Four States Living Magazine May 2022

The Way I See It...

PUBLISHER’S LETTER

Robin Rogers, Ed.D.

Each May, Four States Living Magazine celebrates wonderful humans in our May issue, entitled “Tribute to Women.” The women honored are from all walks of life and have been selected by the previous year’s Tribute to Women honorees for their character, intelligence, volunteer spirit, determination, humility, and love for others. This annual issue reminds me of what a strong, female community we have, and I’m thrilled to present their stories.

May is also the month in which we honor mothers. We’ve all got one, and unless you are a mother, it is hard to wrap your head around the scope of duties that mothers actually have. Mothers are undoubtedly special. If you have ever tried to get to church, or a wedding, or a special event with more than a couple of kids, all looking spit shined, arriving on time, with nobody crying or having fallen down, you know the struggle. It’s reality. Daily. Wake them up. Get them dressed. Feed them. Then the animals. Mothers are the chauffeurs to school, then home from school. You know that the pick up line can be brutal. If you aren’t in line 45 minutes early, your kids will be waiting for at least 20 minutes, and then you’ll for certain hear about it. Haircuts. Doctors’ appointments. Dental appointments. Groceries. Dry cleaners. More laundry. Trash cans. Lawn. Dishes. Vacuum. Sweep. Mop. Dust. Scrub toilets. Get the mail. Pay the bills. Balance the checkbook. School projects. Don’t get me started on school projects, because I was always just angry by the time the poster board was on the dining table at 10 p.m. the night before the due date with glue guns burning and a craft box of junk strewn across the room. Extracurricular appointments can be the death of the most organized adult. Heaven help you if Janie has dance at the same time Johnny has Scouts. Wash the pets. Or if you can afford it, run them to the groomer. Veterinary checkups. Keep plants alive, I say, as I am staring at a dead container on a side table in my living

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room. Cook. Microwave. Clean up. Repeat. Give baths. Wash towels. Repeat.

As moms, we have the lead role of constant nag. Did you brush your teeth? Do you have deodorant on? Did you finish your homework? Have you written that thank you note? Did you wash everything? Have you changed pants this week? The last two questions seem to only apply to boys. Moms are the planners and the organizers. With family vacations. Taking the cars in for oil changes. Washing the cars. Checking on parents. Watching out for the neighbors. We are the closet sorters. The Goodwill and Salvation Army runners. We are garage-salers. Heaven help those who have garage sales. We are tutors. We are punishers. We are experts at organizing camps, play dates, birthday parties, holiday meals, and Christmas shopping. Let’s not throw into the mix newborns or kids still in car seats. Those are the years that I don’t remember, and I’m thankful for photographs. They are fuzzy.

I do remember when the only way to clean the baby bottles was to take the pieces apart and boil them in a big pot on the stove. At one point, I had two babies, both in diapers, just 15 months apart. And I started boiling the bottles and left the kitchen to check on the girls. And I forgot about the bottles. And I went outside to check on my garden. And I remember coming back into the house and seeing smoke. The water had evaporated out of the pot, and the bottles were on fire, along with the cabinets around the stove. It was sheer terror, like when you lose a kid in a department store and find him hiding under a clothes rack after alerting security. That time I was lucky my entire house didn’t burn down, and only the kitchen had to be redone. I was sick for weeks that my family could have actually been hurt.

Motherhood is being able to diagnose a fever by just putting your head up to a child’s forehead. It’s being the

PUBLISHER

Dr. Robin Rogers

EDITOR

Suzy Turner

GRAPHIC DESIGNER

Kimberly Stone

SALES REPRESENTATIVE

Victoria Herman

PHOTOGRAPHER

Kendal Dockery Photography

FEATURED COLUMNISTS

Nichole Holze

Velvet Hall Cool

person, who, no matter how old your children get, knows when they want their backs scratched because they simply turn around and hunch up their shoulders. We scratch, we tickle, we pick, and inspect. We laugh at their stories, revel in their days. We have their friends in our homes like they are our own. We watch them eat, converse, and sleep. In amazement. We ask God how He knew exactly what we needed in life. We ask the same thing when our perfect kids do imperfect things. They fall down. We help pick them up. Until one day, they must face the journey with just two wheels, knowing that they will fall again, in spite of no training wheels, and we will still be there when they come back, scraped up and in tears. Being a parent isn’t a job for 18 years. It’s a lifetime commitment. I know this better than anybody, and I feel fortunate every single day. We never stop watching, caring, fretting, and helping. And we don’t ever give up on them. The older we get, the wiser we become. Eventually, we realize the most important job we ever had was that of mother.

Somehow, we make it happen. Just like we pull Christmas shopping out of an empty hat. We make it happen. Mothers are the ones in need of a weekly massage for all of the stress knots that accumulate in the shoulders and neck. I said need, not get. If you work in the home as a homemaker, I applaud you. If you work full-time outside of the home, are a single parent, still keep the home, and maintain any semblance of balance, I am just in awe. Being a mother is the most difficult job that I have always wanted to have, and the hardest job I’ve ever done. Real women are warriors. In different sizes, shapes, and colors. With spit up on their blouses, gray hairs, and messy closets.

This month, let’s celebrate all of the mothers in our lives. And then get a massage! I hope you enjoy all we have to share this month, and as always, thanks for reading FSLM.

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ON THE COVER - MAY 2022

The 2022 Tribute to Women honorees have all made a significant impact on the lives of others. Each woman featured in this issue was chosen by an honoree from last year’s Tribute to Women to be recognized for their extraordinary contributions to the Texarkana community. Whether an educator, friend, entrepreneur, or volunteer, these women have climbed the ladder of success, and FSLM thanks them for their service to others.

See “A Tribute to Women” on page 10.

Meet THE WOMEN OF FOUR STATES

TABLE OF CONTENTS

Kathy

Shelia

Thelma

Vicki

Suzy

Susanne

ALSO IN THIS ISSUE

INSIDE : WOMEN OF FOUR STATES

Women in the Four States area are making an impact in every industry, enterprise, and workplace imaginable. Read more about these inspiring professionals, starting on page 14.

photo by KENDAL DOCKERY PHOTOGRAPHY

Kathy Allen

As a public school educator, Kathy Allen has served in many various roles, including special education classroom teacher, educational diagnostician, curriculum director, middle school principal, and superintendent of schools. She admits that she isn’t quite ready to “fully retire,” so she currently works as a field service agent for the Region 8 Education Service Center and serves as a liaison between the Service Center and the 46 superintendents within the Region 8 area.

Growing up, Kathy Allen says that she didn’t really have any grandiose ideas about her life. She imagined she would become a teacher, be happily married, live in a cute white frame house with a white picket fence, and tend to a large flower garden. She envisioned being the mother of four children, owning a dog, and living happily ever after! Quite honestly, her ambitions and aspirations weren’t too far off the mark. She did become an educator, is happily married to her husband, Mike, enjoys tending to her plants, is a mother to two children, Ashley Jones (married to Casey) and Ryan Allen (married to Jessica), has five grandchildren (Jaxon, Cooper, Elerby, Avery, and Abe), has a French Bulldog named Sid, and leads a very happy life!

A graduate of Hooks High School, Kathy attended Texas Woman’s University, Texas A&M University-Texarkana, and Nova Southeastern University. As a gift to herself, Kathy decided to go back to school at age 50 to earn her doctorate degree, while working full-time, going to classes on weekends, and being a wife, mother, and grandmother. A professional accomplishment that Kathy is very proud of is going back to Hooks ISD and becoming the superintendent of schools there. “I went back to where I had developed a strong foundation on which to build my life and my career path, to serve the school district in a leadership role, and to give back to the community I was born and grew up in. My dad, at age 91, was thrilled to have us back home in Hooks.” Sadly, Kathy’s father passed away during her first year back, but she will always cherish his thoughts, unending support, and great joy regarding Kathy coming home.

Kathy is very passionate about education. “I chose education because I’ve always loved school, and my neighborhood was filled with great teachers and administrators that I admired and respected,” she explains. “We are born into this world ready to learn. Making sure every child receives the best education possible is crucial to not only their well-being but also the growth and development of our communities, our cultures, our overall way of life to

come. Providing them an excellent education now is giving them the keys to the world.”

Throughout her career in education, Kathy has learned many valuable lessons that she enjoys sharing with others: take time to listen to students, parents and staff; be visible and approachable to those you work with; operate with integrity in all that you do; do the work that is expected with your position; and always be confident in yourself. “If I had to give advice to young women today, I would say to be true to yourself, know what makes you feel happy, satisfied and fulfilled in life and follow that! Don’t let your dreams be extinguished. Keep moving forward and fight for what you want,” Kathy says. “I believe it is important to pray and seek God’s guidance in our life. That’s the way to truly live the life you were meant to live and have the satisfaction in life we all seek. I would add that this doesn’t always happen in ‘our’ timeline but in ‘His’ time.”

In her spare time, Kathy enjoys traveling with Mike and their furry companion, Sid. Some of her favorite destinations are Key West, Florida, Grand Teton National Park, Banff, Canada, Creede, Colorado, and the list goes on and on! “Mike and I traveled many miles across the country on our Harley Davidson. We rode for about 10 years, and I can assure you that there is no better way to experience the beauty of America than on a Harley!” she exclaims. She also enjoys reading for pleasure, attending events with her “church ladies group” at Antioch Christian Church, following her older grandchildren to their school activities, and taking care of her plants.

Kathy’s most crucial advice for women is to take care of themselves. “We continue to try and balance family, home, work and life. We must realize there is so much beyond our control. Learn (practice) to let it go!” she urges. “Know your priorities, don’t give in to trying to do it all – you must take care of yourself, nurture yourself. You are worth it! Be your best you! Do something fun as often as you can. Let your ‘inner girl’ shine. There is so much truth in the motto to ‘Live, Laugh, Love’... hold on to that and laugh as much as you can. It’s very cathartic.”

Kathy and Mike love living in the Four States area because of the strong sense of community here. She appreciates that this area has a “growth mindset” that helps keep it moving forward. (Photo by Shana C. Carter Photography)

“As a woman, you must have the adaptability of a chameleon and the persistence of the devil!”

- Bobbie Whitmore Gentry, Kathy’s mother

As someone who has been blessed to have had an amazing career as a professional educator, I want to continue to recognize others who have demonstrated the same passion for the education of children and who have had similar positive experiences. Kathy Allen certainly is one of those extraordinary individuals. It is my extreme honor to nominate her as an honoree in the Tribute to Women issue of Four States Living Magazine

Although in different decades, Kathy and I began our careers in education similarly. We both chose to devote our study and focus on educating students with special needs. Little did we know that choice would cause our paths to cross many years later. Kathy was the Special Education Director for Western Bowie County Cooperative when I accepted an educational diagnostician position to work under her direction. This was the beginning of our relationship and would cause me to admire and respect her gifts and abilities as an educator and a leader.

Kathy is a knowledgeable, talented, and dedicated educator who has had a positive influence on the lives of many. She has a friendly, caring personality that opens lines of communication with students, staff, parents, and other colleagues. She has a calming presence in the face of adversity and contagious laughter that brings joy to any situation.

With a wealth of knowledge and experience, Kathy has served in a variety of positions from classroom teacher to superintendent. She is a woman who truly deserves recognition and appreciation for serving our local area well in the most important profession, the education of our children.

THE WAY Bertie Norton SEES HER

TAYLOR BARR

OWNER/STYLIST

THE BEAUTY BARR

First and foremost, Taylor Barr’s most important duty is to provide a great service to her customers. As the owner and stylist at The Beauty BARR for the past seven years, Taylor stays updated on the latest trends and emits a positive and professional attitude while taking care of her clients. “I try to keep our atmosphere light and fun,” she admits. “Giving customers a place to take a break from their normal daily life to have some fun and freshen up their look is my goal.”

Making people feel good about their look is important to Taylor. She loves putting a smile on a woman’s face when she looks in the mirror and sees her new style for the first time.

Taylor attended cosmetology school at Cossatot Community College of the University of Arkansas and received her bachelor of science degree at Arkansas Tech. She is a Redken Master Specialist and looks forward to continuing to grow The Beauty BARR’s team of talented professionals. She says, “The people I work with are definitely what makes me love working at The Beauty BARR. Having fun at work is truly a blessing.”

The Beauty BARR | 234 West 3rd Street | Texarkana, Texas 75501 | 903-276-4070 | www.beautybarrtxk.com

MIRANDA BAUGH

NURSE PRACTITIONER

LONESTAR HEALTH & WELLNESS

Miranda Baugh began working for LoneStar Health & Wellness’ owner Samantha Harris last fall. With a focus on skin care, Miranda’s ultimate goal is to help her clients take care of their skin while using preventative skin care measures.

Since health and wellness go hand in hand, Miranda takes a special interest in both areas. As an injector, she loves educating and encouraging people to be the best version of themselves while maintaining a natural look. By practicing what she preaches, Miranda serves as a role model for others who strive to incorporate healthy lifestyle choices, including excellent skin care. “Working for Samantha at LoneStar is a fun job,” Miranda says. “I love making people feel good, and it’s so rewarding to see people return because they are happy with their results.”

