Jane Paddock, Sarah Grace Boudreaux, Sarah Rogers and Grace McGuire; (middle row) Hartley Spaulding, Lauren Hughes, Catherine Wright and Hailey Whitten; and (top row) Brooklynn Bearden, Grace Pickelman and Julie Sherman

Traci Boudreaux and Sarah Grace Boudreaux

Lauren Hughes, Hailey Whitten, Grace Pickelman and Brooklynn Bearden

Landry Hunter and Emma Peters

Julie Wright and Catherine Wright

Hartley Spaulding, Grace McGuire and Sarah Rogers

Sarah Jane Paddock and Christy Young

photo by DR. ROBIN ROGERS

A HERO TO MANY

MICHEAL PIERCE ADJUSTS TO CIVILIAN LIFE AFTER MAKING MANY SACRIFICES FOR HIS FAMILY AND HIS COUNTRY

by JILEEN PLATT

The word “hero” has many different meanings to many different people. Some heroes have long lists of awards, honors, and medals; some heroes perform quiet noble deeds without being seen; some heroes simply have their family looking to them with gratitude.

Anthony Micheal Pierce, a local Redwater man, is all of these.

Micheal, who graduated from Redwater High School in 2007, was headed down a path with little direction. “I was living on my own since I was 17 … even before graduation,” explains Micheal.

“I worked dead-end jobs … and lived in a trailer with some of my buddies.” Knowing that he needed to make a change, he talked to a Navy recruiter at Central Mall in Texarkana.

At the time, he and his girlfriend, Kali, had already talked marriage.

“I was scared but excited for him,” states Kali. “I knew this was the right move for him and our future family.”

Ayden, Kali, Kayn and Micheal in 2014 after Micheal returned home from Guam. (Photo by Tonya Crabtree)

Nine months later, on November 18, 2009, Micheal started boot camp near Chicago, Illinois, and then was assigned to “A” School at Sheppard Air Force Base in Wichita Falls, Texas. There, he trained as a naval construction electrician.

After graduation from “A” School, which included a 14-day leave, Micheal and Kali married at Calvary Baptist Church in Simms, Texas, on May 1, 2010. Soon after, he reported to duty in Gulfport, Mississippi, and was assigned to Naval Mobile Construction Battalion #7 (or NMCB 7) as a part of the Seabees, which constructs bases, builds roads, bridges, and various other support facilities for the Navy. The Seabees’ motto is “We build, We fight!” Joining the Seabees was an easy transition for Micheal, who remarks, “I fit right in.”

Not long after Micheal finished an 8-week Expeditionary Combat Training course, Kali went into labor with their first child. Micheal was preparing to deploy but was given special permission for a sevenday leave. He drove home, only stopping for gas in Ida, Louisiana, at a place that was, unfortunately, closed. His pit stop caused him to miss the birth of their son, Ayden Micheal, by 5 minutes.

The new little family enjoyed togetherness for the full seven days. “I didn’t want to leave [them] but I had to do what I signed up for,” Micheal explains. Ayden was only weeks old when Micheal bid farewell and returned to Gulfport. Soon after, Micheal was deployed to Spain and assigned to camp maintenance spending eight months “fixing electrical things all over the place.”

In December of 2010, Micheal and his battalion returned home. A police escort, with sirens blaring, preceded the military buses from the airport to the base. “I heard the sirens … and I could not stop the tears. My dreams [of being together as a family] were finally coming true!” exclaims Kali. “I knew which bus was Micheal’s because the first bus is considered the ‘New Dad’s’ bus.” Micheal was surprised to see how much Ayden had grown. “It was a shocker to see my son … with big fat cheeks and all chunky! It was crazy!” exclaims Micheal.

In October, they welcomed a second son, Mikah Kayn, to their family. Three months later, Micheal was deployed on a detachment to Bahrain and Jordan. “I was stationed on Isa Air Base to build

In 2014, CE 3 Anthony M. Pierce reenlisted for another four years in the U.S. Navy.

A teacher at Theron Jones Early Literacy Center, Kali shares a photo with kindergartner Jada Brown.

Kali graduated from Texas A&M UniversityTexarkana in May 2018 with a BAAS degree.

After months of rescheduling due to the Navy, Micheal and Kali were married on May 1, 2010.

Born on a military base and delivered by a military nurse, it was only fitting that Kayn’s newborn photos were taken with his Daddy’s military uniform.

Three flight delays and bad weather conditions kept pushing Micheal’s arrival day after his third deployment. The family finally welcomed him home on February 15, 2014.

a movie theater for troops, then to Amman to build a large war plan and meeting room at the immense King Abdullah II Joint Operations Center. Micheal then went to Aqaba, where he built a tactical operation center to support a SEAL team in training. At one point, he and his fellow Seabees dressed up as terrorists to train the Jordanian military on how to clear a ship.

Micheal was then transferred to Petra to build targets for Marine tanks and aircraft. “It was super dry and hot … and you could look out for miles and see nothing but sand and flat desert rocks,” states Micheal. After a short transfer to Kuwait, Micheal was home again in September 2012.

With the war in the Middle East subsiding, Micheal’s battalion was decommissioned. He was allowed a transfer from NMCB #7 to battalion NMCB #11. During this transition, Hurricane Sandy hit the east coast. Micheal volunteered to help with clean up for three weeks and earned a Humanitarian Service Medal for his efforts. In 2013, Micheal was deployed to Guam and spent eight months building a water tanker treatment facility.

Once home again, Micheal was asked to serve on funeral detail for veterans. “I truly loved honoring veterans at their funerals … I did my best to honor those who came before me,” explains Micheal. “If I was ever thanked by a veteran for my

CE3 Anthony Pierce doing electrical work while deployed to Bahrain in 2012.

CECN Pierce becomes a Third Class Petty Officer after being frocked to CE3.

service, I always thanked them back … they’re the ones that set it up for people like me.”

After another decommissioning, Micheal was asked to join the fleet and be an electrician’s mate on board the DDG-68 The Sullivan’s, a Destroyer in a carrier strike group heading to the Arabian Gulf in January 2015. “Micheal was nervous to join the fleet. He had enjoyed being ‘boots on the ground’ for the Navy,” explains Kali. Consistently though, Micheal made choices that were best for his family even if he had reservations. “He has always been a good provider,” states Kali.

On the ship, “We were in tight quarters … everywhere,” exclaims Micheal. “We called our sleeping quarters ‘coffin racks’… and we shared 6 bathrooms with 60-80 people.” During the deployment, the fleet docked in Portugal, France, and Dubai and Abu Dhabi in the United Arab Emirates. “It was amazing to see the different cultures and how they live. [Most Americans] take things for granted,” explains Micheal. “We have no idea how good we have it here.”

Keeping in touch during this time was tough for everyone. “Sometimes I would not get an email for days,” states Kali. While at sea, the family would go over a month without hearing Micheal’s voice. Kali wrote to him every day in a book that he could read later. “I was just so lonely without him,” says Kali.

Micheal was honorably discharged from the Navy and came home permanently on Kali’s birthday, July 13, 2017. The family moved back to Texarkana, and Micheal has worked for Hightech Signs as an electrician ever since.

While Micheal missed a lot of the boys’ baby years, he is making up for it now. “I love being a dad. I didn’t have support when I was younger … I choose to be super involved,” says Micheal. And support has always been extended to Kali, too. “When he was at homeport, he watched the kids while I worked and grew my photography business,” says Kali. “He changed diapers when most guys didn’t, and really helped out. Micheal made sure I graduated from college [to get my teaching degree] in 2018.”

Micheal continues to adjust to civilian life and “has struggled a time or two since he’s been home,” explains Kali. “Our dog, Dallas, is his emotional support dog … he seems to sense [when Micheal needs help] and calms him down.”

The family has also struggled with keeping their second son, Kayn, healthy, recently traveling back and forth to Medical City in Dallas to treat severe allergies and immunity issues. Also, they recently held a memorial for their baby, Daxton Mac, that died last year at 21 weeks.

It is often said the men and women of the military make sacrifices for our freedoms, but they also make great sacrifices for their families. Military families are not immune to sacrifices as well. Micheal Pierce is an example of doing what was needed because it was right. He did what was right, both for his family and for his country. How wonderful that he had and continues to have support from home. We, as Americans, will never be able to repay those who serve. But at our best, we need to be like Micheal. At the very least we should just say “Thank you.”

CE Pierce reuniting with his son, Ayden, after a six-month deployment to Spain. (Micheal was deployed 12 days after his son was born.)

Ayden and Kayn with Micheal, their father and coach of the Redwater Dragons team at the Flag Football Superbowl in 2017 where the Dragons won first place.

MO AND DAVID AS YOUNGSTERS IN THE EARLY ’40S.

BROTHERS DAVID AND MO ORR REFLECT ON FOUR GENERATIONS OF A FAMILY BUSINESS

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Well-Laid Path

by ELLEN ORR

David and Maurice “Mo” Orr don’t care to talk about themselves. The brothers — both 6’4”, deep-voiced, commanding — would rather reflect on their parents’ lives and look admiringly to their children and grandchildren. At 85 and 83 years old, they each speak kindly about their progeny, including as it pertains to the car business.

“[My two oldest sons] Keith and Gregg have worked hard in the car business and have done well, as have Jason and Joel [David’s youngest children],” said Mo. “There used to be a saying that the first generation got it going, the second generation capitalized on it, and the third generation blew it — but that hasn’t been the case with us. Each generation has gotten better.”

But David and Mo believe that looking to the past is just as important as looking ahead. “I’ve had a great life and been happy most of it,” said Mo, “but the reason is because of [my father and mother.] The biggest advantage in life is having good parents.”

“No doubt about it,” David agreed. “We started off going down a path that they laid down.”

