Four States Living Magazine May 2023

THE WAY I SEE IT ...

PUBLISHER’S LETTER

Robin Rogers, Ed.D.

o, the Texarkana Museums System hosts these cool cemetery tours, where volunteers dress in period costumes and portray interesting people who are buried in Texarkana cemeteries. If you think it sounds morbid, trust me—it is not! Always on a Saturday evening, historian extraordinaire Jamie Simmons, our museums’ curator, escorts attendees from one historical grave to another, explaining on the way the meanings behind the symbols on headstones, why monuments face a certain direction, how people were laid to rest 150 years ago compared to today and so much more. At each grave spotlighted, a “living history” performer tells visitors about their character’s life. For instance, at Rosehill Cemetery, I saw a local pastor portray Texarkana historian Wilbur Smith, who was a noted public servant in the mid-1900s. As Wilbur, he told us about his childhood, college years, work and friends. In Woodlawn Cemetery, we learned about Silas Hunt, the first Black man admitted to the University of Arkansas’s law school. And in the Mount Sinai section of the Stateline Cemetery, I learned about Nettie Marx Klein, one of the very first female physicians in Texas and the very first in Texarkana. Truly, if you love Texarkana history, these tours are right up your alley.

I, being a super nerd about genealogy, volunteered to be a living history performer for a recent tour. Jamie asked me if I would like to portray one of my great-great-grandmothers, Julia Tarleton Briley, and I jumped at the chance. While Jamie writes the scripts for most of the actors, I chose to write mine myself. Over the years, I had heard so many stories about Julia’s father, husband and sons; I just knew it would be a blast to concentrate on Julia’s own life. Julia was born in 1852, 118 years before I was born, but I felt sure I could, through serious digging, glean insight into who she was as a Texarkana citizen and woman. What I discovered in my sleuthing, however, was that, while plenty of information exists on the men in her life, there is not much to be found about Julia as an individual in letters or newspaper accounts.

Four St ates Living

Through my research (and with the generous help of Jamie and my mom, Patricia Rogers), I learned that Julia’s mother died in childbirth, and her father left her for her grandparents to raise so that he could become a legislator in Austin. Julia was married at 18. Her husband, 13 years her senior, owned a dry goods store on Broad Street: Briley Dry Goods. Julia birthed four children, only two of whom lived to adulthood. She was instrumental in the First Presbyterian Church of Texarkana, Arkansas. One of her sons became a sheriff’s deputy. He was shot and killed in a gunfight on Stateline in 1909. Her other son became a real estate broker and was the president of just about every nonprofit in Texarkana over the next fifty years. Her obituary offered only this glimpse into Julia herself: “Mrs. Briley kept a beautiful garden and loved children.”

I wonder how our descendants will see us 150 years from now, what the remaining artifacts of our lives will say about this period of history. Will all things seem equal? I wonder.

A man in my life, whom I love and deeply respect, is in his 80s. He says that not a day goes by that he doesn’t think about his mother, who died when he was a teenager. While his dad was the breadwinner and the businessman, his mom was the one who influenced him the most. She played classical music in the home and instilled a love of reading in him and his siblings, all of whom became well-educated adults.

As a woman, I am thankful to have raised three phenomenal children, and I am thankful to have worked outside of the home. The former has been an expectation women throughout the ages have borne, and the latter is a reality once unheard of. Though I recognize that I, like all women, have faced prejudice and mistreatment based on my gender, I strive never to take for granted the liberty that has allowed me to “have it all,” to pursue life, liberty and happiness, however that looks for me. I wish Julia had been allowed that same opportunity. Things have changed immensely in the last 150 years for women, but, as I remind my younger female friends, our foremothers fought long and hard for the rights they won—and this is not ancient history we’re talking about. Until the mid-1970s, for example, women could not buy a home or get a credit card without their husband or their father as a cosigner. In this city, country and world, women have experienced fewer rights and privileges than men—and let’s face it, there are still many inequities today.

Despite these inequities, women in this community and all over the globe do incredible things, in all aspects of life. They work, raise families, volunteer, create, learn, legislate, heal, teach, fix, help, march, invent, play and love. They leave legacies that haven’t always been well-documented on paper but live in the minds, hearts and DNA of those who came after them.

Almost twenty years ago, when the YWCA stopped holding their annual banquet, Four States Living decided to pick up the torch and continue the tradition of honoring exceptional women each May in our Tribute to Women issue. We started with 11 honorees, who were each to nominate another woman for the following year, and so on. Due to unforeseen circumstances (relocations, deaths, etc), we had gotten down to just seven nominees this year, so we at the magazine decided to nominate three additional women whom we admire—women who break barriers and build community, who know how to roll with the punches and roll up their sleeves (just like Rosie the Riveter, who graces our cover this month). I may have cried reading about their lives and how they are seen by others. Hug the women in your life, and maybe splurge on a cool gift that you see advertised here this month; they undoubtedly deserve it. And as always, thanks for reading FSLM

PUBLISHER

Dr. Robin Rogers

INTERIM EDITOR

Ellen Orr

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Shane Darby

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Megan Hicks Photography

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ON THE COVER MAY 2023

Rosie the Riveter has long been an icon of American womanhood, representing the limitlessness of womankind. This month, we honor ten local women (chosen by last year’s Tribute to Women honorees, as well as by our staff) whose lives reflect the strength, communitymindedness and determination to which Rosie’s image harkens. See “A Tribute to Women” starting on page 8.

MEET THE WOMEN OF FOUR STATES

INSIDE : WOMEN OF FOUR STATES

Women in the four states area are making an impact in every industry, enterprise, and workplace imaginable.

Read more about these inspiring professionals, starting on page 18.

BAILEY Laura

lthough a native of Illinois, occupational therapist Laura Bailey has called Texarkana home for over 36 years. As an OT student at the University of Central Arkansas in Conway, she met Mark, the man she would marry. They planted themselves in Little Rock, and Laura worked at Arkansas Children’s Hospital for four years. In 1987, when Mark received a job offer in Texarkana, they loaded up their children—a toddling son (Andrew) and three-week-old daughter (Erica)—and relocated, full of hope and faith.

“We felt that the Lord was leading us to move here,” Laura said. “It took some time to adjust, but we know that Texarkana was the right place to raise our children. They had opportunities to excel in music and athletics that they may not have had in a larger city.”

In Texarkana, Laura worked in-home with private clients so that she could balance the demands of working while raising small children. She went on to serve patients at CHRISTUS St. Michael and then Encompass Rehab, where she spent 15 years. She obtained additional training in order to help people recovering from strokes. In 2007, she returned to the hospital, where she still works today—although on an “as-needed” basis, she said.

“I am slowing down but can’t give up working with patients to help them get back to as independent a level as possible,” she explained. “It is so rewarding to see others strive to improve or overcome a sudden illness or injury.”

Outside of work, Laura stays busy within her community. “I like to serve others when I see an opportunity,” she reflected, “whether that is providing therapy for a church member who would have been unable to get services, helping a neighbor while they’re out of town, helping a friend with a wedding, or cooking meals and snacks for our church youth at summer camp. You may not see me out on the front lines at some events or gatherings because I’d rather be washing dishes or cleaning behind-the-scenes.”

A caretaker through and through, at the height of the COVID-19 pandemic, Laura regularly traveled to and from Illinois to take care of her mother as she underwent cancer treatment. She cited that 15-month period as the greatest obstacle she has faced in her life. “Thankfully, I had a supportive husband, family and friends who would listen when I became frustrated and tired,” she reflected. “My faith and praying for strength and endurance also

got me through these months.”

Laura recently moved her 94-year-old aunt to Texarkana and is providing care for her. She also loves when she gets “the occasional call or text, ‘Hey Mom, can you help with the grandkids?’” she said. “Of course, I do what I can to rearrange things to be with them. I know that all too soon, they will be grown. My six precious grandchildren bring me so much joy, laughter and fun.”

