Four States Living Magazine April 2023

THE WAY I SEE IT ...

PUBLISHER’S LETTER

Robin Rogers, Ed.D.

About 15 years ago, I got a wild hair and decided my children needed some “first-rate” art and culture. It took me a full day with my head down, just researching, to plan two art-filled weeks of experiences and excursions in England and France. As one of my daughters uses a wheelchair, all hotels, trains, cars, flights and excursions had to be accessible, so planning our big trip took time and serious effort. But everything important takes effort, right? For my kids to see the Mona Lisa, Notre Dame Cathedral, Versailles, the Louvre, Westminster Abbey, Big Ben, Shakespeare’s Globe Theater, and I could go on and on—there was nothing more important to me at the time; culture was calling our names.

So, off we went. Over two very long weeks, the kids and I trekked to every gallery, architectural gem and French bakery we could find. It was the most exhausting experience of my life. My son was seven years old at the time—way too young to appreciate Leonardo da Vinci or French Gothic architecture. My daughters were 13 and 14, and they stayed annoyed at me for trying to document every little thing with my camera. Back then, cell phone cameras weren’t even a deal, so I lugged around a big Canon with actual film canisters. About halfway up the Eiffel Tower, Emily vomited in the elevator when she said she smelled fish. Any parent can sympathize, yes? The ones in our elevator did not. Ellen missed her friends, so I was constantly reminded that two weeks away was entirely unacceptable for a social teenager. And, Briley, bless his little heart, lived for the end of each day when, if he had been good, he could get an ice cream cone from a street vendor stationed by our hotel.

That “vacation” was an experience, and I’m not sure if any of my kids have fond memories of it. Somewhere, I have photos in a box, but who really knows where they are?

As I have gotten older, pushing fine art and culture on anybody—much less little ones on vacation—seems a waste of time. All of those amazing places I made sure to drag them to are places that they could see and read about in books. What I personally love will not be what they love. But, in the words of Merle Haggard, “Mama tried.”

Today, I am thankful that I have traveled and seen amazing architecture and art and history. And still, because of technology, we are all able to see the best of the best, from Texarkana to Thailand, on a screen, from the comfort of our favorite sofa or recliner. Everyone is now a photographer, food critic, political analyst, designer or social media influencer. Sometimes I wonder if too much will ever become too much. The older I get, the less I care about what is considered fine art, and the more I appreciate the little things.

What I am particularly thankful for today is a tool that I use everyday, something that is always within a foot of my person and records the best and worst of events. Yes, Steve Jobs changed my life for the better when he introduced the iPhone with a camera in 2007. The photos I take with my iPhone 14 are so much better than they were when Apple added this tool. The photos I take, good and bad, bring me joy beyond measure.

This week alone, I spent hours walking my neighborhood, crouching in the bushes, taking photos of bees drinking from the wisteria and azaleas. After at least one hundred different photos, I got one shot where you could zoom in and see the thorax of the bee and the intricacies of the wings. I was delighted. The aches in my legs from squatting to get that picture were forgotten as soon as I saw that photo.

No, I am not an artist, not a “real” photographer (whatever that means anymore). I just love what I love. I can’t imagine standing in a line to see the Mona Lisa again. For now, I would rather see pictures of my family, or our animals, or whatever is blooming in my neighborhood. I have finally discovered that the most beautiful things to me are all around me. They’re local.

We showcase many artists this month. These are people who have unique talents, give back to our community, and live among us. Nobody has to fly a continent away to see their work.

I hope you enjoy reading about them, and as always, thanks for reading FSLM.

Four St ates Living

PUBLISHER

Dr. Robin Rogers

INTERIM EDITOR

Ellen Orr

GRAPHIC DESIGNER

Shane Darby

SALES REPRESENTATIVE

Victoria Herman

CONTRIBUTING WRITERS

Jennifer Jordan

Ellen Orr

Kelsey Rankin

Katie Stone

Lisa Porterfield Thompson

COLUMNISTS

Velvet Hall Cool

Reese Langdon

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CONTENTS

ON THE COVER APRIL 2023

Known locally as “The Balloon Girl,” Mikayla Langford, owner of One Sweet Soirée, enjoys making dreams come true for her customers by bringing parties to life with her fun, colorful balloon arches. Her enjoyment comes from celebrating others, and she gets plenty of opportunities to do just that with her custom creations, which always put smiles on faces.

INSIDE : MAKING MUSIC

With commitment, resolve and patience, musician and luthier Mark Braley turned his passion into a paycheck

See story on page 18.

ALSO IN THIS ISSUE

Photo by Captured by Kelsi. See “Sweet Dreams Are Made of This” on page 10.

SCENE ABOUT TOWN

TOUGH KOOKIE FOUNDATION HOSTS SOCK HOP

On March 18, the Tough Kookie Foundation hosted its second annual Childhood Cancer Fundraiser with a Sock Hop at Crossties. All proceeds from the event benefit childhood cancer patients and cancer survivors.

Joe Levingston, Wayne Baker, Bob Prejza, Joe Daniels and Dr. Rick Sharp

Kevin and Whitney Haskins Terri Daniels and Carolyn Hunter

Dorothy Berry and Maxine Crittenden

Norman Henderson, Teddy Henderson and Patricia Henderson

Angela Lester, Ramona Keener, Minnie Sheffield and Sandra Griffie

Ashanti Levingston, Katina Levingston, Nakina Levingston and Nova Campbell

Dawn and Grant Parker

Dr. Rick and Stella Sharp, Dena Hill, Katina Levingston, Megan Schroeder and Dr. Cheryl Saul-sehy

Roxann Collins holding Lonnicia Coulter

Eulondrese Williams, Ramona Keener, Rhonda Dolberry, Charlotte Miller, Sandra Griffie and Joyce Prejza

SWEET DREAMS ARE MADE OF THIS

One Sweet Soirée’s Mikayla Langford hones her creative side by designing and building balloon arches

by KELSEY RANKIN

Mikayla Langford, owner of One Sweet Soirée, is known locally as “The Balloon Girl.” After moving around the country from Missouri to Nashville to Pennsylvania and beyond, Mikayla and her husband, whom she met in high school, moved back to East Texas. Mikayla described herself as a “hustler,” having worked three jobs in high school and two jobs in college. As a stay-at-home mom to her son, Christian, Mikayla dreamed of starting her own party-planning business. In 2019, One Sweet Soirée was born.

When a client asked if she could make a balloon arch, Mikayla was hesitant; she does not identify as a crafty person. But she accepted the challenge, creating her first arch, and the client was thrilled with her work. From there, the balloon business “just took off,” she said, as she was the only person locally doing balloon arches. Due to demand, she transitioned out of party planning entirely and now only brings the balloons, and she is so happy with this creative move.

Mikayla’s penchant for celebrations stems from her mother, who threw special parties for her throughout her life, creating such special memories that Mikayla wanted to replicate them for others. Mikayla once had a cake shaped like an actual caterpillar, “back before people were making extravagant cakes,” she said. As a mom herself, Mikayla really gets to push her own creative boundaries when planning parties for her eight-year-old son, Christian. One of the more memorable of Christian’s parties was the “Nerf War,” complete with obstacles. She loves that she can design events for her son that she’s never seen elsewhere.

Above: “Wildflower” was the theme of this baby shower installment. Mikayla wanted the balloon arrangement to be organic in its shape to complement the natural theme.

photo by CAPTURED BY KELSI

Mikayla does not see herself as an artist; she feels that word is too big to describe what she does. She views herself more as a problem-solver, delicately placing balloons of all shapes and sizes into a piece with balance and eye appeal. She meticulously plans and orders balloons based on client needs, and while it may look like she fits everything together in mere minutes, the behind-the-scenes work is huge. Over the three years she has been in business, she has continuously learned new skills and tricks of the trade. Learning from more seasoned archmakers online has been invaluable, but there is no substitute for experience. After countless hours of crafting, Mikayla has her own way of doing things.

“Party Animal” was the theme of the party where Mikayla created this balloon installment. She used bright colors and different shapes to make the installment eye-catching and multidimensional.

This mermaid-themed installment started simple and small but grew into something larger while Mikayla was building it—which Mikayla admits happens often.

In addition to the balloon arches, she recently purchased a photo booth and started a second business, One Sweet Photobooth. She also has a cotton candy machine that has been booked for weddings this year.

Mikayla is most proud of the relationships that she has grown with the business. Even though she identifies as an introvert who might rather be reading than chatting, through her business, she has developed her ability to connect with all types of people, solving their problems and bringing their celebration imaginings to life.“It is so rewarding seeing a client’s face light up, being able to give a kid a balloon, and making a dream come true for a special party,” she said.

Mikayla celebrated One Sweet Soirée’s third birthday with a balloon arch and photo shoot for herself. Celebrating others is such a big part of her life that she often forgets to celebrate herself, and the photos serve as a commemoration of how her sweet dream of being a small business owner turned into so many sweet memories for those who have enjoyed her balloons.