Miranda obtained her master’s degree from North Dakota State University. She has 18 years’ experience as a Certified Family Nurse Practitioner and has worked in Interventional Radiology, Vascular Surgery, and Aesthetics. Since moving to Texarkana from Fargo, North Dakota, eight years ago, she has met some really great people and feels likes she’s genuinely a part of this community. Miranda’s goals for the future include furthering her education by attending ongoing skin care classes. She also looks forward to participating in advanced injector training.

LoneStar Health & Wellness | 5520 Christus Drive | Suite A | Texarkana Texas 75503 | 903-306-0838 | www.lonestarhealthwellness.com

KENZIE BULLOCK

OWNER AND HAIR EXTENSION SPECIALIST OF KENZIE BULLOCK HAIR AND

THE EMMANUEL COLLECTIVE, “A COLLECTION OF HAIR ARTISTS”

As the owner and hair extension specialist of Kenzie Bullock Hair and The Emmanuel Collective, Kenzie Bullock wears many hats and enjoys being responsible for carrying out numerous duties. She says, “My duties all revolve around making sure the experience for my clientele is an absolute luxury, leaving no detail untouched. I enjoy creating a culture of elegance and serenity for our wonderful stylists and salon home.”

Kenzie created Kenzie Bullock Hair so she could make sure every person feels the beauty that God created them to feel. From the moment the clients walk in the door, to the moment they leave, Kenzie concentrates on covering the client with the beauty Jesus sees in them. “More than just an appointment, I want everyone to have a luxury experience in the presence of the Lord, leaving no detail out,” she explains. Offering Invisible Bead Extensions for her clients is Kenzie’s favorite part of her job, as well as spending quality time with her clientele.

The Emmanuel Collective creates an opportunity for Kenzie to lead a group of strong woman who have successful and flourishing careers. “I strive to lead by serving and creating an atmosphere of growth, inspiration, and integrity,” she remarks. “The stylists here amaze me every day. Being surrounded by a culture of family and the Lord with our stylists is important to me. These stylists are truly the best.”

Kenzie has received numerous accolades in the seven years that she has been doing hair, including Top 100 Extension Artists Worldwide in 2021, Top 10 Stylists of the Year in 2021, and The Coveted of 2022 (Top 30 Extension Artists within Covet and Mane). She is currently working toward being a Global Platform Artist with Invisible Bead Extensions and creating a hair extension company by Kenzie Bullock Hair. In the future, she and her husband, John Michael, plan to open a second location for The Emmanuel Collective.

Kenzie Bullock | 5822 Richmond Road | Texarkana, Texas 75503 | 903-691-2396 | Instagram: Kenzie Bullock Hair

photo by KENDAL DOCKERY PHOTOGRAPHY

Sue Barchenger

Sue Browning Barchenger served in the United States Air Force for two years. Since two of her brothers were in the U.S. Navy during the Vietnam War, she decided to join the Air Force to help the cause. She was stationed at Lackland, Randolph, Sheppard, and Webb Air Forces bases. Back in the ’60s and early ’70s, the roles for women were very limited, so Sue learned Morse Code and processed orders as her main occupation. Now, she continues to support military endeavors as a member of the Vietnam Veterans of America Chapter 278.

When she was a child, Sue Barchenger was very shy. As she matured, she came out of her shell and learned to “butt into her brothers’ and sisters’ conversations.” Since she really looked up to several of her siblings who served in the medical profession, she always thought that she would become a nurse. (One of her sisters is a retired RN, one is a respiratory therapist, one brother is a Physician Assistant, and a cousin is an LVN.)

Sue attended schools in Atlanta, Texas. After serving in the Air Force, Sue began looking for a place with good retirement benefits, so she went to work for the Social Security Administration. When asked what valuable lessons she has learned throughout her career, Sue responds, “I learned to always carry my workload and help others to carry their load if needed. No job was ever beneath me or above me. My family has always had a good work ethic, so I always wanted to do my share of the work, no matter the task.”

Before her husband, Amos, passed away in 2012, he and Sue traveled the country in a motorhome, visiting all but three U.S. states. They visited many popular destinations during their travels, and she has many fond memories of watching whales and eagles in Alaska, eating escargot for the first time while on a cruise, touring the White House in Washington, D.C., when Ronald Reagan was president, attending the World Fair in Vancouver, seeing the giant sequoia trees in California, and visiting many landmarks, including Mount Rushmore, Niagara Falls, Plymouth Rock, and Yellowstone Park.

Sue moved to Texarkana to be close to her family in 2013. She says,

“I love living here because this is where my family resides. Texarkana is large enough to get about anything you need, and we are close enough to take a weekend trip to Dallas and be back home in time to go to work on Monday.”

After moving here, Sue knew that she had to do something to occupy her time. She spoke to one of her brothers about becoming a volunteer, and he suggested that she apply at CHRISTUS St. Michael Health System. In 2014, she began volunteering in the hospital’s gift shop then moved to the rehab hospital where her sister works. Later, she was placed upstairs in the administration office. She admits, “They had never had a volunteer there before. At first, they didn’t know what to do with me, but before long, my desk was running over with work.”

Two months after Hospice of Texarkana opened its new inpatient hospital (in 2016), Sue became a volunteer there. “I get to visit patients and read the Bible and pray with them and their families. One family told me that the last thing their loved one heard was me praying for them. That really touched my heart,” she admits. “I see a lot of suffering and sickness but I have learned to deal with it and go on. I cannot take it personally. Life is too short and precious to give up what I love doing.” She also inputs data for Hospice so the nonprofit organization doesn’t have to hire an extra person for that position. When a social worker makes home visits, Sue assists them and can serve as a legal witness for all end-of-life documents. Helping others just comes naturally to Sue. “I love being able to help others,” she says. “I want everyone to live the best life that they can. If I can help someone do that, I am satisfied.”

Sue, also known as Airman Browning, was issued her dog tag during boot camp at Lackland Air Force Base in the late ’60s.

“To thine own self be true.”

- a line from Shakespeare’s

“Hamlet”

I met Sue Barchenger at Hospice of Texarkana a few years ago when we both were volunteering. I had seen her take on a variety of tasks, but my most vivid memory of her is when I saw her down on her hands and knees checking electrical plugs in order to assist the maintenance man with his required monthly checks. Sue is a “whatever it takes to get the job done” kind of girl. Not only is she willing to do anything to help support the Hospice mission, but she also volunteers at the hospital, is actively involved with local Veterans groups and their events, and supports her church. When I called to ask her if she would mind if I nominated her in recognition of her volunteerism, she said, “I just try to help out my community.” Sue is a real treasure to our community, and I am so thankful our paths crossed doing something we both feel so strongly about: volunteering. I am honored to nominate Sue for Tribute to Women 2022.

THE WAY Alicia Utz SEES HER

TARA CAPEHEART, FNP, BC

FAMILY NURSE PRACTITIONER

TWIN CITY MEDICAL

On February 1, 2022, Tara Capeheart opened Twin City Medical, a clinic that diagnoses and treats common medical issues, chronic conditions, and acute illnesses. In addition to these services, the medical team also assists with diet therapy, administers BOTOX® and JUVÉDERM®, and much more. Her immediate goal was to open a new clinic that always puts the patient first. She says, “We treat everyone that comes to Twin City Medical like family.”

Tara received her Master of Science in Nursing from Texas A&M University in Corpus Christi. She has been a nurse in Texarkana for over 21 years, with 11 years’ experience as a Nurse Practitioner in family practice, urgent care, and emergency room.

“Texarkana is home for me, and I love being able to remain close to my family while getting to know my patients’ families,” she admits. “I enjoy meeting new people in the community and, of course, making them feel better at the same time.”

Tara is thankful for all of her patients, friends, and coworkers who have come to her new clinic to receive medical treatment. She feels very honored that they have continued to follow her and entrust her with their care. She knows that growth is essential for success, and she looks forward to opening up a second clinic in the near future.

Twin City Medical | 5483 Summerhill Road | Texarkana, Texas 75503 | 903-223-5931

ELAINE CHRIESTENSON-KELTON

GENERAL MANAGER

EXPRESS EMPLOYMENT PROFESSIONALS

Personable and kind, Elaine Chriestenson-Kelton takes pride in helping others. For the past 25 years, she has taken care of her clients’ concerns with compassion, always providing quality customer service. A problem-solver who is not afraid to take the initiative, Elaine also believes in giving her clients options so they can make the best decision, based upon the factors that are presented.

Facing challenges to improve relationships with her clients is important to Elaine. “The best part of my job is knowing that every day, I can be a positive influence on someone’s life,” she says. “I really do enjoy helping others, and I receive satisfaction knowing I was able to solve a problem.”

Elaine feels honored to work at Express Employment Professionals. She admits that her boss, Joey Martin, allows and encourages her to grow to her highest potential. She also loves working with a great team of people who listen to each other and share goals.

In the future, Elaine hopes to continue to carry out Express Employment’s mission of service to others. She shares, “I am currently taking a two-year leadership course. Upon completion, my goal is to be a better listener and a more efficient leader and mentor.”

Express Employment Professionals | 3206 Jefferson Avenue | Texarkana, Arkansas 71854 | 870-773-1313 | www.expresspros.com

MIKKI CURTIS

DEAN OF SECONDARY PROGRAMS UNIVERSITY OF ARKANSAS HOPE-TEXARKANA

Creating educational opportunities for a diverse group of students is Mikki Curtis’ passion. She joined the UAHT team four years ago to help create the Hope Collegiate Academy. The academy provides students the opportunity to earn a high school diploma and associate degree at the same time on the college campus. Two years later, Mikki led the charge in replicating the collegiate academy in Texarkana, creating the Arkansas High Collegiate Academy. The innovative collegiate academy was recently recognized as a top ten national finalist for the prestigious Bellwether College Consortium Award.

Mikki also directs the Secondary Career & Technical Education center at UAHT. The career center helps high school students earn technical and career certificates and ensures they are job-ready upon graduation. Together, these programs create college credential opportunities for students who may not otherwise have them. She works tirelessly to make sure students in the Texarkana area have every opportunity to succeed. Mikki is an exceptional role model for educational professionals. She believes UAHT is a place that can help better the lives of all people in our communities and works hard to ensure the college does just that.

UA Hope-Texarkana | 3501 U of A Way | Texarkana, Arkansas 71854 | 866-963-5060 | www.uaht.edu

photo by KENDAL DOCKERY PHOTOGRAPHY

Stacy Calvaruso

Stacy Calvaruso always knew that she wanted to be in medicine but did not want to actually practice medicine. She wanted to support medical providers so they can ensure everyone has access to health care. As the CEO of Medical Practice Success, a revenue cycle management organization for medical providers, health systems, etc., she is able to bring her mission to fruition.

Looking back over the span of her career, Stacy Calvaruso remembers her proudest professional accomplishment very vividly. “A CEO of our health system called me to his office one day and told me that he was reassigning me to take over a particular division of our organization. Everyone knew that it was the worst division of the organization and had been so for over seven years,” she recalls. “Two years later, that division won the award as ‘System Division of the Year,’ and in the speech that our CEO gave to our entire health system at the awards banquet, he talked about the fact that I understood that the only way to turn this group around was to go in as a servant leader and care about them. He knew that he had picked the right person for the job.”

Passionate about her career, Stacy acknowledges that she tries to always give second chances when/where warranted. “In society there are many people who have made mistakes in their life and have learned from them. Some folks have definitely overcome bad habits, addictions, etc. I believe that if they have truly overcome those situations, then they should be afforded the opportunity to move forward with their life and have a second chance,” she admits. “In our organization, I have worked with several folks who were former addicts that have a previous record. They would not typically be able to get a job in a setting such as ours; however, I work with them on a plan to monitor them and work with their support system, and I give them a chance with 8/10 all being success stories. No one in our office really knows who these folks are ... it is very confidential. At the end of the day, I know we have done something good for them, their children, their families, and for our community.”

Stacy is married to her husband, Michael, and has one son, Joey; one daughter, Kristi; a granddaughter, Circe (7) and a grandson, Fox (5). For fun, Stacy and Michael enjoy traveling, especially to Europe. “We have a large world map that we put pins in for our grandchildren to see where we have been in the hopes that one day they will go there. We are trying our best to get to each of the continents before we are no longer able to travel,” she explains. “We also enjoy spending time with our grandchildren. As a South Louisiana Cajun girl,

I love LSU and the Saints. Football and baseball are in my blood as well as Mardi Gras, weekly festivals, crawfish boils, and family get-togethers. There is always something going on and something to do!”

Although she is a Louisiana girl at heart, Stacy enjoys living in the Four States area. She enjoys the small town feeling, and the lack of traffic is a positive for her. “When I go to South Louisiana on the weekends, I am often stuck in traffic for over an hour just to cross a bridge, so the lack of traffic here is nice,” she says. “This area has definitely grown in the four years I have been here, but it has not grown too much, and it appears to be controlled growth with thoughtful planning. There are still a lot of small family-owned businesses where you can talk to the owners, and this is very special. I love the entire vibe!”

If she had to give one piece of advice to young women today, she would tell them to ask themselves what they want, what they will and will not tolerate, and what they are willing to do to be the person they want to be. She feels that once they know those things, then the magic happens, and the decisions are easy to make. In addition, she encourages them to make sure they keep their circle of influence small and keep it organic and wholesome. She comments, “People will come and go from your circle of influence and that is okay – it should happen that way. Always take that as a blessing and not as a slight or get angry/bitter about it. It is a beautiful thing if you see it as such – it is all about growth. To grow, you must be exposed to different and unique situations, and that requires changes.”