FSLM ASKED LAURA ...

What’s your favorite local spot to spend time? I love going to eat at Pop’s Place.

What’s something most people don’t know about you? I hate to cook.

Who is a woman you admire?

Since I was young, I have been inspired by Wilma Rudolph. Wilma overcame childhood polio and became a sprinter and Olympic gold medalist.

VICKI HORNOK’S WORDS ON LAURA BAILEY ...

Laura and I nursed our infant daughters together while trying to keep our two-yearold boys quiet and happy. We were in a “cry closet” off the rented banquet room of the old Executive Inn that Fellowship Bible Church used as its first worship center. We were supposed to be listening to my husband preach, but we mostly just talked, helping each other stay sane as mothers of preschoolers. Thirtyfive years later, our sons and daughters are successful in their work, great parents in their homes and valuable assets to their church. Old friends are the best friends. I’m amazed at Laura. She’s a wonderful wife, mother, grandmother, occupational therapist and a Boston Marathoner! She’s a quiet spiritual giant who is often bending low to serve others. Her specialty is the elderly, who just need more patience and love than the average person can give. Most recently, I saw it in the love and care she showed my own mother. Often she’d slip by my mom’s place for a quick visit and some encouraging words. I’d only find out about her visits later when I’d hear that “Laura came by to see your mom.” And my mom was just one of dozens of people throughout the years who have been blessed by Laura’s Christ-like love. Jesus said that the greatest in His Kingdom will be those who serve. When I get to Heaven, I’m going to brag about knowing Laura here on Earth. In Russia they honor people with “low bows.” Laura gets my lowest bow.

Laura and Mark have lived in Texarkana for 36 years.

SCENE ABOUT TOWN

THE FARMERS BANK FOUNDATION

DISTINGUISHED SPEAKER SERIES HOSTED TERRY BRADSHAW, RAISING $94,000 FOR TAMUT SCHOLARSHIPS, ON APRIL 6TH

Leigh Cheek, Megan Kumpe and Judi Franks Missy and Bobby Fenton

Carol Waldrum, Megan Kumpe, Sarah Hurst and Judi Franks

Kevin Avery, Jeff McGuire and Jeff Maneth

Jamye DeHaan, Sylvia and Mike Ingram

Dee Page and Nikki Johnson

The Farmers Bank Team

Roger and Debbie Sheppard

Brad and Amanda Moore

Rachael Potter, Charlotte and David Potter

Leah Russell, Mercedes and Jason Ray

Chris Gosnell, Kevin Johnson and Clayton Wisdom

Don Morriss, Lauren Bollich, Marit Peters, Rob and Lisa Sitterley

Pete and Kecia Wolf, Keely and Mark Beldsoe

BECK Pam

Winston Churchill wrote, “We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.” Volunteer extraordinaire Pam Beck has given countless hours to the Texarkana community, and this service has shaped her life.

Born and raised in Louisiana, Pam attended an allgirls Catholic high school, which instilled in her an ethic of service. “To pass [religion class] you had to volunteer, so I started volunteering at East Jefferson Hospital as a candy striper every week,” she said. “I absolutely loved it and continued volunteering there after I graduated and until I moved to Texarkana at age 20.”

Though Pam initially relocated to Texarkana to marry, she chose to stay after getting divorced. “I thought about moving back [to Louisiana] but decided Texarkana would be a better place to raise my son, Jon Robert,” she said. She worked at Temporary Services Unlimited for Brenda Maxey, first as a temp and then in their office. At 24, when she and her then-husband purchased The Woodland Apartments, Brenda was an invaluable resource. “She taught me bookkeeping, payroll, taxes, human relations, worker’s compensation and the list goes on and on,” Pam recalled. “She taught me everything I would need to know to own my own business.”

Pam is still in property management to this day, as the sole owner and supervisor of Willow Crest Apartments in Abilene. However, in Texarkana, she is known less for how she makes a living and more for how she makes her life—through service.

Pam is the treasurer of the PGISD Education Foundation, an organization of which she has been an active member (including three years as president) since its inception in 2007. Prior to that, when her son attended Pleasant Grove, she served as PTA president, room mom and fundraiser coordinator.

She was an active member of the Junior League of Texarkana for 11 years, during which time she served “in many capacities: everything from community placements to Mistletoe Fair chairman, treasurer, community vice president and president,” Pam recalled. She currently acts as secretary and treasurer for the sustainers.

Pam is a past president of the CHRISTUS St. Michael Friends of the Foundation Board and a current member of the CHRISTUS St. Michael Foundation Board. She has especially loved volunteering with the Texas Dental Association Mission of Mercy, in partnership with St. Michael’s, to provide free dental care to people in need.

From 2005 to 2019, Pam volunteered for the Susan G. Komen Race for the Cure, three times as race chairperson. For 10 years, she sat on the Susan G. Komen Texarkana Affiliate Board, once as president.

At St. Edward Catholic Church, Pam has sat on the finance council since 2010. She is an active congregant, former Sunday-school teacher and regular volunteer.

Her most recent role is that of volunteer coordinator for the 2023 Twice as Fine Texarkana Wine Festival, benefiting the Alzheimer’s Alliance.

Volunteerism often benefits the volunteer as much as it does the community, a truth ever-present in Pam’s life. Looking back on her young adulthood—a time of single parenthood and self-employment in a new town—she reflected that volunteering was a liferaft. “Volunteering helped me find my village here in Texarkana,” she said.

FSLM ASKED PAM ...

What’s something most people don’t know about you?

I love to travel. I really just started traveling in 2015 with a trip to Rome. I had hoped I would be able to travel someplace every year. I went to India in 2016, Greece in 2017, South America in 2019 and then COVID hit. I am looking forward to traveling at the end of this year to Thailand, Vietnam, Cambodia and Laos.

What’s your favorite local spot to spend time?

I have recently started doing hot yoga at TXK Yoga with my son and daughter-in-law and am really loving it.

What words of wisdom would you offer to your past self? Don’t always focus on the finish line; enjoy the journey.

BETH PESEK’S WORDS ON PAM BECK ...

It’s an honor to nominate Pam Beck as an honoree for her dedication and commitment of giving her time and talents to serve others. I can’t recall when I first met Pam, but we’ve attended the same church for years, and I taught her son, Jon Robert, while he was a Pleasant Grove High School student. She is strong in her faith which is shown by her actions. We are currently serving together on the CHRISTUS St. Michael Foundation Board, and over the past several years, I’ve served with Pam on the CHRISTUS St. Micheal Friends of the Foundation Board. Projects we’ve worked on together include successful drawdowns and silent auctions for our church, Texarkana’s Great Duck Race sponsored by CHRISTUS St. Michael, silent auctions for CHRISTUS St. Michael’s galas and the Texas Mission of Mercy, providing free dental care to those in need. We often sit together at the 1st Choice Pregnancy Center fall fundraiser events. When I think of Pam, I see someone with a true servant’s heart. Working closely with others gives an insight to a person’s true self, and Pam is compassionate, organized and meticulous, as well as one who makes the tasks enjoyable. I love working with others who have a giving heart like Pam

Pam loves a challenge. This photo was taken when she climbed Multnomah Falls with her son, Jon Robert.

CLARK Jamiski

All who live will one day die, a truth that most people refuse to face until it becomes absolutely unavoidable. A select few, however, are called to meet death every single day with compassion, courage and grace. These people are called hospice workers.

Jamiski Clark has worked in hospice care for 15 years, beginning as an aide and then becoming a licensed vocational nurse (LVN). At Hospice of Texarkana, she has worked as an in-home nurse as well as at the in-patient unit. In 2021, she was promoted to intake nurse, a position in which she assesses patients’ needs and delegates nurses to address them. In this role, she coordinates with doctors and case managers to ensure her patients receive the best care available. With so many years of experience, she is an agile caretaker and employee, pivoting as different demands arise. “I am pretty flexible throughout the company and help wherever is needed,” she said.