Muted pink and blue balloons were used on this One Sweet Soirée installment for a “Red, White & Two” birthday party.

Mikayla’s son, Christian Hunt, and husband, Zack Langford, have always been supportive of her business ventures. (Photo by Kodee Roraback Photography)

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UNITED WAY CAMPAIGN RECOGNITION BREAKFAST

On March 17, United Way of Greater Texarkana hosted its 2023 Campaign Recognition Breakfast at Texarkana Convention Center. Cooper Tire and USW752L were are honored as the top contributor while CHRISTUS St. Michael Health System was the #2 contributor. Steve Morriss received the Kline Cup, the award given to the division chairman who produces the greatest increase over the division’s assigned campaign goal and with the highest increase over the previous year.

Mike Mahone, Kyle Thomas and David Mims

Mike Mahone, Sheree Potter, Jessica Johnson, Suki O’Neal and David Mims

Kerry Halter, Mike Mahone, Darrin Turner and David Mims

Mark Bledsoe, Mike Mahone, Steve Morriss and David Mims

LaToyia Williams and Sherry Young

Mark Bledsoe, Marcia Austin and Jennifer Lewis

Justin Sutton, Haleigh Alexander and Suki O’Neal

Pam White and Jamie Branson

MAKING MUSIC

With commitment, resolve and patience, musician and luthier Mark Braley turned his passion into a paycheck

by JENNIFER JORDAN

photo by SHANE DARBY

“I’m finally doing something for a living that brings me fulfillment and joy.” There are few sweeter words than these. To be able to express this sentiment is a cause for celebration. It’s something that most people dream or pray to achieve one day.

Mark Braley realized this accomplishment on June 24, 2021, at the ripe age of 50. On this date, after years spent tinkering, Mark devoted himself full-time to being a luthier. With a name derived from the French word for “lute,” a luthier makes or repairs stringed wooden instruments. This is a skilled art form that requires creativity, patience and self-motivation to learn. Mark specifically builds and repairs guitars, an instrument he knows well.

Mark grew up in Simms, on land cultivated by five generations of Braleys. He received his first guitar at the age of 15, a gift that ignited his passion for music. After graduating from James Bowie High School, Mark took a few college classes and then obtained a job at a local auto parts store at the age of 21. He later became the parts manager at Orr Hyundai in Texarkana when the dealership opened in 2005.

For the next 16 years, Mark worked at his day job while playing in local bands at night, alongside raising two daughters with his wife, Sundee. In 2012, “after years of reading online forums dedicated to building guitars,” he took the plunge and invested in luthier tools. He spent his free time building and repairing guitars as a dedicated hobbyist and craftsperson.

“I have always tinkered with guitars, even my first one,” he recalled. “Woodworking was always something I wanted to try my hand at.”

Mark with his wife, Sundee, and their twin girls, Caroline and Katharine.

Kevin Rice with his red S-type guitar, which Mark designed for him.

A talented musician, Mark performed with Trophy Husband at Fat Jack’s on February 24.

(Photo by Jason Standridge)

After seven years of developing skill and honing his craft, Mark launched his luthier business, which he named after one of his old bands, Kinghat. He ran it as a side job until June 24, 2021, when he stepped into full-time self-employment.

Kinghat has weathered the common challenges of small businesses everywhere—concern about paying bills and keeping customers satisfied. “So far, all of my customers have been super easy to deal with, thankfully. I’ve made some truly great friendships out of meeting new customers,” Mark said. He appreciates the support of his family and friends and is especially grateful to Sundee. “Without her, none of this would have happened. I hate the paperwork side of things, and she does all of that. She’s always proud of me and my work. It hasn’t always been easy financially, but she’s been my rock.”

Many of Mark’s guitars feature his favorite Bible verse, Proverbs 3: 5–6: “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight.” He has played in Cross Pointe Baptist Church’s praise and worship band since around 2010.

Additionally, Mark plays in several local bands. “I’m blessed to be able to play with some of the best musicians in town,” he said. “Between Trophy Husband, The Moss Brothers Band, Dave Howe and The Howelers, and Paul Holder and the Hot Snakes I get to play a lot of different music almost every weekend.” Mark has further channeled his passion for music into a podcast that he co-hosts with other members of The Moss Brothers Band. Called “Music Mercs,” the hosts interview local musicians, compiling an oral history of the Texarkana music scene.

A couple of Mark’s ongoing projects hang in a corner of his shop waiting to be finished.

Mark’s work area is where the magic happens.

Music is not the only art form important to Mark, who is an avid comic-book collector. “In another life, I would have loved to have been a comic artist,” he said. A proud father, he recognizes “quite a lot of [artistic] talent” in both of his children, Katharine and Caroline; he aims to empower them to excel without projecting his own dreams onto them. “I don’t want to be the parent that regrets not being something and then pushes my kids into my dream field,” he said. Besides, he knows from experience that every artist, no matter the medium, must forge their own path.

Mark Braley’s path to full-time artistry began at age 15 and unfolded throughout auto parts shops, churches, bar stages, online forums, and a full family home. Two years into running Kinghat full-time, Mark has found that the creative fulfillment he seeks in adulthood is not so different from that which he sought in his teen years: it’s still all about making music.

“Being onstage with an instrument that I made from a few pieces of wood is a pretty good feeling,” he said.

Kris Tanton displays the guitar Mark made for him out of an ammo crate.

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GRACE HOUSE GALA

On March 10, the Grace House Gala was held at Ramage Farms in Hooks, Texas. The event featured dinner, dancing, cornhole, and an auction. The mission of Grace House is to rescue women and children in crisis and provide them with a transitional living home.

Lacey Goff and Crystal Casteel Logan and Brittany Brooks with Sarah and August Yeldell

Ron Newton and Randy Penny Xenia and Larry Parker

Crystal Martin, Melanie Boles, Jazzmynn Brownlee and Leona Coffman

Whitney and Travis Jackson

Philip and Laura McDowell with Carla and Anthony Clayton

Brent Ramage, Caleb and Erica Ramage, and Michaelyn and Dr. Torin Marracino

Catie Swenson, Kaitin Marshall, Breanna Bullington, Rebecca Barr and Amanda Barr

Cole Yeldell, Ryan Campbell, Kyle Trumble, Zach Yeldell, Matthew Pitts and Ambrose Kobb

Karen Rayfield, Abigail Reeves and Donna Yeldell

Rick and Christina Huntze

Kimi Ryan and Victoria Kelley

Whitney Jackson, Donna Yeldell, Stephanie Moreland, Tamela Moore, Erica Ramage and Karen Rayfield

LYNNLEE KUYKENDALL

by REESE LANGDON

Dance is a special form of art. It can connect various cultures, generations, social classes and regions of the world due to the absence of a strict rule book or dividing language barriers. Dance proudly includes anyone willing to tell a story or share an expression with their body movements. One such person is sophomore Lynnlee Kuykendall, who is not only a dancer herself but also an assistant teacher at Texarkana Dance Academy.

Lynnlee is a student at Genoa Central High School, where she participates in the gifted and talented program, yearbook, track, cross country and cheer. Outside of school, she takes multiple dance classes and is an assistant teacher at TDA, where she assists with the Darby’s Dancers class.

Darby’s Dancers is a national nonprofit organization dedicated to providing weekly dance classes to disabled young people. “We practice balance, coordination, patterns and strength,” Lynnlee said. “The students learn stretches and fun ways to say active during class.” The Alabama-based nonprofit relies on volunteer dance instructors and donated studio space to provide once-weekly classes to children and young adults with disabilities. TDA has offered classes since fall of 2021.

Lynnlee is passionate about teaching dance to others because she herself has benefited so greatly from the art form. “Taking dance has taught me how to express myself in a positive way to reduce stress,” Lynnlee said. “I have learned patience, discipline and creativity.” These are the same skills she helps her own students develop. Perhaps more importantly, beyond skill development, dance class “is where lifelong friendships are created,” Lynnlee said.

Reese Langdon is a senior at Texas High School. She is an editor in chief for the Tiger Times Newspaper and has been awarded many ILPC and TAJE writing awards. Reese is a dancer at Judith McCarty and a Texas HighStepper, where she also serves as their social president. She will be attending the University of Alabama and majoring in Political Science in the upcoming fall.

photo by SHANE DARBY

“Taking dance has taught me how to express myself in a positive way to reduce stress.”

LEAVING A MARK

by LISA PORTERFIELD THOMPSON

David Freeman has left many marks on the Ark-LaTex. He painted the Corrinne Griffith Dr. Pepper mural on the wall of TLC downtown and has painted street murals in other locations such as Sherman, Atlanta, Mt. Pleasant, Paris, Jefferson, Pittsburg, Detroit, and Ft. Worth. Currently, he is working on a new mural in downtown Texarkana: the world-famous Budweiser Clydesdales on the side of Crossties Event Venue at 324 East Broad Street.