“March the 4th, 1924 ... I don’t know how many times I heard him say that date,” David said of his late father. “That day marked a big change in his life.”

On March 4, 1924, Guss Orr was a single 20-year-old manual laborer whose most recent job — laying Texarkana’s first waterline — had come to a close. In search of a job, he walked into the Cargile Motor Company and

During a July 4 sale in 2012 at the Orr dealership, Mo and David donned their chef’s hats and aprons to prepare food for a cookout.

left as the dealership’s newest salesperson.

When he returned to the rooming house where he was staying, he got to talking to a middle-aged man who also lived there. “You need to come home with me one weekend and meet my oldest daughter,” he said. That oldest daughter was 21-year-old Ruby Goldman, the woman who would become Guss’ wife.

Guss and Ruby both came from farming families, but they each felt better suited for the city. Guss was a gregarious man. “He had the salesperson personality,” Mo said. “He was real outgoing. People liked him.”

Ruby was Guss’ gentler counterpart; she loved classical music and fine art. On Saturdays, she’d sit the kids around the radio to listen to “The Firestone Hour,” a classical music radio show that featured leading opera singers. At Christmas, she’d play the piano while the family sang carols.

Through the 1920s and 1930s, Guss sold cars. “Dad told me one time that, during the Depression, when he was a car salesman, the only person who made as much or more than he did was the manager of the JC Penney,” David recalled. “He was always after it.

“A man who worked with him told me that [Guss] would go down to Broad Street, park his car on the far west end, and walk all the way to Buhrman-Pharr. He’d go in every one of those stores and talk to everyone in there about buying a car. Then he’d have lunch down there at one of those cafés, then he’d go to the other side of the street and walk back. He spent almost a whole day just going in places asking people about buying a car.”

“He was a grinder,” Mo said. “He never gave up. I met a guy about 10 years ago who came up to me and said, ‘I worked at Cargile Motor Company in 1938 for two years, and your daddy never sat down once.’ And that was him.”

In 1941, Mr. Cargile was diagnosed with Parkinson’s and even underwent brain surgery, which only seemed to worsen his condition. “He told Dad that if he’d stay there during the war and keep that place open, he’d [pay him 25% of the profits],” recounted David. “That was exactly the kind of motivation he needed.

“On Sunday afternoons, we’d go down to the Union Station and put him on the train, and he’d ride up to Pennsylvania, buy used cars, and ship ‘em back to Texarkana to sell.”

“It’s amazing if you think about it,” Mo remarked. “He was 20 years old in 1924 and didn’t know how to sell anything. He went in there and went to work, and by 1940, he was valuable enough to Mr. Cargile that he trusted him to stay and keep the place running.”

By 1945, Guss had earned enough money to become a partner.

David and Mo both always wanted to work for their dad. “We were so attracted to my father, so enamored, and had so much respect for him,” Mo said. “He’d come home for supper, we’d all eat, and then he’d go back down [to the store] to talk to all those mechanics—and we’d trail behind him like a couple of ducks. When we got to be 14 — our mother wouldn’t let us work until we were 14 —we’d go down there and work with him, lubricating cars, pumping gas at the filling station. That was the only thing we ever really wanted to do.”

Guss wanted his sons in the business as much as they wanted to be there, but Ruby wasn’t as sure.

“Mother was kind of a temperate horse,” Mo said. “When we started

selling cars, she would tell us things like, ‘Don’t take advantage of people who aren’t very smart.’”

“I asked her one time why she was concerned about us working down there,” David recalled. “She said, ‘I don’t want you boys to learn the language that those men talk.’ She was very concerned about how we were going to end up as men.” (In 1953, three years before David and Mo would join the business, Ruby died of chronic glomerulonephritis, a kidney illness.)

In 1956, David and Mo both started their careers at the dealership. David had earned an accounting degree from SMU and put it to use in the accounting and sales departments. Mo started on the sales floor but struggled with it (“I wasn’t ever very good at it, and I didn’t really like doing it”); he found he fit better in the service and parts departments. “But, of course, when Dad died, we both took on managerial roles,” said Mo.

In 1966, Guss died from a stroke, and David and Mo took ownership. “We spent quite a few years struggling because Guss hadn’t had many assets,” Mo recalled. “We had lots of hard times; some of them were caused by us, and some of them were caused by the economy.”

Through the ups and downs of the next four decades, David and Mo hired and led countless employees. “Looking back on it, it seems like we trained everybody in Texarkana,” Mo said.

“I complained to my dad about that one time,” David interjected. “He looked at me and said, ‘Look! Be proud of that. Be proud of all these people around who started out here.’”

“The thing I got the most satisfaction out of in the business world was helping people — teaching them and seeing them develop,” said Mo. “People normally don’t have any confidence; I was the same way. You need to do something — give them a book or have lunch with them a

few times, and try to convince them that they can do more than they think they can do. People can always do more than they think they can. They just need someone to have confidence in them.”

(“You went in there one time,” David said to Mo, “and told Randy Green that you wanted him to be the parts manager. He said he couldn’t do that. He’s been there 45 years now. You convinced him he could.”)

In the 1980s, Mo’s oldest sons, Gregg and Keith, expressed interest in joining the family business. “David was kind enough to let me buy him out,” said Mo.

In 2000, Mo officially retired. David has yet to retire. (“They still let me have an office, so I go out there every morning, read The Wall Street Journal on the internet, still have a few friends who buy stuff from me all the time . . . I just like doing that,” he said.) This difference is one of many: while Mo likes to travel, David is more of a hometown man. While Mo has cycled through many hobbies (golfing, hunting, training dogs, flying airplanes), David has remained steady in his few extracurricular interests (he was a Boy Scout leader for 20 years; he’s been a member of First Methodist Church his entire life; he is a longtime civic leader, involved with the Chamber of Commerce and local government, even serving two terms as an Arkansas state legislator).

Beyond a clear set of shared values, the brothers’ strong and lasting friendship can surely be attributed to their mutual admiration. “I have so much respect for Mo,” David said. “He’s been such a great influence on me and so many people we’ve worked with—and just people in general. Knowing him has been a great experience.”

“Anybody who knows David knows that he’s a great person,” mirrored

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RUNNIN’ WJ RANCH BARREL RACE

The 13th annual Runnin’ WJ Ranch Barrel Race was held June 11-14 at the Four States Fairgrounds. Daily winners were: Friday – Penny Baker on Voghts Gold Rhythm ($1,232); Saturday – Abby Phillips on Crown Ta Fame ($1,701); and Sunday – Josie Whittington on CB Hottest Guy Yet ($1,308). A list of all results can be found at: www.runninwjbarrelrace. webs.com. This event benefits the Runnin’ WJ Ranch Therapeutic Riding Center.

Riley Owen, Holly Ballard, Ashley Martin and Aaron Martin

Kathryn Mitchell, Norma Shanks, Narda Launius, Voscia Walker and Leslie Watt

Kayla Graham, Karen Akin and Olivia Kirk

Shelly Raulston, Gail Barnes, Brenda Womack and Spencer Green

Connie Miller and Susan Englerth

Voscia Walker, Laurie Jones and Sam Clem

Mack Dean, Martin Puga and Sam Clem

photos by SARA ROTHWELL

Kids For the

by SARA ROTHWELL

Neil Jones is a longtime resident of Hooks, Texas. He started the Talimena Rally 18 years ago, in honor of his late-wife who had cancer. He is the type of guy that wears his heart on his sleeve and loves to help those in need. He is adamant about being transparent with all the money that is raised for St. Jude. Neil says, “It’s just for the kids.”

The first eight years of the Talimena Rally raised money for the Hooks Children’s Ministry. The Talimena Rally started because Neil rode with a group of bikers in Louisiana, and the roads were horrible. Then they rode through Queen Wilhelmina State Park in Arkansas, and Neil thought, “If I can get everyone down here then we can ride this.” After that, he knew he could turn it into something bigger.

In 2012, just before the rally, he saw something about St. Jude and thought, “How cool would it be to give money to kids in cancer research?” Neil also loved the idea because their cancer research goes out all over the world. That year, $5,000 was raised, and he split the proceeds between St. Jude and the Hooks Children’s Ministry.

At the time, Neil was a director at Whiskey River Harley Davidson, and he would meet people when he traveled to classes for work. He would travel throughout the four states: Texas, Arkansas, Oklahoma, Louisiana and even to Kansas. People from all over were wanting to help and get involved. He picked up sponsors along the way, and he is very thankful for those who are willing to contribute. People even donated money to buy Neil a Talimena Rally trailer to help transport T-shirts and prizes for raffles and the silent auction.

This year alone, the Talimena Rally raised over $68,000, which is more than they’ve raised in a single year. In total, they’ve raised more than $250,000 in donations. “I tell people all the time ... it’s God and good friends that help me put this on,” mentioned Neil. “It’s not about me or anybody there. It’s just about the kids.

“I could not do it without my wife,” Neil mentioned. Neil and his current wife, Carol, met at the end of 2015 and dated for about a year before getting married. (Neil recognized that after his previous wife had passed away, he was “pretty much done with everything.”) One night, Neil’s friends eventually convinced him to get out of his house and go to the Open Rally in Hot Springs. Neil remembers that night at the rally, he was sitting and visiting with his friends when he saw a redhead dancing by. “Oh my! Look at that smile,” Neil told his friend. He thought Carol lit up the room the way she was laughing and smiling.

The next time Carol danced by, Neil made eye contact with her and said, “Call me!” He was planning to give her his number and thought she had been looking at him. She had actually been watching the Razorback football game on the TV behind him. After some persuading, he convinced her to sit down. Her friends kept asking her what she was doing, and she kept saying, “I don’t know.” Carol asked Neil if he could dance, and he told her, “Gee, I don’t know but you can drag me around the dance floor.” So they danced together for the rest of the night, laughed, hung out and had a great time just being together.