While her experience and education are critical to Jamiski’s success, they are not enough; a hospice worker must also possess an abundance of passion and compassion in order to do their job well. Jamiski does.

“Providing comfort care for the patients and emotional support for the families during such difficult times is very important to me,” she said. “Making sure our patients have the best care during their last days of life has always been my goal. I want to make sure that every patient and family I come in contact with have the love and compassion they deserve and that, if nothing else, the emotional burden associated with terminal illness is lifted. I love praying for and with my patients and their families. Hospice care isn’t the easiest, but it is the most rewarding to know you provided the best care for someone before they transitioned.”

Patients feel the effects of Jamiski’s bigheartedness. One patient requested that she be the only nurse (except for RNs) to see him. In the moments before his death, Jamiski was off-duty, but the patient’s wife and caregiver both called her on her cell. “They sounded frantic and requested that I get there ASAP,” she recalled. “I was getting my oil changed but immediately asked the technician to stop, as I needed to go; this family needed me.” She made it to his home and found the patient in respiratory distress. She administered the appropri-

ate medication in order to provide relief.

“Just before this patient took his last breath,” Jamiski continued, “he looked directly at me and said, ‘Thank you. I love you.’ Then he transitioned. Being there with him and his family meant more than I can express. Knowing that I was able to get there in time enough to help him become comfortable in his final minutes of life warms my heart.”

Jamiski is a single mother to two sons. An active member of Radiant Church, she works their annual clothes drive and volunteers in their outreach ministry. She also serves a few elderly congregants by assisting them with routine medication administration, grocery-store runs and other household tasks. She is currently working toward becoming an RN.

FSLM ASKED JAMISKI ...

As a child, what did you want to be when you grew up? I wanted to be a pediatric nurse.

What’s your favorite local spot to spend time? Radiant Church.

What words of wisdom would you offer to your past self? Love yourself first so that you can effectively love others, and never allow fear to hinder you from reaching your goals in life.

SUE BARCHENGER’S WORDS ON JAMISKI CLARK ...

Several years ago, as a new volunteer for the Hospice of Texarkana in-patient unit, I kept hearing the name Jamiski. One day, this beautiful woman walked into the in-patient unit and sat next to me. I said, “Hello, I’m Sue,” and she replied, “I’m Jamiski.” Right then I sensed that we would get along great together. In that short conversation, I could tell that she was a very kind person. She has a smile that lights up a room. Jamiski never hesitates to answer my questions or help me with a task. I see her filling different roles as she is needed. When she talks about her church, her face just shines. She is as sharp as a pencil and a joy to be around. I am so grateful to get to call her my friend.

Jamiski loves serving at Radiant Church.

KATIE McCLURE MEET

by REESE LANGDON

Their hair is sky high, their dresses shimmer and their makeup is powdered on with perfection. Most would assume the glimmering girls strutting across the pageant stage would be unwilling to get their hands a little dirty. However, this stereotype is wrong, especially in the case of the newly titled Miss Texarkana’s Teen, Katie McClure.

Katie is an eighth-grader who runs cross country and track and plays basketball at DeKalb Middle School. She also competitively dances at Angela Davis School of Dance; barrel races during the summers; raises lambs, chickens and goats for livestock shows throughout Texas; and, of course, competes in pageants.

Katie’s passion for agricultural activities is not separate from her pageant life. “My platform is to encourage girls at a young age to become leaders in our communities through agriculture programs,” she said. “I want to show them that even girls who wear pretty dresses and crowns like to drive a tractor and muck out a horse stall.”

This cowgirl has always had country roots, as her father is a high school agriculture teacher and a rodeo clown, but her interest in pageants did not come until she hit the double-digits in age.

“I first started competing in pageants when I moved to DeKalb in the fourth grade,” she recalled. “I moved from a really small 1A school in Miller Grove [southwest of Sulphur Springs] that didn’t offer many activities. When I moved to DeKalb, I wanted to try everything they offered, including signing up for their annual Miss DeKalb Pageant.”

This one decision sparked an interest that led her to where she is today: inspiring so many young girls to be unapologetically who they truly are and take on leadership roles within the agriculture industry.

Katie’s platform was inspired by her realization that the men-towomen ratio in the agriculture industry is very disproportionate.

“Some of the strongest women I know are active in the agriculture community; however, they are few and far between,” she explained. Now, through the title she holds, she encourages girls and women to hop on the saddle, so to speak, in the hopes of one day seeing gender parity in the ag world.

Katie’s pageant career not only helps others, but it also helps her be the best version of herself.

“My favorite thing about pageants is how they push me to be a better person,” Katie said. “Pageants give me the self-confidence to know that I can be me. I may not win every pageant; I may not be the most talented or the best speaker. But I know that if I did my best, then I can be proud of myself.”

Although the audience, judges and Instagram followers might not see it, competing pageants is a very difficult hobby to pursue and requires serious dedication. With the Miss Texas Teen pageant coming up in June, Katie knows that hours and hours of practice are in her future.

“I have to prepare a fitness routine, perfect my talent and work on walking in heels in a long dress,” she said. “The most challenging thing with the Miss Texas Teen pageant is doing my own hair and makeup. No one is allowed to help us backstage, so I have been practicing hair and makeup techniques as well.”

Another difficult aspect of the pageant life is flawless execution of the interview portion. Katie has to answer questions without stuttering or using filler words.

“Although I love to meet new people, the interview portion is always a challenge,” Katie admitted. “I never really know what questions I will be asked, and I struggle with self-doubt, so I am always unsure if I answered the question correctly.”

That self-doubt sometimes has Katie wondering, ‘“How can I compete with that?’” when watching the other candidates, she said. She copes with these anxieties by trusting her hard work and making sure that the judges can see that she is confident and having fun.

To anyone considering the pageant lifestyle, Katie would highly recommend it.

“If someone were to tell me that they wanted to start doing pageants, I would tell them that it can be one of the most empowering experiences that they will ever have,” she said. “It takes a lot of courage to get on stage and be judged by others. If they let their personality shine through and be confident in who they are, they can never go wrong.”

Best of luck to DeKalb’s own at Miss Texas Teen USA 2023.

Reese Langdon is a senior at Texas High School. She is an editor in chief for the Tiger Times Newspaper and has been awarded many ILPC and TAJE writing awards. Reese is a dancer at Judith McCarty and a Texas HighStepper, where she also serves as their social president. She will be attending the University of Alabama and majoring in Political Science in the upcoming fall.

photo by SHANE DARBY

“My favorite thing about pageants is how they push me to be a better person”

SCENE ABOUT TOWN

OPPORTUNITIES, INC HELD ITS 2ND ANNUAL SUNDAY FUNDAY FUNDRAISER ON APRIL 2ND

Samantha Harris, Lacy White and Danielle Patterson

Vickers Fuqua, Corie Woodman, Carla Nichols, Joe Crane, Sherry Young, Stacy Yates, Sonja Hubbard and Megan Schoeder

Nicole and Matt Wilson

Corie Woodman and Sherry Young

Kimberly McCorkle, Alison Mayo and Yuliana McGee

Brandie Bristow, Ginny Asimos and Stephanie Shuffield

Chace Rains

Taylor Harvey, Whitney Fuqua, Naquetta Black and Sherry Young

Becca Fite, Joe and Dr. Cheryl Saul-Sehy

CORBIN Lee Ann

Lee Ann Corbin is the assistant superintendent of curriculum and instruction for Redwater ISD, the district she has called home for 14 years. Prior to 2009, she taught K-12 students and adults all over Texas, with no plans to work in administration; teaching was her calling.

“The first time I was put in charge of teaching a class [as a student teacher], I suddenly had clarity: I was born to teach but didn’t know it until that day,” she said. “I remember telling my fellow teachers I would never be a school principal.”