The mural was designed and paid for by Tim O’Neal, president of Eagle Distributing. He said he took inspiration from the Anheuser-Busch campus in St. Louis, as well as from the ranch where the horses are kept, piecing all the images together to make it appealing. “2023 marks the 90th anniversary of the Budweiser Clydesdales, a symbol of the American spirit and the pursuit of excellence,” Tim said. “I wanted to give back to downtown and create a destination for visitors and residents alike.”

The mural, which measures 37 feet tall and 87 feet wide, features four pairs of chocolate and white Clydesdale horses, teamed up and hitched in their parade dress, pulling the Budweiser carriage, just like the one used to deliver the first case of beer to D.C. after Prohibition ended in 1933. The horses are depicted trotting down a dirt road, surrounded by lush green grass and soothing hillsides. The two in front are the most dynamic visually, designed to capture their majestic presence and emphasize the horses’ size in reality.

Artist David Freeman was elated to bring the design to life. “I enjoy working one-on-one with a client when they have an idea and see that original idea blossom and transform into a reality that was once only imagined,” he said. “From concept to completion I want the best for the client. The mural is designed and painted in a way that captures a nostalgic glimpse of the world-famous Budweiser Clydesdales and their strong features. The mural conveys a sense of place blending harmoniously

Artist David Freeman and businessperson Tim O’Neal hope the Budweiser Clydesdales mural will become a destination for tourists and locals alike

photo by SHANE DARBY

photo by SHANE DARBY

with the surrounding architecture and is the visual equivalent of a poem, evoking feeling and emotion. All the design elements work collectively and cohesively together forming the overall visual effect made especially for its location in Texarkana.”

Since the aim for the mural is to attract visitors to downtown, it is important that the piece is of firstclass caliber. “There are very few Budweiser Clydesdale landmarks in the United States,” Tim said, “but the horses have quite a following. More than just a symbol, the Clydesdales are part of the Anheuser-Busch family. The 90th anniversary marks decades of quality care that the AnheuserBusch community has dedicated to every horse, hitch and product throughout the company’s storied history. This mural will become a destination for tourists and the community alike to take in. Just like the courthouse and post office on State Line Avenue is a destination for visitors and photographers, this mural will become an attraction as well.

“Texarkana is a very historical place to begin with,” Tim continued. “It has a colorful history tied to entertainment and alcohol, but this mural is more than just about drinking beer. It really has nothing to do with that portion of what we do. The Clydesdales are a symbol of excellence and heritage, and that’s what the mural is really about. They evoke a sense of pride and success, and that’s what downtown Texarkana is becoming.”

Tim believes that the mural will be received well by locals based on the Clydesdales’ visit to Texarkana in 2015. “The whole town really rallied around them and helped us celebrate being named an Anheuser-Busch Ambassador of Excellence and two-time National Champion, so I know there will be lots of interest in a mural to commemorate the experience,” he said. “The crowd really responded to their regal and majestic nature. I think the mural will have the same effect.”

Top left: This marching band foreground prop artwork, “Magical Thorns,” was hand-painted by David with 10 total sections to create one mural, which was 4’ x 120’ total.

David’s 7’ x 7’ “In All Seasons Give Thanks” window mural featured a floral medley, pumpkins and feather details.

Originally a freight elevator entrance from the 1800s, David transformed this space into a historic building “Buffalo Trace” bar mural.

Thanks to Tim O’Neal, the Clydesdales were well-received on their visit to Texarkana in 2015.

David incorporated historic places and content within each letter of this Honey Grove mural.

David is grateful to have been chosen for the project. “Being a part of the Texarkana Budweiser Clydesdales Mural is an honor,” he said. “Tim has led the way to excellence in Texarkana, with Eagle Distributing being recognized as second-to-none in the nation.”

David’s experience as an artist certainly lends itself to providing the quality artistry that the Clydesdales deserve. He is a freelance illustrator and muralist. “I’ve always loved art in various formats, and for as long as I can remember have been involved in the world of art on one level or another,” David said. “For over 10 years, I’ve been painting and designing as a commercial and residential artist for discerning clients. I enjoy taking a new or outdated space and transforming it into something special working collaboratively.”

David has amassed quite the portfolio of impressive and interesting art over the years, and several times he has bestowed his gift on Texarkana. “As an artist, my goal is to create a reputation for quality by incorporating passion and exacting standards into every project,” he said. “Creating art is a way of life, and my approach is with curiosity, patience and a willingness to stretch and grow as an artist embracing all the twists and turns along the way and enjoying every moment of the process.”

David’s work has certainly blossomed in the public space where he’s working now. “One of the most rewarding parts of being an artist is the ability to express creatively and to share work with others,” he said. “Art has the power to bring people together and to foster connections, and building connections with others and helping in the community is important.”

David painted this large-scale Dr. Pepper mural on a building in Paris, Texas.

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LONE STAR CHAPTER DAR ANNOUNCES AMERICAN HISTORY ESSAY CONTEST WINNERS

The Lone Star Chapter of Daughters of the American Revolution recently selected chapter winners for the 2022–2023 American History Essay Contest. The topic for this year’s contest was the Second Continental Congress, which was comprised of delegates from all 13 colonies and met from May 10, 1775, to March 1, 1781. This Congress was instrumental in shaping what was to become the United States of America.

Each student was asked to imagine that they were a delegate during the 1775–1776 Second Continental Congress, to explain what was important for their colony to accomplish.

Winners from St. James Day School were fifth grader Caroline Pope, sixth grader Taryn Hauberger, seventh grader Ava Bobo, and eighth grader Olivia Kimmel. Pleasant Grove Middle School’s winner was sixth grader Ava Gray Brisco.

Olivia Kimmel

Ava Bobo

Ava Gray Brisco

Taryn Hauberger

Caroline Pope

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2023 TRIBUTE TO AFRICAN AMERICAN WOMEN AWARDS BANQUET

Phi Beta Sigma, Fraternity, Inc., Beta Tau Sigma Chapter, and Zeta Phi Beta Sorority, Inc., Gamma Kappa Zeta Chapter recently presented its 27th annual Tribute to African American Women Awards Banquet on February 18 in the Truman Arnold Building on the Texarkana College campus. This year’s guest speaker was Opal Lee, the 95-year-old “grandmother of Juneteenth.” Opal Lee is an American retired teacher, counselor, and activist in the movement to make Juneteenth a federally-recognized holiday. On June 17, 2021, President Joe Biden signed Senate Bill S. 475, making Juneteenth the 11th federal holiday.

Honorees and their awards included: Victoria Davis – Arizona Cleaver Stemons Award; Dr. LaShundra Watson – Pearl Anna Neal Award; Sighle Blackwell – Myrtle Tyler Faithful Award; Tonya Strong-Weatherall – Viola Tyler Goings Award; Stephanie Nelson – Fannie Pettie Watts Award; and Linda Henderson – Dr. Lullelia W. Harrison Award.

(front) Mike Gatson, Opal Lee, Doneyne Smith and Gary Watson; (back) Rodney Hartfield, Stelton Hill, Frederick Jeter, Kenneth Link, Billy Green, Terence Mathis and Corey Robinson

(front) Linda Henderson; (back) Mary Popps, Minnie Sheffield, Terri Daniels, Yolanda Johnson, Sandra Griffie, Ramona Keener and Cynthia LaMay

Sighle Blackwell, Victoria Davis, Dr. LaShundra Watson, Linda Henderson, Stephanie Nelson and Tonya Strong Weatherall

(front) Jo Ann Rice, Opal Lee, Anita Pickett, Essie Dodd and Ruth Blackwell; (back) Herise Williams, Shelia Ross, Josette Rice, Bertie Fuller, Jennifer Jones, Shirley Zenn, Cheryl Green, Sandra Miller, Maxine Crittenden, Ann Moore, Lillie Young, Cynthia Henderson, Evelyn Crittenden, and Barbara Larry Cynthia LaMay

Anita Pickett

Maxine Crittenden

Linda Henderson

Yolanda Johnson

by LISA PORTERFIELD THOMPSON

Caroline Blackard and Misti Calhoun design and manufacture leather shoes in the Ark-La-Tex

photo by SHANE DARBY

Some businesses are born out of careful planning and measured risks. They’re budgeted out, calculated for years, and all the pieces fall into place before a budding entrepreneur or investors take the leap that lead to success. Some businesses are like that.