Stacy admits that one of her biggest obstacles in life was always feeling that she was inadequate and that she would never be good enough. There was no magic trick to how she overcame it other than to say that she had a very patient husband who made sure that she knew that she was perfect for him. On a professional and personal level, she admits that it just took time for her to grow into herself and gain confidence. “I didn’t really get that until my forties, to be quite honest. I believe I gradually came to realize that I only needed to compare me to me and that the definition of ‘good enough’ was what I chose, not what others chose or the media said,” she explains. “Once I realized that, then the way I felt about myself on the inside matched how I portrayed myself on the outside – confident and comfortable!”

For fun, Stacy and her husband, Michael, enjoy traveling and attending their grandchildren’s events.

“When everything seems to be going against you, remember that the airplane takes off against the wind, not with it.”

- Henry Ford

I am nominating Stacy Calvaruso for this year’s Tribute to Women because of the impact she has made on me as a mentor and Valkyrie sister. (Valkyrie is a female-based leadership/survival training that tests a person emotionally, physically, and mentally.) Stacy is a true testament of someone who survives the toughest struggles of life and doesn’t come out on the other side to play the victim. I work with Stacy daily, and she is never too proud to admit when she has something to learn, whether personally or professionally. It would be easy for someone in her professional role to let it go to their head and demand a certain level of respect whether it is earned or not. She literally strives every day to do right by her team and by the universe, in general.

Outside of work, Stacy is married to the love of her life, Michael Calvaruso. How they can make this life work between her home in Texarkana and his home in New Orleans is beyond me, but they do, and they do it flawlessly. Stacy is not afraid to act giddy when she feels like it which is something a lot of women keep guarded. One thing I have learned from Stacy is that you should never allow yourself to outgrow feeling young.

Stacy does a lot for people behind-the-scenes. She has taught me the true meaning of a good deed. It’s not for recognition or gratitude. It’s about putting good out into the universe, not expecting anything in return, and not caring if anyone else ever knows it came from you.

THE WAY Wendy Harman SEES HER

JENNIFER HALTOM DOAN

MANAGING PARTNER

HALTOM & DOAN

Jennifer Haltom Doan is a founding partner of Haltom & Doan, a boutique trial and appellate firm located throughout East Texas and headquartered in Texarkana. Jennifer represents Fortune 100 companies and individuals in both small and high-stakes matters throughout Texas, Arkansas and beyond. Her practice concentrates on complex litigation including product liability, intellectual property, antitrust, class action, personal injury and “bet-the-company” litigation. She is double board certified in Civil Trial Law and Personal Injury Trial Law by the Texas Board of Legal Specialization

With over 30 years of experience as a trial lawyer, Jennifer has handled a diverse array of complex cases. She has served as lead trial counsel on behalf of large and small businesses as well as individuals. Some of the cases she has tried in recent years run the gambit from saving a local church from a takeover attempt to billion dollar patent infringement litigation for the likes of Hewlett-Packard, Amazon and Yahoo! Inc. And Jennifer travels well, having tried these cases in state and federal courts from the east coast to the west.

“Getting to help others in our community and seeing the end result is my favorite part of the job,” she explains. “Not every case needs to be tried – sometimes parties just have a dispute. Being able to be part of that resolution – and ultimately the trial if needed – is not only helpful to our clients but it is also both professionally and personally rewarding.”

Jennifer feels fortunate to work with an incredible group of talented lawyers with a depth and breadth of experience whom she enjoys getting to see and be with every day. She says, “Working with people I enjoy being around makes all the difference in the world in a tough job.”

Haltom & Doan | 6500 Summerhill Road, Suite. 100 | Texarkana, Texas 75503 | 903-255-1000 | www.haltomdoan.com

FELICIA DRAKE, SHRM-CP

VICE PRESIDENT OF HUMAN RESOURCES

RED RIVER CREDIT UNION

Felicia Drake joined Red River Credit Union in 2005, moving to the HR department in 2007. Currently, she manages the Human Resources and Learning & Development department.

Felicia earned a Bachelor of Science in Business Administration in 1997 and a Master of Business Administration in 2011, both from Texas A&M University-Texarkana. She continued her education through self-directed study to obtain the Society for Human Resources Management (SHRM) Certified Professional credentials in 2016. Felicia is an active member and past president of the local chapter of Tri-State SHRM. In addition, she served on the Texas State Council of SHRM and is a member of the National SHRM.

Felicia takes pride in being fair, consistent, and a strong advocate for all employees. She supports the RRCU vision and Core TEAL Values (Team-focused, Excellence, Authenticity, and Leading innovation) and enjoys being part of the team.

A native of Texarkana, Felicia graduated from Arkansas High School in Texarkana, Arkansas. She and her husband, Marcus, have one son, Jacob. Felicia’s true passion away from the office is spending time with family.

Red River Credit Union | 2700A University Avenue | Texarkana, Texas 75503 | 903-735-3000 | www.rrcu.com

Assisting clients with all of their insurance needs is Kim Drewry’s mission. She feels responsible to help protect her client’s financial future by offering insurance policies for life, auto, home and everything in-between. “I have a passion for helping people,” she explains. “I love knowing that when something happens, I can be the one to help take care of at least a part of their loss.”

Kim attended North Arkansas College and later served as a mortgage loan officer with Summit Bank in Hot Springs, Arkansas. Her knowledge of home loans allows her to help her clients even more with the purchase of a new home.

For the last 12 years, the best part of Kim’s job at Texas Farm Bureau Insurance has been getting to know her member families. “It’s the best feeling to get a referral from a client because they trust me to help their friends and families as well,” she says. “I love knowing I have taken care of what’s most important to them, especially with life insurance. I am able to give them peace of mind, when the inevitable happens, that their families left behind will be taken care of.”

Kim loves the Texas Farm Bureau Insurance culture of being one big family, both locally and regionally. She acknowledges that the team members help and encourage each other, both professionally and personally.

Texas Farm Bureau Insurance - Bowie County | 4413 Galleria Oaks Drive | Texarkana, Texas 75503 | 903-838-8707 www.txfb-ins.com

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Shelia Dukes

With a passion for helping others, it is no wonder that Shelia Dukes became a registered nurse. After watching her sister work diligently in the medical field, it impressed Shelia so much that she knew she wanted to be able to care for others and have a huge impact on their healing process. She has worked for CHRISTUS St. Michael Health System for the past 36 years and takes pride in doing her job and more importantly, doing it well.

Shelia Dukes was very impressed by her teachers as a child, especially one who was an African-American. She realized that teachers were well-respected and staples of the African-American community. She recalls that the teachers dressed with dignity and pride, spoke with confidence and poise, and were significant role models. She toyed with the idea of being a teacher, but ultimately decided on being a nurse and helping others in that capacity.

“I am certified in my area of nursing and try to do a respectable job each day. I don’t want to just hold a position; I want to help my patients by making a difference in their lives,” Shelia admits, adding that every patient is an individual and should be treated with an individualized touch. “Many times, we get senior citizens who live alone and just welcome the conversation and special treatment that we can provide. Not only are they dealing with a medical issue, but they are also dealing with loneliness.”

A graduate of Hope High School and Texas A&M University-Texarkana, Shelia has been married to her husband, Arthur, for 33 years, and they have two sons, Patrick (32) and Adrian (28). Whether a weekend trip or vacation far away, the couple enjoys getting away and just enjoying each other’s company.

Recovering from Stage 4 metastatic thyroid cancer was the biggest obstacle that Shelia has ever overcome. “Many people are not aware of just how sick I was,” she remarks. “I am a spiritual person, and I know that without God, I would not be able to tell you that I am a 13-year cancer survivor. My husband was so supportive and was beside me the entire time. Even though we took numerous trips to MD Anderson for treatments and office visits, he never complained. I now have so much respect for caregivers.”

Shelia’s spiritual life is especially important to her, and she is very thankful for the close relationship she and Arthur have with their sons. “They are both accomplished young men that we strived to raise the best

we possibly could. They both are successful, hardworking gentlemen, and we are so proud of them,” she acknowledges. “I also love community service. I am active in service organizations here in Texarkana, and I simply enjoy giving back to the community. It is our responsibility to help others. God has blessed us, and He wants us to help those in need.” A member of Walker Chapel C.M.E. Church, Shelia holds positions on the local, district and regional level. She also serves on several committees in Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc., Top Ladies of Distinction, the Las Amigas Social Club, and the NAACP. Shelia feels fortunate to live in Texarkana, a city that has some of the same amenities as a larger city but is “small enough to still offer that small town friendliness.” As a mentor to young women, Shelia encourages them to surround themselves with positive thinking, successful, caring women. She explains, “Successful does not always mean formally-educated. I think being successful means managing life experiences, overcoming difficulties, and learning from those experiences.”

Although Shelia’s family grew up with meager means, her mother always made sure that her family had what they needed. She never felt underprivileged and grew up in a two-parent home. “My father was a wonderful person; however, my mother was the backbone of the family,” she recalls. “The love she gave us outshined any disadvantages I might have had. Although I was a little girl growing up in the projects, I had a loving family, friends, and just lived a great life. My mother was a very generous person, and although we did not have much, she would always share with others. When people teasingly call me by her name (Thelma), I take it as a wonderful compliment. She had a beautiful spirit.”

As a woman trying to persevere in today’s world, Shelia advises, “Many women work and are parenting young children while maintaining a healthy marriage. We need to remember to put ourselves first sometimes. Unfortunately, we cannot do it often, but for us to sustain and be able to do what is traditionally expected of us, we need to refuel every know and then.”

On November 20, 2021, Arthur and Shelia attended a rodeo at Hirsch Coliseum.

SHELIA DUKES’ FAVORITE

Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.

- Isaiah 41:10

THE WAY Bobbie McKinney SEES HER

I have known Shelia as a friend and sorority sister for over 20 years. Shelia and I worked together on the finance committee of our sorority for several years. I experienced her kindness, cooperativeness, patience, dedication, and commitment to the assigned tasks. We bonded as sisters and shared a special love and respect for each other. Often, when my husband was hospitalized or when I lost a loved one, Shelia was always there ready to do what she could to aid me in my time of distress with kind, comforting words and deeds.

Shelia’s humility and servanthood is admirable. Although she has a full-time job, husband and family, she constantly gives of herself by serving the community. She provides rides and other needs to the elderly and the sick and shut-in, serves food at the Randy Sams Outreach Shelter, gives coats, shoes, and eyeglasses to the needy, serves as a member of the Harvest Regional Food Bank family, is active in her church, and is also a member of several civic organizations including Top Teens of America. Just recently, she demonstrated much courage and patience by chaperoning girls ages 13-18 in Dallas, Texas, for few days.

EMILY GREEN

CHIEF STRATEGY OFFICER

CASA FOR CHILDREN/TEXARKANA CHILDREN’S ADVOCACY CENTER

Emily Green is the Chief Strategy Officer for CASA for Children and the Texarkana Children’s Advocacy Center. Both programs provide vital, life-changing services to abused and neglected children in our community. Emily oversees and coordinates all fundraising, marketing, and strategic planning efforts for the organizations.

Emily attended Texas A&M University-Texarkana and has over 13 years of nonprofit experience. She is passionate about helping others, fighting for the underdog, and making a difference in her community. She believes in the mission of CASA and the Children’s Advocacy Center and is honored to be a part of organizations that truly change lives. She is proud of her coworkers and the way they show up every day, regardless of the emotionally challenging nature of their work. Emily is grateful to be able to support her team as they give hope to children who, through no fault of their own, find themselves in hopeless situations.

Emily’s goal is to continue to expand CASA and CAC’s development efforts in order to meet the continuously growing needs of children and families in our community.

CASA for Children/Texarkana Children’s Advocacy Center | 1201 Main Street | Texarkana, Texas 75501 903-792-1030 | www.casatexarkana.org

LYNSEY GWIN

FUNERAL DIRECTOR AND EMBALMER

TEXARKANA FUNERAL HOME

Lynsey Gwin serves as a licensed funeral director and embalmer in both Texas and Arkansas. She explains, “I don’t think that the job duties that come with being a funeral director and embalmer can be penned to this or that. It’s taking care of families and making sure their loved one is honored. And however that is attained is what my job duties are. From taking a call that a loved one has passed to visiting with the family to taking care of their loved one and preparing them for the days ahead.”

Lynsey works well under pressure, and handling several things at one time is what drives her. She likes to be organized but not so much that it takes away from her main purpose. “My ability to compartmentalize may not look like everyone else’s but it makes sense to me,” she says. “I do have a sense of humor, and I think in this business, it is necessary. But I also have compassion for our families, and that far outweighs anything else.”

Knowing that families are taken care of is the best part of Lynsey’s job. When she receives a message that the family was pleased with everything surrounding their loved one’s funeral, it means the world to her. Even though walking a family through one of the most difficult times in their lives is not an easy transition, Lynsey wants to be able to make it as comforting for them as possible.

“I love our little family here at Texarkana Funeral Home,” she admits. “We all know what our objective is, and we all work together very well. The Fuquas are a great family to work for, and they take really good care of us. Whatever we need, they listen, and they make the needed considerations.”