Lee Ann’s passion for teaching never waned, but after many years in the classroom, she realized she could serve her students in other ways. “My dad, who passed away in 2022, taught me that, when you see something that needs to change, you have two choices—do something about it or quietly persevere; complaining is not a choice,” she said. “As a mature and experienced teacher, I was beginning to see how my skills could help improve the school system on a broader level.”

In 2012, Lee Ann began a principal certification program and stepped into an administrative role the following year. “I have been extremely fortunate to work in a district that recognized my potential and offered the opportunity to move from teaching to school leadership,” she reflected. She served as an assistant principal for two years before being named the campus principal for Redwater Junior High School.

At the junior high, Lee Ann and her team initiated various school-improvement efforts, which were then sustained by her successor, current principal Kim Cody. As a result, the campus was recognized by the US Department of Education as a Blue Ribbon School. This award signifies that the campus offers exemplary academic performance and is making significant progress in closing achievement gaps.

For the past five years, Lee Ann has worked in central administration, first as the director of curriculum and instruction and now as assistant superintendent. “It has been an honor and a privilege to serve in four different roles within the school district,” she said. “I love Redwater.”

Lee Ann and her husband, Tod, have two grown children—Jared Corbin and Presley Angiel. Lee Ann does not consider herself an empty nester, however: “We have Zoey, a senior dog of mixed heritage, whom we dote upon,” she said. When she is neither working nor doting, Lee Ann enjoys traveling, a passion instilled upon her as a high school student.

“I graduated from the culturally diverse Santa Fe public school system,” she said. “I took advantage of opportunities to travel abroad while in high school, visiting six European countries over a three-week period. With the high school band, I traveled out of the country every other year to perform goodwill concerts. I celebrated my sixteenth birthday in Greece and traveled to Spain my senior year. I think I’ve had the travel bug ever since.”

Lee Ann and Tod travel twice a year, both internationally and domestically. In between big trips, they love exploring the Ark-La-Tex. “We own a 2006 Mazda Miata convertible that previously belonged to my dad,” Lee Ann said. “We put the top down and zoom around the four states area looking for adventure. I imagine my dad is smiling down on us, having fun in his little red car.”

KATHY ALLEN’S WORDS ON LEE ANN CORBIN ...

FSLM ASKED LEE ANN ...

What book are you currently reading?

The Donkey Principle: The Secret to Long-Haul Living in a Racehorse World by Rachel Anne Ridge. It’s about understanding your unique strengths and using them to mine all the gold that’s already within you.

What’s your favorite local spot to spend time?

I enjoy walking at Spring Lake Park.

What words of wisdom would you offer to your past self?

Embrace failure as an opportunity for growth rather than a measure of selfworth.

During my career, I’ve had the pleasure of working with some of the most talented, smartest, most giving individuals in the world. I’ve learned immensely from being in their presence. One of those fine people is Lee Ann Corbin. I first met Lee Ann when I became superintendent of Redwater ISD in 2014. She was a high school assistant principal who had been assigned to oversee the junior high as part of her duties. After observing her exceptional work during my first year at Redwater, I recommended to the board that the junior high become a separate campus as it once had been, with Lee Ann as its principal. As principal, Lee Ann helped the junior high regain their identity, improved morale and put instructional practices into place that initiated the trajectory toward the junior high being named a Texas Blue Ribbon School in 2020, a program that recognizes schools based upon their overall academic excellence and their progress in closing achievement gaps. During her tenure as principal, Lee Ann implemented a unique flex period for accelerated learning and tutoring students who were behind, organized a career fair, created end-of-grading period “Taking Care of Business” parties to celebrate student educational victories and initiated student travel programs. Eventually, Lee Ann’s talents led her to becoming the district curriculum director and then to her current position of assistant superintendent. I have observed Lee Ann as a woman who shows strength, courage, discernment and compassion. She is grace under fire and a leader you can trust.

Lee Ann and Tod spend weekends exploring the Ark-La-Tex in their Miata. “Everything is better in a convertible,” she said.

FANT Nicole N

icole Fant was born and raised, and still resides, in Linden, Texas. However, she has become an honorary Texarkanan, spending countless hours working at CHRISTUS St. Michael Hospital–Atlanta and CHRISTUS St. Michael Health System as a RN Program Manager, as well as at Texas A&M–Texarkana as a member of the nursing faculty. Passionate about research, she recently earned her PhD in Nursing Science from Texas Woman’s University.

Nicole’s path to nursing began in her childhood. “From the age of seven or eight, up until I graduated high school, I would often go with my mom, who is a nurse, to work,” she said. “I would hang out at the nurses’ station and in the lab with my grandmother.”

After high school, Nicole attended Texarkana College, where she earned her associate degree in nursing. She then pursued a bachelor’s in nursing science and a master’s in nursing administration, both at TAMU-T. For the past four years, she has served as a full-time instructor at the university where she was trained, sharing her lifelong passion with students. “I love teaching and

hope to instill in my nursing students a love of service, advocacy and compassion,” she said.

Compassion is a key aspect of healthcare, which Nicole understands firsthand: her middle child, Averie, died at nine-days-old. “Having to make the decision to place her on comfort care was the hardest decision I have ever made,” she said. “Being a nurse helped me make my decision because I knew she would have no quality of life, but grieving as a mother afterwards was not something I was prepared for. Nurses grieve differently.” That grief undoubtedly informs Nicole’s nursing practice and pedagogy.

Nicole is a committee member and research collaborator at CHRISTUS St. Michael Health System. She is also a board member of the CHRISTUS St. Michael Hospital - Atlanta Foundation and serves as board secretary for the Linden-Kildare CISD School Board. She lives with her husband, Kevin Fant, and daughters Kynlee (13) and Hadlee (9) on their farm in Cass County. They attend Pinecrest Baptist Church.

FSLM ASKED NICOLE ...

What book are you currently reading?

I am currently reading Go Tell the Bees That I Am Gone by Diana Gabaldon (part of the Outlander series).

What’s your favorite local spot to spend time?

I love to go eat at TLC Burgers & Fries.

As a child, what did you want to be when you grew up?

An ag teacher. Participation in FFA events instilled a love for service and leadership. I still use my ag background with my cattle and timber farm.

SUSANNE TULLOS’ WORDS ON NICOLE FANT ...

I have known Nicole for four years. Little did I realize the energy that this young woman possesses. It soon became apparent as she settled into teaching. She quickly set about applying for and receiving “experiential learning” designation for several of her courses. Nicole realized that this designation on students’ transcripts could give students an advantage with prospective employers. She continues to be an advocate for her students by serving on numerous nursing department and university committees, and by coordinating the MSN program. She is an exemplary nurse with a genuine interest in research. Nicole brings her passion for research into the classroom. She encourages students not only to recognize the importance of research in providing patient care but also to conduct research themselves. She has a keen ability to see the potential for research in any situation and is actively involved in writing grants to secure funding. Nicole sets high standards for her students and models this behavior in both class and clinicals. She continually strives to foster a sense of professionalism and service. Nicole recently took a group of students to Nurses Day at the Capitol in Austin. How better to demonstrate professional advocacy and service? Nicole ensures that her students understand the importance of responsibility and accountability, stressing that each patient deserves respectful, compassionate, high-quality care. She emphasizes that lives depend on the actions they will take. Nicole shares her nursing practice experience and passion for nursing and research daily as she educates future nurses.

Nicole and her family live on a cattle and timber farm in Linden, Texas.

SCENE ABOUT TOWN

THE TEXARKANA, TX COUNCIL OF GARDEN CLUBS HOSTED THEIR 4TH ANNUAL BOUQUET OF GARDEN CLUBS IN THE GREAT ROOM AT THE TRUMAN ARNOLD CENTER ON MARCH 10TH.