Broncy Donkey Leather Co. is not one of those businesses. “Broncy Donkey is a business born from adversity,” Founder Misti Calhoun said. “In 2018, I was struggling to get by. I was working six days a week and not getting near enough time with my kids. My desperation to make more money, combined with impulsiveness, caused me to reach out to a guy who had advertised a set of old leather-working tools for sale in a Facebook ad. After a short, awkward meeting in the Walmart parking lot, and the exchange of $70 that I didn’t really have to spend, I had the back seat of my ’93 Honda full of leather supplies. I started by trying to learn the art of tooling. Then I made a really ugly purse, and in December of that year, I started teaching myself how to make moccasins. There were a lot of late nights, early mornings, bloody fingertips, notebook scribbles, terrible patterns, and awful looking shoes, but in May of 2019, I sold my first pair.”

Misti’s business partner, Caroline Blackard, pushed her to make Broncy Donkey a legit business. “Misti reached out to me because she was possibly

moving to Mount Pleasant and wanted to know if I could help her find a job,” Caroline recalled. “I asked her why she wasn’t making shoes full-time and if she would be interested in doing it full-time with a partner. She said yes, and the rest is history.”

Misti and Caroline met through their children’s involvement in youth rodeo. “I would say we were more of acquaintances than friends really,” Misty recalled. “She was definitely always a friendly face and someone I felt comfortable saying hi to, but we only saw each other at rodeo events. Owning a business together has intertwined our lives in a way that I didn’t expect. We go through not only the ups and downs of a business together, but also through the ups and downs of life together. One of my favorite things about Caroline is that when a problem comes up, whether it’s business or personal, her number-one, go-to response is, ‘What can I do to help?’”

Caroline and Misti both grew up in a farm setting in Northeast Texas, which is perhaps an unexpected background for two women running a fashion-forward footwear company. However, both women cite their parents as setting an example for hard work and entrepreneurship. “My dad was a welder,” Misti said. “My mom’s desire was to be a homemaker, but when she had to, she got a job to help provide.”

Broncy Donkey’s Queen City team consists of Lacey Girod, Courtney Durmon, Kayla Berry, Carol McKinney and Misti Calhoun.

Caroline’s parents owned a business, which certainly set the tone for her to run a business someday. “My parents started Diamond C Trailer in 1985 in our backyard, so I grew up watching them run a business,” she said. “My parents were both hard workers with a lot of perseverance, and they passed that on to me and my siblings.”

Both Misti and Caroline are grateful for the experiences they have had through Broncy Donkey. “We have had some of the neatest adventures throughout this process,” Caroline said. “We drove 27 hours to Pendleton, Oregon, for a show and saw so much of our cool country along the way. We’ve met the neatest people at the show in Roundtop, Texas, and we’ve been featured in some awesome magazines.”

Misti agreed that there have been awe-inspiring experiences. “We’ve done a lot of cool things,” she said, citing their win of the Women of the West Small Business Award. “But none of the shows and awards compare to what it feels like to be able to give our employees two weeks paid vacation at Christmas,” she said. “I love knowing

Broncy Donkey’s Mount Pleasant team is responsible for hand sewing shoes, shipping, and social media marketing. Team members are: (front row) Alexis Rios, Yadira del Carmen, Alicia Ramirez, Caroline Blackard and Yeny Cruz; (back row) Jessica Rose, Marie Beam, Tera Rozell, Ashley Hernandez, Tabatha Baker, Maria Chavez and Claudia Castaneda.

they are getting to spend time with their kids while they’re out of school, and they don’t miss a paycheck.”

Some of the Broncy Donkey team is comprised of the women of Hope Ministries, a nonprofit organization dedicated to helping single mothers break the poverty cycle. They are located in Mount Pleasant, where the bulk of Broncy Donkey’s manufacturing takes place.

“From the very beginning, we’ve wanted to provide jobs for women and teach them a skilled labor,” reads a post on the Broncy Donkey’s Facebook page. “We needed employees, and they needed work. We were able to take leather and supplies to their facility, and they created their own workspace. After several days of training, they started helping us with production. These women are a joy to work with, and we are blessed every time we walk through the door. Their determination to develop skills in this field are inspiring!”

Misti Calhoun cuts fringe for one of Broncy Donkey’s classic styles.

Riding

KIDS OF St. JUDE for the

f you have heard of St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, you may know that 8,000 children a year are pediatric cancer patients treated there; for all of those children and their families, the expenses from travel to treatments are provided at no cost by St. Jude. Now, if you took Economics 101 you know that nothing in life is free, and cancer care is certainly no exception. For St. Jude, every little donation adds up to meet the needs of every single child who is fighting for their life. Neil Jones, a longtime resident of Hooks, works year-round to raise awareness and money for the kids of St. Jude through a motorcycle rally that last year raised over $80,000.

Neil started the Talimena Rally 21 years ago, in honor of his late wife, who had cancer. Neil is the type of guy who wears his heart on his sleeve and loves to help those in need. He is adamant about being transparent with all of the money that is raised for St. Jude.

“It’s just for the kids,” he said.

The Talimena Rally started because Neil rode with a group of bikers in Louisiana, and the roads were hor rible. Then they rode through Queen Wilhelmina State Park in Arkansas, and Neil thought, “If I can get everyone down here then we can ride this.” After that, he knew he could turn it into something bigger.

In 2002, just before the rally, he saw something about St. Jude and thought, “How cool would it be to give money to pediatric cancer research?” Neil also

loved the idea because their cancer research goes out all over the world. That first year, $5,000 was raised, and he split the proceeds between St. Jude and the Hooks Children’s Ministry.

At the time, Neil was a director at Whiskey River Harley Davidson, and he would meet people when he traveled to classes for work. He would travel throughout Texas, Arkansas, Oklahoma, Louisiana and even Kansas. People from all over wanted to help and get involved. He picked up sponsors along the way. People even donated money to buy Neil a Talimena Rally trailer to help transport T-shirts and prizes for raffles and the silent auction.

In 2022, the Talimena Rally raised over $80,000, which is more than they’ve raised in a single year. In total, they’ve raised more than $427,000 in donations.

“I tell people all the time ... it’s God and good friends that help me put this on,” Neil said. “It’s not about me or anybody there. It’s just about the kids. Neil and his current wife, Carol, met at the end of 2015 and dated for about a year before getting married.

Neil recognized that after his first wife had passed away, he was “pretty much done with everything,” but Carol reignited Neil’s desire to keep going. One day, Neil told Carol that he was exhausted and didn’t think he could keep doing the Talimena Rally anymore. She asked him why, and he said that he was burnt out.

Carol, unphased, told him, “Well, the kids never quit.”

Immediately, Neil knew that she was right and that he shouldn’t retire from the rally.

The Talimena Rally always happens the Thursday, Friday and Saturday before Memorial Day. This year, the Cruisin’ for St. Jude’s Talimena Rally is May 25–27 and is headquartered at the Arkansas Convention Center.

Neil encourages people to join the fun, even if they don’t have a motorcycle.

“We have people who join the rally in their jeeps and convertibles. It’s a beautiful ride through Arkansas for a great cause,” he said.

He is grateful for each volunteer who helps sell tickets, T-shirts and bandanas; register people; and so much more. “If it wasn’t for them, I never would get this thing done,” he said.

Neil tries to take a trip to St. Jude every year to visit the kids.

“When I send the checks in, they mail me back a letter stating how much money was donated,” he said. He posts the letter on the Talimena Rally Facebook Page. “If you spend your hard-earned money on this cause, you deserve to know where that money went,” he said.

Over 21 years, the Talimena rally has gone from 30 to over 400 people.

“It’s really turned into something that I never would’ve thought,” admitted Neil. “We’re not there for any other reason but to raise money for those kids and have a good time.”

For information about getting involved, check out their website using the QR code to the right.

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TEMPLE MEMORIAL PEDIATRIC CENTER’S “DANCING WITH OUR STARS”

Temple Memorial Pediatric Center held its annual “Dancing With Our Stars” event on March 5 at Northridge Country Club. Dancing, dinner and a silent auction were the activities for the night. Volunteer dancers included Jaclyn and Josh Thane; Brian Matthews and Tamara Demery; Ayden Howard and Andrea Smith; Haley Crocker, Kacie Kirkland and Meagan Harris; Kasey Coggin and Braxton Langdon; and Jennifer Smith and Ronald Makaramba.

The People’s Choice award was given to Braxton Langdon and Kasey Coggin. Judges’ Choice was given to Jennifer Smith and Ronald Makaramba; Andrea Smith and Ayden Howard won best costume.

