Four States Living Magazine April 2021

ON THE COVER - APRIL 2021

Texarkana Arkansas Police Officer Marcos Luna’s top priority is serving and protecting the community. He often sees life-or-death situations while on the job and feels thankful for skilled training that has come in handy throughout his career. He has saved lives by administering his naloxone overdose treatment kit to people who were in distress. Texarkana is fortunate to have policemen like Officer Luna who are focused on keeping our community safe.

See “Proud to Serve and Protect” on page 8.

With spring right around the corner, it’s time for homeowners to clean out the cobwebs and turn their attention to their home and garden.

ALSO IN THIS ISSUE

The Way I See It...

PUBLISHER’S LETTER

Robin Rogers, Ed.D.

I have many friends who are teachers, and I enjoy hearing about their highs and lows. Recently, I have done more keeping up via social media than in person, and more than ever, I hope they feel appreciated and loved by their students, parents, and community. Over the last year, many parents have gotten in the teaching trenches with their own kids and have learned how important good teachers are. Today, as I scanned my social media, one of my friends found a paddle in her school closet. It must have been from a gazillion years ago, I thought. Cue memories of a gazillion years ago as a student at Pleasant Grove Junior High.

My mother decided to go back to work when I turned 12. Of all the career choices, she decided to teach 9th grade English, at my school. Looking back, I knew she was a really good teacher, but I did not want to be the teacher’s kid - ever - and I certainly didn’t want to run into her in the halls. Those middle school years are the absolute worst years. Hormones, zits, bad makeup, silly boys, mean girls, periods, body odor, and rapidly changing bodies are some of the horrible experiences of junior high. Trying to be accepted, liked, or to just fit in at that age was an everyday struggle. Add a parent teaching your friends to the mix, and forget about it. My mom wasn’t a pushover; she was a brand new teacher there to TEACH sentence diagramming and Romeo and Juliet. I was horrified. Maybe I felt a little like they say pastors’ kids feel: uneasy and rebellious.

Like other kids, I would occasionally push the envelope with rules, tardies, and attendance. I had my mother’s signature down pat. “Please excuse Robin from _______; she was sick. - Pat Rogers.” Because she was a teacher, nobody ever thought I would forge a note from her.

My mother is and always has been a real sweetheart. She’s the person who regularly sends a handwritten card, remembers important dates, and actually bakes a casserole for the new neighbors instead of buying one at Sam’s and putting it in a

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Pyrex dish. And my mom was the mom who was proud of the fact that she had raised her kids without ever spanking them, not even once. We “talked things out,” even though many times I wished for a quick whipping.

So, the first year my mom and I shared the hallways of PGJH, I stopped letting her drive me to school. Back in the mid-eighties, there were no cell phones, so if you did not show up for school, the school receptionist would call your house in the morning to see what was up. As long as you answered the home phone and said you were sick, and the school got a note from your parents the next day, you were golden. I had this skipping thing down. So, one sunny day in mid-May, my bestie and I made a plan to sneak out after lunch to go sunbathing. I can’t remember who initiated the escape, but her house had a pool, and if we traveled through the woods, we could get there in a quick 15 minutes. There was no checking out; there were no cameras around the school. We just meandered out of the back end of the school property. We had almost made it unscathed when we emerged from the woods onto Skyline Drive, one street away from the afternoon we had been imagining: a boom box with Prince and Madonna, a bottle of Hawaiian Tropic tanning oil, a big swimming pool, and no adults!

I can’t remember exactly what Mr. Davis drove, but I do remember feeling uncharacteristically scared as the school principal drove up beside us and rolled down his window. “Why don’t y’all ride back with me?” he asked. He had a deep voice and a dry wit. For what seemed like an eternity, my girlfriend and I rode side by side in silence in the principal’s backseat, all the way back to the school. We followed Mr. Davis into his office; apparently, we hadn’t been as sly as we thought. The shop teacher saw us leave campus and turned us in.

As he talked to us about our punishment and how disappointed our parents would be, I imagined how much my

PUBLISHER

Dr. Robin Rogers

EDITOR

Suzy Turner

GRAPHIC DESIGNER

Kim McMurry

SALES REPRESENTATIVE

Lori Rochelle

PHOTOGRAPHERS

Alamond Photography

John Bunch Photography

Dr. Robin Rogers

FEATURED COLUMNISTS

Nichole Holze

Donnie Spriggs

CONTRIBUTING WRITERS

Lindsey McMillan

Vicki Melde

Ellen Orr

Jileen Platt

Lisa Porterfield Thompson

Amber E. Willman

Amber Smith Zaliski

bad behavior would embarrass my mom. She never deserved this.

I started to cry. “Please don’t tell my mom. Please don’t tell my mom.” And while I never deserved mercy, Mr. Davis looked me square in the eyes and said, “Licks or detention?” I was at least 13 and had never been spanked by anyone at home, much less at school. He repeated his offer. “Licks or detention?” If I took detention, my mom would for sure find out. If I took the licks, would the principal tell my mom?

“Licks,” I said quickly through my tears. “Hold onto the desk,” he advised, and I assumed the position to get paddled. The rest was just a blur. He could have blistered my butt once or five times. I remember him saying, “Now get to class!” I never skipped school again after that. And, for some reason, our parents were spared the details of our plans to take the afternoon off. Growing up is hard. Without good teachers and administrators being present in the lives of kids, learning the big lessons can be really hard. I know I got schooled that memorable May day.

Being shamed by the principal was enough to keep me in line. The licks were just bonus measures. I was relieved when my mom decided to quit working at the school. To my knowledge, she never found out about my ride in the principal’s car, either. Until now, of course.

Like educators, police and first responders unselfishly choose to protect and serve in their jobs everyday. TAPD Officer Luna is also a lifesaver, using naloxone at on-site emergencies to revive people who have overdosed on opioids. His story is incredible.

I am grateful that good people are choosing these servant leadership positions, protecting, educating, and guiding our citizens to be better. Thank God I’ve never ridden in the back of a police car; Mr. Davis’ backseat was enough.

Hope you enjoy all we share this month, and as always, thanks for reading FSLM

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Proud

Serve & Protect to

Texarkana Arkansas Police Officer Marcos Luna often makes life-or-death decisions while fulfilling his duty to the community

by AMBER SMITH ZALISKI

“Look for the helpers. You will always find people who are helping.” More than just a popular quote and a good reminder from Mr. Rogers, these are words we can see in action with our own eyes in our own neighborhoods. For Texarkana Arkansas Police Officer Marcos Luna, rushing toward tragedy is inherently part of the job, and trying to help the situation is always his top priority. With a wholehearted belief in community-oriented police work, Marcos is passionate about his oath to serve and protect.

Marcos made the move to Texarkana from his hometown of Nashville, Arkansas, in 2009, and pretty quickly decided never to leave. “You could say that Texarkana really grew on me in the first few years I was here,” he said. Originally, Marcos planned to go into teaching; history and Spanish would have been his preferred subjects, but ultimately decided to pursue a career that wouldn’t be spent indoors. “I liked the idea of being able to drive around and have a certain amount of freedom to move around to do the job. I’m also a very social person and a problem-solver, so I enjoy being able to meet people and help whenever, wherever I can. I believed law enforcement would be a fulfilling career for me, and so far that has been true.”

In September 2016, Marcos joined TAPD and has been with the agency since. He was recently promoted to Field Training Officer, responsible for training new hires, and he is also an instructor in the agency’s defensive tactics program, which centers around Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, in addition to his duties as a patrol officer. “I routinely respond to calls involving drugs, domestic disturbances, trespassing, suspicious vehicles or persons, suicide threats, shootings, death upon arrival calls, among other things,” Marcos said.

“It is a sad reality of our profession that the police are typically called upon when something, potentially something very bad, has happened or is happening to someone in the community. As cliché as it sounds, I think the most important part of our work is to help the members of our community to the best of our abilities. Sometimes that means an arrest has to happen; sometimes it means that I can just let someone vent, and they know that someone was there to listen to them.”

It is understood that law enforcement officers see and experience the kinds of traumas that most of us never want to consider, and Marcos admits that it can be a very difficult aspect of the job. “I think seeing death is the hardest part of this job, especially when a

Participating in the Shop with a Cop event has always been a blessing for Officer Luna.

child is involved. I know several officers that have had the same kind of experiences, and even in a situation where it is too late to do anything to change it, that is a moment that you never forget. I’m human. I have definitely shed tears after some of the calls I’ve been on.”

Many calls, however, result in lives being saved, and Marcos has personally been able to keep people alive using his naloxone overdose treatment kit. In October of 2019, he responded to an overdose call for an adult male and used the naloxone kit to keep him alive while waiting for paramedics. Marcos was given a lifesaving award for his actions, as it is believed the man would not have survived otherwise.

Again in February of this year, Marcos expertly administered the overdose treatment, this time to a 2-year-old who had eaten some of his parent’s medication.

“When I arrived to the call, the toddler was coming in and out of consciousness. Based on my training and experience, I knew Percocet to be an opioid derivative and knew that the naloxone treatment could stop or reverse the effects. Also based on the child’s deteriorating condition and knowing the snow was slowing the response time for LifeNet, I administered one dose in the right nostril. A few moments later the child came to, cranky, but otherwise normal.”

There are probably no words on paper that can convey the intensity of these kinds of life-or-death moments and decisions, and heroic feels like an appropriate word, but Marcos believes he is simply fulfilling his duty to serve and protect. “This is what I have trained for, and these are

the expectations set forth by my peers, and supervisors, and members of the community. I am happy I was able to meet those expectations.” Marcos explained that TAPD employs a unique schedule which allows for mandatory training days each month, including naloxone trainings, active shooter courses, and practicing other specific skill sets. “Like my Lieutenant says – in a high-stress situation, we don’t want to have to try something for the first time. So we try to spend a lot of time practicing for all kinds of situations.”

While every day in uniform is different, Marcos said that his favorite days, undoubtedly, are when he gets to interact with the community. “I love getting to meet people, and I think it’s really important that people get to meet us and know that we’re not just ‘the police.’ We’re regular people, and the job is the job, and we try to do it to the best of our abilities.” Shop With A Cop and Cops and Kids Night are two of his favorite holiday traditions. Marcos even found his way into the classroom through TAPD’s P.R.I.D.E. Program. “This is a mentorship program for sixth graders, teaching all kinds of classes about everything from people skills to healthy coping mechanisms, and we really try to make it a lot of fun for everybody. It’s also a chance for the kids to get to know us on a personal level, and realize there is a person behind the badge.”

As he approaches five years with the police department, Officer Marcos Luna is grateful to be exactly where he is. “I’ve found that Texarkana is a community that shows a lot of support for law enforcement and supports the

Officer Luna received T.A.P.D.’s Lifesaving Award for his efforts on October 15, 2019, while responding to a call. Upon arrival to a residence in College Hill, he observed a white male on the ground. Based on Officer Luna’s training and experience, he knew that the man was overdosing. He administered two doses of naloxone, which more than likely, saved the man’s life.

job we are trying to do. One hundred percent, I am happy with my career choice and would not want to do anything other than what I am doing. I am proud to serve with my fellow officers, and I think our department does a phenomenal job in keeping our goals community-focused,” he said. “Any time I am able to help someone resolve an issue, whatever it may be, and help them achieve peace-of-mind, is an extremely gratifying experience.”

Even though he admits that this is not the best fish he has ever caught, Officer Luna enjoys fishing to this day and is so thankful that his father taught him the sport as a child.

Armed to Save Lives

Officers use naloxone kits to reverse opiate overdoses in emergencies

“Opioid epidemic is ongoing, and as a community effort, we are trying to put life-saving naloxone kits into the hands of more first responders,” said Lt. Scott Megason.

In 2018, Texarkana Arkansas Police Lieutenant Scott Megason attended training at the Criminal Justice Institute (CJI) in Little Rock to learn how to educate other officers in the use of naloxone kits. Naloxone is a drug that enters the bloodstream and blocks the opiate receptors when people have overdosed.

Arkansas ranks #2 in the nation for opioid overdoses (second to Alabama), but police and doctors are working together to educate and save lives. The CJI kit program started in Benton, Arkansas, in 2016, and since that time, 876 people have been brought back post-overdose after a first responder used a naloxone kit in Arkansas.

Locally, Lt. Megason secured a grant in 2018 through the Blue and You Foundation sponsored by Blue Cross/Blue Shield that provided 100 kits with two doses of naloxone in each kit (at a cost between $120-$140 each). Last year, the Texarkana Arkansas Police Department acquired almost 70 more kits for officers. Since arming local officers with naloxone kits, approximately a dozen people have survived overdoses because of trained and ready officers using naloxone.

Lt. Megason said that the use of naloxone would not be possible locally without the assistance of medical professionals’ assistance, and Dr. Matt Young, in particular. “Dr. Young is the doctor who signs off on our police officers using these kits; he is very active in keeping us educated and current,” said Megason. Dr. Young has worked extensively with area first responders as LifeNet’s Medical Director, so police, fire, medics, EMTs, and volunteers all get direction from Dr. Young and look to his guidance for medical crises. As the medical advisor to the Texarkana Arkansas Police Department, Dr. Young has also established the training protocols for the medicine itself and the use of naloxone kits for emergencies in the field. Dr. Young said, “It is my honor and privilege to serve with the men and women on the front lines to be able to save lives with these kits.” Dr. Young is also a local physician and owner of Texarkana Emergency Center and Hospital.