Later that night, they decided to meet at IHOP for breakfast and

Thanks to Neil and Carol, numerous volunteers and attendees, this year’s Talimena Rally raised over $68,000.

ended up talking for about three hours the next morning. They planned to meet the next weekend, and Neil told her, “I love everything about you.” He explains, “She’s witty, she’s funny, and I call her sassy. She’s just classy.” Then a little while later, Carol told him, “I really want to marry you, but I will not marry you before the rally since it was in honor of your wife, and I will not marry you before the day she died. But after that, you’re mine.” Neil never thought he would marry again, and Carol hadn’t dated for a long time before the night they met. It’s evident that they make each other happy. “We clicked,” Neil says as a matter of fact.

One day, Neil told Carol that he didn’t think he could keep doing the Talimena Rally anymore. She asked why, and he said that he was burnt out and in need of a break. Then she told him, “Well, the kids never quit.” Immediately, Neil knew she was right and that he shouldn’t retire from the rally just yet.

The Talimena Rally always happens the Thursday, Friday, and Saturday before Memorial Day. This year, as soon as the governor lifted the Shelter-in-Place restrictions, Neil started making adjustments. He was blessed by the Arkansas Convention Center and all they did to help make the rally happen. He said, “We did the social distancing. We wore the masks and all that. But thank God, so far no one has tested positive.” With close to 300 people registered, Neil is thankful that nobody went home sick.

He is grateful for each volunteer that helps sell tickets, T-shirts, and bandanas, register people, sell items and so much more. Neil said, “If it wasn’t for them, I never would get this thing done.”

The restaurants they went to were extra prepared with to-go boxes or brown bags with a drink waiting for them when they drove up. Even the hotels, both mornings,

Neil and Carol met in 2015, immediately “clicked,” and married the next year.

provided a bag of breakfast because they couldn’t open their restaurants.

On Saturday night of the rally, a boy came up to Neil and handed him $80. Neil knew the woman he was with and knew he must be a foster child. The boy told him, “I’ve been mowing yards all summer, and I would like to donate this $80 to the kids at St. Jude.” Neil knew that had come from the boy’s heart, and that is exactly why he continues to do the rally.

During the rally, Neil gives the stage over to people that have lost kids at St. Jude. This allows people to hear their story and understand what the Talimena Rally is all about.

Neil remembers one time when they went to St. Jude, a little girl, ran up to him with the most excitement. Her mother apologized and asked what they were doing. Neil told her, then asked about her daughter. She replied, “She was born with cancer, then it was gone, and two years later it was right back where we started. It’s people like you that make me happy.”

Those words touched Neil’s heart.

Another time, there was a young boy whose mother called Neil and asked if they could go visit her son. Neil explained that they filled up his bed with a motorcycle helmet, a vest, motorcycle toys, and more. That young boy is now healthy and living back in Louisiana.

Neil tries to take a trip to St. Jude every year to give the donations and visit the kids. If they can’t go this year due to COVID-19 then Neil mentioned, “When I send the checks in, they mail me back a letter stating how much money was donated.” Then he posts the letter on the Talimena Rally Facebook Page. He said, “If you spend your hard-earned money on this cause, you deserve to know where that money went.”

Over 18 years, the Talimena rally has gone from 30 to 300 people. “It’s really turned into something that I never would’ve thought,” admitted Neil. “We’re not there for any other reason but to raise money for those kids and have a good time.”

Bikers line up in front of the Arkansas Convention Center while waiting for the 2020 Talimena Rally to begin.

Dr. Bo and Tammy Kelley with the custom Harley Davidson Fatboy that was given away during the Talimena Rally. Lucky winner was Tricia Williams.

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TEMPLE MEMORIAL PEDIATRIC CENTER OPEN HOUSE AND RIBBON CUTTING

A Ribbon Cutting ceremony and Open House celebration was held on June 19 at Temple Memorial Pediatric Center. The event offered visitors the chance to enjoy snacks, meet the dedicated Temple staff and receive tours of the new state-of-the-art building, located at 1710 Moores Lane in Texarkana, Texas.

Sandy Varner, Greg Giles, Terri Giles and William Morriss

Jeaninne Walker and Brenda Reid

Allison Sheats, Katrina Brown, Candace Davis and Summer Massey

Carol Pearcy, Kendra Stone and Lisa Dupree Mia Kemp and Gina Parrish

Kelli Mayo, Ariel Edwards and Jessica Wright

Kristy Sharp, Caitlin Sheets and Mia Kemp

Beth McHenry, Ty Penny and Jeaninne Walker

photos by JOHN BUNCH

Ladies of the LAW

TAMU-T POLICE DEPARTMENT’S KRISTY WHISENHUNT AND SHARON PAYNE SHARE THEIR UNIQUE JOURNEYS TO WORKING SIDE BY SIDE AT THE COLLEGE

by LINDSEY MCMILLAN

The Texas A&M University-Texarkana campus is unique. Its spirit is evident in the students, faculty, and staff who inhabit the buildings each semester. The growth of the campus has exploded, and with that more students are arriving to join the Eagle family. During the recent COVID-19 pandemic, the campus has been quiet and sparse, quite the opposite from usual when people are buzzing about. Cancelled campus events, closed offices, and online classes have been the exception to the norm. Despite the current turn of events always present are two exceptional female officers who keep watch and ensure that the campus is secure. Kristy Whisenhunt and Sharon Payne alternate night and day shifts and assist other members of the University Police Department 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. Each of these ladies shares her unique journey and their combined experience and commitment to service leads them to the same location proudly working side by side.

Kristy Whisenhunt has been a corporal with the TAMU-T Police Department since 2018. She joined the department in 2016 as an officer. She previously was an investigator with the Wake Village Police Department where she served for almost four years. In addition to her shifts working

on campus, Kristy is also earning her Master in Business Administration (MBA) at TAMU-T and just completed her spring semester coursework. Kristy’s work experience is varied, having served in many different capacities within law enforcement, as well as in the financial arena.

A native of Apple Springs, Texas, (outside of Lufkin), Kristy was the valedictorian at Centerville High School in 1994. She worked for Temple-Inland Corporation as a 401K benefits analyst. The large company was multifaceted in areas of business, and Kristy was able to learn much in the area of finance. She graduated from Angelina College in 2005 with an associate’s degree in Biology. Then she commuted to Nacogdoches to Stephen F. Austin State University where she majored in Criminal Justice with a minor in Biology. She received her Bachelor of Arts degree in 2007 and began an internship with the Nacogdoches Police Department. Here she assisted with training sergeants while also pursuing a Master of Public Administration degree where she accrued 18 hours.

Kristy had learned of a new civilian position within the Texarkana Texas Police Department in the criminal investigative division. She and her husband, Monte, whom

she married in 1999, relocated to Hooks. She spent four years with the TTPD involved in various onsite training which included questionable deaths, DOA, fingerprint specialization, court testimony, as well as processing evidence, among other duties. This enabled her to acquire a broad range of experience and knowledge and after several ride alongs with officers, she decided to enter the Police Academy in 2012. After her graduation, she accepted a position with Wake Village. By this time, her husband had changed careers, moving from his work as a process engineer to becoming a DPS state trooper.

Their home is in Old Boston, Texas, on nine acres where they have two horses and a pit/lab mix named “Doc.” When not busy with work or studies, Kristy enjoys working out and playing with “Doc.” In her work at TAMU-T she most enjoys getting to know students and the friendly camaraderie which is present on campus. She says, “We have such a diverse population here, and to learn about the different cultures is awesome. I don’t think I would have ever learned as much about people and cultures had I not come to work here.”

Kristy is also very proud of a recent accreditation the university received which she was a large

part of. In 2019, TAMU-T became recognized through the Texas Police Chief Association’s Best Practices Recognition Program. It is a program in conjunction with the Texas Police Chief’s Association. As a part of the program, campuses are required to have policies and procedures in place for different aspects of law enforcement. This includes the administrative functions of a police department, as well as officer training. Kristy explains, “These standards encompass the various areas of a Police Department, and we are extremely proud to be recognized. One of my primary responsibilities as corporal was to help get our Department accredited, but now that we are recognized, it is now one of my responsibilities to make sure we keep that recognition.”

When asked what is the best aspect of her job helping others in the community she responds with, “Helping others just makes my heart happy. When people smile, I smile, and I love that. Ultimately, I hope that something I said or did here on campus will affect someone in a positive way and that positivity will be passed through their lives to someone else.”

TAMU-T police officer Sharon Payne has been employed on campus for approximately one and a half years. She joined the UPD after serving

Kristy trains to become a Rape Aggression Defense (RAD) instructor as part of teaching women’s self-defense.

as an officer in the De Kalb Police Department. Born in San Diego, California, Sharon’s family moved to Joshua, Texas, (on the outskirts of Ft. Worth) where she grew up. Graduating from Texas Christian University in 1992 with a degree in Criminal Justice, she pursued her career in law enforcement by joining the Ft. Worth Police Department after graduating from the academy in 1994. She served as a patrol officer in Ft. Worth until 2002. She then transferred to the White Settlement and Colleyville Police Departments where she worked for several years while raising her three children, Lisa, Dustin, and Jennifer.

She took a break for a spell to manage a country club in Southlake, Texas, before the opportunity to return to law enforcement became available. She had always wanted to work in the K9 division and a position to do so was available with De Kalb in 2012. Making the move to East Texas from the metroplex was a change but a rewarding one as she loved working with her dogs in service to others. During this time she also had completed her Emergency Medical Technician (EMT) training and has maintained her certification. She has acquired the status of Master Peace Officer, holding over 8,000 hours in training and service. Before arriving at TAMU-T, Sharon had also

been taking courses in nursing school. She and her husband, Chase, have been married for eight years, and two of her grown daughters live in the Ft. Worth area. Her son lives here in their home where they enjoy the quiet of country life. Her husband is a cobbler, or boot maker and leather specialist. They are in the process of building a home and also enjoy traveling and spending time with family. Sharon has seven grandchildren, ranging in age from 7 months to 10 years old.