Texarkana Funeral Home | 3515 Texas Boulevard | Texarkana, Texas 75503 | 903-794-1200 | www.texarkanafuneralhome.com

MARY LAURA HASTINGS, DMD

BOARD CERTIFIED ORAL AND MAXILLOFACIAL SURGEON ORAL AND FACIAL SURGERY

A board certified oral and maxillofacial surgeon, Dr. Mary Laura Hastings attended Auburn University and the University of Alabama School of Dentistry. She then attended Louisiana State University Shreveport Oral and Maxillofacial Surgery’s residency program and is board certified by the American Board of Oral and Maxillofacial Surgery. Mary Laura’s favorite part of her job is providing care for patients which, in turn, improves their quality of life.

A specialty field, oral surgery bridges medicine and dentistry. “As oral surgeons, we are able to provide in-office anesthesia to treat our patients, whether we are extracting wisdom teeth or performing full mouth rehabilitation with dental implants,” Mary Laura explains. “We are also trained in the treatment of head and neck trauma, orthognathic/jaw surgery, diagnosis and treatment of temporomandibular joint disorders, cosmetic surgery, and head and neck pathology.”

For the past four years, Mary Laura has been part of the oral surgeon team at Oral and Facial Surgery of Northeast Texas. She enjoys working with the other doctors in the group and thinks that this group of surgeons has the best staff around, which makes working there a joy. “I love working with the other doctors in our group. We make a great team, and we are extremely proud of the quality care we provide to Texarkana and the surrounding areas.”

Oral and Facial Surgery of Northeast Texas | 1701 Moores Lane | Texarkana, Texas 75503 | 903-794-3331

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OPPORTUNITIES, INC.’S ANGEL GUILD HOSTS

“SUNDAY

FUNDAY”

The Opportunities, Inc. Angel Guild held “Sunday Funday” on April 3 at Crossties in Downtown Texarkana. The afternoon featured live entertainment by Lil’ Skinny, delicious barbecue provided by Naaman’s Barbeque, plus drinks. In addition, guests competed in a cornhole tournament. Bo Ayres and Byron Stewart won first place in the tournament with Josh McWilliams and Jacob Johnson coming in second place. Proceeds support the mission of Opportunities, Inc. which is to empower children and adults with developmental disabilities to live full lives in our community.

Jenni Hedrick, Megan Johnson, Holland Meador, Alana Morel, Claire Hardy, Susan Owens, Lyndsey Craig and Morgan Bennett

Jessica Rich, Taylor Debardeleben, Natasha Dowd and Kristie Keller

Reese Shuffield, Dr. Robee Carter and Brock McCorkle

Claire Hardy, Megan Johnson, Alana Morel, Amber Stewart and Natalie McQueen

Steven Harvey and Taylor Debardeleben with Jessica and Blake Rich

Sherry Young and Chris Young

Kathaleen and Greg Sanders

Sherry Young, Lil’ Skinny and Corie Woodman

Gay Moss, Lil’ Skinny and Darrah McGuire

Bo Ayres, Jacob Johnson, Josh McWilliams and Byron Stewart

photo by KENDAL DOCKERY PHOTOGRAPHY

Thelma Black Elijah

For 54+ years, Thelma Black Elijah taught public school in New Boston and Texarkana, Texas. She also served as the Personnel Specialist and the Assistant Supervisor of Education for 25 years at the Federal Correctional Institution in Texarkana. She chose to become involved in the field of education because she values the importance of encouraging, guiding, and helping others make informed decisions about their future careers.

Dependable, honest and loyal, Thelma Black Elijah has put God first throughout her life, knowing that everything else will fall into place with His guidance. She has served as a role model for her family, friends, students, and community.

A 1953 graduate of H.B. Pemberton High School in Marshall, Texas, Thelma earned a bachelor’s degree in Business Education from Wiley College in Marshall. She continued her educational journey and earned a master’s degree in Education at Texas Southern University in Houston. A dedicated and amazing mother, she has three children with her late husband of 53 years, Willie H. Black. They are: Tony L. Black, Sr., Debbie P. Black-Conn, and Chet H. Black. She also has six grandchildren who are the “apples of her eye”: Tony L. Black, Jr., Camille V. Black, Caitlin P. Conn, Jordan Miche Grisham, Marc A. Conn, and Chloe Grace Black. She is currently married to Willie Elijah, Jr., and they reside in Texarkana, Texas.

In all of her endeavors, adventures, and successes, Thelma remains a humble and constant servant. “I stress the importance of leading and living a life of understanding, high moral character, service, and good will to all who I come into contact with,” she says.

Over the course of her life, Thelma’s mother, Odessa Rodgers, influenced her the most. “My beloved mother had a profound influence over me,” she explains. “I learned responsibility, hard work, and persistence from her.” Passionate about helping others, Thelma feels that when you do well by others, good things will come to you.

Thelma is no stranger to overcoming obstacles. She was the first female ever to walk unescorted through the compounds of an all-male federal prison. After this historical event took place, the Director of the Bureau of Prisons put out an announcement stating that all female employees at all female and male institutions would be required to walk unescorted by officers or other personnel throughout the institutions.

Gardening, assisting the elderly, and cooking are Thelma’s favorite

pastimes. Always providing a listening ear and motivating conversation, Thelma encourages others to participate in enrichment activities that will advance their knowledge and help them embark upon successful careers, while pursuing their passions. If she had to give encouraging advice to a young woman today, she would tell them to: have a relationship with God; love and take care of yourself; position yourself in life to be independent; never forget your roots and those who helped you along the way; and be a mentor who helps others.

A member of the St. Paul Missionary Baptist Church, Thelma is dedicated to mentoring members of her community. “I really enjoy living in the Four States area because of the generous, warm, hospitality here,” Thelma admits. “I treasure the many long-lasting friendships that have helped me throughout my life’s journey.”

Married for 53 years, Thelma and her late husband, Willie Black, had three children: Chet Black, Debbie Black-Conn, and Tony Black, Sr.

Thelma and Willie Elijah at St. Paul Baptist Church after a church service.

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“May the work I’ve done speak for me. May the life I’ve lived speak for me. When the best I’ve tried to live, my mistakes God will forgive. Let the works I’ve done speak for me.”

- song lyrics, as sung by Donna Hawkins

WAY La Verne Johnson Baptiste SEES HER

To help others was a lifelong service that Thelma Lois Black Elijah has done most of her life. She moved to Texarkana in 1964 and was employed as a teacher at the former historical Black schools – Macedonia High School and Dunbar High School. She lived in the Liberty-Eylau community where she made her home until she retired in 1989.

As a Texarkana educator, she taught business classes, GED, and was an advisor to the senior graduation exercises. As a volunteer, she provided transportation for seniors to get COVID-19 shots, she provided food and clothes to those in need, she donated her finances to help teen girls with prom dresses and other needs, and she spent time calling to counsel or touch base with these young ladies.

Thelma has made donations to local charities, to resale shops, and has done many other charitable deeds for others too numerous to mention.

Thelma Black Elijah is a very selfless educator and humanitarian. She has served her community well. Like Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. said, “Just tell people that I just tried to help somebody.” Like him, Thelma wanted no awards nor recognition for her charitable giving. She has completed the Seven Basic Duties of Mankind: to educate the illiterate; to house the homeless; to clothe the naked; to heal the sick; to visit the shut-in and the incarcerated; to feed the hungry; and to console the bereaved.

ELIZABETH JACOBSEN

OWNER/NURSE PRACTITIONER

ETERNAL BEAUTY MEDICAL AESTHETICS AND DAY SPA

When Elizabeth Jacobsen opened up Eternal Beauty Medical Aesthetics and Day Spa, she wanted to create a space that would induce feelings of well-being upon entering the doors. And she has done just that.

Providing high quality services for Eternal Beauty’s clients is Elizabeth’s highest priority. “Whether you are visiting for a relaxing spa day with a facial, steam and massage, or for a medical esthetic treatment, you will feel comforted and in safe hands,” Elizabeth assures. Elizabeth’s favorite part of owning a medical spa is seeing the artistry that is involved in every detail, whether small or large. “Every detail counts ... the design of the space, the artistry of the work that I do, the artistry of choreographing daily business, even down to the scent of the air,” she admits.

Paying attention to details is what sets Eternal Beauty apart from many others in the industry. Elizabeth’s goal is to practice the highest moral and business ethics while paying close attention to every clients’ wants and needs. Eternal Beauty’s mission is to provide the latest state-of-the-art technology for every treatment, and the medical professionals here are committed to providing a full luxury spa experience for every client who walks in the door.

Eternal Beauty Medical Aesthetics and Day Spa | 5510 Summerhill Road | Texarkana, Texas 75503 | 903-278-9566 www.eternalbeautytexarkana.com | Instagram: Eternalbeautytxk | Facebook: Eternalbeautytexarkana

MONICA KELLEY,

REALTOR ®

COLDWELL BANKER ELITE, REALTORS ®

MSM, REALTOR ®

A go-getter who strives to be the best at what she does, Monica Kelley owned a boutique for six years before becoming a real estate agent. She obtained a bachelor’s degree in Human Services from LeTourneau University and a master’s degree in Management from Texas A&M University-Commerce.

With a commitment to helping others, Monica became a real estate agent at Coldwell Banker Elite 1½ years ago. Selling all things real estate is her passion. She says, “The best part of my job is helping others change their address.”

Monica knows that communication is the #1 asset for a successful real estate agent. She enjoys meeting with prospective buyers to establish exactly what they are looking for in a home. She realizes that learning the needs of her clients is monumental in helping them find the perfect fit for their family. Because of this dedication to meeting others’ needs, it is no surprise that Monica received the international president’s elite award in 2021 by selling 56 homes and was named Coldwell Banker Elite REALTORS® top agent for 2021.

Whether helping clients buy or sell their home, Monica takes time to get to know them personally. “I allow people to relate to me,” she admits. She researches the local real estate market and compares properties so that she is representing her clients well. With an attitude of always moving up on the corporate ladder, it is no surprise that Monica’s goal for the future is to own her own real estate brokerage. Coldwell Banker Elite | 4110 Richmond Place | Texarkana, Texas 75503 | 903-278-6163 | www.SoldByMonicaK.com

Claire Moulton’s daily duties as an insurance agent include helping her customers whenever they call or text regarding their insurance policies. Whether assisting with general maintenance on their policy, filing a claim, or just answering any questions they may have, she loves helping them with whatever it is they may need!

Motivated and honest, Claire strives to always keep a smile on her face. She enjoys talking to and listening to her clients, good or bad! “I feel like having a positive attitude greatly increases the possibility of making someone’s day better when they may not be having the best day,” she admits.

As a sales representative with Nestle prior to becoming an agent with TFBI, Claire gained lots of experience in customer service and how to properly help someone in need. The best part of her job, since becoming a Texas Farm Bureau Insurance agent five years ago, is protecting her clients’ assets and making sure they’re well taken care of in the event of a tragedy. “Life insurance plays a huge role in what I do,” she explains. “I’m able to give my customers and their families peace of mind when they lie down at night knowing their family will be taken care of if they’re not around.”

Because of the people she works with, Claire is thankful that she gets to work at TFBI. Her coworkers are like family to her, and she enjoys getting to work with them every day. She also is thankful for the way Texas Farm Bureau Insurance handles claims in the event of a loss. “Our adjusters are second-to-none, and they always help our customers with whatever the issue at hand is. All in all, I just love helping people!”

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FOREVER YOUNG AT DERMATOLOGY ASSOCIATES HOSTS GRAND OPENING CELEBRATION

On April 7, Forever Young at Dermatology Associates held its Grand Opening Celebration. Refreshments, prizes and one night only discounts were offered on all services and skincare products. Representatives from ZO® Skincare and Allergan Aesthetics were also on-site for consultations.

Jimmie and Dr. Blane Graves with Jeff Brown and Amberly Stussy

Amberly Stussy, Aria Potter and Katherine Weber

Cindy Berry and Angela Wade

Suzanne Rochelle and Cecile VanZandt

Darla Wilf and Robyn Carter

Christy and Dr. Jeff Young

Brooke Marshall and Kyndel Griffith

Megan Griffin and Kelsey Cowan

Mary Claire Paddock and Darrah McGuire

Kelsey Cowan and Dr. Jeff Young

Mary Lou Court, Donna Stone and Jane Daines

photo by KENDAL DOCKERY PHOTOGRAPHY

Vicki Hornok

Vicki Hornok is passionate about her family and her church, Fellowship Bible Church. Through both of those avenues, she has been able to encourage those she encounters to have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. She is convinced more than ever that the local church is the most valuable asset a person and family have. She feels that the best thing anyone can do is to run to the center of the church, and there they can find support and encouragement to succeed in the things that matter most: pleasing God, personal development, marriage, and family.

For Vicki Hornok, her husband, Richard, and her mother, Alexandra Goode, have influenced her the most over the course of her life. Richard helped her grow in her love for the Word of God and see its truth as her compass. Because he was raised in a large family, he has an intuitive understanding of family better than anyone Vicki knows. “He just gets it!” she exclaims. “[There is] no way we could have had seven kids who turned out so remarkably well without him being all in. He’s amazing. Vicki’s mother taught her the value of family, integrity, personal purity, and tenacity. “As a Holocaust survivor, she was born the same year as Anne Frank, and though she was Russian, she experienced the horrors of the Holocaust, and it profoundly impacted me,” she remarks. “Her capacity to love those in need is amazing.”