Both Dr. Young and Lt. Megason encourage people to clean out their medicine cabinets and safely dispose of all unused medications in any of the three drug take back receptacles in Texarkana. These receptacles, provided by Texarkana Emergency Center and Hospital, can be found behind the Bi-State Justice Center, at the Miller County Sheriff’s Office, and in front of Texarkana Emergency Center and Hospital. These receptacles are monitored 24 hours a day and are randomly emptied; old medicines are then taken to be incinerated. April 24th is National Drug Take Back Day. Last year, with the help of the community, local officers recovered over 1,000 pounds of old unused medicines. Keeping medicines out of the hands of unintended users saves lives.

DAY CAMP

BUSINESS HIGHLIGHT

PLEASANT GROVE ISD AND TEXARKANA USA CHAMBER OF COMMERCE HOST RIBBON CUTTING CEREMONY

The Texarkana USA Chamber of Commerce held a Ribbon Cutting Ceremony for Pleasant Grove ISD’s Margaret Fischer Davis Elementary School on March 1. PGISD Superintendent Chad Pirtle and Texarkana USA Chamber of Commerce President Mike Malone welcomed guests to the event. Margaret Davis, the school’s namesake, spoke about her longtime career in education at PGISD. After the ceremony, guests enjoyed tours of the facility.

Amy Damron, Kathleen Young, Dr. Mark Addington, Lorie Son, Superintendent Chad Pirtle, Chris Barker, Margaret Davis, Ross Sarine, Principal Natalie Reeves and Brandy Eldridge

Shelby Akin and Natalie Reeves

Paula Hawkins and Margaret Davis

Brooke Marshall, Lorie Son and Kathleen Young with Cindy and Dr. Matt Young

James Bramlett, Eric Cain, Sister Jeanne Mary Connell, Chris Karam, Mary Catherine Haynes, Francine Francis and Fred Harris, Jr.

EMPOWERING Others to Succeed

ARKANSAS MIDDLE SCHOOL

COACH VENTURE WATSON ENCOURAGES YOUNGSTERS TO ALWAYS GO FOR THEIR DREAMS

by ELLEN ORR

Venture Watson wears many hats, ranging from ball cap to crown: besides being a wife and mom, she is also a middle school and high school basketball coach, a former sports reporter, the 2021 Mrs. Arkansas United States of America, the founder of the Ms. She’s Got it All Girls’ Empowerment Pageant, a model, and a published author. Her autobiography, entitled “They Can’t Hold Me Down,” was inspired in large part by her children, Seaira and Mikel. “I have always wanted to write a book, but I kept putting it off because I felt like I didn’t have enough time to write it,” she said. “I wanted to instill in my two children that whatever they set their mind to they can do. I have been able to do things that people would have said were impossible given where I am from.”

The book touches on her childhood in Hooks, Texas—growing up “country” in a small town, “where everyone knows your name and there is only one stop light in the whole town,” she said. “I wanted everyone to look into the life of a country girl [and see] that, even though I sometimes had limitations, I never let it stop me from dreaming big dreams and always trying to ‘do it big.’”

Venture attended Hooks High School, where she met Michael, her husband of

“They Can’t Hold Me Down” is the title of Venture’s book that chronicles her life’s journey and serves to motivate others who want to improve their lives.

photo by JOHN

18 years. She graduated in the top 10 of her class and as class president. She would go on to earn a bachelor’s degree in kinesiology and a master’s degree in education administration.

As a broadcast journalist, Venture worked for KTEV 15, Fox Sports Radio 1400, ESPN 94.1, and Big Game Sports Network, interviewing countless professional athletes, such as NBA champion Steph Curry and Dallas Cowboys player Dez Bryant.

Venture’s coaching career is equally impressive. Currently a coach for Arkansas Middle School, Venture coached at Arkansas High for 10 years. She is the only coach at AHS ever to lead the girls’ basketball team to win a conference championship. She has been named the Texarkana Gazette Coach of the Year and Conference Coach of the Year and is a recipient of the PGA National Coaches Award. “I hope to be an inspiration to all of the girls I coach,” she said.

Leading young people is important to Venture. Her pageant platform is all about youth mentorship. She was recently crowned Mrs. Arkansas United States of America and will be competing this summer at the national level. In pageantry, she is served well by the modeling education she received at the Barbizon School of Modeling in Dallas, as well as through her practical experience as a commercial model for Fossil Jeans, Dillards, Apparel Mart, and Korto Momolu of “Project Runway.”

Such a large, multifaceted adulthood might have seemed impossible to a young Venture, had she not been bolstered by a supportive, loving family. Through illness and other life trials, her parents (Danny and Teresa Traylor) in particular kept her facing forward. “They are the epitome of supportive parents,” she said. “They never killed my dreams and always told me I could. They are two of the hardest workers I know. They are why I work so hard now. I am glad they instilled a hard work ethic in me and a drive for success.”

Venture seeks to be similarly inspiring to her own children. “I hope that I leave a legacy for my children to follow,” she said.

Eventually, Venture would like to write a children’s book, so as to reach even more young people. “I want to be a person who [teaches others] that everything is possible,” she said. “Go for your dreams, and strive to reach every goal you set for yourself.”

While at the Dallas Cowboys’ Training Camp, Venture caught up with former Cowboys’ Coach Jason Garrett.

Every year, Venture gives out scholarships in her grandmother’s honor as part of the Everetha’s Angel Scholarship program.

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FOUR STATES LIVING MAGAZINE’S BEST OF TEXARKANA 2021 WINNERS

Four States Living Magazine recently presented plaques to the winners in the Best of Texarkana™ Readers’ Choice Awards to congratulate them for being selected for this honor. Ballots were placed online at www.fourstatesliving.com during November. The top five finalists in each of the 41 categories were listed online through January 15. Participants then voted online for their choice, and the winners were named. Congratulations to all finalists and winners!

BEST ARTIST – Mary Jane Orr

CHEF ON THE RUN – Jeff Loving

FAN FARE GIFTS & BOUTIQUE – Kaycie Fowler, Lesa Asbille, Katie Shepherd and Jess Sparks

RUTH’S FLOWERS – Leenetta Tyler

AMIGO JUAN MEXICAN CAFE – Sergio and Maria Rodriguez

ZAPATA MEXICAN GRILL & CANTINA – Manual Sosa and Alfonso Escalena

GARRISON GARDENS – Karen and Chuck Guilbert

THE EYE GUYS – TEXAS BOULEVARD –Dr. Sean Summers and Dr. Eric McCall

PAW PAW PATCH – Tavo Cruz

KENDAL DOCKERY PHOTOGRAPHY – Kendal Dockery Thompson holding her twins, Sutton and Owen

OPPORTUNITIES, INC. – Sherry Young and Rebekah Drennon

THE DUGOUT – David, Deacon and Nicki Oliver

TEXAS ROADHOUSE – Alexys Ayers, Ambur Tinsley and Megan Fraser

CHICK-FIL-A CENTRAL MALL – Matt Galloway, Katrina Curtis, Maria Rosas, Meghan Galloway and Ashton Lindsey

CROSSTIES EVENT AND WEDDING VENUE – Allison Munn and Joe Gay

REDBONE MAGIC BREWING LLC –Debbie and Roger Sheppard ETERNAL BEAUTY MEDICAL AESTHETICS – Elizabeth Jacobsen

LEGENDS GYM & HEALTH CLUB – Marsha and Cody Dailey

BRINGLE LAKE PARK – Robby Robertson

IJUMP TRAMPOLINE PARK & ADVENTURE SPORTS –Glen Bingham

TIME IN A BOTTLE DAY SPA – Angie Bickham, Skyla Lehnherr, Destiny Matthew, Jessie Mansfield, Jana Tubbs and Robin Garrett

POP’S PLACE – Sandy Varner and Billy Lee

THE EYE GUYS – MOORES LANE – Dr. Priscilla Kier and Dr. Jeff Phillips

TEXARKANA EMERGENCY CENTER AND HOSPITAL – Dr. Kyle Groom, Kera Hinds, Brooke Marshall, Kyndel Griffith, Dr. Matt Young, Molly Young, Dustin Young, Rhonda Ivy, Kevin Westmorland and Amy Mascoe

NAAMAN’S CHAMPIONSHIP BBQ – Naaman Neaves

BENCHMARK AMERICAN BRASSERIE –Jason and Rebecca Williams

CHICK-FIL-A RICHMOND ROAD – Justin Flowers

PECAN POINT BREWING COMPANY – Bill Scurlock

RED RIVER CREDIT UNION – Patricia Cunningham and Brad Bailey

KELLI ASHBROOK STATE FARM – Kelli Ashbrook-Cummings

JULIE’S DELI – Lauren Lathrop, Samantha Ward, Letha DeLaughter, Abby Sanders, Jennifer Tanner and Julie Furlow

CHRISTUS ST. MICHAEL HEALTH SYSTEM

FLYING BURGER & SEAFOOD – Shawn Walker, Ebony Gavin, Riley Durmon, Lee Otwell, Shelsea Mitchell, Chris Gavriel, Brian Daugherty, Rickey Cleveland, JaQualone Manning, Dominique Jones and Waikiki Reader

FREEMAN LANDSCAPE –Brent Freeman and Marshall Freeman

IRONWOOD GRILL – Jordan Walraven, Jessica Reeves, Chloe Baber and Jodi Thomas

WILLIAMS SCHOOL – (front row) Melissa Grace, Karla Fry, Sarah Hall, Karen Tipton, Allison Thomas and Kayla King; (back row) Blanca Diaz, Pollyanna Ferguson, Mendy Crumpton, Lorie Son, Melody Norton, Brittany Elliott, Teresa Scrivener and Brenda Thomas

ASHLEY FURNITURE HOMESTORE – Atherlene Harris, Rafael Veliz, Garrett Trim, Brandon Cook, Carla Shoemaker, Susan Lindsey, Shelly Roberts and Brittni McWilliams

EAGLE DENTAL CENTER – (front row) Bethany Samuels and Lauren Pollins; (middle row) Elena Pena, Meredith Farris, Haley Crow, Jessica Fletcher, Jerica Parker, Amanda Miot, Shea Lynn Garner and Dr. Punit Patel; (back row) Dr. Mark Looney, Dr. Chad Patterson, Ashton Huntze, Rosalie Williams, Noche Harris, Kelly Wisdom, Amber Clayton, Mary Collin Corbin, Brianna Hancock, Kirsten West, Jill Rice, Harley McAfee and Dr. Robert Levine

TWICE AS FINE TEXARKANA WINE FESTIVAL–ALZHEIMER’S ALLIANCE TRI-STATE AREA – Terrie Arnold with Mark and Cathy Van Herpen

CROCKER’S JEWELERS – Marion Criddle, Kay Marshall, Haley Oas, Shelby Purifoy, Shane Woodruff, Melissa Douglass, Amanda Henderson, Amanda Humphrey and Karen Bearden

STYLE STUDIO – (front row) Anna Edwards, Hailey Livingston, Angie Brooks and Kennedy Guthrie; (second row) Ashley Steward, Tommie Bishop, Maddie Erwin, Lisa Harris (owner), Belinda Thorton, Miriam Martinez, Jenny Akin, Alexa Miller and Meg Payne; (back row) Rachel Hughes, Natalie Singleton, Jennifer Taylor, Laura Love, Adrienne Hendrix and Aaron Hardy

BEST OF TEXARKANATM 2021 WINNERS

BEST CURBSIDE TO GO

Chick-fil-A

BEST PLACE FOR LUNCH

Ironwood Grill

BEST MARGARITA

Zapata Mexican Grill & Cantina

BEST BARBEQUE

Naaman’s Championship BBQ

BEST BURGER

The Dugout

BEST SEAFOOD

Flying Burger & Seafood

BEST MEXICAN

Loca Luna Mexican Grill

BEST PLACE TO TAKE AN OUT-OF-TOWN GUEST

Benchmark American Brasserie

BEST STEAK

Texas Roadhouse

BEST COOKIES, CAKES & DESSERTS

Julie’s Deli & Market

BEST PATIO DINING

Pop’s Place

BEST CHIPS AND SALSA

Amigo Juan Mexican Café

BEST ARTIST

Mary Jane Orr

BEST LAW FIRM/ATTORNEY

The Potter Law Firm

BEST PHOTOGRAPHER

Kendal Dockery Photography

BEST CATERER OR CHEF

Jeff Loving – Chef on the Run

BEST FLORIST

Ruth’s Flowers

BEST FURNITURE STORE

Ashley Furniture HomeStore

BEST GIFT SHOP

Fan Fare Gifts & Boutique

BEST HAIR SALON

Style Studio

BEST JEWELER

Crocker’s Jewelers

BEST OPTICAL SHOP

The Eye Guys

BEST PET GROOMER

Paw Paw Patch

BEST DENTAL CLINIC

Eagle Dental Center

BEST PLACE FOR BOTOX OR FILLERS

Eternal Beauty Medical Aesthetics

BEST LANDSCAPE COMPANY

Freeman Landscape

BEST NEW BUSINESS/ORGANIZATION THAT PROVIDED EXCELLENT CUSTOMER SERVICE

DURING THE 2020 PANDEMIC

TEXARKANA EMERGENCY CENTER AND HOSPITAL

BEST CHARITY EVENT

Twice as Fine Texarkana Wine Festival -

Alzheimer’s Alliance Tri-State Area

BEST NONPROFIT GROUP

Opportunities, Inc.

BEST BANK / CREDIT UNION

Red River Credit Union

BEST PLACE TO GET FIT

Legends Gym & Health Club

BEST WEDDING VENUE

Garrison Gardens

BEST INSURANCE AGENT

Kelli Ashbrook State Farm

BEST PLACE TO WORK

CHRISTUS St. Michael Health System

BEST PRESCHOOL

Williams School

BEST PLACE TO PICNIC

Bringle Lake Park

BEST PLACE FOR KIDS TO PLAY

iJump Trampoline Park & Adventure Sports

BEST NEW BUSINESS

Crossties Event and Wedding Venue

BEST PLACE FOR LIVE ENTERTAINMENT

Redbone Magic Brewing LLC.