One thing that Sharon most enjoys about being a university police officer is the change of pace it provides from her previous posts, particularly when it comes to student and staff interaction.

“I really enjoy being on the campus and with the students,” Sharon says. “I like to think I make a difference in their lives and help guide them in some way.” She also appreciates the more calm environment TAMU-T provides versus the very fast-paced and busy hours she has had through the years. “When I worked for the city, we could have up to 20 + calls a day from all levels of seriousness. Law enforcement’s role in helping others can vary from day-to-day and in a variety of ways.” Other intriguing aspects of her career include simply working with the public and various agencies and assisting wherever needed. Sharon has a wide

While working for the City of White Settlement, Sharon carried the Texas flag during the presentation of the colors at Texas Motor Speedway before a NASCAR race.

range of experience within law enforcement across different communities and challenges.

In 2014, an incident occurred while answering a domestic disturbance call in De Kalb. Sharon was shot in the leg when an intoxicated male aimed a weapon at her. She recovered and was told at the hospital that the bullet was within 1/8 of an inch from hitting her femoral artery. Such dangers on the job are a daily reality for officers, and their training and experience matters in instances where they are forced to make quick decisions.

One can easily tell that each of these ladies has a passion for their profession and in which they take great pride. They also are good friends who enjoy working together in a career that they love. When asked what is the most rewarding part of their profession, they each respond with similar answers but ones which reflect each of their unique personalities. Kristy says, “Just to have one person tell me how thankful they are for officers is an amazing feeling. For students, just to know that I have helped them somehow in their life journey is something I can’t explain.” And Sharon says, “It’s hard not to be with a job you love. That’s one thing I’ve always heard: if you love the job you have, you’ll never work a day in your life.” For these exceptional ladies of law enforcement, TAMU-T is a lucky place to have their service and dedication.

Sharon enjoys interacting with the students at Texas A&M University-Texarkana.

Ace, the TAMUT Eagle mascot, and Kristy during the students’ yearly PowderPuff football game.

Kristy graduated from Stephen F. Austin State University in 2007.

Sharon snuggles with a puppy when she worked for the City of De Kalb’s Police Department.

In September 2019, Kristy and Sharon attended a Women of Law Enforcement Conference.

TRAVIS RANSOM ANNOUNCES HIS CANDIDACY FOR THE REPUBLICAN NOMINATION FOR TEXAS’ 4TH CONGRESSIONAL DISTRICT

photo by ALAMOND PHOGRAPHY

RANSOM for congress

by LISA PORTERFIELD THOMPSON

Travis Ransom recently announced his candidacy for the Republican nomination in Texas’ 4th Congressional District. Travis is currently serving as the Mayor of Atlanta, Texas, Command Sergeant Major for an Expeditionary Military Intelligence Battalion in the U.S. Army Reserve, and proudly wears a ton of other titles that make him an excellent candidate for the job: father to three children, husband to Emily, member of First Baptist Church Atlanta, agent for Offenhauser Insurance, distinguished alumnus of TAMU-T, graduate of the Red River Leadership Institute, past chairman of the Texarkana Regional Arts and Humanities Council, Eagle Scout, and much, much more. It’s safe to say that Travis is a hometown hero from right here in our neck of the woods.

FSLM caught up with Travis to talk about his recent announcement to run for office:

We know that you’ve been considering this leap for a while. Why is now the right time to throw your hat in the ring?

Congressional District 4 has historically been represented by the far west end of the district. As population growth has urbanized that area, the vast majority of the district remains rural. I believe Northeast Texas needs someone from the district that shares their conservative rural values and understands the unique challenges that we face. This is an historic selection process because the locally elected party leadership are in the driver’s seat. Precinct Chairs and County Chairs work countless hours without compensation to ensure our two-party system functions. Without them, we could not hold open and free elections. This is a unique opportunity for the Congressional Executive Committee to select a candidate who will represent our rural Northeast Texas values. Because this process only involves those

party officials, it minimizes the influence of special interest groups with financial interests and creates an opportunity to select a regular, working class citizen.

You’ve held a lot of different public offices, worked for a legislator, are still in the Army Reserve well after you could have retired, and have volunteered countless hours for several nonprofit boards and church committees. To say you’re a busy guy is an understatement, so why would you want to add another layer of responsibility to your plate?

I believe in servant leadership and modeling good citizenship. In the Army, I get the opportunity to work with young people doing meaningful work and shape the future leaders of our country. For me, service to my community and my country is not a job, it is a calling. Folks in Northeast Texas deserve good leaders with integrity to represent them in the legislature and provide that commonsense perspective that is often so lacking. I bring

Travis and Texas Gov. Greg Abbott during a Memorial Day event in San Antonio in 2018.

a broad range of perspective and depth and breadth of experience that other candidates may not have. When looking for a leader, finding the right person to serve in the right position at the right time is important.

Our founding fathers believed in representatives who would serve part-time, and then return home, not the permanent political class our current system has created. I do not want to be the forever Congressman. I think there is a time and a season to serve, and this is that time for me and for Northeast Texas.

It seems when someone gets elected and serves in D.C., they tend to change as a person and as a public figure. We like to call it “Potomac Fever,” but if you’re selected, we trust you won’t forget where you came from. What are some things you’ll focus on that could really be a game changer for Northeast Texas?

I have been all over the world and served in a variety of challenging positions through the years but never forget who I am or where I come from. Many issues impact rural Northeast Texas. I am particularly interested in expanding high speed internet. High speed internet is the next essential utility. It is as important as clean drinking water and electricity. Without high speed internet, Northeast Texas is at a disadvantage. It impacts education and has a significant impact on potential economic development projects. We also need a balanced budget. As our national debt continues to mount, our national security is undermined. We need stability in the funding of our force modernization. How many times have we seen the accordion expansion and contraction of workload at Red River Army Depot due to funding issues with Congress?

I also look forward to motivating our federal agencies to be

Emily, Coyt, Anna, Lucy and Travis during a trip to Germany last year.

Anna and Lucy enjoy the Louisiana Drag Races with Travis and his 1991 Mercury Capri that he recently took on a trip down Route 66.

The Ransoms in Colorado during a friend’s wedding.

more responsive to local leaders as we look at the long-term infrastructure needs of our region. Lake Wright Patman and interstate highways immediately come to mind. These are issues I have been following for years as a private citizen, been impacted by as a Command Sergeant Major, worked on as a legislative aide for a Texas State Senator, and continue to work on as a local Mayor.

Tell us the process it will take to become elected? If someone’s interested, how can they get involved to make sure you’re the one on the ballot in November?

There are 18 counties in Congressional District 4. Each county has precinct chairs and a county chair who are elected in the primary. They will take office for the new term on August 3 and will convene the Congressional Executive Committee on August the 8 in Sulphur Springs, Texas, at the Hopkins County Convention Center. They will take nominations that day and will vote on who will replace Congressman Ratcliffe on the ballot in November. That replacement will face a Democratic challenger on the ballot for the November general election. Congressional District 4 is considered one of the most conservative Republican districts in the nation, so whoever is selected on August 8 will likely be the next Congressman from Northeast Texas. I would encourage anyone to reach out to their precinct chairs and county chairs and ask them to support my nomination.

Anything else you want us to know?

Check out my website at www.travisransom.com where you can sign up and support the campaign.

As part of the Cass County Delegation to the Republican State Convention, Travis attended the event in San Antonio, Texas, in 2018.

BLACK LIVES HAVE ALWAYS

ALWAYS MATTERED TO US

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TALIMENA RALLY “CRUISIN FOR ST. JUDE”

Talimena Rally “Cruisin for St. Jude” was held May 21-23 at the Arkansas Convention Center. Over the last eight years, the motorcycle rally has raised over $250,000 for St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital. This year’s event raised an additional $68,137.

As part of the weekend’s activities, a Harley Davidson Fatboy was given away to Tricia Williams, courtesy of Dr. Bo and Tammy Kelley. A wrap-up party was held at Scottie’s Grill and featured music by the Dusty Rose Band. Next year’s event is set for May 27-29.

Neil and Carol Jones

Briley Court and Ashlyn Cook

Mike Boswell and Marcy Colorigh

Kyle Booker and Veronica Brown

Cathy Felicity and Cindy Morris

Tammy and Dr. Bo Kelley

Jan Shuttleworth, Gina Frederick and Wendy Whacker

Donald and Vanessa Buster with Ronald Buster and Pam Daniels

Dee Hopson

Monica Keil and Carol Clark

Kathy and David Wright

Virginia and David Stone

Lester Trahan and Heidi Therous

Chad McElhannon and Katrena McCarley

Marsha and Kenneth Campbell

Debbie and Tim Covey

T-TOWN 5 BRINGS FUN AND EXCITEMENT TO THE STAGE WHILE PERFORMING AND PLAYING FOR AUDIENCES

MAGIC MUSIC the of

by AMBER SMITH ZALISKI

If you haven’t yet had a chance to catch one of Texarkana’s newest bands in action, it is still pretty likely that you’ve heard at least one of their members live from a stage around town before. The T-Town 5, a collection of veteran musicians playing songs you know and love, is excited to share the magic of music with audiences again soon.