Kelsi Saulsbury and Robin Chauncy Kyle Hanes, Jarrod Perryman, Justin Adams and Elijah Cain

Morgan Johnson, Lisa Dupree, Tonya Satterfield and Kelli Mayo

Richard and Heather Roberts with Dr. Randall and Kim Glass

Lacy White, Susan Owens, Corie Woodman and Whitney Fuqua Laurie Dunlap and Kelli Mayo

Susan Owens, Whitney Fuqua and Corie Woodman

Tyler Brolo and Jessica Day Bolton

Braden and Victoria Herman with Eden and Kyle White

Jeaninne Walker, Brenda Reid with Kelsi and Chad Saulsbury, their daughter Kayson and son Chance

Jennifer Smith, Levi Ponder, Braxton Langdon and Hilary Cloud

Michele Garrett and Lyndsey Craig

Blaire Barlow and Kristin Whiteside

Cross Bright and Kristin Whiteside

Marshall and Lyndsey Craig

Daniel Hebert and Theresa Fontenot

Laurie Dunlap, Kelli Mayo, Amanda Raney, Lori Beth Stewart, Ariel Edwards, Kaylee Dunphy, Sarah Adams and Jessica Perryman

Amber Adams and Haleigh Alexander

Brock and Kimberly McCorkle, Michaelyn and Dr. Torin Marracino, Amanda Raney, Laurie Dunlap and Jessica Bolton

Jennifer Smith and Brooke Marshall

Karrie Reeves, Candi Campell, Kiki McClure and Jillian Hildebrand Kelli Ashbrook-Cummings and Ashbrook Cummings Whitney and Connor Ribble

EXQUISITE INTERIORS

TIMELESS. CHARMING. PEACEFUL.

by SUZY TURNER photos by SUZY OSBURN

Antique art pieces are strategically located throughout this 3-bedroom, 4-bathroom modern De Kalb home. Varying textures are used in each and every room, fostering warmth and coziness throughout. Meanwhile, clean lines, an open-concept floor plan, and simple geometric design aspects keep the space feeling modern. Minimalistic features and wellthought-out details make the space uniquely clutter-free and easily maintained.

Brittany Brooks of Seventh Day Design put her heart and soul into making this 3,000-square-foot home sleek, eye-catching, and easy to sustain for its owners.

“The owners and I really collaborated and thought through every space intentionally,” she said. “I think that is easy to see as you walk through the home. Every room is different. I get positive feedback from people who have visited this home, who say that the secret to its beauty is in the details.”

Brittany chose stone for a counter-to-ceiling backsplash in the kitchen. A stucco vent hood and wooden cabinets bring in lots of texture. Brass fixtures and hardware add charm. Sconces flanking the vent hood add a casual ambiance to the area. Quartz countertops pair perfectly with the stone backsplash.

The same stone used on the exterior of the home was brought inside to be used on the fireplace, which is the focal point of the living area. Paired with a beautiful candelabra chandelier, the sconces framing the fireplace create the perfect ambiance for relaxing in the evenings. To liven up this neutral space, Brittany added a light brown rug on the floor and used fun geometric pillows on the living room furnishings.

Just as in the common areas, natural elements are employed throughout the primary bedroom suite. The stone accent wall and stucco fireplace contribute to the distinct aesthetic. Wooden beams add a rustic touch to the otherwise modern room, while the shiplap window nook softens the room’s sharp features. A wooden canopy bed makes a bold statement and draws the eye upward to the tall ceiling. Adjoining the master bedroom is a chic spa retreat, which features a freestanding tub situated beneath a large picturesque window. A beaded chandelier offers a soft diffusion of light above the soaking tub.

The second bedroom is wallpapered in pink flowers, which makes the space feel fun and feminine. The ceiling is made of painted wood planks. A built-in loft above the bed serves as a play space for the kids, as well as a concealed storage area for toys. The loft can also be transformed into a bunk bed when additional sleeping space is needed.

The nursery is painted a muted sage green, while a floral wallpaper covers the ceiling. A bunny print hangs over the white wooden crib. Above the antique dresser hangs a mirror.

Photos of old schoolhouses served as the inspiration for the homeschool room. A wooden table with antique wooden chairs and wicker seating takes center stage. When the kids need a break after working hard on schoolwork, they can relax on the window seat, which is situated below two tall windows. A floor-to-ceiling bookcase houses mementoes as well as homeschool supplies.

Nicknamed “The Charming Glass House,” nothing is left to chance in this impeccably designed home. Full of personal touches, this home creates a sophisticated feel and is the perfect place for growing a family, making memories and enjoying life.

FAMILY FUN

Balancing tradition and innovation, Lisa Garner carries her grandmother’s legacy of running the fair

by ELLEN ORR

When Lisa Garner (née Barr) was 20 years old, she quit her job and then drove straight to the fairgrounds because “the first place you go when something’s wrong is to your grandma, of course,” she recalled. Lisa’s maternal grandmother, Betty Nix, had worked at the Four States Fairground for Lisa’s entire life, organizing the annual fair. Her grandfather, the late Bobby Nix, also worked there, as an electrician. The fairgrounds had always been a second home for Lisa.

After Betty consoled her, Lisa went home and checked her answering machine. There was a message from Betty: “This is Grandma. You need to call me. I need you.”

“So I called her and asked what was wrong,” Lisa recalled. “She said, ‘Our office manager just quit, and we have the Tough Man Contest. I need you to come answer the phone.’ And I was like, ‘I don’t know how to answer the phone.’ She was like, ‘You don’t understand. I need you. This is busy, and it’s important, and I know you don’t have a job, so I need you to come out here.’”

She did—and she never left. This year, she celebrated 25 years.

“It was not in my plan,” Lisa said. “I loved [the fair], but I never wanted an ‘office job.’ I like to move.”

It didn’t take her long to realize that any job at the fairgrounds would keep her on her toes. From 1998 to 2000, she worked as the office manager. In 2000, Betty “retired for the first time,” Lisa said, and she was promoted into her grandmother’s role, which was “everything fair—organizing all of the concession, food vendors, exhibitors, and livestock.”

In 2015, Lisa was named chief operating officer. In this role, her responsibilities grew to encompass not only the annual fair and rodeo but also the numerous events held on the grounds throughout the year. “If you came out once a week for the next three months, there would be something different in that building every time you came out,” she said. “So, it definitely isn’t the boring ‘office job’ I’d thought it was.”

In 2020, Betty—whose first retirement didn’t stick—celebrated 50 years with the fair before truly retiring. In 2021, Lisa became the executive director.

It cannot be overstated how integral the fair was to Lisa’s early years. “I thought every kid got to go to the fair every day,” she said. Her mother worked for the fair for a number of years as well, and Lisa recalled being picked up from school by her grandfather and then “turned loose” at the fair with her siblings and the children

of the other employees. Especially during fair season, it was all-hands-on-deck for Lisa’s family—and this is still true today.

“Both of my brothers have helped do some things out here,” she said. “My baby brother, Trey, has dressed up as Angus, which is our cow mascot. My niece and nephew and my mom have all worn the costume, too. My other brother, Robert, has come out and run tractors, delivered stuff and picked up stuff for me.” Last year, during a particularly stressful week, “I was just calling everybody,” she said. I was like, ‘I need you.’ It incorporates your whole family. It just becomes part of the DNA of your family.”

Even Lisa’s husband, Paul, has fairground ties. “This is actually where we initially met and became friends. He worked here for five years. He just thought he was going to get away from this,” she laughed. The two married at the courthouse in May 2020, and Lisa became a “bonus mom” to four children and two grandchildren.

“It’s changed my focus,” she said. “Before, I was full-on work 24/7, but now [my role as] mom comes first, then wife, then work.”

Lisa has always worked with appreciation for institutional history; in fact, as office manager, she was tasked with reading and taking notes on the minutes of over

50 years’ worth of Four States Fairground board meetings. “It was the coolest thing I’d ever gotten to do,” she said of the project. Studying the work her grandmother and others had done imbued her with an encyclopedic knowledge of the business, though to this day she still consults with Betty when making decisions.

Now, however, Lisa has an even deeper appreciation for the traditions and memories instilled by those who came before her, and so she strives to do the same for the younger generations in her family. “I want my kids and my nieces and nephews to be able to tell stories about when they were growing up out here,” she said. “Their whole lives, I’ve worked here, so to them, [growing up at the fair is] as normal as it was for me. Preserving the traditions is where my heart is.”

Pictured here: Trey and Emily Hawkins with children Lane and Amiyah; Paul and Lisa with son Dawson (behind); Betty Nix and Danette Perkins; Robert and Wendy Perkins with daughter Gracie, son Dylan, and grandschildren Skyllar (held) and Caleb (in front).

“We get to work in the business of making memories. ”

At the same time, Lisa and her team are always making improvements. Like the rest of the world, operation of the fairground has changed immeasurably over the last 25 years, and it is certain to change just as much over the next 25. Improvements are always being made to the grounds themselves; this year’s fairgoers will benefit from a new Oasis (the plaza at the center of the grounds), rebuilt concessions, and a new road surface. Lisa said as well that some “huge shows” are being added to the calendar, like the Arkansas State Horse Show, which has been held in Little Rock for 45 years. Drawing out-of-town visitors to the area is one of Lisa’s passions. “We just want to keep growing and keep bringing people to this amazing town so they can see all the wonderful things that Texarkana has to offer,” she said. The fair itself continues to grow as well, with new vendors every year adding the Four States Fair and Rodeo to their schedules.