BEST PLACE FOR A MASSAGE OR FACIAL

Time in a Bottle Day Spa

BEST DOWNTOWN DESTINATION

Pecan Point Brewing Company

LOCA LUNA MEXICAN GRILL – Norma Salazar, Katya Gonzalez, Victor Perez, Francisco Perez, Josue Morales, Alfredo Navarro, Leonardo Kennedy and Leticia Madero

THE POTTER LAW FIRM – Joshua L. Potter, Christi Sellers, Sharon Hilton and Jacob S. Potter

A TENTH-DEGREE BLACK BELT, WAYLAND LACY HOLDS A GREAT RESPECT FOR THE ART OF KARATE AND ENJOYS TEACHING THE CRAFT TO HIS FAMILY AND STUDENTS

photo by ALAMOND PHOTOGRAPHY

Zach Norment, Whitney Lacy-Norment, Wayland D. Lacy, Wayland D. Lacy II, Westin Norment and Raidyn Norment

AFAMILY TRADITION

by LINDSEY MCMILLAN

Wayland Lacy has practiced karate since he was a teenager and has achieved his Doctor of Martial Arts but is addressed by his students simply as “Hanshi,” which means master teacher in Japanese. After many years in competition and even creating his own karate system, he finds the simplest pleasure in teaching others the craft and holding utmost respect for the art. His school, appropriately named Lacy’s Shotokan Karate has been in operation since 1973 and at its current location on North Robison Road for the past three years. He has approximately 50 students with seven classes being offered for various ages and levels with a staff of six instructors. With 35+ years of teaching experience, he is a tenth-degree black belt and a fourth generation from the modern karate founder. This means that his instruction dates back three instructors in the most popular martial art which originated in Okinawa, Japan. Within Wayland’s own family, the generation connection also exists as his daughter, son, and grandchildren now practice with him.

Before she competed, this little girl was asking Wayland questions about martial arts. One of her parents took the photo, titled “Grandmaster and Student.”

known master karate instructor, Takauki Mikami. In 1968, Wayland joined the Army, and after infantry training at Ft. Polk, Louisiana, he spent the next year in Vietnam in combat as a Platoon Sergeant, and was wounded three times before returning to the states. He remained in the Army National Guard Reserve as a Ranger and part of long-range reconnaissance for 15 years. Upon his return from Vietnam, he was diagnosed with malaria and was seriously ill in a VA hospital for several weeks. This form of malaria (Vivex) has recurred off and on throughout the years, and as part of his recuperation and physical therapy, he returned to practicing karate. He enrolled at Texarkana College where he completed his undergraduate and master’s degrees in Education with East Texas State University. He was a special education, science, and physical education teacher in the Texarkana Independent School District before becoming the assistant principal at Redwater Junior High School for nine years and principal for five years at Redwater High School. He retired after 23 years working for the schools.

Wayland grew up in Texarkana and graduated from Texas High School in 1967. At 16 years of age, he discovered karate while conditioning inbetween sports and practiced at a local gym. After graduation, he spent a year at Stephen F. Austin University where he trained under the well-

Wayland recalls being a student at TC and doing his karate exercises (also known as “Kata”) on the campus lawn across from his apartment. Other students witnessed this, and before he knew it, several had joined him and soon afterwards, TC asked him to teach a karate continuing education class where he had between 30-40 students. In 1973, he opened

his school which was originally located on Richmond Road and taught simultaneously with his school schedule, while also attending competitions on the weekends.

Wayland has toured all over the country competing, and in 1979-1981 he was the National Champion. He has won a total of over 130 tournaments. He fought in three World Championships where he placed third each time and worked closely with the US team. His daughter, Whitney, was born in 1978 and at the age of 5 began learning karate. She earned her black belt at the age of 10 and traveled with him to competitions. She was equally successful as she and her father both would place at each event they attended. Now Whitney’s daughter, Raidyn, who also began instruction at 5 years old has earned her black belt at 10 years of age. She is on her grandfather’s competition team and is continuing the family’s karate tradition. The school is definitely a family affair, as Wayland’s son, W.D., is also an instructor along with Whitney’s husband, Zach Norment. Whitney and Zach have two daughters and son, W.D., has a daughter who lives in Tennessee.

Since retiring, Wayland has continued karate instruction and still enjoys traveling to various competitions. Throughout the years, he has taken advantage of continued study with different karate masters and world champions. Wayland was nominated to the World Martial Arts Hall of Fame in both 2005 and 2007. In 2006, he was nominated to the US Martial Arts Hall of Fame and awarded the title of Shotokan Grandmaster of the Year. He holds black belts in five separate karate systems and developed his own system he named Tokubetsu which incorporates Shotakan and Hapkido karate along with self-defense techniques. Referring to himself as a “traditional stylist,” Wayland takes the art form very seriously and practices both Kata and Kumite (“fighting”) to bring out a variety of disciplines in his students. He has taught many self-defense seminars in Mexico as well as training for police departments and special forces throughout Central America.

Through the years, Wayland has also taught self-defense and rape prevention courses in the Texarkana area. His own karate system of Tokubetsu was acknowledged by a panel of grandmasters where he was awarded the Doctor of Martial Arts, the highest ranking level in karate, as well as an honorary Doctorate in Asian Studies. The physical and emotional benefits of karate have been abundant. He says, “Karate has brought me physical conditioning, calmness in my life, and a great sense of completeness with my life. I have gained many friends and acquaintances all around the world. I have had the privilege to teach people to defend themselves, and there have been many situations that this knowledge has been beneficial in their well-being and safety.”

Wayland continues to pass this knowledge on to his students. He is now teaching a new generation, having watched many students grow up under his instruction. Lacy’s Shobotan Karate advertises how students learn karate as it was meant to be taught, as a means of self-defense. It was voted the Texarkana Gazette Readers Choice Best Martial Arts School in 2019 and 2020. Wayland dedicates countless hours to ensuring that his students are taught the original, true form of karate. With each belt achieved, they master an appreciation for the art as well. “I want my students to become successful at whatever they attempt, whether martial arts or life,” he says. “I try to teach confidence and self-worth. My students give 100% of their time and effort, and I, in turn, give them 100% of my knowledge. I want them to know that they can accomplish anything.”

Wayland emphasizes strength along with compassion. An added bonus is the ability to share his love of karate with his family. Their practicing it together brings a satisfaction which he hopes to continue as long as he is able. “I am close with my family, and it makes me proud that they are going

to continue my philosophies about karate,” he acknowledges. “We have had the opportunity to travel and share our lives with each other.”

The karate competition team travels primarily around the Northeast Texas, Southwest Oklahoma, and Louisiana. He is extremely proud of his students and instructors and that his school is the oldest martial arts dojo in the Texarkana region. Wayland is also an accomplished scuba diver, and enjoys playing guitar with the music ministry at his church. He counts many blessings in his life which is evident in his personal achievements and desire to share the love of karate with those around him.

Wayland’s 18-year-old granddaughter, Haylie, is a brown belt and will begin college at the University of Tennessee this fall.

Wayland demonstrates a side kick during a class.

While in Vietnam, Wayland was wounded three times. This photo was taken the day before his last injury which sent him home and prompted him to begin practicing karate again.

BUSINESS HIGHLIGHT

LILIANA LUNA SELECTED

AS TEPSA REGION VIII ASSISTANT PRINCIPAL OF THE YEAR

Liliana Luna, Nash Elementary Assistant Principal, was recently selected as the Texas Elementary Principals and Supervisors Association (TEPSA) Region VIII Assistant Principal of the Year. TEPSA recognizes outstanding assistant principals from the 20 regional Education Service Centers throughout the state. School administrators are nominated based upon exemplary performance and outstanding leadership. As a Region VIII winner, Liliana will now move forward in the selection of the TEPSA National Assistant Principal of the Year. “I am very honored and humbled to be selected for this award,” said Liliana. “I share any kind of recognition I receive with the phenomenal teachers I have had over the years and with my parents who sacrificed

so much to make sure I received an education. My hope is that I can inspire children to dream big and understand that hard work and perseverance can get you anywhere you want.” Liliana began her career in education as a first grade teacher at 15th Street Elementary (now Theron Jones Early Literacy Center) in 2004. In 2007, she moved to Morriss Elementary to be a kindergarten teacher. She was selected in 2010 to be part of the TISD Administrative Intern Program and served as the Assistant Principal for Highland Park Elementary until 2011 when she was named Assistant Principal for Nash Elementary. Liliana holds a Bachelor of General Studies with a Concentration in Reading along with a Master of Science in Curriculum & Instruction, a Master of Education in Educational Administration and Principal Certification in Grades EC12 from Texas A&M University–Texarkana. “As a first-generation college graduate, my immigrant parents always encouraged me to continue my education,” said Liliana. “It was a high priority for me to go further in obtaining a master’s degree. TISD supported that opportunity through their Graduate Cohort Program which funded teachers the opportunity to complete their master’s degree.” A 2020 Leadership Texarkana graduate, Liliana serves as a volunteer for Court Appointed Special Advocates (CASA) of Northeast Texas. She is a member of TEPSA, member of Northeast Texas Alliance of Black School Educators and is currently enrolled in The Bill Ratliff Superintendent Academy through Region 8 Education Service Center. Liliana is married to Ricardo Luna, and they have two children – Ricky, who is a 7th grade student at Texas Middle School, and Leo, who is a kindergarten student at Nash Elementary. They are members of St. Edward’s Catholic Church where she serves as a Sunday School teacher. Regional winners will be recognized during the TEPSA Summer Conference in Austin in June 2021.

Liliana Luna

SCENE ABOUT TOWN

ERICA ZOFCIN RECEIVES PRESIDENT’S VOLUNTEER SERVICE GOLD AWARD

The Caddo Area Council, Boy Scouts of America, recently presented the President’s Volunteer Service Gold Award to Erica Zofcin, a student at Pleasant Grove High School.

In 2003, under the direction of President George W. Bush, the President’s Council on Service and Civic Participation founded the President’s Volunteer Service Award to recognize the important role of volunteers in America’s strength and national identity. This award honors individuals whose service positively impacts communities in every corner of the nation and inspires those around them to take action, too. Erica was nominated for this award by Patricia Cunningham, Caddo Area Council’s vice president of marketing.

The PVSA has continued under each administration, honoring the volunteers who are using their time and talents to solve some of the toughest challenges facing our nation. The Caddo Area Council is the only organization in the local area that serves as a certifying agency for the award. Recipients do not need to be a member of the Boy Scouts of America to be considered for the honor.

Four age groups are eligible for this award (5-10 years, 11-15 years, 16-25 years, and 26+ years). There are Bronze, Silver and Gold award levels depending on the number of volunteer service hours that are validated. Once documented and certified by the Caddo Area Council, the recipient receives a certificate and a medallion. They are encouraged to denote their award on their resumés and college applications.

Erica Zofcin

Erica (center) with her parents, Regina and Eric Zofcin

AFTER THE LOSS OF THEIR SON, LISA AND DR. MARK LOONEY

STARTED A LOCAL CHAPTER OF BEREAVED PARENTS OF THE USA

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No Act of Kindness is Ever Wasted

by JILEEN PLATT

An unfamiliar car was in Dr. Mark Looney’s driveway when he arrived home from work one day in late 2019. After entering his home, he found a woman he didn’t recognize, chatting with his wife, Lisa. Before too long, he came to understand her purpose. Linda Jennings had known Mark and Lisa’s son, Rob, who had tragically passed away a few months previous.

Linda told Mark and Lisa that she had known Rob a few months before he died. “I was going through a hard time in my life, personally and with my family,” explains Linda. “It was a low time for me.” Linda had been crying most of the day when she entered Rob’s workplace in August of 2019. She returned the following day to continue work-based discussions, and Rob had chocolates waiting for her. “He told me his mom always said chocolate will make you feel better,” states Linda. “He was so thoughtful … and so considerate.”

After Linda saw Rob’s obituary, she felt the need to visit Mark and Lisa. “She came to tell us how kind Rob was … how he had helped her. She wanted us to know how he had impacted her life,” explains Lisa. But Linda had another purpose for seeking out Mark and Lisa. “She came to tell us that she had a nephew who died tragically,” states Lisa. “His death still affected her, and she wanted us to know that she understood our pain.”

“This struck a chord in me,” remembers Mark. While they had many loved ones and friends who offered condolences and mourned with them, for whom they are extremely grateful, it was the offer of true understanding of losing a child that made the difference. “I needed that,” states Mark. “And I think other people do, too.”

Rob was born in the summer of 1988. His older brother, Russ, was almost 5 years old when Rob was born. “We did a lot together as a family,” says Lisa. “They had great childhoods. They didn’t fuss or fight with each other.” Vacations all over the United States, from Wyoming to Iowa and Florida to Colorado, filled their time together including fishing, hunting, snow skiing, camping, hiking, going to the beach, and many more outdoor adventures. “We certainly had our ups and downs,” states Lisa, “but we enjoyed ourselves as a family.”

Russ and Rob were raised worshipping at First United Methodist Church in Texarkana, Arkansas. “Both boys participated in the youth group and were youth leaders,” remembers Lisa. “We went

Lisa, Rob, Malorie, Russ and Mark attending a wedding in New Orleans during September 2016.

Russ, Mark and Rob celebrating lunch on Easter weekend at Ironwood Grill in April 2014.

on a lot of church youth trips!