The T-Town 5 is made up of Phoebe Warren (Phoebe Rose) on vocals, Deb Gilliam on vocals and percussion, Mike Gilliam on drums, percussion and vocals, Bill Moss on guitars, Ted Stone on guitars and vocals, and Glenn Smith (Smitty G) on bass. Collectively, the T-Town 5 brings over a century’s worth of experience to the stage, as everyone is a lifelong musician, and many have spent decades performing in working bands. Most recently, the Gilliams played together in the band, Quicksilver. Ted and Smitty G have spent years playing together in Deacon Dark and Ms. Mac and the Groovetones and several other bands respectively. Bill and Phoebe have years of experience performing in different Praise and Worship bands.

If you counted along in your head, you may have the same question that the band gets often: “Wait, shouldn’t y’all be the T-Town 6?” They laugh and make plenty of jokes about it, and Deb explained that while they originally got together in the summer of 2019 as a five-piece and wanted a name that was fun and catchy, they couldn’t pass up the opportunity to add another talented musician, another dimension, to the band. “It’s kind of just become my joke from the stage,” Mike said, “that you never know how many of us will be up there. Maybe it’s six tonight, but next time we may add a horn and a triangle player. Could be the T-Town 10 eventually.”

The more the merrier sentiment makes sense for this group of musicians whose main objective is to have fun and to help other people have fun right along with them. “There are so many downers in this world, especially right now it seems, and music is one of the best ways to bring people together, to escape the day if you need to, and to find some joy,” Deb said.

The T-Town 5’s setlist is roughly a 50/50 blend of pop rock and classic rock, everything from Tom Petty to The Talking Heads, but not necessarily the hits you may be expecting. “We made the decision not to include any country or southern rock,” Mike said, “because there are many bands that already do

those things so well around here.” And while the T-Town 5 may not be a dance band, per se, there are probably a few songs to pull people out of their chairs, and plenty that will have the crowd singing along. “I love that we have a multi-generational group, and a wide variety of interests,” Deb said. “Especially having Phoebe ... not only is she a phenomenal singer, but we’re playing songs I’ve never really even listened to, like ‘Psycho Killer’ by The Talking Heads, and now that has become one of my favorites to perform.”

Since playing their first gig in September of 2019, the T-Town 5 has performed at many local venues and rang in the New Year at Redbone Magic Brewing. “We had so much fun that night, and it really felt like everything was coming together,” Deb said, “and then COVID hit, and we’ve been on a hiatus like most everyone else.” Undoubtedly, the band

Glenn Smith (Smitty G) – bass

Mike Gilliam – drums

Bill Moss – guitars

has been taking their own advice and practicing their craft, and they are looking forward to a more musical end to 2020. They have many gigs on the calendar, starting this month back at Redbone Magic Brewing. (You can find more information about upcoming events on the T-Town 5 Facebook page.)

With years of experience under their belts, the T-Town 5 know well the time and effort involved in putting on a good show. Most of the hard work takes place off stage and behind-the-scenes, but the chance to play your favorite rock song with a group of friends while the crowd sings alongthat is a reward that makes it all worth it. “Performing and playing music is one of those things that always seems to sucker you back in,” Deb said, and it seems as if the rest of the band would agree. “Just the ability to get lost in a song and enjoy the moment is something we love and love to share.”

Phoebe Warren (Phoebe Rose) – vocals

Ted Stone – guitars and vocals

Deb Gilliam – vocals and percussion

medical professional SPOTLIGHT

This special section provides comprehensive coverage of medical professionals in the Four States area. It is designed to help you navigate today’s health field and make informed decisions on care provider options.

HIGH QUALITY CARE WITH A HOMETOWN TOUCH

De Kalb Physicians Clinic is a hometown clinic that strives to deliver effective health care in a rural community that exceeds way beyond De Kalb’s borders. The professionals at the clinic provide primary health care for everyone – from all walks of life to all ages and all perspectives. The patients who visit the clinic are not just a name; they are a teacher, grandparent, farmer, daughter, carpenter, son, mother, auto mechanic, and father.

When illness or injury strikes, De Kalb Physicians Clinic steps in to care for those in need with the goal of seeing them improve and recover. A patientcentered clinic with a caring and compassionate staff, the physicians are committed to continuing the highest quality of care by providing a hometown touch. Although the medical field is changing rapidly and many specialties

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are dwindling, primary care is expanding and gearing up to focus more on preventative care and wellness.

The entire staff at De Kalb Physicians Clinic understands how difficult it can be when patients are diagnosed with a disease. They are available to all of their patients and will work with them while they are being treated for every condition. Their board-certified doctors are expertly-trained to provide diagnosis and treatment of most acute and chronic diseases.

Local people who care about the community, the professionals at De Kalb Physicians Clinic strive to heal the whole family, from the infant to the elderly. They work closely with each patient to create individualized treatment plans customized to fit each patient’s needs and lifestyle.

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PRIMARY CARE YOU CAN TRUST... CLOSE TO HOME

At CHRISTUS Trinity Clinic, our distinguished healthcare providers are dedicated to being your partner in health and wellness. With locations in Texarkana, Texas; New Boston, Texas; and Hope, Arkansas, our clinics provide comprehensive primary care services and treatments for your entire family. Same day appointments and telemedicine visits are available.

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DENTIST A REASON TO SMILE

For over 19 years, making people smile has been the mission of Andrew S. Curry, D.D.S. With individualized treatment plans to suit each patient, Dr. Curry and his staff offer the highest level of patient care and dentistry in a very relaxing environment. They provide the latest pioneering techniques in dental implant restorations including crowns, overpartials and overdentures. In addition, Dr. Curry offers cosmetic dental services including porcelain veneers, white fillings, and teeth whitening.

Dedicated, thorough, and articulate are some of the words used to describe Dr. Curry, whose friendly, gentle manner has earned him the title of Best Dentist. While many dentists offer the typical dental services, Dr. Curry offers sleep medicine, advanced technology (CT scans versus x-rays), and unparalleled customer service.

With exciting, new technology that is less invasive and makes the patient feel more at ease, the future of dental care is continually evolving and so is Dr. Curry and his staff. They provide staff members who speak Spanish so they can meet the diverse needs of their patients. Comprehensive dental care for all ages can be found at Dr. Curry’s office. Call to make your appointment soon. They look forward to seeing you and helping make your smile even brighter!

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Experts Ask the

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What Type of Leader Are You?

Everyone has their own built-in approach to leading others. “Do you know what your personal leadership style is?”

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The Coaching Leader is great when employees are open to improving themselves. These types of leaders take responsibility for their own professional development. Just keep in mind that if you want quick results, this approach will not be the most productive. Coaching is a two-way commitment. Both the employee and the coaching leader must work together and have the buy-in for this style of leadership to be successful.

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Story A Redemption

AFTER MANY UPS AND DOWNS

THROUGHOUT HIS LIFE, HAVEN HOMES’ CHAD COLEMAN KNOWS

THAT HE IS RIGHT WHERE GOD WANTS HIM TO BE

by LINDSEY MCMILLAN

Haven Homes has been in the Texarkana community since 2013. It is a Christian, nonprofit agency providing safe and transitional housing to women graduating from the Bowie County Women’s Recovery Center. Jeni Eldridge is the Executive Director of Haven Homes, whose mission is to bring restoration to broken people through grace-based discipleship. A new facet to Haven Homes began less than a year ago and under the leadership and helm of Texarkana native Chad Coleman. Jenni recruited Chad to get involved with the center’s mission, and now Haven Homes serves both men and women who are struggling with life issues such as drug abuse and alcoholism. Throughout the various services they provide such as safe housing, work and service programs, counseling, education, and spiritual guidance, these individuals may not only survive but thrive. They aim to reach those struggling through God’s grace and be blessed with love, hope, and healing. The Bible verse Haven Homes encompasses is from Isaiah 32:7: “You are my hiding place, you will protect me from trouble, and

surround me with songs of deliverance.” Haven Homes is located on 7th Street adjacent to House of Refuge Church, formerly Rose Hill Baptist. They purchased the building in September of 2019 from the church and have been busy renovating the space to meet their needs for the men’s program. There are still local houses around the community which serve the women in the program. However, the men’s faculty is completely confined in this space which has living quarters, bathrooms, a dining area, gym space, library, and other various meeting/conference and office space. Generosity from various donations have outfitted the center with kitchen and workout equipment, books, counseling materials, and non-perishable food and other items. Two Eagle Scout projects have been completed at the center which has further assisted the residents and the program. Various counselors and civic volunteers come in nightly for programs and a strict schedule is followed by all residents. A sample day constitutes rising early for chores and Bible study. The residents then go to various work programs across the city for approximately eight

Chad, Rebecca and Amy Coleman

hours. Dinner is served, and various programs are available each evening. They have had a variety of events which range from Alcoholics Anonymous and Celebrate Recovery meetings to Christian music concerts.

The Center works diligently with local businesses, other nonprofit agencies, churches, as well as the local courts and probation entities to assist the men in the program. With crime, homelessness, and unemployment at a consistent high in the area, Haven Homes helps provide an answer for those suffering from addiction. The goal is to help them become productive and spiritually healthy, able to contribute to society. A unique aspect of the program is that the men themselves are the main volunteers/workers and assist in a variety of jobs from maintenance, cooking, cleaning, and direction of events. Chad serves as the Center’s Operations Manager and says, “The goal is being able to build their self-esteem through service to others in need. We do this daily in some capacity. Not all of our men are job assigned but the men who aren’t at work are on call to help the ministry and the community.”