Vicki and Richard will celebrate 40 years of marriage this month. He serves as the senior pastor of Fellowship Bible Church. They have two sons, Jonathan (married to Mariah) and George (married to Jordon), and five daughters, Emily, Caroline (married to Daniel), Grace (married to Shawn), Julia (married to Josiah), and Eleanor. They also have seven grandchildren and one on the way in September. During her spare time, Vicki enjoys spending time with her children and their spouses, her grandchildren, and Richard, drinking coffee in the mornings. They love to travel and get away as much as they possibly can.

“I wanted to be a high school math teacher, and my father, who had a high-tech business in North Dallas, encouraged me to instead major in Computer Science,” she says. “I was one of the first Computer Science majors at Baylor. I worked for IBM initially, and during that time, they introduced the personal computer. After moving to Texarkana, I consulted, helping several businesses automate.” Currently, Vicki is the owner of SentrySoftSolutions, a company that she started which provides software to the State of Texas Criminal

Justice System. Seeing SentrySoftSolutions be used all over Texas, and finally, after 20 years of success elsewhere, getting to deploy it right here in her backyard, in the Bowie County Women’s Facility, is Vicki’s proudest professional accomplishment. Her key to success is providing excellent customer service. “A good product that is poorly supported dies,” she says. “Establishing personal relationships is vital. People want to be cared for.”

Writing Sentry has been the biggest obstacle that Vicki has overcome. She and her team are currently rewriting it (for the second time) and taking it to the Cloud. “Can I just add that I have an amazing team of people?” Vicki asks. “They are such a gift. I could not do this without them. Through the years, and throughout this rewriting process, as I review the code and logic, I’m amazed that God enabled a pastor’s wife who homeschooled her seven kids to come up with it all. He’s the One who did it. Not me.”

Vicki encourages young women today to spend as much time as they can with their husband and children. And to make sure they have all the children God wants them to have. “I know a big family is not for everyone. But I’ve had so many women tell me they wished they’d had more,” she admits. “Don’t stop until you are certain God wants you to stop. You’ll never regret having more children.”

What does Vicki love about living in the Four States area? She feels that it is a wonderful place to raise children because you can spend a lot of time with them and help them become people who can then go out and take on the world.

Although she admits that life can be hard for women because of so many decisions and activities that compete for their attention, Vicki encourages others to look past the things that seem alluring because they won’t really count for much in the long run. She concludes, “Make sure you spend your time, talent, and treasure where, when you’re 80, you’ll be glad you did.”

Vicki and her entire family during daughter Caroline’s wedding reception this past New Year’s Eve at the Dallas Arboretum. (Photo by Marissa Merritt Photography)

“When you don’t know what to do, just do the next thing.”

- Elisabeth

Elliot (missionary in Ecuador whose husband was martyred for his faith)

THE WAY KAREN REAVIS SEES HER

I’m thrilled to choose Vicki Hornok as an honoree for the 2022 Tribute to Women.

I met Vicki when she and two of her daughters walked into my business when it was located on Stateline Avenue. I had heard of the Hornok family from another friend, but had never actually met them. Now, 15 years later, she has become a great friend, one who provides me with exceptional Godly wisdom, one who has proven that a wife can be a homemaker and run a successful business, and one who has given me many reasons to smile.

Vicki is amazing! She’s a devoted wife, mother, Nana, and friend, that sees all of God’s goodness He has given to her. And to top it all off, she’s my pastor’s wife! I’m so blessed to call her my friend and encourager.

SHERRI PENIX

CHIEF INNOVATION OFFICER

TEXARKANA INDEPENDENT SCHOOL DISTRICT

Sherri Penix has worked in the field of education for 36 years. She has served as the Chief Innovation Officer for Texarkana Independent School District since August 2021. In this capacity, Sherri serves as the district’s research and design leader with responsibilities to identify, pilot, and evaluate promising instructional programs and operational strategies in partnership with district stakeholders. In addition, she provides leadership to cross-functional teams charged with implementation of innovative programs in support of strategic plan goals and objectives and serves as the point-person for innovation initiatives throughout the district.

A servant leader who wants to provide the best for TISD’s students and staff, Sherri enjoys being a part of the amazing work that is happening within the district and in the TISD schools. Seeing the students and staff succeed is exciting to her! “The TISD family is supportive and caring and has a heart for our students and community,” she says. “Education is a calling for me. It is a rewarding and honorable profession, and I am proud to be a member of such a great team of educators. I believe that God has put me where I need to be, and I am grateful to serve in this capacity.”

Texarkana Independent School District | 4241 Summerhill Road | Texarkana, Texas 75503 | 903-794-3651 | www.txkisd.net

TESSA RAY

REALTOR ®

CENTURY 21 ALL POINTS

After almost three decades teaching at TISD, Tessa Ray decided to dive into a new career that incorporated everything she loves doing: teaching, decorating, and helping others. Becoming a licensed REALTOR® has proven to be a great fit for Tessa, Century 21 All Points, and the local real estate market.

In her first year of selling in 2020, Tessa told her broker that her goal was to sell six homes in the first year; at the end of that 12 months, Tessa surprised everyone, including herself, by closing 56 transactions! For those who know her, Tessa’s instant success makes complete sense, as she is thoughtful and dedicated to everything she attempts. She credits her many friends and family for referrals and leads, but Tessa’s work ethic and attention to detail are apparent in her smooth transactions with clients.

Kind and sensitive to buyers’ and sellers’ wants and needs, Tessa is always on call for those looking to make a change. People are her passion, and as a “natural” at decorating, Tessa can see beyond a first look at any property, imagining and suggesting the perfect finish for a prospective homeowner. Above all else, Tessa enjoys helping others buy and sell and remain happy. Century 21

VANESSA SCHOEN

ADMINISTRATIVE OFFICER

FARMERS BANK & TRUST

Vanessa Schoen leads Farmers Bank & Trust’s Human Resources and Learning and Development departments, along with Karrah Magness, Human Resources Manager, and Alissa Flanagan, Learning & Development Supervisor. This amazing team at Farmers supports 380+ employees.

Vanessa grew up in Murfreesboro, Tennessee, and received a Bachelor of Science degree from Vanderbilt University in Nashville, Tennessee, before accepting her first “real job” with International Paper (IP) in Texarkana. Her first HR job was the summer before her senior year in college when she interned for what was the Stouffer Nashville Hotel. This is where her love of human resources really developed.

“Prior to joining Farmers Bank, I had 16½ years with International Paper (later Graphic Packaging after acquisition) and 13 years with Century BANK (later Wells Fargo after acquisition),” Vanessa says. With 30+ years of HR experience, both in the manufacturing and the finance industries, Vanessa is diligent about placing talented employees in the positions where they can best excel.

When asked what she has loved most about working for Farmers Bank for the past 15 months, Vanessa immediately answers, “The people! I cherish the opportunity to work with talented coworkers and team members every day who support the absolute best customers. I love the HEART culture. Again, it comes back to people. HEART stands for Honesty, Excellence, Adaptability, Respect, and Teamwork, and those core values guide everything we do.”

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CAPTAIN SCOTT KELLY FEATURED SPEAKER DURING FARMERS BANK FOUNDATION DISTINGUISHED SPEAKER SERIES

The second Farmers Bank Distinguished Speaker Series was held on April 7 at the Texarkana Convention Center. This event is designed to raise scholarship money for students who graduate from Texarkana College and The University of Arkansas Hope-Texarkana and wish to complete their bachelor’s degree at Texas A&M University Texarkana.

The featured speaker was Captain Scott Kelly, a retired naval test pilot and astronaut who made history by spending more than 340 consecutive days on board the International Space Station. Kelly was participating in a study to research the effects of prolonged space travel on the human body, considered essential in enabling future long-term space missions to the moon or Mars.

The event featured a private meet and greet at Farmers Bank & Trust, followed by a dinner and Kelly’s lecture at the Texarkana Convention center. There were 430 tickets to the lecture sold, and the event raised $51,100 for scholarships.

“Wow!,” said Farmers Bank & Trust Texarkana Market President James Bramlett, when asked about the success of the event. “Thank you to the community for the support that made this possible. We raised over $50,000 for scholarships that will go directly back into educating the future of Texarkana.”

“We are so thankful for the support we get from our community partners like Farmers Bank,” said Texas A&M University-Texarkana President Emily Cutrer. “By providing funds for these scholarships, Farmers is helping graduates of Texarkana College and UA Hope-Texarkana fulfill their dream of completing a bachelor’s degree. The educational institutions, the community at large, and the individual students all benefit from events and collaborations like the Farmers Bank Distinguished Speaker Series.”

Jacob Jones, Kevin Johnson and Kevin Avery

Rachael and Josh Potter

Julia and George Carpenter

Leigh Cheek, Katelyn Burkett, Rebekah Clement and Julie Blackwell

Cary and Kayla Simmons

Michelle and David Hicks

Wendi Knotts, Karrah Magness and Vanessa Schoen Candace Rankin, LeAnne Wright and Vicki Melde

Haylea Morgan and Caitlin Rice

Kathy and James Bramlett

Kevin and Kelli Johnson

Candace Rankin, Rhonda King and Leah Russell

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LONE STAR CHAPTER DAUGHTERS OF THE AMERICAN REVOLUTION PRESENTS SCHOLARSHIPS

The Lone Star Chapter Daughters of the American Revolution recently presented the DAR Good Citizens Essay Contest award and scholarships for Outstanding Leadership in the Lone Star Children of the American Revolution group.

Nistha Neupane, a senior at Pleasant Grove High School, won the DAR Good Citizens Essay Contest and was awarded a $500 scholarship. The winner of the award must be a high school senior, exhibit dependability, leadership, service to community, and patriotism. Nistha’s essay was entitled, “How Do the Combined Actions of So Many Good Citizens Keep Our Nation Moving Forward?”

Sara Jayne Burroughs and Madison Tomlin received scholarships for Outstanding Leadership in the Lone Star Children of the American Revolution. This award is presented to members of the Children of the American Revolution that exhibit leadership qualities, possess qualities of good citizens, and serve the commuity. Sara Jayne is a senior at Pleasant Grove High School, and Madison is a senior at Atlanta High School. They each received a $500 scholarship award.

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Sara Jayne Burroughs and Madison Tomlin

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Suzy Irwin

Friendly, dependable, and considerate are words that can easily be associated with Suzy Irwin. Her pleasant demeanor is contagious, and people are drawn to her infectious personality. Always ready to help a friend, Suzy often puts others’ wants and needs before her own. When asked what she imagined herself being when she was growing up, it is no surprise that Suzy saw herself working for Hallmark cards as a writer and designer, using her creative genius to come up with different ways to celebrate special moments in people’s lives!

Suzy Irwin grew up in Lubbock, Texas, and graduated from Coronado High School. She then attended Texas Tech University where she earned a bachelor’s degree in English-Technical Writing. She also attended Texas A&M University-Texarkana where she earned a Master of Adult Education with a specialization in Management.

Earning her master’s degree while working full-time and raising two children was the biggest obstacle Suzy has overcome. “Growing up, I never considered myself a ‘good student.’ My grades were okay, not great, and I struggled through almost every math class I have ever taken!” she remarks. “So, finding my love for learning and overcoming the obstacles of hating math, I became a straight A graduate student and have now earned 18 more graduate-level hours in business courses.”

Currently the Executive Director of Institutional Advancement at Texarkana College, Suzy chose to work in the field of higher education because she firmly believes that education is the key to opportunity and that by earning a higher education credential, a person can positively change the direction of their future. She explains, “I love working with students who are just starting out on their journey or those who have chosen to start over in their career pathway. It is such a rewarding career to hear the testimonies of those who have achieved their dream of completing their degree!”

The most valuable lesson Suzy has learned throughout her life is to stay genuine and authentic as her career advances. She also learned that being a part of a dynamic, talented, and visionary team is one of the most rewarding experiences anyone can have in their career. She believes that “every single job you have affords you the opportunity to learn new skills, meet new people, and grow as an individual.”

Suzy’s proudest professional accomplishment was getting the opportunity to work with H. Ross Perot, alumnus of Texarkana College, on a public relations project to bring greater awareness and support to the college. “I was also able to work with my colleagues to honor and thank Mr. Perot for his support of the college with a permanent display journaling his lifetime achievements,”

she asserts. “The display is located inside the library at Texarkana College.”

Suzy and Robert, her husband of 33 years, have two daughters who are kind and sincere, just like their parents. Daughter, Katy Beth Irwin McGahey is 27 years old and is married to Ryan McGahey. Daughter, Natalie, is 26 years old, and both daughters live in the DFW area. Suzy and Robert also have two rescue dogs that they love to spoil! In her free time, Suzy enjoys travelling with Robert and friends and going to new destinations. She also loves to plan and host holiday and celebration parties for family and friends and help make fun memories that last a lifetime!

Throughout her life, Christian mentors have influenced her the most. “My husband, Robert, my mother, and my grandmother have covered me and our family and friends in daily prayers – what a blessing!” she exclaims. “These mentors have shown me that true peace and joy comes from a deep relationship with Christ.”