“Rob lit up the room as a child,” exclaims Lisa. “He had eyes of china blue … he was our gregarious little boy with a beautiful soul.” Rob was described as sweet, kind, and loving. “He was so in tune to things most people aren’t … he had such empathy for others,” remembers Lisa. “Rob was very sensitive and perceptive. He could notice someone who was struggling a mile away.”

Rob especially loved the outdoors and being in nature. “He loved the challenge of duck and turkey hunting … and loved to go fishing,” states Mark. So, in Rob’s junior year at Arkansas High School, when his parents noticed some changes, they felt there was cause for concern. “He lost interest in friends and his hobbies,” remembers Lisa. “His love of nature was waning … we hoped it was only a phase.”

One night, Rob came home unexpectedly during his freshman year at the University of Arkansas. “He was upset,” states Lisa. “He said there was something wrong with him … he didn’t know how to describe it, so he didn’t know how to deal with it.” That night was the beginning of a difficult mental health journey for Rob and his family. Help was sought in many avenues over the years, including doctor’s visits, psychiatry help, medication, and therapy.

“We didn’t know what to say or do,” remembers Lisa. “We tried to help … we talked to him as best we could.” Mark adds, “We didn’t know where to go for help … and we felt like we were on our own.”

Mark and Lisa helplessly watched as their son didn’t respond well to the prescribed medications and therapy and began self-medicating. “He was trapped inside his mind … and tried to cope and feel better,” says Lisa. “It just snowballed and led to addictions … we were living a nightmare of watching our child selfdestruct.”

“I did a lot of research on mental health,” states Lisa. “I tried very hard to understand where he was coming from and what he was dealing with.” Mark and Lisa struggled as they watched their son suffer. They kept hoping that something would help Rob. “It’s an under-researched area and it’s difficult to find a treatment that works,” says Mark. “There is an epidemic of mental health issues in our

Rob with Cooper, his beloved Golden Retriever. Duck hunting was a favorite pastime that both Rob and his father enjoyed together. Here they are hunting at Clear Lake Hunting Lodge in December 2018.

The Looneys – Rob, Malorie, Russ, Mark, Lisa and Marni – during a 2019 family beach vacation in Watercolor, Florida.

young people.”

After a long period, with a lot of dark days and Rob very ill at times, things started looking up. “He began to work again and was going to the gym,” says Lisa. “He was trying to take better care of himself … and came over every night for dinner.”

On an evening in late October 2019, after enjoying dinner together, Rob hugged Mark, and they both expressed love to each other. A few days later, Rob passed from this life, succumbing to his illness.

“The depth of grief is indescribable,” states Mark. “You don’t ever get over [losing a child] … it’s a very lonely feeling.”

Amidst the couple’s grief and processing the loss of their son, Linda Jennings appeared on their doorstep and offered understanding.

It was because of Linda and her empathy that drove Mark to seek out a support group for others like him. “Some people don’t want to talk about [their child’s death],” states Mark. “But I need to … I don’t want to shove my child’s memory in a corner.”

In honor of Rob, Mark and Lisa have started a local chapter of Bereaved Parents of the USA. It is for anyone who has lost a child, regardless of the reason. Mark explains, “The stories may be different of how our children have died … but the pain is the same. It’s the bond that helps us understand each other and ultimately pulls us together.”

Linda Jennings, her sister, Rhonda Cunningham (whose son, Allen Hightower, passed away), and their mother, Shearon Smith, own Kids Castle, a local preschool on the Arkansas side. The three ladies offered to host the Bereaved Parents meeting, the first one held on March 9, 2021. “We started this group to help others who struggle with monumental, profound, and unfathomable grief,” states Mark. “However, some of the attendees [at the first meeting] ended up helping me instead. I think it’s fair to say I learned a lot.”

In a sense, Mark is only doing what Rob would have done. “It was Rob’s kindness to Linda that spurred her to extend kindness and reach out to us,” explains Lisa. “[That experience] prompted Mark to extend empathy and kindness to others by forming the Bereaved Parents group.”

The lesson from one of Aesop’s fables rings true …“No act of kindness, no matter how small, is ever wasted.” Kindness often circles back around in unexpected ways. It is the circle of kindness shown to Linda Jennings, by Rob, which returned to bless his parents, so that they could bless and help others. It is a circle that unites strangers and makes them friends. It is a circle that heals hearts amidst great tragedy. It is the circle of kindness, started by Rob Looney, which circles back and continues on in memory of him.

In 1998, the entire Looney family attended a Scouting banquet at First United Methodist Church.

Lisa and Mark (center) with Kathy Hillis, Rhonda Cunningham, Shearon Smith and Linda Jennings during their first Bereaved Parents’ meeting on March 9. The group meets the first Tuesday of every month at 6 p.m. at Kids Castle.

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LIVING LISTING

IN THE FOUR STATES AREA

Four States Living Magazine’s “Living & Listing In the Four States Area” special advertising section provides comprehensive coverage of housing topics and trends in the Four States area. Readers can navigate today’s housing market and make informed decisions on buying and selling homes, home ownership and rental living. The “Living & Listing” special section features profiles highlighting the area’s real estate agents. Enjoy reading about topics and services pertaining to our community!

FROM RENTER TO HOMEOWNER

You’ve finally reached that point in your life where you plan to be in the same place for longer than a yearlong lease. Instead of making monthly rent payments, you want to earn equity each month and eventually end up with a permanent roof over your head. Becoming a homeowner is absolutely worth it, but it is important that you are prepared for the differences between renting and owning a home. As you prepare to take on the responsibility of home ownership, keep these five things in mind, and you’ll be just fine and be glad you went from a renter to homeowner.

There’s more to pay for up front.

As a renter, your security deposit and first month’s rent are typically the only things you must pay up front. When you buy a house however, there are a few different costs that await you. The largest one is the down payment. The amount you need depends on your mortgage program, but expect to pay between 3% to 20% of the purchase price of the home. Then there are the closing costs, which are typically between 2% and 5% of the total purchase price.

Monthly totals go beyond mortgage payments.

Your mortgage payment can look fairly similar to your monthly rent check. Monthly home costs however, are typically more than that mortgage payment. For one, you’ll want to protect your investment with insurance. You’ll also want to stash away money each month for property taxes. These rates vary, but the average household pays just over $2,000.

If you don’t already have an emergency savings account, now is the time.

Setting aside an “emergency fund” isn’t specific to homeowners, but it’s even more crucial as a homeowner. The bare minimum recommendation is to have at least three months of living expenses to fall back on. This includes rent, food, utilities, and every other expense you have. Saving enough for six months is even better. These funds will protect you in the event of job loss, appliance failure, or major medical bills. Imagine how much less stressful your life would be if you knew that you had 3-6 months of expenses in the bank, just in case something beyond your control happens.

You are responsible for home maintenance.

Your maintenance budget now must cover more than smoke detector batteries and light bulbs. Aside from the emergency funds you’ve saved up, you’ll want to plan on spending at least 1% of the home’s value on maintenance projects each year. When you move in and pretty regularly after that, take note of the appliances you have and what kind of shape they’re in to prioritize upgrades and service. If unused, this maintenance cash will come in handy for larger projects, such as a roof replacement.

Lawn maintenance is also required of you as a homeowner. That yard you’ve been dreaming about needs to be mowed often. And that means you need to have a lawnmower. Still doesn’t look as beautiful as the neighbors’ yard? Pick up a lawn edger to clean up those edges.

Your neighbors are forever (or at least for quite a while). When moving to your first house, you’ll find that your neighbors are no longer the unseen herd of elephants on the other side of your ceiling. Your new neighbors can become allies in creating a great place to live and become lifelong friends in the process. You don’t have to bake cookies before you go, but you should go introduce yourself and get to know them a little bit. Before you deny their requests to turn down your music at 10 p.m., just remember that they’ll still be there the next day. And the day after that. Moving from renter to homeowner can seem daunting and complicated, but if you know what to expect, it’s a much less stressful transition.

ADDING CURB APPEAL

A potential buyers’ first impression of your home is very important. The way your house looks from the street — attractively landscaped and well-maintained — can add thousands to its value and reduce the time it takes to sell. Here are a few ways to help your home put its best face forward.

1. Before doing anything else, give your house a bath. A bucket of soapy water and a long handled brush can help remove built up dirt and grime from the exterior of your home. You may also choose to rent a power washer which can reveal the true color of your driveway and walkways. A house that has had a good washing can add a significant amount to its value.

2. After giving your house a good scrub down, it’s time to give it a fresh paint job. Try to stay away from bright, statement colors which will decrease the value of your home. Instead, stick to the basic neutrals. Buyers will notice and the value of your house will go up.

3. Hire a professional to clean off your roof. Even older roofs can look much better when build-up of dirt and moss are removed. If your roof is not in good to great condition, consider replacing it. If you do not replace it, you will pay for it later with a lower appraisal.

4. A well-manicured lawn boosts the curb appeal of any house. Make sure your grass is trimmed, shrubs are pruned, and flower beds are free of weeds. Add some dark-colored mulch and bright perennial flowers to give a rich feel to the yard.

5. A pop of color attracts the eye and is pleasing to a potential buyer. While a bed of bright pansies won’t add to the value of your home, it will help you sell it faster. Consider adding a brightly-colored bench to your porch or try painting your front door red or blue.

6. Nothing sets off alarms in a potential buyer’s mind like seeing missing bricks and cracked windows. A home that is in need of maintenance can have its value greatly reduced. Re-secure any sagging gutters, fill in sidewalk cracks, and straighten shutters. Basically if it’s broken, fix it.

only thing we love more than houses?

people we fill them with.

In our experience, what makes a dream home isn’t its room dimensions; it’s about how you feel when you first walk through the door. It’s about the way you can imagine your life unfolding there and the memories you will create. We at Better Homes and Gardens Real Estate Infinity understand that home buying and selling is about more than real estate, perhaps better than anyone.

A keen understanding of the lifestyle needs that drive each transaction is interwoven into the way we conduct business. We have a truly dynamic and awardwinning team of agents with a wealth of knowledge and talent in marketing, technology, home staging, decorating, investing and even house flipping. This collective power enabled us to help over 300 local families buy and sell property in 2020 alone—a testament to our resourcefulness, problem-solving skills and relentless dedication to ensuring our clients reach their goals.

We also offer a variety of tools to keep you informed about our local market even before you meet us for the first time. At www.sellingtexarkana.com, you’’ll gain access to MLS Home Search, Home Valuations and more. Visit us online today!

EXQUISITE

TIMELESS. SPACIOUS. TRANQUIL.

by SUZY TURNER photos by KIM MCMURRY

INTERIORS

In the heart of Northridge Estates sits this charming home which satisfies its owners’ everyday needs yet is spacious enough for entertaining guests. Beautifully remodeled by contractor Rodney Sullivan, and perfectly styled by Brent Stewart, Stephanie Shuffield, and Angel Pou Designs, this traditional 4 bedroom, 3-1/2 bath has undergone a major transformation as the owners’ needs have evolved.

The elegant master suite, once dark and somber, has been modernized and emits a plush luxury hotel feel. A geometricpatterned canopy hangs above the upholstered bed, complete with Leontine linens in shades of cream and dusky blue. An oil pastel painting by Robin Clawson of the owners’ son and daughter hangs above the built-in marble fireplace. Two comfortable chairs and a sofa are strategically placed by windows, providing the perfect view of outside. Solid and patterned pillows are nestled on the sofa, complementing the color palette of the space.

The master bath now offers ample space for a complete spa experience. The soaking tub features a marble surround that matches the tile shower perfectly. A colorful abstract painting by Katie Stevens Lewis accents this luxurious space. A double vanity and a separate makeup vanity finish the stylish design.

Nautically-themed, the guest bedroom features plenty of original artwork, collected from San Francisco, Dallas, and Oxford, Mississippi. An ornate wrought iron bed is the focal point of the room, complemented by a unique wooden architectural piece situated above the bed. A mirrored nightstand holds a decorative table lamp and a pretty bird sculpture.

Light and bright, the daughter’s bedroom carries a floral theme throughout the space. An original Dean Lynn painting adds color to the peaceful room. Built-in shelving frames the bed and creates a great storage and display space. A self-portrait, painted by the room’s occupant when she was 5 years old, immediately catches the eye while other sentimental pieces and decorative accessories complete the sleek and sophisticated look.

Once a confined space, the updated open concept kitchen now feels fresh and functional and is quite possibly the owners’ favorite thing about the house. Durable brick floors and the stark contrast of the white mirrored cabinets are exactly what the owners wanted for their dream kitchen. Cambria countertops, a stainless undermount farmhouse sink, a paneled Thermador refrigerator, and a large abstract painting by Kathi Couch adds to the overall intricate design. A stainless steel industrial stove surrounded by white brick tiles and a pot-filler faucet adds a contemporary touch to the space. The two oversized islands contain ample storage areas and are perfect for food preparation or entertaining guests.

The dining area flows seamlessly into the kitchen area. Large windows allow natural light to fill the space and are flanked by four paintings by Baton Rouge artist, Mike Klunz. A wooden table with a zinc top provides cozy seating for 6. Since the owner spends a lot of time in the kitchen, a buffet table is situated to the left of the dining table, housing her many tried and true recipes in various cookbooks. A painting by Lewis Kalmbach, “Piñata Prizes,” exudes a light-hearted touch to the otherwise neutral palette.

Adjacent to the kitchen sits the butler’s pantry which was formerly a TV room for the owners’ children. This transitional space provides plenty of storage space, as well as a wrapping station and coffee bar. The tile backsplash contains flecks of brass, and swinging doors allow easy access to the den which was once the game room. In the den area, natural light beams inside through the big windows. Colorful artwork by Michael Weatherly and Gregg Coker and cheetah print benches complement the subtle hues of the sofa, made by Mayo Furniture.