Sherry Hawkins & Pat Nance

Nikki Laing & Carol Hodgson

Debra Tucker & Terrie Webb

Linda Clem, Carol Hodgson & Devona Cowling

Vara Hart & Belinda Lum

Beth Pesek & Lydia Horton

Betty Feir & Jodie Smith

PACK Kelly A

udiologist Kelly Pack was born and raised in the small Louisiana village of Choudrant, which covers 4.28 square miles of land and is home to under 1,000 residents. “No one ever knows where it is, so I usually just say Ruston,” she laughed. Though there are charms to small-town life, Kelly knows firsthand the struggles of which big-city dwellers are totally unaware.

“Access to quality medical care wasn’t always available to me growing up,” she explained, “so it is something I am very sensitive to. One of the things I set out to do with my practice [Professional Hearing Services] was to identify the areas I could serve that were being underserved in our community.”

Audiologists like Kelly primarily diagnose, treat and manage hearing loss and balance disorders. Empowering patients through hearing aids is a key aspect of her day-today work—and it is incredibly rewarding.

“Yesterday, a farmer told me he heard a bee for the first time in a really long time,” she said. “Sometimes people tell me they forgot how beautiful the rain sounded until they got their hearing aids, or that they can now hear the birds again. It’s those little things we all take for granted that I think make our life so full. Once my stepfather was

bow hunting in Canada, and he heard a bear coming up behind him; we joke that hearing aids actually saved him from being eaten by a bear.”

Kelly has been living and practicing in Texarkana since 2014, when her husband, Andrew, was transferred here by his employer. “At the time, we didn’t think Texarkana would be our forever home, but we absolutely fell in love with the community and never looked back,” she said.

As she came to know the needs of the community, Kelly recognized that tinnitus patients were being underserved— so she added tinnitus management to her practice. “That was hard, as it’s not something I had been well trained in, and it took a long time to learn, but the service was needed,” she said. “And then one day a patient told me they no longer felt suicidal because they finally felt that their tinnitus was controllable, and I cried, in front of the patient. I knew that God had put me on that path for a reason.”

Soon, another need made itself apparent: “Patients began to tell me that they could not travel to Dallas or Little Rock to get access to cochlear implant services,” Kelly said, “so we have expanded to include services for all cochlear implant devices and brought in an amazing new audiologist, Dr. Stephanie Winfield, to head that up.”

Kelly continues to learn, innovate and grow her practice. She noted that soon, PHS will expand to offer more pediatric services. She and her team are also committed to helping patients from all socioeconomic backgrounds. “We want to remove more barriers for people who aren’t able to afford hearing services,” she said. “We may have big things cooking on that front . . . Stay tuned.”

FSLM ASKED KELLY ...

What’s something most people don’t know about you?

I once had to bail my goat out of jail.

What’s your favorite local spot to spend time?

You will frequently find me at any of the local gardening centers—especially Little Country Greenhouse and Twitty Nursery—perusing the plants for inspiration and absorbing the knowledge from the owners.

What words of wisdom would you offer to your past self?

Brené Brown wrote, “There is no innovation or creativity without failure.” I wish I had known what a beautiful first step to success that failure can be.

SHANE DARBY’S WORDS ON KELLY PACK ...

It took less than two seconds. When asked if I knew anyone worthy for the 2023 Tribute to Women, I had zero hesitation: it had to be Kelly Pack. I don’t know anyone who works so hard and loves so much. She’s a wonderful mother and wife—not to mention a very successful audiologist here in town. Chances are, if you’ve ever had issues with your hearing, you have met Kelly (or you will, because someone told you how great she is). She has been known for her kindness and intelligence ever since we were kids growing up together in our small Louisiana hometown. Fast-forward an undisclosed number of years (so as not to reveal anyone’s age), and she moved with her husband to Texarkana, where they have made a wonderful home with their eight-year-old son, John Preston. The life she’s built here inspired me to move here, too. As I establish myself in the community, I encounter more and more people who have been blessed by Kelly, both professionally and personally. I love seeing how Texarkana has embraced her as the incredible person I have always known her to be. Kelly moves mountains for her friends, family and patients, and I feel very lucky to know her.

SCENE ABOUT TOWN

THE TEXARKANA HOME BUILDERS ASSOCIATION

PRESENTED THE 2023 TEXARKANA HOME & GARDEN SHOW ON MARCH 25TH

Nick Graves and Lorie Owen

DeMita Torrans, Dot Williford and Claire Field

Doyal Reed and Chris Wright

Jay Davis and Eric Cain

Rosalyn Brookes and Heath Hawkins

Shanna Pollins and Becky Easley

Bridgett Putteet, Kelli Cameron and Casey Moore

Alicia Morales, Toni Braley, Tefany Boyer and Ashley Rodgers

Miles Lafferty, Cindy Smith and Mark Lafferty

Stephen Cross and Penny Everett

Kelly Bishop and Morgan Garner

RICHARD Taylor

When Taylor Richard, the recruitment coordinator for Texarkana College, talks to prospective students about the value of TC, she speaks from experience. A Texarkana native, Taylor spent her formative years as an active student and competitive dancer before setting off for Texas State University in pursuit of a degree in dance. After three semesters, she returned home from San Marcos, ready to put TC’s motto—“a great place to start or start over”—to the test.

“I knew I enjoyed being creative and thinking outside of the box, and someone mentioned cosmetology to me,” Taylor recalled. “I did some quick research and learned that Texarkana College had a great cosmetology program. I decided right then and there that this was what I was going to do. It was a decision that changed my life. I’m very grateful for the TC cosmetology program and the life lessons I was taught while in the program that shaped me to be who I am today.”

Upon earning her certification, Taylor practiced as a working cosmetologist for three years before returning to TC as an instructor. She taught for five years, until October 2022, when she accepted

an administrative position on the recruitment team. Having herself been a young adult in need of guidance, Taylor is motivated every day by the desire to help prospective students find their niches. “My passion for my career has been driven by student success,” she said. “I enjoy helping students find what they enjoy most and helping them succeed along the way.”

TC, like all community colleges, offers a variety of paths for student success; one of Taylor’s favorites is the workforce education program, which encompasses cosmetology (near and dear to her), construction, business office technology, culinary arts and more. “Our workforce programs open doors for many students, without those students having to attend school for an extended amount of time,” she explained. In March of this year, Taylor coordinated a “signing day” event for high school students planning to enter the workforce education program. This event “shined a light” on the programs and their excellence, she said, of which she is deeply proud.

Outside of work, Taylor and her husband, Kayde Richard, are proud parents to one son, Bran-

son. “Having Branson has shaped me to be more courageous and strongerwilled,” she said. “I make it my job to be sure I raise a kind and respectful man, while also showing him how to be disciplined and steadfast in your commitments. Having a child was life altering for me and I have enjoyed every second of it.”

FSLM ASKED TAYLOR ...

What’s something most people don’t know about you?

I was Clara in the 2009 Texarkana Community Ballet’s production of The Nutcracker

What’s your favorite local spot to spend time?

I love going to Local Habit. I enjoy going to a coffee shop to relax, and Local Habit is so different from any other coffee shop in town. I can escape there for an hour and unwind.

Name a woman you admire.

My aunt, Angie Reed. She is an amazing example of a woman who gives back to those in need and never expects anything in return. She is selfless and a hard worker. She owns her own contracting company in Tyler, Texas.

SUZY IRWIN’S WORDS ON TAYLOR RICHARD ...