The Haven Homes Men’s Recovery Center’s main mission is to build disciples, teach job skills, and be of service to the community. There are currently 24 residents in the program full-time, with room to expand to 52 beds in the facility. The program is a year-long, residential one which houses, feeds, educates, and mentors to men fighting addiction. There is absolutely no charge or fee, and the men are also provided work opportunities. Also, being a nonprofit organization, they are not recipients of any state or federal funding. Transportation is provided to and from work, church, and other obligations thanks to the donation of three vans. Chad emphasizes how focusing on long-term success is the ultimate goal for each man in the program: “We try to place our men in positions (jobs) that can sustain them when they graduate the program ... a job with a good

Laura Ponder, Lorrie Harper, Jeni Eldridge, Chad Coleman and Robert Sanderson display their Haven Homes T-shirts that Commercial National Bank provided to them.

This year, Chad took several men to a conference at Sky Ranch.

Chad, Rebecca and Amy at Jackson Square in the French Quarter in New Orleans, Louisiana, during a family trip.

income, that could have benefits. We want them to find a church home, one they are comfortable with and can continue to support. We have some type of volunteer effort every weekend that everyone participates in.”

Chad’s connection to the Men’s Center hits very close to home and one which he considers to be a driving force. Having been sober for nine years, Chad sees the opportunity to serve others in this capacity as a way to get back many years that he lost. He graduated from Pleasant Grove High School and grew up attending First Baptist Church Texarkana. His parents were active in church, as they taught the college Sunday School class, and his dad served as a deacon. His dad went on to be ordained and was the pastor at Victory City Baptist Church in Leary. Chad recalls growing up going to church and playing sports. As a young teenager what started out as having fun with friends turned more serious. At age 16, he started getting citations for being a minor in possession of alcohol: “I just wanted to party. I didn’t really have a relationship with God. When I was 18, I started smoking pot and got my first DWI. Over the years that followed I collected a lot of DWIs. All my activities usually revolved around alcohol being present.” That started a long road with law enforcement and mandatory supervision. A possession charge placed Chad in the Texas Substance Abuse Felony Punishment Facility (SAFPF) program for a year.

After his release, he received another DWI that violated his Bowie County probation and was sentenced to two years in state prison. During this time his mother passed away, and he had to miss attending her funeral. Later on, another DWI resulted in his receiving the maximum allowable sentence of 10 years for a third offense DWI. Chad says, “It certainly wasn’t my third, just the third I was convicted of. I deserved it. I did 18 months and was released on parole. After some personal trust and money issues, I started drinking again. A year later, I walked out of a convenience store

Chad and daughter, Rebecca, with Charlotte Shelton, GiGi Erie and Jon Erie during the Pleasant Grove Hawks playoff game last year.

and a police officer was parked behind me. He asked me to get my ID then informed me that he was sending me back to prison for DWI.” This time Chad was sentenced to 15 years, of which he served four and a half years before being released on parole.

After many ups and downs and lost time, Chad recalls that this was finally the last time. “I went through a program pre-release and decided to stop wasting my life. I started attending church and going to Celebrate Recovery. I coached soccer and volunteered with the Christian Warriors. I took some steps toward God, and He took bigger ones toward me. It took me completely failing before I would let go.” Chad then realized he was meant to use the new chance God gave him to help others. The Men’s Recovery Center came about from many gathering together to see it happen, one he is so proud to be a part of. “We are seeing amazing things happen. I’m so far from perfect but that’s okay, I am where I am supposed to be. I stay on the path and keep moving forward. If you have the ability to help someone, use it.”

Chad has been married to his wife, Amy, since 2007. They met as middle schoolers and dated off and on for years as she was a graduate of Texas High School. Amy works for her family business, Holiday Cleaners. She graduated from Baylor and has a master’s degree in Accounting from Texas A&M University-Texarkana. Their daughter’s name is Rebecca. She is 12 years old and a student at Texas Middle School. She plays on a travel soccer team and also enjoys tennis. Chad and Amy have two nieces who live with them: Julie Sherman is a sophomore at Arkansas and her sister, Noelle, is a junior at Pleasant Grove High School. As a family, they enjoy traveling and attend Church on the Rock. In his spare time, Chad enjoys working out at the gym.

There are positive and big plans for Haven Homes in the months ahead. Besides continuing to expand their Men’s Center, they are planning to open a resale shop in conjunction with a bakery and coffee shop in the former Bryce’s Cafeteria building. Chad continues, “We hope to make it a destination that will continue the high standards the Lawrence family set in Texarkana. Bryce’s is part of our history, and we want to honor that as well as be able to serve Texarkana and benefit our ministry.” Relying solely on donations and a generous community, the shop will have various clothes, furniture, and housewares for sale in addition to cherished Bryce’s treats. As a Christian ministry focusing on recovery and success, donations of any kind, along with volunteers are necessary. “We will have employees that will run the operations on-site. We can’t wait to turn out some Bryce’s peach pies. We want to be an asset. Anyone that wants to help, we would love to have. We want this to be for our town and would love for our town to participate.”

This testimony of Chad’s rings true with Haven Homes’ mission of joy, hope, and faith: “Be thankful, be blessed and be of service.” Chad says, “There had to be a reason that He kept me alive and I trusted that. The guilt of wasting nine years in jail and 27 spent drinking still haunted me. I prayed and prayed, and one day God put it all together. My testimony and failures today are being used to help others who are struggling. All those things that I picked up along the way are now all coming into play. He had a plan all along.”

For more information on Haven Homes, please visit their website at www.havenhomestexarkana.com or call 903-3747059. Help is available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to anyone in crisis or immediate need.

Although he has a long history of run-ins with law enforcement, Chad is grateful for a new chance to help others by sharing his story with them.

Chad chats with a youngster during a Fields of Faith event at Hawk Stadium.

Chad admits that it took completely failing before he would make a positive change in his life.

Amy and Chad at the Pleasant Grove High School junior prom in 1988.

JULY 2020

JULY 16

Joseph Raymond will host a Grand Opening Celebration for his Contemporary Art Gallery, located at 214 East Broad Street in downtown Texarkana. Ribbon cutting ceremonies will begin at 4:30 p.m. with the grand opening celebration from 5-9. Light hors d’oeuvres will be served. Call 903-280-5878 for additional information.

JULY 11

The Pink Floyd Laser Spectacular, a smash hit multimedia laser and light show, featuring the original master recordings of Pink Floyd will be held during a 7:30 p.m. performance in the historic Perot Theatre. The show uses lasers, lighting, video and other special effects to interpret what the mind is “seeing,” creating visual, audio, and creative senses. Call 903-7924992 for ticket information or visit: www.trahc.org

THROUGH JULY 18

The Regional Arts Center will host a pop-up show, “We Can’t Just Be Quiet,” in collaboration with TAAC (TRAHC’s African-American Committee). In direct response to recent current events, items on display will include posters, clothing, signs, videos, recordings, and any other types of media. The purpose of this exhibit is to create a community conversation about these recent events and to encourage community members to come together in a peaceful way. For more information, call 903-792-8681.

AUGUST 2020

AUGUST 22

The sixth annual Clay’s Golf & Guitars golf tournament and concert will take place at Northridge Country Club. The concert will feature Sail On, a Beach Boys Tribute Band. Tickets are $50, and doors open at 7 p.m. For more information, call 903-277-0192.

JULY 13-18

The Texarkana Children Charities Open with players from both the Men’s and Women’s All Pro Tour will take place at Texarkana Country Club and Northridge Country Club. Proceeds from the tournament will benefit Runnin’ WJ Ranch. For sponsorship information, contact: mvanherpen@ledwell.com or call 903-748-9532.

JULY 18

The 24th annual Veterans Information Fair will be held from 9 a.m. until 1 p.m. at the Elks Lodge #2771, located at 3702 New Boston Road. The fair is free to veterans, active duty, reserve and National Guard personnel and their immediate families. The event is hosted by Texarkana Area Chapter #278 Vietnam Veterans of America, Inc. For information, call 870-773-8279, 903-556-1613, 903-824-2727, 903-6287216 or visit: www.vva278.com or the Vietnam Veterans of America #278 Facebook page.

photo by ALAMOND PHOTOGRAPHY

BEACONS of the Community

TOGETHER, FAYE AND GERALD BROOKS TREASURE EDUCATION, FAMILY, AND SERVICE TO OTHERS

by JENNIFER JORDAN

Service and devotion to one’s community has long been regarded as the mark of an exemplary citizen. Gerald Brooks fits this model through his decades of work in Texarkana. Together with his wife, Faye, Gerald shines as a beacon for community and neighborhood stewardship.

Education forms the backbone of Gerald’s life. He grew up in Tyler, graduating from Emmett J. Scott High School and earning a bachelor’s degree from Texas College, one of the nation’s oldest Black colleges. There, Gerald met fellow freshman Ruthie Faye James. Faye was born and raised on a farm in the Mount Olive community in Cass County, which has been an important aspect of her life. “She taught me a great deal of how to work and care for the farm,” Gerald remarks. Two years after meeting, the couple married.

While in college, Gerald joined the Omega Phi Psi service fraternity and currently celebrates 60 years of continuous service. Upon graduation, Texarkana became the Brooks’ home. Gerald began his educational career at TISD in 1963 as a classroom teacher at Dunbar High School, an allblack campus, and later moved to Pine Street Junior High. He continued his education by receiving a master’s degree in Education, with 24 hours of post-degree work in school administration, from East Texas State University. Soon, Gerald worked as an assistant principal at Pine Street and moved to Texas High School as an assistant principal in 1985. He also served as an adjunct history professor at Texarkana College from 1970-1990, teaching U.S. history and Black history. Gerald has also taught classes at the Federal Corrections Institution. After 40 years of

service to TISD, Gerald retired in 2003, but he has not slowed down even a bit. In all of his years teaching, the highlight is working with students and seeing them “learn and grow.” “The future of education looks very bright for all who want to learn a skill or earn a degree,” Gerald comments.