Not only is the interior of this gorgeous home exquisite; the exterior provides maximum curb appeal with its mature trees and expansive front yard. With no stone left unturned here, the owners of this property have used traditional design elements to reflect their personal styles while keeping everything orderly, symmetrical, and tranquil.

Switching Gears

FROM A RODEO MOM TO A SUCCESSFUL REAL ESTATE AGENT, LINDSEY TOWNSEND MANAGES IT ALL WITH EASE

Organized and efficient, Lindsey Townsend enjoys meeting new people and helping buyers find their dream home. The only full-time sales agent at Lance & Associates Real Estate, Lindsey is “100% loyal” to her broker, Steve Lance. She knows that prioritizing values – God first, family second, buyers and sellers third – makes Lance & Associates Real Estate successful. “Steve and I have a working relationship that, in simple terms, just works,” she acknowledges. “We make a great team!”

Since becoming employed with Lance & Associates Real Estate in 2010, Lindsey’s main job duty has been to sell real estate. However, she seamlessly switches gears to manage the office’s day-to-day operations, including maintaining the company’s website. An extremely hard worker who pays close attention to detail, Lindsey jokes that she is highly-organized, “almost to the OCD level.”

A native Arkansan, Lindsey grew up in the Hope/Prescott area, graduating from Prescott High School in 1999. She then received a bachelor’s degree in Agricultural Business in 2003 and a master’s degree in Agriculture in 2008, both from Southern Arkansas University. She obtained her Arkansas real estate license in 2010, and feels fortunate that she gets to do what she loves while constantly meeting new people and helping buyers find their dream home. “The American dream is home ownership,” she says. “I feel like it is my calling to help buyers and sellers fulfill that dream.”

Lindsey and her husband, Wade, began dating in 1999 as high school sweethearts. Wade attended Spring Hill while Lindsey went to Prescott High School. They both attended SAU while Wade graduated in 2004 with a double major in Finance and Accounting. They married on March 3, 2007, and have two children: a son, Henry Powell (10 years old) who is named after Lindsey’s grandfather, Henry, and Powell, which is Lindsey’s maiden name; and a daughter, Allison Dianne (9 years old) who was named after Lindsey’s mother’s maiden name, Allison, and Wade’s mother’s name which is Dianne.

In their spare time, the Townsend family loves to travel to rodeos where Henry participates in breakaway and goat tying, and Allison enjoys barrel racing, poles, and goat tying. Since they are the owners of 40 acres, they spend a lot of their “free” time working on their place, which could easily be a full-time job in and of itself. They enjoy spending time at the lake, enjoying water sports as a family. Snow skiing is also a favorite pastime for the entire family.

After they married, Lindsey and Wade moved to Magnolia where Lindsey worked in lending at Farmers Bank & Trust. Once Wade had the opportunity to transfer to Hope, they jumped at the chance to move “back home,” where

they both grew up and where their families currently reside. Although they were taking a huge leap of faith since Lindsey didn’t have a job in Hope, they knew that home was truly where they wanted to be. She considered driving back and forth to Magnolia, but in the end, resigned, and made the move without a job lined up. “Real estate had always interested me, and with my background in lending, I decided to give it a go,” Lindsey remarks. “I emailed Steve Lance, and he immediately replied back, and said for me to come see him. I did, and the rest is history.”

Although Lindsey stays busy being a rodeo mom while working full-time, she enjoys being active in her church, Spring Hill Christian Church. She also loves giving back to the community that, in turn, has given her so much. She serves as the treasurer of the Spring Hill PTO, a Chamber of Commerce ambassador, Junior Auxiliary life member, and board member and treasurer of the South Central Arkansas Horse Show Association, as well as a Phi Mu alumna and board member for Hempstead County Equalization. She was named to the Hempstead County 20 Under 50 and received the 2019 and 2020 Hempstead County Readers’ Choice Best Real Estate Agent Award. As if all of this wasn’t enough, she also finds time to serve her hometown as a Notary Public.

For the past three years, the Lance & Associates Real Estate team has averaged $6.2 million in sales per year, an exceptional number for the rural area in Southwest Arkansas, thanks to an aggressive team who knows the value of hard work. Both Lindsey and owner Steve Lance are thankful for the unique attributes that each team member brings to the real estate table. They are also genuinely invested in each other and their community, striving to live out their motto of being “People you know. People you trust.”

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Photo by DR. ROBIN ROGERS

Darla Wilf

Coldwell Banker Elite Realtor

4110 Richmond Place

Texarkana, Texas

O: 903-832-2486

C: 225-921-6922

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Darla is a licensed REALTOR® in Texas and Arkansas. Her background in fashion/design/ merchandising and teaching have contributed to her success as a REALTOR®. Her experience, people skills, attention to detail, and strong work ethic have helped her to be very successful in assisting many sellers, buyers, and investors with all of their real estate needs. She loves helping her clients get their homes or investment properties ready to sell to get top dollar and loves helping her buyers find the home of their dreams. Most homes are not ready to be sold immediately, they usually need a little TLC to get them looking their best and turnkey ready. That’s where Darla’s experience and her attention to detail gets the job done and done well. When it comes to buyers, she’s not pushy, she really listens to what her buyer’s needs and wants are and strives to find a home that they really love. Darla is a very compassionate, caring, and hardworking REALTOR® that strives for excellence in service for her clients.

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TIPS FOR SELLING YOUR HOME FASTER

1. Let Light In

The goal is to bring in as much natural light into the room as possible! Make sure to clean windows inside and out! Also, make sure all of your windows and window treatments are functioning properly. Replace any burnt out light bulbs throughout the house, and if there are any rooms in the house that are poorly lit, bring in an extra lamp or two.

2. Make Your Closet Clutter-free

It is hard to try and maintain a clean and clutter-free closet for the majority of the general population. None the less, this is a good time to do some straightening up. Go through your closets, and donate anything that you don’t use so when a buyer opens up the closet doors, they see the available closet space, not an unorganized, overstocked storage area.

3. Freshen Up the Front Door

Spruce up your front door as it is the main point of entry. Depending on the

age of your home or how much of a beating the front door has taken, it may need to be replaced. Take the proper steps when preparing your door for paint. Remove the door from the hinges, clean the door of all dirt and debris, and then lightly sand it. Don’t let an old, weathered door be a buyer’s focal point. Make it look good!

4. Enhance the Landscaping

To sell your home faster, it helps to give your home a great boost of curb appeal by sprucing up the landscaping around the front of your home. Rake the yard if needed, and make sure the grass and bushes are trimmed. Add a few bright flowers and plants into flower beds or in pots near the entrance. A seasonal wreath is a welcoming added bonus.

5. Paint Walls a Neutral Color

Don’t let the color of your walls be the focal point of a room. After living in a home for quite some time, chances are you have painted the rooms in your house multiple times. Depending on the current color of the walls in the rooms, you may want to think about re-painting. It will be easier for a buyer to relate to a neutral color that is the backdrop of a room and not be distracted by a room that is bold and loud.

6. Clean. Clean. Clean.

Spend a weekend cleaning your house from top to bottom. Have the carpets steam cleaned. Deep clean the corners and crevices that have not been touched in years. Get rid of the cobwebs that are out of reach in the foyer. Don’t forget the baseboards!

7. Pack Away Picture Frames

It is important when you are selling your home, that you depersonalize your space. Minimize any distractions so the buyers focus on the features and details of the home. Pack away all pictures, trophies, and awards. You want your home to be neutral and appealing to the buyer. Make it easy for them to picture their personal belongings throughout the house.

Experts Ask the

CARRIE TRUSTY

Director of Marketing, Cornerstone Healthy Living Community

Many people often wonder where to begin when downsizing.

There is no magic wand that makes downsizing an easy task. We have great intentions, but the process can quickly become overwhelming.

The first step: simply begin. Start by sorting what to keep, sell, or donate.

Freeing yourself of items that you are least attached to is easy as you clean out one room at a time. Ask for help from family and friends, or enlist the services of an estate sales professional.

Appreciate your memories, and share stories through the downsizing process.

Rightsizing to a community like Cornerstone can lead to a happier, healthier season of life.

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Lauren Callaway

RE/MAX office

5120 Summerhill Road

903-794-5250 office

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3218 Texas Blvd

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Working with you through every detail

Lauren Callaway is a native of Texarkana, Texas, and licensed REALTOR® who focuses on distinctive property listings, buyers looking to rehab homes, and commercial real estate. She has been in the fashion and interior design business for many years, and these qualities have proven very helpful in the real estate industry. Lauren is able to bring a creative edge to marketing and selling your home as well as helping buyers find the perfect home to turn into their dream home. She is certified in Distinctive Properties giving her the cutting edge needed to sell those special properties in our market. Lauren is also the owner and designer of PH Properties and Design that works with remodels and new construction. She is well versed in commercial real estate and has a passion for boosting Texarkana’s economy by helping businesses get into their perfect location and succeed. Known as a style virtuoso, Lauren can help you achieve all of your dream residential and commercial goals! We love our town, we love this area, and we love our clients!!

&MEREDITH BUNEL DILLON

Date: December 31, 2020

CLARK

Ceremony: Central Christian Church

Reception: Northridge Country Club

Wedding Planner: Kristin Butler

Cakes: Bri at Twisted Fork

Florist: Bennie Raney

Photographer: Carter Rose

Videographer: Johnny Apple Films

Band: Downtown Fever

Rings: Alexander’s Jewelers

Honeymoon: The Breakers, West Palm Beach

First Dance: Backstreet Boys “No Place”

Father and Daughter Dance: ABBA “Dancing Queen”

Happily Ever After

Meredith (Bunel) and Dillon Clark rang in 2021 as husband and wife

by DR. ROBIN ROGERS

Meredith Bunel and Dillon Clark knew of each other in high school, but they never hung out or dated until they met near the end of their college over summer break; Dillon was about to start his senior year at Arkansas, and Meredith was going to be a junior at TCU.

“That first summer we met,” says Meredith, “we became good friends very naturally. Dillon came over to my parents’ house just about every night for dinner, and things were so easy with us. Dillon was really good about keeping up with the conversation with my family. It seemed like we knew him all our lives.”

By the time the couple went back to college, Meredith and Dillon were dating, and they would use Texarkana as their home base to see each other during the holidays and over the summer breaks. After college, Dillon moved to Longview, Texas, to pursue a career in the automotive industry; then when Meredith graduated, she moved to Dallas to work in her chosen field of fashion merchandising with Fossil Headquarters.

For many, a long distance love would be too hard to overcome, but Dillon and Meredith were diligent about communicating well and seeing each other when they could. For five years, the couple dated and did not live in the same city. Yet, their love grew, and they knew they would eventually find a home in the same city and settle down. “We are just really good at communicating with each other, and that’s why it worked,” Meredith said.

In the summer of 2019, the Bunels invited Dillon to accompany them to Hawaii for a 10-day vacation. His first response was that he had to work, and then he realized it would be a great place to propose. According to Meredith,

Dillon is a hard worker who never considers taking more than a few days off from work. She knew that the idea of him taking off a week would never work; in fact, Dillon declined her parents’ invitation.

As the Bunels were about to leave for their trip, Diana, Meredith’s mother, asked Meredith to find an outfit that she would want to be photographed in because Kirby, her father, wanted to have some family pictures made on the beach. Meredith thought that was a little out of character, but she packed an extra outfit anyway.

A few days later, the Bunels were having a great vacation and enjoying a day at the pool, when Meredith looked up in shock to see Dillon. Meredith explains, “I was laying by the pool, and he just showed up. I kind of thought he might be about to propose right then. I thought, ‘Oh no. I had greasy hair and tanning oil on, so I was happy he proposed after I was able to shower and get dressed.

The next afternoon, the Bunels gathered Meredith and her brother to go down to the beach for brother-sister photos. Luke, Meredith’s brother said he had an assignment to finish up, so he would meet Meredith at the beach. Meredith and Dillon walked to the photographer to wait for the family. But Dillon had other plans in mind. As a photographer hid in the bushes to record the special moment, Dillon dropped to one knee and proposed. The plan had been in place for a while, and the family joined the newly-engaged couple to celebrate.

Dillon and Meredith took a year and a half to plan the wedding. Meredith had attended a wedding of a friend years before on New Year’s Eve, and it had been such a fun evening; she knew she wanted to have her wedding on New Year’s Eve, too.

Meredith said, “On New Year’s Eve, people always want something to do, and you feel like there’s a lot of pressure to get dressed up and go somewhere. I knew I wanted to have something that would be fun for guests and Dillon and me. I had always dreamed of having a NYE wedding. It came true in 2020.”

At the stroke of midnight 2021, Meredith and Dillon Clark rang in the new year with hundreds of friends and family as balloons fell from the ceiling. The newly-married couple had enjoyed every minute of the evening with a lifetime of memories to make in their roles as husband and wife!

SCENE ABOUT TOWN

UNITED WAY OF GREATER TEXARKANA ANNUAL CAMPAIGN RECOGNITION BREAKFAST

The United Way of Greater Texarkana held its Annual Campaign Recognition Breakfast on March 19 at the Texarkana Convention Center. The UWGT services zip codes in nine different counties in Arkansas and Texas and supports 30 programs along with partner agencies. UWGT Board Chairman Greg Capps emceed the breakfast. The 2020-2021 campaign chairman, Keith Cragg with CenterPoint Energy-Texarkana, passed the campaign baton to the 2021-2022 chairwoman, Tina Bell with LifeNet. Mike Mahone with Farmers Insurance was installed as the new United Way board chairman for the next two years. Rephonnie Roberts, Stuff The Bus co-chair, stated Stuff The Bus gave out 1,800 backpacks this year, a record number. Mayors Bob Bruggeman and Allen Brown presented the Kline Cup Award to David Mims, who has received the award for two years in a row. Mike Mahone and David Mims received the National Association of Insurance and Financial Advisors Award. Arkansas Blue Cross and Blue Shield received an appreciation award for its “Blue and You Foundation” COVID-19 donation. A special memorial award was presented on behalf of past board member, Shon Matthews, with LifeNet. Shon’s legacy will remain because of his past volunteerism and dedication to the programs he supported through the United Way of Greater Texarkana.