I have known Taylor since she was a little girl, and I have watched her grow into a successful young professional who excels at everything she puts her heart into. Taylor has a beautiful way of connecting to people of all ages and bringing smiles and joy into every room she enters. As a young girl, Taylor and my daughters, Katy Beth and Natalie Irwin, grew up together and shared their love for dance. The girls were members of Texarkana Dance Academy’s competition dance team, and our families traveled together for many years to compete all around Texas and on several occasions across the US. We all watched as Taylor excelled at ballet, and we admired her grace and stage presence. Taylor’s dedication and skill landed her the coveted part of Clara in Texarkana Community Ballet’s production of The Nutcracker —and she was outstanding in the role! Now, more than 10 years later, as fate should have it, Taylor and I work side-by-side at Texarkana College. Through her leadership as TC’s student recruitment coordinator, Taylor and her teammates have initiated innovative ideas and developed a deeper level of community engagement that benefits future students and the workforce of our region. It has been a true delight to come full-circle with Taylor—from watching her grow and develop through childhood, to now working together as cohorts at TC.

TAYLOR Candace M

ost creatives take nine-to-five “day jobs” to support their art. For occupational therapist and vocalist Candace Taylor, that has not been the case.

“It is difficult to speak of my occupation as a therapist without discussing the role music played,” she said. A cellist and singer since childhood, she relied in-part on music scholarships to attend Northeast Louisiana University, where she earned her bachelor’s degree in occupational therapy. “Music has been my God-given gift and talent that has literally paved a way for me to do the work I love with passion,” she said.

As a child, Candace was on the quiet side. “I spent a lot of time listening,” she reflected. “If I did not know something, I would go on a search to figure it out on my own, instead of asking a lot of questions.” But she “inherently did yearn to engage [with] people,” made evident not only in her musical performance but also in her desire to help others. With an aptitude for science and psychology, she felt pulled to work as an OT.

“I use my specific skill set to help people, and I enjoy doing it,” Candace said. “I take my work very seriously. I [am driven] to help people to gain independence and achieve their goals in their given circumstances and life roles. It’s a two-way street when it comes to my clients and patients; we are always teaching each other, which makes for an eventful day, each and every day.”

Candace was born and raised in Shreveport, and she began her OT career there as well. In 2004, her partner (now husband) Marc-André Bougie, started commuting to Texarkana for his work with the Texarkana Symphony Orchestra. Over the next two years, the couple came to know more and more of the Texarkana arts community. Through these connections, Candace “was made aware of a job opening for an occupational therapist at CHRISTUS Health,” she said.

“Although I loved my work in Shreveport, I had been preparing to sit for my hand therapy certification examination, and I wanted to be in a setting where I could primarily focus and concentrate on the rehabilitation of disorders of the upper extremity,” she explained. “The job opening at CHRISTUS turned out to be the perfect career opportunity for me to pursue my goals and passion.” Candace, along with Marc-André and their daughter, Miriam Taylor Bougie, has lived in Texarkana for the past 17 years. “This is home,” she said.

Candace serves in the music ministry at Sacred Heart Catholic Church. She sings with the Texarkana Regional Chorale and regularly performs to benefit local organizations, such as Harvest Texarkana, Texarkana Resources and the Alzheimer’s Alliance. She is on the board of Hospice of Texarkana.

Besides teachers, musical and otherwise, Candace’s greatest influence is her mother, Lillie Starks

Taylor, who passed in March 2022. “Losing my mother last year and very suddenly was difficult,” she said. “Every gift I feel that I have been given was nurtured by her. I’m still dealing with [her death].

I think of her every day, mostly just missing her. She gave the greatest examples of faith, hope and love embodied. She taught me to be steadfast and to pray/meditate without ceasing. She also taught me that it’s okay to be busy, but also to know your limitations and don’t stretch too far.”

ROBIN ROGERS’ WORDS ON CANDACE TAYLOR ...

FSLM ASKED CANDACE ...

What book are you currently reading?

Jesus and the Jewish Roots of Mary by Brant Pitre.

Name a girl or woman you admire.

Miriam Bougie (daughter) and Nina Simone.

As a child, what did you want to be when you grew up?

An engineer; I like to design and build things. Luckily, as a hand therapist, I get to design and build pretty cool splints and orthotics that help people regain hand function.

I was first introduced to Candace Taylor through her music. When Candace sings—whether with the Texarkana Regional Chorale, the Candace Taylor Trio, as a soloist or in any other configuration—you can’t help but stop and listen. As she performs often for local nonprofit events, I have been blessed to hear her numerous times, and each time, I’ve been enraptured by the depth and beauty of her performance. Additionally, in the last few years, my daughter Emily has received hand therapy from Candace, and she has become even more of a celebrity in our household. Emily raves about Candace. Her skill as an OT has alleviated Emily’s chronic pain immensely. Further, her warmth and kindness have made hand therapy one of Emily’s favorite weekly activities (seriously—she won’t miss it for anything). Candace radiates light, gives back to the community generously and performs with a gift that has no doubt been developed through hard work but also seems divinely bestowed in its power. I have told her several times that I think she would steal the hearts of America if she competed on a vocal talent show! I am so glad to know her and am beyond grateful that she and her beautiful family choose to call Texarkana their home.

The Taylor-Bougie family is actively involved in the downtown arts community.

SCENE ABOUT TOWN

HARVEST REGIONAL FOOD BANK’S 17TH ANNUAL WINE & JAZZ GALA WAS HELD FRIDAY, MARCH 31ST

Denis and Mary Washington

Tommy and Camille Wrinkle

Chiquita Burks and Rhonda Dolberry

Melvin and Joyce Fagan

Caroline Sutherland, LaWanda Rich and Suzy Irwin Judy Morgan and Susan Robbins

Ryan Satterfield, Tracy Latham and Douglas Dietz Melanie Payne and Nancy Coker Katherine and Cynthia Stone

Lydia Ashley and Tyler Ashley

Dani Hamblett, Jill Whittington and Traci Pitman

Amy Warren and Mary Washington Emily Starnes, Jaime Ward, Brittney Cowling and Meagan Garrison Ben and Amy King

Heather Dickens, Ginger LaVoice and Paige Mims

Traci Pitman and Dr. Robin Rogers

Mike and Sylvia Ingram, Stella Sharp, Yulin and Jerry Brewer, and Dr. Rick Sharp

WITTERSTAETTER Elodia E

lodia Witterstaetter is the principal of Westlawn Elementary School. She is a devoted educator and was recently honored by the Texas Elementary Principals and Supervisors Association for her outstanding leadership; this same organization in 2020 named her the Region 8 Assistant Principal of the Year. Despite her aptitude and passion, Elodia did not dream of working in educational administration—or of working in education at all.

“I stepped into education by accident,” she said. In 2003, a few years out of high school, Elodia was hired as a receptionist at Texas Middle School. In the two decades since, she has also worked for TISD as secretary, administrative assistant to a principal, administrative assistant to an assistant superintendent, middle school math teacher, assistant principal at Nash and campus principal at Westlawn (her current role). “Each position has provided me with different learning experiences and opportunities to grow both personally and professionally,” she said.

The child of immigrants and a first-generation college graduate, Elodia earned an associate’s degree from Texarkana College with highest honors in 2007. In 2009, she was awarded a bachelor’s degree from Texas A&M University–Texarkana. She continued at TAMU-T in pursuit of her Master of Education in Educational Administration, which she completed in 2013. This month, she will complete

her superintendency certification studies with The Ratliff Academy. Elodia’s educational achievements are heads and shoulders above what her younger self imagined possible.

“I didn’t believe that higher education was in my future and was not aware of all the opportunities that were available,” she said, referring to the opportunities presented not only by TC and A&M but also by Texarkana ISD; TISD’s Pathway to Education program empowered Elodia to earn her degree while working as a paraprofessional for the district. “I do what I do because of educators who believed in me long before I believed in myself,” she reflected.

In 2018, Elodia joined Leadership Texarkana, an experience which changed her outlook on community involvement. “Engaging with my community has been a journey in itself, as I spent several years working full-time, going back to school and raising a family,” she said. “Leadership Texarkana gave me the opportunity to work with great community members who are committed to working together with a focus on community excellence, pride and progress. This was a great learning experience on how we can all contribute to make a difference in our community.”