Though she appreciates every aspect of the business, Lisa’s face lights up the brightest when talking about the value of the fair. “We get to work in the business of making memories,” she said. “Not everybody gets to go on family vacations. Not everybody gets to go to Six Flags. But the majority of people get to come here. So that’s what I have to remind my folks sometimes. I’m like, ‘I know we’re stressed. I know we’re tired. But this is important.’ People leave their worries at the gate, and it’s kind of like, whether you’re nine years old or 90, you get to be a kid.”

The 2023 Four States Fair and Rodeo will run through April 9.

For the past 25 years, Lisa has worked at the fairgrounds and become friends with many people. Here, she is taking a short break with rodeo clown JJ Harrison.

Lisa with her mother, Danette Perkins, and grandmother Betty Nix during Betty’s 50th anniversary celebration at the Four States Fair.

COMMITTED TO THE COMMUNITY

Fay J Durrant and Melvin Fagan

give back through Fay J Winery

story and photos

by KATIE STONE

Fay J Durrant is no stranger to serving the Texarkana community, from business owner to volunteer. Fay J is a member of the Texarkana International Rotary Club, where he has served as a member and past president. He has also dedicated his time to the businesses in the community as a member of the Texarkana Chamber of Commerce board of directors. He received the 2017 C. E. Palmer Award, which is the Texarkana Chamber of Commerce’s most prestigious award recognizing an individual for a lifetime of service to Texarkana.

In 2013, Fay J and partners opened Red Road Winery. In 2014, they rebranded as Summerhill Winery. Now known as Fay J Winery and Entertainment, the business, located at 2325 Texas Boulevard, sells bottles, holds private tastings, and hosts events. They also create wine and candy labels, which makes sense, as Fay J comes from a background in paper manufacturing.

“I have been in the paper bag manufacturing business most of my life, and we did small custom orders. That is where I got the idea for the custom labeling for wine and candy,” he said. “It is great for businesses, weddings, small businesses, individuals.” Most of the custom labeling orders that are filled are within a 250-mile radius, but he has sold to buyers all over the United States.

Fay J stands inside Fay J Winery located on Texas Blvd.

Fay J Winery has donated this bottle of wine to the Rotary International Club of Texarkana as a giveaway to help end polio worldwide.

Melvin Fagan standing at the bartop in Fay J Winery where he hosts wine tastings on the fourth Thursday of every month.

Fay J and his business partner, Melvin Fagan, have created a whole experience in choosing the best wine for a person’s palette. “We use a scale of 1 to 10, the higher the negative number, the dryer the wine. The higher the positive number, the sweeter the wine,” Fay J said. Part of the experience is wine tasting with Melvin on the fourth Thursday of each month at Fay J Winery.

“Come and enjoy wine with me on this day, then buy a bottle of your favorite wine, and we will call it even,” Melvin said. “If you know me, then you know I am free entertainment. If you hang out with me, then you know that I aim to create a warm, friendly environment when you come to the winery.” It is more than creating a custom label or buying a bottle of wine; it is a complete cultural experience.

It is important to Fay J and Melvin alike to support local organizations. They dedicate a large portion of their efforts to the Rotary and its mission to “provide service to others, promote integrity, and advance world understanding, goodwill, and peace through our fellowship of business, professional, and community leaders.”

Fay J Durrant offers custom labeling for wines and candy.

“It’s hard to be at the winery and not talk about Rotary. It’s all around,” Melvin said. Their Rotary Club is currently raising money to help end polio worldwide, and Fay J Winery is donating a six-liter bottle of 2008 Cabernet Sauvignon from the Charles Krug Estate. Tickets can be purchased at the winery or online at www. fayjwinery.com. Each May, they can also be found at the Alzheimer’s Alliance TriState Area’s Twice as Fine Texarkana Wine Festival.

For artists in the community, Fay J Winery displays local artwork for sale at the winery, where they offer an event space, wine tastings, an inviting atmosphere and a one-of-a-kind experience. On the fourth Thursday of each month, stop by the winery to unwind and experience fine wines and great times.

Many varieties of wine are available at Fay J Winery.

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CLAY EICHLER MEMORIAL FUND HOSTS OPEN HOUSE AT TRAHC’S ARTS ON MAIN

The Clay Eichler Memorial Fund hosted an Open House for TRAHC’s Arts on Main on March 23. Since the proceeds from the ninth annual Clay’s Golf & Guitars will benefit Arts on Main, the nonprofit held the Open House so the attendees can see how Arts on Main benefits the community and Downtown Texarkana.

Trish Reed and Lauree Romero Stephanie Maddox, Joan Carter and Kim Fowler

Suzi Mercy, Sherri Waters-Clem and John Mercy

Hannah Reed, Kelly Burkhalter, Rachel Woods and Chris Wicker

Lynn Whitt, Malise O’Banion and DeAnna Craytor

Debbie Alkire, Phyllis Deese, Jennifer Unger and Gail Eichler

Justin Scurlock and Lydia Womack

Patsy and Don Morriss with Dr. Brian and Sara Barry

Jeanne Harrel and Jeff Brown

Rhonda Dolberry and Chiquita Burks

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FOUR STATES LIVING MAGAZINE’S 2023 BEST OF TEXARKANA WINNERS

Four States Living Magazine recently presented plaques to the winners in the Best of Texarkana™ Readers’ Choice Awards to congratulate them for being selected for this honor. Ballots were filled out at www.fourstatesliving.com then the top five finalists in each of the 49 categories were listed online. Participants then voted online for their choices, and the winners were named. Congratulations to all finalists and winners!

Discount Wheel & Tire Pros - Cody Whisenhunt

LoneStar Health & Wellness - Tammy Miller, Miranda Baugh, Samantha Harris, Nina Howeth and Samantha Hughes

Texarkana Texas Police DepartmentShawn Vaughn and Chief Kevin Schutte

Court Appointed Special Advocates (CASA ) - Patricia Smith, Joey Elliott, Misty Honea, Emily Green, Missy Davison, Se’Sha Daniels and Rebecca Brown

Fan Fare Gifts - Katie Shepherd

Better Homes & Gardens Real Estate Infinity - (front row) Heather Thompson, Teresa Liepman and Pamela Brown; (middle row) Creamalia Hopkins, Allison Wright, Misty Watkins, Amanda Ables and Holly Craigen; (back row) Jennifer Whitehead, Sydney Wicks, Porcha Hawkins, Tamber Moles-Garcia, Stephanie Maddox and Ella Dixon

Texas Roadhouse - Mariko Lamb

Best Artist - Mary Jane Orr

Bennie’s Carpet Cleaning - Dewitt Bennie

Redbone Magic Brewing Co. - Roger and Debbie Sheppard

Crocker’s Jewelers - Shelby Lloyd, Amanda Henderson, Marion Criddle, Amanda Humphrey, Shane Woodruff, Whitney Giddens, Karen Bearden, Rebekah Smith and Melissa Douglass

Langdon Davis Law Firm - Brent Langdon

Lost Pizza Co. - Jenny, Swint and Patrick Wilder

Paw Paw Patch - (seated) Marta Rodriguez and Adriana Medrano; (standing) Coco Morales, Rolando Yanes and Tavo Cruz

Eagle Dental Center - (front) Rachel Freeman, Ashton Huntze and Shea Lynn Garner; (middle) Marisol Eaton, Meredith Farris,Mary Collin Corbin, Laken Zink, Jerica Parker and Elena Pena; (back) Jill Rice, Lindsey Cummings, Noche Harris, Brianna Hancock, Harley Rochet, Sydney Estes, Kelly Bailey and Nicole Fischer

Loca Luna Mexican Grill - Carlos Garcia

Eternal Beauty Medical Aesthetics & Day Spa - Loryn Kimble, Elizabeth Jacobsen , John Garcia, Heather Nalepa and Amanda Ross

Farmers Bank & Trust

Four Fifteen Estates - Shelby Stephens

Kelli Ashbrook State Farm - Kelli Ashbrook Cummings

Best Real Estate Agent and Best Designer/DecoratorLauren Callaway

Texarkana Emergency Center & Hospital - Brooke Marshall and Dr. Matt Young Williams School

Twin City Title - Carla Ward and Lauree Romero

Chef on the Run - Jeff Loving

Red River Credit Union - Mark Turner, Patricia Cunningham and Brad Bailey

Ironwood Grill - Kaylee Norton, Megan Lang, Brock Norton, Niki Hamm and Chloe Hebert

Julie’s Deli & Market - Jennifer Tanner, Lauren Lathrop, Abby Sanders and Hanna Young

The Beauty Bar - (front row) Shanna Gosa, Taylor Barr and Ashley Allday; (back row) April Yeager, Aimee Houff, Ashley Hopfinger, Samantha Stokes and Sundas Riaz

The Design Center at Red River Lumber - Cory Venable, Kimberley Mosbey, Vickie McClanahand and Amber Satterfield