Cooper Tire and USW 752L were the top contributors for this year’s campaign followed by CHRISTUS St. Michael Health System. The total campaign is currently at $710,063 with an extra $12,000 expected in grants. Last year, UWGT reached $736,095 in campaign funds.

Rachael Potter, Jill McMahon and LaMoya Burks

Brian Goesl, Jennifer Unger, Traci Pitman and George Carpenter

Molly Riley and Jamie Branson

Mary Wormington, Darla Wilf and Theresa Baker

Cody Howard and Emily Green

Kendal Brown and Marcia Austin

Gina Morgan, Yuliana Gonzales, Linda Henderson and Cathy Maley

Jim Yates and Patricia Cunningham

Mayor Bob Bruggeman and Levi Ponder

George Carpenter, Nicole Raley and James Bramlett

AFTER

photo by ALAMOND PHOTOGRAPHY

Thankful For Every New Day

by AMBER E. WILLMAN

Ron Ferguson does not remember September 21, 2020. He does not remember the truck that hit him as he directed traffic for Texas High School in Texarkana, Texas. He does not remember spending a week under sedation. He does not remember how close he came to death. What matters is that he remembers everything that came after.

For most of his adult life, Ron worked for McLarty Ford. When he reached retirement age, he thought maybe he was getting too old to keep up with the grind. But too much free time made him stir-crazy, and he needed something to do. Five years ago, he joined the staff of the Texarkana Independent School District. He happily worked as a crossing guard, directing traffic, and keeping kids safe. Retirement treated him well. He was a baseball umpire and coached his grandson’s baseball team. Life was good for Ron Ferguson and his family, but a rainy day in September nearly took it all away.

Ron recalls that it had been a good morning. He was working on Summerhill Road and stopped ongoing traffic so the school traffic and students could enter the property. The 76-year-old driver of a Ford pickup moved into the turning lane, never seeing Ron standing there.

“I’ve only ever driven Fords my entire life. Then to be hit by one. Well, at least it wasn’t a Chevy or a Dodge,” Ron joked. “My son is a state trooper. From the accident photos, they thought I broke my leg.”

Despite being knocked several yards, he suffered no broken bones. His head hit the concrete on impact, and he suffered a brain injury. He was taken by ambulance to CHRISTUS St. Michael Health System, where rehabilitation included physical, occupational, and speech therapies.

“The walking was the hardest. I would take a few steps and need to sit down. I was just worn out,” he explained. Rehab was strenuous, but it never occurred to Ron to give up. “I always knew the good

Lord was with me.”

Ron is completely aware that his story could have ended differently. He recalls a moment with his wife, Bonnie, a few months back. They were watching a movie one evening, and he noticed her crying. She explained that while he was sedated, the doctors warned her that his condition was critical. She needed to be prepared that her husband might not leave the hospital alive. Ron adds, “I didn’t realize I had quit breathing when the truck hit me. That’s when she told me. They had to revive me.”

Many things could have gone wrong, but Ron chooses to focus on the triumph rather than the challenge. “This June 5 will be our 45th wedding anniversary.” He admits that his wife was a major motivator in his healing. “She stood beside me. She pushed my wheelchair. She was at the hospital every day. I owe her big time.” He already took her to pick out a new wedding band for an early anniversary present, but he plans to take her on vacation this summer when he feels better. “She has always wanted to visit Branson.” Ron’s voice fills with pride as he describes his family. He has three sons, seven grandsons, one granddaughter, and a great-grandchild.

Life is a series of valleys and mountains. Your friends are the ones who make the journey with you. They pull you out of the valley and push you up the mountain. This is more than true in Ron’s case. The community has rallied around them, sending cards and letters.

“I thank Texas High for taking care of us,” he says. The staff has checked on them regularly, dropping off food to them at Thanksgiving and Christmas. Folks volunteered to clean their house and help with other chores. Former coworkers have taken up collections for him. “Don’t ever say God’s not good,” Ron said.

Ron was most worried about the kids who witnessed the accident, but the high school’s faculty and staff made counseling available for

those traumatized by the event. And when he felt stronger, his family attended a football game. When the announcer told the fans that they had a special guest, Ron looked around to see who it was. When his name was announced, he stood to acknowledge the applause and cheers. Though he was surprised and slightly embarrassed by the attention, it was a great moment.

One could argue that Ron’s friends’ generosity is a testament to his own character. That character is fortified by his faith. In a recent church service, Ron’s pastor told the congregation about their prayer board. Church members can post pictures and requests to the board to be prayed over. For the last several months, Ron’s picture has been right in the center of that board.

On June 5, Ron and Bonnie will celebrate their 45th wedding anniversary.

Although his umpiring days might be over, Ron continues to focus on the future.

The pastor invited him to stand and told the audience Ron’s story, adding that his presence that morning was a testimony to the power of prayer. “God works miracles. You just have to believe,” Ron explains.

After the accident, one of Ron’s coworkers from the school told him that God had protected him. He replied, “Both of them did.” When she asked what he meant, Ron recalls an experience he had. “I don’t know if I was dreaming. Jesus was on my right-hand side, and my dad who I had lost was on my left side. They both told me it wasn’t my time. I still had a job to do.”

Ron will return to his staff position at the high school when the fall semester begins in August. “I didn’t want to sound like a chicken, but I asked if they could keep me out of the street,” he chuckles. The staff has already made arrangements for him to be moved inside the building where he can be a hall monitor for the campus.

Sadly, Ron will not return to the baseball field. His doctor told him he did not want him behind the plate. There was just too great a risk of irreversible damage if he were to get hit by a bat or foul ball. Although he is disappointed to leave the diamond behind, Ron tries to focus on the future. His long-term prognosis is good. There is a vessel in his head that is shrinking. It can be sensitive to touch, and he still has headaches, but his neurosurgeon does not think he will need surgery. He still walks with a cane, but his therapy is complete, and he improves daily. “I feel good. I’m just happy every day I wake.”

Ron will be 69 years old this year. Most of the men in his family died young, so he knows how blessed he is. “If I had died, I was ready. I would have been happy.” But he does not take his life for granted. “I don’t have any regrets. I tell everyone at the church to live each day, because you don’t know what tomorrow brings.”

The events of September 21, 2020, could have ended in tragedy, but with the help of family, friends, and faith, Ron’s story is one of victory.

Ron was taken by ambulance to CHRISTUS St. Michael Health System where he was treated for a brain injury.

Before his accident, Ron (back row, second from left) helped his son, Andrew (back row, far right) coach grandson Bradley’s baseball team.

Ron and his oldest son, Michael, during Michael’s State Trooper graduation in 2008.

SCENE ABOUT TOWN

ARKLATEX 100 CLUB PULL FOR HEROES SPORTING CLAY TOURNAMENT

The ArkLaTex 100 Club held its Pull for Heroes Sporting Clay Tournament on March 13 at Rocky Creek Outdoors. Proceeds from the event benefit local law enforcement officers and fire departments in Bowie and Miller Counties.

Keith Laing, Wes Spicher and Jimmy Barentine

Steve Shelly, Todd Altman and Shane Rainwater Dustin Thompson and Danny Meyer

Daryl Livingston, Zack Clapp, Chris Garner and Jimmy Martin

Kelly Pilgreen and Rick Cockrell

Scotty Taylor

Rusty Michaelis, Brian Wright, Luke Myer, Ken Wright and Bill Miller

Brad Davis, WIll Parker Davis, Braden Asimos and Tim Asimos

Kathy Hillis, Mark Lewis and Stephen Ward

Scott Duncan, Jay Farris, David Owens, Chad Wilson, Amanda Wilson, Thomas Wilson and Brandon Latham

Bobby Jordan, Kristi Bennett and James Atchley

Joe Bennett and Travis Loehr

Greg Reed, Dr. Ed Eichler, Judge Bill Miller, Dr. Robert McGinnis and James Henry Russell

David Fletcher and Rick Pavick

Dr. Chris and Debbie Alkire, Easton Jones and Brandon Jones

Alan Clements and Mitch Akin

Jeff Rodden and Canyon Baker

Widmark Dawson, Randell Hawkins, Kelly Whitcotten, Chris Story and Reagan Delk

Tom Whitten, Scott Sanders, Jerry Rochelle and Michael Mugno

Robbie and Detra McCarver with David Biggar

David Gipson, Jake Gipson, John Nichols, Brandon Osborne and Charles Osborne

SCENE ABOUT TOWN

HARVEST REGIONAL FOOD BANK RECEIVES $40,000 GRANT FROM TYSON FOODS, INC.

On March 19, Tyson Foods, Inc. presented Harvest Regional Food Bank with a check for $40,000 in support of its Mobile Pantry programs in Howard, Pike, and Hempstead Counties in Southwest Arkansas, and to expand on-site facility pantries for Tyson employees.

Harvest established the Mobile Pantry program in 2011 to provide food directly to those communities with the fewest hunger relief options. The food bank began quarterly distributions in two counties and now serves five rural counties multiple times throughout the year. Large-scale mobile pantries were also implemented for the first time in 2020 in response to the COVID-19 crisis in its two most populated counties.

This year’s grant will also be used to add an additional on-site pantry at Tyson’s Hope facility; the first pantry is at Tyson’s Nashville complex. Since 2000, Tyson has donated over $140,000 and 750,000 pounds of food to Harvest Regional Food Bank.

Camille Coker Wrinkle, Executive Director of Harvest Regional Food Bank; Andi Darby, Board President of Harvest Regional Food Bank; and Tem Gunter, Nashville Complex Human Resources Manager for Tyson Foods, Inc.

photo by JOHN BUNCH PHOTOGRAPHY

HERE’S YOUR

TEACHERS BY TRADE, STEPHANIE AND GREG BRUSH BRING

CUSTOM-DESIGNED YARD CARD SIGNS TO THE TEXARKANA AREA

by LISA PORTERFIELD THOMPSON

Stephanie and Greg Brush own 20 chickens. They are the proud owners of two dogs, Abbie Jo and Roxxy, both rescues who needed a home. They both teach at Texas High School and attend Buchanan Baptist Church. They spend their days with family, taking four schoolaged kids to activities and cheering them on, attending church, and are very busy people.

So, it may seem like a stretch that Stephanie and Greg decided to start a new business in August of 2020; but, when you consider raising four kids on two teacher salaries, you can understand why they were looking for ways to make some extra money.

“We were throwing around a few ideas this past summer about small business opportunities that would benefit us financially, help our community, and create job opportunities for our own children,” Stephanie said. “I saw on Facebook that a friend of mine had started a yard card celebration business in her hometown in another state, so I contacted her about it. The opportunity arose to join a franchise. However, we chose to invest in our own business and build a yard card sign business from the ground up by ourselves. We saw that there were no other local companies in the area, so we dove in, and the investment paid off. SignMe Up was launched in August of 2020, and it has continually grown. In fact, a few months into our business launch, a friend of mine contacted me about buying her small stork business, Texarkana’s Storks on Parade. She saw how successful our business was becoming, and she was ready to retire. So, we purchased

Storks on Parade and added custom baby announcement stork rentals to SignMe Up. This was all very exciting!

“Greg and I have always been very busy people,” Stephanie said. “We were both raised to work hard and earn our own way in life.” The couple certainly has been working hard for the past year, as evidenced by the sheer volume of their business growth. “Our business has been very well received,” she said. “We had a few friends order some signs at the start, we posted them on FB and Instagram, built a website, and then the business just took off from there. At the start of the business, we were also contacted by our first nonprofit – Just Love and Kindness, and that also helped guide us into offering our services to all local nonprofits. We absolutely love being a part of our community and giving back.”

So, just how busy is busy? “We now book 10-20 signs per week,” Stephanie said. “Our business serves Texarkana, Texas and Arkansas, Ashdown, Atlanta, Fouke, Genoa, Hooks, Leary, Liberty-Eylau, Maud, Nash, New Boston, Ogden, Red Lick, Redwater, Queen City, and Wake Village.” The business is a means to celebrate. Customers order custom-designed outside yard signs to be set up to celebrate birthdays, anniversaries, graduations, school events, babies being born, and much more.

“Our signs bring happiness to our community. They bring celebration to our community. They bring families together. Our signs celebrate our community!” Stephanie said. She said that the

Stephanie and Greg drove the TISD food truck while volunteering to pass out free lunches when schools closed for shelter-in-place last year.

they are both educators for TISD, Stephanie and Greg enjoy supporting the Texas High Tigers football team.

business served a special purpose the past year during the COVID-19 pandemic.

“During the time of a pandemic, our signs brought ways to send gifts by way of yard cards and smiles to others without the risk of spreading COVID,” Stephanie said. “There really is no limit to what we can celebrate. In the future, we want to continue making people happy during all of those milestone celebration times, and we want to become more involved in our community and school districts with our new business.”

Of course, in addition to full-time jobs, and a full-time business, Stephanie and Greg have a family to raise. “We met on the sand courts at Minton Sportsplex in 2000,” Stephanie said. “I asked Greg on our first date. He will tell you otherwise, but he’s very shy; I am NOT.