Since becoming a Leadership Texarkana graduate, Elodia has joined the Junior League of Texarkana and been named the recording secretary for the Tough Kookie Foundation.

Alongside her husband, Randy, Elodia is the parent of three children: 19-year-old Randall (a student at TC), 17-year-old Ryan (who attends Texas High) and 12-year-old Riley (who is at Texas Middle School). “I could not have continued with my educational journey without the full support of my husband and family,” she said. “Our prayer is that we set a positive example for our children and model a strong work ethic and dedication to whatever we set our minds to.”

FSLM ASKED ELODIA ...

What’s something most people don’t know about you?

I walked down the aisle on our wedding day to Elvis Presley’s “Love Me Tender.”

Name a woman you admire.

My mami, Rosa Rodriguez, inspires me. She is always letting my siblings and me know how proud she is of all of us and has pushed us to continue with our education. Neither of my parents were able to finish school when they moved to the States, but she remained persistent and modeled for us what a strong work ethic and determination looked like. She had a goal to become a U.S citizen and was determined to accomplish that goal in her 40s.

What’s your favorite local spot to spend time?

Verona Restaurant and Wine Bar, Twisted Fork and Benchmark American Brasserie.

VICTORIA HERMAN’S WORDS ON ELODIA WITTERSTAETTER ...

I met Elodia through the Junior League of Texarkana, as we are both current members. Last year, I served on the Mistletoe Market committee, and she came to volunteer at the event. When we were first introduced, she struck me as a kind, bubbly person and someone I’d like to get to know better in the future. Then, this past March, I spotted her name in a TISD press release. I was so impressed to read that she was being recognized by the Texas Elementary Principals and Supervisors Association as one of 20 noteworthy school administrators in the entire state. As impressed as I was, I was not surprised; though our interactions have been limited, Elodia’s reputation as smart, kind and hardworking precedes her. Texarkana is fortunate to have her, and I am thrilled that she is receiving the accolades she has earned and so clearly deserves. I look forward to getting to know her better and watching her continue to soar as a local leader.

YOUNG Sandra Dodd

Texarkana native Sandra Dodd Young graduated from Texarkana ISD in 1965—the year that the district began a slow process of racial desegregation, starting with the first grade and moving up year by year. Though Sandra and her classmates at Sunset Elementary and Dunbar Junior and Senior High Schools received fewer resources than their white counterparts, she recalls her K-12 education as “the best.”

“It was all we knew,” she said. “No time was wasted on wishing for something that we had never experienced. Our teachers were people we knew from our homes, our churches, our neighborhoods. We were taught so much more than academics— both in and out of school, from the same people.” Her uncle served as a district principal, and her mother taught second grade at Sunset.

By junior high, she and her classmates had come to understand the inequity of their educational system, noticing things like “new” textbooks that had been retired from the white campuses. Still, Sandra “loved every minute of school,” she said.

After graduation, she attended one year at Texarkana College. TC had technically integrated in 1963, with the admittance of Linda Ruth Tolbert and Albirda P. Briley, but in 1965, the campus was still hostile to Black students.

Sandra transferred to Fisk University, an HBCU in Nashville, Tennessee. She studied educa-

tion and psychology and earned both a bachelor’s and master’s degree, thinking she would go into counselling or early childhood education. However, she accepted a position teaching reading at a junior high and unexpectedly “found [her] niche.” She taught English language arts for many years and acquired various administrative credentials before eventually pursuing a doctorate in education. Her dissertation was on teaching grammar in the 21st century.

“I was always enrolling in something to learn more,” she said. “My recently deceased brother, my only sibling, never stopped teasing me about going to school. He would ask, ‘Are you going to do that forever?’”

Ten years ago, Sandra retired. She and her husband, Jimmie, live with Sandra’s mother, Essie Dodd. “My mother has truly been my role model,” Sandra said. “The answer to the question, ‘Name the greatest teacher you ever had,’ will forever be ‘Mom,’ who happened to have been a teacher by profession as well. We attend Texas Retired Teachers meetings together.”

Both of her parents, she reflected, shaped her into the educator she was and the community member she is today. “My mother says she was teaching me at home all the time, and she was, although, the person I remember correcting my speaking and grammar was my dad,” Sandra said.

“If I misused a word, all he had to do was look at me, and I could immediately correct myself.” But more than grammar lessons, “they were shaping me to be kind, considerate, respectful, loving and positive; to find the good in whomever; no big ‘I’s and no little ‘you’s . . . the list could go on.”

Sandra is an active member of St. Paul Missionary Baptist Church, Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority and Las Amigas Civic and Social Club.

FSLM ASKED SANDRA ...

As a child, what did you want to be when you grew up?

Growing up, I watched “I Love Lucy” so much that I wanted to be a comedian.

What book are you currently reading?

Situationally, I refer to a book given to me by a close friend when I retired. It is People Can’t Drive You Crazy If You Don’t Give Them the Keys by Dr. Mike Bechtle.

Name a woman you admire. Michelle Obama.

SHELIA DUKES’ WORDS ON SANDRA YOUNG ...

I feel honored to select Dr. Sandra Dodd Young as one of the 2023 Tribute to Women honorees. Dr. Dodd is a retired educator of over 42 years, having worked in California and Texas school districts. Although she’s retired, she continues to use her teaching skills to help others learn in whatever capacity needed. I have known Dr. Young for many years and have always admired her sweet spirit. We have worked together in different organizations, including on different community projects, which has given me an opportunity to know her for who she really is. She has a very humble spirit, which resonates in her interactions with others. There are many worldly accolades that I could list for her, but they are all overshadowed by her apparent love for Jesus Christ, her family and her friends. She’s a caregiver for her mother and others, as well as an active volunteer in her church and in the community. Her volunteer contributions are too many to list, but she’s always doing something for someone. When asked, she’s always willing to help in almost any endeavor. Dr. Dodd is someone admired by me and many others. She is definitely worthy of this recognition.

Jimmie and Sandra enjoying an evening out.

With spring in full bloom, love is in the air, and future brides and grooms are scoping out venues, vendors and ideas to plan their perfect nuptial celebrations. The wedding of Hannah Massey and Ethan Eppinette caught our attention for a number of reasons, and we knew our readers would want the first look. Whether you’re planning a wedding yourself, daydreaming for the future or just appreciate a beautiful celebration of love, enjoy this glimpse into the Massey-Eppinette fairytale.

Massey + Eppinette

JANUARY 28, 2023

PHOTOGRAPHY BY MEGAN HICKS PHOTOGRAPHY

HANNAH MASSEY & ETHAN EPPINETTE

A SEASON OF LOVE

Ethan and I had dated for almost five years when he proposed. We are best friends and could not wait to get married! We really enjoyed planning our wedding together with our families and friends!

LOVE IS IN THE AIR

Ethan and I are high school sweethearts. We met on a blind date that neither of us wanted to go on, to the point we drove separate “getaway” cars. However, we became best friends quickly and loved spending time with each other’s families, going to the golf course together and hanging out with friends. After multiple years of long distance between us during college, with help from supportive friends and family, we made it through. One of the special parts of getting married for us was being able to share our celebration with all of our friends from different walks of life.

A SENTIMENTAL PROPOSAL

Ethan played golf at a high level in the junior and college ranks, and he also played a short stint of professional golf. We also originally met at a golf course. With that being said, I was not surprised when we had both families going to the golf course to take what I thought were “family photos.” That day turned into an amazing, unforgettable and surprising proposal on Hole 3 at Texarkana Country Club!

MAGICAL WINTER WEDDING

We weren’t particularly excited to find out that it was going to rain on our wedding day. However, the rain just added to the ambience of our winter wedding. It also made for fun photos and a cozy day… with hot chocolate, coffee and s’mores! And, only a few people got wet! Good music, dancing and lots of dessert made up for any difficulties throughout the day.