Jason Eppinette Construction - Jason and Kerry Eppinette

Twice as Fine Wine Festival - Terrie Arnold and Mark Van Herpen

Pop’s Place - Billy Lee and Alan Reid

Best Pediatrician - Dr. Rachel King

Naaman’s Championship BBQ - Irene Alcocer, Lacy Lovewell, Jasmine Ware and Talletta Williams

Kendal Dockery Photography - Kendal Dockery

Four States Furniture - Dustinee Williams, Desire Passmore, Ariana Hall, Larry Thompson, Dylan McNeil and Rhonda Houser

H&N Landscaping - James Vatkus Red River Credit Union Mortgage Team - Millie Serrano, Casey Moore, Monica Atkinson, Keyna McGary and Brenda Rogers

Zapata Mexican Grill & Cantina - Cody Wade, Natalee Farrington,Felimon Garcia and Erica DeMarchi

Twisted Fork - Mackensie Lee

CHRISTUS St. Michael Health System - Louise Thornell, Jennifer Wright, Sue Johnson, Dr. Loren Robinson, Debbie Kyles, Deanna Parker and Francine Francis

BEST OF TEXARKANATM 2023 WINNERS

BEST ARTIST

Mary Jane Orr

BEST PHOTOGRAPHER

Kendal Dockery Photography

BEST FLORIST Ruth’s Flowers

BEST GIFT SHOP

Fan Fare Gifts

BEST CATERER OR CHEF

Jeff Loving – Chef on the Run

BEST FURNITURE STORE

Four States Furniture

BEST CHARITY EVENT

Alzheimer’s Alliance Tri-State Area –

Twice as Fine Texarkana Wine Festival

BEST NONPROFIT GROUP

CASA (Court Appointed Special Advocates)

BEST WEDDING EVENT VENUE

Four Fifteen Estates

BEST PLACE FOR LIVE ENTERTAINMENT

Redbone Magic Brewing

BEST INSURANCE AGENCY

Kelli Ashbrook State Farm

BEST PIZZA

Lost Pizza Co.

BEST PLACE FOR LUNCH

Ironwood Grill

BEST COCKTAIL

Twisted Fork

BEST BURGER

TLC Burgers & Fries

BEST SEAFOOD

Pop’s Place

BEST STEAK

Texas Roadhouse

BEST COOKIES, CAKES, PIES OR SWEETS

Julie’s Deli & Market

BEST MEXICAN

Loca Luna Mexican Grill

BEST PLACE TO TAKE AN OUT-OF-TOWN GUEST

Ironwood Grill

BEST PATIO DINING

Pop’s Place

BEST BARBECUE

Naaman’s Championship BBQ

BEST BUILDER/CONTRACTOR

Jason Eppinette Construction

BEST HAIR SALON

The Beauty Bar Txk

BEST JEWELER

Crocker’s Jewelers

BEST LAW FIRM

Langdon Davis Law Firm

BEST LANDSCAPING

H&N Landscaping

BEST PET GROOMER

Paw Paw Patch

BEST DENTAL CLINIC

Eagle Dental Center

BEST PLACE FOR BOTOX OR FILLERS

LoneStar Health & Wellness

BEST PEDIATRICIAN

Dr. Rachel King

BEST TIRE SHOP

Discount Wheel & Tire Pros

BEST DESIGNER/DECORATOR

Lauren Callaway

BEST FLOORING SPECIALIST

The Design Center at Red River Lumber

BEST CARPET CLEANER

Bennie’s Carpet Cleaning

BEST REAL ESTATE AGENCY

Better Homes & Gardens Real Estate Infinity

BEST PRESCHOOL

Williams School

BEST PLACE TO GET PAMPERED

Eternal Beauty Medical Aesthetics & Day Spa

BEST PLACE TO WORK

CHRISTUS St. Michael Health System

BEST CREDIT UNION

Red River Credit Union

BEST PLACE FOR KIDS TO PLAY

iJump Trampoline Park & Adventure Sports

BEST NEW BUSINESS

Lost Pizza Co.

BEST BANK Farmers Bank & Trust

BEST DOWNTOWN DESTINATION

Zapata Mexican Grill & Cantina

BEST EMERGENCY CARE

Texarkana Emergency Center & Hospital

BEST TITLE COMPANY

Twin City Title

BEST SOCIAL MEDIA PRESENCE

Texarkana Texas Police Department

BEST MORTGAGE LENDER

Red River Credit Union

iJump Trampoline Park & Adventure Sports – Glen Bingham

TLC Burgers & Fries- George Gawrieh

HISTORY HAPPENS...

by VELVET HALL COOL Board President of the Texarkana Museums System

History happens and then, sometimes, gets buried. Pieces of our heritage get chipped away, and the lessons of the past must be relearned by future generations. Even our physical landmarks often erode in such a way that the story of a place becomes modified.

The geography of our downtown has shifted over the decades. Once the epicenter of daily life’s “hustle and bustle,” downtown has become a focal point for our heritage and the arts. The Grim Hotel, which once hosted travelers, will soon be residential lofts for locals. Hopkins Feed and Seed no longer provides for local farmers, but Hopkins Icehouse serves great food and beverages to locals and visitors alike.

Texarkana’s buried past includes many forgotten stories—and some of the stories we’ve remembered have been muddied by the passage of time. Was the land that Texarkana was built upon traded for a plow and some oxen? Was Scott Joplin born in Texarkana? Were the Arkansas High School Razorbacks in existence before the University of Arkansas Razorbacks? All questions or stories we may never be able to truly answer.

But one buried question we will soon be able to answer is this: what did Texarkana residents in 1973 think to leave behind for the current 2023 community?

On April 14th and 15th, for Texarkana’s Sesquicentennial Celebration, we will excavate the 1973 Centennial Time

The first football team was organized in Texarkana in 1909 at Texarkana Preparatory School which was located at 822 Maple Street. This photo took place on October 16, 1909, with a score of Arkansas High: 5 and Prep School: 0.

Capsule, which has been buried for 50 years. As long as Mother Nature and the structural integrity of this time capsule have worked in cooperation with one another, we will be fortunate enough to have a glimpse into the past.

What do we hope to find? Several people have reached out to the Sesquicentennial Committee with stories of letters and even packages they have been told were placed in the time capsule. We expect to find mementos of businesses in existence during 1973—maybe business catalogs, cards, or even sample wares. Wouldn’t it be great to find some college or high school yearbooks? Proclamations or notes from the mayors of both cities would also be wonderful to read. Do you think they were left behind?

As you make your plans to join us on April 14th and 15th for the big reveal, ponder this question: what do you intend to leave behind for future generations? Perhaps a family Bible that documents the genealogy of your family and faith? Perhaps a newspaper clipping that highlights something that touched your heart? A photograph of your wedding day or the day your first child was born? A letter to your great-great grandchildren? Do you think there is some facet of your life that deserves to be documented? Do you think you have a story that needs to be told and preserved for at least 50 years? You do.

NOTE: The TXK150 Committee will be collecting your stories to be placed in the new time capsule, which will be opened at the Bicentennial Celebration in 2073. More information can be found at goTXK.org/TXK150 or on Facebook at TXK150.

Born and raised in Texarkana, Velvet Hall Cool has strong ties to both Texas and Arkansas but will always consider herself a Class of ‘87 Razorback. She loves to share stories of her nine wonderful grandchildren. When it comes to listening, you can always perk up her ears with stories that speak to personal history and the lessons we learn during our lifelong journeys.

Facing page, top: Downtown Texarkana Businesses: The banner stretched across street indicates the first talking picture.

A groundbreaking for hotel officials with twins Emma and Frances Berry of Texas, and Loma and Frances Fouke of Arkansas.

APRIL 2023

APRIL 1

The Texarkana Museums System will host its ninth annual Easter Egg Hunt at the Ace of Clubs House at 420 Pine Street in Texarkana, Texas. Beginning at 1 p.m., children 0 to 12 are welcome to come participate in the hunt. A free event, registration is suggested but not required. Visit www.texarkanamuseums.org/ events or call 903-793-4831 for more information.

APRIL 2

Opportunities, Inc.’s second annual Sunday Funday will be held at 4 p.m. at Crossties. Activities will include live entertainment, barbecue, brews and Baggo. All proceeds from the event will benefit children and adults with disabilities in the Texarkana community. Visit www.oppinc.org/sunday-funday/ for more information.

APRIL 2

Williams Memorial United Methodist Church will host its annual Easter Egg Hunt immediately following the 10:30 a.m. service. Visit: www.williamsumc.org for more information.

APRIL 6

Farmers Bank Foundation will present Terry Bradshaw during its Distinguished Speaker Series. A private cocktail reception will be held at 5 p.m. at Farmers Bank & Trust located at 2900 St. Michael Drive. A dinner and lecture will be held a 7 p.m. at the Hilton Garden Inn Texarkana Convention Center. All proceeds will benefit transfer scholarships. Scan the QR code on the Farmers Bank Foundation ad on page 75 for more information.