Gerald’s continuous involvement in local organizations demonstrates a deep commitment to our community. In addition to his service at FCI and Texarkana College, Gerald has been elected to the TISD Board of Trustees four times after being appointed to fill Dr. James S. Grant’s District 2 seat in 2013. He currently serves as Vice President. Gerald also mentors fourth and fifth graders at Waggoner Creek Elementary school. “I would like to see our students take advantage of the educational opportunities available in this area,” he states. In addition to his educational volunteerism, Gerald maintains memberships in several teachers’ associations, both at the local and state level, and has served as Treasurer of the local Texas Retired Teachers Association affiliate chapter as well as Finance committee member at the state level.

Gerald was the first Black to be elected to the TEXAR Federal Credit Union Board of Directors in 1974, a position he held for over 20 years. In his time on the TEXAR Board, Gerald served as Chairman. He was also one of the first Blacks to desegregate TISD in 1967. He and Faye were the first Blacks appointed to work the Bowie County general elections. They are active members of Oak Street Baptist Church, where both serve on the Senior Usher Board and Gerald on the Financial Committee.

Gerald and Faye’s hearts belong to their family. They celebrate 60 years of marriage and have raised three children—daughters, Angela Bunn and Yolanda Evans, and son, Grallin Brooks, who have given them a total of 10 grandchildren. Angela has four daughters –

As a 24-year breast cancer survivor, Faye appreciated the support of her family members during the 2019 Race for the Cure® held in Texarkana.

Deyaunna, Deneshya, Dominique, and Dyashia, while Yolanda has two daughters, Brandy and Brittany. Grallin has two sons—Brandon and Demetrius—and two daughters—Carmella and Chakeeia. Gerald and Faye also have 17 great-grandchildren, with two on the way.

After raising their children, Faye worked in production at the Lone Star Army Ammunition plant as well as Johnson Control Battery Division. She is a 24-year breast cancer survivor. Upon retirement, Faye applied her lifelong horticultural skills to become a Master gardener. Both Faye and Gerald enjoy working in their garden and yard during the spring and summer months. Every week they drive to Faye’s family farm to check on her mother who turned 97 years old this June. When they are not volunteering, Gerald and Faye like to listen to jazz music and travel with their family.

One of Gerald and Faye’s favorite quotes is “no man is an island and no man stands alone.” This sentiment highlights the couple’s dedication to their family and to their greater community. They are role models for their family, for the countless students Gerald has taught, and for the citizens of Texarkana who benefit from their service. Not only have the Brookses espoused the tenets of education and hard work, they have also shown people the value of caring and doing for others. It is as simple as Gerald eloquently states, “Love one another.”

Gerald and Faye with their three children, Angela, Yolanda and Grallin, during the late ’70s.

Carmella, Grallin, Courtlyn and Gerald enjoy visiting with Gerald’s mother, Cleo Caldwell, during a family gathering.

Dedicated to the Texarkana area, Faye and Gerald enjoy supporting community events.

A longtime educator, Gerald served as the assistant principal of Pine Street Junior High School.

photo by ALAMOND PHOTOGRAPHY

A Servant’s Heart

by VICKI MELDE

CAMMIE AUTREY-MOODY HAS DEDICATED HER LIFE TO SERVING HER COMMUNITY AND HER COUNTRY

Patriotism, love of country, and service to others are values that many share – but not everyone transforms their values into action in the way that Cammie Autrey-Moody does. From her volunteer service with organizations such as CASA (Court Appointed Special Advocates) and leading Bible studies at her church to serving in the Naval Reserve for eight years, Cammie puts her love for serving others and her Lord into practice.

A Texarkana native, life as a child for Cammie was rather idyllic. Her family moved to Copeville, Texas, (near Rockwall) where she attended Community Independent School District. This small country school suited Cammie well, and she fondly recalled living by a lake and spending endless summer days swimming. Vacations to Swaha Lodge were a chance to connect with family members who lived in Texarkana. Those deep family connections drew Cammie back to Texarkana in 2002 so she could be closer to her family.

The desire to travel – and the need for a way to fund her college tuition

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– led Cammie to enter the military service. Upon meeting this bright and professional paralegal, (Cammie has worked for David Crisp of Crisp & Freeze law firm for 17 years) it is not immediately apparent that this is a woman who is combat-trained. Cammie recalled her time in training, “I was in the Naval Reserve so the Navy sent me to San Diego, California, one weekend per month for a year to complete the academic portion of the 8404 Combat Training School. After successful completion of the academics, I then went to Camp Pendleton, California, to combat training school. It was much like a boot camp – except a lot more difficult since it was not a Navy boot camp but a Marine training. The Navy is the only medical support the Marines have. I spent two weeks in the summer training in Camp Pendleton, California. We humped 50 miles with a full backpack, slept in the field, slept with our weapons, and trained in finding our way back to camp with a compass. We did a lot of

Upon completion of 8404 training, Cammie was assigned to the 4th Marine Division, 14th Marine Regiment – an artillery unit – stationed at Naval Air Station, Dallas where she served as a field corpsman. At that time, women were not allowed within 100 yards of the firing line. “I trained once a month, every month, and we went to the field for our active duty two weeks out of the year in the summer,” she explained. “I received my orders in Desert Storm but the war was over so quickly that I did not go. I was SO disappointed!” (It takes a very dedicated individual to feel disappointment in not being sent to fight in a war.)

As Cammie was preparing for Navy boot camp, she was also preparing for her career in the legal field. She graduated from VTI for Paralegal Studies in Arlington, Texas, in 1989 and left for Navy boot camp immediately following graduation. “Both the medical and legal fields interested me,” she shared. “Ultimately, I chose the legal field.” Her career is extremely rewarding, and she described her work as “not a job.” David Crisp and his wife, Cindy, and David and Sonya Freeze are considered “family.” Cammie and her husband, Les, enjoy social time with them outside of the office.

Cammie and Les have been married for 16 years and have a son, Jackson, who will be in fifth grade at Morriss Elementary this fall. “I also have two bonus sons, Lee Moody and Daniel Moody, who reside in Austin, Texas,” Cammie added. Their three beloved dogs – “Drake,” “Copper,” and “Simba,” complete the Moody family. Dedication to community and fellow man runs deep in the Moody household – Les is retired from the Texarkana Arkansas Police Department and currently works with the American Red Cross.

When asked about what serving her country means to her, Cammie was quick to state that she is filled with a sense of gratitude and pride in having invested in our country. “I am grateful for the men and women that came before me, those that came after that, and those that are still

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Republican leaders from across the 4th Congressional District gathered on December 2, 2019, in Mt. Vernon, Texas, for a reception/ dinner hosted by Congressman Ratcliffe to show his appreciation for all the hard work that Cammie and her fellow Republican leaders do for the district.

Cammie during Navy Boot Camp in 1989.

serving today. This gratitude extends not only to fellow veterans, but also to the friends and family who sacrificed, endured, and patiently waited while their loved one served,” she shared. “I was taught pride in my country and our Nation’s flag. I still get teary-eyed and feel chills when I hear the National Anthem.”

Though she seeks no recognition for her service, Cammie’s dedication and patriotism have not gone unnoticed. On Veterans Day, November 11, 2019, Congressman John Ratcliffe presented Cammie with a flag that was flown over the Texas State Capitol in her honor as well as a certificate of appreciation.

Cammie’s life exemplifies her favorite scripture, Matthew 7:12: Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. In addition to 14 years of serving as an advocate for abused children thru CASA, Cammie also serves as President of the Texarkana Texas Republican Women and is a sustainer of the Junior League of Texarkana. She teaches a “Run for God” Bible study at Church on the Rock and teaches the 4-year-old Sunday School class. This dynamic woman truly exemplifies a servant’s heart.

When asked about the wisest advice she’s ever given someone, Cammie shared the following:

Respect is not a thing that comes through name, profession, or money …

Respect is something earned through the things you do and the way you live.

Cammie Autrey-Moody has certainly earned respect in the way she lives every day.

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Les, Jackson and Cammie enjoy a little sun and surf at the beach during a family vacation.

EXQUISITE INTERIORS

STRIKING. PRISTINE. IMMACULATE.

by SUZY TURNER photos by DR. ROBIN ROGERS

When driving down Shilling Road, it is hard not to notice this gorgeous 4 bedroom, 4-1/2 bath beauty perched in the center of five beautiful, picturesque acres. Simpson Signature Homes has left no stone unturned as the builder created this home with an exceptional floor plan, luxurious finishes, and contemporary aesthetics.

A unique iron door greets visitors, leading into the immaculate entryway. Pleasing visual effects include tall ceilings, a winding staircase, and a well-lit room. The formal dining room is located to the left of the foyer, providing a stylish traditional feel. The classic wooden dining table holds a beautiful floral centerpiece, created specifically for the homeowners by Marie’s Interior Design. A wine nook, situated off of the formal dining room offers a fun whimsical cubby, complete with glass storage and a wine cooler.

Large windows stretch along the backside of the house joining the indoors with the outdoors. The open-concept living and dining

area is strategically placed with views of both the entryway and the outdoor patio. Wood flooring blends harmoniously with beautiful fabrics and textures in the comfortable living area. The design of the fireplace brings warmth into the space while the sitting area provides the perfect place to watch the big screen TV.

The luxurious master suite offers a comfortable space for reading, relaxing, or just chilling out. The beautiful four poster bed is accented with bedding in neutral shades. The homeowner’s mother’s mantel clock reminds one of yesteryear.

A collection of G. Harvey art completes the retreatlike ambiance. A basket weave stone fireplace is situated in a corner, providing the perfect place for rest and relaxation. His and hers baths reflect the owners’ personalities, thanks to decorator Alicia Woodle. His bath features a massive tile walk-in shower and closet, and hers offers a sunken tub, ample storage for accessories, and a closet similar in size to an actual bedroom.