“We make a great pair because we balance each other out,” Stephanie said. “We were married at Hickory Street Baptist Church on June 21, 2003 (exactly three years to the day of our first date), and we vowed

at that time to be a strong Christian family allowing God to lead our marriage.”

Now, the couple has four children: Carrigan is 16, Bella Marie is 11, Brynlee is 8, and Lincoln is 5. “Carrigan attends Texas High where she is a junior,” Stephanie said. “She is on the varsity girls’ soccer team, she is a member of STUCO, on the Leadership team, a yearbook photographer, a yearbook editor, and a member of the Rosebuds. Bella Marie, Brynlee, and Lincoln all attend school at Red Lick ISD. Bella Marie and Brynlee are amazing soccer players and play on local soccer teams. Lincoln is a beast of a tee ball player!”

Luckily, Greg and Stephanie live next door to her parents in LibertyEylau. “It’s the best thing ever,” Stephanie said. “And Greg’s mom lives here in town as well, so we have a super strong support system that makes it possible for us to get all of our kids to all activities and taken care of. Without my parents and his mom, we would not survive.”

Since

Greg works on a celebration sign at Genoa High School for the Brush’s new business, SignMe Up.

The Brushes spend their free time with family, gardening, taking trips to state parks for family hiking, kayaking, working on their land, attending lots of soccer games, working with their church family, and just being together.

“We love to visit Dauphin Island each summer as a family!” Stephanie said. “It is our go-to relaxation/family time place” They are also very involved in their church. Greg is the youth director, a deacon, and head of landscaping. Stephanie is the Children’s Church teacher, the VBS director, and both take the youth to church camp every summer.

Stephanie and Greg chose Texarkana for their business because Texarkana is their hometown. They vowed early on to keep their children in one town to avoid moving from school to school. “Texarkana is our permanent home,” Stephanie said. “You never know, growth may bring forth our business to open in other areas in the future, but this will be our base.”

Stephanie and Greg, and the rest of the Brush family, are truly assets to this community—serving, giving, encouraging, teaching, leading, celebrating, and much more.

Three years ago, Greg competed as part of team purple at NetXtreme youth church camp.

The Brush family: (front row) Lincoln, Brynlee and Bella Marie; (back row) Stephanie, Greg, and Carrigan.

Happy to beAlive

CRAIG MUELLER SHARES HIS MANTRA AFTER BATTLING FOR HIS LIFE AGAINST COVID-19

photo by

JOHN BUNCH PHOTOGRAPHY

by VICKI MELDE

For someone that reveres nature and God’s creation, it’s hard to imagine anything that could prevent them from relishing the joy of fresh air and the sun covering their face. There’s something about those raised in Scouting that seems to heighten their appreciation for the gift of the simple, yet exquisite, pleasure of the “great outdoors.”

This may seem a rather odd beginning to a story about a local Texarkana Nurse Practitioner’s battle for his life with COVID-19. But for Craig Mueller, it really came down to fighting for what he treasures most – his family and friends – and counting on his faith to see him through. And what he missed most – aside, of course, from being with his dear wife, Lori, and his sons, was simply fresh air and the outdoors. During his illness, the things that were such an innate part of growing up camping and working during summers at Camp Pioneer became the most coveted privilege.

Born and raised in Texarkana, Craig benefitted from a rather idyllic childhood. He grew up in a very close family with his parents, David and the late Martha Mueller, and two sisters, Cathy (Burgess) and Kim (Altenbaumer). Though Craig admits he was quite shy growing up, he credits being involved in Boy Scouts for teaching him how to be a leader and to become more outgoing. Scouting and working at Camp Pioneer are the core of his most cherished childhood memories.

During his years at Pleasant Grove High School, Craig was focused on science. “That’s all I ever thought about,” he recalled. “I enjoyed doing first aid during Boy Scouts and had every intention of becoming a medical doctor.” After graduating from Ouachita Baptist University with a Bachelor of Science degree in Biology in 1991, Craig began nursing school at Texarkana College while working to be accepted to medical school. He became aware of the Family Nurse Practitioner (FNP) program through the University of Arkansas for Medical Sciences (UAMS) in Little Rock and decided to follow a different career path. After receiving his FNP degree in 2002, Craig embarked on his professional journey of service which, so far, has been 18 years – the past eight years spent with Family Medical Group.

Though he came by his love of science and health care naturally, Craig was quick to stress the strong influence that Dr. Mitchell Young had on his life through Scouting and his friendship with “The Young Boys.” (For any readers who don’t know the Youngs, the late Dr. Young and his amazing wife, Donna, raised eight sons and two daughters – all deeply committed to Scouting. The “boys” all earned the rank of Eagle Scout, as had their father, and the Young “girls” achieved the corresponding rank in Girl Scouts of First Class.)

Aside from his parents, Craig is the person he is today in great part because of his wife, Lori. They met at Texarkana College where both of their fathers worked, and they each had part-time jobs. They will celebrate 24 years of marriage this May. Lori is a beloved kindergarten teacher at Pleasant Grove ISD’s Margaret Fischer Davis Elementary School.

“We have two sons, Luke and Grady,” Craig noted proudly. “Luke is a 2020 graduate of Pleasant Grove and is currently attending Ouachita. He plans to go into the medical profession as well. Our younger son, Grady, is currently a freshman at PGHS.” Both sons share their father’s love of Scouting and have followed his example of achieving the rank of Eagle Scout. Luke is an Eagle Scout, and Grady only lacks his project to earn this prestigious honor.

“Our favorite family activities include watching our boys play football – especially seeing our son be a part of and play in state championship football games – and their many baseball games,” Craig added. “We also enjoy traveling – we prefer the mountains over theme parks! My hobbies include hunting, fishing, and land conservation management.”

As all too many have experienced in the past year, when COVID strikes,

Luke, Craig, Lori and Grady during family photos taken at the lake in December 2020.

(Photo by Erin Treadway)

After being in the hospital for 15 days, Craig could not wait to get outside and enjoy the fresh air.

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“as normal” for the entire family ceases. And, unfortunately, being a medical professional doesn’t spare someone from its potentially deadly complications. In fact, in some ways, having a great deal of medical knowledge can make a diagnosis such as COVID even more alarming – both because of what is known about what the disease can do – but also because of what is unknown to the medical community as far as how to treat, the outcomes, and the lasting effects it will have on people.

For Craig, the battle began on Saturday, September 19, 2020. His story in his words …

“I felt fatigued, but thought it was just from a long work week. Sunday afternoon, I started having GI issues, and by Sunday night, I was running a fever of 101.3. I went to get tested, but I tested negative for flu and negative for COVID. Lori and Grady isolated themselves to the back of the house as I still felt this was quite possibly COVID, so I stayed home from work and saw patients virtually.

“I began taking the ‘COVID cocktail’ medications recommended at that time. The fatigue was relentless! As the week continued, I began to battle high fever up to 104. The shortness of breath and upper respiratory symptoms started midweek. My oxygen saturation remained steady about 92%. By the next Saturday (a week later), I began to feel better and even went for a walk. Then, I woke up at 3 a.m. Monday (9-27) and I knew something wasn’t right. My oxygen level was down to 82%. I called Lori, who had been sleeping in another room since the onset of my symptoms, to take me to Texarkana Emergency Center & Hospital. There, I was met by Dr. Shanna Spence, and she started me on oxygen, steroids, antibiotics, and IV fluids. A CT scan revealed I had COVID pneumonia, and my right side showed pneumonia and an empyema (collection of infection in the lung).

“Dr. Matt Young (owner of TEC&H and one of my best friends) arrived, and he and Dr. Spence felt it was necessary for me to be admitted into the ICU for further care. I was transported via LifeNet ambulance to CHRISTUS St. Michael ICU. There, I was met by Dr. Greg White, who assumed my care. He immediately began COVID protocol which included plasma with COVID antibodies from a

This image of Craig’s chest was taken the day he was admitted to the hospital. The left side (all of the white) shows the pneumonia and absesses that developed secondary to COVID. The right side indicates what typical COVID pneumonia looks like.

Although there is still a lot of scar tissue, this image of Craig’s lungs taken about a month after his COVID diagnosis, shows much improvement.

donor. He consulted with Dr. Baptiste, and they felt it best for me to have a VATS (Video-Assisted Thorascopic Surgery) to investigate and drain the empyema on my right lung. Surgery was scheduled the next morning. They inserted two chest tubes to continue to drain the empyema.

“After surgery, I returned to ICU for five MORE days on high-flow oxygen, multiple antibiotics, breathing treatments, and steroids. The following Thursday, the chest tubes were removed and later that weekend, I was transferred from ICU to the COVID unit. Throughout that week, they began working on weaning me off my high-flow oxygen while continuing antibiotics and steroids. Toward the end of the week, I spiked a temperature, my white count went up, and I began having more difficulty breathing. Dr. Umbono (the infectious disease doctor) ordered another CT scan which revealed another abscess in my right lung. Erin McCasland, FNP with Dr. Greg White’s office who was taking care of me in the COVID unit decided I should have a drain tube put in to remove the abscess. On Saturday, October 10, I was taken to radiology to have a CT guided drain put in by the radiologist.

“I began improving and was able to wean off the high-flow oxygen and get on a nasal cannula for oxygen. On Tuesday, October 13, the drain tube was removed, and I was discharged to go home on oxygen, breathing treatments, oral antibiotics, and steroids. Upon weighing at discharge, I had lost a total of 35 pounds during those 15 days in the hospital.”

Craig was in isolation for a total of 15 days. “It was one of the toughest things I’ve ever experienced and by far the worst part of the COVID ordeal,” he shared. “The feeling of hopelessness, loneliness, lack of sleep, and lack of basic fresh air and sunshine were very taxing on my mental state. The constant noise from the negative pressure system in the room made it where I couldn’t even think or sleep.”

How does one survive such a trial? For Craig, the answer was what has been at the center of his life all along … God, prayers from family and friends, and especially his wife, Lori, (via brief chats several times a day on FaceTime) as well as past memories. Though he literally “walked through the valley of the shadow of death” as in his favorite scripture, Psalm 23, he knew that his Lord was with him … and that sustained him.

Craig’s isolation took an equal toll on Lori. She too relied on prayers, family, and friends to get her through the tough days and nights. “Remember the spring, when you would hear and see patients who couldn’t have any visitors,” she recalled. “I never dreamed that would be us one day. I understand protocol, but I also wish there could be something hospitals could do to let these patients see their loved ones – especially after an extended stay. It truly is the best medicine!”

Lori described the day Craig was discharged as “the BEST feeling.” They just held each other in their car and cried together – finally happy tears!

“When I got home, all I wanted to do was spend time with my wife and kids and to be outside in the fresh air,” Craig remembered. “The first day back home, we set up my Boy Scout cot in the backyard, and I spent many hours the first two days home just being outside and listening to the peaceful sounds of nature.” The days that followed brought drives when they’d load his portable oxygen tank, and Lori would pack a picnic just in case they were gone longer than planned. It was a celebration just to be out … and alive!

Although he still has some lasting effects from COVID – his lung function is about 80% normal, he battles fatigue and headaches, and has nerve and muscle damage in his lower extremities – Craig’s focus is on gratitude. “First and foremost, I would like to thank God for pulling me through this and my wife for being there for me when I needed her,” he said. “I would also like to thank all of the providers, nurses, and staff at Texarkana Emergency Center & Hospital, CHRISTUS St. Michael Health System, and LifeNet. I am grateful for all of my family, friends, my crazy Scout buddies, and my coworkers at Family Medical Group for all of the prayers, concerns, calls, texts, meals provided to us, and for my post-medical care by Family Medical Group, along with Dr. Greg White and Erin McCasland, FNP. I keep telling people that I feel like God kept me alive because there is still something left here for me to do.”

For a man who endured such an ordeal, Craig definitely sees the cup half full. In fact, as the psalm says, his cup runneth over!

While in the ICU, Craig was on high flow oxygen, had a central line, two chest tubes, and was hooked up to many monitors.

Craig was dismissed from the hospital on October 13. He received the cardboard cutout in the background as a gift from Dr. Matt Young of Texarkana Emergency Center & Hospital to keep him “company” while he was in isolation in the COVID unit.

APRIL 2021

APRIL 1

At 10 a.m., local volunteers and community members will join CASA for Children Texarkana and the Texarkana Children’s Advocacy Center in taking a stand against child abuse through a live video on their Facebook pages with the Save Jane event. Names and ages of over 1,100 children who were reported as abused and received services through the CAC and CASA in 2020 will be read. Because these children are minors and their identities must be protected, “Jane Doe” and “John Doe” will be used in place of their names. The Save Jane event launched in Dallas in 2019 with the goal of spreading awareness about the magnitude of child abuse and about organizations working in the field. To learn more, visit: www. dcac.org, www.savejane.com or search #SAVE JANE.

APRIL 2-11

The 76th annual Four States Fair and Rodeo will be held at the Four States Entertainment Center. Visit: www.

fourstatesfair.com for a list of events and ticket information.

APRIL 3

The ninth annual Ark-La-Tex Challenge Bike Ride will be held with registration, breakfast, and lunch taking place in the Liberty-Eylau High School parking lot. A staggered self-start will be held so all cyclists are urged to be on the course no later than 9:15 a.m. This ride offers both novice and experienced cyclists a ride which allows them to ride through three states in one ride. Five distance rides will accommodate several cyclist levels. Proceeds from the event will benefit Texarkana Resources. For more information, visit: www.arklatexchallenge.com.

APRIL 8

The Texarkana Board of Realtors will present a Home Buying and Selling Community Workshop from 6-8 p.m. in Cabe Hall at the Regional Arts Center. The event is free and will feature experts in the field of mortgage lenders, realtor association, home inspectors, title companies, and tax assessors. RSVP at: https://www.

facebook.com/texarkanarealtors or call 870-774-6452.