APRIL 7

Good Friday Communion will be held at 7 p.m. at First Baptist Church Texarkana. Call 903-831-6000 for more information.

APRIL 9

Williams Memorial United Methodist Church will hold its Easter services during two time slots: 8:30 a.m. and 10:30 a.m. Visit www.williamsumc.org for additional information.

APRIL 9

Easter Sunday services will be held at First Baptist Church Texarkana during 8:30 a.m. and 10:30 a.m. services. Call 903-831-6000 for more information.

APRIL 10

Texarkana Independent School District will present “Discover TISD,” New Student Enrollment Fair for all families of new incoming PK-12 students wishing to learn more about the district from 3:30 to 6:30 p.m. in the Texas High School Multi-Purpose Facility. Scan the QR code on the TISD ad on page 15 for more information.

APRIL 14-15

Texarkana’s Sesquicentennial Twice as Nice Festival will be held at the U.S. Post Office & Sheppard Park in historic downtown Texarkana. On April 14, a public excavation of the 1973 Centennial Time Capsule will take place at 5:30 p.m. On April 15, there will be music, food trucks, cultural activities, and more. For details, please visit www.gotxk.org/txk150 or the TXK150 Facebook page.

APRIL 16

The Tough Kookie Foundation will host its monthly support group meeting from 4 p.m. to 6 p.m. at Oak Street Church, located at 401 Waterall Street. For more information or to register, email toughkookietxk@gmail.com.

APRIL 20

The Salvation Army Women’s Auxiliary will present its Gladys Morris Stone Soup luncheon from 11 a.m. to 2 p.m. at First United Methodist Church. Tickets are $10 per person, and proceeds will benefit the Center of Hope Shelter and programs which safely house men, women and families.

APRIL 21-22

The second annual James Black’s Bowie Heritage Festival will take place at Washington, Arkansas. The festival will celebrate James Black, the bladesmith who forged the first Bowie knife for Jim Bowie, and showcase a variety of Arkansas heritage crafts and trades. Visit Washington, AR’s Facebook page for more information, or call 870-703-4826.

APRIL 22

CASA’s Colorful 5K & Family Fun Run will take place at Trinity Baptist Church. The event will benefit CASA for Children and Texarkana Children’s Advocacy Center. Register at www.runsignup.com/casacolorful5k

APRIL 25

East Texas Giving Day, an online event that provides critical funding and celebrates the work of area nonprofits, will take place from 6 a.m. to midnight. Visit www.easttexasgivingday.org to choose a cause, give a minimum of $10, and help raise money to help the community.

APRIL 30

Walking for Williams will take place, beginning at 3 p.m., on the Williams Memorial United Methodist Church grounds. The afternoon’s activities will consist of a family warm-up, live music and carnival-style games for kids, as well as food and refreshments. The event will benefit the little leaders of Texarkana.

MAY 2023

MAY 6

The Alzheimer’s Alliance Tri-State Area will hold its eighth annual Twice as Fine Texarkana Wine Festival from 11 a.m. to 7 p.m. at Spring Lake Park. This one-of-a kind art, food, music and wine festival will target an audience of wine and food enthusiasts. Wineries from across the state of Texas, numerous merchants and local businesses will give visitors an opportunity to taste and purchase wines and gourmet treats at their best, all from one location. Great music, artisan crafts and food tastings will also be available for attendees. Visit www.texarkanawinefestival.com for more information.

MAY 8

Temple Memorial Pediatric Center will present Tee Up for Temple at Texarkana Country Club. A four-person scramble, registration will begin at 11 a.m. with a shotgun start at 1 p.m. Call Gina at 903-793-2705 or email gparish@ tmrctxk.org for more information.

MAY 13

HandsOn Texarkana will present its annual Texarkana Dragon Boat Race Festival at Bringle Lake East. The event will begin at 9 a.m. and feature boat races, vendor booths, food trucks and music. Visit: www.texarkanadragonboat.com for more information.

MAY 20

The Clay Eichler Memorial Fund will host Clay’s Golf & Guitars at Northridge Country Club. The golf scramble will begin at 8 a.m., and the concert, featuring Satisfaction, will begin at 7 p.m. Proceeds from the event will benefit TRAHC’ Arts on Main. For more information and tickets, visit www.claysgolfandguitars.com.

MAY 22

Harvest Regional Food Bank will host its Drive Out Hunger Golf Tournament at Northridge Country Club. Check-in will take place at 11 a.m. with a shotgun start at 1 p.m. For team information, call 870-774-1398 or email development@hrfb.org.

MAY 25-27

The Talimena Rally, “Cruisin’ for St. Jude,” will be held at the Arkansas Convention Center. The three-day event will feature two terrific bands, two group rides, points run, silent auction, four meals, and prizes. Proceeds will benefit the St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital. For more information, contact Neil Jones at 903-276-6884.

EXPERTS ASK THE

D esiree D e D e J efferson Director of Marketing, MRC Cornerstone Retirement Community

Music Therapy for Seniors

Hans Christian Andersen famously said, “Where words fail, music speaks.” Music is indeed a powerful tool to lift your spirit and boost your mood. In the life of seniors, the impact of music can be profound. Studies show that music has therapeutic advantages as it reaches the deep places in the brain to bring comfort and even calm chaotic brain activity. The benefits don’t stop there; with increased relaxation comes a reduction in pain, and it has even been shown to improve self-expression and cognition. Whether you can benefit from the calming effects of music or the toe-tapping exercise that is inspired by your favorite tune, there is no doubt that music is a great addition to each day.

B rett B rzeski Investment Advisor, Mustard Seed Wealth Management

Did the passage of the SECURE 2.0 Act of 2022 have any effect on retirement plans or IRAs?

Yes, there are multiple changes brought about by the passage of the SECURE Act 2.0. Some of these changes are effective now while others will be delayed. Probably most important for those nearing retirement, the RMD age has been raised to 73 beginning in 2023.

THE FRIENDS’ LIST

Each month, Four States Living will choose two people who have “liked” our Facebook page to be featured in The Friends’ List. Chosen randomly, these two “friends” will answer questions we provide so our readers can get to know them better. The bonus question (the last question) will be related to the theme of each month’s issue.

SHAMBREKIA WISE

Age: 37

Occupation: Creator, Sightseeing with Sandy

If you won the lottery, what is the first thing you would do?

First, I would thank God that I can FINALLY bless other people the way I want to. And second, I would write the funniest resignation letter on the planet.

When you have 30 minutes of free time, how do you pass the time? I love art, so I would probably sketch something to go in my next book!

CHINT MURDOCK

Age: 29

Occupation: Director of Project Management & Data Analytics at Red River Credit Union

If you won the lottery, what is the first thing you would do? I’m changing my phone number Day 1.

If you were allowed to have one wish granted, what would it be? I would love to be granted the ability and the endless means to figure out the problems of the world … and make them not reoccur!

At what business could you max out a credit card? Galleries Lafayette …without question.

When you have 30 minutes of free time, how do you pass the time?

Proofing a Great Texarkana Young Professionals (GTYP) post, graphic, or email blast.

Choose a movie title for the story of your life. “Love Thy Neighbor.”

What are you currently watching on Netflix?

“Nadiya Bakes” ... I’m a sucker for a good pastry dish.

If you could visit anywhere in the world, where would you go? Paris with my little one! She’s obsessed, and she has never been there!

If you could only have three apps on your smartphone, which would you pick? Balance. The Bible. Instagram.

What’s your favorite sport to watch, and which team do you root for?

Anything Arkansas Razorbacks! There’s nothing like a game day in the fall at Donald J. Reynolds!

If you were allowed to have one wish granted, what would it be? An SMU football national championship; it’s been a rough few years (decades). Pony Up!

At what business could you max out a credit card? Cole Haan.

Choose a movie title for the story of your life. “The Greatest Showman.”

What are you currently watching on Netflix?

“The Blacklist.”

If you could visit anywhere in the world, where would you go? Croatia.

If you could only have three apps on your smartphone, which would you pick? iMessage. Spotify. News.

What’s your favorite sport to watch, and which team do you root for? College football ... I like to watch the SMU Mustangs and Texas Longhorns. Bring back the Southwest Conference!

TELL US WHAT YOU BELIEVE BRINGS A COMMUNITY TOGETHER.

The genuine understanding that we are all human and we all share the same basic needs to me is important in bringing a community closer. A travesty shouldn’t happen for people to care beyond their tree line, so volunteer at the shelter, drop books off to the Literacy Council, drop socks off at the nursing home or do whatever you hope to have someone do for you one day.

A community thrives when there is a sense of belonging and a feeling every person and their idea matters.

“ARTS, COMMUNITY & CULTURE”