Passionate about supporting Texarkana’s rich art and music culture, Suzy is amazed at the amount of talent in the Texarkana community. “The art, dance, theater, and music educators in our community are top in their fields, and we all benefit from their passion to keep the arts thriving in Texarkana. The opportunities we have in our community to enjoy the arts through TRAHC, our magnificent Perot Theatre, the Texarkana Symphony Orchestra, Silvermoon, and Tex*Rep, are fantastic!” she says. “I serve on the board of Women for the Arts and have participated in Party with Picasso both as an artist and as an event volunteer. It is so awesome to see the work of so many talented people! I also had the opportunity to serve as a Celebrity Conductor contestant for TSO. Through these efforts, I have seen an inside view of the love, passion, and vision these organizations have for providing and sustaining access to amazing talent in our community. I am so grateful!”

Suzy believes that part of her legacy is to help raise up the next generation of women and be a good role model for them while leaning on God and loving unconditionally. She encourages young women today to be authentic and genuine – the foundation of every solid relationship, both personal and professional.

Katy Beth, Natalie, Suzy, and Robert on a trip to New York City enjoying a frozen hot chocolate from the famous Serendipity Restaurant.

The Lord shall preserve thy going out and thy coming in from this time forth, and even for evermore.

- Psalms 121:8, often shared with Suzy and her entire family by her mother, Barbara Carl

THE WAY Mindy Preston SEES HER

Suzy Irwin is the definition of true friendship. She is a Godly, southern lady in whom I respect. We laugh, cry, and pray together. She is always there when I need someone to lean upon. She is full of wisdom and gives the best advice. We can be real with each other, and she is a very trustworthy friend.

Suzy is pure joy to work with. We have worked together for almost 11 years. There is not a day that goes by that we are not bouncing ideas back and forth. We have coordinated banquets, luncheons, receptions, ribbon cuttings, dinners, open houses, fundraisers, parties, and even a funeral, together.

Suzy is the best writer around. Give her a subject, she will research, and produce a lovely article. She is also extremely creative. A very respected member of the community, Suzy meets and relates to everyone so well, always giving credit to others.

Suzy loves big. She loves her God, her family, and her friends. I know without a doubt that the Lord has blessed me with this precious friend. She is truly a gift from God.

Everyone needs a dear sweet friend like Suzy Irwin.

“As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.” – Proverbs 27:17

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TEXARKANA HOME BUILDERS ASSOCIATION PRESENTS THE 2022 HOME & GARDEN SHOW

On March 26, the Texarkana Home Builders Association presented its annual Home & Garden Show at Crossties Event Venue. Builders, remodelers, home and garden suppliers, landscapers, and other related companies took part in this show and offered expert advice to anyone who needed guidance on their home projects.

China and Chris Rogers

Chint Murdock, Brittany Rossum, Mark Turner and Martha Young

Eric Cain, Jay Davis and Carol Taillon

David and Susan Quinn

Nicole Raley and Jade Evans Xenia Parker and Amy Mattison

David Bolt and Lori Culpepper

David Nation and Kelly Jordan

Michael Lee and Tristan Perry

Katherine Morgan and Mary Wormington

SHELBY STEPHENS

CHEMIST FOR RED RIVER ARMY DEPOT CO-OWNER OF FOUR FIFTEEN ESTATES | CO-OWNER OF NORTH ELM BOUTIQUE

Long hours and hard work seem to be the order of each new day for Shelby Stephens. Not only does she work at Red River Army Depot, but she is also the co-owner of two local businesses, Four Fifteen Estates and North Elm Boutique.

Shelby earned a Bachelor of Science in Chemistry from University of Central Arkansas. For the past five years, she has served as a chemist for Red River Army Depot. She explains, “In the chem lab, we test various samples from the depot to ensure highest quality of oil, vat solutions, and water.”

For the past year, she has served as a co-owner of Four Fifteen Estates with Caleb Stephens. A new wedding event venue, Four Fifteen Estates is located in New Boston, Texas. Shelby enjoys helping newly engaged couples find a place where they can begin their happily ever after. “My main job is to make sure the bride has the wedding of her dreams without the stress that comes along with it so that looks a little different each weekend!” she says.

Shelby’s other business venture is North Elm Boutique, a trendy contemporary clothing, shoes and accessories boutique. Together with co-owner Ashlyn Yates, Shelby started the online business during October 2021, and they recently opened a storefront, also in New Boston. Ashlyn and Shelby split responsibilities at the boutique, including making social media posts, finding clothes to stock the inventory, marketing the boutique, processing new inventory, and styling the storefront.

Driven by community, Shelby wants to provide more things for people to do in New Boston. “Each job contributes to that,” she admits. “Red River provides job opportunities for the community; Four Fifteen allows for events to take place; and North Elm Boutique is an open space where people can come shop, sip coffee, and hang out.”

Four Fifteen Estates | 415 County Road 2101 | New Boston, Texas 75570 | www.fourfifteenestates.com

North Elm Boutique | 103 North Elm Street | New Boston, Texas 75570 | www.northelmboutique.com

LEENETTA TYLER

OWNER/FLORAL DESIGNER RUTH’S FLOWERS

As the owner and floral designer for Ruth’s Flowers, Leenetta Tyler enjoys helping people with all of their floral needs. Whether to celebrate, comfort, console, or cheer others, Leenetta and her team of florists work hard to provide fresh flowers, live plants, or unique gift ideas for every occasion.

For the past 19 years, Leenetta has used her creativity and talents to keep her business running smoothly while tending to her clients’ flower needs. “Whether helping someone say goodbye to a loved one, creating the perfect bouquet for a bride on her special day, or sending an everyday get well or birthday wish, I love meeting people from all walks of life and am thankful that I can bring joy to others,” she admits.

In the future, Leenetta looks forward to continuing to create custom arrangements and helping others with all of their floral needs. In addition, she hopes to be able to balance her professional and personal lives so she can spend a little more quality time with her family. Ruth’s Flowers | 3501 Texas Boulevard | Texarkana, Texas 75503 | 903-793-6711 | www.ruthsflowers.net

BARBARA WALKER

DIRECTOR OF

Putting heads in beds is the goal of Hilton Garden Inn/Texarkana Convention Center’s director of sales, Barbara Walker. Helping create the best experience for every guest that walks through the doors is her mission.

With 25 years in the service industry, Barbara started her career at the Hampton Inn in Bossier City, as a college student. Throughout the years, she has gained valuable knowledge and experience in the hospitality industry

For the past almost 15 years, Barbara’s compassion and commitment to her career and the people she works with at DPG (Daugherty Property Group) has enabled her to create lasting personal relationships with those she comes in contact with. “DPG is, hands-down, the best company to work for. I am proud of what they represent and thankful they have allowed me to be a part of their team!” she explains. “Working for good people is truly a blessing.”

In the future, Barbara plans to open her own small boutique hotel or bed and breakfast. (She even already has the name of her business picked out.) No matter when this new venture comes to fruition, with Barbara at the helm, this business will be successful and lucrative.

Hilton Garden Inn/Texarkana Convention Center | 2910 S. Cowhorn Creek Loop | Texarkana, Texas 75503 | 903-255-4642 www.texarkana.hgi.com | www.texarkanaconventioncenter.com.

MAY 2022

MAY 1

The Texarkana Regional Chorale will present “Soulfest!” during a 4 p.m. performance in the Great Room of the Truman Arnold Student Center on the Texarkana College campus. Featured music by Ames, Hogan, Still, and more will be presented, and admission is free with donations accepted. Email: txkregionalchorale@gmail.com for more information.

MAY 2

Temple Memorial Pediatric Center will host Tee Up for Temple at Texarkana Country Club. A four-person scramble, registration will begin at 11 a.m. followed by a shotgun start at 1 p.m. Call Gina at 903-793-2705 or email gparish@tmrctxk.org for more information.

MAY

6-7

Runnin’ WJ Ranch will sponsor its second annual Big Bass Round Up. The dinner and a silent auction will take place May 6 at Crossties Event Center, beginning

at 6 p.m. The bass tournament begins Saturday at 6 a.m. at Wright Patman Lake-Sportsman Cove. Money raised from the event will support the riding scholarship program and horse care. For more information, please contact Brittany Rogers at 903-748-3411 or brittany@runninwjranch.org.

MAY

7

The Alzheimer’s Alliance Tri-State Area will present its seventh annual Twice as Fine Texarkana Wine Festival, “Just Roll With It,” at Spring Lake Park. Wineries from across the State of Texas, numerous merchants, and local businesses will give visitors an opportunity to taste and purchase wines and gourmet treats. Visit: www. texarkanawinefestival.com for more information.

MAY

7

First Choice Pregnancy Resource Center will host its 22nd annual Walk for Life at Spring Lake Park. The event will feature a fun-filled morning with pancakes,

prizes, a kids’ fun run, a diaper derby, and the traditional walk. First Choice has been serving women (and men) in the greater Texarkana area since 1974. Those interested in participating can register at: www.firstchoiceprc.com/donate.

MAY 8

Chef on the Run Jeff Loving will host a Mother’s Day Brunch Event during two seatings, 11 a.m. and 12:30 p.m., at Silvermoon on Broad. Call 903276-8081 for more information or to register.

MAY 13

Farmers Bank & Trust will host its Open House at its 1102 Arkansas Boulevard location. Burgers will be served from 11 a.m. to 1 p.m., and snow cones will available from 11 a.m. to 2 p.m. Call 903-791-0490 for more information.

MAY 13

Habitat for Humanity Texarkana will host Diamonds for Doorways from 6:309:30 p.m. at Silvermoon on Broad. The

event will feature heavy hors d’oeuvres, a silent auction, giveaways, and a casino night. Tickets can be purchased at www.habitattexarkana.org , call 903-832-1746, or email: info@ habitattexarkana.org.

MAY 16

Harvest Regional Food Bank’s Drive Out Hunger Golf Tournament will take place at Northridge Country Club. Call 870-774-1398 for more information or email: development@hrfb.org.

MAY 18

The seventh annual EMS Appreciation Week First Responder’s Day will be held for EMS, as well as all law enforcement and firefighters. Boxed lunches from Big Jake’s BBQ will be served from 11:30 a.m. to 1:30 p.m. at the Texarkana Arkansas Convention Center and the Texarkana Texas Convention Center.

MAY 19

TEXAR will present Local Bands, Local Brews, Local Bites from 7-9 p.m. in

front of the Historic Perot Theatre. Entertainment will feature Dave Howe and the Howelers. Drinks and food can be purchased from Pecan Point.

MAY 21

The eighth annual Clay’s Golf & Guitars will feature a golf scramble and concert by Sail On, a Beach Boys’ tribute band. The event will benefit Haven Homes. Visit: www.claysgolfandguitars.com for information or email: gaileichler@ gmail.com

MAY 25

The Texarkana Area Chapter # 278 of the Vietnam Veterans of America, Inc. (VVA # 278) will host its 25th annual Veterans Information Fair at the Texas Elks Lodge # 2771 at 3702 New Boston Road. It will be open to the public from 9 a.m. until 1 p.m. This event is held to assist veterans, active duty, Reserve and National Guard personnel and their families obtain information from a variety of sources on VA benefits, programs, & other assistance and programs for them and their families. For more information, call:

870-773-8279 or 903-556-1613, or email: USMCgreg@aol.com or go to the VVA # 278 website at: www.vva278.org or Facebook page at: Vietnam Veterans of America #278.

MAY 26-28

The Talimena Rally, “Cruisin’ for St. Jude,” will be held at the Arkansas Convention Center. The three-day event will feature two terrific bands, two group rides, points run, silent auction, four meals, and prizes. Proceeds will benefit the St. Jude

Children’s Research Hospital. For more information, contact Neil Jones at 903276-6884.

THROUGH MAY 27

The Martha and Josh Morriss Mathematics & Engineering Elementary School will take applications for grades 1-5. Applications are available at: www.txkisd.net or call 903-7948473, ext. 1030 for more information.

Email June/July events to suzyturner@fourstatesliving.com

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Beth Pesek

A retired business education/technology applications teacher, Beth Pesek doesn’t recall having a specific career in mind as she was growing up, but influencing young people through teaching was in the cards. Upon graduating from DeKalb High School, she enrolled in Texarkana College. During her early years in college, she was drawn to business classes and began leaning toward a career in education. Once she began taking education courses at the University of Arkansas, she knew that she was in the right field. She then earned a master’s degree in education from East Texas State University–Texarkana, now Texas A&M–Texarkana.

As an educator, Beth Pesek was committed to her students and learned to be open to trying new things. “My students learned skills that are useful for a lifetime,” Beth Pesek admits. “Occasionally, I see a former student or receive a Facebook message from former students thanking me for teaching them to type, or that a skill learned in my classroom has helped in their career. I loved working with students in my classroom and helping them achieve success.”

Open and honest, Beth often observed that inappropriate classroom behavior usually meant that the students had underlying reasons for acting out. She loved working with at-risk students in her classroom and helped them achieve success appropriate for their level. She recalls, “One of the principals I worked with was always open to listening to problems. However, his rule was that a solution must be suggested for each problem.”