THROUGH APRIL 10

The 19th annual Regional Celebration of African American Artists Exhibit will be displayed in the Regional Arts Building, located at 321 West 4th Street in Downtown Texarkana. Come explore the African American artists’ exhibits which will include quilts, fabrics, and fibers. Call 903792-8681 for more information.

THROUGH APRIL 15

Over $137,500 in cash will be awarded during the Millwood Fishing Challenge. The Arkansas Game and Fish Commission has released 100 yellow-tagged fish in Millwood Lake. The tags include a phone number and a prize number on them. If a fish is caught, the angler must call the phone number on the tag and present the fish with the yellow tag attached, along with the badge number. To obtain the rules or for more information, visit: www.ashdownarkansas.org or call 870-898-2758.

APRIL 17

The Texarkana Symphony Orchestra will perform “Out of Keys” featuring pianist Andrew von Oeyen. The performance will held in the Historic Perot Theatre and will begin at 7:30 p.m. with a concert preview at 6:40. Call the Perot Theatre Box Office to purchase tickets at 903-792-4992.

APRIL 22, 23, 25

Silvermoon Children’s Theatre will present its spring show, “Clue: On Stage” at Silvermoon Children’s Theatre, located at 217 West Broad in downtown Texarkana, Texas. Shows will be held at 7:30 p.m. on Thursday; 5:30 and 7:30 p.m. on Friday; and 2 p.m. on Sunday. This classic show brings fun and mystery to the stage and is based on the 1985 movie and the classic board game, Clue. Visit their Facebook page or www. silvermoonkids.com to purchase tickets.

APRIL 24

CASA’s Colorful 5K will be held at Trinity Baptist Church’s Cross Country Trail. A Kids’ (ages 5-11) “Chase the

Super Hero” Competitive Run will be held from 8:30-9 a.m. with the Adult Competitive 5K Run (ages 12 and up) and Family Walk held from 9-11 a.m. The event will benefit CASA for Children and the services they provide to more than 1,000 abused and neglected children a year. For more information, visit: www.runsignup. com/casacolorful5k.

APRIL 25

Williams School will host its second annual Walking for Williams from 3-5 p.m. on the church grounds of Williams Memorial United Methodist Church. Events include a family warm-up and walk for all ages, live music, carnival style games for kids, food, and refreshments. To sign up, call 903-838-9517.

APRIL

2021

MAY 1

The Twice as Fine Texarkana Wine Festival will be held at Spring Lake Park. Presented by Ledwell, the celebration features art, food, music, and wine. Proceeds from the event benefit the Alzheimer’s Alliance Tri-

State Area. For more information, visit: www.texarkanawinefestival.com.

MAY 1

1st Choice Pregnancy Resource Center will host its 21st annual Walk for Life at Spring Lake Park. All funds raised go directly to serving clients right here in our community. The Kids’ Fun Run will begin at 8:30 a.m., the Diaper Derby is at 9 a.m., and all who want to walk together will start at 9:15 a.m. Those who are interested can also sign up as a Social Distance Walker and walk on your own or “Sleep like a Baby” and still participate in the fundraising. Check the Events page on the Friends of 1st Choice PRC Facebook page for updates or to register, or call 903-7925735 for additional information.

MAY 3

Tee Up With Temple Golf Tournament, formerly named Divots for Disabilities Golf Tournament, will be held at Texarkana Country Club. A four person scramble, registration will begin at 11 a.m. with a shotgun start at 1 p.m. Entry fee is $175 per person. All proceeds will benefit the client services at Temple Memorial Pediatric Center. Call Gina at 903-793-2705 or

email: gparish@tmrctxk.org for more information.

MAY 8

The Literacy Council of Bowie & Miller Counties, Inc. will host its 2021 Spelling Bee in the Truman Arnold Center at Texarkana College. Watch their Facebook page for more details.

MAY 15

Opportunities, Inc. will host a unique Virtual 5K Paddle, Hike, Jog, or Bike event which was developed for the safety of participants, volunteers, staff, partners, and community to help prevent the spread of COVID-19. Participants can choose from a 3+ mile hike, 10-15 mile bike ride or paddle at a local park, or a 5K jog. This virtual event encourages participants to live an active lifestyle and enjoy time exercising while supporting children and adults with developmental disabilities. For more information, visit: www.runsignup. com/race/tx/anycityanystate/ oppincorgvirtual5k.

MAY 17

Harvest Regional Food Bank will host its inaugural Drive Out Hunger Golf Tournament at Northridge Country Club. All proceeds from the

event will provide critical support for Harvest’s programs and operations. Visit www.hrfb.org/golf to secure your sponsorship or team. For more information call 870-774-1398 or email: development at hrfb.org.

MAY 22

Clay’s Golf & Guitars will host its Golf Scramble and Concert at Northridge Country Club. Registration for the Golf Scramble will take place at 8 a.m., followed by tee off at 9. The concert will begin at 7 p.m. and will feature Escape, the ultimate Journey tribute band. Proceeds from the event will benefit Haven Homes. For tickets, visit: www.claysgolfandguitars.com

MAY 27-29

The Talimena Rally 2021 Cruisin’ for St. Jude will be held at the Arkansas Convention Center. Friday’s ride will be “Riding the Hills” and will leave out at 8 a.m. Mike Mayberry and The Slow Hands will be featured entertainment from 7-10 p.m. On Saturday, there will be a “Queen Wilhelmina Ride,” also beginning at 8 a.m. Entertainment for that evening will be the Dusty Rose Band. Follow the Talimena Rally “Cruisin for St. Jude” Facebook page for more information.

THE ROAD Tra veled less

BY NICHOLE HOLZE

Seat belts, everyone! A few years ago, I surprised my children with a side trip to California while visiting family in Arizona. It had been a dream of mine to take them to see tide pools, ever since rewatching all of “The Magic School Bus” series alongside them.

Tide pools are shallow, rock pools that become separate or individual pools during low tide. The amount of life within those pools is astounding. Ms. Frizzle was right. We were enthralled, amazed, and cannot wait to go back again.

For our tide pool exploration, we headed to Crystal Cove State Park, just north of Laguna Beach, California. In my research, I found that some of the best tide pools near Los Angeles were at Pelican Point, within Crystal Cove State Park. We stayed in Huntington Beach the night before. Our morning started at 5 a.m., in order to make the hour drive to Crystal Cove and hit the tide pools at low tide. It’s critically important that you look up tide charts prior to exploring, the tide pools are completely hidden at high tide, and there are some parts of the beaches that are impassable at high tide because of the cliffs.

It’s a long walk from the state park parking lots down to the beach, and I would recommend a backpack with everything you’ll need for the day, towels, a change of clothes, and proper footwear. The tide pools themselves can be very slippery! My children (and I) wore Teva sandals with excellent traction on the bottom. Our day was entirely magical, despite starting at 5 a.m. We explored tide pools, delighted at brilliantly red starfish, gently touched sea anemone, and laughed at the crabs scuttling away.

For lunch, check out the Beachcomber Cafe by the historic cabins in the state park. They have plenty of vegan (and kid friendly!) options. If you’re lucky, maybe you can book a stay at one of the retro cabins! We spent the rest of the day playing and exploring along Crystal Cove, and it was a day very well spent.

One more tip – there’s another tide pool to check out on the north side of Los Angeles called White Point. We met a friend there and had the immense pleasure of watching a sea lion be released from an animal rescue just up the hill. It was a powerful experience that left us all in tears of joy.

One last tip – when you’re visiting tide pools, it’s crucial that you put everything back where you found it (starfish, hermit crabs, etc.) and collect shells responsibly. You don’t want to be taking away a hermit crab’s future upgrade! I also highly recommend the book called “Pagoo” before you go!

You never know what you’ll see out there while you’re exploring, so, in the words of one of my favorite teachers – “take chances, make mistakes, and get messy!”

Playing in the waves

Touching a sea anemone

White Point

Tide pool exploring

Never afraid of a long drive, Nichole is a homeschooling mom to two and wife to Ryan. Coffee, always, and black please. You can probably find her scheming up their next road trip while hiking in the woods. Experience-based learning and good books abound in their homeschool, as they chase the spark of curiosity where it wanders on the road less traveled.

A Pinch of Salt

by Donnie Spriggs

Stressed is an understatement for how I feel this month. I turned in my last final for my class for graduation (please hold the applause), and then my store is still in the process of remodel. So, based on the stress, we are going to talk about my favorite stress food! What better thing to do than cook something not healthy? Now you may think this is weird but hear me out … Pickle Fried Chicken, you heard that right PICKLE! It is one of the best things I have eaten and made in a while! Just try it and enjoy it. I know you will.

1 package of boneless chicken thighs

2 cups dill pickle juice

1 cup vegetable oil for frying

1 cup buttermilk

1 cup all-purpose flour

2 teaspoons of Lawry’s season salt

1. Place chicken thighs in a resealable plastic bag; cover with pickle juice. Seal and refrigerate for 3 hours.

2. Drain pickle juice from thighs. Cover chicken; refrigerate until ready to fry.

3. Preheat oven to 350 degrees F (175 degrees C).

4. Heat 2 inches oil in a Dutch oven over medium-high heat to 350 degrees F (175 degrees C).

5. Pour buttermilk and flour into 2 separate bowls. Season flour with salt and pepper. Dredge chicken in buttermilk. Toss in flour. Return to buttermilk and toss in flour a second time. Place chicken on a rack set over a baking sheet.

Donnie Spriggs is a longtime resident of Texarkana, Texas. He has been in the restaurant industry since he was 16 and has been with Silver Star Smokehouse since 2014. He is a student at Texas A&M-Texarkana where he is part of the BAAS program.

He loves people but likes food even more, mainly because food makes people happy!

6. Fill Dutch oven with as many thighs as possible without crowding. Cook at 350 degrees F (175 degrees C) until golden brown, 5 to 7 minutes per side. Place thighs on the baking sheet. Repeat until all pieces are fried. Transfer thighs to the oven.

7. Bake in the preheated oven until no longer pink in the center and the juices run clear, 5 to 8 minutes. An instant-read thermometer inserted into the center should read at least 165 degrees F (74 degrees C). Season with a pinch of salt. Of course, this chicken recipe goes great with all your favorites sides such as mashed potatoes, green beans, okra you name it! So, when you are feeling the pressure, pull out that cast iron skillet and get to frying!

Let me know what you think on my Instagram pinch_of_salt20

the FRIENDS list

Each month, Four States Living will choose two people who have “liked” our Facebook page to be featured in The Friend List. Chosen randomly, these two “friends” will answer questions we provide so our readers can get to know them better. The bonus question (the last question) will be related to the theme of each month’s issue.

ANGELA EVANS

age: 41

Occupation: Marketer by day, Recipe Creator by night

If you won the lottery, what is the first thing you would do?

I would book a vacation on a private island for my family and me. I would like to be undistracted as we plan out our new normal.

When you have 30 minutes of free time, how do you pass the time?

Honestly, I spend it in the kitchen creating tasty snacks.

If you were allowed to have one wish granted, what would it be?

I would like the ability to secretly fulfill the dreams of everyone that crosses my path. The keyword here is “secretly” because I don’t want them to know it’s me granting their wildest dreams.

At what business could you max out a credit card?

Target and TJ Maxx tie for first place.

Choose a movie title for the story of your life. “The Pursuit of Happiness.”

What are you currently watching on Netflix?

“Chef’s Table.”

If you could visit anywhere in the world, where would you go?

Bora Bora ... it’s an unspoiled paradise surrounded by beauty with no crowds and busy street life.

If you could only have three apps on your smartphone, which would you pick? Pinterest. Amazon. Pandora.

What’s your favorite sport to watch, and which team do you root for?

Don’t hate me but I am not a fan of any sports enough to have a favorite or favorite team.

TRENT

THOMAS

age: 28

Occupation: Assistant Transportation Coordinator at Ledwell

If you won the lottery, what is the first thing you would do?

I would pay off all of my son Titan’s medical expenses, from his two brain surgeries he had when he was just a baby.

When you have 30 minutes of free time, how do you pass the time?

My twin brother, Tyler, and I do a podcast called “It’s A Twin Thing” on Spotify.

If you were allowed to have one wish granted, what would it be?

To cure all diseases like hydrocephalus, diabetes, and cancer.

At what business could you max out a credit card?

Target. They have everything! It’s also where I met my lovely wife, Tiffanie, of seven years in April.

Choose a movie title for the story of your life. “It’s a Wonderful Life.”

What are you currently watching on Netflix?

Binge watching “Game of Thrones” on HBO Max at the moment, but patiently waiting for Season 4 of “Stranger Things.”

If you could visit anywhere in the world, where would you go?

Definitely New Zealand.

If you could only have three apps on your smartphone, which would you pick? ESPN. Facebook. YouTube.

What’s your favorite sport to watch, and which team do you root for?

Football is my favorite sport, and my teams are the Tennessee Titans, and THE University of Texas Longhorns. HOOK ’EM!

“ COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS ”

WHAT IS THE GREATEST BLESSING YOU HAVE RECEIVED IN YOUR LIFE?

It may sound cliché but my greatest blessing is waking up every morning happy. Last year, I was diagnosed with an uncommon condition, where the brain tissue extends into your spinal canal called Chiari Malformation. Many with this condition don’t have much of a quality of life but I am blessed to have that and much more.

My greatest blessing in life is having an amazing family. I have a loving and supportive wife, and a son, Titan, who has defeated all obstacles of having encephalocele and hydrocephalus, which led to two brain surgeries. He is now a strong and healthy 5-year-old boy. He loves Batman, but he’s my Superhero!