THE GRAND EXIT

One of our favorite parts of the day was the exit. We had sparklers, and we borrowed a snow machine from a friend, so we could have a snow exit in 50° weather. This addition made it feel like a winter wonderland, and it was so much fun to walk through the “snow” at our winter wedding before we left!

Massey + Eppinette

WEDDING VENUE: The Carriage House at Big Oak Hill Ranch

RECEPTION VENUE: The Carriage House at Big Oak Hill Ranch

CAKE DESIGNER: Maddie Cakes

FLORIST: The Village

PHOTOGRAPHER: Megan Hicks Photography

VIDEOGRAPHER: Blue Shadow Film

RENTALS: Dot’s Rentals

BAND/DJ: Sam O’Donnell

JEWELER: Alexander’s Jeweler

HONEYMOON: Sandals at Montego Bay, Jamaica

HISTORY HAPPENS...

by VELVET HALL COOL Board President of the Texarkana Museums System

History happens to each of us. Whether we are planning for it or not, the elements of time cannot be altered, delayed or stopped. Our plans may move smoothly—or make a turn, twist or complete loop-deloop. The 1973 centennial time capsule, at various points, underwent all of the various permutations that time may cause.

Fifty years ago, on April 12, 1973, community members buried a time capsule at Sheppard Park, in commemoration of the 100th anniversary of Texarkana’s founding. As the marker in front of the downtown courthouse decreed, it was opened last month, on April 12, 2023, exactly 50 years later.

We believe that documentation was created—some type of roadmap for the excavation and opening, perhaps an itemized list of the capsule’s contents. However, aside from brief notes and some personal diaries, the TXK150 committee could not locate any truly helpful documents detailing the type of capsule, the specific location or any of the contents we might expect to find.

Another huge factor that the TXK150 committee fretted over was the quality of the time capsule and the contents encased within. Would it end up being a vessel that had not stood the test of time? Would water and air have entirely destroyed the items within?

After reaching out on social media, word began to trickle in from people who were involved fifty years ago and their relatives. One family had been told that the capsule contained a wonderfully detailed letter left by their grandparents that recapped what they were doing the day the capsule was buried. Would we find it intact?

Once we located and excavated the burial site, we found a high-grade burial vault (a generous donation by East Funeral Home), wrapped in heavy plastic. When the firefighters pried it open, we found that some of the items inside were also wrapped in plastic. The 1973 committee planned well to ensure the best survival possible of their time capsule. Thank you, forefathers, for excellent planning.

As I was handed a stack of items from the time capsule by my TXK150 cochair, Keith Beason, I noticed a package wrapped and taped and labeled and labeled and labeled. I recognized the name immediately—that of the aforementioned family—and I was literally almost moved to tears to know that the grandson who remained was going to be able to take this package, left for him by his grandparents, and share it with the son of his sister, who had passed away.

Despite the high-quality vault and the layers of plastic, the contents still managed to get a little wet. Sometimes you can overmanufacture a project; I believe the bucket of desiccant they placed in the vault to absorb moisture actually cracked at some point and contributed to the water and mildew that damaged some of the objects.

All in all, the majority of the objects just need a little time and TLC from Jamie Simmons, curator at the Museum of Regional History, before they can be properly inventoried and returned to their loved ones. The museum currently contains tables and tables of letters to the community and loved ones, lots of centennial memorabilia and directories from civic organizations and local businesses. It has been a great pleasure to work with our community and the TXK150 committee to see the memories of 1973 Texarkana literally brought to the surface. We leave bits and pieces of us behind, though not often as ceremoniously as burying a time capsule to be opened after the passing of so much time. Seeing how much memories mean when they are wrapped in pomp and ceremony makes me wish we could find more ways to celebrate the small, personal, historic moment.

Born and raised in Texarkana, Velvet Hall Cool has strong ties to both Texas and Arkansas but will always consider herself a Class of ‘87 Razorback. She loves to share stories of her nine wonderful grandchildren. When it comes to listening, you can always perk up her ears with stories that speak to personal history and the lessons we learn during our lifelong journeys.

MAY 2023

MAY 6

The Alzheimer’s Alliance Tri-State Area will hold its eighth annual Twice as Fine Texarkana Wine Festival from 11 a.m. to 7 p.m. at Spring Lake Park. This one-of-a kind art, food, music and wine festival will target an audience of wine and food enthusiasts. Wineries from across the state of Texas, numerous merchants and local businesses will give visitors an opportunity to taste and purchase wines and gourmet treats at their best, all from one location. Great music, artisan crafts and food tastings will also be available for attendees. Visit www.texarkanawinefestival.com for more information.

MAY 6

Just Love and Kindness presents Community Unity Day. The event will be held at 3700 E. 50th Street, and will begin at 11 a.m. with food, drinks and plenty of fun things to do, entertainment, and free giveaways. Please bring your student ID for admission. The first 200 kids to arrive will receive a free T-shirt. Call 903-278-6083 or visit justloveandkindness.org for more information.

MAY 8

Temple Memorial Pediatric Center will present Tee Up for Temple at Texarkana Country Club. A four-person scramble, registration will begin at 11 a.m. with a shotgun start at 1 p.m. Call Gina at 903-793-2705 or email gparish@tmrctxk.org for more information.

MAY 13

HandsOn Texarkana will present its annual Texarkana Dragon Boat Race Festival at Bringle Lake East. The event will begin at 9 a.m. and feature boat races, vendor booths, food trucks and music. Visit www.texarkanadragonboat.com for more information.

MAY 20

The Clay Eichler Memorial Fund will host Clay’s Golf & Guitars at Northridge Country Club. The golf scramble will begin at 8 a.m., and the concert, featuring Satisfaction, will begin at 7 p.m. Proceeds from the event will benefit TRAHC’s Arts on Main. For more information and tickets, visit www.claysgolfandguitars.com.

MAY 22

Harvest Regional Food Bank will host its Drive Out Hunger Golf Tournament at Northridge Country Club. Check-in will take place at 11 a.m. with a

shotgun start at 1 p.m. For team information, call 870-774-1398 or email development@hrfb.org.

MAY 25-27

The Talimena Rally, “Cruisin’ for St. Jude,” will be held at the Arkansas Convention Center. The three-day event will feature two terrific bands, two group rides, points run, silent auction, four meals and prizes. Proceeds will benefit the St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital. For more information, contact Neil Jones at 903-276-6884.

MAY 27-29

This year there will be five Memorial Day services in Texarkana.

• Saturday, May 27 at the Texarkana Texas Farmers Market.

• Sunday, May 28 at at 2:00 p.m. at the Memorial Gardens on Hwy 67 East

• Monday, May 29 at 11:00 a.m. at the Miller County Courthouse

• Monday, May 29 at 11:45 a.m. at the Korea/Vietnam Memorial

• Monday, May 29 at 2:00 p.m.at Hillcrest Cemetery on Hwy 67 West. For those who cannot attend these services (and those that do) the National Moment of Remembrance will be observed at 3:00 pm local time all across America. Please take a moment and remember those that gave their lives so that we may enjoy the freedoms and liberties we have!

For more information call 903-556-1613 or go to VVA # 278’s website at vva278.org, or go to our facebook page at Vietnam Veterans of America # 278

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No one should ever experience helplessness. However, well-intentioned caregivers may create daily habits where their loved one begins to demonstrate learned helplessness. Helplessness is ultimately the result of a person only receiving care and never having the opportunity to give care in return. You see, the human spirit needs regular opportunities to contribute to maintain a sense of personal value and purpose. We learn to exhibit helplessness when we no longer participate in the world around us, in big ways and small. To avoid this, caregivers should allow their loved one to continue to do the things they are able rather than swooping in to help. Also, look for ways their loved one can help which can restore their confidence and engagement with life.

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