Out of the four high schools in Texarkana, Beth has taught at three of them— Texas High, Arkansas High, and Pleasant Grove High School. Her teaching career was impacted by technology and provided plenty of opportunities for continued learning. “When I first began teaching typing, students used IBM electric typewriters,” she recalls. “As time went by, word processors were added. Computers became a staple in my classroom while at PGHS. Technology continued to evolve, and I began working to add Technology Applications to my teaching certificate. By the time I retired, I was teaching Computer Applications, Digital Graphics and Animation and Multimedia.”

Beth and her husband, Judge Leon Pesek, Jr. will celebrate their 40th anniversary in August. Their son, Trey (34), and his wife, Gena, have two children; Kase is 5 years old and River Rose is 1 year old. The Peseks’ daughter, Katie (29), and her husband, Eric Osburn, have two children; Brooks is 3 years old and Hudson is 2 years old. Since retiring, Beth spends much of her free time volunteering. She is a supporter and board member for 1st Choice Pregnancy Center, an organization that is near and dear to her heart. “Life is precious, and a young teenage girl chose not to abort her baby. Thanks to her, Leon and I were able to adopt our son, Trey.” Another cause that is important to Beth is

the Salvation Army where she is a board member of the Women’s Auxiliary.

Beth enjoys traveling to Gulf Shores, Alabama. Although she is not a beach person, she loves to sit on the balcony in the mornings with a cup of coffee and walk along the water line looking for shells later in the day. Beth’s all-time favorite vacation is taking cruises. She also looks forward to attending her grandsons’ sporting events. “I’m not a big sports fan but will soon be on the sidelines cheering my grandsons in their T-ball games,” she admits. “My hobbies include planting flowers, taking a mosaic art class, and collecting Waterford crystal Christmas ornaments. I do have one dog, Chubby, a Shih Tzu. My father-in-law lived with us for several years, and he wanted a dog, which is how Chubby came to live with us. When my father-in-law moved to a memory care unit, we kept Chubby and would take him for an occasional visit. Chubby continues to rule our household.”

The two people who have influenced Beth the most during her adult life are her in-laws, Leon and Shirley Pesek. She shares that she learned the importance of faith, family, and giving back to the community from them. “They were always available to offer valuable advice along the way. Shirley was like a mother to me, and we liked the same things,” she says. “Leon, Sr. taught me to cook Czech klobasneks (we call them pigs in the blanket) and continue the family tradition of enjoying them every year for Christmas.”

Beth loves living in Texarkana. She has enjoyed watching the recent rejuvenation of downtown properties and events. Although she doesn’t travel to Little Rock, Dallas, or Shreveport often, doing so is easy to do from Texarkana. She concludes, “After visiting other cities, I’ve learned that our city has nonprofits that are supported by citizens in the Ark-La-Tex. Some of the places I’ve visited aren’t as lucky.”

Beth believes that the most important thing a young woman can do is get an education, post-secondary or training, as one never knows what may happen throughout their lifetime. Beth’s mother became a widow at 24 years old with two children under 4 years of age. Beth encourages the younger generation to always give their best with whatever they are doing. “Be kind to others. Take good care of your body by eating healthy foods and exercise regularly,” she encourages. “Be a lifelong learner, and surround yourself with positive people.”

Beth and Leon with their grandchildren on March 22, 2022. Leon is holding Hudson, Beth is holding River Rose, and Kase and Brooks are standing in front.

“Whatever path God has you take, He will help you navigate.”

- as seen by Beth’s brother-in-law, Phil Pesek, on a church sign

THE WAY Heather Richardson-Green SEES HER

Talking about Mrs. Beth Pesek takes more than one paragraph; she embodies more than one paragraph can hold. When describing her, the first word that comes to my mind is classic; however, many versions of that word miss the core of who she is genuinely. Old Hollywood class, new class, southern class, Christian class ... Mrs. Pesek truly has the most giving, humble, unbiased Godly heart, all while having more class than most people have in their pinkie. She views and cares for people unconditionally and wholeheartedly.

I visit with Mrs. Pesek biweekly (sometimes weekly), and she never mutters a negative word about anyone or anything. She always has the most compassion and concern for everyone within her reach. I am a better person for knowing Mrs. Pesek. Her kindness, loyalty, and unbiased love have molded me into the woman I am and helped my heart to be more genuine.

Thank you Beth, as your closest people call you, for having the most Godlike heart here on Earth and having more class than most I know. You are an angel on earth in my eyes, and I didn’t even scrape the surface of who you are to so many! People don’t get much more genuine than Beth Pesek, and I’m a better person for knowing her.

KAYDEE WAREN

OWNER

DREIDEL HOME + SUNDRY

Dreidel Home + Sundry opened for business in 2017. Two years later, Kaydee Waren took ownership of the shop with a dream to make Dreidel a “one stop shop for all things trendy” in Texarkana.

Whether playing the role of janitor, marketer, inventory buyer, bookkeeper, etc., running a small business means playing multiple roles. Those who frequent Dreidel may see Kaydee handling any of those tasks. She also can be found behind the register, restocking shelves, or handling all things business behind-the-scenes.

Building relationships with her customers is Kaydee’s favorite part of her job. Her dream has always been to make Dreidel a business locals would love and out-of-town shoppers would remember. She has a heart for other people and dedication to go above and beyond for her community and customers. “It’s turned into one big family here,” she says. “Texarkana and the surrounding areas have shown so much support and love to Dreidel Home + Sundry. I can’t imagine owning a shop anywhere else.”

Kaydee is very consistent and creative with her day-to-day operations. She feels fortunate that Dreidel has grown so much through the years, and her plan is to continue offering the best for her customers and building her business.

Dreidel Home + Sundry | 2383A Richmond Road | Texarkana, Texas 75503 | 903-556-2722

www.dreidelhomeandsundry.com

MARTHA WISDOM

CHIEF RISK AND STRATEGY OFFICER

FARMERS BANK & TRUST

At Farmers Bank & Trust, Chief Risk and Strategy Officer Martha Wisdom guides the strategic planning process, tracks progress toward achievement of Critical Strategic Initiatives, and manages the Enterprise Risk Management Program. She also oversees Regulatory Compliance, including Bank Secrecy Act and Internal Audit functions.

Martha feels privileged that she has worked for a strong community and customer-focused bank for the past seven years. And working with the Farmers family is one of the best parts of her job. She admits, “They are truly the best.”

Martha’s core values align with Farmers’ HEART Core Values (Honor, Excellence, Adaptability, Respect and Teamwork). She says that it “doesn’t get any better than that” when personal goals align perfectly with professional goals.

A graduate of Henderson State University with a Bachelor of Science in Business Administration, Martha previously worked for 10 years in public accounting with Grier, Reeves & Lawley, and 35 years in banking at Texarkana National Bank, Century Bank, and 1st Bank. She also worked for two years at Truman Arnold Companies. “All of my mentors over the past 37 years were uniquely the best at what they do,” she acknowledges. “Lucky for me, some of it stuck.”

Farmers Bank & Trust | 2900 St. Michael Drive | Texarkana, Texas 75503 | 903-791-0490 | www.myfarmers.bank

CORIE WOODMAN DIRECTOR OF DEVELOPMENT OPPORTUNITIES, INC.

Even though she has only served as the Director of Development of Opportunities, Inc. for four months, Corie Woodman’s unwavering dedication, determination, and drive to help the nonprofit organization in any capacity is evident. Her “official” duties include fundraising, managing social media, and marketing. She makes it her mission to show the Texarkana community exactly how their support can employ and empower individuals with disabilities by inviting them to visit the campus to see. She explains, “I want to take every person who would like to come visit our campus on a tour to see the wonderful things going on at Opportunities, Inc.” She wants to teach them all about the organization and give them a reason to believe in its mission just as strongly as she does.

Corie earned a master’s degree in Curriculum and Instruction from Texas A&M University-Texarkana and a bachelor’s degree in Health Information Management from Arkansas Tech University in Russellville, Arkansas. A former educator for 15 years, Corie knows that no matter what the day brings, each and every single day matters at Opportunities. “The absolute best part of my job, besides who I work with, would definitely be why I work ... to help grow our mission alongside so many volunteers, supporters, and donors that share the same ‘why’ of making sure our adults and children with disabilities are given the chance to participate in the community!” she continues.

Corie’s goal is to continue spreading the word about the wonderful happenings at Opportunities, Inc. She admits that she will even “scream from the rooftops” so the community will know about the difference friends of Opportunities, Inc. can make in the lives of others. She comments, “I want to show everyone what’s going on behind that blue and white sign at 6101 North State Line Avenue.”

Exquisite INTERIORS

TRANQUIL. PRISTINE. TIMELESS.

by SUZY TURNER photos by HARRIS HOUSE 360

Open living areas, an asymmetrical façade, easy maneuverability, and a natural flow of light define this ranch-style beauty. Located on 7.15 sprawling acres in Oakridge Addition, this 3 bedroom, 2 bath home blends a simple contemporary design with timeless rustic style.

A galley kitchen with an L-shaped bar area allows efficient use of space and minimizes the need to navigate the area. A custom wooden range hood provides a stylish touch to the functional space while an exposed brick accent wall adds texture and character. White cabinets and quartz countertops accentuate the durable stainless steel appliances.

Space is maximized in the walk-in pantry, located just steps away from the kitchen. Behind the white-washed door with etched glass, this transitional space maintains the kitchen’s simplicity. Small appliances, dry goods, and canned foods are tucked away in this area, still easily accessible for the cook.

A wood and wrought iron chandelier adds rustic charm to the breakfast nook. Perfect for

a casual dining atmosphere, the built-in bench and industrial style dining chairs offer seating for at least four. A bay window creates a unique architectural detail while adding extra illumination in the area.

The massive living area features a painted brick wood-burning fireplace with shiplap paneling and a sturdy oak mantle. To the right of the fireplace is a bookcase, housing family mementoes and photographs. An ornate fireplace screen adds a unique design element to the space. Comfortable sofas and recliners are strategically placed so that every guest can view the flat-screen TV while large windows allow them to look out to the backyard and pasture.

An eye-catching wooden accent wall provides stark contrast to the fresh white walls in the dining area, mixing the old with the new. The wooden dining table is centrally located within the confined space, complete with a long bench on one side and distressed gray chairs on the other.

Neutral colors transform the simple master

bedroom into a tranquil retreat. A distressed wooden sleigh bed creates a dramatic feel to the space. Floor to ceiling drapes allow the owners to regulate the amount of light throughout the room. In the adjoining contemporary bath, quartz vanities bring warmth to the neutral space while mirrors reflect light around the room. A deep soaker jetted tub, large tiled shower, and double vanities complete this serene space.

Spectacular views of the ranch are seen throughout every room in the house. Although the inside of this home is exquisite, the outside holds the ultimate allure. Fenced acreage with paddocks, a horse barn with great stalls, and two additional outbuildings for other toys make this country estate attractive for horse lovers, RV owners, or off-road enthusiasts. Located just seven miles outside of the city limits, this beautiful country estate is situated in a premier location: close enough for a quick run into town and yet just far enough away from the hustle and bustle of the city.

SCENE ABOUT TOWN

TEXARKANA REGIONAL CHORALE PERFORMS AT CARNEGIE HALL

The Texarkana Regional Chorale performed at Carnegie Hall in New York City on March 19. Led by music director and conductor Marc-André Bougie, the Chorale was joined by the Texarkana College Choir and performed “Requiem,” an original work by Bougie, along with Francis Poulenc’s “Gloria.” This is the Chorale’s fourth Carnegie Hall performance and the “Requiem’s” New York debut.

The trip was a great success with Chorale members enjoying exploring the city. After the performance, members joined other chorales for an evening dinner harbor cruise. The Carnegie Hall show was sponsored by Mid-America Productions, of which Bougie was just named an Honorary Composer/Conductor. He was also named a national finalist for The American Prize in Composition–Major Choral Works for “Requiem.”

Photos by Stan Shavers, Starlight Photography

Marc-André Bougie with Rev. Jesse Jackson

Reggie Abrams and Bart Gould

Susan Stanley, Candace Taylor, Mary Scott Smith and Sherri Waters-Clem

Candace Taylor and Marc-André Bougie

Chris, Lindsey and Emily McMillan

Texarkana Regional Chorale during the Carnegie Hall Rehearsal

Clint Hanna and Amy Freedman Hanna

Deric Kennedy and Don Edwards

Sue Ellen Hall, Lupe Singleton, Casey Cheung, Casey Hitchcock, Marc-André Bougie, Sherri Waters-Clem, Samantha King, Lajuana Dibrell, Kate Jackson and Jimmie Stephens

Miriam Taylor Bougie and Thyjuan Jamison

Marc-André Bougie with Grambling State University Choir

photo by KENDAL DOCKERY PHOTOGRAPHY

Susanne Tirrito Tullos

Susanne Tirrito Tullos, also known as Susanne, Granny, and Sue-Sue, loves being a registered nurse. She graduated from Arkansas High School and has a Master of Science in Nursing, Pediatric Nursing Practitioner track from the University of Arkansas for Medical Sciences, and a Master of Science in Business Administration from Texas A&M-Texarkana. She also has a Post-Baccalaureate Certificate in Public Health from the University of Arkansas for Medical Sciences and is currently pursuing a Doctorate in Educational Technology and Leadership.