Since the homeowners enjoy a very tight family relationship with their children and grandchildren, the three additional bedrooms offer themed escapes for family sleepovers. The Girls’ Room is dainty and lends a floral print comforter and a functional vanity area. The Boys’ Room sports a Terry Redlin print collection, with masculine themes of ducks and golden retriever puppies. The Antique Room contains a handmade bedroom set with a 140-yearold bed and an antique trunk that was given to the homeowner by her great aunt.

With the perfect mix of contemporary and traditional designs, this beautiful home combines modern, vintage, and organic elements. A media room, toy nook, beach-themed room, laundry room, pantry, and study round out the amenities located in this fabulous home. Surrounded by gorgeous nature views, this 3-year-old home is the gathering place for this large, close-knit family who truly believes that “home is where the heart is.”.

RAISING MY TRIBE

by A li D e A l

I started the New Year of 2020 with a resolution. I was not going to have any big, loud opinions. This was going to be my year to listen more and talk less. Facebook and Instagram have us convinced that our own opinion is right and everyone else is wrong. The only opinion people are concerned about hearing is THEIR opinion coming out of YOUR mouth. It must have all been too much for me last fall because I headed into 2020 ready to not be as loud. What a time for me to make big declarations! Haha. National Pandemic. Homeschooling. Racial tension at an alltime high. Oh, and it is an election year. The world’s many problems have been dragging me down lately. They are suffocating, and I am wearing them like a big heavy coat. My husband keeps asking me, “Are you okay?” I guess the worry I am feeling on the inside is just as visible on the outside.

I believe a lot of the reason I am so weary is because I just don’t see anything changing. I am a realistic, glass is halfempty thinker as I approach things. I think it is the way I protect myself by setting a low threshold for situations. Then when things go better than I had anticipated, I am very happy, surprised, and pleased. It’s my own game of tricking myself into happiness.

I sat around for a few days just wondering and pondering, “How are we going to change the course of this Titanic of a boat world we are living in? There are icebergs all around us ... especially for my Black sisters. Of course, there is also the virus. “Is school going to start back? Are we completely controlled by the media during these elections?” All of these questions matter, but one took priority seating in my mind. “How can I help my Black friends? Do they even want help from a white privilege friend? Or is that in itself racist to think I could lift them out of a funk?” The questions spun all day long ... and there was no end in sight. The weight felt heavier and heavier.

Then it hit me. Or maybe God intervened. There is ONLY one answer, and it is to listen. My resolution for 2020. Nothing more, nothing less.

I simply started texting my friends of color. One, also, happens to be a family member with a biracial son. Looking back, I realize how we avoided talking about her situation to keep things happy and peaceful. I texted, “How are you? These are weird times.” Simple.

Conversations started happening. They were beautiful. They were messy. They were awkward. I asked some hard questions from both sides. White perspective and Black perspectives were considered. Sometimes, my face was cringing as I hit the “send” button.

Right before I started to apologize to them for asking so many questions and wondering if in any way I might have offended them, they jumped in before me to thank me for reaching out to them. The weight started to lift off of me, somewhat. The strange thing was, I told one of them, “I really thought talking to you would make me feel better but I’m finding it just stirs up more thoughts, questions, and feelings for me because I am hearing how you feel. And it is valid. And I’m just sorry.”

I think we are overthinking it as a culture. Don’t save the world. We cannot. Just text a friend, and listen. Everyone wants to be heard. Maybe we can unlock the power of how to change things in our world. Coronavirus, homebound since March, white privilege (I used to hate that word before I started listening, now I get it.), Black moms who worry about their sons, single moms struggling, kids with disabilities, job struggles; we all have issues. But if you are white, start the conversations with your friends of color. I know all lives matter, and there are more than two races. But during this time we need to build some bridges between Blacks and whites. And we need to let them know we care. Then, we will feel more comfortable to SHOW them we care. It starts with you and me.

THE ROAD Tra veled less

BY NICHOLE HOLZE

Deep in the heart of (West) Texas may be the very last place you’d expect to find a welcoming, waterfilled oasis. But, it’s there. It’s a hidden gem called Balmorhea State Park, and it’s one of the largest spring-fed, freshwater pools in the world. Known by the Apache tribes of the southwest as Mescalero Springs, it was a common stopping spot for water. The springs were later named San Solomon Springs by Mexican farmers. The San Solomon Springs feed the crystal clear pool that was built by the CCC back during the Great Depression. The park has undergone many renovations and upgrades over the years, however the original CCC buildings remain. Unfortunately, due to COVID-19, the park is currently closed.

The springs are home to two endangered species of fish that live only in the Balmorhea area: the Pecos Gambusia and Comanche Springs Pupfish. You can get up close with these fish in the large pool at the park; they will swim right up to you! The water is so clear that you can see to the bottom of the 25foot deep pool. Look closely, and you’ll see turtles and a unique catfish swimming amongst the aquatic grasses. The water is cold, between 72 and 76 degrees year-round, but when you’re rolling through West Texas in the summertime, it’s a welcome retreat. There are two diving boards into the water as well. My kids enjoyed the lower diving board and gave me a loud countdown when I jumped off the high dive. I had my waterproof AxisGo camera case with me and was able to get some underwater photos with my iPhone, which was so fun. I dove down into the cool depths, watching the sunlight streak down into the water, and it was easy to imagine a more tropical locale.

If you’re looking for more unique placeskeep heading south to check out Marfa, Texas. It’s become a hot spot for art and culture. There’s even

Coffee in Marfa, Texas

First Steps into the Water

the heart of Marfa. It’s a bit of a detour off of I-10, but as with all of our side trip shenanigans, it’s always worth it

Never afraid of a long drive, Nichole is a homeschooling mom to two and wife to Ryan. Coffee, always, and black please. You can probably find her scheming up their next road trip while hiking in the woods. Experience-based learning and good books abound in their homeschool, as they chase the spark of curiosity where it wanders on the road less traveled.

Prada Art Installation in Marfa

Pecos Gambusia

Wide Angle Lens at Balmorhea

Underwater Shot in the Deep Water

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Each month, Four States Living will choose two people who have “liked” our Facebook page to be featured in The Friend List. Chosen randomly, these two “friends” will answer questions we provide so our readers can get to know them better. The bonus question (the last question) will be related to the theme of each month’s issue.

SARA MARGARET (MILLS) BARNETT

age: 78

occupation: Wadley Volunteer (Retired Educator and Medical Technologist)

If you won the lottery, what is the first thing you would do?

If I won the lottery, I would have the dent repaired in my front passenger car door. Someone apparently opened their door into mine at the grocery store sometime last summer. Then I would add funds to my sister’s scholarship fund at UCA and our fund at Texarkana College. I’d give 10% to my church, $25K to each of my two kids and three grands to invest/spend, and I’d invest the remaining amount.

When you have 30 minutes of free time, how do you pass the time?

I would phone my cousin Sue. If she wasn’t available, I would read some devotionals/Sunday School literature.

If you were allowed to have one wish granted, what would it be?

I really wish for a healthy and loving world.

At what business could you max out a credit card?

Prior to COVID-19, I could have easily maxed out a credit card at Dillard’s, Chico’s, Soft Surroundings or J. Jill. But now I would max it out at the grocery store. I have figured out that I don’t really NEED much.

Choose a movie title for the story of your life.

“Days of Our Lives” ... not a movie, just a soap opera about a retired mother with grown children who drives the school taxi until the grandkids turn 16. She goes to baseball and football games and friends’ kids’ dance recitals and loves her family & friends. It would not be like the drama we see on the soaps!

What are you currently watching on Netflix?

We don’t have Netflix, and I just recently watched my first Hallmark movie! I probably max out with two or three movies per year.

If you could visit anywhere in the world, where would you go?

I have never been to the northwest USA; that is next on my bucket list.

If you could only have three apps on your smartphone, which would you pick? Facebook. Maps. Sports.

What’s your favorite sport to watch, and which team do you root for?

My favorite sport is baseball (and I have really missed live sports)! I also like football. My favorite teams are the Rangers, Aggies, U of A Hogs, and of course, our local high school teams.

DAVE MCMULLEN

age: 62

Occupation: Teacher, Pleasant Grove Middle School

If you won the lottery, what is the first thing you would do?

If I win the lottery, I’d buy a P-51 Mustang and learn how to fly the thing.

When you have 30 minutes of free time, how do you pass the time?

If I had 30 minutes of free time, I’d work on a model airplane.

If you were allowed to have one wish granted, what would it be?

If I had one wish granted, I’d wish for more wishes.

At what business could you max out a credit card?

I could max out a credit card at Bobe’s Hobby House in Pensacola, Florida. It’s old school junky and fantastic!

Choose a movie title for the story of your life.

Movie title for the story of my life: “Airplane!”

What are you currently watching on Netflix?

I don’t watch Netflix. Yeah, I know. I like the thrill of putting in a DVD without looking at the title, just to surprise myself.

If you could visit anywhere in the world, where would you go?

If I could visit anywhere in the world, I’d go to Australia or Canada. And I’d drive. Okay, maybe not to Australia.

If you could only have three apps on your smartphone, which would you pick? Facebook. Pandora. The Weather Channel. “

What’s your favorite sport to watch, and which team do you root for?

I love Texas Rangers baseball, Dallas Cowboys football, Dallas Stars hockey, and Dallas Mavericks basketball.

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WHAT ONE THING HAS REMAINED CONSTANT THROUGHOUT YOUR LIFETIME?

My one constant in my life has been a loving family that always has an abiding faith. Prayer is a constant companion.

The one constant in my life is my love of music. My parents taught me to love a pretty melody, and I was raised on a steady diet of Andy Williams, Johnny Mathis, the Ray Conniff Singers, “The Music Man” and “The Sound of Music.” I had to discover the Beatles and Van Halen on my own.