Susanne Tirrito Tullos always wanted to be a nurse. She never imagined being anything else. She began her nursing career at St. Michael’s Hospital (many, many years before it became CHRISTUS) in the six bed Intensive Care Unit at the old hospital. From Intensive Care, she transitioned into school nursing in the mid-’80s. Her next job was as the State School Nurse Consultant, employed by the Arkansas Department of Health in collaboration with the Arkansas Department of Education. “I provided professional leadership for the school nurses of Arkansas. I served in an advisory capacity to superintendents and principals,” she explains. “I also traveled to each of the 15 Educational Cooperatives within the state presenting workshops, training for hearing/vision, scoliosis, BMI screenings, and providing continuing education for school nurses. I was responsible for developing guidelines for mandated school screenings, communicable diseases, and medication administration.” After resigning from the Department of Health, Susanne began her teaching career with the University of Arkansas for Medical Sciences College of Nursing Off-Campus BSN Program. She is currently a nursing instructor at Texas A&M-Texarkana.

Susanne and her husband, Mike, have three children: Jim, Jennifer, and Jerod, and four grandchildren, Montana (22), Wade (15), Peyton (14), and Taylor (12). In her spare time, she enjoys reading fiction or even a new nursing textbook.

Supporting student success is very crucial to Susanne. She sees students struggle daily as they try to balance school, work, family responsibilities, and such. Some of these young adults are the first from their family to attend college and want so badly to succeed. For others, their self-esteem is low, and they have lost confidence in their ability to be successful. “I try to remind myself that I do not know what an individual has dealt with prior to class. An incident can occur that prevents the student from being able to focus during class or do well on an exam,” she says. “I try to learn about my students. Worry and anxiety prevent students from performing well on exams. I have posted office hours; however, I will do my best to meet with students, even

using Zoom if needed. I have also scheduled group sessions for students in specific courses. Students sometimes need help to identify strategies for improvement or time management. I am willing to spend time with any student who asks for help.”

Throughout her career, Susanne has learned to take the time to listen, acknowledge what the other person is feeling, and then provide support and encouragement. She knows that a kind word, smile, or hug may be the only positive others receive in an overwhelming day. She believes that everyone deserves respect, and every moment should count because you may not have another opportunity.

Susanne’s maternal grandmother influenced her the most over the course of her life. She cooked/canned, gardened, sewed/quilted all while raising 10 children. “She taught me how to cook. She also taught me basic crochet, smocking, and embroidery. She instilled a love of family and reminded me to always help others,” Susanne remarks.

As a mentor to young women, Susanne encourages them to decide what they really want to do or be, think about their dreams, what they feel passionate about, and pursue it. She tells them to focus their efforts on achieving goals, believe that they are capable, and never let adversity along the way cause them to give up.

One thing that most people do not know about Susanne is that she has been a church organist for a long time. She began playing the organ when she was 10 years old, but admits that it was not by choice. “I attended St. Edward School, and we had daily Mass. The regular organist was absent. When a nun tells you to do something, you obey! I have been playing ever since. I currently serve as a substitute at Sacred Heart Catholic Church.”

Susanne enjoys living in the Four States area, where people are friendly and relatable. “You don’t have to travel very far to get to any specific place. Life is slower-paced here,” she quips. “I enjoy the scenery as I drive to work. At this time of year, the pear trees and redbuds are in bloom and so many flowers. Geese and deer are abundant on the Texas A&M-Texarkana campus. I can watch them from my office window!”

Susanne with her children – Jerod, Jim, and Jennifer – on Mother’s Day.

Believe for with God all things are possible.

- Matthew 19:26

THE WAY Dr. Shelia Moore SEES HER

For those who know Susanne Tirrito Tullos, it comes as no surprise that she is my top choice of women who have influenced and made me a better educator and person. She is one of the kindest and most compassionate women I’ve ever met, and that is portrayed in her academic practice, her service to her church, and her dedication to her family. She is Christ personified in every aspect of her life.

I have worked with Susanne at Texas A&M University–Texarkana in the nursing department for several years, and she never ceases to amaze me at the depth of caring and patience she displays in each and every challenge that comes her way. The nursing students adore her, and she always goes above and beyond to coach them, encourage them, and educate them to become the best nurses they can be.

Susanne always shares her wisdom and experience in a quiet, calming manner that helps settle frayed nerves and helps the listener focus on the issues rather than emotions. I, and many others in our community, value her as a colleague, a mentor, and a friend. My life is richer because of Susanne Tirrito Tullos.

HISTORY HAPPENS...

BY VELVET HALL COOL Board President of the Texarkana Museums System

History happens to have many women who have served as inspiration for all manners of artwork – from the crooked smirk on the Mona Lisa to the plot of Tolstoy’s Anna Karenina. Their unique characters from warmth of nature, strong independence, and nurturing aspects have shaped almost every facet of society. While the names of many strong and influential women have found their permanent records in history, there are many more who have nurtured, served, and influenced for which their names do not roll as easily off our tongues or from our memories.

Chances are high that many of you do not know about two sisters from Texarkana, USA. Born in Texarkana, Arkansas, and educated in Texarkana, Texas, at Dunbar High School, Lois and Dorothea Towles both grew from hometown little girls to international fame and prestige. One conquered the world of music and the other the world of beauty.

In 1912, Lois was the fifth of nine siblings born to the Towles family in Texarkana, Arkansas. Her sister, Dorothea, would join the family as the eighth sibling in 1922. Around the time of Dorothea’s birth, their family relocated from the Arkansas side to the Texas side. Lois sang in the church choir, served as a pianist from the church and graduated as a valedictorian from Dunbar. She went on to attend Wiley College, became a proud pink and green sorority member of the Alpha Kappa Alpha and graduated magna cum laude with a Bachelor of Arts degree. Lois would later go on to earn a Master of Fine Arts bin nine months from the University of Iowa, becoming the first AfricanAmerican to have done so. Her education would later expand to include Julliard, the University of California at Berkeley, The Conservatoire de Paris, and the American Conservatory at Fontainebleau. Studying under the renowned Rubenstein on a free fellowship, she honed her craft, continued her education, and toured to crowds throughout the South.

In 1949, after a performance at Fisk University, Lois would travel to Paris to continue her piano studies. Her talent and performances at such

places as the American Embassy in Paris would earn her significant accolades.

Meanwhile, younger sister, Dorothea, would take lessons and guidance from the great strides Lois made. She would also enroll at Wiley College, graduate cum laude with a degree in biology and pre-med. She would land in Los Angeles, California, with family and teach biology and drama while furthering her own education at the University of Southern California. Dorothea would also enroll in charm and modeling schools, a move which would lead to great success. She joined her sister, Lois, and other pink and green sisters by also pledging as an Alpha Kappa Alpha sorority sister.

After the Fisk University performance, Lois and Dorothea would become quite a team for some time. Traveling internationally to perform various piano concerts, recitals, fashion shows, and modeling shows as they grew to become the first African-American international concert pianist and African-American international model.

Dorothea would model extensively for Christian Dior, Pierre Balmain, Robert Piguet, and others – while in Paris. Her returns to her home country would not be as marketable for her career. Pierre Balmain, fearing repercussions from white customers of the era, declined having Dorothea borrow his designs for an Ebony Magazine shoot.

Two hometown girls, from a segregated school, in a time where African-American talents were not always given as much opportunity as others, graced between them the cover of Jet Magazine three times, garnered recognition in the Alpha Kappa Alpha Pioneering Sorors ledgers, and left their biographies for us in the Texas State Historical Association Handbook of Texas. These two sisters broke both racial and gender barriers on their way to making history happen.

Note: To learn more about these wonderful sisters, please visit the Handbook of Texas, the AKA Pioneers Website, or make a research appointment with your local Museum of Regional History.

She loves to share stories of her nine wonderful grandchildren. When it comes to listening, you can always perk up her ears with stories that speak to personal history and the lessons we learn during our lifelong journey.

Born and raised in Texarkana, Velvet Hall Cool has strong ties to both Texas and Arkansas but will always consider herself a Class of ‘87 Razorback.

Dorothea Towles (Submitted by Texarkana Museums System) Lois Towles (Submitted by Texarkana Museums System)

THE ROAD Tra veled less

BY NICHOLE HOLZE

Last May marked 10 years of motherhood for me. Ten years of sleepless nights that faded quickly into watching first steps, chasing bicycles, and now chasing adventures with my favorite crew. Though, as many mothers know, the sleepless nights never really end. Last May, I decided that I wanted to celebrate not just my son moving into double digits, but I also wanted to celebrate the 10 years I’d devoted thus far to being called Mom. So, as a Mother’s Day gift to myself, after careful consideration of logistics of childcare (we homeschool and live far from any family), I bought myself a six night, seven day river rafting trip that would wind its way through Meander Canyon, Cataract Canyon, through flat water and white water, and eventually land at the northern most tip of Glen Canyon (Lake Powell).

In August, the kids and I raced west on I-40 to get to Phoenix for “Camp Nana and Papa.” My husband wasn’t able to take a full week off of work for this, so my parents graciously offered to host a week of grandparent summer fun camp, so I could go on this trip. I raced north to Moab, Utah.

My sister-in-law greeted me at Oars Rafting (she was one of the yoga teachers on the trip), and I met the most amazing group of 20 women, from all walks of life. We shoved off, on paddle boards and rafts, ready for whatever the river would show us.

Every meal was incredible, cooked by the guides of our trip, and they were even accommodating for all of my food allergies. The mornings began with coffee, breakfast, a stretch, and a moment to set intentions. Each day was filled with stand up paddle boarding, floating, hiking to see fossils and petroglyphs, epic scenery, and eventually, class four whitewater. Each evening we claimed our spot on the sandy shore. There was yoga, opportunities for reflection and journaling, delicious food, and conversation. I decided to ditch the tent and sleep under the stars each night, falling asleep to the most magnificent night sky I’ve ever seen, complete with shooting stars because the trip coincided with the Perseid Meteor Shower. The meteors raced across the sky, with the Milky Way as their backdrop, and I’ve never been more in awe of creation.

It was the trip of a lifetime, and I’m so glad that I chose to celebrate 10 years of motherhood, to reflect on the beginning and look forward to what’s to come. Happy Mother’s Day to all of the moms, grandmothers, aunts, foster moms, and guardians who care for and raise up the next generation.

Never afraid of a long drive, Nichole is a homeschooling mom to two and wife to Ryan. Coffee, always, and black please. You can probably find her scheming up their next road trip while hiking in the woods. Experience-based learning and good books abound in their homeschool, as they chase the spark of curiosity where it wanders on the road less traveled.

the FRIENDS list

Each month, Four States Living will choose two people who have “liked” our Facebook page to be featured in The Friend List. Chosen randomly, these two “friends” will answer questions we provide so our readers can get to know them better. The bonus question (the last question) will be related to the theme of each month’s issue.

DR. BECKY KESLER

age: 56

Occupation: Superintendent of Texarkana Arkansas School District

If you won the lottery, what is the first thing you would do? I would take my family on an extended vacation.

SANDY VARNER

age: LOL

Occupation: CEO – Temple Memorial Pediatric Center, Hostess at Pop’s Place

If you won the lottery, what is the first thing you would do? Buy a plane and hire a pilot so I never have to fly commercial again!

When you have 30 minutes of free time, how do you pass the time? I love sitting outside with my husband, Jeff.

If you were allowed to have one wish granted, what would it be?

I wish people could get along with each other and stop all the violence.

When you have 30 minutes of free time, how do you pass the time? ARE you kidding? Who has that kind of time?

If you were allowed to have one wish granted, what would it be? I would wish that my Trey was still here with me and healthy.

At what business could you max out a credit card?

It’s a tie between Dillard’s and Hobby Lobby.

Choose a movie title for the story of your life. “It’s a Wonderful Life.”

What are you currently watching on Netflix?

I’m anxiously awaiting the return of “Ozark.”

If you could visit anywhere in the world, where would you go?

I would travel anywhere with beautiful beaches ... Fiji, Australia, Thailand.

If you could only have three apps on your smartphone, which would you pick? Kindle. Spotify. Walmart.

What’s your favorite sport to watch, and which team do you root for?

I love to watch my granddaughter Emory’s soccer team, the Mighty Mermaids.

At what business could you max out a credit card? Renew Medical Spa – I love to be pampered!

Choose a movie title for the story of your life. “Caffeine, Chaos, and Cuss Words.”

What are you currently watching on Netflix?

We have been re-watching “Seinfeld.” You forget how good that show was.

If you could visit anywhere in the world, where would you go?

Somewhere in the Italian countryside.

If you could only have three apps on your smartphone, which would you pick? Google. Facebook. Snapchat.

What’s your favorite sport to watch, and which team do you root for?

College basketball (girls and boys) – Go Hogs!

TELL US WHO IS THE MOST INFLUENTIAL FEMALE IN YOUR LIFE AND WHY.

My mother had the greatest influence on my life. She was a beautiful, kind, compassionate, Christian woman who devoted herself to her family and was the epitome of what it meant to be a Godly woman. She had a true servant’s heart and was a blessing to everyone who knew her.

I have been fortunate to have been exposed to so many strong and influential women in my life – there is no way I could narrow it down to one. Mary Katherine Weber helped me through a particularly rough spot in my life with some advice I try and follow every day. She said, “You make yourself get up everyday and get dressed to face the day no matter how much you just want to pull the covers over your head and hide.